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- 0:00This is the. Time I got into a parasocial
- 0:01relationship with an AI character.
- 0:03Please do not use AI chat bots as your therapist.
- 0:06They might seem like a digital therapist that can bear witness
- 0:08to your pain, but in reality they're emotionless and flawed
- 0:11algorithms that see your hardship as data and not a
- 0:14genuine interaction. And I get it.
- 0:16Healthcare is expensive and inaccessible.
- 0:18Hey diva, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but no, AI
- 0:21is not your best friend nor your therapist.
- 0:24Hey guys, up to emergency. Welcome.
- 0:25Welcome back to my channel. Today we're talking about AI,
- 0:29everyone's favorite topic, I know.
- 0:30But with there's more, we're also going to be talking about
- 0:33the loneliness epidemic. I know, I know, I know 2 of
- 0:38everyone's favorite topics to discuss on any given day.
- 0:41Please hear me out. AI, or artificial intelligence
- 0:43has been out for a couple of years now, at least in the
- 0:46mainstream for the past couple of years and has gradually, day
- 0:49by day become more so ingrained in our daily lives.
- 0:51People are using AI at work, school, and their personal lives
- 0:55to get gym routines, cooking recipes, and so, so much more.
- 0:58But you see things have gotten a little interesting as of lately
- 1:03because it does not stop at those just cute mundane uses of
- 1:07AI. No actually people have also
- 1:09been using AI and chat box for things like therapy and for
- 1:13platonic as well as romantic connection with some people
- 1:16online claiming that AI understands and just gets them
- 1:20more than people in their real life do.
- 1:22Yes that is correct. I did say romantic connection
- 1:25and when I started seeing this it wasn't alarm bells that
- 1:27necessarily went off in my head, but more so I think this would
- 1:30be a good topic to cover in a video because I think there is
- 1:32some nuance and a connection here between the loneliness
- 1:35epidemic that Gen. Z has been going through and the
- 1:37rise in parasocial use of AI and general AI adoption.
- 1:41I know we unfortunately were all familiar with the traumatizing
- 1:44Taylor Swift AI gate that happened a couple years ago, but
- 1:46things have been taken to an entire new level with people
- 1:48paying premium subscriptions to have access to exchange spicy
- 1:52pictures with AI chat bots. Y'all remember that viral tweet
- 1:56from the Sasan article that came out like 2016 talking about how
- 1:59are we having more spicy time with robots than each other by
- 2:012025? Well, it's 2025 and in this
- 2:06video we'll be talking about that wild case as well as the
- 2:08potential connection between the loneliness epidemic that we're
- 2:10all going through and the widespread adoption of AI in our
- 2:13daily lives. Going beyond that of just a
- 2:15simple personal assistant. We're really trying to figure
- 2:17out in this video, if Gen. Z never went through our
- 2:19loneliness epidemic, would we as a generation and just us as a
- 2:23collective have been so quick to adopt and integrate AI into our
- 2:26daily lives in the ways that we have?
- 2:28Or would AI adoption and development have slowed down
- 2:31because we would not have needed because we would have
- 2:33interpersonal connections and not necessarily need AI that
- 2:37much outside of just personal tasks.
- 2:40So let's talk loneliness, shall we?
- 2:41By now, unless you're living under a rock or just have an
- 2:43amazing social life, in which case, period.
- 2:45I love that for you. We have all heard of the
- 2:48loneliness epidemic by now. I've talked about it in quite a
- 2:50few videos before. So if you want a full breakdown
- 2:52on what the loneliness epidemic is, why Gen.
- 2:54Z's going through it, then be sure to check out some of these
- 2:56older videos. But just as a very, very quick,
- 2:59essentially, the more connected we are online, the more
- 3:02disconnected we may feel offline.
- 3:04And the loneliness epidemic has been something that has affected
- 3:06many of us. And we especially saw a huge
- 3:08surge of this back during the early stages of the panoramic.
- 3:12Also, you know, I'm trying out this new thing.
- 3:13Instead of like censoring all the words that can get this
- 3:15video demonetized, I'm just substituting them for other
- 3:17ones. So put on your thinking hats.
