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- 0:00Speaker 1: I am all in.
- 0:04Speaker 2: All that's just you.
- 0:16Speaker 3: I am all in with Scott Patterson and iHeartRadio Podcast.
- 0:20Speaker 1: Hey everybody, Scott Patterson, I am all in Podcast one
- 0:24Speaker 1: ELEVEE Productions, iHeartRadio Media, iHeart Podcasts, Season two, Episode ten,
- 0:30Speaker 1: The brace Bridge Jinner. Air date December eleventh, two thousand
- 0:33Speaker 1: and one. I have a very very special guest, Hannah Brown,
- 0:36Speaker 1: lifestyle expert, television personality, and two time New York Times
- 0:41Speaker 1: best selling author. Her authenticity and charismatic personality have captured
- 0:46Speaker 1: her millions of followers. Yes, I checked. She's got millions
- 0:49Speaker 1: of followers and she continues to inspire and empower others. Hannah,
- 0:54Speaker 1: Welcome to this show. So what does Gilmore Girls mean
- 0:58Speaker 1: to you at this point?
- 1:00Speaker 3: I am a late bloomer when it comes to The
- 1:02Speaker 3: Gilmour Girls. I just started watching.
- 1:04Speaker 2: It this year.
- 1:08Speaker 3: I actually I'd always seen it, and I was like,
- 1:11Speaker 3: I don't know if I.
- 1:12Speaker 2: Could commit to that.
- 1:14Speaker 3: It's so like for me, if it's not like three seasons,
- 1:17Speaker 3: it's hard for me to like get into it. I
- 1:19Speaker 3: just am busy and I'll want to go into the next.
- 1:21Speaker 3: So I've always seen it and people have been like Canna,
- 1:23Speaker 3: like you you are going to be obsessed with the
- 1:27Speaker 3: show and I can't do it. But then I did this.
- 1:31Speaker 3: I was doing it started because of therapy. I was
- 1:34Speaker 3: doing this EMDR therapy plus doing this thing called neurofeedback,
- 1:41Speaker 3: so it's it's helping train your brain. But the system
- 1:46Speaker 3: that I did was I could pick. I needed to
- 1:49Speaker 3: pick a show that, you know, I could watch while
- 1:54Speaker 3: it's like connected to the screen, and what it's basically
- 1:57Speaker 3: doing is training your brain to pick different narrow pathways.
- 2:01Speaker 3: By doing that, it's very passive. And I'm watching a
- 2:04Speaker 3: show as the screen goes darker and brighter, and the
- 2:06Speaker 3: way to know that my brain like giving it like
- 2:10Speaker 3: some positive reinforcements. It brightens up to where I can
- 2:13Speaker 3: actually see the show clear. So I had to pick
- 2:16Speaker 3: something to watch, and I was like, well, I guess
- 2:18Speaker 3: this could be like my time to watch Gilmore Girls
- 2:20Speaker 3: because I'm like helping my brain. So for me, Gilmore
- 2:25Speaker 3: Girls like took something that like I was doing this
- 2:30Speaker 3: experience or this you know, I guess type of therapy
- 2:35Speaker 3: to just like help with my anxiety and everything. So
- 2:37Speaker 3: like Gilmore Girls really feels like a safe place for me.
- 2:42Speaker 3: I think it does for so many people. It's like
- 2:45Speaker 3: something bad could happen in the next day, like luralize
- 2:48Speaker 3: cracking jokes, and it's like moved on.
- 2:51Speaker 2: In some way.
- 2:52Speaker 3: And so I just feel like Gilmore Girls has just
- 2:56Speaker 3: become like this like safety net almost for me in
- 2:59Speaker 3: such a busy season. It's like the place that I
- 3:01Speaker 3: can go to and like fully be immersed in.
- 3:05Speaker 2: And it also has like positive.
- 3:09Speaker 3: Feelings because I'm like, oh, I started watching the show
- 3:11Speaker 3: to help my brain, and now it's.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Like helped my life. So I love it so much.
- 3:16Speaker 3: Yeah, I waited this long, but it's also been really
- 3:19Speaker 3: cool because like in this season being so I have
- 3:23Speaker 3: something that I'm like looking forward to at all times
- 3:25Speaker 3: to get that to watch.
