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The Judgment Olympics with Good Mom Bad Choices · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.
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  Speaker 3: Hey y'all, at your girl a j holiday? What's up,
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  Speaker 3: Tam Bam?
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  Speaker 2: Hey aj I love y'all so much. How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 3: My weekend was very uneventful.
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  Speaker 1: It's been getting cold outside and that's it. There's really
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  Speaker 1: nothing much going on in South Carolina right now. I'm Hiberneaton.
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  Speaker 2: So you didn't have bay.
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  Speaker 3: Me about that nigga.
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  Speaker 4: Listen.
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  Speaker 2: You tell me every week, so I was just wondering
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  Speaker 2: you asked me.
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  Speaker 1: I don't be mentioning him because you ask me, and
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  Speaker 1: sometimes I be having to explained some ship that I.
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  Speaker 3: Said on this this damn podcast.
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  Speaker 2: He listens to listen, so he listens every week. I'm
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  Speaker 2: make sure my niggas don't listen.
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  Speaker 3: Every week.
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  Speaker 1: He'd be knowing what we're talking about. Like last week
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  Speaker 1: he was like, so you want a marathon? But yes,
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  Speaker 1: actually I do, so was it talking about you?
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  Speaker 2: So he's gonna have two shows to listen to this week,
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  Speaker 2: ours and our guests. So y'all, we got some amazing guests.
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  Speaker 2: On their cousins to the podcast. They're like our Sisters
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  Speaker 2: show on the network because it's female led Mela and
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  Speaker 2: Erica from Good Mom's Bad Choices. It's our guests on
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  Speaker 2: the show this week. Welcome lady Ah here, y'all, Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: eighty hey. So we just got on with them yesterday
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  Speaker 2: and we had a really good time talking with them,
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  Speaker 2: and now we had to bring them over here with
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  Speaker 2: our of you listeners. So maybe y'all can jump on
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  Speaker 2: and listen to their show if you already aren't. They
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  Speaker 2: probably already tuning in. So I don't know where I
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  Speaker 2: was about to go with it.
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  Speaker 3: You high her?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's talk about y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Weekend LA is pretty uneventful. I feel like it's gotten
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  Speaker 4: very dry since twenty twenty. So I was in I
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  Speaker 4: was in New York, and then I went to Miami
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  Speaker 4: because I was avoiding coming home because why come home
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  Speaker 4: when I could go to Miami. And actually I had
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  Speaker 4: a pretty eventful week in New York. I danced with
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  Speaker 4: Sierra at the Soho House.
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  Speaker 2: I saw that.
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  Speaker 4: It's pretty epic. It wasn't planned. I don't know her
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  Speaker 4: at all. People think I'm really cool now like, oh
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  Speaker 4: my god, you guys blew up. I'm like yeah, me
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  Speaker 4: and Sis. And then I went to Miami and I
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  Speaker 4: wandered into a drag brunch by myself, made seven friends,
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  Speaker 4: and joined the dance contest even though they said locals only.
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  Speaker 4: I was like locals or locals and what I've joined? Anyway.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't win, though, which was a tragedy. But other
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  Speaker 4: than that, and today I went and tried on wedding dresses.
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  Speaker 4: So I've had an eventful week.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you had a very eventful week. What about you, Erica?
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  Speaker 5: Excuse me? I was also in New York with Mila
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  Speaker 5: and witnessed her dance with Sierra. If you have a second,
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  Speaker 5: go on our page good Mom's bad Choices and go
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  Speaker 5: see the knees, because mila'sknees are well oiled.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, period?
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  Speaker 5: And what else did I do? I came back. I
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  Speaker 5: had to jump straight back into motherhood. So my daughter
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  Speaker 5: had cheerleading. I fucked up, and I got to the
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  Speaker 5: damn homecoming. We got her to the homecoming game late,
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  Speaker 5: she missed the whole performance. Bad choice mom, good whatever
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  Speaker 5: the fuck? So that was annoying. Other than I've just
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  Speaker 5: been chilling girl, I've just been relaxing, decompressing. I love
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  Speaker 5: New York, but every time I come back, I'm a
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  Speaker 5: little bit like I just feel like energetically, like it
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  Speaker 5: just pulls me a lot. Even this trip, I was
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  Speaker 5: actually really well behaved. Like normally when I'm in New York,
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  Speaker 5: I'm like outside, and this trip I was. This is
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  Speaker 5: the calmest I've ever been in New York City in
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  Speaker 5: my whole fucking life. But I still came back and
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  Speaker 5: needed like two days of recovery. So I've just been chilling. Today.
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  Speaker 5: It's raining in la and I love it. I love
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  Speaker 5: a good rain. It feels cleansing. And now I'm on
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  Speaker 5: here with you ladies.
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  Speaker 1: Don't I always say that about New York, Like it's
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  Speaker 1: like a it's They're definitely like harvesting our energy. Between
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta and New York, I'm always feeling like drained.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you always said that you hate your own good.
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  Speaker 2: So okay, let me tell you about my weekend. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't tell y'all. So my mom just purchased a new house,
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  Speaker 2: so I was out helping her. I'm know, I'm so
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  Speaker 2: happy for her. Out by a new furniture for her
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  Speaker 2: house and I'm just so as you know, y'all may
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  Speaker 2: not know. I've been like a gypsy for the past year.
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  Speaker 2: So I came out to La. I was there for
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  Speaker 2: like forty five days, and I broke my foot. So
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  Speaker 2: then I left LA. And then you broke your foot
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  Speaker 2: in La, I know. I came back home for a
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  Speaker 2: wedding and I jumped a catch the bouquet broke my
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  Speaker 2: foot on the landing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah's gonna plush you, no, so, oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: So my stuff is still in La in a storage
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  Speaker 2: unit right now. So I haven't been back. It's been almostly.
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  Speaker 2: It's been a year. So I'm going back out. I'll
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  Speaker 2: be back out there soon. When we have to hang out.
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  Speaker 4: Here for that forty five day I would do here. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I decided to because you broke your foot.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and I just didn't want to be out there
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  Speaker 2: or without a village with a broken foot, can't drive,
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  Speaker 2: you know, all those things. So then I came back
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  Speaker 2: to South Carolina to my mom's house and to heal.
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  Speaker 2: And then in February, I got an apartment in New York,
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  Speaker 2: but I was subletting that it wasn't like my own space,
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  Speaker 2: and it was furnished. So my ship was in the
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  Speaker 2: storage unit in Charlotte, some of my stuff was in
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  Speaker 2: this unit in LA and then the stuff I brought
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  Speaker 2: with me to New York. Right, so like I'm scattered,
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  Speaker 2: and then there's ship in South Carolina. So now yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like just very scattered. So now my mom is like moving,
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  Speaker 2: So now I would either need to move my shit
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  Speaker 2: in her house to her new house or just get
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  Speaker 2: my own place. So I've been apart apartment shopping. Finally,
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  Speaker 2: after a year of living out of a suitcase and boxes,
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  Speaker 2: I'm finally about to be back in an apartment of
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  Speaker 2: my own, back in Charlotte, the place I did not
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  Speaker 2: necessarily want to be, but here we are. So that's
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  Speaker 2: what I was doing looking at apartments. It's fun. I
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  Speaker 2: found it really Like I think right now is a
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  Speaker 2: good time to be like apartment hunting because it's cheap.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, well, I won't say cheap, because.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, can you share for the West Coast people listening,
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  Speaker 4: can you please tell me its jealous and mad?
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  Speaker 2: This q ass apartment y'all and south in Charlotte. So
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  Speaker 2: it's right outside of downtown and it's a six floor unit.
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  Speaker 2: It's nine hundred, nine hundred ninety square feet or something
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  Speaker 2: like that, and it's only eighteen sixty. Well so it's
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  Speaker 2: it's two thousand and ninety, right, but with a month free.
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  Speaker 2: So I just take down them off the entire lease
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  Speaker 2: and it came out to eighteen sixty a month. And
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  Speaker 2: it's so cute, like I mean, it's got like the
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  Speaker 2: nice finishes, like all those all the bells and whistles.
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  Speaker 2: Wash your dryer, definitely wash your and dryer, yeah, absolutely.
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  Speaker 4: I mean you don't get you got to be a
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  Speaker 4: millionaire to have a washer and dryer in la Okay,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not joking.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta use water like that, right, I mean fact
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  Speaker 5: I wish that. That sounds like a that's a great price.
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  Speaker 2: Eighteen hundred sixty y'all take. And so this building it
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  Speaker 2: was meant to be condos, right, so it's only four
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  Speaker 2: units on each floor.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah nice?
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  Speaker 2: And yeah it is just so I came went to
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  Speaker 2: movie in Girl. Now the only thing I did not
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  Speaker 2: I don't have is a balcony. So I hate that
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  Speaker 2: because you know I'll be smoking.
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  Speaker 4: But we just go four people on your floor. They
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  Speaker 4: were like, go to fuck with you?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe they leave the Yeah, because it's like corner. I'm
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  Speaker 2: on the corner there on the corner, Like so I'm
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  Speaker 2: just off by myself, but I'm excited for it.
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  Speaker 3: They guys, air purified, you'd be all right, yeah yeah, So.
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  Speaker 5: Wait, so why did New York work out?
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  Speaker 4: And why aren't you going back to La?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? So La did not work because I just didn't
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  Speaker 2: feel connected there, but I didn't give it a chance
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  Speaker 2: for real. I was only there a short moment.
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  Speaker 4: I remember Orlando telling me like, TAM's moving and then
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  Speaker 4: I was like, what happened to Tam. He's like she
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  Speaker 4: broke her foot and how he was like she was
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  Speaker 4: trying to catch the bouquet. I was like, wow, she
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  Speaker 4: really wanted that bouquet. And then I just never heard
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  Speaker 4: about it again, but he said that it reminded me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just hugely competitive, especially when I'm drunk. So
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  Speaker 2: I was like, not.
