Latest / Love Conquers Fear / #52: What AI Can’t Replace: Neil Blumofe on Wonder and the Human Spirit
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- 0:00All of the the Nexus of consciousness, spirituality,
- 0:03science and AI and all of its other accoutrement allow us to
- 0:07have a very exciting moment. Being able to navigate all of
- 0:10this, as difficult and as scary as it may be, gives us a real
- 0:13sense of what's possible. You know, I never thought in the
- 0:16work that I do that there's been a lot of unexpected things that
- 0:19have happened, and it's very exciting.
- 0:21I think that science and spirit are two sides of the same coin.
- 0:25We have a an opportunity to discuss deeply and carefully and
- 0:30with love all of this that will help to define who we're going
- 0:33to be or who we're not going to be because I think the stakes
- 0:35are that high. Welcome back everybody to the
- 0:40Love Conquers Fear podcast. I'm so excited about today's
- 0:44episode. This has been a long time in the
- 0:47making. Seemed inevitable ever since I
- 0:49started the podcast. First of all, I just want to say
- 0:53that I'm recording this slightly before South by Southwest
- 0:57starts. Really exciting thing happened
- 1:00yesterday. I've been wondering when this
- 1:02would actually happen, but I've talked about the Americans for
- 1:05Ibogaine initiative on the podcast and the fact that here
- 1:08at the House, we hosted Governor Rick Perry as well as Brian
- 1:13Hubbard for a dinner to raise money for the Americans for
- 1:17Ibogaine initiative. And that was a successful
- 1:20dinner. I learned a ton.
- 1:22I've talked about that dinner in the past, You know, really the
- 1:27the fact that ibogaine will de age a brain and we should have
- 1:32the scientific curiosity to understand why this incredibly
- 1:35powerful psychedelic can literally transform vets where
- 1:40they over 80% of time walk out of only one ibogaine experience
- 1:47or session and they don't have suicidal thoughts anymore or
- 1:51ideation. They don't decide to go forward
- 1:53with that. And their spouses look at them
- 1:56afterwards and say, Oh my gosh, you're back.
- 1:58I was wondering if you were ever going to come back after all the
- 2:00PTSD they had. Same thing.
- 2:03It's over 80% of the time cure rate with Alcoholics, opioid
- 2:08addicts. And I got a text yesterday from
- 2:13Aaron, who is the executive director of the Americans Bride
- 2:16began initiative and Brian Hubbard is coming on the
- 2:20podcast. And so you'll see that coming up
- 2:22in the next few episodes. And I just can't wait for that
- 2:27because wow, what a force of nature.
- 2:30He is a man on a mission. So stay tuned for that.
- 2:35It's it's going to be a huge honor flowing with him and
- 2:38recording that. I've also mentioned that I
- 2:41finished recently, A World Appears by Michael Pollan, a
- 2:46very deep dive into the nature of consciousness, and I talked
- 2:50about that on the last episode. So I'm going to keep this short,
- 2:55but it is a great book. It's another meandering tour
- 3:00like Anika Harris, who wrote Lights On into trying to decode
- 3:05the nature of consciousness. We're going to spend a lot of
- 3:07time on that on today's episode. And it is a very complex subject
- 3:13because, you know, the things that Michael Pollan talks about
- 3:17in his book is that as he's with all these scientists, do they
- 3:21ultimately conclude, you know, consciousness is the experience
- 3:24itself. I mean, there's nothing to the
- 3:27human experience without consciousness.
- 3:29And the one thing we know for sure is we're conscious, you
- 3:32know, and we're self aware. And to study that, given that
- 3:38it's the only thing we actually know to be true is very hard
- 3:44because it's not like you can step outside of being conscious
- 3:48and observe consciousness from a non conscious point of view.
- 3:53So he ends up concluding at the end of that book, much like
- 3:57Anika Harris did and hers, the consciousness must be this
- 4:01fundamental property of the universe, which is ultimately
- 4:05what I believe. And I believe there's divinity
- 4:09in it too. I believe that consciousness is
- 4:12the fabric of God and that it's deeply rooted in love.
- 4:16I believe it exists in the quantum realm.
- 4:19And he covers, he covers quite a bit of that in the book.
- 4:22And you know, one of the things I was surprised by is that a lot
- 4:27of these consciousness researchers, maybe I shouldn't
- 4:30have been surprised by this, but I was, they are talking about
- 4:34their psychedelic journeys too, as a way that they've grappled
- 4:38with the nature of consciousness.
- 4:41And for one in particular, his first journey, he was he was
- 4:46clinging on the entire time to the materialist paradigm.
- 4:50And then after his first journey, he had to conclude
- 4:53like, hey, there's something very different going on here
- 4:58that science and his understanding of science
- 5:00couldn't explain to him. It's a great book, a really fun
- 5:04read. Michael Pollan tells it in a, in
- 5:07a, in a really beautiful way came out on February 24th and it
- 5:11is read by him on Audible. So if you get it that way, it's
- 5:15it's really fun. So today I'm really excited to
- 5:19announce that Rabbi Neil Bloomoth is on the podcast.
- 5:23How you doing? Great to see you.
- 5:25Yeah, it's so good to see you. You know you don't, you don't
- 5:28know this yet, but you know, I told you that I just got the PDF
- 5:34for the advance review copy of Love Conquers Fear, which is my
- 5:39third book, and the subtitle Humanity, AI and Age Abundance
- 5:43for All. And you're in the
- 5:45acknowledgements. No, thank you.
- 5:46So I just wanted you to know. Appreciate it Mughaltovan, the
- 5:49accomplishment. Thank you.
- 5:50Thank you so much. It comes out in June and there's
- 5:55a conference that occurs in Omaha with would love to have
- 6:00you join if you can make it, which is called the ROI blind
- 6:04conference. In the theme this year is love
- 6:08conquers fear. Together we rise and surprise,
- 6:11surprise, it's the 7th conference that they're having,
- 6:14which is my divine number. Another beautiful synchronicity,
- 6:18but it's it's May 27th through 29th in Omaha and I talked about
- 6:24it on episode 41 of the podcast with Jay Wilkinson, who is the
- 6:28founder of the do more good movement and they're they're my
- 6:31publisher so feels really, really good to it is truly a
- 6:35labor of love it it is also very much a labor that the the
- 6:41editing process for any book it's in it's intense.
- 6:44You know, you're just reading it over and over and over again to
- 6:47make sure to get it right. But I can't wait to send the PDF
- 6:50to you. It'll it'll arrive in your inbox
- 6:53either later today or tomorrow. Great.
- 6:55I really, really look forward to getting your feedback on it.
- 6:57Well, I appreciate it and it's good to know that as you're
- 7:00laboring over something with that's such a beautiful urgent
- 7:03truth within yourself to know that you're not alone.
- 7:06So you continue to have like minded folks who walk with you
- 7:11and support you as you continue to bring love out into the
- 7:14world. Well, thank you.
- 7:15Thank you. I truly believe none of us are
- 7:17alone there. There's divinity within us all.
- 7:21It's just whether or not we realize that you know, I I, I
- 7:25talk about in the book may be a surprise to you.
- 7:29May may not be you've known me for a long time that I view a
- 7:33lot of my life as having sleepwalked a bit like not being
- 7:39aware of what the reality was and the divine messages that I
- 7:46was receiving, like feeling the presence of God and having
- 7:49having that, that beautiful experience.
- 7:52You know, one of them in particular was in Israel, in
- 7:56Taganya, you know, the first kibbutz where I was just seeing
- 7:59an absolutely majestic, like partial rainbow in the sky.
- 8:05It was very unusual. It's like just a tiny little
- 8:08fraction of one as we're looking out over this completely lush
- 8:12valley that used to be pretty much desert type of land.
- 8:18They had transformed the land in 70 years.
- 8:21And you know, I got that feeling of energy all over my body.
- 8:26It was just a beautiful, beautiful feeling.
- 8:28And I was standing there with Gil, who lives there and was our
- 8:31tour guide and, and Deborah and I knew that I was there in the
- 8:36presence of God. And it was just, it was just
- 8:39incredible. All those Thunderbolt moments
- 8:41can really help define and reshift a lives that either are
- 8:45sleepwalking or marred by injury or sadness or trauma.
- 8:50So absolutely to be able to hold on to an experience such as that
- 8:54and to recognize the Divine allows 1 to rededicate one's
- 8:58life appropriately and to be able to share outside of
- 9:01oneself. Well, you truly are one of my
- 9:03best friends and I really, really appreciate how much
- 9:07you've been there with me and so many important moments,
- 9:11including, you know, for the passing of my mom.
- 9:15Also, let me say the crossing over of my mom because I, I, I
- 9:18do get messages from her and from my dad sometimes in
- 9:22meditation, sometimes in psychedelic journeys.
- 9:25And it's really transcendent when it happens.
- 9:29It's, it's incredibly beautiful. And, and so I know that their
- 9:33souls are, are here and probably right here present with us right
- 9:38now. But you know, when, when I when
- 9:42I look at the the arc of your career and I know a lot about
- 9:46you that people listening to this probably don't know as much
- 9:50as I know it's really cool that you're doing what you're doing
- 9:54today. But maybe we can just go back in
- 9:56time and start with the young rabbi kneel, you know, the one
- 9:59that didn't know they were going to be a rabbi.
- 10:02And, you know, growing up, you know, where did you grow up?
- 10:05Like I know your your story of your bar mitzvah, which is which
- 10:09is quite fun. You told that at the synagogue
- 10:11one time and how you decided ultimately to do what you do
- 10:17today and do it with such grace and love.
- 10:19Thank you. Appreciate it.
- 10:21You know, growing up in a suburb of Chicago, which was a really
- 10:25wonderful place to grow up and had a loving family, really was
- 10:29struck by trying to figure out a way of applying meaning to life
- 10:33and not, as you said, to sleepwalk through life to really
- 10:37transform ordinary moments and make them holy.
- 10:40I didn't have that language back then, but I knew that I didn't
- 10:43want to waste time. I didn't want to just March in
- 10:48in a holding pattern. And, you know, we're buffeted
- 10:52about as kids because we don't at least I didn't really know
- 10:55what was going on. So I, I'm old enough, I was
- 10:57handed a tape and a cassette and said, go listen to this and go
- 11:01learn your bar mitzvah. And I didn't really have a
- 11:03context of why my family has a dynamic.
- 11:08There's a lot of religious folks who wouldn't travel on the
- 11:12Sabbath. So as a compromise, my family
- 11:15had my bar mitzvah on a Monday morning.
- 11:17It was Labor Day and and we had it at my home and we put a tent
- 11:22out in the backyard and it was fine.
- 11:24But I, again, really, I wasn't centered.
- 11:26I wasn't grounded in what was happening.
- 11:29And, and I let it in a dutiful way, as something I had learned
- 11:33and because it was outside. And you know, we weren't in
- 11:37Chicago, but the Windy City adjacent.
- 11:40Windy City, yeah. Wendy City get Jason I the the
- 11:44we had a Torah scroll in an arc that was portable that was built
- 11:48by friends of my father and my father was in plumbing and
- 11:51distribution and and great. So he knew a lot of cabinet
- 11:54makers and and short, Long story short is the arc fell over, the
- 11:59glass broke and the Torah splayed out over the ground,
- 12:03which in the Jewish tradition is not a good thing at all, not a
- 12:06good thing at all. So the folks who sort of got
- 12:09over themselves to come to my bar mitzvah of the family of
- 12:12the, of the branch of the family that was less religious, like,
- 12:15you know, it was maybe a sign from heaven of some sort.
- 12:18So they, we, we paused my bar mitzvah.
- 12:21I was a very impressionable, insecure 12 and 13 year old.
