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JJR Couples Therapy: Couch #DRAMZ with Johnjay & Blake · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Okay, so welcome to our podcast. This is a little
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  Speaker 1: bit different today because this podcast is a spin off
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  Speaker 1: of our radio check.
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  Speaker 2: All right, welcome to the John J.
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  Speaker 1: Vanes Podcast. Today's guest my wife Walkey Vaines Blake van Ess.
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  Speaker 1: And one of the things is on the radio show,
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  Speaker 1: we do a podcast every Sunday, we drop a couple's podcast.
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  Speaker 1: And because of the incredible human being known as Tyler,
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  Speaker 1: the podcast creator, executive producer, co partner, co founder, co
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  Speaker 1: creator of the John J. Vanes Podcast, we're able to
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  Speaker 1: do Blake and I in the studio. And one big
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  Speaker 1: thing to notice about today's podcast is my wife Jess
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  Speaker 1: got her hair done.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, good hair. And of course you don't like my
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  Speaker 3: hair like this, he says, it's not curly, Yes it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's very I think your normal hair is curly.
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  Speaker 3: This is my normal hair, Yes it is.
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  Speaker 1: This is what normal hair if you just got it done.
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  Speaker 3: This is what I was born with, the red hair.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm not going about the color of
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  Speaker 1: your hair, Blake. I'm talking to the style of your hair.
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  Speaker 1: I like your natural hair curls when you jump in
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  Speaker 1: the pool and you take a shower and your hair
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  Speaker 1: is curly, like the way your hair was yesterday, the
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  Speaker 1: day before, for the last three weeks, and then you
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  Speaker 1: go and you get it done like this and it
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  Speaker 1: looks very nice. But it's just not my top five.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's my top it's not my top two. I
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  Speaker 1: mean it, I guess it is my top two. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not a fan of the bob that you had when
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  Speaker 1: you first.
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  Speaker 3: Met with the banks. Yeah, you don't want the banks back.
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  Speaker 1: I have a bunch of questions from our audience that
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  Speaker 1: I want to get to, But first I think we
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  Speaker 1: should anupdate because last time you found out that you
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  Speaker 1: had to have some procedures. Do you feel open enough
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  Speaker 1: to talk about said procedures?
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  Speaker 3: Sure?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to? You don't have to.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't mind sharing. I mean because maybe
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  Speaker 3: I help somebody. I had a full hysterectomy and they
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  Speaker 3: took everything and it was it was it wasn't that
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  Speaker 3: bad of an experience. It was in and out of
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  Speaker 3: the I spent one night in the hospital and spent
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  Speaker 3: six weeks rehab like recovering where your body is like
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  Speaker 3: adjusting to all that open space and moving around. And
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  Speaker 3: I loved my doctor, doctor Kelly Helms, and it worked
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  Speaker 3: out great, and I'm what, ten weeks now, I feel great?
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  Speaker 1: You do? You feel great?
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  Speaker 3: I do feel great.
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  Speaker 1: There's a difference, like you feel oh, because they get
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  Speaker 1: rid of they had some fibroid tumors. You get some
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  Speaker 1: other stuff. They get rid a bunch of stuff.
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  Speaker 3: So you feel I feel better. Yeah, my body feels better.
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  Speaker 3: I feel better mentally because I thought I was going
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  Speaker 3: through menopause and I wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: So what advice do you have for any women that
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  Speaker 1: are going through this.
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  Speaker 3: I think that you should definitely get an ultrasound because
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  Speaker 3: I didn't For five years. I kept telling my doctor
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  Speaker 3: that it's kind of weird. I'm like, still bleeding, and
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  Speaker 3: they would say, oh, well, you're probably just finishing up.
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  Speaker 3: And so finally I'm like, I'm fifty seven, Like what
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  Speaker 3: the heck? And I went to sign up with the
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  Speaker 3: concierge doctor and she said, have you ever done an ultrasound?
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  Speaker 3: I said no, And she did an ultrasound and quickly
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  Speaker 3: figured out that I had a fibroid that was in
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  Speaker 3: need of getting out.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, by the way, last night, well, let me backtrack.
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  Speaker 1: Over the weekend, we were in Fresno.
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  Speaker 3: Where were we we were in Fullerton.
