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Marriage, Money and Success (Top 10 Questions Answered!) | The Warrior Kings Podcast Ep.97 · The Warrior Kings Podcast : Men's Self Help Masculinity Podcast

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One critically important thing that you need to understand here
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is the difference between assets versus liabilities.
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And most people spend their money on liabilities disguised
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as assets. And it keeps them stuck because
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what it really comes down to is she's not your mommy, she's your
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wife. The loudest man in the room is
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often the dumbest man in the room, and the quietest man in
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the room is often the most dangerous man in the room.
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That it is massively critically important that you begin
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learning about money, studying money and finances and when it
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comes to marriage problems that are money centered, financial
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stresses, things like that. What it comes down to is today
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I'm answering 10 of the top questions men ask online when it
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comes to marriage, money and success to bring you clarity
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when it comes to living a super awesome leveled up life.
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Stick around. Hello and welcome to the Warrior
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Kings podcast. I'm your host, Michael Riggs
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here to assist you on your journey to living a fully
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optimized, leveled up life as a man.
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So again, welcome and welcome back to the Warrior Kings
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podcast. It's great to be here today.
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It's great to talk to you today. I have been sick again.
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It's totally crazy. One virus after another.
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I guess that's having little kids.
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So if my voice sounds a little bit different again, that is why
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I actually lost my voice for a couple of days, which doesn't
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usually happen to me when I get sick.
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So that was a whole new experience.
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But here I am back at it again. I am unstoppable.
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Nothing's gonna stop me. I hope you're doing awesome
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wherever you're getting this episode.
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Definitely subscribe to this podcast or this channel,
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wherever you're getting this, because this is what we do here
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every week. And if it's your first time
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here, my name is Michael Riggs. I'm a full time author,
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entrepreneur, men's personal development and marriage mentor,
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husband and father of six. And I teach men all over the
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world how to live fully optimized, leveled up lives.
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So if that's something you're into, like I said, subscribe and
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podcast episode on YouTube that helps me reach more men with
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these powerful messages. And with all that being said,
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let's dive right into the topics of the day.
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And the first question is, how do I fix my marriage before it's
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too late? And that's a great question
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because that's exactly what I teach.
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And what this really comes down to is you need to take the focus
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away from fixing your marriage and focus more on fixing
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yourself. Then a happy, thriving marriage
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naturally follows that. Most men make the mistake of
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trying to fix the relationship first.
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They try way too many things before they even get to the
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source of the problem. And if you want to fix your
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marriage or if you even want to level up your marriage, you need
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to put your focus on controlling what you can.
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And what you can control is yourself.
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Most men don't look within when things start going wrong in
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their lives. They don't say what did I do
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wrong? What could I have done
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different, and how can I be better moving forward.
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They don't self analyze, they don't look within.
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They just point the blame at everyone and everything else
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except for themselves. And when it comes to marriage or
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a marriage falling apart, many men make the mistake of pointing
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the blame at their wives. Or they make the mistake, like I
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said before, of just trying too many things, putting the focus
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on fixing the marriage rather than looking within and fixing
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themselves 1st. And understanding that a result
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of that is the happy thriving marriage.
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And you won't save your marriage by talking about your feelings
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and trying to fix her. Get to the source of her
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problem. You only fix your marriage by
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looking within and fixing yourself.
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Control what you can. And what you can control is
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yourself. You can't control her.
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You can't control how she feels about you.
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How she feels about the marriage.
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You can't force her to fall back in love with you, but what you
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can control is yourself and leveling up every aspect of your
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life so that the happy thriving marriage naturally follows that
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you will save your marriage by becoming the best husband that
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you possibly can be. And there is a lot that goes
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into that. And if you don't know where to
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start, if you want a structured guide that you can follow and
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actually implement in real life, I put together the Reforged
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Husband Complete system. It is a step by step program
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that you can go through to learn how to be the best husband that
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you can be and shift the course of your marriage and where it's
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going completely. You can find the link to the
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Reforged Husband complete system in the description of this
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episode or you can go to linktree.com/michael Riggs
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official. And I know man, I've been there
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before. I was with a lady for 10 years
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and we had two kids together and one day, because I was doing all
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the wrong things in that relationship, she packed up and
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moved out without me even expecting it.
