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DLHS Hour 2 | What Had Happened was Friday · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: So Wednesday what happened was Lisa Rae explains why she
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  Speaker 1: would only date a rich man.
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  Speaker 2: Take a listen.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to stress you out by trying to
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  Speaker 3: keep up with my lifestyle that I already have and
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  Speaker 3: I'm accustomed to.
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  Speaker 4: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Because if I'm going to these restaurants just for lunch
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  Speaker 3: meetings and it takes you your whole check to take
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  Speaker 3: me there, I don't want to stress you out. You
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  Speaker 3: cannot hang with me. You are still wanting to vacation
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  Speaker 3: for the weekend. I vacation and go on holiday for
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  Speaker 3: the month. We are not going to be able to
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  Speaker 3: make this work. That's simple to me.
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  Speaker 1: How feasible is a relationship with a man makes considerably
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  Speaker 1: less than a woman? We asked, did we put that
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  Speaker 1: to you?
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  Speaker 2: You said.
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  Speaker 5: I think this is a double standard that men and
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  Speaker 5: women have where a woman, when she has money and
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  Speaker 5: the man doesn't, she looks down on him where as
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  Speaker 5: a man doesn't care whether a woman has the money
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  Speaker 5: or not. I think it's not fair, but it's just
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  Speaker 5: a double standard that there is.
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  Speaker 6: I would tell Lisa Rae, I hope she's got a
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  Speaker 6: good dog or a cat, because if that's the criteria
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  Speaker 6: that she's looking for, it ain't a lot of them
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  Speaker 6: out there that can afford to go on a vacation
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  Speaker 6: for a month. Good luck, baby.
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  Speaker 7: Man, this lady crazy.
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  Speaker 8: There's no way.
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  Speaker 6: First of all.
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  Speaker 7: Why would you say something like that when you know
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  Speaker 7: you didn't come from that background when you coming up
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  Speaker 7: in the ranks anyway? I just find it funny how
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  Speaker 7: when we finally make some money, our mind and our.
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  Speaker 5: Actions and all that stuff start to change.
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  Speaker 6: That's what's wrong with.
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  Speaker 9: These women, some of these women and men, too.
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  Speaker 7: We get some money, and our whole lifestyle and our
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  Speaker 7: whole way of thinking changes.
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  Speaker 6: You're still the same person.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't come from that.
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  Speaker 6: So how do you.
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  Speaker 7: Expect to have a relationship when it's all about money?
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  Speaker 6: It'll never work.
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  Speaker 7: That's all I got to say.
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  Speaker 6: It'll never work, no matter who it is.
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  Speaker 8: My sister makes more than double what her husband makes.
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  Speaker 8: And they've been married for, I don't know, 30, 40
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  Speaker 8: years now. And you know what she did that I
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  Speaker 8: thought was really smart? Well, what they did is she pays,
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  Speaker 8: like if he pays, let's say the rent is $ 100.
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  Speaker 8: He'll pay $ 25 and she'll pay $ 75. So, you know,
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  Speaker 8: that goes along with the bills, the cars, you know.
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  Speaker 8: They kind of pay according to the scale of wage
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  Speaker 8: that they earn. And I think that works out well.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody's still paying, and everybody still feels good. Love your show, y'all. Peace.
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  Speaker 10: I'm going to kind of side with D.L. I know
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  Speaker 10: he just didn't want to say it because him and
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  Speaker 10: Lisa are friends, but, you know, having an expectation of
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  Speaker 10: a man, you know, keeping up your lifestyle, I think
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  Speaker 10: that's a little overboard. If you're in a marriage, if
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  Speaker 10: you're in a relationship, you're supposed to be there to
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  Speaker 10: help each other out, not to just support your lifestyle.
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  Speaker 10: In that little clip that she had, I didn't hear
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  Speaker 10: one thing about her saying, I want to support you
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  Speaker 10: as well, or, you know, it's all about her. And,
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  Speaker 10: you know, it's not going to work for her very well,
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  Speaker 10: I don't believe. It's certain things that I do for
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  Speaker 10: my wife because I love her, but it's not to
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  Speaker 10: keep up a lifestyle. You know, that's something that was
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  Speaker 10: back in the 60s, 70s, people trying to keep up
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  Speaker 10: with the Joneses.
