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Twots Take BravoCon 2025 (Part One- Dolores Catania and Paulie Connell Are Engaged!) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, it's Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to Two Cheese and a Pod live from
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  Speaker 1: Bravo Con in Las Vegas.
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  Speaker 2: It's such a fun, busy weekend and we want to
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  Speaker 2: make sure you get as many episodes as possible, so
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  Speaker 2: we have a special guest co host for you.
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  Speaker 1: Delores Katana is here. Take it away, Delores. Hi, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: It's Dolores Catana here with two Teas and a very
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  Speaker 1: special guest today. Today's going to be a special episode
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  Speaker 1: because it is me with my now fiance, Paullie Connell.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Paulli, Hy, Dolores, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you're woll special. Yes, it's very special. And I
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  Speaker 1: decided before that you and I spoke to anyone. Paulie
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  Speaker 1: that my loyalty and you know, loyalty is my motto.
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  Speaker 1: That two Teas are like my family now, so I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to speak to two Tea's first and all our
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  Speaker 1: loyal friends because loyalty is what it's all about. But uh,
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  Speaker 1: of all of you, all of you who if you
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  Speaker 1: haven't heard, Pollie and I got engaged a couple of
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  Speaker 1: days ago, and we're really going to sit down and
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  Speaker 1: talk about it for the first time, even to each other,
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  Speaker 1: because it's been such a whirldwind of emotion and surprise
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  Speaker 1: and everything you can imagine, because I had no idea
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  Speaker 1: that I was actually going to the Apple Store for
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  Speaker 1: anything other than the new iPhone. So I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: let Polly here take over, because Pollie sharing with everybody
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  Speaker 1: right now. I'm going to ask you for the first time,
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  Speaker 1: how did you come up with this amazing idea? Number
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  Speaker 1: One to get engaged because it wasn't on my Bengo
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  Speaker 1: card that day. And number two the way you did it,
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  Speaker 1: and it was so thought out to reenact our first day.
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  Speaker 1: But the flora is yours, as Alan Cumming says, the
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  Speaker 1: floor is yours.
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  Speaker 2: I thank you the lors, You're welcome. You look gorgeous today.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you always.
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  Speaker 2: Well. Obviously I was always planning this, you know, from
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  Speaker 2: the first time I met you at the Apple Store.
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  Speaker 2: It was a very surreal moment because even though by
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  Speaker 2: the time I got to meet you, I kind of
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  Speaker 2: found that you're on TV, I didn't know what TV
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  Speaker 2: was all about. To me. It was just like whatever,
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  Speaker 2: big deal, just go meet her and hang out.
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  Speaker 1: You were going to get to know.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I was, so I feel like you know that
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  Speaker 2: that always resonated with me the first time I met you.
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  Speaker 2: There was always like important to me because number One,
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  Speaker 2: you stalk me because you drove by the Apple store
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  Speaker 2: that day and you see my card.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't stalk you. I would have stalked anybody would
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  Speaker 1: have rolled Rice at that time, would.
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  Speaker 2: Walk into the store that I stop. I want to
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  Speaker 2: speak from the heart.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, let me do it from the heart. Okay, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you if I see it Royce
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  Speaker 1: in the parking lot.
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  Speaker 2: I need to know who owns No to everybody out
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  Speaker 2: there with a rolls Rice park in front of the
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  Speaker 2: door works out? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Oh is that how you would do it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? No, so yeah, so it was. It was meaningful
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  Speaker 2: for me. So when I seen you walk in that
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  Speaker 2: day to see Apple store, and it was just after
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  Speaker 2: the whole COVID thing. I remember I had a mask on.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, this cannot be fucking Dolores Katania because I'd
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  Speaker 2: only seen you on Instagram, right and we.
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  Speaker 1: Talked through d MS. Yeah, yeah, I thought you were
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  Speaker 1: gay somebody introduced us a mutual friend. So I went
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  Speaker 1: on your Instagram and I'm like, oh, this guy's gay,
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  Speaker 1: so cute.
