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The One About Flourishing In The Ocean Of Life · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, My Loves, Welcome back to the Give Them While
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  Speaker 1: a podcast. We are recording bright and early from the Birmingham,
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: Kent Households.
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  Speaker 2: How do I like recording here?
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  Speaker 1: Do you like recording this lately?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I was shocked when the text came through
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  Speaker 1: that the arrival for production would be eight am, and
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  Speaker 1: Easton responded.
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  Speaker 2: I am of service here and there.
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  Speaker 1: We're glad you're learning that in your program.
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  Speaker 2: I'm up if I need to be.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, the whole reason we're recording so early is
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  Speaker 1: because Ocean. It's basically the last week of spring break,
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  Speaker 1: and I get a text from one of the moms
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  Speaker 1: whose kid is in Ocean's class, and she said, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing a party for the girls that's like a goodbye
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: spring break and it's at ten thirty. Let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you a ten thirty am party That is my vibe
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  Speaker 1: out with a bunch of kids and moms. Now, once
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  Speaker 1: you start telling me it's mom's night out, dinner's at seven, eh.
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  Speaker 2: Have a good night.
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  Speaker 1: I like social time in the ten thirty hours, so
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  Speaker 1: I want to be the one to take her. And
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  Speaker 1: that's why we're recording so early. So I hope you're
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  Speaker 1: awake enough to be like participating in the pod.
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  Speaker 2: I really am. I'm not even tired.
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  Speaker 3: I'm thinking about everything that we have to.
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  Speaker 2: Do today, and it's mentally exhausting.
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  Speaker 1: What do we have to do?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I just have a bunch of stuff, just things
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  Speaker 2: that I want to do everything. Yes, yeah, I told you.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think things? Okay? Do you think on the
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  Speaker 1: list of things to do? You can?
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  Speaker 2: Your car is on there. I'll beat you to the punch.
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  Speaker 1: All you guys. My car is such a disgrace and
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why. It's like, the one thing that
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  Speaker 1: I never want to do is wash a car.
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  Speaker 2: But why is it so dirty?
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  Speaker 1: Well, we've gone to the desert. We had a really
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  Speaker 1: fun time.
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  Speaker 2: Hurts Castle.
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  Speaker 1: What did you call it?
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  Speaker 2: Hurst Castle?
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  Speaker 1: I thought you said Hurts. You know, I was calling
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  Speaker 1: it Hurts for a long time, and I I blame
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  Speaker 1: that on the fact that the Eagles won the Super
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  Speaker 1: Bowl and it hurts and he was I was.
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  Speaker 3: Putting Hurt's Castle or Hurst's Castle, and it kept putting
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  Speaker 3: it into Hart's Castle.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we don't even notice.
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  Speaker 3: Let's let's I telled everybody I was going to Hart's Castle.
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  Speaker 2: People were like this, dumb ass, fucking idiot.
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  Speaker 1: I have so many thoughts on that castle. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get into it all. First, I want to
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  Speaker 1: talk about what I did before we left to go
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  Speaker 1: on this little road trip. I had a playdate, well,
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  Speaker 1: Ocean had a play date, but it was kind of
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  Speaker 1: a play date for me too. I don't know about
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  Speaker 1: you guys and the moms out there, but as I've
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  Speaker 1: gotten older, I really really and I'm sure you wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: know this by the way I come across on like
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  Speaker 1: the podcast or come across on TV. But I'm a
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  Speaker 1: very guarded person and I have a really hard time
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  Speaker 1: making new friends, trusting people. I'm just like pretty closed off.
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  Speaker 1: And there are these two moms. One of one of
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  Speaker 1: the moms I met because her daughter was put in
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  Speaker 1: Oceans dance class, and I just immediately connected with her
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  Speaker 1: because she was kind of just like sitting on the
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  Speaker 1: bench watching the kids, and I'm like, she seems like
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  Speaker 1: my type of vibe. She's not in the mix, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm not really in the mix, so we connected. The
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  Speaker 1: other mom is a mom I know because her daughter's
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  Speaker 1: in Oceans class, like dance class. The one mom, but
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  Speaker 1: the other one is in like the school class and
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  Speaker 1: she takes dance as well. So they knew each other,
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  Speaker 1: these two moms, and we were like, we should like
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  Speaker 1: have a play date with the kids aka playdate for
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  Speaker 1: the moms, because it is so hard to make friends.
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  Speaker 1: Well it's just said this age.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's almost like, I don't even care if
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  Speaker 3: you like the kid, I like the mom, go play
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  Speaker 3: with the kid.
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  Speaker 1: Well what's great is Ocean likes both of the kids
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  Speaker 1: like a lot, and I like the moms, and it's
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  Speaker 1: nice to just go and have like normal conversations. As
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  Speaker 1: much as I adore the mom friends that I have,
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  Speaker 1: we're all in the same world and a lot of times.
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  Speaker 1: And I think I also gained this with age where
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  Speaker 1: the things that I used to kind of get off
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  Speaker 1: on and care about in conversation no longer fuel my soul.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care about what's going on on Instagram. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care about you know, the bubble that that we've
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  Speaker 1: all been a part of for so long. Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: just craving something a little bit different. So having this
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  Speaker 1: play date for myself was very there's.
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  Speaker 2: A meaning behind it.
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  Speaker 1: It was very fulfilling that I like that for you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and just the conversations that came with it had nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with like the bubble that I've been in
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  Speaker 1: for so many years.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like free conversation.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. We talked about like their marriages and and their
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  Speaker 1: kids and what they struggle with. And I left just
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  Speaker 1: feeling like, why am I so on cloud nine right now?
