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You've Got Decisions: Update: A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome · Decisions, Decisions

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  Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
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  Speaker 1: a terrible throuple.
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  Speaker 2: Guess what? You've got decisions. You've got decisions.
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  Speaker 3: And I do too.
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  Speaker 4: Now y'all, this week we have updates. Now, if you
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  Speaker 2: Now, if you have a dilemma that you have not
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  Speaker 2: Now, we're going to go From back to most recent.
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  Speaker 4: So we're first going to start off with an update
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  Speaker 4: from our episode, A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome,
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  Speaker 4: that aired on June 3rd. So if you go back
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  Speaker 4: to June 3rd, you will hear the fear or lack thereof.
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  Speaker 3: I like this girl that had the boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, I didn't pull up the letter, but
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  Speaker 4: if you want to go listen to it, June 3rd
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  Speaker 4: was the release. And let's get into her update, because
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  Speaker 4: this may give us some idea of a little bit
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  Speaker 4: more of her dilemma. Now, it is a little bit long,
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  Speaker 4: but let's get to it. So, I fear Mandy was right.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, hello.
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  Speaker 4: Doing it to a friend was way easier than finding
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  Speaker 4: someone random. Also, Weezy, you were absolutely right that trying
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  Speaker 4: to DM girls was not the way to go about
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  Speaker 4: things for a third. So she didn't know how to
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  Speaker 4: have a threesome. Y'all know I'm always going to say
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  Speaker 4: just do it with a friend. There's dating apps. There's
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  Speaker 4: all these different ways to go about it. But it
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  Speaker 4: looks like she had it. And let's see how she
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  Speaker 4: did it. So let me tell y'all how it happened.
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  Speaker 4: I have a friend.
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  Speaker 2: Group of 10 girls.
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  Speaker 4: One of my girlfriends likes girls and her and I
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  Speaker 4: have been close for about three years now.
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  Speaker 2: She's just my yapping buddy, but nothing more. We were
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  Speaker 2: talking about who would most likely.
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  Speaker 4: Do a threesome in our group and there were two
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  Speaker 4: girls in mind. I'll call girl number one server and
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  Speaker 4: girl number two model.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Lord.
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  Speaker 4: My man also agreed that we thought those two girls
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  Speaker 4: would most likely be down for a threesome in the group.
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  Speaker 3: Now, what that mean? They was hoes? They got a
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  Speaker 3: hoe look?
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  Speaker 4: Or maybe they're just the ones that are bisexual or
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  Speaker 4: have stories with girls.
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  Speaker 2: Like, maybe they're two girls that's actually been with girls.
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  Speaker 4: Like, I wouldn't just necessarily think a hoe is someone
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  Speaker 4: for a threesome.
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  Speaker 2: I have mad hoe friends, and them bitches ain't even
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  Speaker 2: being asked to join. They're just not.
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  Speaker 3: You know, but being down for a threesome is one.
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  Speaker 4: No. Bitches that don't like bitches don't really be down
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  Speaker 4: for threesomes. It's like, I need to know you done
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  Speaker 4: played around a little bit. Or you done actually had
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  Speaker 4: a threesome and enjoyed it before.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So, we all normally hang out as a group. But yesterday,
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  Speaker 4: me and Miss Model were talking about how we're so
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  Speaker 4: tired and.
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  Speaker 2: Just want a chill night.
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  Speaker 4: She suggested me, her, and my man should watch a movie,
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  Speaker 4: take edibles, and drink wine.
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  Speaker 2: And that's exactly what we did. My man has.
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  Speaker 4: Been telling me this whole time, she's setting this up.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm over here like a dumbass. No, she just
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  Speaker 4: wants to chill and have a cutesy night together. B.S.,
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  Speaker 4: she was trying to get both of our pants. And listen,
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  Speaker 4: I loved it.
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  Speaker 2: We put on a movie. And it was such a
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  Speaker 2: bad movie, but good script.
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  Speaker 4: So we were all just joking around and laughing with
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  Speaker 4: the acting, which was great because we were all so comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: That's good because you're not like having to concentrate. Like
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  Speaker 1: you can't throw on Odyssey for the threesome, you know?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 4: Obviously, edibles and wine started kicking in and she's like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: come here.
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  Speaker 2: And I came over to her and she goes, I'm
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  Speaker 2: so horny. And I'm like, OMG. That just made me
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  Speaker 2: nervous in an excited way.
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  Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm horny too. Then we started cuddling.
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  Speaker 4: What I should have done was kissed her and got
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  Speaker 4: it started. But of course, I was too shy. I
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  Speaker 4: need to learn how to get out of my head.
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  Speaker 2: Like, girl, please.
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  Speaker 4: So me and my man have been texting all throughout
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  Speaker 4: the night. And I text him that she just told
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  Speaker 4: me about being horny. He was on the other end
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  Speaker 4: of the couch and she was in the middle and
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  Speaker 4: I was on the other side. We did that so
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  Speaker 4: she didn't feel awkward and it was a good setup.
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  Speaker 4: But my boyfriend came over and sat next to me
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  Speaker 4: once I sent him the text where she told me
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  Speaker 4: she was horny. They both started cuddling with me. Then
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  Speaker 4: my boyfriend initiated and next thing you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, clothes were off. And we had our second threesome
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  Speaker 2: after two years finally.
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  Speaker 3: Yay!
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  Speaker 2: Me and her.
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  Speaker 4: Debriefed in the morning when my boyfriend left, and she
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  Speaker 4: said she wanted this to be a normal thing and
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  Speaker 4: down for it all. She asked me what my boundaries
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  Speaker 4: were and just had the best girl talk ever with me.
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  Speaker 4: This is exactly what we've been wanting. I'm so happy now,
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  Speaker 4: and it ended up being amazing. Honestly, even better than
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  Speaker 4: our first one. And our first one was great. She
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  Speaker 4: even said during our season... My man is an athlete,
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  Speaker 4: if y'all remember. She would fly up and see us
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  Speaker 4: every month.
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  Speaker 2: To hang and do things.
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  Speaker 4: But anyway, in conclusion, for me, personally, finding a friend
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  Speaker 4: was 100% the better option, even though the thought of
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  Speaker 4: doing it with a friend scared me. It also made
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  Speaker 4: chemistry in the bedroom so much better. Side note, she
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  Speaker 4: had told me the last five months She was hinting
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  Speaker 4: or trying to figure out if me and my man
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  Speaker 4: would be down for one. And it all made sense
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  Speaker 4: with the little hints that she was throwing.
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  Speaker 2: I've learned that I need to speak up.
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  Speaker 4: We could have been had this happening.
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  Speaker 3: Not I need to speak up with what I want.
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  Speaker 4: Anyways, thank y'all for the advice. Finally found our perfect
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  Speaker 4: third to get freaky with.
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  Speaker 2: Mandy.
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  Speaker 4: Any tips with doing it with friends, any boundaries you have,
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  Speaker 4: anything I shouldn't or should get comfortable with, anything I
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  Speaker 4: should keep in mind. Also, Wheezy, any tips in any
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  Speaker 4: aspect of threesomes overall? Just a 25-year-old navigating my sexual side. Now,
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  Speaker 4: I will say tips on having your friend involved. If
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  Speaker 4: she's been hinting at a threesome with you and your
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  Speaker 4: man this whole time, I would keep him and her
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  Speaker 4: from having conversations. I think she only needs to join
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  Speaker 4: in on the threesome when you set it up and
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  Speaker 4: I would limit her interactions with him and also just
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  Speaker 4: let him know because you value this friendship that also
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  Speaker 4: doesn't seem very close that.
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  Speaker 2: You would prefer him not to have interactions with her.
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  Speaker 4: This is just to keep it from them two forming
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  Speaker 4: their own relationship because it doesn't seem like you want
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  Speaker 4: to open this. It seems like you genuinely just want
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  Speaker 4: to have.
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  Speaker 2: Your friend join you in sporadic threesome.
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  Speaker 4: So for me, it's definitely limiting their personal relationship with
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  Speaker 4: each other. And yeah, of course, condoms, condoms, condoms. Because
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  Speaker 4: maybe there's some celebrities, I don't know if y'all know,
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  Speaker 4: that brought people into the bedroom. And the third ended
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  Speaker 4: up getting pregnant. So I would have conversations about getting pregnant.
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  Speaker 3: Which one is that?
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  Speaker 4: Apparently, allegedly, Chris Brown and his first daughter. Nia was
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  Speaker 4: coming into threesomes with Carucci and him.
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  Speaker 2: And she ended up getting pregnant. That is allegedly the rumor.
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  Speaker 4: So I would just say, make sure that condoms are
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  Speaker 4: being used with her. I would always recommend that tests
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  Speaker 4: are still being done with the three of you.
