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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hello. After show podcast is on. First things first,
- 0:04Speaker 1: go to my Instagram at just to viz if you're
- 0:08Speaker 1: listening to this within twenty four hours of Tuesday, April seventh,
- 0:13Speaker 1: so ten am to ten am on Wednesday. Because my
- 0:16Speaker 1: stories only last one full day. I posted a video
- 0:20Speaker 1: of Billy's computer in his office that he has NonStop
- 0:24Speaker 1: problems with. I've never seen this before in my life.
- 0:27Speaker 1: You have to see it. It's completely complete mayhem on
- 0:31Speaker 1: the computer, not usable. So good thing. He's headed to
- 0:35Speaker 1: Paris today, so he'll be off Wednesday Thursday, Friday because
- 0:39Speaker 1: this looks bad. You can watch the video that I posted.
- 0:42Speaker 1: But his computer is blocked due to security reasons in
- 0:47Speaker 1: illegal activity, and there's all these pop ups everywhere and
- 0:50Speaker 1: in the background it's like a if you know what
- 0:54Speaker 1: DOS is, it's that I can't really explain it, but
- 0:57Speaker 1: if you're in a Windows computer you can do things
- 0:59Speaker 1: via the doss window. It's that black screen with the
- 1:03Speaker 1: very old school writing that's in the background, and it
- 1:06Speaker 1: looks like somebody's just typing ferociously. I've never seen this
- 1:08Speaker 1: before in my life, only Billy. Unbelievable. So we'll have
- 1:12Speaker 1: to get that fixed. Before he comes back on Monday,
- 1:15Speaker 1: and yes, Billy going to Paris with his wife for
- 1:20Speaker 1: her birthday. He'll be off the next few days. I
- 1:22Speaker 1: talked about this, I think last week or maybe earlier
- 1:24Speaker 1: this week. You know, Bill's gonna start to take a
- 1:26Speaker 1: little bit more time off. Not all the time, but
- 1:29Speaker 1: you know, he is off these three days. He's off
- 1:32Speaker 1: for a day in May, he's flying down to Florida,
- 1:35Speaker 1: and then I think he's going to the Azores in
- 1:38Speaker 1: the end of May maybe, so he'll be off for
- 1:40Speaker 1: a couple of days there, just here and there, kind
- 1:42Speaker 1: of just enjoying his life a little bit. I mean,
- 1:44Speaker 1: all the dude does is work. So we kind of
- 1:46Speaker 1: sat down and we're like, dude, take some time when
- 1:49Speaker 1: you want. Will be okay. We'll get some people to
- 1:51Speaker 1: sit in to guest host. Speaking of that after show, Army,
- 1:57Speaker 1: you guys always get the exclusives right here of what's
- 2:00Speaker 1: going on at Kiss one oh eight and the Billy
- 2:02Speaker 1: and Lisa show. So tomorrow and Thursday, Mikey V will
- 2:06Speaker 1: sit in the Billy chair. That's fun. Mikey's always great,
- 2:09Speaker 1: love Mikey. On Friday, we will have my dear friend
- 2:16Speaker 1: one of my best friends in the whole entire world
- 2:19Speaker 1: will be sitting in the Billy chair, and that is
- 2:22Speaker 1: Ashley Feldman from Jamming Down the Hall. She recently lost
- 2:27Speaker 1: her co host Santi left. He had a side business.
- 2:30Speaker 1: I had him on, we talked about it. He has
- 2:31Speaker 1: a business that he's been working on and his attention
- 2:34Speaker 1: needed to be on the business, so he left to
- 2:37Speaker 1: do that, leaving her all alone. So she's been doing
- 2:39Speaker 1: the show alone. So we're inviting her down on Friday.
- 2:44Speaker 1: She'll pre tape some stuff, she'll do some new stuff
- 2:46Speaker 1: on Friday on her show or whatever, but she will
- 2:48Speaker 1: be live on the Billy and Lisa Show, co hosting
- 2:52Speaker 1: with Lisa and myself on Friday. So that should be good.
- 2:55Speaker 1: You can send your questions and comments in on the talkbacks.
