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- 0:00Speaker 1: This week on the writer Con podcast.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Clarity of your why. Writing can be tough, marketing and
- 0:07Speaker 2: publishing can be tough. So knowing what is your inspiring purpose,
- 0:12Speaker 2: your mission, so that that keeps you going and keeps
- 0:15Speaker 2: you focused.
- 0:16Speaker 1: Welcome to writer Coon, a gathering place for writers to
- 0:19Speaker 1: share their knowledge about writing and the writing world. Do
- 0:22Speaker 1: you have a desire to write? Every successful writer started
- 0:25Speaker 1: with their first book. All it takes is determination and knowledge,
- 0:29Speaker 1: and writer Con can provide that knowledge. Your hosts are
- 0:32Speaker 1: number one national best selling writer William Bernhart, author of
- 0:35Speaker 1: more than sixty books, including The Superman Wars, and Laura Bernhardt,
- 0:39Speaker 1: Award winning author of The Wantlin File series and Shadow
- 0:42Speaker 1: of the taj.
- 0:49Speaker 3: Thank you, Jesse Ulrich. Hey writers, thanks for joining us today.
- 0:53Speaker 3: Everyone on this podcast has been really busy since the
- 0:58Speaker 3: last time we recorded a podcast, right I, of course
- 1:02Speaker 3: I'm getting ready doing pr prep for The Superman Wars,
- 1:06Speaker 3: and yesterday literally as we record it. Yesterday I saw
- 1:10Speaker 3: the first early review for The Superman Wars.
- 1:13Speaker 4: And I loved it.
- 1:15Speaker 3: And what a coincidence I just happened to have it here.
- 1:19Speaker 3: Bernhardt uses narrative nonfiction to tell Siegel's story presenting the
- 1:24Speaker 3: facts in the form of a story. This really works
- 1:27Speaker 3: to put the reader into the events as they unfold.
- 1:32Speaker 3: I have no modesty, obviously, but I had to share
- 1:35Speaker 3: that is that cool?
- 1:35Speaker 4: Or what very mean?
- 1:37Speaker 5: Love?
- 1:38Speaker 3: Every other reviewer may disagree from here on out, but
- 1:41Speaker 3: at least I've got one so I can rest easy.
- 1:45Speaker 3: And Jesse, you just got back from a big cruise,
- 1:47Speaker 3: right I did.
- 1:48Speaker 1: I got back from my fifth trip on the star
- 1:51Speaker 1: Trek cruise.
- 1:53Speaker 4: I've now been assimilated. You get a jacket or something.
- 1:57Speaker 1: I got. I got a small borg mask and yeah,
- 2:03Speaker 1: and a little it's called the Cruise Collective pin. And
- 2:06Speaker 1: apparently now that you've been now I've been assimilated, they
- 2:09Speaker 1: are like special events and merch that I'll get on
- 2:11Speaker 1: future cruises. So yeah, honestly I would I'd prefer if we,
- 2:17Speaker 1: like were graduating from Starfleet Academy instead of being assimilated.
- 2:20Speaker 1: But you know, I get so.
- 2:24Speaker 4: So that just went all that c W tem drama.
- 2:27Speaker 4: I just I do that.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Listen, there's some some of the actress in that show
- 2:30Speaker 1: we're on. They literally wrapped on Saturday, got on a
- 2:33Speaker 1: got on a like a puddle jumper to catch up
- 2:35Speaker 1: to the ship. The woman who plays the cadet master,
- 2:38Speaker 1: the half but the half kling on half. Jim Hadar
- 2:43Speaker 1: was on there, and as well as like the sort
- 2:44Speaker 1: of the lead woman who is you know, a betazoid.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Those are the two, as well as Ty Newsome who's
- 2:49Speaker 1: on lower Tacks and a writer on Starfleet Academy to
- 2:52Speaker 1: Ship Commitment. Yeah, yeah, it was. They seem to have
- 2:56Speaker 1: a great time that you know. The younger actors were
- 2:59Speaker 1: a little worried. All the other guys were like, no,
- 3:00Speaker 1: this is great, Like you're gonna go to a place
- 3:03Speaker 1: where you're beloved.
- 3:06Speaker 4: And it's true. It can't go wrong. Yeah, lots of love.
- 3:10Speaker 3: Our interview today is with Carol van Denhinda. Carol is
- 3:14Speaker 3: the author of four books in the increasingly inaccurate Goodbye
- 3:19Speaker 3: Orchid trilogy. We teased her about this, you'll hear it later.
- 3:23Speaker 4: Because now there's a fourth book. See it's a prequel.
- 3:25Speaker 4: So there's four books in the trilogy. We'll call it
- 3:28Speaker 4: the Goodbye Orchid series. How about that.
