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Losing It with Colton Underwood · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: I almost famous podcast with on our radio. Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: it almost doesn't even get nervous anymore. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: we're just pros. You've gotten nervous for the past almost
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  Speaker 1: two years. Yeah. I give really anxious sometimes for this thing.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes we just have really big guests on. I don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like we have that today, so um. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you have such a big guests on that I
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  Speaker 1: get like my hands a little sweaty. We want to
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  Speaker 1: reduce our guests a little bit. But before we do that, actually,
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  Speaker 1: and I got it round down through this episode. The
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor season had started this episode two of Colton season
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  Speaker 1: to find love, um Ashley. Yeah, let's start with the
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  Speaker 1: first group date. The first group rate from episode two.
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  Speaker 1: From episode two, Okay, what do you think? So again?
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  Speaker 1: I thought that the Megan allowed Mallowe and nick Offerman thing,
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  Speaker 1: it's kinda yucky. I didn't. I didn't love their part.
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  Speaker 1: I loved the part when the girls started getting on
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  Speaker 1: stage the redhead a lease Hers was bomb. I thought
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  Speaker 1: Colton's was awesome. Colton's part of that date made all
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  Speaker 1: the virginity talk tasteful, But Megan, Mallowy, nick Offermand made
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  Speaker 1: it so cringe e. I was like frowning through the
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  Speaker 1: entire thing. I just didn't like it. It was so
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  Speaker 1: not Bachelor, you know, it wasn't wholesome at all. And
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  Speaker 1: they're funny, like they're witty, they're funny, they work off
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  Speaker 1: each other well. And I'm sure like if you were there,
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  Speaker 1: probably uh felt like a little more like less like
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  Speaker 1: just intrusive and more like flowy and fun. I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: I love dates on The Bachelor that first off put
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  Speaker 1: people out of their comfort zones, but second off, you
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  Speaker 1: actually get to like, I know them as people. And
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  Speaker 1: I thought this when I first heard the idea when
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  Speaker 1: they when they first announced though, this is a date
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  Speaker 1: to talk about your first I was like, this is ridiculous. Same,
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  Speaker 1: but then when the women got on stage, it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: just about virginity and it wasn't just about sex, and
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  Speaker 1: it didn't have to be about that. It was like,
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  Speaker 1: here's my first time feeling pain, here's my first time
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  Speaker 1: feeling love, here's my first time whatever. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I love. And I bet, uh, if
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  Speaker 1: we ever get the chance to talk to Colton, I
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  Speaker 1: bet like that was a really good moment for him
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  Speaker 1: because I know when I was the bachelor, those moments
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  Speaker 1: broke through like the traditional kind of uh dates and
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  Speaker 1: allowed you to get to know the women really well.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Ben, It kind of reminded me of what
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  Speaker 1: I've always told you was the moment that I thought
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  Speaker 1: you shine for the first time. It was the sex
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  Speaker 1: talk date with the kids, and it's like it's like
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  Speaker 1: a it's like a it's a sex topic, right, But
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  Speaker 1: then you made it so wholesome and that's what the
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  Speaker 1: girls on stage and Colton on the stage did. But
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  Speaker 1: I thought Nick and Megan, I thought she looked fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't think they're bit went well. She did
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  Speaker 1: look good. I've never thought she looked good. She looked good.
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  Speaker 1: She looked hot, like she's like really aging. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Nick kind of looked good too. He's a funny guy.
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  Speaker 1: Was with him at the Cubs game. Watch he's a
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  Speaker 1: Cubs fan, so I like him. Um, he looked good too. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the women shine. We were getting a little
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  Speaker 1: hit here. Actually, we're starting to see that some of
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  Speaker 1: the crazies come out before we move on to the
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  Speaker 1: next date here, what's your thoughts? Is Demmi crazy? Is
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  Speaker 1: she just obsessed with Colton? What is her thing? Because
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  Speaker 1: we haven't quite like, it's not very clear yet. Demi
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  Speaker 1: is the classic girl who's like, I'm so mature even
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  Speaker 1: though I'm young. But she's definitely the most immature of
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  Speaker 1: the group. Yeah, it's weird, and she keeps wanting to
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  Speaker 1: bring it up. It makes it feel a little awkward.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's move on. We've got then the first
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  Speaker 1: one on one date. Uh. Really hard to watch, like
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  Speaker 1: really hard to watch. I hate when the Bachelor makes
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  Speaker 1: things awkward, Like I mean, and I'm sure it was
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  Speaker 1: awkward in real life. I'm sure it felt weird in
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  Speaker 1: real life, but when you watch it on TV and
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  Speaker 1: it's like played out and there's just moments of silence
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  Speaker 1: where you're sitting in a room watching a television screen.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have said it many times and everybody on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast listening will know this. You know, those moments
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  Speaker 1: like watching Saved by the Bell as a kid, we
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  Speaker 1: have to put your hand over your face and you
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  Speaker 1: kind of look through your fingers because you can't watch anymore.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I felt. Okay, so I tried to put
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  Speaker 1: myself in Hannah's shoes, and I remember how awkward those
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  Speaker 1: particular gular dates are because it's dead silent, like you're
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  Speaker 1: not even like by the ocean where there's sound of
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  Speaker 1: waves like there was just it was just desolate silence.
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  Speaker 1: And then I don't think it always makes you feel
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  Speaker 1: more awkward and more self conscious about everything that comes
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  Speaker 1: out of your mace, your mouth. So I'm giving her
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  Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt. There, I get it. I
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  Speaker 1: do have to give Colton credit here, and I have
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  Speaker 1: to give her credit. This is something that I that
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  Speaker 1: I really think was good. I was waiting to see
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  Speaker 1: what how coltoner to respond um to these situations like this.
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  Speaker 1: Do you kiss right away. So as soon as it
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  Speaker 1: starts eating quiet, do you lean in and just start
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  Speaker 1: making out? Because he did it. He did it, not
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  Speaker 1: on this date. He did one other time, but on
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  Speaker 1: this date he held his own and just sat in it.
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  Speaker 1: He sat in the awkwardness. And I think that was
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  Speaker 1: a power. I think it's a great move for both
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  Speaker 1: of them, like, let's just sit here and make this
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  Speaker 1: thing work and if it's not, then we're just done. Yeah. Well,
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  Speaker 1: what got her out of her shell to open up was,
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  Speaker 1: of course, bringing up the virginity topic again. Really, we
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  Speaker 1: thought we already got the explanation as to why he's
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  Speaker 1: a virgin in episode one from a girl whose name
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  Speaker 1: I don't remember. But I thought we got like the
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  Speaker 1: explanation and we were gonna have to explain it anymore
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  Speaker 1: and it was going to be done. And then I
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  Speaker 1: was even thinking. I was like, I think we've gone
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  Speaker 1: ten fifteen minutes without bringing up the word virgin, and
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  Speaker 1: there she goes. That was her in on getting herself
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  Speaker 1: to open up, and I was just like, come on,
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  Speaker 1: be more creative than that. You totally took like the
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  Speaker 1: easy way out. But Ashley, listen, did she get the explanation.
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  Speaker 1: So she so she didn't see it. I get why
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  Speaker 1: she asked. It's the thing but coldness. So many things
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  Speaker 1: going for him, And ask him about his big muscles,
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  Speaker 1: ask him about you know, his perfect jawline, Like, ask
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  Speaker 1: him something else. Don't ask him about being a virgin.
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  Speaker 1: It's that you just be creative, like she knows everybody
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  Speaker 1: else is asking it. And if I was a girl
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  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor right now, I just try to get
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  Speaker 1: creative for me too, Like how about you come up
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  Speaker 1: with something like what's your most embarrassing moment? Like that
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  Speaker 1: that opens up a vulnerable story. Yeah, I'm not against it,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Next group date, moving on here, Um, you
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  Speaker 1: like this group date? I like the first group date,
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  Speaker 1: but I liked I like these physical activity group dates.
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  Speaker 1: I like the ones that people can get sweaty, dirty,
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  Speaker 1: and that you know what, it kind of breaks down
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  Speaker 1: those walls as well. Yeah, I like the first one
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  Speaker 1: better because it's more like an emotional opener. But and
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  Speaker 1: you you can tell more about the personality. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: you know that I'm not a lover of physical group dates,
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  Speaker 1: but I loved head. There's a moment on this group date.
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  Speaker 1: It was so cute. I don't know why she was
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  Speaker 1: so nervous telling Colton that she's never been kissed before,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure he was going to feel a
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  Speaker 1: big sense of relief that there was somebody there that
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  Speaker 1: was more inexperience than him, more pure than the guy himself.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm telling you, I was kissing girls in
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  Speaker 1: the sixth grade. Like how she's made it this long,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but good on her any time. Those
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  Speaker 1: two always come up like pretty proud of them. But
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  Speaker 1: my first kiss was nineteen, so I was like, girl,
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  Speaker 1: don't worry, And I'm gonna definitely ask Calton this if
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  Speaker 1: we ever have him on one his first kissed us. Uh. Well,
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  Speaker 1: lucky enough, um, lady and gentlemen, boys and girls, people
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  Speaker 1: of all ages. Ashley and I are lucky enough to
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  Speaker 1: welcome on the guest to this podcast, the man himself,
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor of all time. Why do you think that
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  Speaker 1: his secret the entire time? It's in the description of
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  Speaker 1: the podcast. We're just so corny. I was just sitting
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  Speaker 1: here listening you compliment me on my Yeah. Well, don't listen,
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  Speaker 1: all yeah, don't listen all that. Colton, Welcome to the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on. Take a deep breath. I know
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  Speaker 1: you've got a busy day. You've been doing press and
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  Speaker 1: and you know all this promotion stuff for weeks now,
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  Speaker 1: and so just hang out with Ashley. Now you've been
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  Speaker 1: on before your pro at this. Uh, let's get started.