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  Speaker 1: We're in Fullerton watching our son play basketball, and we
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  Speaker 1: had a hotel room with two beds, and I thought
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  Speaker 1: we were going to sleep in two different beds, but
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  Speaker 1: you thought otherwise eyes and crawled into bed with me,
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  Speaker 1: and then after discussion, you went to the other bed.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let me back up a second, because because.
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  Speaker 1: This is going somewhere, but go ahead, but let me
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  Speaker 1: back up.
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  Speaker 3: So we were we don't normally get two beds, but
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  Speaker 3: we were trying to get into the hotel where my
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  Speaker 3: son was staying and it was sold out for like
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  Speaker 3: a week, and so that's that was our choice. It's
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  Speaker 3: too bad.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, it was our only choice.
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  Speaker 3: It was our only choice, so it was fine with me.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, you're in one.
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  Speaker 3: Bed on the other bed, Well, in my head, was
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  Speaker 3: no problem. I'll be right up close next to him.
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  Speaker 1: And then I slept in my own bed and you
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  Speaker 1: slept in your bed. And it turns out I had
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  Speaker 1: the highest score of the year for me, sleep score
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  Speaker 1: of the year. Right, Yes, you are so pretty when
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  Speaker 1: you laugh like that.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: So so last night, yeah, yesterday I had pretty good sleep.
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  Speaker 1: And then last night we went to bed, and you
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  Speaker 1: went to bed with me at the same time, but
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  Speaker 1: you decided to read. And I was like, Okay, she's
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  Speaker 1: gonna read, but you do. All the lights are out
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  Speaker 1: and you wear these little headlamps to read right.
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  Speaker 3: And we're not a headlights. It's like this little necklace
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  Speaker 3: thing that has the little lights on it.
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  Speaker 1: And we have a couch in the bedroom on the
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  Speaker 1: other side of the bedroom, which is for reading. That
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  Speaker 1: was meant to people to sit and read right, and
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  Speaker 1: you don't do that. And so last night I go
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  Speaker 1: to sleep and I don't know how I was out
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  Speaker 1: like a light man, and I was. I know because
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  Speaker 1: I look at my oar ring and I can see
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  Speaker 1: I usually get my deep sleep pretty quick in the
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  Speaker 1: when I go to sleep, so I'm out like a
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  Speaker 1: light and all a sudden I wake up because you're
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  Speaker 1: reading and you move, you move, and you move like this,
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  Speaker 1: and I woke up and I was out of my
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  Speaker 1: deep sleep, and I got so mad, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: why is this she in my head? Why is she
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  Speaker 1: reading over there? Why is she over there? This is
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  Speaker 1: why we need too bad. We need different beds in
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  Speaker 1: this room so I can sleep, she can sleep, and
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  Speaker 1: she can jump right off. She want, she won't wake
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  Speaker 1: me up. It's like if you go over there and read,
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  Speaker 1: then when you come back when you're ready to go
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  Speaker 1: to sleep, you just slide into bed and you don't move.
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  Speaker 1: But when you're in there lighting next to me and
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  Speaker 1: you're reading, you're like you're you're moving yourself and you go,
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  Speaker 1: this is how you turn. This is how it feels
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  Speaker 1: to me, like you turn the page, you're bring the.
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  Speaker 3: Book and you go, no way. That's how it feels
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  Speaker 3: like me, no way.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what happened to me last night.
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  Speaker 3: No way. So let me defend myself here. First of all,
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  Speaker 3: the little reading area that you're talking about is like
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  Speaker 3: a two butt couch.
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  Speaker 1: It's a little big size this couch.
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  Speaker 3: I could lay down on that one. My feet hang
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  Speaker 3: over the top. My neck. My neck hurts when I
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  Speaker 3: put the pillow there. It's not comfortable. And when I
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  Speaker 3: go to sleep after I'm reading, because I like to
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  Speaker 3: read to relax, I like to get into another world. Right.
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  Speaker 3: I love to read, you know that. I mean, I
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  Speaker 3: don't watch TV shows. Really, I love to read. That's
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  Speaker 3: my thing, that's my passion. So read my book all
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  Speaker 3: nice and then I can set it down when I'm
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  Speaker 3: in our bed and go and turn over and go
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  Speaker 3: to sleep. So we've bought two different things lights that
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  Speaker 3: seem to work. I don't know why you think I'm
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  Speaker 3: I think you're imagining.