- 12:25Everyone plotted about what to do and ultimately there was a
- 12:30plan made, but it excluded the people who were actually in my
- 12:33life. The cousins were not constant in
- 12:37my life. My neighbors, my non Jewish
- 12:39neighbors were. And my non Jewish neighbors
- 12:42expressed that they wanted to help and express solidarity.
- 12:45And according to my knowledge and perception, they were
- 12:49rebuffed. And that really caused a
- 12:52negative feeling to come into who I was and what I was doing.
- 12:57And I felt very embarrassed. And I, I went and I was, you
- 13:02know, didn't have the language for it.
- 13:04So I went and hid for a little while and actually climbed under
- 13:07my bed and was trying to process.
- 13:09Me, I understand. I've had many moments like,
- 13:13like, I mean really embarrassing moments growing up as a, as a
- 13:17total, you know, computer nerd here in Austin.
- 13:19Sure. Well, I'm glad to.
- 13:21Lots of stories, I'm glad to have solidarity with you.
- 13:23Right, In a different way. I know.
- 13:25I just thought that my friends were being wronged and they
- 13:28said, how can we help? And from what I noticed, my
- 13:32relatives said, you're, you're not part of this.
- 13:34This isn't your story. And I, I knew it was because
- 13:37they cared about me in a way on a daily way that my relatives
- 13:41didn't. And and it kind of drove me away
- 13:44from participating in Judaism for a very long time.
- 13:47Again, I was 12, don't tell anybody, but I had my bar
- 13:51mitzvah before I was 13. So birthdays in the fall, but
- 13:55this was September. And and then really in my teen
- 13:59years, I don't know if I squandered it, but I certainly
- 14:02was in exile from trying to learn because I thought it was a
- 14:05very judgmental experience, a very off putting experience.
- 14:09And it wasn't until much later, 18/19/20, then on my own terms,
- 14:14I came to being able to wrestle with Judaism, spirituality,
- 14:19something bigger than myself, and be able to feel at home in
- 14:22that struggle, in that exploration.
- 14:25So it's so odd, ironic that as a rabbi of a congregation, you
- 14:32know, I'm viewed as one who helps people learn about
- 14:35Judaism. And sometimes I sit in my study
- 14:38and I just kind of say really me because younger me would be
- 14:43saying I would not want to be in a office such as mine with
- 14:47anybody under any circumstances. Right, right.
- 14:50Well, I can tell you that in your presence, you know, sitting
- 14:56with you, I feel 100% comfortable with being
- 15:01transparent and you bring that out in people.
- 15:04So it's, you know, trust me, I've had many times in my life
- 15:08where I'm like, I can't believe I'm, you know, running this
- 15:11company and doing this, but it but it is, it is what I'm meant
- 15:15to do. And it's obvious to me that it's
- 15:19your soul song. I think so.
- 15:22And having the cultivation of wonder and astonishment even in
- 15:26ordinary moments. I think it's the thing that has
- 15:28sustained me for so long. And I've been really doing this
- 15:31now for 28 years or so. It's a long time and and I feel
- 15:36very excited to get up in the morning and to be able to hold
- 15:39presents for people to help listen really and perhaps guide
- 15:43or at least help experience something bigger for what people
- 15:48are looking for. And was there, was there a, a
- 15:51certain moment where you were like, OK, I for sure am going to
- 15:58dive deep in Judaism? What was that?
- 16:01What was that moment like for you when you came back to it
- 16:04that you decided I really want to return to this?
- 16:07There are actually 2 moments I studied.
- 16:10I had the great privilege right after the fall of communism to
- 16:13study in Poland. I was a political economy major
- 16:17and an English major, and it was the first time that the schools
- 16:21were open to Western students. And so I was able to study in
- 16:24Poznan, in a place called Adam Miskevitz University.
- 16:27And because I was studying, I had the flexibility to explore
- 16:32various places in Poland right after the fall of communism.
- 16:36And I was conversant enough back then in Polish no longer that I
- 16:40was able to get make my way and kind of have rudimentary
- 16:43conversations. And I remember finding my way to
- 16:48because I had this calling of feeling of, of Judaism.
- 16:52I don't have any relatives from Poland who but I have relatives
- 16:56from Belarus, which was just next door.
- 16:58But I wanted to learn more about Judaism.
- 17:00I was curious and awakened to things and, and made my way to
- 17:06to Birkenau, Auschwitz, which is their two different camps.
- 17:11Birkenau was a was the, was the death center.
- 17:15Auschwitz was the labour camp and, and I made my way from
- 17:20Auschwitz to Birkenau. I researched how to because
- 17:24there was no industry, there was no tours at the time.
- 17:27And I got there very early in the morning and walked the route
- 17:31of from Auschwitz to Burke, another route that would peep.
- 17:34It was about a mile or so away. And for those who are listening
- 17:39or watching this wonderful podcast in my synagogue, one of
- 17:42the Taurus Scrolls has a cover of railroad tracks that make
- 17:47their way into one singular track.
- 17:50And that would that design is based on my experiences in
- 17:54Poland. So we designed it because of
- 17:56that walk I made from one site Auschwitz to Birkenau.
- 18:01And in Birkenau, there was a a barrack as well that had at the
- 18:05time, pictures of Jewish life, didn't have pictures of
- 18:12destruction or or death, but pictures of life that I never
- 18:16really saw because again, I was removed a bit from my own
- 18:20experiences, but pictures of men and women, of boys and girls
- 18:24dancing, joyful, socializing, studying.
- 18:28And I remember being surrounded by these pictures from floor to
- 18:31ceiling saying, I'm so close to just disappearing, of not taking
- 18:35this seriously. I should give this a chance.
- 18:37And I remember something that I can still feel it.
- 18:39And my heart just dropped directly into my stomach and
- 18:42said, you know, I am the one I've been waiting for.
- 18:46There's nobody who's going to mentor me.
- 18:48There's nobody who's going to sort of spoon feed me.
- 18:51And you've got to do it on your own.
- 18:53And I remember standing directly in that place saying, I will do
- 18:57this. I will learn before I discard
- 19:00it, before I ignore it. I want to learn who I am.
- 19:03And that started the journey that the best way at the, at
- 19:07that point for me to do so was through music.
- 19:10Because as a musician, I, I, that's a language I understood
- 19:13much better than, you know, Aramaic or Hebrew at the time.
- 19:18So over the years I devoted myself to learning Judaism
- 19:21through the liturgical functions, the sacred calendar,
- 19:25the music of it, which is very deep and very beautiful and has
- 19:28everything to do with the thoughts about consciousness.
- 19:32There's a quote from the Zohar, which is one of the mystical
- 19:35commentaries on the on the Torah, which says there is a key
- 19:39for every issue. There's a key for every problem,
- 19:42but the key of music opens them all.
- 19:46And, and I've really affirmed that in a lot of ways.
- 19:50So that got me on the journey of taking my Judaism and myself
- 19:54much more seriously and to learn and be a beginner's mind
- 19:59literally. And as things go with with
- 20:02everyday, just saying I'm here to receive what I can receive.
- 20:06So that happened. That was in New Orleans.
- 20:08I was a a student at Tulane at the time.
- 20:10And it was kind of an adjustment for the folks who knew me,
- 20:13including my girlfriend slash, now wife at the time.
- 20:16Like, OK, let's see what this is.
- 20:19And, and it continued and still continues in its own way from
- 20:24there. If I can tell the second story
- 20:26briefly, and I had rooted myself in the confidence of being
- 20:31Jewish. I kind of knew what was going
- 20:33on. We came to Austin and served
- 20:36seven years in my community as the Hazan or the Cantor and had
- 20:40a sabbatical. And I like to travel quite a bit
- 20:43and decided to take the Trans Siberian Railway from Petersburg
- 20:47to Beijing and stopped for a while in Mongolia.
- 20:53And after arriving in ulaanbaatar, which is the
- 20:56capital, I spent about a week and 1/2 with the nomadic family
- 21:00and lots of stories there. But suffice it to say that the
- 21:04experience that I had with that family blessing a woman who was
- 21:08very ill, helping gather water for her and realizing the power
- 21:13with that blessing had in a way that I'd not felt viscerally or
- 21:16somatically from anyone else. She was holding her hands and
- 21:20she was a shamanistic and sort of a form of Buddhism as well
- 21:25combination. She was holding her hands and I
- 21:28was gripping her hands and she was shaking as I was chanting a
- 21:32blessing in Hebrew, a language she didn't know.
- 21:35But then everything changed and she realized that we had a
- 21:40connection that was bigger than any language, that was soul to
- 21:43soul. And she realized what I was
- 21:45trying to do for her and she accepted it and received it.
- 21:48And then the whole relationship between she and her husband and
- 21:53I just changed immediately. And they summoned me into their
- 21:56gear, which is a yurt. And they basically said, through
- 21:59a translation, through a translator, you're not a regular
- 22:02person who comes through here. Who are you?
- 22:05I said, well, I'm Jewish. And they said, what is that
- 22:09like, oh, oh, it's King David. Who?
- 22:13Oh, it's Moses. No, like, OK, because they're
- 22:17trying to look it up in the dictionary.
- 22:19They're like I said, Jesus, but earlier.
- 22:21Then I go, OK, we got that. We got that.
- 22:25And then the very first question they asked the first person they
- 22:27had said, when you pray, what do you wear?
- 22:31It was the very first question because it was so important to
- 22:35be able to share how one with the authenticity of being
- 22:40presents oneself before God to them.
- 22:43And we had a great beautiful conversation.
- 22:46They invited me to stay. It's one of the regrets I have
- 22:50in life, but I had other things I had to do.
- 22:52They invited me to stay to learn how to be a shaman in their
- 22:55tradition. And I was like, oh man, if I
- 22:57hadn't, if I didn't have this day job, I would have done that.
- 23:00But but I had to get back. And, and I think about it all
- 23:02the time of the respect that we had that transcended anything of
- 23:07in common, of realizing that our, if you will, consciousness
- 23:11connected in such a deep and profound way.
- 23:13Yeah, yeah. That's that's so beautiful.
- 23:15You know, one, one thing in my book, you know, you haven't, you
- 23:19haven't, you haven't read it yet, right?
- 23:21I talk a lot about how humanity needs to rediscover indigenous
- 23:26wisdom and how and how much indigenous wisdom influenced
- 23:30people like Benjamin Franklin for, for our constitution, our
- 23:35declaration that it's that's really deeply infused.
- 23:39And, and you, you were experiencing first hand like a
- 23:44very different type of culture. And when, when you when you were
- 23:49giving that blessing to her, did you feel it too?
- 23:55Did you feel the shift as well? Oh, absolutely.
- 23:58I she was there receiving it. And I was like, oh, this is what
- 24:03a blessing is supposed to be. A blessing is supposed to shift
- 24:07the ordinariness of the world, or it's supposed to interrupt or
- 24:10disrupt the thing that you're asking for change.
- 24:13In this case, it was an asking, It was a blessing asking for
- 24:16healing. So she's ill, I'm holding her
- 24:20and I'm saying the blessing is saying let's shift this energy,
- 24:24Let's find a different way like you would with acupuncture or
- 24:27any other medicine. Let's get the flow of things in
- 24:30a different way. And she was gifting me that
- 24:33realization. I felt things in that I could
- 24:36still again feel that in a way that I have not yet since people
- 24:39are very honored and appreciative of blessings that
- 24:45Ioffer. But in no way have I ever felt
- 24:48the magnetism or the the vibration of her entire body.
- 24:52That was that was due to her understanding in her way what
- 24:58that was meant to be. She didn't get any of the
- 25:00language, but she knew what it was for.
- 25:03And that act of kindness, that act of love, that act of
- 25:07aspiration shifted everything. Yeah.
- 25:10And it was in that moment. I'll just fill in that.
- 25:12I said, well, I'm going to continue my journey learning
- 25:16about Judaism. I got the music stuff down.
