Latest / Worldview Matters With David Fiorazo / Hannah Strege: Ethics & The World's First ‘Adopted’ Frozen Embryo
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- 0:00Hello, friends.
- 0:00Today's special guest, Hannah Stregge, was the world's first adopted frozen embryo.
- 0:08She was frozen for two years and thawed on Good Friday, 1998.
- 0:14Hannah was conceived through IVF.
- 0:16Her parents chose adoption, and they adopted 20 embryos.
- 0:22But Hannah was the only one who survived and was born.
- 0:25Her work now, and her story is next.
- 0:32Welcome to Worldview Matters.
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- 0:45And now, here's your host, David Fiorazzo.
- 0:49Friends, family in Christ, thank you so much for your support and your prayers for this podcast.
- 0:54Another very important topic.
- 0:56You know, I say that every time, I think, but this one, we need to understand, especially in the church, Christians need to understand the worldview and what's going on here with the issue of life, pre-born human lives, and when life is conceived.
- 1:12We need to be able to have these conversations with a very ignorant person,
- 1:17maybe sometimes culture and people who buy the talking points of the left.
- 1:21We need to know how to respond to this.
- 1:23One way you can do it, you can go to Hannah's ex or Twitter, formerly Twitter, and bring that up, guys.
- 1:30It's Hannah Strage.
- 1:32It's S-T-R-E-G-E.
- 1:34There we go.
- 1:35She inspired the first frozen embryo adoption program.
- 1:41She gets into a lot of great points there on X. I love some of her responses.
- 1:46So we'll talk to her about that in a minute.
- 1:49And I want to give you a website, actually her book.
- 1:51Her dad wrote a book about her story.
- 1:55It's called A Snowflake Named Hannah, Ethics, Faith, and the First Adoption of a Frozen Embryo.
- 2:05Hannah Stregge, welcome to Worldview Matters.
- 2:07So good to see you today.
- 2:08Thanks for your time.
- 2:10Thank you so much for having me.
- 2:12You're most welcome.
- 2:13Your story is amazing.
- 2:15And I mean, praise God that you have so much to share on this.
- 2:19And I just want to hear more of it.
- 2:22So let's start at the beginning now.
- 2:24I gave your ex, I told people about the book.
- 2:28First, maybe we can start with your dad and your mom and your dad and eventually wrote the book on your story.
- 2:37So go back to their struggle over the ethics of, I think, IVF.
- 2:42They decided to adopt rather than, you know, just go ahead and share that story.
- 2:47Walk us through it slowly, please.
- 2:50Sure.
- 2:51So I always like to say, you know, that feels like their story and less of my story, because I didn't come into play until, you know, I was, um, you know, transferred into my mom.
- 3:01Um, but however, they were struggling with infertility.
- 3:05Um, my mom had premature ovarian failure and she could not get pregnant.
- 3:10And so, um, they were looking at infertility treatments and, um,
- 3:15You know, my mom asked if they had any embryos that they could adopt.
- 3:19And their doctor was like, of course, we have lots of embryos.
- 3:22Nobody's ever asked me that question before.
- 3:25And he handed them like a list.
- 3:28And my mom always likes to say, this looked like a list of how you'd pick your new car based off options.
- 3:34And that's not how she wanted to grow their family.
- 3:36So it had embryos separated by hair color, eye color, intelligence, race, ethnicity,
- 3:43And this was in 98.
- 3:45Like this, this wasn't very long ago.
- 3:47And they still do this to this day because they have, you know, egg donors, sperm donors.
- 3:52They have everything that anybody could want.
- 3:55And they just expected my parents to choose.
- 3:57And so they rejected that and turned to the Christian community and wanted to know what would God think of me.
- 4:04pursuing an embryo adoption program.
- 4:07And an embryo adoption program didn't even exist.
- 4:09And that's why God is so vital in our story is because this was kind of an idea that just kind of came to my mom.
- 4:16And so they talked to some Lutheran pastors and some friends from their church at the time and connections.
- 4:23And my mom also reached out to the late Dr. James Dobson, who's actually, he was my godfather as well.
- 4:30But he played a huge role in just saying, you know, these embryos need to be adopted.
