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Marriage and Pleasure · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's time time, time to wake up instantially and Charlott
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. So you but have the same energy. Yeah, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Yeah? This shit boy? You dog? You dog?
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  Speaker 1: You dog? What's up? You dog? And you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You know what's up?
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  Speaker 1: What's up with y'all? Man? What's up? What's what's up?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? As we use Charlotte mane envy, what's up happening? Brother?
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  Speaker 1: Since you've been and you've been sober for forty days
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  Speaker 1: on the days, La, I've been cleared for the day. Congratsman,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you appreciate it. I don't know why
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  Speaker 1: we can gratulating the one it? Wow, I mean, you know,
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  Speaker 1: should we go off? What you gotta tell me what
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  Speaker 1: you was sold off for? Twenty days? Get off? See
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  Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying, y'all just like congratulations, don't
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  Speaker 1: even have congratulations. He's trying to stop himself, to stop masturbating. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a long way, man, Like, it's been really hard for me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure hard it's been. It's been a long forty
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  Speaker 1: days and you know, I'm you know, just let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you a question. If you hear that if you
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  Speaker 1: use another guy's hand the masturbated, that relapse, that is
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  Speaker 1: that cool? You know? That does that? Does account? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You can do it. I'm just saying you can get
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  Speaker 1: a start from another guy. I wouldn't count, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can't say that, bro, So I shouldn't do that. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right? Well yeah, go on, man, Charloman makes your offer,
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  Speaker 1: you bet? Except hello, my boy was handing with I'm
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  Speaker 1: not blood No, I mean, I'm playing I'm playing them.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm nothing. Okay, what's up in the day?
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  Speaker 1: Just say both that drength doesn't matter. Hey, um, he's
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  Speaker 1: real so so Emby, I wanted to pick your brain, bro,
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  Speaker 1: Like really, I'm trying to get into the real estate
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  Speaker 1: game a little bit more, I'll be sure and stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that a little bit right now. And so I
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  Speaker 1: probably got about like ten fifteen rocks, like just kind
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  Speaker 1: of off to the side, and I'm trying to see
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  Speaker 1: which way to kind of jump in that. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Are you from I'm from the Power
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  Speaker 1: from Okana. He from Oakland, Okay, the Bay area? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Just eat email me all right? Uh Caesar and dj
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  Speaker 1: m v A Gmail all right? And and um, I
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  Speaker 1: try to hit you after the show and told you
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  Speaker 1: what your options are and everything like that. How's your credit?
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  Speaker 1: So it's gonna be about seven hundred about next month?
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  Speaker 1: I played off seven hundy by next mon, what don't
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  Speaker 1: hit this month? Brother? Okay, Yeah, you're good six eighties, good,
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  Speaker 1: six eighty. You could get some stuff done and you
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  Speaker 1: got a good job. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got fifteen
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  Speaker 1: to the side. Yep. We can make some things happen
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  Speaker 1: to you. I get a lender on the phone for you.
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  Speaker 1: We'll find you some props. You be good money, you said,
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  Speaker 1: season and who see you said? Season, MVY or season
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  Speaker 1: and DJ sees it in DJ N mail. Brother, all right, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this Jay? Jay? What's up? Getting off your chess? Bro? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to tell y'all man a little what
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing? Man, y'all keep a trick, keep it real
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  Speaker 1: every day. Hey, we appreciate nice to the point. That's
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  Speaker 1: all you got. No, man, I want to shout out
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  Speaker 1: well as I'm on the bigger ridal space in the world. Man. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: shout out the Instagram jays kids, so j A y
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  Speaker 1: s K. I is old. Man. Y'all follow me, man,
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  Speaker 1: you know with everybody know me in the city? Man,
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  Speaker 1: all right, brother, Hello, who's this? Hi? This is Jessica.
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  Speaker 1: How are you yet your chess? I listened to you
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  Speaker 1: guys every morning, but I need to get something off
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  Speaker 1: my chest this morning. UM. I'm a nurse and I
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  Speaker 1: love what I do. UM, but I need to put
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  Speaker 1: on blass. Some of my night co workers, UM, they're
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  Speaker 1: just very unhappy people and I just don't know why
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  Speaker 1: they would want to be nurse. Is if there's that
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  Speaker 1: miserable right. I can't stand being around unhappy people and
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  Speaker 1: people that complain about everything. But don't do anything about it.
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  Speaker 1: If you're so unhappy tor situation. You know what, it's
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  Speaker 1: just not even complaining, it's just a whole vibe like
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  Speaker 1: they don't say hi, not nice. Have you ever thought
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  Speaker 1: that maybe it could be you? Maybe they're happy on
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  Speaker 1: another shift when you're not around. She sounds happy yet, Nah,
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  Speaker 1: It's it's like the twenty four seven, whether I'm there
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  Speaker 1: not there, they're just always just an unhappy group of
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  Speaker 1: people and not putting it very nicely. Well you avoid
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  Speaker 1: the unhappy absolutely well. Thank you guys, Thank you so much. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: have a go on, get it off your chest eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred five A five one on five one. If you
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  Speaker 1: need to vent, hit us up right now. It's the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club the morning, wake up, wake up. You're trying
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  Speaker 1: to get it off your chest or blas. We want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you on the Hello. Who's this? Hello? They?
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  Speaker 1: What's your name? Bro? Oh my god, bro? I got
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  Speaker 1: through all. My name is Will Well, what's up? Getting
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  Speaker 1: up for chas? Will person up? NBA? What's up? And god? Bro,
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  Speaker 1: it's good? What's up? My guy? How are you? Mom?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god? I'm black and you know what I'm saying, Um,
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  Speaker 1: what's on the same out freaking everything, y'all. Dude, Man,
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  Speaker 1: y'all s for race. Y'all a part of my everyday routine.
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  Speaker 1: And um man, y'all motivated me. Y'all have y'all make
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  Speaker 1: every day easier to keep going. Thank you, thank you
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  Speaker 1: that way about y'all, I'm he serious. Hello, who's this ail?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Hey Ariola, Hey, get it up, Ario Loveterio,
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  Speaker 1: Oh Ariel. I'm sorry, y y'all for years. Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: we're so old. I'm not. I said we old because
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  Speaker 1: you've been trying to call it for a year. Honey,
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  Speaker 1: I have so out of calling from Orlando, Florida. I
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  Speaker 1: moved here from Jane Bill three years ago. Um, but
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  Speaker 1: I've been trying to call y'all, dja envy. I've been
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  Speaker 1: been giving you on Instagram because I have a homeboy who,
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  Speaker 1: like you, do music and he really doing. His name
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  Speaker 1: called Warm Night Ful Heart. And then I have another
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  Speaker 1: homeboy named Kendall when he goes to text only and
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  Speaker 1: he has a project out called Legalized Millanem. And he
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  Speaker 1: also has a dope at I mean dope call called
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  Speaker 1: Pam Grier and it is really really dope. Where we
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  Speaker 1: I M E T E P R O. Okay, how
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  Speaker 1: much you paying you for promo? Nothing like these? My
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  Speaker 1: boys have been frantat little schools. Okay, Well, thank you
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  Speaker 1: for calling mamma. Yes, I've been trying to call y'all
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  Speaker 1: for years. I'm so excited and I'm gonna learn at
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  Speaker 1: Orlando Regia Medical Center, so I can't show that to you,
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  Speaker 1: Harry out, Thank you, Rick, Good morning, Rick Yo, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: man bro Yo, So celebate. You've been in the New
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  Speaker 1: York ta arable very long time. Man came here in suise.
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  Speaker 1: New York Heads has been allowed to you. You're not
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  Speaker 1: allowed to undermine any more New York team. Man. You
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  Speaker 1: don't underline the next You don't underline anymore. Man, we're
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  Speaker 1: trying to the next. Man. You're not allowed to say that. Well, first,
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  Speaker 1: can ask can I? Can I ask you a question?
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  Speaker 1: Can ask your questions to the New York Knicks up?
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  Speaker 1: But I'm in New York. I can say that. I
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  Speaker 1: can ask you another question, can ask you another question
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  Speaker 1: to the New York giants up, No, they don't. I'm
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  Speaker 1: never gonna be that you crazy? Okay, Well, well, one thing,
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  Speaker 1: one thing I will say about New Yorkers, and I
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  Speaker 1: love New York. A lot of y'all are very delusional.
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  Speaker 1: We all so much. Why don't we break your New
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  Speaker 1: York if you are New Yorker? Now, I love New York.
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  Speaker 1: I paid taxes here, but I am a Dallas Cowboys fan.
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  Speaker 1: Good try Rick such a bad person. Get it on
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  Speaker 1: your chest if you need to. N hit is up now.
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  Speaker 1: It was the Breakfast Club going bad person, the breakfast
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  Speaker 1: club pointing. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy.
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  Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest
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  Speaker 1: in the building, Yes, sir, andre Iguadalla, Welcome back, sir.
