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- 0:00Welcome to this episode of the Alignment with Jen podcast.
- 0:03I am your host Jen, It's easy. And today I have a really
- 0:07special episode for you. One of the most common questions
- 0:10that I get is Jen, how can I manifest the things that I want
- 0:13in my life faster, right? We always want to go faster.
- 0:17And I want to answer this question from a slightly
- 0:19different angle because manifestation is not about
- 0:22finding the perfect technique doing the perfect thing.
- 0:25It is about becoming a new version of yourself.
- 0:28So I want to explain this of how how a master manifester, someone
- 0:32who's an exceptional manifester, is able to manifest things
- 0:36faster. So that's really what we're
- 0:38going to look at. We're going to look at seven
- 0:40ways that you can be 7 patterns you can cultivate starting
- 0:44today, as soon as you finish this episode, to operate like a
- 0:48master manifester. OK.
- 0:50And the metaphor I want to start with is imagine that you live in
- 0:54a house and the thermostat in that house is behind a wall.
- 0:58So you keep doing all these things to try to warm up the
- 1:01house. It's cold in the middle of the
- 1:03winter, so maybe you light a fire, you light candles, you
- 1:06look for the thermostat and you can't find it.
- 1:09You get blankets, you put on sweaters, you put on socks, but
- 1:12you still aren't able to change the temperature of the
- 1:14thermostat. This is how our internal
- 1:17operating systems impact us. Oftentimes we are looking for
- 1:21things outside of us to change our internal thermostat, to
- 1:25change what's really going on on the inside.
- 1:27And when we focus on what's going on in the inside, that is
- 1:32when we are going to be able to manifest the things that we want
- 1:35in our life so much faster. So instead of looking outside of
- 1:40you, begin the journey and continue the journey of looking
- 1:44inside of you. Of what can I shift internally
- 1:46in order to unlock that next level that I'm seeking?
- 1:49Anything that you want to manifest in your life is going
- 1:52to come from an internal change first.
- 1:55It can be no other way. We live in a hall of mirrors
- 1:58where the internal is always reflecting into the external.
- 2:02I want you to come into this episode with the mindset of
- 2:05whole being manifestation, right?
- 2:08I think that manifestation can often kind of come across as a
- 2:11little bit of tips and tricks and hacks because that's what's
- 2:15really easy to post about on social media, but it's really
- 2:18about who you are being on a whole level.
- 2:20Because think about when you want to manifest something,
- 2:23typically it is not like a momentary change.
- 2:27The things that we really, really desire are ongoing
- 2:30changes. The love of our life, We don't
- 2:32just want that for one moment, we want that for decades.
- 2:35We don't just want wealth for one moment, we want it for
- 2:38decades, right? Same with health, same with our
- 2:41purpose. We want that change that lasts.
- 2:45And so in order to create that lasting change, we have to
- 2:48become someone new because our current reality is a result of
- 2:52who we have been being and who we are currently being.
- 2:57And so when we want to change and create a ripple, a Wrinkle
- 3:00in time, we have to become someone new.
- 3:03So that's what this episode is going to help you do.
- 3:04It's going to give you 7 patterns to cultivate and
- 3:07they're very simple and very easy and very tangible for you.
- 3:10So the first one is to realize that master manifesters are
- 3:15ninjas with their thoughts, right?
- 3:17When I think of that, I kind of think of like you have these
- 3:19negative thoughts coming in and a ninjas like karate chopping
- 3:22them out of your mind. And that is because master
- 3:26manifesters know that their thoughts are a creative force.
- 3:30And so when you use your thoughts, think of them as
- 3:32strokes on a canvas of life. When you use your thoughts
- 3:36precisely and thoughtfully, when you learn to master them, when
- 3:40you learn to not go down the rabbit holes of fears and
- 3:44doubts, that is when you start cultivating a very, very
- 3:47different energy. And this seems so, so simple,
- 3:50but it can be very difficult in our modern society when we have
- 3:53so many inputs, right? Social media, billboards,
- 3:56conversations that we overhear in cafes.
- 3:59There's so much input that we're experiencing that it can be
- 4:04difficult because our thoughts are not just our own.
- 4:06We are a receiver. Our brain is a receiver and a
- 4:09transmitter of information, and so we're receiving information
- 4:13at all moments. And so part of it is not only
- 4:16being a ninja with your thoughts in terms of being thoughtful
- 4:19about what you think about and learning to master your
- 4:22thoughts, but also recognizing that your thoughts are not all
- 4:26your own. You don't need to believe them.
- 4:28Just because you think about something really sad or really
- 4:31awful happening doesn't mean that you have to keep putting
- 4:34energy into that thought. A really, really, really simple
- 4:36tool that I love is when I think a thought and I'm like, holy
- 4:40cow, that is not who I want to be.