- 4:36These are human lives and they need to be given a home and a chance to fill that gift of life.
- 4:41Um, and so my mom and dad and one of their good friends kind of came together to build what is now the snowflakes embryo adoption program.
- 4:50Um, however, that's trademarked through nightlight.
- 4:53Um, so other people, which is nightlight Christian adoptions to adoption and see, um, the snowflakes term is used for a lot of people that have adopted a frozen embryo or a frozen orphan.
- 5:04Um, but it's really important that that is a trademark name and that's not everybody is.
- 5:09So I want to emphasize one point that you sent me.
- 5:12Thank you.
- 5:12We had some email exchanges and you said your parents intentionally chose adoption rather than embryo donation.
- 5:20Why?
- 5:21Because they believed these were already human lives deserving of dignity and protection we would give any other child.
- 5:30So, Hannah, why do you think—I know you've learned a lot in these last 20-plus years.
- 5:37Why do you think it took until the end of the 1990s for some, your parents and others, to maybe start asking ethical questions like Dr. James Dobson and others who really believed—
- 5:50that these were human beings, human lives.
- 5:53And some people just say embryo, and they think it's just something they can, like you said, there's a list of traits, and you can discard some, choose others.
- 6:03Why do you think it took so long, especially for people who understand the biblical worldview and believe God, believe the Bible, Christians?
- 6:13Can you give us insight on that?
- 6:16Yeah, I mean, I think that, you know, IVF was very new at the time.
- 6:21Like Louise Brown wasn't born like too much earlier than I was.
- 6:26And so I think this was just also a really new concept to people.
- 6:29And now that it's becoming more and more of a popular option and people are experiencing more and more infertility, they're like, oh, yeah, IVF.
- 6:36IVF's there.
- 6:37We can always do IVF.
- 6:38And it's creating a growing problem because people I don't even think have –
- 6:44any idea what an embryo is like they're ignorant of basic biology.
- 6:48And I encounter that all the time and just normal conversations with people when I explain my story to them or just on X, as you can see with some of my exchanges.
- 6:58But I think it's really important to, you know, also ask them like, why don't you think a frozen embryo is human?
- 7:03Why, why do you think that it could be anything else?
- 7:06And I think that really stems from a lot of people's just like their own trauma or their own, you know,
- 7:13fear of what that could mean if they recognize these as children.
- 7:18So you say, I agree with, you know, your life began at fertilization.
- 7:23Our lives begin at fertilization.
- 7:25But a lot of people don't look at it that way, which, I mean, it's confusing to me why more people don't understand, and especially what's going on in certain states, you know, with abortion and laws.
- 7:38And it's just really astounding to me how they minimize life.
- 7:43pre-born human lives.
- 7:46So for people to think that, well, you said your mom carried you, gave birth to you, raised you as her daughter, but your life did not begin when you were transferred to her or implanted or was born.
- 8:00Your life began at fertilization.
- 8:01We need to hear this over and over and over and over again to understand the truth.
- 8:07Go ahead and share whatever you'd like about that part of your journey.
- 8:11Yeah, I mean, I think, you know, conception, fertilization can be very, you know, people use one or the other.
- 8:18I like the term fertilization just because, you know, I was in a lab.
- 8:22I was created in a lab.
- 8:23And, you know, I was frozen in tanks of liquid nitrogen along with my siblings.
- 8:28And there's at least 1.5 million frozen embryos in our country alone.
- 8:32And that number is not accurate, David, because there's nobody actually regulating it.
- 8:37This system, there's nobody that actually has a real number.
- 8:40And we're not even talking about what that looks like in other countries.
- 8:43But our own country, we have numbers beyond numbers of children in these frozen orphanages, and they're not considered human beings.
- 8:52And people are just very fearful of if they become people, if they become persons in our country and with our laws, that changes the game for, you know, the entire abortion debate as well.
- 9:05Because then we're recognizing that life begins at fertilization and those lives deserve to be protected under our law.
- 9:13Yes.
- 9:13And I just want to again say kudos to your mom, Marlene, who asked the question, can frozen embryos be adopted?
- 9:23Yeah.
- 9:24Thank you.
- 9:25This is such an important story.