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  Speaker 1: It's good to be back. Man. You should be somewhere
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  Speaker 1: relaxing after that long ass season, but you are here
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  Speaker 1: promoting your new book. First book, first one, first six
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  Speaker 1: six many memoir WI now, man, I think it was
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  Speaker 1: just good timing, especially with the run we've been on.
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  Speaker 1: We were kind of the poster child in the league
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  Speaker 1: as far as you know, people really loving us and
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  Speaker 1: what we did for the game and then being on
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  Speaker 1: the oppositie of that and it hate you for having
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  Speaker 1: too much success. So um, just for me, it was
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  Speaker 1: more therapeutic. And I had a lot of young kids,
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  Speaker 1: young guys in the league asked me for advice, and
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of surprising. You know, you get people that
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  Speaker 1: look up to you, but you're still playing. It's still
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  Speaker 1: you're still competing against them, So all those things, uh,
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  Speaker 1: for like, it's kind of a way to get back
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  Speaker 1: to the because it's a new age athlete coming up,
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  Speaker 1: especially for the black athlete. You know, we're being exploited
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  Speaker 1: more than ever ncuba Au and kind of how I
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  Speaker 1: navigated through the whole thing, it's kind of like there's
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  Speaker 1: no navigational tools for guys to kind of you know,
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  Speaker 1: get to the league. They're kind of being pimped throughout
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  Speaker 1: the whole process from you know age a laban when
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  Speaker 1: they're phena. Let's talk about the navigation part you were saying,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we get exploited a lot, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: a lot of us have sons and daughters that want
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  Speaker 1: to play basketball and it's a tough process. So what
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  Speaker 1: do you suggest that people do you know, because the
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  Speaker 1: only thing we know is AAU and high schooling to
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  Speaker 1: the college, and is we never get anything. Well, I've
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  Speaker 1: had many conversations and my son plays ball. It's funny,
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  Speaker 1: he's that Duke camp now, you know. And he grew
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  Speaker 1: up different than I did. He grew up different than
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  Speaker 1: we did and right, And the one thing I give
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  Speaker 1: to the kids and the parents that grew up similar
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  Speaker 1: to the way we did is you gotta do it
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  Speaker 1: for fun. You got to do it because you love it.
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  Speaker 1: And I always say, these kids nowadays are living their parents'
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  Speaker 1: dreams and that's what always derails them. Or no matter
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  Speaker 1: where they get either they don't make it, the parents
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  Speaker 1: derail them. Another reason why they didn't make it, or
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  Speaker 1: when they do make it, parents are the reason why
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  Speaker 1: they're having mental issues or they're spending all the money,
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  Speaker 1: or they're going broke, or they're having all the family
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  Speaker 1: problems is because you know, they did it for all
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  Speaker 1: the wrong reasons. So for me, it's like listen, just
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  Speaker 1: let the kid's gonna make it or not make it, regardless,
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  Speaker 1: Like you have nothing to do with that, Like you
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  Speaker 1: can't support them as a parent, and that's going to
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  Speaker 1: help them mentally. But you know, there's there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of things that we can do differently, and exploiting the
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  Speaker 1: kid is that's the worst reason to get them into
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  Speaker 1: the sports. So creating our own spaces, we talk about
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  Speaker 1: that a lot. And I even look at colleges and
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  Speaker 1: and I look at you know, just imagine if we
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  Speaker 1: had one star leave an HBCU forty million dollars. Slaves
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  Speaker 1: spoke about that in that book. What if the Fat
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  Speaker 1: Five all went to a historically black university or college
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  Speaker 1: instead of going to Michigan and it changed the course
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  Speaker 1: of history. You know, they did it with black socks
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  Speaker 1: and black nikes. They could have changed the course of history.
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  Speaker 1: And I was just talking to one of the interns.
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  Speaker 1: She was talking about you was talking about, say, I
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  Speaker 1: wish I would have took a visit to Howard. Well.
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  Speaker 1: Black people, we haven't tendency to think white ice is colder, right,
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  Speaker 1: But that's just the way we see it. Like we
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  Speaker 1: grow up, you know, growing up out saw Michael Jordan,
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  Speaker 1: the Fat Five, I was like they were like gods
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  Speaker 1: to me. So it was like, you think that's the
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  Speaker 1: only way that you can go to make it. And
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  Speaker 1: David West, close teammate of mind, he's trying to change
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  Speaker 1: the trajectory or the course of what we can do.
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  Speaker 1: He's got the he got a league where instead of
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  Speaker 1: going to college through the NCUBA, you can go through
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  Speaker 1: this league where they give financial services as far as
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  Speaker 1: financial education. You can actually make money off your likeness.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a different avenue. They give you a percentage
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  Speaker 1: of your jersey right right, right right, But they're teaching
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  Speaker 1: you all these twols as well, because that's one thing
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  Speaker 1: I talk about in the book is we all were
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  Speaker 1: exported in an NCUBA, especially if you went to a
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  Speaker 1: big school. I went to the University of Arizona, and
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  Speaker 1: I remember seeing the report the larger schools in terms
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  Speaker 1: of revenue basketball team pat to the school. We were
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  Speaker 1: number two. And the reason why this the athletic department
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  Speaker 1: ran was because of the basketball team. And then it
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  Speaker 1: was funny. I would go to practice and then the
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  Speaker 1: volleyball coach would be like, coach, you know, you guys
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  Speaker 1: got car blanche on the practice time. I know who
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  Speaker 1: pays the bills around here. But I would go a
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  Speaker 1: week when I had like ten dollars and I had
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  Speaker 1: to make ten dollars last food for that week. It
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  Speaker 1: was like, and you an athlete, My jersey was in
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  Speaker 1: the store, like number twenty four was in the store.
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  Speaker 1: I would think it would feed y'all, just to keep
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  Speaker 1: y'all healthy. Well, they change the rules now where they
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  Speaker 1: getting limited food? When I was there, you only got
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  Speaker 1: food on game days or they got food sometimes at
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  Speaker 1: the practice whatever. But other than that, you know, he
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  Speaker 1: was on and then but you got the head of
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  Speaker 1: the NC double A. You know, you can look at
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  Speaker 1: the salary right now. He's a millionaire, you know. So
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  Speaker 1: it's just it's just a system in how it's been
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  Speaker 1: so far. Now people saying that the Warriors are over,
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  Speaker 1: that the dynasty is over. What do you think you
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  Speaker 1: got two men? Dawn? Maybe next year Claire and be
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  Speaker 1: back soon. Katie would be back to form if he signs.
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  Speaker 1: But he'll be back to form, okay, but um, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: he'll be back. He might be out all next year.
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  Speaker 1: But we saw what we did in the finals. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we just right there and we were like, really we
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  Speaker 1: had three guys break something and we still had an opportunity,
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  Speaker 1: were one possession away. From pushing it to a game seven,
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  Speaker 1: so we'll be fine. Um, big free agency this summer,
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  Speaker 1: so we'll be at all right, we have more with
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  Speaker 1: andre Iguadallas when we come back. Don't move. It's to
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Go morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is
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  Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking it with andre Iguadalla from
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  Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors. Charlemagne. Did the Warriors organization take
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  Speaker 1: any blame for having the Katie or shouldn't because you're
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  Speaker 1: talking the book about you know, we're sacrificing in your
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  Speaker 1: body so for these organizations. So that's a really good question.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think his injury was the reason before the
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  Speaker 1: other of the other injury because the way the body
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  Speaker 1: set up, the Calves should have went out first before
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  Speaker 1: they Achilles. So that was like an active guy like
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  Speaker 1: the Achilleses just gonna go out. Don't matter if he
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  Speaker 1: was injured before that or not. But I talk about
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  Speaker 1: in the book, you know, what's your body worth? You know,
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  Speaker 1: all I hear is play one of years longer than
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  Speaker 1: you can. But at the same time, it's like y'all
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  Speaker 1: want to have a certain lifestyle when I'm done playing.
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  Speaker 1: You know them knees go quick, so you don't you
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  Speaker 1: don't think the Warriors had any responsibility with maybe pushing
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  Speaker 1: Katie out there too soon. That's a tough part too,
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  Speaker 1: you think about it. We have a really good training staff.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'll give credit work credits due our training
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  Speaker 1: staff was one of the best in the world, and
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  Speaker 1: I feel like they got them back. The tough thing
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  Speaker 1: is when you're an athlete and you're hurt, everybody's looking
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  Speaker 1: at you sideways, and then being his teammate is harder
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  Speaker 1: because everyone's feeding stuff in our head when Katie coming back,
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  Speaker 1: When Katie coming back, and the fact that it's the finals,
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying that whatever happened to more because he put
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  Speaker 1: that team together, it seems like, and then nobody ever
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  Speaker 1: gave him a chance again, which seems weird. We were
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  Speaker 1: just talking about that about that this morning, and like
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  Speaker 1: we were huge fans of market Players. He was ultimate
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  Speaker 1: players coach. That that was. I mean, he pretty much
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  Speaker 1: put that team together, like that's that's what we first
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  Speaker 1: started hearing about the Warriors, and then it was like
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  Speaker 1: he got let go in the nor of a team,
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  Speaker 1: gave a shot and I'll talk about it in the book.