- 4:41I just imagine a little dry erase eraser like you would see
- 4:45in a school, erasing that thought.
- 4:47And I say erase, erase, erase. And that's energetically
- 4:51releasing that thought, creating a disconnection from that
- 4:53thought, right? It's not getting into that game
- 4:56of, Oh my gosh, I can't believe I thought that thought.
- 4:59Oh my gosh, I'm such a terrible person, right?
- 5:01Not believing everything you think.
- 5:03Master manifesters don't believe everything they think.
- 5:06We're never going to have perfect thoughts, right?
- 5:09But what we can do is we can learn to decide.
- 5:11Is this a thought that I want to add energy to, or is it a
- 5:14thought that I want to let go of and erase?
- 5:17Is this a thought that I keep thinking and I want to do some
- 5:20deeper rewiring work in order to shift that?
- 5:24Then that's your responsibility to create that change.
- 5:27So that's the first thing is to begin to recognize your thoughts
- 5:31and to recognize how you want to go about processing those
- 5:35thoughts. Something that can be really
- 5:37helpful to think about in terms of being a ninja with your
- 5:41thoughts is the meaning that you are assigning to something.
- 5:45So we are meaning making machines every single moment.
- 5:49We are making meaning of our experience based off of our past
- 5:52experiences. This is why two people can be in
- 5:55the exact same experience and have a totally different reality
- 5:59of it, right? When a crime happens and there's
- 6:02two people on the scene of the crime, police officers often
- 6:05times will get different stories because what one person's mind
- 6:09is assigning meaning to to as important is very different than
- 6:12what the other person is assigning meaning to.
- 6:14So becoming a master of meaning, What do I mean by that?
- 6:18I mean, let's say that you go to the grocery store and you get to
- 6:21Whole Foods and you're all excited to go get yourself a
- 6:23nice smoothie and you get there and you're like, Dang, this
- 6:26parking lot is full. I have to park 2 blocks away.
- 6:29This happened to me a couple of weeks ago at the end, seeing
- 6:31this farmers market. And so you have to park really
- 6:34far away instead of being like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe I
- 6:37have to park far away. This is such a pain, blah, blah,
- 6:39blah, blah, blah. Right.
- 6:40Getting into your story. Now I have to carry my groceries
- 6:43farther. Instead of being that person, be
- 6:46the person that's like, awesome. You know, I wanted to get more
- 6:48steps in my day. So this is the universe giving
- 6:50me an opportunity to get more steps.
- 6:52Now I can really think about what I want to get when I get
- 6:55inside, right? I have a little bit more time to
- 6:57process. Maybe I can enjoy the sunshine
- 7:01outside as I'm walking into the grocery store, right?
- 7:04Neither of these is right or wrong, but one of them gives you
- 7:07power and opportunity to create the life that you want and to
- 7:10feel amazing. The other one leaves you kind of
- 7:12feeling like crap. So becoming a master of meaning
- 7:16and understanding, how are you actually assigning meaning to
- 7:20your life? Are you doing it in a way that
- 7:22doesn't feel good? Right.
- 7:23When you have a conversation with someone and somebody says,
- 7:27you say you tell a story and somebody just like kind of sits
- 7:29there. What meaning do you assign to
- 7:32that? Do you assign that person's
- 7:34judging me? Man, I must have said something
- 7:35stupid. I can't believe that I said
- 7:37that. That was so dumb.
- 7:38Now they think I'm an idiot. Or do you assign the meaning of
- 7:42they must have thought that was really thoughtful or just a no
- 7:46meaning at all and just ask them.
- 7:48So what do you think, right? We don't need to be creating
- 7:51these negative meanings that make us feel like crap.
- 7:54So just notice. Notice what meanings you are
- 7:57creating. Honestly, if this is all you
- 7:59ever did, if you listen to every single one of my podcast
- 8:01episodes and this is the only thing you ever took from it,
- 8:03this alone will change your life when you become a master of
- 8:07meaning. And I take this to a further
- 8:09extent of being kind of delusional with it, where I
- 8:12really assign meanings of what I want to work out, right?
- 8:16Like one of my friends texted me this morning and she's like,
- 8:18we're going to have record-breaking months in our
- 8:20business this week. And I was like, that's the kind
- 8:22of meeting I want to assign to things, right?
- 8:24I want to assign not only positive meaning, but really
- 8:27positive meaning to my life. So that's the first one.
- 8:31The second one is that master manifesters know that they are
- 8:34the creators of their reality. And this means letting go of
- 8:38that victim mentality of things are happening to me.
- 8:41Woe is me because I have difficult things going on in my
- 8:44life right now, right? What it means is turning that
- 8:49around and deciding to say, you know what?