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  Speaker 1: Are you holding up? You know? I'm actually I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: I got these last two days, I got some sleep,
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  Speaker 1: so we're all good. Traveling back and forth obviously is tough,
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  Speaker 1: but I actually enjoy it. I really like the hustle
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  Speaker 1: on the grind. Do you really like tell the listeners
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  Speaker 1: out there. I know actually can relate on this, but
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  Speaker 1: tell the listeners out there kind of what your schedule
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  Speaker 1: has looked like post Bachelor. Yeah, Um, there's been obviously
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  Speaker 1: set press days here in l A. Whether it's conference calls,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's um remotes where you just have a camera
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  Speaker 1: and other people like sort of tap into the feed. Um,
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  Speaker 1: it's long hours. I'm not gonna lie. And then it's
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  Speaker 1: always you always have to be on right And not
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  Speaker 1: that I change who I am, but when you're on
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  Speaker 1: in present, and you know, if I do an interview
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  Speaker 1: and I like look tired and dragging, like they could
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  Speaker 1: take my comments and twist them another way. Um, so
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  Speaker 1: that parts, I guess like a little exhausting, going back
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  Speaker 1: and forth between New York and moraining thing. Yes, it's
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  Speaker 1: just turning yourself on. It's like I love this, but
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  Speaker 1: it's not like you're changing who you are. But it's
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  Speaker 1: like happy having to be bubbly and happy all the
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  Speaker 1: time always. But um no, I'm I got lots of sleep.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to be happy and bubbly for you guys today,
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  Speaker 1: She's turn it off. Man, we want the worst version
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  Speaker 1: of you. That would be so well for us if
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  Speaker 1: we could just get you angry and mad and irritated.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I can ever be mad at you. Ben, Well,
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  Speaker 1: come on, let's not. Let's not start throwing compliments there,
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  Speaker 1: even though, man, you look good right now. Hey, um
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  Speaker 1: we're sitting in this is one thing I do want
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  Speaker 1: to take a second. Cool and this is all about you,
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  Speaker 1: and this whole season is about you. It should be
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  Speaker 1: about you. This podcast about you. Last night I literally
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  Speaker 1: make our living because of you. Right now, but thank you, Calton,
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  Speaker 1: I do want to take a second. And you brought
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  Speaker 1: up a really good topic that we sit and we
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  Speaker 1: use Ryan create a Seacrest Studio for this podcast right
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  Speaker 1: and we're sitting in there right now. There's a big
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  Speaker 1: sign of his name being. You know, you aren't an
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  Speaker 1: entertainment Like, you're not an entertainer. You are yourself on
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  Speaker 1: this show and people love you because you're yourself, and
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  Speaker 1: you're dating these women because you're yourself. But when you
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  Speaker 1: do the press and you do talk to people, you
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  Speaker 1: have to be like, you can't have a bad day.
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  Speaker 1: And like the Ryan Seacrest of the world, they do
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  Speaker 1: radio and TV every day, they can't have a bad day.
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  Speaker 1: I need to ask you, Colden, like is it at
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  Speaker 1: all draining on you? And and I be honest, like
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  Speaker 1: do you feel like at all? Because I know for
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  Speaker 1: me when I was in your situation, I felt like
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  Speaker 1: at some level my soul wasn't getting sucked, but I
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  Speaker 1: just couldn't be myself and it hurt and it started
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  Speaker 1: to feel like I was a robot. And I've had
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  Speaker 1: my days. I've had my my breakdowns, Like I'll self
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  Speaker 1: admit that whether it's um and you know, I try
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  Speaker 1: to say like and I've even said before like, oh
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  Speaker 1: I don't pay attention to that. Yeah I'm lying. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I've read the comments, I've read the tweets.
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  Speaker 1: I've yeah, I've read things I probably should have stayed
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  Speaker 1: away from. So of course it gets to be too
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  Speaker 1: much at times. Um And I think the one thing
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  Speaker 1: that I have to keep reminding myself is like this
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  Speaker 1: doesn't like this all right now is so much fun
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  Speaker 1: and I'm having a blast with it, but it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: define who I am as a person. Um. And I
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  Speaker 1: think one one piece of advice Ben, that you gave
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  Speaker 1: me a long time ago that it really sticks with
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  Speaker 1: me is letting this enhance my life and letting this
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  Speaker 1: provide opportunities and meeting crazy people and um, really using
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  Speaker 1: it to enhance my life and not define my life. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean Chris Harrison gave me that advice, smart man.
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  Speaker 1: He is the host of the show. And I've been
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  Speaker 1: passing it down to any Bachelor or Bachelor I can.
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  Speaker 1: That's what the main thing that stuck stuck with me
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  Speaker 1: from our conversations before I even started, uh, you know,
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  Speaker 1: going on the Bachelor. It's it's a wild world, actually,
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  Speaker 1: And I obviously sit here and we talk about you
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  Speaker 1: every week, and people are celebrating you. Actually as you
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  Speaker 1: sit there and you watch Colton so far this year.
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  Speaker 1: I think I want to know from you, what are
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  Speaker 1: some things in the first two episodes that have stood
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  Speaker 1: out to you that you really enjoy about Cold But
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  Speaker 1: we just played footsie something. I don't know what. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, what have I really enjoyed about Colton? Okay, Colton,
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  Speaker 1: I I hope you take this as a comment. I
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  Speaker 1: appreciate your nerves night one. It was so endearing and
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  Speaker 1: it made me feel like you're a regular person and
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  Speaker 1: not like this like male model robot. Yeah. I was
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  Speaker 1: actually a lot. I was way more nervous than I
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  Speaker 1: thought I was gonna be. Yeah, I thought like, and
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  Speaker 1: here was like one thing that I realized, and I
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  Speaker 1: realized that more as like filming went on. I came
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  Speaker 1: into it having filmed The Bachelor, went to Paradise, and
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  Speaker 1: then went straight into the Bachelor, So I'm back to
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  Speaker 1: back to back, and I came in like, Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: got this, Like this is how this goes, this is
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  Speaker 1: this camera operator, this is this audio guy. Like I
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  Speaker 1: felt super comfortable, but still the sense of the reality
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  Speaker 1: of me meeting thirty women like that's obviously nobody could
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  Speaker 1: prepare you for that. Nothing, no experience could prepare you
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  Speaker 1: for that, And I think, like I just realized I
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  Speaker 1: don't have it all figured out, And I think that's
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  Speaker 1: the beauty of what you know, how this this season
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  Speaker 1: is it seems so it was like a real guy
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  Speaker 1: meeting thirty women, not somebody just like And then my
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  Speaker 1: other favorite thing about you is that you just you
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  Speaker 1: just so very easy to talk to. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: looking at every other bachelor, even you included Ben, you're
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  Speaker 1: like a little bit more intimidating because like I guess
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  Speaker 1: it's on the same way, like you're just more boyish
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  Speaker 1: and more I just find you less intimidating, but in
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  Speaker 1: a good way. Is that like is that offensive sounding? No? No,
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  Speaker 1: not at all, because like I feel like I could
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  Speaker 1: actually sit next to you the first night and be
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  Speaker 1: like just ji vy, but with Ben, I'd probably be like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my goodness, this man, um he's so smooth and
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  Speaker 1: he knows exactly all the right things to say. But
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  Speaker 1: like I don't, Like, I think I realized that too,
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  Speaker 1: is like I don't want people to say just the
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  Speaker 1: right things. And then question are you just saying that
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  Speaker 1: because there's a camera in your face? Yeah, you know, approachable.
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  Speaker 1: That's the word approachable. He approachable. And also I think
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  Speaker 1: it helps Colton that you've been so vulnerable, like I know,
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  Speaker 1: we've we've hated you know, over and over again hearing
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  Speaker 1: about you know what your history UM and BED has been,
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  Speaker 1: but it has made you vulnerable, like it's forced you
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  Speaker 1: to be authentic and genuine something that's maybe one of
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  Speaker 1: the things that most of us hid the most about
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  Speaker 1: our selves and talk about the least. We've known about
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  Speaker 1: it for a long time. I should probably mention that
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  Speaker 1: that's probably why I find Culton the most approachable because
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  Speaker 1: I went in on The Bachelor being a virgin? Did
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  Speaker 1: you did you disclose that in casting? Yeah? Did you?
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  Speaker 1: No way? No, they didn't, And I could, like for
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  Speaker 1: sure say like there is no way they knew because
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  Speaker 1: I didn't, Like I hadn't really told that many people,
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  Speaker 1: and the people I did were like tight lipped about it.