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  Speaker 2: I have that video. Actually, you know what, I think
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  Speaker 2: I want to post that video. I think he deserves
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  Speaker 2: a post.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. So I left him a dmcause there's nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Wrong with being gay, right, So no, I came off
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  Speaker 2: for a feminine right if.
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  Speaker 1: You are, it's okay, Paul, you could let me know.
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  Speaker 2: Think you would know, no doors, No, okay, do you
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  Speaker 2: think I'm gay?
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  Speaker 1: No? I think you have a feminine side.
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  Speaker 2: To you, like a mammy's boy or gay. No.
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  Speaker 1: Both. Yeah, okay, but I'm just gonna say that we
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  Speaker 1: were talking and it was actually just kind of kismet
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  Speaker 1: that we both wound up our phones were broken at
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  Speaker 1: the same time. We wound up getting our phones on
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  Speaker 1: the same you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll put it like that. But it was stalking.
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  Speaker 2: So I mean, listen, so you walk into the store
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  Speaker 2: for me, Like I said, you were larger than life, right,
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  Speaker 2: And you know, I make joke about your hair, your boobs,
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  Speaker 2: your little lemons, and your ass, but your presence just
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  Speaker 2: filled up the whole store. And I always remember when
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  Speaker 2: you come over to me. You just you just made
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  Speaker 2: me disengage with my nerves. I'd pulled a mask up
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  Speaker 2: over my face. You could only see, like barely see
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  Speaker 2: my eyes because it was shitting my pants. If she
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  Speaker 2: comes over to me, what I say? The meantime, I
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  Speaker 2: meant to be going out with you that night. So
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  Speaker 2: for me it was like, dude, stop being a woosy.
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  Speaker 2: So you came over, you broke the ice, and it
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  Speaker 2: was cool. It was very cool. I remember we spoke outside.
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  Speaker 2: We went to the Panera bread. We spoke there for a.
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  Speaker 1: While three hours po, yeah, and didn't feel like three
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  Speaker 1: I didn't feel.
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  Speaker 2: Like three hours. And then we were going.
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  Speaker 1: When we get back to the Apple store, I remember
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  Speaker 1: you were shaking you're when you went because I had
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  Speaker 1: like probably twenty five no exaggeration, because I lose my
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  Speaker 1: headphones all the time I was trying while I was
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  Speaker 1: talking to I was deleting all my headphones.
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  Speaker 2: You were deleting all the DMS you were getting, saying
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  Speaker 2: Okay I found the right guy. Nah, Yes you were so.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, I noticed you went to show me something
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  Speaker 1: and you were like shaking was I Yes, you were,
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  Speaker 1: And I knew I knew I had you a little
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  Speaker 1: bit then I didn't know how much. But anyway, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: I was definitely shaking last Monday. So yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 2: kind of always been a place in me. And obviously
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  Speaker 2: our relationship, you know, bloomed into what it did, right
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  Speaker 2: and then obviously the tent, which you didn't put together.
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  Speaker 2: November tenth is when you officially took residency in the Undercliff.
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  Speaker 2: That's when you officially decided to move in.
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  Speaker 1: I did not realize that. Well that's how do you know?
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  Speaker 1: Did you document that?
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  Speaker 2: Of course you wrote it in your I wouldn't have
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  Speaker 2: to write I would just know that I moved.
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  Speaker 1: In your house. So so for everyone that doesn't know
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  Speaker 1: I was living, remember that my beautiful townhouse, Well it
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  Speaker 1: was a rental while my house was getting done. And
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  Speaker 1: Paul and I had a heart to heart one day
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  Speaker 1: and I was looking at other places to live for
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  Speaker 1: a short time because my house still wasn't actually done,
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  Speaker 1: and he said, what did you say to me? Do
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  Speaker 1: you remember you were.