- 8:51If I am going to decide that I create the good things in my
- 8:53life, I can also decide that I'm going to stop creating the bad
- 8:57things in my life as well. This means no longer blaming
- 9:00external circumstances for what you're experiencing, no longer
- 9:04blaming other people, no longer blaming your past.
- 9:07And I get it. People have difficult pasts,
- 9:09right? Everyone has things in their
- 9:11past that they wish had not happened.
- 9:13And some people have even more difficult experiences, right?
- 9:17I was in an Uber the other day and my driver spent his 1st 15
- 9:20years of life in a refugee camp in Ghana.
- 9:23That's a really difficult experience.
- 9:26Did this man feel bad for himself?
- 9:28Did he know this man was amazing?
- 9:30He was so amazing. And I, I ended up referring him
- 9:32to a friend to be his driver because he had such a positive
- 9:36mindset. He was so amazing.
- 9:37If he had had this really bad mindset and felt like a victim
- 9:40of his circumstances. And I'm not saying his
- 9:42circumstances are OK. What I'm saying is stop giving
- 9:46your power away to experiences that you had in the past because
- 9:49that's only going to drag them into the future.
- 9:51If you want to be creator of your future, then you have to
- 9:55let go of those experiences or find peace with those
- 9:59experiences. It doesn't mean saying it was OK
- 10:02if bad things happened in your past.
- 10:04I've had very bad things happen in my past.
- 10:06It doesn't mean that I'm saying that that was an OK thing to
- 10:08happen, but it means that I no longer.
- 10:10I'm going to let that impact who I want to be and the life that I
- 10:13want to create. Knowing that you are the creator
- 10:17of your reality and you get to decide how you view things.
- 10:21You get to decide who you get to be.
- 10:23So I ask you, where in your life can you step into more of that
- 10:27role of the Creator, right? A lot of the people that come to
- 10:30me, they come to me because they feel stuck in some way, right?
- 10:33I talked to a couple of women yesterday who were telling me
- 10:36that they felt really stuck in their careers, right?
- 10:38They had good careers, but they felt like it wasn't fulfilling.
- 10:42And they're like, I just don't know what to do.
- 10:43I feel really, really stuck. The truth is that we're never
- 10:46really stuck. We are stuck in a way of
- 10:48thinking. We can't get out of that way of
- 10:51thinking. We can.
- 10:52And that's why it can be really helpful to have support and have
- 10:55guidance to get out of that way of thinking to see things
- 10:58differently, right? I kind of think my job is really
- 11:01easy because if I can just get people to see things
- 11:03differently, then their entire life changes, right?
- 11:07That's all it is for you. You just have to start seeing
- 11:09things differently and your whole life will change.
- 11:12And that's what it means to be a creator of your life rather than
- 11:16a victim of your circumstances, because one path leads to a
- 11:20magnificent, extraordinary life, and one path leads to the past.
- 11:24Continuously recreating the future #3 and this one is going
- 11:30to be kind of difficult for some people.
- 11:32Master manifesters are excellent receivers for many people to
- 11:37manifest their next level. All that they have to do is
- 11:41become better at receiving. Because the universe, when you
- 11:44ask, it is always given. And so it is your ability to
- 11:49allow that to come into your experience to be a really good
- 11:53receiver that will allow that to happen for you.
- 11:56So a way that you can kind of recognize your ability you're
- 12:00receiving thermostat is how do you feel when people compliment
- 12:04you? Do you brush it off?
- 12:06Do you feel the need to constantly compliment them back?
- 12:09Do you feel the need to say, oh, no, like I just got this shirt
- 12:12at, you know, the Goodwill, it's no big deal, right?
- 12:15Or are you able to just accept it and say, thank you so much, I
- 12:18love this shirt or thank you, I do feel pretty today, right?
- 12:21That one would probably feel edgy for some people.
- 12:24How do you feel when people offer you help?
- 12:27Are you able to accept that help?
- 12:29Are you able to accept it or do you feel the need to reject it?
- 12:33Because all of these microwaves, we're seeing our ability to
- 12:36receive and that is mirroring our ability to receive the
- 12:41things that we are manifesting from the universe.
- 12:43How do you feel when you receive more money?
- 12:47Do you feel excited about it or do you feel an anxiety come up
- 12:50of, oh, this is going to go away or I don't, I don't deserve
- 12:54this, right? Noticing in those micro moments
- 12:57how you're receiving, your relationship with receiving is
- 13:00evolving because what can oftentimes happen is if we grow
- 13:03up in an environment where receiving is not something that
- 13:07is easily done, right? Maybe I remember growing up and
- 13:11there was this whole thought process of being conceited.
