Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Father Will Not Let Brother-in-Law Watch Sons

Transcript

DLHS Hour 2 | Father Will Not Let Brother-in-Law Watch Sons · The D.L. Hughley Show

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: So he won't let his transgender brother-in-law babysit his kids.
• 0:03
  Speaker 1: Like these days, you're lucky you can get anybody to
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: babysit anybody's kids. I bet if he wanted to go
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: somewhere bad enough, he'd take his chances. So what do
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: you think, Junice? You think that.
• 0:16
  Speaker 2: Well, he knows his brother better than anybody.
• 0:18
  Speaker 3: No, he didn't. He didn't know he was a broad.
• 0:20
  Speaker 3: He said he ain't been around for 10 years.
• 0:21
  Speaker 4: And when he left, he was a dude.
• 0:23
  Speaker 3: Now he came back with kulaks.
• 0:27
  Speaker 4: You know why.
• 0:28
  Speaker 3: He came back with pinna pushers on. Hey, man.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: Love is love. I mean, long as the dude is,
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, the woman is a loving woman and he
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: has trust. It should be no issue.
• 0:40
  Speaker 3: That's what he said.
• 0:41
  Speaker 5: He doesn't have a trip because he does not know
• 0:43
  Speaker 5: this iteration of this person.
• 0:44
  Speaker 3: That's his main.
• 0:46
  Speaker 4: He does have a problem with the other part, but
• 0:48
  Speaker 4: his main thing is.
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: Well, the other part ain't there no more, Skip.
• 0:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean, that's like having a straight pedophile brother.
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: You want to leave your kids with him.
• 1:00
  Speaker 4: Just because he's straight?
• 1:01
  Speaker 6: Come on, man.
• 1:02
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't leave my kids around anybody I hadn't seen
• 1:04
  Speaker 4: for 10 years.
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: No, my favorite aunt was gay. And as subsequently, all
• 1:10
  Speaker 2: her friends were gay. And as kids, we always hung
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: out with him. She was our cool aunt. You know,
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: she would always take us out. So we would be
• 1:17
  Speaker 2: with them, be around them all the time. And they
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: were the coolest people on the planet.
• 1:21
  Speaker 3: Aunt Merle and her special friend. Right. That's right. Aunt C.
• 1:25
  Speaker 3: May and Tina.
• 1:26
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 1:27
  Speaker 3: Aunt Marie and all of her friends.
• 1:30
  Speaker 2: And I mean, but they were cool people.
• 1:32
  Speaker 3: They look out for you.
• 1:33
  Speaker 2: It's no big thing.
• 1:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, man.
• 1:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: I do think I think men probably have a harder
• 1:40
  Speaker 1: time with that.
• 1:41
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 1:41
  Speaker 1: Just in general, not to stereotype, but I think. But
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: I think that the sad thing is there's a complexion
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: between somebody being gay or transgender and pedophilia, too, and
• 1:49
  Speaker 1: they're not the same at all.
• 1:51
  Speaker 3: Not at all.
• 1:52
  Speaker 2: And then as Skip explained the whole scenario, then I
• 1:55
  Speaker 2: guess I would understand if it was.
• 1:57
  Speaker 4: A total stranger.
• 1:58
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: I ain't seen in 10 years. It just cut them
• 2:00
  Speaker 2: loose with my kids. I guess I would have a problem.
• 2:03
  Speaker 3: Unless you really don't like your kids.
• 2:06
  Speaker 5: He left back in the day with some Jabot jeans
• 2:08
  Speaker 5: on and came back with a boy.
• 2:10
  Speaker 4: With a sundress.
• 2:12
  Speaker 6: Who are you?
• 2:13
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 2:15
  Speaker 8: Okay.
• 2:15
  Speaker 1: Well, so the question we're asking a man refused to
• 2:19
  Speaker 1: let his transgender brother-in-law babysit his kids.
• 2:22
  Speaker 3: What do you think? Jasmine, what do you think?
• 2:23
  Speaker 9: I think it's silly. I'm not going to say it's silly.
• 2:25
  Speaker 9: I understand that you might be concerned about the questions.
• 2:29
  Speaker 9: You know, but your kids are going to always have questions,
• 2:31
  Speaker 9: be it your transgender brother or whatever or somebody else.
• 2:35
  Speaker 9: So I think, you know, although you can change your
• 2:37
  Speaker 9: body parts, I think if he was always a loving
• 2:39
  Speaker 9: person or she, whatever their pronouns.
• 2:41
  Speaker 4: Are, was always a loving person, they probably still are.