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  Speaker 2: Looking to move to the neighborhood to be close to me,
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  Speaker 2: which at the time we were having our conversation, and
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  Speaker 2: I said to myself, it's either like, let's do it together,
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  Speaker 2: or you know, you move in somewhere else's and really, like,
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  Speaker 2: doesn't make sense, right, if we're going to be seeing
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  Speaker 2: each other, why not move here in the figure out
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't work that you can move back out? And
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  Speaker 2: you were you were hesitant for about three minutes and
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  Speaker 2: then you said yes.
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  Speaker 1: So no, it was it big. It was a big,
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  Speaker 1: a big deal for both of us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so, which I never looked back on. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't understand that I was going to inherit all
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  Speaker 2: the dogs well package, so very soon after that, we
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  Speaker 2: had some furry friends coming around the house, and.
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  Speaker 1: Your and your bachelor pad was never the same.
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  Speaker 2: It was never the same. So but it's it feels
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  Speaker 2: more like a home now because there was a coldness
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  Speaker 2: to it. I remember when you used to first come
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  Speaker 2: over back in the day. But yeah, but there definitely
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  Speaker 2: is a warmth to it. And it's not just from
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  Speaker 2: the piss of dog that she leaves everywhere and this
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  Speaker 2: tench that she leaves everywhere because she lives and she
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  Speaker 2: dropped what how the fuck is when we're there? She
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  Speaker 2: drops thees little bombs. You look around, You're like, hey, dog,
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  Speaker 2: what's up? You throw them back. There's like a bomb there.
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  Speaker 2: It's like she sets traps so for you to walk on.
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  Speaker 2: She wants part of the action. Shout out the dog,
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  Speaker 2: love dog.
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  Speaker 1: You love her now though you sleep together, every.
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  Speaker 2: Package deal with you, two guys. So she definitely persuaded
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  Speaker 2: a little bit on the end, just so you know
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  Speaker 2: she she brought over the finish line. Okay, if you
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  Speaker 2: want to shoot.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I have to say I do judge a man
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  Speaker 1: by the way he treats his kids and his dogs.
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  Speaker 1: So the way you treated her, even though she ruined
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  Speaker 1: all your brand new floor Like what do you call
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  Speaker 1: those floors? They were? Would I call them?
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  Speaker 2: We we pads? Now large fucking we we pad everywhere?
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  Speaker 1: Paul, Paul, what is that? It's like what?
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  Speaker 2: What is what? It's not that the lords, it's what.
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  Speaker 1: No, No, it's like something else. Well, you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: it sealed because it shouldn't stain from piss gray.
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  Speaker 2: It's like gray, No, it shouldn't stay for pissed. That's
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  Speaker 2: wiped up. But when you walk by six times doors because.
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  Speaker 1: You're on that or whatever, busy two teas comes first.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, real, I see that.
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  Speaker 1: Good. So so your decision to get engaged. There was
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  Speaker 1: because it was sentimental to you from us meeting there
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  Speaker 1: for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it was. And and I was thinking about
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  Speaker 2: the place, you know obviously. Then that night we went
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  Speaker 2: to rock Holes for dinner, so I was but then
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't really want to do it
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  Speaker 2: in a restaurant. Then I was thinking, like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I spoked to one of our friends. We were talking
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  Speaker 2: about like a nice rooftop with a backdrop of New
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  Speaker 2: York City that.
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  Speaker 1: Would be the fashionable couple.
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  Speaker 2: Yes it was.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad the gay men told you the rendition of what.
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  Speaker 2: I had picked the place, and then they wanted to
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  Speaker 2: bring it to Jersey, so yeah, so and then it
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  Speaker 2: was about having your family there, who do we invite,
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  Speaker 2: who we do not invite, And it just got to
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  Speaker 2: be a It got to be such a mess. I
• 9:37
  Speaker 2: was like, it's now taken over what it really means
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: from from my side, and I know what you you
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  Speaker 2: would expect, right, so you want the most, you know,
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  Speaker 2: meaning meaning it was way for it to happen for
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  Speaker 2: you want like from from my heart.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted it from your heart, yes.