- 3:31Speaker 3: These are lovely books filled with heartfelt emotion, intended to,
- 3:36Speaker 3: among other things, increase empathy for those with disabilities. We
- 3:41Speaker 3: will talk to Carol about all that and more, But
- 3:45Speaker 3: first the news news story number one. Book streaming becomes
- 4:02Speaker 3: a fad on Twitch. Just in case you don't know,
- 4:07Speaker 3: because I didn't until I found this story. Book streaming
- 4:11Speaker 3: is exactly what it sounds like someone's reading a book
- 4:14Speaker 3: aloud to you on Twitch. This fad was started by
- 4:19Speaker 3: Kai Sinat apologies if I'm mispronouncing your name, Kai, who
- 4:23Speaker 3: was Twitch's number one streamer during marathon gameplay. Sometimes he
- 4:29Speaker 3: have streams that went on for thirty days. Well he
- 4:33Speaker 3: did that for a while. He dropped out for a while,
- 4:36Speaker 3: then he returned to stream something else.
- 4:38Speaker 4: Books he.
- 4:41Speaker 3: Dived first or into self help books, reading them aloud
- 4:46Speaker 3: with a twenty minute time or set. He doesn't repronounce
- 4:51Speaker 3: or pronounce everything correctly, just as I don't. He takes
- 4:55Speaker 3: breaks sometimes to look up words he doesn't understand. But
- 5:00Speaker 3: you know, it seems very honest and very real, and
- 5:04Speaker 3: he's capturing all that on the camera.
- 5:06Speaker 4: He's being vulnerable.
- 5:07Speaker 3: It's some people say, an honest reading journey, and they've
- 5:11Speaker 3: praised him. And of course, once one person who's really
- 5:14Speaker 3: popular already does something success successfully, others will follow his lead.
- 5:20Speaker 4: And so we've now got all.
- 5:22Speaker 3: These people on Twitch where you normally see people streaming
- 5:26Speaker 3: Laura Croft or whatever. Instead they're reading books to you
- 5:30Speaker 3: or this seemed like a good idea to you, Well,
- 5:34Speaker 3: you know I.
- 5:34Speaker 5: Love reading books out loud, and now that our kids
- 5:39Speaker 5: are all grown, I don't really have a captive audience.
- 5:42Speaker 4: You could get a Twitch channel.
- 5:43Speaker 5: So maybe I could. Actually it does appeal, sounds exciting.
- 5:49Speaker 5: The one thing that worries me about it is, you know,
- 5:52Speaker 5: I get very worried about like he's talking about being
- 5:55Speaker 5: open and vulnerable and just capturing even the mistakes and everything,
- 6:00Speaker 5: and I do get very flustered when I stumble on
- 6:03Speaker 5: things I would rather I'd probably rather just record it
- 6:07Speaker 5: and go. But then again, I have stage experience, and
- 6:11Speaker 5: sometimes you just have to go with what happens.
- 6:14Speaker 4: And keep on.
- 6:17Speaker 3: Stumbling or looking up words too much when you're reading.
- 6:20Speaker 4: Just my hunch.
- 6:22Speaker 3: Wouldn't be necessary, Jesse, I know you listen to audio books.
- 6:27Speaker 3: You think you'd ever tune into this now.
- 6:30Speaker 4: Only way I tune in.
- 6:31Speaker 1: I'm thinking about doing this. This sounds fun.
- 6:34Speaker 4: You and Laura are.
- 6:35Speaker 1: Both going to do it, because one I do mispronounce,
- 6:37Speaker 1: like the thing I learned when going from reading a books,
- 6:40Speaker 1: fancy books, reading a book to listening to it is
- 6:43Speaker 1: that I get all the names of people, places and
- 6:46Speaker 1: things wrong. And I would like people to like and
- 6:50Speaker 1: I like fighting over the fact that I am doing
- 6:51Speaker 1: it wrong. I just stick to it, and so that
- 6:54Speaker 1: would be fun. And also I like I I naturally
- 6:58Speaker 1: as I get excited about something, especially if I'm reading
- 7:00Speaker 1: it autloud, to get faster, and it'd be interesting to
- 7:02Speaker 1: see if people actually.
- 7:03Speaker 4: Keep up with it.
- 7:04Speaker 1: And then, you know, especially if I was doing you know,
- 7:06Speaker 1: some of my very long Brandon Saracen books, I'd be
- 7:08Speaker 1: quitch streaming for a long time. Even if I did
- 7:10Speaker 1: it and you go thirty days, Yeah, yeah, I can
- 7:12Speaker 1: go very easy. So yeah, that'd be fun. I who
- 7:16Speaker 1: doesn't like being read to? It is there's something beautifully
- 7:20Speaker 1: nostalgic and heartfelt and warming about being read to. So yeah, Honestly,
- 7:27Speaker 1: as soon as you said it, I'm like, why did
- 7:28Speaker 1: it takes so long for this to happen?
