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The Big Gay After Show: May 5th, 2026 - Lizard Love · The Big Gay Radio Show

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  The views expressed on The Big Gay After Show may not
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  necessarily reflect the views of the Nathan B Stubblefield
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  Foundation or those of the staff or management of WMNF Tampa.
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  Listener discretion is advised. Take off your filter and settle
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  in. Welcome to the Big Gay After
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  show. Welcome to the big Gay After
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  show. My name is Chris Gorman.
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  I'm your show twink here, joined by the electric Esme Russell,
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  the trans Queen of radio. Shawn does such a really good
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  job. Shawn always does a good job.
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  No, but his voice like is really good, like he does AI know that
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  he always does a good job, but like sometimes it just it hits
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  me that wow, his voice like is really good.
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  He's really excellent at at doing radio like.
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  Yeah, we had to give Maca in the studio one of these days.
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  He has a great voice. He's just like every time.
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  Like for some odd reason today it just stood out to me.
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  I don't know why. Maybe I'm just paying attention
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  and I'm normally in. I'm usually in my A.
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  What is ADHAD? HDADHD.
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  Whatever it is, I'm just when we talk about my in a few minutes,
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  when we talk about my Apple Store dilemma, my drama, that
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  part of me kicked in. It's really, really bad to be
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  having a, an episode and you can't control it.
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  It's beyond my control. And I'm trying, I'm fiddling my
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  hands, I'm pulling on my clothes.
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  I'm at one point I, I had gotten so bad sitting there waiting
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  that I felt like I, you know, I imagine that's what a drug
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  addict looks like coming off drugs.
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  I, I, I caught it, you know. I know.
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  So I know that I look like a drug addict to some people
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  because I'm constantly like messing with my nose and like I
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  always have so much energy. So I guarantee you there's at
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  least a good like the half dozen people thinking that I'm a
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  cokehead. I'll tell you what happened, but
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  it it got really bad and then I had to wait for a long time.
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  So sitting there with with no phone.
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  But we're also joined by Daddy. Hello.
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  I kind of want to get into this topic.
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  So what's what? What happened at the Apple
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  Store? Miss Esme?
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  Just really bad. So on Saturday night I went to
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  call an Uber and when I went to call the Uber everything went
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  through. I pressed all the buttons
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  correctly until at the bottom of the screen it said confirm the
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  ride. So when I pressed confirm the
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  ride, it did not accept it. So I kept tapping and tapping.
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  Fast forward one hour and a half later, I'm still sitting in my
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  room tapping that button trying. So I didn't know what to do.
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  Then I realized that half of the screen from the middle of the
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  screen down the top half of the screen was working, but the
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  bottom of the screen was not. So the the screen was stuck and
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  it wouldn't scroll, wouldn't do anything.
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  So all of the instructions had to go through Siri.
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  But Siri can't call you on Uber. So I had to get a friend of
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  mine. My my my son Michael picked me
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  up and took me to work. If I remember correctly, there's
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  actually a phone number you can call for an Uber.
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  Really. I think so.
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  I don't know. You need to find that out 'cause
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  that's a for. People who still have like.
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  That don't have a phone. Not smartphones.
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  Yeah, dumb phones or whatever they call.
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  Them. That would be wonderful.
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  I wish I would have. Known.
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  I mean, there are people. I should have called given up
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  on. I probably should have called
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  you when I was going through all that.
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  So anyway, I ended up making an. So yeah, you you can call 1833,
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  use Uber to request a ride on demand or in advance and.
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  Then I could just give my credit card information over the phone
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  that would that would could you? Have even made the phone call
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  though if you couldn't press the call.
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  Button I could I could. You could call the number.
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  Siri. Siri could dial the number for
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  me. There you go.
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  See We're learning things on the video radio show.
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  So anyway, so I ended up on Sunday, I said let me go ahead
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  and make an appointment. So I called on Sunday and I got
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  the the Apple operator in Texas. Immediately when I heard his
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  voice, I knew that I was going to be OK because it was a gay
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  guy and I you could hear the voice.
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  It was just a very sweet, you could tell the effeminateness.
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  And I saw this is family. So he said, well, the soonest we
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  can get you in is on Thursday. May.
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  Excuse me. Yeah, May something I it was
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  like next week, not this week, it was the following week.
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  I said, listen, I knew he was family.
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  Then when I said this and he laughed, I said I am a drag
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  queen in desperate need of her cell phone.
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  I can't get onto my Facebook. And he went, oh girl, don't
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  worry, I got you. He immediately said, oh girl, I
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  got you. And I get chills from head to
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  toe because, you know, listen, a drag without without the
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  homosexuals is basically nothing.
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  We are so dependent on the gay community for so much.
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  I hope you never get banned, Esme.
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  I God, I love my homosexuals. Like I I really hope that one of
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  these days you don't get banned off Facebook.
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  Why? Because you would go through the
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  withdrawals that I do and you would freaking lose your shit.
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  Oh, I lost my Lance. My Lance Facebook profile.
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  Yeah, so. So he hooked me up.
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  He said, listen, I got a plan, I'm gonna reschedule somebody
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  else and I'm gonna put you in their appointment.
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  I said, are you serious? He goes, yes, that's fucked.
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  I get you all My yeah, I know. Isn't that crazy?
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  No, like 'cause that is actually fucked cause Can you imagine
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  being the other fucking person? I know he didn't.
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  You're just gonna message out? I'm sorry you didn't reschedule.
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  He didn't tell me what, how he did it or whatever, he said.
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  I got you in for tomorrow at 11:30 in the morning.
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  Oh, so now I know. Now, you know, just go ahead and
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  be like, I'm a drag queen in trouble.
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  And when I said, hey, he goes, I said he goes.
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  By the way, what's your stage name 'cause I gave him my legal
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  name, Sonia, you know, and I said, I said, well, my, my sage
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  name is Esme Russell. He goes ohh mistake you one of
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  the Florida legends he. Immediately.
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  Wow. Immediately.
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  He would ohh mistake you. One of the Florida legends.
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  So I said, oh, you know me. He goes, Oh yes, I've heard of
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  you. And I said, oh, that's very
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  sweet. He goes, I said thank you so
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  much for helping me. She said, of course, girl, of
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  course. So that's fine.
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  So I am AI am a stickler for time.
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  So I get to the Apple Store at 10:30 in the morning.
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  The appointment's at 11:30, right?
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  When I get there, they look at me and they say, well, your
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  appointment is at 11:30. What are you doing here?
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  Yeah, that's, that's how they that's.
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  I hate that shit. So I said, well, what do I do?
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  He goes, well, I don't know, go downstairs and get coffee or
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  something. I I.
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  Just have a mall pretzel so. I went downstairs, I got some
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  coffee and then I walked around the mall.
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  I still had my phone, so I was able like to get onto YouTube
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  and stuff like I would tell Siri, Siri get me onto YouTube
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  so I could watch movies or whatever.
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  So at 11:20, I went back to the Apple Store and the guy's
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  waiting at the door and this guy had the most beautiful green
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  eyes I think I've ever seen in my freaking life.
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  My God, he was so just beautiful.
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  He had cold black hair and green, those emerald green eyes.
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  I can't even tell you. So I said, I said, hey, pretty
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  boy, can you get me in now? Pretty boy?
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  That's what I told him. As soon as I said that, his face
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  lit up. Honey, you know, listen,
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  straight guys don't get called pretty all the time, you know?
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  His eyes just went, Oh, yeah, I, I got you, I got you.
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  So he put me right in. And then they put me to this big
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  long wooden table. The table could probably sit 50
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  people easily 25 on one side, 25 on the other.
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  That's how long the table was. I waited there for half an hour
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  at that table and then finally the girl comes.
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  She rerouted, she fixed, she goes, I can't move the screen.
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  I got to get in. I didn't know my Apple password.
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  I mean, it was just a disaster. So finally she was able to
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  figure out here's the deal, I can fix the screen and this is
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  what it's going to cost. I said.
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  I said that's fine. So I paid the $200, whatever it
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  was it to fix the screen. I know it was killing.
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  But anyway, she said it'll be 3 hours.
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  I've already How am I supposed to do without my phone for three
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  hours? That's what I said.
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  I well, I said, I said, well, can I at least call my mother?
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  My, my mother, you know, has dementia and she's elderly.
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  My brother's at home taking care of her.
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  We, we take care of care of her together.
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  At least let my family know I'm not coming home.
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  You know that this is going to be a.
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  Long ass time. Yeah.
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  Oh, I'm sorry. We're hooked up to the
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  diagnostic computer. So I'm like, why didn't you tell
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  me this before? I needed to make call.
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  I needed to let my drag set. When I got the phone after me is
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  to say when I got the phone back after three hours, there were
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  like all these calls, everybody, everybody.
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  But listen, this is the scary part.
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  So I'm walking around, I'm fiddling, I'm touching.
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  It got so bad I must have looked like a drug addict jonesing.
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  So I really have really bad attention deficit where I need
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  to do something. So usually what I do to focus my
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  energy as I grab my cell phone, I scroll, I watch a movie
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  something to 0 ABA calms me. Do you know the the movies?
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  I had nothing to calm me. So I was like walking around
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  popping in stores. By the way, there's nothing in
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  International Mall that's no. God, there ain't fucking shit.
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  In there, I'm just going to go to Gucci and this is.
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  Very for rich people. So I'm like stressing out madly.
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  Dude, I went into fucking goddamn Aeropostol.
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  I'm thinking that I had a $50.00 gift card.
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  I was thinking I was gonna leave there with like a pair of jeans
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  and like 3 different pair of pairs of shorts.
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  No, I, I left there with a shirt and a fucking two shorts and
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  that was it. Oh.
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  Yes, it was pretty. Good and I no no no, I still
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  spent 80 fucking. Dollars to say I was like you
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  didn't. Go.
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  I ordered a copy and she said that'll be $16.00.
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  Oh my God. Six.
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  Yeah. That's the reason why your
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  fucking mall is dying, $16. But you don't have to have ADHD
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  though, to have it. Like I, I was, I was at Home
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  Depot the other day getting paint and like I had the paint
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  symbols on my phone. And she's like, oh, can I just
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  take your phone to like go over here and put in the I'm like,
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  sure. Like, I mean, she had my phone
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  for 45 seconds. I went to my pocket to search
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  for my phone twice in that 45 seconds.
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  Like you go touching your pocket, You're like, oh.
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  So during so during those three hours, I can tell you that I
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  still would check the oh, you know what I'll do?
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  I'll sit right here at this in this little cubby hole and I'll
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  watch face. Oh wait, I.
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  Don't. I can't I can't.
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  I can't I. Did I did it a bunch of times,
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  so 30 minutes. And it's before the time I go
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  and I, I'm sitting there and I'm watching these kids with what
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  they have on their faces, like a like a mask.