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  Speaker 1: As far as he was like one of my favorite
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  Speaker 1: coaches of all times, it was like, come in, compete,
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  Speaker 1: play hard, But I feel like this the politics of it, man.
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  Speaker 1: And when you say politics, what do you mean? I
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: know they used to be upset because he was too religious.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: They said, did he make y'all go to church? That
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: was a rumor that he made. He didn't make us
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: go to church like he offered it to us. And
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: we all went as a team because we got a
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: team bunch of believers, so we went to church like
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: we were going to church regardless. But it was the politics.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: And then you know how it is when once they
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: want you out, they're gonna find something. And then you know,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: one particular issue was from what I heard, was his
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: views on ginger or marriage or what the Bible said
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: on your sexuality. And our head of our business who
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: he just went to the Hall of Fame. He was
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: the brains behind All Star Weekend. Like this dude, he
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: created the All Star Weekend brick wells like genus business
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: and he's gay. So there was conflicts with that that
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: was wide spread everyone was talking about that, and it's interesting.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: Someone mentioned it to me. It was like when people
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: can express themselves, but are you allowed to express yourself
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: that you don't agree with it, you should accept it
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: because we should accept each other. But it's like we're
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: afraid to really say our beliefs now, Like you may
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: not believe in something, but you know you still embrace that,
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: or you have respect for them, or it's as long
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: as you don't dispect them or judge them. Correct. It
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: was that on top of you know, he might have
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: issues with ownership. That was that was a crazy part,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Like he didn't have a group relationship with the ownership
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: and that's not gonna work. That ain't gonna never work.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: But no other team picked him up. Think about it,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: not one other team. Well, it just shows crazy. It
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: just shows how in line the ownership group is. They
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: all together, they care about one thing money at bottom line.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: You think Mark Jackson's black ball, I do, yes, really, yes, absolutely,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: But we appreciate you for joining us. Yeah, pick up
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: the book. Six men and Katie and Clay coming back
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: next year? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Pretty sure? Kad two.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I think Katie's coming back. I hope he does I
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: mean we wanted to come back prior to the injury?
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Did you think he was leaving a going I didn't know.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: That's a hard part of two. It's like every day
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: we had to deal with that, like the whole year
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: you had to deal with it. Is Katie coming back?
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: It was like, man, like, man, I hope, so yeah,
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: like what you want me to say. But at the
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: same time, it's like, you know where they're smoked. There's
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: a fire, so it's like, well, who's putting out these reports?
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Sometimes it fake? You don't know what's what? You know,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: it's the drama, the NBA. They're going to the Knicks though,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: that's what I heard. I don't know. Man, I personally
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: think y'all gonna strike out. Yeah, I agree with you.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: All right. It's Andrew Iguadolla. It's to Breakfast Local Morning, DJ, Envy,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: caught your parents having sex at or how your kids
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Waxes played an audio have you ever been caught by plenty? Plenty?
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I got called plenty. I gotta called my mom's grandmoms brothers.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: So I was with my friend. It was two o'clock
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: in the morning. I was just saying I was in
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: a room with a door that was in locks. My
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: son comes in because I guess he heard some noise.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: All I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: am calling my mom. Good did your friends say? He
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: was like, he was like, you should have yelled at
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: him so he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: was in shocked. So we're asking eight hundred five five
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: one oh five. One of my kids have never walked
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: in and caught us, but my daughter has texted us
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: and said, guys, I'm still up. Guys, you checked your
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: text during sex. Now this was after when we checked in.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: You can see the text was like, guys, I'm still up.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: The next morning she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: doing the daddy last night? He was making so much
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: noise of what he was in. Yeah, have you ever
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: caught your parent type of sex? I think so. I
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: never walked in on them, but I've heard them, and
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house. My
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: room was all the way on the third floor, so
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door was closed,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound like it
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: was fun, though. What conversation did you hear? I don't
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: sound like they were having sex, but you know how
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: like you're tired and you don't really feel like it.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: to have a ranch style house in a monk's corner,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: and you know, you walk in the door and you
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: peek in and you see them under the covers, and
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: you just back away because you know, you know you're
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: kids had never call me, simply because I'm not poor
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: those who can't afford locks to get your money up. King,
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I hate your kids would have never caught you if
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: you wasn't a Paul asked me, who could have afford locks.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: All right, some people out there that could have afford
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: locks that blocks on that door, Well, then lock the
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: goddamn door in. It's just that simple. Let's go to
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: the full hous. Hello, who's this from Houston? I'm from Calli,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: but I live in Houston. What's up? What's going on
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: with you? What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: parents having second boy. It wasn't my parents. It was
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: like my mom's and her boyfriend. I was like nineteen,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: I ain't really like to do, but I'm like, I
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: knocked on the door, like hey man with like is
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: it cool? Like I got to ask you a question
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: that She's like, Oh, I'm like I saw just by Wow. So, dude,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: you didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: you had that image in your head forever? Was he
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: putting it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: don't know, like it sounds like like it. See Charlemagne,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: you always gotta ask that man, what a question down? Listen,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Mommy gotta have a life too, bro. I'll feel you
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: but she was making noise. She was moaning, Yeah, Broda,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: I had knock on the door to kind of break
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: it up real quick. I don't know if you rap o,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and just
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents having sex.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm serious. Hello, who's this? Good morning? This is Ricardo
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Hanley Junior from YANCS. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man, you ever
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: walking on your parents having sex? That was about Ricardo
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Haley SENI you're putting it down. Ye Na, I ain't
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: never seen pops old mom get it in. But I
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: got a one year rold. I was giving my shorty
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I was putting that paint in. But I'm saying at
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: the same time, you know, like cool man, this is all.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Did you stop me? Did you stop though? Yeah? Nah?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: you gotta tell you how to tell him? Like, look
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: where you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: My g was too because I need a babysitter. Man.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my good an eye brother? Hello, who's this? They
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: ain't nsha you tout your parents having sexy? Your kids
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: caught you. I put my pans, So what happened? You
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: sound mad too? Right? And my mom was on her
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: knees and then she looked me in my eyes. Wait
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: wait wait, you was under the bed. Why my my mom?
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I want to know what they were doing here. My
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad, I'm like black
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: called him daddy, And I see what she would say
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: all that day. You sound wild incestual right now. And
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: you wanted to see that because you actually hit under
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: the bed. And what if that man would have pulled
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: What if that man would have pulled out and let
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: that let that stuff fall towards the coverence, and you
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: just happened to be looking up for the hold on, charlomne.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Let me let me let you know something. First of all,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: and you're playing the ten dog and you heady, and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: we're an apartment build. Our wolf is really thinning. You're
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: getting stupid noises. You want to be like, wait, hold on,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: what's going on? You? No? You mind your business that's
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: that goddamn boogeyman your parents keep telling you about, and
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: that little pollo. Well, you saw the boogeyman that night.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: He was boogeing all over your mama, wasn't it. I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: was so traumatized, like, oh my god, like, oh my god.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: And that was your daddy. That was your mama was
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: saying too. And when your dad was, oh my god,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: oh my god, why are y'all so crazy? Y'all crazy?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: It's so crazy. What's listen? It's so crazy. I didn't
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: wonder why I'm crazy. It's your fault. There's no moral
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: of the story. These are the stories. Lock lock the
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: goddamn dog, your pole ass before lots. Ain't that expensive, bro?