- 7:30Speaker 3: Yes, it because they're all playing Idea, not Larcroft, whatever
- 7:35Speaker 3: video games are being played this century.
- 7:37Speaker 4: But I know Halo a lot of Yeah, there you go.
- 7:43Speaker 3: Well, Harry my son, Harry, you know has a Twitch
- 7:46Speaker 3: channel and he does a lot of the older video games.
- 7:49Speaker 4: That's a niche anyway.
- 7:51Speaker 3: Okay, new story number two, Bindery Books uses I'm sorry
- 7:57Speaker 3: in my notes i wrote sm influencers, which which sounds
- 8:01Speaker 3: like a totally different thing.
- 8:02Speaker 4: I'm talking about.
- 8:03Speaker 3: Social media influencing the missing there. Yes, Bindery Books uses
- 8:09Speaker 3: social media influencers to pick their books. Yes, it's exactly
- 8:17Speaker 3: what it sounds like. Bindery Books, which is a relatively
- 8:19Speaker 3: young company, the one founded by publishing veterans. They are
- 8:24Speaker 3: using social book influencers as acquiring editors to you know,
- 8:30Speaker 3: champion underrepresented authors and build reader engagement because who knows
- 8:35Speaker 3: better than these influencers. So basically, they've given each of
- 8:39Speaker 3: them their own imprint and say you go find books
- 8:43Speaker 3: you'd like, you'd read, your followers are read, and instead
- 8:46Speaker 3: of doing traditional pr things, they have the book influencers
- 8:51Speaker 3: who acquire the books in the first place do it
- 8:53Speaker 3: because they're the experts, right, and it seems to be
- 8:58Speaker 3: working pretty darn well. They currently have twelve imprints that
- 9:02Speaker 3: are helmed by each of them by a different book influencer, or,
- 9:07Speaker 3: as the publishers now calling them, taste makers.
- 9:11Speaker 4: Okay, either one of you. Do you follow book influencers?
- 9:16Speaker 4: Does this seem like a good idea?
- 9:19Speaker 5: I don't follow Annie. I don't have any trouble finding books.
- 9:25Speaker 4: My niece Barvius one.
- 9:26Speaker 3: Remember we've looked at It's Mandalay's something or another.
- 9:31Speaker 5: Oh yeah, dreams of mandal Yes.
- 9:35Speaker 3: Like in Rebecca Barbie Lorenz shout out. But that's the
- 9:38Speaker 3: only book influencer I know, Jesse about you.
- 9:42Speaker 4: So here's the thing.
- 9:43Speaker 1: I don't know who they are, but like on my
- 9:44Speaker 1: Facebook video feed when I got sucked into that for
- 9:46Speaker 1: twenty minutes once a day, there's occasionally, and you know,
- 9:52Speaker 1: they're usually dudes, but there's been a couple couple of
- 9:54Speaker 1: women as well where they just sort of like go
- 9:56Speaker 1: through lists of like fantasy series that they really like,
- 9:59Speaker 1: and most of the time I know half of them
- 10:01Speaker 1: and I have already read them. But every once in
- 10:03Speaker 1: a while, I'm like, that one's new, I'm gonna check
- 10:05Speaker 1: that one out. But I don't know who they are.
- 10:06Speaker 1: I don't follow them, but I do see how this
- 10:08Speaker 1: could work again, you know the whole book tok sensation.
- 10:10Speaker 1: This is like monetizing and professionalizing that sort of idea,
- 10:15Speaker 1: and we do. If you're not in the literary world,
- 10:19Speaker 1: you do have to get recommendations from somewhere, whether it's
- 10:23Speaker 1: whether it's going to Barnes and Noble and looking at covers,
- 10:25Speaker 1: or talking to people you know, or listening to people
- 10:27Speaker 1: who you think live a better life than you so
- 10:29Speaker 1: like you know, it's even though they don't and their
- 10:32Speaker 1: lives are probably actually quite miserable. You know, they're telling
- 10:35Speaker 1: you this book might be good, and you know there's
- 10:38Speaker 1: no harm in trying that. So I think, I don't
- 10:40Speaker 1: think this is a bad idea. It's just a way
- 10:42Speaker 1: of reacting to I think the market as.
- 10:44Speaker 4: It is now.
- 10:46Speaker 5: Yeh, you make a very fair point that we are
- 10:49Speaker 5: within the literary world, and we have the opportunity to
- 10:53Speaker 5: speak to so many authors and we hear about so
- 10:56Speaker 5: many books. We get those recommendations already without needing to
- 11:02Speaker 5: go look elsewhere. But not everybody has that available to them.
- 11:05Speaker 5: So I'm definitely not knocking it. I love anything that
- 11:10Speaker 5: encourages people to read more, helps connect them with books
- 11:13Speaker 5: that they will enjoy.
