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Long Weekend Incoming... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: Oh boy, here we go after show podcast right before
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  Speaker 1: long weekend a Friday. Yes, I'm tired, but I'm here
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  Speaker 1: and I'm ready to deliver a fantastic podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know about that.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be a short one, but I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to stop in and say hi and have a great weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you enjoy it. Obviously, it's not happy Memorial
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  Speaker 1: Day because it is a day of remembering those who
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  Speaker 1: are lost. But it is a long weekend, which we like,
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  Speaker 1: an extra day to sleep in if you have a
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  Speaker 1: job that allows that, and you know, hopefully spend some
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  Speaker 1: time with your loved ones, family and i'd say cook out,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know. Monday, well, Saturday tomorrow will be okay.
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  Speaker 1: Sunday wash out. Monday will be okay, cloudy, but warmer attempts.
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  Speaker 1: I think around seventy are a little bit higher. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to it, looking forward to the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: My family and I I think we're can get a
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  Speaker 1: hotel room on Sunday Tomorrow, we'll just hang out. There's
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  Speaker 1: no baseball or anything. Maybe get a hotel room in
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  Speaker 1: Boston on Sunday to Monday. I mean it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be a washout. Maybe we'll go by the boat and
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  Speaker 1: see Uncle Bill because he is moving into the boat
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  Speaker 1: this weekend officially for the so my son is always
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  Speaker 1: asking to see Billy's boat, So maybe this will be
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  Speaker 1: the day we we'll go. But you know, it just
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  Speaker 1: sucks because we have a pool. It's not heated, but
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  Speaker 1: they want to swim and if it's you know, sixties,
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  Speaker 1: that's not some swimmable. It's got to be like seventy
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  Speaker 1: five or higher. So we might go to a hotel
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  Speaker 1: with the pool that they can swim in, so we'll
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  Speaker 1: see what happens there. But some stuff I want to
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  Speaker 1: get to on the podcast today. Well, I have some
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  Speaker 1: talkbacks here that I love playing for everybody. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for leaving them.
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  Speaker 2: I do appreciate that.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, justin, this is Amanda from the after show Army
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  Speaker 3: and Kiss Funaway. Longtime listener, you played my morning show
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  Speaker 3: talk back today. You made my day. It was the
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  Speaker 3: smack it up, flip it and rub it down. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you guys are awesome.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, No, you are awesome. Thank you for listening.
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  Speaker 1: I do remember that was earlier this week. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: can't get to all the talkbacks. I listened to them all,
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  Speaker 1: but I can't get to playing them all. It just
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  Speaker 1: depends on the day. You know, someone like the mayor
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  Speaker 1: of the South End who we love, he leaves one
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  Speaker 1: every single morning, which we appreciate it because he always delivers.
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  Speaker 2: I just can't always get to the to the talkbacks.
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  Speaker 1: And remember I may if it's a talkback that's that's
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  Speaker 1: current and topical, Obviously I can't play that another time.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's not always the case because sometimes I can't
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  Speaker 1: if it comes back up, but general ones I can play.
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  Speaker 1: So like today Friday, I played some talkbacks that were
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  Speaker 1: left on Monday and Tuesday that I was just sitting on.
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  Speaker 1: I'm always sitting on talkbacks. I'm always looking at them
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  Speaker 1: on my screen and just kind of finding out where
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  Speaker 1: places to insert them into the show.
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  Speaker 2: So keep them coming. I love it.
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  Speaker 4: Justin is Mo, that story about John and Lindsay is unbelievable.
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  Speaker 4: It literally took my breath away. It's unbelievable. Wow, talk
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  Speaker 4: about the universe talking to you. It's incredible. In terms
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  Speaker 4: of your fitness journey, I think that that's fantastic to
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  Speaker 4: mix it up. I live weights, but I also do
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  Speaker 4: pilates as well, I love it. I think it's just
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  Speaker 4: so good to mix it up for your brain too,
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  Speaker 4: make your brain work a different way. So keep up
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  Speaker 4: the good work, my friend.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Mo.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I shared that story about my friend John on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast yesterday. They actually posted it on the Kiss
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  Speaker 1: Instagram there that was who that was? That was quite
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  Speaker 1: the quite the moment. But I've had several of those
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  Speaker 1: moments in my especially in my recovery.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Some of those I call them God moments, things that
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  Speaker 1: happen where you know, you're like, what is this?
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  Speaker 2: Is this the universe? Why is this happening?
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like everything happens for a reason, and
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  Speaker 1: I think that, you know, believing in something bigger than
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  Speaker 1: yourself definitely has value in life, you know, because if
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  Speaker 1: you believe in something bigger than you, then you're not
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  Speaker 1: the biggest one. Take that and ingest it. But as
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  Speaker 1: far as working out goes, yeah, I've been taking a break.