- 3:26Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting how you how you're saying this is
- 3:31Speaker 1: because this is the experience. You know, this is a
- 3:34Speaker 1: this is a pretty common experience. It's kind of rewiring
- 3:38Speaker 1: the fan base. Fan bases brains to the point where
- 3:42Speaker 1: you know, they are having this euphoric experience with the show,
- 3:46Speaker 1: every interaction they have with the show, and then they
- 3:49Speaker 1: want it when I meet them out there, you know,
- 3:53Speaker 1: they want to share that experience. Yeah, it has a
- 3:56Speaker 1: healing component to it. There's something very fit therapy about
- 4:01Speaker 1: this show, and it's so interesting that you made that connection.
- 4:04Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 4:04Speaker 3: Absolutely, And it's cool because like obviously, like not everything's
- 4:08Speaker 3: perfect like these Lurlai has like her own commitment things,
- 4:12Speaker 3: and I feel like I can really connect. My book
- 4:15Speaker 3: is also about a girl who that that has struggled
- 4:20Speaker 3: with commitment and fully being all in because of her past.
- 4:23Speaker 3: And you get to actually see like Laura Li's past
- 4:26Speaker 3: and like have compassion for why she is the way
- 4:28Speaker 3: that she is, and then all the things that are
- 4:30Speaker 3: so lovable about her. And it's just like it brings
- 4:35Speaker 3: these like happy moments, but it's actually real life experiences
- 4:40Speaker 3: and not getting it right every time and sometimes making
- 4:42Speaker 3: the wrong decisions and miscommunication. And so it's so cool
- 4:46Speaker 3: to have a show that like balances that in such
- 4:49Speaker 3: a beautiful way that you're you're not like feeling anxious
- 4:52Speaker 3: watching it because somebody's not getting it right or you know,
- 4:58Speaker 3: you feel the anxiety between the family dynamics. It's it
- 5:02Speaker 3: can still keep you like even killed while also having
- 5:06Speaker 3: like real experiences.
- 5:07Speaker 1: That right, and also on the other side of that,
- 5:10Speaker 1: it's not you know, she's not getting through the characters
- 5:13Speaker 1: not getting through their issues so easily because they're insulting
- 5:18Speaker 1: the audience to the point, well, we don't want to
- 5:19Speaker 1: put the audience through all this, and like no, the
- 5:23Speaker 1: Amy and Dan do want to put the audience through it,
- 5:25Speaker 1: but they want to make us laugh while we go
- 5:27Speaker 1: through it. Yeah, and it's it's and it's amazing, really
- 5:31Speaker 1: an amazing way they do all this. All right, so
- 5:33Speaker 1: let's get into the episode Bracebridge Dinner. The Independence end
- 5:38Speaker 1: hosting its nineteenth century Bracebridge Dinner, but the group that
- 5:42Speaker 1: booked out the the event is snowed in in Chicago,
- 5:46Speaker 1: so they have to go to Plan B, which is
- 5:48Speaker 1: invite the entire town. What do you think about the
- 5:51Speaker 1: Bracebridge Dinner? Would you go to something like that?
- 5:55Speaker 2: Absolutely? I would have loved to do it too, something
- 5:58Speaker 2: like that.
- 5:59Speaker 3: It reminds me, I'm from Alabama and we had this
- 6:02Speaker 3: uh it's like we had this uh like school field
- 6:07Speaker 3: trip that you went on in fourth grade where you
- 6:08Speaker 3: had to go and you like re enacted this whole
- 6:11Speaker 3: thing dinner. I think one of the best days, one
- 6:13Speaker 3: of my favorite field trips. So I would have been
- 6:15Speaker 3: totally down to be a part of a dinner like this, right,
- 6:19Speaker 3: especially in uh with with all my fellow like if
- 6:24Speaker 3: that could have been my dinner party, like simn me up.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, just to go to dinner with Sally Strailers
- 6:31Speaker 1: is worth. Let me tell you. Let me tell you
- 6:32Speaker 1: should keep you in stitches. So Luke shares uh you
- 6:38Speaker 1: know about his white lives to Jess, which is you know,
- 6:42Speaker 1: it's I guess it's you'd call that kind of sweet
- 6:44Speaker 1: because it shows he's protecting Jess and yet Laurela I
- 6:48Speaker 1: believes Jess can see through them. What did you think
- 6:51Speaker 1: of that?