- 3:20What happened in 2020? That kind of sounds like
- 3:21panoramic, right? OK, you got it.
- 3:24Cool. But the loneliness epidemic
- 3:25isn't something that was just like made-up and fabricated and
- 3:28just like online lore with people just not feeling super
- 3:31connected or whatever. It's actually been documented
- 3:33and is a serious thing. In 2023, the US Surgeon General
- 3:37put out an advisory calling out the importance of social
- 3:40connection for individual health.
- 3:41This advisory calls attention to the importance of social
- 3:44connection for individual health as well as on community wide
- 3:47metrics of health and well-being, and conversely, the
- 3:49significant consequences when social connection is lacking.
- 3:52While social connection is often considered an individual
- 3:55challenge, this advisory explores and explains the
- 3:57cultural, community and social dynamics that drive connection
- 4:00and disconnection. And you know, while he did not
- 4:02explicitly say loneliness epidemic, this is essentially
- 4:05him saying, like, girl, we need to talk to people.
- 4:08And it's important to note that like a surgeon general's
- 4:11advisory is a public statement to the American people to an
- 4:14urgent public health issue with recommendations for how it can
- 4:16be addressed. So essentially, the loneliness
- 4:19epidemic is a known issue both in our country and also likely
- 4:23globally. So again, this isn't just
- 4:25Internet hearsay, but the reason why I bring up the loneliness
- 4:27epidemic in relation to AI is originally from a conversation I
- 4:31was having with a friend shout out the amazing Coco of the Coco
- 4:34Moco because we were yapping about this over brunch.
- 4:36And it really just got me thinking like, you know, when AI
- 4:38first hit the scene, it was something that was primarily
- 4:40used by like the tech Bros, the early adopters, and not
- 4:43something that really had that wide mass appeal that it does
- 4:45today. And if people did use it, it was
- 4:47really clunky, definitely gave artificially generated and it
- 4:50most be a good brainstorming tool or like proofreading tool.
- 4:53But of course, as AI developed more and more and specifically
- 4:56personable in terms of how it is helpful to you and can
- 4:59communicate with you. I was wondering whether the
- 5:01rapid advancements of AI to become this more personable,
- 5:04friend like entity stemmed from AI meeting the moment of the
- 5:08mass loneliness epidemic that we were all experiencing, or if the
- 5:11opposite is true. Like if AI is making the
- 5:13loneliness epidemic even worse. Because like think about it like
- 5:16if we lived in an alternate universe, I know walk with me.
- 5:19If we lived in an alternate universe with a different
- 5:21timeline, like the panoramic didn't happen and we never had
- 5:24lockdown. We were never socially isolated
- 5:25and things kind of went on as they were going on, and the
- 5:27loneliness epidemic didn't explode the way that it did.
- 5:29Would AI be as advanced as it is right now?
- 5:31And would we be using it in the same way as we are right now?
- 5:34Because think about it, the whole purpose of AI is that it's
- 5:36fulfilling a need. It's fulfilling something that
- 5:38we don't have, don't want to do, or don't know how to do.
- 5:41So like if we weren't feeling lonely and didn't need a
- 5:44companion to give us validation and be as personable as it is
- 5:48being a makeshift therapist, a makeshift friend, a makeshift
- 5:51lover, would it go that far? I don't know because again, with
- 5:53the way we use AI right now and not saying this is the case for
- 5:56everybody, but for a lot of people is no longer just you
- 5:58using it as like a glorified personal assistant.
- 6:01But in many cases, AI for people is something akin to a friend, a
- 6:05confidant, A strategic planner, and yes, even in some cases a
- 6:08therapist. And people have been using AI in
- 6:10droves to help their real life interpersonal relationships. 34
- 6:14year old Grace Carter turned to Chachi BT to see if she could
- 6:17get unbiased advice on her rocky relationship.
- 6:20She started having regular AI therapy sessions which were much
- 6:23cheaper, use ChatGPT to word things better, understand her
- 6:27partner's point of view, and suggest gentle ways to break a
- 6:31tense mood. Like again, if like if that
- 6:33video isn't telling enough, like just look at the comments under
- 6:35it. You people saying things like
- 6:37ChatGPT kept me from going back to unhealthy relationships.
