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Harry And Meghan Return To Royal-Style Event — Despite Being Told They’re ‘Private Citizens’! Carole Radziwill Grilled Over Epstein Ties! Kathy Griffin Slams Shane Gillis As A ‘Hack’! · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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  Speaker 1: Scandal and vice, or sugar and spice? It's naughty but
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: nice to be Rob. It is tea time. Harry and
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  Speaker 1: Meghan have returned to a royal-style event in Britain, despite
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  Speaker 1: being told by the king that they are private citizens.
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  Speaker 1: Let me explain. Harry and Meghan are back doing what
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  Speaker 1: they once did best. They're shaking hands, they're accepting flowers,
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  Speaker 1: and they're posing for selfies and charming the cheering crowds.
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  Speaker 1: Today is their first joint appearance together in the U.K.,
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  Speaker 1: since they returned six weeks ago. They are in Nottingham.
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  Speaker 1: I know this city very well. It's quite close to
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  Speaker 1: my mum and dad. And they're recreating scenes from their
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  Speaker 1: very first royal engagement together nine years ago. So nine
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  Speaker 1: years ago, after they got engaged, where did they go?
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  Speaker 1: They went to Nottingham. The crowds went nuts nine years ago.
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  Speaker 1: It is hard to remember that there was a time
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  Speaker 1: when Harry and Meghan were beloved in Britain. They were
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  Speaker 1: arguably bigger stars than William and Catherine. This wedding was massive.
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  Speaker 1: It didn't have to be this way that it is today.
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  Speaker 1: There was a lot of love there. And along those
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  Speaker 1: nine years, it all fell apart. Well, they returned to Nottingham,
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  Speaker 1: which I think is a good place for them. That
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  Speaker 1: was the first place that they ever attended as a
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  Speaker 1: couple after they were engaged. And the crowds were there.
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  Speaker 1: Not massive crowds, about 100 well-wishers, my sources tell me.
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  Speaker 1: I have people there who are texting me. But they
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  Speaker 1: said the crowd went nuts. They were holding bouquets. They
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  Speaker 1: were kissing them. At one point, Meghan declared, it's great
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  Speaker 1: to be back. Harry wrapped his arm around her. It's
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  Speaker 1: very protective. One really touching moment, Mark. Meghan was reunited
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  Speaker 1: with Irene Hardman, she's 90 years old, and she attended
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  Speaker 1: their official Nottingham walkabout in 2017. She brought along a
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  Speaker 1: framed photograph of their first meeting. Then they went on
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  Speaker 1: to do charity events. Now, yesterday I reported there was
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  Speaker 1: not going to be a walkabout. They were worried about crowdsides.
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  Speaker 1: about booze. Today, that was changed because about 100 people
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  Speaker 1: did show up. Not thousands, not a massive amount, but
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  Speaker 1: it's still 100 people who waited for them. And they
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  Speaker 1: were very, very happy to see them. And they did
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  Speaker 1: go over. They were not going to go over. Originally,
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  Speaker 1: my insiders told me they were going to go straight
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  Speaker 1: into the charity events. They walked over and, Mark, they
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  Speaker 1: were fantastic. So what do you think?
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  Speaker 2: Well, hope is not dead for these two, it sounds like.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, 100 people is 100 people, and their
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  Speaker 2: support is the support. You know, I do question, was
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  Speaker 2: Irene a plant? Was she called in advance to bring
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  Speaker 2: her frame photograph? I'm not sure. I'm not suggesting that,
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  Speaker 2: but possibly. Listen, you know, it's nice to feel loved.
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  Speaker 2: It's nice to feel like you belong somewhere, and it's
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  Speaker 2: nice to feel like you're welcomed. And I know it's
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  Speaker 2: been a tough few years here in the U.S., And
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  Speaker 2: so listen, if they're going to get cheered and people
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  Speaker 2: are going to hug them, then I'm here for it.
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  Speaker 1: This is the start. This is really clever planning. Whoever
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  Speaker 1: put this together is a genius. And if Irene was
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  Speaker 1: a plant, good for the Sussexes. I really say that.
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  Speaker 1: Remember when Donald Trump came down that golden escalator? Allegedly,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people there were paid to be there
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  Speaker 1: holding signs. It has to start. It has to start
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  Speaker 1: with a whisper, dare I say, and then it grows.