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  Speaker 1: Around a lot when you read.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I do.
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  Speaker 1: My sleep apsels be different. So anyway, anyway, so I
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  Speaker 1: just thought i'd tell you that story. I hadn't seen you.
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  Speaker 1: This is literally the first.
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  Speaker 3: Time all the ladies out there, like we should be
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  Speaker 3: able to read before bed.
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  Speaker 1: This is the first time you and I have seen
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  Speaker 1: each other all day pretty much. Yeah right, yeah, we
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  Speaker 1: drove here together. Okay, So I put out earlier in
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  Speaker 1: the week I said you and I were doing the
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  Speaker 1: podcasting and see if anyone had any questions for us,
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  Speaker 1: and we have several. Actually, best advice for a new
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  Speaker 1: mom boy mom here with a six month old.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Boys, first of all are so weird.
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  Speaker 3: It's hard to imagine the things that they do ahead
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  Speaker 3: of time. But I would just say enjoy them and
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  Speaker 3: be active because boys are so active, and the more
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  Speaker 3: you tire them out, they seem to be better behaved
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  Speaker 3: when they're tired or cranky. Go to sleep. Early. But
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  Speaker 3: my advice for new moms in general is to enjoy
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  Speaker 3: every minute because we're at a point where our kids
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  Speaker 3: are in college, all three, and that time went so fast.
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  Speaker 3: Our son's birthday is today and John Jay posted this
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  Speaker 3: beautiful picture of him. That's one of my favorite pictures
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  Speaker 3: of him of all time, and it's like, if I
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  Speaker 3: could just turn back the clock to that, it was
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  Speaker 3: just awesome. So enjoy the minutes, even if.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard for me. My advice to a boy mom
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  Speaker 1: is this, have the best relationship you can have with
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  Speaker 1: your son, because I think think the mother son relationship
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  Speaker 1: is more important than the father son relationship. The father's
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  Speaker 1: a relationship is very important, but I think the mother
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  Speaker 1: son relationship will turn him into a good person, a
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  Speaker 1: good human being. And you have great relationships with our
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  Speaker 1: three boys, and I think all three of our boys
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  Speaker 1: have incredible character, integrity, and they're just good strong men,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that comes from their relationship with you.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I think. So that's my advice for a
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  Speaker 1: young for a boy mom.
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  Speaker 3: Let's see, does the opposite go for the girl moms.
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  Speaker 1: I think for the girl mom it's the opposite. It's
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  Speaker 1: it's the girl, the father has to have a fantastic Again,
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  Speaker 1: the mom mom daughter relationship is important, but I think
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  Speaker 1: the mom the father daughter relationship is extremely important because
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  Speaker 1: I think then that's how the daughter knows how she
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  Speaker 1: should be treated. If the father is an awesome dad.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have the right words to say this.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, I have zero education in this department.
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  Speaker 1: It's just my life experience is wisdom and what I've
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  Speaker 1: seen and what I've seen from good people, like you
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  Speaker 1: have a great relationship with your dad. You're one of
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  Speaker 1: the most amazing people I've ever met. My sister has
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  Speaker 1: a great relationship with her dad. My sister has a
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  Speaker 1: great relationship with your dad. Right, Yeah, I mean it's
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  Speaker 1: it's so and all the women I know in my
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  Speaker 1: life that are pretty solid I've had a great relationships
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  Speaker 1: with their dad.
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  Speaker 3: So when you go so, I guess the outcome of
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  Speaker 3: this conversation is when you go to date somebody, make
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  Speaker 3: sure that if they're a girl, they have a good
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  Speaker 3: relationship with their dad, if they're a boy, they have
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  Speaker 3: a good relationship with their mom. Then you're there.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody that long term. If you get into a relationship
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  Speaker 1: with somebody and yeah, if you're dating people just having
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  Speaker 1: fun whatever, who cares. But if you're going to get
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship, especially you start thinking about, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: I want to spend the rest of my life with
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  Speaker 1: this person, you're gonna be like, well, actually, I think
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  Speaker 1: you're right because you don't want to get to the
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  Speaker 1: point where you're like, I'm going to spend the rest
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  Speaker 1: of my life at the person. Oh I've fallen in
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  Speaker 1: love with her. Oh my god, she's psycho. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're right, you probably, I guess when you're when you're dating.