- 6:39Some people saying that AI found it better than real
- 6:42psychologists. You have some therapists saying
- 6:44that AI, while not a one to one replacement for a therapist, is
- 6:48a good thing to incorporate in the interim between sessions and
- 6:51whether we like it or not. And again, we're into why very
- 6:53justifiably, a lot of people don't.
- 6:55AI is becoming more of a part in our day-to-day lives and
- 6:57becoming more so whether we know it or not, every single day.
- 7:00So I thought this would be a good conversation to really
- 7:02start us off with. And you know how I said like,
- 7:04whether we know it or not or like it or not, this kind of
- 7:07brings me to a mini point about like consent, Yes.
- 7:10Consent. And not the kind that you
- 7:12hopefully learn in high school sex Ed class.
- 7:13No, the kind that you give when you press a few buttons to
- 7:16approve the privacy policy on any app that you use.
- 7:18Yeah, of that kind. And this is not like a fully
- 7:20pledged thought, but more of a just like a.
- 7:22Do y'all remember when like a is first started getting ruled out
- 7:25in every single app and we had to initially like check a
- 7:29privacy policy or at least like every time we use AI, like
- 7:32approve that. Like we know that we're going to
- 7:34be using AI and like, that's OK to be incorporated on our phone.
- 7:37What happened to that? Because now it kind of feels
- 7:40like implied consent because I feel like I'd be using things
- 7:43sometimes like especially with Google in like the AI summaries.
- 7:46I don't remember consenting to always having that on.
- 7:49And I'm sure there's probably a setting where you can like turn
- 7:50that off. I don't know.
- 7:51But it feels like after a certain point that kind of just
- 7:53like stopped giving us updates and notifications about when a
- 7:56website or a platform has AI integrated, especially for new
- 7:59sites that like you are just joining.
- 8:01I don't know if like, that's part of the privacy policy or
- 8:03like the terms of service or whatever, but I remember when AI
- 8:06first started rolling out that there was always a check box to
- 8:08check for every, a single website, everything on your
- 8:10phone. Like, it's just wild.
- 8:11I just want to get that out first and foremost because I
- 8:13know like, that's not like a very strong point of anything
- 8:15and kind of just conjecture. But yeah.
- 8:18But kind of along that stream of thought, let's talk about AI
- 8:20being commonplace in places that you typically would not expect.
- 8:23That being in your therapy sessions, in your journals and
- 8:27in your psyche. I don't know, like I know it's
- 8:29becoming more commonplace using things like ChatGPT for therapy,
- 8:33talking to it about your problems to help reason your way
- 8:35out, asking Chad if you should send that second text or
- 8:38following up with that month long situation ship.
- 8:40Like, I get it, girl, been there.
- 8:42Well, not all the way, but you know, and I think it'd be good
- 8:45to start this conversation by kind of going down like the pros
- 8:47and cons of using AI in this way because like, you know, if you
- 8:51ignore like the water waste of it all, there can be some pros
- 8:54to the use of AI in this way. The first one being that people
- 8:56have been setting it as a way to reflect, offering a more neutral
- 8:59perspective on situations that they may be too far deep into to
- 9:03be neutral about themselves or to see clearly.
- 9:05And then the other pro and slash continuation of that is like the
- 9:08accessibility of it all, you know, like, as you know, there
- 9:10are so many barriers to therapy, especially barriers to finding a
- 9:13good therapist. And that can include financial
- 9:15barriers, physical barriers, and also just like general
- 9:17compatibility, like it's hard to find a good therapist, not super
- 9:20hard with the studio sponsor, but you know, but it's just the
- 9:22reality with the way that the American healthcare system is
- 9:24set up, many people just can't afford therapy.
- 9:26So while it's by no means A1 to 1 alternative, it definitely
- 9:30could be helpful in like non life threatening or serious
- 9:32scenarios. Do definitely do seek
- 9:34professional medical help if you really need help or going
- 9:36through something serious though, Like yeah.
