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I Stopped Doing This and Manifested My Husband in 4 Months | Feminine Energy Masterclass · Mindful Success Path

• 0:32
  Speaker: I manifested my husband in four months after being perpetually single for over a decade, and I didn't actually manifest him by doing more of anything.
• 0:40
  Speaker: It was the exact opposite.
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  Speaker: I stopped doing a bunch of things and then I was able to manifest him quickly.
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  Speaker: And in this video we're gonna be talking about exactly what I stopped doing in order to manifest my masculine provider husband in.
• 0:54
  Speaker: Four months time because when I finally let these things go, everything changed.
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  Speaker: Hi, my name is Amanda.
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  Speaker: So here's the first thing that I stopped doing that manifested my husband so quickly I stopped chasing.
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  Speaker: I stopped chasing, I stopped trying to manipulate this situation.
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  Speaker: I stopped trying to go after men who weren't meeting me where I was at.
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  Speaker: I stopped, um, initiating everything.
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  Speaker: I stopped trying to make it work.
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  Speaker: I stopped trying to, um, manipulate some sort of connection.
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  Speaker: A lot of women do that.
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  Speaker: I actually let there be space and when I let there be.
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  Speaker: Space.
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  Speaker: Two things happened.
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  Speaker: So number one, all the men that I was attracting before who were passive and wouldn't step up, and I felt like I had to do so much effort, they kind of just fell away and disappeared.
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  Speaker: The second thing that happened was I started to attract healthy masculine men.
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  Speaker: And not just in a romantic sense either.
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  Speaker: Obviously that happened.
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  Speaker: I ended up manifesting my husband, but at the time I had a business where I had a sales training company and I had a lot of male colleagues.
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  Speaker: I learned a lot about business from men and I'm very grateful for it.
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  Speaker: Um, and I didn't realize it at the time.
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  Speaker: But at the time I wasn't just learning about business from men, I was also learning about men from men.
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  Speaker: I just didn't know I was doing that, um, at the time.
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  Speaker: And that of course, um, flavors, a lot of the content on this channel is, you know, me actually learning from men and then relaying that information to the ladies who watched this.
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  Speaker: So at the time I had a lot of male colleagues and then suddenly all of them wanted to.
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  Speaker: Help me solve all my problems, right?
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  Speaker: Constantly, all the time.
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  Speaker: Or they would take me out to dinner and they'd take me out to a French restaurant and they'd be like, buy whatever you want on the menu.
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  Speaker: Or I'd go to the local bakery owned by a man and he'd offer me a bunch of free things.
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  Speaker: Not in a romantic sense or anything like that, but just because men like to give.
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  Speaker: And by the way, when men give, it's not always because it's romantic, right?
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  Speaker: Like men just like to give and solve problems, period.
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  Speaker: You can even try this.
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  Speaker: Experiment with little boys because little boys, uh, wanna be your hero.
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  Speaker: And if any of you are teachers of young children, you've probably noticed that little boys wanna be your hero.
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  Speaker: So one thing you can do is ask the little boys for more help, uh, around the classroom and their little chests will puff up and it'll be great, right?
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  Speaker: Because men just like to give right.
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  Speaker: Healthy men.
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  Speaker: That is what they do.
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  Speaker: So when I let there be space, suddenly a lot healthier.
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  Speaker: Men started coming into my orbit and I started to see healthy men.
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  Speaker: Everywhere.
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  Speaker: A lot of you are like, we're all the good men.
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  Speaker: All the good men are taking no girl.
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  Speaker: You're just not allowing any space for them to show up because they are literally everywhere.
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  Speaker: And I have to be honest, at first, this felt somewhat uncomfortable.
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  Speaker: Because I, all, my anxiety would start.
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  Speaker: Coming up, I would start to feel very unsafe.
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  Speaker: I was used to having to control everything all the time in my life.
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  Speaker: It was learned behavior from the women in my family, and I was used to having to create the connection.
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  Speaker: But the moment that I stopped chasing, and there's actually two ways that women chase men, and I'll talk about it momentarily.
