Latest / Gospel Talks Podcast / #100 - What Do You Do When Your Church Doesn’t Care About Evangelism?
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- 0:03Hey guys, I want to describe a situation to you.
- 0:07A pastor and his wife love their church,
- 0:10have invested years trying to cultivate a culture of personal evangelism,
- 0:16taught it, modeled it, created opportunities,
- 0:19but the congregation just hasn't bought in.
- 0:24We got an email this last week.
- 0:27I'm going to read it to you after the intro.
- 0:29And
- 0:30We're gonna see if we can answer this question to the best of our ability.
- 0:34But there are times when your church just doesn't share your heart for evangelism.
- 0:40This is Gospel Talks Podcast,
- 0:43where we help Christians all over the world become more effective
- 0:47in relational evangelism and discipleship.
- 0:50My name is George Binocka, and with me today is Jeff Musgrave,
- 0:53the author, founder of the Exchange Ministry.
- 0:55And very excited to jump into this episode together.
- 0:58Jeff, how are ya?
- 1:00Doing great. Good to see ya, George.
- 1:02I I said that the other day and my wife was listening to the podcast and she said,
- 1:06You can't see him. I said, Well,
- 1:08I can see him just 'cause you're not listening on on video doesn't mean
- 1:13I can't see him.
- 1:15Yep, that's right. We can see each other.
- 1:17We even have a guest in the studio today.
- 1:19~ R Wrangler is there and the puppy dog.
- 1:22And so you you guys won't get to see him on camera,
- 1:25but ~ he that is an awesome dog that can be in a podcast studio.
- 1:29~ very rare that you get dogs on a podcast,
- 1:32but ~ but we have one for you guys today.
- 1:35Well, Jeff, this is ~ an email we got from somebody you know,
- 1:39Erica and
- 1:43I want to just read the email if I can to begin with,
- 1:45and just just read what she wrote,
- 1:48and then we'll just kind of jump into answering her questions.
- 1:50She says, Thank you so much for responding.
- 1:52I I don't know how often you or Jeff get requests,
- 1:58so ~ hope I'm not overstepping.
- 2:00You are not. ~ we love questions like this.
- 2:03I I've really enjoyed so much of the podcast,
- 2:05she says, having grown up in
- 2:07Pastor Jeff's church. It's so nice to hear him speak again and still continuing
- 2:12to teach all the things he preached to us for so many years.
- 2:15My husband has been in full-time pastoral ministry for 11 years now
- 2:19at our current church. He's the assistant pastor.
- 2:22We love these people dearly, but we find that our view of evangelism
- 2:26is almost antithetical to the church culture.
- 2:29My husband and I have been here for five years and feel pretty comfortable
- 2:33challenging people in their view.
- 2:36They are currently a church that sees door knocking and leaving tracks
- 2:39at a restaurant as the only real modes of evangelism.
- 2:42If they are very adventurous, they will invite somebody to church.
- 2:47It is usually for big events like Christmas or Easter.
- 2:50We live in a very small town and we found that people are hesitant
- 2:54to trust members of our church because of the past reputation of our church.
- 2:58They were a very internally focused church,
- 3:01and when they did venture into the community,
- 3:03it was usually only for things like
- 3:05Knocking on doors and inviting to a church event,
- 3:07there was no real love shown or interest in neighbors or community
- 3:11or community events. In the last three years,
- 3:14we've tried to disciple and teach people that evangelism requires more than just
- 3:18a track. We have ~ implemented some gospel outreach in our community,
- 3:22things like good news after school Bible club,
- 3:25leading ~ fellowship of Christian athletes at the high school
- 3:29and inviting unsaved neighbors to spend time in our home,
- 3:31including at least one church family at the same time.
- 3:34So they can see personal evangelism in practice.
- 3:36Recently taught in Sunday school,
- 3:38~ they divided the men and the women on personal evangelism,
- 3:40pulling from giving the exchange,
- 3:42and personal evangelism from nine marks.
- 3:44And unfortunately, this has not seemed to have much effect on their way of thinking.
- 3:48They ~ appreciate that we use these methods,
- 3:52but they have no interest in adopting them themselves.
- 3:55we even sometimes receive pushback because we do not organize door knocking,
- 4:00gospel outreach on behalf of the church.