- 2:59Speaker 1: That should be resting. I was explaining to her, I'm like, look,
- 3:04Speaker 1: you have your own show. I mean, you're Ashley, I mean,
- 3:08Speaker 1: you know nothing bigger than that, one of the first
- 3:10Speaker 1: females in the country to have her own morning show.
- 3:14Speaker 1: But remember jam and Kiss a little bit different. So
- 3:18Speaker 1: you know, some of the topics you may talk about
- 3:20Speaker 1: on Jamin may not fly on Kiss because you know,
- 3:24Speaker 1: kids in the car, so you know, you might have
- 3:26Speaker 1: to clean it up a little bit, not a ton,
- 3:28Speaker 1: but just a little bit. But she'll be fine. She's
- 3:30Speaker 1: a trained pro, so that'll be fun. That is happening
- 3:32Speaker 1: on Friday. I think you guys are the first to
- 3:35Speaker 1: know that nobody knows that we've been teasing mystery guest
- 3:38Speaker 1: hosts on the show this morning. So that's that all right,
- 3:42Speaker 1: let's get some talkbacks here, see what the people have
- 3:45Speaker 1: to say to me.
- 3:46Speaker 2: To Justinish from Amherst, and I have a recommendation that
- 3:52Speaker 2: you look into this getting your kindle with the Amazon
- 3:59Speaker 2: Kindle app and you can do kindle on winded it,
- 4:03Speaker 2: which is books that they have every month that are
- 4:06Speaker 2: free and you can read them for free.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Okay, that's very cool, very cool. Yeah, I shared about
- 4:12Speaker 1: possibly getting a kindle because I've been reading books like crazy.
- 4:15Speaker 1: Every couple of days, I'm finishing a book, so obviously
- 4:19Speaker 1: that gets expensive. I'm probably gonna get a library card.
- 4:22Speaker 1: That would make more sense to go to the library
- 4:24Speaker 1: and check out a few books. But I also am
- 4:26Speaker 1: debating a kindle. But like screen, you know, I'm trying
- 4:30Speaker 1: to get away from the screens. But a lot of
- 4:31Speaker 1: people did DM me about that, saying it's really not
- 4:33Speaker 1: the same. So that is an option that does make
- 4:36Speaker 1: sense a kindle because I could do a subscription thing
- 4:40Speaker 1: or read the free ones. So thank you. I do
- 4:42Speaker 1: agree with that. I'm one hundred pages in into Project
- 4:45Speaker 1: tail Mary, and I love it, love it, love it,
- 4:48Speaker 1: love it. I'm into space, not a ton and I
- 4:52Speaker 1: was nervous about reading the book that it would be
- 4:53Speaker 1: too scientific in the terms, like I wouldn't get and
- 4:57Speaker 1: there was a little bit of that. Obviously it's about
- 5:00Speaker 1: space travel. But I can understand it, and I get
- 5:02Speaker 1: it fully and I cannot wait to see the movie.
- 5:05Speaker 1: It's a really really good book, really good book.
- 5:08Speaker 3: So justin this is the second time I've sent this
- 5:10Speaker 3: in and.
- 5:10Speaker 1: You have not Okay, there's no reason to yell at me. Okay,
- 5:14Speaker 1: there's no reason I'm here. I'm cool as a cucumber,
- 5:17Speaker 1: all right.
- 5:18Speaker 2: I addressed it.
- 5:18Speaker 3: So now I'm convinced that you hate CrossFit and all
- 5:22Speaker 3: people that do CrossFit. But basically I asked, how come
- 5:25Speaker 3: you don't talk about that. You talk about every other
- 5:27Speaker 3: plane of fitness, and I'm just interested in your thoughts
- 5:31Speaker 3: and cross it because I feel like based on what
- 5:32Speaker 3: you've said, you would be pretty decent at it, so
- 5:37Speaker 3: just find your thoughts.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Thanks.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Maybe it's because the CrossFit people are so angry and
- 5:41Speaker 1: yell like that. I'm just kidding. I love CrossFit. I've
- 5:46Speaker 1: done it once or twice and I have nothing against it.