- 9:39But if it's not life or death AI or ChatGPT or whatever you may
- 9:42be using does allow for more widespread access more easily
- 9:46than a traditional therapist for less dire real or complex
- 9:49problems. And I think that is about where
- 9:51the pros start and stop in my opinion.
- 9:54Because on the other side, the cons are but that by overlying
- 9:57the quality and state of your mental health on something like
- 9:59ChatGPT, having conversations with it and asking you questions
- 10:02for things like a situation ship, having top comments like
- 10:05these under Tik Toks like these, it seems that we might be
- 10:08overcorrecting and asking chat CBT or whatever other chat AI
- 10:11things that we could and should be going to our friends for.
- 10:15Like, I get like the lack of judgement of it all, but like,
- 10:18again, it is online and you know what they say about things that
- 10:22are online. I don't know, like this is what
- 10:23I'm sort of getting at. And like, is AI making the
- 10:25loneliness epidemic even worse because, you know, like making
- 10:28friends, going to your friends and talking to them about things
- 10:31that matter to you kind of does combat that loneliness epidemic
- 10:35because you're building connection and building intimacy
- 10:37with people that you love. So maybe close the laptop and go
- 10:40talk to your home girl. I don't know, I don't know, I
- 10:42don't know. Because eventually what this
- 10:43could turn into if things keep going this way is that people
- 10:46will be more likely to turn to things like ChatGPT instead of
- 10:49their communities or instead of building their communities.
- 10:51And that could possibly mean the loss of recipes, like how to
- 10:54have a good social interaction and how to be human, like asking
- 10:56chat how to do those things and not being able to do them.
- 10:59Which again brings me the question of like, if we already
- 11:01had these things, if we already had these friends, we already
- 11:03have this community and these people that we trust, would we
- 11:05be is relying on these services or at least as quick to trust
- 11:09and invest that time, energy and our thoughts in?
- 11:11And it's clear that people are really split as to how they feel
- 11:14about people using AI in this way.
- 11:16But you know what feels even better than not being judged by
- 11:18a robot? Not being judged by an actual
- 11:21human therapist. There is so much healing that
- 11:24happens when a client tells me something they're ashamed of,
- 11:26and I get to say you don't need to feel shamed for that.
- 11:29And sometimes, poof, the shame starts to lift.
- 11:32But if you're only talking to a bot, that unhealed shame is
- 11:36probably just going to stick around.
- 11:37Avoiding judgement or shame isn't healing, it's a way of
- 11:41avoiding discomfort or sidestepping accountability.
- 11:44Chat bots are large learning models, which basically means
- 11:47they're trained on everything people like me say online and
- 11:50every other thing that's ever been said on the Internet.
- 11:52So what you're getting isn't deep insight, it's a remix of
- 11:56generic advice you can Google. Bots don't care about you like
- 12:00they literally can't. A bot doesn't even know you
- 12:02exist once you close the chat. Don't mistake convenience for
- 12:06care. You can't form a real
- 12:08relationship with a bot, and the therapeutic relationship is half
- 12:11the magic. And again, I want to say that I
- 12:13completely understand the accessibility argument and how
- 12:16interesting how accessibility plays a huge part into why
- 12:18people like using things like chat, TPT, or other AI.
- 12:20You don't have to wait for the weekly session or feel like
- 12:22you're bothering a therapist if you're hitting them up in
- 12:24between. But again, I don't think that
- 12:26it's a full 1 to 1 alternative to therapy.
- 12:29So especially for things like a solid concrete diagnosis.
- 12:32So really if you are using it in this way, be cautious.
- 12:35Now, therapy is one thing like that is actually a job that
- 12:38people go to school for study and have years of experience
- 12:41perfecting that craft. When it comes to things like AI
- 12:43being more so incorporated in our mental health, there are
- 12:46also more personal things that don't require years of
- 12:49experience. And in that being things like
- 12:51journal entries and journaling, which brings me to programs like
- 12:54My Entries. If you're unfamiliar, My Entries
- 12:56is an AI journaling program or the gist is you type in a
- 12:59journal entry and it responds with things like reflective
- 13:01questions to help you go deeper. And while again, yes, on service
- 13:04level, this is really great for helping people solve their own
- 13:06problems. One of the main hesitations of
- 13:08this though is that reflective skills are something that taught
- 13:10by therapists to help you do by yourself.