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  Speaker 2: And I felt like that was and again I don't
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  Speaker 2: want this to sound the wrong way, but that was
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  Speaker 2: when I still that was for the very short time
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  Speaker 2: that I knew you as Dolores Catania and not a housewife.
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  Speaker 2: That's when that time was to me, before my world
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  Speaker 2: just fucking opened up to this whole. Like all primes,
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  Speaker 2: it was a very different universe to if it takes
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  Speaker 2: you a long time to get used to it, to
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  Speaker 2: settle in all the pros and cons to it, which
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: put there's a lot more pros than the you know,
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  Speaker 2: I just felt like for me, I felt a very
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  Speaker 2: sentimental and I just kept on tying it back to
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  Speaker 2: there and I'm like, you know what I think this
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  Speaker 2: is going to be. It's going to mean a lot
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  Speaker 2: to more. She's gonna feel this. And it's very hard
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: to catch you out because coming from the background with
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  Speaker 2: your dad and your brother and the cops, it's like
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: fucking dating a fucking FBI agent, you know, so everything
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: we use like you think I'm a conspiracy serials on everything.
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  Speaker 2: Holy shit. So I had to do something that would
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  Speaker 2: throw you off. And then we just started putting the
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  Speaker 2: wheels in motion, and the time it was and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the tenth is in the important day to me,
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  Speaker 2: so let's go. I'm going to do it.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. And but to do it before Bravo Con you didn't,
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  Speaker 1: So you had anything that had to do with Bravo
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  Speaker 1: had nothing to do with your engagement because you didn't
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  Speaker 1: care what was going to happen here. Absolutely, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: care what anybody was going to think that it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: this elaborate like engagement on a yacht and you know,
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  Speaker 1: Greece or whatever. You wanted it to be. What we
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  Speaker 1: are outside of this.
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  Speaker 2: We could have done. I could have proposed to you
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  Speaker 2: anywhere I wanted it, because there is no restrictions for
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  Speaker 2: me to do it. I chose there for it to
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  Speaker 2: be most meaningful for me and you. I could have
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  Speaker 2: I could have walked you in Bravocon. I could have
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  Speaker 2: done the middle of floor of Bravacon. I could have
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  Speaker 2: done it on the plane. I could have done I
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  Speaker 2: could have done anywhere I picked up, because that's what
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  Speaker 2: I meant was the first time I met you. I
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  Speaker 2: always remember, distinctly remember how you made me feel when
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: you walked into that place, and when we start talking
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what I felt right
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  Speaker 2: to me? And I went with the gamble, and it
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  Speaker 2: worked out.
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  Speaker 1: It did because I can tell you this from me
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  Speaker 1: finally figuring out you were proposing and you were not
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  Speaker 1: seizing because you were so nervous.
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  Speaker 2: Nervous I know, Paul.
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  Speaker 1: But I had no idea. So when I I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: have wanted it any other way.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a very important person the loors like, You're a
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  Speaker 2: serious important person to a lot of people, so, you know,
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  Speaker 2: speaking to your dad, speaking to your family, I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, this is a big role to take on.
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  Speaker 2: You can date someone, but taking like the responsibility of
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  Speaker 2: having the best for them for the rest of the livers,
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  Speaker 2: it's a big deal. And that's that's a big ask
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  Speaker 2: to put yourself in. So I had to make sure
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  Speaker 2: that you were okay. You know, I was always worried
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: about maybe you didn't feel I was the right you
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: were going through the time? Would you say yes? I
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: mean I asked everybody did they think she would say yes?
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  Speaker 2: And they all said yes. But I still had the
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  Speaker 2: hesitant piece of me to say, if you'd have said no,
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  Speaker 2: I like my life the way it is. Maybe we'll
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: look at it later, because that's the kind of person
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  Speaker 2: you are. You speak from where you feel, right.
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  Speaker 1: I do. I do, But I also felt, Paul that
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  Speaker 1: it was time for us to make a different move.