- 25:18I've got the liturgy down. And now I'll just devote my
- 25:21entire life to being a rabbi and sing what happens.
- 25:23And that's when that happened in Mongolia, thanks to this woman
- 25:27that I don't know her name and she didn't know mine.
- 25:29Wow, wow, that's that's incredible, incredible moment.
- 25:34And you know, as I've seen your career unfold here, there's a
- 25:39few things I'd love to touch on because to, to me, you know,
- 25:46you're, you're, you're defining to yourself more than anybody
- 25:49else can define you for sure. But to me, they're defining in
- 25:52terms of my respect for you and how you walk in the world and
- 25:57how much love you bring into a situation and in in an
- 26:02environment. So one of them is the way you
- 26:06brought together some of Austin's best musicians to
- 26:09really honor, you know, people that have been legends and jazz.
- 26:14And as you know, our daughter goes to our oldest daughter goes
- 26:18to Tulane as well as a junior there.
- 26:20But maybe we could just talk about that because it's it's you
- 26:24know, when I, when I describe you to people and I talk about
- 26:28how much respect I have for you, I also talk about the fact.
- 26:33Well, also he's a very ostentatious rabbi because here
- 26:37he is also as a musician, you know, constantly jamming with
- 26:42the best jazz musicians I've ever seen on stage in Austin.
- 26:46There's a, there's a tremendous value obviously, in being in a
- 26:50community and helping to shape and transform that community
- 26:53within the community. But there's a real call.
- 26:56And I think this is something that you do in Where love
- 26:59Conquers fear in a way of being open and brave enough to begin
- 27:05to connect partnerships in ways that may not be so obvious.
- 27:10And to be able to do that kind of work of repair in a different
- 27:14context, I think is very important, perhaps beyond just
- 27:19standing face to face with the source or the divine.
- 27:22Perhaps for me, the most sacred place of standing is on a stage
- 27:28or a bandstand with really talented people.
- 27:31Not exactly sure what you're going to do next.
- 27:34And that kind of harrowing adventure to me is the language
- 27:39and the articulation of what jazz is.
- 27:41You have to be so skilled at what you do that you're able to
- 27:46release yourself, to let go of yourself, to not intellectualize
- 27:50it, to let whatever it is flow. And from there, the beautiful
- 27:54music, the ineffable partnership among talented people happens.
- 27:59So I've learned a tremendous amount on the bandstand that I
- 28:02try to bring to the rabbinic work that I do in the Jewish
- 28:06community as well. But the good news for me is
- 28:09that, you know, who am I? I'm not a jazz musician.
- 28:12I'm the one who knows a lot about certain music and how to
- 28:15present certain music. But I I think that the trust
- 28:19that the musicians who I would agree with you are exceptional,
- 28:23have for me is that I honor them.
- 28:25I respect their tradition and I respect the understanding that
- 28:28this is meant for everybody. So whether I'm the woman who
- 28:32doesn't understand the language or they're or we're not talking
- 28:35past each other, we're dedicated to learning from each other and
- 28:39to sharing the best we can from each other in order to transform
- 28:42the world and to uplift a tradition that sounds good, but
- 28:48we may not know a lot about. And specifically living in
- 28:51Austin, TX, living in America, I think jazz is not the only
- 28:55language, but is a major language of learning and
- 28:58understanding how to become and deepen our understanding of who
- 29:02we are in this land. Let me just politely disagree
- 29:05with you that you are a jazz musician because you, you know,
- 29:11there, there's, there's different roles, right?
- 29:13It's it, It would be like me saying that even though I used
- 29:17to constantly program that, you know, I didn't become this kind
- 29:21of maestro programmer. And that would be true, you
- 29:26know, although now I've got more superpowers than I've had before
- 29:29because of Claude code and and things like that.
- 29:34But you know, you are a jazz musician because you have the
- 29:39ability to bring together that group and form them as a team
- 29:46for that night on stage. And it really is like magic to
- 29:52see because they it's, it's, it's, it's incredible.
- 29:55Like to see the subtle nods and, you know, motions between them.
- 30:02As you know, jazz is improv and it's and it's, it's incredible.
- 30:06You can feel, you can feel the flow of it.
- 30:09And I tried to encourage them to stretch them a little bit and
- 30:13also to pay homage to the music and them artists who both wrote
- 30:18it and performed it. So it's not just something that
- 30:20you're just listening to saying that sounds nice.
- 30:23There's an understanding that there's real feelings behind it,
- 30:25just like there would be when I'm singing, let's say, a chant
- 30:30that's an ancient chant in our in the Jewish tradition where
- 30:33people are just not listening to it, do it as a, as they would,
- 30:36you know, consume music. But it's actually maybe, maybe
- 30:42if like an ibogaine experience of coming and actually changing
- 30:46the chemistry of and the hurts and the traumas and the
- 30:49difficulties in order to heal somebody from within.
- 30:53Yeah, that's what we're trying to do.
- 30:54Well, music is healing. I mean, I mean, you know, you
- 30:58know, Ibogaine is a very extreme example of like where people
- 31:02have like some people would so Jazzes too, right, right.
- 31:05Well, I hope not. I hope people don't go in and
- 31:08they're like, Oh my gosh, you know, I mean, Ibogaine is like
- 31:11a, you know, I haven't done Ibogaine, but it's like a 24
- 31:14hour like mega intense journey where people are like confronted
- 31:19with, with all of this trauma they've had in their life and
- 31:23have to look at that from and can't look away from it in the
- 31:27journey and have to look at that from the soul view, objective
- 31:31view. You know, the view of the soul
- 31:34where it doesn't have any materiality.
- 31:37It doesn't have any judgment about an experience and allows
- 31:44them to see it for what it is from that view and then heal
- 31:48from it. Right?
- 31:49That's, that's the way I understand it works.
- 31:52It's like watching your whole life, you know, as a, as a
- 31:56movie, which it sounds like a near death experience where you
- 32:01get a life review. And for sure, apparently, you
- 32:05know, when, when, when people crossover, they have a full life
- 32:10review as they, as they, as they cross and you know.
- 32:14I think a sacred experience should be an experience that
- 32:18doesn't frighten us, but it's certainly so honest as you're
- 32:21describing. Yeah, but but for sure, music is
- 32:23a sacred experience. I was telling you earlier about
- 32:26seeing Jon Batiste on stage, which is a really maestro,
- 32:30maestro of jazz musicians. It was it was here for an Austin
- 32:34City Limits Music TV taping. And he was just manifesting so
- 32:40much love in the band and the audience, you know, the couple
- 32:44that we're with was just telling us, Oh my gosh, we love you
- 32:49guys. This is so amazing.
- 32:51And you could feel it. And it reminded me of when I was
- 32:55younger and I saw Bono in U2 on the original Joshua Tree tour.
- 33:02And it was, it was, it was like a communal, you know, sacred
- 33:07religious experience. Seeing that, you know, the the
- 33:11way that they were manifesting that connection and love in the
- 33:16audience was just, it's transcendent.
- 33:19I agree and I think you know, balancing the material aspect to
- 33:22the consumer aspect or the the ways of of leveraging, you know,
- 33:28music and what it does for industry, getting to the root of
- 33:31transforming somebody from within.
- 33:33I think that that is exactly the case.
- 33:35And when the vocabulary or the grammar of a sacred space or a a
- 33:41church or a mosque or a synagogue can have, can be held
- 33:45with difficulty for a lot of people, you're right.
- 33:49A concert venue is a place where all are welcome at a certain
- 33:53point and everyone is exposed to such a, an incredible
- 33:56experience. So I think you're right.
- 33:57I think there's tremendous parallels of what music and that
- 34:02kind of standing together, that kind of witness together can be.
- 34:06And if it's filled with awe, if it's filled with astonishment,
- 34:09that brings more possibilities of love and connection together,
- 34:13far beyond any specific religion or group.
- 34:17Yeah, you know, when when I had Evan Alexander on for the 46
- 34:21episode of the podcast, he when he entered heaven in his
- 34:27experience in the coma that he was in, he he remembers the
- 34:33beautiful transcendent music. And I told him in that moment, I
- 34:39said, well, tell him I was asking him, wow, this, this
- 34:44probably is like more transcendent music than you've
- 34:47ever heard here. And he said, well, in in some
- 34:51ways, yes. But he said the great musicians
- 34:53are are getting downloads from from source, from the divine.
- 34:59And you know, Rick Rubin's book, the Creative Act goes into that
- 35:03in detail. And a lot of musicians have
- 35:06talked about the fact that they are it just comes to them and
- 35:10they've got to like fiercely scribble it down because it
- 35:14seems like when those downloads come, you know, Rick Rubin talks
- 35:16about this, you either act on it or it's going to go to someone
- 35:21else. But one way or another, it's
- 35:22going to come through in the divine.
- 35:24And we'll get into spirituality. But, but just to stick with, you
- 35:29know, some other things that you're involved with which I
- 35:31which I really, it makes me just have that much more respect for
- 35:35you. So you're involved in a lot of
- 35:38interfaith activities too, which is which is really cool.
- 35:41I see you as a, as a amazing bridge builder in not just the
- 35:47Austin community, but through the fellowship you're in and and
- 35:50you know, just worldwide that I'd love you to talk about that.
- 35:56Sure. I think it's really important to
- 35:58know your neighbors, to respect your neighbors and to know what
- 36:02motivates them, what animates them and what frightens them,
- 36:05because you can be a confident person within a very small group
- 36:12of people. But if you don't know how the
- 36:14world works, I think you can put yourself at tremendous risk.
- 36:17So I've one of the reasons I came to Austin as opposed to
- 36:23being able to lead a place in in a more dense Jewish community
- 36:28like New York or Miami or Chicago.
- 36:30Los Angeles is the opportunity to do these works, to represent
- 36:35as a rabbi in an interfaith space, whether it's, you know,
- 36:39putting together a Thanksgiving service or reaching out across
- 36:48the the spectrum of folks and just sort of showing up and
- 36:52being present and saying that we have what to teach each other.
- 36:55I think that's great. Or even in the, in the music
- 36:58space at the place where I do the musical events at, at the
- 37:03Cactus Cafe, which is put together by the University of
- 37:06Texas in Austin. That in itself is, is a, if you
- 37:11will, an interfaith event. And, and I think that being open
- 37:15to folks and recognizing that all of it is dysfunctional, you
- 37:20know, recognizing that as a family, there are disagreements
- 37:24and recognizing that there can be hazards and roadblocks, but
- 37:29persevering nonetheless. And knowing that the larger
- 37:33aspect of what's at stake, it could be a something you're
- 37:37fighting for. It could be a particular issue
- 37:39of the day, But knowing that you are caring for each other is
- 37:44really important. There's a parable taught of two
- 37:49guys sitting in a bar, let's say, and one of them at the
- 37:53beginning of the night says, hey, man, hey, bro, do you love
- 37:55me? And he's like, dude, of course I
- 37:57love you. And then as the night progresses
- 38:00and they're at the bar and they're Bill, you know, the tab
- 38:03keeps getting bigger. I know where this is going.
- 38:06Right. The other guy kind of with tears
- 38:08in his eyes and says, bro, do you love me?
- 38:11And he's like, dude, I told you I loved you.
- 38:13He said, OK, well, do you know what causes me pain?
- 38:17That's like, no man, come on, like what do you don't get like
- 38:20that? And he started crying and he
- 38:22said, if you don't know what causes me pain, how could you
- 38:24love me? And while your story or that
- 38:28story may not be my story, it's really incumbent upon me to
- 38:34allow that space to be and not channel who you are through my
- 38:38expectations of you, but to rather withdraw or make space.