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  Speaker 1: Did you ever find a couch? No? No, I have
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  Speaker 1: now gone to I personally, Blake's gotten me to two places.
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  Speaker 1: I was at a place today with Kyle and Peyton
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  Speaker 1: from the radio show. We went couch hopping. I thought
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  Speaker 1: we found some, but I get so nervous to pull
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  Speaker 1: the trigger because I don't know the size and whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I've gone with my boys to a couple. I've gone
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  Speaker 1: to maybe five or six seven different places. So no,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't found a couch because we have we need
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  Speaker 1: a smaller couch, but I also want the couch where
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  Speaker 1: I can lay down to watch TV. So no, what
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  Speaker 1: are your thoughts on redoing the pool to eliminate water issues.
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  Speaker 1: Now if that means us with our water issues or
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  Speaker 1: they're asking about their water issues. But our pool is fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's just a little longer.
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  Speaker 3: I think we would redo it anymore because we've gotten
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  Speaker 3: the issue solved. But yeah, I guess the big lesson
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  Speaker 3: that we learned is when you build a pool, make
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  Speaker 3: sure you measure and you have the right pool company
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  Speaker 3: that knows exactly what to do and keep the water
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  Speaker 3: out of your house.
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  Speaker 1: Which TV show could you both be in and could
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  Speaker 1: be separately or together? I mean there's TV shows i'd
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  Speaker 1: like to be in.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe that's a good way to I don't know. Mine
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  Speaker 3: will probably be way back. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I like to be in Fallout. I like to be
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  Speaker 1: in Shrinking. I'd like to be in a Netflix docuseries.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to be Molly Ringwold.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to be Moi Ringwold. So you wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be in sixteen Candles.
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  Speaker 3: That's on TV show.
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  Speaker 1: What keeps your marriage going strong?
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  Speaker 3: Playing backgammon on the weekends.
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  Speaker 1: That's what doesn't Yeah, we.
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  Speaker 3: Walk, we play backgammon. It's fun.
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  Speaker 1: I think you need to communicate, community.
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  Speaker 3: Cation, h communication is important too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, communication and backgammon. What were each of your boys
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  Speaker 1: first words?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, is that bad? I would hope it's Mama,
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  Speaker 3: I would think.
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  Speaker 1: I think, I think it's dad for most of them.
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  Speaker 1: What are your what? What's your each other's x X?
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  Speaker 1: What it is like?
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  Speaker 3: Something that grosses you out?
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  Speaker 1: Or you don't lie about somebody? Like yeah, like you
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  Speaker 1: know something that's like.
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  Speaker 3: About me or about you or about someone in general.
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  Speaker 1: Just do both?
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  Speaker 3: Okay? My ick is like if somebody smokes, that's gross somehow.
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  Speaker 3: My ick for you, I.
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  Speaker 1: Have an inch for you. You do?
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  Speaker 3: What is it?
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes when you get food stuck in your teeth, you
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  Speaker 1: pick your teeth and then you like, we'll here a day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, for real?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for real, I've told you about it. I said,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have any extra me huh.
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  Speaker 3: I think I do, but I can't think of him
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  Speaker 3: right now. I'll probably come up with twenty of them
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  Speaker 3: when I was there, I do.
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  Speaker 1: What was each of your family reaction when introducing you
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  Speaker 1: or Blake for the first time?
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  Speaker 3: Well, when you ask my dad to marry me just
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  Speaker 3: about to spit out his breakfast.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna go on Instagram live ask people
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  Speaker 1: see what they say too, So we'll go Instagram. I
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  Speaker 1: should have had it up the whole time. Oh, let
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  Speaker 1: me see hold on, put on Instagram live here. Let
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  Speaker 1: me say, uh, ask Blake and me anything. You know what?
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  Speaker 1: My it is way past that.
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  Speaker 3: No, I have to go back to that. My is
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  Speaker 3: and it's so gross. Is your retainer? That's my it
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  Speaker 3: so disgusting. If anybody saw it, they would be like,
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  Speaker 3: how in the world do you sleep or kiss that? Man?