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  Speaker 1: But I do think something has changed today. Today is
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  Speaker 1: a fundamental day. I had pretty much written these two
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  Speaker 1: off as returning to the royal family as ever being
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  Speaker 1: accepted in Britain. They did an event today that I
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  Speaker 1: thought would be a disaster. I thought this was going
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  Speaker 1: to be when they went to Australia. Everything was so disorganised.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't. It was really well organised and I've already
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  Speaker 1: hit the phones. I want to know who did this.
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  Speaker 1: Was the palace helping behind the scenes? Who helped them
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  Speaker 1: pull this off? Because everything they've touched has not worked. Now,
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  Speaker 1: it sounds very easy, doesn't it? To get out of
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  Speaker 1: a car and walk into a charity event. That sounds easy.
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  Speaker 1: You and I, Mark, have both worked red carpets. To
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  Speaker 1: get a celebrity out of a car and down a
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  Speaker 1: red carpet into a premiere takes hours, if not months,
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  Speaker 1: of preparation, of planning. It's a really staged event. That's
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  Speaker 1: why that crowd there might have been invited. I know
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  Speaker 1: when they do premieres, they invite the local fan club.
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  Speaker 1: So if Jennifer Lopez is turning up at the Ziegfeld
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  Speaker 1: Theater in New York for a premiere, texts, emails go
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  Speaker 1: out to local fans. They want the local fans. It's
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  Speaker 1: very smart, isn't it? I remember once a friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine worked for Joan Collins. Remember her from Dynasty?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She landed in Britain. And when she lands on Concord,
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  Speaker 1: she was on the Concord, she had a wig on,
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: she had a hair and makeup on, and they'd called
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  Speaker 1: the local fan club. And there was hundreds of Joan
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  Speaker 1: fans outside the airport screaming. And she loved it. They
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  Speaker 1: do that. I think Joan thought it happened organically. Nothing
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  Speaker 1: happens organically. Everything is planned. I think that's a mistake
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  Speaker 1: we make in life. We wait for things to just
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  Speaker 1: happen because we think they won't. Plan them. If you
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  Speaker 1: want to have friends, you've got to plan to go
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  Speaker 1: out and meet people. If you want to go to
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  Speaker 1: the theater, you've got to buy a ticket. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: just land on your lap. So this was beautifully planned.
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  Speaker 1: And I've had to sit myself down today, Mark, and
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  Speaker 1: actually have a little think about this. There's a glimmer
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  Speaker 1: of hope. I thought the flame of them returning, of
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  Speaker 1: being accepted, was pretty much extinguished. I thought it, I'm wrong. Today,
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  Speaker 1: it looks like a royal visit. Now, people are going
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  Speaker 1: to put big holes in this. I know there's people
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  Speaker 1: that don't like the Sussexes, including my family. They're going
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  Speaker 1: to be really cross when they see this news coverage.
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  Speaker 1: But tonight on the evening news around the world, Tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: on the cover of every newspaper, there's going to be
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  Speaker 1: a picture of Meghan and Harry, a little Union Jack,
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  Speaker 1: some old beautiful lady handing them flowers, and the actual frame.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on outside that frame, but
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  Speaker 1: if you crop that quite carefully, it's a royal visit, Mark.
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  Speaker 1: The palace must be ripping their hair out because these
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  Speaker 1: two are not going anywhere.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, the palace wasn't built in a day. Neither was Rome.
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  Speaker 2: It's piece by piece, brick by brick, and they are rebuilding.
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  Speaker 2: They are in the Renaissance phase, I think. And you
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  Speaker 2: know what? There shouldn't be haters like you said, but
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  Speaker 2: we're not hating today. We're giving our support to you,
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  Speaker 2: and we're not plants.
• 7:04
  Speaker 1: We're not plants. We've been very critical about these two,
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  Speaker 1: rightly so. But you know what? I think the joy
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  Speaker 1: of this show and the joy of our friendship and
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  Speaker 1: our friendship with the Norteses, we do tell the truth,
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  Speaker 1: even when we don't necessarily... want to hear it. I
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  Speaker 1: know there's going to be a lot of listeners today
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  Speaker 1: who don't want to hear this, but you've got to listen.
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  Speaker 1: It went really well. And I'm shocked. I'm the first.
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  Speaker 1: I can admit when I'm wrong. I thought it was over, Mark.