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  Speaker 1: So beck Attilly also didn't talk about it in casting,
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't. I never thought it was going to
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  Speaker 1: be that big of a deal. Yeah, I just casually
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  Speaker 1: talked about it in an interview or I think I
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  Speaker 1: was talking in one of my demand chats. UM and
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  Speaker 1: I brought it up, and then it became like everybody,
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  Speaker 1: you know, everybody had their opinions on it, which is
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  Speaker 1: what the show is, right. I mean people they like
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  Speaker 1: when people have opinions about certain things. Um, but I
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  Speaker 1: never I never thought it was going to be like this.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to say powerful because it's not
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: like that. But its just it's like a label. And
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: that's the one thing that's driving me nuts the most
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: about it now is just the label. Yeah, and you
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: can't get away with it. They're focusing more it seems
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: like on you finding your first unless of you finding
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: your wife or maybe they're one and the same hopefully.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: I mean that's the reason. Is this for me is
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: like now where I'm at in my life, It's like,
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: when that moment happens, I wanted to be with somebody
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: who I could see myself spending the rest of my
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: life with. I think Ashley, you know from the talks
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: with with you, actually I bet you would agree. Hey,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: we gotta take a second. We have a huge fan
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: of massive fan of Colton on the line right now.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Who is called in Steph P Are you out there?
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: I'm here? Hi? Hi, stuff, how are you good? How
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: are you guys? Great? I'm like, thanks for having me on.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm such a random person. Is that?
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: What do you guys are doing today? Talk to random people?
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Calling it? We just heard you are a great enthusiastic
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Bachelor fan. That is in fact true. I love you guys,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I love but you're a massive fan of Colton. Correct.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: I'm a massive fan of everyone. But yes, I love cool.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Thank you, hi that you love so much? Um, I
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: think he seems like a very nice guy. You feel
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: like one of the nicer backs, which is nice after Okay,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I got I lied. I don't like everyone. I gotta
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: be honest. It's not like I lied. I didn't like
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: or at all. So it's really nice to have a
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: nice bachelor back on who seems like a good person. Well,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate that. I'll tell are you what
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: you said? To go ahead? I can't care like I'll
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: tell it. No, that's not true. I totally wouldn't do
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: that to pick. We can't hate on our He just
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: got married this weekend. That's a massive deal that I'm
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: sure he honestly, obviously, he would not give a crap
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: what I think about him. It's like, who's this chick?
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: But I'm happy for him as long as they're happy. Uh, Step,
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I know there's something on your heart. I know there's
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: something you're feeling deep inside. You have questions for Colton,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: and so take it away. Okay, So okay, here's my
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: first late in one. And so I know you're probably
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: sick of talking about this, Colton. I know you love
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: you must be so sick of talking about how you're
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: a virgin, but or maybe you're not now I don't
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: even know. I have no clue, but on a scale
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: of one to ten, how sick of you were talking
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: about that? UM, I would say the hardest part for
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: it right now I knew they it was obviously going
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: to come up with my relationships with the ladies and
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: the women on my show. Um, the hardest part now,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I think post show is like watching every single UM
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: article have the headline of virgin bachelor. I think that's
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: what is sort of tough for me because I've gone
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: through it in my life before. With football is like
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I've dealt with my family and my relationships with my
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: friends being dependent on Oh, how's the next season going
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: to go? So I've already been in a comparable situation
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: where people wanted to find me and stick me in
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: the box of you know, well, now it's Virgin Bachelor,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: before it was football Colton and there's nothing and they
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: just act like there's nothing more to me. Yeah, that sucks.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I guess yeah, Well do do you think do you
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: think that they picked you because of that? And you're
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: kind of like, there's more to me than this. I mean,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: it's one thing. I'm not in a position to say
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: why exactly they picked me? Is this part of is
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: this part of the storyline? Is people going are people
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: going to be invested in? Absolutely? Um? I hope that
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: that's not the only reason that they picked me in.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, I just I think there there is a
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: lot more to me. There is a lot more information
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: to be said about the Virgin, and you will find
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: it out on this season. Oh good, I can't wait
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: because I was so I don't know how much you guys.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know how much you guys know about me
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: or not that I'm a fitness instructor. But today in class,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: I was telling everyone that was gonna be on the show,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: and that was like, I was like, what do you
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: guys want to know? The most, like what because most
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: of my writers are big fans too, and we're all
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: in like a fantasy league together that I'm losing already,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: which I'm very embarrassed. But one thing we were all wondering,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: We're like, do wish after all this, do you wish
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: you lost your virginity earlier during someone who you were
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: maybe in love within your past that it was just
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: not the whole thing? Or are you like a no
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: regret whatever, you know, a type of person just move on.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I think in regards to my virgin I stand by
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: the man who I was. I stay by the man
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: who I am today. Um. And I feel like, you know,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: it's made me not only like while I say it's
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: such a small part of who I am, I just
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: think it's a set of morals, a set of values
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: that I've carried in my personal life for so long now.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Um that I don't regret. I don't regret the decision
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: that I made. I don't regret talking about it on
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: National TV. I just never thought it would get to
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: this point. Wait, I have something to say about this
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: because after I got off The Bachelor, I was like,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I just wish I hadn't gone in like that I
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: wish that. I really I had a moment where I
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: wish that I had lost it to somebody that I
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: was seeing before the show, and I was like, that
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: was a huge mistake, Like he was the one I
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: wanted to really do that with. And now this is
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: all out there, and now there's so much pressure on
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: me from other guys. Like every guy I'm gonna date
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: going forward is going to know this, and it's gonna
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: turn a lot of guys off. But it's gonna it's
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: going to turn the wrong I know. So for years
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: I was like people would tell me that and I'd
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, I know, I know. But then you know,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: when you get older and you do find the right relationship,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: then you like know that that's really what you should
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: stick to. You need to keep reminding yourself that as
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: annoying as it is, no in the the whole topic
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: of it as a whole, I'm not annoyed. I'm annoyed
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: by the cheapening of it. I'm annoyed when it's just
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: used as clickbait or um when people want to bring
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: it up sort of in a in a cheap way,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: or take shots at it or discredit it like I'm
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: not like I didn't open up about it to say like, hey,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I'm better than this person. It's just part. It's just
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: like if i'm if you're going to get to know
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: who I am, Like that's just part of me. Do
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: people ever think that you're that you are? Like, I
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: don't know what I'm going to say this. It's like
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: the opposite of virgin shaming. People say that if you
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: throw it in their face. Yeah, the word like you
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: think it's better you are pure? No, Like, And that's
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: the thing, Like, I don't really talk about it that much.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: I've talked about it when it's appropriate in the relationship. Um,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: obviously I talked about it on the show, but I
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: don't have final say like what sound bites get used.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: And so I mean that's a whole another conversation. But
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I don't walk around and wear
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: it like on my chest like that. I'll admit to it,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I'll own who I am as a person, but I'm
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I'm not leading any type of conversation. That's why, Like
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you didn't hear me talk to Becca about it until
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: it was appropriate, until it was a week before hometown,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: until she had to make a decision whether she wanted
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: to move our relationship forward or not. Yeah, it was
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: totally the appropriate time. Yeah, I'm not going to just
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: hit him with at night one, you know. Yeah, Steph,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I know you're still out there. Anything else you want
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: to ask Colton before you go? Sure? What about? Okay?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Here's one thing that did set me about your first
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: night alright, the first episode? Why did you get rid
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: of the favorite? I'm a big chemistry and connection guy,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: and it just wasn't there. It's one of those things
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: that's hard to really explain it when you have a
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: feeling like and also keep in mind there's twenty nine
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: other incredible women as well, So it just all for
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: me came down to chemistry and connection. I respect the move.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I was expect how in character she was the whole
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: entire night. And I know it's not easy staying in
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: that outfit because she had to stay in that the
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: whole night. It's cold, ye warm in the tree, crawling
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: around whatever she was. But you know what, I'll say
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: that I personally I mad respect she's stayed in character
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: the whole time. Well, you do have a lot of
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: good girls to choose from this season. Yeah. Absolutely, Well,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I have a special announcement to make this Sloth will
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: be on during the last segment of the show today.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, like I really I love the
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: interest so much. I always think if I whoever went
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: on the show, which I wouldn't because I'm married, but uh,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't do something crazy and weird like that. It
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: was like that girl is my girl. Hey, Steph, thank
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you so much for on the podcast. Thanks for having
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: me you guys can't wait to watch to night. Calton,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: thank you. I can't wait to watch two. Good Bye. Okay, Colton,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: I want to just revisit the the fact that you
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: didn't bring it up in asting and that you brought
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: it up when you were just having a casual conversation
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: in the house. Did you get used to having these
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: casual conversations, because like last night you talked about, um,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: how you told one of your teammates when you just
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: asked you the question point blank, and You're like, I
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: was searching for a lie, honestly, and then you just
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: came out with the truth, which is a scenario that
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I was in a zillion times whenever the topic of
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: sex would come up anywhere in school with my friends
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: straight to lying or did you pivot? I would pivot.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I'd be like if it was a girl talk, does
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: anybody need any water? And like I get up to
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: go the fridge, or like I gotta go to the bathroom,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: and you know, I just walk away from the conversation
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: or I got super quiet and it was just so awkward.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: People must have been like, why doesn't you ever participate
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: in these conversations? So did you get used to it
