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Wake Up & Work HARD - Unlock Your Best Self with Positive Habits · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: You don't get disciplined from your parents. You don't get
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  Speaker 1: disciplined from your parents, from your grandparents, from your older
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  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters. You don't get disciplined from an external source.
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  Speaker 1: You have to get it from you. That's what self
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  Speaker 1: discipline is. You get it from yourself. You get it
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  Speaker 1: from you.
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  Speaker 2: Some of your best motivation might come wrapped in sand paper.
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  Speaker 2: Some of your best inspiration comes with some pricks and
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  Speaker 2: some nails and some thorns around it. Some of your
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  Speaker 2: best inspiration came in an experience that you didn't ask for,
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  Speaker 2: you didn't want, and you never want to have again.
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  Speaker 2: Some of your best inspiration, some of the very thing
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  Speaker 2: that's fuelled your soul to get you here, came in
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  Speaker 2: an experience that you dare not wish on your enemy.
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  Speaker 3: Things we've worked the hardest for, we value the most.
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  Speaker 3: So I think you know the purpose of a goal
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  Speaker 3: is not getting it anyway. The purpose of goal, you know,
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  Speaker 3: is who you become. Well, he becomes going to make
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  Speaker 3: you happier, it's going to make.
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  Speaker 4: You sad every day in a thousand different ways. We
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  Speaker 4: are trying to improve ourselves by learning how to do things.
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  Speaker 4: We spend a lifetime gathering knowledge in classrooms, in textbooks,
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  Speaker 4: and experiences. Now, if knowledge is power, if knowledge is
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  Speaker 4: the forerunner to success, then why do we fall short
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  Speaker 4: of our objectives? Why, in spite of all our knowledge,
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  Speaker 4: and in spite of our collective experiences, do we find
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  Speaker 4: ourselves aimlessly wandering, settling for a life of existence rather
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  Speaker 4: than a life of substance. There may be many answers
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  Speaker 4: to this question. Your answers may be different than your associates,
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  Speaker 4: or your spouses, or your friends. While there may be
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  Speaker 4: many answers to this question, the fundamental answer is the
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  Speaker 4: absence of discipline applying all that we know. That's the
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  Speaker 4: key word, discipline.
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  Speaker 5: Self discipline the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are
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  Speaker 5: trying to excel, who have dreams, that want to do things.
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  Speaker 5: Talent you have, naturally, skill is only developed by hours
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  Speaker 5: and hours and hours of beaten on your craft. You
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  Speaker 5: don't try to build a wall. You don't set out
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  Speaker 5: to build a wall. You don't say I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: bake the build the biggest, baddest, greatest wall that's ever
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  Speaker 5: been built. You don't start there. You say I'm going
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  Speaker 5: to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can
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  Speaker 5: be laid. There will not be one brick on the
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  Speaker 5: face of the earth that's going to be laid better
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  Speaker 5: than this brick. Then I'm going to lay in this
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  Speaker 5: next ten minutes. And you do that every single day.
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  Speaker 5: Soon you have a wall. Is it's difficult to take
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  Speaker 5: the first step when you look how big the task is.
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  Speaker 5: The task is never huge to me, It's always one brick.
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  Speaker 6: I would say reading is the strongest signal for success
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  Speaker 6: in the future that I've ever seen. It is the strongest, strongest, strongest.
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  Speaker 6: I got my first job in radio when I was
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  Speaker 6: sixteen years old, because I've been been broadcasting since I
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  Speaker 6: was sixteen years old, But my first job I got
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  Speaker 6: because I was a great reader.
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  Speaker 7: When you are a great reader, you can articulate and
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  Speaker 7: speak and command the English language in ways that other
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  Speaker 7: people cannot, and people think you're a lot smarter than
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  Speaker 7: you are lots of times because you're a great reader.
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  Speaker 8: When you take an al, take you take the right
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  Speaker 8: al you like, I'm gonna be very cautious on that
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  Speaker 8: next move if you're smart. So number one, every single day,
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  Speaker 8: I want you to go to bed at night, stop.
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  Speaker 3: Playing games, and be.
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  Speaker 8: Honest about the wins and the losses. So I always
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  Speaker 8: remember where I came from. I remember all the als
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  Speaker 8: I took, because when you forget the als, that's when
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  Speaker 8: you like you big and bad.