- 6:51Speaker 3: I think, Laura I, you know, Luke is doing his
- 6:55Speaker 3: absolute best, and I love his dynamic with Jess, but
- 6:58Speaker 3: I feel like Loralai, it's so like her relationship with
- 7:03Speaker 3: Rory can really help her with Luke being able to
- 7:06Speaker 3: be like, I know you think you're doing this parenting
- 7:10Speaker 3: thing right and that like you did your best, but
- 7:12Speaker 3: he knows.
- 7:13Speaker 2: So, I mean, I think Laurai, obviously we know LOURAI
- 7:17Speaker 2: was spot on that.
- 7:19Speaker 3: You know, I think you know when your parents, when
- 7:21Speaker 3: your parents aren't really showing up for you, when and
- 7:24Speaker 3: when somebody else is and it is trying to protect
- 7:26Speaker 3: you and Jess. I think was just trying to probably
- 7:30Speaker 3: make Luke feel better.
- 7:31Speaker 1: In a little heartbreaking that you go to see if
- 7:35Speaker 1: the kid like that, and it's just you don't want
- 7:38Speaker 1: to hurt him again. But she was right, you know,
- 7:42Speaker 1: she'd been there, done that. Yeah, So it was like
- 7:44Speaker 1: it was like, hey, dude, you know he knows. But
- 7:50Speaker 1: you know that that's the kind of interaction between those two,
- 7:53Speaker 1: that easy interaction that actually draws them closer together and
- 7:58Speaker 1: makes them trust each other there a little bit more.
- 8:01Speaker 1: You know. It's one of those nice moments based on
- 8:04Speaker 1: something that's somewhat tragic, you know, for for Jess anyway,
- 8:08Speaker 1: but at least their hearts are in the right place
- 8:10Speaker 1: and they're trying totally navigating life. Let's let's talk about
- 8:15Speaker 1: the sleigh ride between Luke and Loreli. They're together. He
- 8:20Speaker 1: doesn't have his hat on. What's up with that? He
- 8:23Speaker 1: had the hat off? Did that throw you a little bit?
- 8:26Speaker 3: With the no hat whenever he doesn't have I mean,
- 8:30Speaker 3: you know he was he was coming for the dinner.
- 8:32Speaker 2: He's trying to be glassy.
- 8:33Speaker 1: Right, you're not gonna wear a hat.
- 8:34Speaker 2: You're gonna wear a hat to dinner. But I can't.
- 8:37Speaker 3: I mean, I know it's you. But like, I just
- 8:40Speaker 3: love the backward hat. It's just really it was.
- 8:43Speaker 2: A good look for Luke. So it's not a lie.
- 8:49Speaker 3: It's like, I mean, from Alabama, I love a little
- 8:54Speaker 3: blade shirt, backwards hat moment.
- 8:56Speaker 2: You know you already had the longer hair. It was great.
- 8:59Speaker 3: But I appreciate Luke for trying to, you know, be
- 9:04Speaker 3: a little classy for the establishment that he was in.
- 9:07Speaker 2: But I love that moment.
- 9:10Speaker 3: I I mean, I'm you know, I'm now in season six,
- 9:14Speaker 3: but like, just the tension between Luke and Laurli is
- 9:18Speaker 3: the best.
- 9:18Speaker 2: It is the best part of the whole show.
- 9:20Speaker 3: And it's my favorite whenever they're together and they have
- 9:22Speaker 3: these sweet moments, it's it's the best.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Yeah, that that was. I got so lucky with that.
- 9:32Speaker 1: Sometimes in life you get lucky, you know.
- 9:34Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was It's magic. It's true magic.
- 9:37Speaker 1: It's just one of those things, one of those things.
- 9:48Speaker 1: Let's get to Jess and Dean. So we see Dean
- 9:53Speaker 1: breaks up a fight between Jess and another student. What
- 9:56Speaker 1: was a kid's name? This the other student of.
- 9:57Speaker 2: The Talk or something or something like that.
- 10:00Speaker 1: Anyway, Dean comes. Dean comes to the dinner with Clara,
- 10:04Speaker 1: but it's disappointed to see Jess at the dinner. Obviously,
- 10:08Speaker 1: poor Poortine. He's just they're constantly putting this kid through
- 10:14Speaker 1: the gauntlet man with this Jess character. It's a good
- 10:17Speaker 1: use of you know, how they use the characters. So
- 10:21Speaker 1: we see that Jess kind of it looks like he
- 10:24Speaker 1: jumps out of a tree and into the carriage and
- 10:29Speaker 1: the sleigh. I mean it was just so jarring and abrupt,
- 10:32Speaker 1: and it was like, whoa where did he come from?