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  Speaker 5: Somebody else's wad and you broke you broke your foot,
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  Speaker 5: and now all the attentions on you, bitch.
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  Speaker 4: And it reeled out and to carry you outs or no.
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  Speaker 2: I was drunk, you know, so I just kind of
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  Speaker 2: hobbled out. I was like, it's fine, it's just frain.
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  Speaker 2: But then the next day that's when I realized, like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my shit is broken. My foot was you know,
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  Speaker 2: big and the pain. But so La. The first day
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  Speaker 2: I was there, it was an earthquake. I was like like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if.
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  Speaker 1: I only were recording virtual and then sh it just
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  Speaker 1: start shaking.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, this place really be shaking
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  Speaker 2: like this. I was like, I don't know, Like so
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  Speaker 2: that just kind of, you know, was kind of off putting.
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  Speaker 2: I was like an Elliott fall because it was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you thought Elliott had fell down, like it was a earthquake.
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  Speaker 2: So I didn't give La A tried. Then New York.
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  Speaker 2: I like New York, but New York is so like
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  Speaker 2: the transportation was just so expensive. I don't I cannot
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  Speaker 2: ride the train. I tried. I can't do it. You
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: watch these movies like sex TV shows like Sex and
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  Speaker 2: the City. They're on the train, and shit, nobody really
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  Speaker 2: rides that motherfucker for real, Like.
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  Speaker 4: My say, dear girl, everybody be on there.
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  Speaker 2: No girl, I got on that train. I was like
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna because I was taking acting classes right, so
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna take the train to class
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  Speaker 2: the day before, just so I can make sure I
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  Speaker 2: get there on time. And I got on the train
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: and I don't know if this guy could sense like
• 10:27
  Speaker 2: I was, you know something, but he came over me.
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: He was like, I can balance your chakras right, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: for a dollar not in nodssense. He was standing over me, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: I was so scared.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, please.
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  Speaker 4: Chakras for a dollar ninety nine, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: A dollar ninety nine. And he was standing over me
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  Speaker 2: with his hands like this girl. And I was like
• 10:47
  Speaker 2: ah like and I was like, I'm never getting on
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  Speaker 2: this motherfucker again. I took my classes and I love
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: it and I'm still in school, but I'm just virtual now.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't like the noise pollution either. It's just
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  Speaker 2: too much. The train, Like I could literally hear the
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  Speaker 2: train like it felt like it was running through my bedroom.
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  Speaker 2: I could hear the motherfucker like next to Philadelphic because
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  Speaker 2: of me. I could hear that shit from my bed,
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  Speaker 2: Like I was, I can't.
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  Speaker 4: Do this, So you traumatized the South?
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  Speaker 2: It is for me. It's warm, it's beautiful, the people
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  Speaker 2: are nice, the streets are clean. Yeah.
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: New York is mad Max I'm cool on New York anyway, y'all,
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: let's get into stupid internet news. Yes, we got going
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: on a day so I know everybody, but everybody's been
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: seeing Cam Newton and all his commentary between him and
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: his guest on his shows on Freaky Friday, so he's
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: turned up some shit again. Recently, he had an interview
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: he had Parker McKenna on Freaky Friday, and he basically
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: stated that he asked Jasmine Brown for his excuse me
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  Speaker 1: for her.
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  Speaker 3: List, the big list, like who you have slept with?
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  Speaker 2: Lists? What's big for some not for others?
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  Speaker 1: Agent, are y'all giving y'all man a list of your
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  Speaker 1: sexual partners?
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  Speaker 4: Do you want me to go first?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: Not only am I not giving you my list because Nigga,
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember and I didn't write it down because
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  Speaker 4: I'm a grown ass woman. I'm not in fucking twelfth grade.
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  Speaker 4: I'm also going to stop talking to you for you
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  Speaker 4: to ask me such an ignorant, ridiculous question, because nigga,
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  Speaker 4: if I asked you that, you couldn't even begin. And anyway,
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  Speaker 4: also I could lie and just put big Bean number seven,
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  Speaker 4: Like what are you talking about? You don't know these niggas,
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  Speaker 4: and what would be the point of that so you
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  Speaker 4: can judge me and be looking at me sideways. I
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  Speaker 4: just think it's an immature statement. I think it's an
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  Speaker 4: immature request, and it lets me know that emotionally and
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  Speaker 4: spiritually we're not on the same page, because nigga, where's
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  Speaker 4: your list and where we're going to cross reference and
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: call people and be like, hey, she lived there for
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  Speaker 4: two years? Okay, well how was it?
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  Speaker 6: Like?
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  Speaker 4: What is the point?
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  Speaker 5: Right?
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  Speaker 4: That's an apartment hunting?
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  Speaker 2: What about your am?
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  Speaker 5: Sure I'm a lie.
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  Speaker 3: Sure, I'm a firm believer in lion too.
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  Speaker 4: Niggas, Okay, wait, if you're gonna if you're gonna lie,
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  Speaker 4: what how much?
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  Speaker 5: Like? Okay, just like you just like he's gonna lie?
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  Speaker 5: Like what the fuck are you talking about?
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  Speaker 4: But what do you?
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  Speaker 5: And if I did? Then what nigga? Then what? What?
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  Speaker 4: What are you gonna? What do you think is the
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  Speaker 4: number that niggas want to hear with people with women
• 13:26
  Speaker 4: like our big age, Like let's say over thirty five.
• 13:29
  Speaker 5: I'm just curious under ten okay, mm hmmm, preferably five
• 13:34
  Speaker 5: under five that's like under less than one a year.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like anything. Over ten, you start getting into
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  Speaker 5: whole activities in.
• 13:42
  Speaker 4: Their minds, right, okay, the men last they start, they.
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  Speaker 5: Literally tell you literally start seeing Dix entering your pussy,
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  Speaker 5: like immediately.
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  Speaker 3: Hag your mouth and your eye everywhere and everything else. Essentially,
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  Speaker 3: he basically said, like his ego, like his ego, you know,
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  Speaker 3: is just not in check enough to even do.
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  Speaker 1: He was it ew right, he was, he was ill,
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: and he was like he would definitely have a bruised ego,
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  Speaker 1: and because of who he is and like going into
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  Speaker 1: different spaces, he just doesn't want a nigga slitting over
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  Speaker 1: in the corner when he pull up with his girl,
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  Speaker 1: And like, you know, just and how you think a
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  Speaker 1: bitch feels because of who you are.
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  Speaker 5: We know you fucked a million motherfucking people. And I'm
• 14:21
  Speaker 5: gonna walk into a park.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like what I always say, if I walk into
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  Speaker 1: a party, it might be one person in there I
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: fuck with.
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  Speaker 3: I walk in there with a nigga. He probably don't
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  Speaker 3: hit like twenty bitches in here. So who's really the hope?
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  Speaker 2: Right, what are we talking about?
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  Speaker 4: I don't even don't honestly, and I've done somehow, and
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  Speaker 4: I really don't even the one person rule, Like it
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  Speaker 4: is so rare that we're gonna I have a hold
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  Speaker 4: across the country.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I live in different city than I hold in,
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, like.
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  Speaker 3: They're spread out, nigga, nigga's in the same zip code.
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  Speaker 3: Dan you a whole And.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not the kind of how that you can ever
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  Speaker 4: disrespect any any nigga I fuck still wants to be
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  Speaker 4: my friend. He's gonna he he aha, your face, my face,
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  Speaker 4: He's gonna be happy to see us because we had
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  Speaker 4: a good run and I didn't do nothing but be
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  Speaker 4: nice to him. And honestly, for all the men and
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  Speaker 4: women listening who don't know how to like go go
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  Speaker 4: about these type of situations, you don't say shit until
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  Speaker 4: you were in the room with the nigga and you
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: think he's gonna speak, and you think maybe they know
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  Speaker 4: each other in that case, right as he's approaching and say,
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  Speaker 4: I know him, we've had history. Thanks doing real quick.
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  Speaker 1: I know, men don't even think about you until they
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: see you with whoever you fucking now, you know, so
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: let me go ahead and tell on myself before this nigga,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: you know, tells as if we had sex yesterday and
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: you ain't seen his pussy since I was eighteen.
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  Speaker 2: My whole facts, My whole facts deletes at eleven fifty
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  Speaker 2: nine fifty nine on December thirty first. Every year like
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  Speaker 2: so vanishes.
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  Speaker 4: And to be honest, if you weren't condom, it doesn't
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  Speaker 4: count period.
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  Speaker 3: And if I didn't comment on count, what do we.
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  Speaker 4: Think there's a barrier there? So now it didn't work.
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  Speaker 5: I may, I may or may not even say shit
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: if the nigga's walking towards you, to be honest, because
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  Speaker 5: it's not your motherfucking business, it's before you. Why what
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: for what you know? What I mean unless y'all be
• 16:11
  Speaker 5: unless I find out y'all are homeboys, maybe, and maybe
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  Speaker 5: I'll give you the courtesy of afterwards. I'm not I'm
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: probably not gonna do it in the real time because
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: that's awkward and uncomfortable. I don't know, like I've actually
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: done that before and it has backfired on me because
• 16:27
  Speaker 5: niggas always say they want this and then they can't
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: handle it when it actually happens. So like their track
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: record of needing to know is very low and poor,
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: and their track record of actually being honest about what
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: they've done is also very low and poor. So why
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: the fuck am I going to tell you my shit?
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: Like no, thank you, I'm good.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then anybody becomes their cousin or friend once
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: they know you fucked them.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: That's my homeboy, Like.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: Nigga, let me see your let me see your phone
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: phone number. You lie like a motherfucker.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: You know him I have.
