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- 0:05>> Paul: Welcome to the Future Christian podcast, your
- 0:08source for insights and ideas on how to lead your
- 0:11church into the 21st century.
- 0:15At the Future Christian podcast, we talk to
- 0:18pastors, authors, and other faith leaders for helpful
- 0:21advice and practical wisdom to help you and your
- 0:23community of faith walk boldly into the future.
- 0:27Now, here's your host, Loren Richmond Junior.
- 0:32>> Loren: Welcome to the Future Christian podcast. This is Loren Richmond
- 0:35Junior, and today I'm pleased to be joined by
- 0:38my guest host, co host Martha Tatarnic. So
- 0:41thank you so much for being here. Welcome.
- 0:43>> Martha Tatarnic: Thanks, Loren. It's great to be here. All season
- 0:46long, I listen to these conversations that you're having
- 0:49on future Christian, and I just want to jump in
- 0:52and, you know, continue the conversation. So
- 0:55this is hopefully our listeners feel that way, too, and
- 0:58this is our opportunity to do that. Keep the conversation
- 1:01rolling.
- 1:02>> Loren: Yeah. Well, we have a special episode,
- 1:05an exciting episode planned here. We're going to try something
- 1:07new, and I think it'll be a great for a
- 1:10conversation for our listeners to kind of get a review of what
- 1:13the season was. And then here's some
- 1:16highlights. So we're going to play some clips from
- 1:18episodes and then kind of just share about
- 1:21our thoughts and, you know, especially
- 1:23Martha's going to share. She was not the one primary in the
- 1:26driver's seat for most of these. Share some thoughts and
- 1:29responses and just kind of review and overview
- 1:32here. And, uh, as I'm talking, my dog is like,
- 1:35shoving her head in my lap. One,
- 1:39uh, such is the life of recording at home. So there's kind
- 1:42of three broad points here from my season.
- 1:45And I think, really, this is. Tends to be,
- 1:48uh, what a lot of my focused conversations
- 1:51are. And I think, martha, you tend to have a lot here
- 1:54of overlap here, too. But, uh, three broad points we'll be
- 1:57talking about today is pastoral health,
- 1:59individualization versus connection, and then
- 2:02leading change. So we're going to start off
- 2:05with an interview I did at,
- 2:08um, the reminder renew conference at
- 2:11my seminary, Phillips seminary in Tulsa, Oklahoma, back
- 2:14in January. And this is with Reverend Kenzie
- 2:16Tate. She's a licensed counselor and
- 2:19has a new program called Restore Clergy, where she's
- 2:22working especially with clergy, to help clergy do
- 2:25better. So she's talking here just about, uh, some of
- 2:27the stuff that clergy have to deal with and how it can
- 2:30affect, uh, their
- 2:32ministry. So here we go. Let
- 2:35me, let, uh, me get it going.
- 2:38>> Kinsie Tate: And especially if you're in a place of burnout, it's like that's what you're
- 2:41living in. And so you can feel
- 2:43hypocritical you can feel like, how do
- 2:46I talk about a loving God when it's like, what am
- 2:49this? This sucks.
- 2:50>> Loren: Yeah.
- 2:51>> Kinsie Tate: Like, I don't. I mean, this person in the pew
- 2:53reminds me of my dad, who used to yell at me, and I
- 2:56am all kinds of triggered, and I have no interest in being
- 2:59compassionate to them. Like, that's. That is
- 3:01fundamentally a human thing response.
- 3:04Um, and I think what's hard for clergy is
- 3:07we are expected to transcend that and to be able
- 3:10to
- 3:13speak of God's loving kindness. And it's like, I'm not
- 3:15feeling it at all, and it's really hard to speak
- 3:18about it.
- 3:20>> Loren: So I especially want to hear from you,
- 3:23Martha, on this, because I know you've been in a position where
- 3:26you've worked with a lot of younger leaders, and
- 3:29you've. You've been in positions because you
- 3:32didn't officially become, like, a middle judgment leader, but you were up
- 3:35for such a role. Right.
- 3:37So I just want to hear your thoughts on how,
- 3:40like, clergy, their own stuff, can
- 3:43often be a, uh, challenge in ministry.
- 3:47>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, I mean, I listened to this clip, and I just
- 3:50think I can't
- 3:52imagine that the, uh,
- 3:55relatability isn't felt, like, right
- 3:57across the north american church, like, no
- 4:00matter what kind of congregation you're
- 4:03serving in, because it's such a
- 4:06theme in the conversations that we have on
- 4:09future Christian. It's such a theme across
- 4:12the conversations that I
- 4:15have with colleagues. Um, it
- 4:18is so easy to
- 4:21get into this job because you
- 4:24care about healing,
- 4:28but, like, we
- 4:31do it as wounded healers, right? Like,
- 4:33we do it as people who
- 4:36bring our own needs and
- 4:39baggage. And, um,
- 4:41we're negotiating a lot of
- 4:44really challenging,
- 4:48um, aspects of the landscape that are not
- 4:51unrelated to the other categories that
- 4:54we shape our conversations into around
- 4:56navigating change, um,
- 5:00you know, how we cope
- 5:02in an increasingly secular world.
- 5:05Um, so I think it's so
- 5:08easy for, uh, if we
- 5:11don't kind of have those support systems in
- 5:14place and those honest conversations taking
- 5:16place, then it is so
- 5:19easy to just have all of
- 5:22our baggage drive the bus, you know?
- 5:25>> Loren: Yeah. Uh, I like the way you said that. I
- 5:28mean, I don't like it, but I like it. That's a good way of saying it. Let
- 5:31her drag our baggage drive the bus.
- 5:33What's the guy like? Yeah, go ahead.
- 5:35>> Martha Tatarnic: We're gonna have the baggage, right? We just don't want it to be
- 5:38in charge. Right.
- 5:44>> Loren: Oh, man. Yeah. What? So, like, a word?
- 5:47What is a word of advice? Maybe that's been helpful
- 5:50for you. Or you've given pastors when
- 5:53thinking about your own stuff.
- 5:55>> Martha Tatarnic: Well, I think the thing that I keep coming
- 5:58back to, and I think is very much
- 6:01my motivation for being part of this
- 6:03podcast, is that I think we just
- 6:06have to open up the conversation and
- 6:09stop acting as if we have to
- 6:11figure this out alone. Yeah, I've
- 6:14done a few, like, speaking engagements lately, and I
- 6:17have said to groups of clergy, like,
- 6:20the problem with clergy burnout is not going to be solved
- 6:23by getting a hobby and taking your day off.