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: All right? No, man, lock the goddamn dog. Buy some
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: locks for your door, and locked the door before you
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: up behind the door. Something I can in. Put a
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: chair behind the door. I've done that before. Just put
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: the chair just so it makes noise so you know
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: what's going on, so they can't sneak up on. Yeah,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: that's when you was Paul. Huh, that's a pole all right.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: We got more coming up next with a Breakfast Club.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: We have Jill, Marie Jones and the creators Old Monogamy here.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Welcome guys, Good morning morning. Yeah, it's been two seasons
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: of monogamy so far, right, Yeah, yeah, this is our
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: second season. And there's this swap therapy, yes, that you
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: guys do on monogamy to help in your relationships and
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: your marriages. Swap therapy. It's basically when you swap spouses
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: in an effort to get distance from a relationship, to
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: get a perspective on it, to heal it. So it's
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: like sanctioned infidelity basically. Well, it's it's more about mirror,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: isn't Yeah. I think yeah, it's more about looking into
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: a mirror and saying the reflection of it that I
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: see is actually who I want to be. Yes, I'm
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: also too characters that think a certain way, um, and
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: then they go into the experiment and realize it was
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: better at home. They just didn't appreciate it. But then
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: there's also two characters that saw what they thought they
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: saw and then end up finding something new about I
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: always say that monogamy should have a question mark at
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: the end of it. I always say the well of
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: what is monogamy? Can one person be your everything? And
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: should they? Should they be? For example, and what we
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: were just talking about, if there was a space where
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: my husband could feel attracted to a woman and feel
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: free enough to come and tell me and we're sharing
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: that together. Put that lesson the fact that he goes
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: out and steps out. I mean, it's the secrets and
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: you're not giving a platform to be who you are.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: If he's attracted to someone, tell me, babe, let's talk
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: about is that real life for you? It's real life? Okay,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: so it's it's now got ana be attracted to it.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Like a man can be attracted to another woman, but
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: you don't. You're not gonna let them go sleep with
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: the other people? Do some people what they shoose? That's
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: the point is like, do you feel free enough that
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: you could come to your wife and say babe, or
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: you know, any man or any godless of what happens
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, Like, do you is there a space
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: where you can be who you are? Because we have
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: this idea that you get married, you're not attracted to people,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't feel things now there's nothing wrong with honoring
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: your commitment, because we do honor that, but honor who
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: you are as a human, Like we're not dead. We
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: feel people were connected to people, were attracted to people,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: So let there be space for that and maybe just
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: maybe that'll cut down the lies and the deception. Really, yes,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: because I don't think, like I've never thought that that
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: was a problem being attracted to another woman or a
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: woman saying another guy's attractive. That's never a problem. Is
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: when you actually go act on that and sleep with that.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, everybody talk about it on the table real
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and I think that's what I mean. Do you feel
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: like you feel like that it's okay to put that
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: on the table in your relationship that that you can
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: you I'm not gonna sit around a lust over woman
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: be like, y'all I want to hit that, but I
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: might be like, oh, she's pretty up. My wife would
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: be like, yo, he's handsome, that's cool. So do you
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: fight your thoughts if you're exactly because maybe your head,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: do you stop yourself from thinking that? How do you
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: fight it? Or do you about what you're gonna say
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: so that you know is at the right time? Is
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: it the you know, is it the is he? How
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: far should I go when I when I speak about this?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: So yeah, and a certain women that we both can
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: agree all bad. Like you might see Angela Bassett and
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you and your wife and be like y'all right right
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: yeah both for y'all be like that right now. I
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: want to talk about y'all relationship though, as creators of
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: this show, I want to know what is your relationship like?
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: And what are your thoughts because watching this show, watching
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: monogamy and seeing the aftermath of the whole swap therapy
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: and uh, seeing the different relationships and you know, the
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: struggles that people have been having in their marriages. What
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: made you guys come up with this? And what is
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: your real relationship like? That's that's all love that. How
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: we first came up with it was basically in the bed, Yeah,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: we were The husband annoyed me something like he was
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: handling business on the phone. I was like, babe, like
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: we have to stop, and he said something like, well,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I'm sure your perfect dude would put down his phone
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: and something filling the blank. So it kind of startsed
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: up that were your perfect woman, would you know would
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: allow you to do this on the phone, and then
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I kept talking about it, and we're like, well, you know,
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: what would that look like if we evolved that into
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: something else? Could we be with other people and our
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: marriage withstand that, withhold that, let's hold it. Would we
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: be okay? If he and I were put it in
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: two separate environments for two months? Could we maintain the
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: integrity of our two month? Wasn't there at first? We
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: didn't know that at first, but we just we're thinking
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: came we didn't? We have not tried it? How think
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: you guys should know? I was about to say, but
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I'm love you guys so much. I don't want to Yeah,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: because I feel like maybe it wouldn't be a bad
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: idea to see what that's like because the show now
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: where you're putting this an ecosystem, well, because we feel
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: like I felt like traditional marriage is dying. So what
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I really wanted to do was put a different spin
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: on on what marriage could be. And I just felt
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: like marriage doesn't not have to be what the box
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: that we put in. I felt like we've put it in.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: There's always a good idea to get a perspective to
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: self reflect, and I don't think we do that enough
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: in relationships. Um intimacy into me you see is about
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: like really going deep, and that's the point of marriage.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: So we wanted to create this, this specialized environment where
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: couples could do that. And I feel like marriages would
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: survive and thrive if we actually started to look at
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of our pain points, things that we don't
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: want to talk about. For you, jim Y Jones, has
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: your thoughts on a marriage change if I'm doing if
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I'm doing two seasons of monogamy, have you have your
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: thoughts changed? You know, like I don't know if I'll
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: ever get married, I mean just by choice, you know,
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: but maybe if he's worth it, you know, he has
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: to come with something, you know, like not marriage for
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: the take of just saying you know what marriage because
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you went to write and so I mean, I love
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: the exploration of this. I could never do it, you
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: know in my life. You know it's scary about marriage
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: to me is that I have a lot more friends
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: who are unhappily married and happily married. Yeah, and I know, Wayne,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: way right, Why do you think that is? Like? Why
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I think it is that I don't think you ask
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: the right questions when you're dating people, Like, it's crazy
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: to me that I have friends that they're in like
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: two year relationships and they don't even know if the
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: guy wants kids, if she wants kids, Like I mean,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: they're not having like the right conversation. So then they
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: are in these relationships that end up lasting, lasting, lasting,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: So you're like three years in and then like, what's next. Okay,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: well society says marriage is next. Right, then they proposed,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and they are in this marriage, but they don't really
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: ask the right questions. They're not really getting to know
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: the real person. I agree, that's what I think. And
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I also think there's problems that you have when you're
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: dating that you think if you get married. Same thing
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: with kids. It's crazy that Brian White's character on our
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: show I actually relate. I didn't know that I would
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: related to this character. I was like watching I was like,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: oh my god, like I relate. That's that was me
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: in my twenties, Like I was saving like dudes that
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: didn't even ask to be saying that. I was just like,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I will help you. I will help you through it,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: you know. But I didn't realize how emasculating that can be.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: On the flip side. They say, a great woman can
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: make a man great, so you don't want to do
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: but I would think I was absolutely you feel supported.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: If you do it in a way that he does
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: not feel supported, then you're not You're not making him great.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You always making him dependent. Say it again, what yours?
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: You're making him depend? And that then he takes you
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: for granted after a while, and then you're just doing
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: these things and then and then you start feeling like, damn,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: I done did all this? And then right and think
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: anything exactly what both are fair? Well? I think men
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: only say that when the woman starts storing it up
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: in their face. When the woman starts stowing in their
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: face everything she's done for him, then the man might say,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: but I didn't ask you to do all that. Well,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: but I think you appreciate the support if it's real
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: genuine support. I guess the question is, is it's a
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: real genuine support? All right? We got more with the
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: creators Old Monogamy and Jill Marie Jones, who Don't Move
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Low good morning, everybody is DJ Envy
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: and jul Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: We have Jill, Marie Jones, and the creators Old Monogamy.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Here the best advice I got when I was getting married,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Samian Bernard shout out to her. Um. She said to me,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: let it be okay for your husband to say no, right,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: And that really hit me that because you know what,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: whatever whatever that it should be because the ideas that, well,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: if you love me, you will do blame and if
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: you don't, then there's an absence of love, and that's
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: that's unfair. I think sometimes that we put on people.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: I had a hard time with it. We're saying I
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: had a hard time with saying he did. I'm trying
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: to think of a reason why I would say no
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: to my wife. Exactly. I don't even married. I've been
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: on my wife for twenty one years, been married for
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: five okay, so um, for me, it was it would
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: be things that would just be something I couldn't do
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: or outside of what I what I needed to do
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: at the moment, or or outside of outside of the
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: things that we needed to do even as a couple.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: But I would try, I would, you know, in the
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship, I would always say yes, yes, yes, yes,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: yes yes, And then but then, but then resentment builds
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: up because you don't feel like you know, maybe that
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: it's really on me. I often think that men aren't
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: given the space to know what they want and to
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: ask for it. I know we've struggle with that. Like
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I'm very clear on what I want, and I'll say, honey,
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I need this, this and this, Like, do you feel
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: like it's okay to say I need this and that
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: you and that need will be mad. Yes. I'm a
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: very expressive person, so you know, I have no problem
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: saying exactly how I feel. And I think going to
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: therapy the past few years is definitely let me be
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: able to convey my feelings a whole lot better. So
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I think the biggest arguments me and my wife have
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: nowadays are about the kids, and I would even call
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: them arguments, they're just healthy debates. Now. When I have
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: discussions with my friends, one of the main things that
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: comes up is sex and not having enough sex in
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: their relationships. And I've heard people say, listen, I've been
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: with you know, we've been together. We haven't had sex
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: in two months. We haven't had sex in this amount
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: of time. I don't know what's going on in this relationship,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: So what makes you want to run towards that? Right?
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: But I've heard people say that a lot, like as
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: they get into especially in marriage, like he sleeps on
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: the couch, or he's sleeping in the basement and watching TV.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: He's watching porn. I called him doing that. That's a
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: miserable friends, and you know, and I get a lot
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: of ask you questions about it, And I think this
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: is a really common problem that people have where they're
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: sex drives don't align and don't know why is he
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: cheating on me? Is he not interested in me anymore?