- 11:15Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, I think the thing I if
- 11:17Speaker 1: I understand this correctly, these social media influencers are given
- 11:22Speaker 1: the ability to find authors and then get those authors
- 11:26Speaker 1: signed to this publishing company. Is that how this works
- 11:29Speaker 1: or yeah?
- 11:30Speaker 4: I think so that's the I think that's better.
- 11:34Speaker 1: Than the way social media influencers sort of sort of
- 11:38Speaker 1: with a book talk model where they just like talk
- 11:39Speaker 1: about books that are already out for authors who could
- 11:42Speaker 1: already have like sort of their own marketing. This is
- 11:44Speaker 1: the way to is a way to grow the amount
- 11:47Speaker 1: of authors out there, and I find that to be
- 11:49Speaker 1: positive if it works the way it's supposed to do.
- 11:51Speaker 3: This time for Craft Corner, we have very good friend
- 11:55Speaker 3: of writer con Betsy Koulakowski, the author of now eight
- 12:00Speaker 3: books in the Veritas Codex series, the most recent being
- 12:07Speaker 3: The Sultan's Stone. This time she's going to talk to
- 12:10Speaker 3: you about building dread.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Craft Corner.
- 12:19Speaker 6: Hi, everyone, this is author Betsy Kolakowski, best selling author
- 12:24Speaker 6: of the Veritas Codex perormal thriller series and the Manifest
- 12:27Speaker 6: Destiny series, and I'm here with today's Craft Corner. I'm
- 12:31Speaker 6: an author who writes in and along the edges of
- 12:33Speaker 6: the horror genre, and I constantly struggled with how to
- 12:36Speaker 6: write an antagonist in a way that keeps the reader
- 12:38Speaker 6: turning the page despite their fear. It's not as easy
- 12:41Speaker 6: as splashing some blood on a scene and just hoping
- 12:43Speaker 6: for the best. What I've learned is that nothing keeps
- 12:46Speaker 6: the pages turning more than a good, hearty dose of dread.
- 12:50Speaker 6: I spent a lot of time studying the greats like
- 12:52Speaker 6: Dean Koon's and Stephen King to see how they made
- 12:55Speaker 6: me uncomfortable. What did they show and what did they
- 12:58Speaker 6: do to make me feel anxious? And I realized something
- 13:00Speaker 6: in my research is they often wait until it's almost
- 13:03Speaker 6: too late to show you their monster. Who remembers the
- 13:06Speaker 6: movie Jaws. The shark isn't shown every time, primarily because
- 13:10Speaker 6: the mechanical shark didn't work, but that doesn't mean you
- 13:13Speaker 6: don't know it's there. Instead, Steven Spielberg had to rely
- 13:16Speaker 6: heavily on other unseen cues to clue the viewer into
- 13:19Speaker 6: the fact that the shark is coming. These sudden, intense,
- 13:23Speaker 6: unseen attacks created a paralyzing fear that still has me
- 13:26Speaker 6: terrified to go in the water today. So how can
- 13:29Speaker 6: a writer's accomplish the same thing. Well, here's a few tricks.
- 13:33Speaker 6: First of all, make sure that your characters are someone
- 13:35Speaker 6: your readers genuinely care about Readers might actually end up
- 13:39Speaker 6: cheering for the villain if they don't like the character
- 13:41Speaker 6: in danger, and that's not what we hope to accomplish here.
- 13:45Speaker 6: Readers tend to like characters that are relatable, vulnerable, and human.
- 13:49Speaker 6: They don't have to be perfect. Instead, readers can relate
- 13:52Speaker 6: better if the character is flawed, because we all are.
- 13:55Speaker 6: Instead of describing the monster, focus on the physical manifestation
- 13:59Speaker 6: of the cycle, logical effects of terror in your characters,
- 14:02Speaker 6: that sudden chill, goosebumps on the flesh, the gasping for air,
- 14:06Speaker 6: the racing heart, that uncontrolled trembling, and then allow the
- 14:10Speaker 6: reader's minds to fill the gaps. Too often, I only
- 14:13Speaker 6: refer to the monster as that thing. It makes it
- 14:17Speaker 6: something so horrible that the characters can't even find the
- 14:20Speaker 6: right words within their paradigm to describe it. Seeing a
- 14:23Speaker 6: relatable character's panic makes the threat feel real and imminent.
- 14:28Speaker 6: Play on all the senses, writers, Can you sound and smell, hearing, taste,
- 14:34Speaker 6: everything like that to create audio visual cues for the reader,
- 14:38Speaker 6: and symbolism can speak volumes. In the movie Jaws, the
- 14:41Speaker 6: yellow barrels signal the shark's presence and yellow as the
- 14:44Speaker 6: color that creates a warning. If you see it in
- 14:47Speaker 6: a book or film, keep an eye on it. Symbolics
- 14:51Speaker 6: cues carry a weight that requires the reader to interpret
- 14:54Speaker 6: their significance within the context of your story. It's the
- 14:57Speaker 6: questions that readers want answers to that keeps them turning
- 15:01Speaker 6: the page. So build suspense by slowing down time. In thrillers,
- 15:05Speaker 6: we tend to write short, clip sentences to drive the action. However,
- 15:09Speaker 6: when the danger is real, I like to use long,
- 15:11Speaker 6: complex sentences to drag out those moments of anticipation, then
- 15:15Speaker 6: switch to a short, punchy sentence when the threat finally strikes.