- 6:26Like, we need to have a
- 6:29broader sense of how, like,
- 6:32we're working collectively
- 6:35to, you know, address
- 6:38systemic change, um,
- 6:41and to minimize the degree to which people feel
- 6:44like it's all on their shoulders.
- 6:47So, like, I
- 6:50think the message of this podcast is, like, it's not all
- 6:53on your shoulders. Like, we have a lot of collective wisdom,
- 6:56and we need to be continuing
- 6:59to bring that to the fore and
- 7:02draw from that.
- 7:02>> Loren: Well, yeah. Yeah, that's good. So,
- 7:05again, that's episode. I meant to get back and
- 7:08pull the episode numbers. This is early on in season 15. I
- 7:11can't remember this specific episode, but Kinsey
- 7:14Tate. Look for that past episode. Next
- 7:17one I'm going to play here is just a couple episodes ago with
- 7:19Jonathan Foster. Jonathan, uh, Foster is a
- 7:22former Nazarene pastor who's
- 7:25actually, as I understand it, kicked out
- 7:28of the denomination, uh, for his
- 7:31inclusive views on LGBTQ folks.
- 7:34So the interesting one of the things we talked about
- 7:37here amongst some new movements
- 7:40he's helping lead for clergy is
- 7:42just this dynamic of what happens
- 7:45is clergy can so often be the
- 7:48primary caregiver in a community, and
- 7:51especially with our employment being kind of that community that
- 7:54we can often find ourselves without a home
- 7:56or a place for receiving care ourselves.
- 7:59Let's, uh, listen to this club here.
- 8:02>> Ted Smith: We're caregivers. And then
- 8:05to be pushed out, you know,
- 8:08kicked out in my case, officially and lots of other places
- 8:11unofficially, it is a. It's a mind
- 8:13trip. We're also a lot.
- 8:16Lots of us are. Kind of like, when you're clergy,
- 8:19you play, like, a meaning making role in
- 8:22your community. So when bad things happen, you
- 8:25help people make meaning.
- 8:26>> Loren: Right?
- 8:26>> Ted Smith: But what's crazy is when bad
- 8:29things happen, like, if it's bad enough, like, uh, for
- 8:32example, in my situation, my entire meaning making
- 8:35system, you know, just kind of fell
- 8:38apart right now, I was trying to create meaning in the
- 8:40middle of chaos, right? And the poor people who had
- 8:43to come to my church, I mean, I say poor people,
- 8:46some of them were really, really great. And uh,
- 8:49learned a lot. Um, that's a whole interesting
- 8:52dynamic, too. And I think a lot of meaning making
- 8:55clergy types, counselor chaplain types are in
- 8:58that position, their lives personally.
- 9:02>> Loren: So, for added context here, I think. I
- 9:05can't speak for certain here, but I know this to be true.
- 9:08He lost his daughter tragically ten years ago,
- 9:11so I think that's part of what he's speaking about. But again,
- 9:14when you're the primary caregiver, to use that
- 9:17language, it can be real tough. And,
- 9:20Martha, um, I don't know about you, uh, how have you,
- 9:24when you're leading in ministry,
- 9:27what has been, like, your experience
- 9:30when your family, personally, whatever, is
- 9:33experiencing great tragedy? Like, I've
- 9:36had times where I felt like I've been supported very well by a
- 9:38congregation, other times not.
- 9:42>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, I mean, I've been now in
- 9:45my congregation for ten years, and,
- 9:49um, our family has
- 9:52had a lot of ups and downs in those ten years, and I
- 9:55give thanks to God that the church
- 9:57has really been the church for me
- 10:00in the best possible ways. I
- 10:03realize that's not everybody's story,
- 10:06um, but. But it is
- 10:09mine. And I, you know, I count that
- 10:12as one of the tremendous blessings
- 10:15of my ministry. I mean, it also
- 10:17helps that I'm in a congregation
- 10:20with more than one clergy person, so
- 10:23there's is more of a sharing
- 10:26of the load. Um, I think that
- 10:29it can sometimes be a lot harder for
- 10:32clergy who are in
- 10:34congregations where,
- 10:37um, you know, they feel for one
- 10:40reason or another that it does all rest on
- 10:42them. Um, I found
- 10:45this whole episode to be
- 10:47extremely compelling and
- 10:50heartbreaking, um, because,
- 10:53again, like, relatability that I do
- 10:56have lots of friends and colleagues who
- 10:59feel sort of discarded
- 11:02by the church, by the institutional
- 11:04church. And what a tremendous, uh,
- 11:08thing he's doing in creating this
- 11:11open table network where there's
- 11:14kind of this safety net for.
- 11:18For m. Making sure that
- 11:21there is church, for people who are leading the
- 11:24church and who sometimes,
- 11:26um, have the war
- 11:29wounds, uh, to go along
- 11:32with navigating change
- 11:34and managing people's anxiety
- 11:38and being the ones to make meaning
- 11:40when everything falls apart.
- 11:43>> Loren: Let me ask you this, too, and I don't
- 11:46know about the judicatory structure
- 11:48of Anglicanism or
- 11:51Episcopalianism in the states, for
- 11:53instance, but, like, I know in my denomination, the
- 11:56christian church decides Christ. And I think
- 11:59there's, like, I'm thinking of, like, the UCC.
- 12:03Other mainline denominations have similar
- 12:06judicatory structures. Like, but especially in
- 12:09my context, where it's like there is a, uh,
- 12:12middle judiciary leader, and sometimes,
- 12:14depending on the region, there's more or less.
- 12:17But the person who a pastor might look
- 12:20to be like their primary support is
- 12:23also in some ways, their boss.
- 12:26And again, depending on,
- 12:29um, regional
- 12:32autonomy and what have you, structure that
- 12:35can be more or less official. But
- 12:38how. How have you seen that navigated in the challenges
- 12:41of such.
- 12:43>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, I. I mean, all of those things
- 12:46kind of get looped into the mix,
- 12:49right? Because, uh, in
- 12:52the anglican church,
- 12:54uh, ah, like, my boss is my
- 12:57bishop, um, but
- 12:59also the bishop is supposed to be the pastor to the
- 13:02pastor. So there is that inherent
- 13:05conflict. And,
- 13:07um, you know, there are kind
- 13:10of a variety of ways in which the
- 13:13church tries to navigate that. But,
- 13:16um,
- 13:19again, there's lots of people who,
- 13:22um, sort of end up in
- 13:25the crossfires of that
- 13:27conflict. I'm not specifically referring
- 13:30to my diocese. I'm just saying, like,
- 13:33that can be a thing, right. Uh, and
- 13:36I'm sure you see it in your denomination as
- 13:39well, that you can't
- 13:42necessarily say that
- 13:45you're in need or you're in trouble,
- 13:48uh, to your boss,
- 13:51or maybe you feel you can't.