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  Speaker 3: Because you guys all had a productive conversation of things
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  Speaker 3: going wrong in your guys's life and you felt like
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  Speaker 3: you're all in the same boat together, that no one's
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  Speaker 3: life is perfect.
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  Speaker 2: Because that's how most people leave. You go hang out
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  Speaker 2: with these people and they're like my husband, my kids,
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  Speaker 2: DA DA DA, peaches and roses, and then you leave thinking, well,
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  Speaker 2: why isn't mine? And then you feel bad about yourself,
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  Speaker 2: but then you don't think it.
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  Speaker 3: But then she's just lying about everything, and it's like,
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  Speaker 3: here's she just the metaphorical.
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  Speaker 2: Metaphorical bitch's just lying her ass?
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, who are we are? We were free some.
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  Speaker 2: Specific we can not do that.
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  Speaker 3: But it's just like people just fucking blow smoke up
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  Speaker 3: everyone else's ass of their own delusional life of how
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  Speaker 3: perfect it is, making other people feel bad and empty
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  Speaker 3: as they're leaving and now you just had a conversation
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  Speaker 3: of how empty all of you are and now how
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  Speaker 3: full you feel?
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  Speaker 1: Right, I thought it was the opposite. I felt it
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  Speaker 1: was very well rounded and balanced. It was all of
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  Speaker 1: the things that we struggle with. But on the other hand,
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  Speaker 1: it was like all of the things that are like.
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  Speaker 3: So great exactly, but how it's like how funny that,
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  Speaker 3: like everything that you struggle with and your cup being
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  Speaker 3: half full.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all of you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys talking about it just made your cup full because
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  Speaker 3: you're like, we're all struggling together, you're not alone.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the blowing the smoke up.
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  Speaker 3: The one girl, the metaphorical bitch who's just a CNX Tuesday, is.
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  Speaker 1: Just riled up. He's riled up about it.
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  Speaker 3: Like that's how I feel like when you go and
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  Speaker 3: you're like, my life is shit right now, and then
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  Speaker 3: somebody else is like mine is two, and you're like,
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  Speaker 3: let's just fucking talk about how shitty it is together,
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  Speaker 3: and then you leave and you're like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 3: I feel so full.
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  Speaker 2: It's so great. I'm full of shit.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if he says talking about his personal life,
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  Speaker 1: but I actually left feeling very fulfilled. And from there
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  Speaker 1: I came home, I packed the kids and we went
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  Speaker 1: on what can only be described to me as a
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  Speaker 1: road now.
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  Speaker 2: No, we drove to Florida and back with felt like
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  Speaker 2: I'm not kidding you.
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  Speaker 1: Hurst Castle is in. Do you say Cambria or Cambria.
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  Speaker 1: I've been saying Cambria. I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: I had a girl in my class named Cambria, same spelling,
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  Speaker 3: but my gosh, I.
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  Speaker 1: Knew a Cambria as well, and both of her sisters
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  Speaker 1: are married to nflx NFL players.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, probably the same Cambria.
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  Speaker 1: But on the way there, it was like a three
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  Speaker 1: and a half hour drive, so we stopped off because
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  Speaker 1: I talked to one of my friends the play day
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  Speaker 1: and she said, are you guys going to the Madonna In?
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  Speaker 1: And I was thinking, obviously, probably what you guys are thinking,
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  Speaker 1: like Madonna the singer. No, there is this place, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: and I highly recommend it's the Madonna In. But it
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  Speaker 1: was basically it was founded by this guy, Alex and
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  Speaker 1: Phyllis Madonna in nineteen fifty eight. Right, like, the wife
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  Speaker 1: is working on Highway one oh one and she sees
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  Speaker 1: this property, she goes to Alex and is like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, we should start an inn. And she had
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  Speaker 1: this vision. So you you're literally on Highway one oh
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  Speaker 1: one and you see the sign and you would think like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: how random and weird. It's an iconic landmark. You can
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  Speaker 1: actually stay there. It's a motelish hotel. There was no
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  Speaker 1: vacancy when we stopped off, but we were only going
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  Speaker 1: to the steakhouse. You guys, please take this opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: google the Madonna.
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  Speaker 2: In now it I. It feels like you're on drugs.
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  Speaker 2: When you're walk in, You're like, oh my.
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  Speaker 1: Gosh, everything is pink gold.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, so fun.
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: I was looking for the word, like how to describe it,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's not I googled it's kitchi.
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  Speaker 2: It's kitchi.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's got a kitchy type of charm to it.
• 9:20
  Speaker 2: Where well will you please describe kitchen?
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  Speaker 1: Well, let me google it. Let me google the term the.
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  Speaker 2: Word for me and anybody else not know. I've heard
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  Speaker 2: the word. It's kitchi.
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  Speaker 1: Kitchi. It's of art objects or design considered to be
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  Speaker 1: in poor taste because of excessive garishness, but sometimes appreciate
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  Speaker 1: it in an ironic or knowing way a kitchy souvenir shop.
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  Speaker 2: Hearst's Castle is KITCHI.
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  Speaker 1: Not at all. No, No, but this place Madonna in
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  Speaker 1: was no. Hearst Castle was full of antiques, and yeah
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  Speaker 1: it was excessive, but I would not call it kitchie
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  Speaker 1: like the Madonna in seemed I don't kitchen. It wasn't cheap,
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: but it didn't seem like you couldn't touch anything. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: like hers castle, you literally could not touch anything. Ocean
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  Speaker 1: stepped off the carpet that they called the yellow Brick Road,
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  Speaker 1: and someone came up and said, sweetheart, please don't step
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  Speaker 1: off step on the wood four, which I was glad
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: he did because I'm like, finally somebody else discapplining yes,
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: and she listened, which was great. Anyway, I highly recommend.