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  And they're going like this in the air, like they're pinching
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  in the air. And I'm like, what are they
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  doing? And the lady said, well, it's
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  like a virtual reality phones and you can, I said, Oh my God,
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  can I watch something on that? And she goes, yeah, I said, this
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  is going to save me. I thought I my brain is thinking
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  if I can get on that little machine for 30 minutes, I'm
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  saved. I won't look like some weirdo,
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  you know, scratching my skin, fiddling with my head.
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  I'm just thinking, what do I? So I did that for 25 minutes,
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  thirty minutes. And it was, it was a lot of fun.
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  But yeah, I really did. It gave me a headache, though.
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  It did give me. But I don't care what's worth
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  it. I enjoyed it, but I played
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  chess. I play chess, virtual reality
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  chess. And once you figure out how to
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  grab things, oh wow, it's great. I was like, wow, that's genius.
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  Anyway, I'm going to tell you where I was when my phone came
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  out. The door to the repairs thing is
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  right there inside the Apple Store.
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  Like right there. I was literally standing at the
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  door. Are you the No.
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  Are you for selling it? No.
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  Are you are you for? So everybody, finally this girl
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  said, honey, you've been asking everybody, what are you looking
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  for? I said I'm waiting for my phone.
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  So she went and got my phone. OK, so they find then when I got
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  the phone, here's the other thing.
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  All the apps had to be reloaded. Yeah, yeah, they had cleared my
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  entire phone. And it takes hours to like, pull
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  everything from the cloud, doesn't it?
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  So you still can't really use your phone.
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  Yet I said, so how long before I can use she?
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  He said probably another 2-2 hours.
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  Yeah, Oh yeah, two or three hours.
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  So another two or three hours. I said I think now I may have to
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  take myself to Tampa General. I think I may have to drive
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  'cause I was in Josh's car. I said I think I might have to
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  drive myself to Tampa General. But within an hour I had some of
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  the apps, so I was able to call home and all that.
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  So. I think that I think that the
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  whole Apple situation has definitely helped you get more
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  in touch with your with your inner self.
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  I I know that my attention deficit disorder is a lot more
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  advanced than I give it credit. I feel exactly the same way when
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  it comes to Facebook because since I've been banned I just
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  checked my my my screen time. I am down 44% in terms of phone
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  usage over the last week from the from the week.
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  Prior so I use my phone anywhere between 8:00 to 9:00 hours a
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  day. Yeah, about the.
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  Same, mine was about 8 hours, it's now five hours.
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  Yeah. So it's just that so I what I
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  want to. Say I need to get banned off
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  TikTok. So what I want to say to Apple
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  is that their, their customer service is great.
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  Listen, those kids are doing a good job and I'm not going to
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  bitch at none of those. Those kids in there, they're
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  young people working really, really hard, super knowledgeable
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  at what they're doing. They are, they're quick, they're
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  you. They're very efficient.
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  They're not playing around. I didn't see any slackies in
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  there. Apparently they have very strict
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  rules about do your job or you're going to get fired.
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  Oh yeah, 'cause everybody was working.
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  I'm sorry, there was nobody staying.
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  I watched that store for hours. Nobody was standing.
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  Well. You had to.
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  There's no other reason. Yeah, yeah, the place was
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  slammed, but. Anyways, let's go.
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  Let's go on some hot topic. But I do need to say this before
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  we go to the hot topic. Apple's got to do better about
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  not having enough repair stores in the city. 1 repair store for
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  almost 1,000,000 people is just not cutting the mustard.
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  No, I'm just telling you and I, you said that there's no store
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  in Saint Pete. No, no, there's only Tampa
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  International. And Brandon?
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  Yep. Brandon Yeah.
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  But that's so that's so far. That's that's farther.
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  So that means there's only one store for 2 million people?
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  Yeah, well, anyways, Jimmy Kimmel's in the news.
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  Jimmy Donald and Melania Trump have malaria.
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  Or, you know, Well, I don't. What did I say last?
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  Week. I don't know, but her name is
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  Malaria. Malaria.
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  Trump, Trump. That's what I've always called.
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  Her oh malignant tumor is what I called.
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  Her malignant. Tumor.
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  She's calling on ABC to fire Jimmy Kimmel after he made a
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  joke describing the first lady as having the glow of an
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  expectant widow. It happened before.
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  It happened during a segment parroting the White House
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  Correspondents Association speech.
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  Esme. Did it happen before or after
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  it? I I don't have that in my notes.
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  It happened before before. So it it he didn't know that it
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  was going to happen. He.
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  Was he was doing like a mock? Yeah, and it was a it was a
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  couple of dating, like yeah, a couple of.
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  Comedians. Here's a mock one.
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  Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
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  So a religious broadcasting group has filed A complaint with
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  the FEC, Federal Election Commission over the over the
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  incident. And the FCC is also going ahead
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  and investigating ABC for this. I think that it's hysterical
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  that I mean, Donald Trump can go ahead and talk as much shit
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  about other people as he wants. He can just say whatever the
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  fuck he want. Robert Mueller fucking he's
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  dead. Can say whatever he wants about
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  these people. What about when the when the
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  husband and wife got got stabbed by the son?
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  What? I can't think about Carl Reiner.
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  Yeah, he said, he said I'm, he said they, oh, they he was a he
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  was a Trump. He was, he had Trump Derangement
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  Syndrome derangement. And that's why he was killed in
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  his bed with his wife. I mean, what kind of a horrible
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  thing to? Say not only that he talks shit
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  about Nancy Pelosi when Paul Pelosi got fucking yeah, got got
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  so he can go ahead and say as much shit as he wants to say
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  Yeah. And yet the moment somebody else
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  throws it back in his fucking face, he gets offended.
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  Yeah, these are the biggest fucking snowflakes on the damn
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  planet. Crybabies.
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  They are crybabies. They are the most wannabe alpha
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  beta cocks on the fucking planet.
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  I agree. I have never seen a more
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  centralized group of losers in my entire life.
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  I agree like these people have never it.
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  It feels as though they've never even talked to a fucking woman.
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  No, you're right. Like it feels like they are
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  angry because because of the fact that they have been
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  rejected by society and so they can only form a collective to
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  target others. You know, I don't know, I don't
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  know if you guys are the same or if you know people that have
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  gone through this, but anytime someone is ill, anytime you have
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  any type of illness, whether it God forbid be cancer or heart
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  issues or anything. A lot of people have a come to
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  Jesus moment. Even people that are not
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  religious, they calm down, they become more they they consider
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  their lives more, they consider their relationships more, they
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  consider their behavior more. And this is a man that's not
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  well. This is a man whose health you
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  don't I don't need to say is he okay?
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  No, there is clearly the bruising on both hands now, the
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  swelling of the ankles, the face, the sagging on the one
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  side. He's obviously had some a very
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  small, possibly a partial stroke on one side.
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  He this is a man that is clearly visibly in physical trouble.
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  There's there's a health issues going on and it's a lot of
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  things at once. It's not one thing.
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  It's several things. You would think he'd be kinder,
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  nicer, softer. I see more ugliness, more
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  vitriol, more revenge. I don't understand.
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  I don't get it. I.
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  It's yeah, like he definitely wants to, like, leave a legacy.
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  I mean, it feels like, yeah. It like, like everybody is there
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  entering their final years, whatever, you know, and they
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  feel like I I want to leave something.
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  I feel like that's where he's at.
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  But what he wants to leave isn't, you know, this beautiful
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  legacy of hope and, and, and happiness and it's just getting
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  his name on things, getting arches built, getting, you know,
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  ballroom built, anything he can just to put his name on it.
• 18:34
  So he feels like he left something behind.
• 18:36
  But it's nothing that anybody is asking for.
• 18:37
  I was, I was watching a video of Biden with an autistic child
• 18:43
  would not an autistic, but he's one of those special needs kids
• 18:47
  and he, I guess his father had died or been murdered or
• 18:50
  whatever. And the little boy was maybe,
• 18:52
  maybe about 12 or 13 years old, runs up to Biden and he goes,
• 18:57
  Sir, Sir, can you hug me? And Biden turns around and said,
• 19:01
  oh, my God, I would love for you to hug me, too.
• 19:03
  And they hugged. And I, the little boy, you could
• 19:06
  hear the little boy say, I'm very, very sad about my dad.
• 19:10
  And he said. And Biden pulled back and goes,
• 19:12
  are you OK? And the little boy goes, I'm not
• 19:15
  OK, Sir. And he said, but you're going to
• 19:17
  be OK. You're going to be OK Remember
• 19:20
  that. I remember that your president
• 19:22
  told you that, OK, you're going to be OK.
• 19:25
  And then he hugged him again deeply.
• 19:27
  And you could hear some of the reporters go, oh, this is so
• 19:30
  beautiful. And that's what we want.
• 19:33
  Again, we we seek that in our president.
• 19:36
  We need compassion. We need compassion and empathy
• 19:39
  and love and I don't know, I don't need you to be a wuss, but
• 19:43
  I need, you know, my man, my dad was the most masculine man I've
• 19:46
  ever known in my life, but he still was filled with
• 19:49
  compassion. You know, I just he Trump.
• 19:55
  Have you ever seen Trump laugh? He rarely laughs.
• 19:57
  No, he doesn't. He's not a man of joy like
• 19:58
  you've never seen him in a joyful man.
• 20:01
  It's it's, I feel sorry for him, honestly.
• 20:03
  The man doesn't even love. He doesn't have a dog.
• 20:06
  No, no, it's yeah, he doesn't. Even a dog.
• 20:09
  Yeah, you know what I'm saying? I can hate him and at the same
• 20:12
  time be compassionate for the fact that he is a man who's
• 20:14
  never been shown unconditional love.
• 20:18
  So Mary Trump. Mary Trump is his I.
• 20:20
  Believe she she was the closest thing to giving him.
• 20:22
  Well, she said that Trump's father never loved.
• 20:26
  No, no. And none of the sons.
• 20:27
  But Trump has always wanted to be loved.
• 20:31
  Yeah, Yeah. And he doesn't get love and he's
• 20:33
  not lovable, she said. He's not lovable.
• 20:35
  He's arrogant. He's narcissistic.
• 20:37
  He's mean, He's rude. Well, he's lovable by the all
• 20:40
  those who are exactly the same way that you're describing.
• 20:43
  Yeah, You know, those who are just like him.
• 20:45
  He's loved. So the people that Scaramucci
• 20:49
  is, his name, Anthony Anthony, who was in the White House, he
• 20:52
  said, he said that everyone inside that White House, and
• 20:56
  this is his quote, I'm quoting him now.
• 20:59
  Everyone that works under Trump hates him, of course.
• 21:03
  They can't stand the sight of him.
• 21:04
  But they love power more They're.
• 21:06
  Embarrassed by him? Yeah, he is.
• 21:08
  They see him as a deeply flawed, very weak horse.
• 21:12
  A bad man. But beta cop.