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: before going to the Bachelorhouse about talking and talking about it?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: You know? But this is the interest, like the reason,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the whole reason why I wanted to do the Bachelor
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: and I went on was it was a point in
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: my life where I just wanted to start coming into
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: my own I want to start owning who I was
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: as a person, and I wanted to start like really
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: focusing on my personal life. So that was just one
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: of those moments where I'm like, all right, I'm in, Like,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I'm in this, let's do this. I gotta work and
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I gotta like I have to continue to push myself.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: And I think you and I have talked about it before.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I don't even know where I would be personally, like
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: the growth that you have on these shows is unbelievable.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I'm sure have been You've been through it too. I
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: don't even know if I would have been able to
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: start dating changes the way it changes the way that
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: you go about every other conversation in your personal life,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: whether you're dating them or not. It's just it's so
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: refreshing to be direct, say what's on your mind, and
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: then also just not be afraid to be vulnerable, like
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: if like I don't know now now it's just like
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: my friendships have even gotten stronger. We went from one
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: extreme being totally secret of it to be like, Okay,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: you can ask me. I'm an open book. I'll tell
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: you everything. And I think it's I think it's a
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: better healthier way to live everyday to start out with
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: now I start out with, I am Ben. Did you
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: know at one point I was the Bachelor? Hey before
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: before we continue, actually, uh, something that's on your mind
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: and something you're really proud of, something you love very
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: much you have to tell our fans about. Jared and
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I went to Janner Manor Part two this weekend down
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: in Orange County, California, and everything in their house is
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: from Curt and barrel because we found out that they
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: had a Crton Barrel registry for their wedding and we're like,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: where'd you get that crand barrel? And we're like, where'd
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: you get that grand barrel? Like, Wow, we gotta put
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: all this stuff on our registry because it's so nice.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: What I love about Crate and Barrel and having a
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Crton Barrel registry is that all the pieces are timeless
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: and they evolved with your style, just like jan and
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Tanner were able to go from one house with the
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: same decor and plates and glasses as they were in
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: their new house, which is a little bit of a
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: different style. And Crate and Barrel also makes entertaining effortless.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: You should have seen how Jade was is able to
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: make breakfast and put everything out and like the most
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: beautiful layout with all her crate and barrel products that
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: they got from their registry. Also, they have amazing beds,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: and Jared and I were like, that's something we forgot
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: to put on our registry. We need new Dubai's sheets, pillows,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: bath towels. All that stuff is so nice from Crate
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: and Barrel. Jared and I love to come home and
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: unwind after we're busy day, we look forward to just
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: coming home, sitting on the couch or lying in bed,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: and we wanted to look as good as it feels.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: And that is the perfect combination that we get with
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: crate and barrel stuff. So, whether we are lounging at
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: home just the two of us, or whether we're entertaining,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel's got everything we need. You can start
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: your Crate and Barrel Registry today at Crate and Barrel
• 28:51
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• 28:55
  Speaker 1: you can get your Crate and Barrel Registry started today
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: at Crate and Barrel dot com. So when you did
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: have that conversation and you were like, oh, actually our
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: supposide somebody on Beck of Season, did they like pull
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: you into an interview right away? Um, as far as
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: what they were like, oh my god, we just got
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: amazing during this guy. Uh no, now because they knew
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: about it because I brought it up in the house
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: into it, Oh you did, Yeah, So I didn't drink.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: You were interviewing about it. I was interviewing and I
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: think I was having a conversation with Jason. I don't
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: know which one came first um in the house, and
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: then they started yeah, and then we just started having
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: a conversation. And like I said before, like that's where
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: the growth comes in is because the more that I realized,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: like as you talked through things and they kept asking
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: me why, like or what was it? Like how what
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: did you do in your other relationship? Like how how
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: is this dynamic? And like for the first time, I'm
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: actually putting it into words for myself to hear too,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: And I think that was that's what was so cool
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: about it. That was the question that I hate. Not
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: only did I hate the question when when you'd have
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: sex talks around you and you tried to avoid them.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I not only dreaded just saying I'm a virgin, I
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: dreaded being having my friend be like why how because
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't really even know how to describe it. Well,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: it's not like for me too, and I don't know
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: about like you. But it's not a simple answer, No,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: it's not. I had like a whole bunch of different reasonings.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: I think as our society is, especially today, and how um,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I don't I want to say this in a tasteful
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: way and not lazy, but we just look for that simple.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: We just look for the simple answer and to move on.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: So if you have to think about it at all,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: it's just like, Okay, well he must be lying or
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: he must be doing this. It's because you just don't
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: want to put the effort in to like actually understand
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: or get the reasoning why. And you just didn't want
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: to be thought that you were weird. And I don't.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, if I really were to explain this to
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't think I was weird. But immediately you're gonna think,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: like in the world, right, So well cool. I can
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: talk about this forever because you have any that really
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: we understand each other a lot on I get it.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I get it, and I'm glad you guys got to talk. Actually,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: you've had a lot of thoughts I've known, uh Colton,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: you know you're a lot more than this conversation. So
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: I promise you one thing from here and out, No,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: nothing we're gonna talk about is going to be about you.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I don't really want to hear about it. I don't
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: like thinking about I would never have brought it up
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: if you didn't. You and I didn't have similar situations
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: more interesting because we've bulled been identical situations, except for
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: you're the Bachelor and I was never like the lead,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: and that I can't even imagine how annoying. All right,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: here we go, Colton. Yes, you're two weeks in. Uh,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: it's no secret to most that you've been through this.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Now you're sitting here and you're talking about it. Do
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: you still believe the Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise, Bachelor, I
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: can find you or anybody else love. I will go
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: to bat and I will back the franchise up until
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: my last breath. I probably I always said to, And
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I don't do the apps I've watched, and I have
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: friends who would have dating apps. But I actually think
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: what I've experienced on The Bachelor and in Paradise and
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor has been some of the most real
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: connections that I've I've ever had and where I think
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: people can because when the phones go away and you
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: actually have a genuine conversation, you talk about meaningful things
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: like it's so powerful, how it can advance a relationship.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: It really is. It's it's just like microcosm is like space.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I was just telling somebody other day, Um, I've started
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: dating again. This is big news, right, I am dating
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: an app No, no, no, I'm actually dating one person
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: that we'll talk about in a couple of weeks on
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: the pod. Yeah. So so just um, you know what,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: why not? And and so I'm excited about So here's
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: the thing. We're talking to their night and I was
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: saying the Bachelor is a really great thing because it
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: is it forces you to have conversations. And right now,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: the girl that I'm talking to is long distance, and
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: so we face time a lot, and it feels very
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: similiar because we don't get time together. It's very intentional,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: it's very focused. And if we're gonna we're gonna spend
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: any time with each other, it's gonna be in conversation. Um.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: And she's like the best purest person I know, and
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: so like a lot of those conversations are about our lives.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: So anyways, Colton, I think you're spot on. I do
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: believe also the show can find you love. Second question,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: This is a two part question. Uh so let me
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: finish you. I'm gonna say first, the first part of
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: this question is what's one thing that bothers you most
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: about watching yourself on TV? You've had enough time now
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: on television. You've seen this and the second part of
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: that is what makes you and I promise this is
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: going to get better unlikable. Um, I would say what
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: bothers me the most on TV? I just I think
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: right now, like just the constant conversations that even I'm
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: articulating with the virginity thing and how the sexual undertone
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: of is of the whole show is Like I had
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: an idea of that before I went on, but knowing
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: like my Grandma's watching, and my aunts and my family's
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: and my little brother, like, and that almost answers your
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: other question to where it's unwatching, Like that's the part
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just like sort of cringing when I hear myself
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: even talk back, Like when I hear myself talking about it,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: that that hurts, right, Like those intimate moments, even the kissing.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I remember I was watching episode four at my house
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: in Warsaw with my parents and their friends, right, and
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: so they had a watch party. I was able to
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: get home for that, and so I was sitting watching
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: my episode and there's just like really heated makeout scene, right,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: and so you can hear it, Like the show loves
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: to like do the noise effects where it's like, and
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there in this room full of like my
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: family and my friends and my pastor, which is great.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: I'm sure he's all for it. I have nothing against
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: making out, but it feels weird. Ben. I did a
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: watch party on The Bachelor at the Children's Hospital for
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: my hometowns to celebrate, Like I went back with the
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: kids that back and I visited and I completely like.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is a great idea. Like
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: we'll tie it into like the same day like Beck
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: and I. And then I was like, oh my gosh,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I forgot I tell her I love her at the
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: end of this and like we have a full on
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: makeout session and I'm sitting there with the kids and
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: their parents and we're all watching them. I was like,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: all right, we could go do something else now, Like
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: to watch this part, you should definitely go watch it
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: at Children's Hospital. For the shower scene that I've been
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: seeing all the previews that you have coming up showers,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I took the one where the showers coming down and
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: some girl jumps to you and you're holding and you're
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: ready for this. This is like a spoiler alert. We
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: had a shower b roll day pickups what, Yes, it
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: was awesome. That's a lot. I don't mind watching the
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: shower and strong. Hey, okay, what makes you most likable?