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  Speaker 1: You're now divorced, which a lot of people gave us
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  Speaker 1: a lot of flack about. I know what a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people don't know is behind the scenes, what goes
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  Speaker 1: on in our life, okay, is it's very simple outside
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  Speaker 1: of this. I mean, people look at what we have,
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  Speaker 1: like we like nice things, right, but we do live
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  Speaker 1: a fairly simple life.
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  Speaker 2: No, I would like to think so. A lot of
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  Speaker 2: people won't, but I think so. And we could be
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: a little bit more extravagant if we wanted to be,
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  Speaker 2: but we don't.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So so I know which never bothered me, but
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: it bothered you very much that people gave you a
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  Speaker 1: very hard time about one not not being divorced.
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  Speaker 2: And they should have and I'm okay with that.
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  Speaker 1: They were not wrong. And that's and that's a man
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  Speaker 1: that loves you, Because a man who loves you will
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  Speaker 1: never get mad at somebody who's actually sticking up for
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: you in the right way, with the right intention. So
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: that is just one of the many million of things
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  Speaker 1: that when you just sit in front of me and
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  Speaker 1: say that I know that you do truly love me
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  Speaker 1: and care about me because I've watched other men when
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: their friends stick up for them if they're doing something wrong,
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: get mad at the friend. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: And I always look at the intention behind things. So
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  Speaker 1: the intention behind this whole engagement meant the most to me.
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  Speaker 1: That you did it from your heart, that you were
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  Speaker 1: so sincere, that you went out of your way so much.
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  Speaker 1: You bought me the ring. I said, go, I want
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  Speaker 1: a big ring. I said, to wait a long time.
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  Speaker 1: I want to feel it on my finger. I want
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  Speaker 1: to feel it on my hand. And you did an
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  Speaker 1: amazing job. But what a lot of people don't know
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  Speaker 1: is that you are a tough guy. You're from the
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  Speaker 1: streets to Dublin. You could really handle just about anything.
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  Speaker 1: But it hurt your feelings when people used to give
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: me a hard time about your situation, but it didn't
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  Speaker 1: hurt me. And I never took that and said, this
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: is what people are saying. Now, you have to get divorced,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: you have to get engaged to me. I never once
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: pushed you to do that because I always tell people,
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: if you have to ask somebody to do the right thing,
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: it's wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You never you never forced it, you always supported it.
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  Speaker 2: You went through with me like you really understood it.
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  Speaker 2: And you know, obviously one or two times we got
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: into like conversations, and rightfully so it ticked you a
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: little bit, but that's you just letting the air out,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: because as you're going through the process you have to
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: kind of let the let the let the pressure out
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  Speaker 2: of it. But as you go along, but you you
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: supported me, and you knew what was going on. So
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you knew what you know, listen,
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: should have should have gone faster. A lot of things
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: happened in that divorce that were based on nothing to
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: do with either side, you know. Unfortunately at the end
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: the attorney got sick like.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: On the stairs pretty much.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you never, you never went against that. You
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: always supported it. And that's that's one thing that I
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: will always be thankful for you, because while everybody else
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: was shitting on it, you could have jumped on that
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: wagon and you could have emphasized been like you know
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: what this is, fucking fuck you do this whatever it is,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: and you never once did it.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: And because Paul, at the end of the day, I
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: don't care what other people think.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: And that's why I appreciate about you the most. You
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: don't care what anybody else thinks. I don't, but we
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: care what I think.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: But that's I do care what you think. Now moving forward,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: after I am so shocked at the Apple Store, I
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: want you to know, and I don't know if I've
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: told you this since, because the past couple of days
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: have been a blur. What went more to me than
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: the ring and what meant more to me than how
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: you went out of your way to have everybody in
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: the Apple Store in on this and telling me I'm
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: going to get a phone, and having me get my
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: makeup done in the morning, saying, having my assistant tell
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: me I had a meaning that was canceled, and you
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: say we had to get a ten o'clock appointment otherwise
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I was going to lose my phone, and then getting
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: there and being absolutely surprised. What meant more to me
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: is the things that you said to me before you
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: got down on one knee, Because I don't hear those
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: things from you ever, although I felt them, but sometimes
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: you need to hear them. But I can tell you this,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: if there was ever a doubt in my mind that
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: maybe this isn't something I didn't want, which I never
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: thought that that would have been a whole nother like
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: the things. Everything you said to me is what I've
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: always wanted to hear. Do you remember what you said
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: to me?