- 13:53>> Loren: Right? Yeah, uh, I'd have a
- 13:56whole lot to say there, but thankfully, we don't have the time.
- 14:01>> Martha Tatarnic: Okay. Maybe, uh, an episode for another
- 14:04day.
- 14:04>> Loren: Yeah, maybe an episode for another day. So one of
- 14:07the other trends or themes of that episode
- 14:10was of Jonathan Foster was, again, like this.
- 14:13This new kind of credentialing,
- 14:16um, ministry, I don't know what
- 14:18organization, institution for clergy. So I
- 14:21think it really. And one of the things I asked him about was this kind of,
- 14:24like, this move societally, we are
- 14:27towards, like, affinity groups, um, people
- 14:30who really agree with us and separating from those who
- 14:33don't. And that gets into another,
- 14:35broader theme from this season, which is, I'm titling
- 14:38individualization versus connection. And
- 14:41so I want to play. I have a couple clips here from Ted
- 14:44Smith. Um, so I want to play
- 14:47this first one. I think this one is kind of shorter, but let's, uh,
- 14:50listen in here.
- 14:53>> Ted Smith: This individualization that we have, it carves people out
- 14:56of communities. It leaves them on their own
- 14:59without any kind of story to orient their lives, and
- 15:02then it charges them with building, all on their own,
- 15:05an authentic self. Well, I wonder
- 15:08why anxiety is so widespread. Like, that's
- 15:11just. It's a terrible kind of condition
- 15:13that a lot of people are in right now. Right?
- 15:16And I think if what theological
- 15:19education is designed to do is to
- 15:22say, hey, you need. We're going to give you professional credentials to
- 15:25go lead these crumbling voluntary associations. Well, people
- 15:28aren't interested in that, like, just like what you're saying.
- 15:31>> Loren: Right.
- 15:31>> Ted Smith: But what they. But if theological education
- 15:34says, hey, I
- 15:37see this enormous challenge
- 15:40that the world has given you, that you have to put a life
- 15:43before God together and you have to figure out
- 15:46all you know what and there's actually learning
- 15:49through the centuries that can help you do that. Um,
- 15:52well, that's a different purpose for theological education.
- 15:56>> Loren: So obviously, um, a
- 15:59lot in that episode. I do recommend that
- 16:02episode. Recommend his book, too.
- 16:04>> Martha Tatarnic: I really recommend that episode. It was excellent.
- 16:06>> Loren: Yeah, I'm looking at episode 172 for
- 16:10context here. Um,
- 16:12but one of the things he references, I'd said
- 16:15prior to that clip, this thing
- 16:18that I think a lot of younger clergy are
- 16:21just, we're not willing to hold up an institution and basically
- 16:24be crushed by the institution, but
- 16:27then be like that. Individualization, I think there is this kind
- 16:29of societal push to just be
- 16:32this unique individual self, and that
- 16:35gets exhausting. Um,
- 16:38so talk about, I mean,
- 16:41this dynamic, especially for churches
- 16:44and seminaries, but in our context,
- 16:47we primarily deal with churches, is like,
- 16:50how does a church, like, support the individual but also, like,
- 16:53not perpetuate this message? Like, you need, like, your
- 16:56whole identity and purpose needs to be in, like, forming
- 16:59your unique self identity. Like, you can. You
- 17:02can be okay. Like, being part of
- 17:05the body of Christ. Uh, I don't know if that makes sense, but.
- 17:08>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, well, it totally doesn't. You know, I don't
- 17:11know who this is ascribed to, but it really
- 17:14comes back to, uh, the,
- 17:17like, are we as a church giving good
- 17:19advice or are we giving good news?
- 17:22Because I think it's, like, so easy
- 17:25to slip into,
- 17:27um, having people show up and
- 17:30be like, okay, well, you've got to
- 17:33be on board with social justice and you've got to give and you've got
- 17:36to serve and you've got to do this and you've got to do that. And,
- 17:39like, if we don't, then the world's going to fall apart. And,
- 17:41like, all of those things might be
- 17:44true and might be, like,
- 17:47important components to discipleship,
- 17:50but
- 17:53we're there primarily to proclaim
- 17:56the nearness of the
- 17:59kingdom of God. Like, we're there to proclaim
- 18:01like, it's already happening. Like, God is
- 18:04right here and, like,
- 18:06transforming the world and recreating the world in
- 18:09our midst. And, like, um.
- 18:12And God's at work in you, too. And like,
- 18:15that's, like,
- 18:18that's the.
- 18:22The message that I
- 18:25think our world is desperate to hear. Like, you're right.
- 18:28Maybe our world is not desperate to hold up crumbling
- 18:30institutions, but our world is
- 18:33desperate to come back
- 18:36to the relationship for which they're
- 18:39created.
- 18:41>> Loren: I'll, uh, give a shout out here to
- 18:43my, uh, fellow doc, pastor, and
- 18:46podcaster, and technically a producer here.
- 18:49Dennis Sanders has an episode on his
- 18:52podcast, church in Maine, with an interview with Anthony Robinson,
- 18:55the UCC pastor. And I can't remember
- 18:58if they reference it in this podcast
- 19:01or in one of the blogs that
- 19:05Dennis shared in the show. Notes from that spot of the
- 19:07conversation. But Anthony Robinson says
- 19:10something about, like,
- 19:14many times folks are coming to church with, like, a 30
- 19:16pound bag and they're
- 19:20being, like, handed another 30 pound bag and be
- 19:22like, hey, go out and, like, live the good news.
- 19:26>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah.
- 19:27>> Loren: You know, like, they're coming way down with, like, 30 pounds, and then,
- 19:30like, we have them another 30 pound bag
- 19:33of m. You know, things that are true. Like,
- 19:36obviously, like, there are a lot of problems in this world that
- 19:39I think we need to address and
- 19:41talk about, whether it be racism or.
- 19:44Or, um, LGBT
- 19:47or the violence in the Middle
- 19:50east. Like, these are all important issues, but, like, how do we frame
- 19:53that in a way where people are
- 19:55experiencing life and good news?
- 19:58Right?
- 20:00>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah. Ah. Like, grace and
- 20:02transformation and hope and,
- 20:05like. And a lifting of burdens.
- 20:07Like, this is a place where you can come and,
- 20:11like, we can gather in prayer for
- 20:14the troubled places, and
- 20:16collectively, we can discern our
- 20:19response. And, um.
- 20:23Yeah, like, we're not just. We're not just
- 20:26lonely people trying to
- 20:28navigate a really rough
- 20:31world.
- 20:32>> Loren: Yeah. Let me play one more clip here, just from Ted
- 20:35Smith. This is a short one.