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  Speaker: I created room to be pursued.
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  Speaker: I created room for people to just solve my problems.
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  Speaker: I created room for my husband to show up.
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  Speaker: I created room for a lot of the desires that I'd been efforting for so long.
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  Speaker: Just really just started coming to me and they started to show up because I started to remember, and I started to realize that I don't actually have to chase anything as a woman in feminine energy.
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  Speaker: I can just magnetize.
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  Speaker: Things to me, and magnetism needs space.
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  Speaker: So there's actually two ways that women end up chasing men.
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  Speaker: The first is physically right?
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  Speaker: Not like literally chasing them down a hallway or something.
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  Speaker: But in terms of initiating everything or trying to manipulate the connection, or trying to force conversation or planning the dates, that's, that's way number one.
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  Speaker: The second way in which women chase men is actually energetically, and this is where I find a lot of the women, um, get stuck in a lot of the women that I've had one-on-one coaching calls with.
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  Speaker: This is where I see a lot of you getting stuck.
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  Speaker: Just, just being honest.
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  Speaker: Big sis here.
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  Speaker: Okay.
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  Speaker: Where I see a lot of you getting stuck is energetically chasing men.
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  Speaker: What does that look like?
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  Speaker: It looks like you haven't talked, spoken to this man in two years, and you're still replaying conversations.
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  Speaker: You're still ruminating the conversation in your head.
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  Speaker: It looks like you went on three dates with a guy and you haven't spoken to him in a year, and you're still obsessed with this guy.
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  Speaker: This is all energetically chasing.
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  Speaker: Men.
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  Speaker: Um, and there's ways that you can overcome that.
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  Speaker: And I talk about that in my feminine magnetism, that mastery program, which you can grab for only$27 below.
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  Speaker: I actually explained the psychology of letting there be space and I talk about how to overcome this, how to overcome this anxiety and this need to chase, whether it's physically or energetically.
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  Speaker: I cover it more there.
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  Speaker: The next thing that I stopped doing is that I stopped overgiving.
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  Speaker: And in fact, I still stop overgiving.
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  Speaker: I still have to catch myself sometimes, um, with this one.
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  Speaker: So I stopped trying to prove my worth just in life in general.
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  Speaker: I stopped trying to prove my worth to my parents, which when you're little, sometimes I grew up in a relatively healthy household, all things considered.
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  Speaker: Um, but you, I still picked up the story that I had to prove myself.
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  Speaker: It, perhaps I got it from my grandmother because she was an academic, and academics tend to, um.
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  Speaker: Create that dynamic in the household.
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  Speaker 2: The other thing that I did is I stopped trying to be the easy laid back one in relationships, the understanding one, the one who just gives and gives and gives, hoping that it will be enough.
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  Speaker 2: I stopped doing that in business too, by the way.
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  Speaker 2: Because love was never something I had to earn.
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  Speaker 2: And this is something that a lot of women.
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  Speaker 2: Need to understand.
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  Speaker 2: I recently did a training on the, the core issue that most people have, which is the fact that they just don't feel good enough and they don't feel worthy.
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  Speaker 2: And I've talked about my stages of divine feminine energy in that training.
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  Speaker 2: And in that one I talked about the wound wounded maiden, who's the.
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  Speaker 2: Wounded feminine energy, perpetual victim, wallflower, no boundaries.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone steps all over her.
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  Speaker 2: And I also talked about the awakening warrior.
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  Speaker 2: The awakening warrior tends to be the, the overachiever, the perfectionist, the overly responsible one.
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  Speaker 2: She's also constantly overgiving.
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  Speaker 2: She's just doing it in a different way, but it's also rooted in the idea of not being enough and having to prove, um, their worth.
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  Speaker 2: Because at some point we think love needs to be earned.
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  Speaker 2: Once we realize that love doesn't need to be earned, it's actually something that you allow into your life.
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  Speaker 2: And the more you start learning how to pour back into yourself, the more I became someone who could actually receive.