- 10:34Speaker 1: I mean it looked like he was coming from a
- 10:36Speaker 1: downward angle.
- 10:37Speaker 2: I know, it's like he was doing like parkour in
- 10:40Speaker 2: some way. I don't know.
- 10:42Speaker 1: I mean, here's a guy who gets into a fight
- 10:45Speaker 1: with the kid who's a class jerk. It's established, right,
- 10:49Speaker 1: Dean helps him, right, But now Jess is jumping out
- 10:53Speaker 1: of a tree to get into the sleigh with his girlfriend. Yeah,
- 10:58Speaker 1: what's that all about?
- 10:59Speaker 2: Okay, I've gone on.
- 11:02Speaker 3: To social media eyes. I've been watching this show and
- 11:06Speaker 3: it's so interesting. I'm sure obviously you know, like all
- 11:10Speaker 3: the people are who are team Jess, And I'll be honest,
- 11:15Speaker 3: at the beginning, I was not a team Jess.
- 11:20Speaker 2: At all because I was like he is.
- 11:24Speaker 3: Just like and it feels like he didn't like treat
- 11:28Speaker 3: Rory right, especially you know eventually and and Dean is
- 11:32Speaker 3: so especially especially at this point, so sweet, good guy,
- 11:37Speaker 3: good guy.
- 11:38Speaker 2: I'm like, he's such a good guy for Rory. It's sweet.
- 11:43Speaker 2: But you there's all.
- 11:44Speaker 3: But then there's also this like palpable chemistry between Jess
- 11:48Speaker 3: and Rory, and especially during that scene when they're on
- 11:51Speaker 3: the carriage, Like it's true when Jess is just like,
- 11:55Speaker 3: what are you even talking about? Because like it's cool,
- 11:58Speaker 3: like Jess has this whole life per song, he's like
- 12:01Speaker 3: this bad boy, but yet he him and Rory have
- 12:04Speaker 3: so much in common when we do to like what
- 12:09Speaker 3: like what they love, Like truly, when you when you
- 12:12Speaker 3: take off the mask of Jess just having to protect
- 12:14Speaker 3: himself with his whole life, like there might not have
- 12:18Speaker 3: been much difference had he not grown up in the
- 12:21Speaker 3: app with the the parents that he had and he
- 12:24Speaker 3: just had to create this falseic seria of who he
- 12:28Speaker 3: actually is.
- 12:28Speaker 2: Like I definitely have compassion for that, but.
- 12:31Speaker 3: Gosh, like as you said, like things, just trying to
- 12:35Speaker 3: do his best.
- 12:37Speaker 1: I think that was a really important scene between Jess
- 12:40Speaker 1: and yeah, and You're right about it, because there's this
- 12:44Speaker 1: knowing that Jess has, and even Rory like, really, why
- 12:48Speaker 1: are you with this guy? You know, I've been in
- 12:51Speaker 1: class with him. He doesn't really like kind of get
- 12:54Speaker 1: the literary references, like has he read the books you've read?
- 12:57Speaker 1: You know? I mean this is what he's implying.
- 12:59Speaker 2: He's just a good guy, right, He's just a good guy.
- 13:03Speaker 1: But long term, and like, why are you spending your
- 13:06Speaker 1: time with him? You can be spending your time with me,
- 13:08Speaker 1: and we read the same books and we have the
- 13:11Speaker 1: same kind of I don't know, artistic side. Yes, you
- 13:15Speaker 1: know we have. There's you know, they're both a little dark.
- 13:20Speaker 1: Dean doesn't really have any darkness, does he. I mean
- 13:23Speaker 1: he's just a what you see is what you get
- 13:27Speaker 1: with him.
- 13:27Speaker 2: I love people like Dean. I wish I was a
- 13:30Speaker 2: person like Diana.