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  Speaker 1: But as I'm sitting there and it was popping, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: it was poppin'. We got there at five o'clock, but
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  Speaker 1: I just could not help but look at our table
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  Speaker 1: and then look at everyone else's table. That made total sense.
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  Speaker 1: Like you would look to your left a group of
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  Speaker 1: girlfriends clearly celebrating something.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there, if you saw a guy, he.
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  Speaker 3: Was with his girlfriend right like everyone Julie tables full.
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  Speaker 1: Of women right and then but every everyone made sense.
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  Speaker 1: And then you see a man and a woman and children,
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  Speaker 1: husband and a wife and kids. You look at our table.
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  Speaker 1: We've got take a poll. What to make of our table?
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  Speaker 1: It was my mom, Kristin, her best friend, because we
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  Speaker 1: went to celebrate her birthday Landon, Landon Easton, me and
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  Speaker 1: two kids. And by the way, if you followed us,
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  Speaker 1: if you followed us further into Cambria where that was
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  Speaker 1: our final destination.
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  Speaker 2: The room situation, the room situation.
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  Speaker 1: I stayed with my two kids, Mom and Kristen shared
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  Speaker 1: a room, and you and land And shared a room.
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  Speaker 1: What the hell is going on? Okay, you've got a
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  Speaker 1: lesbian couple, a gay couple, and then this random woman.
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  Speaker 3: And then the random woman with two kids who had
• 11:48
  Speaker 3: just fell into it. She was like, I just went
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  Speaker 3: to school. I found a gay couple in an old
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  Speaker 3: lesbian couple, and here I am.
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  Speaker 1: It's so weird and random, and I just keep looking
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  Speaker 1: at my life being like, wow, it's so uncommon, but
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: to me it's the most common thing. Like oh, like
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: I make to me, I make all this sense. Of course,
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: this would be my baby from a baby daddy, and
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  Speaker 1: then I'm so scarred that I went and got a donor.
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  Speaker 1: And this is my brother, his best friend, and my
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  Speaker 1: mom and her best friends. This is just how we roll.
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  Speaker 1: This is called the pod. Okay. But to anyone else
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  Speaker 1: looking in, you just.
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  Speaker 2: Pick them up as we go. We're like the long arms.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: Oh what is that?
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  Speaker 2: Like the thing of oil? It's like that.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, it's the ark machine and it oils itself and
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: it has to keep itself alive.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: That's us, just grabbing things to keep ourselves alive. Oh,
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: just new pod friends.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Hey, it's a lot out there, it is, and it's
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  Speaker 1: you've got to hunt. You've got to swim one hundred
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  Speaker 1: and fifty miles a day. And to be a part
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  Speaker 1: of a pod is a luxury. But the more people
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  Speaker 1: are part of the pod, the better you will do.
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  Speaker 1: You will flourish in the ocean of life. That's how
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  Speaker 1: I like it. Thank you, I appreciate it. So let's
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  Speaker 1: get into this uh cursed castle situation. So you guys,
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  Speaker 1: we we get to Cambria, which is another forty minutes.
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  Speaker 1: And keep in mind, I adore my mother more than anything. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's just put that out there as I know she's listening,
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  Speaker 1: but she has no concept of a seven month old
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  Speaker 1: and what that means and entails. We get to dinner
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  Speaker 1: at five, so so usually goes down between six fifteen
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  Speaker 1: and six thirty. We still have another forty five minutes
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  Speaker 1: to an hour drive to get to I think we
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  Speaker 1: stayed at what Ocean Point ranch, like a little mot
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  Speaker 1: in Cambria. So I'm telling her that, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: we got to get it move in. But you guys,
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  Speaker 1: she just ordered a cup of decaf, and Landon's finishing
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  Speaker 1: up his Martine.
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  Speaker 2: And there is still and jumps to be.
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  Speaker 1: Helly gift shops. So I go put the kids in
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  Speaker 1: the car, thinking that like everyone's going to start making
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  Speaker 1: their way out as well. Easton comes down and he's like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, bitch, let's go, And I'm like, where's the
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  Speaker 1: rest of the crew. They're going to stay in shop? Okay, great,
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  Speaker 1: get in the car. Easton and I are having a heyday.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: We need to do that. We need to kick it,
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  Speaker 1: the two of us.
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  Speaker 3: We did, but you have no idea you putting the
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: kids in the car, me walking out and walking back
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  Speaker 3: in and just saying like hey, laws, just with the kids.
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  Speaker 2: But just like be timely, yea, because she's got kids, Lisa, we've.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Got the kids to be timely. Because she's got kids.
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  Speaker 2: You know, like we need to leave if you forgot
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  Speaker 2: we've got kids. So I go.
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  Speaker 3: She's halfway up the stairs of the Madonna and looks
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  Speaker 3: directly at Land and he goes, we'll.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go with you. We'll let's go with you.
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  Speaker 3: And she goes and you can go with law and
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  Speaker 3: I go, okay, not another word said.
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  Speaker 2: She just walked right up those stairs. Things done. She
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: could not get in that gift.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: I love how I'm looked at as the woman in
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  Speaker 1: the group who has some baggage, and it's like rude.
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  Speaker 2: So I did got that.
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  Speaker 1: Lauren that stays with us. She's got two kids. She's
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  Speaker 1: got a buzz kill when you want to shop the
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  Speaker 1: gift shop.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: I know, because there's not enough room in your baggage.