- 9:26Can we just transition a little bit and talk about your dad's book?
- 9:31When did that, I guess that came out in 2020.
- 9:33Did I read that right?
- 9:35Yes, that is correct.
- 9:36A terrible time for it to come out.
- 9:43Yeah, so my dad, I mean, we don't speak publicly for clout or anything like that.
- 9:49We speak because my story is very unique.
- 9:51And I think it gives a different perspective to the abortion or pro-life debate because, you know, I was not in anybody's body.
- 10:00I didn't need anybody's body to go to the next stage of development overnight in the petri dish.
- 10:05I did that on my own because I was my own human being, my own human organism that developed into who you're talking to right now.
- 10:14But my dad wrote this book because we had file cabinets and all of these papers everywhere of our trips to Washington and interviews we've done.
- 10:22And he just really wanted my story to be in one place.
- 10:26And he really wanted it to be in one place for me.
- 10:29And that just happened to be a book.
- 10:31And since he's a sports writer by trade, this was a little bit different for him, a different project.
- 10:37And he's very more, he's a written processor.
- 10:40He's not as much of a verbal processor as me and my mom.
- 10:43And so I think it was really cool to see his perspective be shown through writing this book.
- 10:49And him and I are actually working on part two, because a lot has happened in the past six years that we wanted to just kind of get down there too.
- 10:58Well, that's exciting.
- 10:59Thank you.
- 10:59I'm glad you guys are working on a follow-up.
- 11:01There's just some more, because it's kind of a developing story, but yet your story, it was unique, it was true, obviously the top line in that book, the unique true story that ignited a new pro-life movement.
- 11:16So let me ask you about this.
- 11:17I know this is kind of off track, just for a moment, but bear with me.
- 11:21I, and a lot of Bible-believing Christians—
- 11:24who stand on the biblical worldview when it comes to life, because we can't have liberty in the pursuit of happiness if we're not given the right to life.
- 11:33We've been very disappointed and sometimes frustrated by the pro-life movement or movements in the United States politically.
- 11:42And it's like this massive game of ping-pong since Roe v. Wade in 1973.
- 11:49A legislation gets passed.
- 11:51Then depending on who gets elected, it gets cut, you know, shot down.
- 11:54Then legislation is introduced.
- 11:55Then it gets, you know what I mean?
- 11:56It goes back and forth.
- 11:58This is really ridiculous on such an important and foundational topic of human life.
- 12:05So what are your thoughts on that?
- 12:07And you can say anything.
- 12:08No, nothing is off limits here on this podcast, except for profanity.
- 12:13That's not going to be an issue with you.
- 12:15So, yeah, we're very frustrated at the political ping pong on an issue that should have been decided and not even debated anymore.
- 12:22Go ahead.
- 12:24Yeah.
- 12:25Somebody described it to me in a really great way, I think.
- 12:28I think the pro-life community is how we look at Christian denominations.
- 12:34We all believe in God, and we all believe that Jesus died on the cross to save us from our sins.
- 12:38But we have the Lutherans, we have non-denominational, we have Baptists, we have all of these different churches, but we all believe...
- 12:46you know, foundationally the same thing.
- 12:48And so I feel like that's the same with the pro-life community, in my opinion.
- 12:52You know, we have the abolitionists or we have, you know, abortion up until a certain point, maybe where we have IVF is needs to be banned or we have surrogacy is OK, but it's actually not.
- 13:03And like people just go back and forth on these really big topics.
- 13:06And I don't think I really struggle to hear like one person that has all of the same
- 13:13viewpoints as you know, I do, and I'm not expecting everybody to.
- 13:17But we're, we're divided against ourselves as a community.
- 13:21And I don't feel like we can move forward to protect life, all human life, if we're constantly bickering back and forth about what's true and what's not.
- 13:30Um, and I think it really depends on where that, those people are coming from.
- 13:33If they've, you know, some people know people that have gone through IVF and they have these beautiful babies and they don't want to say like, oh my gosh, they should never been born or, um.
- 13:45Maybe they know somebody that has had an abortion and that's just been really hard for them to live with and move forward and pick a side.
- 13:52I think people just all have different backgrounds and that's important to recognize.
- 13:57But I say that I'm on the side of the child.
