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TJ Houshmandzadeh talks flag football with Snoop Dogg, getting his GED, bad boy Bengals teams, and more · NFL Game Previews

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  Speaker 1: I didn't care about life after football because I didn't
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  Speaker 1: realize how quickly it was going to come upon me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and that's another thing that's real, like after life after football,
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  Speaker 1: start planning on it because I didn't. And when you
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  Speaker 1: have nothing, you just get bored more than anything, and uh,
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  Speaker 1: then you got to figure out things to do.
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  Speaker 2: Thank y'all for tuning in. I'm Peanut Tuming and this
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  Speaker 2: is the NFL Players Second Act Podcast and with me
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  Speaker 2: as always, I got the fourth member of the OJS,
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  Speaker 2: mister Roman Harp on the show today. What's up Baby?
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  Speaker 3: What's up baby?
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate him and I learned who the OJS was
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  Speaker 4: yesterday here in Motown, So.
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  Speaker 2: I know you line, I mean not really.
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  Speaker 3: I don't really lie like that.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm just always surprised and I don't know everything.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna talk offline about that. Let's all right, all right, let's.
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  Speaker 3: Get to it then. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I'm looking forward to our guests today. We have a
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  Speaker 4: good friend of ours who I've got to know just
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  Speaker 4: through NFL ties.
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  Speaker 2: Man, watch this guy from a long time man.
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  Speaker 4: He's an awesome person and we're really gonna dig into
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  Speaker 4: some stuff today. So I'm looking forward to it because
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  Speaker 4: he's way too honest and he don't even know it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: His seventh round pick in the two thousand and one
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  Speaker 2: draft out of Oregon State, played twelve seasons in the league,
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  Speaker 2: made a Pro Bowl in two thousand and seven. Since retirement,
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  Speaker 2: he's a media analyst, he's a trainer, has a flag
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  Speaker 2: football league with Snoop Dogg called the Snoop and Hoosha
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  Speaker 2: Flaglip Football League. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the show. TJ.
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  Speaker 2: Houshman's that up?
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  Speaker 1: Or should I say the third men? Brother? Oh Jays?
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  Speaker 1: Which one? Who's the third member? He's a fourth member?
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  Speaker 2: So the four I don't know the names neither, don't
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  Speaker 2: I know. Jerald LeVert Dad was like the original. He's
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  Speaker 2: one of the originals. I don't know. I just I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna say Lavert one of the Leverts.
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  Speaker 1: All there, you go.
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  Speaker 2: Have you heard.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, okay, I mean clearly he's trying to correct you.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I've heard of him, but I don't know how many members.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it's three three, it's three members. So he's like
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  Speaker 1: the step so member.
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  Speaker 2: It looked like he got the age four though.
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  Speaker 4: Now now, Peanut, I wanted to know, how do you
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  Speaker 4: do we say your name, last name right?
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  Speaker 3: Because like everybody I.
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  Speaker 1: Wasn't play played with you over the years, like like
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  Speaker 1: Room said, gotten to know you through all the football stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I've never really known how to pronounce your name. I've
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  Speaker 2: only seen it like Chris Berman, like maybe he said
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  Speaker 2: it right, maybe he said it wrong. I thought. I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's right.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I said.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So what's the the t J? What's the what's
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  Speaker 2: the t.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a junior. I don't really know how t J
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  Speaker 1: came about. My name is Tara, Tara t o U
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  Speaker 1: are a J and I'm a junior. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a middle name. I'm named after my father. Never met
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  Speaker 1: him with dam in my life.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's silence right there. Let me let
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  Speaker 3: that soak in.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, never met him, But Hushman Zada, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: I just love TJ because that's what we call you.
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  Speaker 2: So no matter, are you the only Hushmans.
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly what you know?
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  Speaker 2: What's crazy? Like I went into the Yellow Pages right now?
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  Speaker 2: How many hush Manzadas? What I see?
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  Speaker 1: Bro? It's really crazy. So we're not gonna really get
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  Speaker 1: into this, right us, I'm gonna tell you, but we're
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  Speaker 1: really not gonna get it. So bruh crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 1: If a woman started stalking me right she changed her
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  Speaker 1: last name of my last name, her IDK to my house, no, yeah, seriously,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to get into this. Bruh crazy yeah
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, And so we won't get into that.
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  Speaker 1: But so I guess she's out there. We try to
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  Speaker 1: get her to change her name. I spent all this money.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what goes on in our country where
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  Speaker 1: somebody could change their last name to my last name
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  Speaker 1: and it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: The only thing that I will concern I'm only concerned
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  Speaker 4: with sometimes is how do I get fan mail to
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  Speaker 4: my house?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, how you know that?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Bro, these people get on Google and they figure. I
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  Speaker 1: still get it sometimes too. I don't even send it
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  Speaker 1: back because I don't want you to keep sending you can't.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look into the camera right now. It's cool
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  Speaker 2: to be a fan of anybody a celebrity, but if
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  Speaker 2: you're trying to get something signed, do not all caps.