- 13:32Speaker 3: Like I'm like, it must be nice to be that
- 13:34Speaker 3: light and right right, But like you said, like Rory
- 13:39Speaker 3: and just just have this magnetic something to them. But
- 13:44Speaker 3: I think sometimes Rory doesn't want to have that darkness
- 13:47Speaker 3: about her, and so like you want to be with
- 13:49Speaker 3: somebody that just keeps you in the light, where just
- 13:53Speaker 3: kind of brings out that other side of her that
- 13:57Speaker 3: even maybe you know from her mom, like Lorelai doesn't
- 14:02Speaker 3: wants her to stay in the light and be with
- 14:04Speaker 3: somebody that keeps that doesn't maybe challenge her. I think
- 14:10Speaker 3: just right challenges her and maybe would make her challenges
- 14:15Speaker 3: to be herself, which means when you're like full of yourself,
- 14:18Speaker 3: like you're gonna make mistakes, You're gonna get it wrong sometimes.
- 14:21Speaker 3: And I think I just wants to protect her daughter
- 14:27Speaker 3: and be with somebody that she knows is not going
- 14:29Speaker 3: to push her.
- 14:30Speaker 4: Any who else challenges her logan, Yes, logan really challenges Yes,
- 14:38Speaker 4: I mean in other ways to totally.
- 14:41Speaker 1: Yeah. But that's a whole kind of that's a different dynamic.
- 14:47Speaker 3: You know, I'm in season six right now, so like
- 14:49Speaker 3: I'm in fully the dynamic of it right now, and
- 14:54Speaker 3: it's so you just feel the tension of like, oh gosh,
- 15:01Speaker 3: is this gonna.
- 15:02Speaker 2: This could work?
- 15:03Speaker 3: Is it going to work? I don't know. I'm kind
- 15:06Speaker 3: of scared. That's where I'm just like in I can't
- 15:09Speaker 3: remember what season episode I'm on, but it's and it's
- 15:15Speaker 3: kind of hard to see Rory question herself, but like
- 15:19Speaker 3: she has to to grow and so being with people
- 15:23Speaker 3: like Jess and it's very different than you know as
- 15:30Speaker 3: you see her with Dean.
- 15:32Speaker 1: There's two schools here when I think about who is better,
- 15:36Speaker 1: like who's a baby daddy? And who should it be?
- 15:39Speaker 1: And who do you want it to be? And there's
- 15:42Speaker 1: for me, there's like two schools. There's like what Luke
- 15:46Speaker 1: as a real person or Laura I as a real person.
- 15:50Speaker 1: The whole town is real people living that experience want
- 15:55Speaker 1: for Rory. You know what they want? Is it Jess
- 15:58Speaker 1: or is it Logan? Because it's not going to be.
- 16:00Speaker 1: It's going to be Jess. Or Look, who's the baby daddy?
- 16:02Speaker 1: Who do you want it to be? Who I want
- 16:05Speaker 1: it to be? Who I think as Luke is Jess
- 16:10Speaker 1: because he's blood and I think he's going to evolve
- 16:13Speaker 1: into a more mature He's got a lot of maturity
- 16:17Speaker 1: intellectually speaking, emotionally, he's got to catch up. When he does,
- 16:22Speaker 1: he's going to be this great guy and he's still
- 16:24Speaker 1: going to have that edge. He's still going to have
- 16:26Speaker 1: a little darkness, but he's going to love her freely.
- 16:29Speaker 1: He's going to be able to get out of his
- 16:31Speaker 1: own way and really be a great husband and father
- 16:34Speaker 1: to her. You know that's in him. It's in him.
- 16:38Speaker 1: He just needs to live life a little more and
- 16:40Speaker 1: figure it out. Right. But in terms on the other
- 16:43Speaker 1: side of me, the other school is for me, it's like,
- 16:46Speaker 1: what's best for the storytelling, what's best for the tension.
- 16:51Speaker 1: I think it's Logan because project just ten years out,
- 16:55Speaker 1: two kids with Rory, three kids with Rory versus Logan
- 16:58Speaker 1: ten years out, super successful guy or not three two
- 17:03Speaker 1: three kids? Who's more likely to cheat? I'm always saying
- 17:06Speaker 1: Logan for sure, and that's better for the storytelling for sure.
- 17:12Speaker 1: If we're going to get more seasons or more episodes,
- 17:15Speaker 1: if it isn't Logan, then you'll lose Jess as a
- 17:19Speaker 1: guy who comes in and is always the guy. So
- 17:23Speaker 1: Jess is really kind of like the Luke where it's.
- 17:25Speaker 2: Like Jess is the Luke's.
- 17:28Speaker 1: The Luke's He's the Luke to Rory's Laureley, and it's
- 17:31Speaker 1: like one of these two going to get together because
- 17:33Speaker 1: it's so the chemistry's so great and they're so right
- 17:35Speaker 1: and they should be together. But I don't know. I
- 17:38Speaker 1: think that that Logan is a better version of a Christopher.