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I do, of course I do.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: We were Tell me again, Oh pressure, go ahead. I
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: want to hear it again because now I'm calm, now
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. I want to soak it up. Tell
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: me what you said before you got down on one
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: nay and you studied? You said? What did you say
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: about getting engaged.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Chat GBT is a disaster for me that day.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Because I thank you from your arm.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: No, I was no. So what I was looking up
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: was like how to get your speech across meaningfully, like
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: make eye contact, don't hold her hands straight away, don't
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: kneel down, stand up, And I'm fucking It's like do
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: you ever take a golf swing? Six thousand things go
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: through your head the same stand in front of you.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: I'm like, get down, stay up, talk, don't talk, like
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: go grab her hand, make eye contact as I'm trying
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: to talk to you. That's any way you thought I
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: was having a.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Stroke sweating you were you were saying things like I've
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: been around people that are like that, and you were
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: saying things that didn't make sense to me, so I
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: wanted I was more worried about your health in the moment,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: and I and I knew what you were saying was
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: everything I wanted here. But now that I'm not worried
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: about you, could you say it again?
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I basically told you how important you were to me,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: how you've made me elevate as a person, and what
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: how much of a better person you've made me, and
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: how my life become so much better for meeting you.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: I've also told you about my children, how they feel
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: towards you, how I feel towards your kids, how you've
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: made me a one part of your family. And when
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: I spoke to your family even before this went down,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: like just the stuff they said to me just reassured me,
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: like you are a part of this family, like this,
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: this is.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Real, And what does that mean to you? Because a
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: lot of people are not family orientated.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: You know, it's everything to me, It means everything. All
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: the families are important to make it work as well.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: They don't hold the key to your happiness, but they're
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: very important to the process. Of happiness when you're moving
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: into that life with somebody.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I think everybody who gets engaged, it's a package deal,
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: whatever's going on in their life, whatever they have, and
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: you have to love what they love, even if you
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: don't like it. You have to love what they love.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: And one of the most important things for me about
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: you was you had to take on all the philanthropy work.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I don't ask you for a chanel bag, Paul. Have
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I ever asked you once for a bag?
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Okay? Maybe? Did I ever ask you more than once?
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up now, truth, the fucking truth. What
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: do I ask for, pop?
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Nothing? The truth? Nothing? Okay? Zero?
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So, but what's more important for me is for
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: you to take on to write that check. When I say, Paul,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: we're going to a dog event tonight, you know you're
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: going to write a check you have no problem like
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: or my family or you know, the kid, you know.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: Some kind of stuff. That's that's whatever you like.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: That's for me what I needed you to be okay with,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: because that's very important for me. I want you to
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: treat my friends, my family, and I and that's my
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: treats from you. And then the other things too. Like
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: my watches. No, but but I'm excited for this for us.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: And then I come home to UH premiere events by
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Rima is one of my very closest friends. She has
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: amazing She does flowers for weddings and I had a
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: thousand roses at my house with candles lit everywhere in
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: a big sign that said she said yes. The photographers
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: met us back at the house and then you asked
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: me to go get dressed. I was not ready for that, Paul.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I had to wear dress that I had hanging up
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: that was too small for me. It was not And
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: then and then to go back to the restaurant where
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: the whole staff was waiting for us at night, and
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: the booth that we sat in, right down to the
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: wine that we drank that night was really special and
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: beautiful and yes, I could not have asked for more.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: So ah me too. So yeah, now that I wanted
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: to share that very special day with all of you,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: and I thank you for always being there and listening.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: And stay tuned for part two about where we go
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: from here to the future.