- 5:49Speaker 1: It's I love all fitness. I'm sorry I missed your
- 5:52Speaker 1: first talk back. I think I got it, but I
- 5:54Speaker 1: just never got around to playing it. So I've always
- 5:58Speaker 1: been into weight lifting and cardio, right, I started with cardio,
- 6:02Speaker 1: got into weightlifting, and I had been weightlifting for the
- 6:05Speaker 1: past you know, ten twelve years. You know, your typical
- 6:08Speaker 1: bodybuilding bro split right, you know, arms one day, chest
- 6:12Speaker 1: the other day, or chest in, triceps, push pull, legs,
- 6:16Speaker 1: that kind of thing, and which is great, and I've
- 6:20Speaker 1: built some good muscle with that. But in the last
- 6:23Speaker 1: couple of years, what's happened is, you know, I trained
- 6:27Speaker 1: pretty hard and I know a lot of people say that,
- 6:29Speaker 1: but I do. You know, my best friend Zeb, my
- 6:31Speaker 1: workout partner for years, can attest to that, like we
- 6:34Speaker 1: push ourselves because well, I'm an addict and I push
- 6:37Speaker 1: myself in anything. I go to the extremes, which is great.
- 6:40Speaker 1: You know, that's what you're supposed to do. You're supposed
- 6:42Speaker 1: to push and challenge yourself. I believe every single day
- 6:45Speaker 1: you should do something hard because if you do something
- 6:48Speaker 1: hard to yourself, it makes dealing with hard things that
- 6:52Speaker 1: pop up in life that much easier. That has been
- 6:55Speaker 1: said many times. I agree with it. That is not
- 6:57Speaker 1: me coming up with that. That's a regurgit of something
- 7:01Speaker 1: someone else said. Right, but hard things are important in life.
- 7:04Speaker 1: If you never do anything hard, how do you expect
- 7:06Speaker 1: to deal with stresses and situations that come up in life.
- 7:10Speaker 1: That's what I believe. Now. Pushing myself hard in the
- 7:13Speaker 1: gym is great until you get injured. So I started
- 7:17Speaker 1: dealing with a lot of injuries, tendinitis, my shoulders banged up,
- 7:20Speaker 1: my knee hurts, my hip hurts, all my joints. Now,
- 7:23Speaker 1: mind you, as far as genetics, right, my family, my
- 7:27Speaker 1: mom's side of the family, and I believe I got
- 7:29Speaker 1: more of her genetics as opposed to my dad. I
- 7:31Speaker 1: look like my mom, you know, luckily, not a ton
- 7:35Speaker 1: of things like cancer and heart attacks and strokes, but
- 7:39Speaker 1: bad joints. All my uncles replacements, shoulder, knee, lower back,
- 7:45Speaker 1: and that's all stuff that I deal with. So you know,
- 7:47Speaker 1: I got to a point where I would just work
- 7:50Speaker 1: out injured constantly. And you know, as I'm getting older,
- 7:54Speaker 1: I want to always weight lift, but I feel like,
- 7:57Speaker 1: you know, improving things like my cardiovascular health, improving my
- 8:00Speaker 1: vo too, Max, those are important things to me. So
- 8:04Speaker 1: I started to move into more of CrossFit style training.
- 8:08Speaker 1: And what happened was I joined Drive Custom Fit and
- 8:11Speaker 1: Sale in New Hampshire. I was kind of at a crossroads.
- 8:14Speaker 1: I was going to a couple of gyms. I was weightlifting,
- 8:16Speaker 1: but I was not failing good because my body hurt, right,
- 8:20Speaker 1: and so I'd heard of high Rocks, but I never
- 8:22Speaker 1: had done it. And then my friend invited me to
- 8:25Speaker 1: Drive Custom Fit to try a class. I was anti
- 8:27Speaker 1: class that was for chicks, you know, mister ego over here,
- 8:30Speaker 1: But I tried it and I fell in love with it. Right,
- 8:32Speaker 1: So I started doing circuit training at Drive and then
- 8:36Speaker 1: they also have high Rocks training, and so I started
- 8:38Speaker 1: doing that exclusively and I fell in love. So I guess,
- 8:42Speaker 1: to answer your question, if the stars aligned and I
- 8:46Speaker 1: ended up meeting somebody that invited me to a CrossFit gym,
- 8:49Speaker 1: I probably would have gotten into CrossFit because although I
- 8:52Speaker 1: do think CrossFit is kind of it's similar to High Rocks,
- 8:56Speaker 1: but it is a little bit more intense. I feel
- 8:58Speaker 1: like maybe with the weight, you know, things like dead lips,
- 9:01Speaker 1: but I would do it, and so it could have
- 9:03Speaker 1: went either way. And I fell in love with High Rocks.
