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These Words Sound Dirty · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Yesterday, Gabe and I learned the word diurnal. We were
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: talking about nocturnal, something being nocturnal. And then we thought, wait,
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: what's the opposite of nocturnal?
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  Speaker 2: And the opposite.
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  Speaker 3: Daylight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: So we looked it up and it's diurnal, which means
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: of or during the day. However, if you're like us,
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: I think diurnal sounds a little bit dirty.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it.
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  Speaker 5: Sounds like something you'd go ask your doctor about.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 6: Can you check my diurnal?
• 0:36
  Speaker 7: Yeah. Exactly.
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: So that got me thinking.
• 0:41
  Speaker 1: There are lots of words that sound dirty but aren't actually.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to guess. tell you some of these words, Gabe. Okay,
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: I'm down to learn something here.
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  Speaker 2: And I want you to know if you think they
• 0:52
  Speaker 2: sound dirty.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But then I'll give you the real definition so we
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: don't get in trouble by the FCC.
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  Speaker 7: Alright.
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  Speaker 3: Cockles.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, hold on, hold on.
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  Speaker 3: Talk dirty to me.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 6: Cockles.
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  Speaker 5: I have no idea what that means.
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  Speaker 6: It sounds dirty, of course.
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  Speaker 2: It does sound dirty. It is an edible mollusk. So
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  Speaker 2: like a sea little creature thing in the show.
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  Speaker 6: Do you know where I've heard this word?
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  Speaker 7: Where?
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  Speaker 6: Game of Thrones. Oh, okay, yes.
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  Speaker 5: That is so funny, yeah. Definitely a dirty sounding.
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  Speaker 6: Word for sure.
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  Speaker 2: All right, here's the next one.
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  Speaker 3: Dongle.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah. A dongle.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what a dongle is?
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  Speaker 5: Is that the thing you plug your... It, like, plugs
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  Speaker 5: into your phone, right?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's a small device that's able to be connected to, like,
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  Speaker 1: a computer or a phone, an adapter.
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  Speaker 2: The dongle.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's almost like an adapter or, like, a weird
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  Speaker 5: extension cord.
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  Speaker 2: I would just call it that. I don't know why
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  Speaker 2: the dongle. Okay, here's the last one.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: A shuttlecock.
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  Speaker 3: So dirty to me.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what a shuttlecock is?
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  Speaker 6: I do know what that is.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, please regale us.
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  Speaker 6: It is the... It's also known as a birdie, and
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  Speaker 6: you would use it in badminton.
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  Speaker 2: Yes!
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  Speaker 1: So I just feel like, always call it a birdie.
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: Why did anybody think.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's a shuttlecock. I gotta hit the shuttlecock.
• 2:26
  Speaker 8: Celebrating life's little victories. Every morning we practice gratitude on
• 2:31
  Speaker 8: Big 98.7. If I could, I would keep this feeling
• 2:35
  Speaker 8: in a plastic jar.
• 2:36
  Speaker 6: Bust it out whenever someone's acting hard.
• 2:38
  Speaker 8: Share your little victories with us at 701-280-1987. Kids, I
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  Speaker 8: also needed a win that day.
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  Speaker 6: Angie, do you have a little victory for us this morning?
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  Speaker 1: At my son's elementary school, if you exhibit positive behavior
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  Speaker 1: that aligns with like their little mantra that they have
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  Speaker 1: at his school, then a teacher or whoever witnesses it
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: will hand you a little ticket that's like a praise
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  Speaker 1: ticket saying like.
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  Speaker 2: I exhibited this amazing behavior. Ask me about my day.
• 3:10
  Speaker 1: And like they bring it home to you and Then
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: you ask them about their day. And it was that
• 3:16
  Speaker 1: Liam helped get the class to be quiet without yelling
• 3:20
  Speaker 1: at them to shut up, which.
• 3:22
  Speaker 6: Is good news. Yeah, that is good news for Liam.
• 3:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he did the teacher approved way for trying to
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: get a class to settle down. And I mean, clearly
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  Speaker 1: they loved that and they gave him one of the tickets.