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  Speaker 1: Well let me tell you though, Easan and I had
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  Speaker 1: a heyday on this dress, laughing so hard that my
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  Speaker 1: stomach didn't hurt, but like stern, my chest started to
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  Speaker 1: concave and I was like, I'm going to crash the car.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot breathe, and then it dawns on me. My
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: wallet and Easton's wallet are with Lisa. I have no
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: credit card. He since I it's fine, I'll read the
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: credit card to the woman. I go, we have to
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  Speaker 1: have a form of identification in order to check into
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  Speaker 1: the room.
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  Speaker 3: Helloton, bitch, Google me, Google little old me.
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  Speaker 1: So then then I just start laughing again because I
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  Speaker 1: cannot believe that we were so eager to.
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  Speaker 2: Get out that we florindos. Do we turn around? I go, no,
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  Speaker 2: because that will just let them stay longer. Get them out,
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  Speaker 2: Get them out.
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  Speaker 1: It did, get them out, It did, you guys. This
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  Speaker 1: Ocean Point ranch was like the cutest little what would
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  Speaker 1: is it a motel? What's the difference between a hotel
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  Speaker 1: and a motel?
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  Speaker 2: Motel? You walk out of your door and you're outside.
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  Speaker 1: There we go it was a motel. That hotel, which
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: is most of the place to stay. It's that area.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you're going to you're gonna find motels in
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  Speaker 3: like those areas, Like if you go to like.
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  Speaker 2: Zion National Park, totally hotels.
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  Speaker 3: You go into any of those type of things where
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  Speaker 3: it's not like a huge place, you're going to be
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  Speaker 3: in motels. But I love a good motel, walking out
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  Speaker 3: of your door in your just house.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and this isn't like the Best Western, which no
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: shame on the Best Western. I've stayed at Best Western
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  Speaker 1: all the way.
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  Speaker 2: This was like.
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  Speaker 3: Fifteen foot ceilings inside, like the rooms felt big. I
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  Speaker 3: loved our room like you walked out into like the
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: a little court yard area with like seats, sun palm trees.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Wire pits, palm trees.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: With with pine trees. Yeah, that's my favorite.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Pines by the sea.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: And that they did not lie, They did not lie.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: There were gorgeous by the sea, pines by the sea,
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: so much so that even Lauren I talk, we even
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: had the same thought at the exact same time. I
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: was like, the one thing that I've never fucking seen
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: that I actually do want to do is see snow
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: on the ocean.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never seen that. Isn't that wild?
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Like I want to go to like Washington.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Or just well, even when I've gone north up the coast,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: it's always at a time where there's still no snow,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Like you want to go at primo time, Like.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: I want it to be snowing one day when we're there.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, that would be legit. By the way, I was.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy that we did this because when you
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: think of California, I feel like so often you think
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: of the southern California, you're thinking of.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Like the palm trees, beach this.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but when this was beautiful, I mean even with
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: the ocean, you didn't feel like you were in California.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: No, you didn't at all. And I've never seen the
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Pacific Ocean look like that blue and just like the
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: backdrop of where we were. It was phenomenal. So that
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: the next day after we arrived, we go to Hurst Castle.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: If you guys have not been to Hurst Castle, unpopular opinion,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're missing out.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, I agree, I.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: Think you should. This is why I don't think you're
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: missing out that far. Let me let me explain though.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: This is why I don't think you're missing out. I
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: feel like it should have been a hotel. So before
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: we jump into why I feel that way Herst Castle,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: it's like the history of it began in eighteen sixty five.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna bore you with a hissye lesson, but
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: it was George Hurst who purchased forty thousand acres of
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: ranch land after his mom died in nineteen nineteen. William
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Randolph Hurst inherited thousands of acres around San Simeon, and
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: overtime he purchased more that eventually spread to two hundred
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: and fifty thousand acres. Now let me tell you this
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: was considered his like small ranch right because one of
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: his properties that I believe was in Mexico was one
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: point six million acres. Like, this place is ginormous.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: That had one in Wales. Yes, that was his biggest
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: wasn't it the one in Wales? Or was I mistaken?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: I could have.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Whatever one was, the one point six million acres. But
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: you go up the most incredible trail to get to
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: this castle and the view is absolutely stunny. And the
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: reason he chose this piece of land was because that's
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: where he was. He would stay in a tent with
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: his family, and once his family passed, he went into
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: San Francisco. He found a female arc attacked. He was
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: like big into female empowerment. His mom was a strong woman.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: He goes in and says, life is too short. I
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: want to build a castle. This is what I'm thinking.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: It takes them twenty eight years to build. Keep in
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: mind the main highways would not come for another seventeen years,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: and the next one for another forty years. So this
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: castle was Now as I'm talking about it, I'm like, wow,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: you guys should go see it. I'm pretty incredible. I
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: wanted to be living in it. That's what I want
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: to be staying.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it tastes an incredible low place to go, and
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: like how they did it, but like me.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Let me stay in there.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: They built this. It took them twenty eight years, like
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I said, because they had to go up this mountain
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: horseback and bring.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: All of these heavy, heavy materials like beyond and it's
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: absolutely stunning and fabulous.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: And the pools were insane. Please google Hurst Castle, you guys,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: because if you.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Can look up the indoor swimming pool, it is unreal.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: There were over over a million.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Tiles placed one at a time by hand.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but didn't he think that they were from the
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: like fourteenth century?
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: And oh that was different? I think, or was that
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: the time?