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: I also like one time I did tell this guy
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: this and he went and called him and they weren't
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: even close like that, and so he went and called
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: him out of respect.
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: That was so whack.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: He he went and called him out of respect. He
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: really wasn't out of respect. It was on some like
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: ego ship the egos and so yeah, and this nigga
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: like they're not even really.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: That the.
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: Current. The current called the former. The former was out
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: there minded weird and and me and and the former
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: we had only slept together one time. It was a
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: one and done situation. We tried it, it wasn't there
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: wasn't a vibe. We continued being friends and he called
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: him and the guy was thrown off. He called me like,
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: why is this nigga calling me to tell me this ship?
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Like I don't like this is weird, and I was like,
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: I don't know, and it was like it was for
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: his own ego, like he wanted him to know and
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: then and then and then abusing that ship against me,
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: then using that shit against me later. Like so it's
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: just like I'd rather not Ladies just shit the fuck up?
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Now, did y'all see this? Steph Curry's wife, Ayisha, is
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: facing backlash for saying that she never wanted kids and
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: she had her own career goals and her husband doesn't understand.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: So have y'all been seeing all the backlass she's been
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: receiving about that? Of course not true.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: That whole headline isn't true. Of course I've seen it.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I actually watched the full episode, and she did not
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: say anything wrong. She praised the fuck out of her husband.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: What woman who got married at twenty one and got
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: pregnant within the same year of being married a child
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: basically right right? Why would she not be reflecting at
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: this age in her thirties?
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: You know, the should have could have waded because she
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: was acting and stuff like that from a little girl,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: So of course she's going to be She was just
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: reflecting you know, they be cutting and pasting shit for Instagram.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know why people hate her so much. Yeah,
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: do you see that people hate her.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Her a lot?
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: They really hate her. They hate her because that's me.
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: That was the first comment that hates people they hate women.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: Well there's that too, yes, but they whimpically really hate
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: her a lot.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: I feel like she's like the most Like she's like
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: a homemaking present. She has a cooking line. Like when
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: I think of the men on the internet who hate women,
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: like they might hate us, or like someone who's like
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: more provocative outwardly, because she probably is like a little
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: secret freak because she geten married all this time. But
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm very shocked by people hating her,
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: Like what is there to hate? She seems very wholesome.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: I never wear any sea or wearing anything that's gonna
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: make everybody like, I never see anything that's so triggering.
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I say, it's because people, the men are
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: obsessed with Steph Curry and they will idolize him and
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: have decided what is suitable for him. They want to
• 19:49
  Speaker 5: talk as a wife and Aisha Curry has Ayisha Curry,
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: although yes, she has has yes, although she has followed
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: I guess, the traditional wife role for a while. I
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: think like now she's kind of starting to step out
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: on her own. She has her own like I guess,
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: like a makeup line or lip glass line, and she's
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: done her own like. They just they want her to
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: fit into a specific box where she doesn't mention him
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: at all and doesn't say anything unbecoming around him or
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: just being a wife in general. And I think it's
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: just unfortunate, like because so many and what I've seen,
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: and it's not even just men. I've seen a lot
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: of women coming for her. Even me and Mila went
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: to dinner the other day. We were sitting with a
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: girl and like we started talking about this and she
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: I could see the like the like disgust in her.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like, where.
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: Is this coming?
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: No, I think the women think that girl, your husband
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: is be grateful whatever, you don't exactly be grateful, shut
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: up and look pretty.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: This is yeah, this is the attitude women have for her.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: But those same women, if they were in the same position,
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: would have fucking feelings about it too. I don't give
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: a fuck no matter how much money you got, you're
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: still human. You have you have desires, you have wishes,
• 21:01
  Speaker 5: you have goals that maybe haven't been fully you know, realize,
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: especially when you're living in the shadow of a famous person,
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: you know, your whole identity starts being attached to them.
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: You can't even be your own woman, your own person.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: Everyone your Steph Curry's wife, Steph Curry's wife. It's just
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: like when you go meet like even you don't gotta
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: be famous. Have you ever been out with like like
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: your man and like none of his homeboys ever like
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: even talk to you, Like they just they just like
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: like you'll go down the line of like shaking someone's
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: hand and they just like skip you out of respect.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Like this whole idea around like being respectful and act
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: and ignoring the woman.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Is like so old.
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: It's some. It's really some black people shit. And I
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: hate to say that about it.
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: I don't black people.
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: I don't see white men do that. I don't see
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: white I don't see white men do that.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: We don't be hanging around them. We don't know.
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: I've been around the white men's They don't be ignoring
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: the fucking wives and shit like that. I see that
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: a lot in our culture, a lot.
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: I never even considered if it was a black people thing.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: But maybe I mean, I'm or it happens on both sides,
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: but I say it's prevalent in our in our space.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: Is it like an insecurity thing like or just like
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: it like yeah, I don't know respect yeah, but but
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: but but you don't want people to respect me, like
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: as a whole person. Like I think generally we've learned
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: in like the era of social media, is that society,
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: particularly men, don't respect whole women. They want you to
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: be like an avatar of who they think you're supposed
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: to be, not say much conservative, not have a history
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: like you want to. You want an ai girlfriend like
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: you don't want a real human or else. You wouldn't
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: even have these type of conversations because they do.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Though, because they they call the girl with the depth
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: and that's what they're cheating with, right while you got
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: old girl like the house, we shut the fuck up,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: and then they.
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: Tell her all your business and write pillow talk. Yeah
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: you good advice.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: Well, well, good news to them. I don't know if
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: you saw this today in the news. Not to interrupt
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: your news, but chatchy BT is going to now have
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: erotic interact actions for age verified adults on their app.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: So yeah, just go get you a virtual bitch and
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: she'll be a very agreeing.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: Can she suck your dick? Like, what are you talking about?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Phone sick?
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Probably because chat can generate images, so sure they're going
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: to really start charging for that.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: It's like chatg EPT is probably going to have like
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: an only fans tiers.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: Of course they're trying to monopolize every every space. But anyway,
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: I'll long story short, go get you a build a
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: bitch if that's what you need, because I don't know,
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I just feel like women the people just want women
• 23:32
  Speaker 5: to be quiet and just I don't know where else
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: they're supposed to share. I appreciate someone with her platform
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: being that, honest. I think a lot of women and
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: married people like want that and need that absolutely.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know what just happened to Tam, but go ahead.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: Keep going, she'll probably come back maybe. Yeah. I think
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: it's really important. I think it's really important that we
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: as women, especially women in our industry, as we talk
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: and we talk shit and and sometimes I know, like
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: we probably get backlash and niggas are trying to listen
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: to every episode so they can calculate what we did
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: last weekend, not anybody here or notthing, liar, I tell
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: all the things now, I know, I'm just fucking with you.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: I think I think that there is it's really important
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: that women start to like stop being pigmies and start
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: living in their entire like their entirety, because then men
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: can men will can just be asexual and be together
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: and leave us the fuck alone if everyone and there's
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: not like women who are pretending to be half people
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: and pretending that they slept with three guys at thirty
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: because they're fucking lying like a motherfucker and like because
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: you want a man so badly. But the more that
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: we like be human and talk about it, then men
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: can stop like loving this fantasy like false sense of
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: what they thought we were because nigga, that's just not real.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Great man, yeah, man, And it's not all men, but
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: it's a large a large majority of them.
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: Fortunate because like the women women, women co signing what
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: they say just perpetuates this whole thing, like there's no
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: patriarchy unless women are upholding it, and unfortunately that's that's
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: what happens. So it's like women are literally the problem too.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about that for one second. Y'all really think
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: we in a patriarchy?
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Bitch? Hell yeah, stop. I'm gonna tell you why I
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: say that, right, because I.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Always say how some being submissive that is definitely an
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: ultimate form of manipulation, because your bitch is in the
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: bedroom telling you what to do.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: When you go out there.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Front everybody like it was your decision. There's always women
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: behind it scenes, from the mothers to the grandmothers to
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: everybody who are actually running things. And and I think
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: white women in particular, right they the ship that.
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: There men do.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: They benefit off of it one hundred and they are
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: raising them right. So I just I just feel like
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the matriarchy and do y'all even think we would be
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: okay in a in a society actually just straight meat,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: absolutely crazy, No.
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: Absolutely, I think we'd be frolicking picking berries naked, that
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: everybody'd have equals everything because we rebirthing each other's babies,
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: and we'd go outside to fucking come back in the
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: gates and lock the doors because that's where violence and
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: conflict happened when the niggas come in. We fuck out there,
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: we come back and we'd be great, you know, go back.
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: Like the like listen to divine. Feminine is very very dark.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: Oh it can't, it can be but chaos. I think
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: it gets darker when we don't have when we don't
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: have healthy outlets to be dark. I think it's when
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: you don't have a man or like a safe space
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: that says, oh, I under I see the entirety of you.
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I see both sides embrace that we're so busy trying
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: to be fucking pick mees for a nigga like Cam Newton,
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: that we're like suppressing and suppressing and then we get
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: caddy with each other like that's my nagger or whatever
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: it is, and then like it creates, it creates us imbalance.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: We're not we don't really know what we are because
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: we haven't been fully expressed. And so when you when
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: you suppress anything, just like a gay nigga who's acting straight,
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: you suppress it, he becomes crazy, he becomes violent because
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: he's not being himself. I think that is what creates
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: these like this deep imbalance. Wait, wait, aj, do you
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: think that if we you think do you think that
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: women are better like showing up in this way that
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: men can know its palatable?
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: Don't get it? Don't get it fucked up.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Women are the gods on a planet and this is
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: why these nigga's mad.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: But we got to confuse them to make them thinks
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: they're in control.
