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Has A Relationship Ended Without Notice? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic times.
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  Speaker 2: The phone.
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  Speaker 3: Called eight hundred and five five five one to join
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  Speaker 3: into the discussion with the Breakfast Club talk about it.
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  Speaker 3: Warning everybody, it's DJ env Charlamagne the guy.
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  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, we got our guest co
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  Speaker 3: host Lauren LaRosa, formerly of TMZ. We found out today.
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  Speaker 3: If you didn't know the story, we'll get back into
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  Speaker 3: that story later on. There'd be in one of those
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  Speaker 3: room reports.
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  Speaker 1: But we're talking about Tiffany had Its.
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  Speaker 3: Tiffany had It sat down with the Washington Post and
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  Speaker 3: she was talking about her relationship with Common. She said,
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  Speaker 3: it was healthy, it was funny, it was probably one
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  Speaker 3: of the funniest relationships she's been in. It was safe,
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  Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, it just didn't work.
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  Speaker 3: And it's not because of her. She said, the feeling
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  Speaker 3: wasn't mutual, that they were together, and then all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden comment hit her with a Texas said.
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  Speaker 1: It's the relationships ran its course.
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  Speaker 3: So we're asking eight hundred five a five one oh
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  Speaker 3: five to one, has that ever happened to you?
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  Speaker 1: You thought your relationship was good, you thought.
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  Speaker 3: Everything was good money, and then all of a sudden
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  Speaker 3: it wasn't Is that happen to you before?
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  Speaker 1: No answer, No, not at all.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm not going out like that.
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  Speaker 4: What do you mean like that like that?
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  Speaker 6: Because that's so hurtful, Like for you you really didn't
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  Speaker 6: don't care much about that person. If you just wake
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  Speaker 6: up one day and you're like, this isn't working for me,
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  Speaker 6: I'll call you back.
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  Speaker 1: But what if what and I'm not saying Tiffany is
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  Speaker 1: this person?
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  Speaker 3: But what if you know that the person in the
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  Speaker 3: date is kind of crazy, like kind of the one
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  Speaker 3: that will put hands and feet on you.
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  Speaker 2: Looking at your eyes right now because you see that,
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  Speaker 2: you know you would have got a.
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  Speaker 4: Text men maybe a DA.
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  Speaker 6: I have learned in my adult life that women cannot
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  Speaker 6: put their hands on minutes and that's a violence.
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  Speaker 5: I would not do that, but don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I just feel like there there should be a level
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  Speaker 6: of respect decency. Yes, a phone call is not, especially
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  Speaker 6: when you're very like there at that age, but also
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  Speaker 6: too at that height of celebrity.
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  Speaker 5: It's like it's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 6: She was so happy, it's so excited about the relationship
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  Speaker 6: and to know and also too, I don't know, like
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  Speaker 6: the me I just feel like I expected just a
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  Speaker 6: little bit more smoothness from Common, Like it really makes
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  Speaker 6: me look at him in a way that I don't
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  Speaker 6: want to.
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  Speaker 4: Look at him now.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about Common in tiffany situation, right,
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  Speaker 2: But what if I spoke to you prior, face to
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  Speaker 2: face and we decided that this wasn't going to work,
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  Speaker 2: and I told you this face to face, but you.
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  Speaker 1: Couldn't let them see.
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  Speaker 5: That's different.
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  Speaker 4: You know that's different.
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  Speaker 5: That that's really different.
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  Speaker 6: That's kind of like with the whole scandal thing you
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  Speaker 6: guys watch, No, no, okay, all right, that's a lot
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  Speaker 6: different because there's a fore warning. It's kind of put
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  Speaker 6: out there that regardless of how anybody feels, it's not
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  Speaker 6: working for at least one person and the person that
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  Speaker 6: I willing to work through it.
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  Speaker 5: But it doesn't seem like.
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  Speaker 6: That's what was given to her, Like it's kind of
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  Speaker 6: like she didn't even have the are we going to
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  Speaker 6: fight for this?
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  Speaker 5: Is this a thing?
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  Speaker 6: Like type of conversation, Like it was just like, no,
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  Speaker 6: this doesn't work for me. I'm good, she says. She responded, Okay, cool,
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  Speaker 6: So you just gonna be this single man at fifty
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  Speaker 6: Like it but like I'm thinking.
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  Speaker 2: About, I'm not gonna be But that's what that's the
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  Speaker 2: technically he's saying.