- 9:05Speaker 1: I fell in love with circuit training. So that's where
- 9:07Speaker 1: I'm at now. I'm signed up to do High Rocks
- 9:09Speaker 1: New York coming up in May. So yeah, there's nothing
- 9:13Speaker 1: against CrossFit. I love all forms of fitness, and a
- 9:15Speaker 1: lot of the training that I do is very CrossFit like,
- 9:20Speaker 1: so that you know. And I've done CrossFit classes with
- 9:22Speaker 1: Santy years ago. Santy and when I worked with Romero,
- 9:26Speaker 1: they were really into CrossFit and I had done a
- 9:28Speaker 1: couple of classes, but they were very hard. I wasn't
- 9:30Speaker 1: nearly in the shape that I am in now. So
- 9:33Speaker 1: shout out to you and what you do. Yeah, Drive
- 9:37Speaker 1: custom Fit. I love my gym so much. I actually
- 9:40Speaker 1: did an interview with Billy with the one of the
- 9:43Speaker 1: owners of Drive custom Fit for Billy's food television show,
- 9:46Speaker 1: I mean food show Food for Thought, which airs on WBZ.
- 9:49Speaker 1: If you go to Drive custom Fits Instagram, the links
- 9:52Speaker 1: in the bio. It's myself, it's Billy, and it's Jake,
- 9:55Speaker 1: one of the owners of Drive. So we had a
- 9:57Speaker 1: nice conversation about what they do, how I got into it.
- 10:00Speaker 1: So if you want to check that out, check it out.
- 10:03Speaker 4: Justin I was looking for a little bit of advice
- 10:04Speaker 4: from you. You saying you and your wife don't drink.
- 10:07Speaker 4: A few minutes ago, I remember to ask you a question.
- 10:10Speaker 4: I recently decided to cut back. I'm drinking a little bit,
- 10:13Speaker 4: just to trying to do really good in the gym
- 10:15Speaker 4: and cut back on calories and all that things. But
- 10:17Speaker 4: I was wondering, how do you find fun in the
- 10:19Speaker 4: moments being surrounded by your friends drinking when you're out,
- 10:22Speaker 4: And I'm just trying to kind of navigate that part
- 10:24Speaker 4: right now as I'm cutting back and still being able
- 10:26Speaker 4: to have fun with my friends.
- 10:28Speaker 1: Yeah, good for you. Good for you cutting back. That's great.
- 10:30Speaker 1: You might find that you like it better than drinking,
- 10:33Speaker 1: and you might give up drinking altogether. That could happen.
- 10:36Speaker 1: That happens for people during dry January. They start with
- 10:40Speaker 1: a month and they feel so good that they keep going. Yeah.
- 10:43Speaker 1: That talkback came in during the show She mentioned that
- 10:45Speaker 1: I had mentioned a couple of minutes ago that was
- 10:47Speaker 1: this morning on the show, but I pulled it to
- 10:49Speaker 1: kind of go deeper into it on the after show podcast.
- 10:53Speaker 1: That made more sense. Yes, getting clean, getting sober. The
- 10:58Speaker 1: number one of the one of the top thoughts you
- 11:01Speaker 1: have is how am I gonna have fun? Because you're
- 11:04Speaker 1: so used to partying, drinking, drugs, but especially the drinking.
- 11:10Speaker 1: For a lot of people in society, it's a normal part.
- 11:14Speaker 1: Everybody drinks. That's what you do for fun. You go
- 11:17Speaker 1: out and drink. But I will say it'll be hard.