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: I think that means like go ahead, oh sorry, go ahead, no, no, please.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: I want to hear what you want to say. I
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: was just gonna say.
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: I think that even in a matriarchal society, and even
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: in like okay, we'll start with the matriarchal society, I
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: think that even in a matriarchal society, a true maker
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: matriarchal society understands the balance, like Mila said, of like
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: the need for the masculine to be there. It's not
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: about necessarily like everything is woman. That's it, right, you
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: know what I mean? And I think even the divine
• 27:59
  Speaker 5: feminine like to be divine is to be like to
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: be one with God. And if you're one with God,
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: then you also see the divine and the masculine. And
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: I think this whole idea of like divine femininity is
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: great as beautiful and I reflect it and I receive it.
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: But I also think my journey in understanding the divinity
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: of the femininity is also seeing the divinity in men,
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: and I think it's been like there's like always this
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: like agenda to separate us because there are a lot
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: of men that are not in their divinity, of course,
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: but then there are a lot that there are some
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: that are, you know, there are some that are willing
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: and open and want to listen to their women. And ultimately,
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: what makes a woman, what makes I think the divine
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: be able to be divine as far as it goes
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: with femininity, is being able to really rest in your femininity,
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: which requires the masculine to be present. And so I
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: don't think that like it's one or the other. I
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: think that there has to be both, you know. And
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: like I do think that we are in a patriarchal society.
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: We're seeing it, especially here in America. We're seeing how
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: how when it goes so far, how fucked up it
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: can get. Like our country is on fire, not quite yet,
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: not like literally yet, but it's like I feel like
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: we're heading towards that, unfortunately, and it's because there's a
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: lot of imbalance and a lot of white men making
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: a lot of decisions for women, and women are not
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: being heard and men and even black men. I was
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: just listening to fucking what's his name, Stephen that nigga
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: on ESPN. Oh my god, someone take him off the
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: air lord, please God fire his ass. Already they were
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: talking about him running for a politics.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, oh, yes.
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: He's thinking about running getting into politics, and I'm like,
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: as haircut, get out of here.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Just like the fact that we have text on items
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: for women, it's proof that we live in a patriarchal.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: What what kind of tax?
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Pink tax? Like pink so things that are pink of
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: a female's bike is more than a male's bike, a
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: pink bike.
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Like we're making less money we're women.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: It'll be the same razor, same package. If it's pink,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: it costs a few cents more. We did a whole
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: episode all night on that, like things that are for
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: women are more expensive. Yes, that's why it.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Should be inflation on this plicity if you want it.
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: It got to be inflation on the pussy baby.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: A lot to be a woman.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: It just costs a lot, So y'all got to pay
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: the I see, what are the usage tax?
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: I think for us to become like back in balance,
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: like deeply in balance, Like there has to be like
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: a deep, like we have to come all the way
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: back and also wake the fuck up. Like I feel
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: like women are resurrecting right now, like there's a resurrection
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: of like the wild and free woman, So we're waking up.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: But I think that because men have had this power trip,
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: this like toxic, this top masculinity for so long, it's violent,
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: Like I think we have to completely in some ways
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: pull back because it's like we see it. It's violent,
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: like they don't give a fuck about us because they've
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: lived in this this facade for so long. So I
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: just think, like for in order to find balance again.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: Because of course there are good divine masculine men, of
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: course they exist, or else we'd all be single bitches,
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: but you know, we have uncles and fathers and things
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: like that. But it's like there has to be like
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: we have to starve these new niggas that with this
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: brain set like no pussy, no food, like just go away,
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: die off and don't procreate. Definitely don't put your seamen
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: in anybody with those fucking stupid thoughts.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: So yeah, but the bitches will never ever be on
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: the same page because there's always going to be somebody's couch.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: This nigga can go to right. So I don't know
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: what do we do about the women? Because it starts
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: and ends with us.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: You go with them too.
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: There might be a few, There might be some women.
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: Some women gotta die off too. They got some women
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: gotta go.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: Choose the wrong one before we get off stupid internet news.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Because we've been here for a long time. Have y'all
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: seen the headlines about us? Swee eat Ye, Sweety, former friends, Sweedy,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: her former friend Mayback.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: May. I don't know if may is sure for madam,
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: but she's.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Basically saying that Sweety owes her some money cause she
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: put her down does European soccer player?
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: And like how I owe you for broken in Mikucci?
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: Basically, So she's all I know is I love Sweety.
• 32:33
  Speaker 5: I want to be clear.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: I love her too.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: I'm a fan too.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: Okay, and may Back, whatever the fuck your name is,
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: you should have got you should have collected your coins
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: ahead of time, honey. I don't know what to tell you.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: You're doing bad business, bitch.
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: Bitch is because they put you with the baller. They
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: are owed. No, bitch, we was hanging out and I
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: got the baller, and you better shut the fuck up.
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: That's it unless we had unless.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: We had a contract, and if we don't have an agreement,
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: shut the fuck up.
• 32:58
  Speaker 5: Now get your coins before come on, are you are
• 33:01
  Speaker 5: you a madam or not?
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: Beyonce's Internet bashing me like uh uh? And honestly, how.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Does this even become a headline? Because how much I
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: owe you? How much I'll right for my ship?
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Exact?
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: Like how did? How do we?
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: How are we? Like? Yeah, how are we coming to
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: a final? Like cost of goods and services?
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Like well, she's supposed to be coming out with receipts, so.
• 33:24
  Speaker 5: Girl, come out with them. I still love sweetie.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: She got invoices on Sweety Couci like, well five Sweety
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: fucked this baller in Africa at seventen.
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: I'm doing rid shit, pretty bit shit.
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: Like girl, leave that girl on her kouchie alone. Everybody
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: sold some pussy one way or another, okay, and they
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: didn't knowwe you shit?
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we got we got a topic today,
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: the judgment Olympics from moms and single ladies. After this commercial,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: we're going to get into it. We'll be right back,
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: all right, y'all. We're back, and it's the Judgment Olympics.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I always laugh at that, what
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: because we don't really go no fucking wear.
• 34:11
  Speaker 5: Right, I'm like, do I need to do that?
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah? I was taking that yesterday. We didn't do that.
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: Because the way they be interrupting our conversation with ads abruptly,
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: I'm like, Okay, maybe we really need to be more
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: more diligent here.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you added in there that way they don't break
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: your shit up because they will break it up they listen.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: You might add it in there and your shit still
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: get broken up.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: I know, girl, I know.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: All right, So AJ you came up with this? What's
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: up with the judgment?
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: All right? So today we're competing in the Judgment Olympics
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five edition, because whether you're a single woman
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: or a mom with kids, society loves to hand out
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: unsolicited medals and criticism. Okay, So today's contestants, the co
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: hosts of Good Mom's Bad Choice.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: Is and us we talk about podcasts. I'm gonna start
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: using like the things on this app.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Anyway, but we can add it in later in no words.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Right, So for the warm up, let's talk about like
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: some of the common stereotypes as a single moms that
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: you guys, hear a lot we're moms that are single
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: or y'all are in relationships now and right, but moms
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: that are single that.
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: We have baggage and we're like unwanted ran through we're
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: still sucking our baby daddies and we were not to
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: be married. No one wants, No one wants to father
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: somebody else's kids.
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: We're unavailable. We're unavailable. We're not sexy, even though we
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: had to be that we should that we shouldn't be dating,
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: and that we shouldn't be sexy, that we should wear
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: like certain conservative clothes.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Oh you're a mom now, yeah, why are you?
• 36:04
  Speaker 6: Wow?
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: Where's your kid? That's when you at the party at
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: midnight and the he's like, where's where sew? And so
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: nigga in the bed? Where do you think she's at
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: with her with her daddy? Like what right? Daddy?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Don't ever have to have the damn kids? Do they
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: even get do they even get asked that question?
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: Not where's the kids?
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I hate when niggas be like, I got a babysit, nigga,
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: that's your kid. You not babysitting that child. You're not baby,
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: that's your child. You don't babysit your own kid. You
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: are being a parent, So that's annoying.
• 36:38
  Speaker 7: All right?
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: What about all right? Aj me and you child free selfish?
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Your clock is ticking, your clock ticking.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Oh no, this is the one I hate. And this
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: is from like the friends who have kids and family.
• 36:52
  Speaker 5: Who have kids.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Just because I don't have kids, that does not mean
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I don't got shit to do. So I'm not sitting
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: home twittering my thumb with and for your ass to
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: hit me up to do something for you and your
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: fucking kids. And that's the one thing I really can't
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: stand because I'm just as busy even though I don't
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: have kids.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Are you gonna die along.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: And wait and give a fuck?
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Oh you ain't got a kid yet, your pussy must
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: not be good.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: I've had an abortion. This pussy is good.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: If you ain't never had an abortion, that pussy is
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: why shut up?
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: Unpopular opinion trigger warning, sexy warning. I don't know I.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Work another one. You're lonely.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: People with no kids just got all this extra money,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Like my nieces and nephews hit me up so much
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: for money, like it's just me paying all my bills, like,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: your parents are together, I don't have extra money.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: It's not income house.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Or you're crazy. Oh she never, she ain't been married,
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: she got no kids. She probably crazy.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? I don't
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: like people say why don't you have any kids? That's
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: such a rude question.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: My ex fiance he had two kids at the time.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: I've heard that he has since had two other I
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: don't even tell you about that shit, tam, because how
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: the fuck my mama know that? And I don't anyway,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: my mom still talks to my ex fiance and she
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: doesn't see a problem with that. Do you realize, like
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: he probably thinks he was right in a relationship because
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: he still has access to you.
