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32% of adults can't do what? · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their Policy
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  Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shot podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Today on the show, we carried on our criminal updates
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  Speaker 1: with Jason running a red light not paying for his
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  Speaker 1: petrol and so far we have no resolution.
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  Speaker 3: No that you'll hear what happens, but I'll tell you.
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  Speaker 3: I promise you it's not me anyway. Also, seventy five
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  Speaker 3: percent of key we do not like their names and
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  Speaker 3: abound six thousand people every year trying to change them.
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  Speaker 3: So we talked to a few people who have done
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  Speaker 3: just that. Chances are you may have already done this
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  Speaker 3: life skill. This morning, there'll be some people who already
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  Speaker 3: have done this.
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  Speaker 4: Is it an important life skill?
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  Speaker 3: I think it is?
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  Speaker 4: And how many of us aren't doing it?
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  Speaker 3: Thirty two percent of adults can't do this.
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  Speaker 1: It's quite a large number. It is a when you
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  Speaker 1: get these stats, it's only ten percent, you know, but thirty.
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  Speaker 3: Percent a third of us can't do this. Yeah, yeah, you.
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  Speaker 4: Think that I do this.
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  Speaker 1: I know you can do this, I hope because last
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  Speaker 1: time you said it, I think you can do it,
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  Speaker 1: and I feel like it was brushing my teeth, And
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you think I've brushed my teeth, Jase,
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  Speaker 1: how are you not one hundred percent competent?
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  Speaker 3: No, I know you can do this. I know I
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  Speaker 3: can do this. I don't I don't know if how
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  Speaker 3: producer Rosie can do this. Rosi is twenty two years old.
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  Speaker 4: Is it a generational thing?
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  Speaker 2: May?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, it shouldn't be. Maybe for some people it is.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. It's a hard one answer. I don't
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  Speaker 3: know if it is.
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  Speaker 4: Is this a skill that I might hire a hubby for.
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  Speaker 3: Nah, I don't think so. I can't.
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  Speaker 4: No, not that I'm trying to say it's a sexist now.
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  Speaker 3: But in the same studies So Insurance Company's done the study,
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  Speaker 3: twenty percent of people don't know how to change the
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  Speaker 3: light bulb. That's shocking. Twenty percent don't know how to
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  Speaker 3: change the light bulb. The same number don't know how
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  Speaker 3: to boil an egg.
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  Speaker 4: That's what it is, boiling egg.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's not that, oh, twenty percent of people don't
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  Speaker 3: know how to boil an egg.
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  Speaker 1: But I it's about to be a bit shocked to
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  Speaker 1: say that you're looking at our producer and you're like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even reckon she can boil anything.
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  Speaker 4: That is rough.
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  Speaker 3: I know Rosie can do that.
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  Speaker 1: However, from the guy whose father once put an egg
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  Speaker 1: into a jug to boil.
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  Speaker 3: It jug, Yeah, exactly. No, Actually, look at that though,
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  Speaker 3: I don't think my dad can do this, the skill
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  Speaker 3: that we're talking about.
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  Speaker 4: We can't boil an egg. Can he change a light bulb?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I can change a light bulb? Come on, what's about that?
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  Speaker 4: You just shove it in there.
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  Speaker 3: Thirty two percent of us cannot do this certain skill.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think it is? O eight hundred double
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  Speaker 3: or forecast flick? It's eas to two six nine nine.
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  Speaker 3: We're asking the question this morning because apparently it's estimated
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  Speaker 3: thirty two percent of the world's adults don't know how
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  Speaker 3: to do this. Tony, does I do I don't think.
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  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure my dad does not know how to
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  Speaker 3: do this.
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  Speaker 1: And we're in the realm here on that same list
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  Speaker 1: of people who can't change a light bol people who
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  Speaker 1: can't boil an egg.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exactly right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, how can you not boil an egg?
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  Speaker 1: That's what I thought, because even if you over boil it,
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  Speaker 1: you just literally chuck it in hot water. Right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's no other trick to her. I'm starting to doubt
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  Speaker 1: my own boiler, Paula.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think it is?
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  Speaker 1: It?
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  Speaker 3: Apparently nearly a third of adults can't do or can?
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  Speaker 5: I just say, poor old suggesting that she couldn't boil me.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't say that, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I thought Jace was very, very judging rosiest and yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Jason's tuned into a bit of a criminal this week.
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  Speaker 1: So just you're gonna forgive me speaking that he's been No,
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  Speaker 1: he's under investigation from the police.
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  Speaker 3: Watch.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to go into after seven story.
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  Speaker 3: But anyway, what do you think it is? That's a
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  Speaker 3: great guess. It's not change a tire though, Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Well that's definitely a blue job.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I could change a tire right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed to say.
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  Speaker 3: Could you do it? He could you do? You could
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  Speaker 3: do it though?
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  Speaker 7: Change your tire?
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  Speaker 4: Is that lifting up thing called the winch the jack? Okay,
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  Speaker 4: that pretty much sums it up.
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  Speaker 3: You're so good, Paula, Thank you so much. Really appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, why would you learn to change a
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  Speaker 1: tire when you could just ring the AA road.
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  Speaker 3: I get it. Hell Hellen, what do you think it is?
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  Speaker 3: It's not a great guess, but it's not swim.
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  Speaker 1: No, I would be worried if he didn't think producer
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  Speaker 1: Rosie could swims. I'm always shocked though, when I meet
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  Speaker 1: an adult that can't swim.
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  Speaker 4: Can you swim?
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  Speaker 3: Are there? Ellen?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Good?
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  Speaker 1: Just checking yep. Before I come down on people who
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  Speaker 1: can't swim.