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  Speaker 6: I hate that comment. As a love bomber like that,
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  Speaker 6: and it's a love bomba. It's a person that like
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  Speaker 6: comes into your life. They fill you up in all
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  Speaker 6: the ways that you need, You do everything right, and
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  Speaker 6: the love is there, the passion is there, and then
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  Speaker 6: it's just like I'm going and can you imagine, like
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  Speaker 6: you know what I mean, like you're it's common, and
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  Speaker 6: then think about the you got the voice on top
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  Speaker 6: of it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to hug.
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  Speaker 2: I would have definitely been a love bomber back because
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  Speaker 2: I'm a cancer. I'm a sensitive cancer.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all are the ones there's so much emotions tied
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  Speaker 6: up into it so fast that the other person feels like, Okay,
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  Speaker 6: this is going somewhere because I got them. I got
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  Speaker 6: that emotion when some people just are emotional people.
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  Speaker 5: And when you come, you.
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  Speaker 1: Drop in and you did you love bomba? You right, Chris?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: And I talk to us, Chrissy, he was with somebody
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  Speaker 1: for two years? What happened? Yes?
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  Speaker 7: I was two years after.
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  Speaker 4: You never said nothing not even a phone call or
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  Speaker 4: text nothing.
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  Speaker 7: Nothing.
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  Speaker 5: Is he in jail?
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  Speaker 1: Was it he or she?
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  Speaker 2: It was a she?
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  Speaker 1: Oh she left you, dann Is she in jail?
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  Speaker 5: Is she alive?
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  Speaker 7: Like, yeah, she's alive. I said her a couple of
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  Speaker 7: days ago with the money.
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  Speaker 2: We don't talk about how toxic lesbians are to each other.
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  Speaker 2: We really don't.
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  Speaker 4: Y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Are some cruel people to each other. I've seen it happen. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: But I'm talking about the person you was dating.
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  Speaker 3: That she loves you, you, she she careshed you, she
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  Speaker 3: held you, she ate the box right, and then just
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  Speaker 3: left you one day.
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  Speaker 6: You're funny, But I feel like you said two years, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: two years. I feel like the first two years of
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  Speaker 6: a relationship. And I'm sorry I have to say this
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  Speaker 6: to you, Like, it's not you. You haven't even fully
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  Speaker 6: cut off everybody that you were dealing with before the relationship.
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  Speaker 7: Damn.
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  Speaker 2: Then she did, well, she might not have what she
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  Speaker 2: doing now she with somebody.
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  Speaker 6: You haven't like, looked at the Instagram, Facebook Nothing, I
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  Speaker 6: don't have Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: That's being a relationships is so complicated because whenever you
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  Speaker 2: play paper Rock says, it's always.
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  Speaker 1: And you were making jokes's wrong with you?
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  Speaker 5: Obviously? She could barely get the words out.
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  Speaker 3: Karen, Karen, Karen and Karen Karen, Okay, Core, what happened
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  Speaker 3: with you?
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  Speaker 4: Karen?
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  Speaker 7: And Mark? My boyfriend of eight years just broke up
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  Speaker 7: with me like that he was moving to New York.
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  Speaker 1: Damn that he just text you or deep cough, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, Oh no, I thought you was crying just now.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know what you was.
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  Speaker 7: Doing start to laugh.
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  Speaker 6: So were there issues leading up to the conversation about
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  Speaker 6: moving to New York?
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  Speaker 7: No, it was the relationships. I thought it was.
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  Speaker 4: Y'all got to stop this.
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  Speaker 5: You're not y'are not being honest.
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  Speaker 2: You're not being honest. Something happened. You just don't wake
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  Speaker 2: up one day say it's over.
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  Speaker 4: Were you?
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  Speaker 7: I swear? I thought's the same thing?
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  Speaker 5: Were you?
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  Speaker 6: Perfect relationship? Like I don't go looking so it's not happening.
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  Speaker 6: Like something had to happen. There had to be something.
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  Speaker 6: What did he move to the year for a job
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  Speaker 6: or like a person or a job?
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  Speaker 1: Not after eight years? Though eight years? Something must have
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  Speaker 1: changed in a relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe he finally.
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  Speaker 2: Decided damn like long, Maybe he finally decided to do
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  Speaker 2: right by his wife.
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  Speaker 3: Yo, shut up, goodbybe sorry? What's wrong with you man?
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  Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one?
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  Speaker 3: If you just joined us, yo, you're a fool man.