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: There's the outdoor No, there's the outdoor swimming pool and
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: then there's the indoor one that's all blue. And for me,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: the most incredible thing to see was the stone like
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: the walkway down the pool you know how you like
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: climbed down into the deep end of the ladder. These
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: were like carved stone. They were stunning. But this is
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: what I don't understand you guys, is they have these villas.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: One of them is like around three thousand square feet,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: the other one's like forty five hundred. And these pools
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: are so stunning, the indoor one, outdoor one. The view
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: is insanity. The acreage is incredible, and all of these
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: like cows, some zebras. We didn't see anybody that are
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: roaming around. And you take the tour and there's amazing tapestries,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: amazing pieces that I think should be in a different museum.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: That's I mean, And that's the gonna be the you know,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: your argument right there is like, because I'm in your boat,
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: I feel like with everything, it's because the architecture could
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: be the museum, you know, because people could be like,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: but that architect like you can't screw with it, that's
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: the museum inside. People could be like, I love art,
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: but the architecture is your real art.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah right, And that's where But I.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I know, am I sounding ignorant?
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I'm in your boat, so I'll sound it with you.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: It is very hard to go up there and to
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: take in all the views, to feel the presence of
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: everything that has happened up there, you know, like all
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: of the great people. It's very hard to just like
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: walk and not touch anything.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Follow a guy.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: It's like, I want to go up there and just
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: walk the grounds. I would love it to be a hotel,
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: Like that's the thing. I would love for it to
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: be a hotel with people, you know, sipping wine, with
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: like cool fire pits, with the view while the sun
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: is setting.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Just the whole vibe of it is something that I
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: wanted more.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Of, right, But I'm like, why don't you just move
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: the tapestries and all of these things into a museum
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: and make this a resort.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: We sound so fucking we do it, but we do.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: But let me tell you, I oh pretty. The Hurst
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: net worth from Google says that it's about twenty just
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: a little upwards of twenty two billion dollars. The family
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: handed over Hurst Castle to the state. They just said,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: here you go, it's a donation. Take it, which I
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: think is very strange. I mean, the upkeep alone would
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: cost so many millions of dollars a year, so I
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: understand that part. However, there's just there's something about when
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: you're when you're talking about art and history, you cannot
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: make someone have an appreciation for those things. Our grandmother
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: would do a tour of the museum back in Utah
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: every Friday. She loved art, she loved history. I had
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: access to going to amazing places and doing the museum tours,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: and there was just something that I was like, this
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: is really cool that I've seen this. But to say
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: that I was in awe, it just you can't teach that.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: You can't make someone have a love for it. I
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: can appreciate it, I don't have a love for it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: So for you and I, it's like, donate the goods
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: inside to a museum and for me have p people
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: a basic room at fifteen two thousand dollars a night,
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: the villas your ten thousand dollars a night, spa, treatments.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking about all of these things, like people
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: should be coming and enjoying these places, like heavy duty enjoying.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Because twice a year, for people who donate to hers Castle,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: they hold a fundraiser. It's one thousand dollars a ticket
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: and they get to swim in the pool for three hours,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: and basically that money goes to underprivileged kids coming to
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: the castle and touring because they want to teach kids
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: to have an appreciation for art and history. That goes
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: back to you cannot teach that someone either has a
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: love for it and it really is interested or they
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: just don't. For me, the school system is something we
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: neglect so much. Take that money and put it directly
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: into the system for things that they like, truly can
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: cannot afford updated computers. I mean, we're talking about teachers.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Who instead of a ticket to Hurst's Castle, right.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Like, and for those people who really really are obsessed,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: figure out a way to have a program specifically for
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: those people, and the rest of the money should be spent.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: You know, these teachers are trying to afford boxes of
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: krant so their kids can color. And you're gonna tell
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: me that we're gonna bring all the kids to hurst
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Castle when they may.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Not if not even care.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Only one kid is in there, Like, yes, we're going
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: all of them are like, what the fuck is her?
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Do we sound so ignorant? I know there's so much
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: history in this.
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: I'm not a history buff. I can I can appreciate
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: history but.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Like also I like the structure. The structure is beautiful.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: The tapestries fuck out of here.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: That was like one of my most favorite parts was
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: the tapestries.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: A lot of things didn't make sense in Hurts Castle
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: really well. Remember how one of the tapestries was gone
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: in that big room?
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, where did it go?
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: And cleaning?
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Probably they're telling me that this was all built hand, right,
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: you see all the grout work. Where the fuck was
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: the grout work behind that tapestry?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Well easton? This thing was it was?
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: I don't care.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: In nineteen figures, right, we'll.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Make it a hotel if you're already gonna.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: And that's the other one in eighteen sixty five, like,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: forgive them if they forgot a little grout.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Work or the whole foot tapestry book.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: You may not care about it, but you have to
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: have appreciation.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I mean for the work.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Yes, the hand's son or whatever? Are you kidding?
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Only twenty feet by twenty feet. I get lost in
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: my working on it.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And to think that all the faces look good,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: I would have been they would have got elongated.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: That's got lazy to grow up.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I actually changed my mind. I will not not if
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: it should be a hotel or resort. It should all
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: stay as is and everyone should go. Wow. I just
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: talked myself in I didn't want to bring it up myself.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Out of everything.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: I just I will say for Sures. When you were like,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: you know the villas.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Ten k two grand, I was like, well, no, nobody
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: can go, but.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: But you have to price it extremely high for the.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: People who like So back to my point of keep
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Hurtz castle.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: It takes that much just to keep it running.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of land. What's bing something.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Next to it and have a little resort. Wow, we
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: are money grubbing horse. No, let's just make make more more.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: Might say, want to make the money, take my money.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Ethan said they should make a replica. And instead of
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: like getting it from France, uh, nineteenth century or whatever
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: the fuck, just get it from Ikia. It's all good.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: You can touch the walls.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Fuck yeah, I couldn't touch anything.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: There was this way cool. Don't know what it was,
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: but it was in the dining hall. Yeah, and we've
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: all seen them. But they're like this eat against the
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: wall that you still stand, but it has.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Like a bucket for your butt. Remember, they're like church yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: It almost looked like for like the like the servers,
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: like the people taking care of you know, like the
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: water killers and stuff, and then they would go and
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: sit and then keep refilling.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I touched it, and I got in trouble. I was like,
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: no ship, Charlock.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: How many times did they tell us don't feel He said,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: feel free to touch? Absolutely nothing? And I listened, because
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: I'm a virgo and I'm a rule.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Tell me not to touch, I'm gonna touch.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're one of those. The stove is hot, don't
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: touch it? Fuck that, I gotta find it.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: But how hot? Huh? How hot? How hot?