- 4:02When we encourage them to open their homes and their lives to their neighbors,
- 4:06we are usually told that they don't believe their neighbors would have
- 4:09any interest in talking about spiritual things,
- 4:11or they just complain about their neighbors.
- 4:13~ sorry this is so long. I just wanted to set everything up to ask
- 4:17my question is there anything else we can do to instill in our church
- 4:21the importance of their personal outreach to their neighbors and the people
- 4:25in their sphere of life? And on a personal level,
- 4:27Could you and Pastor Jeff offer encouragement to pastors and their families
- 4:31who feel that they have exhausted every avenue and invested so much time
- 4:34and energy into teaching their church members how important this is
- 4:37and not seeing people start to take those steps in their own life?
- 4:40We certainly aren't giving up on continuing all the things we've done,
- 4:43but it is very discouraging. And my husband is currently pursuing a senior pastor.
- 4:49We're very concerned that when we leave,
- 4:52any sort of personal evangelism through our church will completely fall apart.
- 4:57Yeah.
- 4:57Thank you
- 4:57so much for slogging through this long email.
- 5:00So Jeff, ~ when you read this email,
- 5:03what I'm just curious what man,
- 5:06what jumps out at you?
- 5:08Yeah. I George, discouragement is real.
- 5:13Mm.
- 5:15and and frankly, partnership with like minded people is necessary.
- 5:19And when you find yourself alone,
- 5:22it it it it it is discouraging.
- 5:26I mean it's n it's it's not like ~ you can tell yourself I'm just
- 5:32not gonna be discouraged. Frankly
- 5:35personal faithfulness is commendable,
- 5:37but most good leaders, and I know this young man,
- 5:40he is a good leader, are not satisfied until the people that they're
- 5:47trying to influence are are following and are and are ~ responding.
- 5:54So my heart really hurts ~ for them and I I I feel bad.
- 6:01Right, right. Yeah, I know you see this a lot.
- 6:02That's my first response.
- 6:03~
- 6:05I I'm with you. My heart aches for them.
- 6:07so I let me just start.
- 6:11~ we could talk about this, ~ kind of get your thoughts on is it possible
- 6:16for a pastor to have a genuine burden for evangelism and the church that
- 6:21he serves at just doesn't share that burden?
- 6:24Because that's kind of like one of the questions that comes to my mind.
- 6:27~ you know, what what's your thoughts on that?
- 6:31Yeah, I I think it's not only possible,
- 6:33but I actually think, George, it's it's probable.
- 6:36And the reason I say
- 6:37Hm.
- 6:37that is because ~ I I I remember as a young pastor,
- 6:43I felt really strongly about something the Lord I felt led on our on
- 6:49my heart for our church. And so I was meeting with our leadership team.
- 6:53And ~ was literally, I mean, I could just see in their eyes,
- 6:57getting zero response from most,
- 6:59negative responses from a few of the key leaders.
- 7:03And I I admit that when we got done with the meeting,
- 7:07I complained
- 7:08Mm.
- 7:08to the Lord and and it and I I was saying,
- 7:12you know, God, why? I mean, why are you giving me this burden
- 7:16and you haven't touched any of their hearts about it?
- 7:19And and I'm not saying God.
- 7:21~ spoke to me out loud. I I'm not,
- 7:24Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
- 7:24but I sensed
- 7:25the Lord saying to me, Jeff, that's why I gave you to them.
- 7:30you see, God
- 7:31~
- 7:31gives the burden to the pastor so that the pastor can employ that burden
- 7:38on on the people. And it's it's part of our responsibility.
- 7:42God God wasn't just building my church and our leaders and
- 7:49he was literally building me and my leadership.
- 7:51And so ~
- 7:52Mm.
- 7:53he gives the burden first to the pastor and and allows the people
- 7:58to ~ come around to that leadership.
- 8:02That's that's what ~ leadership is all about.
- 8:05So leadership in the church is often a long,
- 8:08patient, but I I like this word persistent process.
- 8:13I mean it it it's you know, it patient it is.
- 8:18Critical. You can't push people.
- 8:20But
- 8:21Yeah.
- 8:21just giving up isn't good either.