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  Speaker 3: I like to think that you're living in New Zealand
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  Speaker 3: where we're so close to the coastal outlines. Anyway, we
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  Speaker 3: should all learn how to.
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  Speaker 1: So many people are a product product of their parents.
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  Speaker 1: If your parents didn't get them lessons, that's just.
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  Speaker 3: You know, and that's it. You know. We grew up
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  Speaker 3: the schools had swimm pools, but a lot of schools
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  Speaker 3: don't have pools anymore. Yeah, I get it. One more, Helen,
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  Speaker 3: What do you think it is?
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  Speaker 7: Is it they can't distinguish between AI and real people.
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  Speaker 3: They're from higher than thirty percent. I struggle at times
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  Speaker 3: the way I AI is now like, is that a
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  Speaker 3: real person?
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  Speaker 4: Who are the AI people that you talk to?
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  Speaker 3: Jason? No, I mean sometimes on billboards and things like that. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: the way that CGI is working. Now it's time to tell.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting here going I don't think I've ever spoken
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  Speaker 1: to an aar person, which probably means I fall into
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  Speaker 1: the category of not knowing.
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  Speaker 3: Helen's not fair, but are you ready for this? It's
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  Speaker 3: changed an eppie. A third of adults don't know how
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  Speaker 3: to change, Helen.
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  Speaker 4: Can you change a nappy?
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  Speaker 7: I certainly can, Yes, I.
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  Speaker 3: Suspect, so, Rosie, could you change an eppy?
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  Speaker 9: Thumbs up?
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  Speaker 1: Thumbs that No, No, I reckon you could. I mean
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  Speaker 1: there might be a bit of a few issues getting
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  Speaker 1: it to the right place. We're talking about a child's napier,
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  Speaker 1: not those creepy adults that wear them for you know,
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  Speaker 1: those kinky people that wear them.
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  Speaker 4: No, I watched that.
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  Speaker 1: Once on Oprah and it disturbed me for life. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry for bringing it up. Thing to have it
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  Speaker 1: in your mind.
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  Speaker 3: My dad has never changed a nappy, and he's like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if I could do it.
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  Speaker 4: Has your dad never changed?
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  Speaker 3: And I think when you said before it's a generational thing,
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  Speaker 3: maybe it is.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, my dad is the same generation he
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  Speaker 1: changed men.
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  Speaker 4: Your dad there is naughty from him.
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  Speaker 1: What was your mum's thinking leading away.
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  Speaker 3: With that crazy bird of the world's adult population cannot
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  Speaker 3: change an eppy.
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  Speaker 1: I think when you had when your children have children,
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  Speaker 1: or did he change your grandchild? Barbie Mania it is
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  Speaker 1: still sweeping the globe since the explosion of the film
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  Speaker 1: with Margo.
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  Speaker 4: Robbie still smashed.
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  Speaker 1: So many different records, and even now if you go
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  Speaker 1: into a lot of stores, there's still a whole lot
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  Speaker 1: of Barbie merchandise everywhere. So it's clearly made such an
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  Speaker 1: impression on us. And you will have noticed that mattal
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  Speaker 1: has had a massive boost in sales as well, so
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  Speaker 1: there is a whole new range of products and we've
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  Speaker 1: actually seen that locally too, with the likes of sports Barbie,
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  Speaker 1: Rugby Barbie with Melanie Robinson. Remember you got a Barbie
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  Speaker 1: made about herself. Well, there's a new Barbie in town.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think that Barbie is? You know, because
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  Speaker 1: we've had we had a down syndrome Barbie, didn't we
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  Speaker 1: Wi Barbie, Wilty Barbie, We've had political Barbie, We've had
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  Speaker 1: doctor Barbie, and now we have blind Barbie.
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  Speaker 3: Blind Barbie.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so little blind children can have well not just
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  Speaker 1: blind children, children that want a blind Barbie you can
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  Speaker 1: get a blind Barbie. And they've had a girl that
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  Speaker 1: went blind twelve years ago. When I say girl, she's
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  Speaker 1: like in her thirties, and she said, what an amazing occasion.
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  Speaker 1: It is, so the blind Barbie, because I did think,
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  Speaker 1: how do they how do they make it obviously a blind.
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  Speaker 3: Can you distinguish that one's the blind one?
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  Speaker 4: Well, they've got a blind walking stick?
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  Speaker 3: Oh do we white stick?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: I see yep. So does that mean if this is
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  Speaker 3: the blind Barbie, the other ones could see? Were they
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  Speaker 3: watching us?
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  Speaker 1: Well, when you look at the eyes, you don't see
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  Speaker 1: anything different in the eyes, Jase. I assuming the other ones, yes,
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  Speaker 1: could see, this one can't. And they've also because they
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  Speaker 1: are thinking it'll be mainly blind people that buy them.
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  Speaker 1: This is what Mattel has said, even though I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if that's necessarily true. They've even done things like
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  Speaker 1: giving her an elastic waist skirt for better access because
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  Speaker 1: the user of the barbie can't see.
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  Speaker 3: Oh of course, very very.
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  Speaker 4: Clever, isn't it. Barbie?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think they should bring out next? Do you
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  Speaker 1: think he's coaching Barbie?
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  Speaker 3: There, they'll be coaching.
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  Speaker 4: I'd like to get a coach.
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  Speaker 1: But we wanted a track suit, surely, yeah, exactly eighties tracksuit.
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  Speaker 1: I can just picture it now with a whistle and
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  Speaker 1: a sponsored cat. Jason, I wonder if this criminal, Barbie,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a criminal. Listen, we need to get an
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  Speaker 1: update on that after seven.
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  Speaker 3: years and they have helped us set up Tony's book Club.
