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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just- Avoiding Falsehood and Embracing Truth 5.14.25 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  Now 3/2/18, are you good? So the topic at hand is the
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  hidden lying from our repertoire total completely cleansing
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  ourselves in the middle of lying.
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  Now none of us pretty much let's say an hour right lie.
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  That's not what we do, but there are a lot of like we're going to
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  want it. They're lying.
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  Exactly. There are many, many ladies to
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  lying my kids. Oh, wait, they asked to do that.
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  You're sketching into wine. Exactly.
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  As if that's steepening. They hate it.
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  Look over here, Divana. Shake it.
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  Now pick a wine double Holy Ron need car chest.
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  No one in the middle of. That's why it's for among
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  people, however, there are many different degrees of way.
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  Yes, when I I'm sure my Mashua Shakanit, there are people's
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  whose profession is to lie as they do him or him, they walk
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  around or warden milita and they just completely bring out create
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  total falsehood and Mahan Bhuta see how just to talk.
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  It seems smart to be talkative to have things to say.
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  All the hashemen or her hamemes seem like the wise ones real
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  dead, as if they know a lot about them.
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  Them on to Avaka Hashem to Ava is a terrible word means
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  disgusting Hashem consider such people literally vomitable.
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  Satya Shaka those who I live suppose with thank you though
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  I'm a subtractor Ham debuchet get here.
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  It's OK of latte again his lips speaks falsehood.
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  His tongue is invalid. And Speaking of love Hussein
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  aval is a very word bad word for me just sin.
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  Thank you meaning this person, this diet person who's totally
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  out of line. And then we quote this water
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  crowd gazoo. There are four groups that do
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  not are not able to accept this. The hot man cut Sakranin the
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  group of liars, her Pershing part of the crew of liars.
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  That means he does AS0 regard for tweets such a person.
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  He's part of that group as a number couple of Shahina
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  challenge with the Finnical Lama Bach.
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  This person is completely separate from my Shin Who?
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  Were you the four? Who were you, the 4th chronic 3
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  people to the three people who flutter like a full sketch of
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  flutter and those who speak us right off as it was normal, I
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  forgot to push on it. Frozen Three ever fought?
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  Telling you why something forced flutter.
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  No, that's not a flutter. That's not that lie either.
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  With the buyer and then how small they are, that's the
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  buyer. Right.
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  Let's see about that. That's finer.
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  Yeah. See, I can't believe what you
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  look and there are others who are not this bad but they are
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  close in line with the full-fledged wires.
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  It may not be literally the selling the hair Hamid Hazim to
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  seek one hand and give them those who exaggerate.
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  If I have a great stories, I know Shan, Omar Omar on the top
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  in the car. I let it with the goat.
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  That's not the way of life. It just creates, you know,
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  people just say things that were never existed.
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  That's not the second big reading of all the bombs are
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  paid to one month. When they're talking about
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  something and they want to bring out a point, what happened?
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  They'll mix into the conversation something that
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  comes there in mind, even if it's not true.
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  They're going to get used to this.
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  I've just shot of the hand. Kimo Ted It becomes as we called
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  second nature. This is not what they set out to
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  do, but this is what comes up in the conversation because they
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  sing them well, no second well, the hymn, they become people who
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  you cannot trust what they say. You know this rewarding the
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  people and say something. It sounds too good to be true.
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  It's too offense. It doesn't sound right.
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  They're not really. They're not really getting to
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  know when they make it like they are all that stuff.
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  I'm not going to choose them with being liars, but you do get
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  a Sir and then I will on the right track and their words and
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  eventually people don't trust them could be hurt.
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  That's when there's an angle that can happen.
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  Oh come on, Madam, He's a phenomenal of that.
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  I thought as the Camaron and Sarah, if you're right, Taho on
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  show. So Badai.
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  This is the punishment of a of a fabricator.
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  So I feel the old man in that this is his punishment being
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  what he says, the truth and charming law.
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  It's the boy who cried wolf theory.
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  Even when he says the truth, we don't listen to him because they
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  they mean it to their nature. They mean part of themselves.
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  This challenge. Should they occlude La Sante for
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  him? They came.
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  They don't come from their words, complete currents.
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  You can't say it from the words as a guaranteed truth suit.
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  I don't know that for a fact. It may be it may not be and
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  because that's the situation they become completely
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  untrustworthy. What is about playing it?
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  It's a punishment to them. They get up and they say as they
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  ain't no one is no one cares. So it's so cool, but no one
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  really cares and it might be true to boy Carl Wolf and work
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  Flynn any of you guys that's he's saying and now it's all
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  Parisville whom I shall I be in the same room and then do the
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  sham Davar Deval Shekin available.