• 2:44
  Speaker 9: And if they want to spend time or babysit the kid,
• 2:46
  Speaker 9: you know, like you said, it's very difficult at times
• 2:49
  Speaker 9: to get someone to watch your kid. So my thing
• 2:51
  Speaker 9: is love is love. And, you know, as long as
• 2:53
  Speaker 9: I don't think that they're going to do anything to
• 2:54
  Speaker 9: harm them, then I don't see why I would stand
• 2:57
  Speaker 9: in the way of a relationship.
• 2:58
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 3:00
  Speaker 3: We talked about that yesterday, standing in the way of relationships.
• 3:02
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't do it.
• 3:04
  Speaker 1: If your child is funny looking or bad, take what.
• 3:07
  Speaker 4: You can get.
• 3:10
  Speaker 3: Take what you can get. Yeah, you can't.
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: What you don't get to do is decide. Whoever come
• 3:16
  Speaker 1: get them, just take them.
• 3:18
  Speaker 3: Come get them. You can't be judicious. I'll go on
• 3:23
  Speaker 3: to the phones. What do you think?
• 3:24
  Speaker 10: I wouldn't want my children around Rihanna or whatever the
• 3:28
  Speaker 10: name is because kids tend to pattern after who.
• 3:35
  Speaker 11: They're around, and sometimes that's how pedophiles do. They try
• 3:39
  Speaker 11: to gain the trust of the little people, and next
• 3:42
  Speaker 11: thing you know, they're growing up to be just like them.
• 3:45
  Speaker 11: I'm so against it. I'm like that man, totally against it.
• 3:49
  Speaker 12: I'm calling from Cleveland. Here's my thing, man. I don't
• 3:53
  Speaker 12: care if it's a transgender or whoever. If you haven't
• 3:58
  Speaker 12: been around a family in 10 years and then all
• 4:00
  Speaker 12: of a sudden you just come back around, no, you're
• 4:02
  Speaker 12: not watching my kids, and especially not overnight. If somebody's transgender,
• 4:08
  Speaker 12: they're transgender.
• 4:09
  Speaker 13: That's their life. They have to deal with God on that.
• 4:12
  Speaker 13: But I definitely understand the father being uncomfortable for anybody.
• 4:18
  Speaker 13: Like I said, it doesn't matter if they're transgender or whoever.
• 4:20
  Speaker 13: If one of the parents is uncomfortable with somebody watching
• 4:24
  Speaker 13: their child, they should be able to say how uncomfortable
• 4:27
  Speaker 13: they are and not allow that person to not watch
• 4:31
  Speaker 13: their child without any repercussions. So that's my take, man.
• 4:35
  Speaker 6: Hopefully they get this resolved.
• 4:37
  Speaker 7: First of all, he has a right to decide what
• 4:41
  Speaker 7: he wants his kids to be and, you know, to
• 4:43
  Speaker 7: look after his kids. That's his right. And if he
• 4:46
  Speaker 7: don't feel that people are doing so much to kids,
• 4:49
  Speaker 7: you know, you have to be careful about who you
• 4:51
  Speaker 7: have around your kids, especially family, because a lot of
• 4:53
  Speaker 7: times that's where it all starts. So I feel like, yeah,
• 4:56
  Speaker 7: he has the right. I feel like he's in the
• 4:59
  Speaker 7: right to protect his kids.
• 5:00
  Speaker 14: That's his child.
• 5:01
  Speaker 7: They'll go be his children. Yeah, he has the right.
• 5:04
  Speaker 15: If he don't have faith and trust and the transactional presence,
• 5:08
  Speaker 15: I wouldn't even let him go with my kids either.
• 5:10
  Speaker 16: Because you never know what's going.
• 5:11
  Speaker 15: To take place when you're not there. And that is
• 5:14
  Speaker 15: my belief. Because, I mean, if you're not there, you
• 5:16
  Speaker 15: don't know what's going on.
• 5:17
  Speaker 16: And the next thing you know, your kids come back
• 5:19
  Speaker 16: and tell you, he did this or she did this
• 5:22
  Speaker 16: or whatever the gender may be.
• 5:24
  Speaker 15: Came back and said, well, he or she did this
• 5:26
  Speaker 15: to me. And then now we got problems. So I
• 5:28
  Speaker 15: wouldn't even have him around my kids if I feel
• 5:30
  Speaker 15: insecure about that.
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: So the question we're asking the father is, refused to
• 5:34
  Speaker 1: let his transgender brother-in-law babysit his kids.
• 5:37
  Speaker 3: You think he is right? We let you hear a
• 5:39
  Speaker 3: little of the audio. Okay, people.