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: You're an extension of me.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: But anyway, I would always like, I don't have to
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: be a mom to be a parents. I think a
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: lot of times people think that women with no kids
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: can't parent. Okay, I'm a mother at heart, so I
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: don't have to have kids to be a parent. So
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: this was being like an ongoing argument and that relationship
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: because just because you have kids that do not.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: Automatically mean you're a good parent. That sometimes the longer.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: You wait to have kids, you see things like I
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: might have a little bit extra information gathered from everywhere
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: watching everybody else parents. You know, I know what I
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: want to do as a parent and what I wouldn't do.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I think the longer you wait, you
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: get more information.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: But it ain't nothing like the real deal though, No.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Absolutely listen, I'm not trying to discredit parents at all.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, do you get offended when you said?
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Do you get offended when people say why don't you
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: have any kids? You get offended when they ask you
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: when are you having kids?
• 39:36
  Speaker 5: Is that the same thing?
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Both of those. It's like, bitch, if I knew, I get,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: I tell you right, I don't know when I'm having kids.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: How the fuck am I going to answer that question
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: for you tomorrow? I don't know?
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: Or do you want kids? Is that also? Like like
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: you get offended with someone.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Do you want kids? You know? That's not offensive, It's
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: just why don't you have kids? Because I could say
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: some shit that will make us both uncomfortable. I do it,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: and sometimes I double pregnancies.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: I go ahead and make everybody uncomfortable.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: If God will, and I have one I've had two
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: tuber pregnancies and they like, oh, yeah, because you should
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: not be asking women I believe.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: Over thirty why they don't have kids.
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: Wait, is that true? Or you just do that to
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: make them feel un comforted.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: That's true, it's true.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So you should not ask women of a certain
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: age why they don't have kids. If they want kids,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: just mine your business, That's how I feel.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: I agree, wrong, I agree, I agree?
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: All right, So let's talk about why people just so
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: hard though? All right, Oh, we just talked about the
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: patriarchal expectations of motherhood. Do y'all feel like y'all need
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: to fit into the mold? Well? No, y'all know, y'all
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: don't feel like girl.
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: We back good minds about choices.
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: Our entire podcast is about it.
• 40:53
  Speaker 5: I think we did it. We've done everything except do
• 40:55
  Speaker 5: that hard, move ian very hard, swung hard.
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: To the other side.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, but when you were like new mothers, did you
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: have like did people's judgments affect your confidence and you're
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: dating your friendships?
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: Were you affected by that as very young mothers?
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: I think I noticed when people were being judgmental, like,
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: especially when I broke up with my child's father, and
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: I was going out and I was outside, I could
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: see even some of my friends who hadn't had kids
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: yet were like, oh, you're out, You're out a lot,
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: or whatever their comments were. But I've always been pretty
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: like clear about the balance in like having a life,
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: like mama got to have a life too, because my
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: parents were kind of like that. But I think people
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: are very judgmental about that, especially women against women is
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: because they are when you see someone that is exuding
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: and existing in a way that you think that you can't,
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: you're gonna project and you're gonna feel away about it
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: because bitch, you're over there knitting sweaters and baking cakes
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: so and you wish you were getting your black back
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: blown out, and you know daddy was doing something, but
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: he's watching fucking football and ignoring the fuck out of
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: you and that kid, Yeah, you're gonna feel a way.
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: One time I went I went to a party of
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: this guy. I was like a small dinner party. I
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: was like some white people and they were like, I
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: was talking about my daughter and I was like no,
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: me and her dad broke up, like oh my god,
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: oh god, I'm so sorry, Like, oh god, that seems
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: so hard. That's like so hard. I was like, no,
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: actually not, that's not nothing to be sorry about. I'm
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: doing great. Actually, God's plan for my life, right, I
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: get the best of both worlds.
• 42:31
  Speaker 6: So yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, I mean I think
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: me and Mila have had different journeys as early as
• 42:41
  Speaker 6: moms early on, because I definitely felt myself when I
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: got pregnant starting to kind of fall into society's expectations
• 42:50
  Speaker 6: around what motherhood was supposed to look like.
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: And that wasn't just from society, that was also my family.
• 42:56
  Speaker 5: And so prior to having my daughter, I was like,
• 43:00
  Speaker 5: just I'm a free spirit.
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: I smoke a lot of weed.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: I moved how I wanted to move. I was probably
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: financially irresponsible because I didn't have anything to worry about
• 43:11
  Speaker 5: except myself. And when I became a parent, like it
• 43:16
  Speaker 5: was like, oh, y erca, you know, you can't do
• 43:17
  Speaker 5: that no more. You can't do that no more, you
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: can't do that any more. And I almost fell into
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: that trap. And I think that's one of the things
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: that me and Mila share a lot on our on
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: our show, is like that was the beginning of good
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: mom's bad choices. Was me meeting Mela and her mirroring
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: the things that I wasn't allowing myself to experience and
• 43:37
  Speaker 5: realizing that like I was heading on down a path
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: of imprisonment. And it's and it's interesting because like the
• 43:46
  Speaker 5: person that I was with my child's father, he's not
• 43:49
  Speaker 5: like a traditional man, like he's outside, you know, Like
• 43:52
  Speaker 5: I wasn't like about to wrap up my life with
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: like a like a god fearing in the house nigga,
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: like like he spent like half my pregnancy at the
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: strip club, you know what I'm saying. So that even
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: tells you even more. And he wasn't even that was
• 44:09
  Speaker 5: not his expectation of me either, you know. So it
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: was really like the programming, really it's so deeply ingrained
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: in women from such a young age with us like
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: caring for babies and playing house and you know, like
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: these roles really being shoved down our throats and society
• 44:29
  Speaker 5: doesn't help. And so I you know, I'm grateful for
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: my friendship with Jamila because it reawakened what was already
• 44:36
  Speaker 5: inside of me, like what I had already been. I
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: was already that girl. It was just that when I
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: became when I went into motherhood. I felt like I
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: had to. That girl had to die. And granted, when
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: your mom like you do, you rebirth into something else,
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: but like the old parts of you are still there
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: and in fact, like they deserve to be watered and
• 44:53
  Speaker 5: your child deserves to see you show up as a
• 44:55
  Speaker 5: whole human and like understand who their parent is because
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: and ultimately that bitch go par out or she's just
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: gonna literally die and be depressed. And I think we
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: see a lot of maybe our parents, we see like
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: what that does to them. We see like these shells
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: of these women and like we have like, oh, your
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: mom used to be that girl. I'm like, what the
• 45:16
  Speaker 5: fuck happened? I don't know that girl, you know. And
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: it's like it almost feels like a fable, like a
• 45:21
  Speaker 5: story time where it's like is that real? Like my
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: mom was that? And unfortunately, I think a lot of
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: women fall into that trap when they don't have to.
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: So if you're listening to this and you're a mom,
• 45:30
  Speaker 5: you're falling into that trap. Just come over to Good Moms.
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: Let's start at episode one, take the journey with us.
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: Because when I started episode one, like I was just
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: kind of like coming out of it. And I think
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: it's really important for mothers to really evaluate themselves and
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: give themselves the time and space to really evaluate who
• 45:48
  Speaker 5: they are now and how they and what parts of
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: the former. And I say that with air quotes of
• 45:54
  Speaker 5: you that you want to bring into this space, because
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: it's important to not just let that person go, right, because.
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: That's what Asha Curry is essentially experiencing.
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: She has fomo a little bit.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: You know, she might have felt like she missed out
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: on some things, or I mean, she has the means
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: and the resources to do whatever it is that she wants,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: but it's something there because she never got to discover
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: exactly who she was before having to take care of
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: somebody else and who who don't have kids. It's not
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: selfish not to want to be responsible for somebody else
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: for the rest of your life.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's a crazy response.
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: Not every person needs to be a parent. A lot
• 46:35
  Speaker 5: of parents don't even need to be parents, you know, right.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Did y'all ever feel like your relationships with your friends
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: shifted once she became moms?
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely, I was outside. I was an outside girl.
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: I had friends that just stopped calling me, you know,
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: they didn't really. I remember specifically, I had a situation
• 46:58
  Speaker 5: one of my best friends at the time. I was
• 47:00
  Speaker 5: so excited to tell her I was pregnant. I was
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: living in New York when I found out I was pregnant.
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: So I came back to LA and I sat down
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: with her and my other friend and I was like,
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: I have something to tell you guys. And before I
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: could even tell her, she was like, you're pregnant. And
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, I am, and she's like I know,
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: and then just like just like didn't want to know
• 47:20
  Speaker 5: anything else. Like I was shocked. I was like, what
• 47:23
  Speaker 5: the fuck, bitch like, and then after that, I like
• 47:26
  Speaker 5: barely ever heard from her again. It was the weirdest thing,
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: and so I don't I still don't really know what
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: that was. It was like, maybe it was like she
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: was mad that she was gonna have to share me.
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: She felt like we couldn't relate anymore. She was jealous.
• 47:39
  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really like to go straight to
• 47:41
  Speaker 5: jealousy with women, because I think that's what we do
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: a lot. But I just don't. I don't know what
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: that was. And I'm sure that maybe there's other women
• 47:48
  Speaker 5: that maybe relate to it. But I know for me,
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: like motherhood really showed me who my friends were, and
• 47:55
  Speaker 5: it continues to it shows me even like with partners,
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: like what who was really open, really down for me?
• 48:01
  Speaker 5: And who isn't?
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: What about you?
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: I would say that that didn't really happen to me.
• 48:07
  Speaker 4: I had I was the first person in my friend
• 48:09
  Speaker 4: group to have a kid, and I do feel like
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: everybody really rallied around me and was like my baby daddy.
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: So I had like a lot of baby daddies and
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: like because there was no other kids, it was kind
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: of like a fun group project. Look, we have a baby.