- 17:42Speaker 1: He's like a young Christopher with his act together. Yeah,
- 17:45Speaker 1: certain a lot more than Christopher was at that same
- 17:47Speaker 1: age and better prospects long term. So I don't know.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, well yeah, because like for me,
- 17:55Speaker 3: I think, like I don't fully I mean, this shows
- 17:58Speaker 3: there's not too many bilers because I've seen every I
- 18:01Speaker 3: mean on for so long. But with Logan, I feel like, uh,
- 18:07Speaker 3: Rory is kind of living out like the other version
- 18:10Speaker 3: of what laural life life could have been like if
- 18:15Speaker 3: she had not had Rory, and like exactly, you know,
- 18:18Speaker 3: you kind of love I have like a soft spot
- 18:20Speaker 3: for Christopher, and like you see that, and so you
- 18:24Speaker 3: kind of want to see what that life would be like,
- 18:28Speaker 3: what that would have been like even you know, we
- 18:31Speaker 3: have loural life story, but like you want to see that.
- 18:33Speaker 3: So for a story, I totally agree. I'm more intrigued
- 18:36Speaker 3: by her with Logan for what could all come of
- 18:42Speaker 3: that and the tension of class and all that, Like
- 18:45Speaker 3: that is what's so fun?
- 18:47Speaker 1: All that tension. Yeah, it's and it could come apart
- 18:51Speaker 1: every episode really easily. She could be facing Rory, could
- 18:58Speaker 1: be facing the same level of condescension from that family
- 19:03Speaker 1: and stress and storylines that you know, you could see
- 19:08Speaker 1: like Luke facing when he tries to come into the
- 19:10Speaker 1: Gilmour house. It's like, who is this inappropriate person? He
- 19:13Speaker 1: doesn't dress, you know, and I think that's how high
- 19:17Speaker 1: falutin the the What the Huntsburgers are, Yeah, I mean
- 19:23Speaker 1: what a name, right, I mean the Palatine has even
- 19:25Speaker 1: gave it that name Huntsburger. Well.
- 19:28Speaker 3: I love that episode when it's like, but I'm a
- 19:31Speaker 3: Gilmore because like Rory had always like when she meets
- 19:34Speaker 3: that family for the first time, like like that name
- 19:40Speaker 3: for Luke, you know, they made him feel like so
- 19:44Speaker 3: below and then Rory's having to have that same experience.
- 19:48Speaker 3: He's like, wait, I haven't had to have this experience.
- 19:51Speaker 2: Because being a Gilmore kind of like.
- 19:56Speaker 3: That was my grandparents like token, like I fit where
- 20:00Speaker 3: my mom bitten, and now I know what it feels
- 20:04Speaker 3: like to not fit right and having It's just cool
- 20:08Speaker 3: how the writers made it to where, you know, Laura
- 20:14Speaker 3: Life tried so hard to make Rory have everything, have
- 20:19Speaker 3: the emotional connect connection and closeness that she didn't get
- 20:23Speaker 3: from her parents, but also all the opportunities that you know,
- 20:28Speaker 3: being in that family could provide and wanted her to
- 20:32Speaker 3: have something totally different, but like as you watch it,
- 20:35Speaker 3: you see that, like Rory still has to go through
- 20:38Speaker 3: a lot of the same similar experiences, maybe just like
- 20:41Speaker 3: different model.
- 20:43Speaker 2: Of Laura Lie.
- 20:45Speaker 3: And it's so interesting to kind of just watch that
- 20:50Speaker 3: and that's isn't that light life and what our parents,
- 20:53Speaker 3: like every parent tries to do. It's like it just
- 20:55Speaker 3: make it a little bit better, easier, but we still
- 20:58Speaker 3: all have to we have to go through this.
- 21:00Speaker 2: Human experience.
- 21:03Speaker 3: And it's gonna come with a lot of getting love wrong, loss,
- 21:09Speaker 3: feeling like not good enough, not worthy, and watching Laura
- 21:16Speaker 3: I like, I mean, Laurai is my favorite character. I
- 21:19Speaker 3: don't I don't know how she can't be like she's
- 21:21Speaker 3: the best, like just watching her like try to help
- 21:27Speaker 3: Rory through it, knowing trying so hard to take a
- 21:31Speaker 3: back seat, but then just always being there for her
- 21:33Speaker 3: and protecting her when like the thing that she really
- 21:35Speaker 3: wanted to protect her from Rory does anyway, Like so.
