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What Does He Mean by S*X Positvity? · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  OK, so I got a question, so I'm going to show you in a second.
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  Let's talk about it. All right?
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  Because this has been coming up a lot.
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  I don't know where to put myself.
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  How about this? No, I'm just kidding.
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  All right, let's talk about it. All right, Gina, I wanted to get
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  your opinion on something that I've recently started seeing on
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  Bumble. I've noticed when people put
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  their interests, some men are putting sex positivity.
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  Can you shed a little light on that for me?
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  I'm not sure what that means. And basically, and this is in my
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  boxer, 'cause you know, my ladies are real time boxering me
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  questions. So this whole thing has been
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  coming up. So let's talk about it.
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  So I think this, I think that dating is so complicated that
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  even when it comes to the pronouns that people are have
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  the option of putting on their profiles these days, I see men
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  and women who don't know what to put and they put, they put she,
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  him, they and not meaning that they're transgender or fluid,
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  but they just don't understand. So there's a lot of new terms
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  and definitely sex positivity is one of those new terms that
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  people just don't know how to answer.
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  So I think ladies, here's what I need to do.
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  If you really like the guy, ask him what it means to him.
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  Because I think truly we want to think like, Oh my God, he's a
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  creeper. He's a pervert, he's into
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  swinging, he's into all kind. But I don't think it always
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  means that because men don't know what it means either.
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  But men like men, like sex. So they're gonna put sure of I'm
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  sex positive. I'm positive about sex, but it
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  doesn't mean they want to jump your bones right away.
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  And I'm the first one to admit that I think I've even probably
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  misinterpreted what they mean by it.
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  So the best way to not misinterpret what they mean by
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  it is to ask them if you're interested in them, if you like
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  them, just ask them. Say, hey, I noticed you put sex
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  positivity on your profile. Just curious, what does that
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  mean to you? And then that way you can also
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  kind of go on a fact finding mission because you'll find that
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  it does mean different things to different people for sure.
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  So never just automatically slap a label on somebody, all right?
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  Don't assume what they mean, ask them.
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  Communication is everything. There's a huge thing I work on
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  with my ladies in my 6 week program, the Dream Man
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  Accelerator program, that by the way, the price is going up on
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  Thursday. I can officially announce the
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  price is going up by $1000 this Thursday.
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  So if you want my help, if you want to work with me for six
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  weeks, where I take you under my wing and it's a mentorship
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  program and I'm leveling you up in every way, you should do it
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  in the next couple days because Thursday Bing, the price is
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  going up by $1000. So if you want to get my help,
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  DM me on IG. My link to IG is in the bio
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  above with the word love to get that info.
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  OK. And then keep an open mind and
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  just communicate clearly with the guys that you're talking to.
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  And if you're confused about something they have on their
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  profile, just ask. Hope it helps.