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  Speaker 3: And this week you've been flicking through the pages and
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  Speaker 3: loving a book called The Love of My Afterlife. A.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about a woman that dies, and I'm not
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  Speaker 1: giving you anything away because it literally is on the
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  Speaker 1: cover and having on the first page and she meets
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  Speaker 1: the love of her life in the afterlife. But there
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  Speaker 1: are a lot of twists that go with that. And
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  Speaker 1: that sparked a topic, can you jays.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, bother if you want to be going to copy
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  Speaker 3: that textbook to two six nine nine to get in
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  Speaker 3: the drawer for that. Because you remember Bob Sagat who
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  Speaker 3: used to host America's funniest term videos and he was
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  Speaker 3: the on full House. Yeah, yeah, lovely lovely man. Anyway,
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  Speaker 3: he sarely passed away a couple of years ago. Now
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  Speaker 3: his widow has started dating again.
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  Speaker 4: What's her name.
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  Speaker 3: Her name's Kelly Rizzo, Kelly Rizzo. And so she's found
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  Speaker 3: love again with a guy called Brick and Maya. Now
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  Speaker 3: you might not brick and Meyer who was in that
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  Speaker 3: movie road Trip was on TV and ZID last week.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just googled him and if you if you
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  Speaker 1: do google him, you'll know his face.
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  Speaker 4: He yeah, lots of movies. He's kind of the funny
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  Speaker 4: guy that's right here.
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  Speaker 3: So she's in a relationship with him now. They started
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  Speaker 3: dating about eighteen months after Bob Second passed away. A
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  Speaker 3: lot of people had a lot of things to say.
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  Speaker 3: In fact, just on Sunday, she's just hit out again
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  Speaker 3: about the ugly truth about being a widow a widow,
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  Speaker 3: and she's saying people have no right to comment.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll read the comment that she made after getting
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  Speaker 1: this feedback, and I mean, you've got to take the
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  Speaker 1: feedback with a bit of a grain of salt, because
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  Speaker 1: this is fearal social media feedback. Remember, people sitting on
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  Speaker 1: their couches and just tap tap tapping.
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  Speaker 4: She says, unless you're a widow or a widower, you truly.
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  Speaker 1: Have absolutely no place and no right to comment on
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  Speaker 1: this because you do not know what it's like. You
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  Speaker 1: just don't understand the incredible complexity of this and the difficult,
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  Speaker 1: dynamic thoughts and feelings that come up during this entire process.
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  Speaker 4: So we just thought it would.
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  Speaker 1: Be interesting to know whether you have found yourself either
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  Speaker 1: in this position or whether you have known a close
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  Speaker 1: friend or maybe a family member. And has there been
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  Speaker 1: a time where people were shocked? I think eighteen months,
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  Speaker 1: And I know you can't really put a time limit
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  Speaker 1: on these things, but eighteen months at their age she
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  Speaker 1: had no children with Bob Saggat, Because I'm sure if
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  Speaker 1: you've got children with that person, that comes into it
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  Speaker 1: as well, change the game. Not that they need our permission,
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  Speaker 1: but I feel like eighteen months at the age they
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  Speaker 1: were at they're in their fifties, no children, Why be miserable?
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  Speaker 4: It is my perspective.
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  Speaker 3: Now, I totally agree with you. Okay, so eighteen months
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  Speaker 3: about them? Would you got any earlier, let's say six months?
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  Speaker 3: Is that too soon?
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  Speaker 4: Do you think I cannot in a million years imagine
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  Speaker 4: that for me.
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  Speaker 1: Right now, I have three young children, love my husband,
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  Speaker 1: and out of respect to them, I can't imagine it.
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  Speaker 1: But then also I'm not in that position, So you
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  Speaker 1: don't actually know this.
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  Speaker 3: Is exactly that, neither of my I and God forbid.
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  Speaker 3: But you know, if you've ever been there, or you
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  Speaker 3: know someone who has, what sort of timeline is? Is
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  Speaker 3: there a timeline? What are the rules around this? Let
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  Speaker 3: us know, oh, eight hundred double four coast I figure
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  Speaker 3: takes the two six ninety nine.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 3: Bob Saget, the dad on Full House, played Danny Tanner
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  Speaker 3: and he was also the host of America's Funniest Home Videos. Anyway,
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  Speaker 3: he sadly passed away with about seventeen months later, his
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  Speaker 3: widow found love again and she's copped it. And still
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  Speaker 3: months later, she's still defending herself on social media for
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  Speaker 3: these Hollywood trolls.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it cracks me up how people feel like they
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  Speaker 1: have to explain themselves, particularly to randoms who don't even know.
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  Speaker 1: You might be a bit different with your family and friends.
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  Speaker 4: But we have got the question.
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  Speaker 1: Today about how it rolls when you lose someone that
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  Speaker 1: you love. How quickly can you move on? Is there
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  Speaker 1: a timeline to it? Is there a time where it
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  Speaker 1: just feels too soon? Does it differ and make any
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  Speaker 1: difference if you've got children involved?
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  Speaker 4: Colin, what's your perspective on this?
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  Speaker 9: No, it's totally wrong how people can judge unless they've
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  Speaker 9: experienced themselves. My brother and sister both died at quite
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  Speaker 9: young age forty two and fifty one, and they were
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  Speaker 9: with other people. They weren't marriage, and they did eventually
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  Speaker 9: and within a year or so they had it like
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  Speaker 9: another partner. And I heard even from my mother and
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  Speaker 9: other people say cooks he or she must die. They
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  Speaker 9: must have been having affair before then, you know what
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  Speaker 9: I mean. It's a load of rubbish. Unless you've experienced yourself,
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  Speaker 9: don't you become suddenly very very lonely? Yeah, And you
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  Speaker 9: can attach yourself to people, someone who's kind and that
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  Speaker 9: and you need that kindness and it can turn into
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  Speaker 9: companionship which can turn into love. Don't ever judge someone
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  Speaker 9: how long it takes them to find another partner, regardless.