- 38:43In Hebrew, it's called SIM SIM create a little bit of space
- 38:47contracting in order for you to fill my life in order for me to
- 38:51be able to authentically care for you, show up for you and
- 38:57know you. And that has been a a real
- 39:00challenge in the last few years where I might get calls of
- 39:03solidarity, let's say after 10-7 after the attacks in Israel by
- 39:09and you know, these are folks I've known for many years who
- 39:12and it has happened saying, look, you know, we're really
- 39:15sorry about this experience. Then this difficulty that
- 39:19you're, they're obviously feeling as a Jewish person, as a
- 39:21Jewish leader. They're talking about Hamas
- 39:23attacking. Yeah, Hamas attacking Israel
- 39:25and, and the, and the violence and, and the, and the difficulty
- 39:29that has happened. We want you to come speak at our
- 39:32organization, at our church, and we want you to say these three
- 39:36things. We want you to say X&Y&Z.
- 39:39And like, you know what, that's not exactly my story, right?
- 39:43And I really want. I appreciate you calling and
- 39:45let's have more of a conversation.
- 39:47They're like, no, because this is how we view the, the
- 39:50conflict. And like, well, then it's I
- 39:52can't do that. And that kind of rupture is?
- 39:55Complete lack of authenticity or they they want to shape you
- 39:59into. Yeah, you're kind of soul as
- 40:01long as you agree with us, right?
- 40:03Right. And that has been troublesome.
- 40:06But it's just you keep. I like sports, just like
- 40:08basketball. You keep pivoting until you find
- 40:11the place where you can go and then take it from there.
- 40:13So it's not abandoning hope, it's just recalibrating to the
- 40:17point where you can meet somebody with a full heart and
- 40:21they can meet you with a full heart as well, right?
- 40:23Right. Yeah.
- 40:24Well, I remember, you know, in the in the wake of George Floyd
- 40:29and all that followed that, that you were doing a lot of
- 40:33interfaith activities with the Black American community.
- 40:37And it was that time where you went to Selma to to walk, walk
- 40:42with them. I thought it was really, really
- 40:44amazing and. Dear friend of mine who at the
- 40:47time was the associate pastor. Now he's the the pastor.
- 40:51So his name is Doctor Reverend Daryl Horton, Mount Zion, Mount
- 40:57Zion Baptist Church. You know, we were talking about
- 40:59ways to bring our communities together and then realized we
- 41:02would get caught up on all the logistics of it, like, where's
- 41:04the bus going to go? And so we kind of paused and
- 41:07laughed and said, why don't we take a trip together and see if
- 41:10that can model for others to do the same.
- 41:13So for two years, one year, we went to places in the South to
- 41:18explore a connection between African American and Jewish
- 41:21experiences. Yes.
- 41:22And we, one of the places we visited was Salman.
- 41:25It was a very powerful experience.
- 41:28And then the next year we went to the North saying that these
- 41:31systemic issues are not limited to one region.
- 41:34So we went to New York and to Boston and to other places and
- 41:37really lived together for a number of days, intensely
- 41:41realizing that we do have a lot in common.
- 41:43And even though we may not know each other's experience
- 41:46intimately, we're open to learning.
- 41:48I just have so much respect for you and in leaning in that way
- 41:52and it's so important. I mean, huge part of you know,
- 41:55love conquers fear. Both the this project, you know,
- 41:59my soul song is US realizing that we're 99.9% genetically
- 42:04identical across the world and that we all have a lot more in
- 42:10common, you know, both genetically and in every other
- 42:13way than we have those differences.
- 42:15But we're in this programmatic environment where we're
- 42:19constantly getting pushed dystopia from the media,
- 42:24dystopia from social media. And it's an algorithmic kind of
- 42:28hijacking of, of our amygdala to keep us locked in that state
- 42:33because they're maximizing their revenue based on going after our
- 42:40base fears, which which are really hard wired because we've
- 42:44been around for 300,000 years in terms of, you know, the Homo
- 42:48Sapien race, which we're probably a part of and only .1%
- 42:55of the time if we had electricity and 300,000 years.
- 42:58So the scarcity we've dealt with, you know, it's very hard
- 43:03wired into our system. You know, do we have a mutual
- 43:06friend, Byron Reese? He was on the podcast talking
- 43:09about the path to Utopia. And one of the funny things he
- 43:13says, you got such a way with words.
- 43:16You know, one of my favorite authors and, and and and another
- 43:18very, very close friend. He he said, you realize that
- 43:23we're all derivative of the Homo sapiens that when they saw the
- 43:28shape that look like a bear, the optimists were like, oh, it's
- 43:33probably not a bear. And they were eaten.
- 43:35The ones that said that's probably a bear and ran, he
- 43:39said, we kind of derive from those, you know, from the ones
- 43:43that ran. And so we've got a tall order to
- 43:48to to be able to transcend that programming.
- 43:52And you know, part of it is seeing, seeing each other, you
- 43:57know, really seeing each other, which is, which is what you're
- 44:00all about. Reality check is that knowing
- 44:03that we're all derived from the difficulties of Noah and his
- 44:06family after the flood, right. So exactly that I think, Byron,
- 44:10that's a fantastic idea that we're all survivors of this
- 44:14flood and we have to make sense of the world that we live in.
- 44:18And knowing that life is so fleeting and so unpredictable
- 44:21and so difficult, pursuant to your point, it's, it's
- 44:25courageous and almost superhuman to rise above those fears as
- 44:29they are so deeply embedded in with who, with who we are.
- 44:32And some, as you said, have such a financial incentive to
- 44:36continue to capitalize. On and as, as we're recording
- 44:39this, you know, there's a war that we're engaged in with
- 44:45Israel taking out some of the top leaders in Iran to help
- 44:53hopefully that regime to tip. And I was actually lobbying for
- 44:56this on, on Congress for the AIPAC congressional summit,
- 45:00which I'd probably go to every year.
- 45:02I've been supporting it for probably 14 years or so now.
- 45:07And I want to emphasize that I'm an independent voter.
- 45:12And one of the cool things about that conference is you see how
- 45:17much unity there is. So this this year, they had a
- 45:21track where you could go the Democrat or Republican track.
- 45:25And it was almost a 5050 Murphy split again, which which you and
- 45:31I've talked about before, which is incredible.
- 45:35Like, you know, that it's that it's, it's, it's, it's a
- 45:37beautiful thing that it's that bipartisan in terms of the
- 45:40partnership that we have with Israel.
- 45:42But you know, I saw that my our mutual friend human was
- 45:48introduced to by Julie Maples, who really is preaching this
- 45:53message of unity was with our other mutual friend Andy of the
- 45:59Hope Outdoor Gallery was unveiling A mural and of course
- 46:03you were there speaking on it. So I'd love to talk about that
- 46:07and the origin of of that because that was the most
- 46:10recent. You know, Rabbi Neil, you know,
- 46:13just huge smile on my heart when I saw that.
- 46:18Yeah, I think we can get gripped by the headlines and not
- 46:20progress any further. But people like Humman who are,
- 46:24I think are doing heroic work and really difficult work of
- 46:28getting beyond that. And again, recognizing and
- 46:30appreciating humanity and trying to recapture or reclaim that
- 46:36place of love, that place of generosity and that place of
- 46:39hope, even in sometimes hopeless circumstances, is really
- 46:43important. So Humman has been engaged in
- 46:46putting up murals highlighting Iranian women who have stood up
- 46:51to totalitarian regime, and he's had several in Israel and a few
- 46:58now in the United States. He called me a several several
- 47:01months ago. He's kind of a new friend out of
- 47:03the blue said I'm doing this thing, help me get something
- 47:06together in in Texas. And he ultimately got something
- 47:10in Houston and then circled back to me.
- 47:12You know, this the, the, the dedication, the unveiling of the
- 47:16mural was on Sunday, of course, you know, Friday afternoon, you
- 47:19know, he, he leaves a message and I didn't get it till
- 47:22Saturday night because after the Saturday, I'm like, all right,
- 47:26man, I'm, I'm going to, I'm changing the schedule and be
- 47:28there. And it was at the Hope Outdoor
- 47:31Gallery that Andy runs as beautiful.
- 47:33And I didn't know what to do. He said, invite everybody, you
- 47:36know, And I'm like, well, I don't really know what this is.
- 47:38So like I did with Reverend Horton, I will go and see what
- 47:42happens and then we'll make it a thing.
- 47:44And the fact that it was so beautiful and so heartfelt and
- 47:50so important to draw again, a human connection to the stories
- 47:57that we may be hearing or reacting to or being numbed by,
- 48:01you know, this, whether it's drones or other kind of warfare
- 48:04that we don't recognize each other's humanity.
- 48:07The idea that Humman and his vision and others help us to
- 48:11recognize that there are real people in these equations.
- 48:15And there's a beautiful Iranian or Persian community in Austin
- 48:19that now I've gotten to know a little bit.
- 48:21And now that we have these beautiful connections also,
- 48:24that's awesome. And it's and it's and it.
- 48:27And the reason he thought it was important for me to be there
- 48:29also is because it was the proximity to Purim, which is an
- 48:34important festival that we just celebrated.
- 48:38That takes place in Persia, which is ancient Iran, where one
- 48:44pushes back against edicts or decisions that cannot be
- 48:49transferred or taken away. But you have to find a way
- 48:53around them. And and the Persian story, the
- 48:57Iranian story and the poem story are all our story, and none of
- 49:01it has is. William Faulkner said.
- 49:03The past is not even past. It's all in the center.
- 49:06It's all in who we are and how we deal with the conflicts and
- 49:10the challenges and the hopes that we all have.
- 49:13Yeah, yeah, yeah. I just want to emphasize that,
- 49:15you know, people may hear Love Conquers fear and I have a
- 49:19chapter, you know, chapter 4 is on nuclear weapons and warfare.
- 49:24And they may think that it means like, hey, you never engage in
- 49:28war, etcetera. But the reality is like, you
- 49:31really need to think about what you're fighting for.
- 49:33And there's been 10s of 1000 of people executed in Iran by this
- 49:39regime to try to continue to oppress women, oppress gay
- 49:45people, oppress people that want freedom like Iran used to have.
- 49:51And it was incredible. Like you see these, you see
- 49:54these old photos of women on the beaches and they look free and,
- 50:00you know, just being themselves. And it would be so hard to
- 50:06grapple with having been in that place.
- 50:10And then the way that they're treated today in this in this
- 50:14regime. So it, it really, and, and it
- 50:17really is a destabilizer for that whole region and that, that
- 50:21that whole region could really absolutely blossom.
- 50:25And many in that region are starting to lean in very heavily
- 50:30into AI. And that's, that is the way that
- 50:33we're going to get to abundance for everybody.
- 50:34This technology acceleration technology has always been this
- 50:39accelerant for abundance. It's, it's got lots of
- 50:44downsides. And because people can use
- 50:47technology for bad, starting with the discovery of fire, you
- 50:50could use it to cook food and, you know, warm arcades or use it
- 50:54for I'll. And that's always been the case.
- 50:58But we're in this exponential of exponential curves.
- 51:01And we can't have a regime that is such a big exporter of
- 51:06terrorism and literally could have been on the precipice of
- 51:11creating a nuclear bomb, which that would really destabilize
- 51:15the whole world and that whole region if a regime like that was
- 51:19was able to get that. And the people there are really,
- 51:22really suffering. They're, they are in fear, you
- 51:26know, they're not able to manifest love in a regime like
- 51:29that. Right.
- 51:30And I think that's right. And as as individuals consumer
- 51:34are, are are gripped by fear and that fear spreads to communities
- 51:38and metastasizes. The opportunity to have a
- 51:42blessing or joy or to use abundance becomes much more
- 51:46grave and and uncertain. And the ability that you have to
- 51:50help shift that, you know, echoes the the very real
- 51:55language of the book of Ecclesiastes, which says there
- 51:58is a time for everything under the sun.