- 14:00I say that my opinion is the one that protects the child because I don't think that there's one viewpoint that does that.
- 14:08Well, on this show, I've had Katie Faust on and Josh Wood with the wonderful organization, Them Before Us, putting the rights of children before adult desires and what adults want.
- 14:20When you shared something at the very beginning of this conversation, Hannah, about this checklist of what people want, you know, in a baby and all these embryos, the hair, color, eye, whatever—
- 14:33My heart just kind of sank a little bit, but that's where we are as a society, thinking that we want to take on the role of God in a way.
- 14:41But talk to us.
- 14:42Let's go back and talk to us about the 19 embryos that did not survive of the 20 that your parents adopted.
- 14:53And what should our view be of those embryos that did not survive, the thawing or the process?
- 15:03My viewpoint is that we will get to meet them in heaven someday and that they're all children of God.
- 15:10And if you've ever seen the movie or read the book, Heaven is for Real, we talk about that in my dad's book, actually.
- 15:18We dedicated, I think, the book in part to those 19 siblings.
- 15:22But my parents and I named all of them and we prayerfully considered first names just because we feel like if you've ever seen Heaven is for Real,
- 15:30Colton has a out of body experience where he goes to heaven and he meets, um, a sibling that was miscarried or, um, passed away prematurely.
- 15:41And, um.
- 15:42he's telling his parents about this experience and they asked him what her name was.
- 15:47And he said, she didn't have a name because you never named her.
- 15:50And that really struck me as a young kid when that movie came out, because I was like, well, we have these 19 siblings and 19 children that don't have names.
- 16:00And so, you know, we prayerfully considered it and it was just a really great way to honor them and just humanize them a little bit.
- 16:07And I think that's what embryo adoption does.
- 16:10I think, you know, you can always go through an embryo donor program, but I think like if we're, if we're dealing with children, David, I think children need adoption.
- 16:19Children need a home where there's a social worker that's going to go vet the family, vet the house, vet everything.
- 16:26A donor program doesn't do that.
- 16:28Any one person can just walk into an IVF clinic and request an embryo.
- 16:34They're-
- 16:34That could be a registered sex offender and there is no protection for that child.
- 16:39That is scary.
- 16:40That's scary that we live in a world that that can happen and that these children are not protected.
- 16:46And that just terrifies me for what our future can bring if we're not on top of this as Christians.
- 16:52Yeah, it's not regulated like we would want it to be.
- 16:56And you're not exaggerating.
- 16:58I've seen headlines.
- 16:58I've seen stories of whether it's a gay couple or a single individual man, a registered sex offender, adopting a child through IVF or all these different things.
- 17:10You're going, wow, what have we come to and where is this going to go?
- 17:14So let's bring in something a little bit more.
- 17:18I don't know.
- 17:20It's very interesting.
- 17:21You met George W. Bush, and that was early on when you were very young.
- 17:26Do you remember that?
- 17:27Tell us about how that happened.
- 17:30Yeah, we got invited to the White House to stand behind President Bush for his first veto, and I think I was about six or seven years old, and I...
- 17:40Okay.
- 17:41At the age I couldn't have cared less, to be honest with you.
- 17:44I like really wanted to go to the pool and I like didn't realize how big of a deal that was.
- 17:49But, you know, like looking back, it was such a like surreal experience to get a picture with him and be there for that veto and have a president that was like, these embryos are not spare parts and we are not going to be.
- 18:01doing embryonic research on these children.
- 18:03And then to have us children there in the audience or behind him standing behind him, like these were children, these children were once frozen embryos and now they are here and they're standing beside me.
- 18:13Like that was such a powerful experience.
- 18:15And I knew that even then, but it was, it was, it was really cool.
- 18:19Um, but yeah, I was still pretty young, but I was also the oldest, um, cause I'm the oldest and first adopted frozen embryo.
- 18:26And so, um,
- 18:28I think the second and third snowflakes are a couple years behind me.
- 18:32Okay, I'm glad you said that because I wanted you to explain.
- 18:36In the last, I don't know, five, ten years or more, people have a different understanding and definition of the word snowflake.
- 18:43It's not a good thing like this.
