Latest / The Dr Louise Newson Podcast / 43 - Kate Muir on the power and pushback in menopause care
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- 0:00This week, Kate Muir is on my podcast for the third time, and
- 0:04it's another great conversation talking about how we've worked
- 0:08together to improve awareness and knowledge about hormones and
- 0:12why some people are not so happy about the work that we've done.
- 0:17So I hope you enjoy listening to our conversation today.
- 0:22Kate, this is the third time you've been on my podcast.
- 0:24I don't think anyone else has been on three times.
- 0:27Well, that's because you've had such an effect on my life,
- 0:29Louise Newson. And I wouldn't be here and I
- 0:32wouldn't be a menopause campaigner if I hadn't come to
- 0:35consult with you in 2019 and gone away very politicised after
- 0:41having been just a patient. So it made a big, huge
- 0:44difference to me realising that this was a massive topic.
- 0:48In fact, it was a great story, so.
- 0:50Yeah, it was an amazing consultation, actually.
- 0:52We've spoken about it before, but for those of you that don't
- 0:55know, Kate is a patient or has been a patient, and you were
- 0:59quite straightforward. You'd had a difficult time
- 1:01because you've been given the wrong type of hormones from
- 1:03somebody else. And so actually after about 1520
- 1:06minutes, you knew what was going on.
- 1:08So I remember spending the rest of the time just like telling
- 1:12you about how awful it was and how terrible things were for
- 1:14women and about some of the evidence, especially the
- 1:17evidence of the newer body, identical hormones compared to
- 1:21synthetics, some of the debunking of the Women's Health
- 1:24Initiative, WHI study. And I remember you just saying,
- 1:27I, I'm an investigative journalist.
- 1:29I didn't know this, I need to know more.
- 1:32And then you went off and then we had this, oh, we still have
- 1:34this great relationship where we share papers and talk things
- 1:38through. And then, you know, you not a
- 1:40documentary maker, but you went off and made a documentary that
- 1:45has had the massive effect on women and prescribing of
- 1:49hormones. Yeah.
- 1:50I mean, Davina McCall was fantastic and did a really good
- 1:54job presenting that and keeping going with that.
- 1:57But I think one of the most exciting things is the changing
- 2:00science that we've been learning as we go along.
- 2:04And the the more you dig, the deeper you dig into the
- 2:07protective power of hormones, the protective power of HRTI
- 2:12think the more kind of essential this fight that we are fighting
- 2:15is. And the idea that the menopause
- 2:19is a transition, keep calm and carry on, and not a hormonal
- 2:24deficiency, that one way or the other you have to do something
- 2:28about either holistically or hormonally, preferably both.
- 2:32But, and it would be mad not to. And that we are portraying this
- 2:37to women completely wrongly. Yes, makes me so angry.
- 2:41But also work so hard to get this message out in books, you
- 2:47know, in podcasts, in the sub stacks, whatever it is.
- 2:50Yeah, yeah. And I think what's great
- 2:52sometimes is meeting people that haven't got preconceived ideas.
- 2:57You know, you came with a very open mind.
- 3:00You weren't expecting me to talk as much as I did about things.
- 3:04But you didn't go away and just listen to me.
- 3:06You went to other people. I introduced you to lots of
- 3:08people. You've read lots of academic
- 3:10papers. Whereas, you know, if I'd met
- 3:13you 30 years ago, we didn't have the Internet.
- 3:15We didn't have the ability to just do a teams call with
- 3:18someone in another country or the other side of the world.
- 3:21So you've managed to do things very quickly, but also you
- 3:24haven't had these preconceived ideas.
- 3:27Whereas often when I talk to doctors who are very anti HRT,
- 3:31that you can't change them because that's what they've
- 3:34always talked and they're not going to think.
- 3:36Whereas you didn't have any of that negativity going on in your
- 3:39mind. You just had an open mind to
- 3:41think. Actually, let me learn, let me
- 3:43understand. And coming from a place where
- 3:46you know, you're open about it. Your mother had dementia.
- 3:50You want to keep really healthy. You really look after yourself
- 3:53and you do your open waters to bring your dog walking.