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And at first, I did not know what to to do or where to begin
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to learn what it means to be a man, how to be a Goodman in a
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relationship, how to communicate with women.
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And I had to figure out that path for myself.
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But that's why I wrote the book Warrior Husband and why I put
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together the Reforged husband complete system.
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So if you want to level up your marriage or if you're trying to
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save your marriage, definitely check out those resources in
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those links. And the next question is, how do
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I know if my marriage is over? And this is a tough one.
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And what this one comes down to is you need to have that
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difficult conversation, the conversation that most men
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avoid. And it's totally understandable
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why you would be avoiding that conversation, but you need to
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have it. It's very important to have that
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conversation. And you need to have that
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conversation in a level headed, grounded, calm still.
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Safeway, you need to ask her, is this marriage over?
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Is this worth me fighting for? Do we have a chance?
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You know what I'm saying? Like that is a super important
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conversation to have. And most guys that I work with
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one-on-one have been avoiding that conversation.
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Like I said, they're scared to have it.
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They don't want that answer. They want to fix the marriage
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without even asking that question.
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And that's possible too. But when it comes to how do I
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know if my marriage is over, you need to have that difficult
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conversation. And here's what I believe.
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I believe that the marriage isn't over until you're living
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completely separate lives and maybe she's remarried and things
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like that. Like it's never really over.
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There's always a chance for a marriage because it's a lifelong
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commitment. You committed to spending the
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rest of your lives together. And you know, the old marriage
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vows in sickness and in health, whether I'm pissed off or not.
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I mean, that's not really one of the technical marriage vows, but
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you understand what I'm saying. Like, I don't believe that it's
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truly over. And I believe that you can still
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become the man that she desires again.
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And if you're scared of the marriage being over, if you're
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scared of losing her, you need to let go of fear and become
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secure in yourself, optimized in yourself, level up every aspect
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of your life, regardless of whatever the outcome is with the
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marriage. Like I said in the first
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question, shift the focus from fixing the marriage to fixing
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yourself because if you are driven by fear, nothing is going
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to workout in this situation. And the third question is, why
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does my wife treat me with so little respect?
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9 times out of 10, What this one comes down to is you haven't
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been acting like a man in the relationship.
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And that's probably been happening for a really long
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time. And there's this thing called
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polarity. If you've spent some time here
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on the Warrior Kings podcast, you've heard me talk about this
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before, but there are masculine energy and there are feminine
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energies. And we all possess both
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masculine and feminine traits. It's whatever one is, the
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dominant force in you, in the relationship, that's going to
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determine the polarity and the relationship.
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And the question is, are you acting in the masculine or have
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you been living your life in the masculine or have you been
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living your life in your relationship, in your marriage,
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in the feminine. And the masculine is grounded,
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still, safe, calm, secure, directional, ambitious, and the
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feminine is more emotions driven and intuitive.
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The feminine flows an in successful relationship,
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successful marriages. The man is in the masculine role
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and the female is in the feminine role.
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I know they're telling us all kinds of crazy stuff these days,
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but that's just a fact. It's just how it is.
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This goes back hundreds, thousands of years ago when you
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would have had to have been a strongman or your wife and your
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children, everybody you know and love would not have survived.
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You would have had to have been a strongman.
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And that's why women innately still desire to have a
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strongman, a man who is in his masculine energy.
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You would have had to have gone out hunting and fought off
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invaders to your village and things like that.
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In that innate Dr. that innate desire in women still exists.
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And if your wife has very little respect for you, chances are you
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have not been in your masculine energy in that relationship.
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You have not had strong direction, knowing where you're
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going. You have not been ambitious.
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You have not been building something great for your family.
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You have not held your standards in such a way that nothing can
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throw you off course, nothing can shut you down.