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  Speaker 9: It just makes me feel sick about it.
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  Speaker 3: No, I love that You're sir right, You don't know
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  Speaker 3: unless you've been there and Simon, you have been there, right, Yes,
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  Speaker 3: I have.
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  Speaker 4: Tell us about it, Simon.
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  Speaker 6: Well, my wife passed away. We've been together thirteen years.
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  Speaker 6: My wife passed away seven years ago, and about seventeen
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  Speaker 6: months later I got to I got together with someone
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  Speaker 6: that we've actually been friends with for about seven five
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  Speaker 6: years prior, and a lot of people didn't like it.
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  Speaker 6: We actually lost quite a lot of friends because of it.
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  Speaker 6: They didn't accept it, they didn't accept that she had
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  Speaker 6: passed away, and they still haven't accepted. She's passed away
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  Speaker 6: seven years on. I've got two boys and she's got
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  Speaker 6: two boys, and they've all embraced it, and we all
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  Speaker 6: have bought a house three years on. We've gotten engaged,
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  Speaker 6: and we've taken kids. We're taking kids away every year
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  Speaker 6: on holidays and they all love it, sit around the table,
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  Speaker 6: eating dinner and talking about sports and everything. And you're
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  Speaker 6: writing your own story.
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  Speaker 3: So that's exactly it. So none Elson really saying that
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  Speaker 3: story you're writing.
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  Speaker 1: I can good on you for having that conviction too,
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  Speaker 1: and you're saying eighteen months later. I mean, I know
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  Speaker 1: that you can't put a timeline on that, but you've
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  Speaker 1: got two boys and you've got the chance for you
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  Speaker 1: to have a happy family and have two parents looking
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  Speaker 1: after your kids.
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  Speaker 4: I you know, I can't.
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  Speaker 1: See the issue with that, and I will not do
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: that and then have a miserable dad who's struggling on
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: his own.
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: Well yeah again, if you've been there, you know. So
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: how long should someone wait? Is there a rule around this?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Eight hundred double four coast or figure text to two six,
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  Speaker 3: nine to nine. We've got a phenomenal text we need
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• 14:37
  Speaker 2: Your daily feel good breakfast catch up podcast with Coasts Tony, Jason, Sam.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: How long should someone wait to fall in love again
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: after their partner sarely passes away? This has caused the
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: massive ripple in Hollywood after Bob sag At, the star
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: of Full House, died and eighteen months later his wife's
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: gone and his widow's gone public with a new boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: And everyone we have talked to so far says you
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: shouldn't judge. No one knows what it's like. What about
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: when I read you this text? This is another perspective, Hi,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: Tony and Jason. My friend died just over a year
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: ago and was buried on May the fourth last year,
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: four weeks after the funeral, we found out his distraught
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  Speaker 1: wife and quote Marx was already pregnant with his best
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  Speaker 1: mates child. She was very clear that she didn't want
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: negative feelings to the relationship and that she would block
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: anyone on social media if this was true. But four
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: weeks to be pregnant after the funeral, we felt all
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: of our friends felt was way too soon. So we're
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: going to keep taking calls on this because I don't
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: think every situation is the same.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: No, I think you're right. Yeah, okay, so our phone
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: numbers are eight hundred double O forour coast or sold
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  Speaker 3: that text to two six nine to nine. How long
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: or how soon should someone move on? Should they move
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: on too soon? It's you? I loved your thoughts. Bed
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  Speaker 3: songs from the movie Bride's Maids right, which I love
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: that movie. Rose Byrne the bride from Bride'smaids Australian. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she's quite way to birthday, thank yours. Hell she is.
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  Speaker 4: She'd be about fifty forty five. Yeah, she looks great.
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  Speaker 3: She looks amazing and very very funny in that movie.
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  Speaker 2: Hey.
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  Speaker 3: So, speaking of Hollywood, though, Bob Saget, who was the
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: star of Full House he was dad, you know, Danny Tanner.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: He passed away sadly and his widow, Kelly has she
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: found love but seventeen eighteen months later and she's gone
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: public with it, and everyone's like, oh, whoa what? What
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: was too soon?
• 16:15
  Speaker 7: Is it?
• 16:15
  Speaker 10: Though?
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: How long should you wait? How long can you wait?
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: And we've had a couple of different perspectives here, situations
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: where someone has got pregnant within four weeks after their
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: partner's death to a best mate.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: What is your perspective on this.
• 16:28
  Speaker 7: Kim Well, I was twenty four when I lost my
• 16:32
  Speaker 7: first husband.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: That's horrible.
• 16:35
  Speaker 7: It was a long time ago. I'm well into my
• 16:38
  Speaker 7: fifties now and my son is dirty but he was
• 16:41
  Speaker 7: only eight months old when his dad passed away in
• 16:44
  Speaker 7: a car accident. And I met someone probably just under
• 16:47
  Speaker 7: eighteen months later, and it just went down like a
• 16:51
  Speaker 7: cold sick with my first husband's family. They just weren't
• 16:54
  Speaker 7: happy about it at all. And that eighteen months was
• 16:57
  Speaker 7: am a long time, know it was. It was hard,
• 17:01
  Speaker 7: and meeting somebody he's raised helped me raise my son
• 17:05
  Speaker 7: and we've been married twenty eight years.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad you found happiness again. Did after time past.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Did his family come around after the initial shock?