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Is he not attracted to me? So? Is that something
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: that's ever been that's not it can never be the woman?
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: You know, it happens both ways, because I've definitely had
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: guys say and then I think what happens is you
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: don't even want to initiate it because you get turned down.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: So then now I don't even feel like doing it anymore,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: and then y'all both end up not having You have
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: to create a culture of closeness and you have to
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: really really consciously do that, like for your for your marriage,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: like that has to be almost like an appointment. And
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: so I go back to for us. We have a
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: scheduled time that we do that schul schedule for me spontaneous, okay, soutaneous,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: you missed a few. The penetration for me starts mentally
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and emotionally, so we can get that cracking at any point.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: And I'm just saying we make a conscious point to
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: do that. Some guys, when they have sex, they don't
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: even care about all that. They just least most women exactly. Yeah,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: but men too, I mean I mean married men. I
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: think I'm assuming you got married because you want something
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: beyond just the physical flash for indication right time, not always.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: I said this yesterday. I feel like the best sex
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I've ever had is definitely what my wife, and it
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: is because of the emotional, spiritual connection. I don't even
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: remember those physical the physical altercations. I have a woman,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, No, I don't mean
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: like outside your marriage, but I do mean within the marriage,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: within the person that you're Yeah, sometimes you just want
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: some times you just want to go at You don't
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: have to because the emotions are already there. It's always
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: going to be there. Yeah. Yeah. Would you say the
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: best sex you've ever had has been with somebody you
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: did love. Yeah. Wait, I was over here, like, Okay,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: the best sex you ever had has been with somebody
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: you're in love with? Or can you have great sex
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: with somebody you're not in love with? Oh? I have
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: a different type of great sex. There's this varying degrees
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: of great text I think, Yeah, yeah, you know, I
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: keep really, um, you know what I love Like, you
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: know what's crazy is that I've been you know, I
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: have a family member that has not been in the
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: best health or whatever. So I've been like really like
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: that's been on my soul and then also to just
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: work and stuff. So I've been just about Jill, right,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: But like about three weeks ago, I was just like,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I think I'm ready for my person again. So I'm like,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: you know, not that I'm actively looking, but I'm you know,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I'm baby now I'm your persons please. But um, I'm
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: a person who just likes my person, Like I just
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: want the one person right when of the time. Yeah,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: So I would answer that to say, like, yeah, probably
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: the best sex that I've ever had is because I
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: love them. Yeah. It marriages that times a hundred yes
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, that's what marriage, That's what it is.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: When you're making love your wife feel like I'm making
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: a little my wife like a different feeling. Has cheating
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: ever helped a marriage? I think it can, which kind
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: is like friends that they were better after. Yeah, because
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: what happens is space opens up where you start getting
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: authentic and honest about what you need and what you feel.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: And that goes back to what I was just saying
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: in the demanding that you don't give ourselves permissions often
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: for the first first time ever, because that's what makes
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: it so real and juicy, is when you can just
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: show up fully as who you are, so give me
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: all of you, the good, bad, and the ugly. Yeah.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: And I'm not condoning that you should cheat and stay.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not condoning you know, domestic vines or anything like that.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: But I am creating a space where we could be
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: fully who we are. That to me is power and love,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: social second chances to be allowed or sometimes third four
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: fifty sans. I mean it depends situation, but yes, sure,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: and nopened up by it if you're which is what
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: the in the monogamy in our TV show Some Pipes,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: that's it opens opens people. Because but if it doesn't,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: if if it's just if that is an absolute deal breaker,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: and I think it's the deception and the betrayal that
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: comes along with Yeah, but that is so hurtful, it's embarrassing. Though.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I would think that the cheating is easier than
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: having that conversation. Yeah, sometimes the cheating allows you to
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: have the conversation. It does. That's what we're talking about.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that when people cheat,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: or maybe some people cheat, that is that a cry
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: for help in the relationship that they're in or is
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: that just just their being guys or girls just wanted
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: to do I think it means, I usually think is
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: for ego. You know what I'm saying, Like, we have
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: wounded egos, we have fragile egos. You know, we're trying
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: to fill off. We're trying to we're trying to fill
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: our cups with something that's just not going to e
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: feel because the cup got a hole in the bottom.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: So I tell you fix that wounded ego, then you're
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: gonna do things like want to cheat. Do you feel
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: like your marriage has helped you feel that? Move? Absolutely,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: when you're being when you're when you have a good
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: marriage and you're being the good husband. And what's a
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: good marriage and a good husband? I mean me doing
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to be doing. Like I was a dog.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I was out there running the speech. You know what
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Everything now was moving. So when you stop
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: doing that and you start really committing to your wife
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: and committing to your kids, there's nothing more fulfilling. Like
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: that's when you have a beautiful legal instead of a
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: wounded eg Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wonder what is that?
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: What makes you get to the point where you're saying,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I'm going to commit to this woman? Men, what's the
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: answer to that one? Is that growth? It's just like
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: living life and like learning, like because I'm definitely not
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: who I was in my twenties, Like you know, you
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: couldn't pay me to go back there. Yeah, I hear you,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: And I think five and January fourth, Yeah, I know
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: it's growth, And I think it's just just realizing, like, yo,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: this is the closest person to you, this is the
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: person that you go to. People get to that point
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: the point I started feeling when you knew this was
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: the person, I started feeling like a sucker. I started
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: feeling disloyal, I started feeling like a liar, you know
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: what I mean, And like that's not things that I
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: can do. I can't live with those kind of feelings,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. How I'm more loyal to
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: my homies, but I am my woman, you know what
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, like just my best friend, right, how I'm
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: more loyal than them and won't lie to them and
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: keep one hundred with them, but doing that to her, Like, man,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: that's not a good feeling for me. All right? We
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: got more with the creatives of Monogamy and Jill Marie
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Jones who don't move as the Breakfast Loure more than
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: everybody is DJ Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: we all the breakfast Club. We have Jill Marie Jones
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: and the creators of Monogamy. Here is it also a
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: feeling that I might lose what I have too? Because
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I think sometimes guys get to the point where they're like, damn,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: she might really leave? This time? Was right looking fine?
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Had for me? How did I get to the point
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: where Charlotte is talking about right? Um? For me and you,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: it was about it was about the support. It was
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: aout the support that I got from you. It was
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: about that you felt me, and you were me, and
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: you were inside me, and you were everything that I had.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Damn it, let me write this that next time I
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: get asked that question. That's what happened. I mean me too.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: I kissed him on our first date. I just I
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: just went in he was talking, and I just I
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: knew you. In lines like that, I can see why,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: you know what? Else? For me, she was my wife
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: and my father. Like watching my father and my mother
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: get a divorce and how he got it. They got
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: divorced because he was cheating, and watching how that ruined
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: my family. I didn't want to do that to my family, right,
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You think you do have
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: to if your partner has some type of sexual as
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: you call it, devancy, Right, do you think you should
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: make the effort to try even if you're it's not
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: something you're you've ever really considered or been into, if
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: it isn't hard for you, know I mean if, I mean,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: it depends it depends on how long it's your partner.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: So I mean, in some ways you got to support
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: your partner, right, as long as it's nothing harmful to you,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: but maybe something you never envisioned yourself trying. I mean,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: I definitely think I suggest that you explore with your partner.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: That's the point of marriage, like really going to other
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: dimensions sexually. If I don't think Maggie should explore that
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: with Carson, I mean she couldn't buy it. He Hie's husband.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: Well what is it you? I'm not going forward? You say,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: But he's still right though. Whether it's sadism, sadism, yeah,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I'm stupid. Is that sadism is when you inflict you
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: get pleasure, pain, pain, pleasure from right and to the
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: point where it's to the pinks detrimental, it's danger. You got?
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: You all men a slight say this story right? Probably?
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: So you got do you take it a little to
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: the extreme, like I said, my character can no longer
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: have children? Extra extreme? Yeah? But the question why are
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: you flinching? Like these are real sex scenes you're doing.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: You're just saying I was like, Maggie would like do that?