• 21:14
  Yeah, but they are. It's correct.
• 21:16
  They're obsessed with the power. Is more important.
• 21:18
  Yeah, that's more important than that, but yeah, he said.
• 21:21
  If you think that those people look when he's gone, when he
• 21:24
  finally dies, all of them, he said, are going to come out of
• 21:27
  the woodwork and say many of them are going to say what they
• 21:30
  really thought about him. I don't know if you ever saw the
• 21:32
  the clip that of a where a governor Pritzker was talking to
• 21:35
  a college. It was like 5 or 6 years ago.
• 21:37
  It went really viral. But his whole theme was how do
• 21:39
  you spot an idiot? And he points out that idiots
• 21:42
  often can be very successful, can even become president La La
• 21:45
  la. But he points how you spot an
• 21:47
  idiot is you look for the person who's the most cruel.
• 21:50
  And the reason for that is because, you know, our, our
• 21:53
  minds, our reptilian brain, our early unevolved brain is
• 21:57
  designed to sort of recognize what's different and to be
• 22:00
  afraid of it. You know, like that's, that's
• 22:02
  evolution. But what is also evolution is
• 22:05
  that we, we evolved by learning compassion.
• 22:08
  We evolved by facing our fears, by surrounding ourselves with
• 22:11
  people who aren't like us and realizing that our fears were
• 22:15
  unfounded. And that's how we'd be.
• 22:16
  But if you, the person who's cruel, it's because they never
• 22:19
  evolved past their reptilian brain.
• 22:21
  They're still stuck in that place of picking out what's
• 22:23
  different and making it bad, making it evil, making it scary.
• 22:27
  And that's, and that's what we're seeing at, you know, and
• 22:29
  it's, that's part of part of that's emotional intelligence as
• 22:31
  well. And emotional intelligence,
• 22:32
  unless it's taught, doesn't just happen.
• 22:35
  Unless it's wanted, it doesn't just happen.
• 22:38
  And what we're seeing is this lack of emotional intentions,
• 22:40
  this lack of empathy, this life of compassion, this level of
• 22:43
  cruelty. And I think when you talk about
• 22:44
  the duck thing, that's an example of somebody just being
• 22:47
  prone towards cruelty for no other reason than just.
• 22:50
  Well, if you're we can, we can talk about the duck lady now.
• 22:54
  But, you know, cruelty towards animals is a fine line towards
• 22:59
  cruelty to humans. Of course.
• 23:01
  Yeah, If you can hurt an innocent animal, you could
• 23:04
  easily hurt another person. You know what I mean?
• 23:07
  So let's talk about the duck lady.
• 23:09
  So this lady, I got to find her little paper here.
• 23:12
  She was arrested for running over baby ducks.
• 23:18
  I'm talking about little, tiny, little, they fit in your hand
• 23:21
  size baby ducks. They were all walking in a row
• 23:25
  with the Mama in the front. And that's how they follow her
• 23:28
  in a little row. You ever see the ducks when they
• 23:30
  do that? And it's the cutest thing in the
• 23:32
  world? And Beverly Sasberry, 64 years
• 23:36
  old, from Jacksonville, saw them.
• 23:40
  She was in a red Honda Civic. She saw the baby ducks on the
• 23:43
  sidewalk, so she climbed with her vehicle off the curb onto
• 23:48
  the sidewalk and ran over all the ducks.
• 23:52
  She missed the mother by inches. And the only reason she didn't
• 23:55
  kill the mother is because the mother jumped out of the way
• 23:59
  hoping the babies would follow her because they do everything
• 24:01
  she does. But the babies just weren't fast
• 24:04
  enough. And she killed all the babies
• 24:07
  and then the mother, the mother duck.
• 24:09
  And you see, I saw the video though, I, I, which I don't, I,
• 24:13
  if you're into animals, I'd suggest you not watch it cause
• 24:15
  the, the, the, the animals blood everywhere.
• 24:19
  It was just horrific. And thank God it was caught on
• 24:23
  camera by somebody's front camera of their house.
• 24:26
  And the lady that owned the house that filmed the camera,
• 24:29
  she'd been feeding those ducks cornmeal.
• 24:33
  So it was like they were coming there for her, you know, and
• 24:36
  then they went to the lady's house because she drove away.
• 24:39
  But somebody got the license plate.
• 24:41
  They went to her house and got her and arrested her.
• 24:43
  And the judge was sickened by her.
• 24:46
  And he, he gave her 11 counts, including one for cruelty to
• 24:52
  animals with the, with the intention of killing them, you
• 24:56
  know. And so, I mean, she's, she's in
• 24:58
  jail. He said.
• 25:00
  I don't, I'm not. He didn't want to even give her
• 25:02
  bond. He was so angry.
• 25:03
  But I could understand the frustration, you know, killing
• 25:07
  innocent animals, that's scary. That's a reptilian brain there.
• 25:11
  Oh, yeah. You know, it's either that or
• 25:12
  mental illness, which I don't know what's going on.
• 25:15
  You know, she's 64 years old. She's a year younger than me.
• 25:18
  But I'm going to tell you, I have no desire to kill.
• 25:20
  I don't. I can't even kill a lizard
• 25:22
  Right? Yeah.
• 25:23
  Do you know what I mean? Which Speaking of lizards, there
• 25:25
  were two lizards the other day and I was just they were so
• 25:30
  disgusting that what they were doing they were having sex on my
• 25:33
  front porch and I did not know that lizards fucked like that.
• 25:39
  The male lizard got on top of the female lizard and she opens
• 25:42
  up her mouth like it's like a fake screen but nothing comes
• 25:45
  out and he was just slamming her.
• 25:48
  So I'm asking Chris cause Chris would know maybe he can look it
• 25:52
  up on the Internet. Do male lizards have a penis?
• 25:55
  I'm. Sure, they kind of got her, I
• 25:58
  think. Everything has penises.
• 25:59
  No, everything doesn't have a penis.
• 26:03
  Do you know I have? Probably 10,000 lizard, do you
• 26:05
  know? What male lizard to a penis?
• 26:06
  Yes, they have paired reproductive organs called
• 26:09
  herpenes, which function similarly to a penis.
• 26:14
  OK. Wow, I mean it was disgusting, I
• 26:17
  think disgusting. And then my penis, my brother
• 26:20
  heard me 'cause I live in the apartment house behind the main
• 26:23
  house and my brother heard me. He goes Who are you?
• 26:25
  They. Actually have two.
• 26:27
  Ohh God they have two. I can barely have the one.
• 26:30
  One stored inside the base of the.
• 26:32
  Thanks for including this into my search history as me.
• 26:36
  Do male lizards have penises? They have one stored at the base
• 26:40
  of the tail and averted through the cloak during mating.
• 26:46
  These organs can be Y or V shaped and often adorned with
• 26:51
  spikes. Ow.
• 26:53
  So yeah, that's why she was screaming.
• 26:55
  She was screaming. I'm going to tell you.
• 26:57
  She looked like she was having a good time.
• 27:00
  Well, let's not judge them then, shall we?
• 27:01
  I won't get you. Got a room man.
• 27:03
  Why don't you hide by some bushes or something?
• 27:05
  I don't think they understand. I mean I walked walked by them
• 27:08
  and they just kept right on going.
• 27:10
  I said can y'all see me? Am I invisible God?
• 27:14
  Damn, there's the title of the episode Sex Lizards.
• 27:18
  Well can y'all see me? God damn man these freaking
• 27:21
  lizards just crazy. I love lizards though.
• 27:25
  I I can't even going back to what I say I I can't even hurt a
• 27:27
  lizard. So I would have heard a little
• 27:29
  ducks, but. See, this is the ADHD that you
• 27:31
  have. No, but I stay.
• 27:32
  On track? No, there was no track there.
• 27:35
  The track was gone. You were going Polar Express on
• 27:38
  the. No, no, I, but I, I, I didn't
• 27:40
  lose my comrade. I was talking about the duck
• 27:42
  lady and how she hurt the ducks. And then I said I couldn't even
• 27:45
  hurt lizards, much less the ducks.
• 27:46
  Thanks for the recap. I stay, I stay.
• 27:49
  By the way, how do ducks? Do ducks have penises?
• 27:52
  Why the fuck are you so obsessed with?
• 27:54
  Just open open Incognito mode before you type anything.
• 27:56
  Do ducks have penis? I think ducks fertilized, yeah.
• 28:02
  Yes, they have. They're a male.
• 28:04
  They have a curly. Penis, don't they?
• 28:05
  A male duck is called a Drake. Yes, apparently.
• 28:09
  I didn't know that, but yeah, they have a penis.
• 28:12
  And apparently only 3% of birds bird species have penises.
• 28:19
  Their penises are typically Corkscrew shaped and can be
• 28:22
  exceptionally long, sometimes even longer than their bodies,
• 28:26
  and are are explosive extending in less than a second.
• 28:33
  I don't know what the fuck explosive means.
• 28:35
  That means that he sticks it in a real fast he he ejaculates it
• 28:39
  and then pulls it right back out.
• 28:40
  It's a fucked up topic. Efficient anyways.
• 28:44
  Well Esme, other than male duck Dick, what are we going to go
• 28:47
  out and talk about after the break?
• 28:49
  So let me see also we're going to talk about the the remains of
• 28:53
  the missing USF student and what the university wants to do about
• 28:58
  it as far as giving them some kind of a, a little gift to the
• 29:02
  family and to the memory of the students.
• 29:05
  And that's all I have right now. But we got also got the Lincoln
• 29:10
  Memorial reflecting pool vandalized with 8647 graffiti.
• 29:14
  We're going to talk about that. We've got RFK Junior threatening
• 29:19
  to withhold millions of funding because of a specific product
• 29:23
  that they that that hospitals are giving out.
• 29:27
  We also got, you know, we're going to talk about Esme's boobs
• 29:32
  probably some more. We got a House Republicans are
• 29:34
  pushing nationwide don't say gay bill as well.
• 29:37
  And then we got some. Happy Cinco de Mayo.
• 29:40
  Happy Cinco de Mayo. And also we've got some Supreme
• 29:43
  Court cases to go ahead and go over.
• 29:45
  But first we're going to go ahead and throw it over to Clara
• 29:47
  Leeson from Project No Labels for our big gay news and then
• 29:50
  over to Vin Suasian for Vin on the go.
• 29:52
  We'll be right back. I'm Claire Leeson from Project
• 29:58
  No Labels and this is your LGBTQ plus news from around the
• 30:02
  country and right here in Tampa Bay in Idaho from KUTV, 6
• 30:07
  transgender residents are suing the state and federal court over
• 30:10
  a strict new bathroom law set to take effect in July.
• 30:13
  The law would make it a crime to use a restroom or locker room
• 30:16
  that doesn't match a person's sex assigned at birth, even in
• 30:18
  privately owned businesses. A first offense could carry up
• 30:21
  to a year in jail, with repeat violations rising to a felony.