• 17:15
  Speaker 7: Well, I actually invited them to a wedding, and some
• 17:19
  Speaker 7: of them came, and some of them didn't, and some
• 17:21
  Speaker 7: of them struggled for a couple of years, but they all,
• 17:25
  Speaker 7: I mean, he became part of the furnature eventually.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: It's alreadable of you to do that. Thank you very
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: much for that. Hey, Maureen, what about you? What's your
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: take on this whole thing?
• 17:34
  Speaker 11: Unfortunately we were our month passed away when I was
• 17:38
  Speaker 11: ten and my youngest brother was three, and I was
• 17:42
  Speaker 11: hard on Dad because then he didn't like to be
• 17:45
  Speaker 11: alone for starters, He needs that, he needs a companionship.
• 17:51
  Speaker 11: So I think he met his future wife maybe twelve
• 17:55
  Speaker 11: months I think, But it did upset a few people.
• 17:59
  Speaker 11: My oldest sister thought he was already having an affair,
• 18:04
  Speaker 11: you know. Yeah, so it was hard. So her and
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  Speaker 11: dad did have a bit of a breakout. And I
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  Speaker 11: think she was as I was ten, twelve, she would
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  Speaker 11: have been fourteen. Yeah, So and they never I don't
• 18:15
  Speaker 11: think that relationship ever repaired itself.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: It's really it's really tricky, isn't it. Because I understand,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: don't judge, don't judge, but Also, you imagine being the
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: parents when you've just had an eight month old grandchild
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: and then your son dies.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: It would be very hard to see someone then step in.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Even though it was was in a lot of cases
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: the right thing, It's still difficult, isn't it.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: It really not like an easy transition.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: It is. So if you are going through that, if
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: you've been through that, we're thinking of you. It's hard.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: It's hard on so many levels, puzzles of things. But
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: again there's a great text here on two six ninety
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  Speaker 3: nine being through that. Nobody has the right to judge.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: People deal with death of a partner very different ways,
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: and that's the thing. P You'll deal with death all
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: sorts of ways.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: And I also think this text is quite good. No
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: right or wrong answer. Age, gender, circumstances of death, kids
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: will not, personality of the widowed partner will all contribute
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: to what is right for that person, And unfortunately that
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: person has to do what's right for them even if
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: it does upset others.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Right, that's true. Yeah, well said.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: We're talking about this topic today around how soon is
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: too soon to move on after you lose your loved one.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Really different perspectives on this different scenarios where the kids
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: are involved. We did read a text earlier of someone
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: that fell pregnant within four weeks after her partner passing,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: which you can imagine sent some shockwaves through friends and family.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: But should we be judging as people that are potentially
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: getting in the way of someone finding love and being
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: happy again. It's a hard one to judge, it really is. Gail,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: You've been there, but this on you were a daughter.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: What happened?
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: Yes, so, yeah, I lost my dad when I was eighteen,
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: So what had happened was his father's partner for two years,
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: which you know, they formed of relationship. He suddenly passed
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: away from cancer. And to be quite honors like, we
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: had no contact with the that much after he had passed,
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: and six of us siblings, and unfortunately, she took everything.
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: She took everything, and within six or seven months I
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: had heard she had already moved on, and to us,
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: she just seemed too soon for us. I mean, like
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: three years they came not a long time. But she
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: formed a relationship with our dad, and our dad was
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: very much in love, and unfortunately she walked away with everything.
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: The only thing we actually asked for was a medals
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: for an army and we didn't even get those. So
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: to me, it was like when we heard about the relationship,
• 20:55
  Speaker 5: to me, it was too soon, and when it come
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: was unveiling, she wasn't even going to show. My Auntie
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: was going to she forced to come to that bailing.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: So and I think, yeah, I always don't feel like
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: your feelings should shouldn't be validated too, because you can't
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: help the way you feel, and also grieving too, So
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: I think everyone in those circumstances has to actually make
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: allowances and understand that too. We have had quite a
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: number of texts on this and I thought i'd read
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: this one.
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: It's quite interesting.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: So someone Derek has said to us found love again
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: after the sad loss of my wife who I was
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: with for eighteen years at fifty five last year to
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: pancreatic cancer. Very sad to hear. She herself told me
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: that she didn't want to be alone. I want him
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: to be alone, which I said, Nah, I'm I'm going
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: to be a hermit forever, is what he told his wife.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: He got some advice from hospice which I felt interesting.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: So they said to him, if you find a second
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: person in your life you connect with grab it with
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: both hands, as some people don't find one person in
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: their entire lives. Derek now has a great new partner
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: in his life who's fully understanding that he will always
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: missing grief for his wife, but he's very happy to
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: have a lady in his life again.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: See that's the thing. In the darkest of moments, I'm
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: just loving. There was so much happiness afterwards, you know
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: what I mean. And people are finding that light again,
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: which I love. I'm excited about this. We're chatting with
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Jess Trevors, a private wealth investor advisor from Milford, to
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: discuss retirement. So she's here to answer a couple of questions.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: But remember this is only information to help you understand
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  Speaker 3: more and it's not financial advice. Cold I Jess morning,
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  Speaker 3: How are you going? All right? Thank you? Is key?
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  Speaker 3: We savor enough.
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  Speaker 4: Great question.
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  Speaker 8: Look, I think a great place to start is actually
• 22:37
  Speaker 8: by working out how much you want or are going
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: to need when you get to retirement.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: How do you do that?
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: Good question?
• 22:44
  Speaker 8: So there's number of ways. There's some really helpful online
• 22:46
  Speaker 8: calculators you can use, or you can work with a
• 22:48
  Speaker 8: financial advisor. There's some very good ones out there and
• 22:50
  Speaker 8: they'll help you. I guess ask some key questions around
• 22:53
  Speaker 8: what sort of lifestyle do you want when you get
• 22:55
  Speaker 8: to retirement or close to it, and how much you're
• 22:58
  Speaker 8: likely going to need to support that large?