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  They trained their dogs to be falsehood as they were striving
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  to be crooked. They get used to this this
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  second level. The difference in the first
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  level second level besides for the levels and degrees of bed is
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  that one person set out this show.
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  This guy. He didn't plan on this.
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  He allowed it to happen. He got used to this way of
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  talking and it became a second nature.
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  That's part truth and parking because the sort of robots out.
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  That he had to set out to be a liar to stop it.
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  Oh, really? He just seems like not not so he
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  got used to saying it. He wanted me to get, he wanted
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  to get his part of the culinary. What's the juice?
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  Astoria I. Know exactly do you think they
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  believe in what they're saying we're all like?
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  That ape. Was doing, we got all that Joel
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  was saying. Well, Joel was saying got to be
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  told, trying to get it, trying to get it out.
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  And then I came out a little extra audio marketing.
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  Politics. Definitely politics.
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  Politics is worse. How are politicians?
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  Have a good Biden. What is it?
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  He's lied, lied, lied, lied. He's the.
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  Lied he. Knew what he was saying where,
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  where he. He's been.
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  Years ago, he just lied. He.
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  Was not every exaggerated Something exaggerating is a
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  development. It's on the same level.
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  I thought this thought this this is if the guy throws in there
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  some stories that kind of app. Oh, he was his dad.
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  It's insane. In our family, in our world,
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  it's in the same crew as exaggerating.
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  But this guy, he's saying falsehoods.
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  He's something to make this slowly sound a little more
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  colorful. You believe I was dead in a
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  rainbow? The escort, Right?
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  One more, one more paragraph, and then what?
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  LS Viejo da frim? Shahoyama Kalam is 1/3 of whose
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  illness is a little lighter than the first two.
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  The ham or Tom and Shane, I'm Kibwin Kokaka shake it.
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  These are people who are not literally saturated or
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  falsehood. It's not part of the DNA unless
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  you later who should let it affect me, man, but they don't
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  mind shake it. They don't feel the need to
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  separate themselves and falsehood.
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  That means that man let him Yomu and if it comes out, don't let
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  it happen. Oh Bammy, but I bought yomu.
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  There's hawk. Sometimes they'll say it's a
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  jumping way, you know we're joking but hoping people don't
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  really. People can't identify if it's a
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  joke or real or no. Bad bench, no malicious event
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  though. Mom.
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  However, the rabbis tell us she calls who?
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  Hashem does not like that third degree either, because although
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  the guy in manly is saying it as the truth, I'll bringing out
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  words that are not in man. Huma sikatuv devaraj shekhar is
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  not Sadiq falsehood and Sadiq Kate Huma shepherd all of azarat
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  midwar shekhar. What's the word tumkhat?
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  The heart means keep away. This means itself.
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  No one alone has this flow. It doesn't stay, don't lie.
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  It says keep away, keep a distance, have falsehood, keep
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  it afraid. Credit is not a force to me else
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  now, but keep this as means that don't even have any connection.
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  Don't even allow to come out and a joke a joke and wait,
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  especially if people might think these ain't the truth.
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  Keep yourself separate from falsehood.
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  It's the opposite of Ocean A children, are they well?
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  You shouldn't talk a lot because if when you talk a lot it's
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  eventually that happens. When you talk a lot, a lot of
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  other problems come out. One of them is Lying Ocean.
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  Hurrah, lying insults. They all come from talking about
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  absolutely. You know, I, you know, quiet
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  Mike, all my days. I grew up.
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  I grew up among the rabbis for the Masati, La Goof, Toad and
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  Larshita. I couldn't find anything better
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  for the body than silence. Agency, worrying the body, so
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  they pointed out, doesn't say the source of the body, which
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  means it's for your own good. It'd be a silence.
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  It makes you look better, makes you look smarter and makes you
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  more well accepted if you're quiet and you have less knocks
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  again too. If you talk a lot.
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  We shouldn't find things in history that all your floors.
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  Politician. Your example politician is a
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  rising start. He's lucky if he didn't have
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  much of A history. He's much worse old if you smoke
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  a lot of history because then they'll find something on him.
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  Push right. They'll go all the way back to
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  winning for these guys. 8 years old.
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  That's true. Exactly.