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  Speaker 2: So let me give you a real life example from now.
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  Speaker 2: I started this, um.
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  Speaker 2: I truly started the feminine energy journey, I would say in 2022.
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  Speaker 2: Well end of 2021, going into 2022, that's when I hit my rock bottom and I had studied feminine energy and polarity and masculine energy.
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  Speaker 2: I'd been studying that stuff on the side for 10 years trying to, you know, fix my relationships, fix my hormones, but it was all very intellectual.
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  Speaker 2: For 10 years.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get to embody it until I like lost everything and then suddenly.
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  Speaker 2: When I went through that spiritual awakening and I learned about nervous system regulation, ancestral healing, energy healing, all those things, that's when it's, when it finally clicked and it clicked so much that my husband and I ended up moving to Mexico.
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  Speaker 2: And within a week of me being in Mexico, he's got me signed up for classes with, um.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, shaman that we work with, who's actually one of our teachers here in Mexico to become trained in holistic healing.
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  Speaker 2: And now he's training us in, uh, meditation modalities.
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  Speaker 2: And once we're trained up, he's given us permission to start teaching those things publicly.
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  Speaker 2: So make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell to keep an eye on that.
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  Speaker 2: 'cause we're almost done with our training, but basically it changed my life so much and my husband knew it, that he was like, all right, I'm signing you up for all these things so that you can really learn how to do this.
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  Speaker 2: And you can really start.
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  Speaker 2: You know, helping people transform the way that you know that you've transformed.
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  Speaker 2: And he transformed in his own way, just more with masculine energy.
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  Speaker 2: And a big part of that was nervous system regulation.
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  Speaker 2: A big part of that was ancestral healing.
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  Speaker 2: A big part of that was learning that I didn't have to earn love, that it was just something that I allowed into myself and really reprogramming all these crazy stories that I had in my mind because I was really entrenched in that awakening warrior archetype.
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  Speaker 2: That I talk a lot about on this channel.
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  Speaker 2: Next thing I did is I stopped ignoring my desires, right?
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  Speaker 2: So this one actually kind of changed everything.
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  Speaker 2: I got honest about what I actually wanted.
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  Speaker 2: What was interesting was when I was hitting my rock bottom moment, I did, it's actually a miraculous story how I found this person.
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  Speaker 2: But I ended up working with an expert in neuroscience and it was not planned.
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  Speaker 2: I was not looking for it.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even know what to look for.
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  Speaker 2: It's like the universe brought this person, um.
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  Speaker 2: Into my life so I could understand these things from a neuroscience perspective.
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  Speaker 2: Because at the time, because I was such an awakening warrior, I really needed it to be like grounded in intellect in order for me to understand, uh, the healing that I was doing.
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  Speaker 2: So I end up finding this expert in neuroscience.
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  Speaker 2: That's where I start learning more about the nervous system regulation.
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  Speaker 2: I worked very intensely with this person for about six months, changed my whole life, and in that six months, when I start going through this process of ancestral healing.
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  Speaker 2: Rewiring my nervous system, I start to realize, oh my God, I hired this person to help me make more money in my business.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I hired them, to help me like fix this mess so I could just get my business back on track.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm starting to realize that I want a completely different life than the one I've built.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Surprise.
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  Speaker 2: That's what happened.
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  Speaker 2: And I had to start owning my desires.
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  Speaker 2: My desires were I wanted to get married.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to get married to a healthy masculine provider man.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, when I did end up coming back to business and money and all those kinds of things, whenever eventually I got back to that, um.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted it to be more passive.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted it to be more systematized.
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  Speaker 2: End up marrying a guy who is an operations, tech and systems genius, right?
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  Speaker 2: So I got a two for one, um, with him.
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  Speaker 2: Um, I wanted to slow down, right?
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to really start.
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  Speaker 2: Rebalancing myself again, and I did everything.
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  Speaker 2: I did most healing modalities that you could probably think of.
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  Speaker 2: And since being in Mexico, I've done even more.