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  Speaker 2: I say again, do not send your fan mail to
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  Speaker 2: that celebrity's home. That is like stalker type stuff. Don't
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  Speaker 2: do it nine time, probably ten times out of ten
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  Speaker 2: times you're not gonna get back.
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  Speaker 1: And don't go to the house, especially his.
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  Speaker 2: Do not don't send it to anyone's house, not even mine,
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  Speaker 2: TJ's rooms. Anybody's like, we just do it.
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  Speaker 1: I do have a sister though that I just realized.
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  Speaker 3: It's her last name. Who spins up it is?
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  Speaker 1: It is? I get you know, my father is Uh.
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  Speaker 1: He's from the Middle East and she just moved here,
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  Speaker 1: uh to America from the Middle East. I want to
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  Speaker 1: say some months ago, she's been reaching out to me.
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  Speaker 1: I talked Toronto phone. Yeah, I still have yet to
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  Speaker 1: meet up with her in person, but yeah, that's all
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  Speaker 1: I know of.
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  Speaker 3: Do you get upset when anybody mispronounces your name?
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  Speaker 1: No? Okay, good no, no, no, no, no, not at all?
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  Speaker 4: And uh, I got to mention this because everybody knows
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  Speaker 4: that the fans will know me and you.
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  Speaker 3: We've all joked about it before.
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  Speaker 2: But the famous NFL commercial number one? How much did
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  Speaker 2: you have? Did you even know that they were doing that? TJ?
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  Speaker 2: Who's your mama?
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  Speaker 1: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Who's been ze Lee?
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  Speaker 1: No? I don't remember the year. I don't remember the year,
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  Speaker 1: but I do remember being in training camp Georgetown, Kentucky,
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  Speaker 1: and one of the coaches had asked me how much
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  Speaker 1: they pay you for this commercial? I'm like, what commercial?
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  Speaker 1: I hadn't seen it yet. Obviously I ended up seeing
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  Speaker 1: a commercial. I had no idea. Didn't get ten cents
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  Speaker 1: off of it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, it was one of the best NFL commercials fantasy
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  Speaker 4: football ever.
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  Speaker 1: To this day, man, I still get a lot of
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  Speaker 1: questions to this day, to this day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh man, what was it like in your in
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  Speaker 2: the in the receiving room or just like on the
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  Speaker 2: team in general with the Bengals back in the gap,
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  Speaker 2: it was you, Chris, Henry Corey Dillon to Ko Lorenzo O'Neill, Chad,
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  Speaker 2: what was what was that? What was that locker room? Like,
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  Speaker 2: more portly, what was that receiving room?
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  Speaker 3: Him?
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  Speaker 1: Like, I mean the specifically the receiver room. People that
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  Speaker 1: know Chad, Chad is quiet, okay, cha is Most people
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't think that Chad is really not a talker. I'm
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  Speaker 1: probably more of the talkative one. But Chris Henry is
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  Speaker 1: also very quiet. Made rest in peace. At one point
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  Speaker 1: we had Peter Warriko talk a little bit. Uh, Kelly
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  Speaker 1: Washington would talk a little bit. He was always he
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  Speaker 1: was always dancing and stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was
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  Speaker 1: the most he was seemed like he was the dancer
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  Speaker 1: of the group. The overall locker room though, it was.
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  Speaker 1: That's what made it so fun. And I think that's
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  Speaker 1: the part that I don't think, I know, that's the
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  Speaker 1: part that everybody misses. Yeah, for sure, Lorenzo O'Neill man,
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  Speaker 1: that dude is a character. If y'all know Taquillo, he's
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  Speaker 1: a character. But you know low Neil ten five eleven, Max,
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  Speaker 1: I want to wrestle everybody on the Team'd be like, hey, Daddy, Hey, hey, daddy,
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  Speaker 1: come here, come here. I'll pin you in fifteen seconds,
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  Speaker 1: Daddy for one thousand dollars if you mean, like lo,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't get away from me, bro and like
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  Speaker 1: he would pin the biggest dudes ten fifteen seconds, can't
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  Speaker 1: move on the ground, give me my money.
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  Speaker 4: Stay champed like I told you so, we interviewed low
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  Speaker 4: he was on a couple of weeks ago. A couple
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  Speaker 4: of weeks ago we had to five and the first
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  Speaker 4: time I ever met Lorenzo Nil, he was in New
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  Speaker 4: Orleans and he was friends with a kid named a
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  Speaker 4: guy named Mike Carney who he played full bath Arizona State.