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  Speaker 1: I was really proud of him. And so I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but what exactly did you do? Cause I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: implement this at home when you and your brother won't
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  Speaker 1: be quiet.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, that was it. Did he tell you what
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  Speaker 6: it was?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he did.
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  Speaker 1: And it's a nonverbal communication, so I can't, I can't
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  Speaker 1: do it on air and it mean anything. But, you know,
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  Speaker 1: later today when you won't shut your mouth, Gabe, I'll
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  Speaker 1: do it to you and you'll know.
• 4:00
  Speaker 7: Okay. All right.
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  Speaker 6: I'm looking forward to testing that out here.
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  Speaker 5: We did have Julia who texted this morning and said,
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  Speaker 5: little victories. My kids started swim lessons after a year-long break,
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  Speaker 5: and my five-year-old finally put her face in the water
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  Speaker 5: at lessons. She really struggled with this before, which is
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  Speaker 5: why we took a break from the swim lessons. My
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  Speaker 5: three-year-old did great as well for her first time in
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  Speaker 5: lessons without mom.
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  Speaker 6: Or dad.
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  Speaker 2: And now this is incredible.
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  Speaker 1: I do not know how to swim and I'm 39
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  Speaker 1: years old, so I'm really impressed.
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  Speaker 6: We also did.
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  Speaker 5: We just got this text not six seconds ago. This
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  Speaker 5: person says I I didn't get mandated today going home
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  Speaker 5: to sleep.
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  Speaker 6: Wahoo. Is that some something to do with their job?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, something to do with their job. And then you
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  Speaker 2: didn't have to go and you get to go to sleep. Excellent.
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  Speaker 5: That's wonderful news. Maybe on the way they got to
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  Speaker 5: turn around then.
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  Speaker 6: Is what we're learning.
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  Speaker 2: The very last thing, they're hearing us. That's the last
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  Speaker 2: thing and then you get to go to bed.
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  Speaker 7: Lovely.
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  Speaker 5: Congratulations to you, Texter, this morning. My little victory. I
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  Speaker 5: did not realize this, but if you are ever... Going,
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  Speaker 5: oh my gosh, we don't really want to make anything
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  Speaker 5: for dinner. Like, nothing sounds good. I was shocked, isn't
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  Speaker 5: the word. I was pleasantly surprised.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: My wife and I went grocery shopping at Aldi the
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  Speaker 5: other day.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, I love Aldi.
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  Speaker 5: It was my wife, my daughter, and me. And we
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  Speaker 5: were running around grabbing whatever we had to grab. And
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  Speaker 5: then we both kind of looked at each other, which
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  Speaker 5: it's strange how it works. You go grocery shopping, then
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  Speaker 5: you're like, I don't want to cook any of this.
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  Speaker 6: Of course you don't.
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  Speaker 5: Well, we got one of those Aldi, like, take-and-bake pizzas.
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  Speaker 7: Oh.
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  Speaker 6: I was.
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  Speaker 5: Very surprised by how good this thing actually was. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: pizza is one of those things like even bad pizza
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  Speaker 5: is pretty good. Yeah, but it was great. We loved it.
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  Speaker 6: It was wonderful.
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  Speaker 5: So the next time if you're like, I don't really
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  Speaker 5: know what to do. I don't want to make anything.
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  Speaker 6: Yada, yada, yada.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe check out one of these little take and bake
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  Speaker 5: all these pizzas. They were incredible.
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  Speaker 1: I used to get them a lot when we very
• 6:05
  Speaker 1: first moved here. But then it became like an obsession.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, we got to take a break.
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  Speaker 6: We got to take it down.
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  Speaker 5: Either way, I could not have been more pleasantly surprised
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  Speaker 5: by that. And no one had to cook dinner last night.
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  Speaker 5: That is a little victory right there.
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  Speaker 7: Am I weird?
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  Speaker 8: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: Well, the reason I bring this up, I want to know,
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  Speaker 5: is there, what's the strangest thing about you?
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  Speaker 7: 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 5: I know the saying.
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  Speaker 6: Like quirks? Yeah, I know the saying is misery loves company.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. I just, misery to me loves misery. I need
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  Speaker 5: some other weird people.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: I'm crying out for help this morning.