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  Speaker 2: And what came through more and more and more was the idea that I had built a life based on survival, based on fear, based on ego, and not on my actual desires.
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  Speaker 2: And this is actually very common.
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  Speaker 2: For women, I've talked about this before.
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  Speaker 2: Most women are not in touch with their desires at all.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, in the western world, we're taught, and even in some Eastern traditions and things like that, you're taught that desires are a bad thing.
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  Speaker 2: Desires are a bad thing.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 2: Your desires come from God.
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  Speaker 2: They are God giving.
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  Speaker 2: The root of desire comes from Di God.
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  Speaker 2: That's where it comes from because they are given to you.
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  Speaker 2: By God, I grew up Catholic my whole life.
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  Speaker 2: No one had ever told me that, ever in my whole life.
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  Speaker 2: It was actually the exact opposite.
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  Speaker 2: So.
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  Speaker 2: Once I learned that I had to get honest about what it was I actually wanted.
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  Speaker 2: I've actually coached women in business now that I'm thinking about it, and I've seen them do this where they will create all these problems in their business because it keeps them busy.
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  Speaker 2: If they're busy, then they don't have to address their actual desires and what they have to change in order to achieve their desires.
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  Speaker 2: I've talked to a lot of women who are actually ready to get married and manifest a husband, and that's what they actually desire.
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  Speaker 2: But what ends up happening is they're so scared of the changes that they have to create in order to manifest a husband, or they feel so unworthy of it that they will create a bunch of problems and complications in their business to keep them occupied.
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  Speaker 2: I've literally seen women do that, that I've, that I've coached, and then I call it out and then they're like, oh, because they don't even realize, um, they're doing it and, and then they're like shocked and they're like, oh my God, how did you know that that's what I actually wanted?
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I mean, I just started putting two and two together based on what you were telling me.
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  Speaker 2: So I, those women just like, I do have to learn.
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  Speaker 2: About what it is that they truly desire.
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  Speaker 2: The kind of man, the kind of relationship, the kind of life, the kind of lifestyle.
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  Speaker 2: And I stopped negotiating with myself.
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  Speaker 2: I stopped saying, oh, I can do that.
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  Speaker 2: I can have that after I do X, Y, and Z in my business.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people do that because the feminine does not settle.
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  Speaker 2: She chooses, and once I understood that, boom, husband showed right up.
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  Speaker 3: The next thing I stopped doing is I stopped engaging in dynamics that didn't feel good.
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  Speaker 3: So I started listening to my body.
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  Speaker 3: If something felt off, I didn't override it.
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  Speaker 3: I actually listened.
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  Speaker 3: If I felt anxious, confused, or unsettled, I paid attention and I would exit from that dynamic in relationships because my nervous system would, was always telling me the truth.
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  Speaker 3: And I talked about this before, I recently did a live stream on things that I wish I knew about relationships at 25 and not 35.
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  Speaker 3: And one of those was that confusion, like if you are in a state of confusion, there is something wrong.
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  Speaker 3: So I started paying attention to those things and then I would exit the dynamics.
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  Speaker 3: I also exited dynamics, um, you know, in family or personal relationships.
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  Speaker 3: And it didn't mean that I necessarily in, in family dynamics, it didn't necessarily mean that I like.
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  Speaker 3: Physically exited.
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  Speaker 3: Um, but it did mean that I would, once I became aware of an energetic dynamic.
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  Speaker 3: That I was engaging in and dancing in.
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  Speaker 3: I just stopped participating in the energetic dynamic.
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  Speaker 3: I just didn't allow myself to get wrapped up into certain things anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Changed my whole life.
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  Speaker 3: Stop doing it right.
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  Speaker 3: It was just across the board.
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  Speaker 3: I just stopped engaging in dynamics that didn't feel good.
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  Speaker 3: And when you regulate your nervous system, I've said this before, you start to regulate your reality.
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  Speaker 3: Everything outside of you.
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  Speaker 3: Starts to change.
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  Speaker 3: So safety, internal safety became my standard in relationships, not chemistry, not potential safety and reliability.