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  Speaker 3: So they were drunk.
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  Speaker 4: It was mill of the afternoon, kind of getting towards
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  Speaker 4: the evening. Dude, I walk up to the place that's
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  Speaker 4: like by my house. Mike Carney leaves out there. Dude,
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  Speaker 4: Lorenzo o'nil is outside wrestling Mike Carney. Mike Carney is
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  Speaker 4: like brom trying to Lorenzo Nil. Must have body slammer
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  Speaker 4: this dude like fifteen times hery.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if y'all ever interview Lorenzo O'Neill again, he ain't
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  Speaker 1: paying me, Okay. I got behind me, slamming him on
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  Speaker 1: the ground, jumped up and ran like man, when I
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  Speaker 1: tell you he was not going to leave me alone
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  Speaker 1: until he got me back, I'm like, nope, I just
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  Speaker 1: follow right here.
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  Speaker 3: You got it, and we'll be right back.
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  Speaker 4: I do want to know this though, TJ, because I
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  Speaker 4: never actually asked you this. It's like, dude, you guys
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  Speaker 4: had a team full of all stars, Like how did
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  Speaker 4: you guys not win at all?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 3: How do we how do we not win?
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  Speaker 2: It was too much playoffs? Yeah, Like too much talent
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  Speaker 2: for y'all not to win.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean you had Corey Dillon, you had to Kio,
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  Speaker 4: Lorenzo Nil. You talked about all these guys like the
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  Speaker 4: list can keep going on and on and on.
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  Speaker 1: And we had quarterback play so Carson, Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 1: when you're in the locker room and on the team,
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  Speaker 1: it's just what you guys said, Man, we have this player,
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  Speaker 1: this player, we should be really good. And it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: until I stopped playing and you really delve into the
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  Speaker 1: why we weren't. Why weren't we good? And it's the
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  Speaker 1: off the field. It's the last of discipline. It's the
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  Speaker 1: complete lack of respect and structure of the guys on
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  Speaker 1: the team. Bro, we we because I was a part
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  Speaker 1: of we yee what we wanted to do. Man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, like we when I first got to Cincinnati, Bro,
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  Speaker 1: we didn't even stay in hotels for home games. Bro
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  Speaker 1: said at the crib or wherever we're outside, like we're
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  Speaker 1: guys would I don't drink, but Saturday night for home games,
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  Speaker 1: like dudes would do whoever they wanted to do. I
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  Speaker 1: remember vividly, I'm not gonna say this guy's name. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you meet up this you meet up Saturday at the
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  Speaker 1: stadium to get ready to fly out. We got a
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  Speaker 1: starter on our team that wasn't there. One of the
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  Speaker 1: two buses went to the airport. The bus that I
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  Speaker 1: was on because I was friends with them, went to
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  Speaker 1: his house. I go in his house. He was sleep.
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  Speaker 1: We're on the way to the airport to go fly
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  Speaker 1: out to play.
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  Speaker 2: MMM.
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  Speaker 1: Walked in there, woke him up. Hey, Bro, what you're doing?
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  Speaker 1: He was like, oh, got up, didn't even put his cloak,
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  Speaker 1: took a shower. You're gonn me get ready. They're not
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  Speaker 1: doing that on any other not playing. He played, And
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  Speaker 1: so it was just little things like that that you
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  Speaker 1: guys know matters so much and so.
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  Speaker 2: But that's coaching.
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  Speaker 4: Though It's also like, I so we're not gonna I
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  Speaker 4: don't want to point all fingers everywhere, but like TJ said,
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  Speaker 4: it was like you don't even know you're in this
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  Speaker 4: broken situation until you like get out.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, bro, that's all I Cincinnati was the only
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  Speaker 1: team I had played for up until that time, and
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  Speaker 1: so I had And I can give you a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of stories. I'm not gonna do that, because y'all it's.
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  Speaker 3: Not I've heard.
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  Speaker 2: So I've heard a couple of them too.
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  Speaker 1: And I will say that that was, uh, that was
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  Speaker 1: pre Marvin Lewis. But you know, when coach Louke comes in,
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  Speaker 1: he had to change our mindsets and the culture and
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  Speaker 1: that just take time.
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  Speaker 4: But does now you talked about uh, discipline and seeing
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  Speaker 4: some things. And I've heard you talked about how you
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  Speaker 4: weren't supposed to be in the league.
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  Speaker 3: You weren't supposed to be it.