- 3:55You know you're an active, healthy person, but actually
- 3:58without hormones you know you wouldn't be as healthy as you
- 4:01are now. I'd be a mess and I've been
- 4:04thinking a lot because my mum died of Alzheimer's 10 years
- 4:06ago. I've been thinking a lot because
- 4:08I'm about to write a book about Alzheimer's and hormones and all
- 4:11sorts of things, and I've been thinking about sleep and the
- 4:15importance of a good night's sleep.
- 4:17And every hour you lose, you are more likely to build up the
- 4:21amyloid plaques that can be a precursor to Alzheimer's.
- 4:25And literally going from 7 hours sleep to six hours sleep to five
- 4:29hours sleep puts you way in the risk zone.
- 4:32And whatever we know about estrogen and progesterone, they
- 4:36really, really help you sleep. They stop those night sweats.
- 4:40And that anxiety and just being able to let women sleep might be
- 4:48the most important thing we can do to prevent, you know, the
- 4:52fact that 2/3 of Alzheimer's patients are female.
- 4:57The idea that we're not looking at this, that we're not
- 4:59screaming that aloud, and the many other things, you know, HRT
- 5:03can do, it really shocks me. And it just has me, you know, up
- 5:07every day punching. But it's so frustrating because
- 5:10it's so obvious when you understand basic science.
- 5:14So, you know, you talk about progesterone, estradiol, but
- 5:17also testosterone has a massive effect.
- 5:19And even just knowing that these hormones can improve melatonin
- 5:23in our sleep hormone, you know, it's not rocket science that we
- 5:26sleep more and sleep better. Actually, I mean, I have less
- 5:29time in bed than I ever did, but I sleep really effectively.
- 5:33But that's because I take hormones, but I also meditate my
- 5:36way to sleep. I'm, you know, I exercise.
- 5:38There's lots of things, but we can't always forget how
- 5:41important the hormones are in our brains.
- 5:44And somehow people seem so scared of the way hormones work,
- 5:48especially in our brains. There's always this debate, does
- 5:50HRT reduce risk of dementia or not?
- 5:53But the studies, when you intertwine the synthetic
- 5:57hormones and the natural hormones, you know, I've said to
- 6:00some of the other day, it's a bit like researching bananas,
- 6:04saying all fruit is yellow, that you can't include synthetic
- 6:07hormones with natural hormones and expect to have good results.
- 6:11It's such a total failure in the science that they are looking at
- 6:152 completely different drugs, yes, and saying they're doing
- 6:19the same thing, they have the same effect.
- 6:21These are the results. It's a big sloppy hole in the
- 6:25science. And what I don't understand is
- 6:27there are some very intelligent people, professors and people
- 6:30with PhDs who are putting out things, old studies about
- 6:34synthetic hormones and mixing them up with transdermal new
- 6:39safer hormones that go straight in the bloodstream.
- 6:41You know, and as we know, all your natural hormones being
- 6:44topped up. And if I take a 12 year old
- 6:47child and tell him or her that they would understand
- 6:51immediately. These are plastic.
- 6:53These are real and organic. At which one would you like?
- 6:57Which one would you like to give your mum?
- 6:59Oh, the organic one. And you know, which is likely to
- 7:02have the best effects? The organic one.
- 7:05And you know, I'm just astounded at the, the, the stubbornness
- 7:10and stupidity. And I think it's a sense of
- 7:13maybe shame around confronting the fact that they've been
- 7:18wrong, that so much of the science is wrong and that we're
- 7:21overturning it, or that, you know, ordinary people like me,
- 7:26journalists, can look up the science paper.
- 7:28Ordinary about you. And look for the holes in, yes,
- 7:31ordinary women, yeah. Can look up the.
- 7:33Holes in the science paper and go.
- 7:35This is not about the kind of HRT I use.
- 7:38And I do not understand why these huge institutions, your
- 7:41international, you know, menopause society, the menopause
- 7:45society in America were putting out things just this week about,
- 7:50you know, hormones don't help with dementia.
- 7:53Now I'm researching a book on this.
- 7:55I can tell you that hormones help with dementia, and I can
- 7:59give you dozens and dozens of studies, and it's just bonkers
- 8:04to try and maintain a really strange set of ancient beliefs.
- 8:09And the only thing I can compare it to is the madness of
- 8:12religion. You know, the worst kind of, you
- 8:16know, I was just watching, you know, a series about Belfast and
- 8:20the Troubles just just now on television and thinking about
- 8:23how crazy is this. And then when you think about,
- 8:26you know, Catholics versus Protestants, you know, we all
- 8:29believe in God, and there we are.