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: What are you watching yourself? I remember when I was
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: doing it. There's a couple of things. I was like,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: you know what you're you're carrying yourself. Well, you're doing
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: all right, You're looking at them in the eye, You're
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: you're intentional by your conversation. Has been nice work? What
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: is that about you? Um? I think like the one
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: thing that I tried to do well on my season
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: was sort of what you were talking about earlier. I
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: had been through us before, and I had been on
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: the other side, and I know at times it could
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: be hard. I know at times it could be challenging
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: to open up, um, And you actually see that in
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the episode. I tried to make everybody feel as comfortable
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: as they could so that I can get the best
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: out of them and I can also get the best
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: out of myself. So I really prided myself on trying
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: to really relate to them without speaking for them, and
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I think there's a fine balance of that. But then
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, I also wanted to challenge them and push
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: them to where it's like I don't want to have
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: to carry the conversation, but I just feel like making
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: sure that they were comfortable in our moments together was
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: very important. That's so poor. That is a couple of secrets. Actually,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know what was it for you why you
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: were doing uh the show, Ashley or even now and
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: you go on you know, all these access Hollywood, all
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: these things you do. What is it that makes you
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: feel comfortable in front of the cameras m H experience. Yeah,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say just being used to it at
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, yeah, I don't really think there's a trick.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: It all depends on, like whether it's live or not too.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: I thought we did last week with the live premiere
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: was nerve racking, but tape things are like, oh, you know,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I get to cut that out. I thought you killed
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: it too, by the way you jured because I sat
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: in the green room the whole time. I know, I
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: saw that you liked my Instagram and commented under I
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: was like, what is this man doing during his live
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: premiere that he still I wasn't green. I was in
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: a green room being hit from the Hollywood party until
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: like my big reveal. So I actually got to sit
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: and watch the show, and it was it was really cool.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Then you did really well to your super fan was cute?
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Oh she was adorable. Yeah. I got about two minutes
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: two minutes out there, and I made the most of it.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I screamed and I picked her up. He did a
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: great job. This is a question for both of you. Actually,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I'd love for you to answer this first. Cold Nancy,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: say what makes a good bachelor? Olden goes first or
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I go first? You know I want you to go first. Oh,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: I think approachability makes a really good bachelor. I think
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: somebody who brings out, somebody who just makes all the
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: girls as comfortable as possible. And uh, yeah, that's what
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: I was saying. Honesty that works, That's important. Attractiveness works.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: You need that, Um Ben whatever, you guys are you too? Well.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: It's interesting you bring that up, because before I left
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: for filming, I didn't like anything that I do. I
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: try to do some of the best of my abilities,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: and I try to do my homework. So I obviously
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: watched Ben back. And because was there any other season
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: that you watched back, I've watched obviously, I watched Aris,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I watched Ben's and I watched Nicks, and one thing
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: that I realized from talking to all three is like,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have your own experience with this and you're
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: not going to do things perfectly all the time, and
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: everybody has your unique things. So like, as much as
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I wanted to be like, oh, I want to be
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: like Ben, in this moment, it's like, no, I want
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: to be Colton. Like I want to be true to
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: who I am and if I make a mistake, and
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: if I say something wrong, then I say something wrong,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna own it and move on. But what could
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: you really stay wrong? I don't know. I mean, if
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: that's the thing is, it's like you, Ken, I could
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: have done things better though, like you could always do
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: things better, Like I'm looking back at this, like, oh man,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: I could have handled that conversation better. Really, even in
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: these two episodes. Yeah, I mean, I think there's always
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: obviously room for improvement, But like, I don't know. I
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: will say, like I just feel this season I stayed
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: true to who I was. That's the only thing. I mean.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: As you sit there and you talk to these women
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: and you can walk away going, hey, I'm not done
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: that perfectly. You know you're not going into these going
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be perfect. You're going in saying I'm gonna
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: be cold in there, I'm gonna be better, I'm gonna
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: be Ashley, and you hope to walk away feeling that
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: same way. I think the one thing that you could
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: do wrong to answer that for both of you, I
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: think arrogance and a lack of humility. Uh. And this
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: entitlement comes off terribly on the show, and I think
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: you can see that. And I think the bachelor Bachelor
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I oftentimes struggle with that because they get this big head.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: They go into it feeling like they're Prince Charming or
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: or you know that the Queen of the world, and
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: it comes off on the show cold and you haven't
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: shown the yet. I'm still waiting. Here's Here's something I
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: always bring up on this podcast. I think the best
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Bachelor's and Bachelorettes it's how they react to really hard situations.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I was humbled on the show. I got humbled, did
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: you Yeah? There was there was a moment where, like
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: I said, coming into it is like I have this
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: all figured out. I've been on two of these things before,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: like watch watch me do what I need to do
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: and I got Yeah, I was humbled. Huh. I mean
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I think that's exciting. I think for me. Uh and
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: actually tell me if you disagree. I think for me,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: that's not exciting to watch. That's good for me to
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: watch because it means it's real. That's a real moment
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: humility and being humbled is an authentic, genuine moment that
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: you can't force or fake. Yeah, I mean, it's just
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: And that's that's when, like it really got I was
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: obviously pushed. The most, too, is when things didn't go
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: my way. It looks like adversity, right, And that's when
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: you grow the most, is when things don't go your way.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: But see, that's that's what everybody thinks, but that's not
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: always the case. Interesting. Interesting, Alright. My final question for you, Colton,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: until I send it over to ash to plug away
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: for a couple of minutes here is what is the
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: one thing Colton, now that you're sitting here in week
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: two and the rest of the season is in front
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: of you that you've learned from doing this whole experience.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: It's hard to pick one. I've learned so much obviously
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: about myself that it's been so good of my needs
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: and my wants in my life. But I think just
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: coming into my own as a person and as a
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: human being, and I'm still working on how I can
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: be better. Um, I think we always are. But I
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: just what this opportunity has done for me in my
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: personal life and how comfortable I am owning who I
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: am now has been like the the best thing about it,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: hands down. I agree. I agree for you. That's awesome,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: really great. Hey uh actually before I simmed over to you,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: I do have a question for anybody in the room.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: This can be anybody when that we wanted to ask
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: and nobody knows anything about. Is the Bachelor Mansion going
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: to be used ever? Again? Yeah? It's fine, Fine, we
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: have people in here that are confirming this for sure.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: I am my producers in your shout out to Lady Kay.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: She always kills it. Yeah, new haircut right now? It
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: looks bomb. Um. I read this sto. It was like
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: a meme or something that the word virgin was mentioned
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: so much this season that the devil who created the virus.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: This is like, we can't even go there, We can't
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: even go hit that house. It's sacred ground. Okay. Anyway,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I have fun questions for you are you ready? Is
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: this Jurgen's tan that you have on right now? Face
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: moisturizer this morning. He's a big fan of Jorgens. I
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: think he's trying to get a sponsorship. Is unbelievable. Oh
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: they messaged me, Oh they did. Yeah, we'd like to
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: send you all the Jurorgon products. You'd like, what's your favorite? Ye? Awesome,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Well it looks Instagram influencer. Now, guys, it looks awesome.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: As my producer is like cringing over there, She's like, no,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: I like to break the fourth wall. You know. Yeah,
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: me too. I wish they did that more everything. Come on, Megan,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: I see lady, Kay, you do want to break that
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: fourth wall more? It's so good. Alright, fun questions, Ben's stop. Okay, Yeah,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: I know Trure Falls, your monthly skincareteen costs five dollars. True.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: I just found that out. I actually just started using
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: like what I was what I was using, I didn't
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: know how much it costs. So you were okay, so
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: another sponsored thing? No, Well, the Bachelor blessed me with um,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: you know, obviously hair and makeup. So yeah, so then
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: you got addicted to what they were giving you Gina. Yeah,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: she's awesome. Yeah, Gina is the show's hair and makeup. Um,
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: and she did an amazing job with all like the
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: products and sitting down with me and like really finding
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: out like what I like, what I feel comfortable using.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: She's the best. But then what she was using on me,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: like I was like, I want, I need this in
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: like my daily life. So you saw a difference, that's awesome. Well,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: you want to give a shout out to what you've
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: been using Jurgen's shout out to Jarragans, just Jurgen's we're
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: just getting sponsored by Jorgens right now. Well, I I
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: give you props for having an expensive kin guarantein I
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: do too. Um, let's talk about Jason and Caitlin, your
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: buddy Jason. Yeah, what are those two together? This week?
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: They've been very obvious that they're together. He was on
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: the show about a month ago now and he got
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of giggles out of his system but never
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: said why he was giggly. And uh, I think they've
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: been together for a bit. Do you know exactly how long?
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I think they've been together for a bit too, But
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: I don't, Honestly, I don't know, and as somebody who's
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: speculating on my um relationship right now, I feel like
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: when they are comfortable to make their official announcement. Although
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's happened because they've been all over
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: each other on social media, you know, I mean, good
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: for them. He seems very happy from what I've seen
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: on her, she seems very happy. They are both good people.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: So I hope have you hung out with them? Yeah? Together? No,
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I have not. What is the tattoo on your arm?
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I have a tattoo eleven and then I have a
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: cross on my wrist. What's Jeremiah? What does it mean?
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: And it's like hope for a future and it's been
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: something that I've always stuck with since football is God
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: has a plan for you, and just trust in his
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: plans and everything. It's almost like everything will happen for
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: a reason, but just trust in him and you'll be good. Well,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: God's on your side right now. Make sure, yeah are
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: what when was your first kiss? My first kiss was
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: my freshman year of high school. How old are you
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: and you're a freshman. I don't know your fourteen? Fourteen?
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: So fourteen? Okay? Tell us about it? Um. I was
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: watching a movie laying down. You had a girl over
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: to watch a movie when you're fourteen. Um, I don't
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: remember what movie was playing because obviously on my first kiss,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: so that's all I remember from uh and it was
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: really awkward, really bad, but yeah, it just wasn't It
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't like the best Okay, was it sloppy that she
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: used tongue or something like too much? You know? It
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: was just like a quick peck and then like an
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: awkward like staring at each other's that just happened. Are
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: you going to give Heather her first kiss this season? Um?
