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Yvonne Nelson Calls Out Tonto Dikeh, Iyanya, Sakodie & Her Mom · DidiLawren

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  We deliver worldwide. Now, today's topic is piping hot
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  Daniel actress. Eva Nelson.
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  I said the whole social media on fire.
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  Nigeria's, are losing their marbles.
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  Canyons are losing their marbles.
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  Millennials are having a field day on social media because even
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  else in this house, It's to put our business out there.
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  We know woman or no celebrity has done before everyone else.
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  In release the book. I am not even Nelson.
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  Book is kind of a tell-all book. She told the whole lot about
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  herself from when she was a child to this present day, even
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  Nelson, but she's saying that she's not involved Nelson, but I
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  think well is buzzing on social media is the fact that she made
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  mention of Of having an abortion.
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  She said she dated dannion singer when she was about 24.
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  She was in school, she dated sarkodie or sarkodie.
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  She said it wasn't like a serious relationship because
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  according to her, she is attracted to kind of musicians
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  or people in the industry in the entertainment industry.
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  So she saw him, she likes his music at that.
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  Point sarkodie was already in a relationship with long-term
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  relationship. In fact, his I told sweetheart
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  so they were dating. Who is not his wife by the way.
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  So they were dating. It wasn't hidden or she liked
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  him we don't know. The story that sarkodie toward
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  evil Nelson decided eating it was sexual relationship and she
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  said at some point she missed her monthly flows.
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  You went to the hospital. She confirmed she was pregnant
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  she went to do. She went to she called them
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  sarkodie to tell him. That's okay.
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  So we have produced some The new and then sarkodie was like oh
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  that he's not interested because he still living with his
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  parents, you know, they're all young, I mean just cast your
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  mind back like 30 years ago, she was young, he was young, they
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  have nothing. They were both, just struggling
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  living with her parents. She was in school, he was trying
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  to make it in the music industry.
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  So this, we are two people who are not financially, ready to
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  raise a child, according to even else in the both agreed to get
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  rid of the Uncie, he said, sarkodie actually took her to
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  the hospital, both abandoned her, and they ran away, which it
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  might be scared that she might come out of it alive or
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  something like that. It happens.
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  So she held a grudge and that was all she wrote in a book but
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  I don't know. Why is getting all that balls?
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  Because security has actually sang about this a couple of
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  times in his lyrics. I am listen.
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  Was he made money as of Beats but now that it will Nelson, is
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  coming out to say, how side of the story people are blaming her
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  because oh, you killed the child.
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  You did this, you did that. Anyway, the second pass that is
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  buzzing, is the fact that even Nelson talk about her
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  relationship with a? I am 9 years and I enjoy
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  dancing. Everybody Knows Why They are all
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  I want, is your waist. He is, is he was the west wind
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  up dead like He did it and other peak of his career then because
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  yeah, I he has picked given Nelson at that.
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  Point also was getting into Nollywood, trying to break into
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  the, Nigerian movie scene. And she was doing good for
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  yourself because I mean, even Nelson.
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  She's beautiful. She's tall.
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  I think she won Miss Ghana or something, so, she should have
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  made a name for herself. They said, they'd seen according
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  to Paul Nelson. It was a very beautiful
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  relationship breakfast in bed, and all those kind of Things.
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  And then she somebody told her that.
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  Yeah, was having a relationship with a particular actress.
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  She later discovered that the set actress whose turn to the
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  key. Now, during this whole time,
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  like over ten years ago, they actually sat down a book Arabic
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  Minds with those area and turn to Decay and the more denied it.
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  I think ya had an event in London and Toronto Ditka was
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  kind of the opening act, you know, when she doubled into me.
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  Music are all the people of the stage.
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  It was a whole Bloom, like to the Decay became a meme at that
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  point in time. So, both the both denied that
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  they dated, or accordance with what Nelson, she confirmed that
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  they had, and that was why she broke up with him.
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  I am not just want to Decay, but that she said, a whole lot of,
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  like, the whole of Africa was definitely the roller Africa.