- 8:24And we have to be persistent. And I I I must say at the very beginning,
- 8:29although I know ~ the couple that ~ is behind this email,
- 8:34I really don't know a lot about their circumstances,
- 8:37and I I am in no way in the way I'm answering these specific questions you're giving
- 8:42me ~ implying anything about them.
- 8:48Hmm.
- 8:48~ I
- 8:49I just know that ~ leadership in general
- 8:53is that ~ slow, ~ persistent process.
- 8:58It demands building relationships with the people that we're ~ leading.
- 9:04It demands that we show our heart and then literally praying that God would
- 9:08use us to effectively lay that burden on other people's hearts.
- 9:14Yeah, yeah, amen. it it's changing
- 9:20a culture, molding a culture is not an easy thing.
- 9:27And ~ one of the issues is ~ and I'm
- 9:33not trying to besmirch the senior pastor of this church.
- 9:36I don't know him, I don't even know the name of the church,
- 9:38but all the leadership and at the very top of the leadership everybody
- 9:43has to be bought in.
- 9:44Absolutely. That's what culture is.
- 9:44~ you yes.
- 9:47I mean culture is
- 9:48we all buy into this concept.
- 9:52Yes. very much. So much rises and falls on leadership,
- 9:55and I mean the very most senior leadership.
- 9:57And so it ha the leadership all has to be together and bought in before
- 10:02you can expect the church to be bought in.
- 10:04~ so Jeff,
- 10:07how would you distinguish between a church that is unwilling to evangelize
- 10:12and a church that simply hasn't been taught and modeled how to evangelize?
- 10:15'Cause it sounds like he's trying to teach and he's modeling it,
- 10:18~ you know.
- 10:22Yeah. I I I think John i is is definitely working towards
- 10:27~ modeling ~ and doing ~ good at ~ training.
- 10:33I I do think in general, the first step is determining,
- 10:37you know, what's what's wrong.
- 10:39how how is it?
- 10:42I mean, I sometimes it's almost impossible to figure out,
- 10:45but sometimes you look at a circumstance and you just say,
- 10:48Okay, I get it. I I know why this isn't
- 10:52~ happening and so I think that's really the first step.
- 10:55we really have
- 10:58to recognize and we have
- 11:03to effectively show people. It's not enough for us to to just tell them.
- 11:09We have to show them and I think that we have to ~ we have
- 11:15to show them by connecting relationally to them.
- 11:20So in other words we're
- 11:21We're talking about relational evangelism where I connect with a lost person,
- 11:26show them who Jesus is, and in the process of doing so,
- 11:30help them to love him as much as I do.
- 11:33The same thing is true with the people we lead in church.
- 11:37~
- 11:37Mm.
- 11:38we have to form connections with them.
- 11:40So it's not enough to say things from the pulpit,
- 11:42it's not enough to ~ just do ~ the right things.
- 11:47We have to form connections with them and and then
- 11:51~ we have to ask God to begin
- 11:54to let them ~ appreciate ~ our heart and what we're doing here.
- 12:01Does it does that make sense?
- 12:03Hundred percent. We've said this a bajillion times,
- 12:07basically, people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
- 12:11~ when when people know you love them,
- 12:16they know the motive behind your ~ what you're encouraging them
- 12:23to do, you know, that course of action you're you're kind of modeling for them.
- 12:27When they don't and I'm not saying that ~
- 12:30These this couple is not loving the church.
- 12:32I imagine they are. I mean, the the fact that they're this concerned,
- 12:35even though when he's already kind of looking at transitioning
- 12:38to a different ministry in a different role,
- 12:39the fact that they're still concerned that in leaving the church,
- 12:42the church will be left in this state,
- 12:44shows me that they really love these people.
- 12:46Yeah. Yeah.
- 12:46~
- 12:47it's just a matter of like we disciple an unbeliever,
- 12:51so we disciple ~ believers around us.
- 12:55And ~ one of the things that's impressed me,
- 12:57Jeff, is you know, like people say you don't.
- 13:00teach a training course on living the exchange.
- 13:02It's because it's the same model of discipleship.
- 13:05Unbeliever and believer, you're doing the same thing.
- 13:08They're just at a different point in their life.