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: You never know. I mean there's obviously more conversations that
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: need to be had, and um, if anybody understands where
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: she's coming from and how hard it was for it,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: open up. It's me, trust me. Yeah, I know right,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: you get it. You guys want to understanding. My last
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: question is the feature of the Hannah and Kaylin duel.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: These two are obviously going to go at it. Fantastic
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: decisions on castings parts for this drama. I do not
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: read spoilers. I do not know if they go on
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: a two on one, but I'm assuming they do because
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: there couldn't be a better two on one. They're gonna
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: beat my two on one for sure. Yeah. Um, I
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: think it's gonna be interesting. It's gonna be interesting for
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you guys to like really watch the dynamic of that
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: all happen, because it was very intriguing for me as well.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: And just keep in mind, like and you know this,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: producers don't tell you what's going on in the house,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: so you get to hear and experience things from what
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: they tell you. And there's obviously a lot of conversations
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: that that happen. So my point of view on this
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: right now is that, um, Hannah is made out to
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: look like the more dramatic girl, the one that's a
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: little bit more high strung, a little bit more emotional,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: and Caitlin's really chill. I always find that on the show,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: the girls who are chill end up winning out. But
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I'm not really sure you ever heard like like less
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: is More. I'm a believer in less is More, but
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I don't I can't speak to who is I think
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: tuning in because I don't want to say anything that
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: you take out of that people take out of context
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: because it hasn't played back yet. But you will get
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: answers and clarity to that, and I think you'll It's
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: just it was also an interesting dynamic for me to
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: have to deal with too, and and really like figure
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: out and ask the right questions. Okay, okay. So and
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: then I have a more last question, now that you
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: brought this up. How close was Hannah to really getting
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: the acts on that one on one very Yeah? If
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: it was later in the season, would you just let
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: her go? No? And I think I think what I
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: realized too after after our date was I feel like,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: you know, sort of what you were saying earlier, is like,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: you know, how awkward and silent time and making toasts
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: and how intimidating that can be. I didn't because I'm
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: coming from the two previous so I'm used to it.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. I'm like, okay, this is easy.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: You should you should be like, this is her first
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: time being filmed doing something, and I forgot. I forgot
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: about that when the toast that I would just like hide,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, do not look at me, do not
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: ask me to do the toast. I That's when I blink. Yeah,
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: So what I mean, I don't know, Ben? What what
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  Speaker 1: was your Ben obviously was a Master toaster. Yeah, what
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  Speaker 1: do you mean whinning doubt? Just compliment Like that's my
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  Speaker 1: were talking about before the break. I don't think I
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  Speaker 1: fluff words. It's it's really easy to give the toast.
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  Speaker 1: You look at the woman in the eyes, you call
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  Speaker 1: them beautiful because they are. You say there's compliment, and
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  Speaker 1: you look at them and you say, I know this
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  Speaker 1: is hard, I know this is difficult. None of this
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: is easy. This is all weird for each one of
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: us in this room. I forgot that, Like I really
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: didn't have that perspective. I don't know. I felt like
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I want this one to go
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: really well, like it's the first one. And I think
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: that was the first time where I was like, oh,
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: I don't have this all figured out, because that was
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: like the moment where I'm like, isn't one on ones
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: supposed to go great? Like when the ones are supposed
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: to be like showing for sure, here's your rose, like
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: we have a great connection, and that wasn't the case.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: And that was like the first time I'm like, oh, boy,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: like right off the bat, here we go, like I
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: don't have this thing figured out? Did you try to
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: lead the conversation more than we saw? It was almost
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: like you're waiting for her, But I was because I
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: was I want to, like, just as much as I
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: want to be challenging in a relationship, I wanted to
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: challenge her to and really see what, you know, what
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: she brought to the relationship. All Right, Well, if I
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: had to say who I think your favorite is at
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: this point, and Ben, I'm going to ask you who
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: you think his favorite is at this point, I would
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: say it was Hannah g You're like all up in
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Handahgee's girl. Yeah, I mean you're basing that off of
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: the first in the first two episodes. Yeah, I mean yeah,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: Like I said, it was all it was all chemistry,
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: chemistry and connection from very early on. Alright, Ben, who
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: do you think he's into right now? I mean, Hannah
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: Gee's gotta be it? From from episode two, I mean
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: episode two, there's no question my mind. When Cold looks
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: in those those big old eyes of Hannah Geees, he
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: sees a future will change. We don't know. But when
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: we do know is Colton survived his season to The
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Bachelor because he's in studious with us today. So far,
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: here's my critique of view. You're doing great, don't change.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: You're a good man with a good heart, who who's
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: gonna make an amazing difference in this world, way past
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: this show that's gonna be way bigger than this show
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: ever was. So far on The Bachelor, you've been sensitive,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: you've been kind, you've been supportive, you've been honest, and
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I know that you cry, which is important to me.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: I think there's a Bachelor of a few years ago
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: that said they've never cried during the show. I said, well,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: that's just ridiculous. The world I forget. But if you
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  Speaker 1: don't cry during this show, I don't know if you
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: have a heart. I don't know if you didn't, it
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: might have been Colton with that. Actually, I really support
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: you coming in. Thank you for taking time. I know
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: you're a busy guy. I know you've got a lot
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: going on, um, but thank you for coming in and
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  Speaker 1: talking with us. If you ever want to stop by again,
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  Speaker 1: I bet we could find some time for you. Until then,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: we'll just be talking about you behind your back. Perfect.
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  Speaker 1: I tuned in. I know, I know what what word
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: did you say that I used? Too much? Awesome? Yeah?
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I know I need to extend my vocabulary. Actually funny,
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: like a little behind the scenes thing. Caitlin um, my
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: producer on the show, bought me a vocabulary book, like
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: a word book. That's not that, but it is like
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: I continue to grow my vocabulary, like I I was
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: becoming a better person every day I do this podcast.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I think I need that book. Do you want to
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: borrow it? Maybe it actually gives you, like it shows
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: you how to use it in a sentence too. So
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: it's like, have you really incorporated a lot of those words?
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: Tried to? We had daily words where it's like I
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  Speaker 1: is really kind of like broken through. I feel actually
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  Speaker 1: so close and connected with you that we can talk
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  Speaker 1: about bras, and I think we've talked about tampons and
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: cons before on this thing, and it just doesn't feel
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: weird anymore. I'm really happy that two years into this
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: this is where we're at. But we've gotten our questions
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: out of the way. You're probably sick of you know
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: where actionized minds are. But our fans out there there's
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  Speaker 1: a Facebook group for the Almost Famous podcast that's active
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  Speaker 1: and ready to ask Colton all the questions they've been wondering.
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  Speaker 1: Ashley has the questions in front of her. Ashley after
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  Speaker 1: it there, Colton from Katie, what is your biggest turn
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: off when you're getting to know a girl. I'm I'm
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: a hygiene guy, like brush your teeth, put some deater,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: and on, shower every once in a while. Does she
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: have to shower every day? Uh? No, it just I
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: mean smell decent, okay, because eyes are so hygiene. Um
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: from Sam, how long? I mean, how does it differ
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: from being one of the guys on back to season
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: to being the leading man? Are the emotions similar? Well,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: it changes because I hand the roses out instead of
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: being handed a rose, So that's so that's nice. Um.
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: Are the emotions similar, No, but they're they're different in
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: are in it just in a different way. But yes,
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: it's as emotional, just in a different way hold up
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: time out that that did not do it for me.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: Why are they similar? No, they're just different in a
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: different way. What do you mean answer the question you
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: just said, No, they're different and different. We read the questions.
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: Are the emotions similar? Like what what are the motions?
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: Like what, let's go into a little bit emotions not motions. Emotions, Yeah,
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: but what are the two different emotions you felt during?
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: The emotions are different because you're on the other side,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: like you're you're sitting there and you have to break
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: up with women. Yeah, there's well, not only guilt, but
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: it's just like the trust factor. Are you trusting your gut?
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: Are you really? Like you have to be confident And
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: you said that to me too, Ben, And one of
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: our chat is like, you just have to be confident
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: in the decisions that you make because it's going to
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: eat you up. Um. So like, then there's always that
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: emotion that's in it. But then it just was an
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: emotional roller coaster because you leave these dates where it's like, oh,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: this is amazing, I'm on a high, and then you
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: find something out about another relationship You're like, oh, this
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: could be pivotal. So it's like the ups and the
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: downs are higher when you're the lead. Did you bet
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: all feel weird golden when? Because there's two two elements here,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: there's a deleted scene that you and I men. I
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: get why it's deleted. You had a lot going on,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: there's a big show in front of us, but I did.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: We sat down. I was like, hey man, you're I
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: know you've got a heart on you, like it's gonna
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: hurt to break up with these girls. And you're like, well,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: then how do I do it? It's like you just
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: do it like and it sounds like shallow and it
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: just sounds simple. But once you feel it, you almost
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: you think it through and make sure it's the right thing.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: But you just got to do it and be confident,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: especially early on. Was there ever a moment this season
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: that you you let somebody go and you go, oh no, wait,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: that's so weird? That was our next question from Laurie weird.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: I like Laurie well, she basically she asked if that
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: happened on night one, but in general or night one,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: I tried. I actually tried my hardest. I remained confident
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: in all the decisions that I made in going into
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: every Rose ceremony or any time that I was about
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: to let somebody go. I really sat with it and
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I really let it process through, Like how does this change?