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  Speaker 3: I remember. I always tell people. The most valuable lesson
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  Speaker 3: I got from my mentor gym Ron was I asked.
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  Speaker 3: My father worked two jobs. We were always broke. We
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  Speaker 3: had no money for food, and we lived in a
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  Speaker 3: community we moved to which was I thought they were
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  Speaker 3: all rich and we were on the other side of
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  Speaker 3: the tracks. It was a lower middle class, but compared
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  Speaker 3: to where we lived before, these people seemed rich compared
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  Speaker 3: to us, and I just didn't understand it. And Jim
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  Speaker 3: said to me, Tony, it's not about the value of
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  Speaker 3: your soul. It's about the value of you in the marketplace.
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  Speaker 3: And your father's skills are not that valuable. He used
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  Speaker 3: to take with an undergone parking attendant and he would
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  Speaker 3: take people's ticket and make change.
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  Speaker 9: Well, the research.
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  Speaker 3: Now shows is being done at Yale's being done overseas
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  Speaker 3: in England as well, and they found that forty percent
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  Speaker 3: of all jobs they project in the next ten years
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  Speaker 3: are going to disappear because of technology, it's going to
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  Speaker 3: be replaced by an algorithm. It's going to be changed.
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  Speaker 3: You know, all these guys on Wall Street, You're seeing
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  Speaker 3: all these algorithms take over and they're getting rid of
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  Speaker 3: all these traders. It's changing radically. These in these hedge funds,
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  Speaker 3: there's three million truck drivers. Self driving cars are here.
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  Speaker 3: In the next five years, they will be the standard.
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  Speaker 3: Certainly within seven or eight year. Are you going to
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  Speaker 3: hire someone who can only work eight hours a day
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  Speaker 3: and sometimes gets drunk or can make a mistake when
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  Speaker 3: you can buy a machine, write down the machine and
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  Speaker 3: be in a position where it works twenty four hours
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  Speaker 3: a day driving. But no one is telling these drivers
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  Speaker 3: this and they have to retool now. So technology is
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  Speaker 3: the biggest challenge. Labor is less valuable because of efficiencies
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  Speaker 3: with technology, and it's going to get better and better
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  Speaker 3: for technology, which is scary when you think about what's
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  Speaker 3: going to happen for jobs. So I say to people,
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  Speaker 3: you've got to participate in your own rescue. You've got
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  Speaker 3: to retool yourself. The idea that Bernie Sanders has of
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  Speaker 3: providing free education sounds wonderful, but the education he wants
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  Speaker 3: to do is community college. There are no skill sets
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  Speaker 3: in community colleges today for the most part, that are
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  Speaker 3: going to prepare you for the economy or a job
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  Speaker 3: that's there. So what is that going to do. You're
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  Speaker 3: just gonna waste more money, more time. We need to
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  Speaker 3: retool ourselves. The government's not going to do it for you.
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  Speaker 10: Do we sit down and let change just happen to us?
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  Speaker 10: Or are we just watching change happening around us? Or
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  Speaker 10: are we aware that change is happening within us?
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  Speaker 9: Are we going to.
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  Speaker 10: Be those proactive people who make.
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  Speaker 9: Sure that we affect what happens to us.
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  Speaker 10: Change also produces four types of people. They are in
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  Speaker 10: this room.
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  Speaker 9: First of all, there are people who watch things happen. Now,
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  Speaker 9: let me say something about change. This is important you
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  Speaker 9: Not all change is improvement.
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  Speaker 10: You used to weigh one hundred and twenty eight.
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  Speaker 9: And now are you changed? And for some of you,
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  Speaker 9: that's not an improvement. You lost your.
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  Speaker 10: Wardrobe, you lost your ability to climb up steps fast,
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  Speaker 10: even lost the quality.
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  Speaker 9: Of health that you had.
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  Speaker 10: Change doesn't mean improvement all the time. But the problem
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  Speaker 10: is without change, there can be no improvement. So you
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  Speaker 10: have to decide what to do with change. Change would happen,
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  Speaker 10: and if you are not careful, it could be destructive.