- 11:21Speaker 1: In the beginning, it'll feel weird, it'll feel different, But
- 11:25Speaker 1: I honestly believe that how it will make you feel
- 11:28Speaker 1: not drinking will be better than the awkward feeling of
- 11:33Speaker 1: not drinking, if that makes sense. So in the beginning
- 11:36Speaker 1: it'll feel weird, like how do you have fun? You
- 11:38Speaker 1: just go and you have fun, You conversate, you talk
- 11:42Speaker 1: to your friends, and yeah, it'll be weird at first,
- 11:45Speaker 1: but eventually it'll become normal. And I'm telling you, eventually
- 11:48Speaker 1: there's a chance you will feel so good not drinking, right,
- 11:52Speaker 1: like going out and having some laughs with your friends
- 11:55Speaker 1: and not having a hangover and not getting sick and
- 11:59Speaker 1: not spending as much money, and you feel good physically,
- 12:02Speaker 1: you feel good mentally, that it'll just become normal. I mean,
- 12:05Speaker 1: that could happen. Listen. Drinking is such an integral part
- 12:11Speaker 1: of society's that's what people do. But I have the
- 12:14Speaker 1: best time, and I remember, you know, and you know,
- 12:17Speaker 1: I play the game of you know, watching people drink,
- 12:19Speaker 1: hanging out with them and then watching them get you know,
- 12:22Speaker 1: a buzz and then drunk, and then you watch kind
- 12:25Speaker 1: of the progression of what the alcohol does to them.
- 12:28Speaker 1: And you know, it's kind of interesting to watch. But
- 12:32Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with drinking in moderation. That's what I believe.
- 12:35Speaker 1: If you don't have an issue with it, and you
- 12:37Speaker 1: can drink, you know, like Billy Elisa are a great example.
- 12:40Speaker 1: They can have a half a drink, they can have
- 12:42Speaker 1: one drink, maybe two drinks, but they know their limit.
- 12:45Speaker 1: They don't drink so they get drunk to get drunk.
- 12:48Speaker 1: They never get drunk, and they just do it to
- 12:50Speaker 1: kind of socialize. And that's just fine. But it can
- 12:54Speaker 1: easily overtake you, right, It can easily become you know,
- 12:59Speaker 1: a staple in your social life where you feel like
- 13:02Speaker 1: you have to drink. You go out with people you
- 13:04Speaker 1: have to, you know, get a buzz on, have at
- 13:07Speaker 1: least one drink. So you know, my friend Zeb, who
- 13:11Speaker 1: I've had in this podcast, he is not an addict
- 13:13Speaker 1: or an alcoholic, but you know, he used to go
- 13:17Speaker 1: out on the weekends with people that drink. We talked
- 13:19Speaker 1: about this on the podcast, and he didn't drink, and
- 13:22Speaker 1: he would It would be super weird and uncomfortable for him,
- 13:24Speaker 1: but he would go and he would have a I
- 13:26Speaker 1: think you'd have like a ginger ale, and it was fine.
- 13:29Speaker 1: But after a while it was like he was the
- 13:30Speaker 1: only one that didn't drink, and so he kept going
- 13:33Speaker 1: out because that's what you do, that's what people his
- 13:36Speaker 1: age did. They went out to the club or the bar.
- 13:38Speaker 1: So he would be there with his ginger ale and
- 13:41Speaker 1: it was fine. But then he met myself and all
- 13:44Speaker 1: of my friends who all are in recovery and don't drink,
- 13:47Speaker 1: and we have a blast. And that was such an
- 13:50Speaker 1: eye opening moment for Zeb when he started coming out
- 13:52Speaker 1: with us and not first of all, we didn't drink,
- 13:55Speaker 1: which he found amazing. He learned about our stories, which
- 13:57Speaker 1: he found amazing, but then he he just realized that
- 14:02Speaker 1: there were people out there that didn't drink and still
- 14:04Speaker 1: had fun. So he felt free and he felt like
- 14:07Speaker 1: a weight had been lifted off of his shoulder, that
- 14:10Speaker 1: he could go out with people, not feel pressure to drink,
- 14:13Speaker 1: not be feel awkward when people get drunk or buzzed
- 14:15Speaker 1: around him. And he loved it, man, and it was great.