- 20:36Um, it kind of fits on
- 20:39this trend of, again, individualization. This is
- 20:42him m talking about, this movement
- 20:45towards expressive or affinity group, so to
- 20:48speak, in denominational life.
- 20:53>> Ted Smith: Um, but the challenge now is with these new, more expressive
- 20:56denominations, it's harder
- 20:58for them to want the other ones to continue to exist.
- 21:03They would like for them just to disappear and to find any kind
- 21:06of common cause, uh, starts to feel
- 21:08really, really problematic.
- 21:10>> Loren: So, short clip there, obviously. But
- 21:13I can't remember if that's what we're talking about. What we're talking about
- 21:16exactly. But certainly what comes to mind hearing that is
- 21:19this recent GMC,
- 21:21UMC, uh, division that's happened,
- 21:24you know, globally, the United Methodist Church
- 21:27and the global Methodist church. And again, I'll give
- 21:30a shout to my. To Dennis Sanders here.
- 21:33He talks about in
- 21:36the past, there was this
- 21:38willingness to kind of say, like, if, for instance,
- 21:41he exemplifies, like, a church that might have gone
- 21:44through, uh, a tense vote about
- 21:47whether to become, in our context, open, affirming,
- 21:50inclusive of lgbt persons. And often
- 21:52the language was like, we've got some healing to do after that
- 21:55vote would happen. Now, it seems like. And I think this is what
- 21:58Ted is alluding to, is like, there's this, like,
- 22:01hey, you know, you're the people who voted against us.
- 22:04We're leaving you behind, and we hope you
- 22:07fail. And I don't want to speak too strongly here, but
- 22:10it does seem like there is this idea that,
- 22:12like,
- 22:15from the. And again, I want to speak
- 22:18firmly that I fully support. And I'm
- 22:21grateful that folks who are LGBTQ, uh,
- 22:24identifying, like, they get to live into their full
- 22:27giftings that God has given them. But,
- 22:30uh, also, I'm with
- 22:32Ted here, assuming I'm interpreting him correctly,
- 22:36what do we do with this? Like, this splintering, where it's just
- 22:39almost like we want the other side to fail, if that
- 22:42makes sense.
- 22:45>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, I mean, we've certainly
- 22:47seen that splintering in
- 22:50any number of our mainline
- 22:52denominations, uh, over the
- 22:54past 2030
- 22:57years.
- 22:58Um,
- 23:03I don't know what the answer is,
- 23:05because it feels like
- 23:10in order to
- 23:13embrace the church
- 23:16that I believe God is calling us to
- 23:19be, like, we do have to
- 23:22take, uh, uh, stance on these things, and
- 23:25it's hard to see in
- 23:28how we do that without
- 23:31there being a vote that ends
- 23:33up with. Now, I know in our indigenous
- 23:36circles or indigenous anglican
- 23:39circles, there's a much different
- 23:41way of coming to decision making.
- 23:44Um, I think
- 23:47that there's something to pay attention to there in
- 23:50terms of, like,
- 23:54maybe bringing it to a vote on the floor of
- 23:56synod is
- 23:59not the way forward.
- 24:02Um, but, yeah,
- 24:05I don't. Like. What do you think? What do you think
- 24:08we do other than
- 24:11what the alternative is not to take a
- 24:14stand? Right.
- 24:15>> Loren: I think this is where I'm going to lean on Dennis. Uh,
- 24:18what I've read from Dennis Sanders here and what I've heard from him, m. Is just
- 24:21this. I think it has to be like,
- 24:24because I would agree with you, I think there are times where
- 24:27you have to say, hey, this is what I believe.
- 24:30Um, so
- 24:33I think that to use the family systems term,
- 24:36self differentiation is important. But
- 24:39again, this is where I want to lean into family systems
- 24:42theory. There has to be a balance of, uh,
- 24:45emotional connection and self
- 24:47differentiation.
- 24:49I've had Jack Chitama in the past, and he says something like, I think,
- 24:52like, you know, going fully
- 24:55after self differentiation is kind of like a narcissistic
- 24:58behavior, and then obviously, like, you know, just completely
- 25:01caving in to, you know,
- 25:04emotional connection at all times, you know, that's not a
- 25:07healthy, uh, object either. So
- 25:10to go back to what Dennis Sinner says is like
- 25:13seeking healing, um, and
- 25:15that's far easier said than done. So I want to acknowledge
- 25:18that. Um, but I just wonder, like,
- 25:22how different things would be and maybe they
- 25:25wouldn't be. Um,
- 25:28but is it possible to go into
- 25:31such divisive trends
- 25:34with an attitude toward healing or seeking
- 25:37healing and, uh, striving to
- 25:40maintain? This is something that Jonathan and
- 25:43I talked about in that episode with Jonathan and Foster this
- 25:46tension between two things of self
- 25:48differentiation and emotional connection,
- 25:51trying to live in that tension, that balance.
- 25:55>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah. And I mean,
- 25:59at the risk of sounding trite,
- 26:04I would hope that ultimately
- 26:07being able to trust in the reconciling power of
- 26:09God does allow us to have
- 26:12really challenging discussions that
- 26:15feel like,
- 26:17are wounding.
- 26:20Um, but
- 26:24that there
- 26:27you look at a lot of the things that christians have fought
- 26:30about over the
- 26:33centuries, and, um,
- 26:36they, they do come to feel like,
- 26:39like small potatoes.
- 26:43There is a healing, uh, that does
- 26:46take place over the course of time that I have
- 26:48to believe God's hand is in.
- 26:51>> Loren: Yeah, that's good. I like that, that's hopeful. I appreciate
- 26:53that you bringing that perspective. Let's move on
- 26:56here. Since we're still
- 26:59great clips here, I got to share. Um, so I want to set,
- 27:02uh, early on in January. Again, this was actually recorded
- 27:05prior to, but, uh, um, doctor Scott Thomas
- 27:08spoke at the remind and renew conference at Phillips
- 27:11Seminary. So I kind of spoke to him about his
- 27:13work and he shared about
- 27:16just kind of the challenges. This is more,
- 27:19practically speaking, individualism versus connection,
- 27:22how to connect with virtual audiences and bring them into the
- 27:25wider life of the church.
- 27:26>> Ted Smith: Here,
- 27:29they're willing to allow for talking, head
- 27:31spectators participation,
- 27:35but that's not a robust congregational
- 27:38life. Uh, so I
- 27:40think where congregations, and this includes the
- 27:43megachurches as well,
- 27:46our challenge now is how
- 27:49do we deliver all those other aspects
- 27:52of congregational life to a virtual
- 27:55audience so that it's a robust
- 27:57expression of Christianity and community
- 28:01and not just, you know, I'm
- 28:03watching televangelists, you
- 28:06know, who are less good
- 28:08televangelists.