• 30:25
  The plaintiffs, represented by ACLU and and Legal, argued the
• 30:28
  law forces them to choose between staying home or risking
• 30:31
  harassment, arrest or violence in public spaces.
• 30:34
  Supporters of the law say it's intended to protect women and
• 30:37
  children, but those challenging it say there are often no
• 30:40
  alternative facilities available.
• 30:42
  In national news from the Washington Blade, Republicans in
• 30:45
  Congress are pushing to include five anti LGBTQ provisions and
• 30:49
  must pass federal funding bill. These writers would restrict
• 30:52
  pride flags at federal buildings, limit diplomatic
• 30:55
  roles tied to human rights, and block funding for organizations
• 30:58
  that provide or even acknowledge gender affirming care.
• 31:01
  Others would expand global gag rules affecting international
• 31:05
  aid programs. Advocates warn the measures
• 31:07
  could significantly limit both domestic protection and US
• 31:10
  influence on LGBTQ plus rights abroad if included in the final
• 31:14
  budget. In Orlando from Watermark Out
• 31:16
  News, four major Central Florida organizations are joining forces
• 31:19
  to award more than $100,000 in scholarships to LGBTQ plus
• 31:23
  students and allies. The effort includes the LGBT
• 31:26
  Plus Center Orlando, the Central Florida Foundation, the Drew
• 31:30
  Project, and the Sing House Scholarship for Performing Arts.
• 31:33
  The scholarship supports students pursuing higher
• 31:35
  education, vocational training, and careers in the arts.
• 31:38
  A joint reception honoring recipients is scheduled for July
• 31:41
  22nd and several application deadlines are approaching in the
• 31:44
  coming months. And finally, in Sarasota,
• 31:47
  Project Pride has named Justin Hunter Cerruti as interim
• 31:50
  executive Director through at least the end of 2026.
• 31:53
  Hunter Cerruti, currently the organization's board president,
• 31:56
  will step into the role as leadership transitions following
• 31:59
  the departure of the previous executive director earlier this
• 32:02
  year. Project Pride says the move is
• 32:04
  aimed at maintaining continuity and continuing its work in the
• 32:07
  community during the transition. Please remember to stay safe and
• 32:10
  treat yourself and others with kindness.
• 32:12
  This has been your LGBTQ plus news for the Big Gay radio show.
• 32:15
  I'm Claire Leeson on 88.5 WMNF Tampa.
• 32:24
  What's up Tampa Bay? This is Mr. Vince Suasian
• 32:26
  stepping in for Joanna Grasso and you're listening to Joe on
• 32:29
  the Go Tampa Bay, your weekly guide to what's happening around
• 32:31
  the city. Here's what's coming up in order
• 32:34
  On Thursday, May 7th there are two great options depending on
• 32:37
  your vibe. First in Saint Pete, the Skittle
• 32:39
  Squad Podcast is celebrating their one year anniversary from
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  7:00 to 9:00 PM at the Wet Spot. Expect a fun, high energy night
• 32:46
  with drinks, light bites and a strong sense of community.
• 32:49
  Also on Thursday, May 7th in Sarasota, The Bee Fabulous Music
• 32:52
  and Arts Pride Fest Opening night of exhibition takes place
• 32:55
  from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM Titled Still We Rise, Queer and Trans
• 32:59
  Defiance, this event highlights LGBTQ plus voices through art,
• 33:02
  performance, and storytelling. Then on Saturday, May 9th, St.
• 33:05
  Pete Pride is hosting a community Yard sale from 9:00 AM
• 33:08
  to 4:00 PM. It's a one day event featuring
• 33:11
  everything from decor and furniture to pass Pride Merge
• 33:14
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• 33:23
  Have a great week, Tampa Bay. This is the big gay radio show
• 33:31
  on 88.5 WMN. Welcome back to the Big Gay
• 33:36
  After show. My name is Chris Gorman.
• 33:38
  I'm your show twink, joined by Esme Russell, the trans queen of
• 33:41
  radio and Daddy lands. Yeah, that's.
• 33:44
  US welcome in everybody. Thank you.
• 33:47
  Miss Esme, drop some tea on us. What's the tea?
• 33:52
  Today is El Diaz Cinco de Mayo ejunas celebracion que SUS ojere
• 34:00
  en Las oreje en piazas en Mexico Y El mexicano la celebre en
• 34:05
  tambien pero americano lanco jigo Porto mar El Cole yen Bora
• 34:10
  charce. You want me to translate it for
• 34:13
  you? Yeah, 'cause I'm, you know,
• 34:14
  gringo. Today is Cinco de Mayo.
• 34:17
  It is a celebration that is started in Mexico is not the
• 34:21
  celebration of the independence of Mexico.
• 34:25
  It's a celebration actually where they were liberated from
• 34:28
  France. They were at war with the
• 34:30
  French. But what makes it interesting is
• 34:33
  that the American people have turned it into a drinking
• 34:35
  holiday and Mexicans don't see it that way.
• 34:38
  By the way, I wanted to add in English, I could have said it in
• 34:42
  Spanish as well, that if you voted for Trump, you're not
• 34:45
  allowed to celebrate Cinco de. Mayo no tacos for you.
• 34:48
  No tacos for you and enchiladas either.
• 34:53
  Oh my God, Chris I. Can't believe I was in a Mexican
• 34:57
  restaurant the other day and this biker comes in.
• 35:00
  I'm I'm a biker. No, Yeah, yeah.
• 35:02
  This biker and his wife come in and the biker, he's wearing some
• 35:05
  kind of American flag shirt. I mean, it didn't really have
• 35:06
  any messaging or whatever, but then the wife was wearing a Gulf
• 35:11
  of America T-shirt and they're in there picking up their to go
• 35:13
  order from the Mexican restaurant and I wanted to be
• 35:15
  like, get the fuck out. Yeah, like seriously.
• 35:18
  No, you don't belong here. Like no, you don't serve this
• 35:21
  good Mexican food. And they're the first ones that
• 35:24
  if they don't get their treatment that they want.
• 35:25
  That's right, screaming. I might have called immigration
• 35:27
  on you guys and report y'all probably illegal employees
• 35:30
  because they love threatening those people.
• 35:32
  Just as so sad. So yeah, today is Cinco de Mayo.
• 35:38
  Cinco de Mayo. So Chris is we want to celebrate
• 35:42
  Chris. He passed the Spanish test.
• 35:45
  He got yes. And by the way, not only did he
• 35:48
  pass Spanish, but he's done two things.
• 35:51
  He doesn't know a word of Spanish.
• 35:54
  And he won't give me the name of the teacher that passed him
• 35:58
  because I have been threatening to call this woman and cuss her
• 36:02
  out and ask her what kind of a scam is she pulling teaching
• 36:05
  students Spanish that cannot speak Spanish?
• 36:09
  He can't even speak basic Spanish.
• 36:12
  I'm surprised I don't understand.
• 36:14
  Is it can't or don't want to? I don't understand.
• 36:18
  Just to just to go ahead and clarify this, maybe I don't want
• 36:22
  to speak. Spanish, I'm in shock, he said.
• 36:25
  I passed Spanish. What?
• 36:26
  What, What did? What was the score?
• 36:27
  You got very high scores. Like an 80 like something.
• 36:30
  So you got it like I I got it like 97 on the exam.
• 36:33
  That's what I'm saying. We got a very high score.
• 36:36
  I'm like, how is it possible that you got 90?
• 36:42
  He look, he said a full sentence.
• 36:44
  He said a full dude. Yo, soy gringo, there's my
• 36:47
  fucking what? Is that anybody?
• 36:50
  I am gringo and. Gringo is really it's such a
• 37:00
  well, that's what Castro called the Americans Rogeringo, if it
• 37:04
  be no Castro, it's so good. Ingo how many candles?
• 37:08
  That sounds about that sounds like me sounds good description
• 37:11
  my friend, but so for. You.
• 37:12
  So is that all you know how to say?
• 37:13
  You're so good, Ingo. Pretty much that's all I care to
• 37:17
  say. Chris, it's just Chris.
• 37:20
  But why wouldn't you give me this lady's number?
• 37:22
  'Cause it's, I don't want you to go ahead and start shit, 'cause
• 37:25
  I have, I have her again this next semester.
• 37:28
  What do you what do you have with her?
• 37:29
  Spanish too. Again.
• 37:30
  Yeah, you have to take two different Spanish classes,
• 37:33
  Chris, or two different foreign language classes.
• 37:37
  Did you say, did you take foreign language in high school?
• 37:39
  Yeah, OK. You still have to do it in
• 37:41
  college. You have to do it again.
• 37:42
  What I would say is, look, I don't know what you're doing,
• 37:45
  but this kid can't speak Spanish.
• 37:48
  Do you understand what I'm telling you?
• 37:50
  I don't care if you gave him a 98100.
• 37:53
  I don't care he cannot communicate in Spanish.
• 37:57
  So what are you running here? What is actually going on here?
• 38:01
  What is he? How many hours are you are in
• 38:02
  your class? Three days a week for like an
• 38:05
  hour and a half. So hour and a half, three days a
• 38:08
  week, you explain to me what are you teaching?
• 38:11
  I get it, it's hard like I I think education emphasizes short
• 38:14
  term retention so much like and I has been I I took three years
• 38:16
  of Spanish. I still don't actually speak it
• 38:18
  well though. My accent.
• 38:19
  It is hilarious. Though, but like, you need
• 38:22
  immersion. Like if I go and spend a week in
• 38:24
  Mexico City, I come out like, and I'm, you know, I've, I've
• 38:26
  gained so much more than I could sitting in, you know, in class.
• 38:29
  Like it's it's, yeah, but you should know a little.
• 38:32
  Bit more so when he told me that he was passing Spanish, I got so
• 38:34
  excited so I said so and he went.
• 38:40
  He went well I don't understand it that fast so I said OK well
• 38:44
  let me slow it down. Crito a como estas como la tas
• 38:49
  pasando men tiendes El espanol que de hablo.
• 38:52
  You know what he tells me? I knew the como estas like I
• 38:56
  knew that one. I'll pick that one up.
• 38:59
  It's incredible to me, I tell you the truth.
• 39:02
  I said, well, I'm glad at least you got the grade that you need
• 39:04
  to so you could get through school.
• 39:05
  That's. All I fucking care about, man.
• 39:07
  Yeah, that's all I fucking care about.
• 39:09
  Now do you in the class, do you take words like you study words
• 39:13
  and you and she says words in Spanish?
• 39:16
  Yeah. So what is the actual name of
• 39:18
  the class? Spanish one.
• 39:20
  Spanish one beginning Spanish so it's for elementary.
• 39:24
  So it's so she starts with numbers like Uno, those today's
• 39:27
  Quadro Cinco saying OK, yeah. And basic was like pero gato.