- 8:31You know, we're on two different sides in this menopause story,
- 8:34but yet we all want women to be. What is going on here?
- 8:39What are the why are these institutions holding on to what
- 8:42they're holding on? Why did they attack you, for
- 8:44instance, on that Panorama programme with the BBC and what
- 8:49do you think? I think there's, there's a lot
- 8:53and I'm, I'm very insightful and reflective, but I think you're
- 8:57right in that people don't like to admit that they've made a
- 9:01mistake or told wrong information and they didn't do
- 9:04it to be malicious in the past. You know, I think about patients
- 9:10I had who had recurrent urinary tract infections that I gave
- 9:13antibiotics to rather than vaginal hormones.
- 9:16I think about people that I gave antidepressants to instead of
- 9:19hormones. But I'm very happy to sit here
- 9:22and say, do you know what, Kate? I've learned so much about
- 9:25hormones and urinary tract or hormones in our brain.
- 9:28I've changed my clinical practice, but because I feel bad
- 9:32about what I've done, I'm not just changed my clinical
- 9:34practice, I'm changing the clinical practice for thousands,
- 9:38hopefully of doctors and clinicians, but also changing
- 9:42the knowledge for women so they can ask for what they want.
- 9:46And I think that's fine to be able to say even as a medical
- 9:49society, to say we've got different evidence, we're
- 9:53changing the way we think, but to actually dig your heels in I
- 9:58think is what it's damaging actually for women.
- 10:00I don't understand it. I don't understand the horrible,
- 10:03creepy kind of schoolyard fight feeling I get about that, the
- 10:08feeling about bullying and negativity instead of moving
- 10:12powerfully forward for Women's Health.
- 10:14And I just sort of want to know now that that Panoramas over a
- 10:17year ago. And as you know, there were more
- 10:20complaints about your panorama than there were about Trump's
- 10:25panorama. And much the same team in terms
- 10:28of the editor and the editor in chief were behind both programs.
- 10:32And we know that the evidence came from somewhere very strange
- 10:38on your Panorama programme. And I wonder, I mean, it
- 10:42literally seems to me to be a vendetta.
- 10:45And when I look at it and I look at the science that was offered
- 10:48up in it, the science is wrong. Quite a lot of it is wrong.
- 10:52And they've gone for some very old fashioned versions of the
- 10:56science. So why do you think you were
- 10:59feared and attacked like that? I think there's lots of issues.
- 11:05I I mean, I've known for years that various people from medical
- 11:10establishment haven't liked what I've been doing.
- 11:12And maybe it's because I've got a higher profile, maybe because
- 11:16I help women get better. I don't, I don't know.
- 11:18But I do know partly there's a patriarchy in medicine and I've
- 11:24been told this by some of some people because I'm inverted
- 11:27commas only AGP and I'm not a gynecologist.
- 11:31And I have an issue with that because I don't think anyone is
- 11:34only anything. But also, you know, I'm, I've
- 11:37got a degree. I'm, I've got lots of
- 11:40qualifications and I've got lots of knowledge and I've got huge
- 11:43amounts of clinical experience. I don't really know why they
- 11:47decided to do it. I don't even know why they
- 11:49decided to even Commission the programme.
- 11:52When I look and reflect on the content, because it was
- 11:56confusing for women. It portrayed me as some awful
- 12:00doctor. It was very much a personal
- 12:03thing rather than just about my clinic and it's damaged loads of
- 12:09women. That's the saddest thing about
- 12:12it. I also think in terms of your
- 12:15ability to respond to that, you've got patient
- 12:18confidentiality, you're a doctor, you can't say this is
- 12:22what happened. You're not able to say that.
- 12:25And I think that is also really hard and and it just puts you in
- 12:30a very hard position in terms of of comeback.
- 12:35And obviously Ofcom received all these hundreds of complaints and
- 12:39Panorama received hundreds of complaints.
- 12:42And even I was in Glasgow 2 weeks ago talking to the
- 12:47Scotland's menopause warriors who were featured at the
- 12:51beginning section of the programme, talking about people
- 12:54being sold sort of vitamins and fake menopause cures.
- 12:57And it was about the fake menopause industry.