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  Speaker 4: And then I've listened to you do a couple other
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  Speaker 4: interviews and I didn't even know this, but you didn't
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  Speaker 4: graduate high school? Yeah, did not, So you didn't graduate
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  Speaker 4: high school. You take a year off. Some people call
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  Speaker 4: it a gap year, right.
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  Speaker 1: You.
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  Speaker 3: Took a gap year. Then you go to Juco.
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  Speaker 4: You go to Juco and your coach is like, dude,
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  Speaker 4: you're not gonna be here that long. You need to
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  Speaker 4: go get a ged. Was that probably the best advice
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  Speaker 4: you ever got? And do you ever talk to other
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  Speaker 4: kids about Everybody's always like, oh, you graduate, graduated high
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  Speaker 4: school to be any worth anything successful, and you are
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  Speaker 4: the one that didn't have that.
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  Speaker 1: When I do talk to kids, I tell him to
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  Speaker 1: avoid that part of it because I say I was lucky. People,
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  Speaker 1: you're not lucky, you are blessed. I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: that happened, man, to be honest with you, because I
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  Speaker 1: didn't play a lot. I didn't play a lot of
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  Speaker 1: football growing up, and so it wasn't as if like
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  Speaker 1: football is my sport, I gotta make it happen through
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  Speaker 1: this avenue at the best friend he's still my best
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  Speaker 1: friend to this day, named Cush. He went Juko. We
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  Speaker 1: was always together and I'm like, man, is he leaving?
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  Speaker 1: Like I gotta go with you? I'm not standing here.
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  Speaker 1: And so I just basically followed the mirror and I
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  Speaker 1: tell the head coach at my junior college, Frank Mazolda
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  Speaker 1: Soriudo's College, he didn't want me there. They thought I
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  Speaker 1: was a problem. Really never smoked the dam in my life,
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  Speaker 1: and during the springtime, my eyes the allergies so I'm
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  Speaker 1: constantly rubbing my eyes. They thought I was high, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I talk a lot on fighting in practice.
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  Speaker 1: He was trying to send me home. I'm like, bro,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't going on and like literally trying to get
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  Speaker 1: rid of me because he thought I was high all
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  Speaker 1: the time and I was just growing my hair and
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know how to put in the ponytail, so
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  Speaker 1: my hair was down. My eyes are red, and like
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  Speaker 1: this dude coming to practice high every day. And so
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  Speaker 1: that same dude, because he broke his foot, I was
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  Speaker 1: his backup and he broke his foot like a couple
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  Speaker 1: of weeks before the season, and I became a starter.
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  Speaker 1: That was it. But yeah, I do talk to kids,
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  Speaker 1: but you can't not graduate. Yeah, Coach Mazola telling me
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  Speaker 1: to get my ged was a blessing. I still taught
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  Speaker 1: to coach Mo to this day, taking him to lunch
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  Speaker 1: probably next week when I get home. Yeah. But yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: my path was very different.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was different. But it turned out pretty good
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  Speaker 2: for it though, because I know that two thousand and
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  Speaker 2: seven season, you had a good year. You made the
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  Speaker 2: Pro Bowl, Like, how great was that? When when you
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  Speaker 2: found out you made that Pro Bowl? Like, what was
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  Speaker 2: one of the first things that went through your mind?
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, yeah, I should have been made it. That was
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  Speaker 1: what went through I should have made it the year prior.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I go though, man.
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  Speaker 1: And when we were playing, Yeah, you made the Pro Bowl,
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  Speaker 1: it meant something, oh for sure. And so you know,
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  Speaker 1: the people that white men may watch this now, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't like I'd be a ten time pro bawler today's
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  Speaker 1: game because nobody wants to go. But it was satisfying.
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  Speaker 1: It really was because the steps that it took to
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  Speaker 1: get I like, I don't like football. I love it
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  Speaker 1: even to this day. Like I've always loved it. It's
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  Speaker 1: always mattered to me. Like when I got married, my
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  Speaker 1: wife would can we take a vacation. I'm like, you
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  Speaker 1: can't take a vacation. I gotta train. You can't train,
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  Speaker 1: you can't take two weeks. I'm like no, And so
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  Speaker 1: like I used to run myself into the ground, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not taking a vacation. You can go take one,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not going. And we didn't take a vacation
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  Speaker 1: until probably my eighth or ninth year in the league,
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  Speaker 1: and I was getting vice from other players and other
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  Speaker 1: people like Bro, you can take a vacation and I'm like, nah,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta work out. And so that was my even toy.
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  Speaker 1: I just love football, man like. And it could be
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't have a father forcing me to play
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  Speaker 1: sports that when I gravitated towards it. I mean to
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: this day like I just I just love a game. Man.