- 28:09>> Loren: Right. So this is, uh, episode
- 28:11160, I think. And this really connects with
- 28:14your conversation with Michael Graham, which was
- 28:17158, I believe, because I remember you had
- 28:20a very similar conversation with Michael Graham, where he
- 28:23said, like, hey, church should be getting away from
- 28:26live streaming because it detracts from the
- 28:29gathered community in person.
- 28:32Obviously, there's going to be a lot of churches are going to choose to
- 28:35stick with live streaming. Um, but
- 28:38what do you think about that dynamic? Because, again, there is this kind of,
- 28:41like, there's a safe kind of
- 28:45aloof. That's not the right word, aloofness. But there's
- 28:47this ability, uh, to not
- 28:50fully engage or connect, I guess, when you're watching.
- 28:53I'd love to do this, like, in person with
- 28:56you, Martha. And I found that I've
- 28:59been able to do more and more interviews in person and how much
- 29:02more I appreciate doing those
- 29:04interviews in person where I can. So you're living
- 29:07this out, like, right now, obviously, as, uh, a local
- 29:10parish pastor, and you're talking to other pastors about
- 29:13this. What do you think about this dynamic of trying to get people
- 29:16moved into physical community?
- 29:20>> Martha Tatarnic: Well, I tell you, I think about it a lot, because,
- 29:23like, I am very compelled
- 29:26by. By what these people are
- 29:29saying. Um, you know, Ryan Panzer has a
- 29:32lot to say about the holy and the hybrid.
- 29:35Like, and, um. I know we're
- 29:38gonna talk about Jake, him,
- 29:41his name. Um, like,
- 29:44yeah. There is an
- 29:46incarnational, embodied aspect
- 29:49to our faith that can't be short
- 29:52changed. And at the same time, like,
- 29:55live streaming, online ministry
- 29:58is so baked into the life of our
- 30:00church anyway, um, and has been
- 30:03from way before the pandemic. So, like,
- 30:08I just can't, um. I can't
- 30:10imagine, like,
- 30:14ejecting it from the life of our community because it,
- 30:17uh, is experienced as a lifeline for so many
- 30:19people who can't come to church or who are
- 30:22isolated for one reason or another. Is it
- 30:25also a way in which people kind of
- 30:28bop around in church shop rather than become part
- 30:31of the community? It is.
- 30:33Um, so. But at the same
- 30:36time, I'm always surprised by
- 30:39the. When I connect
- 30:42with people who only connect online,
- 30:45I'm surprised by their experience of it
- 30:48and then how that kind of feeds their
- 30:51embodied living. So
- 30:54I. I guess I
- 30:57ultimately trust in
- 31:00the power of the Holy Spirit to do something
- 31:03with our circumstances that are sometimes
- 31:06less than ideal. And I think that we have to be
- 31:09taking seriously that continual
- 31:12calling to the life of community,
- 31:15um, rather than
- 31:17consumerism. Like, I think we have to be clear about that. But
- 31:20for me and our community,
- 31:23anyway, it is here to stay.
- 31:26>> Loren: Well, let's jump right into that J. Kim
- 31:28club you referenced. You use the word consumerism.
- 31:31He talks about the dangers of seeing church as a product. So let's
- 31:34listen to that real quick.
- 31:37>> Jay Kim: What we are unintentionally doing
- 31:40is teaching people and telling
- 31:43people, hey, you know what the church is. The church
- 31:45is just a christian product to be
- 31:48consumed. It's just good christian
- 31:51content to be consumed. And listen, I am not
- 31:54against good christian content. This podcast is
- 31:57good christian content.
- 31:59>> Loren: I paid you to say that there.
- 32:01>> Jay Kim: So I'm not against that. But you
- 32:04and I both would agree this podcast is not the
- 32:06church. This podcast is not. Now, you and
- 32:09I, as brothers in the family of God,
- 32:12we make up a part of the church, global,
- 32:15you know, universal. But the
- 32:18podcast itself is not the church.
- 32:20>> Loren: So some almost hot takes there, right? And that's episode
- 32:23162 there. But
- 32:26yes, you were just talking about
- 32:28consumerism, and
- 32:31Jay Kim talks, right, about
- 32:34this tendency, and I think we do it as pastors, is to try to
- 32:37create a good product.
- 32:39>> Martha Tatarnic: Well, that's exactly what I wanted to say,
- 32:42is, like, this leads me right back to
- 32:45where we started in this podcast around clergy
- 32:48health.
- 32:49>> Loren: Good point.
- 32:49>> Martha Tatarnic: I think that, uh, we are
- 32:51absolutely, like,
- 32:54we are formed as pastors to
- 32:57be content creators. We're formed as pastors to
- 33:00be entrepreneurs in some way, to
- 33:03kind of be competitors
- 33:06for increasingly scarce resources, which are the
- 33:09people who are interested in organized religion. Right?
- 33:12Like, and
- 33:16so, like, I, uh, think what Jay
- 33:18Kim is saying absolutely speaks
- 33:21to the heart of, like,
- 33:24what we need to keep coming back to
- 33:26as christians in today's
- 33:29society. We need to resist,
- 33:33um, that message that we're
- 33:36entrepreneurs competing for scarce
- 33:38resources. We need to resist the idea
- 33:41that we're content, uh, creators
- 33:44producing a great christian product,
- 33:46um, because
- 33:50the temptations are
- 33:52everywhere to buy into that
- 33:55idea. And, like, the rewards for
- 33:58being a successful Christmas tree
- 34:00product feel pretty interesting.
- 34:02>> Loren: Uh, yeah, they do.
- 34:06Well, I'm thinking back to something you said just
- 34:09moments ago about, you know, trusting God to bring
- 34:12reconciliation similarly. Right. So much of this
- 34:15work, and I'll give a shout out
- 34:18here to my favorite Andrew root, who writes a
- 34:21lot about this, too, is just trusting
- 34:24God. Um, so thanks for. Thank
- 34:26you just for mentioning that again. It's so
- 34:29easy to get into this. Like, what do I have to do to fix it?
- 34:32Right?
- 34:34>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah. What do I have to do? Yeah.
- 34:37Honestly, like, almost every clip that we've listened to so
- 34:40far today makes me think of something Andrew Root has said.
- 34:44Uh, because, like, it's.
- 34:47I think about that all the time. Like, we're focused on the wrong
- 34:50problem. We're focused on trying to get people to come
- 34:53to church, and we should be focused on how we
- 34:56communicate the living God to a world that
- 34:58has been taught to be individual, secular
- 35:01people.