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  Speaker 7: Why? I mean, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: You're weird, but what specifically is.
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  Speaker 2: Making you think about this?
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  Speaker 5: Well, yesterday, Angie and I were on a phone meeting,
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  Speaker 5: and I realized halfway through, oh my God, I have
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  Speaker 5: been fidgeting with this thing forever.
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  Speaker 6: Which sounds wild to say it like that, but for
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  Speaker 6: 30 minutes.
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  Speaker 7: What?
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't there for that.
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  Speaker 6: What is this thing called that I have in my hand? Oh,
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  Speaker 6: a binder clip. A binder clip.
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  Speaker 5: It's got the black V thing and the two silver things.
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  Speaker 2: When I was little, I thought it looked like a
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  Speaker 2: little purse.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, to me it looks almost like a butterfly kind
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  Speaker 6: of thing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I have learned this about myself a lot in the
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  Speaker 5: past month and a half or so. But I just
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  Speaker 5: fidget with things that are not meant to be fidget spinners.
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  Speaker 6: I will play with this thing the entire show.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: You know, like tags on blankets?
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 6: Same thing.
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  Speaker 2: Ew, really?
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  Speaker 6: I will fidget with these tags.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't do that.
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  Speaker 6: It's the weirdest thing on earth.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like everyone has their little things right.
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  Speaker 1: For me, it's anytime there's a sticker on something, not
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  Speaker 1: like a sticker like a good job sticker, but like
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  Speaker 1: a sticker tag, for example, I peel it off and
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  Speaker 1: then I roll it up really tightly, almost like it's
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  Speaker 1: a little swisher.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then I just rub it between my hands forever.
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  Speaker 6: I do the same thing.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 5: I do that all the time. You know when you
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  Speaker 5: get silverware at a restaurant? There's the little sticker thing
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  Speaker 5: that holds the napkin over it?
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  Speaker 7: Yes.
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  Speaker 6: All the time fidgeting with that thing.
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  Speaker 2: Me too. I roll that up too.
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  Speaker 3: Me too.
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  Speaker 1: I think you and I just both have manual fixations.
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  Speaker 1: We're fidgeters in that way.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know what it's called, but I got it.
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  Speaker 7: 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 5: What's your little quirk? What's your little strange kind of quirk?
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  Speaker 5: Mine is fidgeting with basically anything and everything. When they
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  Speaker 5: invented the fidget spinners and the fidget cubes, I could
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  Speaker 5: have been a gajillionaire because there's a hundred things that
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  Speaker 5: I already do that with.
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  Speaker 7: Big 98.7.
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  Speaker 5: What's the craziest punishment you ever had growing up?
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  Speaker 7: 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 5: It is kind of, maybe I'm just like a sick individual,
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  Speaker 5: but I have thought about, you know, if my daughter
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  Speaker 5: was in trouble growing up, not like in trouble needed help.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, like got in trouble.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. What would I do? Am I like the type
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  Speaker 5: of parent to ground her? Am I the type of
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  Speaker 5: parent to I probably won't be much of a yeller.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not really a yeller in my regular life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good.
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  Speaker 6: But what would I do?
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  Speaker 5: And I thought of this idea and I want to
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  Speaker 5: know if this is insane. 701-280-1987, by the way, craziest
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  Speaker 5: punishment you ever had growing up.
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  Speaker 2: Gabe is clearly looking for ideas.
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  Speaker 6: That's right.
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  Speaker 5: I know that you have a story close to this
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  Speaker 5: of a punishment that was pretty, pretty nuts.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It was not me. It was my sister.
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  Speaker 1: And therefore, I was very careful about all of my
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  Speaker 1: actions after witnessing.
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: What happened to her.
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  Speaker 1: My sister, when she turned 16, she went to like
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: a neighbor's house and she partook in consuming alcohol, okay?
• 10:10
  Speaker 8: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 1: Which, obviously, illegal. Do not recommend. But, you know, teenagers
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: be teenagers. Couldn't control what my sister was doing. So
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  Speaker 1: she went and she got, she wasted. And my mom
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  Speaker 1: had to pick her up from this neighbor's house. And
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  Speaker 1: I knew, my mom is so old school Latina that
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  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you about to be grounded for life.
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  Speaker 2: And close. My sister was grounded for two years.
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  Speaker 6: Which is insane.
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  Speaker 1: She was ungrounded on her 18th birthday. I think my
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: mom would have grounded her longer, but, you know, adult
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  Speaker 1: at 18.
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  Speaker 2: So she couldn't.
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  Speaker 1: But quite literally, my sister could not leave to do anything.
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  Speaker 1: She could go to school and she could come back.
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  Speaker 1: And she could come with us to like family functions.
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  Speaker 7: Family stuff, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But that was it. And I felt so bad for her.
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  Speaker 1: I used to, like my sister would go across the
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  Speaker 1: street to hang out with the neighbors while my mom
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  Speaker 1: was at work. And then my mom would call. This
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  Speaker 1: was back when there were no cell phones. It was
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  Speaker 1: cordless phones, though. And my mom would call me, like,
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  Speaker 1: put Vivi on the phone. And I'd be like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: hang on. I think she's in the bathroom. And I
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  Speaker 1: would run so fast across the street, fingers crossed that
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  Speaker 1: the connection on this cordless phone would hold. And so, like,
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  Speaker 1: she did get out every once in a while. But, like,
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  Speaker 1: it was rough. Honestly, I think that affected my sister
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  Speaker 1: for life.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So don't suggest that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't ground your kid for two years.
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  Speaker 2: That's aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: What is your plan? What is your punishment?
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  Speaker 5: Well, I do have this idea. I want to hear
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  Speaker 5: from Brandy first, though. We have Brandy on the phone. Brandy,
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  Speaker 5: what was the craziest punishment you ever had?
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  Speaker 3: My mom caught.
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  Speaker 9: Me sneaking out when I was 16 and grounded me
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  Speaker 9: for the entire summer. We're talking no car, no friends,
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  Speaker 9: no phone after nine. I swear I served a prison
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  Speaker 9: sentence for going to a bonfire.
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  Speaker 6: Well, when you're a kid.
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  Speaker 2: That was a light sentence.
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  Speaker 6: Compared to your sister.
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  Speaker 2: Compared to my sisters.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's rough.
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  Speaker 5: There was one time I left a light on in
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  Speaker 5: my room growing up. And this is 1,000% why I
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  Speaker 5: am the way I am today about lights. I had
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  Speaker 5: left it on and I went to go do whatever.
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  Speaker 5: And my dad was not happy that I would leave
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  Speaker 5: lights on like that.
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  Speaker 2: Electricity costs money, honey.
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  Speaker 6: It does, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And he once had me sit in my room, which
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  Speaker 5: this would have driven the electricity bill through the roof.
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  Speaker 5: But he had me sit there and count out loud,
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  Speaker 5: turning this light off and on to 100.
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and I had to count loud enough for him
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  Speaker 5: to hear me in a different room. So you best
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  Speaker 5: believe I never left a light on ever again.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 7: It worked.
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  Speaker 2: It taught you a lesson for sure.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it did.
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  Speaker 5: I have this idea for when my daughter eventually grows
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  Speaker 5: up to be a little bit older and does something
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  Speaker 5: that gets her in trouble, which will inevitably happen like
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  Speaker 5: it does with every kid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I was making a sandwich the other day and I
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  Speaker 5: was putting mayonnaise on this sandwich, but we were getting
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  Speaker 5: to the point where there's like not a ton of
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  Speaker 5: mayonnaise in it. And you know how you're kind of
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  Speaker 5: digging and scraping the sides? I had thought what a
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  Speaker 5: punishment it would be if there was something that was
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  Speaker 5: really bad and I made her sit there and scrape
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  Speaker 5: out a jar of mayonnaise until there was none left
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  Speaker 5: in it.
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  Speaker 6: That would take so long.
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  Speaker 2: That would take so long. I'm actually stealing that.