- 13:00And they are horrified that their bit of the program was
- 13:05attached to an attack job on you.
- 13:08And they have said so to Ofcom, and they said so to me the other
- 13:12week, that in no way did they want to say that there was
- 13:16anything wrong with what you're doing.
- 13:18And one of the apps they recommend to women across
- 13:22Glasgow who are not getting the information they want from their
- 13:25doctors is your free balance app.
- 13:28And you know, it's just shocking to me that those two things are
- 13:34juxtaposed together in a programme and everyone in that
- 13:38programme has been misrepresented, you and the
- 13:41Glasgow Menopause Warriors. And it, it just makes me so
- 13:45annoyed. And that the establishment just
- 13:48sits there and goes, well, we don't care.
- 13:50And if women aren't coming off HRT because they see that and
- 13:54not getting the long term benefits of it, then people
- 13:57should think about seriously about what they've done, I
- 14:00think. You're right, because at the
- 14:02time it was all very raw and as you know, I was doing the
- 14:05theatre tour, so it came out on the second night of a theatre
- 14:07tour that was 34 nights. So I had to keep going and it
- 14:11was really difficult. And you think, well, actually,
- 14:14let's just keep going. And it's just going to be a
- 14:17small number of people that maybe watch the programme and it
- 14:21will be OK. But actually, it's now over a
- 14:23year, as you know, since the program.
- 14:25We know that HRC prescribing has plateaued, but we also know that
- 14:30a lot of women have been stopped their HRT, especially if they've
- 14:34been on any higher doses to help with absorption.
- 14:37So, you know, every day in the clinic, we hear from women who
- 14:40have been very stable on their HRT for years.
- 14:43They've been told to reduce it, told to come off it.
- 14:47And then their mental health has worsened, their physical
- 14:49symptoms have worsened. And these women can't afford
- 14:52private care. They shouldn't have to.
- 14:55And doctors are really scared. You know, a lot of people think
- 14:58that I've been struck off by the GMC, and I absolutely have not
- 15:01been struck off at all. I find it really sad.
- 15:06And I do think a lot about the way that the film was made as
- 15:11well. I mean, we had to involve
- 15:12lawyers before the film came out because they did these
- 15:16consultations, as you know. It was a camera.
- 15:19It was secret filming. Secret filming, which you're
- 15:21only supposed to do when you're trying to expose a crime.
- 15:24Or something. And I, you know, they had no
- 15:26evidence that I'd done any harm at all, but they did this.
- 15:28But they were going to expose the identity of the doctors and
- 15:32I'm really protective. It's bad enough having my face
- 15:34everywhere, but not for these doctors.
- 15:36So they did change that and there were other bits that they
- 15:39were going to put in that they didn't.
- 15:40But they did ask if I wanted to go on the programme to talk and
- 15:44I said what I would if they could confirm that they wouldn't
- 15:47edit what I said. Trump style.
- 15:51And thankfully, actually, I was advised to not go on the program
- 15:55because they would edit it and they agreed that they would edit
- 15:57it and goodness only knows what they would have portrayed me as.
- 16:03Starting in April this year, I'm going back on tour across the UK
- 16:07with a brand new show, Breaking the Cycle.
- 16:10The power of hormones. I'll be visiting 45 venues and
- 16:15my aim is to challenge what we've been told about hormones,
- 16:19to unpick the science that's often overlooked, and to explore
- 16:23why there's still so much confusion and misinformation,
- 16:27particularly around hormone health.
- 16:30Our hormones influence everything.
- 16:32Our mood, our sleep, our metabolism and our future house.
- 16:36Every single cell in our bodies is impacted by hormones, yet so
- 16:41many people are still left without clear answers.
- 16:44So in this show, I'll be sharing research, some history, the real
- 16:49stories, and some very uncomfortable truths.
- 16:52There will be moments that surprise and maybe shock you,
- 16:55and plenty of opportunities to reflect and ask me questions.
- 16:59So if you want to learn, feel empowered, and be part of a
- 17:03movement that's changing how we think about hormones, I'd love
- 17:06to see you there. You can buy tickets through the
- 17:09link in the show notes. I think you're seen as an
- 17:13influencer, but in my world you are in fact a public
- 17:18intellectual in the old fashioned sense.
- 17:21You are the menopause Enlightenment, right?