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Do most people need more than just their key we Saber. Yes,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: I thought that might be the case a lot more.
• 23:08
  Speaker 8: Well, it depends to what you're contributing. Everyone's different, right,
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  Speaker 8: Everyone's created a different plan. But I think a lot
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  Speaker 8: of people are contributing every month into their key we saber.
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  Speaker 8: That's set amount, which is fantastic, but they haven't stopped
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  Speaker 8: to do the exercise of is this going to get
• 23:22
  Speaker 8: me to where I need to be when I want
• 23:24
  Speaker 8: to retire?
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: And if it isn't where you want it to be,
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: then what.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Do you do? Well?
• 23:28
  Speaker 8: You may want to consider some additional investments to support
• 23:32
  Speaker 8: you along the way, and there are some other great
• 23:34
  Speaker 8: investments that can work alongside key we saver. Really nicely
• 23:37
  Speaker 8: managed funds are a lovely type of investment which they're
• 23:41
  Speaker 8: similar to key we saber.
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  Speaker 4: They give you access to a broad.
• 23:43
  Speaker 8: Number of investments. You're hiring a professional to do the
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  Speaker 8: sort of investment investing for you, so you don't have
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  Speaker 8: to pick all those shares yourself, but they also are accessible,
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  Speaker 8: and that's really important because we are probably going to
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  Speaker 8: have some other financial needs or goals during our lifetime
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  Speaker 8: that we might want to meet before sixty five. So
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  Speaker 8: having some other investments can see you well before retirement
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  Speaker 8: and into retirement. So being able to access these other
• 24:11
  Speaker 8: investments is actually really really important. Key we Save is great,
• 24:13
  Speaker 8: but it's locked away to your sixty.
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  Speaker 1: Five through and a lot of people are working past
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  Speaker 1: that too, and they want to be able to live
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and enjoy themselves as well as they're working post sixty five, right,
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• 24:28
  Speaker 8: Yeah, absolutely, So understanding what your long term goal is, right,
• 24:32
  Speaker 8: long term goal, how much do I want to retire
• 24:33
  Speaker 8: with to have the lifestyle?
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Really? What's my ambition there?
• 24:37
  Speaker 8: Shorter term goals might be something like, hey, in a
• 24:39
  Speaker 8: couple of years, I might want to upgrade my car,
• 24:42
  Speaker 8: or I might want to save for my kids' school
• 24:44
  Speaker 8: fees in a while. You know, some of us have
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: got young kids, so that could be a big cost.
• 24:47
  Speaker 8: So having an investment alongside your key resaver can help
• 24:51
  Speaker 8: meet some of those shorter term goals as well, it's
• 24:53
  Speaker 8: really nice strategy.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: I like the idea of not having all your eggs
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: in one basket as well to have a couple.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: Fus for you have some great tools and some great advice.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, this is very exciting news.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: We need to talk about the Olympic Games opening ceremony
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: due to start on Saturday morning five point thirty.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: If your super keen and want to.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Get up now, we have three big stars that are
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: rumored to be involved in that opening ceremony. The first
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: one we can confirm is Snoop Dog.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: Snoop Dog and not only that, he.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Is carrying the torture head of the opening ceremony, so
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: he is literally carrying a flame.
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  Speaker 3: He's gonna light it up. There is it. He doesn't
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  Speaker 3: do this, drop it like guitar.
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  Speaker 9: Drop it like guitar, drop it like guitar.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: Snoop Dog to light the Olympic flame. Snoop Dogg is
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  Speaker 3: at the bottom of my page.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't look at Snoop Dogg and think,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: you know, clean athlete.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: He was a track suit so I mean he does.
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: And I love that it's bringing a bit of a
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: vibe to the Olympic game.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Sure, sure someone's name that we have also heard rumin
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  Speaker 1: you heard this this morning, Jase, is Lady Gargar And
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I can see she's very inspiring with her tunes. I
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: can see this being part of the ceremony.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: Yes, I hear this thing. Lady Gaga has been checked
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: into a hotel in Paris and apparently she's brought a
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: whole bunch of gear with her and it looks like
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Lady Gaga is going to perform at the ending ceremony.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we've got Snoop Dog, We've got Lady Gaga.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Now who do you think these Olympic Games are in France?
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Who do you think when you think French singer that
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: would bring the house down.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: This is who we think of.
• 26:38
  Speaker 7: And it was.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Coming to her question, is is it all coming back
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: for Celine Dion in time? So her documentary has just
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: come out, The Harrowing Docco, where she talks in depth
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: about her stiff person syndrome and how she didn't think
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: or she hopes to sing one more time on the
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: big stage, and the rumors are now out that this
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: could be her ultimate comeback.
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, to tell you a couple of hours ago, Celene
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Dion was spoiled in Paris and she's checked into the
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: same hotel as Lady Gagas.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: So be a huge moment for Selene, for the World
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Music and for the Olympic Games if she steps onto
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: that stage and belts out a big number.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: Can you imagine it?
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I'm just picturing here doing River Deep, Mountain high in
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: the little sparkly dress.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: Sitting Snoop Dogg standing by the side of the stage,
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: covered in smoke. Whuros. She sus on coast right here
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  Speaker 3: we go. Your chance to call us right now and
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  Speaker 3: I haven't played for a while. I'm to take it.
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  Speaker 1: It has to tip off off the table, Sam, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so you just got to take it. Because you're rolled first,
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  Speaker 1: you'll take it.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a good man, a good man.