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  Speaker 6: This is 2026.
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  Speaker 10: You're supposed to keep up with what you and your
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  Speaker 10: family got going on and how you're going to make
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  Speaker 10: yourselves better. So it's not going to work for us.
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  Speaker 10: She's going to be looking for a long time.
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  Speaker 11: Trust me.
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  Speaker 1: Yesterday we asked.
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  Speaker 12: Man with money is expected to share. But a woman
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  Speaker 12: with money is told she doesn't need a man. Same income,
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  Speaker 12: totally different rules. Let me explain before you get mad.
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  Speaker 12: In our culture, men are taught from day one that
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  Speaker 12: if they're not earning, they're failing. If they can't provide,
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  Speaker 12: they're not real men. If they don't pick up the check,
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  Speaker 12: they're broker stingy. A man's value is often reduced to
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  Speaker 12: his financial output. Now flip the script. When women become successful,
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  Speaker 12: we don't expect them to carry anybody. In fact, we
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  Speaker 12: celebrate it as a form of freedom. Yes, queen, you're independent.
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  Speaker 12: She doesn't need a man. He's expected to provide, but
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  Speaker 12: she's expected to escape. Because if we really want partnership,
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  Speaker 12: then we need to stop placing all the financial burden
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  Speaker 12: on one side while celebrating freedom on the other.
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  Speaker 1: Men are taught to share when they make money, and
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  Speaker 1: women are taught to be selfish. I don't think they
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  Speaker 1: have to.
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  Speaker 2: Be taught to be. Watch yourself.
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  Speaker 7: Watch yourself.
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  Speaker 2: It depends on how they use it. I think it's innate.
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  Speaker 1: It's just humor. So we put that question to you,
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  Speaker 1: and some people obviously didn't have a sense of humor.
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  Speaker 11: Now here you go, though. Take a listen.
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  Speaker 4: I believe that situation is taken out of context. Women
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  Speaker 4: have been told forever that we need a man to
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  Speaker 4: take care of us, provide for us. And I don't
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  Speaker 4: feel that a woman means she doesn't need a man
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  Speaker 4: in the sense that she doesn't want to be with
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  Speaker 4: a man. I think we just enjoy that we can
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  Speaker 4: take care of ourselves. I don't know about the rest
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  Speaker 4: of the women. I want a man. I got a man.
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  Speaker 6: But I can take care of myself.
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  Speaker 10: That's the same thing as saying when you're in a relationship,
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  Speaker 10: a man is supposed to pay 100% of the bills.
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  Speaker 2: While the woman's money is used just to make her
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  Speaker 2: look single and independent.
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  Speaker 11: Okay, I've been in that position before. I've had a
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  Speaker 11: controlling ex-husband for 12 years. So when I left, I
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  Speaker 11: was completely broke because I wasn't allowed to leave or anything.
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  Speaker 11: But I completely agree with her, whoever said that, because
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  Speaker 11: I was a single mom at three when I left.
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  Speaker 11: And I had a 14-year-old, a six-year-old, and a four-year-old.
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  Speaker 11: So I struggled. So I ended up working two jobs
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  Speaker 11: and getting myself off my feet. I'm a home health
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  Speaker 11: aide now. working with people with Alzheimer's and dementia but
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  Speaker 11: yeah I back that question because you never know what's
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  Speaker 11: going to happen when they're in control of the money
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  Speaker 11: you're going to be just out.
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  Speaker 13: Of luck Women who make the money think they are
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  Speaker 13: privileged enough that a man that makes less than them
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  Speaker 13: is beneath them, which I think is wrong.
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  Speaker 6: Because if a.
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  Speaker 13: Man makes the money and he finds a broke woman,
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  Speaker 13: he is supposed to provide and be the protector. But
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  Speaker 13: if a woman makes the money, she still wants the
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  Speaker 13: man to be the provider and the protector, and she
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  Speaker 13: uses her money for herself. But I think that is wrong.