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Where would Maggie go? So Maggie likes a little choking,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: but she don't want to Maggie doesn't know a light choke.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Let's just say I'm just so happy this season too,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: because I feel like Maggie finally has her voice. She
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: has a lot of hurt on her on her name
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: because she made sweet sweet love to her husband before
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: the experiment, and then she caught a connection and the
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: experiment and she's pregnant and she doesn't know who the
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: baby daddy is. Right, that's Maggie, right, connect not now
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: one we having to really explain that yet. Right, I
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: need to start watching monogamy. But even more I think
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: that y'all need to do a monogamy after show. What
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: y'all do? I'm serious, show a little ya do an
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: after show like open it up to other couples and
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: relationships and the conversations that just to starting now with
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: my wife. We don't do that, but we do at
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: this corner. This is the Capitalcorns. We're not married, just
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: the married charm over there having a life. I like dating.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I feel like marriage is the
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: be all end all, but I could be with somebody
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: yeah forever and not get married. Happens, right. I can
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: say that there was definitely a transition from making love
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: as you know boyfriend girlfriends who husband and wife? Yes,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: indeed very different. It was just yeah, somebody told me
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: when I'm gonna say because it was a famous but
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: they were like, don't get married to ruin your whole relationship.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: You can't stop talking a miserable I mean it, I
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: mean it really. Yeah, but it's also the most life affirming,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: life giving. It's the thing. If it's the right person,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: it's the right person to look at. And I think
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of relationships look at what they don't have
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: anymore as supposed to what they have. Now, yeah, they
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: don't have any more. It's supposed to what they don't. Yeah,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: Like relationships free you, they should, they should free you,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: should be a mirror for you to grow into your
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: most expanded self. It shouldn't be constrictive and you focus
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: on what you're getting. But we do spend too much
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: on what we don't get. Yeah, I think we're saying
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: the same thing that you just said, like like I
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: come with a lot, and and you should in the
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: most beautiful way. So add to that, so like if
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: he's worth it, right, I'm down. And also I also
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: think you get miserable when people don't learn how to fight.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: You have to learn how to fight, well, don't you
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: think so? In a marriage, like you have to or
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: any relationship. Yeah, you know you're gonna get as arguments.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: You have to be productive and that yeah healthy. Yeah,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: like sometimes you know, are arguments had not been helped
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: They weren't. Yeah, so we had to really work on that.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: I think you forget that that's your friend. Yeah, you
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, you think you guys are
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: on the same team. Yes, but we are that same thing.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: If it's worth it, and I feel like I decide
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: to do it, let's do it. But if I decide
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: not to do that's okay too. Yeah, you can be
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: happy with without the institution of marriage, you know what
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: I mean. I think you know if you're happy within yourself.
• 47:24
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• 47:29
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• 47:34
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• 47:38
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• 47:41
  Speaker 1: love like watching it with friends of mine that are coming.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Debates will happen because I literally i'm watching it. I'm
• 47:47
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• 47:55
  Speaker 1: Your wife are coming from your words. Craig Ross Junior,
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  Speaker 1: Karen Walter Ross, Jill, Marie Jones. Yea, thank you for coming.
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  Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club having us. Thank you. I was
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: going to donkey. This is a Donkey of the Decker
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: Devil Breakfast Club. Yeah, don't hear the Dave goes to
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: a New jerseyman named Richard Decker. Let's call him Dick.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: You know, Dicky short for Richard, so we'll call him
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Dick Decker. Now we really need to see if Dick's
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: origin starting Florida, because man, on the scale of one
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: to Florida, the level of stupidity and this man's story
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: is absolutely pohokey. I've never been to po Hookey in Florida,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: but it's ranked the worst place in Florida, so I'm
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: just assuming it has to be pretty bad. And when
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I hear what Dick Decker was arrested for, I have
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: to think to myself, wt F, what the Florida? All right,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry Florida, but you all have reached the level
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: of crazy that when we hear certain stories, we say
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: to ourselves, oh, he must be from Florida. When I
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: told the story to the room this morning. It was like,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: what had happened Florida. No, Dick Deckie is not from Florida,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: He's from New Jersey, but he's just pulled a Florida move. Now, unfortunately,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: there's no news report for this story yet, and I'm
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: highly disappointed because I love when it's news reports about
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: nutass news like this scene. According to the New Jersey Herald,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, wanted to have sex,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: and I guess there was some fine things on a
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: farm in Jersey that caught his eye. Oh. Yes, parts
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: of Jersey definitely have farmland. In Sussex County is one
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: of those places. People work on these farms, they live
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: on these farms, and Dick Decker was in the need
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: of some sexual healing. So what Richards started doing, Okay,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: what Dick started doing is sending messages to farms and
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: horse stables in Sussex County asking if he could have sex. Now,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: I know y'all think that sounds creepy, and you should,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: because it is a random person calling you just asking
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: for sex. But look, it gets worse because see the
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: people Decker was calling or animal caregivers. And when he
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: was asking to have sex, he wasn't asking to have
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: sex with the animal caregivers. He was asking if he
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: could have sex with their horses and cows. They can't
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: make this kind of stuff up. I'm reading this in
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: the New York Post right now. Dick Decker, thirty one
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: years old, began sending the messages to Sussex County farms
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: and horse They was in twenty eighteen asking the animal
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: caregivers if he could have sex with their cows and horses. Question,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: do you think Dick Decker is a vegan? Okay, I'm
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: thinking of sexy vegan from last week. He was a
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: vegan who was sleeping with his dog. But people don't
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: eat dogs in America, so that don't count. But if
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: you were vegan having sex with cows and horses, something's
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: not adding up all right now. Dick Decker didn't take
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: the rejection kindly. He called these animal caregivers and asked
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: for consent to sleep with their cows and horses. He
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: was rejected by the farmers. So what did Dick Decker do?
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: Dick Decker sent threats back and placed homemade metal spikes
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: on their driveways. To damage their cars. In one case,
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: he threatened to beat a farmer's wife with a wooden
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: stick when denied permission to fornicate with their horses and cows,
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: and several of the property owners reported their tires have
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: been damaged by spikes. And when he was arrested and
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: police searched his home and he found a homemade twenty
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: two caliber gun, arrows would explosives attached metal spikes similar
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: to those used at the farms and posters of the
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Chick fil a Cow. I'm not making this stuff up people.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: You know what, It's time to play a game of
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: gus What Rice today now? Richard Dick Decker for thirty
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: one years old, Sussex County, New Jersey called farms and
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: after animal caregivers if he could have sex with their
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: cows and horses, and when he was rejected, resorted to violence.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Just what Rice today? Angelie, I will definitely without a hesitation,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: say he is Oldtown road white. No, actually, old time
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: rod would be black door right? Well not the remix? No, yes,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: you gotta sit the remix dj V. Richard Dick Decker,
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: thirty one years old, Sussex HNY, New Jersey called farms
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: and asked the animal care givers if he could have
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: sex with take cows and horses. When he was rejected,
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: he resorted the violence, Johns, what rights? This one's a
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: tough one. Okay, that's what's a tough one. I take
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: you try to throw me off? Come on, I got
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: him away. I gotta away. I gotta go white. You
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: know you know I'm ask Stephen Stephens, the white man
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: in the room. Stephen Richard Dick Decker, thirty one years old, Sussex,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: called farms and after animal care gives if you could
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: have sex with day cows and horses. When he was denied,
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: he resorted the violence. Guess what right today? Stephen the
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: white damon? He was white, but we don't claim him.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: We gave him up in the racial draft of two
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: thousand and nine. Okay, right, this is christ I would
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: like Stephen the white Demon, dj MP and Angelie to
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: know that they're all correct. Richard Dick Decker is Caucasian.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. The male ego is fragile
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: as it is, but the white male ego, who the
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: white male ego is fragile is eggs. That's probably why
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: eggs are white. Because white men have sex with chickens,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: all right, and then they have the white eggs, all right.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: The entitlement and the privilege that comes with being a
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: white male when you don't get your weight, even if
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: it's because someone told, you know, Dick, you can't put
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: your Richard and my horses and cows. The level of
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: entitlement one must have to think that they are wrong
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: for this, and for you to resort to violence. The
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: story really made me think of vanilla icens. You know,
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: vanilla licenses, those white male domestic terrorists who shoot things
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: up because they haven't dealt with their trauma properly, so
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: they just redistribute that pain to other people. Don't raise
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: your hand, Stephen, you're scaring me, all right. The rejection,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: the rejection that white men feel from not getting laid
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: usually results in violence. Stephen. Put you don't raise your hand.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: You raise your hands twice? Okay, this is y other
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: than other reason why Stephen, the white demon our cameraman
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: scared the hell out of me? All right? Please let
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: Kathy Griffin give Richard Dick Decker the biggest Hea Hall.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: haw Dick Decker. Hello, my name is Dick, and I
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: would like to have sexual relations with your horse and
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: your cow. Are they're available around seven thirty tonight too.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Definitely sound like our camera guy has done that before.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: But anyway, thank you for that dog kay Today. Now
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: this guy Dick Decker in his room with a big
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: bottle of Jergon's Chick fil A posts on the wall
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: getting off to the Chick fil a cow. Can you
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: imagine what is wrong with the world? What rong when
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: you were thinking of that man watching old Runs and
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: mister Edge just whacking watching the Kentucky Derby just going
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: at it. Oh my goodness. All right, keep it lock.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: We have more coming up now. It's the Breakfast Club,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. It's DJ m vy Angela Yee, Charlomagne
• 55:08
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• 55:14
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• 55:26
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• 55:33
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• 55:35
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• 55:38
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• 55:43
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• 56:03
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• 56:05
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• 56:07
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• 56:12
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• 56:15
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• 56:18
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• 56:22
  Speaker 1: where does that go? Charlie? The tryst TST TST? What
• 56:26
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• 56:30
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• 56:37
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• 56:40
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• 56:42
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• 56:46
  Speaker 1: have your own toys. No, explain what the carly redline
• 56:50
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• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I got the mold done. Yeah, I got the mold done.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: So your vagina of my vagina and my ass your vagina. No,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: I know, you just gonna say that, is it weird
• 57:08
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• 57:11
  Speaker 1: actually they're not having sex with my insides. But yeah,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: it's imaginable, but it's exted. It's just very very similar.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: It's almost just like me. Yeah, I mean, you know, yeah,
• 57:21
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• 57:23
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• 57:25
  Speaker 1: because she's like definitely one of the most mainstream people
• 57:28
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• 57:30
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• 57:33
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• 57:35
  Speaker 1: So if they see carly Red, they know carly Red.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: But now this is like just an extra, an extra
• 57:39
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• 57:40
  Speaker 1: to you, Carly Like did you test yourself and then
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: test the product to make sure it felt similar. No,
• 57:46
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• 57:49
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• 57:52
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• 57:55
  Speaker 1: of months, next couple of months. Call me stupid motiv vagina.