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  Speaker 1: I did jog yesterday. I did I ran three miles
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  Speaker 1: while my son had boxing. So we've been going to
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  Speaker 1: this gym called LFG Fitness. It is in Salem, New Hampshire.
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  Speaker 1: It's actually owned by a kid that I went to
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  Speaker 1: high school with how crazy is that. He's such a
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  Speaker 1: good dude. His name is Chris. He owns the gym,
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  Speaker 1: and my son has been asking me to sign him up.
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  Speaker 2: So I did. He's on his third week.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a little bit of a struggle because the
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  Speaker 1: first week he was super into it.
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  Speaker 2: It was brand new.
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  Speaker 1: They have strength and conditioning days and they have boxing days,
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  Speaker 1: and so the first week he was all in. But
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  Speaker 1: that by the second week, you know, ah, Dad, I
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  Speaker 1: just want to do the boxing. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: do the strength and conditioning. And then this past week,
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  Speaker 1: I think on Tuesday, he comes home and he's like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to go to boxing, and it's hard
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  Speaker 1: for me because it's not the money, right, although I
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  Speaker 1: may use that to him and be like, dude, I
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  Speaker 1: did spend this money. And we had a conversation about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, commitment. And when we had the conversation, I said,
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  Speaker 1: try it out, try two classes for free. If you
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  Speaker 1: like it, I will sign you up, but you have
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  Speaker 1: to commit to two days. I would prefer a strength
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  Speaker 1: and conditioning day in a boxing day, but you know what,
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  Speaker 1: if you just want to do the two boxing days,
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay with that.
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  Speaker 2: Because he does work out at home. We have weights.
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  Speaker 1: He said, okay, So right away he starts with his
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  Speaker 1: bullshit and I get annoyed. It's a big thing with
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  Speaker 1: my wife because I get mad, and I have to
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  Speaker 1: understand that he's a kid and this is going to
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  Speaker 1: take time to build a commitment, you know, to really
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  Speaker 1: get that discipline. He's not going to get it right away.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that I need to continue to push
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  Speaker 1: him to do it. But also I need to understand
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  Speaker 1: that going into summer, and you know, he should be
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  Speaker 1: outside with his friends having fun. So I may be
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more lenient on that. Maybe at least
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  Speaker 1: he goes one day a week. I won't tell him that,
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  Speaker 1: but I prefer two.
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  Speaker 2: Days a week. But we went yesterday. It was great.
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  Speaker 1: I mean when he's in there, he's locked in. He
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  Speaker 1: doesn't even come up to me. And the cool thing
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  Speaker 1: about the Jim Chris told me is I can work
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  Speaker 1: out at the gym for free while he does the class.
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  Speaker 1: So I've been going and running on the treadmill or
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  Speaker 1: doing a little weightlifting. When I was lifting, my son
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  Speaker 1: worked out and he really wants to do privates with
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  Speaker 1: Chris because I think that's going to be really the
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  Speaker 1: value because obviously the classes are great, but there's multiple
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  Speaker 1: kids there and they have multiple trainers that are kind
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  Speaker 1: of going around. But the as he gets more serious,
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  Speaker 1: the one on one will be great too. So I
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  Speaker 1: talked to Chris about it. I'm gonna stop booking some
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  Speaker 1: privates and uh yeah, I told him, if he shows
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  Speaker 1: me that he can commit and he can go two
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  Speaker 1: days a week, at least two days a week for
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  Speaker 1: say a month, then I will start booking some privates
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  Speaker 1: because that's more money than I have to spend. But
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  Speaker 1: he has to show me that he's committed to it
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  Speaker 1: and that he wants to do it, and if he does,
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  Speaker 1: then I'll do the privates. But it's cool because you know,
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  Speaker 1: I talked to Chris, and here's the thing about parenting,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm sure you're if you're a parent, you can
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  Speaker 1: identify with this. And it was the same with my parents,
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  Speaker 1: right my parents could tell me to do something, I
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  Speaker 1: would not listen, but then somebody else outside the family
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  Speaker 1: would tell me the same thing and I would listen.
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  Speaker 1: It's the same with my my son. I would speak
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  Speaker 1: till him blue in the face about anything he doesn't listen.
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  Speaker 1: If someone else tells him, he's all ears, it's actually insane.
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  Speaker 1: So he got into a little you know scuffle at
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  Speaker 1: school where you know, having another kid kind of put
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  Speaker 1: their hands on each other. It wasn't a full fight.
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  Speaker 1: They were kind of wrestling. It was half serious, and
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  Speaker 1: he put the kid in like an ombar type thing.