- 13:11Absolutely, absolutely. I I ~ I feel that probably
- 13:17in in most cases, and I'm not saying this in this specific case,
- 13:22but in most cases, ~ Christians get excited about seeing new Christians.
- 13:28And if we can ~ begin to help them
- 13:33see ~ people trusting Christ coming into the church,
- 13:37being baptized, becoming active.
- 13:40attenders and eventually active members in the church.
- 13:43~ That that's really going to awaken people.
- 13:46And frankly, ~ if it's not awakening people,
- 13:50then it's possible this these people are not going to be awakened.
- 13:54I don't know if you remember, but in ~ I
- 14:00the the name of the book just s ~ escaped me but it ~
- 14:04the ~ and it's not coming back.
- 14:08I'm so sorry.
- 14:10That's okay.
- 14:11I
- 14:11I read a book once in which the author was talking about talking to some
- 14:17of his people as a pastor, and one of the men just simply said,
- 14:21I co I just don't care about the people on the other side of the world.
- 14:26Why would I want to go there and help them?
- 14:28Mm.
- 14:29And ~
- 14:30I ~ they're just in some places we're not going to be able
- 14:34to effectively move people. ~ I I
- 14:39So I I just think we have to figure I mean,
- 14:41there's no silver bullet. And frankly,
- 14:43Right.
- 14:44just like not everybody I give the gospel to is going to be saved,
- 14:49not every church is going to become the light and the dark world the Lord wants them
- 14:54to become.
- 14:56I I think you're exactly right,
- 14:57Jeff, because the the problem actually could be way upstream.
- 14:59If somebody who says, I don't care about the other people on the other side
- 15:03of the world, they ha there is a problem in their relationship with God.
- 15:06God said, If you love me, you will love others.
- 15:09~ So
- 15:14Yeah, I no no question. And ~ so I think we have to
- 15:18~ think in terms of ~ we really in this situation
- 15:24we don't know which that is and I think that we just
- 15:27Right.
- 15:27have to ~ recognize that we as God's people have to discern those things
- 15:32for ourselves. Nobody else can tell us.
- 15:34Right.
- 15:35Yeah, I think you're right. So looking at our email,
- 15:38the church there seems to define evangelism primarily as door knocking,
- 15:43passing out tracks. We're not against tracks.
- 15:45You know, we sell tracks on our website,
- 15:47inviting people to church, special outreach events.
- 15:51~ as you look at that, Jeff, what would you say is missing
- 15:55~ when we define evangelism primarily around programs?
- 16:01I know you have a great answer to this.
- 16:03So
- 16:04go tell
- 16:04Yeah.
- 16:04us, tell us about the distinction there.
- 16:07Well, I I think when Jesus said go and make disciples,
- 16:13the the terminology underneath of that is while you are going,
- 16:17be making disciples. This is a lifestyle.
- 16:20Mm, mm.
- 16:20This is not
- 16:21just something I do once a week and I fulfilled my obligation.
- 16:26You know, when Jesus walked through the crowds,
- 16:29he walked slowly through those crowds and he recognized ~ needs of
- 16:35Every single person they saw. Now,
- 16:37obviously, I'm not gonna recognize needs of every single person,
- 16:40not God, but I can walk slowly enough through the crowd in which
- 16:45I begin to recognize specific needs of specific people.
- 16:48~ I I feel like sometimes when it comes to event-oriented evangelism,
- 16:55you know, let's get everybody to come to this event.
- 16:58~ really what we've said is.
- 17:00we're gonna get the professional to get the gospel.
- 17:03That's the best way to get people saved.
- 17:05And you know, there are people who are gifted at evangelism far greater than I am,
- 17:11and I I totally believe in that.
- 17:14But I also believe that God gave to every single individual
- 17:19the Holy Spirit residing inside of us.
- 17:22Jesus said for a reason, it is to your advantage that I go away because
- 17:27the Holy Spirit is coming, and the implication being.
- 17:30that this is not about even the best evangelist,
- 17:33Jesus, being able
- 17:35Right.
- 17:35to preach the gospel. This is about every single person going through life
- 17:40to preach the gospel.
- 17:42Yep. Yeah, I I think sometimes as Christians,
- 17:44it's like me with the weeds in my backyard.