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: But you know, it was kind of fun that way.
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: But I think there were some things that like people
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: didn't understand. Like there was a time where I was
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: like about my baby daddy, like this is not gonna work.
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: I can't stand him, or like or I would talk
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: shit about him because it was time for me to leave,
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: and then they would be like why don't you leave,
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: Why don't you leave? Why don't you leave? And I'm like,
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: you don't understand. You know, I had this. I'm trying,
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: like you're not black, you don't understand. I don't want
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: to be a baby mama, like making a lot of
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: excuses for what that meant to me, because I think
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: for as a black woman being with my child's father,
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: it was like there was a like a stereotype I
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: was trying to break, Like I didn't want to fall
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: into that to the point where I'd be like at
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: museums or at Disneyland like with my family, like miserable inside.
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: But look, that's the dad, that's the mom, and that's
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: the kid. Bitches, Okay, black families stay together. So I
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: think there I had something to prove in that way,
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: but it was not in the sense that like my
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: party friends fell off.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I think anytime one of my old ast friends have
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: a baby, I'd be like, girl, your time is coming up.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: I'm so happy when the old bitches have a baby.
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna be looking at old bitch having a baby.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: So you want another kid? I want more kids?
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I do. But I have a timeline in
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: which I would let in which I would want that
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: to happen, and if it doesn't, then I'm.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: Cool and aj I know you're trying to have a
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: baby every weekend.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was very sad this weekend because my
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: fucking period came on.
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: Okay, Oh, so you're you're you're like actively if if
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: it happens, it happened.
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: So two weeks ago, I intentionally was trying to get
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: trying to get pregnant.
• 50:15
  Speaker 5: Two weeks ago, are you are you you're picking them?
• 50:17
  Speaker 5: You're picking them well right, like you're you're making sure
• 50:22
  Speaker 5: that they're like genetically they're okay as well.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm also I was also trying to have
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: a Gemini.
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: So now let me tell you I have a Gemini baby. Daddy,
• 50:34
  Speaker 5: don't recommend.
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: No, she was a Gemini bababy.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: The baby, So I missed my deception window for the
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Gemini baby because I'm a Gemini.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: My mom is a Gemini. My grandmother was a fucking Gemini.
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: Oh you're trying to keep it going, Okay, I see.
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: So it's a legacy, Yeah, a Gemini legacy.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: So my legacy is fucked up because now, like at
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: this point, I'll be trying to get pregnant next year,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I'm be forty three.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: Trying to have a baby.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: Babe.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: Just a Gemini timeline.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: We don't need any more Geminis in the world. We
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: just just keep sucking.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: I could do Virgo or Libra, and that's it.
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: I can't do. I can't do no fucking virgo child.
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: That wouldn't work for me.
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: I'm Virgo rising. I could do it, I would.
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: Get on their nerves.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: I still want to. Like my desire to be a
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: mother is starting to dwindle a little bit as I
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: get older. I just feel like my window is closing
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: on me. But I'm just terrified still to be pregnant again.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Let me say that pregnant or births?
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: Are you terrified about the actual birth?
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: The whole process. The whole process just makes me scared,
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Like I wish I could skip that part.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: And just have my bitches are doing it every day.
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: Bitches are sarrogating, surrogated whatever their lives away. So it's
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: not not an option.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Not impossible, right, But then I don't Also, I also
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: at the same time don't want.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: Somebody else when you put yeah.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: Because there has even though they say, oh, it's your
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: your DNA, there has to be some of this other
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: bitch DNA in my band's.
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: The science I know, the real.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all like in his too, Like.
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: I don't know's gonna be a little confused because.
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: No throble baby.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's baby Polly pregnancy.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: Right, So y'all we want to play again. Do you
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: have any more questions? I want to play? Would you
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: rather go?
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: Go? Go?
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna play a game with y'all real quick.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: Would you rather right? So the first one is would
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: you rather have a man who worships you but has
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: no ambition or a man who challenges you but triggers
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: you all the time? B?
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah? B gosh, you know what?
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: I think that all I don't know relations are going
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: to trigger you all the time. Like it's you're in
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: a relationships, most close relationships are going to trigger you.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: Because that's the whole point of this game of life.
• 53:11
  Speaker 4: It's like if you were alone and you locked yourself
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: in your apartment, you're only around those two friends that
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: don't trigger you. They know what to say and not
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: to say. That you're not growing, You're not going to evolve.
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: It's like the triggering leads you to more depths of yourself.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: Why did it, sugar me? Why am I feeling this way?
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: And this is for a person who gets triggered very easily.
• 53:25
  Speaker 4: And I'm triggered right now and I'm annoyed, and I
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: don't even want to take my own advice. But that's
• 53:30
  Speaker 4: the truth.
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: You know what. I think that if I was with
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: a man who worshiped me but had no ambition, I
• 53:35
  Speaker 5: would be triggered. Also, probably I probably would rather just do.
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: Be Let's see. Would you rather build him up or
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: find him built but boring?
• 53:51
  Speaker 4: I can't do boring. I will build him up. I'll
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: get that wardrobe, we'll go to the mall. Baby, we'll
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: put on some jeans. I look put on that hat. Yep. No,
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: I'm not doing anything boring because you're gonna I'm gonna
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: cheat on you.
• 54:01
  Speaker 5: It's happened. I'd rather build you up. Come on, baby,
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: let's build a bear you let's go. You know, a
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: bitch loves a project.
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: Bitches love projects.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: Oh here's a good one. Would you rather feel safe
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: but unseen or seen but uncertain?
• 54:24
  Speaker 4: I don't like none of those options.
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: Wait, say but unseen, seen but uncertain. I would rather
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: be seen. I would rather be seen and uncertain because
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: then I'm gonna break up with you anyway. But at
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: least while we're together, I'm thinking I feel seen, you know,
• 54:42
  Speaker 5: like it's like.
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: It is it Stevie wonder, like, what do you mean
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: he can't like if you see me, they're gonna see me.
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: I ain't no not seeing this nigga.
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: Or maybe he's not like inviting you out stuff like that.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: You just feel you're there, but you're not there.
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: You know, I don't like any of those options.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, I actually saw this on Instagram. You know how
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: those people be on the street asking questions, would you
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: rather be a side chick to a star NBA player
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: or married to a loyal, average salary man b.
• 55:18
  Speaker 4: B That A would be your a groupie? Bitch? If
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: you just answered A, you are a groupie. Okay, you
• 55:24
  Speaker 4: probably knew that.
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: Already in the on the Instagram post.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: The guy then says, well, the guy only makes like
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year and the.
• 55:31
  Speaker 5: Girls like sixty thousand. Like that is the.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Average person's salary, is what we're talking about? What a
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: lot of places, well we're in the South. Were in
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: the South, right, that's a lot black people. What do
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: you think the average income for a black man is?
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: Can you even live off of sixty thousand dollars?
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah? In other places?
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, y y'all can in LA for sure, one hundred
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: thousand dollars a year is the average.
• 55:58
  Speaker 5: That's not the average, not even in LA.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Not even clothes. No, it's probably probably like seventy five,
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: probably like fifty honestly, because think about.
• 56:11
  Speaker 5: Because together we're going to combine our income, so you know,
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: we'll be had that one twenty together and we can
• 56:18
  Speaker 5: get a cute, little cavicul little lifestyle and wherever the
• 56:21
  Speaker 5: fuck that takes us.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: So this this is from twenty twenty three, and it
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: says that average, this is for black persons.
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: It says fifty four thousand.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: That's what I said about, fifty thousand is the average.
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: You gotta think about these small towns and these small
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: places where it's more of that than everything else.
• 56:41
  Speaker 4: You know, yeah, I forget that. There's like all those
• 56:44
  Speaker 4: states in between.
• 56:45
  Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Y'all listen, catch a man cheating with someone batter or
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: is someone basic in crocs?
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: I were crocs today, bitch?
• 56:58
  Speaker 5: Wait, what was the first one?
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: Catch your man cheating with someone batter than you? Like
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: a batter bitch with crocs on.
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: It's gonna have to be be. I can't handle I
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: can't handle a I'm gonna be mad. I didn't be
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: able to talk shit to my friends. I didn't talk
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: shit to my friends, and that bitch was ugly. That's
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: because I'm shallow.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I need the bitch to be batter or comparable. I
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: cannot stand a nigga who doesn't.
• 57:26
  Speaker 4: Have like standard.
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: You don't have, Yeah, you don't have no standards like I've.
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: Literally never in my whole I've never in my long
• 57:36
  Speaker 5: life of being cheated on, ever, ever been cheated on
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: with a bitch better than me.
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: And it doesn't happen.
• 57:44
  Speaker 3: It just doesn't cheating. Then it's cheating. It's just a
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: bitch batter.
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: It just doesn't happen. And I'm not even saying that
• 57:49
  Speaker 5: because I'm like, I am pretty fine myself, but I'm
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: just always astonished. I'm always like, Nigga, what what if it's.
• 57:58
  Speaker 4: Not batter than you? They stepped out not cheating? What if?
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: What if like she's but ugly like this ugly saying
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I have seen some some some fucked up ship to
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: where it's like Nigga, where I'm offended Because this I'm offended.
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: Yes she has one eye or one arm y'all.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I have only reached out to a bitch one time
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: in life about a nigga, and it was because I
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: could not believe this nigga was fucking this Walrus.
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: I could not believe it.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Like and I messaged the bitch on Instagram and she
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: didn't respond. She read my message, didn't respond, and then
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: she told him I messaged her messaged her. I could
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: not believe how this person look I just I like
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: I needed to hear it from her that he actually
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: fucked her.
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it.
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: I would prefer to see the bad bitches.