- 35:02>> Loren: I have, for listeners, I think
- 35:05that's back in season 14, my last episode with Andrew Ruby, you can
- 35:08check that out. Um, let's shift here, because you use the
- 35:11word fix, and I'm thinking about. So much
- 35:14of this involves leading change. So much of
- 35:17this work involves leading change in our churches. And
- 35:20this was from. Oh, I forgot to look it up.
- 35:22Um, Doug Poe.
- 35:25It's right before the Ted Smith, uh,
- 35:27episode. So this is a conversation with Doug Poe, who co
- 35:30wrote sustaining while disrupting, which is, again, a
- 35:33book I highly recommend. Let's see if I can find it here.
- 35:36But he talks about the dangers of a quick fix. And let's
- 35:39listen in here.
- 35:42>> Doug Powe: These are not quick fixes.
- 35:45And that's the piece that I'm trying to get to.
- 35:48You're not going to wake up tomorrow and
- 35:50say, um, um, this
- 35:53is. Now I'm putting aside. I'm going to do this. I mean, these
- 35:56things take place over a
- 35:59long period of time where people say,
- 36:02you know what? I do see
- 36:05this differently and realize
- 36:07that this probably was not as
- 36:10critical as we thought it was before.
- 36:13Um, so going
- 36:16to your question, like I said, I don't
- 36:19think we should undermine anyone's convictions, but I do
- 36:22think that over time, many of these
- 36:25things do change for individuals. I
- 36:28mean, you have individuals today who.
- 36:31>> Loren: I cut that off there a little short. But the context of the
- 36:34conversation is, he's talking about the section in their book,
- 36:38which, uh, is about, um, change. And he
- 36:40uses the example of Peter and
- 36:43Cornelius and Peter literally setting
- 36:45aside some convictions, you know, again, I don't
- 36:48eat whatever. I don't remember. Right.
- 36:51But, you know, I don't eat,
- 36:53um, certain things.
- 36:57Uh, but I think the thing we.
- 37:00And maybe I should say me, because I know I'm terrible at this,
- 37:04is this idea. Like,
- 37:07I know there needs to be change
- 37:10and that sometimes people need to set things aside,
- 37:12but I'm like, I want to happen right away
- 37:16and expecting that
- 37:19quick fix. Um, and I know part of that's
- 37:22cultural. In our current cultural
- 37:24context, I know part of that is just frankly, like,
- 37:28realistically, like, right when we see, like, the
- 37:30financials going down and decline,
- 37:33declining attendance, we think, like, something needs to happen immediately.
- 37:36But what do you think? What if. What have
- 37:38been your experience?
- 37:41>> Martha Tatarnic: Well, I think that it's hard to be a
- 37:44couple of decades into ministry
- 37:47and believe in quick fixes
- 37:49anymore. Like, I think.
- 37:52>> Loren: Is that like a young clergy from.
- 37:55>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, like, I.
- 37:59I think it's just like,
- 38:02uh, an institution wanting to survive
- 38:05problem. Because, like, we do,
- 38:08we do keep getting, like, the magic
- 38:10bullet answers. Like, they keep
- 38:13being floated across our
- 38:16desks, right? Like, we gather for,
- 38:20like, professional development,
- 38:23and it's like, okay, here's the,
- 38:26here's the way to do it. Like, you just need
- 38:29x, y, and z, and it's all going to be all right. You
- 38:32just need, like, this package. You
- 38:35just need this language. You just need this kind of worship. You
- 38:37just need, um. And
- 38:43none of it really seems to be
- 38:45particularly moving the dial in
- 38:48if we're looking at the dial being
- 38:51reversing.
- 38:52>> Loren: Um.
- 38:54>> Martha Tatarnic: Decline of religion, like, of
- 38:57how many people want to be part of institutional
- 38:59religion. Um, so
- 39:02I think the antidote to
- 39:05quick fixes is
- 39:08to be really clear
- 39:11about discernment
- 39:14and, like, where
- 39:17God is leading us in this time for
- 39:20these people.
- 39:22>> Loren: Boy, I had to write that down, that an institution
- 39:24wanted to survive problem, because that's good.
- 39:27That's good. And, um, boy, is it. Is that
- 39:30truth. Holy smokes.
- 39:32>> Martha Tatarnic: It's true. It's true. And I get
- 39:34it. I love this
- 39:37church. We both do, right? That's why we're doing
- 39:40this. Like, we. We love the church.
- 39:42Yeah, yeah.
- 39:44>> Loren: Let's play here. Um, this
- 39:47comes from Tessa Pinkstaff, who was a co author
- 39:50on the book. Or is it
- 39:52leading? Um, I'm trying to find the book title. I
- 39:55can't find it.
- 39:56>> Martha Tatarnic: It's just out this week.
- 39:58>> Loren: It's just before, uh, will be the Brian McLaren
- 40:01episode. So. And then. So it's two episodes back from this.
- 40:04>> Martha Tatarnic: How to lead faithful innovation.
- 40:06>> Loren: Yeah, or the book is leading faithful innovation. Thank you. That
- 40:09reminds.
- 40:10>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah.
- 40:10>> Loren: Um, but she talks about,
- 40:13I asked her the question, like, how do you. There are gonna be times where
- 40:16folks are just not gonna play ball, to use the
- 40:19sports metaphor. And how do you deal with
- 40:22folks who are just. Just convinced that
- 40:25their job is to not move, to not
- 40:28play along, to just be, uh, a stick in the mud? So
- 40:31let me play that conversation. Uh.
- 40:35>> Tessa Pinkstaff: Yeah, we allude to this a little bit
- 40:38in the book, and it was part of the process that we had when we
- 40:41were working with the congregations. But some of what we
- 40:44proposed was finding the core leaders
- 40:47that are in your congregation who are ready for this
- 40:50kind of work. We had guiding teams
- 40:52that. That the congregations assembled. And that was,
- 40:56it was sort of a ripple effect. It starts with the core group that's
- 40:59ready. And then as that work is
- 41:01flourishing, as the word gets out, as people start talking about
- 41:04this sort of has a grassroots ripple where other people
- 41:07see, oh, there's something happening here. The movement of the
- 41:10spirit is going on here. People are excited. Change is taking
- 41:13place, and it's in some ways. That's the basics of
- 41:16discipleship. People see that something interesting is happening in
- 41:19this pocket of the church, and others want to get involved, and it
- 41:22just grows from there. There will be people. I want
- 41:25to acknowledge that, and we acknowledge this in the book. There will be people
- 41:27for whom this journey is too difficult. And. And
- 41:30there's sort of a blessing of, we see you. We
- 41:33know that this isn't what you need. We're going to keep moving.