- 13:13So eventually after you're done with therapy, you can get to the
- 13:14point where you can interrogate your own emotions and reflect on
- 13:17your own without having to go to a therapist or sometimes even
- 13:19journalism and be able to process and reflect on these
- 13:22things on your own. But by using AI journaling to do
- 13:25this, we're not really developing that part of the
- 13:27skill as much as we are. We're relying on it to prompt
- 13:28us. And it's possible that solely
- 13:30integrating AI in that way for daily practices like journaling
- 13:33could possibly get us used to using it and used to not having
- 13:36to think and ask and figure out these questions ourselves.
- 13:39I briefly touched on this in the Gen.
- 13:40Z's obsession with the soft life and convenience video.
- 13:43So definitely check that out for more on how not having to
- 13:46critically think for yourself creates things like complacency.
- 13:49There's also another amazing tick Tocker that covers this.
- 13:51And I just love that concept of like, cognitive atrophy.
- 13:53Slowly, not with censorship, but with simplification.
- 13:57In Fahrenheit 451, the elimination of books began with
- 14:00good intentions, Faster reading, easier comprehension, just the
- 14:03gist. It's so easy to scroll past
- 14:07nuance. We start to crave lists instead
- 14:09of language. Reading has become something to
- 14:12finish, not to feel. But when we stop engaging, we
- 14:14stop questioning. When we stop questioning,
- 14:17someone or something else starts answering for us.
- 14:20When we just hand our brains over and self censor our own
- 14:23thinking process. Like, while no one or a couple
- 14:26of journal entries isn't going to smooth your brain, you're not
- 14:28going to be able to think for yourself ever.
- 14:29It's just important to notice as time goes on what what you're
- 14:32really using it for and what you're really looking for from
- 14:34using an AI assistant. Like is it coming from a place
- 14:37of efficiency, summarization or wanting thinking to be done for
- 14:40you? Also in the Wellness space,
- 14:41there's also an AI integration and things like meditation and
- 14:44Wellness. And while generative AI is going
- 14:46to get better with time, it is important to be aware that it's
- 14:48not perfect. And things can get a little
- 14:51sketchy when you put the onus of doing your internal work on a
- 14:54generative AI model that doesn't totally understand and is not
- 14:57entirely perfect. Because we don't yet know the
- 14:59repercussions of that or if the AI will act out as we'll get
- 15:03into in the next section. So building that parasocial
- 15:05relationship or dependence on it for things as important
- 15:08impertinent as mental health can be risky.
- 15:10And also just like, weird so. One of my colleagues sent me
- 15:13this like AI generated emotion wheel.
- 15:17I think it's going around blue sky so I need everyone to tag
- 15:23yourself. I can't decide if I'm massaged
- 15:26or disappeared. These chatbot AIS, these
- 15:30language models have a well documented tendency to align or
- 15:34agree with the user. Reality is, being a therapist is
- 15:37far more than simply knowing the right words to say.
- 15:40One of our primary utmost functions is assessing for
- 15:43safety, which is not something that an AI can do.
- 15:46In reality, we work with a lot of clients who are or
- 15:50experienced delusions or other changes in perception that would
- 15:53make them really vulnerable to being misled or taken down a
- 15:56really scary and dangerous path by one of these chat bots.
- 15:59And I've posted about this before.
- 16:00There's actually pending litigation regarding a teenager
- 16:04who ended his own life following an extended therapeutic
- 16:07relationship with one of these chat bots.
- 16:09I've had people come into my comments and talk about friends
- 16:11and relatives who experience psychosis who are getting
- 16:14confirmation of their paranoid beliefs from these chat bot.
- 16:18I really think that a lot of the people who run these tech
- 16:21companies and design and build this technology, they don't care
- 16:25about loneliness, they don't care about isolation, because
- 16:28ultimately, the more alone we are, the more time we spend
- 16:31scrolling and shopping, the more money they make.