- 17:50I kind of come home sometimes.
- 17:52I just wish that I can come home and it'll just be somebody else will do it.
- 17:56But that is not gonna change the situation back there.
- 18:00It doesn't happen, does it, George?
- 18:00Does
- 18:02not happen. ~ we are all gonna give account on to Christ.
- 18:09As to whether we obeyed this command he gave us or not.
- 18:13I mean, that's the reality. We will stand by ourselves and our pastor won't
- 18:16be there to answer for us. And he's gonna ask us,
- 18:19Did you do this? let me ask another question,
- 18:24kind of playing off that a little bit.
- 18:26Because we see yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 18:27Can I get you to pause for a minute?
- 18:29yeah.
- 18:30Thank you. You can ask another question in just a second.
- 18:33I'm going to come back in just a minute.
- 18:35Yeah, you're good.
- 20:01All right, I'm back. Sorry about that.
- 20:05~ no problem. All good.
- 20:07You're
- 20:07gonna have to back up and ask that question again.
- 20:10Yeah, no problem. ~
- 20:14Is door knocking wrong or do you feel like it's just a substitute
- 20:20for some people because they don't want to develop a genuine relationship
- 20:24or one on one relationship?
- 20:26Yeah, I door knocking is not wrong.
- 20:29~ I I mean it frankly,
- 20:33I started a church forty years ago and I have knocked
- 20:39on thousands of doors in my lifetime.
- 20:42many, many I mean, th it I would just
- 20:46say if in our ring doorbell,
- 20:51no soliciting culture.
- 20:54There are more
- 20:54Yes.
- 20:54effective ways to touch the world with the message of Jesus.
- 20:58And so I I mean, I but but is it wrong?
- 21:01Absolutely not. I have a I have a pastor friend.
- 21:05He frankly is extremely effective at connecting with people.
- 21:09He really shares his faith ~ often.
- 21:14~ he has had multiple people join
- 21:19his church through salvation and baptism.
- 21:23~ I mean, this is not a guy who who isn't ~ urgent in wanting
- 21:30to see people saved and and that sort of thing.
- 21:33Mm.
- 21:33when he gets to these dry and I d I don't know whether you feel this way or not,
- 21:37George, but I think all of us go through dry spells in terms
- 21:41of relationships with lost people.
- 21:42It's like we get focused
- 21:43Right.
- 21:44in on something besides evangelism and before we know it,
- 21:49we we're not really working on seeing someone come to Christ and
- 21:53When he gets to those dry spells and he doesn't have contacts,
- 21:56he often goes through the neighborhood around the church
- 22:00and just introduces himself, expresses his desire to be of a help to his community,
- 22:04offers to pray for them. And actually what he's doing at that door
- 22:09is trying to develop genuine relationships with them.
- 22:12So I it it can be an excuse,
- 22:16but it it
- 22:17Mm.
- 22:18you know I'm gonna do that instead of ~ I I
- 22:22I feel like sometimes even though people know it's not gonna work very
- 22:29well, they still demand to do it just because they feel duty bound.
- 22:33And I just think,
- 22:34Right.
- 22:35you know, let's let's just find a way in which we can reach people that's going
- 22:40to be a little more effective.
- 22:43Right. ~
- 22:46I think you do a there there's a great thing on the homepage of the website,
- 22:49exchangemessage.org, on on the differences between programmatic evangelism
- 22:54and relational evangelism. And I think that's the philosophy that under
- 22:58ge GERDs and guides ~ our approach to this.
- 23:02there is a difference between doing evangelistic activity,
- 23:09whether that's door knocking events or whatever else,
- 23:13and
- 23:15actually living evangelistically.
- 23:17~ could
- 23:18Yes, exactly.
- 23:18could you
- 23:18kind of work through that? How would you help somebody understand that?
- 23:24I I feel like living evangelistically is ~
- 23:29l walking slowly through the crowd,
- 23:32~ trying to connect with as many people as we possibly can,
- 23:37engage in conversation with as many people as we can,
- 23:40take conversations deeper ~ every time we get a chance.
- 23:44So I mean there's this there's this lifestyle of getting to the gospel through soul
- 23:51needs.