- 41:36We still care about you. It's an important thing to do, but it
- 41:39is. You have to acknowledge that not everyone's going
- 41:42to be able to do this, and God will take care of the people that
- 41:45we have to sort of leave by the wayside as we keep
- 41:48moving forward.
- 41:49>> Loren: So that seems pretty
- 41:52strong. Right. And I don't think
- 41:55she means that negatively, leaving by the wayside.
- 41:57But what has been your experience? What have
- 42:00you. What have you advised pastors when
- 42:03clearly there's. Sometimes there's people in a congregation
- 42:06who just are not willing to grow and change and
- 42:09respond to the spirit's promptings?
- 42:13>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah. I think that there were kind of two key
- 42:16things for me when I first came to the church
- 42:19I'm currently serving, and I was
- 42:22a 35 year old woman. I was
- 42:25the first female rector, like, the
- 42:27first lead priest that they had had that was a
- 42:30woman, and everybody felt like
- 42:33there's too much changing all at once. There was a lot of
- 42:36pushback, and there were kind of two things that happened that
- 42:39were extremely helpful. The one was, um, um,
- 42:42you know, somebody just saying basically what Tessa said,
- 42:45like, menace. Like, put most of your
- 42:48energy toward the people who.
- 42:51Who want to get on board with this. And lo and behold, there
- 42:54are lots of people who want to get on board with this, and
- 42:56so really, like, nurture their faith and,
- 42:59like, build them up. And it's so
- 43:02easy, you know, as a teacher, to
- 43:05put all of your energy into
- 43:08managing the kids who are a problem, and. And the kids
- 43:10who are, like, there to learn get nothing,
- 43:14right. So, like, so direct
- 43:16directing of energy. I totally get what Tess is
- 43:19saying. But then the other piece
- 43:22I was going to visit, this elderly woman in the
- 43:25congregation, and her son, God
- 43:28bless him, reached out to me before I went and said,
- 43:31look, before you go to see my mom, I'm just going to give you a
- 43:34piece of advice. Like, she doesn't like
- 43:37you. Like, she. She
- 43:40thinks that women shouldn't be priests, and, like, she thinks that
- 43:43you're changing too many things, he said, like, you're gonna
- 43:46be tempted to try to talk her out of how she
- 43:48feels, but just listen to her. Like,
- 43:51don't try to. Don't try to convince her otherwise. Like,
- 43:54just say, yeah, I really hear you, and, like,
- 43:57like, validate. Right? Um, and
- 43:59therapy language. Validate. I ended up
- 44:02having, like, the best relationship with this woman,
- 44:05and if he hadn't have emailed me, I would have gone
- 44:08and try to, like. Because in my mind, it's just
- 44:11like, clear in my mind what we need to do and why this
- 44:14is, like, the right way forward. And if she can
- 44:17see things as clearly as I see them, of course she's going to
- 44:20get on board. Well, she wasn't going to get on board because
- 44:23I'm convincing, but she actually did get
- 44:26on board because I listened to her.
- 44:28>> Loren: Well, there's a lesson there.
- 44:30>> Martha Tatarnic: It was huge. It was really huge.
- 44:33Yeah.
- 44:33>> Loren: I'm thinking again about, um, I'm trying to
- 44:36write this down. She got on board because you
- 44:39listened. Um, I'm
- 44:42thinking again about my guy, Jack Tatama, who I love to listen
- 44:45to, talks about family systems theory. He tells a story about
- 44:48when he was at a church. Uh,
- 44:51he brought a change to their Christmas Eve service,
- 44:54and he kind of put it out there.
- 44:57We're going to do something different for Christmas Eve this year.
- 45:00People threw a fit, one woman in particular, through a
- 45:02fit. So he went over there, rather than
- 45:05trying to defend what he was going to do, he just listened to her. And
- 45:08it turned out her daughter, I think it was, had
- 45:11tragically passed away. So
- 45:14it wasn't so much about the Christmas Eve service
- 45:17and the structure of that service.
- 45:20It was. She had so much emotional
- 45:23baggage, so much emotional pain
- 45:25around that time of year, uh, that another
- 45:28change just felt like too much. And her being listened
- 45:31to really change things.
- 45:34So thank you for sharing that.
- 45:37>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, thank you. I think, um,
- 45:40that's sort of the other piece in all of this is that
- 45:43it's probably mostly not about you.
- 45:46It's almost mostly not about you.
- 45:49>> Loren: That goes back to our Kenzie Tate clip.
- 45:52Right? Like, we all got our stuff and
- 45:54it's. It's not about us, but we
- 45:57also process it like, it's about us.
- 46:00>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah.
- 46:01>> Loren: Um, pastors, check out Kenzie Tate. Uh, I'll tell her she
- 46:04owes me for this, but
- 46:07she's doing good stuff there. Let's do two more
- 46:10here. Um, so this
- 46:12is
- 46:17the last one here.
- 46:19Um, this actually comes
- 46:22from your winter
- 46:24season, and this is too good of a clip not to
- 46:27play. So obviously
- 46:30leadership is a tricky thing and let's just
- 46:33play this. This is from Martha's interview over the
- 46:36winter. I can't remember which number this is, but this is around the 100.
- 46:395155 episode number
- 46:42with justice. Excuse me, Justin Lewis. Anthony,
- 46:45is that right? And he talks about,
- 46:48you know, he's, he's against the model of leadership.
- 46:51And we might feel differently, or at least,
- 46:54um, critiques some elements. But he does have some intriguing
- 46:57points to play here. And this one especially
- 47:01speaks to it. Let's listen in.
- 47:04>> Justin Lewis-Anthony: Interesting side question. Why don't they have leadership studies in
- 47:07Germany? Because do you know what the german word for
- 47:10leader is?
- 47:11>> Martha Tatarnic: Fuhrer.
- 47:12>> Loren: There you go.
- 47:12>> Justin Lewis-Anthony: Uh, it's really hard to have leadership studies when the
- 47:15model of leadership is the Fuhrer.
- 47:17>> Martha Tatarnic: Oh my gosh.
- 47:18>> Justin Lewis-Anthony: Hitler wasn't the first Fuhrer. There were people who were constantly
- 47:21looking for the Fuhrer. Um, like the
- 47:24english look for King Arthur. And Bonhoeffer would
- 47:27have been the perfect candidate for it. I mean, he was tall, he was good looking,
- 47:30he was blonde, he was, ah, charismatic.
- 47:33He was musical. Um, he played Bach.
- 47:36Like Bach. Um, he was a fantastic tennis
- 47:39player. Um, he was really good company. And
- 47:42he was morally
- 47:44scrupulous. Um, and he
- 47:47refused to take on
- 47:50the role that, um, people that he could
- 47:53have easily taken on.