• 39:33
  Exactly, Casa. Exactly.
• 39:37
  See. Yas exactly Rojo basic stuff
• 39:39
  like como estas and stuff like. Como estas moving the?
• 39:43
  Different like genders for different things.
• 39:45
  Yeah, do. You know your name in Spanish,
• 39:47
  Cristobal? Yeah, Cristobal is your name in
• 39:50
  Spanish? There's we could and we, we, we
• 39:53
  would say Greece. Anyways, let's fucking move on.
• 39:56
  I'm done with this shit anyways, Esme, stop yelling about my
• 40:00
  fucking teachers. You never know, she might be
• 40:01
  listening, right? I tell you the truth, I would
• 40:03
  love to talk to her. I have so many questions for her
• 40:06
  about what she's doing over there 'cause she's getting a
• 40:09
  check. Why don't you go get the fucking
• 40:11
  check? I'll tell, I'll tell you this.
• 40:13
  Y'all would be speaking Spanish if I was teaching that guy.
• 40:15
  Don't you go and fucking teach Spanish then?
• 40:18
  Y'all would be speaking Spanish. Go do it.
• 40:20
  I would tell you that right now. Ain't nobody fucking stopping
• 40:23
  you anyways. McDonald's is phasing out
• 40:26
  self-serve soda fountains across the United States, replacing
• 40:29
  them with drinks prepared behind the counter.
• 40:32
  The tradition transition. Oh, they're trans.
• 40:34
  The transition is already underway and is expected to be
• 40:38
  completed gradually by 2032. It's a part of the broader push
• 40:42
  to modernize restaurants and adapt to more drive through,
• 40:46
  takeout and delivery orders. So I'm going to say about that,
• 40:49
  that I'm kind of surprised it didn't happen sooner because I
• 40:53
  thought that the self-service is very wasteful.
• 40:55
  Well, I think, I'm sure also, I'm sure they absolutely,
• 40:58
  especially in larger places, have, you know, people, maybe
• 41:01
  homeless people, but who knows, unhoused, who you know, will
• 41:04
  come in and just fill up a cup. You know, if they're busy, come
• 41:06
  in and fill up a cup and you know, yeah, so I get it.
• 41:09
  Yeah, I it's just very wasteful. You, you, you can't monitor
• 41:12
  portions. You people are just, you know,
• 41:15
  serving it however they want to serve it.
• 41:17
  I know I was in a McDonald's in San Francisco and they had a a
• 41:20
  whole conveyor belt thing that was doing the drinks.
• 41:23
  Like it wasn't even a person involved it, but just there's
• 41:25
  the drinks would get filled up by a machine and then come out
• 41:28
  like so it's crazy. I honestly, I, I, I prefer the
• 41:33
  fancy ones, like the ones that have like the Coke machines that
• 41:37
  have all the different kinds of different cokes and stuff, the
• 41:39
  different flavors and stuff like that.
• 41:41
  But I like they do at the movie theater.
• 41:43
  Yeah, I think that that's better at a place like a movie theater
• 41:46
  or like a a theme park or the Rays have that like throughout
• 41:51
  the entirety of the stadium. So you can just go ahead and
• 41:53
  refill. That's kind of where it makes
• 41:55
  sense. A fast food restaurant probably
• 41:57
  doesn't make sense. I got it.
• 41:58
  I went to when I went to see the movie yesterday, deep water.
• 42:02
  I got a my my son Michael got me a a strawberry soda.
• 42:07
  That was so freaking good, man. I'm still thinking.
• 42:10
  I was thinking, I was thinking about that soda right now.
• 42:14
  It was so good, man. That soda was good.
• 42:18
  Oh well, by the way, I was going to go and surprise you with
• 42:22
  these, but I didn't get a chance to go to Costco in my time being
• 42:26
  banned off Facebook. I've checked the messages on the
• 42:29
  Instagram and apparently two weeks ago and we had somebody
• 42:33
  message in saying that Costco has footlong hot dogs.
• 42:38
  Miss Esme. I did not know that.
• 42:40
  So you if you want a footlong dog and a footlong bun the only
• 42:44
  maybe you should go to Costco. Do they sell the footlong bun?
• 42:47
  Like that guy would assume. So if you got the footlong dog,
• 42:50
  you don't want a tiny bun overhanging.
• 42:52
  I've always, I've always felt that hot dogs should be bigger.
• 42:55
  Well, how long? How long?
• 42:56
  I mean, they've had, they've had hot dogs all this time, but
• 42:57
  they're what standard. Like, yeah, what is standard?
• 43:00
  7-8 inches. Yeah, the Costco is the ones
• 43:03
  that they have prepared, I am assuming is the standard is the
• 43:06
  standard size, but apparently you can go buy like a pack of
• 43:10
  footlong hot dogs. Oh no I'm sorry, pre made or no?
• 43:13
  No, no pre made. Oh, OK.
• 43:15
  Just yeah, just the just the footlong hot dogs.
• 43:18
  Is this hard to find? I don't.
• 43:19
  Know I guess so Esme has complained for Esme was
• 43:22
  complaining about how how she don't get the long dogs.
• 43:25
  I love them. Well, I love them.
• 43:27
  I like. Yeah.
• 43:27
  Where? Do you get the bun though?
• 43:28
  That's the good point. That's the bun.
• 43:29
  The bun is the trick. The bun is the trick, I would
• 43:32
  imagine. I'm gonna check in on that.
• 43:34
  I'm gonna yeah 'cause my my son Michael has goes to Costco all
• 43:37
  the time. Report on.
• 43:38
  So I'm gonna find out if he can hook me up with them foot long
• 43:41
  hot dogs. Yeah.
• 43:42
  Wow, 'cause if I love. Is it just so like you can just,
• 43:45
  I mean is it too hard to like eat 2 hot dogs?
• 43:47
  Or is it according to Esme is? It just like if you if you if
• 43:50
  it's a foot long. So the story I only had I only
• 43:52
  had one hot dog, the. The the topic started because I
• 43:55
  went to the Rays game and they had those.
• 43:58
  They have those all you can eat seats that for.
• 44:01
  I only paid $25 for this most recent time and you can get
• 44:05
  unlimited hot dogs, unlimited beer, wine, unlimited popcorn,
• 44:10
  nachos, sliders, all that fucking shit.
• 44:13
  I only paid $25.00. It starts at 50 but I ate I
• 44:19
  think it was like close to 7 or 8 hot dogs.
• 44:21
  Jesus Christ. I had about 8 or 9 glasses of
• 44:24
  wine and I had about like 3 or 4 things of popcorn.
• 44:29
  And yeah, Esme was like, I wonder how much you would have
• 44:33
  had if they were the footlong hot dog as opposed to the the
• 44:36
  the traditional size. So you know what hot dog is one
• 44:39
  of those foods that I could have different ways.
• 44:41
  Like I I like a hot dog with sauerkraut and mustard.
• 44:46
  I also like the only thing I don't like on a hot dog is
• 44:48
  ketchup. I don't ever put ketchup on a
• 44:51
  hot dog. Yeah, I don't usually like Lube
• 44:53
  on my hot dog, but I like to slide it down there, Glizzy
• 44:56
  right down the throne. I think the.
• 44:58
  I wish you have said that in Spanish.
• 45:01
  Just something tells you would have been better.
• 45:03
  It would have been better. Yeah, guess what, You said it in
• 45:06
  English. You didn't.
• 45:08
  I I mean, a plain hot dog is what I was referring to.
• 45:11
  Yeah, I like a plain dog. I mean, sometimes I'll I'll put
• 45:13
  ketchup on it, but a plain hot dog, Especially the ballpark.
• 45:17
  Chili and coleslaw. A chili slaw dog.
• 45:21
  It does, and there's. No need for ketchup because the
• 45:23
  chili replaces it. You could do a little mustard if
• 45:25
  you wanted to, but chili and coleslaw?
• 45:27
  That's all you need. Anyways, RFK Junior is
• 45:30
  threatening to withhold millions of funding for hospitals that
• 45:33
  serve jello and other sugary treats.
• 45:39
  Listen, they have there. Are more important things.
• 45:41
  There are more important things, but you know, sometimes when
• 45:43
  you're in a hospital, that's all you can eat.
• 45:46
  You know what I mean is Jello and but they also sell.
• 45:50
  Look, if you're I got a friend of mine that's in the hospital
• 45:53
  right now for diabetes. She's she eats sugar free Jello.
• 45:57
  They have sugar free jello and it tastes great, you know, so I
• 46:01
  like jello and it's such a easy, you know, especially if you've
• 46:05
  had throats, any kind of throat surgery, it slides down real
• 46:09
  easy. It's easy to swallow.
• 46:10
  That's. Another thing that slides down
• 46:11
  easy just like a hot dog makes me want a hot dog.
• 46:15
  It just makes me want a hot dog real bad.
• 46:18
  With you guys. But no, Jello is just.
• 46:22
  What's his? I mean, just it's sugary.
• 46:23
  I mean, I, I don't, yeah. It's so they have.
• 46:25
  Sugar free Gatorade. Too it is simply because of the
• 46:28
  fact that it it He's targeting jello, sugary drinks and
• 46:32
  processed meals, arguing that they're inappropriate for sick
• 46:35
  patients. I just think.
• 46:38
  I think charging charging $20.00 for the jello is what's it's
• 46:42
  what should be problematic. I agree, but I think you're
• 46:46
  this, this administration is very known all of them for
• 46:50
  focusing on the wrong. Which is a huge distract.
• 46:52
  Everything is a distraction. Everything.
• 46:54
  We need to. Have focus because the plan is
• 46:56
  to grip as much as possible before he gets out.
• 46:59
  Yeah, you've mentioned though that the that the Supreme Court
• 47:01
  did allow access to mephapristone.
• 47:04
  Yes, that is one of the that's one of the topics that I was
• 47:07
  going to say. So the Supreme Court has
• 47:09
  temporarily restored broad access to the abortion pill pill
• 47:12
  mphapristone, blocking a lower court ruling that had restricted
• 47:16
  its use. The order allows the drug to be
• 47:18
  prescribed via telehealth and delivered by mail or picked up
• 47:21
  at pharmacies without an in person doctor visit.
• 47:24
  And the dispute stems from a federal appeals court ruling
• 47:28
  that that had it had they imposed new limits, reversing
• 47:33
  policies that have allowed it to be available for several years.
• 47:37
  So Esme, what is your, what's, what's your, what's your, what's
• 47:41
  your perspective on this? Eventually it's going to get
• 47:45
  banned. It just, well, this court is
• 47:49
  very conservative. They want to end abortion
• 47:51
  completely and they they want you to carry your rapist baby.
• 47:55
  They want you to carry that that uncle that raped the the niece
• 48:01
  or her his own or, or or the father that rapes his daughter.