- 52:01And there's a time to recognize when you have the ability and
- 52:04means to be able to encourage a world where people can redo the
- 52:15conditioning that they've had and to be able to share love and
- 52:19connection. And it has happened so many
- 52:21times in the interfaith work that I do where you get to know
- 52:25somebody and like, wait a second, you're not exactly at
- 52:27all what I learned you were supposed to be, right?
- 52:30And with that kind of uncovering, that kind of
- 52:32freedom, that kind of letting go, anything is bound to happen.
- 52:36So as long as you normalize or see somebody and don't cancel
- 52:40them, you you have a chance always to to make something
- 52:45better. And if you can get the the out
- 52:48of the way that which precludes that, then the world becomes
- 52:53much more rich in possibility. Yeah.
- 52:55Well, the world is much more rich in possibility.
- 52:58In reality, Anthony Mello has this great, you know, lesson in
- 53:05his book awareness. And I just, I just finished his
- 53:08book called Fearlessness to very, very short read.
- 53:11One of the lessons he has is that we lose that childlike
- 53:16mind. You know, you, you, you talked
- 53:18about that a bit earlier, like the malleability of when you
- 53:21started to rediscover Judaism, that you lose that childlike
- 53:25mind as you start to, as your ego starts to develop as a child
- 53:31and you start to label everything and the magic and
- 53:34mystery. You know, you can see the, you
- 53:37know, both of us have, have children and you can see the
- 53:40wonder in a child's eyes when they see, you know, a, a
- 53:44beautiful tree just swaying, you know, and, and, and then all of
- 53:51a sudden they're taught, oh, this is a tree, right?
- 53:56And that kind of flattens like all trees because now they're
- 53:59just trees, but every tree is different.
- 54:02Even every cedar tree is different.
- 54:04Every oak tree is different. Like every single one has its
- 54:08own differences. And the same is true for
- 54:11humanity, sort of like flatten humanity into all these
- 54:16taxonomies. You're a Republican, you're a
- 54:19Democrat, you're a man, you're a woman, you're this race, you're
- 54:22that race, you're this religion, that religion, etcetera.
- 54:26You know, it's, it's a, it's a, it's a notion that helps us kind
- 54:32of falsely navigate the world. Like someone would meet you and,
- 54:37and if they don't know much about Judaism, they would be
- 54:40like, well, Rabbi Neil is representative of all rabbis in,
- 54:43in the world of Judaism. And that's just not true at all.
- 54:47There's a huge difference between, you know, you as a
- 54:51rabbi as compared to all the other Conservative rabbis.
- 54:57You know, there's a big difference between Reformed
- 55:00Judaism and Orthodox Judaism and Habad, you know, and all of
- 55:04these different forms. And any individual Habad rabbi
- 55:08is going to be different from another Habad rabbi and on and
- 55:11on and on. And so, you know, recognizing
- 55:15that individuality and the difference in the beautiful
- 55:20divinity within us all is so, so important for this time that
- 55:25we're. In and if we can, as opposed to
- 55:27having the pressure of saying you don't speak to my platform,
- 55:30you don't speak to my people, therefore, you know, I, I can't
- 55:33have anything more to do with you.
- 55:35So the opportunities that we have to overcome those binaries
- 55:39or those definitions, you know, it's really interesting not to
- 55:42get on a different tangent, but pursuant to what you're saying,
- 55:46there's an ineffable name of God in Judaism.
- 55:49It's a four letter name of God that I don't particularly
- 55:51pronounce. And you know, if you just said
- 55:55it in Hebrew, it would just be air.
- 55:56It would just be your breath. And there's a great, great study
- 56:01by a guy named Mark Sammeth who takes this post gender
- 56:07construction because we say he or you know, God and whatever
- 56:10God is very gendered. However, if you read that four
- 56:14letter name of God in backwards, it can be pronounced which I
- 56:19will pronounce who he or he who actually which is she he
- 56:25together. So it's an amalgam.
- 56:27It's actually more than it's the abundance of who we are as
- 56:32opposed to finding out spot the differences, which is what young
- 56:35children learn very early on in order to distinguish and to be
- 56:39able to say. But if we recognize that
- 56:41everything is everything and that within the concept of the
- 56:45divine is are all of the constructions that we put on
- 56:49each other, then you can recognize that they have a
- 56:52purpose for sure. But we should not create a a
- 56:56belief out of them and have religion only be the
- 56:59constructions themselves. OK so after I have to bring this
- 57:02up because Mark Gover was on episode 2.
- 57:05He's one of my best friends and he's become a friend, friend of
- 57:09yours as well. And when he first walked into
- 57:12this room, which you know, we've lived here for 11 years, we
- 57:14didn't, we didn't, we didn't put this wall in.
- 57:17It was already here. We didn't put this, this in.
- 57:21They were already there. But he walks in and he's like,
- 57:24oh, Kuan Yin and Kuan Yin. And Chinese spirituality is the
- 57:31representation of the unification of male and female
- 57:34and Gods helper essentially to help humanity ascend.
- 57:41And here we are with love conquers fear for sure, right?
- 57:44Meant to be. Well, it's great.
- 57:45It was just waiting for you. Yeah.
- 57:48So this idea that is embedded, whether in a in in this
- 57:51representation or in the recognition that your breath is
- 57:55who he is, he, she altogether is just but one small example of
- 58:00how we're all one. Yeah.
- 58:04And that's of course, as you know, and hopefully your
- 58:07listeners and viewers will also know that the one of the most
- 58:12important foundational statements in Judaism is from
- 58:16Deuteronomy 64, which is the Shemais or L which says here, O
- 58:20Israel, the the source is one our God is is 1.
- 58:25Right, right. Yeah, the most famous Jewish
- 58:27prayer, you know, that one of the chapters in my book is on
- 58:32the objectification of women and the Millennium suffering we've
- 58:37had for that and how to transcend that.
- 58:39And, you know, a lot of people are shocked to to know that in
- 58:42America, women didn't even have the right to have a checking
- 58:45account until late 70s and of course, didn't have the right to
- 58:49vote until about 100 years ago. And there was an asterisk on
- 58:54that, that women of color. It was about 50 years after
- 58:58that. But one of the things that is
- 59:02kind of interesting, I think very interesting scientifically
- 59:07is the base state of humanity is actually female.
- 59:12Because when a when a baby is conceived and in the womb, their
- 59:17base state is female until later on.
- 59:22I think it's 8 might be 12 weeks, but I think it's 8 weeks.
- 59:26Testosterone floods if supposed to be with the male and that's
- 59:30when the testes drop, et cetera. But the that the base state of
- 59:35every baby is female. That's incredible.
- 59:39Yeah. Isn't that incredible?
- 59:40Yeah, yeah. And you know, we maybe many
- 59:43people rebel against that which we truly are.
- 59:46We don't want to actually see who we truly are, which is maybe
- 59:50Bay State female, maybe beautiful, maybe a sense of
- 59:54holiness. And these become very difficult
- 59:58for people to hold onto and embrace especially.
- 1:00:01And there's so much pain that people receive in the world of
- 1:00:04being told they're not good enough, that they're not, they
- 1:00:06don't belong. And that crusts our soul to the
- 1:00:11point where we don't believe it even when we see it.
- 1:00:14So to have this podcast, this book, this opportunity that all
- 1:00:19of us have to undo some of that thread by thread is.
- 1:00:24Really. The the to me, the purpose of
- 1:00:26being alive, yeah. Yeah, well, thank you.
- 1:00:28And that means a lot coming from you.
- 1:00:30I mean, I would say that out of all the reading I've done from
- 1:00:33spirituality to consciousness to quantum physics to AI, if, if
- 1:00:38there's one message to distill at all is if we, if we lead from
- 1:00:44the heart and the heart conquers the head, then all will be fine.
- 1:00:51You know, that that's an every, every, every spiritual tradition
- 1:00:56at the base state is that we need to be, we need to be the
- 1:00:59embodiment of love, conquering fear.
- 1:01:02And then we can help other people do that work because
- 1:01:06we've done the work ourselves. And then humanity a sense and
- 1:01:11you know, we create heaven on earth.
- 1:01:14We create abundance for everybody on the planet.
- 1:01:18And you know, if you're in a, if you're in it, whatever the tribe
- 1:01:23is, I mean, however you've taxonomized yourself or people
- 1:01:27are, you know, creating labels for you when you can feel in
- 1:01:33your heart that it's not right, it's not right.
- 1:01:38Like trust the intuition. And that's if you're othering,
- 1:01:42you know, if the, the, the kind of tribe you're in is othering
- 1:01:45and dehumanizing people, if it's oppressing women or whatever
- 1:01:51it's doing, you know, or calling the other side, you know, if
- 1:01:56it's political, like, you know, horrible names and you know,
- 1:02:01labeling everybody in that political side and a horrible
- 1:02:05way, you can feel it in the heart if you just listen.
- 1:02:09We all have that intuition. And so if you lead from the
- 1:02:13heart, doesn't mean that there aren't things that you can
- 1:02:16disagree with, of course, like policies, different things like
- 1:02:20that, but to demonize each other in any kind of tribal context,
- 1:02:29you can feel how painful that is if you really listen to it.
- 1:02:32And the damage that is done not only to you, but to the
- 1:02:35generations that come as well. Yeah, Yeah, no, you're right.
- 1:02:38I think we have a tremendous responsibility to show up not
- 1:02:42only with authenticity, but with a real sense of not even
- 1:02:46projecting our pain, of expressing ourselves, but being
- 1:02:50receptive to holding and hopefully healing somebody
- 1:02:53else's. Pain.
- 1:02:53So I'd like to to talk about the meditation I had this morning
- 1:02:59and go into spirituality. So this book, spiritual diary
- 1:03:04and appointment calendar are from the writings and lectures
- 1:03:09of Christopher Hills. And it was given to me by Niraj
- 1:03:12Mehta, who is on episode 47 of the podcast and is a really a
- 1:03:18like a brother to me. And he's, he's an amazing guy.
- 1:03:20He got me involved in in Siddha Maha yoga, which is effortless
- 1:03:25meditation and it's led by may I say, lead is a person like you
- 1:03:31deeply rooted in humility. It's, it's this guru named
- 1:03:35Guruji and he gives you this blessing and it's all about, you
- 1:03:42know, having an effortless way to meditate.
- 1:03:46Like once you get this blessing, I'd love to get you involved in
- 1:03:49it and get you the blessing if you'd like at some point.
- 1:03:53I'm going to Bali later on this year.
- 1:03:56But he it's, it's this lineage that's been passed down lifetime
- 1:03:59to lifetime and it's been going for thousands of years.
- 1:04:02And this was this was this is what I read this morning.
- 1:04:08And it's in this section on humility.
- 1:04:10This is arranged by date. It's one thing to talk about God
- 1:04:16is if he were something separate from you, a being that may be
- 1:04:20conceptualized as energy or cosmic force or cosmic
- 1:04:23intelligence or some old man with a beard somewhere.
- 1:04:28Just as an aside, I had Jonathan Greenblatt on the podcast CEO of
- 1:04:33the ADL for episode 49, and he specifically invoked that, that
- 1:04:40his belief is like God is not like some old man with a, with a
- 1:04:44beard somewhere. So he, it was, it's funny to
- 1:04:47read this. It made me, it made me chuckle
- 1:04:49when I read it this morning. But God is so far beyond
- 1:04:53anything that humans can think about or even imagine that all
- 1:04:58we can say, if we're honest, is that we don't know what God is.
- 1:05:03The thing I'm talking about is humiliating, humbling.
- 1:05:07And unless you realize your total ignorance of it, you can't
- 1:05:11even begin to know it. So this is this is what I read
- 1:05:16right before I went into my meditation.
- 1:05:21And you know, as, as you, you kind of grapple with and one of
- 1:05:26the things that I love about Judaism is as Jews, we are
- 1:05:33completely humble in the presence of God.