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Are we talking finger fingerprints? Gone time hot? Or or
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: just like a just a little ointment will make it
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: go away? Before we move on, I do want to
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: say this. The moment I heard that the Herst family
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: made their way from the east, I think it was
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: like boss in streets. So before that time they made
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: their way west from the east, and all I could
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: think about was American prime. Ev I have holy shit.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: They made it to California.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: But did hers did he travel there? Because he said
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: he stayed there with his family on that hill.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But they made their way from.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: The east just travel every year to go back and
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: forth or did they just stay there once they settled.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: They left and made their way west, similar to the
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: woman in American Primeval. But the best part about like
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: the jaw dropping part, which is what like sat there?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, this is the
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: most iconic line ever. Who's the old man who Bridger?
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: For Bridger? It was Bridger. He sits there and the
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: woman comes in and is like, this is where I'm
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: trying to go, and he like sits down. He's drawn
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: in the dirt. He's like, between here and there, you
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: got your fat and weather. You've also got the Wahsatch Front,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: you know, the mountain range. And he's like, and if
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: neither of those kill you, you got the utes pi
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: utes sshonies, and you got the war breaking out between
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the Mormons and the US government. The fucking hears made
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: it through that. He survived.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: They took the wrong They went around around.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, any you say eighteen whatever, they made
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: their way you know west. I'm like, holy shit, I'm interested.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: You know what.
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: He's a comedian that talks about it, and he's like,
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: when people would travel from like the east to the West.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, people were dying. By the time you got to California,
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: you were a whole new group of people.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Think of that, Like we're starting through. It's like, all right,
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: dad's dead, have a kid. I'm dying, kidd'll make it.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: K'll have a kid, and you.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You have the kid, cares to keep trucking.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: She's like, you know what, let's detour up to Montana.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: You know what, Dad wanted to go to California and
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: it was his dying wish. But fuck that, guys, it
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: seems a little dangerous one either.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: He died before my time, you know, but like how
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: crazy you get to California and you look back and like.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: To the you're Greg. We made it.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: You're like Greg and not one person. They're all fucking
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: dead on the trail.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, So moving on from Hers, I highly recommend Coe Her,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: not that I think about it. And I also don't
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: want to turn into a hotel. Just like that. I
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: appreciate every piece of art, tapestry, building, strict and tile.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: I had to think of me just taking knives to
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: tap I know.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: And you know what, just like that, we've all I'd
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: be honest though, if you guys do go to Hurst Castle.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Don't do the main rooms first.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Why.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: I enjoyed it, but like, I want to just see
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: those fucking bedrooms kitchens.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Want a bigger tour, want to be larger story like
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: this sixty five minute because of the kids.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: But I mean it was really cool and awesome, but yeah,
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: I wanted to see more of the whatever.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Let's move on. So I want to talk about because
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: you guys know I'm obsessed with this. So the pink
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: moon is happening on Saturday. Okay, April twelve, A full
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: pink moon will emerge on Saturday, a celestial not to
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: be confused with celestial seed. I'm GK and Megan Fox's kid,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: but it's a celestial event impacting the zodiac signs. Okay,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: So according to the Farmer's Almanac, the pink moon reaches
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: peak illumination at eight twenty two pm. If you guys
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: are interested, the moon is not going to be pink like.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: It's not going to be rose colored unless you put
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: your rose colored glasses on. But the name stems from
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: the early spring blue of the creeping flocks, all right,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: so how will it impact are a pink cloud not
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: to be mistaken with a pink cloud, pink moon. Okay,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: so let me tell you how this will affect you.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not even gonna read and tell me how.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: So that's aquarius is January twentieth through February eighteenth. Embrace
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: your uniqueness and embrace your eccentricities. By stepping further out
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: of your comfort zone, you have numerous opportunities for fun
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: and new experiences. Travel, academics, and international connections may also
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: be highlighted for you. This when I read that, was
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: so happy because you and you've actually started becoming me,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Like when we don't get home at a certain point
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: in time, you start tweaking out, you don't really want
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: to go and be out Exactly I'm to say that this.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: May out of my comfort zone, Like yes, no, I'm
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: actually very happy. And what's funny is I've also been
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: feeling that now really, Yeah, you've already been feeling it
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: and we're not even to the twelfth Yeah that's great.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, yeah, I've been feeling it.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: And guess what's great, Like out of the box. We're
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: going to be in Las Vegas when this happens, So
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: what better place to be out and about and and
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Vegas brings people from all over the world. You could
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: get yourself an international connection. Oni, okay, I like it.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Give me Mali, I.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Love that mind you want to hear? Yeah, urgo August
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: twenty third through September twenty second. My birthday is September second,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: is a September third. This is really can be happy.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: The pink moon signifies a pivotal moment in your financial situation.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: You may experience an influx of funds or make investments
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: in new plans. For some of you, this could mean
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: landing a new job, receiving a raise, or signing a
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: profitable client. I know we're all glued to the television
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: and our phones with the stock market. We're all a
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: little bit stressed. I've been making some phone calls this
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Monday morning just saying you know what to expect. No
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: one will here here. The here here is we have
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: not hit rock bottom yet.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: Perfect and even if we do, everybody.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: We're all together and guess what we're weathering the storm.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: No way but up.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: That is the great thing about rock bottom. So that's
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: what it means for us, Virgos. You guys can absolutely
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: google what the pink moon is going to mean for
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: your zodiac sign. I was going to read them all,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: but who the hell has the time? Aaron Leech. She
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: posts a TikTok of herself making a martini while holding
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: her newborn. Love it and they got she got a
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: lot of heat. Oh, Mike, you're not supporting the baby's head.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: You're not doing this, you guys. It's got to end.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: It's got to tech.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: No, everybody needs to shut the fuck up. Mind what
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: happened to the days of minding your own business when
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: things would happen?