- 14:18Speaker 1: It was like a news start to a new life
- 14:23Speaker 1: for zeb if you will, so congratulations to you. Yeah,
- 14:27Speaker 1: give it a shot. Listen, I'm not anti anything. I
- 14:30Speaker 1: think that people should do what they want to do
- 14:33Speaker 1: until it becomes a problem. If it's becoming a problem
- 14:36Speaker 1: in disrupting your life, then that's something that you have
- 14:39Speaker 1: to look at and you have to address. But there
- 14:41Speaker 1: are plenty of people that live their life. They have
- 14:44Speaker 1: some drinks, it's fine. Maybe they even smoke weed, or
- 14:47Speaker 1: maybe they even do drugs here or there. I listen
- 14:49Speaker 1: to each his own. All I know is what doesn't
- 14:51Speaker 1: work for me and what does work for me? And
- 14:54Speaker 1: for me justin personally, I can't do anything. I can't
- 14:58Speaker 1: you know, I can't drink, can't do drugs because I
- 15:01Speaker 1: have a little monkey, you know that lives them on
- 15:04Speaker 1: my back and if he's you know, he's asleep, but
- 15:08Speaker 1: he can wake up, and when he wakes up, he
- 15:09Speaker 1: becomes a gorilla and he takes over my life, you know.
- 15:13Speaker 1: So yeah, tomorrow morning, I mean tomorrow alime. Yeah, tomorrow morning,
- 15:16Speaker 1: tomorrow on the After Show, which will be morning. My
- 15:18Speaker 1: wife will be here tomorrow, Wednesday, April eighth. My wife
- 15:22Speaker 1: is coming in. Get your questions in. I already have
- 15:25Speaker 1: some for her that have come in from our listeners.
- 15:27Speaker 1: But if you have any questions for her about anything, really,
- 15:31Speaker 1: you can ask her a question about me, about our marriage,
- 15:34Speaker 1: about recovery, about being a mom, about her chickens, about nanny.
- 15:41Speaker 1: Any questions that you have for Jen, you can ask them.
- 15:44Speaker 1: I have one right here, I'll play. This is a
- 15:46Speaker 1: good example of something that you can ask and I
- 15:48Speaker 1: will be playing for her tomorrow.
- 15:50Speaker 5: Hi, this message is for Jen as someone who is
- 15:54Speaker 5: recently sober. I'm very curious myself on nursing school. I
- 15:59Speaker 5: just had questions on how did you start, where did
- 16:02Speaker 5: you go? How did you begin? Just I still feel
- 16:07Speaker 5: kind of lost in my life, and I'm not really
- 16:09Speaker 5: sure of what loves I should take right now. I'd
- 16:13Speaker 5: love to know more about nurses school. Thank you.
- 16:16Speaker 1: I love, love, love that question and she will answer
- 16:19Speaker 1: it tomorrow. She is an RN, she's a registered nurse,
- 16:22Speaker 1: talked about it many times. She had an eighth grade education,
- 16:26Speaker 1: she got her ged I think in a halfway house
- 16:29Speaker 1: or maybe even jail, but she went back to school
- 16:31Speaker 1: became a nurse. It's one of the coolest things ever.
- 16:34Speaker 1: So she could talk about that. She could talk about
- 16:35Speaker 1: nursing school and what that was like. You know with
- 16:38Speaker 1: my son. My son was just born, our marriage, the
- 16:42Speaker 1: effect that had our marriage, and you know what she
- 16:44Speaker 1: does now as an r N and she's back in
- 16:46Speaker 1: school to be an NP. Yeah, she's going to be
- 16:49Speaker 1: an NP. She'll be able to write prescriptions. She's going
- 16:52Speaker 1: to be a psych p because her passion is you know, addiction,
- 16:57Speaker 1: mental health and really help the less fortunate. You know,
- 17:01Speaker 1: she has this really soft spot for helping people that
- 17:07Speaker 1: are really down in life, you know, homeless people. You know,
- 17:11Speaker 1: during COVID she worked with the homeless and people that
- 17:15Speaker 1: were affected by COVID. So she can talk about all
- 17:17Speaker 1: that tomorrow. But that's a great example of a question
- 17:19Speaker 1: that you can ask her. So we'll have fun. She's
- 17:22Speaker 1: gonna be live in the studio, my beautiful wife. I
- 17:24Speaker 1: cannot wait to make sure you're here to listen, and
- 17:27Speaker 1: thank you as always for listening. The Army, my people.
- 17:30Speaker 1: I love you and have a great day. It's snowed
- 17:33Speaker 1: this morning, but it's not snowing anymore. So God, when
- 17:36Speaker 1: is spring coming? I don't know. Talk tomorrow, guys. Bye,