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  Speaker 10: So you have to determine what kind of change do
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  Speaker 10: I want in my life? And I want you as
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  Speaker 10: a young person, as a mother and a father, as
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  Speaker 10: a business person, to think about your company even or
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  Speaker 10: your family, or your educational pursuit or what kind of
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  Speaker 10: classes do you want to take in college this year?
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  Speaker 9: What kind of grades do you want?
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  Speaker 10: What kind of relationships you want to have in your life?
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  Speaker 9: Who do you want to drop? But who do you
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  Speaker 9: want to pick up in your relationships?
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  Speaker 10: What kind of people do you want to associate with?
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  Speaker 10: Where do you want to travel that you've never been?
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  Speaker 9: What are the books you need to read you never
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  Speaker 9: read before that? The changes.
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  Speaker 10: Come with choices, So what kind of depression are you?
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes your dreams are flirting with you, but you're not
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  Speaker 5: letting your dreams.
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  Speaker 9: For it, because, oh, you're doing the same. I know
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  Speaker 9: what you're trying to do with me. You're just trying
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  Speaker 9: to get into my pants. Of course, your dreams are
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  Speaker 9: trying to get into your pants. All the storytellers are
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  Speaker 9: kind of gone, and the actual understanding of our users
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  Speaker 9: is gone. We've lost all that sensitivity and yet I
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  Speaker 9: feel like that sensitivity comes first from really knowing yourself.
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  Speaker 9: Ever ever give up.
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  Speaker 11: You can change, and you can move around, but never
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  Speaker 11: ever give up.
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  Speaker 10: There's a saying that says you could lead a horse
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  Speaker 10: to the water, but you can't.
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  Speaker 9: But you can't make them drink. You plan, you plan,
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  Speaker 9: but what about is this comes up?
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  Speaker 12: You don't get caught off guard.
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  Speaker 9: Proper preparation presents poor performance.
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  Speaker 8: Fail big, that's right, fail big.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Particularly if you're starting a company, you need to
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  Speaker 1: work super hart.
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  Speaker 9: That's how you get better by the way. That's part
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  Speaker 9: of life as well. That's what makes it juicy to
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  Speaker 9: want to keep getting better.
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  Speaker 3: And sitting back and watching television that's playing defense, provoke, inspire.
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  Speaker 9: Don't just get involved, but inspire others.
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  Speaker 3: To be involved. That's playing offense.
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  Speaker 11: Sometimes in life to be successful, oftentimes most of the time,
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  Speaker 11: you have to follow your instincts. You have to follow
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  Speaker 11: your gun.
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  Speaker 10: There is a moment in the life of ever regeneration
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  Speaker 10: when that spirit of hopefulness has to come through.
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  Speaker 9: If we are to make our mark on.
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  Speaker 8: History, remember that just because you're doing a lot more.
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  Speaker 9: Doesn't mean you're getting a lot more.
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  Speaker 3: Done.
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  Speaker 12: The ability to manage yourself very very very well, you know,
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  Speaker 12: or at least well enough where you almost become compulsive
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  Speaker 12: about getting certain things done.
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  Speaker 3: Is being able to laugh with your team about some
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  Speaker 3: of the crazy stuff that happens.
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  Speaker 9: And you know you.
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  Speaker 3: Can't take yourself too seriously. You have to take the
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  Speaker 3: job seriously.
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  Speaker 6: You have to take your responsibility seriously.
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  Speaker 1: But you know you have to be able to laugh
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  Speaker 1: at yourself first and foremost in order to.
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  Speaker 9: Be able to manage the whole.
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  Speaker 2: Is the way you view the world is the way
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  Speaker 2: you view things money, life, marriage, business, freedom, relationships.
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  Speaker 9: Those processing that you have here. It's okay to change
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  Speaker 9: those things, but not your personality.
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  Speaker 4: Like, if you're here, you probably kick a lot of
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  Speaker 4: acids something.
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  Speaker 9: You're probably the best at something.
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  Speaker 4: You have ambition, you're a risk taker, you have learned
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  Speaker 4: to hack.
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  Speaker 10: You will fail at some point in your life except it.
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  Speaker 10: You will lose, you will embarrass yourself, you will suck
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  Speaker 10: at something.
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  Speaker 9: There's no doubt about it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you embracing because it's inevitable.