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  Speaker 3: Um, understanding what healthy dynamics were.
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  Speaker 3: That is what became my standard.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of times women will come to me and their standards are very low.
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  Speaker 3: Or their standards are based on chemistry or trauma or hormones or just some program that their nervous system got from somewhere.
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  Speaker 3: But it's not necessarily rooted in anything that's a healthy relationship dynamic.
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  Speaker 3: And one of my mentors many years ago said something that I'm gonna repeat to you because it's so good.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of women out here have to learn how to be attracted to what is good to them and for them, and not attracted to what is bad for them and bad to them.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of women have to reverse that.
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  Speaker 3: In their nervous system.
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  Speaker 3: I certainly did.
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  Speaker 3: So next thing I stopped doing was I stopped trying to control everything around me.
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  Speaker 3: Now this has probably been the hardest one for me to do.
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  Speaker 3: I still have to work on this all the time.
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  Speaker 3: 'cause again, I was entrenched.
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  Speaker 3: An awakening warrior for a long time, and all the women in my family are awakening warriors, so this was actually the hardest one for me.
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  Speaker 3: I had to let go of timelines.
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  Speaker 3: I had to let go of needing to know where things were going.
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  Speaker 3: I needed to let go of constantly having to solve everything that came my way.
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  Speaker 3: I had to let go of trying to manage every interaction, and instead I softened into trust.
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  Speaker 3: I surrendered to something bigger than me, God, universe, spirit, source, whatever you wanna call it.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I ultimately surrendered to, still due to this day.
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  Speaker 3: Multiple times a day.
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  Speaker 3: And I realized that surrender, um, isn't weakness.
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  Speaker 3: That's what a lot of women are taught.
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  Speaker 3: They're taught that surrender is weakness.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's weakness.
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  Speaker 3: If you're in the wounded maiden stage and you're a wallflower and you say nothing, and you get walked all over and you get manipulated.
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  Speaker 3: But if you're coming from an empowered feminine place, surrender just means trust.
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  Speaker 3: That's all it means, including trusting yourself, trusting spirit, trusting, um, other men.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of women gotta learn how to trust men.
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  Speaker 3: Again, right?
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  Speaker 3: Because if you've got stories in your head that men cannot be trusted, you're gonna keep attracting men who cannot be trusted I had to trust that what was meant for me would meet me, and that's exactly what started to happen.
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  Speaker 3: Like I said, I manifested my husband in four months.
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  Speaker 3: He just showed up.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't even go out looking for him.
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  Speaker 3: I was just living my life and he showed up and I had to trust that I didn't have to force anything into place.
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  Speaker 3: And over the last few years, I've gone deeper and deeper and deeper into surrendering and letting go.
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  Speaker 3: And if you've gotten our Magnetic Woman transformation bundle, there's an entire training in there just on surrender and trust.
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  Speaker 3: Um, and because this is an area that's very confusing.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: For a lot of women, so make sure to check that out because this is one of the keys of feminine energy and it actually does make your life a lot easier.
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  Speaker 3: I'll give you a practical example.
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  Speaker 3: If something comes into my inbox or like, or my husband comes to me with like a business problem of his or something, or there's an issue with one of the Airbnbs that, that he manages or, or whatever, right?
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  Speaker 3: Um, I just don't immediately feel like I have to go solve the problem.
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  Speaker 3: Anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Um, I know my husband is very capable to go solve problems.
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  Speaker 3: He's just expressing himself and I'll be like, oh, that's so interesting.
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  Speaker 3: What are you gonna do about that?
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  Speaker 3: For example?
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Um, and those of you who are dating stages and you're dating men.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: That's extra important for you to know.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Obviously when you, you're married and you've been together a while and you're householding together and you run businesses together, like there's logistical things that you guys have to figure out together, obviously.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Um, but still as much as I can, because I understand masculine provider psychology and I understand that masculine, healthy, masculine men.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Get their confidence by solving problems, not by having women jump in and solve their problems for them.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Um, I still am very mindful of that, but especially those of you who are dating, like if a guy's coming to you with his problems all the time, don't solve his freaking problems, right?