- 23:52that just engulfs us. We just live that way everywhere.
- 23:57I I feel like ~ in the situation that we're talking about,
- 24:01how do we do that in a church?
- 24:04I and I think there's two steps.
- 24:06We have to model it and then we have to actually train it.
- 24:09In other words, people don't this is not it's not natural to our flesh.
- 24:14I mean my flesh gets busy, it gets ~ preoccupied,
- 24:18it gets ~ focused on something else.
- 24:21I mean there
- 24:22I I have to I have to do it on purpose and I have to help our people
- 24:26do it on purpose. And and frankly,
- 24:28~ just we're telling people you have
- 24:35to get into the gospel. If if we haven't thought through a process
- 24:38or a strategy that's gonna actually get us there,
- 24:41it's not it's not even usually possible for people.
- 24:44And so helping people number one,
- 24:47see it in our own life, and then number two,
- 24:49learn the tools to be able to
- 24:52Make conversations happen.
- 24:57Yes, it's like it's not about what you're doing,
- 25:00it's about identity. Sometimes I think we are answering the wrong question,
- 25:03right? We're saying, What should they do?
- 25:05And the question is, this is not a this is not a question of what.
- 25:08This is a question of who are you?
- 25:10This is an identity thing. You an evangelist is a type of person,
- 25:15it is not just an activity. The activity is the fruit of the type
- 25:19of person that person is
- 25:21And that's why we say some of these issues are upstream.
- 25:23It has to do with how people see God.
- 25:25~ be because i if if people see God as evangelistic,
- 25:31as somebody who's interested in evangelism,
- 25:33then they'll realize the why behind what they're doing.
- 25:36And sometimes we start with what,
- 25:37we're really eager to answer what and how to do it,
- 25:40and we forget the why. And really,
- 25:42why is I think where we're we should start.
- 25:44Yeah. Yeah.
- 25:46Yeah. it just seems to me that.
- 25:51People feel like relationships and being evangelistic on
- 25:56the platform of relationship is harder than handing out a track,
- 25:59which is funny because I actually now find relationships easier than handing
- 26:03out a track. ~ just approaching somebody cold like that,
- 26:07you know, just off the street,
- 26:08not knowing them. ~ why do you think some people find this so hard and kind
- 26:13of shy away from it?
- 26:15Yeah. Well, ~ I think y to to your point,
- 26:19rel relational evangelism is easier because ~ you get to the place where someone
- 26:26wants you to talk to them about Jesus because of the relationship.
- 26:30But I the the I think I knew you were gonna ask me this question,
- 26:35so I kinda thought through it.
- 26:36I think first of all, it takes a lot more time and effort to build
- 26:40a relationship with people.
- 26:42than it does just to simply knock on the door and tell them something they don't
- 26:45want to hear. And so ~ I I think it's the time and effort that is a problem.
- 26:50I think the other thing is we have to live what we preach,
- 26:53so to speak. And so ~ it it's not enough I mean,
- 26:57I can go and knock on someone's door and tell them something and they only
- 27:01get this one moment of impression from me.
- 27:04But if I'm building a relationship with them,
- 27:07I have to actually live Jesus in front of them all the time.
- 27:12~
- 27:12Yes.
- 27:13so ~ I I just think I can't really even say
- 27:19any of that without adding to it.
- 27:21And also you'll be invested in the long term of that person's life
- 27:27and you're gonna literally build be building lifelong ~ relationships as a result.
- 27:32I mean to me there is there is no other better lifestyle than living this lifestyle
- 27:38of building relationships with people that I can help ~
- 27:41With their relationship with Jesus.
- 27:44So then comes the million dollar question.
- 27:48What does a genuinely evangelistic church culture look like?
- 27:55I think this is probably a question that thousands of pastors and
- 28:00~ people in churches and the pews have of
- 28:03Yeah.
- 28:04and not just what it looks like,
- 28:05but how to get there. But I know we only have a couple minutes,
- 28:08so we might have to pick this up the rest of the way next week,
- 28:12but go ahead. W
- 28:14maybe start us off, what does that even look like,
- 28:16a culture like that?