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  Speaker 1: And he's only nine years old, so he doesn't understand
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  Speaker 1: that he's learning boxing to learn how not to fight
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  Speaker 1: on the street, to learn that discipline. In his mind,
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  Speaker 1: he's thinking, I'm learning boxing to kick some ass. So
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  Speaker 1: I had a conversation with Chris and I said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: can you talk to him if you get a chance
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  Speaker 1: and just explain it to him.
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  Speaker 2: So he did yesterday. He took him one.
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  Speaker 1: He's great with kids one on one and kind of
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  Speaker 1: you know, talk to him about we don't do that
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  Speaker 1: and the reason why we don't do that, and about
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  Speaker 1: the discipline of boxing and why he's doing it. So
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  Speaker 1: I do appreciate that. Shout out to Chris over there, LFG.
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  Speaker 1: It's a great, great spot. But back to the working
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  Speaker 1: out thing. Yes, I ran yesterday and I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: do Matt Pilate's tomorrow morning. Jenna, she's actually doing. I
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  Speaker 1: think I mentioned this a pilates class and then a
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  Speaker 1: stretch class. So I'll do the pilates, then I'll do
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  Speaker 1: the stretch, and then I'll take Sunday off, Monday off,
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  Speaker 1: maybe return to light light stuff next week. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: enjoying the time off and letting my body rest. But
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  Speaker 1: I do need that outlet. So I felt so good
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  Speaker 1: running yesterday. I did three miles and I felt like fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know it'll be okay man. And I
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  Speaker 1: also have that fear of losing the work that I've
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  Speaker 1: done on my body. You know, you have that fear
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  Speaker 1: of losing the muscle that you've built, which I don't
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  Speaker 1: think that will happen if I take, you know, a
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  Speaker 1: couple of weeks off, I don't think so, and then
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  Speaker 1: kind of ease back into it.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I just think the high Rocks training was just too
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  Speaker 1: much for me. That's all, okay, So long weekend, have
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  Speaker 1: a great weekend, enjoy it. I know the weather's not
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  Speaker 1: going to be ideal, but we'll be back on Tuesday. Now, Tuesday,
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  Speaker 1: Power of Recovery.
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  Speaker 2: Maddie and Damon.
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  Speaker 1: They did not come in last month because they did
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  Speaker 1: Billy's Food Show instead. I wasn't gonna make them come
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  Speaker 1: in twice in one week, so we skipped last month.
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  Speaker 2: So they're coming in Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna catch up with those guys, talk about what
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  Speaker 1: they're up to, all things recovery, which you know me,
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  Speaker 1: I love that really has like a close place in
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  Speaker 1: my heart as a person in recovery. So I am
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  Speaker 1: tasking all of you if you have any questions for them.
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  Speaker 1: They love that, they love to come in, they love
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  Speaker 1: to hear people's voices, they love to take questions because
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  Speaker 1: think about it, they work with us on kiss Onunah. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: they actually pay for the advertising to get the message out.
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  Speaker 1: And really it's because of me, because obviously I have
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with them, so it makes sense as somebody
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  Speaker 1: who's on the radio who advocates for recovery, it was
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  Speaker 1: like a natural partnership. But I think they they really
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  Speaker 1: like they love helping people, but they like hearing from
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  Speaker 1: people who hear them on the radio. You know, That's
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  Speaker 1: something that's really cool, and that's they want to hear
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  Speaker 1: that people are hearing the message, They're hearing the commercials
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  Speaker 1: and hearing that help is out there and they really
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  Speaker 1: are just doing amazing things. I love those guys so much,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because obviously that their business is recovery, and
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  Speaker 1: it's a business right they have, it's a company, he
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  Speaker 1: has many employees, that's what they do for a living.
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  Speaker 1: But they do it by helping people. And I always
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  Speaker 1: say one of the best things about Maddie and Damon,
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  Speaker 1: even if they can't offer you the help, they will
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  Speaker 1: direct you in the right place to get you the
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  Speaker 1: help they need. It's not like one of those things
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  Speaker 1: what you call and you know they don't have a
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  Speaker 1: bed or they don't have what you're looking for, and
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  Speaker 1: they're like, sorry, call someone else. They're like, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: we have somebody to find what you need and get
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  Speaker 1: you placed. That's something that I just love about what
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  Speaker 1: they're doing. So send you talkbacks in if you are
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  Speaker 1: in recovery, if you are struggling, even if you have
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  Speaker 1: any questions about what they offer, or if you just
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  Speaker 1: want to say, hey, Maddie, fuck you. Send a talk
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  Speaker 1: back in and we will return on Tuesday.
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  Speaker 2: Bye.