- 21:39Speaker 1: So good too. Well, let's get into you know, Richard's
- 21:52Speaker 1: retirement was a big storyline in this episode and had
- 21:57Speaker 1: great impact. So he doesn't tell Emily about it, and
- 22:02Speaker 1: he's incredibly happy. Yeah, you know, he's got the monkey
- 22:06Speaker 1: off his back for the first time for forty years.
- 22:09Speaker 1: He's free as a bird. He's feeling great, but nobody
- 22:14Speaker 1: knows why. And then we find out at the Brave's
- 22:17Speaker 1: Bridge dinner it slips out. What are your thoughts on this?
- 22:22Speaker 1: Was he in the wrong for not telling her?
- 22:24Speaker 3: Or was he just I understand why he doesn't tell her.
- 22:29Speaker 3: I mean he doesn't everyone kind of understand why he
- 22:31Speaker 3: doesn't tell her.
- 22:34Speaker 2: I love Emily.
- 22:35Speaker 3: I think she's like such an amazing character as well,
- 22:38Speaker 3: and but yeah, I think there's a pressure with her,
- 22:46Speaker 3: and I think he was done with the pressure and
- 22:52Speaker 3: just wanted to be able to not have to go
- 22:56Speaker 3: into all the details of what this means now that
- 22:59Speaker 3: he's retired and just kind of live in it. And
- 23:02Speaker 3: eventually they do, of course, they're going to have to
- 23:04Speaker 3: get into the details of what does this mean Richard
- 23:07Speaker 3: being retired? But I kind of love that he got
- 23:12Speaker 3: to just like be happy and in the moment and
- 23:15Speaker 3: feel good about retirement, even though we all know.
- 23:21Speaker 2: How I just just seeing his life, like how much
- 23:26Speaker 2: is he gonna actually love retirement? We'll see, but.
- 23:28Speaker 3: That he got to at least live in those feelings
- 23:31Speaker 3: of truly being happy and accept it, like it was
- 23:36Speaker 3: so fun to see and fun to see like Emily
- 23:40Speaker 3: just trying to like go with it and be like,
- 23:42Speaker 3: what is going on?
- 23:43Speaker 2: He's right?
- 23:44Speaker 1: But I loved I loved his monologue. I loved his
- 23:48Speaker 1: that scene late at night down in the living room
- 23:51Speaker 1: the lobby of the Dragonfly, when he said I didn't
- 23:54Speaker 1: expect to resign, but as I kept talking to the CEO,
- 23:58Speaker 1: I kept getting a little languier, and you know, I
- 24:02Speaker 1: realized that I just wanted to walk away. And what
- 24:05Speaker 1: a what a great speech. Does you know what? I
- 24:07Speaker 1: want to get into your book. I know you don't
- 24:08Speaker 1: have a lot of time. You're super busy, You're doing
- 24:12Speaker 1: so many things. But let's get into your book a
- 24:13Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, Uh, the Four Engagement Rings of Sybil
- 24:18Speaker 1: Rain and this is going to be your second fiction book,
- 24:23Speaker 1: fourth overall? What inspired this one? So?
- 24:29Speaker 3: Uh, this book is my second, like you said, romance novel.
- 24:36Speaker 3: And what started the whole thing is I wanted to
- 24:42Speaker 3: write a book about love stories but also how our
- 24:46Speaker 3: friends are some of the big the best love stories
- 24:48Speaker 3: that we have in our life, and how they support
- 24:50Speaker 3: us in those big moments when we fall in love,
- 24:55Speaker 3: when love hurts us, when we have heartbreaking, when we
- 24:57Speaker 3: do ad evident that happily ever after. And so the
- 25:01Speaker 3: first idea was to write about these this core for
- 25:05Speaker 3: group of best friends.
- 25:07Speaker 2: And my first one.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Was about Emma and the setting of that book was
- 25:15Speaker 3: at this new book, Sybil Rain, the main character, at
- 25:19Speaker 3: her wedding weekend that does not go as planned. And
- 25:23Speaker 3: so as I was writing that first book, I knew, Okay,
- 25:26Speaker 3: I've got to write about this runaway bride and why
- 25:31Speaker 3: she didn't commit to this lovely man or where did
- 25:36Speaker 3: she go? And so this book takes place a year
- 25:42Speaker 3: after the wedding gone wrong, and she's just wanting to
- 25:46Speaker 3: have a break of vacation. So she takes her honeymoon
- 25:50Speaker 3: ticket vouchers and goes on a nice.