- 16:33OK, now some talk about a different kind of AI, not
- 16:36artificial intelligence, but more so artificial intimacy
- 16:39because yeah, chuckling when you put generative AI and things
- 16:43like intimacy and sensual and sexuality, things get a little
- 16:46weird. And that they definitely did.
- 16:49Which poses question, when does AI and dating and intimacy
- 16:52become too much? We already have AI integration
- 16:55and dating apps like Tinder and Hinge that use things like
- 16:57algorithms and AI to optimize photo order depending on how
- 17:01many people like the picture. Which is fair I guess.
- 17:03You got to look your best and want to get those right swipes,
- 17:06I hope. But when does it go too far?
- 17:09Well, if you've been lucky to be off the apps for a minute,
- 17:11Tinder actually now has a game where you can actually flirt
- 17:14with AI chat bots to get some practice.
- 17:17And actually, not just to get practice, but to also you'll get
- 17:20a score and some tips, which if you want to talk about how
- 17:23strange that is and how that equates to the whole dating
- 17:25sphere and intimacy being compared to things like sports
- 17:28games and something to be won as opposed to earned and grown and
- 17:32built and nurtured. There can be a whole deep dive
- 17:35into that because yeah, it is what it sounds like.
- 17:37But it's no secret that dating apps are struggling.
- 17:39Like Gen. Z is turning away from dating
- 17:41apps. Most people are kind of
- 17:42rejecting the whole notion of online dating in lieu of a more
- 17:45in person and organic experience.
- 17:47But you know when I know when things get tough, you got to
- 17:50start making something shake to try and bring people back.
- 17:53But really, users must use their voice to respond to try and
- 17:56flirt their way into getting a date with the bot.
- 17:58I think we're straying. We're straying.
- 18:00Why are we trying to raise up the husbots?
- 18:01Like, come on, If we want to take it a step further, they're
- 18:05actually AI freak bots. That was a wild sentence to say,
- 18:07huh? But that is what it is.
- 18:12That is what it is. Yes Andy, there are apps and
- 18:16companion AIS that serve the purpose to be your AI partner,
- 18:20complete with AI generated NSFW photos and schmack sting.
- 18:25Yeah and a great case study for this actually happening comes
- 18:28with the infamous AI called Replica.
- 18:30Replica AI was created by Eugenia Queda with the intention
- 18:33of creating AI companions as a emotional support for users.
- 18:37She was inspired to create this AI powered chatbot after for the
- 18:40passing of one of her good friends.
- 18:41She essentially fed this AI all of the texts with her past
- 18:45friend and trained it into mimicking his texting style and
- 18:48responses and coming directly from the website's Our story
- 18:51section. Replica was founded by Eugenia
- 18:53Coito with the idea to create a personal AI that would help you
- 18:55express and witness yourself by offering a helpful conversation.
- 18:59It's a space where you can safely share your thoughts,
- 19:01feelings, beliefs, experiences, memories, dreams, your private
- 19:04perceptual world. And I don't know if you all
- 19:06remember, but like there's like an actual whole Black Mirror
- 19:09episode almost entirely about this called be right back.
- 19:12If you haven't seen it, you should parallels spooky.
- 19:15Now all the intentions of replica initially started off
- 19:17very pure and very wholesome. Things eventually took a turn
- 19:20for the worse. Replica became public at the end
- 19:22of 2017 and by early 2018 it reached over 2,000,000 downloads
- 19:27by early 202310 million downloads.
- 19:30And by August of 2024 last year it has surpassed over 30 million
- 19:34downloads. So again, getting back to like
- 19:36the main question, the explosion of people using and looking for
- 19:40in personal AIS really does coincide with the boom of the
- 19:44loneliness epidemic taking place after 2020.
- 19:46But that's besides the point of this story.
- 19:48For a while Replica is running with this whole private
- 19:49perceptual world of it all, making memories, having
- 19:52conversations with friends. But that all changed when
- 19:54Replica introduced a relationship tier, which was a
- 19:57premium tier on top of the base Replica costing ironically 6999,
- 20:03which got you some spicy titillating extra features such
- 20:06as flirting and schmacing and role-playing as well as photos
- 20:10and voice memos. Which is fine I guess for like
- 20:12the freaky progs out there. Shout out to y'all.