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  Speaker 1: Twelve hundred dollars. He's like Selene, this is his moment.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know if any information come
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  Speaker 6: Hi, I'm Rebecca and I'm from Northland and I'm going
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  Speaker 4: It's so cool, Rebecca, where about to You're from?
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  Speaker 1: Rebecca, Northland, Northland? Fantastic? I think this is a little
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  Speaker 4: It's one of those.
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  Speaker 1: Ones where I knew the answer, but whether it actually
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  Speaker 1: comes to you in the right moment.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm calling it a path three today.
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  Speaker 3: Have you played the game before? Rebecca?
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  Speaker 2: Not with you, but I do watch the TV religiously
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  Speaker 2: every night, and I watched the Chase religiously every night.
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  Speaker 4: Sounds like a good player, Chase.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're going to send Jason out of the
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  Speaker 1: studio twelve hundred dollars on the line today.
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  Speaker 4: All right, are you ready to go? I'm ready all
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• 29:21
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  Speaker 4: Yes, that was a very good one. Just before the buzzer, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: Let's bring him in, Jace, Jase, Jase, you're chasing a
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  Speaker 4: And Rebecca got the last question just before the buzzer.
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: It was quite dramatic. You can do it, though I.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Was at three, You'll probably be a four hour one.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Thing's for sure. Rebecca would have beaten me today. I'm
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: very glad I wasn't rolls. Okay, here we go, Jace,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: to save twelve hundred dollars, you need a four. Your
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: time starts now. Who was the very first American Idol winner?
• 30:38
  Speaker 7: Know?
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: How many zeros are in a million?
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: Seven? I don't want to say.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: I thought it all right, you're gone, she's one.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: How many zero is are.
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: Rebecca reast of all? Rebecca?
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Congratulations you have won twelve hundred dollars.
• 31:05
  Speaker 9: Oh my goodness, thank you guys so much.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Congratulations, pleasure.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I've never seen Jason explode like that. I need to
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: ask him the other three questions, just to see if
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: you can say.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: A million? Are you sure there are two sex figures because.
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: The ones at the start, yes.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: All the two or the three?
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: It was Kellie's cark, So which you should have had?
• 31:31
  Speaker 7: Six?
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: Is the million?
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Would you have got the name of the pet dinosaur
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in the Flintstones?
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: Well done? Gets the really classic question.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: What Democratic Party member is being called a brat?
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: Kamala Harris?
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, and just so everyone knows, it's not a brat
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: in the sense of you're such a brat, it's like
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: a cool young person. Charlie Charlie x X calls them
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: bratts that it means she's cool basically. So that's two, Jayce,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: And which percussion instrument is named after its shape?
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: I didn't get.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: This, this is the one and Rebrica got this yep,
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: just before the buzzer the bongo.
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because what's the shape of a bongo? Jace, It's
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: a triangle. You're a three out of five Rebecca twelve
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: hundred dollars. What a weird quiz? You deserve that?
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Now, well then I absolutely imploded.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: Jace, you make me laugh.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: Oh good, I'll take what's your name?
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Seventy five percent of people don't like their names, Jace, You.
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: One of them.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I like my name.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I like my name too, although I have had a
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: lot of people throughout my life say to me, isn't
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: that a boy's name.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: I've got a made, the one called Lindsay. I think
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: it's the same thing. It's not a girl's name.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: using last names as first names.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, Hudson.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I would.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Have predicted most people in the stats kind of show
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: that if you don't like your name, you just kind
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: of lump it and you move on, right. Yeah, Only
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: six thousand people changed their name year the past year,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: and a lot of those people, of course getting married.
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: So the question is, do you like.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: Your name because your dad got his name changed name?
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: So my dad changed his name, Well, he didn't change
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: his name, his parents did, so they named him. I'm
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: trying to remember what it was I keep saying Arnold,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I think it was. It might have been Gerald or
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: is something like that. And they actually brought him home
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: from the hospital, looked at him for a while, decided
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: he wasn't actually that name, and then got him changed
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: to Jeffrey.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: Sponsor's personality started coming through.
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: But I get that actually because I remember with my
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte was my number one.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: I like Juliet as a second but I was like, kind
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: of like them both. I'll just see when she comes out,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: and straight away something in my mind was like, she
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: is not a Charlotte.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: I don't know why she just didn't. I don't know
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: why she didn't look like a Charlotte.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: Really, well, have you changed your name or someone changed
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: your name for you? Who were you and who are you?
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: I'd love to hear your story. I eight hundred double
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: o four coast of Flickertis to two six nine nine
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: saw this on seven sharp on TV one the other night,
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: and they said that seventy five percent of Kiwis do
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: not like their own name. And I've had around six
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: thousand every year changed their name.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: So are you one of these people that have changed
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: your name because you didn't like it, or maybe you're
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, Actually,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: we got it wrong and went and changed it. Like
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: my dad, he was named one name for a few
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: weeks and then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: and they went and got it changed.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Kirie, what about you? Would you change your name? Have
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: you changed your name?
• 34:55
  Speaker 10: Changed? My name would have changed my lam But it
• 34:58
  Speaker 10: did give me a lot of green space all morning.
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: I was carry the theory.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Carry the fairy. Oh kids can be harsh, can't they?
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so you know, you learn you do it.
• 35:11
  Speaker 10: It's my dad's name. I love it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: And then you got the last name's diamond.
• 35:15
  Speaker 10: And no, I'm not related to Lil Barmond. Oh gosh,
• 35:19
  Speaker 10: I'm not a girl's best friend.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can get marks for a name like Carrie.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like you can be marked for anything. I'm
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: assuming people thought it was a girl's name, poor thing.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you change it?
• 35:34
  Speaker 9: No?
