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Rules for Grandparents · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mamas, why
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  Speaker 1: are there so many rules in place today before a
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  Speaker 1: grandparents can see their grand child for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mama's mama mama, and.
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  Speaker 1: Joining us now are American mama's Terry Edville and Kimberly Burleson.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't realize you could set rules.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, they just that's not that was our experience, like,
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  Speaker 4: oh her mind, yeah, come on, uh and Frankly, Uh,
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  Speaker 4: our experience was that having my parents uh with my.
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  Speaker 3: Kids was very, very helpful when my kids were sick
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  Speaker 3: or something along those lines. Uh, we didn't have to
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  Speaker 3: take off of work. My parents were just okay, we're
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  Speaker 3: taking the grandkids. But they're they're rules now, they're rules,
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  Speaker 3: well grandparents.
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  Speaker 5: The real that was sent to us was actually about
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  Speaker 5: when the baby's first born. Okay, and the lady was saying,
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  Speaker 5: you know, she was like, look, you know, we're eighties,
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  Speaker 5: we're all of us, we're gen X. We just you know,
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  Speaker 5: our parents we were kissing all over our babies, and
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  Speaker 5: our parents were this generation is different. They don't want
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  Speaker 5: you kissing the baby when it's first born. Why not
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  Speaker 5: it's they see too much on social media the germs.
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  Speaker 5: What the things that could happen.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not saying you lick the kid's face.
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  Speaker 6: I just I know it's a real sure.
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  Speaker 3: About too many germs. We're going to deprive affection.
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  Speaker 7: It's going further than that. It's you must be vaccinated
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  Speaker 7: with certain vaccines. They think you must have an isolation
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  Speaker 7: period of time before you touch the baby, you must
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  Speaker 7: wear a mask, you must clean. It is like one
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  Speaker 7: rule after another that these grandparents were like, what the heck?
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  Speaker 7: I mean, scientifically, these are the strongest these babies are
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  Speaker 7: ever going to be. Their immune systems are so strong.
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  Speaker 3: And they develop quickly, very much.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, if you don't expose them to germs,
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  Speaker 1: their immune system becomes weaker.
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  Speaker 6: You can't say that. You can't say that to that generation.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, the problem is on social media, you're seeing
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  Speaker 7: the exception, because there's always an exception to every year. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: so kissing a baby, you know, ninety nine percent of
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  Speaker 7: the time, no problem, But there's that one baby that
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  Speaker 7: gets sick and they say it's from kissing. That's on
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  Speaker 7: social media. So every mother after that is like, oh,
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  Speaker 7: nobody can get near my baby or kiss my baby.
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  Speaker 7: And social media has done this well.
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  Speaker 5: I will say, though, the vaccination thing, this is a too,
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  Speaker 5: a two tier thing. So you got the group that
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  Speaker 5: does not want you to, you know, come see their
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  Speaker 5: baby if you have not had all the boosters, all
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  Speaker 5: the vaccinations and all of that. I have not experienced that.
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  Speaker 5: And then you another point with the vaccination. This generation
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  Speaker 5: is very cautious, which I'm glad. They are very cautious
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  Speaker 5: about which vaccines to give their children. Yeah, because so
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  Speaker 5: much so many studies have come out with regard to
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  Speaker 5: autism or tics or things like that that we now
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  Speaker 5: like we'll see the number of vaccines that we had
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  Speaker 5: growing up, and it's it's little, it's just like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: just a few.
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  Speaker 6: The new this generation, it's like hundreds of vaccine. There's
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  Speaker 6: so many vaccinations.
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  Speaker 3: And they kill a lot of them twelve the time.
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  Speaker 6: And that's so dangerous.
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  Speaker 5: So you're seeing this generation not only are they cautious
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  Speaker 5: about kissing your baby, kissing their baby, they're very cautious
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  Speaker 5: about vaccines and they will do the research.
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  Speaker 6: I've seen that with my own kids, and you got it.
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  Speaker 3: You got to be careful where you're getting your research.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, because if you get your research from the
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  Speaker 1: wrong spot, that's not good research.
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  Speaker 3: Well.
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  Speaker 6: The thing is too they don't trust the CDC anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Well, since Anthony found ahead of it, I understand why.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, even if the doctor recommends it, they can
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  Speaker 5: push it back and say I'm not ready for that.
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  Speaker 5: Let me push that back and they will see. The
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  Speaker 5: problem is you're seeing different strains of polio coming back.
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  Speaker 5: You're seeing things come back.
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  Speaker 6: Because yes, so.
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  Speaker 5: My advice to mine, get the ones that have been
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  Speaker 5: that have had studies for fifty years, the ones that
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  Speaker 5: we took, the ones that y'all took. Yea, yeah, do
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  Speaker 5: the research on the other ones, the newer ones that
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  Speaker 5: have not had a lot of time.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, vaccination is a huge thing.
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  Speaker 7: I'm also curious about what they say now because, like
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  Speaker 7: we said, I don't trust anything anymore. So when they
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  Speaker 7: say that there have been like a couple of people
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  Speaker 7: that have polio, like, really do they really? I don't
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  Speaker 7: know if I believe them. If they're just trying to
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  Speaker 7: scare people into getting the vaccine. Now in the hospital,
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  Speaker 7: if you don't take the vaccine, then make you stay
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  Speaker 7: there longer, which is expensive, you know. And so I
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  Speaker 7: was talking to my daughter in law yesterday and she
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  Speaker 7: was talking about her sister in law just had a
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  Speaker 7: baby and she was the same way. She used a doula,
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  Speaker 7: but it was connected to a hospital and she chose
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  Speaker 7: not to do vaccinations, and so there's a period of
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  Speaker 7: time they made her stay in the hospital, I guess
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  Speaker 7: for observation. But the good thing the light is that
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  Speaker 7: they're more uh, they're not mean about it, because it
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  Speaker 7: used to be a time when there's so much pushback, right,
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  Speaker 7: and now hospitals are having to accept that people are
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  Speaker 7: making that choice.
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  Speaker 6: And you know why.
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  Speaker 5: You know why because they talk about us being conspiracy theories.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 5: The reason that we don't trust, like you said, is
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  Speaker 5: because of what we are learning right now about Baucia
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  Speaker 5: with all the diary entries. We are learning right now
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  Speaker 5: that he did lie purposefully. That's why we don't trust.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I have to do our own research, rightes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the damage that was done to medical credibility during
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  Speaker 1: COVID toil it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how you fix it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't need it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need it.
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly Brothers, and thank you so much, Thank you,