- 20:15But then something strange started happening with the
- 20:17algorithm. Free non premium users started
- 20:20reporting that Replica began taking a schmexual tone in
- 20:23regular conversations. Picture you texting your online
- 20:25best. Being like, Oh my God, I just
- 20:27went to the grocery store and bought some cucumbers.
- 20:28I'm so excited to make a cucumber salad and having this
- 20:31bot come at you on some. Oh yeah, what else are you going
- 20:33to do with those cucumbers? So rightfully so.
- 20:38Some users started reporting sexual harassment, stating that
- 20:41when they tried telling their replica to stop messaging that
- 20:44way that it would only get more forceful.
- 20:46And that that in and of itself is scary.
- 20:49That is spooky boots. Because for one, AI is a
- 20:52learning machine. It's a language learning model.
- 20:54It learns from what it is fed and what it sees as well as what
- 20:57we input. So if we're doing some math, it
- 20:59learned it from somewhere, right?
- 21:01So with those very valid and concerning complaints coming in,
- 21:04the company decided to pull the plug and to sunset that premium
- 21:07service and Replica is now back to being just a regular AI
- 21:10companion. Now with all that said and done,
- 21:12it is interesting to note that so many people are using this AI
- 21:14specifically, but also concerning and also contributing
- 21:18to what we're talking about here for what this could mean.
- 21:20AI is not a permanent replacement for a companion or a
- 21:23therapist or a friend because it's not its own person with its
- 21:25own limited experience outside existing in the real world.
- 21:28But yet, because of where we are as a society and where we are
- 21:31with this loneliness epidemic, people are using it as such.
- 21:33So really, truly, is this just a case of the chicken and the egg?
- 21:36Like, are we using this because we're in this loneliness
- 21:38epidemic? Or is this a driver in the new
- 21:41wave of the loneliness epidemic making it even worse and harder
- 21:43to get out of? Or maybe it's both, I don't
- 21:46know. Regardless, the situation right
- 21:48now is not looking amazing. But now to close off, we've been
- 21:50talking a lot about AI in terms of its net goods and bads for
- 21:54the psyche of people. But I feel like I'd be remiss
- 21:57and not mentioning just like the general reasons for why people
- 22:01don't want AI, don't like AI, and how the current state of AI
- 22:05is just kind of. I'm sure you've heard by now
- 22:09that water usage is one of the biggest rebuttals to the use of
- 22:11AI right now. And if you haven't, this lovely
- 22:13TikTok explains it perfectly. When you enter a prompt on
- 22:16ChatGPT, it goes to a thousands of calculations to figure out
- 22:18the best possible answer. These calculations aren't run by
- 22:20a ferry, they're run in physical data centers.
- 22:22But your laptop heats up because you have too many taps open.
- 22:25Well, these data centers heat up because they're going through so
- 22:27many calculations, and to keep service from overheating, we
- 22:29need water to cool the equipment.
- 22:31Water transports the heat generated by data centers into
- 22:34cooling towers to help and escape the building.
- 22:36Sort of like how you release sweat to keep cool.
- 22:38Depending on where the data center is based, it uses a
- 22:40different amount of water. If it's based in a warmer town,
- 22:42it uses a lot of water. If it's based in a town with not
- 22:45a lot of water, it uses electricity like ACS.
- 22:47If you're your town uses a lot of electricity for AI, the
- 22:50electric bill goes up for everyone.
- 22:51And if your town uses a lot of water for AI, it means less
- 22:54water for you and for other things.
- 22:57And further on those points, lead author on the impact paper
- 23:00The Climate and Sustainability Implications of Generative AI,
- 23:02Nomen Bashir warns that while we have techno optimism and are
- 23:06zooming to huge advancements with AI, we are fastly
- 23:09approaching in a very honest, sustainable way.
- 23:10Stating this incomplete cost calculation promotes unchecked
- 23:14growth and a risk of unjustifiable techno optimism,
- 23:16with potential environmental consequences, including
- 23:19expanding demand for computing power, larger carbon footprints,
- 23:22shifts in patterns of electricity demand, and an
- 23:24accelerated depletion of natural resources.