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  Speaker 1: I thought today, we had a different lead today. Because
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, they're going to turn up in
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  Speaker 1: Nottingham this morning. And because of the time difference, we
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  Speaker 1: won't even see them. They're going to be snucking through
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  Speaker 1: the side door because they're frightened the town is going
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  Speaker 1: to have pitchforks and run them out of the city. No. Now,
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  Speaker 1: it's not quite... It's not quite as magnificent as the
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  Speaker 1: pictures make out. I saw the pictures on my phone.
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  Speaker 1: People were texting me. But I have people on the
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  Speaker 1: ground there. It's only 100. I mean, I got 100
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  Speaker 1: at my book party. So let's just be clear. Like,
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  Speaker 1: it's only 100. But I don't want to rain on
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  Speaker 1: the parade here. There's something going on, Mark. They did
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  Speaker 1: a really good job today. And having Irene there, Megan,
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  Speaker 1: you need to send her a pot of jam. Because
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  Speaker 1: having Irene there was a lovely touch, which brings us
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  Speaker 1: to our poll question of the day. Harry and Meghan
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  Speaker 1: have returned to a royal style event. It looks royal.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to see the pictures today. Do they have
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  Speaker 1: a chance? Is this the beginning? Could they come back?
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  Speaker 1: Look at the crowd today. Look at the faces. Look
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  Speaker 1: at the excitement. Nottingham is not a town that gets
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  Speaker 1: a lot of celebrities. Madonna does not stop in Nottingham.
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift does not do a concert in Nottingham. So
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: to have two members of I want to say the
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  Speaker 1: royal family, even though they're not working royals, he'll always
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: be Diana's son. He's always going to be a prince.
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: A friend of mine last night at dinner said something
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  Speaker 1: so clever. They said that Sex and the City got cancelled,
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  Speaker 1: but Sarah Jessica will always be Carrie Bradshaw. That's the truth.
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  Speaker 1: Harry will always be a prince. Diana was kicked out.
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  Speaker 1: She was no longer a working royal. She was always
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  Speaker 1: a princess. She was Princess Diana. So the palace can
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  Speaker 1: pull titles. They can say they're private citizens. Just look
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  Speaker 1: at these photographs. Oof. If you don't like them, and
• 9:16
  Speaker 1: I know you're out there, naughties, this is not going
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  Speaker 1: to be a good day. So go vote on our
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  Speaker 1: X page, our Twitter page, at Naughty Nice Rob. Our
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: Facebook page is Naughty Gossip. And be sure to check
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: back tomorrow to see what these two are up to
• 9:30
  Speaker 1: and your results. Okay, Lippie, what are you working on?
• 9:33
  Speaker 2: All right. So Carol Redwell has been grilled over Epstein files.
• 9:39
  Speaker 2: her Ghislaine Maxwell friendship on The Real Housewives of New York.
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: Let me explain.
• 9:44
  Speaker 2: So Carol faced uncomfortable questions about Jeffrey Epstein and her
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: friend Ghislaine during Tuesday's exclusive episode. She said, I never
• 9:54
  Speaker 2: knew Jerry Epstein, Jeffrey Epstein, she said. And then she
• 9:58
  Speaker 2: acknowledged that her name appeared in the file. She also
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: downplayed her relationship with convicted sex trafficker Maxwell, insisting they
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: were merely just friends and not close. She said, she
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: was never one of my close friends. And she described
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: her as a social climber.
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: You need to, Carol. Carol. Carol. Carol. Carol. Carol married
• 10:19
  Speaker 1: into the Kennedys. Carol got herself a Kennedy. It really
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: bugs me. It sort of makes me chuckle because Carol
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: is really not the most likable person. If you've met her,
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: she looks down her nose. She really has. I think
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: she believes now that she is a Kennedy. And she
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: married into that family who have a very troubled relationship
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: with her. They do not like her doing these types
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: of shows. This is what it was going to be.
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: When you sign up for a reality show, this is
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: what it's going to be. Like, she's not stupid, Carol.
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  Speaker 1: The reason you're back is because of the Epstein files.
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: You're not back because you were particularly charming or funny
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: or witty. I don't think she has many memorable moments
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: like the other ladies do on the show. And so
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: this was going to happen. I think she's smart enough
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: to know it was going to happen. I think what
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: the disgusting part to me is that she has gone
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: from really, really capitalizing on the Kennedys to now capitalizing
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: on Epstein. It's all being associated to different families. And
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: I think that is just shocking. And also to own up,
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: I wrote an essay, an op-ed about working for Didi.
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: And it was my moment to say, I decided not
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: to see a lot of red flags. I admitted it.