- 17:24You and Mary Claire Haver and Doctor Rachel Rubin in America
- 17:28and Doctor Fonda Wright. It was a great team of people
- 17:32around the world, Doctor Cherry Cashel in Australia who are
- 17:35really forward thinking people and I would say they are the
- 17:39menopause enlightenment movement who really, really understand a
- 17:44lot of the science. And I think there's a thing
- 17:47happening here where you have been cancelled in a mysterious
- 17:51kind of medical but also Internet way that social media
- 17:56is, you know, you've made a huge comeback and you've been really
- 17:59brave and really tough. But that is what is happening,
- 18:03the business of kind of public cancellation and public
- 18:06humiliation. And I think you have to remember
- 18:08you're a public intellectual. You've got a job to give us the
- 18:11medical information and you have to continue to do that.
- 18:14It's hard, though. It's been really difficult.
- 18:17And you know, when people call me controversial, I said to
- 18:21someone the other day, could you not just call me clever?
- 18:25And they sort of sat back of it and went, oh, yeah, maybe, maybe
- 18:30you are. And so having the FDA
- 18:32announcement recently about the black.
- 18:37Box. That just basically saying that
- 18:40estrogen is safe, lot safer than we've said for decades.
- 18:44It just validates some of the work that I do and having the
- 18:47people that you name and Kelly Casperson of course as well, you
- 18:51know, there's lots of people that are now saying the same
- 18:53that I've said for many, many years.
- 18:55And you know, when you have something really awful happen to
- 18:59you, it makes you very reflective and thinking, oh,
- 19:04have I been to gun? Who have I said things that
- 19:06weren't right? But all I've done is gone back
- 19:09to the evidence, gone back to basic science, gone back to
- 19:12Physiology. And I know that I haven't done
- 19:15anything wrong at all. And, and in fact, as you know,
- 19:18we, we did involve lawyers to complain to the BBC.
- 19:22You have to complain to BBC before you can go to Ofcom.
- 19:24It's very drawn out process. BBC wouldn't uphold our
- 19:28complaint and then we found out beginning of October that Ofcom
- 19:31wouldn't uphold our complaint either without any reason.
- 19:35You know, they said it was a fair and impartial programme.
- 19:37Well, even if you didn't know the subject matter, you'd know
- 19:40that it wasn't very impartial. But it's been confusing because
- 19:45one of the things that we kept saying to them is that there are
- 19:48different types of hormones as well.
- 19:50And So what they're doing is demonizing HRT, natural body,
- 19:55identical HRT as you say, it's the exact molecular structures
- 20:00are in hormones. Yet the doctors on the programme
- 20:04all prescribe contraceptives which are equivalent, a lot
- 20:09higher dose. Of course they are, but they're
- 20:10usually oral. Or they might be the implants,
- 20:13but they're all synthetic. And your second book about
- 20:17hormones was really a lot about the contraceptives.
- 20:20I mean, sometimes you need them and sometimes you need a coil
- 20:23and God knows I have one, but I'd rather not have 1.
- 20:27And I know so much with so many young women struggling with
- 20:32different progestins and how so many of them are risky.
- 20:36And I just, I'm astonished again at the sort of intellectual
- 20:42vacuity of people who aren't looking into that, you know, in
- 20:47the, the kind of, you know, Women's Health area.
- 20:50I mean, why aren't we talking about it?
- 20:52Why are we trying to stay safe and give people the £1.50 pill,
- 20:56the Microgynein or the Rejuvidon, which you know, lots
- 21:00and lots of girls have a miserable time on and that
- 21:03there's no good replacement for that yet.
- 21:05There's no, you know, we're lucky older women got the
- 21:08fantastic, you know, natural hormones, younger women getting
- 21:12the kind of ultra processed food.
- 21:14That's basically what's happening.
- 21:16And yes, sometimes you need it, but it would be great if it was
- 21:21so much better and people cared to research something better.
- 21:25But people do understand and I think it is like, like you're
- 21:29saying about being voted at school, sometimes people forget
- 21:33what they're getting. So crossabouts as well.
- 21:35They've just got this innate hatred for somebody or
- 21:38something. And they just keep going round
- 21:41and round and not, not putting their head up and not thinking
- 21:44maybe this person's got a point. And it becomes really damaging
- 21:48for so many other people. It's not just an internal
- 21:51debate. And, you know, I think in
- 21:52medicine especially, people can agree to disagree.
- 21:57You know, my husband, as you know, is a surgeon.
- 21:59He does different type of operations to other people.
- 22:02He does a lot of showcase operating.
- 22:04People learn. But every so often people say,
- 22:06well, I wouldn't hold the suture like that.
- 22:08I wouldn't use that suture material and I wouldn't put a
- 22:10cut there. I would do it here.
- 22:12And they'll have a really great discussion about when it works,
- 22:15when it doesn't work and the reasons between.
- 22:18And that's what Panorama could have been an amazing program if
- 22:21we've had a really open discussion, because a lot of my
- 22:24work is just about choice. You know, you can choose to do
- 22:27open water swimming. I can choose to do yoga.
- 22:29We're, we're not right or wrong. It's just a different thing, you
- 22:33know what I mean? And I, I think, but it's great
- 22:35to be able to talk about it. Yeah.
- 22:38But I, I just think that was very, very old fashioned and
- 22:42very sort of stuck in a time before.
- 22:45I think if we look at in 10 years time, how will we look
- 22:49back on this time and what's happening with hormones.
- 22:52And actually if you look at the market predictions around
- 22:56transdermal hormones and the size of the market, it's going
- 23:00to double. So, you know, the economists are
- 23:03like, this is a good idea. This is going to happen.
- 23:07The medical establishment is very much, you know, stuck in
- 23:10the mud behind. And women are going to make this
- 23:12change for themselves with good doctors like you who are helping
- 23:15to lead the way. But it's coming from women up.
- 23:18Yeah. It's women doing their own
- 23:19research, women desperate to read about the menopause.
- 23:22And, you know, the whole business of the kind of
- 23:24menopause snake oil industry and people selling supplements is
- 23:28because of the failure in leadership among ordinary
- 23:32doctors. And I know some absolutely
- 23:36brilliant GPS that I'm friends with them and they are doing
- 23:38amazing things like mass consultations in their
- 23:41surgeries. So, you know, there are these
- 23:43fantastic people, but there is a great big kind of fatberg of
- 23:47people holding this back and we really, really need to change
- 23:52that because this generation is coming up and I don't want to
- 23:55see them getting Alzheimer's or diabetes or, you know, stiff
- 23:59joints or whatever it is. And I just can't believe this is
- 24:03not part of health policy. This is not what where streeting
- 24:06is, you know, changing, although great, you know, to add
- 24:09menopause to the 40 something consultation.
- 24:12Well done everybody. But it is good because it will
- 24:15so. We'll start conversations.
- 24:17But you know, the idea that it wasn't there when it was the
- 24:20biggest metabolic change in midlife and you didn't mention
- 24:23it in the midlife consultation just tells you how.
- 24:26Yeah, bonkers. It's absolutely.
- 24:29But also, you know, not acknowledging the millions of
- 24:33women who are under the age of 40 as well with hormonal changes
- 24:36is just crazy too. It's just so much has got to
- 24:41change. But I think you know what you've
- 24:43done with the documentary, what we've both done working together
- 24:48sometimes behind the scenes a bit, is that we've allowed women
- 24:52to wake up and understand what's going on.
- 24:55And I think that's where I've tried to be silenced by the
- 24:58medical establishment. They can't silence be getting to
- 25:01women and giving people a choice and it's a choice that they've
- 25:05not had for decades. You know, in the 60s they did
- 25:08have this choice about sexual liberation and the
- 25:12contraceptive, but in some ways that was potentially damaging
- 25:15because that was synthetic hormones that had never been
- 25:17tested in the long term. We didn't know.
- 25:20This is quite different because these are the natural hormones
- 25:24replacing like for like we know that metabolically they work so
- 25:27well in the body and women are understanding that quicker than
- 25:30healthcare professionals. And I know a few years ago I
- 25:34went to the Royal College of GPS because I'm a fellow there.
- 25:36And they said, Louise, your work has got to really stop and slow
- 25:40down because your media influence means that too many
- 25:44women are now asking for hormones to the detriment of
- 25:47other appointments. Because too many women are
- 25:49coming every day to see GPS and we can't get through the people
- 25:53with back pain and other conditions.