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  They're much better off if they didn't say anything even though
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  they didn't vote on any issues, which means they have no real
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  stance. Doesn't matter, we can't catch
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  him. But if you talk a lot you're in
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  trouble or you're at risk. I'm not saying it's a bad thing
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  to talk but I am saying it's much more risky items talk and
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  this example talking falsehood or even having any level of
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  falsehood he's only had to keep away from now he analyzed the
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  word to the soft. The point of it is, as the poet,
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  I want to see more of this in the settle, but the idea is
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  shaker. Falsehood is a complete contrast
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  to the existence of the world. Your existence, my existence,
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  reality, Hashem's existence, they all are at risk.
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  You met when you have falsehood, every one of those things are
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  represented by a met exactly. And you add falsehood.
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  Everything in the world that you know of is at risk.
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  We paint pictures for a living. That's how life is.
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  You paint the picture. Everything is defending on what
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  people believe, right? So and so is major stature.
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  Why? Because people believe he's very
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  successful. So is a big deal because people
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  think that he calls him a great family or people think he's very
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  smart. People think he's a big rabbi.
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  Whatever it may be, What people believe makes that person your
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  identity becomes your existence, right?
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  It's not just regarding your identity.
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  Is it anything in the world? It's a beautiful skyscraper.
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  It looks very sharp because it seems to represent something
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  very expensive, something valuable.
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  What if I told you it's a pile of tin and it's going to fall in
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  a minute? And it was made terribly.
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  There's a building that was built on McDonald Ave. at Ave.
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  MI Believe it was a very buddy of nothing.
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  Is that why they started it then?
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  It was a building that they intended on using for some of
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  these shivers. That building was built, was
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  very large, and now they took it down and they're rebuilding it.
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  Why they take it down? It was not built properly.
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  It was not built at all. OK.
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  I don't think it was built to code and that take it down.
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  Schools were going to take it and then they all didn't take it
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  because it was Danish building. So you look at that building
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  originally two years ago, and you see this very big building
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  here in the center of Brooklyn. It's a great location for that.
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  It's a great size, perfect for a school.
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  It's great. You should be a bowling right?
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  Is that right? But and giving you one.
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  Bowling and bowling. Length.
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  Sorry. Like just tell everyone that you
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  said way before my boys and the girls you know.
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  Yes. OK, we'll shut.
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  Down into. The 80s, eighties, oh, wow, OK,
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  it's all right. 10. So the Brooklyn wow.
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  So that building, peak 60s, this is all that building.
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  If you look at it, it looks great.
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  But now you find out that it really is part of love.
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  Now really a very healthy State Building.
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  That's a sketch. In the world we live in,
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  everything like that is a sketch.
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  So if you represent the sketch, you my point is like this, all
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  these things are existent and also can represent an existence.
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  Lion can't. Detect it.
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  So we did a drill. Can't detect it, of course.
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  That's why lying is so. Bad we recorded we said everyone
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  record yourself at work for an hour and then we brought it for
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  the fuss and we go to it and how many times you're saying this is
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  the best IDM and this is and and it took like it was like
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  detoxing from just our natural way and the intention is not for
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  lie or to deceive anyone, but yet just to draw your.
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  Megan brought us. And then we did another drill a
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  month later after trying to work on ourselves.
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  We you don't say anything other than fact, right?
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  12 T-shirts come in a box. It's white.
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  This is the price. Just like like like vanilla.
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  And he said in. Jail and 95% of the people said
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  they didn't correct the soap, right, right.
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  The customer that was going to buy was going to buy it.
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  Right. We are so raised on a different
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  mindset, right? And this and this.
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  Now I care. Adults.
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  We didn't we didn't get we we stopped catching for a month.
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  We were doing this drill and we went all went to work a month
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  later and we made a sale. Not saying my best.
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  Friend, I had your minds are reordering.
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  You just thin the facts. You know, like the specs. 12 in
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  the box, 34 lbs. In stock the. 297 Just the fact,
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  the just the fact, I'll get that.
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  Yeah, mystery. There were a mum and then you
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  have to get the sale done and the way to get the sale is by
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  driving at home saying whatever you need to get it done.
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  That's the mindset. But that's again, I have a
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  relationship also. That's nothing else.
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  That's how I that's how this challenge relationship is great.
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  You do your work to to get the sale, but here you're utilizing
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  Bols for it. You get the job done and it's
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  creating a world that doesn't exist.
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  So we were saying their reputation's on their way,
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  builders on their way, sales on their way, and a builder has to
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  stop themselves and say I am going against Hashem's existence
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  on his earth. Shake it as the contradiction
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  that God's existence, that's how strong it is.
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  God has a major problem with it for that reason, because it's
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  going against Hashem. Let things be really hard.
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  Let your reputation talk for itself, like who you are, talk
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  for itself. Let you all look great.