- 47:56To go back to the lord of the Rings metaphor, he refused to take
- 47:59the one ring. He was basically Faramir and not Boromir.
- 48:02>> Loren: Yeah, I'm not that well versed in, uh,
- 48:05Lord of the Rings to remember that little who
- 48:08those two people are. But
- 48:10what he talks about, what Justin talks about in that clip,
- 48:13I think is really compelling because especially,
- 48:16I don't know what it's like up in Canada,
- 48:19Martha, but we're certainly seeing this dynamic
- 48:22in the States, you know, the run up
- 48:25here to another election. And so many people
- 48:28are really obsessed with, ah, Donald
- 48:31Trump and his kind of just authoritative
- 48:34leadership. There is so much
- 48:36of this
- 48:39tension, this appeal, this lust,
- 48:42this temptation to become this kind of.
- 48:46Because I think that, I don't know, like,
- 48:49I think there is some kind of like,
- 48:51sinful element, if I can use that word, of humanity, that we kind of
- 48:54want this kind of like, tell me everything, I'll follow
- 48:57you. When, like,
- 49:00right. I think we'd say, like, our, we should follow
- 49:03Jesus.
- 49:06How do we balance attention as church
- 49:09leaders?
- 49:13>> Martha Tatarnic: Like, Justin has some real mic
- 49:16drop moments in that interview.
- 49:18Um, and like you say, it's
- 49:21hard to throw out the whole model of leadership
- 49:24because we're
- 49:26formed every step of the way to be
- 49:28christian leaders. Like, oh,
- 49:31this podcast is about christian
- 49:34leadership in so many ways, and yet at the
- 49:37same time. I think what he's saying fundamentally
- 49:40is, like, we have to interrogate
- 49:43that tendency. Well, like,
- 49:46that Messiah complex, um, that we can wear
- 49:49as christian leaders too
- 49:51easily and that people can put on us
- 49:54as well as, like, you say that, like,
- 49:57deep desire to have somebody
- 50:00just save us.
- 50:01>> Loren: Yes.
- 50:02>> Martha Tatarnic: Right.
- 50:02>> Loren: Yes.
- 50:04>> Martha Tatarnic: Like, we just. We want somebody to show up
- 50:07and save our churches. We want somebody to show up and save
- 50:10our country. I mean, that's what the maga
- 50:12like, motto speaks to, right?
- 50:15Like, is that desire to be saved.
- 50:18And thankfully, like, in the church
- 50:20anyway, we, um, we do
- 50:23have a savior. We. We can forget
- 50:26that. So, like, we have to keep.
- 50:29We have to keep coming back to it. We have to keep
- 50:31repenting, really. Like, we have to keep
- 50:34being called back to who the
- 50:36actual Messiah is. And,
- 50:39like, spoiler alert, it's neither one of us.
- 50:42>> Loren: Yeah.
- 50:43>> Martha Tatarnic: Or anybody else listening to this podcast.
- 50:46>> Loren: Yeah, well, this is. Well, this is good stuff. Any
- 50:49other thoughts you want to share about, uh, the last season
- 50:52here?
- 50:55>> Martha Tatarnic: Uh, I mean, I just love that we
- 50:58have a chance to do this because I I do
- 51:01see how interconnected all of this is.
- 51:04I mean, everything that we heard in that last
- 51:07clip is certainly not unrelated to
- 51:10all of the pieces that we talked about around, you know, that
- 51:13consumer model and that kind of
- 51:15capitalistic model that we can get locked
- 51:18into as churches
- 51:21as well. And, um, I
- 51:24think just giving an opportunity
- 51:26for these really wise
- 51:29voices that you keep bringing
- 51:32into this podcast to speak,
- 51:36um, to one another as well,
- 51:38is, like, really important to
- 51:41see the unique
- 51:44perspectives that each guest is
- 51:46bringing, but then also to see those common
- 51:49denominators that keep rising to the surface.
- 51:52>> Loren: Yeah. Thank you. So why don't we give a teaser here
- 51:55for your upcoming summer season?
- 51:58Uh, share about some of the interviews and
- 52:01conversations you're working on or in some cases,
- 52:04already completed.
- 52:06>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah. Um, I mean, I'm really
- 52:09excited about, uh,
- 52:12the conversations that I've had so far. There's
- 52:15some really interesting,
- 52:17um, conversations about the
- 52:20importance of the small
- 52:23and the local in the life of the
- 52:25church. Um, there
- 52:28are, uh,
- 52:31there's a conversation with someone
- 52:34who doesn't give us those magic bullets,
- 52:36but has done some research into,
- 52:39uh, some of the common denominators across
- 52:42flourishing and mainline churches, which I think
- 52:45is of interest to a lot of our
- 52:49audience. Um, talked
- 52:52to some people here in my
- 52:55neck of the woods in Canada, and some people
- 52:58across the pond and, uh,
- 53:01some people in the states. There's a few
- 53:04other conversations around clergy,
- 53:07um, burnout and wellness. And
- 53:09I am working on, um, securing
- 53:12an interview that I'm really excited about,
- 53:16uh, with, uh, a particular hero of
- 53:18mine. So if any of our audience wants to
- 53:21just say a prayer for me that I'm actually able
- 53:24to get that, uh, to
- 53:27materialize, I would appreciate those prayers, because,
- 53:30um, it's a conversation I would just love to share
- 53:32with our audience.
- 53:35>> Loren: Yeah, absolutely. Well, thanks so much,
- 53:37Martha, for this conversation. Let's just each kind
- 53:40of give our. Our shout out here. So
- 53:43shameless. Well, honest asks. Let's say this, right,
- 53:46honest asks. It really helps to
- 53:49support our work here together. If you
- 53:52can, um, subscribe, review,
- 53:55share this with a friend. Martha, what am I
- 53:58forgetting?
- 54:00>> Martha Tatarnic: Yeah, like, those reviews are the number one
- 54:03way to help, uh, future
- 54:05christian reach more people.
- 54:08And, um, we say that not as
- 54:11people who are really interested in
- 54:14getting the greatest market share, um,
- 54:17but as people who really care about the life
- 54:20of our church and want this conversation to
- 54:23be as, um, wide
- 54:25and deep as possible.
- 54:27>> Loren: Yeah, yeah. Thanks for adding that.
- 54:30Well, again, we always leave folks
- 54:33with a word of peace. Samartha. May God's peace
- 54:36be with you.
- 54:38>> Martha Tatarnic: And may God's peace be with you. Also, uh.
- 54:42>> Paul: Thanks for joining us on the Future Christian podcast.
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