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Your standards are your standards.
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Because you're so secure in yourself, you are in your
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grounded masculine core. And so the question is, if she
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disrespects you, if she doesn't have very much respect for you,
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if she walks all over you, as they say, have you been showing
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up like a man? And to fix this, you need to
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restore the polarity in your marriage, in your relationship.
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You need to be in the masculine energy which allows her to relax
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into her feminine energy. Question 4.
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How do I communicate better with my wife?
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A woman's desire in communication and even in
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conflict is to feel safe, seen, heard and understood.
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And I gotta ask you, when was the last time that you actually
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listened to your wife? When she was speaking, no matter
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what she was speaking about. And if you've been married for a
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while, you've probably heard the phrase, you never listened to
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me. You've heard that phrase,
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haven't you? Yeah, we all have.
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I even hear that sometimes. You know, it's just like the
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natural way of men is we're not super good listeners.
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And this is a muscle that you have to train overtime.
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Train yourself to listen every time your wife is speaking, no
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matter what she's speaking about, no matter how mundane you
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think it is. Train yourself to listen to
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everything that she's saying. And this will level up not only
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the communication in your marriage, but every aspect of
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your marriage overall. There is super duper great power
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in listening to your wife. Trust me, this has been the
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foundation of my work for the past couple of years.
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The loudest man in the room is often the dumbest man in the
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room, and the quietest man in the room is often the most
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dangerous man in the room. Wise men listen and more than
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they speak, and that's why they're wise.
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And if you're speaking more than you are listening, or if you're
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just waiting for your turn to speak and tuning out other
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people, you will never be the wise man.
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So if you want to communicate better with your wife, don't
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consider communication speaking more or speaking in the right
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way. Consider better communication
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with your wife, shutting your mouth and actually listening to
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her for once. Question 5.
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Does money ruin marriages? And the answer to that is only
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if you let it. And I got to tell you something
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here, man. Over the last few years, I have
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really dove into learning about money, learning about finances,
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learning how money works. I've read so many books on this
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subject. My entire mindset around money
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has been completely shifted into an entirely new perspective.
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And I want to tell you today that it is massively critically
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important that you begin learning about money, studying
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money and finances, learning how this stuff works.
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We aren't taught this stuff when we're growing up.
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We aren't taught this stuff in high school.
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Hardly anyone's parents teach them the stuff I wasn't even
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taught about credit or the importance of a credit score
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when I was growing up. And when it comes to marriage
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problems that are money centered, financial stresses,
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things like that, what it comes down to is stop talking about it
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and just handle it. And this goes back to being in
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the masculine energy, being in the masculine role in the
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marriage. Stop talking about it all the
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time. Stop letting it be stressful and
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just get down to handling it. And if she's the one who's
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having to manage life for you, manage the finances, make all
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the appointments, all these things, like if she's managing
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your entire life, you are in trouble.
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Because what it really comes down to is she's not your mommy,
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she's your wife. And if money is a problem, make
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it less of a problem, especially in her perception, her
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perspective. Maybe she doesn't have to know
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every little detail of every little thing that's stressing
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you out financially. And then it's just this negative
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energy all the time. Stop talking about it so much
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and just handle it. And money isn't easy.
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I get that. I mean, recently I had a mindset
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shift where I realized that it actually is easy.
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But like before you Start learning about this stuff, it's
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not easy and I understand that, but it can be.
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And if you take charge, if you take the lead, if you figure it
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out, like I said at the beginning, does money ruin
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manages? Well, only if you let it.
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Money and finances are the number one source of conflict in
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marriages. Just imagine if you took that
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out of the equation and just got better at it, better about it,
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started handling it yourself. Take the lead in tackling that.
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How much less problems you would have.
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You understand what I'm saying? Questions 6 Should I combine
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finances with my wife or keep separate accounts?
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And this is a ridiculous question.
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All money in a marriage should be all one thing like you are
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one in the same husband and wife.