- 25:53Speaker 2: Vacation to Hawaii to.
- 25:56Speaker 3: Not run into one but two of her ex fiances
- 25:59Speaker 3: and really has to, you know, get really slapped in
- 26:04Speaker 3: the face with her past and that she can't really
- 26:06Speaker 3: run from it anymore. And I really wanted to get
- 26:10Speaker 3: into which is so interesting because I started writing this
- 26:12Speaker 3: book before I started watching Gilmore Girls, and what I've
- 26:15Speaker 3: related to with Laura life so much. It's kind of
- 26:17Speaker 3: that fear of commitment and getting it wrong. That's a
- 26:21Speaker 3: lot of what Sybil struggles with, like the commitment when
- 26:26Speaker 3: like your past seems to just always beat you to
- 26:32Speaker 3: the love that you really deserve, so that you can't
- 26:35Speaker 3: fully receive what is right in front of you because
- 26:38Speaker 3: of these gnawing thoughts and feelings of the past and
- 26:43Speaker 3: not going right. And so that's really what the book
- 26:45Speaker 3: is about, is Sybil having to have that confrontation with
- 26:49Speaker 3: her past and learning to love herself first fully to
- 26:54Speaker 3: be able to receive the love that is right in
- 26:57Speaker 3: front of her.
- 26:58Speaker 2: And so I feel like any who.
- 27:01Speaker 3: Loves Loreli would love Sybil because they are so similar,
- 27:07Speaker 3: like the light, the shiny, bright, fun thing that everybody
- 27:11Speaker 3: wants to be around. But when you really break it down,
- 27:14Speaker 3: is it really fun to be Sybil? Like in those
- 27:17Speaker 3: thoughts in that, you know, holding yourself back and watching
- 27:24Speaker 3: somebody over you know, and getting to read about this
- 27:27Speaker 3: character overcoming that it's really fun and finding her happily
- 27:30Speaker 3: ever after.
- 27:31Speaker 1: Do you see this as something that could be turned
- 27:36Speaker 1: into a TV show or a film? And if so,
- 27:39Speaker 1: who do you want to play Sybil?
- 27:41Speaker 3: I would love that that would be a dream come true.
- 27:46Speaker 3: I feel like there could be so many people, and
- 27:48Speaker 3: you know, these things are so I don't really get
- 27:51Speaker 3: to pick who if this became a series, But like
- 27:54Speaker 3: Sidney Sweeney, I feel like would be so fun because
- 27:57Speaker 3: she has this kind of like lightness of out her
- 28:00Speaker 3: but seeing some of the roles that she's played, there's
- 28:02Speaker 3: still like this dark this darkness that Sybil has that
- 28:06Speaker 3: I feel like Sydney could could be able to keep
- 28:10Speaker 3: both at play, So I think she could be a great.
- 28:15Speaker 1: Okay, Sydney Sweeney. If you're a fan and you're listening
- 28:19Speaker 1: to this col Hannah, you're going to get another offer.
- 28:26Speaker 1: We appreciate you coming on and carving out a little
- 28:30Speaker 1: part of your day for us. We know how busy
- 28:31Speaker 1: you are. You so busy on the business side. You're
- 28:34Speaker 1: getting married soon. Congratulations and all the best you. Please
- 28:39Speaker 1: come back on.
- 28:40Speaker 2: I would love to. I've got to finish.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Up, finish up, and then come back on. We'd love
- 28:45Speaker 1: to have you back. Thank you for your time and
- 28:48Speaker 1: to the best fan base on the planet. I'm going
- 28:50Speaker 1: to see a Galaxy Con third week in July. Raleigh,
- 28:53Speaker 1: North Carolina, one of my favorite places on the planet.
- 28:57Speaker 1: Super fun weekend. I'll be there Thursday and Friday and
- 29:02Speaker 1: maybe Saturday too. I don't know, but I'll see you then. Anyway,
- 29:05Speaker 1: keep the cards and letters coming, and remember always where
- 29:08Speaker 1: you lead, we will follow.
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