• 57:58
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• 58:01
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• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Kind of yeah, it's kind of like almost like a wet,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: silly putty put out. No, it doesn't go inside, it
• 58:09
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• 58:12
  Speaker 1: know if y'all know, but the beauty of vagina the inside, inside, inside,
• 58:16
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• 58:19
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• 58:22
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• 58:25
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• 58:26
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• 58:28
  Speaker 1: inside of a vagina that you okay, No, it's the outside.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: It's the look you know of the vagina that is
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: that is perfectly cast it off of carly. But the
• 58:36
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• 58:39
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• 58:40
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• 58:43
  Speaker 1: like Carly's or some of the other ones that we
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: do is just based off of that's that's actually not
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: a vagina, that's just a hole vagina shaped person for
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: certain customers that just kind of want to use the
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: product for other purposes but not necessarily a little like
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: stimulate sex with a vagina. But you all vaginas feel
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: different to you, Like just say you had your eyes closed,
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: could you tell you know your wife's vagina as opposed
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: to somebody else's. Do our all vagina is different? That
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: is such a good question we should ask them in
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: that contract contractedly obligator to say yes to that. I
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: think my wife's vagina, but I didn't know. I mean,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: there's definitely different feels, you know, and there's definitely different looks.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, I feel like, you know, tight vaginas.
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: I don't think you got a loose vagina. Drive vagina,
• 59:36
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• 59:41
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• 59:44
  Speaker 1: that makes the vagina that much better. Because I don't
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: even honestly remember any other woman I've had sex with
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: or how it felt. And I'm just being I'm being honest,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: like just with sex with my wife, you know that feeling.
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: I don't remember anything with other woman. Carli answer, what
• 1:00:00
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• 1:00:04
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• 1:00:07
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• 1:00:14
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• 1:00:22
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• 1:00:26
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• 1:00:29
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• 1:00:32
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• 1:00:36
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• 1:00:38
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• 1:00:41
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• 1:00:44
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• 1:00:47
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• 1:00:51
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• 1:00:56
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• 1:00:58
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• 1:01:01
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• 1:01:03
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• 1:01:05
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  Speaker 1: I like sex toys. I don't much. I enjoy them,
• 1:01:32
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• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: what do you use me? I use just a vibrator,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: and I like the use vibrator. Though I use it,
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: be careful you don't want to hack into it. I
• 1:01:46
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• 1:01:49
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• 1:01:54
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• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: more than men. Yeah, I would say men get intimidated
• 1:01:58
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• 1:02:00
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• 1:02:03
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• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: see Charlomagne's using the perfect products. Like if a guy
• 1:02:07
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• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: or something small or something that you can bring into
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: bed and not be intimidated by. And then the ring
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: I think you're talking about like a c ring, right, yes,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: when you put on the clotars. Yeah, but it goes
• 1:02:19
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• 1:02:25
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• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: let it sit. Are you talking about like a we
• 1:02:31
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• 1:02:32
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• 1:02:35
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• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: tell someone to definitely use as well, because like a
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: guy can wear it. It's not intimidating. It delivers pressure,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: it delivers pleasure to the guy, but you know, definitely
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: to the girl as well. I saw something, yea, this
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: is that this boom? Yeah, this is a liquid vibrator.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: It's um you just put it on and it buzzes
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: so without even it's like a cream, but without even
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: using a vibrator really, so it's a cream. You put
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: it on the clitars. Yes, if you put some on
• 1:03:00
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• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: to vibrate your lift up your lips. It won't plump
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: up a little bit on. Don't too much. I did
• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:16
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• 1:03:27
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• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: All right, we have more with Carle read when we
• 1:03:31
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  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. We have Carly Red and Chad
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: Braverman here. Now, Carly, we can't not we can't have
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: you up here. And I ask you about loving hip
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: hop and what's happening. So, yeah, I thought you gave that.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: I thought you was doing it. Nah, I'm stilling, damn
• 1:03:52
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• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: because you know, last time you were engaged and then
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: that didn't happen. So what's your relationship status? Now? I'm
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: by myself, Okay, I'm having a relationship with my toys exactly.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: How can you be your relationship with all this back?
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: He accused you of cheating though, No, he never accused
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: me of cheating, which I found him cheating, okay, because
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: he was saying usually it's a person that accuses you
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: is a person that's doing it. I found him cheating. Um.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: I Actually the girl sent me a DM of her
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: in my bedroom. That's disrespectful. Can't use your toys? No,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: that's crazy though, man, really having no reason to cheat
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: on you because you can take you with John anyway
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: he wants to exactly, No, but that's the ultimate because
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: you can't do not add No, she sent me a
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: picture of her in my bed naked. Wow, that is
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: so disrespectful. So what was your reaction when that happened?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: What did you do immediately? You'll see it the rest
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: of it, aren't you know? I can't really get into it,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: you know, Okay. I didn't know if this was gonna
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: play out on the show or this is because this
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: is real life, right, that happened in real life. So
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: what about his claims about money bag Yell? When people
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: were trying to say that you were dating him I
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't even know, money bag. I was
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: on Faith m was on Live and you were and
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: I clicked in, like, hey bro, whatever whatever, and it
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: was that's right. Never seen him a day of my life,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: never talked to him a day in my life. Nothing,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: all right. So let me ask you this, So rules
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: of being in a relationship, right, would you do that? Like,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: say you're in a relationship, you're engaged. Do you think
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: that maybe I'm not gonna click in on certain people's
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: lives because we're already over with. Okay, so that was
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: done already, but he was trying to fix it at
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: the time. He was trying to fix it though. But
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: you can't fix being in your bed. Yeah, that's that.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: You can't get another woman pregnant, Like what you can't
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: you do throughout the whole bed and move out like this.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: I never I've never been back to our house. We
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: got the house together. Now here's something we discussed for
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Seanta Waynes, and I'm hoping you can help me with this. Chad.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: She was saying that she uses um dildos and she's like,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: you know, when I have sex with a different person,
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: am I supposed to use a new dildo or do
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: I just rinse that one off and use it on
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: the next person. What's the etiquette there? I mean, I
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: think I would say use a new one, um, But
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: I think honestly, it depends on what the material the
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: product is, because like, for instance, if you're buying something
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: that's made out of silicone, it's not a porous material,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: so you can clean it completely, you can disinfect it,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: you can it's like brand new every time you do
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: clean it. So for me, I would use. Of course,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: you would say that the company that makes sex to it.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: So I mean I wanted to buy new ones every time.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: Sanitarily you can. If it's why the name Doc Johnson
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: Um company started in nineteen seventy six. Johnson at the time,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: it's like, was the second most popular surname, right, But
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: it really wasn't. I mean I don't know. My dad,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: who started the company says that's not the case, right,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: It was just Johnson's a really popular name. And then Doc.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: These used to be called Merritle aids back on the day,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: so there's a family business. Oh yeah, wow, car these
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: vagina if they won't call these vagina and the sex
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: you can go on doc Johnson dot com. Um and
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: uh go right out there, you know, search like Carly
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: Red and uh get right to the product. And then
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: the true callie got three hundred grand for her vagina
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: sex toys. Sex toys is big, I see your holidays got,
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: mister Vicious. And I'm talking about like actual sex dolls? Yeah, right?