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  Looks not take care of anything. You know, when people have this
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  thing, they have, you know, certain houses that really made
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  very cheap, but they do certain things to make it look
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  expensive, right? It's all the same thing.
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  You really don't care. Evil eye fake jewelry that's
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  wrong with fake jewelry at all. But the minds of the fake
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  jewelry, if you really want everyone to know what's big and
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  stuff, if you're trying to make it look real at it and what
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  you're trying to do is you could get Ferragamo Shima from these
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  Chinese, right? 4 $60.50 dollars, $30 and
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  they're worth $1000 issues. You get them literally for less
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  than $50.00 right now. Why would someone get for a
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  gamma shoes at that price? Because they want to represent
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  the fact that they're wearing sharp shoes at the same time and
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  I'm paying the price. That is falsehood.
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  I'm not saying don't do it, but I am saying you're representing
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  something that doesn't exist. And if you realize that with
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  your words, then you're lying. I mean you're lying.
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  Then you go and get to Shun's a distance and what God likes and
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  what it does. It trains us to be really
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  people. They go to the depths of lying.
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  It trains us to many people who maneuver and try to create our
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  own world. Ultimately, lying is a lack of
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  faith. That's what it is.
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  Lying is a lack of memory. Now differently that the lying
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  is creating something that doesn't exist at a time to build
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  a world in a picture that's saying I'm not going to leave it
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  up to God. I'm not going to let him do the
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  talking. I'm going to allow my stuff, try
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  to create a world and then it won't turn.
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  Up on this. Alright, Zach.
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  Is that part. But if someone fundraises and
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  they give you numbers that don't exist, what are they doing?
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  They're saying clearly I cannot get the money without making
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  things look the same way. Or they come with the picture of
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  the one full day, or they do all these sketches.
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  We know the sketches and all these things, right?
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  What you doing, you say, has shown I don't trust you can do
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  it. I need to make my own moves.
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  That is good. It's really that's why some of
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  the steps of people, it's so strong.
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  That is the person who's creating a world that's
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  basically he needs to make his own version of the world.
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  Gods can't do it for him. Both.
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  That's actually the same thing, say, yeah, well, the fundraiser
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  guy comes to you and says, all right, yeah, you know, we
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  already raised 4 million and a half million dollars.
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  Our budget is some. About you, I'm not sure it's
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  smart to say hi budget, smart to say low budget.
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  I started figuring that out. Either way, I could see it's a
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  low. Budget, it's about it.
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  I could see you. I see.
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  Maybe. A guy struggling with a low
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  budget, then you could really help him right?
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  If a guy is struggling at a big budget, so just like a a little
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  drop the only other haystack, yes, that's someone else's
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  problem. And I know from from the inside
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  that there are two ways to represent every budget you can
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  represent. The budget is very big and you
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  get skinned down. It's coming down.
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  It adds your angle that Federal is lying per SE, that just small
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  marketing. But there are things that are
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  fake. Take a picture of a room that
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  looks packed because some other organization used your room.
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  Right. Powerful the course.
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  And now you wanted me to get here.
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  People say, well, I didn't do that.
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  Yeah, we have two people look, look at the room packed and
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  there was a different organization they can't visit.
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  Yoshu, that's a sketch. And that means you don't trust
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  in Rasham. That means that God can't get
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  the job done for you. You need to get it done.
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  That's why something something's like it, because you're saying
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  where's your faith? Where are you allowing me to
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  exist? That's the challenge.
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  That's this under shelving it spoke about being honest a bit
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  and that one of the Miller having a big part that they said
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  that not being honest in business shows you in the Latin
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  faith because really you have to take it in your hand as opposed
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  to being in a Shim that's. The exact business point.
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  All right, So that's why I shouldn't like it and it's
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  something that we have to weed out of our system.
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  Even when parents tell little kids things, right.
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  I give an example. I notice a woman at a babysitter
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  with little child a child's crying.
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  I don't mind Mommy's coming 2 minutes, 2 minutes.
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  Mommy's not coming in 2 minutes. Then Charles, they they strip
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  saying different that that's a lie.
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  All these different lies. It's allowed the kids an infant.
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  Please I hate you but they as it goes like I watch this person I
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  know creating world and it doesn't exist not.
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  For her because she gets used. To accomplish stories the whole
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  thing with stories said mommy's coming soon right so it's fine
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  but two minutes 2 minutes it's not coming 2 minutes and all
• 21:08
  these things I'm basically come bring you a big lolly.
• 21:12
  I saw this first hand. You got to be two.
• 21:14
  It's all false. I'm start with the.