- 15:19Speaker 6: As a reader, I hate red herrings when they're not
- 15:22Speaker 6: well done or too trophy. However, as a writer, I
- 15:25Speaker 6: try to use several red herring moments to make the
- 15:28Speaker 6: reader expect danger that turns out to be something more innocuous.
- 15:32Speaker 6: This conditions the reader into remaining on edge and making
- 15:36Speaker 6: the actual encounter much more impactful. Fear is heightened when
- 15:40Speaker 6: there's no chance for escape. Create anticipation by leaving your
- 15:45Speaker 6: characters alone with no hope of rescue. Let the reader
- 15:49Speaker 6: in on what's happening before the characters know this creates
- 15:52Speaker 6: a sensation that amplifies the audience's dread. I remember when
- 15:57Speaker 6: we saw Johs in the theater when I was a kid,
- 15:59Speaker 6: and I remember people yelling at the screen, there's the shark.
- 16:02Speaker 6: The shark is coming.
- 16:03Speaker 5: Look out? How is seven?
- 16:05Speaker 6: When I saw that movie, and I still remember how
- 16:07Speaker 6: the audience reacted. I also like to make the unusual unsettling.
- 16:13Speaker 6: There's nothing more dangerous than the familiar when it's behaving strangely.
- 16:17Speaker 6: Authomonic Sneyman puts it best, Dred lives in the spaces
- 16:21Speaker 6: between certainty and confusion. By writing around the monster rather
- 16:25Speaker 6: than showing it, you can tap into that universal fear
- 16:29Speaker 6: of the unknown. Dread should be a slow burn that
- 16:32Speaker 6: starts with a bump in the dark. It's the truth
- 16:35Speaker 6: your character is not ready to acknowledge. Gore is easy,
- 16:39Speaker 6: Dread is hard. Dread doesn't rely on shock or gore.
- 16:42Speaker 2: It plays on the.
- 16:43Speaker 6: Imagination and genuine emotion.
- 16:46Speaker 5: So go for the heart and let the reader squirm.
- 16:49Speaker 6: Dread isn't what you show, that's.
- 16:51Speaker 5: What you don't.
- 16:53Speaker 3: See you all next time, Thank you if you, Betsy Kulakowski.
- 17:02Speaker 3: Now let's talk to Carol Vanden Hinda, Carol Vandenhinta.
- 17:10Speaker 4: Welcome to the podcast.
- 17:14Speaker 2: Thanks so much.
- 17:14Speaker 5: It's great to be here.
- 17:16Speaker 4: So glad to have you here.
- 17:17Speaker 1: All right.
- 17:18Speaker 3: Traditional first question, if you could offer writers one piece
- 17:22Speaker 3: of advice, what would it be?
- 17:26Speaker 2: Clarity of your why. Writing can be tough, marketing and
- 17:31Speaker 2: publishing can be tough. So knowing what is your inspiring purpose,
- 17:35Speaker 2: your mission, so that that keeps you going and keeps
- 17:38Speaker 2: you focused. And there's a very simple question. Writers can
- 17:42Speaker 2: ask themselves, what is the reason I do what I
- 17:45Speaker 2: do beyond the obvious profit or functional purposes. And it's
- 17:51Speaker 2: a layered question to really try to get to your
- 17:54Speaker 2: true why.
- 17:56Speaker 4: Nice, Nice, tell.
- 17:59Speaker 3: Us how, and I know I'm well aware that you
- 18:02Speaker 3: do many things, but tell us how you got started writing.
- 18:08Speaker 2: I started writing as a place of solace for myself
- 18:11Speaker 2: during a difficult time in our family, and I was
- 18:14Speaker 2: inspired by stories of wounded veterans and that's what created
- 18:18Speaker 2: the impetus to craft this character, Phoenix Walker, who suffers
- 18:24Speaker 2: injuries similar to that of wounded veterans and allows me
- 18:27Speaker 2: to shine a light on characters with disabilities. I initially
- 18:31Speaker 2: thought I was writing for myself, but when I joined
- 18:34Speaker 2: a critique group and was able to bring a table
- 18:36Speaker 2: full of authors to tears with the storyline and with
- 18:40Speaker 2: my writing, I started to pursue the path of publication.