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: Trust that he's gonna be able to sort it out himself.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Just trust or like, it just magically gets resolved.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: I said this on a live stream the other day.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: A few years ago I went to my best friend's bridal shower.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: Her sister's a doctor.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Um, and she has like a private practice.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: She also does hospital rounds and I think she also was managing residents at the time.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: So you can imagine like problems happen all the time in that kind of a scenario.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: And she said something that like shocked me'cause we were out for a, for a bridal shower weekend.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: And she said something along the lines that I never forgot this, and this was when I was just really getting started in my feminine energy journey.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: I'd actually just met my husband, um, that same month, and she said something along the lines of, you know, I no longer jump in and try and solve every problem because I've learned that sometimes problems just resolve themselves.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: If you just leave them alone.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: That is surrender.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: That is surrender.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: If a doctor could say that, then what does that say about us and what we.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Um, are able to do so.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: The next thing I stopped doing is that I stopped abandoning myself because this was at the core of all of it.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: I stopped leaving myself.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: I stopped shrinking.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: I stopped performing.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I stopped becoming who I thought someone else wanted me to become, whether that was my mother or a boyfriend.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: I stopped doing all of that, and I came back to meet my truth, my emotions, and my desires.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Because the moment you stop abandoning yourself, you stop attracting people who abandon you too.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna say that again.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: The moment that you stop abandoning yourself, you stop attracting people who abandon you too.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: So what happened next?
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: Right after I dropped all these bad habits?
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: This is what y'all wanna know, right?
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: A lot of you wanna know like, well, what did you do after that?
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: Well, the truth is, I didn't do anything.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I did nothing.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: There's a trend right now online about like, do nothing for men, and it's true.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: I, I did nothing.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: I, I, I wasn't efforting, I wasn't doing, I simply became a different person.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: I changed my identity.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: I took on the identity of a wife.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: I took on the identity of a woman who could attract money.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: I took on the identity of a magnetic woman, which is why I highly recommend checking out the Magnetic Woman Transformation bundle because that is the core training of everything that I teach.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: That's the core of it.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: If you're looking for a place to start, start.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: There and I became someone who felt safe, internal safety first, someone who was open, someone who lived more from a place of feminine energy, someone who was available for real love, someone who was available for her desires.
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: And from that place, my husband met me naturally, easily without force, without having to manipulate anything without, I didn't even go on dating apps, like I didn't even have to do any of that.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: He just showed up because as I've said multiple times.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Ease is the new edge.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: Ease is where we are all heading, and it is a revolutionary thing for a woman to do these days.
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: So if you're in a season where you feel like you're trying everything and nothing's working, let me tell you, it's not about doing more.
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: It's actually about doing less.
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: It's about releasing what was never yours to carry.
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: And when a woman learns how to do that, and when she learns how to let go of the patterns that keep her disconnected from her feminine energy, and she learns how to come back to.
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: Her entire world starts to shift.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: And if this spoke to you, and if you're ready to stop chasing and start becoming the woman who naturally attracts the relationship she desires, there's two places where you can get started.
• 24:47
  Speaker 5: What I would recommend is getting the Magnetic Woman transformation bundle, because that's the core training of everything I teach, and that's a lot of the.
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: Internal work that needs to get done.
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: It's a lot of the feminine energy inner work.
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: We talk about nervous system regulation becoming the oracle, surrender masculine and feminine polarity.
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: We go deep into the different stages of divine feminine energy.
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: And then on top of that, I would recommend checking out some of our dating and polarity classes, which you can find listed in the description below, and you can just mix and match depending on what particular issue you are having in relationships right now.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: If you could only choose one, the core of everything is a magnetic woman.
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: Transformation bundle.
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: In fact, I might make that required for anything that I create moving forward, and you can grab that below as well.
• 25:36
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• 25:43
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• 25:50
  Speaker 5: Thank you so much for giving me your time today, and I'll catch you on the next one.