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Dirty Little Secret: “Would you ever make your partner jealous on purpose just to keep the spark alive?” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This scarty little secret.
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  Speaker 2: Makes one or two point nine and Billy a Kid
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  Speaker 2: Candice Lopez producer, poo, if you have a secret, let
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  Speaker 2: us know eight three three seven eight seven one o
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  Speaker 2: two nine.
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  Speaker 1: It is time to confess, and you have one. How
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  Speaker 1: are you hey?
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  Speaker 3: I'm okay, I'm okay.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel that that was a very confident answer.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel like you are okay.
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  Speaker 3: Uh No, I mean I look okay.
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  Speaker 1: Look, it's okay to not be okay.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: So what's up?
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  Speaker 3: Every couple of weeks I do this thing and I
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  Speaker 3: just can't help myself now. But it's I tell my
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  Speaker 3: boyfriend that my ex reached out again. It's like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: some late night I miss you message on Instagram, or
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  Speaker 3: I say, you know, he sent me an old picture
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  Speaker 3: of us. And then I watch my boyfriend get all tense,
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  Speaker 3: his eyes narrow and he gets a little flash of jealousy,
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  Speaker 3: and it's I just I don't know. I love it,
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  Speaker 3: like I really love it. It just reminds me that he
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  Speaker 3: still cares, he know, he still wants me, and feels
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  Speaker 3: like he could lose me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, so you but this is not happening.
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  Speaker 1: This is not true.
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  Speaker 3: You're extra No, no, no, it's not.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, he doesn't asked to see this stuff your.
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  Speaker 3: Phone or the he doesn't know no, And I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: and I always like delete it very loudly.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, this is wow.
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  Speaker 2: So you will be like sitting there randomly on like
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  Speaker 2: a you know, Wednesday night, and you're going to be like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, let me light.
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  Speaker 1: This guy's fire up real quick and say hey, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I always say it real casual, like I'm
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  Speaker 3: just you know, keeping him in the loop. But the
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  Speaker 3: truth is it's pretty ugly, right, I do it on purpose.
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  Speaker 2: So you're saying, you're like, hey, just to let you know,
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  Speaker 2: my ex reached down. He said he missed me again.
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  Speaker 2: And and he doesn't say anything about it.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, I mean he just he he gets like really,
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  Speaker 3: his voice softens. He just tries a little harder then,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, I mean, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Excuse me, god, bless you, Oh excuse me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my act just hasn't you know, he hasn't said
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  Speaker 3: a word. But my boyfriend doesn't need to know it.
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  Speaker 3: It just keeps him on his pose. I think it's
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  Speaker 3: a good plan, make him a.
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  Speaker 1: Little jealous here and there. It is yeah, to reignite
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  Speaker 1: that smart let's be real to keep it alive.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying what you're doing is healthy. I don't
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  Speaker 2: think it is, but I will say that people do this.
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  Speaker 2: I have heard of, Like, I mean, let's not act
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  Speaker 2: like women don't do this on purpose to get a
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  Speaker 2: reaction out of guys. And I'm not saying guys don't
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  Speaker 2: do it either, but you have you never made a
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  Speaker 2: guy purposely jealous just to see maybe how he feels.
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  Speaker 1: Or can't as you're too normal? God, dang it. Can
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  Speaker 1: I get someone toxic in my life once? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, girls do this. I've had ladies do this.
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  Speaker 1: I've had a girl do it. What did she do?
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  Speaker 1: She blatantly got in front of this guy who she
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  Speaker 1: knew I couldn't stay, and she was like being all
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  Speaker 1: nice to him. But she would she claims you wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: you know, saying that because she was.
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  Speaker 2: Mad at you or why no, she would just she
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  Speaker 2: would always do things because I would be like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't care, mom. Like I had a girl one time
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  Speaker 2: I was dating, but we didn't really have we had
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  Speaker 2: that talk about you know, we had that talk about
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  Speaker 2: whether we were gonna get serious or not, and I said,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I kind of like the way things
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  Speaker 2: are right now, like we're just seeing where things go.
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  Speaker 2: And literally the next two days she's like, well, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going on a day with someone else, and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh okay, and she told me and then she came
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  Speaker 2: out and said, I really wasn't. I just wanted to
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  Speaker 2: see how you would react. Then that was a way
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  Speaker 2: of seeing how to make me jealous, and it backfired
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  Speaker 2: because I was like, have fun. Huh, have a good time,
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  Speaker 2: you know, but you're I'm not saying this is the
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  Speaker 2: case for you, but you like the way he reacts
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  Speaker 2: to it because you feel like he tries harder and
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  Speaker 2: he shows more love and you see a difference in
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  Speaker 2: his actions.
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  Speaker 3: Oh completely, completely okay. Yeah, it just gets real nice,
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  Speaker 3: real fast.
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  Speaker 1: So you don't talk to your ex at all or
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  Speaker 1: do you a little bit? No?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, geez, this makes me I swear you ladies
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  Speaker 2: are almost so toxic slash smart really deserve this.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds like unless he's doing something weird that's making
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  Speaker 3: you want to like make sure he's got his priority
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  Speaker 3: straight for you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, he's committed. It's just on a regular day you're
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  Speaker 1: just like, oh, there is again, there is again, sending
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  Speaker 1: me a pick of us on our anniversary.
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  Speaker 3: All the cuddles you know, I mean, I think again,
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  Speaker 3: sometimes they don't happen. So maybe you got to do
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  Speaker 3: a little extra.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know what, I am going to say, a
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  Speaker 2: prayer for you, whatever works. But you can't keep doing
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  Speaker 2: this forever because eventually he's gonna go I'm gonna have
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  Speaker 2: a talk with this guy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, I know.
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  Speaker 1: So you'll have to lie about something else.
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  Speaker 3: Well, good luck and figure something out, all right, Thank you, let.
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  Speaker 1: Us know what happens.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, this poor guy, I mean this poor guy
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  Speaker 2: either way doesn't matter to no judgment zone.
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  Speaker 1: So thank you so much. We appreciate your confession.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks guy.
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  Speaker 1: I never want to hear women aren't toxic again