- 1:05:37And we don't assume to know the nature of God that it's so far
- 1:05:42beyond our comprehension. It really synchronizes with this
- 1:05:45And that God is ineffable, is nameless, as you discovered, is
- 1:05:52formless. And I'm just curious like how
- 1:05:56you think about, because you're so you're so studied on Judaism
- 1:06:01and interfaith, you know, you've got an exposure to a lot of
- 1:06:04other spiritual traditions. How, how do you think about the
- 1:06:10nature of this reality that ultimately we're in?
- 1:06:15It's a great question. And again, I can only provide a
- 1:06:19sense of, you know, shadow of learning, but you know, what
- 1:06:22really is as you've just read is far beyond any comprehension
- 1:06:27that I have. There's a really interesting
- 1:06:30contrast between, let's say, and I'll just evoke the season 1 of
- 1:06:35the Bible, if you don't mind. Like the Hebrew Bible, even if
- 1:06:38you don't. Sounds like a Netflix.
- 1:06:39Special So if you haven't seen it, it's you know, it's in the
- 1:06:42second section. But but the prophetic experience
- 1:06:47that Isaiah has in Isaiah 6 where he ascends to have any
- 1:06:52ascends to this divine place. And it's funny, we talked
- 1:06:56earlier about the divine Song, right?
- 1:07:00He is in a place where the angels are basically screaming
- 1:07:04holy, holy, holy. And it's so loud for him.
- 1:07:09And he recognizes based on that and other things that he's in a
- 1:07:12very important place. But those are the angels in
- 1:07:17other places. Also in the section of the
- 1:07:19prophets, you have Elijah the prophet who's this incredible
- 1:07:24explorer who is trying to figure out the divine presence, trying
- 1:07:30to find that Channel and recognize that that God is not
- 1:07:33in that bombast. God is not in the loudness, but
- 1:07:37rather God is in the still small voice or in the still thin
- 1:07:41voice. And so if we can get out of our
- 1:07:44own way and not only allow others to fill our space, but if
- 1:07:48we can get out of our own way and feel that our surety is, is
- 1:07:53an illusion, then in that sense of awe, in that sense of
- 1:07:58astonishment, we can begin to connect to that which is the
- 1:08:04thin voice, that which is the narrow bridge.
- 1:08:07And that which sustains us not only in the beautiful, precious,
- 1:08:11yet fleeting life that we have where I am, I and you are you,
- 1:08:15but in the in the scope of all that has been, as God says to
- 1:08:21Moses at the burning Bush. Hey, Yeah.
- 1:08:24I share. Hey.
- 1:08:25Yeah, which can be translated as I will be what I will be, but it
- 1:08:30also can be translated as I have.
- 1:08:32I am that which I always have been.
- 1:08:35And that to me is really the divine sense.
- 1:08:38If we begin to put boundaries on it or labels to it, as we just
- 1:08:43discussed, I think it becomes much more paltry.
- 1:08:46But if we can allow ourselves to feel part of that oceanic
- 1:08:50presence of what God is, then we're on a better track.
- 1:08:53I think yeah. And, and I mean, it's there.
- 1:08:55There's so much wisdom in that. And, you know, all the spiritual
- 1:09:00traditions are around. If you're if you quiet the mind,
- 1:09:06then that's the way to ultimately connect with source.
- 1:09:11And you know, that's the way that psychedelics work too, is,
- 1:09:14you know, kind of quieting and shutting down the default mode
- 1:09:18network. That's that's the way it
- 1:09:20happened for Evan Alexander in his transcendent, you know, near
- 1:09:24death experience I've had now, I don't know if you know this,
- 1:09:27that I've had 12 friends open up to me at this point about their
- 1:09:32near death experiences. Well, 12 prior to 20250, which
- 1:09:38is interesting. I mean, some of these people
- 1:09:40have been friends for 10 to 20 years.
- 1:09:42Well, it's hard to talk about, I would imagine.
- 1:09:44And if you said a landscape of giving people permission, you
- 1:09:47actually be who they are, then it's it's astonishing to feel
- 1:09:51and hear what people are really dealing with.
- 1:09:53Yeah, yeah. But it's it's it's amazing.
- 1:09:56I mean, you know, Brian Marescu, who wrote the book The
- 1:09:58Immortality Key, the first time he's ever talked about on the
- 1:10:02podcast about his near death experience was on Love Conquer
- 1:10:06Sphere. I was on episode 48.
- 1:10:09Why do you believe it is that people are reticent to talk
- 1:10:12about it? Because this is I might try to
- 1:10:17keep this short. It's and I sigh because this is
- 1:10:21this tuts on so many things that we've just talked about.
- 1:10:26So it's, it's the simple version is that this dogmatic
- 1:10:31separation, this labeling of things, this dogmatic separation
- 1:10:36of science and spirituality of like you're either in this swim
- 1:10:39lane or that swim lane, or you're either again, you know,
- 1:10:43this type of person or that type of person or this race or that
- 1:10:46race or whatever the label is, is a big part of the suffering
- 1:10:52that we have to overcome collectively as humanity.
- 1:10:58And it's fear of cancellation. It's fear of talking about
- 1:11:05spirituality and, you know, having that, you know, atheist
- 1:11:11be like another person talking about God.
- 1:11:15Whereas the atheist like, has a very strong belief system as
- 1:11:19well. Like, you know, to hold on like
- 1:11:23so tightly to know there is no God, like there must be no God.
- 1:11:27And you know, JD Messenger covers it so well in 11 days in
- 1:11:32May that the existence of the atheist is for the exploration
- 1:11:38of God. Like without any atheist, there
- 1:11:41wouldn't be as much of this pull to explore that.
- 1:11:47That is part of the duality that that that exist to force the
- 1:11:54exploration and and the discussion, right.
- 1:12:00So to cling on like like so strongly to a position and
- 1:12:07attach like deep, deep dogma to it is is is why, you know, they
- 1:12:14undoubtedly had opened up at some point in their life and
- 1:12:19friends start to look at them differently.
- 1:12:21And it's funny because, you know, a lot of friends have not
- 1:12:25a lot, but, but if you have have been worried about me in terms
- 1:12:29of how open I've been on this podcast and how open I'm being
- 1:12:34in the book, you know, I've told them, you know what's in the
- 1:12:37book. And for me, it's just walking
- 1:12:41that authentic path. And it's, and it's, it's, it's
- 1:12:44really doing my best to be the embodiment of love, conquering
- 1:12:48fear and being rooted in, in that and trusting in that.
- 1:12:58You know, the way I would describe that it's, it's walking
- 1:13:00in God's grace. It's, it's walking with the Dao.
- 1:13:03If you want to invoke the Dao ditching.
- 1:13:07And when that happens, you know, the divine shows up and it shows
- 1:13:14up in interesting ways. I mean, you know, you were, you
- 1:13:17were recorded in this room for an award that I'm about to
- 1:13:22receive, which is super humbling and completely unexpected.
- 1:13:27You know, next next week I'll be I'll be at Tulane University and
- 1:13:32I'm not a Tulane grad, although our daughter is there receiving
- 1:13:38this Entrepreneur of the Year award from President Fitz, who's
- 1:13:43become a good friend. I didn't know President Fitz.
- 1:13:45I didn't know anybody at Tulane prior to I knew some people,
- 1:13:48they graduated from Tulane. But you know, Rachel, she won't
- 1:13:50let me ask, ask a single person to write a recommendation letter
- 1:13:54for her. She wanted to get it just 100%
- 1:13:57on our own merits. She just, she's got her dream
- 1:14:00internship in New York City for the summer, 100% on our own
- 1:14:03merits. Wouldn't even tell us the
- 1:14:05company that she was interviewing with didn't want
- 1:14:07any help, which I respect. And the reason I bring that up
- 1:14:14is that when I made this decision to be this transparent
- 1:14:19and it's a very conscious decision, I had to overcome the
- 1:14:24layers of fear that go along with that type of decision.
- 1:14:29The attachment to awards I've gotten in the past or the
- 1:14:34attachment to capitalistic outcomes I've had in the past.
- 1:14:38And be like, really? Is that, is that what I'm going
- 1:14:42to allow define me or is what really defines me the way I walk
- 1:14:47in the world and the love that I do my best to embody and my soul
- 1:14:52song, you know, which is ultimately what, what, what I'm
- 1:14:56doing now. And so I, I, I went through this
- 1:15:01process mentally of just like, you know, it's OK if, if, if
- 1:15:04that's like the end of awards, fine.
- 1:15:06That didn't define me in the 1st place.
- 1:15:09So to see this award manifest and specifically manifest and in
- 1:15:14the letter that President Fitz passed to me to see if I would
- 1:15:18accept this award where they were raving about how much they
- 1:15:22love, love conquers fear and the message that it has for
- 1:15:26humanity. And I had this very explicit
- 1:15:29conversation with them where I said, Hey, I just, I just want
- 1:15:33to make sure because it's, it's totally fine if you guys don't
- 1:15:37want to give me this award. I wasn't expecting anything.
- 1:15:40I didn't even know this is this. It was really a shock to me,
- 1:15:43honestly. And, and I said, you know, you
- 1:15:48know how authentic I'm being on the podcast and in my book.
- 1:15:51And they said yes. And I said, OK, I just, I just
- 1:15:54want to make sure because you know, that that does make some
- 1:15:59people like fearful of cancellation or whatever else.
- 1:16:03And they said no two lanes all about authenticity and New
- 1:16:06Orleans is about authenticity. So so I just thought it was so
- 1:16:09cool. And the reason I the reason I
- 1:16:13mention it is for anybody that is out there listening to this
- 1:16:17or watching this and thinking about how to walk in the world
- 1:16:21and whether or not to walk with authenticity.
- 1:16:25Whether it's their transcendent near death experience.
- 1:16:28They want to talk about one-on-one with friends or go
- 1:16:31public with however they want to do it.
- 1:16:33Or, you know, their feeling of like, Hey, you know, I'm in this
- 1:16:37tribe of this political party or whatever it is, or, you know,
- 1:16:42this race or this religion. And I feel like there's,
- 1:16:45there's, there's this part that's not blood from the heart.
- 1:16:49And I'd really feel like I want to talk about that.
- 1:16:52And I want to be honest about that instead of just kind of be
- 1:16:54silent about it. They could be a big part of the
- 1:16:59change that we need in the world for sure.
- 1:17:03And so, you know, I do think that, that this container that
- 1:17:09I've, I've, I've started with love conquers fear is getting
- 1:17:15other people to open up a little bit more.
- 1:17:18And, you know, I, I, I've had many, many people that have
- 1:17:24helped encourage me in their own way, even though they didn't
- 1:17:28necessarily know it. I mean, I've told John Mackey
- 1:17:31that he encouraged me, but it wasn't like he wrote this to
- 1:17:35encourage me. He wasn't explicitly thinking
- 1:17:37about it. That when he wrote his book, the
- 1:17:40whole story, his tell all of Whole Foods Chapter 1, is on his
- 1:17:44transcendent psychedelic journey that got him to realize that
- 1:17:49we're all connected and everything's rooted in love.
- 1:17:53And that got him over the fear after he dropped out of UT
- 1:17:58Austin to launch Whole Foods. And, you know, we talked about
- 1:18:01that on episode 30 of the podcast.
- 1:18:03But you know, it's, it's out there for everybody to read.
- 1:18:05Well, many of us live lives of quiet desperation and to be able
- 1:18:10to tune into and be inspired by a podcast, a person who models
- 1:18:18something very different, allows us to hopefully have the courage
- 1:18:22to do the same. Yeah, well, thank you for saying
- 1:18:25that. And, you know, this is a bit
- 1:18:27like the Ghostbusters, you know, which came out in 1984.
- 1:18:32Interesting year for that, where it's like crossing all the
- 1:18:36streams. And it's doing that because the
- 1:18:39nature of our reality has never mattered more than it does.