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: You know? How does this change moving forward? How I feel?
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: And I really owned it, like I made sure that
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: I sat with it long enough before I made any decisions.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: So did you know a couple of hours going into
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: the rose ceremony for the most part, Yes, yep. This
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: is from Matt. He says, I feel like all the
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: virginity talk makes me wonder if these girls are there
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: for the right reasons. Do you feel the same. I
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: think I'm going to interpret that by saying, do you
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: think that some of them are objectifying you and making
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: it seem like they just want to take it? I
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: will say this, Um, if this was the and I
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: don't talk about this last I don't. I don't want.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: I don't want to come off like weird when I says,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: but if this was a bachelorette and could you imagine
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: if a like a guy walked up and I had
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: fun with it? But could you imagine if a guy
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: walked up with like a cherry and popped it? Like? No,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: I thought that was just if the roles were reversed.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: It's just a much different conversation that we'd be having
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: right now. We talked about that last week. Do can
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: I have fun with it and play along with it? Absolutely,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: because that's just like, that's just who I am. Um.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: I think will we get into more of this serious
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: side of it for me later on and in the
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: later episodes when it's appropriate for me to share that.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: But um, I don't think the virginity talk correlates with
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: the right reasons per se. I think it just relates
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: with like when it is appropriate in our relationship to
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: discuss it. Creepy would it be if I was on
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: a season with Ashley? Ashley was the bachelor at and
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: I walked up and I said, I don't know what's
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: going to happen, but I wouldn't mind taking that virginity
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: That is so creepy for it. I agree, And it's
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: just like the double standard that we're in with society
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: and people can make their jokes and make their and
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I think, like that's I guess the hardest part two
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: is just a punch line and stuff. So um yeah,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: all right, this question is for Molly. What advice would
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: you give to other young men who are choosing to
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: remain a virgin in adulthood. Um, I think I really
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: struggled with owning who I was as a person, and
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: I think right now with being the Bachelor and having
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: if there's any silver lining in all of this, it's
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: just that I hope that the young men out there
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: see it as an example of, like, there's nothing wrong
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: with waiting, and there's nothing wrong with like losing it
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: whenever you it's your personal choices, your body, your choice.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: But I just hope that people see that there's nothing
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: wrong with waiting and it's okay to be different, and
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: in fact, I encourage people to be different. I encourage
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: people to stand up for what they believe in and
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: own who they are exactly. And my last question from
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: Facebook is from Danny and it says, is there any
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: specific part of the show that you're super nervous will
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: or will not air? Mm hmm here's what here. Yeah,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: Here's something that's always been on my mind. And I
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: think people forget this too, is like I'm going through
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: this and my family is super excited that I had
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: this opportunity to find love and like be the Bachelor,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: but like my Grandma watches this, My little cousins watch this. Um,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: these women in these ladies, fathers and mothers watch this.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: So I just it's in my hopes that it stays
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: respectful through and through and it is remained of a
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: show finding love instead of chasing a virginity. Yeah. I
• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: that I would be nervous upon is like the tastefulness
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: towards the end um and dealing like the fantasist week. Yeah,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: could you give us a little taste though, Colden, you
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: probably get a pretty good sense of where this goes
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: and what the dates are structured around, what the conversations
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: were like. Um, do you think it changes at some point?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: I mean we're two weeks in. Obviously we love the Bachelor.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: We love the Bachelor. This is a show that we
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: have a podcast on. I would like to see it
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: if my we've talked about last week, we'll talk about
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: it this week. I would like to see it change
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: gears and go away from just talks about you being
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: a virgin and whoever else is a virgin. Do you
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: feel like it does? Would you get a sense that
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: it does? I will say yes it does. Um. Week
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: four probably is going to be the most pivotal, I
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: think in terms of that gives people a better understanding,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: and it sort of goes away after that, like it's
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: just it's one of the things you were talking about earlier.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: It's like how many times does you have to address this?
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: How many times you have to talk about it? And
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I think it finally gets to a point where it's
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: like everybody has their answers, everybody has their clarity that
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: it's just like not a topic anymore. All right. People
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: are excited about that. I'm sure, yeah, because I mean,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: you brought up a good point. It's like, well why
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: do you keep asking? It's like, well, just because one
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: person asked doesn't mean they get to see that or
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: here out of my mouth. So yes, I was on
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: repeat a lot of the times throughout this season. I
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: prepared myself for that. I knew that I was going
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: to have to talk about it. I just wonder if
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: it's like why it's making the cut so many times.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's I mean, it's not up to me. Hey,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: that's our Facebook questions. We appreciate our Facebook group supporters
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• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: and making fun Ashley and I and we couldn't be
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: happy about it. Thank you to everybody out there on
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• 1:07:06
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• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: build this group to be a behemoth. Let's make it
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: something great. Hey Colton, for anybody out there listening, they
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: love you, they support you. I have a feeling you'renna
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: walk away being one of America's favorite bachelors of all time.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: But to say goodbye, I think we gotta give you
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: the platform to speak to all of your fans out
• 1:07:28
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• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: of here. You've got a lot of things to do today.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: We appreciate you, Colton, thanks for coming on. Thank you
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: guys so much for having me on, and you guys,
• 1:07:39
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• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: coming from you Ben specifically, but yeah, I think it's
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: thank anybody out there listening give a little message. I
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: just want. I mean, I would say this own who
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: you are. Um. I went through a lot of years
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: of my life like just really trying to come into
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: my own and there's nothing wrong with that. You can
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: always get better, you can always do things better in
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: your life. I think just having that understanding too. But
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: um no, I mean, I just want to thank you
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: for the to thank you for the support, and just
• 1:08:13
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• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: go away. Yeah, if I have any message stick with us.
• 1:08:18
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• 1:08:23
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• 1:08:25
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• 1:08:27
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• 1:08:29
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• 1:08:31
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  Speaker 1: Terms apply as normal. Colton as a great guest. I
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: want to thank everybody out there who allowed Colton to
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: come on. I know he's protected right now. Right he
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: rocks in with an entourage of people and they pointed
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: to the Almost Famous podcast and they thought this would
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: be a good platform for him to get for all
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: the listeners out there to get to know him better.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: And we just want to thank you to anybody that
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: made that happen. Uh. Colton was genuine as usual, authentic
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: as usual, UM and and he was also honest as usual.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: Our next guest has seen Colton's honesty up close. And Personal.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: After being eliminated on night one, she's now on the
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: podcast we know her as Sloth Girl. Are you out there,
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: fie guys? How are you doing? Girl? Good? Hi? What's
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: your name? I know it, but tell everybody my name's
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: al se Alston Alex. How does it feel being known
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: as the sloth Girl this week? It's fine, I'll take it.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: It's definitely new carry stories for me. But I guess
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: it's kind of cute, sounds kind of sexty, so I
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: can work. Girl. Is it weird that you've got eliminary
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: night one and yet you are still one of the
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: most talked about girls? Um? I mean, as it makes sense,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: it's because it's such a strong gimmick. Um, So no,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: it's not weird. It is just a little funny though,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: because so many people, including cold and I'm sure I
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: do not know my actual names, which is just so
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: funny to me. But yeah, no, it's been nice so far.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: It's been kind of cute. There's been some love and
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: then there's been some negative comments as well, so it's
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: been all across the board with the whole slow gimmick.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: You know, we've recently from the Bachelor season, we've had
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Joe grocery Store. Joe go from being eliminated on Night
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: one to Dancing with the Stars. Do you see yourself
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: from Dancing with the Stars. Um, so, I'm not really
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: the best dancers. Um, not to that's really a factor here.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: But so when I'm getting the comparison with So, I mean,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: obviously I love that comparison. It's still flattering. At the
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: same time, I think it's just so vastly different. Um.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: From my understanding, what Joe did was he was one
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: on the show and was like, I like, you look
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: so beautiful, and that was it, and that America just
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: fell in love with him was just so fascinting to
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: whereas with me, it's a totally different story. I went
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: up there and I was a slot that I was
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: hanging from trees. It's a totally different ends of the spectrum. Um.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: I do apologist for going up that candon there, but
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: of course I definitely opens the Dancer with the Stars
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: not the best dancer. But you know, we'll see. Well,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: do you think that your gimmick failed you in the
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: end or do you think you would have been eliminated
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: either way? Oh that's a different question. Um. Well, exacinitely
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: didn't fail me because I did not get a rose.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, I did talk to Colson
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: and it was just me without the costume. It was
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: as on Colson and I just word bonded all over him. So,
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: knowing me and how excited, I guess that would have
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: happened regardless, and I probably would have been something just
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: is weird, but a little more subtle if I did
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: not have the costume on so prost the Coles and
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: even awesome dude. But I think and if I somehow
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: was able to continue on in the show, I don't
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: think it would have worked out in that kind of