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: I wanted to say, I didn't know anything. I didn't
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: see anything. No, no, no, it has nothing to do
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: with me. I really sat and thought about it and
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: I owned it. I worked with Diddy. I had to
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: really look back at my memories. What did I know?
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: What did I see? What did I choose not to see?
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: And that's a choice. And I think if Carol had
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: done that, she'd have way much more credibility. What do
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: you think?
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: Well, first, that was my favorite thing you've written. That
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: story was really well done and was really honest. And
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: I think Carol could use some of this honesty in
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: this moment. You know, I will say, and I like
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: to bring this up whenever her name appears in the show.
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: I did interview her during her period off TV when
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: she was hawking adult toys, because you know what? She
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: likes to be in the press. She likes attention. And
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: you know what? I'm not going to sugarcoat it. She
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: just wants to be talked about. And so we're talking
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: about you.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: She's one. She's one. She's going to pretend to be furious.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: I might even get, she emails me. I emailed her.
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: She might even pretend to be furious about this, but
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: no Carol loves being a celebrity. That's why she's on
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: the show. She loves the attention. They're not earning a
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: lot of money this season. It's all about attention. And
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: none of that is a bad thing unless you pretend
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: you hate attention. That's what I can't square here. I
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: love attention seekers. I do. I love a show pony.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: I love it. What I don't like is people who
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: pretend they're above it, but yet secretly. really want it
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: carol we are on to you okay moving along kathy
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: griffin is blasting sean gillis who i did not know
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: he's a comedian who was on snl and made some
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: really offensive remarks i think in the monologue calling women
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: at the gym whores well Kathy is fighting back. She's
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: slamming him. And she said it's just recycled, outdated jokes
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: on women. She basically called him lazy and said that
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: he is looking to get. I won't use that word.
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: She is looking to find a girlfriend, to find a
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: little bit of love. And he tells all the same jokes.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: She said, I will defend his right to say it.
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: But I will also defend anyone else's right to think
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: less of him. I love that expression. You can say it.
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: We're a free country. We are America. We have freedom
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: of speech. If you want to say something, say it.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: But I also have the right to disagree or to
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: change my opinion about you. It's not cancel culture. It's
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: consequence culture. And I think there should be a consequence.
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: There's people on TV who say awful things and I
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: just don't listen to them anymore. It's their right to
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: say it. I'm sure people think that I'm annoying. It's
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: your right not to listen to me, but it is
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: your right to say it. And I think that distinction
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: is what makes this Kathy Griffin response so powerful. What
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: do you think?
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: I think it's the most interesting because she's an example
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: of this. She did something that people found upsetting with
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: Donald Trump and You know what? Her career got canceled.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: She really lost everything. And she's now she's in her
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: own renaissance period rebuilding her life. But she knows what
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: it feels like to say something. And then there'd be
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: consequences after it. And, you know, Shane, I think he
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: is gross and I don't care for him. But I
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: also don't need to listen to him. He can speak,
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: but I'm going to just not listen. I don't care.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care. I was watching the monologue with
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: some friends, Mark. I couldn't believe it. I was sitting
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: on the couch. We normally have such a, we had
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: such a buzz on. We'd all had a glass of wine.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: We'd all had some pizza. I was really looking forward
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: to a good giggle. And within two minutes, me and
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: my friends were like, oh, this doesn't feel right. This
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: doesn't feel funny. In fact, it feels really dated. It
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: feels really misogynist. I don't think we live in that
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: world anymore and making fun of women. It's never men,
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: but making fun of women and what they look like
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: and what their bodies are like and their sexuality. I
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: just don't think it's funny anymore. What do you think, naughties? Okay,
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: we're going to take a quick break and we will
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: be right back. Welcome back to the Naughty But Nice Show.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rob Schuter. Hey, let's get to the polls.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Mark. Last show, we talked about
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Harry and Meghan who are desperate to avoid booze. Desperate
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: to avoid booze for their first public appearance, which is today.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: In the UK. So we know the answer. We know
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: the answer. They were not booed. They were cheered, Mark.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: This response was much, much better than they expected, I expected,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: everybody expected. Our question was, will they succeed not being
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: booed 50-50? We didn't think this was going to happen today.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: It's a 50. If you had asked me to bet yesterday...
