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Shiftheads - Secrets, Privacy, and White Lies: A Clinical Psychologist on What's Killing Your Relationship
Secrets in relationships aren't always what they look like, and a clinical psychologist says the distinction between privacy and secrecy could be the most important conversation a couple never has.
Deleting Messages Is Not Privacy. A Psychologist Draws the Line
Dr. Laurie Betito says privacy protects individuality and is necessary even in close relationships, while secrecy is concealment that protects the liar, not the bond. A journal is private. Deleted messages are a secret. The most common ones she sees cluster around addictions and infidelity.
White Lies Feel Safe Until They Become the…
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