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  Speaker 6: But in today's society, most.
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  Speaker 13: Men, when they run across a woman that makes the
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  Speaker 13: majority of the money, they be moving because it's a headache.
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  Speaker 2: It could be true.
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  Speaker 4: It's kind of like you have a daughter and they
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  Speaker 4: say whether she be pretty or smart.
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  Speaker 5: I saw an interview to ask Diane Carroll that, and
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  Speaker 5: she didn't answer.
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  Speaker 7: Because pretty girls are taught you will always find somebody
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  Speaker 7: to take care of, so.
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  Speaker 11: It's kind of up in the air.
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  Speaker 9: Drop that culture. When I say that, as far as
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  Speaker 9: men and women, when men and women get together and
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  Speaker 9: have a relationship, then it needs to be us. So
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  Speaker 9: whatever income is coming in, whether it's his income, her income,
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  Speaker 9: bring it together. The income needs to be brought together
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  Speaker 9: and let's think what we're doing for us. What are
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  Speaker 9: we doing for our family? What are we doing for
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  Speaker 9: each other? And all that individualism goes away when you
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  Speaker 9: come together in a relationship, dare I say marriage, with somebody.
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  Speaker 9: It's a collective.
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  Speaker 1: Now it's time to give a deserving someone the shoe
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  Speaker 1: booty of the week award.
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  Speaker 2: And now it's time for the shoe booty of the
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  Speaker 2: week award.
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  Speaker 11: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: I see what you did there. Ted Cruz is an
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  Speaker 2: American politician, attorney, and political commentator serving as the junior
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  Speaker 2: United States Senator from Texas. a member of the republican
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  Speaker 2: party cruz received widespread popular backlash for objecting in the
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  Speaker 2: 2020 presidential election and giving credence to the false claim
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  Speaker 2: that the election was fraudulent what is wrong with you
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  Speaker 2: so why is ted cruz this week's recipient of the
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  Speaker 2: shoe booty of the week award Okay, I'm listening.
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  Speaker 12: Let me get a pen.
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  Speaker 2: Ted Schmooze gets the shoe booty because he brought an
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  Speaker 2: alternative meaning to the term baller. His unwavering ass kissery
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  Speaker 2: for Tenny Soprano hit new lows this week. Despite the fact.
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  Speaker 14: That I am your president called him a liar, called
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  Speaker 14: his wife ugly, and said his dad had something to
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  Speaker 14: do with the assassination of JFK, any other guy.
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  Speaker 2: Would have parked a man saying that about his family.
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  Speaker 11: What you say about my mama?
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  Speaker 2: But Maple Ted still praises him like he's living comfortably
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  Speaker 2: up his butt in a hot Airbnb.
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 2: He was on a Sean Hannity podcast and said, look,
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  Speaker 2: my favorite attribute about Donald Trump is the guy has
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  Speaker 2: cast iron balls. A little cunnilingus ain't never hurt nobody.
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  Speaker 2: He just does. So apparently, we've been giving participation trophies
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  Speaker 2: to the wrong people. So, I guess we can retire
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  Speaker 2: Martin Luther King Jr. for the Civil Rights Movement and
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  Speaker 2: Malcolm X. Those were just bronze. Harriet Tubman, Aluminum. According
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  Speaker 2: to Cruz, the all-time champion of human courage is the
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  Speaker 2: guy who spent 2016 calling him Lying Ted, insulting his wife,
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  Speaker 2: and still got his endorsement. You big dummy! That's not
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  Speaker 2: Iron Ted. That's just a very well-oiled loyalty program. T-Bagging
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  Speaker 2: Ted praises Genghis Don's balls, but he proved he's a eunuch.
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  Speaker 3: Aww!
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  Speaker 2: And that's why the shoe booty of the week award
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  Speaker 2: goes to Ted Cruz. Now here's a swift kick in
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  Speaker 2: the ass.