• 35:34
  Speaker 12: And my sister changed her name. She was christened Gayleen.
• 35:38
  Speaker 12: Myrtle and my grandmother had a big input into the name.
• 35:43
  Speaker 12: So there were two issues festival. She was born in
• 35:45
  Speaker 12: the fifties and it was probably okay to be known
• 35:47
  Speaker 12: as gay in the fifties, but as time went by
• 35:50
  Speaker 12: she didn't like being called gay, and then the Myrtle
• 35:53
  Speaker 12: she absolutely hated. So she changed her name to Gabriel Maya,
• 35:57
  Speaker 12: so she kept the GM in initials, but she called
• 36:00
  Speaker 12: herself Allie, So that was a big change.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Wow, I would have definitely been indicative of the time.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: mocked as much because it's it's acceptable that it's a
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: genuine term.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: So we had a we had a teacher called Game.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: She'd always in herself he Hi, I'm gay, but she
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: knew what she was doing. She laughed about it.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was.
• 36:32
  Speaker 11: Back in the seventies was known as lost Us. That
• 36:36
  Speaker 11: was I was just baby lost.
• 36:38
  Speaker 7: Us and.
• 36:42
  Speaker 11: Was adopted, so my name was changed.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: So hang on a minute, was your first name lost
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Us on your birth certificate?
• 36:51
  Speaker 11: Yes, the Lostice baby.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know it was lost Us. The last name
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: were her first name. I'm trying to work that.
• 36:58
  Speaker 11: Out, known as lost us.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: Sarah well comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost us.
• 37:09
  Speaker 11: Yeah, well that that was that was the adoption process.
• 37:13
  Speaker 7: You weren't actually named, You were just the.
• 37:17
  Speaker 11: Surname that you were given. Thank you very much for
• 37:21
  Speaker 11: my coffee this morning.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Sorry, that sounds good.
• 37:25
  Speaker 11: Actually, you know, you got to got to have a
• 37:30
  Speaker 11: coffee before you.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Go study it. No, I get it.
• 37:34
  Speaker 7: Yeah, No, Back in those days that you were just
• 37:38
  Speaker 7: known as the surname was your first name, and you
• 37:40
  Speaker 7: were just known as the lost us baby. That's what
• 37:43
  Speaker 7: you were known as.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: Looks so harsh.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: I actually get that a little bit.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: Once you're adopted, though, because then it would be harder
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: to change the name if you wanted to.
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: So there is something in that. I'm assuming that was
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: McCafe Brian. Are you happy with your name or did
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: you change it?
• 37:58
  Speaker 10: No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
• 38:02
  Speaker 10: name was Gillage and the windsor it was sweep business. Really,
• 38:09
  Speaker 10: you know, people, what's your name? You say jee Age
• 38:12
  Speaker 10: and they said, well that's on you just sell it,
• 38:15
  Speaker 10: you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
• 38:17
  Speaker 10: chatting about business.
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: How did you change it to windsor did you just
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: pluck a royal name?
• 38:22
  Speaker 10: Yes?
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: Are you going to change it?
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: You might as well go high. Who's that walking? Who's
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: that driving? Who's that driving my car? Wreaking up infringements
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: around the country that I have no part of what
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: I'm blamed for?
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: All these are a couple of theories here.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: One theory is you're in denial and someone has whether
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: it's you or your wife or I mean your kids
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: are too young. Maybe it's one of those rogue neighbors
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: out in who are I has got your car, they've
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: driven through a red light, member of the community has complained,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: or and the other one was filling up a car
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: of petrol and then not doing anything about it.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: The other theory is.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Someone has stolen your number plate or changed it, and
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Jason has been trying to contact the police to try
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: and get to the bottom of it.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: So we thought we'd give them a call.
• 39:08
  Speaker 12: Now just welcome, Thank you for calling the police. Infringement
• 39:13
  Speaker 12: bread get this message. If you know the extension you
• 39:15
  Speaker 12: require islet now oh.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Eight hundred criminals. So you've been trying to call the police.
• 39:23
  Speaker 12: Into infringement Online request forms and alternative contact details. Please
• 39:28
  Speaker 12: visit our website website.
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: I want to talk to a real person.
• 39:34
  Speaker 12: Maybe this was flash ticket?
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: Have you ever given your car to Sam? No, you
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: can cut it off. You're not leaving a voicemail voice
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: for information?
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: You see what I mean? See No, I think it's.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: A voicemail Jase, I think. I don't think you can
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: get through.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: I want to get swallow. This is like I say,
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: it's not me. I know I didn't go to the
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: suburb at that time of this saying I was, and
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: I have never filled up it petrol station.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: So the petrol station that you're accused of filling and
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: running from?
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: Have They then told what? What was it a BP?
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: Was it a gual?
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: It was a BP? So I thought to myself, okays,
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: So for example, my wife tried it because she's got
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: the BP app. So I went to them and I said,
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: can you can you because they still we've got we've
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: got the photo here. I said, what can I see
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: the photo? No, we're not allowed to show you. Well,
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: then how do we know?
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: So does that BP then tell all its BP mates
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: that don't let this criminal in.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: That's a good point. I haven't tried it.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Another BP you might be switching petrol stations in the
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: short term.
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: So what are you going to do today to fix this?
• 40:33
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know, Well do I guess? I just keep
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: trying to cool pext.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I've actually had a lot of people texting from when
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: you mentioned it yesterday saying that it's happened to them
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: where they've noted down like the public's noted down the
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: number plate wrong. If that was the case, couldn't that
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: number plate end up anywhere in New Zealand. It's just
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: it's a little ironic. That's a little too close for home,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. No, I just I don't know.
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: I know you don't believe me, but I swear is.
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