- 13:14Like all the girls at school would talk about, oh, you don't
- 13:16want to be conceited. So as a result, like it wasn't
- 13:19OK to talk about your accomplishments.
- 13:21It wasn't OK to accept compliments, right?
- 13:23And that was at pretty formative years for me.
- 13:25And I think that was pretty common if you grew up in in the
- 13:27early 2000s, like I did, noticing those experiences that
- 13:31you had and how they affect your ability to receive, receive
- 13:34acknowledgement, receive praise, receive love as you grow older.
- 13:37Because the more that you expand your ability to receive, because
- 13:41receiving is so connected to worthiness, the more that you
- 13:44expand your ability to receive the things in your life that
- 13:47you're asking for that next level of income, that new job,
- 13:50that new relationship, right? Especially in relationship
- 13:54dynamics, there's a spiritual law called the law of giving and
- 13:58receiving, and it's essentially this idea that there's an
- 14:01energetic flow that is constantly happening in the
- 14:03universe. Thinking of it of like waves in
- 14:06the ocean, right? The waves go out and then they
- 14:08come back into the shore, and it's constantly happening that
- 14:12way all around the world. That's the same with giving and
- 14:15receiving. We are designed to actually feel
- 14:18like giving and receiving are the same things.
- 14:21Because have you ever given? And it's felt really, really,
- 14:23really insanely good. I feel like that whenever I give
- 14:26things to my niece and nephew. I bought my nephew this like
- 14:28Pokémon toy and he was so happy. And I'm like, man, I think I
- 14:33might have gotten even happier out of giving him that Pokémon
- 14:36toy, right? When we can get to a place we're
- 14:38giving and receiving both feel exceptionally good for us.
- 14:43That is when we become a really, really powerful manifester.
- 14:47So noticing how that plays in your life, right?
- 14:50Do you contract around receiving?
- 14:52Do you contract around giving? Are you kind of a stingy person?
- 14:56Or are you so comfortable giving but not comfortable receiving?
- 15:00So just noticing this for yourself #4 master manifesters
- 15:04have a regulated nervous system. Your nervous system is kind of
- 15:09your internal thermostat. If you hit a peak where you're
- 15:13like, Oh my gosh, this is starting.
- 15:14This level of exposure on social media, this level of growth in
- 15:18my career is starting to feel really uncomfortable.
- 15:21This is when self sabotage can happen and that's lives in our
- 15:25subconscious mind and our nervous system.
- 15:27I really consider the subconscious mind in the nervous
- 15:29system are so intimately connected.
- 15:31They're really one in the same. Actually noticing for yourself
- 15:35how your nervous system responds in these different areas in your
- 15:39life, especially the areas where you want to manifest more.
- 15:43Do you feel a contraction when you start to get close to having
- 15:47what you want? You start to get intimate or
- 15:49feel really connected to someone?
- 15:51Do you start wanting to pick fights, right?
- 15:53That is your nervous systems threshold.
- 15:56And being able to understand that and being able to do that
- 15:59rewiring work so you can hold that larger capacity is going to
- 16:02allow you to manifest more things into your life.
- 16:05And that's sort of what I think of your nervous system is as
- 16:07your capacity. What's going to happen is things
- 16:10can be getting really, really, really good.
- 16:11Then you hit that certain temperature and your mind and
- 16:14your nervous system are like, oh, hold on, that's
- 16:16uncomfortable and it'll start to bring you back down right
- 16:20through micro behaviors. This happened to me last year in
- 16:23my business. And I look back now and I'm
- 16:24like, whoa, like, you know this stuff?
- 16:26And I still didn't even see it where for about two months I was
- 16:30really not showing up how I wanted to in my business.
- 16:33I wasn't being consistent with the things I needed to be
- 16:35consistent with. I wasn't posting content like I
- 16:37wanted to post content. And I wondered why my business
- 16:40had plateaued. I couldn't figure it out.
- 16:42This is how powerful the subconscious mind is.
- 16:44You're like, isn't that obvious? It wasn't obvious to me because
- 16:48I was sabotaging because I had hit that threshold.
- 16:51I had hit a new point in success and I felt uncomfortable, so I
- 16:55subconsciously sabotaged it. And so I did, of course, my own
- 16:59rewiring work that I do with my clients.
- 17:01And then it has flowed so smoothly since then.
- 17:04And then a couple months later, my podcast started doing really
- 17:06well. Noticing your nervous systems
- 17:08capacity, where do you expand? Where do you contract?
- 17:11What causes you to contract #5 Master manifesters have
- 17:16certainty. They are very, very certain that
- 17:20not that everything is going to go exactly how they want it to
- 17:23go, but that everything is good and everything is from the
- 17:28Creator, from the universe. