Latest / Creatures of the Wind / A northern michigan love story
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- 0:00SPEAKER_01: I noticed her.
- 0:01SPEAKER_01: Like I I think she was actually running the first time I ever saw her.
- 0:06SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh, well she's here.
- 0:12SPEAKER_00: And when I first saw him, he was sitting on the deck of his cottage and I was like, woo, he's cute.
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: He's a cutie.
- 0:19SPEAKER_00: I think we laughed more than we talked.
- 0:22SPEAKER_01: Ah, this is I'm uh feel even better about being being here for this week.
- 0:28SPEAKER_00: I think it was just intoxicating to be with somebody who was that I was attracted to that was so cute.
- 0:35SPEAKER_01: I was 14, I didn't kiss a girl before, and I really wanted to kiss her so bad.
- 0:43SPEAKER_01: And I was like, this is it.
- 0:45SPEAKER_01: We're gonna go to the big swing and I'm gonna kiss her before I leave.
- 0:49SPEAKER_01: And I had my plan, but I was sabotaged.
- 0:54SPEAKER_01: There was another girl at the camp that liked me, and I think she knew something was going on, and she she shadowed us, and everywhere we went, she went.
- 1:04SPEAKER_00: You knew he wanted to kiss you?
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: Yes, and I wanted to kiss him back.
- 1:09SPEAKER_01: But I was ready for the next summer.
- 1:13SPEAKER_01: There was a lot of kissing that summer.
- 1:23SPEAKER_01: I remember saying goodbye and getting in the car and driving home, and it just hit me.
- 1:30SPEAKER_01: I was like really sad.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: When I went home, I wrote in my journal, I'm gonna marry him someday.
- 1:39SPEAKER_00: I got a letter in the mail.
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: He said, 10 reasons why I want you for my wife, and it was super cute.
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: We were two grades different, so I also felt like we couldn't really date now.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: I kind of knew that.
- 1:56unknown: Which we do.
- 2:00SPEAKER_00: I had this um theme where I kept dating people that were like unreachable.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: They had something about them that seemed like, well, maybe I could be the one that reaches them.
- 2:14SPEAKER_00: I would have these relationships almost like a challenge, and I would realize that that's the way that they are, and I was never gonna get there with them.
- 2:28SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we dated other people.
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: Were you thinking about her when you were dating these other girls?
- 2:33SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:35SPEAKER_00: I had just gotten out of a rough relationship, and Ryan asked me if I wanted to um spend some time with him.
- 2:45SPEAKER_00: I was feeling sore from that relationship, and I was feeling like I just need to take a break.
- 2:50SPEAKER_00: I shouldn't be dating anybody right now because it was so disappointing.
- 2:55SPEAKER_00: And so I told him I wasn't sure, but I ended up going, and we must have spent like three or four days just hiking, talking, cooking, hanging out, and we went on a hike.
- 3:08SPEAKER_00: Ryan laid down on the ground, and we were in this warm spot in the dunes.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: There's beautiful rocks.
- 3:13SPEAKER_00: So at first we were looking at rocks, and then he laid down and he had his face up towards the sun.
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: And um, and then I went over to him and put my head on his chest.
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: And I was laying down, of course, too.
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: And then he put his arm around me and he said, You know, I've always loved you.
- 3:41SPEAKER_00: And I just really felt it.
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: I like knew it, I knew it, and I knew that's what I wanted.
- 3:47SPEAKER_00: He was like a companion and a friend.
- 3:52SPEAKER_00: And bonus, bonus, he was really attractive, and I was attracted to him.
- 4:00SPEAKER_00: And a year and eight months later, we were married.
- 4:02SPEAKER_00: We were just, I was just looked at it like he was my person.
- 4:06SPEAKER_00: Not that we were dating, like this is my person.
- 4:11SPEAKER_01: And now you own a farm.
- 4:12SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 4:13SPEAKER_01: That's the beauty of that life.
- 4:15SPEAKER_01: It just takes you on a journey, and like 30 years ago, you're like, damn.
- 4:20SPEAKER_01: We wouldn't have saw this.
- 4:22SPEAKER_01: We really.
- 4:24SPEAKER_01: It's just amazing how life is