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: Please please fuck some bad bitches, because I can't understand
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: when you're fucking on.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: No, I need her to be ugly, but not now
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: I'm offended, like, don't be cut know why?
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't even I don't know if I
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: can even answer that question because it's never happened. Like
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: maybe I would be like so hurt if she was.
• 59:07
  Speaker 5: I mean, I was hurt even when she was ugly,
• 59:09
  Speaker 5: so like imagine she was fine, Like maybe I would
• 59:11
  Speaker 5: be super devastated.
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: But I don't know.
• 59:13
  Speaker 5: I've never experienced it, Like ugly bitches have hurt my
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: feelings too, So I don't know.
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: The point is, it's always gonna hurt your feelings, but
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: it's gonna hurt more. It's gonna hurt worse either way.
• 59:25
  Speaker 4: If she's extremely not to your level, and also if
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: she's way better than you, it's gonna hurt both Ways's
• 59:30
  Speaker 4: gonna be offended? Are you gonna be like? What the fuck?
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 59:34
  Speaker 5: Because if she's bad like she got like, I don't know,
• 59:37
  Speaker 5: is I gonna make me be like, damn? Do I
• 59:38
  Speaker 5: need to get my like? Maybe my ass isn't bigger
• 59:40
  Speaker 5: than maybe I need to put a little someone in there,
• 59:42
  Speaker 5: like damn, she got bigger titties? Do I need a
• 59:44
  Speaker 5: bigger like? I don't even want to go down that route.
• 59:47
  Speaker 5: So I'm actually grateful for thank you. I want to
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: personally thank all my old hoes, all my my baby daddy,
• 59:55
  Speaker 5: and everyone else from my past that fucked with ugly bitches.
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you so much for be my confidence
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: high true?
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Amen?
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have a man who moans louder than
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: you or one who doesn't make a sound at all?
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 4: Loud man louder? Yeah, let me know this pussy's good nigga.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 5: Anything worse than a silent fun like yeah, like nigga
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 5: e be dead, Like what's going on? I love like
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 5: growl in my ear?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, do something. Somebody I posted something reposted something yesterday
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: that said if you're if you're a woman who likes
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 4: male moans, you're a hoe it' said guilty.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Well listen sometimes like I was dating this guy and
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: I liked everything about him. He would have been a
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: great husband, but I hated how he came, Like I
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: broke up with him because how.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: He know, well, how did he do it?
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: Bru He sounded like a cartoon villain. He was like,
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: that's how he came.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 5: You should have got him like a like I want
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 5: to guide in him on that a count.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: You should have made him a vampire for Halloween or something.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: Why did he come like that? He was like, I'm
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: just so filled with joy and.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: You left him? Bitch, you go now, you gotta go.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: Theory because he was a joy was scary.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: I was a happy man, Okay.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 5: Well I don't like though. What I don't like is
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 5: too much of a talking ass nigga during sex, Like
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: just shut the fuck up, Like not like I don't
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 5: need you're not moan, but like you're talking too much.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: I can't focus, just like I had a guy trying
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: to tell me what to say, like I get it,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: like sometimes that's cool, but like it was throughout the
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 5: whole experience, And so I gave him a second chance
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: and he did it again, and I was like, like,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 5: let what.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: Was he telling you to say? What was he telling
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: you to say?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: Like, tell me how good this stick is? Tell me
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: how good it is? Tell me tell me. Then he
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: said like, tell me how how good my body looks?
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: And I was like, whoa, this is ship with me.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 5: Talk to your therapist. I don't know what's happened it
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 5: in here. Not talk to your therapist. That might be
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: that might be a lame like sex therapist. That's gonna
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 5: tell you like how good you look. It's gonna be
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: like therapize you while your dick is inside of her.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: Well that's a lot of sacrifice, It's crazy.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: Did you tell them just like I did?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: I did? I definitely, because like he was like what hey.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: At that point, I was just like just don't stop.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: I'll say whatever you want, but like this is the
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: last time. Yeah, you can talk me through a bit.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 5: Don't be asking for compliments. Was he a pisces? Probably
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: low key? I need to go.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 4: Look, I hate people talk too much and you're like
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: your ear is here.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: You're like, huh what, Yeah, that's happened to the keep
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 5: saying things are mumbling.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: And like, nig I can't hear you. Stop talking to me,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 4: like I'm just the haunt is taking me out of it,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: Like just fucking what. I can't read your lips. I
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: can't see you. What the are we talking about?
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: I was sticking these niggas. Do what you came to do.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: Right, all right, when the lottery, but lose your best
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: friend or stay broke, but keep your tribe it broke
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: as fuck.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 5: Like broke forever.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: Like I don't like these questions. We're witches. This is
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 4: what happened to us. This is not how we We don't
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: manifest like this. This is not.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 5: I don't want to be a lonely rich bitch.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, who are gonna go on the yacht with?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 4: Like who's gonna be theych, who's gonna be in the PJ?
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: So many people I know exactly who the I want
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: to see having a good ass time.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta take all the people. Yeah, I don't like.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: That that question because I can't. I can't figure one
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: to choose either, because we're just gonna have.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: To be broke. Well, we have to figure it out, like
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: for a while, girls, you just sell some pussy. I'm
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: gonna be broke. Why would I be broke? What does
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 4: that make sense to anyone?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: Like?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: No last one?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: I have a man who makes you laugh but never commits,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: or one who commits but never compliments you.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: Y'all haven't been with somebody who never complimented you.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 4: I probably didn't even notice for real, for real, It's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 4: like I'm used to that. Like it's when someone compliments
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: me where I'm like, oh okay, wow, that's a lot relaxed.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: It's like I'm not good at like. But now that
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: I have that, I don't think I would be able
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 4: to be a someone who like didn't notice little things
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 4: or compliment me with bother me.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 5: Laughing goes a long way with me. What was what
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: was the what makes me laugh? But what won't commit?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: Won't commit? He won't commit?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 5: Oh that was like my baby daddy. We did it
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 5: for seven years. Though he made me laugh for a
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: long time. That that laughing, that laughing sustained me for
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 5: some time.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: We forgot about the other bitches. It was so some
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: I was just like, just.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 5: Keep with the no compliment. I don't know. I'm an
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 5: words I'm a words of affirmation type of a I'm
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: a words of affirmation type of lover. Like that's what
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 5: I give, and it says feel nice to receive it.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: I have, like my partner now is very much like
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 5: affirms me a lot, and I appreciate that because I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: think I think I've had it in the past, but
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 5: maybe not to the extent that I get it now.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: Facts, that's that's what I'm experiencing too. I had an
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: ex who would never, like verbally compliment me. He would
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: wait till I leave the house and like text me like,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: you look you looked good.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what the fuck?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: Meanwhile, like when he putting that shit on because I
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: bought it, like I'm like, man, you look so good.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: Never never, what is that? I don't know, hater. I
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: think a lot of people be in relationships with men who.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, they're like I don't want you to get
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: a big head. I want you to have a big head,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: Like what what are you talking about.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: I've had a guy who would be like his compliments
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: would be like you think you cute, like it would
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: always be like some kind of life.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: I'm not undercutting.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: I feel like that's black people. Shit. I feel like
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 4: that's like black people, Like that's how my family talks
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 4: to each other. Like I feel like it's true. Like
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 4: I know that it sounds strange, but I don't know,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: like I don't know.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: Where you think you going.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, right, that for me, my pussy got away, Like
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: now I'm toxic, all right, y'all.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: So after this commercial break, we are going to get
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: some dumb bitch stories from good Mom's bad Choices.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 5: Okay, So I can't wait.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: And we're back, all right, y'all.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: So we have uh dumb bitch stories for the women
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: and stimp series for the men. Okay, so we need
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: a dumb bitch storre. This is just a time or
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: a situation where you got played. And I don't know
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: how y'all get down by the same or opposite sex.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: It could be either or.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 5: I've shared this story before on the Pot, but this
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 5: is a first for y'all. So well, my dumbitch story
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: started once upon a time I was walking in uh
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 5: on fourteenth Street. I just got off the train and
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: there was this fine guy. He was, but he was
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 5: out there. He was like he's kind of short, which
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: I'm not really into the short kings too much, like
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: I have I make a few exceptions, but he was
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 5: out there selling. He was like selling like feed the
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 5: children type packages, like like sponsor a child in Africa.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: Was he really working for non problem?
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: He was. I really did feed.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 5: I fed. I fed Zach for a good three hundred
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 5: and sixty five days. Okay, So anyway, he brought he top,
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 5: he took me to Starbucks, sold me on the package,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: got it. He was. He was really fine to me
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 5: at the time. He told me that he was a model,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 5: and so I was like, oh my god, what model.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 5: And he had the pictures ready. It was like a
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 5: Calvin Klein ad that he had done, a VERSACEI ad,
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 5: but like all the pictures were kind of like from
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 5: the side, and he was Dominican, so he you know,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 5: he had a specific He's like kind of he was Dominican,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 5: but he kind of like Puerto Rican. Whatever. Anyway, long
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 5: story short I saw these pictures. My friends had started
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: to do research because they didn't trust him. They're like,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 5: I don't think that's really him in the picture and
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 5: I was like, yes, it is girl, like it is him.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 5: So anyway, we started, we're continuing to date long distance.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 5: He's in New York, I'm in LA. I'm being a
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: dumb bitch and so I have a really good job
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 5: at the time, so I'm flying him out to LA.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 5: He got no funds, but he had a big old dick,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: big old dick. You're kings, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: Oh listen, I'm a short nigga advocate. I always say that,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: like they be little and big at the same time.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: Okay, not Avidge.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 5: Anyway, you know, he because we were long distance, there's
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: a level of trust that you have to have. And
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 5: he was always telling me like he had his best friend.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 5: He had this best friend but she only had one arm,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 5: so she was handicapped. And he was like, you know,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 5: I'm hanging out with Andrea, and so he was like.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: Very he was really adamant about like this is like
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: my best friend from childhood.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 5: I never and my stupid ass, I never asked for
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: no pictures. This was before like social media too, Like
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 5: we Instagram wasn't really big. I think I don't even
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 5: think I had joined Instagram yet at this point, so
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, yeah, sure, I mean cause I had
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 5: male I had male friends as well, and in the past,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 5: like I had been in relationships where men had like
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 5: really are boys, I would say I had really like
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 5: had taken issue with my male friendships. And so he wasn't.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 5: So I was not going to ruffle no feathers because
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, they could go ahead, have your friend.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 5: I have my friend. We're cool. Long story short, I
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 5: get an email one day from a bitch named Andrea
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 5: talking about.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: Talking about.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 5: Talking about I heard I found out that you are
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 5: seeing my my man and I was like, who is
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 5: your man? And she told me it was this nigga.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 5: And I said, let me ask you a question. Do
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 5: you have one arm?