- 18:45Speaker 5: That's very inspiring. I like how you talk about it
- 18:49Speaker 5: was a source of solace for you, because my actual
- 18:53Speaker 5: first book was written the same way. I actually wrote
- 18:56Speaker 5: pieces of it while I was in oh our writing room,
- 19:00Speaker 5: or you know, things, something that it would I could
- 19:03Speaker 5: have control over, and it would and it would also
- 19:06Speaker 5: kind of take me away from some of the difficulties
- 19:09Speaker 5: that I was going through at the time. So is
- 19:13Speaker 5: that kind of what happened with Goodbye Orchid, is that
- 19:17Speaker 5: you were going through some of the same issues or
- 19:19Speaker 5: you had someone that you know who was going through
- 19:23Speaker 5: some issues.
- 19:26Speaker 2: Yeah, there were definitely there were issues in our family
- 19:29Speaker 2: with one of our sons, and writing did give me
- 19:32Speaker 2: so much solace. You know what's been so rewarding since then,
- 19:36Speaker 2: and you've probably found this with your writing as well.
- 19:39Speaker 2: Is I love those times that readers tell me that
- 19:42Speaker 2: the storytelling also brings them solace, deepens their empathy.
- 19:47Speaker 5: Absolutely.
- 19:48Speaker 2: They had readers tell me because of the injuries that
- 19:50Speaker 2: my main character, Phoenix faces, that it has actually changed
- 19:54Speaker 2: the way they think about people's disabilities. A long woman
- 19:58Speaker 2: said she was on a blind date with a guy
- 20:00Speaker 2: who told her that he had a prosthetic leg, and
- 20:04Speaker 2: she decided in that moment not to see him again,
- 20:06Speaker 2: that she couldn't deal with it. But now, after reading
- 20:10Speaker 2: Good By Orchid, she said she would have made a
- 20:12Speaker 2: different decision if she could go back.
- 20:14Speaker 5: In time changing the world. That's the best kind of feedback. Absolutely. Yeah.
- 20:19Speaker 3: On your website you talk about your work is stories
- 20:22Speaker 3: for Good. I assume is this more or less what
- 20:26Speaker 3: you're talking about.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a tagline that I have the trademark
- 20:32Speaker 2: actually stories for Good well, because I do believe storytelling
- 20:37Speaker 2: can do good in the world. He puts us in
- 20:40Speaker 2: other people's shoes. There are studies that say that writing
- 20:46Speaker 2: is a thing that connects readers to authors in a
- 20:50Speaker 2: way that's neurological. They've done MRI scans, and the same
- 20:54Speaker 2: places that light up in a writer's brain when they're
- 20:56Speaker 2: writing a scene are the same places that light up
- 20:58Speaker 2: in a reader's brain. It is about as close as
- 21:01Speaker 2: you can get to a brained brain connection. So what
- 21:05Speaker 2: a lovely just to have out in the world and
- 21:07Speaker 2: literature truly connects us.
- 21:10Speaker 5: That's fantastic. Now you've also done a great deal of
- 21:15Speaker 5: public speaking. How did you get started doing that?
- 21:21Speaker 2: In my day job, I certainly do speak on behalf
- 21:24Speaker 2: of the ethics of AI is actually my day job,
- 21:27Speaker 2: the responsible AI and so and I've had careers in
- 21:31Speaker 2: marketing and strategy and insights as well as digital transformation.
- 21:36Speaker 2: And so I found when I joined the writer community
- 21:40Speaker 2: that a lot of writers come for the love of
- 21:42Speaker 2: the written word, but they don't realize they also need
- 21:45Speaker 2: to be business people and marketers and publicity specialists. And
- 21:49Speaker 2: so I started speaking at writers' conferences as a way
- 21:52Speaker 2: to give back to the writer community, to teach about
- 21:56Speaker 2: author brand, to teach about visual identity, to teach about marketing,
- 22:00Speaker 2: and really loved connecting with writers in that way.
- 22:06Speaker 4: Nice.
- 22:07Speaker 3: Now I read also on your web page that you've
- 22:11Speaker 3: done a lot of work for the Mars Corporation. Is
- 22:14Speaker 3: that the one that you're with now or that you
- 22:16Speaker 3: were referencing? And most importantly, I just want to know
- 22:20Speaker 3: that if you does that mean you get Milky Ways.
- 22:23Speaker 4: For life or.
- 22:28Speaker 2: It is a wonderful purpose driven company in which at
- 22:32Speaker 2: my office there's a vending machine every slot is free
- 22:36Speaker 2: if you can pare yourself away from the vending machine
- 22:39Speaker 2: full of slickers. And oh the Milky Way threw Musketeers
- 22:43Speaker 2: right next to it as a freezer full of ice cream,
- 22:46Speaker 2: Dove ice cream, Eminem's ice cream sandwiches, so it for life.
- 22:54Speaker 4: Oh that's beautiful.
- 22:56Speaker 2: These are custom eminems in the colors of my covers
- 22:59Speaker 2: with my.