- 28:17Well I actually have this conversation with pastors in
- 28:21a sit-down one-on-one meeting,
- 28:22~ almost on a weekly basis. And you know,
- 28:27there's all kinds of things. There's a shared burden,
- 28:32there's a shared vocabulary, the the that's what culture is.
- 28:35I mean culture ~ is is when we share those culture those ~ heart
- 28:42~ felt burdens. But frankly, you can see it,
- 28:45you can recognize it when the hubbub in the lobby is ~ about meeting the coworker.
- 28:51I'm gonna have meeting with my coworker this week over coffee,
- 28:54be praying for me. ~ the chatting before church is is about praying
- 29:00for a neighbor or a family member,
- 29:01pray for me. ~ pray for the fellowship after the service is about wanting
- 29:07to apply the message to a situation with a friend that I have
- 29:11from the gym. You know, those when we find those kinds of conversations
- 29:16in small group, in ~ in the lobby of the church,
- 29:20~ that's that's really when we begin to see the culture shifting.
- 29:27I I feel like ~ discipl discipleship ~ when when
- 29:33the church starts taking discipleship seriously
- 29:37So in other words, it's not enough to just say I'm going to see people saved.
- 29:41That's evangelism.
- 29:41Hm.
- 29:42But disciple making, what God's called us to,
- 29:45is far deeper than that. And so when a church begins to
- 29:49get serious about discipleship,
- 29:51when a church is seeing adults baptized
- 29:56~ in their in their services, those those are the things that's going
- 30:01to begin to say this church is developing that culture.
- 30:06Hm. Yeah, I I I think you're right.
- 30:09~ there is fruit marked evidence of what an evangelistic church looks like.
- 30:16I mean, the biggest thing is evangelistic churches grow.
- 30:21And they grow organically. ~ churches that aren't evangelistic
- 30:28are are usually churches that struggle with growth or are simply doing what
- 30:32I would call sheep trading with other churches.
- 30:35and the most exciting thing in a church is when
- 30:41the church sees people one to Christ.
- 30:43I mean, when they see that fruit and get a taste of that fruit,
- 30:46they will want more.
- 30:48Yeah.
- 30:48And I think that's what leads to.
- 30:50to a continued sustained culture.
- 30:53Absolutely.
- 30:54Absolutely. I I appreciate you adding those things because I agree with
- 30:57you a hundred percent.
- 30:59Yeah, I I think it's it's very interesting all this the stuff we think about
- 31:03as pastors all the time, but ~ but it's good for people in the pew to think about
- 31:08it too, because the you're you are the church.
- 31:10~ the church is not just the sum of the leadership and it is not the building,
- 31:14it is the people. So we'll have to pick this up next week.
- 31:18Erica, great question because we have about eighteen more pages of content.
- 31:23So this is probably gonna be a three part series for everybody in the audience.
- 31:28But
- 31:29we
- 31:29we love you guys. Pray to the Lord of the harvest.
- 31:32I want encourage Erica and her husband,
- 31:34pray to the Lord of the harvest that he would send forth laborers.
- 31:37So one thing you can't skip in building a culture of evangelism in your church,
- 31:41it is the most important ingredient,
- 31:43I would say, right alongside of truth is prayer.
- 31:47~ if God's not in it and he doesn't come down and touch it,
- 31:50it won't take off. So
- 31:53Absolutely, absolutely. And frankly,
- 31:55for those of you who are listening today who ~ are are kind of thinking about we're
- 32:01talking about ~ pastors and pastor discouragement,
- 32:04would would you just remember to to pray for your pastor?
- 32:08Mm-hmm.
- 32:08being a pastor is a hard thing
- 32:11and pastors need people in their church
- 32:17who are praying for them. They need people in their church
- 32:19Yes.
- 32:20who are relentlessly encouraging them.
- 32:22And I would just urge
- 32:23Yes.
- 32:23all of you, ~ just take it upon yourself.
- 32:27I want to be that person for my pastor.
- 32:30Hmm, love it. ~ well,
- 32:34pray with us, like I said, as we pray to the Lord of the harvest.
- 32:38Keep going. Subscribe if you haven't already.
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- 32:43share it with people in your church,
- 32:45and if you've got more questions,
- 32:48email us George at exchangemessage.org.
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- 32:58We'll see you next week.