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  Ladies, Destiny are from South Africa, from Zimbabwe because EA
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  Eau, The roof of the movement at that point.
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  So she decided to withdraw from the relationship because she
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  just thought this guy is for the street now fast forward. 10
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  years later, it will Nelson. Has written about it and your
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  waist the music that they are actually mentioned to us have
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  aged 20 Decay and evil Nelson that has gone viral again.
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  Yeah it's just sitting down smiling to the bank's.
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  Even Nelson is sitting down counting her coins because
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  everybody is Ali, buying the books downloaded books because
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  they want to read what she has to say about sarkodie and he is
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  now actually read some part of the books.
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  Because, you know, we're in the computer age, there are PDF
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  flying all over the Internet. So I read parts of the book and
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  the thing that made me kind of worried was the fact that people
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  left the points of the book and just focused on the fact that
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  she said she hadn't Ocean or the fact that she said, she sleeps.
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  These are known. Fact, we already knew that she
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  dated the air. We already know that she didn't
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  sarkodie the news. There is that nobody knew that
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  she had an abortion. And for the fact that psycho D
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  is now married to his childhood lover, who he was dating when he
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  had a relationship with evolve or such, as I don't even know
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  because it will Nelson said it wasn't like a serious
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  relationship. Internship.
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  So they were just, you know, guessing is on.
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  And then that happened. So sarkodie right now have to
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  explain to his wife how he goes, entangled in the whole situation
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  but the real Revelation for me is the fact that even though
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  nothing has never met her dad and with, you know, or you
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  follow Devon Nelson story, you understand that she has always
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  talked about her mom being her hero.
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  Her dad is a deadbeat dad and dad never Ha ha dad never cared
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  about how she always praised her mom.
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  Now the shocking thing in this book is the fact that the mother
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  never told her who her real dad is or walls.
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  Because the Nelson man, this is what she says.
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  She is not evil Nelson because the Nelson man who the mother
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  told her was her, dad actually always denied that you're not my
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  child but it won't Just believe that.
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  According to what the mom has told her.
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  This man is he dead beat this mother wants to take
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  responsibility. This man, is this this man is
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  that so she just believed everything.
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  The mom told her own till the mother was very sick.
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  She decided to do a DNA test. She did the first one, the he
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  came back - like that's not her. Father, she said, she asked me
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  how to do the second DNA test to convince herself.
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  That's this man is actually, no, my father died before she could
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  apologize to. Him he passed on.
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  Now, she went back to the mother to Silky.
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  Where's my father? And the mother of two now,
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  doesn't want to review who her father, is she talked about the
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  hurts of, you know, feeling rejected not knowing her.
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  Father, all, you know, when she was growing up feeling that her
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  father, never wanted her, but all along.
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  It was a mother who was preventing her knowing, who her
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  real father is. Knowing that mr.
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  Nelson was not her. Dad boy said to have a mr.
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  Nelson was her dad, this has different layers because at this
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  point, even Nelson is no longer speak in speaking terms with her
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  mother because the mother is still refusing to tell her who
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  her father is. Now, looking at this whole
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  thing, I just feel that let us give the mom like a benefit of
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  Doubt because we don't know, we don't know.
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  Let's say she doesn't know who the father is price.
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  I think if as in mother your child is asking you and you
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  don't know who the father is, all you need to do is tell her,
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  we're like we're adults. He's an adult.
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  She can understand that, okay? Maybe you went out to the club
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  and then you got it on with somebody who you don't know.
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  I got pregnant or the fact that okay, you don't even know.
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  You're just busy having fun. And you can't tell who if she
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  had come out to tell her. I was leaving.
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  Giving some kind of lifestyle and right now, I can't tell you
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  who your father is, I think you would have been a different
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  story. Now, the plot twist is that
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  there was an analysis going on online saying that even Nelson,
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  was allegedly born out of incest, because the person who
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  got the mother pregnant is probably a family member and she
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  is ashamed to come out and tell everyone else in does, okay?
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  We share the same father or your uncle is your father or your,
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  this is your father like that shame.