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  Speaker 2: And my only tip would be limiting their interaction.
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  Speaker 4: So not even allowing them to exchange numbers if they
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  Speaker 4: haven't already. And just constantly reiterating with your man that,
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  Speaker 4: you know, that's your friend. That's not his friend.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I've got a hot take on the number thing.
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  Speaker 1: I am okay with exchanging numbers as long as the
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  Speaker 1: boundaries are set first. So for me, I've actually found
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  Speaker 1: it exciting for us to all three chat.
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  Speaker 3: And I enjoy it. Especially with friendship.
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  Speaker 1: I'm wondering how that can go for the three of you.
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  Speaker 1: But most of my friends have my man's number. So
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  Speaker 1: that one's like already a dub.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: But.
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  Speaker 3: I think that it's really, really.
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  Speaker 1: Important to one, start with him and letting him know
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  Speaker 1: how you would like to be treated in this process
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  Speaker 1: and how it feels for you because this is your
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  Speaker 1: friend coming in and your hard nose. Like, yo, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want y'all DMing each other memes. I'll talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: And then we listen and we judge later from a friend.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want y'all, you know, talking on the side.
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  Speaker 1: It makes me feel uncomfortable. Like my friend and you
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  Speaker 1: were talking about me, even if it's chill.
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  Speaker 3: And then I would set it with her.
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  Speaker 1: If you ever decide or group chat comes up, if
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  Speaker 1: it ever happens, because granted, like Mandy said, you don't
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  Speaker 1: have to do that.
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  Speaker 3: But if it happens, letting her know your expectations as well.
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  Speaker 1: I think my only mistakes and threesomes, and it hasn't
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  Speaker 1: happened with this particular partner, but it's happened with my
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  Speaker 1: ex where we've jumped into a group chat and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: why did I do this? And then I regret it
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  Speaker 1: and it gets awkward because I feel like I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to control everything or I sound controlling.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I.
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  Speaker 2: Think it can be okay. Especially if you.
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  Speaker 3: Got to think, if it's really her homegirl to be around.
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  Speaker 2: It's not. She said, it's my friend and we just
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  Speaker 2: be yapping.
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  Speaker 4: So she didn't make it seem like this friend was
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  Speaker 4: a close best friend.
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  Speaker 2: And if you didn't notice that she was throwing hints at.
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  Speaker 4: You for five months, it makes me feel like the
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  Speaker 4: hints weren't to fuck you. The hints were to fuck
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  Speaker 4: you and your man. So I just feel like, why
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  Speaker 4: did she want to fuck you and your man so bad?
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  Speaker 2: So much so to where she, she's the one who suggested, let's,
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  Speaker 2: let's all.
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  Speaker 3: She said it. She's a ball player.
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  Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. So for me, If I
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  Speaker 2: had advice around this.
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  Speaker 4: And because I didn't have friends around my ballplayer niggas,
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  Speaker 4: and there was a play to be had, I definitely.
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  Speaker 2: Would just make sure that their interactions are limited.
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  Speaker 3: That's fair.
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  Speaker 4: Especially if you can see the aspect.
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  Speaker 1: I want to tell you about an instance one of
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  Speaker 1: my friends had, and I wonder what you think about this.
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  Speaker 3: So her and her man had a threesome. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we could say it was like February-ish. And her
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  Speaker 1: and I had this conversation this summer. So her man's phone.
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  Speaker 3: Is in her hands.
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  Speaker 1: And she sees the woman's name, her TikTok name, sent
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  Speaker 1: a message.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Mind you, I'm not a TikTok-y person. My friends are
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  Speaker 1: in their 40s, so I'm like, are they TikTok-y niggas?
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  Speaker 1: I be thinking of TikTok as young shit, but I
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  Speaker 1: know it's not. So she called me. She's like, Gila,
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  Speaker 1: I'm bugging the fuck out.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, all right, calm down.
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  Speaker 1: One, do you want to ask him? Or do you
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  Speaker 1: plan on looking through his phone? Because, bitch, we not
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  Speaker 1: about to play this game where you'll never find out.
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  Speaker 3: So which one?
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  Speaker 2: What was the message, though? You just saw a message.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, wait, wait. This is all we know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. All we know is that she messaged him.
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  Speaker 3: All that we know is she saw. There's a message.