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Do you remember that? No? Do you just mind?
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: Like when you'd see something in the store and somebody
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: even like back in the day, like kids would be
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: skateboarding and like they would go and they'd hit like accident,
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: unless somebody would walk out of the store and they
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: would actually like hit them, and you'd mind your own business.
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: Other people weren't going up to the kid and crucifying them.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: They would everybody minded their own business. Nowadays, if something happens,
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: everybody comes on and phones out, and everybody's just mind your.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Own mind your own business. And this woman has three
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: other children who are fine. I think she's before this
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: may be mind blowing, but I think she's done it before,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: She's done it before. Holy And you guys, back to
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: people coming from the east to the west giving birth
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: to babies, You think that they weren't trucking through snowstorms
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: with babies on their backs.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Just think, think of this should happen.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I got it. Accidents happened. But you guys, it's
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: it's got a freaking end. Like the unsolicited advice.
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: Do you guys like people telling you how to drive
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: when you're driving?
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: No, well, I actually do.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: When I see someone on their phone, I lay on
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: my horn.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: And say, well, you shouldn't be on your phone driving.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: So that's number one.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: No. But the parenting, let's stick to the topic.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: But like, that's the thing.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: You don't want anybody telling you how you're doing your thing.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: You're doing your own way.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: It's not like she's making a martini, putting it in
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: a bottle and shoving it.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: In her mouth.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: Then absolutely rant in the section. But yo, by the way,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: by the way, I'm not producing a lot of milk anymore,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: like I can probably there were there was a moment
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: in time where I was pumping like twenty ounces a day, right,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: I was like freaking milky mama going to her making
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: a martini for herself, guessing she may do a pump
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: and dump so that she can just like relax a
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: bit with her martini. Or maybe she's on formula. I
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: had to get Sosa formula when we were in uh, Cambria. Oh,
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: shouldn't mess with it in Utah, be in Cambria and
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: you guys, we were at lunch before heading out yesterday.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Making a bottle at the table was freaking game changing.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, the moms that choose to do
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: formula over breastfeeding, Like I got it, like the nutrition
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: from the tit like got it. Some parents or some
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: women camb breastfeed. But I'm like, this is the easiest
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: shit I've ever done. Yeah, water, one couple scoops, shake, shake,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: shake in the mouth.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: She's silent, done, loved it.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: So just like, let her make a martini and hold
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: her newborn in peace. All right, she's done it before.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: I'm so sick of people giving their freaking opinions. Shut up, already, shut.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: Up, unsolicited advice. Isn't that it?
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, unsolicited advice? Opinions? Shut up already your business unless
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: you're coming to this podcast page give your advice, drop
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the comments. We totally want to hear. We're open to it.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: We're opening, We're open to it. Before we sign off,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I really want to get into White Lotus. We talked
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: a lot about hers Castle. I wasn't expecting it to
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: go that long. Sorry, did you watch Easton? Didn't watch
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: any of the season.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: I watched the ending.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: You watched the finale?
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so great.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I loved it, you guys.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: I didn't see any of that coming. I mean with it,
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: not even like here's the thing, I haven't seen it,
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: but with everybody who has who I hang out with.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Right clip on, TikTok and Instagram.