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If you have separate accounts it's like you're living 2
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separate lives. It is my belief that all money
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should be combined and accessible by both people in the
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marriage. It's ridiculous to me that
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people even ask this question and it's also so disgustingly
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modern. I guess you know what I'm
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saying? Like she has her job and I have
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my job, and we have separate accounts and we pay separate
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bills and we go half and half on.
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That's ridiculous. It's all one thing.
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It's a lifelong commitment. I'm going to keep that one
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short. Actually.
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That's a stupid question. Of course, all your money should
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be together and you shouldn't have separate accounts unless
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they're like separate business accounts or something.
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That's different. Question 7.
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How do I get out of debt and build wealth?
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Well, I'm glad you asked. One critically important thing
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that you need to understand here is the difference between assets
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versus liabilities. And most people spend their
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money on liabilities disguised as assets, and it keeps them
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stuck. An asset is something that
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generates money for you. It's bringing money in.
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And a liability is something that takes money away from you.
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It takes money out of your pocket.
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So for example, if you buy a house, you have a mortgage that
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you're going to have to pay every month.
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You have repairs, those repair costs.
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So while most people think that a house is an asset, it's
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actually a liability. Unless that house is putting
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money back into your pocket, most people will finance fancy
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things so that they can look fancier, they can look more
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wealthy or look rich. But those things that they're
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buying that they view as assets are not assets because they're
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taking money out of their pocket every single month and that's
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putting them further into debt. An asset is something that gives
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you money, not something that takes money away from you.
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So for example, this book right here, Warrior Husband, How to Be
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a Better Husband and Save Your Marriage, is one of my assets.
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This book is purchased by thousands of men every month and
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it puts money into my pocket every month.
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This book isn't taking any money away from.
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So this book is an asset. Back to the house example, if
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you buy a house and you rent that house out and somebody is
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paying you every single month for that house.
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Now that house is an asset. It's not a liability.
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And there's still liabilities that come with it.
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Like you still have to pay for repairs and things like that.
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But ultimately it's an asset because it's paying you.
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You understand what I'm saying? And most people, because it's
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the norm, they tell it. I mean, it's just normal.
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It's what everybody does. Most people finance everything
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just to keep up with the Joneses, just to keep up with
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the checklist of life. And that's why they're in debt.
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And the difference between your average person and a rich person
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is that a rich person doesn't get something until they have an
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asset that is going to cover the cost of that thing.
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So let's say that they want a super nice car.
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Like you see, they have like super cars and Rolls Royces and
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all these things. Well, they make sure that they
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have an asset that is generating money to pay for that car every
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month. They don't get the car and then
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say, oh, I hope from my income I have enough to pay this every
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month. And it's so annoying that I have
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a car bill that I have to pay every month.
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No, they have an asset like this book or something that is
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consistently generating money for them to cover the cost of
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that thing. And then it's not taking away
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from their income. And that's why recently I got a
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family car because we needed more seats.
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We had another baby and I bought that car outright.
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And I know that's not like something that all people can
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do. Like you can't just decide, oh,
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of course I'll just go buy a car outright.
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I had the opportunity to do that, praise God, but I did not
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want a car payment. I didn't want to have money
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taken out of my pocket every single month.
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I would rather own the thing outright.
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You understand what I'm saying? And why is all of this important
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when it comes to the question, how do I get out of debt and
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build wealth? Well, it's super important.
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If you want to build wealth, you need to know the difference
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between assets versus liabilities, and you need to
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have more assets. That's how you get out of debt
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and that's how you get rich. That's how you build wealth,
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generational wealth, even assets put money into your pocket every
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single month. And the more assets that you
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have that are generating money every month, the wealthier you
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will be. And when it comes to getting out
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of debt, knowing all of these things moving forward, you won't
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do dumb things like finance expensive things just to keep up
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with your friends and your peers, or spend money on
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liabilities disguised as assets just to look cool.
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You'll be a little bit smarter about how you go about things.
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You'll be smarter moving forward.
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And how do you get out of debt just a little bit at a time.