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: So you talked about pro bo voting. I know, I
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: know Thomas, we gotta we gonna do that. But what's
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: the well, I want to know your opinion on pro
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: bo voting versus all pro voting.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: I was all pro more than I was a pro bowler.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: Weird.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: That's so weird to me. That doesn't there's no that
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: none of that makes any sense because you could be
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: first seen. It happened this year. That's why I Winfield Jr.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: He was a first team All Pro, but he didn't
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: make the Pro Bowl.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's a popularity contest because you
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: vote as players. A lot of players it's after practice.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: You don't want to vote. You trying to get up
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: out of there and go home. And or I talked
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: a lot to all the dbs that I played against.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I didn't here thet I literally had a pot on
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: another team that was a safety, like, Bruh, they do
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: not want to vote for you. I said, I don't
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: give up.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: I had the same situation, and I'm like, bruh, I
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: wonder why he was dipping people.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy, I think I'm cool. It's
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: just once the game starts, I'm not your friend. Like
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not one of them dudes that before the game, hey, bruh, No,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you during during the game,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk. But after the game, once I calmed down,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I'm cool.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: But and it could be that I had and I
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: think you were cool dude, So I couldn't people meet
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: me and be like, bro, I hated you when I
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: played against I'm like, what, Like, I was just playing hard,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: But I guess that's a respect thing. I'm not a
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: dude that hey were running the ball here, you can chill. No,
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: And we we scrimmaged against these guys, the Bengals, and
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: like they didn't even let y'all practice because I remember that.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: I mean clearly we.
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: Thought y'all, I'm not gonna say what we thought about y'all,
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: but you guys didn't even get to practice, and we
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: were ready to go against these guys and they didn't practice.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: So I remember that.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Those practices always end up in fights. Though, because we
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: we were ready for that. We played, We practiced, we
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: were ready. We played like we came in thinking like,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: all right, it is.
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: Chad and TJ, only Chris Henry practice, but like we
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: didn't like we were ready because we thought something's gonna happen.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, I get it.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: We had across the league. You'll see the Saints are
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: having a joint practice with the Bears, the Chargers have
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: We would see this and we're like, where are we
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: gonna have a joint practice with somebody? So we finally
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: had a joint practice and Marvin Lewis gets up and
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: he's talking about what we better do and bet we
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: shouldn't do, and we TJ and Chad, you guys will
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: not be practicing these two days. To me, were not practicing.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I was ready for it. I don't want y'all because
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the first person gets in a fight, you're not playing.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not gonna fight. Yeah you are. He
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: would not let us practice bro would not let us practice.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I was fighting guys on our own team in practice,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: and so Marvin was like, no, like, yeah, I got
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: in a good amount of fights just in practice on
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: our own team. Just like, don't hold me because I'm
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: not gonna bully nobody. I'm not starting it. I'm like, bro,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: stop holding me, and then they say something and then
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: we fight.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's how for those listening, Uh, I couldn't
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: tell you how many fights I got in Brandon Marshall,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: when Devin. I fought Devon a couple of times. I
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: fought Musta Muhammad a couple of times. Like, but at
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: the end of the day, it's just like you're fighting
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: your brother like it ain't nothing. It ain't no cheap shots,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: so you ain't trying to like end the career.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: Nobody took no helmet.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Nobody took a helmet, like you you fighting and then
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: you you know, you a little Yeah. But that to me, though,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: that's just that's competition, Like it ain't no cheat. It's
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: just like, yo, I'm mad, well let's go. What what
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: if you if you let's go, you fight, take a
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: couple of plays off the next period, y'all got a
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: scrimmage or y'all got to go against each other again,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: and then it's like, all right, we'll stop about it.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: You literally might line up and be like.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you just keep it, you keep it moving. Yeah,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: we're gonna take a short break and we'll be right back.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: I want to talk about your transition from the game.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: You've been opened by some of your struggles that you
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: had post career, like because like you said, you loved football,
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: and like you would have played for league minimum, but
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: you only wanted to play for a good team.