- 18:45Anyway, so explain.
- 18:47That was an adoption program or that was a program for embryos.
- 18:50Tell us about that.
- 18:51So in other words, your dad's a snowflake named Hannah.
- 18:55That's not an insult on you.
- 18:56No.
- 18:57Explain snowflake, please.
- 19:00Sure.
- 19:01So the name Snowflake is a registered trademark name through Nightlight Christian Adoptions, which is the Snowflakes Embryo Adoption Program.
- 19:11And so children or embryos, children that are adopted through that program are called Snowflake Babies.
- 19:19And so they're all assigned a number so you can know how many snowflakes have been born with their program.
- 19:24But that, that name has also translated into something that of an insult, but also donor programs sometimes will use the term snowflake.
- 19:31And that's not really accurate because, you know, they weren't adopted through that program.
- 19:36It was still, their life was saved, but it's still a little bit different.
- 19:40But in my, in the book, my dad explains how that name came to be.
- 19:44And it was a line from the lambs players in I think Hotel Del Coronado, where one of the actors actresses said in the intricate design of each lake of snow, we find the creator reflecting our individual human hearts.
- 20:01And so when my parents and their friend who,
- 20:06Ron Stoddart, who was helping them start this program, heard that line at the show.
- 20:09They were like, we now have the name of our new program, the Snowflakes program, because it just seemed like a great fit.
- 20:17Awesome.
- 20:17I'm glad you explained that.
- 20:19I love that quote.
- 20:21And every snowflake is unique and different.
- 20:24It's individual.
- 20:25I love that.
- 20:26So I want to go back to something you sent me and quote you and let you expound on it a little bit.
- 20:33You say, I believe we need to separate the dignity of children conceived through IVF from the ethics of the technology that created them.
- 20:45Please share more about that, Hannah.
- 20:48Yeah, I mean, I think people get the wrong impression of me sometimes, like they'll comment on stuff I post and be like, so do you wish you were never alive?
- 20:58Or do you wish that like, your parents never adopted you?
- 21:02And it's like my biological family's decision and my adoptive parents decision to...
- 21:09Give me a chance at life is not a reflection on how I view my life.
- 21:13I view my life as a gift from God and I could not be any happier or prouder to have been given this chance.
- 21:19Like one out of 20 is like.
- 21:22confounding actually to actually know that God chose me out of those 20 to actually have a voice in this.
- 21:29Um, I'm incredibly grateful.
- 21:31That doesn't mean I'm not sad, but I don't like people using my story to fit their agenda because I'm always going to side on the embryos and frozen storage because there's nobody out there speaking for them.
- 21:44I don't know anybody out there that's speaking for them.
- 21:46I hear people speaking about, you know, they'll be like, well, what about the children internationally or in foster care?
- 21:52Like, don't you care about them?
- 21:53And it's like, yes, of course I care about them.
- 21:55I went and got a social work degree.
- 21:56Like that's my whole life.
- 21:58But also like, I need to be the voice for the voiceless right now and the people that can't actually speak for themselves.
- 22:04Um, and so I think it's really important that we see these embryos as human life, because if we don't, we're in a load of trouble.
- 22:13So let's get back to what you're doing.
- 22:15I mean, you do counseling.
- 22:19Where did I read that you're a licensed clinical social worker?
- 22:22And did we, yeah, we already gave your website.
- 22:25You're the founder of Wonderfully Made Adoption Services International.
- 22:29And that website will be ready within the next couple months.
- 22:32But talk about your, you know, being a licensed social worker and you do counseling as well.
- 22:37Share a little bit about that, too, because you're helping a lot of people, I believe.
- 22:41Yeah, thank you.
- 22:42I work full time as a therapist.
- 22:45And then I also opened a private practice for counseling as well.
- 22:50And then my nonprofit is kind of like my whole dream and reason why I became a social worker is because I really wanted a place where
- 22:58people could come to a website, people could contact me and have a place where if they needed adoption support, adoption counseling or consulting, policy analysis, or if they ever wanted my input on lawmaking or voices like that, they had a place where they could reach out to me and consult.
- 23:17But I really just wanted a place where like, you know, when you adopt from just any adoption program, they're really good at walking alongside you and holding your hand up until a certain point.