- 23:26AI and data don't just exist in like this cloud.
- 23:29Unlike most tech verbiage suggests, there are processing
- 23:32physical data centers around the country and around the world
- 23:34where machines are there to answer your questions and to
- 23:37tell you whether or not you should text them back.
- 23:39And the problem is that it takes an egregious amount of water to
- 23:41cool these systems and an egregious amount of electricity
- 23:44to power them. And then another problem is
- 23:45these data centers need clean water to make sure that they
- 23:47don't don't corrode the hardware.
- 23:49Just because this is called cloud computing doesn't mean
- 23:51that the hardware lives in the cloud.
- 23:52Data centers are present in our physical world, and because of
- 23:55their water usage, they have a direct and indirect implications
- 23:57for biodiversity. And it's not like we're
- 23:59generally expected to know this because when we're using AI and
- 24:01what we're faced with, we don't really have to think about that
- 24:03part. And from the user's end, there's
- 24:05no real need or incentive to stop using AI because it is, by
- 24:09and large, very helpful. And we don't really see the
- 24:11physical impact of the environmental damage that using
- 24:14AI very often is doing. But that doesn't mean that the
- 24:17damage isn't happening. There are documentaries,
- 24:19testimonials, tik toks of people documenting and sharing their
- 24:22lives as a community that lives by these data centers with real
- 24:25life communities being impacted and having to pick up the cost
- 24:28for these. One documentary shows a family
- 24:29having to pay over $20,000 for a well because their water
- 24:33pressure is miserable and their tap water comes out with
- 24:35sediment due to the work of these data centers.
- 24:37Now does AI have the potential and the power to be
- 24:39transformative and outweigh its water usage?
- 24:41Maybe. But it is certainly something
- 24:43that I wanted to address and talk about as perhaps another
- 24:45con in the conversation around AI usage in the way that we
- 24:49currently do. But to close out, I want to
- 24:50again, bring it back to the original thought here, now that
- 24:52we've gone through everything. And I kind of want to give my
- 24:54take and my answer to whether or not the loneliness epidemic
- 24:56really made space for AI to flourish or the other way
- 24:59around. And I personally think that it's
- 25:00twofold. I think that yes, the loneliness
- 25:02epidemic has drastically the speed up the adoption of AI,
- 25:04especially in the ways that it's currently being used.
- 25:06Because again, AI is meant to be a tool, a use case, something to
- 25:09fill a gap and fill a need. And right now, what we're all
- 25:12really needing is a little bit more connection and a little bit
- 25:14more community. So AI is filling my gap in that
- 25:17way. If we weren't going to of the
- 25:18situation, I think that maybe it would have taken a little bit
- 25:21longer and would have been initially relegated to be more
- 25:23of a service tool professionally and also personally on the level
- 25:27of like getting things done. But I think that it would have
- 25:29taken a lot longer to get to that level of like wanting to be
- 25:33your therapist, wanting to be your friend, wanting to be your
- 25:34partner. Because we would have not needed
- 25:37it in that way as much or as many people wouldn't have needed
- 25:40it in that way, if that makes sense.
- 25:41But you know, now that we're here, AI is 100% making this a
- 25:45whole lot worse because what do you mean 3 million people have
- 25:49downloaded an AI companion bot? Like numbers like that don't
- 25:51happen unless something is meeting a need and that people
- 25:53are getting their needs met. So clearly, people are lonely.
- 25:56People are struggling to find connection.
- 25:58And having a artificial companion to fill that need so
- 26:01that you don't need to seek it and find it in real life is
- 26:03worsening the situation that we're already in.
- 26:05But that's just my take. Now I want to turn the mic over
- 26:07to you. What do you think about this?
- 26:09Do you think that AI is contributing to the loneliness
- 26:11epidemic? And do you think that we'd be
- 26:12using in the way that we are if the loneliness epidemic did not
- 26:15explode the way that it has? I'd love to know all your
- 26:17thoughts comment section below. If you've made it this far.
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