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- Najah: Ladies, why do y'all go through y'all man's phone and then start calling other women? Why are you coming at the other woman? Why? The person who gave that woman access was your man. Go deal with yo man. I don't care how she finangled em enticed em or whatever else you wanna say. He allowed the access. Your issue should be with the person who made a commitment to you. Calling another woman for you to not go anywhere, it's embarrassing. And what you think that woman gonna do when you call her talking crazy? homegirl may be getting lied to too. And if she knows about you and messes with that man anyway, that's even more reason not to call And I hope you could fight, cause that one, that one gon be reckless. And now you done gave her the opportunity to drag you. While your man sits comfortably in the middle of the mess he created. Listen, you gon have to tighten up. Ladies, you need to talk to your man about your man. You can't be calling everybody else about his choices. Don't call his mama neither. Me personally. You ain't gotta worry about me checking no phones or keeping no tabs on no grown man. And if being with somebody means I gotta spend my time trying to control them, baby, you got it. You don't control nobody... because you can't control nobody. People are gonna do what they wanna do. the only thing I can control is whether I wanna stay around for it or not. So stop trying to control their choices and exercise yours. Is you staying or leaving? If you stayin', stay out that man phone. And if you callin somebody Call yo mama and nem and ask em to help you come pack yo things. Call a Uber. Call a U-Haul. Them the only calls you need to be making. Stay out that man phone. Don't call that other woman.