- 1:18:44And. It's been so unpredictable at
- 1:18:45this point because we don't know what is real and what isn't real
- 1:18:48anymore. I think that's assuming that we
- 1:18:50ever knew what was real. Sure.
- 1:18:52But you know, you know, if seeing is believing is a cliche,
- 1:18:55Yeah. And then you get on social media
- 1:18:57or something else, and you don't know whether that's a legitimate
- 1:19:00video. That's true.
- 1:19:02That is, it's definitely true, yeah.
- 1:19:04There's a huge, huge problem emerging powered by AI and it's
- 1:19:11a, it's a very solvable problem, but it's, it's one where the
- 1:19:16social media companies and the AI companies need to actively
- 1:19:20want to solve it as opposed to just fall into the I want more
- 1:19:24and more clicks and more and more downloads and more and
- 1:19:27more, more and more usage. And the at least in Judaism,
- 1:19:30that awareness or that astonishment of the divine or
- 1:19:35knowing that we are in reverence to something bigger than
- 1:19:38ourselves will help dictate whether or not that can be the
- 1:19:41case. Yeah.
- 1:19:42Do you agree with that? There's a consciousness
- 1:19:46awakening underway. Oh, 100%.
- 1:19:48You feel that? Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:19:49So, so that I think that that is the divine waking us up.
- 1:19:55I hope so. I think that's right.
- 1:19:57I think that whether it's a, a newly rediscovered, I should
- 1:20:02say, interest in meditation by some that's, you know, 40 years
- 1:20:07old or more, whether it's a, it's a renewed interest in
- 1:20:10psychedelics or any other tool that will get us to appreciate
- 1:20:15our consciousness, I think. That awakening is is something
- 1:20:18that I think we need to desperately pay attention to and
- 1:20:21allow us to be unafraid to see where that will lead us, because
- 1:20:24it will be much beyond the life that we think we are as an
- 1:20:28individual, that's for sure. Well, I think it's happening for
- 1:20:32a reason. I think everything is happening
- 1:20:34for a reason. And there's all these
- 1:20:37synchronicities and all of these nudges you get from the divine,
- 1:20:40whether you're sleepwalking or not, you know, whether you're
- 1:20:43conscious of them happening or not.
- 1:20:45And you know, if you viewed it non spiritually, which I view it
- 1:20:51as both spiritually and scientifically, I think two
- 1:20:54things can be true at the same time.
- 1:20:55Agreed. The non spiritual way to look at
- 1:20:59it would be that there's something about natural
- 1:21:02selection and about the connectedness that we have
- 1:21:09through whatever it is, quantum physics, etcetera, through the
- 1:21:12the field discovered and takes bosun that is waking us up so we
- 1:21:18don't extinct ourselves. That would be another way to
- 1:21:22view it. That the reason that I choose
- 1:21:28the spiritual path is as the, as the way to navigate this is that
- 1:21:36it is, it is the IT is the way to ultimately walk the path to
- 1:21:42allow love to conquer your fear and be a bit like Neo in the
- 1:21:46Matrix and stop, stop the bullets.
- 1:21:51And you can get there through stoicism as well.
- 1:21:55So it's not just through, you know, it's not just through a
- 1:21:59belief in God or a belief in spirituality.
- 1:22:02There are many spiritual practices to get there, but the
- 1:22:05fact that it's happening at this moment, at this penultimate
- 1:22:09moment for humanity, I think is not a mistake.
- 1:22:13And whether it's again, a a warning or a recognition that we
- 1:22:18have crossed a lot of rivers and we need to take stock of where
- 1:22:24we are or whether it's just the next thing in our development.
- 1:22:28You're right. And I think all of the the Nexus
- 1:22:30of consciousness, spirituality, science and AI and all of its
- 1:22:35other accoutrement allow us to to have a very exciting moment.
- 1:22:40I mean, I think being able to navigate all of this, as
- 1:22:43difficult and as scary as it may be, not fearful, gives us a real
- 1:22:48sense of what's possible. And I, you know, I never thought
- 1:22:52in the work that I do that, you know, there's been a lot of
- 1:22:55unexpected things that have happened and how to react to
- 1:22:58things. But it's very exciting.
- 1:23:01And I'm not a scientist, but I think you're right.
- 1:23:04I think that science and spirit are two sides of the same coin.
- 1:23:09And we have a an opportunity to discuss deeply and carefully and
- 1:23:14with love all of this that will help to define who we're going
- 1:23:18to be or who we're not going to be if because I think the stakes
- 1:23:21are that high. All right, right.
- 1:23:23I think your point about extinction is real, and you
- 1:23:26know, we don't have to be anything other than just paying
- 1:23:28attention to see how our environment has changed.
- 1:23:31All right, right. By the way, I have a very proud
- 1:23:33practical tip for, for people on how to know whether or not what
- 1:23:38you're seeing Israel. So, and because I see this
- 1:23:43happen with, with, with a number of friends where they'll share
- 1:23:46like this major scientific breakthrough just happened or
- 1:23:50whatever it, whatever it is, whatever the piece of news is,
- 1:23:54believe it or not, the easiest way to do that because we're in
- 1:23:58this time where all of humanity's content is in one
- 1:24:02system that you can speak to in any language, whether it's
- 1:24:08native language content in Hebrew and Japanese, you name it
- 1:24:13S, you know, Korean and you want to speak to it in English.
- 1:24:17That now is possible. So a very simple technique that
- 1:24:22I do whenever I see a scientific breakthrough story that a friend
- 1:24:26is posting or some other story that just sounds, sounds really
- 1:24:32improbable is I'll just copy that and I'll paste it into
- 1:24:38either Chachi PT or Claude. You could also do it in Gemini.
- 1:24:43And I'll use the thinking mode to have it do research on
- 1:24:47whether or not that's true. And more often than not, it's,
- 1:24:53it has a kernel of truth that then they diverged into this
- 1:24:56big, you know, macro change that actually hasn't happened.
- 1:25:03So anybody listening to this, I would encourage them to do that
- 1:25:06before they share something to know.
- 1:25:10And what I do is because I, I'm, I don't have this, this, this
- 1:25:15troll aspect of me at all. And my persona is I'll privately
- 1:25:21either call or message them and I'll say, hey, just so you know,
- 1:25:25you know, I did this research and that's not actually
- 1:25:29scientifically accurate. And so just be aware that be
- 1:25:33aware of that. You know, I had AI had a friend
- 1:25:36recently send me this amazing one on this amazing story on
- 1:25:41Bruce Lee taking on this this it was like this Navy SEAL
- 1:25:47Lieutenant and you know, he was like the embodiment of like, you
- 1:25:52know, toughness and, you know, built in nails and all of this
- 1:25:56stuff. And it was a great story is very
- 1:25:59Dao de Ching. It was it was a it was a great,
- 1:26:02great story, which could be true about Bruce Lee and what I know
- 1:26:07about Bruce Lee, and it was and it was a very artful YouTube
- 1:26:10video and the lesson was a good lesson.
- 1:26:13So the lesson was solid, but the story itself was was was
- 1:26:17fabricated. But you know that the lesson was
- 1:26:21great. So so you could, you could still
- 1:26:23take away the lesson. You know, it was it was a fable
- 1:26:27essentially, but it was told in a way that it was this true,
- 1:26:31this true story. And he and he reacted when I
- 1:26:35message him privately, I said, Oh, no, you know, it was had.
- 1:26:38And I said no, I said yes, yes, there, there.
- 1:26:41There was this aspect where it was false in terms of the story
- 1:26:44itself. But the the fable is very dowel
- 1:26:48to Chang. And, you know, there's been many
- 1:26:51people throughout history where that's been true of where it
- 1:26:55created a shift. And essentially Bruce Lee, like,
- 1:26:58you know, humbled the guy in a very polite way so that he would
- 1:27:03have a shift in his life and and it would transform him.
- 1:27:08And there's lots of stories of of that.
- 1:27:10Sure, but sounds like that's what you did with your friend
- 1:27:13too. It was a subtle shift of oh, now
- 1:27:16I'll pay more attention to what I choose to share.
- 1:27:19Yeah, but, but, but I was, but I was trying to tell him like,
- 1:27:22hey, the fable itself, There's a lot of truth in the fable.
- 1:27:25Sure. You know, don't don't worry so
- 1:27:27much that that this part wasn't true.
- 1:27:30But anyways, it's a it's a just a very simple tip for people.
- 1:27:35So as you've kind of navigated your understanding of reality,
- 1:27:42how, how, how has that evolved for you over time?
- 1:27:45I have a tremendous respect for complexity.
- 1:27:47Yeah. I have a tremendous respect when
- 1:27:49people are being authentic and honest that, as you said, more
- 1:27:53than one thing can be true at a time.
- 1:27:55And the recognition that everything is not either or,
- 1:27:59that everything is both and, and that people are struggling with
- 1:28:03their own sense and conception of self worth, but they're also
- 1:28:07struggling with things that have happened in their lives or
- 1:28:09things that have happened in their families, as well as
- 1:28:13dealing with the uncertainty of what will happen next.
- 1:28:15And that kind of multivalent truth, one can be stymied by it
- 1:28:26or one can recognize it in its greater mosaic and being able to
- 1:28:31to deal with it. And it just UPS the game of how
- 1:28:34to show up for people, I guess is the the bottom line of it
- 1:28:38all. As opposed to being a problem
- 1:28:39solver and say, oh, to fix that problem, you have to do X to
- 1:28:44recognize that things are true in many ways.
- 1:28:48And you know, to use the, what I'm beginning to understand is
- 1:28:51the quantum universe, that what happens here, how you pay
- 1:28:56attention to something here, even if you don't solve it, can
- 1:28:58absolutely shift things in other dimensions.
- 1:29:02And then I think that's really a very important and very valuable
- 1:29:06and humble understanding of what we actually can do because we
- 1:29:09realize how powerful we are, even if we're overwhelmed most
- 1:29:13of the time. Or if if if you didn't think
- 1:29:16about, you know, your prayer and the healing of the woman you
- 1:29:20were with, you know, which really shifted you and made you
- 1:29:25commit to in your life like this path of being a rabbi.
- 1:29:30You know, energy healing is being discovered over and over
- 1:29:35again as we as we progress on science is being very real.
- 1:29:39You know, the telepathy tape season, season 2.
- 1:29:43Have you listened to that yet? That's great.
- 1:29:45And you know, the energy healing episode on that one, I can't
- 1:29:49remember what episode that is for the Top Play tapes, but it
- 1:29:52was a really, really good one. And we know that through quantum
- 1:29:57physics that we are, you know, light and energy and that we're
- 1:30:03mostly empty space. We're like 99.12 nines of empty
- 1:30:10space because we're made of atoms and atoms are almost all
- 1:30:15empty space. This is also a virtual empty
- 1:30:18space. So one of the things that I'm
- 1:30:21really excited about, and this time that we're alive, you know,
- 1:30:24for the next 10 to 15 years, this really becomes the
- 1:30:27penultimate moment for are we as humanity going to choose
- 1:30:32abundance for everyone on the planet, realizing the divinity
- 1:30:35within us, all the love that we should have for, for all of us
- 1:30:39and the technological progression, this exponential of
- 1:30:43exponential is to create that abundance and choose that, you
- 1:30:46know, we have the free will to ultimately choose that or cling
- 1:30:49on to the 0 sum, you know, power based games that that will
- 1:30:54destroy us if we, if we cling on to those with technology this
- 1:30:58powerful, I'm 95% certain that we make it to the other side of
- 1:31:02this and, and have, you know, the equivalent of heaven on
- 1:31:05earth. But, but we, one of the things
- 1:31:10I'm so excited about is that we're going to discover more and
- 1:31:16more about our reality. And the patriarchs of the field,
- 1:31:20you know, of the quantum physics field, like Max Planck became
- 1:31:23much more spiritual as a result. You know, they were studying
- 1:31:26things like Vedanta. That's where they were getting
- 1:31:29some of their knowledge about, about things like quantum
- 1:31:34entanglement. Now, they weren't referring it
- 1:31:39to that way. They weren't doing the direct
- 1:31:40bridge, but they were. They were reading and the
- 1:31:44ancient Mystics knew how connected we all were.