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  Speaker 3: It's disgusting. Uh.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Stewart is on here. H Stuart willis a great guy. Stuart,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? We're doing a couple's podcasts right now. You
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  Speaker 1: can ask us anything right now, justin what's up? Let's see?
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  Speaker 1: Uh ask us a yo. Keep people just being comments
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  Speaker 1: right now? Hold on, hold on so tillder. Thanks for
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  Speaker 1: the ice cream. Oh, thanks to the ice cream. Stewart says
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  Speaker 1: he made a nice donation, Stuart. That was very kind.
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  Speaker 1: He asked a big donation to Love Puff Family fest. Stewart,
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  Speaker 1: are you doing I think tonight? Maybe you want to
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  Speaker 1: go with me the Sun's Game. I have tickets to
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  Speaker 1: the Sun's Game. Tonight and it's late. Oh, what was
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  Speaker 1: your first concert?
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  Speaker 3: We both have the same What was it final, Ritchie?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, look at here's some people that want to see
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  Speaker 1: your feet? There yet go. My wife's got beautiful feet.
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  Speaker 3: We may have been at the concert at the same time,
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  Speaker 3: but didn't know each other.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for the noble recommendation. They're awesome. Yeah. How's
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  Speaker 1: Blake healing?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: We just discussed that in the beginning of the podcast. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: Blake and John Jay love you both. How long have
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  Speaker 1: you guys been married? Someone wants to know.
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  Speaker 3: Almost thirty years?
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  Speaker 1: What thirty years? Please give us tips on how to
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  Speaker 1: improve the relationship after so many years.
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  Speaker 3: Be patient with each other.
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  Speaker 1: Be patient with each other. Oh, Stuart's and giveness?
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  Speaker 3: What forgiveness?
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  Speaker 1: Forgiveness? Yeah, forgiveness and healing and recovery and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Where did you get that shirt? Blake? And that vest?
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  Speaker 3: At Alexandria on forty fourth Street and Camelback? But not
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  Speaker 3: this year?
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  Speaker 1: How did you guys first.
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  Speaker 3: Meet through a mutual friend? She and her douced us well.
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  Speaker 1: Lots of people asking question, Now, what was your most
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  Speaker 1: memorable anniversary?
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  Speaker 3: Year five? We went to the Cayman Islands. That was
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: pretty memorable.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Favorite restaurant to eat at together.
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: Steak forty four.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. I love that restaurant. Best give John
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: Jay ever? Got you.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: My wedding ring?
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Stuart? What's the weirdest thing John Jay actually to do
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: involving feet? Yeah?
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know, putting them on your face?
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I would think you're not going to answer all of them.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Let's see. Uh, when your sons were very young, how
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: would you explain why there are straight men that wear
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: dresses for fashion? You know something? It never came up.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: It's never him up right, I don't know. I don't think.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: In fact, one of our kids was always wearing pink
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: and pink shoes and dyed his hair pink. It just
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: just never came up. A favorite concert ever, Oh, I think.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Mine is Billy Joel and Elton John. But I think
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: yours is something different.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you my favorite concert ever? Well, I
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: saw Frank Sinatra a.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Few That's what I thought you were going to say.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I have to tell you. I went and Dutch and
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I went to go see Kanye, and Kanye performed all
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: his music just off his phone. I thought it was awesome.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Now I will tell you this. I haven't told anybody this,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: but Blake and I are going to a concert tomorrow night,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: and I think it will be the best concert of
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: our lives. That's tomorrow night.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: It's not you too. I thought for sure you were
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: going to say you too, the best concert.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: No, I mean no, let's see favorite person, favorite favorite
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: famous person you've ever met.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I really liked meeting Lady Gaga.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: She was cool, she was really cool. She is such
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: a beautiful woman. John Jay, you scored. I agree. I agree. No,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: it's not at the birds Nest. I'm not gonna tell you. Oh,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Scott Stale concierge. Nicky Cox is on here. Hi, Nikki,
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Nikky hy Nikky nink. You look at Blake's were in
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: the orangewer in yesterday. Did you think on purpose, by
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: the way, or just it was just she said orange,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: So I wore orange. Oh and Nikki, look, I'm on
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: the sitting on this couch and I'm wearing this shirt.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Nicky is going to be on our show tomorrow. God God, yes,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: who are you most the most starstruck to meet? She's
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: you know who I was really starstruck to meet. John
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Travolta oh, I almost started crying. John Travolta and Bob
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: from Sesame Street.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: That's so funny. I thought you I would answer that
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: totally different. I would have sent Jack from Will and
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Grace because you were I was.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: So excited me but I was so tired.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: But you couldn't speak to him. You were so excited.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: I met you family fest. Yeah, thanks Jacob, thanks for going.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: What color are your toes right now? Blake? What color
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: are those?