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It's just in chunks. As much as you can, just chip
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away at it. Start with the smallest thing
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and tackle the biggest thing later.
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Be constantly and consistently moving in that direction though.
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And full transparency here, I still have debts like before I
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knew all of this stuff, I made dumb decisions just like
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everybody else. And I'm still paying for those
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decisions today. And that's why it's so important
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to begin learning about money and finances as soon as you
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possibly can. Question 8.
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How do I balance building a business with being a good
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husband and father? And there are two concepts here
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that I want to talk about to answer this question that are
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from my favorite book of all time, The Way of This Superior
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Man by David Dita. And the first concept is that
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your family benefits more from a small window of your undivided
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attention than they do a large window of time where you're
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distracted and thinking about other things and wish you could
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be working on other things. And most guys think that if
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they're not giving all of their time to their children, if
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they're not giving all of their time to their wife, then they're
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doing something wrong. But really, those small windows
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that you get where your attention is solely focused on
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them because you've completed everything else that you needed
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to complete, those times are way more important than an entire
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day, an entire week of you distracted, worried about
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completing those things that you didn't complete.
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And your purpose must come first.
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And deep down, intuitively, you know that your purpose should
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come first. And so if you're trying to give
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too much time to other things, you're going to be distracted.
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You're going to be pulled away in your mind from your wife and
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your kids and things like that. So those small windows of time
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are way more impactful, way more meaningful, way more valuable to
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them than large windows of your divided attention.
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The second concept here is that your purpose must come before
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your relationship. And ultimately, your woman wants
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your purpose to come before your relationship, even if she says
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that she doesn't. And imagine if a soldier was
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going off to war. That's his purpose.
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That's his duty, his responsibility.
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He's being called to war. And as he's leaving, his wife is
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like, no, please don't go. Just stay.
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If he were to be like, OK, I'll stay.
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You're right. I'm just gonna stay here and
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skip war. How would that woman actually
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feel about his strength if he just said, no, my purpose can
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wait and I'm just gonna stay here with you?
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Doesn't that sound crazy? What's more romantic to a woman
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is when he says, I must go, I must go fight this war.
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You understand what I'm saying? Like the purpose must come
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before the relationship. So the question is, how do I
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balance building a business with being a good husband and father?
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What that comes down to is finding that balance.
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You need to find a balance. And the balance weighs heavier
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on the side of fulfilling your purpose, your duties and your
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responsibilities and then making time that is meaningful,
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impactful, special with your wife and your family as as well.
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And please, Please remember that concept that they benefit more
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from a small window of your undivided attention than they do
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a large window of you wishing you could be doing something
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else. Question 9.
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How do I start a business with no money?
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And I got to tell you, man, opportunity to do this is bigger
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than it has ever been before. But that window is slowly
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closing. Things are more accessible to
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everyone than any other time in history, especially when it
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comes to like online business and building a brand on.
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Online, there are so many resources, so many things that
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are just absolutely free that you can use to build a business
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from absolutely nothing aside from the traditional business
20:09
loan. You can build an empire
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basically out of $0.00 starting today.
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Trust me, it's just a matter of learning how to do that and
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researching how to do that. But why did I say that?
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That window, that opportunity is slowly closing?
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Actually, it's closing super fast.
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I don't know if I said slowly. That window is closing super
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duper fast and that's because of AI.
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And I'm sure you've heard people talking about this recently.
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People's jobs are going to be replaced with AI this and that.
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Well, I mean, AI is here. It's just a fact.
20:37
You can't escape that. And it's only going to be more
20:41
and more optimized as time goes. And that's why the opportunity
20:44
that, I mean, you can do anything you want right now,
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basically starting from $0.00, you can build anything you want
20:50
online, but eventually that's going to be harder than ever
20:54
before because of the development of AI.
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So my best advice to you, if you want to start a business from
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zero dollars is start studying online business as fast as you
21:03
possibly can. And then you need to build a
21:05
personal brand faster. And a personal brand is, for
21:09
example, I am Michael Riggs. I'm a personal brand.