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: But you would have played forever if you could.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: You just good teams don't need you, though, So when
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: you get offers of the basket, like, dude, I don't
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: want to be there.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Good.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: So let's talk about that part, accepting that and then
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: moving on from that, and then maybe some of the
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: struggles that you had, because that's why we like to
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: come on and that.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Was a mistake on my part. I'm not playing for
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: the bad team. Yeah, you should have just did it.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah I should have done it because I love the game. Yeah,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: but what happens is you start to watch TV and
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: you hear go win a super Bowl, Go play for
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: a good team. Well, they're in that position because they
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: don't need me, right, and so I should have done it. Obviously,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: you can't go back and change it now. That would
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: be my advice to anybody. If you love a game,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: just play, man, if you have enough money, don't let
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: your agent gash you up saying you need to make this.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Just go play, because when it's over, it's over. And
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'm over it now, like I have no problem with it.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: But at the time, it was just like, damn, I'm
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: better than him. I'm better than him, and I could
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: be playing, but but it's not happening anymore. And I
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: was like, all right, I'm done. Then you get calls
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh, I ain't training, I can't. I
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: been working out really like that, and so that part
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: of it, I would say about the first year out,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: it was tough, and I didn't realize it was tough
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: because I was I'm I'm fine. I don't I don't
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: think I stress. I'm not tough just watching the game
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: and being on a routine. That's probably you're on a routine.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: We live off of a schedule. We haven't. We live
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: off of an itinerary seven thirty. You gotta be here
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: at this meeting, eight o'clock, this meeting, nine o'clock, this meeting.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: And so it was like, now you don't have this itinerary.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: It's like what do I do? And so that's what
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: it was. I mean for me, it was I took
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: my kids to school, come on, and just be like,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: all right, what's next? And I did that for a
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: year maybe longer, and so it was just like I
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: gotta start doing something, bro like I'm a bomb, Like
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: what is this? And but that takes time because you
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: know they always tell you, all right, you got to
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: start preparing for life after football. I didn't care about
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: life after football because I didn't realize how quickly it
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: was going to come upon me. And that's another thing
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: that's real, like life after football. Start planning on it,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: because I didn't. And when you have nothing, you just
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: get bored more than anything. And then you got to
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: figure out things to do.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: And what point in time did you realize like, Okay,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: I got to get off my ass and moves. You
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: said you did it for about a year, maybe a
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: little bit more than that.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Like I can't read them all what's exactly what it was?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: But I remember people at networks ESPN, NFL Network contacting me,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Hey man, you want to come in and do NFL Network,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: You want to come in to Bristol and do some
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: work with ESPN. And so I started doing some of
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: that and I enjoyed it, and they would tell me like,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you're really good, You're honest, but you're not disrespectful to
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: the players. It's just real, candid, And so I started
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: doing that and I enjoyed. It was the next best
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: thing without playing, I guess yeah. And so kind of
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: forces you to watch the game, forces you to understand
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: what's going on and why a teammate or may not
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: be doing certain things. And so it was like I
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: was playing, but I wasn't.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Was that getting into the media space. Did that help
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: you move on from football? Like missing the game?
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: I would say yes, But back then I didn't look
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: at it as it because again, like no, I don't
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: let things bother me, man, unless it's something big for me.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: It's just like whatever, it's water off a duck's back.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: Guess what I want to That's a great point because
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: I've heard you in another interview talk about how you
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: don't show emotions and it's how you were raised like
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: I want you to dive into that.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Why don't you show I don't know, like my wife.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: My wife will always tell me, do you have a heart?
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Like what you mean? Do I have a heart?
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: How nice to you? Right? And it's sure like during
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: the game, I show emotion, like that type of emotion.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: And when I say emotion, it's the more that I
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: don't show emotion, it's the more I guess sensitive side
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: when you're with your spouse or even at times with
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: my kids. I've gotten better with that because you know,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I got girls and that's what they need. But I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I was telling somebody this. I remember vividly when I
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: left the junior college, my mama said I love you,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and it felt weird because I had heard that a lot.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: It felt weird to hear her say that to me
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: because I remember, I remembered. I remember that because it
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: wasn't like I love you'll love around our house. We
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: didn't do that, and so that could be why. I
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: don't know. But yeah, the emotional part of it, I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: think I'm a nice guy, But the emotion part of it,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I don't show that unless it's like a competitive type
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: of emotion. But to my kids, now you know, I
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: tell them every day I love them. I try to
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: show emotion. I try to let my son at times
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: know that it's okay to cry, but don't cry over
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: nothing that doesn't matter. Could be a little wrong, but yeah,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I guess it's just part of how I was raised
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: and what I grew up around.
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: My dad doesn't know how to say I love you either,
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: So it is how you're raised. And that's a true statement.
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: It's okay. It can be understood without being said. That's
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: what's up. That's more important than that. It is understanding.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: It is felt speaking of love.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I love how you ellen k when we said.