• 48:04
  This happens in this country. They want you to carry those
• 48:07
  babies. Well, you said the same thing
• 48:09
  about you want them wanting to go ahead and overturn gay
• 48:12
  marriage, but when they were given the challenge to overturn
• 48:14
  gay marriage, they didn't actually do it.
• 48:16
  So I I I argue that that they might go ahead and let miff a
• 48:20
  prestone. They saw how bad it was they the
• 48:24
  response they got when they did the blanket override ban.
• 48:29
  Maybe. They and they just, and they
• 48:31
  don't have anything. They don't have any.
• 48:32
  There's no defense for for making it criminal.
• 48:35
  Viagra has 10 times the chance of of negative side effects or
• 48:40
  death. That methipristone has 10 times
• 48:42
  the amount for both. Pills.
• 48:43
  It's I. Mean.
• 48:45
  Including a heart attack. Is 97% effective?
• 48:49
  Yeah, with less than 1% chance of any kind of side effects,
• 48:52
  including mild side effects. So yeah, it's, it's been long
• 48:54
  tested. It's it was approved in what,
• 48:56
  2125 years? Yeah.
• 48:59
  So the body of the missing female University of South
• 49:03
  Florida student was found. It was the body was.
• 49:07
  So he chopped her up. By the way, it was confirmed
• 49:11
  through DNA. So they had to do it.
• 49:12
  They couldn't do it. They couldn't confirm who she
• 49:14
  was any other way. He planned this for weeks.
• 49:18
  By the way, this was not something that he thought of.
• 49:21
  He bought an inflatable pool that he chopped them up in in
• 49:25
  his home and chopped them inside the pool.
• 49:28
  So he planned it very, very carefully and he was online
• 49:32
  looking for things like how does a body just decompose in a trash
• 49:36
  bag? How do you weigh a body down,
• 49:41
  various things like that. He also bought duct tape, the
• 49:44
  inflatable pool obviously to chop them up.
• 49:47
  So this was something that. I don't get why people are going
• 49:50
  ahead and searching this up on Internet.
• 49:52
  I don't know what the fuck. Like look, look, dumb ass is
• 49:55
  like, I mean, I I'm not, you know, criminal mastermind by any
• 49:59
  means, but I know for a fact that that shit's admissible.
• 50:03
  You will fight. They will.
• 50:04
  Even if you delete your search history, it's still on your
• 50:07
  phone. You.
• 50:07
  Better be clearing more cookies than a fat kid at camp.
• 50:09
  So the luminol. That's a good one, so.
• 50:11
  The luminol version of 2026 that is used now to find blood
• 50:16
  splatters and blood marks even after you clean with bleach is
• 50:21
  so precise that when they applied the luminol, this
• 50:25
  advanced luminol that is now being used all over the country.
• 50:29
  When it was applied in the room where he killed them, the body
• 50:34
  of the male was curled up in a fetal position where he died in
• 50:40
  blood. You could see the outline of his
• 50:42
  entire body in blood. This is after he cleaned it up.
• 50:47
  OK. The luminol illuminated the
• 50:49
  exact form of his body in a fetal position, which is
• 50:53
  heartbreaking that he took that position as he died because he
• 50:58
  was being stabbed to death. It's just, it's heartbreaking
• 51:03
  and very, very sad. These were young people,
• 51:05
  intelligent, creative. They had families that loved
• 51:10
  them. They were loved by their friends
• 51:12
  and their teachers. These were not bad kids.
• 51:14
  They were trying to do something with their lives, right?
• 51:17
  This is the kind of kids we all dream about.
• 51:19
  They were also immigrants that came to this country in hopes of
• 51:23
  using our education system to better not only themselves, but
• 51:27
  to offer their services to our country with their education,
• 51:31
  right? So they're both getting
• 51:33
  doctorates after after death, obviously by the University of
• 51:39
  South Florida. The University of Florida is
• 51:41
  going to give them doctorates so that they can they can be
• 51:47
  remembered that way, you know, so that's how they're they'll be
• 51:50
  recorded as having achieved their doctorates.
• 51:53
  So it's very, very sad. It just.
• 51:55
  I think I, I, and I'm, I'm sorry if I'm wrong about this, but I
• 51:58
  think I read that the family of the, the murderer, I'm just
• 52:02
  going to say murderer. I'm not going to say accused,
• 52:04
  I'm say murderer. It's clear.
• 52:06
  I believe they said something to the effect that he started
• 52:10
  things started becoming problematic after he started
• 52:12
  smoking weed. I believe I read that which just
• 52:15
  pissed me off. As a regular weed smoker I'm
• 52:17
  like don't let's not go to this like reefer madness thing again.
• 52:20
  This. Is weed does not make anybody,
• 52:23
  does not take a normal person and turn them into a sociopath.
• 52:25
  There is no psychopathic illness.
• 52:27
  Absolutely, yeah. Here's the thing, I I I continue
• 52:30
  to believe that it was a love triangle.
• 52:33
  I believe that. I believe that he was either in
• 52:36
  love with the boy or he was in love with the girl.
• 52:40
  And when they decided to marry each other, which was what
• 52:44
  happened, he went into I got to get rid of both of them.
• 52:48
  Now they're not going to if I'm not going to get what I want.
• 52:51
  I believe that that's what's ultimately going to be
• 52:52
  discovered. I think it was a love triangle
• 52:56
  and because. It had to be something that was
• 52:57
  made him that upset something. Triggered here, Yeah.
• 53:00
  And this was a violent. Stabbing is a very.
• 53:02
  Violent. He stabbed them many, many times
• 53:04
  and then he chopped their bodies up, which is, you know.
• 53:09
  Well, I just got a new notification.
• 53:12
  Trump is restoring the Presidential Fitness test in US
• 53:16
  schools, bringing back the Performance Based Fitness
• 53:19
  benchmark. He certainly.
• 53:20
  Gets to be the first one, he certainly.
• 53:21
  The first Test Badass. So the the move reverses an
• 53:26
  Obama era shift that replaces the test with a food with a
• 53:29
  program focused more on overall health than the competition.
• 53:37
  Honestly. So according to this article,
• 53:40
  recent data shows that over 21% of US youth is considered obese,
• 53:46
  with 7% considered severely obese.
• 53:49
  We do have an issue in terms of fitness, but honestly, it starts
• 53:52
  the fucking president. If this motherfucker would stop
• 53:56
  eating McDonald's every fucking day, drinking his fucking Cokes,
• 54:01
  all this shit, he probably set a really good example for these
• 54:05
  fucking kids. And yet he goes ahead and and
• 54:08
  starts this stupid fucking policy of presidential fitness
• 54:12
  tests. I I never understood that.
• 54:15
  What it, what when you're in school?
• 54:17
  Yeah. No, it was, it was always
• 54:18
  unfair. Like, I mean, I could never do a
• 54:19
  single goddamn pull up, but I could do like more crunches than
• 54:23
  anybody else. Like I was, I wasn't fat, but I
• 54:25
  was soft. But like, I just had a core and
• 54:27
  I could just just, but like, not a I'm just standing there.
• 54:30
  They're like just you got to at least try and they're like, OK,
• 54:33
  you can let go now. I never really made any sense
• 54:35
  comparing kids. Yeah, it doesn't.
• 54:38
  I mean, it's, it's not. Your like, what is it actually
• 54:41
  do? Yeah, like it doesn't actually
• 54:43
  like, oh, you can show us how many sit ups you can do, but
• 54:47
  whenever. I mean, I did the presidential
• 54:49
  fitness test when I was a kid. They never really prepared us
• 54:55
  before. They were showing us how to do
• 54:57
  sit ups while the presidential fitness test was happening.
• 55:01
  And how many sit ups would you have to do?
• 55:04
  As many as you can do it in a minute.
• 55:06
  In a minute, I think it. Was 30 or 35 I want to say.
• 55:09
  But like the mile. I mean, I could never get under
• 55:11
  8 minutes on the mile. The Pacer test was the killer.
• 55:14
  Know that I could I. Couldn't reach.
• 55:17
  Yeah, like I'm, I'm all legs. Oh, I did the Oh, I fucked with
• 55:20
  the sit and reach. I actually the the box that they
• 55:24
  had with the inches. I could actually reach over the
• 55:28
  box over to the edge. I I fucked with that.
• 55:31
  I was, that's why I was concerned, fit.
• 55:33
  So listen, I want to talk to you guys about these movies that
• 55:36
  I've watched. Oh yes, let's talk T so.
• 55:39
  Of Movies. OK, so the first one that I saw
• 55:41
  was Michael, and I told you when I was talking to you yesterday
• 55:45
  that Michael is a fluff piece. It's a sugary fluff piece, not
• 55:49
  based on facts, but reality. Like I said, even Even so much
• 55:54
  as that they left a core characters, central characters
• 55:57
  out of the story. Janet Jackson is not even
• 55:59
  mentioned as though she's not even a member of the family.
• 56:02
  There's about 25 minutes of the movie that really covers the
• 56:06
  story itself. And then the rest of the movie
• 56:09
  is just videos move little, little video increments of him
• 56:14
  recording these famous videos. And it's fun to watch because
• 56:17
  they're they're legendary videos that you remember.
• 56:21
  Jafar did a great job. I mean, he really did do a great
• 56:24
  job as far as portraying Michael, but he really didn't.
• 56:28
  It's when people say on, you know, on the tail, this is an
• 56:31
  Academy award-winning performance.
• 56:33
  No, it's not. No, it's not the movie and
• 56:35
  Academy. The movie ain't going to get
• 56:37
  nominated for nothing. It's going to make a lot of
• 56:39
  money. I will tell you this, and this
• 56:41
  is not to be disrespectful. The theater that I went to, it
• 56:44
  was packed with black people. The majority of the people who
• 56:48
  watched the movie were of people of, you know, of black people of
• 56:50
  color. Yeah, people of color the the
• 56:52
  white people just not interested in it.
• 56:53
  You know, I went because I wanted to see my for myself.
• 56:56
  Well, you're not white. You're.
• 56:57
  You are also a. Person of color, yeah, brown
• 57:00
  skin. So.
• 57:00
  But I noticed that also they portrayed Joe Jackson as a
• 57:06
  villain, which he was, but as, as Janet said in an interview,
• 57:12
  he was much, much worse than they portrayed him.
• 57:16
  They were really, they were really kind to him.
• 57:18
  You know, Joe Jackson was very evil to his sons.
• 57:23
  Michael, in an interview, told Barbara Walters that he would
• 57:28
  rehearse him as a little boy with a belt in his hand.
• 57:32
  And sometimes he said he wouldn't use the belt.
• 57:36
  So we'll leave it at that. So he used his fist, you know
• 57:38
  what I mean? So this is how he trained them.
• 57:41
  You know, this is a very violent.
• 57:43
  He slept, you know, he cheated on all his wives.