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  Speaker 1: My kids never get like any punishments because I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm worried I'm always going to go too far because
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  Speaker 1: I was raised by a mad woman.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: And so I never. But this this is a good idea.
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  Speaker 5: It would take a long time if you can see
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  Speaker 5: a little speck on the corner.
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  Speaker 6: Now you got to dig it out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, 701-280-1987. Craziest punishment you ever received growing up. I
• 13:54
  Speaker 5: might need some ideas from your parents.
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  Speaker 7: Drop it, drop it. Big 98.7.
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  Speaker 3: This is Am I the Problem?
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  Speaker 7: It's me.
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  Speaker 3: We'll hear one side of the story and with your help.
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  Speaker 7: Am I the problem?
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  Speaker 8: Decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
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  Speaker 7: I'm hardly the problem.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: On Big 98.7.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: Do we have to stop this man from asking his
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: girlfriend this question?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, it's Brady.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I'm asking advice on this before I make
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: a mistake asking my girlfriend this question.
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  Speaker 6: Is he proposing?
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: She sees a therapist and I want to know if
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: she talks about me during their sessions. I kind of
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: feel like I should know what's being said about me
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: if she is because I'm not there to defend myself.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: What if she's getting advice from this lady based on
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: inaccurate information?
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: Is that fair for me to ask? What do you think? 701-280-1987.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: Call us, text us. We also have this on the
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: Big 98.7 Facebook page.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: Gabe, what are your thoughts? You asking this question?
• 15:00
  Speaker 6: Zero chance.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 15:02
  Speaker 5: No chance. This sounds so dude to me. What if
• 15:07
  Speaker 5: there's inaccurate information? I better fix it and correct it
• 15:10
  Speaker 5: right now. It sounds so guy. No, therapy, that is
• 15:14
  Speaker 5: for her. That is for her to discuss what she
• 15:16
  Speaker 5: needs to discuss. That is for her to... express certain
• 15:19
  Speaker 5: things that she needs to express.
• 15:21
  Speaker 6: And you might not be aware of this. Brady, is
• 15:24
  Speaker 6: that his name? Brady?
• 15:25
  Speaker 5: A lot of, not a lot of times, but there
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: are times in these therapy sessions that she would maybe
• 15:32
  Speaker 5: talk about you because of course that is happening.
• 15:34
  Speaker 6: And the therapist is on your side.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
• 15:38
  Speaker 6: Have you ever thought of it that way?
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: Maybe they're trying to work through something with her involving
• 15:43
  Speaker 5: you when, I know this is a long shot, but
• 15:45
  Speaker 5: you might kind of be in the right.
• 15:47
  Speaker 6: That does happen.
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: But no, that therapy session is for her, and she
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: should be able to act however, discuss however, discuss about
• 15:57
  Speaker 5: whatever she would like in those therapy sessions.
• 16:00
  Speaker 6: That is 1,000% for her.
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: I think....
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: You can ask, Brady.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: However, the caveat is, if you are going to ask,
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: you have to A, be willing to accept whatever her
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: truthful answer is.
• 16:15
  Speaker 6: Do you want to know the answer.
• 16:17
  Speaker 7: To this or not?
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because what if it's something you don't like? Well,
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: you asked.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Don't ask questions you don't want the real answer to.
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: That's right.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: That happens a lot.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: And the other thing is, if you're so concerned... maybe
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: you should go to couples therapy. And I don't even
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: think couples therapy is if like you're going through something
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: horrible and you're on the verge of splitting. I think
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: couples therapy is healthy regardless. But if you're going to
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: ask about what's being said in therapy, then you have
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: to be willing to accept what is said and even
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: go to therapy yourself if you want to really have
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: all the insight.
• 16:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you got to be prepared for some tough truths.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I guess, yeah, ask at your peril. Or
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: just take Gabe's advice.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. What do you think? 701-280-1987.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Have you ever been in this situation? What's your advice
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: for Brady?
• 17:08
  Speaker 7: Drop it, drop it. Big 98.7.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Brady's girlfriend sees a therapist and he wants to know
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: if he's OK to ask, hey, you're talking about me
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: in therapy. And if you do, what do you say?