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  Speaker 3: We're talking about Tiffany had And she sat down with
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  Speaker 3: the Washington Post. She was talking about her relationship with
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  Speaker 3: Common and said it was the healthiest, funniest relationship ever.
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  Speaker 3: She felt safe, everything was good, and then all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden, you know, comment here with a text and
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  Speaker 3: was like, uh, the relationship run its course.
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  Speaker 1: She was hurt by it. Has this happened to you?
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Its topics called eight hundred.
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  Speaker 2: Five five one five one to join into the discussion
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  Speaker 2: with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Warning everybody, it's DJ Envy Charlamagne the God.
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  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Now youw just joined us with here with our guest
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  Speaker 3: co host Lauren Lroossa, formerly of TMZ. And the reason
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  Speaker 3: I say, formally, well, explain it a little bit, but
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  Speaker 3: we're asking this comes from Tiffany Hattish. She recently sat
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  Speaker 3: down with The Washington Post. She was talking about her
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  Speaker 3: relationship with Common. She said, during that relationship, it was
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  Speaker 3: the healthiest, funniest relationship.
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  Speaker 1: She says she felt.
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  Speaker 3: Safe and Common well just didn't think so the feeling
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  Speaker 3: wasn't mutual.
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  Speaker 1: She said.
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  Speaker 3: Common hit with a text like which relationship is running
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  Speaker 3: its course? Jesus Christ. So we're asking eight hundred five
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  Speaker 3: eight five one oh five one has that happened to you?
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  Speaker 3: Lauren Lorossa said, No, that hasn't happened, and it won't.
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  Speaker 5: No, it won't.
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  Speaker 2: Lauren brought up a good point and a good term
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  Speaker 2: that I never heard before, which is called love bombing, right,
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  Speaker 2: and I think that guys who love bomb, you know,
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  Speaker 2: really have to learn how to pull back on that
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  Speaker 2: because you can't approach every situation like that person is
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  Speaker 2: the one or.
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  Speaker 5: They need to not date until they can emotionally mature.
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  Speaker 4: Very true, because.
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  Speaker 6: For me, I feel like you love vomb and you
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  Speaker 6: run away from something like that, because anybody that keeps
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  Speaker 6: getting this serious because this is a common pattern with
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  Speaker 6: common and you keep stepping away from it. Though, I
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  Speaker 6: just there's something like he's not getting over that hump
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  Speaker 6: for a reason.
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  Speaker 3: But what if it's the fact that he maybe he
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  Speaker 3: might think that he's in love or thinks he's in
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  Speaker 3: that situation and then something he sees turns him off.
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  Speaker 2: But that's something with him though, that's something he gotta
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  Speaker 2: fix and he gotta correct because how many times are
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  Speaker 2: you going to do this with people?
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  Speaker 5: I just hate this.
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  Speaker 6: It makes me feel like he's a f boy like
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  Speaker 6: I Damn, I hate to think about him that way.
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  Speaker 6: It's always just been like melodies and great lyrics and.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just there.
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  Speaker 6: I promise you guys, us women live in like a
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  Speaker 6: fantasy state of common really, and I think, what, yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 4: So listen, that's a good point. You just brought up, lawn.
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  Speaker 2: So maybe it's the women's fault because maybe the women
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  Speaker 2: have this understanding because mabe, the women have this idea
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  Speaker 2: of common and maybe it ain't even like that. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: maybe common just dating and kicking it. But these women
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  Speaker 2: are like, no, it's gonna be my husband.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to see that.
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  Speaker 6: But also too, I think when you meet you know,
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  Speaker 6: a man who is successful, he's attractive, he's going to
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  Speaker 6: speak to you the right way.
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  Speaker 5: He's going to speak life into you, you know what
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  Speaker 5: I mean? She says she felt safe.
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  Speaker 6: You are instantly, whether it's common or not, going to
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  Speaker 6: feel like I love it here, I want to you
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  Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like I'm honestly thinking now, like
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  Speaker 6: because you know he's allegedly with Jennifer Hudson. Now I'm
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  Speaker 6: trying to figure out, like where that's going.
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  Speaker 2: What if that's just his nature though, But if he's
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  Speaker 2: just that kind of person that makes you feel that way,
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  Speaker 2: that's going to send you to Maya Angelo poems in
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  Speaker 2: the morning, because that's him, just because he is a
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  Speaker 2: protective person.