- 25:56But you can't shoot the messenger, can you?
- 25:58But that's just daft because the minute they're on horn, yeah,
- 26:01most of them, maybe it's three months follow up, but you know.
- 26:03They won't be coming back with. Bothering you for diabetes and
- 26:06they won't be bothering you for, you know, various kinds of
- 26:09arthritis and things, you know, So it really, really it's really
- 26:13important. Short term pain, but longer term
- 26:16gain. You know, and I, I think we see
- 26:19this in other areas of medicine as well.
- 26:21You know, you can prescribe antidepressants very quickly,
- 26:23but you can't prescribe exercise in the same way.
- 26:26It takes a lot longer to explain about lifestyle and.
- 26:29So I think of hormones as the door opening.
- 26:32And for me, it was a door opening to, you know, a portal
- 26:35to the second-half of my life and a different life and
- 26:37possibly a different brain. I mean, my brain, I think, is
- 26:40probably different than it would have been.
- 26:42And it's also the time when you have the kind of strength, once
- 26:46you've got the hormones to take on your health and decide to do
- 26:50things like my case, stop drinking alcohol, start cold
- 26:55swimming, you know, you know, go running, eat less awful food.
- 27:00All these things once you've lifted up onto that step of you
- 27:04know, hormonal normality and also having your hormones the
- 27:08same everyday instead of them going upwards, which is.
- 27:11Such a. Joy, you know, then you can look
- 27:13after your health and the idea that people are talk a serious
- 27:16academics are talking about, oh, the holistic health is how we
- 27:20need to deal with menopause and not hormones.
- 27:23I absolutely agree, agree with every single thing on the
- 27:26holistic health board. I think you should add it if you
- 27:30possibly can to, you know, hormones at the same time, I
- 27:35know you've got, you've got to do both things because your body
- 27:38is changing and your mind is changing.
- 27:39And God knows, you know, to what extent we're able to replace our
- 27:43own hormones. And we do age and we've got to
- 27:45deal with aging well because we've got to work till we're 67.
- 27:49And, you know, the idea that there's a holistic, natural,
- 27:52unnatural divide when hormones are natural just makes me really
- 27:56annoyed. Philosophically, none of it
- 27:58makes any sense. You know, if you take a sort of
- 28:02intellectual point of view of on this, it's just, you know, it
- 28:06just doesn't work. Well, it doesn't because we I
- 28:08often spin it on it's head and think what are the risks of not
- 28:10taking hormones? Yeah.
- 28:12And that's something we need to spend this year.
- 28:14It's the beginning of the new year, 2026.
- 28:17Thinking about that as well. Because, you know, we need to be
- 28:20making decisions that are right for us.
- 28:22So your books just come out in paperback?
- 28:24Yeah. Just very quickly, I'd like 3
- 28:28reasons why people, if they haven't got the hardback
- 28:32version, why they should be thinking about your book.
- 28:35Well, it's called How to Have a Magnificent Midlife Crisis.
- 28:40And I realized that, you know, when I was campaigning on
- 28:43menopause and hormones, there was so much else going on around
- 28:46it. And that women at this time in
- 28:48their lives, I think first need to make a five year plan or a 10
- 28:53year plan and reassess their lives and have one midlife
- 28:57crisis or possibly even 2 and really decide how am I going to
- 29:02live the next half of my life. So that was really important.
- 29:06The other thing in the book is it's about creative renaissance.
- 29:09And I've had a real creative renaissance in in a mad way via
- 29:13you because I've become a mad scientist, writer person and not
- 29:19what I expected to be having been a film critic.
- 29:22But here you are on a different trajectory, doing a different
- 29:25thing and you've got the energy because your body's working and
- 29:28your mind's working to to do this and to help people and to
- 29:32have time to help people. And I also think the third thing
- 29:36is about all the different things you can do in terms of
- 29:38self compassion at this stage in our lives, because we've looked
- 29:42after other people, we've looked after our colleagues at work,
- 29:45we've looked after our children in our 50s.
- 29:48We need to look after ourselves, our health, and then go out
- 29:52there and make a difference in the world.
- 29:54And I think those are the things that the book is about.
- 29:58It's such good advice and of course, it's such a brilliant
- 30:00book as well. So thank you for coming on for
- 30:03the third time to my podcast, OK?
- 30:05Thank you.