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: Is that big now? And is that expensive? It's a
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: they're expensive. It's a pretty big business. I mean, we
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: don't do it. Actually, we do more of like the
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: strokers and the things that we have here. But um,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: it's getting more and more popular, and they're they're coming
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: down in price. Like before they used to be like
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: five grand right for like a doll. Now you can
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: get one for like maybe a thousand bucks or something.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: When you when you throw off in the do where's
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: it go? You got clean it up? Is there like
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: a little pouch? There's an exit route? All right? It's
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: not something you could pull out of it. I would
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: think and clean and then put it back in. I
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: don't know that would make sense. There's basically just like
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: an exit route, so like you can just kind of
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: clean it through there. I mean, I don't know how
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: to be honest with I've never used a doll and
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I've never we don't make them. With the strokers, I
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: can tell you can literally flip the thing inside out
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: and clean and clean it properly. There's a stroker. Yeah,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: that's a stroker. Okay, Well, thank you guys for joining us,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: Thank you for having website one more time. Doc Johnson
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: dot com thought I was gonna get out of here
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: about that. It's an undisclosed amount, I guess at this point.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I can't talk about different contracts.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: Is it out No, but it's it'll be out like within.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just asking because I was thinking, like, right, you
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: could have a line called Vicious, because when you got
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: caught with the guy or whatever and they said it
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: was a nine half due though, you replied back vicious.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: So I just think that'd be a dope brand for
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: Envy to half like that Vicious. That would be good. Yes,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: I like that name. It could be like a first
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: name vicious by Rashawn, These guys a vicious. Yes, would
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: you ever mold yourself? No? You should? You know you
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: should get now. Jason Derillo is hot right now? If
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: you saw that some cats I bought off right here,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't mold yourself. Mold myself? Three hundred grand Collie
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: got undisclosed the mouth for Safari. You're a money guy,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: right right, But thousand dollars pays for the rest of
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: the kids college. You want to get eight hundred, nine
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. You think he's worth more than Carly?
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Get out of here. Question would you mold yourself? I
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: don't have that kind of penis right button? Because wait, wait,
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: what kind of penis do you need? I don't have
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: like a big penis. I don't have a peters. I
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: don't think nobody would want to buy yah. So maybe
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: he could do like a big we ever molded somebody
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: pocket racket. He could do the pocket racket more six
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: inch dildos than we do ten inch. I'm seven inches
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: three fourth eight When just one pocket ever molded somebody's
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: rare end. Yeah, we probably molded over a thousand formers
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: in the industry over who was to get a mold?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: How long would it take to get back? Because I
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: gotta get via a birthday present? Now, oh, Christmas present.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: We're back by Christmas next to me number one? If
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: I can get it back before Christmas. In order to
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: give Envia a birthday present, I will get my ass
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: out of the real material. Like you want a working
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: model is joke. I'm not joking. He's rare. And I'll
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: see a Browns as I'm going to you put it
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: on the table and his would be like a gaping hole.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah we can do that. Yeah, we appreciate you. Guys.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: Have no ask for me. Man, That's what I'm saying.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: I've died. It's carly Red Chadd. We're gonna talk to
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: Chad for Christmas. Better not breakfasting for business. The Breakfast
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: Club the Morning, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: if you just joined us, we're asking have you ever
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: caught your parents having sex at or have your kids
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: ever caught you having sex? Now? This topic comes from
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: Shout to the Bully and the Beast podcast. Lorille and
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: Waxes played audio have you ever been caught by plenty plenty?
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: I got called plenty of that. I gotta called my
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: mom's grandmom's brothers. So with my friend two o'clock in
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: the morning, I was just saying I was in a
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: room with a door that was in locked. My son
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: comes in because I guess he heard some noise. All
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: I hear is Mommy, that is very inappropriate. I'm calling
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: my mom. Good did your friends say? He was like?
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: He was like, you should have yelled at him so
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: he could think something's wrong. I'm like, I was in shock.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five five one oh five.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: One of my kids have never walked in and caught us,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: but my daughter has texted us as the guys, I'm
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: still up. Guys, you checked your text during sex. Now
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: this was after when we checked in. You can see
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: the text up was like, guys, I'm still up. The
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: next one she asked, Mommy, Mommy, what was you doing
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: the daddy last night? He was making so much noise
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: up it sound like he was in Yeah. Have you
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: ever caught your parent type of sex? I think so.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: I never walked in on them, but I've heard them,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: and it's because I was sneaking downstairs in the house.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: My room was all the way on the third floor,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: so I was creeping downstairs past their room. The door
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: was closed and I heard some conversation. It didn't sound
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: like it was fun, though, what conversation did you hear?
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: It sound like they were having sex, but you know
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: how like you're tired and you don't really feel like it.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like. Okay, what about you, Charlemagne? No,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: I think I don't remember. I mean, I might have
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: caught my parents having sex one time, but it wasn't
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: like a caught thing. It's like, you know, you used
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: to have a ranch style house, you know, a monk's corner,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: and you know, you walk in the door and you
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: peek in and you see them under the covers, and
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: you just back away because you know, you know you're
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: seeing something you ain't got no business in. But my
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: kids have never called me simply because I'm not poor
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: and I got locks on my door. Apologies to all
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: those who can't afford locks to get your money up.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: King I right, your kids would have never caught you
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: if you wasn't a Paul asking me who who could
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: have afford locks? I'm writing, some people out there that
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: could have afford locks, have locks on that doors, Well,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: then lock the goddamn door in. It's just that simple.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: Let's go to the full hous. Hello, who's this Hey?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: It's DJ from Houston. I'm probably CALLI but I live
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: in Houston. What's up, brother? What's going on with you?
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? Yeah? I called my parents having
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: to take boll It wasn't my parents. It was like
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: my mom's and her boyfriend. Damn. I was like nineteen,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: I really like to do. But I'm like, I knocked
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: on the door, like, hey man with like is it cool?
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: Like I gotta ask you a quasure that. She's like, Oh,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like I saw just by Wow. So dude, you
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: didn't like was knocking down your mom's and that you
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: had that image in your head forever? Was he putting
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: it down? Yeah? Bro, I still got it. I don't
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: know like it sounds like like it see Charlotte Mane.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: You always gotta ask that man what you mean? Question down? Listen.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: Mommy gotta have a life too, Bro, I'll feel you
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: on that. It sounded like it sounded like he was
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: but she was making noise. She was moaning. Yeah, Bro, Damn,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: I did knock on the door to kind of break
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: it up real quick. I don't know if you rap, bro,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: but that'd be a great rap song. Mommy moaning and
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: just the perspective of a parent kid catching their parents
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: having sex. I'm serious, Hello, who's this? Good morning? This
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: is Ricardo Henley Junior from Yanks. Ricardo Haley Junior. Man,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: you ever walked in on your parents having sex? That's
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: about Ricardo Haley Senior putting it down. Yea, I ain't
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: never seen pops old mom get it in, but I
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: got a one year role. I was giving my shorty
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: some backshots. He walked in with the sun face I'm
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: talking about. He looked shocked, like I was hurting her son.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, some nice pleasurable plane. You know
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: I was putting that pain in. But I'm saying at
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: the same time, you know, like cool, man, this is love,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: this is Did you stop? You stopped though? Yeah? Nah.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: I pulled out real quick, snatched them up, took him
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: to the crib. You know, I couldn't even bust that. Yeah,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: you gotta tell you to tell him, like, look where
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: you keep interrupting me. You're never gonna have a sibling.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: My g too, because I need a babysitter. Man, Oh
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: my god, I brother, Hello, who's this? They ain't Nicia?
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: Do you cut your parents having sexy? Your kids caught you.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: I put my pans. So what happened? You sound mad too, right?
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: And my mom was all and then she looked me
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: in my eyes. Wait wait wait, you was under the bed. Yeah,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: the my my mom, I want to know what they
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: were doing here. My mom was saying, oh, daddy, oh dad,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like black called him daddy. And I see why
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: she would saying, hold that day, you sound wild incestual
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: right now, and you wanted to see that because you
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: actually hit under the bed. And what if that man
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: would have pulled What if that man would have pulled
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: out and let that let that stuff fall towards the
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: conference and you just happened to be looking up for
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: the hold on, Charlomagne. Let me let me let you
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: know something. First of all, and you're playing the ten
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: doll and you had these we're an apartment build. Our
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: walls is really sading. You're getting stupid noises. You want
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: to be like, wait, hold on, what's going on here? No,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: you mind your business. That's that goddamn boogeyman your parents
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: keep telling you about, and that little part as the
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: book man. Hello, Well you saw the boogeyman that night.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: He was book get all over your mama, wasn't it.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: I was so traumatised, like, oh my god, like, oh
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: my god. And that was your daddy, that was your
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: mama was saying too. And when your dad was oh
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: my god, oh my god. Why are y'all so crazy?
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: Y'all crazy? It's so crazy. What's there? Listen, it's so crazy.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: I didn't wonder why I'm crazy. What's more, it's your fault.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: There's no moral of the story. These are the stories. Yeah,
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: lock the goddamn door, your pole ass lots. Ain't that expensive, bro?
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: All right? No, man, locked the goddamn door. Boy, some
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: locks from your door and locked the door before you
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: do it. It's just that simple. I put the chair
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: but behind the door something lock in. Put a chair
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: behind the door. I've done that before. Just put the
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: chair just so it makes noise so you know what's
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: going on, so they can't sneak up on you. That's
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: when you was, Paul, huh. That's when you was a pole.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: All right. We got more coming up next. At a
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: breakfast club morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now it's time
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: for that positive notes pressing positivity. Please listen man the
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: positive note. Accept responsibility for your actions. Be accountable for
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: your results. Take ownership of your mistakes. Breakfast club potition
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  Speaker 1: you don't finish