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  Speaker 2: There's a message. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So she's like, I don't want to say anything. I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to say anything. I don't want to ask.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, why, bro? It's so simple to just
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  Speaker 1: say what? And she's like, yeah, but he could lie
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  Speaker 1: to me. I'm like, well, if you think he's going
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  Speaker 1: to lie to you, babe, we got a deeper issue.
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  Speaker 1: So she goes to the phone.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't have suggested that route, but okay.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't suggest it. I just was like... No, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Because I knew one of them was going to happen.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, are you going to ask this nigga or
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  Speaker 1: are you going to go through the phone? Because you
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  Speaker 1: don't trust this bitch of your meme.
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  Speaker 2: But you clearly don't trust your nigga if you think
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  Speaker 2: he's going to lie. So.
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  Speaker 3: So here's what was sent. Bitch.
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  Speaker 1: A meme. The woman had sent two or three memes
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  Speaker 1: over the last... few months.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, what were the memes?
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  Speaker 1: Basic shit. They're all from, um, someplace in the Bay.
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  Speaker 1: So she sent like Bay area shit.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I say to my homegirl on the phone, and
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  Speaker 1: I guess he laughed or sent the crying face at
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  Speaker 1: the memes. So I said to my homegirl on the phone, like, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: this is the best thing that could ever happen.
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  Speaker 3: This is great. She goes, no, it's not because I
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  Speaker 3: send this nigga memes on Tik TOK. Every day. And
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  Speaker 3: he's never engaged with them. But he replied to her.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I know you're mad, but I think
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  Speaker 1: this is the best case scenario that could happen. And
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  Speaker 1: she's like, bro, the bitch is trying to talk to
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  Speaker 1: my nigga subliminally. Because she ain't never sent me the memes.
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  Speaker 1: And we all from the motherfucking Bay. So what the
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  Speaker 1: fuck going on? So she, mind you, her nigga don't know.
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  Speaker 1: She went through his phone. They've been together, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: like five years. So she go, do you be seeing
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  Speaker 1: the shit I be sending you on TikTok? I feel
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  Speaker 1: like you never get to see it.
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  Speaker 3: And he was like, oh, I don't be on there.
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  Speaker 3: So now she even more mad.
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  Speaker 2: Feel me.
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  Speaker 3: And she's like, you don't be on TikTok? He's like,
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  Speaker 3: I ain't click on that. I been weeks. What you
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: be sending me? I see what you send me on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: So now she like, now he lied to me.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch.
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  Speaker 3: He got me fucked up. He's sending his, these bitches
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  Speaker 3: sending memes at TikTok.
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  Speaker 4: He just like responded with an emotion that he didn't
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  Speaker 4: respond with words, right?
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  Speaker 3: I think he responded with a crying face. So it's
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  Speaker 3: like a double, like, so wait, right.
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  Speaker 1: So basically, I thought this was super basic. And she
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  Speaker 1: was like, bro, it's really not. Because my man don't
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  Speaker 1: reply to me on TikTok, told me he don't be
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: on that motherfucker, but you just sent the crying emoji
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  Speaker 1: to that bitch last week.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: She's like, so now in her.
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  Speaker 1: Head, and this is what I mean by like, holy shit,
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: chatting separately can mean so many things.
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  Speaker 3: This would not bother me. Genuinely, it wouldn't.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I would make a comment like, damn nigga, y'all
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  Speaker 1: never see mine, but I wouldn't lose sleep over it.
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  Speaker 3: Now she's like, yo, he would fuck her if I
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  Speaker 3: wasn't there.
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  Speaker 1: He's using this as an opportunity to kiki with the bitch.
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  Speaker 3: They would fuck if I wasn't around. All over this meme.
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  Speaker 2: But it's not only just the meme.
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  Speaker 4: She doesn't think he wants to fuck her if she
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  Speaker 4: didn't invite her into the bedroom with him. So to me,
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  Speaker 4: you should not be having threesomes with a nigga that
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  Speaker 4: you think is a liar, that you do not trust.
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  Speaker 2: I agree.
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  Speaker 4: And when you are someone who catastrophizes events in your mind,
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  Speaker 4: you shouldn't even be bringing people into the bedroom if
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  Speaker 4: you are this type of person.
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  Speaker 3: But here's the other thing.
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  Speaker 1: Because you enjoy friends. The girl said you were right.
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  Speaker 3: Friends work.
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  Speaker 1: I literally said to my homegirl, this is happening because
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  Speaker 1: it was a friend, in my opinion.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but they also all live in the same city too, right?
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  Speaker 4: Like for me, the friends that I brought into the
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  Speaker 4: bedroom with me.