- 23:26But once that child is in your hand or that child comes into this world, you're kind of alone.
- 23:33And so I really wanted a place and I actually did my whole master's thesis on this actually.
- 23:38Or my capstone project of like, you know, adoption is not second best and we need the tools to actually support families who want to adopt instead of just being like, oh, here you go.
- 23:48Here's your child.
- 23:48Good luck.
- 23:49Because I think the more support we actually give families, the more they'll want to adopt and open their homes to any type of orphan.
- 23:57I think we have.
- 23:59We have an issue in our society where people are like, well, I want my child to look like me.
- 24:03I want my child to have my DNA and the whole IVF and reproductive technologies.
- 24:09And so I really want to start normalizing adoption.
- 24:11I want like more adoption propaganda.
- 24:13And that's where my nonprofits coming in.
- 24:16Um, so I'm really excited.
- 24:19Yes.
- 24:19Very important.
- 24:20Adoption.
- 24:21One of the things that pro-choice, quote unquote, people don't support adoption.
- 24:27They don't support abstinence, adoption, but they support abortion.
- 24:31So go figure that one out.
- 24:32Let's get back to the Imago Dei.
- 24:35Every human life born in the image of God, created, designed by God, a loving creator, uniquely and individually in his image.
- 24:46And let's talk about what you shared that you believe Christians need to think carefully and prayerfully about these practices like IVF and donor egg and sperm conception, surrogacy.
- 24:59We're seeing some nightmare stories, horror stories about,
- 25:02on some of these cases now.
- 25:04And I know they are the worst of the worst, but there's going to be more and more of it's going on just because of the evil in the human heart.
- 25:11But you say, I oppose creating more embryos than parents are willing to raise, intentionally freezing embryonic human beings, destroying embryos, and treating embryos as property or commodities.
- 25:28Now, I just see dollar signs.
- 25:30That this is, it's a business and it's kind of getting out of control, but let's bring it back to the biblical worldview and share more about your concerns in the Imago Dei, Hannah.
- 25:41Yeah, I mean, along those lines of what you just said, you know, I oppose surrogacy.
- 25:45I oppose ICSI.
- 25:49I oppose donor egg or donor sperm.
- 25:51Because again, we're seeing a lot of things in the media that, you know, children aren't knowing who they can date.
- 25:56If a sperm donor has fathered multiple children in the same area, you know.
- 26:02like these kids have to live with that.
- 26:04They have to go to high school with these kids.
- 26:06Like they might be in their same district.
- 26:08Like that's, that's concerning.
- 26:10Um, and it's all because a parent or an adult had this dream of having a child.
- 26:16You're allowed to have a dream of wanting a child, but that child has dreams and a whole life they have to live too.
- 26:23And so to put your concerns in front of theirs is not child centered.
- 26:27It's not Christ centered.
- 26:30And I think it's becoming a huge problem.
- 26:33Friends, this went by so fast.
- 26:35I can't believe it.
- 26:36I want to, I have another, you know, dozen questions I wanted to ask you.
- 26:39We may have to do a follow-up if you can, Hannah, sometime down the road.
- 26:42But I want to make sure people can go to Amazon, get the book, A Snowflake Named Hannah.
- 26:48Look for her Twitter or X account, just Hannah Stregge, S-T-R-E-G-E.
- 26:54Look her up.
- 26:54You can have conversations.
- 26:55You can contact her there.
- 26:58And just thank you because you emphasize what is in the best interest of the child and emphasizing we are human at fertilization, conception, you know, those two words, not at some other stage.
- 27:12So we've got to understand the ethics here are very important.
- 27:15hold to our biblical worldview and get this information out there.
- 27:18Thank you so much.
- 27:20God bless and protect you and continue the work that you're doing.
- 27:24We really appreciate your voice, Hannah.
- 27:26Thank you.
- 27:27Thank you.
- 27:29Very important subject, you guys.
- 27:31And we got to have a follow up with her.
- 27:33So much more to talk about.
- 27:34It's a very important subject and we got to get this out there.
- 27:39God bless you, friends.
- 27:40And as always, keep speaking the truth about things that matter.
- 27:44See you next time.