- 1:31:48They didn't have the scientific language to describe it.
- 1:31:52And the episode that I did with Prime Rescue and the immortality
- 1:31:56key, part of the way he he decodes part of the way that
- 1:32:01they got there. There were psychedelic catalyst
- 1:32:03used to help to help jump start the communion with the divine
- 1:32:11and they later on were demonized because the church was primarily
- 1:32:16the Catholic Church. Like there's this part in the
- 1:32:18immortality key where Brian is in the Vatican like studying
- 1:32:22these ancient scriptures that he's not supposed to have access
- 1:32:26to. It's very kind of Indiana Jones,
- 1:32:28the professor version, but the the church wanted to control
- 1:32:33like people's opinion about reality.
- 1:32:38They didn't want people to have a direct communion.
- 1:32:41And so the indigenous wisdom was literally, quite, quite
- 1:32:47literally demonized, like all types of persecution, right, to
- 1:32:52get people to to to not have that communion.
- 1:32:55But you know, the reality is that communion happens in many
- 1:32:59different ways. It happens through near death
- 1:33:01experiences, happens through meditation.
- 1:33:04I had a woman on who originally is from Turkey, very good friend
- 1:33:08of mine. She just had a great exit for
- 1:33:10her company, Pariah Beam. She was on episode 31 right
- 1:33:14after John Mackey and she had a spontaneous spiritual awakening.
- 1:33:18That's another path. Now, she didn't know she was
- 1:33:20going to have one, obviously, right?
- 1:33:22But that was another path. And I think that the opportunity
- 1:33:25that people have to open themselves up to something
- 1:33:27beyond themselves is both humbling, but also necessary as
- 1:33:31we, as we chart this uninvestigated and difficult
- 1:33:35age. But I think we have more and
- 1:33:37more resources, as you know, as we begin to understand more
- 1:33:41about the science of quantum and other things.
- 1:33:43But also it, it hopefully, whether or not you're atheist or
- 1:33:47an atheist, gives you, I think, tremendous excitement to realize
- 1:33:52what is out there and, and how who we say we are can define us
- 1:33:57to a certain point. The, the costumes that we wear.
- 1:34:01But underneath all of those costumes is that hiddenness
- 1:34:04that's still small voice or the, if you will, that space in
- 1:34:07between the atoms that allows us to actually connect.
- 1:34:11And that's seems to be absurd, right?
- 1:34:13We're connecting empty spaces together.
- 1:34:17But the opportunity that we have to do that recognizes how we are
- 1:34:21all this, this one force, because all of us together can
- 1:34:25exist in unlimited space then. Well, one, one thing that's
- 1:34:29that's so crazy to think about that is just scientific fact as
- 1:34:34we as we understand it today. You know, you and I each are 37
- 1:34:40trillion cells around about there and we have an equal
- 1:34:45number of organisms which, which live both in US and on us.
- 1:34:51That, that form, you know, the cohabitation that that lets us
- 1:34:56walk in this world and be alive and be so full of that spark of
- 1:35:01life. I had this amazing dream
- 1:35:03recently just on how incredible that divine spark is and that
- 1:35:08feeling of being alive. You know, no matter what type of
- 1:35:11what type of creature you are with consciousness, whether
- 1:35:13you're a dog or, you know, a person, the, the beauty of that
- 1:35:17spark, you know, which is that, that part of God that's within
- 1:35:21us all, but we're all part of God's Collective Soul and that
- 1:35:26we're embodied, You know, that God is having a experience
- 1:35:29through us that we're all, we're all part of the one.
- 1:35:34And, and, you know, I was, I was, I was curious because I was
- 1:35:39like, all right, well, let me just assume the materialist view
- 1:35:44and say, OK, well, how much of that?
- 1:35:47Because obviously we have our memories from the time we were
- 1:35:50born and some people have been, have past life memories.
- 1:35:52But, but like we have our memories from the time we were
- 1:35:55born. And there's a durable sense of
- 1:36:00those memories in this collective that forms us.
- 1:36:05That's like 80, let's just call it 80 trillion things.
- 1:36:09And every day we have around 30 trillion of those dying and
- 1:36:14being reborn, whether they're cells or organisms.
- 1:36:17And I'm kind of mixing them out there.
- 1:36:19But every day, like we're constantly having this rebirth.
- 1:36:23You know, there's this, there's this principle in Buddhism,
- 1:36:27which I love, which is every day when you wake up from your dream
- 1:36:32at night, you can choose to be reborn and take what you want
- 1:36:38with you for that day and shed everything in the past that
- 1:36:43didn't serve you. And so literally every day when
- 1:36:47you wake up, it's your, it's your fresh opportunity to be a
- 1:36:50new version of you versus the consistency bias of like we've
- 1:36:53acted that way in the past. So like, I've got to bring that
- 1:36:56in. Sure.
- 1:36:57Which that consistency bias is our ego that's developed that
- 1:37:03because we again, we're dealing with scarcity and some types of
- 1:37:07really bad situations with, you know, not getting in by the
- 1:37:10Saber tooth tiger or whatever else it was or just surviving
- 1:37:15that to act with consistency was a way to create an assurance.
- 1:37:19Sure, you know, of trust, but we can, we can be reborn every day.
- 1:37:24But if you, if you, if you take the materialist paradigm, then
- 1:37:29that means there has to be something that is a transference
- 1:37:33process in this dynamic unfolding of who we are, of the
- 1:37:38memories and everything else that's getting somehow
- 1:37:41transferred for durability, literally all the time happening
- 1:37:47all the time versus the the theory of non local
- 1:37:52consciousness, which is consciousness is something
- 1:37:55fundamental in the universe that we've received right instead.
- 1:37:59And our brains are like antennas.
- 1:38:01And again, two things can be true at the at the same time.
- 1:38:04I was having this deep discussion with a friend at the
- 1:38:07house yesterday where, you know, we don't know how much is kind
- 1:38:12of I'll call it, I'll use a computer terminology here server
- 1:38:15side or source and how much is local storage or, you know, our
- 1:38:20brain, we don't know. I mean, but we're going to get
- 1:38:24to decode that as we as we advance with brain computer
- 1:38:29interfaces with quantum physics, with the invention of quantum
- 1:38:34computing, we know that quantum entanglement is real.
- 1:38:38It quantum computer doesn't work without it.
- 1:38:40So we already know that that's real.
- 1:38:41Right. And you know, and whether it's a
- 1:38:44materialistic or non local idea that it's all coming from the
- 1:38:49same eternal source as well. You know, the opportunity that
- 1:38:53we have is that we're our lives are just on loan, whether we're
- 1:38:57stuff of the earth or stuff of the infinite.
- 1:39:01It's it's just we happen to be dancing in this one particular
- 1:39:05open space right now and it will just be a blink of an eye and
- 1:39:10we'll be on our way. But this opportunity that we
- 1:39:13have to glory in it all and not again, have to choose, you know,
- 1:39:17it's either non local or it's material, I think is a very
- 1:39:21freeing concept. And we can be with wonder
- 1:39:25recognizing all of it. And I think you quoted A
- 1:39:28Buddhist teaching about choosing to be reborn in the Jewish
- 1:39:32practice, waking up every day and saying thank you.
- 1:39:35The Moda Ani or the Moda Ani prayer is the one that says
- 1:39:40thank you for restoring my soul and to translate it in a way.
- 1:39:43I have a choice now of what I get to do that that the
- 1:39:49opportunity we have is something that should infuse us with
- 1:39:53tremendous excitement and and the word gratitude, which
- 1:39:57conquers everything. This is something that that I
- 1:40:00really want to emphasize in terms of the unity and how much
- 1:40:04we have in common that one of the things that I love, you
- 1:40:07know, and I'm I'm probably Jewish, I love going to the
- 1:40:10synagogue, but one of the things that I.
- 1:40:13We have no dispensation. You're fine.
- 1:40:15No, no. It's, it's, it's just true and
- 1:40:18it's, it's, it's one of these things I love is that no matter
- 1:40:23which faith tradition you follow, one of the old faiths
- 1:40:27tradition, whether it's Buddhism, whether it's
- 1:40:29Christianity, whether it's Judaism, whether it's Islam,
- 1:40:33it's, it has this beautiful synchronicity, you know, this
- 1:40:37pattern recognition across them all.
- 1:40:40And there's certain practices in all religions which become
- 1:40:45transcended. You're going to love the chapter
- 1:40:48of my book. Chapter 10 is on religion and
- 1:40:52they're sayings we've transcended in Judaism.
- 1:40:55We don't burn animals at the altar anymore, that's a
- 1:40:57sacrifice to God. Christians don't go on crusades
- 1:41:02anymore to force convert people to Christianity.
- 1:41:09Hindus are mostly evolving from the caste system and realizing
- 1:41:14that wasn't something that should be done to to kind of
- 1:41:16other people and be like, sorry, you're in this cast.
- 1:41:19That means you can't ever be promoted into, you know, this
- 1:41:22type of line of work. You're kind of at the at the
- 1:41:25labor, you know, cast and you know, the Muslim religion is
- 1:41:33ultimately I have faith going to transcend radical jihadism and
- 1:41:37that they that that's this cancer that they have to they
- 1:41:41have to grapple with. And you know, fortunately it's a
- 1:41:43very, very small, small part of that religion, but it's a very
- 1:41:48violent part of that religion led to October 7th, right.
- 1:41:53So I I love that because to me that actually provides more
- 1:41:59proof of spirituality than less because it says that we as
- 1:42:06humans have come, come from so many different angles to come to
- 1:42:11the same, you know, destination. Sure.
- 1:42:14And we're still all works in progress and we're still all
- 1:42:16works in progress and one is not better than another, right?
- 1:42:19And we all have our work to do and ideally can do it in
- 1:42:22relationship that will make it better.
- 1:42:24Well, I love you, I love your heart and and I really
- 1:42:27appreciate you doing this with me and.
- 1:42:30Well, thank you for being such a profound teacher for me and
- 1:42:33expanding my horizons and wonderful friendship over the
- 1:42:36many years. Yeah.
- 1:42:37So blessings to you and your family.
- 1:42:39Right back at you. You're an important part of my
- 1:42:41life and you've been there for all the biggest family moments
- 1:42:45and and there will be many more. To be continued.
- 1:42:48Yeah, yeah. Well, thanks, brother.
- 1:42:50Thanks. Yeah.
- 1:42:51Thank you so much. Of course.
- 1:42:52Thanks everybody for tuning in to Love Conquers Fear.
- 1:42:56What an amazing episode. I absolutely love Rabbi Neil's
- 1:42:59heart and the way that he walks in the world and all of the ways
- 1:43:04that he bridges, you know, the illusion of divides.
- 1:43:09We can choose to have them be very real divides or we can see
- 1:43:13them for what they are, the illusion of separation.
- 1:43:16Keep on sharing. I love all the messages I'm
- 1:43:20getting. It really means a lot to me.
- 1:43:23It's happening multiple times a day.
- 1:43:26People are having a real heart shift and that's what Love
- 1:43:29Conquers Fear is all about. Collectively, we have the heart
- 1:43:32shift and we're going to make it on the other side of this
- 1:43:35exponential of exponential curves to abundance for
- 1:43:39everybody on this planet. It can absolutely be achieved.
- 1:43:43We just have to believe in it. We have to manifest it.
- 1:43:45We have to see the divinity and love within us all and choose
- 1:43:51it. So thank you and keep it coming.