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: I thought it was very well like done and the
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: writing is just crazy, and all the White Lotuses another
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: well done.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: It was a great season. And let me tell you so,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: there was an uproar when like the incestry shit started
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: happening and people were like, I'm done with HBO or
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: I'm done with Max, I'm done with White Lotus, like
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: and then the creator was like, it's all going to
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: make sense in the very end, like, please don't give
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: up on us. I love how he stands by every
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: single move he makes. The first uproar was changing the
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: theme song, and he was like, don't care what you
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: guys say, this is why we changed it. And then
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: people were like, all right, got it. The incestry shit
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: was a little thought. I went for me too. I
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: felt that it was I thought that it was unnecessary.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: I was just gonna say, seeing landing and all of that,
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: the incests never even needed to happen, no kind of
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: put a storyline up.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: Well, Locke says, he was like, I'm a people pleaser
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: and you looked so lonely over there, and I'm I'm
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: in a family full of narcissists, and I'm like, got it,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: but like still didn't need that to happen anyway, moving
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: on to the finale, I you guys, we took a
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: poll last week, and I have to say I did
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: not see Rick's name pop up one time, not once,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: And granted I posted that and we did the episode
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: a short time later. So maybe as the day went
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: on and more people saw and rodin Rick was on
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: the list. But again, White Lotus has does an excellent
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: job of not making it so far fetched that it's
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: out of reach. You know, like, okay, Rick makes total sense.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: You have to assume he was a hit man at
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: some point in time. That was so crazy how that ended. Yeah,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: and the the older man and I forget his name,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: walking up to Rick as he's grabbing a donut for
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: Chelsea and saying, your dad wasn't the man that your
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: mom said he was. You didn't miss out on much
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: referring to himself, and Rick thinking like, fuck you, now
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: you've robbed me of like the image I have of
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: my dad. It's just so unfortunate that he couldn't say
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I know because I'm your dad, because this all could
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: have been avoided.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: Well, Like that's the other thing.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: It's like how big of a dick is the dad
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: to not even say anything and all that, and like
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: even for him to say, like to flash the gun right,
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: Like it's almost like you pushed him to this point
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: like I bet you want to kill me now, huh
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: and then like flashes the gun. It's like, oh, you're
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: his father, you're not telling him, and now you're ruining
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: all of the images you really ask.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: On top of like kind of threatening his life.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: So and that's where I'm saying, like, at what point,
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: like did you not push your son to fucking kill you.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Well, no one can ever be pushed to kill anybody.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: But what's so heartbreaking is he probably sent the guards
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: after Rick to bring him back to have like an
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: actual productive conversation. Then Rick goes up to the woman
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: begging her he met with her at the very beginning
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: to like let go of his demons, begging her for help,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: and she said, I'll see you in one hour. That
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: could have changed the course of everything, but then we
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have a show. I understand that it was Chelsea
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: dying for me because she I fell in love with
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: them as a couple, Like I believed that if I
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: were to go to Thailand right now, I would see
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: them and her saying like, I'm hope he's pain and
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: eventually one of us will win. And she dies by
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: either a bullet that cachet or.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: A stray bullet. And he just he ruined everything. He
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: just could not see what was right in front of him,
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: and she was so in love with him and in
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: love with just wanting to fix him, and him saying
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: that that's the plan, is for us to be together forever,
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: and she like almost cries because she probably just wanted to.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Hear that, Yeah, oh you guys, I was, I won't
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: even lie. I almost cried. The other part that I
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: wanted to sob over was the three women at dinner
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: and they each say that they love each other, and
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: then Laurie says, I felt very sad this entire trip,
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: and then talks about, you know, I've gone through all
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: the religions, my career, my having children didn't fix me.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: You know, love made things worse. And how she loves
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: that the one woman and I forget her name, has
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: a beautiful face. The other friend and from Texas, you know,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: she loves that she has a beautiful life, and that
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Laurie loves that she just gets a seat at the table.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: And I'd be lying if I said I did not
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: get choked up, because there are so many moments where
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: you look around and you think about your life and
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: you're looking at it from a thirty thousand foot view
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: and you're like, this was not the plan. And then
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: there's little moments that happen and you go, I'm just
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: so fucking happy to be around, to listen to what
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: everyone's doing and what they've created, what they've built. They're
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: hardships that they've survived, and that one just like that
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: one hit me. I really liked that, she said.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: I did too. I thought that.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: With everything that was going on, I thought that was
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: the most beautiful way to write that.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: In the writing on, you know. And after she had
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: just been like fucked over by that Russian guy who
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: she thought maybe that would make her spirits higher, and
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: then he wanted ten thousand dollars, she gets back to
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: her safe space and she's watching them take selfies in
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: the pool, and those are the moments where you go,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: you know what, my life is hard. It's not how
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I thought it would turn out.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: But at least I get to come back to this.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: But look at who I'm surrounded by. So loved that,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: and I'll leave it on how disappointed I am. And Belinda, Belinda,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw season one, but she
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: approaches Jennifer Coolidge.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for the health. She was going to start her
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: own right.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and Jennifer Coolidge was going to invest in it.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: And she basically gave the same excuse that Belinda gave
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: to and I'm blinking on his name too. They were
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: going to start a wellness spot together, and she's like,
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: there's just been some change. Five million dollars completely changed
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Belinda and everything she wanted. Well, And I have to say, you, guys,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: five million dollars, although it is a lot, if you
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: don't continue to build on that, and you cannot live
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: like a rock star on five million, A million.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Dollars is a good I mean, that'll get you comfortable
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: where you can wake up happy. But you have to
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: invest that well or start doing things you got very frugal,
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: or you have to invest and start making money on
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: that money.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I wonder if this is the last we'll see of
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: Belinda and her five MILLI.
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: I think so, just because everybody that I've seen has
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: only gotten two seasons, you know, Okay, well we'll find
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: for Coolidge, she got one and two her they brought
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: her back from one.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: This is her second. I have a feeling they'll now
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: get rid of her.
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: I think that that's one of White Lotus's like things,
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: is like it's a new cast every time, which I
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: really like.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: How do I get on White Lotus?
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Right there?
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I want to be a character on White Lotus?
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: All right? There it is.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I'm going to try to I'm going to try to
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: hunt the creator down and beg, yeah, well, there you go.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I'm very good at being a squeaky wheel. I just
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: like and I want to be the killer too. But
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: why it makes sense?
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: You gotta be the You got to write your way
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: into that one.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Right, Well, this is me manifesting. Remember the pink
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: moon is lots of opportunities for.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Me, very pink.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I'm putting it out there, rose colored glasses on manifestation activated.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I have itchy palms. We all know what that means.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Same you, guys. I hope that you enjoyed the finale
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: of White Lotus just as much as I did. We'll
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: talk about Part two of Real Housewives a BH on
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: the next episode. I'm very sorit to talk about it.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Same you guys are the best. Happy hump Day. I
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: will catch you guys next week. Bye.