• 57:46
  Yeah. By the way, there's a lot of
• 57:47
  controversial Neil. Nia Long, the girl that plays
• 57:51
  the mom, she is very upset because she found out that the
• 57:55
  guy that's playing the dad is getting millions of dollars for
• 57:59
  the role while she was subjected to like, I don't know, 500,000
• 58:03
  or whatever it was. She's not getting what he's
• 58:05
  getting and she's. Really negotiating.
• 58:08
  She's really upset about that and she's running her mouth.
• 58:11
  And I'm going to tell you, if I was her people, stop running
• 58:14
  your mouth. Next time you make better deals,
• 58:18
  don't do what Monique did to herself because Monique has
• 58:21
  destroyed her career. You couldn't get Monique booked
• 58:25
  in a movie right now if she paid them OK?
• 58:30
  And that's because Monique went on all these podcasts and
• 58:33
  interview shows. Oprah Winfrey, she made Tyler
• 58:37
  Perry, my next door neighbor, the lady across the street, my
• 58:42
  grandmother's fourth cousin. She's blaming everybody for the
• 58:46
  failure of her career. So don't do what Monique did.
• 58:49
  Stop these interviews. Stop it.
• 58:52
  It's your fault. You got that money.
• 58:54
  You should have made better deals, Chris said.
• 58:56
  It make better deals, you make better choices, you get better
• 58:59
  outcome. She made bad choices.
• 59:01
  So Michael, out of five I give it a 2.
• 59:06
  A2. It's not now this movie that I
• 59:09
  saw last night, Deep Water. Really liked it, but it's
• 59:13
  stressful. Plane traveling from one city to
• 59:17
  another. They crash there.
• 59:20
  There is a, there is a battery pack, a charger inside the
• 59:25
  luggage in the hold of the ship. And the heat from the hold, this
• 59:33
  heat under there from the engines heats up the metal
• 59:37
  container that it's in. The metal metal container gets
• 59:41
  so hot it starts heating up everything inside.
• 59:43
  It's made of metal. It heats up the freaking battery
• 59:47
  and the battery catches on fire and that causes an explosion.
• 59:52
  And so the plane now has to crash.
• 59:54
  They're over the ocean, middle of the ocean, Singapore,
• 59:59
  somewhere out there. And the planets go down.
• 1:00:03
  They were at 10,000 feet. They went to 1000 feet.
• 1:00:06
  They went to 5500 feet, then they went to 100 feet.
• 1:00:09
  When they got to 100 feet, all the bells and alarms were
• 1:00:11
  ringing. Pieces of the ship were flying
• 1:00:14
  open as people flew out. Anyway, it's a fabulous, one of
• 1:00:18
  the best crash scenes I've ever seen on film.
• 1:00:22
  I don't want to give it all away because there's that crash scene
• 1:00:25
  is so long that it's so much happens to the actual plane that
• 1:00:30
  they really depicted like it would.
• 1:00:32
  It was a real but I mean. What was it called again?
• 1:00:34
  It's called deep water. It's.
• 1:00:36
  One of the sharks too. It's a shark film, right?
• 1:00:38
  That's a shark. The crash was it.
• 1:00:40
  There were 244 passengers. Only 36 of them survived.
• 1:00:44
  Those 36 are now facing. They're out in the middle of the
• 1:00:48
  ocean. The box that's supposed to send
• 1:00:52
  out the message is in a part of the ship that's about a mile
• 1:00:56
  away. They can see it, but they have
• 1:00:58
  to swim to it. Oh my God.
• 1:01:02
  And they're surrounded by a beating frenzy of sharks eating
• 1:01:06
  the bloody bodies, bringing more sharks.
• 1:01:09
  So anyway, the rescue is incredible.
• 1:01:13
  The whole movie is just, Oh my God, I really enjoyed it.
• 1:01:16
  Out of five stars, I'm going to give it a four.
• 1:01:18
  I really, I really liked it a lot.
• 1:01:21
  It's really weird because the movie is not getting that much
• 1:01:23
  attention in the press, but it's really good.
• 1:01:26
  And what was the third one that I saw?
• 1:01:27
  The I saw three of them. I saw.
• 1:01:31
  God, I saw. My well, I'll go ahead and I'll
• 1:01:33
  jump into a different topic and while you think about.
• 1:01:36
  That yeah, I got to look it up. So House Republicans are
• 1:01:38
  advancing a federal bill that would require parental consent
• 1:01:41
  before schools recognize or support a student's gender
• 1:01:45
  identity. The proposal, called Protect
• 1:01:47
  Kids Act HR 2616, would apply to public elementary and middle
• 1:01:52
  schools receiving federal funding.
• 1:01:54
  Schools would need permission from parents before changing a
• 1:01:57
  student's name, pronoun, gender markers, or access to facilities
• 1:02:01
  like bathrooms and locker room. The bill ties the requirements
• 1:02:04
  to funding under the Elementary and Secondary Education Act,
• 1:02:07
  which supports low income schools.
• 1:02:10
  I'd love to get your perspective on this, Miss Esme, because it's
• 1:02:15
  the the House Republicans don't say gay bill.
• 1:02:18
  What's your perspective on that? Well, they're fishing, you know
• 1:02:24
  what I'm saying? They're fishing to see who's
• 1:02:26
  going to bite. And hopefully people will push
• 1:02:29
  back. But if we take the House and the
• 1:02:31
  Senate, all this is going to die in the water.
• 1:02:34
  Yeah, like those people did yesterday in that movie.
• 1:02:36
  Talk about that. But you know what I'm saying?
• 1:02:42
  But they're just fishy. They're trying to see what let's
• 1:02:45
  try to pass this. Trans people can't can't wear
• 1:02:48
  red anymore. That red is illegal.
• 1:02:50
  Now I'm just coming up with crazy.
• 1:02:52
  They're just, they're just fishing to see who's going to
• 1:02:54
  bite, you know? But listen, even if you pass a
• 1:02:57
  law that says don't say gay, people still go say gay, you
• 1:03:01
  know, they may not say it in the workplace or whatever.
• 1:03:04
  You just can't get rid of people like that.
• 1:03:07
  You know, listen, the problem with the gay movement, I'm going
• 1:03:10
  to tell you what it is. Too much of it has moved
• 1:03:14
  forward. It's going to be very hard to
• 1:03:16
  put it all back inside the box. You know, it's just too, we've
• 1:03:20
  made too much progress. You know, I think Amy Comedy
• 1:03:24
  Byrd, is that her name? Amy Comedy, Byrd.
• 1:03:25
  Yeah, she kind of led on to that when she voted for keeping
• 1:03:32
  marriage rights. You know, we've already, in
• 1:03:35
  other words, we've already come too far now.
• 1:03:37
  We just can't reverse this now. You know, people already tied in
• 1:03:42
  with their, with their taxes together, their insurances
• 1:03:45
  together. It would be a disaster to re,
• 1:03:48
  you know what I mean? It would complicate things more.
• 1:03:51
  That would make it easier. So they're just, I think it's a
• 1:03:54
  fishing trip, but it could, they could bite.
• 1:03:58
  No, I don't think it's going to go anywhere.
• 1:03:59
  I don't think so either, but. I think that there's enough,
• 1:04:03
  there's enough Senate Republicans, at least I know
• 1:04:07
  that would go ahead and vote against something like that
• 1:04:10
  because they are just too moderate.
• 1:04:12
  I don't think they would go ahead and and go for that House.
• 1:04:16
  That's a that's another question.
• 1:04:18
  But I think that we have a very slim, they the Republicans, we
• 1:04:22
  have a, a Congress with such a slim majority that I don't think
• 1:04:27
  that it would be able to get enough traction to actually
• 1:04:29
  pass. But anyways other.
• 1:04:32
  News I have one more movie I got.
• 1:04:34
  It OK what was the movie? The Devil Wears Prada too, I
• 1:04:36
  saw. That I saw that yesterday as.
• 1:04:38
  Well, I liked. It it was good.
• 1:04:40
  I liked it. And some people are mad that
• 1:04:42
  Miranda is not as evil in this one.
• 1:04:45
  And what I'm going to say to that is Miranda is 22 years
• 1:04:49
  older in this movie than she was in the last movie.
• 1:04:52
  Yeah. And she has grown the fuck up.
• 1:04:55
  Yeah, she's still the same woman.
• 1:04:57
  Oh, I guarantee you OK, 20 years ago you were probably acting a
• 1:05:01
  little bit more. So she's she's still a bitch.
• 1:05:06
  Yeah, no, I think I thought they played it perfectly.
• 1:05:08
  Like she is a little softer, but she's.
• 1:05:10
  Grown up. I love how.
• 1:05:11
  Though like there was the whole like HR thing.
• 1:05:13
  Like she basically she, she realized it like HR wouldn't
• 1:05:15
  allow her to talk the way that she used to talk.
• 1:05:18
  HR won't allow her to just throw her coat down on the desk
• 1:05:21
  anymore. Like I love how like they made
• 1:05:22
  reference to like, well, times have changed in the last 20
• 1:05:24
  years so she can't quite do what she used times.
• 1:05:26
  Have. She was smart.
• 1:05:27
  It was. And she has evolved as a person.
• 1:05:30
  I love the storyline. I love her.
• 1:05:32
  It was, it gave me a little bit of all about Eve missing,
• 1:05:35
  working under her and then trying to take her spot.
• 1:05:38
  You know what I mean? I love Miranda because Miranda
• 1:05:45
  has a lot of self-confidence. Even in this movie, you could
• 1:05:49
  see. What did you think I didn't
• 1:05:51
  know? You don't think somebody's told
• 1:05:53
  me, You know, she wasn't. She was always too.
• 1:05:56
  She was always 2 steps ahead of them on everything.
• 1:05:59
  Let's be honest, there is no way in hell Miranda ever would have
• 1:06:02
  set in coach. Let's be very clear about one
• 1:06:05
  flight. It was.
• 1:06:05
  It was hilarious. It was.
• 1:06:07
  Funny, it would never fucking happen.
• 1:06:09
  It was so funny. It was so funny.
• 1:06:11
  It would never happen. It was so.
• 1:06:12
  You'll see it when you see it. Yeah.
• 1:06:13
  Yeah. But I did like it.
• 1:06:15
  I I I'm sorry, but I did like the movie.
• 1:06:17
  It was great. I loved it.
• 1:06:18
  I loved it. I think that.
• 1:06:20
  Especially for a sequel. I didn't.
• 1:06:21
  I was, I was prepared to being a little disappointed and I I was
• 1:06:24
  not. It was.
• 1:06:24
  It was good. Some sequels are like,
• 1:06:26
  disappointing. I need to be that guy.
• 1:06:28
  Moana too. Still haven't watch the entire.
• 1:06:30
  Every time, every Moana 2 is not the problem.
• 1:06:34
  Except Moana live action with Chris with the Excuse me with
• 1:06:38
  the Rock and that. And that and.