21:12
Think of a personal brand as Elon Musk.
21:14
When you hear Elon Musk, you know who that is right away.
21:17
And then you think of cars and space programs and now AI.
21:21
Elon Musk is a personal brand. And you build a personal brand
21:24
by exposing yourself to the world, releasing content.
21:28
And why do I say build a personal faster?
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Well, because you can't be replaced by AI as a person.
21:34
Your individuality, who you are, your personal brand cannot be
21:38
replaced by AI. And that's going to be one of
21:40
the only things that can't be replaced by AI.
21:43
So how do you start a business from $0.00?
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Start studying online business as fast as possible and start
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building your personal brand faster than that.
21:52
And the 10th and final most asked question is how do I stop
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being stuck in survival mode and actually build the life I want?
22:00
Well, step into the man that you were called to be.
22:03
Become the man that you were called to be.
22:05
Level up every aspect of your life every single day.
22:08
Get a little bit better every single day.
22:11
Pursue greatness in your life. Find and discover the calling
22:14
and the purpose of your life. Why you're breathing.
22:17
Pursue that thing relentlessly. Build yourself, develop
22:20
yourself, mind, body and spirit and never cease doing that.
22:24
Focus on the vision and the mission and the dream life
22:27
becoming the best you that you possibly can be in this world.
22:31
To be the most effective that you can be in this world in
22:34
service to other people. Level up every aspect of your
22:37
life. This is the solution to all of
22:40
your problems becoming the best version of yourself that you can
22:44
be as the solution to all your marriage problems, your finance
22:47
problems, most of your health problems, basically all the
22:50
problems in your life are solved by you becoming the Super
22:53
awesome leveled up version of yourself, and you can start
22:57
doing that today. How do you get out of being
23:00
stuck in survival mode and actually build the life of your
23:03
dreams? Actually build the life of your
23:05
dreams. It's really that simple.
23:07
Get a piece of paper or a notebook or your journal, split
23:10
it into two columns, and write down all the things that you
23:13
want to be, trait by trait, accomplishment by
23:16
accomplishment, skill by skill. The dream version of yourself.
23:19
Who do you want to be? And in the second column, write
23:22
down all the steps that you need to begin doing right away to
23:25
become that person. And then get started.
23:28
People want instant fixes these days.
23:30
Everything is instant. Everything is fast, fast, fast.
23:32
Get used to the concept of the long game.
23:35
You might be playing the game for a while, but eventually you
23:38
will be there. There is no magical fix.
23:40
There is no magical go button. That's like bang dream life.
23:43
No, you have to build that thing.
23:44
How do you build the life of your dreams?
23:47
You build the life of your dreams.
23:49
You become the man that you were always meant to be, that you
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were called to be. Not one of us on this earth was
23:56
called to be mediocre, boring and lame.
23:58
We were all called to great. The only thing is we have a
24:01
choice whether to be great or whether or not to be great.
24:04
So choose greatness and that's what I got for you guys today.
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I hope you got something out of this episode.
24:09
I hope this episode inspired you in some way to level up your
24:12
marriage, level up your finances, level up your overall
24:16
life. If this episode did inspire you,
24:18
definitely let me know in the comments.
24:20
Hit the like button. Subscribe to this podcast,
24:22
subscribe to my channel because this is what we do here all the
24:25
time, man, and I love having you here.
24:26
Links to the Reforged Husband Complete System and Warrior Your
24:30
Husband books are in the description or on my linktree,
24:33
linktree.com/michael Riggs official.
24:35
So if you want to level up your marriage like never before,
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definitely check those out. I love you, I'm proud of you and
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there are great things in store for you in this life.
24:43
You listening to this right now. A life of overflowing abundance
24:46
away to you on the other side of you deciding to make the switch,
24:50
make the change and level up every aspect of your life.
24:53
Get out there, kill it. Have a good week and I'll catch
24:55
you on the next one. Thanks guys.
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Bye.