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: way that makes maybe even kind of harsh towards myself.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: Maybe not, but and there's no way to tell, but
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: knowing me, I'd be kind of freaking no matter what,
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: not work. How does it feel like the feeling of
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: going home at night? One, it's obviously light out. We
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: saw on TV you walk in its dark and then
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: you walk out its light. What was your what was
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: the emotions? I was tired, Oh my god, I was tired.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: And it was actually my birthday that day, which is needed.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: Everything was better. And remember as I was leaving one
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: of the girls. She was not being patty whatsoever. She'son
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: sweet like well happy birthday, like a nice slide home.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, thank you. That's great. Um,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: it was so talking that I think it was okay.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: But you know what movies when you're outside and everything
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: just it's just such disaster and then it starts raining
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: and then it's like they can't constantly get any worse.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: It was that kind of feeling, which is why I
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: was like, all right, well I'm gonna go home now,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: and so it like that, Um yeah, does that answer
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: your question? And my word vomiting again because I feel
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: like I am No, Alex, You're doing great. Don't be
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: don't be nervous. This is just a podcast. It's Ashley Night.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: We just hang out and talk to each other. We
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: were a word vomit on each other all day and
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: people still listen. Alex, we really appreciate coming on the podcast.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: We hope to see the sloth around more. Ashley. I
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: know you're wondering this final question, could we and would
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: we see you in paradise? That's the question. That's a
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: fair question. I'm definitely open to anything. I'm probably just
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: going at it. I don't really know what I'm doing
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: with this kind of stuff, but I'm so open to anything.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: I'm definitely single, so I don't see why not, but
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: I can't confirm anything before. Oh so that sounds like
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: maybe you're not open to it because maybe you have
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: a bullet friend. No, I'm open to it, of first,
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: I am. It sounds very fun. I heard I don't
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: like him that much. He can go, he can we
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: very quickly. He's not back. Hey, Alex, thank you so
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: much for coming on. Welcome to Almost Famous podcast and
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: we will talk to you soon. Perfect. Thanks to go
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: talk to you, to talk to you, Ashley. To close
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: up the podcast today, we have a couple listener emails.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: What what an episode? I mean again, we bring Colton
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor on the episode, and we still have reader
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: emails or listener emails. Ashley, I'm gonna read the first
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: one to you. It's from Anonymous. We love Anonymous, it's
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: our favorite. They say, too much virginity talk. Well, we
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: couldn't agree more. I like to tell you all discussed
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: how over we are about talking about Colton's you know what,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: I don't even like saying it. They said. Also, I
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: liked how Ben, I appreciate that pointed out how disgustity
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: it was with the girls saying that they wanted to
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: take it. However, I just want to point out one thing.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: Ben brought it up again in the same joking tone
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: that the show does. Colton is not in bed with anybody,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: and it's really and it really aggravated me. I just
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: want to point out the stark hypocrisy there so that
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: hopefully I don't have to hear it again. Hey, I
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: don't remember exactly what you're talking about. I'm sure I
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: meant it in the best ways. We fill two hours
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: or an hour and a half of talking and sometimes
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: things just don't come out the way you desire. And
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: so with that, I hope you keep listening. I'll probably
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: make him at again, and for that I apologize. Then
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: we have another one from Megan. She says, I wanted
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: to say thank you for bringing attention to the fact
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: that it seems like the show is on the borderline
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: of shaming him for his virginity. I'm still a virgin myself,
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: and it brings out so many insecurity to see someone
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: constantly talked about like he's a freak. M I think
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: a freak is a it's a strong term. I I mean,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: I think talking about even being a virgin isn't necessarily
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: calling him a freak. But hey, whatever you want. Hey,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: this one from Cindy. Colton premier says I hated the
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: premier of Colton Season. I felt the live watch parties
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: were too much to keep popping over to. It really
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: took me out of what was happening with Colton and
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: the women. By the time we got to the road ceremony,
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: I could not even remember any of the women and
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: was not invested at all. And who he picked. Hey,
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: we've talked about is Cindy. Episode one is always bad.
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think there's ever been an episode one I've
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: watched and I've been like, that is incredible. It's nice
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: to meet the people, but you really start meeting him.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like this week on one, week two we
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: really got to know the woman a little better. So
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: I'd say week one you just kind of do it.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: You get it over with, it's the entry, and then
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: you really get into the season. I get what you're saying, Cindy.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: It's tough. You know that the show might have done
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: itself a little bit of an injustice, but we enjoyed
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: doing it. Ashley and Jerry did a great job. The
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: rest of the team did a good job. But from
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: here on out, I think we can all promise no
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: more live Watch parties. Act we we gotta, I know,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: and we're still not done yet. We have a touch
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: on Ari and Lauren's wedding. I think we would have
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: brought that up earlier in the show if we really
• 1:20:32
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• 1:20:35
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• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: the wedding. Everybody seemed so ecstatic about it. Chris Harrison
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  Speaker 1: posted some nice posts. Uh, Lauren's dress was beautiful, there
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  Speaker 1: is no baby bump in site with a dress, and
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  Speaker 1: their venue was just as magical and Twilight esque as
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  Speaker 1: Lauren and are painted on the in depth episode with them.
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  Speaker 1: They they are a really wonderful couple. Lauren is absolutely gorgeous.
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  Speaker 1: Or already hit a home run, already cares about her
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  Speaker 1: so much so she hit a home run and return
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  Speaker 1: Their lives are just getting started thinking about this. They
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  Speaker 1: just got married, and before we know, we're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: talking about them having their baby and starting this life together.
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  Speaker 1: We don't have a lot of scoop. I'm sure there's
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  Speaker 1: a couple of kisses in't here and there from somebody
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  Speaker 1: in the crowd and whatever, but we just don't know it.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna keep digging. But either way, let's just celebrate them.
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  Speaker 1: All the listeners out there, make sure you tweet them, um,
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  Speaker 1: but tag the almost famous podcast in your tweets and
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  Speaker 1: let them know that this podcast loves and adores them. Next,
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  Speaker 1: we brought up with Colton uh, and we gotta bring
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  Speaker 1: it up here. Um. We're still digging into the details here,
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  Speaker 1: but the Caitlin Jason scenario, it would be crazy if
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  Speaker 1: we didn't talk about it. They're a thing, right, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm that's what I'm seeing Like this. This is not
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  Speaker 1: just like they went on their date that was highlighted
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  Speaker 1: and talked about on Caitlin's podcast, But this is like
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  Speaker 1: now a thing. Yeah. So they had a scheduled first
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  Speaker 1: date and that was supposedly in Denver on Saturday, But
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  Speaker 1: I think we all feel like their first date may
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  Speaker 1: have been months ago. I'm not I'm trying to figure
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  Speaker 1: this out from what Colton said, what we hear, they
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  Speaker 1: probably have talked for a while, but now, for whatever reason,
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  Speaker 1: it's time to publicize it. So let's call this their
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  Speaker 1: first official publicist publicized date. Yeah, we'll say that this
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  Speaker 1: is the beginning of a maybe a relationship. This was
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  Speaker 1: this was their weekend. This is the start, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the crazy part, Ash and I want to hear what
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  Speaker 1: you think about this is, once you publicly talk about
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  Speaker 1: a relationship or showed off on social media, unless you're
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  Speaker 1: you're not monogamous, which I know that's a thing that
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: people choose not to be as well. But if you're
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: in a monogamous relationship, once you promote it on social media,
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  Speaker 1: you're probably you're pretty much saying like, hey, this is
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  Speaker 1: the person I'm dating. Like if Jason Caitlin were trying
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  Speaker 1: to just get to know each other, it feels they
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  Speaker 1: took the step down to say and we ain't eat
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  Speaker 1: anybody else. Oh, apps of freaking lutely. Oh yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: I'm really happy for both of them. They seem so happy.
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  Speaker 1: They're like giddy. Don't you find them giddy over each other?
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  Speaker 1: I mean from watching the instagrams. I was watching Instagram's
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  Speaker 1: a little bit ago. Yeah, they seem very giddy. It's
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: you know, it does feel like these Bachelor relationships happen
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: a lot post show. It feels like, you know, you
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: do the show, you get off the show, UM, and
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: you end up kind of relating with somebody. You're meeting somebody.
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  Speaker 1: This feels like one UM that has some legs, at
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: least from what we've seen. You gotta be happy for him,
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  Speaker 1: you know. We gotta bring up, though, how do you
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  Speaker 1: think Sean's feeling. I don't know. I guess we'll ask
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  Speaker 1: him next week when he's in studio. Exactly, great tease there.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have Sean Booth next week in studio talking
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: about everything. I mean, this is an in depth episode.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: We did it with Ari and Lauren. Um. It's a
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: spinoff off this podcast. It's one that we just want
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: to dive into Sean and Sean alone and hear from
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  Speaker 1: his perspective. Uh. You know, we're fans of them all.
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  Speaker 1: We like them all. This is obviously not an easy
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: situation because of the public lives that they live. But
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: here's my last question for anybody out there listening. Please
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: write us at been a Ashley. iHeart media dot com.
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  Speaker 1: I actually want to hear your opinion, this is gonna
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: be brutal. Does it matter how Sean feels right now?
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  Speaker 1: I mean it matters as a person, and it matters
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  Speaker 1: to us as friends, and it matters to the people
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: around him, and it matters that we support him. But
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: is there any problem publicizing this relationship? You know what, Ben,
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: That's a fantastic question and one that I don't even
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: have my own opinion formed on right now. Well, we'll
• 1:24:44
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  Speaker 1: Please tell us. I'm just saying I don't know where
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: that boundary is. How long do you weigh? Uh? Do
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: you what is the respect level? When do you enter
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: back into relationship? It's something we've talked about in my
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  Speaker 1: own personal life. I've been affected by this. We've all
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  Speaker 1: have been affected by this, especially in the day and
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