• 1:06:41
  That Farrah Fawcett wig. Every time.
• 1:06:43
  Every time the trailer comes on I go, girl, I don't know how you
• 1:06:46
  let them put you in that wig. I don't know who decided that,
• 1:06:49
  but I. Want to say, girl, who put you
• 1:06:51
  in that wig, 'cause everything that's a woman's, it looks like
• 1:06:54
  a, it looks like a lady's wig that you buy at the wig store
• 1:06:58
  and she just slapped it on her head.
• 1:06:59
  One of them Party City wigs. No, it's a no.
• 1:07:01
  It's a good wig. It's.
• 1:07:02
  It's. It's but it's just curly and
• 1:07:04
  pretty. It's fair.
• 1:07:05
  It's fair. And that character is supposed
• 1:07:08
  to be frizzy. Yeah.
• 1:07:09
  You know, it's supposed to be like a wow.
• 1:07:11
  Diana Ross like. More yeah, it's almost like a
• 1:07:13
  wow, girl, she's got them curls, she's going she's like girl,
• 1:07:17
  I'll help you. And it's almost like a gay
• 1:07:20
  character It's just I'm like, what is going on here?
• 1:07:24
  But. Well, I got AI, got another.
• 1:07:26
  Either one topic or two topics, the US Supreme Court has ruled
• 1:07:30
  that states should not rely on racial demographics when drawing
• 1:07:33
  congressional districts. Addition, a decision expected to
• 1:07:38
  make it harder for minority candidates to get elected.
• 1:07:41
  The ruling weakens a key part of the Voting Rights Act, long seen
• 1:07:44
  as a cornerstone of the civil rights movement.
• 1:07:47
  Civil rights veterans say the decision threatens decades of
• 1:07:50
  progress in building Black potential representation.
• 1:07:53
  And Ron DeSantis has gone ahead and also said that the the
• 1:07:57
  ruling has gone ahead and and emboldened him to go ahead and
• 1:08:01
  do his own. To be racist.
• 1:08:03
  To be racist, yeah. And so and.
• 1:08:06
  'Cause he needs to own it. I was, I was talking to Daddy
• 1:08:08
  Lance about this off air. If it was a perfect world where
• 1:08:14
  racism and racist people did not exist, then this provision
• 1:08:20
  wouldn't have had to become in place.
• 1:08:23
  However, unfortunately we had individuals who would go ahead
• 1:08:28
  and basically cut communities in half, black communities to go
• 1:08:32
  ahead and make sure that they don't have the black
• 1:08:35
  representation within Congress that they should have.
• 1:08:38
  And so if it were a perfect world, I would agree race should
• 1:08:43
  not be a part of the demographic that these individuals are
• 1:08:47
  choosing from. What Clarence Thomas is saying
• 1:08:50
  is that racism no longer exists. That's what they like to say
• 1:08:52
  exactly. It would be great if that was
• 1:08:56
  the case. In his world, in his world of
• 1:09:00
  power and privilege, he's right. It does not exist in his world
• 1:09:06
  of power and privilege. But in the real world where
• 1:09:09
  regular black Americans are out on the street living their lives
• 1:09:12
  and struggling, there is racism. It does exist.
• 1:09:16
  There is no power and privilege for them, especially for those
• 1:09:20
  that are under the lower spectrum of the economic level.
• 1:09:23
  You know what I'm saying? So he is right.
• 1:09:26
  Racism doesn't exist for him because of his where he where
• 1:09:29
  he's at, and the social spectrum.
• 1:09:32
  But for everybody else it does exist.
• 1:09:34
  This is really this is really Jim Crow 2 point O.
• 1:09:37
  So I mean, but I do think that they they may have worded it in
• 1:09:41
  a very suspicious way that might go ahead and favor it towards
• 1:09:47
  being able to go ahead and say if there is a black community
• 1:09:51
  that gets cut in half basically. So 1 is only voting for one side
• 1:09:55
  and there's not that sort of representation available.
• 1:09:59
  Who's to say that that can't that logic can't be used about
• 1:10:03
  the white districts that go ahead and get pushed.
• 1:10:06
  So I think that if it, if it is a situation where we're going to
• 1:10:10
  actually have more fair redistricting, it would be
• 1:10:13
  something that I agree with. If the people who are doing the
• 1:10:16
  redistricting weren't racist as fuck if they weren't the
• 1:10:20
  children of Confederates. I genuinely feel as though if we
• 1:10:26
  had no racism then this would be a a a justifiable choice through
• 1:10:33
  this court. However this is we are in a
• 1:10:39
  racist world. We are in a racist world.
• 1:10:41
  You can't deny. That and, and I, and I love how
• 1:10:43
  you worded that because it's racism is not unique to the
• 1:10:47
  United States. No, not at all of.
• 1:10:49
  Course, it's, it's it's, it's worldwide.
• 1:10:52
  Ask any black person that's travelled to Japan, right.
• 1:10:54
  Oh yeah. And get on and get on a city
• 1:10:56
  bus. I, I, I know 'cause I had a
• 1:10:58
  black friend of mine that went to Japan and he said, girl, me
• 1:11:01
  on a bus, you'd have thought, you'd have thought the worst
• 1:11:04
  criminal in the, I mean, people were moving.
• 1:11:07
  They're like openly racist. They, they don't even hide it,
• 1:11:10
  you know, I mean, it's just, it's, it's racism And, and by
• 1:11:15
  the way, a lot of cultures, not just the, the Japanese and in,
• 1:11:19
  in, in Italy, there's a lot of racism.
• 1:11:20
  Ohh, yeah. And in France, there's a lot of
• 1:11:22
  racism. So these these countries go
• 1:11:25
  ahead and act as if the the rise of right wing extremism is
• 1:11:29
  happening exclusively in the United States, when in reality,
• 1:11:33
  right wing extremism and right wing politicians and these hard
• 1:11:36
  right conservatives have been popping up in every single
• 1:11:40
  country. I mean, Japan, I think it was
• 1:11:44
  the first female Prime Minister, but she's also one of the most
• 1:11:47
  conservative individuals that they've had elected in recent
• 1:11:50
  years. The rise of right wing extremism
• 1:11:52
  is going to happen worldwide. I'm going to say this and I'm
• 1:11:57
  probably going to, you're going to probably get tired of hearing
• 1:11:59
  it because you work with me every week.
• 1:12:01
  But I hope my and I hope our listeners don't get tired of
• 1:12:03
  hearing it because it's so important that I keep repeating
• 1:12:06
  it over and over and over and over again.
• 1:12:09
  And that is, if Hungry can do it, we can do it.
• 1:12:13
  Absolutely. And they are.
• 1:12:15
  I look at them, they were 16 years into an authoritarian
• 1:12:20
  fascist slice slash communist regime that was literally
• 1:12:27
  outlawing everything, women, homosexuals, the the bars had
• 1:12:31
  been banned everything. They were live an oppressive
• 1:12:34
  government separated from the United Nations, literally cut
• 1:12:38
  off from the world for 15 years. They were into the dark ages and
• 1:12:43
  all of a sudden they're free. They are free from that.
• 1:12:46
  And you know, if they can do it, we can do it because we're not
• 1:12:51
  as far as they were. We're not nowhere near.
• 1:12:54
  We never will. We never will because of the way
• 1:12:57
  that the term limits have been presented.
• 1:12:59
  We never will because no matter how hard Donald Trump tries to
• 1:13:03
  push an executive order saying that he can get a third term.
• 1:13:05
  And what do we say on the show about executive orders?
• 1:13:08
  They are not solid. They're not laws.
• 1:13:10
  I mean, they, they, they are, they're regulations.
• 1:13:12
  Yeah, they're regulations, but they're not a law.
• 1:13:14
  Well, I got this last topic, one last topic, and then we're going
• 1:13:18
  to go ahead and promote Daddy Lance a little bit more.
• 1:13:21
  US Park Police are you got to go.
• 1:13:23
  I got it pretty soon. Oh, OK.
• 1:13:25
  Yeah, this is this is going to be a real quick one.
• 1:13:27
  US Park Police are investigating after a large 8647 graffiti
• 1:13:32
  message about 15 by 30 feet was spray painted at the Lincoln
• 1:13:36
  Memorial at the Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool.
• 1:13:39
  The reflecting pool is currently under renovation and the
• 1:13:41
  vandalism was discovered Friday morning and quickly covered
• 1:13:44
  while cleanup was arranged. Obviously, you know, for those
• 1:13:49
  who do not know, 8647 is essentially means 80. 6.
• 1:13:54
  Get rid of and it could also possibly it's just basically get
• 1:14:00
  rid of the the president at this point.
• 1:14:02
  I worked in a restaurant and when they would say 86 table
• 1:14:06
  47's meal that would mean remove just cancel it.
• 1:14:10
  You're not murdering anybody, no.
• 1:14:11
  Just cancel the food. Just cancel the order 86.
• 1:14:15
  Cancel it. Yeah, let's cancel Trump
• 1:14:17
  anyways, Daddy. Lance, thank you so much for
• 1:14:19
  joining us today. It's been amazing having you.
• 1:14:22
  So how can go people? Go ahead and find more
• 1:14:25
  information about your your stuff.
• 1:14:28
  Absolutely. You can check out my web
• 1:14:29
  website, daddylance.com. You can also follow me on
• 1:14:32
  Twitter. X at Daddy Lance SF.
• 1:14:36
  That was when I lived in San Francisco on Instagram.
• 1:14:38
  I'm Daddy Lance SP and you can also find me on Blue Sky at
• 1:14:42
  Daddy Lance. Awesome.
• 1:14:43
  Well Esme, do you have any last minute thoughts?
• 1:14:46
  No, I don't really have any things.
• 1:14:47
  All I was going to say is make sure that you check your voting
• 1:14:51
  status. Please do not wait.
• 1:14:54
  I, I say this every week, don't wait until October or September
• 1:14:58
  to do check on it now and check on it periodically over the
• 1:15:02
  summer. Check on it again in September.
• 1:15:04
  This time as we near the midterms, we got to be 100%
• 1:15:08
  certain we can all get out there and vote.
• 1:15:10
  So check your voter registration.
• 1:15:13
  And the most important thing is vote.
• 1:15:16
  Once you get it, you know, if you can vote, vote.
• 1:15:18
  Don't sit out. No matter what happens, no
• 1:15:20
  matter what they tell you on TV, your vote does count.
• 1:15:24
  Absolutely. And don't get desensitized by
• 1:15:27
  the media. Don't let Donald Trump's fear
• 1:15:31
  tactics and attempts to go ahead and essentially overwhelm the
• 1:15:35
  media get you to not vote. Because honestly, we can get
• 1:15:39
  these fuckers out of office. It just takes us.
• 1:15:41
  It just takes us, but thank you again Daddy Lands for for coming
• 1:15:45
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• 1:15:48
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• 1:15:50
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• 1:16:11
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