• 5:42
  Speaker 17: So apparently I'm sleeping in the guest room and I'm
• 5:44
  Speaker 17: getting a divorce because I won't allow my wife's brother,
• 5:47
  Speaker 17: who's a trans, to watch our kids. So I'm giving
• 5:50
  Speaker 17: you the backstory. He hasn't been seen in this family
• 5:54
  Speaker 17: for about 10 years, right? He finally comes back around
• 5:58
  Speaker 17: as Brianna. His name was Brandon. Now he's Brianna.
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: No big deal.
• 6:03
  Speaker 17: Okay, do you. But the first thing you do when
• 6:06
  Speaker 17: you get back is not to offer to watch our
• 6:08
  Speaker 17: kids overnight. Look, Brianna, Brianna, I'm just now meeting this
• 6:15
  Speaker 17: new person. When I met you, you was Brandon. Two,
• 6:19
  Speaker 17: my religious purposes is not going to allow me to
• 6:21
  Speaker 17: let a transsexual man, woman, to be out of town
• 6:28
  Speaker 17: with our kids and Disneyland.
• 6:32
  Speaker 3: It just doesn't look good.
• 6:34
  Speaker 1: So he won't let his transgender brother-in-law babysit his kids.
• 6:37
  Speaker 1: Like these days, you're lucky you can get anybody to
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: babysit anybody's kids.
• 6:42
  Speaker 3: Now we're going to the phones. What do you think?
• 6:44
  Speaker 6: He's the man of the house. He's the protector, you know?
• 6:47
  Speaker 6: And you leave and be gone for years, and you
• 6:50
  Speaker 6: left as a man, and you come back dressed as
• 6:51
  Speaker 6: a woman, and you think I'm going to leave my
• 6:53
  Speaker 6: kids with you overnight? I wish I would. And the wife,
• 6:56
  Speaker 6: what that says about her? I thought when you get married,
• 6:59
  Speaker 6: I thought y'all become one. He's saying like, you love it.
• 7:01
  Speaker 6: She loved her brother more than she loved her husband.
• 7:04
  Speaker 6: So not only to me, he should have been kicked
• 7:05
  Speaker 6: out to the curb. You can get another woman. But
• 7:07
  Speaker 6: those children and those kids are my responsibility. I'm their protector.
• 7:12
  Speaker 6: And I don't care if it was her brother or
• 7:15
  Speaker 6: my siblings. You are not going to keep my kids.
• 7:17
  Speaker 6: You left as a man. You come back as a woman.
• 7:19
  Speaker 6: And you expect me to leave my kids overnight. What
• 7:21
  Speaker 6: if that child goes up and 18 years old and say, hey, daddy,
• 7:24
  Speaker 6: guess what? Uncle Brandon touched me when I was five. See,
• 7:27
  Speaker 6: now I'm in prison. So, again, I agree with the gentleman. So, no,
• 7:31
  Speaker 6: I would never let that happen.
• 7:33
  Speaker 14: I do not believe that he is in the wrong.
• 7:36
  Speaker 14: You have to protect your children's spirit and their minds
• 7:41
  Speaker 14: as much as possible. And that's the problem with these
• 7:43
  Speaker 14: new parents. They're just exposing their kids to everything. My
• 7:47
  Speaker 14: daughter is 11 years old. She will not color her
• 7:49
  Speaker 14: hair until she's a sophomore. Until she's a sophomore. She
• 7:54
  Speaker 14: better not put on no lipstick red until she's a senior.
• 7:57
  Speaker 14: I'm not playing none of that.
• 7:58
  Speaker 12: I'm a 33-year-old mother.
• 8:00
  Speaker 7: And I wish I would.
• 8:02
  Speaker 18: I don't know what your agenda is.
• 8:03
  Speaker 14: You've been gone for 10 years. How do I know
• 8:05
  Speaker 14: that my children.
• 8:06
  Speaker 7: Are safe with you? You're wording.
• 8:08
  Speaker 14: I need to know that you are still on the
• 8:10
  Speaker 14: up and up and will protect my children's spirit and
• 8:13
  Speaker 14: their soul.
• 8:14
  Speaker 18: Because I'm not getting ready to be held accountable for
• 8:16
  Speaker 18: being negligent over my children. So, no, he is not wrong.
• 8:20
  Speaker 18: Go on a divorce and go live your best life
• 8:22
  Speaker 18: and raise your kids. And if it becomes a problem,
• 8:25
  Speaker 18: then you need to handle that with the mama and
• 8:26
  Speaker 18: the court. That's how far y'all got to take it.
• 8:29
  Speaker 18: if y'all can't handle it, mother and father.
• 8:31
  Speaker 7: But as for me and mine, absolutely not.
• 8:35
  Speaker 13: No, sir.
• 8:35
  Speaker 18: He's not wrong.