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  Speaker 6: Like maybe I think I don't I don't know how
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  Speaker 6: he goes into these things then, because I don't know
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  Speaker 6: what Tiffany had it. She seems like she was very
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  Speaker 6: called off guard, And I think if he is just
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  Speaker 6: that person, there's nothing wrong with that. And I don't
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  Speaker 6: even know if I would call him a love bomber.
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  Speaker 6: Then if you go into and you're honest in your friend,
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  Speaker 6: that's just how you court one of my friends, just
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  Speaker 6: Mike DePaul, y'all know, just Mike, Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So he talks about that a lot, The.
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  Speaker 6: Fact that he courts women so well, even if he
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  Speaker 6: doesn't want to be long term with them, it makes
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  Speaker 6: women hate him. And it's because women are not used
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  Speaker 6: to being courted a certain way or treated a certain way.
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  Speaker 6: So in the minute they do, they like latch on.
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  Speaker 6: So if it's that, I can understand that. But Tiffany
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  Speaker 6: had it seemed very well, called off guard, like it
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  Speaker 6: was given. He might have proposed one day and said,
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  Speaker 6: is your uber here yet the next.
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  Speaker 1: Damn well, let's go to the phone line. Tell her
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  Speaker 1: who's this Torell Calday, Terrell? What's going on?
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  Speaker 4: What's happening? Brother?
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  Speaker 7: Love a bunch? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Tell us your story, Terrell.
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  Speaker 7: So, me and my girl at the time was together
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  Speaker 7: for like five years and we got engaged on Thomas
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  Speaker 7: the Island or whatever, and when we came back, he
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  Speaker 7: broke it off with me and she was her girlfriend.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't even know nothing about it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh she cheated on you with a girl, her co worker.
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  Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: We just was talking about how topic these lesbians are.
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  Speaker 2: You see, one done stole your but one stole you.
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  Speaker 5: You don't you don't want to turn the l against
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  Speaker 5: I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 1: Man, But does it hurt more that she that she
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  Speaker 1: cheated on you with a woman or No?
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  Speaker 2: I really don't you know whatever I mean, getting your girls,
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  Speaker 2: getting your girls stolen ain't nothing you can.
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  Speaker 4: Do about it.
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  Speaker 7: But I did get my get back over her?
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  Speaker 4: How did you get back the girl that used to.
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  Speaker 7: Beat her up in school? I end up with her?
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  Speaker 1: Was it good? What the girl I used to beat her?
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  Speaker 4: What was that low vibrational response to this game?
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  Speaker 5: What I thought you was gonna go for? Like the sister?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Something else, like the girl that used to beat her up?
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  Speaker 4: Beat her up? Winning elementary school, middle school.
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  Speaker 7: High school, high school? So street street?
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  Speaker 1: So where you from?
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  Speaker 2: So let me ask your question. So you mustn't know
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  Speaker 2: that that triggered her. She must used to talk about
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  Speaker 2: getting beat up by that girl a lot. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 2: how old are y'all?
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  Speaker 7: Thirty?
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  Speaker 4: So this is about twelve y'all?
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  Speaker 2: Y'all about twelve, thirteen years fourteen years remove? You just
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  Speaker 2: did it because you knew that was going to traumatize her.
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  Speaker 2: She must have got beat up in front of the
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  Speaker 2: whole school. She must have been talking about it for
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  Speaker 2: years multiple times. So you had sex with her bully?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, multiple times?
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  Speaker 4: Dropping the clues BOMD for this young man.
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  Speaker 1: How does the bully look though? Because if the bully was.
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  Speaker 6: Beven matter, the girlfriend don't care if she can fight
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  Speaker 6: now like, if she can fight down.
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  Speaker 7: She could. Yo.
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  Speaker 4: Having sex with a girl's bully is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: But the bully looked like I'm just caring what the
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  Speaker 1: bully looked like.
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  Speaker 7: On a five one to five five.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, there's no way.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think so that bully that somebody beating in
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  Speaker 3: it getting like Goose Creek man. Alright, what's the mollent
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  Speaker 3: of the story.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what's the more of the story.
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  Speaker 5: Long, don't tell your man about your bully.
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  Speaker 7: Story.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not telling you nothing.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 3: Now, when we come back, we got your rumor report, Lauren,
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  Speaker 3: you doing these rumors? Yes, what are we talking about?
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  Speaker 3: Give us a little tease.
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  Speaker 6: We are talking about Coiler Ray and we were going
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  Speaker 6: to talk about Elliott Wilson.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, all right, we'll get into all that when we
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  Speaker 1: come back. Keep a lock. This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,