- 23:00Speaker 5: As I recognized it, Oh wow, I love it.
- 23:04Speaker 2: People who meet me at personal events will get a
- 23:07Speaker 2: little something sweet.
- 23:09Speaker 5: Oh sweet, little treat to go along with your book.
- 23:12Speaker 5: I love it. Well, what is that where you've done?
- 23:16Speaker 5: Like your marketing mark er, you've shifted into AI work
- 23:19Speaker 5: at the Mars Corporation.
- 23:23Speaker 2: So my career has been in digital transformation and then
- 23:28Speaker 2: also once I got my MBA, I moved into marketing
- 23:31Speaker 2: and I spent years marketing brands, leading brand groups on
- 23:37Speaker 2: em and M's Twigs, Three Musketeers, Milky Way, Dove Chocolate
- 23:41Speaker 2: in North America and in Asia. And I've also had
- 23:44Speaker 2: roles in corporate strategy, insights, competitive intelligence. And as I
- 23:49Speaker 2: was doing the corporate work, it led me full circle
- 23:52Speaker 2: back to my initial career in digital. I was starting
- 23:56Speaker 2: to govern digital transformation and as I thought about myself
- 24:00Speaker 2: really is a purpose driven leader. I found this intersection
- 24:03Speaker 2: of ethics in AI to be an area where I
- 24:05Speaker 2: could really contribute. It's an area very interesting, fast changing,
- 24:10Speaker 2: and of course, as you know, implications for the author
- 24:12Speaker 2: world as well.
- 24:14Speaker 5: Wow, how do you find time to write? Like You've
- 24:19Speaker 5: got so much going on? Listening to that like it
- 24:22Speaker 5: sounds like you stay very busy. You've earned your MBA.
- 24:25Speaker 5: How do you do it?
- 24:28Speaker 2: A lot of people ask that question. I have two answers. One,
- 24:31Speaker 2: my debut novel, Goodbye Orchid, is dedicated to my husband,
- 24:35Speaker 2: and he does so much to help me have an
- 24:39Speaker 2: author life. He takes care of a lot of things
- 24:41Speaker 2: around the household that he doesn't to help me be
- 24:44Speaker 2: the best person I can be. But the second answer
- 24:47Speaker 2: is that first place we started when I talked about
- 24:51Speaker 2: the author why that's not just advice I give to
- 24:54Speaker 2: other authors, but it's advice I take myself. And when
- 24:57Speaker 2: I asked myself that inspiring purpose question, why do I
- 25:01Speaker 2: do what I do beyond the obvious profit and functional purposes?
- 25:04Speaker 2: My answer is to inspire hope and empathy for people
- 25:08Speaker 2: and planet. The writing helps me do that, but also
- 25:11Speaker 2: the ethics of AI and other things like volunteering on
- 25:16Speaker 2: boards for nonprofits.
- 25:19Speaker 5: Fantastic. When you do sit down to write, can you
- 25:25Speaker 5: talk us through what your writing process is like. Are
- 25:28Speaker 5: you somebody who kind of maps everything out? Do you
- 25:33Speaker 5: have an outline? What does your process look like?
- 25:39Speaker 2: Typically? I have a sense of the beginning and the end.
- 25:43Speaker 2: So in the beginning, who are these characters, what makes
- 25:46Speaker 2: them compelling, what's the conflict, what do they try to overcome,
- 25:50Speaker 2: what's keeping them from overcoming it, including their own internal misconceptions,
- 25:54Speaker 2: And then I have a sense of where the story's going.
- 25:57Speaker 2: I don't plot everything in between, although I have tried
- 26:00Speaker 2: it before, And what I find is I discover along
- 26:04Speaker 2: the way, and it happens quite organically from the characters
- 26:08Speaker 2: and from what's true about the characters. And I find,
- 26:11Speaker 2: even if I were to plot in advance, that things
- 26:14Speaker 2: would take me by surprise as I go, and that
- 26:17Speaker 2: the characters find a way to tell me where they
- 26:20Speaker 2: think they should be going.
- 26:23Speaker 5: I find that fascinating. So you would probably categorize yourself
- 26:27Speaker 5: as a pantser versus a planner, don't you think?
- 26:32Speaker 2: Yes? So I would say that's more pantsing, although I
- 26:35Speaker 2: certainly admire plotting and think it makes sense from a
- 26:39Speaker 2: conceptual standpoint. It hasn't worked for me in a primatic
- 26:42Speaker 2: way yet.
- 26:43Speaker 5: That's so funny, you know. I think it just depends
- 26:45Speaker 5: on how like how left brain or right brain people are.