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: He is concerned that maybe it's not the move. And
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: that's why he wrote to us.
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: See, there's the problem, is he's concerned about what she
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: might be talking about.
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: I think the question is fair. Like, oh, hey, do
• 17:36
  Speaker 6: you talk about me in therapy?
• 17:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah. And then if she's like, yes, that's where it ends.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: Then you'd be like, oh, interesting. That's where you get out.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's, yeah, I feel like that's the move.
• 17:46
  Speaker 5: But wanting to have a say in how it goes
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: is a big no-no.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that seems like some weird self-preservation that's actually going
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: to lead to your demise, sir.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Alyssa said, no, absolutely not. That time is perfect. for
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: her to talk about whatever she wants.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I'm sure she talks about you with her friends, too,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: who also give her advice.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Are you concerned about that, too?
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Maybe he can join a session if she and the
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: therapist are open to that.
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, that is possible.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: That is a good point. Where does that end, sir?
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: Because, yeah, girls always talk about their dude with their girlfriends.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Are you asking that, too?
• 18:23
  Speaker 6: That's a good point.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: I remember a conversation early on in Corey and Mai's relationship. Now,
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: we have been together over a decade at this point.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: And I remember it was one of the smartest conversations.
• 18:34
  Speaker 6: Greatest moments of my life.
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: All right, this is a shout out to any dude
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: out there who might need some advice. is I always
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: told Corey, hey, I don't care if you talk about
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: me with your friends. I know you need that to
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: vent or if I'm being annoying or whatever. That's totally fine.
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: I don't want to know anything about that.
• 18:52
  Speaker 6: Just do me a favor. Tell the truth.
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: Just don't make something up. But if you need to
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: vent about me, that's totally fair and totally fine. I
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: have no problem with that. Not that anyone would. But
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: just tell the truth.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: That makes sense. I like that.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Jewel said, are there issues in your relationship? If there are,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: sure bet it's being discussed. If there aren't any and
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: all is going well, she most likely isn't discussing anything major.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Involving you or you would already know.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Actually, Brady.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Maybe you're just giving yourself too much credit. Not everything
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: is about you. Also, you might be the highlight of
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the day.
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: What if part of the session is what went wrong,
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: how she could have reacted to something different, and then
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: you're the good part.
• 19:38
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: That could happen.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Or maybe she ain't even thinking about you at all,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: and she's talking about her mom.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: That's what I would be talking about.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: If I were in therapy, I'm not talking about Mikey.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about myself.
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: Mom.
• 19:50
  Speaker 6: Are you talking about me in therapy?
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: Don't answer that.
• 19:55
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: 701-280-1987 if you have any advice for Brady.
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: I will say this is one of those Am I
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: the Problems where at noon, 1, 2 in the afternoon,
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: going back and diving through the comments, going to be
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: very entertaining for me later on today.
• 20:13
  Speaker 6: And you know what? There's not a whole lot you
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: can do. Sometimes bad days, they just happen.
• 20:19
  Speaker 7: Yep. 701-280-1987.
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: One of the best ways to turn a bad day
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: around is by listening to a song. Whether it's a
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: song that makes you happy, whether it's a song that
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: makes you sad.
• 20:31
  Speaker 6: Or you just want to wallow in misery for three minutes.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever it is that can get you through.
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: Whatever it is, 701-280-1987. Alex, what do you go with, man?
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: What's your bad day song?
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: I go old school, and I listen to Led Zeppelin
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: if I'm having a procedure done at the dentist. That
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: plus Novocaine has got me through having my wisdom teeth
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: taken out and a root canal.
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: Oh, I have something for you then, man. So he
• 20:56
  Speaker 6: hangs out on the box from time to time, it
• 20:59
  Speaker 6: sounds like. I do like that. Nothing wrong with a
• 21:01
  Speaker 6: little Led Zeppelin.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: No, no.
• 21:03
  Speaker 6: Angie, do you have a bad day song?
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Oh, LMFAO, Party Rock.
• 21:09
  Speaker 6: Oh, this one?
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Let's go. Party Rock is in the house tonight.