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: That's all I.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 4: Want to fucking know. Over there.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 5: Her strong hand, she said, bitch, what are you talking about? No,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 5: but then she said do you have one arm? Because
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 5: he had also told her that he had a friend
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 5: in La with one arm that he goes and visits
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 5: is his best friend from back in the day. And
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 5: I only got one bitch. So so then I was like, Okay,
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 5: that's crazy. But also I have one final question, is
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 5: Is this him? Are these his pictures? Is he a model? No, bitch,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 5: this was not him in any of the pictures. So
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 5: I was basically just dating a whole lie, just fucking
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 5: not a model that I thought he was. I was
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 5: really thinking like he was gonna make it out of
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 5: like the Child Africa scheme he was in, and he
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 5: was going to be a top model, and also that
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 5: he was just loyal to me, and he was just
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 5: so kind. He had this one arm bestie, and come
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 5: to find out, we both were handicapped. Bitch. Okay, so
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 5: that's my dumb bitch story. And that went on.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 4: Was with him for a year. That was a year
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: of my life, y'all. And then he proposed. Oh then
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 4: he dang.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he did propose to me one day one
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 5: time when I flew him to LA we had sex
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: on my friend's couch and while he was inside of me,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 5: he pulled out the tiniest diamond ring I've ever seen,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 5: and I said yes. So that adds to the dumb bitchness.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: Oh dumb, Sorry.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 5: We had that.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 3: I feel like.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: Girl.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: I still got the ring too. I never gave that
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 5: bitch back because it costs about probably forty two dollars.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: Oh goodness in love.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 5: I don't know if I could every now and then
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 5: I go check on him on his Instagram, see what
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 5: he's up to. Still fucking lying and scheming, trying to
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 5: be a singer, rapper or some shit.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: What's yours.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 4: I can't. I want to say, did I do this?
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: That's some pretty dumb bitch shit, Like Erica probably does
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 4: my dumb shit better than me, because I.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 5: Can think of one in particular. Actually, okay, the dog,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 5: I near gonna say that. Okay, it wasn't that bad.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 4: But one time I really needed to get an apartment
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 4: and my credit wasn't good, so I needed to scheme
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 4: into So my homegirl was like, call this guy. He
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: could hook you up. He's gonna do X, Y and Z.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, call the guy, pay him
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 4: his little five hundred. So I think I got the apartment.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: I think I had like some kind of Stockholm syndrome
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 4: because I was like, oh my god, he got me
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 4: this apartment. I was really struggling before, like thank god.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 4: So like he had a real deep voice and I
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 4: was like, where are you from, like you know, trying
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 4: start a conversation with the niggas doing the scheming because
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 4: I'm stupid, I'm a cancer. I'm like, oh my god,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 4: we gonna love each other. And then one day he
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: facetied me. He had this big old smile, got freckles,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 4: kind of light skinned. I was like, oh my guy,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 4: he's gotta fine. I was like Erica, Erica, the man
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 4: who helped me with the with the stuff. He's fine.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 4: So I was like all giddy. I was like, you know,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 4: you said you want to come to La, Like you
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 4: should come out and visit me. Like yeah, So he
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 4: comes to La and then he he gets up the car.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: He's like this big He's with a.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 5: Big old head and a little body. He looked like
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: a big nigga, you know how like big niggas got
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 5: big heads, like on the FaceTime. He looked like he
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 5: could be around six feet tall.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 4: So then erics like, you can't fuck him, Like if
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 4: you all have a baby, it's gonna be too little.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 4: I was like, shut up. But to make matters worse,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 4: he came down. He did have a big ass dog
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 4: and let him and the dog come.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: He brought a dog with him.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and on top of it, he was a Muslim,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 4: so he was one of those niggas. One time we
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 4: had a conversation and he was like, yeah, you know,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 4: I don't know the word of the Muslims. Like if
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 4: my brother, if I go to my brother's house, my
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 4: e hum or, whatever the fuck they be calling each
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 4: other and his wife goes in the back room. I said,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 4: like a dog, like we're talking about in her house.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 4: If you come over, she goes in the back room,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: so you don't have to speak, I said, oh, nigga.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 4: So then I had this complex I'm and he like
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 4: really did love horse, So he would like talk like salaciously,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 4: But then I also be talking this Muslim shit, and
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: then I would like sit there and watch fary con
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: fhary Con documentaries with him and be like yeah, I understand,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: and then I let him kind of move in basically,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 4: but wait.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 5: But why what kind of sex were you having that
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 5: he was mind fucking you with?
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 4: But wait, what kind of sex are you having?
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 5: Oh you don't remember, No, you guys were having like
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 5: you guys were role playing like trigger warning.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 7: No bitch, wait, hold up, hold on, now I don't
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 7: remember tell it.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: Wait, there's gotta you gotta do. She was long story short,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: she was digmatized. Okay, there was something going on sexually
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: that had her digmatized.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 4: Not trigger warning, bitch, oh my god. But then he
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: was like mind fucking me, Like he wasn't eating my
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 4: he was like talking super sillatiously. But then he's like,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 4: wasn't eating my pussy? And like, my, nigga, like you've
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 4: been You've been around here for a long time, Like
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 4: I started to notice there was like a mind manipul
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 4: and he would talk salaciously, but then like be like, oh,
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 4: you're gonna wear that, and I'm like, nigga, you just
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 4: tell me love hordes. I'm so confused. And like he
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 4: would talk, he would use like those big jail words
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 4: like under circumstantial understanding of spirituality, and I was like,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 4: you're so smart. Anyway, I let him move in and
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: he was bipolar and he was having manic episodes occasionally,
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 4: and then I told all my friends that it was
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 4: over and that he had moved out and I'm not
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 4: talking to him anymore. And then one time I was
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 4: on the phone with Erica and I was like yeah,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 4: uh huh, and then all of a sudden, the background
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 4: was like she was like, bitch, and I was like.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 4: She was like, is that fucking man and that fucking
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 4: dog over there? And I was like, huh, I'll call
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: you back. And I was like, what the fuck did
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 4: you shut the dog up? Nigga? I told you no, man.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 3: Not going to see a man with a whorse a
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 3: man with a dog.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 4: And then I continued the ridiculous relationship until one day
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 4: he slapped me in my face and I was like, oh,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 4: god's really trying to try me right now, Like are
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 4: you a real dumb bitch? And then like Erica was
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 4: like just picking me up and I got in the
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 4: car and she was like what's wrong? And I was like, he.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 3: Was conditioning you the whole time.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like hardcore. I was like totally unattached. And
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 4: then it switched and then I was acting nuts. She
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 4: was like a like on crack. She was like a
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 4: crackhead for this dick, okay, crack stot status.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: It was what the trigger warning was?
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 4: I think was it like was it like rape play?
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 4: Is that what it was? Okay, I don't even remember that.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 4: I've blocked it out, but yeah, I'm pretty I like
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 4: for someone to take it a little bit. So maybe
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 4: he went all the way, yeah a bit. Yeah, he's
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 4: like choking ed this whole. This is.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Like I want to planned one, like plan it, Like, yeah,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: it's planned, it was planned.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: I was like, it was consensual, non consensual. It's that's
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 4: a real word in the kink, consensual, non consensual. So
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 4: I was really into that he was. He was an Okay,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 4: this is the thing aj those short niggas, And this
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 4: is where all the ladies listening. Those short niggas do
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 4: be packing sometimes okay sometimes, but also with short niggas,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 4: they've had to they've had to compensate for their height
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 4: their whole life, so they come with a lot of
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 4: buried testosterone that comes out unhealthy. So they might slap you.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 4: They're going to mind fuck you, and they probably have
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 4: really worked on their their their talking and their sex
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 4: game really good because that's how they brain fuck you.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 4: So if they come and have all this chemistry and
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: they stare deep into your eyes, run, bitch, run, they're
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 4: trying to mind fuck your brain.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: Mine used to drool on me. Imagine somebody drooling on
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: you while you having sex.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: They just he would growl like and then he would
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 4: do like he would do Arabic prayer like Mama, I'd
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 4: like I'd be like, oh my god, he loved me
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 4: so much. He made it was he was just like saying, oh,
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 4: ba blah blah like I don't even know the words anymore,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 4: a blah blah like he would like pray after he
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 4: fucked me. And I was like, it was like, that's
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 4: why I don't really fuck with Kevin Gates because I
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 4: see that same demon. Like there's like a similar there's
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 4: like a sex demon that lives in like in like
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 4: certain type of men where they act like they love
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 4: the horrishness about you, but then they tried to do
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 4: like some religious ship. They try to like use big words.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: I'm just so glad Draca left his ass because it's
• 1:19:31
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