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it's dark color, you know, hey know,
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: he know, all right?
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: I met your family fest growing back downs going. What
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: is your favorite milestone moment for each of your boys? Well,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: that's such a great question. That a stone moment.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: I mean, I know Camp's right away, because Camp wanted
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: to play collegiate basketball, and his milestone moment was when
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: he got the offer to play.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: The offer that he got for me, it's when the
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: coach called and made yeah. And for you, yeah, when
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: he made the to hear I don't know, to see
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: him put so much hard work into it and then
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: see a coach that really gets it, I mean, it
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: was freaking awesome and offered him to go to college,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: you know, in the scholarship was awesome.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: So for but I I want to talk about the
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: others two because for Jake, yeah, I just thought of it.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Jake was the boy Scouts getting the Eagle Scout like
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: that might not have been his milestone, but it was
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: our milestone and it was so awesome when he finally
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: got it. And now he can go through life saying
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: he's an Eagle Scout.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah. What about for Dutch we got another one.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: And dutchy peep for me selfishly was committing to college
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: because I'm a wildcat. He's a wildcat and that made
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: me so happy.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I can't think of anything because that kid lives such
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: a happy life always like he's Each one of those
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: kids has milestones where I can get emotional and cry over.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Even today, I stopped by Jake at work and gave
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: him big hug for his birthday, and I'm a start
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: cry when I walked out. But anyway, what are you
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: guys watching? I'm looking for something to watch on TV?
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Why did both Oh? I'm watching Fallout Shrinking Drinking, Oh,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: and I'm watching Night Manager. Why did both of your
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: boys choose Nau?
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: They didn't.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: None of our boys chose n AU individual five year
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: plan for you both. Now that the kids are.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Grown up, I want my startup, love pup Plus to
• 22:29
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• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Love pup Plus. That's a big one. So
• 22:32
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• 22:38
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• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Nicky Cox has watched Tehran. Oh you know what someone
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: else said that too from Sita. Do you think Dutch
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: is more like his dad?
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: Dutch is a spinning image of his dad and looks
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: what about look Sam personality?
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, anyway, okay, I'm going to go here pretty soon,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do an interview here
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: with my friend Tyler on his podcast.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: And then he's hiding behind the bushes and then we're
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: going to go to the Sun's game.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: It's kind of a weird situation. So like, do I
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: go with Blake to the Sun's game tonight it's my
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: son's birthday, he's twenty three, or do I take my
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: son to the birthday? Do I take my son to
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: the game? And Blake says, take my son to the game. Absolutely,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: But I don't know if he really wants to go
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: to the game. Do you guys have cats? No, Blake,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: you look beautiful. Oh thanks, Britney says, I think your
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: kids are so lucky to have you both.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I love the dog I got from you. You're welcome.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Oh good, okay, And what else are we going to
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: do with the podcast? Jake? I asked Jake if he
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: wants to go to the game, Hey, you want to
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: go to the Sun's game with me? Game starts an eight,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: leave six. He goes, I'm probably gonna go work out.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: That's what happens. You don't have any friends, They have
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: no one to take with media. Sounds a game.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Okay, it looks like I'm going.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Then I text my friend Rick. You see your talent
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: goes sounds a game anything. Let's see what else do
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: we want to add? So just real quick, Love Pup
• 24:20
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• 24:23
  Speaker 3: And we have puppies right now. They were just born
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: a week ago.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: There you go, we should be posting that. It's unbelievable
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: that we haven't posted that. Yep, we have. We are
• 24:32
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• 24:35
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• 24:39
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• 24:44
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• 24:45
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• 24:48
  Speaker 1: And I think that's it. That's a good that's a wrap. Okay,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: So welcome to our podcast. So this is a little
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: bit different today because this podcast is a spin off
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: of our radio show