- 26:49Speaker 5: We talk to so many people, and we have some
- 26:52Speaker 5: who absolutely strictly outline and have everything mapped out with
- 26:59Speaker 5: the understand ending, and they give themselves the freedom to
- 27:03Speaker 5: discover and adapt as things go, because as we write,
- 27:07Speaker 5: as you know, we're going to find new things that
- 27:09Speaker 5: we want to incorporate. And then we have some who
- 27:14Speaker 5: really don't plan anything, and then the wide, wide variety
- 27:17Speaker 5: in between. So I'm very, very fascinated by that. I
- 27:21Speaker 5: like to ask everybody about it.
- 27:23Speaker 4: M hmm.
- 27:25Speaker 3: Well, Carol, you've got four books in the Goodbye Orchid
- 27:30Speaker 3: trilogy right increasingly and accurately titled I know'quel What next.
- 27:44Speaker 3: The daughter Katie created the graphic that we'll use with
- 27:52Speaker 3: this podcast, and she texted me back and said, those
- 27:56Speaker 3: covers are beautiful.
- 27:57Speaker 5: Yes, yes, you should show Yeah, please feel.
- 28:01Speaker 2: She said that, And there's also hidden Easter egg design
- 28:04Speaker 2: details and the shattered orchids are not only on the
- 28:06Speaker 2: front but on the bottom right here to shatter here
- 28:12Speaker 2: to get to the darkest points of story, and then
- 28:14Speaker 2: they visually come together. So there's a lot of hidden
- 28:16Speaker 2: Easter egg design details and this one as well, with
- 28:19Speaker 2: the sprayed edges, the floral full color interior edges, it's
- 28:24Speaker 2: really funny. So I've shifted now from the original three
- 28:29Speaker 2: book trilogy, which was fictional, into nonfiction. My latest is
- 28:34Speaker 2: memoir or true stories told in a pistolary format, and
- 28:38Speaker 2: I actually think it's allowing me to pivot genre a bit,
- 28:42Speaker 2: and so I'm working on what the next concept is.
- 28:45Speaker 2: I don't have a specific concept to be able to share,
- 28:48Speaker 2: but I am sure that what where my heart's going
- 28:52Speaker 2: to go will need to be consistent with that desire
- 28:55Speaker 2: to inspire hope into empathy for people and planet, to
- 28:58Speaker 2: be able to have very deep meaning in it, even
- 29:02Speaker 2: while the storytelling is page turning and entertaining perfect populous Caerl.
- 29:09Speaker 3: This has been a treat. Thank you so much for
- 29:11Speaker 3: joining us on the podcast.
- 29:13Speaker 2: Really, it's been wonderful. Nice seeing you both.
- 29:17Speaker 5: Nice to see you again, Bye bye.
- 29:26Speaker 4: Just a few parting words.
- 29:29Speaker 3: I believe that when this is released and you are
- 29:32Speaker 3: listening it to it for the first time. If you
- 29:34Speaker 3: listen on the day, we will be on the writer
- 29:37Speaker 3: Con Cruise. So I'm sorry too late, but you know
- 29:41Speaker 3: what is coming up. The writer Con Retreat July fifteenth
- 29:45Speaker 3: through nineteenth the Cane Break Resort not far from Tulsa.
- 29:50Speaker 3: We take a small group of people and spend five
- 29:53Speaker 3: days with them teaching, editing, interacting, critiquing, trying to give
- 29:59Speaker 3: you direct one on one feedback about your books. And
- 30:03Speaker 3: then of course the big event, the conference this year
- 30:06Speaker 3: again in Oklahoma City at the Scurvin Hotel.
- 30:10Speaker 4: It's August.
- 30:12Speaker 3: No, this year, it's September fourth through seventh. That's right,
- 30:16Speaker 3: It's Labor Day weekend. It always is. And I'm pretty
- 30:20Speaker 3: excited about this. We have more headliners, more agents, more, more,
- 30:25Speaker 3: more than we've ever had before. And it was pretty
- 30:28Speaker 3: good before, but now was going to be even better. Lara,
- 30:32Speaker 3: what are you thinking about this year?
- 30:36Speaker 5: I want to add more badge ribbons, that is, That's
- 30:41Speaker 5: what I'm talking about right now, and already starting to
- 30:44Speaker 5: think about what might go into the swag bags. And
- 30:50Speaker 5: I'm just excited to meet some new people. It grows
- 30:53Speaker 5: every year. I was blown away with some of the
- 30:56Speaker 5: talent that found us last year, and I'm very hopeful
- 31:00Speaker 5: that we will not only see all of the same
- 31:03Speaker 5: friends again, but meet some new ones as well.
- 31:06Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, so put that on your calendars. Writer Con
- 31:12Speaker 3: is on Labor Day weekends September fourth through seventh, and
- 31:16Speaker 3: you gotta learn more about it at writercon dot com.
- 31:19Speaker 3: All Right, until next time, keep writing and remember you
- 31:24Speaker 3: cannot fail.
- 31:25Speaker 4: If you refuse to quit. See you next time.