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  She is trying to gather shame with her life.
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  A lot of people they've come out online, they've condemned the
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  mother they said that okay, your child is just asking you for one
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  simple information. Why don't you just give the
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  child the information? I agree with the fact that there
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  is something behind her refusing to share that detail.
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  There is something more She's mad because on the answer that
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  is she is not trying to review. We live in a nest of society.
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  We hear these things are father, forcing their children, father
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  getting their doses pregnant, we see all these things.
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  And we be like, oh my go to fear.
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  Ha, how can people do all these things?
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  You don't know what this woman is trying to protect and I get
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  the fat guy for Nelson is angry right now.
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  She is hating and everybody. She's trying to tell her story.
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  Only because for healing to take place, you have to come out and
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  you know say something what have understanding?
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  This whole thing is don't offend the Millennia according to even
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  else in the way her mom because from the she documented,
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  everything in her book, she said that when the mother was
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  pregnant six months, pregnant, she actually went to the
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  hospital to remove the pregnancy me, six months. 40 mother or for
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  a woman? I mean, she was young when she
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  had so for her to not even know she was pregnant for 6 months
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  and for her to go to the hospital asking the doctor to
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  terminate the pregnancy. You could tell that it was it
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  was it was a very traumatic one. According to Von Nelson.
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  The doctor advised her not to remove the pregnancy because
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  she's not just going to lose the child.
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  She's also likely going to lose her life.
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  Life because it's like a later stage of the whole thing.
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  So she said the mom went home had her for any little Ike
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  fight. She'll be like, who I wish I
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  never had you. I wish I never did this.
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  I wish you could see that. The woman is also going through
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  some traumatic, whatever. She was going through, a she is
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  going through and the only way she can cope is not revealing
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  who the identity of her father is.
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  But at this point, She's suffering the child, she is
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  suffering the child, but we have to understand that maybe the
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  answer will be even more traumatic than, or even knowing
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  who the father is. We never know, we never know.
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  So it's all these detailed in the book of how she has gone
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  from, you know, somebody who is traumatized to being a parent
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  herself. I mean even asked to marry
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  somebody who already have kids. Who was already married there is
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  trauma cycle and I think this book or this book has gone
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  forever. Nothing is to break that
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  traumatic cycle because according to her, even her
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  mother did not know who her father is.
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  And then she had even Nelson, and she is not telling anyone
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  else and who her daddy's now evanescent had a child for
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  somebody who according to her, the reason one of the main
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  reason why she kind of Got pregnant for this person because
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  she she says at this point she did not want.
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  Love she just wanted to have a child.
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  So this person she saw the person he already had kids and
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  the way he was with his children, she decided to go
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  ahead to, you know, have a child for the guy.
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  So you could see how this who trauma is going in circles whole
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  family, just need prayers because this is generational
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  continuation or I hope that because she has written a book
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  her daughter knowing her father and she's able to use that to at
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  least make sure that the father is in the life of the daughter.
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  Like I don't even I just wish I do the best, I wish I healing.
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  I wish I everything that she hopes that this book brings to
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  her because it's not easy. It's not easy to come out and
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  just pour out all your heart and All people are talking about is
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  security and yeah, there are deeper issues, people can learn
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  from this whole thing. And before we go to Georgia,
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  before we were casting Stones, this thing happened over 13
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  years ago, over 14 years ago, put yourself in her shoes when
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  you were that age. We all have made mistakes.
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  We all have done things that we shouldn't have done.
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  Is she is just famous and have been This is out there.
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  I mean, she put the business out there, don't get me wrong.
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  That is always, he's now talking about it, but we should also
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  empathize on her mental state. Because for her, it takes a
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  whole lot of Courage for somebody to pour their deepest
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  deepest, emotions out there. And I wish you all the best.
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  Now, that is allowed to say for today because I don't know if
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  there's going to be a part 2. Maybe sarkodie is going to come
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  out and tell his own side of the story.
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  Nobody knows, let's just wait and see how that happens or see
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  how that goes. Thank you very much for watching
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