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: That, Yeah, I was going to the flag football. I
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: would like to know how this thing get started between
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: you and Snoop.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Uh, my son was. My son was playing flag foot.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Snoop's been in football for a while. He's been tackled football. Yes,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: my son was playing flag football. We're in the league
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: and we had started dominating the league and then they
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: started like, uh this said league didn't want to let
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: us play in the playoffs because we were dominating, And
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is the team y'all gave me my son,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: my cousin and other kids that y'all put on my team.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Don't get mad at me because we win. Yeah, And
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: so they started basically they pissed me off, and so
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I said, I'm leaving. So I left the league and
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: I got in contact with Troy Vincent. I said, Troy Man,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I need to start my own league, and he was
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: like sure. I'm like, yeah, gotta explained on what's going on.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: He connected me with Isael Reese. I got with isaelh
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: and we have been planning it for a few years
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: now and got a buddy that works with the Chargers. Yeah,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: and he reached out to me and was like, we
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: want to partner with you guys to do the league.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: And I said that, you know, sounds great. So we're
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: planning it now for three years. We just launched in March.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Had a good turnout. We had just under five hundred kids,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: which for the first season.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: What's the name of your team?
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: No, so all the teams are Chargers. Oh, all the
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: teams are charge Okay, yeah, all the teams you either
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: wear the white or the blue or the yellow. But
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: we have a location in Crito's. We have a location
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: in Nelson Gundo. It's nonprofit, so all the kids that
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: that can't afford it. The great Old National Football League,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: myself the Charger Snoop and will subsidize them, will sponsor
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: them and let them play. Yes, got a bunch of
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: kids from Snoops Tackle League that a playing the league
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: and so it's been fun. It's been fun just seeing
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: a different age group seeing because it's co ed. Hopefully
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: we'll get to the point where it can just be
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: strictly girls and boys, but we have co ed. I
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: have a couple of girls on my son's team. But yeah,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: we're gonna win it. Yeah.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: My daughter she just got signed up for flag football
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: this year, so I'm really I'm looking.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Forward to it. The girls are good. Yeah, it's so
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: crazy because we don't see young girls play football. It
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: blows my mind how good they are. It's crazy. It's crazy.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: You're gonna watch your daughter play. You're gonna be like
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: house called damn she nice.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Watch, we gotta hit the gym this offseason. I
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: gotta teach your cople things. She's gonna be out there.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to convince my daughter to play eleven. I'm sorry,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: she's twelve. Sorry, Cambra, she's twelve. She's twelve, and she
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: was like, I thought you said I can't catch. I said, oh,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: we can work on that. We're just gonna play catch
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: every day. You'll get it. Yeah.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Now do you ever run into like the real
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: intense parents, like on the sideline and they just be
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: doing a little bit, they be doing the most.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: You can raise your hand if you want.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: I'm that parent parent. Yeah, I am. I am. Everything
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: we do, we compete. We're gonna sound like the intense,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: right I am. I'm not gonna lie. I hate. I
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: hate to admit that I.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Am for if y'all. I know y'all, some of y'all
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: will listen. But he's kind of yeah, I'm not. He
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: raised his hands like.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: When you see. But I do run into him. Also,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I run into people like myself. I do.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: So how does that work? When y'all two go at it?
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Do y'all go at it the two like yourself and
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: like another intense parent. Do y'all go at it?
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: At times it's happened. I'm like, whatever, bro, I don't
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: care how big you are, but I'm getting. I'm getting
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: better at it though, I am. I got. I'm trying
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: to stop that because my son plays AAU basketball.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: I've seen him.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: He's a good player, and uh yeah, I'm trying to
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: get better at that. I know for a fact I
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: need to stop that, and I'm going to stop it.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: But I don't talk to other parents. Yes, I'm cheering
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: on our team. I never put down the other team. Ever,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that the kids. I'm just cheering my team.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: And they may take it the wrong way and they
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: say something to me, and I'm bruh, don't you talk
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: to me. I'm not talking to you if you don't
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: get your boy, if you don't get up out of
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: here with this. And I don't care how big you are,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: because I'm not afraid of you. And I've never gotten
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: into it with anybody. A couple of verbal altercations, but
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: nothing physical. But I'm trying to avoid all of that
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: because it's not it's we there for the kids and
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: not not for us.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: There we go.
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: So TJ I, it's funny that you raise your hand
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: and say that, because in my family that's my wife.
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: I call it her tiger Mom. She's very intense when
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: it comes to our kids in sports, and like you said,
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: there's no like direct like we're not firing missiles at
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: each other.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: It's all like you're yelling for your own team.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: They say something, then you.
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Then our parents say something louder, and then it's like,
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: I mean, we have proxy wars.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: It ain't nobody, is it, but is it? Like that's
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: what I'm talking about? Room ware to make that other
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: kid look terrible.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Let's go, let's keep dumb. Come on people, and they
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: just take, especially when they're a good tea.
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: Yes, especially I think basketball is really weird too, because
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: the kids can hear the parents, The parents can hear
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: each other's parents.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Everybody can see each other.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: You're in a gym, it's intense a you get very
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: competitive now, and so it just kind of happens, and
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: especially if you're dealing like my daughter's team, it's emotional,
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: like girls to start crying. Somebody gets fouled hard. We
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: got a parent getting mad. Oh that's that's a foul.