• 8:37
  Speaker 8: No, born a male, still a male. I don't care
• 8:41
  Speaker 8: what kind of transition that he made mentally. It hasn't
• 8:45
  Speaker 8: been done physically.
• 8:46
  Speaker 16: And no, he has no.
• 8:48
  Speaker 8: Business being around smaller kids because his brain kind of
• 8:51
  Speaker 8: warped anyway, you know, for the thought of transitioning. But anyway, no,
• 8:57
  Speaker 8: I would not let him around my male child or
• 9:00
  Speaker 8: female child. Absolutely not.
• 9:03
  Speaker 1: It is now time for One Voyage Jeopardy with the
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: military man, Jamal Kingsley.
• 9:09
  Speaker 4: Hello, my brothers and sisters.
• 9:11
  Speaker 5: It is time for another riveting episode of One Voyage Jeopardy.
• 9:17
  Speaker 5: Today's contestants, the beautiful Jasmine Sanders.
• 9:21
  Speaker 4: Woo-hoo!
• 9:22
  Speaker 9: Yay!
• 9:23
  Speaker 4: The other contestant, the not-so-beautiful Junius Town.
• 9:27
  Speaker 3: But beautiful on the inside.
• 9:29
  Speaker 6: There you go.
• 9:30
  Speaker 3: Hey, Mama. I didn't say hi to her last time. Hey,
• 9:33
  Speaker 3: Miss Irene. She's a small neighbor across the street.
• 9:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, let's get to it. What's she got to do
• 9:38
  Speaker 4: with the game?
• 9:39
  Speaker 5: All right, for those of you who are listening, I
• 9:41
  Speaker 5: will give some lyrics from artists from the One Voyage Crews.
• 9:45
  Speaker 4: You will have to guess which artisan song it is.
• 9:47
  Speaker 4: Let's start off.
• 9:48
  Speaker 5: Jasmine, are you ready?
• 9:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, indeed.
• 9:52
  Speaker 4: Here are your lyrics.
• 9:54
  Speaker 5: And if by chance you let me come over out
• 9:58
  Speaker 5: of the street, I want to see you, baby.
• 10:01
  Speaker 4: And if by chance you let me just hold you.
• 10:03
  Speaker 3: Hmm.
• 10:05
  Speaker 4: What is confunctions? Congratulations!
• 10:11
  Speaker 14: Yes, I knew it, I knew it, I knew it.
• 10:13
  Speaker 16: Confunctions!
• 10:14
  Speaker 8: Confunctions!
• 10:27
  Speaker 4: All right, Junius, here are your lyrics.
• 10:36
  Speaker 5: You're so fly, you're so high. Everybody around you trying
• 10:40
  Speaker 5: to figure out why. You're so cool and you win
• 10:44
  Speaker 5: all the time. Everywhere you go, man, you get a
• 10:47
  Speaker 5: lot of shine.
• 10:49
  Speaker 3: Uh, who is? Call it a game.
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, man.
• 10:55
  Speaker 4: Erica Campbell.
• 10:55
  Speaker 7: What is incorrect?
• 10:59
  Speaker 5: Erica Campbell and Mary Mary, the God in me.
• 11:13
  Speaker 4: This is the last one. You ready? Here we go.
• 11:16
  Speaker 4: They have just been added to the cruise. I'll give
• 11:19
  Speaker 4: you a hint.
• 11:20
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 11:21
  Speaker 4: Y'all jump in when you know what it is.
• 11:23
  Speaker 5: But no, don't weep. Blank in a state of sleep.
• 11:28
  Speaker 5: Thinking about the robbery I did last week. Money in
• 11:32
  Speaker 5: the bag, banker, look like a drag.
• 11:35
  Speaker 4: I want to play with pelicans from here to Baghdad.
• 11:39
  Speaker 3: Uh, who is Wyclef John?
• 11:41
  Speaker 7: Congratulations!
• 11:41
  Speaker 9: You can have it.
• 11:44
  Speaker 2: I don't have it.
• 11:44
  Speaker 4: You can have it. Fuge is ready or not. Featuring
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: Wyclef John.
• 11:55
  Speaker 3: I want to play with pelicans from here to Baghdad.
• 11:58
  Speaker 3: There it is.
• 11:59
  Speaker 4: One Voyage Cruise.
• 12:00
  Speaker 5: Starting at just $ 1, 900 per person.
• 12:03
  Speaker 4: Based on the We Pick It Insider triple occupancy rate.
• 12:06
  Speaker 5: Limited inventory restrictions apply at OB2026. com or call 214-495-1963.
• 12:12
  Speaker 4: Don't wait. Secure your spot before it's too late. Book
• 12:17
  Speaker 4: your cabin now. How's that for One Voyage Jeopardy, my brother?