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: I'd say, oh, I'm worried about it. They could be booed.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: He was booed at a rugby match just a few
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: days ago and said to add Meghan to the mix.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I'm absolutely wrong. They might get booed tomorrow
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: or next week, but today you have to hand them
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: their flowers, Mark. Today they pulled it off. And may
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: I add, They looked fabulous, which always helps. Okay, don't
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: forget to vote on today's poll. Go to our X page,
• 16:30
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• 16:34
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• 16:37
  Speaker 1: to hear your results. And now it's time for our
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• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, this is a cute one. Nick Lachey says, this
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: divorce from Jessica Simpson gave him a leg up. and
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: his marriage to Vanessa.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Interesting.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: So during the season 11 premiere of Netflix's Love is Blind,
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: the 52-year-old singer admitted in 2006 that divorce helped him
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: understand what he wanted in a partner. He said, he
• 17:06
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• 17:09
  Speaker 2: experience and what is truly what you want. He said
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: his wife Vanessa and his wife Vanessa said also we
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: have Very messy past.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: We do. We all have a messy past. You know,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: past relationships are going to be messy or they wouldn't
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: be past relationships. They ended. Hopefully they ended well, but often, mostly,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: they don't end that well. But I think this is
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: really interesting. It reminds me of a saying that I
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: use all the time. We use it on the show.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: It feels like every month. The road to success is
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: paved with failure. You have to fail. You do. If
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: you want to be a good violin player, you've got
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: to be bad. If you want to be a good podcaster,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: we know you've got to be bad. We're pretty bad.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: If you want to have a good marriage, then you
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: have to have felt one. You have to have dealt
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: with one. You have to have gone through one. It's very,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: very rare that you just find the first person and
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: everything is rainbows and unicorns. It's tricky. Life is tricky.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: We learn skills as we go along. And because it
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: didn't work out the way you want it to be,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Don't throw away that experience. Think about it. Think what
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: could have changed. Me and Nick have a very difficult
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: relationship because I used to work for Jessica Simpson. He
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: really doesn't like me. But this, I get it. He
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: shouldn't either. He shouldn't. But this, if you're listening, Nick, hello, hello, hello.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: This has made me change my mind a little bit
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: about Nick Lachey because it's a really big, honest thing
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: to say. Our nicest of the day. And now our
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: naughtiest of the day. Naughty, naughty, naughty. Paul McCartney is
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: the naughtiest of the day because he's furious over a
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: height mistake in the upcoming Beatles movie. Paul McCartney has
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: one big complaint about the upcoming Beatles biopic. He said
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Hollywood is making him look short. Paul, you sold millions
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: of records. You are a Beatle. Get over it. Honey, honey,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: you've got everything in life. You're a billionaire. People, honestly,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: it just goes to show you, even when you have everything,
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: There's something that bugs you. I noticed the day. Hey,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: let's end with a moment of Rob. Stop taking everything
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: personally because not everything is about you. One of the
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: quickest ways to make yourself miserable is to believe that
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: everything other people do is somehow about you. It's not.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: If someone doesn't call, they must be angry with me.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: If someone succeeds, they're trying to make me look bad.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: If someone makes a different choice than me, it must
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: be a personal attack. Stop. You're wrong. It's not. It's not.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: It's not. Not everything is a secret message. Not every
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: decision is designed to hurt you. And not everyone is
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: thinking about you as much as you imagine. Here's the
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: secret to being happier. Stop looking forward. for insults stop
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: looking for them and start looking for joy because sometimes
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: it simply isn't about you that is good advice I
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: used to think everything was about me I was such
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: a narcissist I was so thin skinned if somebody looked
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: at me the wrong way I'd upset them If I
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: said something and people didn't laugh, then I'm not for it. No,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: people are busy. People have their lives. People have tons
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: of stuff in their lives. You are not their priority.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: And that's not a bad thing. That's liberating. Hey, that
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: is it for today. A monumental day here on the
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Naughty But Nice Show. I don't think we've been nice
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: about Harry and Meghan in years. And finally, I've had
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: to eat my hat, so to speak. So thank you
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: so much for listening on this special day. It's a
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: naughty bit nice with Rob and Mark. We're a production
• 20:40
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• 20:49
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• 20:52
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• 20:56
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• 20:58
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• 21:13
  Speaker 1: And remember, all together now, let me hear you singing along.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: If you're going to be naughty, you got to be.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Let me hear you.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Nice.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: You sound marvellous. Pip, pip.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: It's Naughty But Nice With Rob!
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: It's Naughty But Nice With Rob!