• 21:15
  Speaker 6: That is a song that'll get you up and moving
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: for sure.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, like whenever I have like.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I'd be having a bad phone call with my
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: mom or like a rough time with the kids because
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: they're just not listening. And then I go take a
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: drive and I blast this in the car. And I'm like, yes,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Party Rock is in the house tonight.
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: And even if you are having a bad day, you know,
• 21:34
  Speaker 5: you fake it till you make it. Yeah.
• 21:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's definitely a way you can go about it.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: 701-280-1987.
• 21:37
  Speaker 6: Once again, songs, if you are having... A bad day
• 21:44
  Speaker 6: this morning. We're going to try to help turn this around.
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: We do have, and I think this is actually probably
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: a very popular one. Jenny here in Fargo said, whenever
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: I'm having a rough day, I will blast.
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah. Very fitting. Sometimes you just got to shake
• 21:59
  Speaker 6: it off.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: You do.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: You got to shake it off. I like that.
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: She said she'll blast Shake It Off in the car
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: by Taylor Swift. Doesn't matter what's going on. I'm belting
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: it out by the chorus, and I feel like a
• 22:09
  Speaker 5: new person by the time I get to work.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I'm already bopping to this right now.
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: It's kind of hard to hear this song and not,
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: you know, kind of dance along a little bit here.
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: And this one I love from Mike out of West Fargo.
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: He hit us with one of these.
• 22:23
  Speaker 7: Oh!
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, when it's a bad day, you do feel
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: like you're living on a prayer.
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: It's kind of funny how the lyrics can sort of
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: direct our mood.
• 22:40
  Speaker 6: I have one that is a song you maybe remember.
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: I don't know if it got the love it deserved
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: when it was first released, but this is a beautiful
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: song by a Ben Rector. Like when I close my
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: eyes and don't even care if.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Anyone sees me.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: This is such a Gabe song.
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: Another great song if you're on a walk with the dog,
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: the kid, and maybe it was just a tough day.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: This right there, just instant smile on the face.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: I will say I'm in a great mood.
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: It's amazing how that works.
• 23:12
  Speaker 7: 701-280-1987.
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: Best song to play when you are having a bad day.
• 23:19
  Speaker 7: Big 98.7.
• 23:21
  Speaker 6: Today's variety, Big 98.7. Who's this?
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: This is Emily.
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: Emily, how you doing? Where are you calling from?
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: Fargo.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: Emily, do you have a song that you just have
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: to hear if you're having a bad day?
• 23:30
  Speaker 8: Well, if I'm having a bad day, I need to
• 23:32
  Speaker 8: rage a little bit before I can feel better.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: So it's Pink, You and Your Hand.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: That is so excellent.
• 23:41
  Speaker 6: It seems very fitting.
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: This is a big shout out to Emily this morning.
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: We'll give this one for you, Emily.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Big 98.7.
• 23:52
  Speaker 6: I need some.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Starting off the day with something good.
• 24:03
  Speaker 8: This is Gabe's Good News on Big 98.7.
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: And this is an exciting story. After 18 years under
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: the blue awnings on 13th Avenue, Natural Pet Center is
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: moving to a bigger, potentially better spot.
• 24:19
  Speaker 6: Owner Michelle Smith says.
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: The new location at the shops at Blue Water Creek
• 24:24
  Speaker 5: will be more centralized as the city grows south. And
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: it's getting not one, but two self-serve pet wash suites
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: after the North Fargo store's version was such a huge hit.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: It's not a franchise story. It's an 18-year local success
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: story finding room to grow. Look for the doors to
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: open in their new spot by October.
• 24:47
  Speaker 6: Congratulations.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: That's got to be an exciting, fun thing when you
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: have something And it grows and you can potentially get
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: into a different building if you would like to, obviously.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: And you can just add things, get rid of things
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: you don't like. I think this is awesome.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: And how major that it's going to be two of
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: the wash station.
• 25:05
  Speaker 6: That's right.
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: And my dog needs about two by herself. So we'll
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: see you there.
• 25:10
  Speaker 6: All right.
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: Natural Pet Center. Never forget my favorite quote. The world
• 25:14
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• 25:16
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