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: Everybody's complaining about fouls. The reps never call anything. So
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: it's like all these emotions that just build and build
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: and build, and then people explode and it's very very funny.
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: But I love it because that my wife's where TJ is.
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: So then I get to just relax. Yeah, it's because
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: everybody thinks it's be me and it's not. I wouldn't
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: say ask my whole family.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: But if I get into it with somebody, they right
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: there with me because we got to ride. My family,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: my wife and my kids, my daughters were tight. It's
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: just a yeah. And so practices. Everybody goes to practice,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Everybody goes to games, and I guess that's not common
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: because people like man, y'all here every day. We ain't
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: got nothing else to do, and so we support each other.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: When my daughters were athletes, everybody's at the practice, everybody's
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: at the games, and so that's what we do. And
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: so we're invested and our kids and my daughters are
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: invested in their brother or sisters. But yeah, we roll deep.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: But I'm avoiding that moving forward.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of invested, who are the people that invested
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: in you? If you could do Mount Rushmore, four people
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: that really truly invested and showed emotion and just everything
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: they pour their heart and soul into TJ from the
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: time you were born to today.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: Who would those four people be.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Wow, that's a great question. I don't know if I
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: have for really to be honest with you, and some
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: people may be offended by that, but I'll give you four.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: I would say, obviously my mother, but I don't think
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: she invested in me like that. She don't watch I
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: played as many games as I played. My mom has
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: been to less than five games in my entire life really,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: from high school to jue Co to college and the
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: NFL less than five. But I'll put her on there.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: She probably doesn't deserve to be on that. My uncle's
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Adrian and Anthony, they for sure. I don't recall this,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: but my uncle Adrian used to always say, like you
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: were my son. You were with me and my mustang
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: all the time, and everybody thought you were my son.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: So I'll throw those guys in there. Outside of that,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: I would probably be it. I mean, nobody else. I
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: would say my sister. She's passed away now, but I
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: remember when I went to junior college, I didn't have
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: any money and she gave me about two hundred and
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars to go to college with. But outside of that, man, nobody.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I kind of did it on my own, really, to
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: be honest with you, Yeah, me come from nothing, man,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: come from nothing. My sister's the oldest one. Then it's
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: me brother under me and my youngest brother. The first
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: three didn't graduate from high school, just the youngest one did,
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: and so we kind of, you know, we got it
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: how we lived and just did whatever we wanted to do. Man,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I was technically a grown man at thirteen years old,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: outside in the streets doing whatever I wanted to do.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I look at my kids, like I
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: couldn't imagine them doing what I was doing and partaking
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: in activities that I was partaking in at that age.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I don't even know how they could survive that. And
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: I did it like I was a grown man, and
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: it's kind of crazy survival.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: Well, look, all I can say is thank you for
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: coming on this podcast, blessing them with this energy, these
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: great stories.
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: The best thing is, like, hey man, we have better conversations.
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: We have even deeper conversations at the bar too. So
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: we're gonna get TJ going again.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just so when they see me at the bar,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: you know, just now, I'm just cranberry juice and pineapple
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: juice mixed. It may look like, but that is true.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: That is true. Man.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: We appreciate you coming on the podcast. Thank y'all for
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: listening Apple, Apple podcasts, Our Heart Radio.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: Is this your outro?
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just okay, all right, let me get you
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: all right, Let's get us out here the correct way. Man,
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Let's give me hey. Thanks you for always listening and
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: tuning in wherever you pick up.
• 37:49
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• 37:52
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• 37:54
  Speaker 4: a couple of comments. That's always good telling us what
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: we're doing great, especially with all of our guests like TJ.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: He's got a great story his upbringing. Everything else man
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: was beautiful, and the great stories from Cincinnati. I know
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: we should get more and more you guys, just leave
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: a couple of comments. Hopefully we'll reach out. We'll get
• 38:10
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• 38:13
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• 38:16
  Speaker 3: Man, we'll pee. We're gonna get it.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Can I say something really quick? When you just said
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Cincinnati made me think when y'all brought up Chris Henry,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: that boy's son is an animal. Really he just moved
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: to California and I've worked with him a few times. Wow,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: what's his name? Chris Henry?
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: All right, Bill, you look look out Chris and your JR.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Animal, Chris Henry Jr.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: We learned something new every time we come out here. Man,
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: you heard it here.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: First Football League, I guarantee it.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, big statement, I like it. I like it a
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: peanut TJ fourth Remember the ojs. That's wrong. Hey y'all
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: we out NFL player second acts