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  Speaker 3: You feel like long distance is safer?
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  Speaker 2: None of them ever lived in New York. They were
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: all visiting.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if that would matter. I think a
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  Speaker 3: boundary is a boundary. Like, if one of your homegirls
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  Speaker 3: lived in New York.
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  Speaker 2: That was my boundary. I wasn't trying to bring bitches
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  Speaker 2: into the bed that lived in New York.
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  Speaker 3: That you could run into.
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  Speaker 4: Not even that I could run into. I don't want
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: proximity of my man, like, to have anything. Like, so
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: if the girls I bring into the bedroom all live
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: in California.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: And we were in New York, like, nigga, I ain't even.
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: If y'all text or not, bitch, my nigga not going
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: to LA and y'all bitches rarely come to New York.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Like I'm not, it doesn't even cross my mind. I
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: don't have to.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: Now, if a bitch lived in New York, y'all could
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: link up and I would like, I just, I don't
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: want to link with bitches that are even in my city.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Like even girls.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: I understand that. You know what I mean?
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: For me, it's not really the same because when we
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: do things together.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Like, It's generally... But you date bitches.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I just fuck bitches with my nigga. We don't go
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: on dates.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: I date them if we like them.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: We don't like girls together. He be trying to get
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: me to like.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: No, I'm saying I don't have many scenarios of dating
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: with this current partner.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: No, so what I'm saying, though, is any threesome, when
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: the threesome's.
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: Over, we don't really revisit it often. hmm like with
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: any of my partners I have not revisited threesomes with
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: them like even my my boyfriend number two we never
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: ran back we just who the next one.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Like we've never ran one back like I don't I
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: don't build.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Relationships from threesomes with anybody with my partner like it's
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: just something fun to.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Do do you think it's because you're in a lifestyle
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: and it's easier if you do it in a club.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: No no no I'm saying boyfriend number two has never
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: been to a club with And we've had a lot
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: of threesome.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Bitch, we picked them up from MCK.
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's what it was.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we picked up bitches from MCK.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: I think it'll be fun to experience Hedo together.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Because one, the trip is already the sexy part. And
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: then you get to go in the bed together at
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: the end of the night and talk about it.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: That's going to be fun.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: But even when me and my ex had threesomes in
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: the sex club.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Even when he.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: Enjoyed it, he'd be like, you want to get her number?
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Because it was always me who had to get the number.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: And I'd be like, not really.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: So we just, if we ran into them again at
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: the sex club, maybe we.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Would run it back.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: I don't even know if we're doing that.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: But like, if I fuck in the sex club, we
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: never took women out of the sex club.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, like, I like to run a motherfucker
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: back because I like a bitch to just come over.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't like the effort. I like to, be, like,
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: in a comfy space.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: And I like to have, I don't know, sometimes going
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: outside for the date and for the drinks. That whole
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: part is fun. But I do enjoy, like, having more
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: intimate time.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: Maybe because I'm gay.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm not that gay. Like, me and
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: boyfriend number two, all of our threesomes have come from
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: Us being at the club, him either picking a bitch
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: he already knew or me being next to a girl
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: and being like, you come home with us. And they've
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: come every time.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Well, unfortunately for you, shy girl, that's what it takes.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Well, no, shy girl kept her friend. So I'm glad
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: that she found a friend to do it with.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: No, it sounds like you did a great job. And
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: also when you asked for tips, take those into account,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: check your comfortability with Phone number updates. And even if
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: she follows him, you know, just because you never know.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Some of you may be listening to this thinking my
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: friend was absolutely right. And some of you might be like,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: that hoe was tripping.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: So I think it's so many conversations and it's so
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: nuanced on what threesomes and boundaries are that you don't
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: really know until you get there. Let us not forget.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I didn't know during the threesome I had with a
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: bitch that nigga took her foot. Bitch, we was at
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: my birthday party and she was like, oh my God,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I listened to that episode and I thought it was
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: so funny.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you thought it was funny?
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: She was like.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: I can't believe I didn't know. I thought you just
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: saw that.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, see, even that. We do, we do, I do
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: the aftercare in the morning. You good? We good? Okay.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Bye. Nah, I'm insane. But I didn't know about the foot, bitch,
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: until we ran it back. And she was like, oh,
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: you know what was so sexy? When you.
• 21:33
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• 21:56
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• 21:58
  Speaker 3: Bye.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Bye, you guys.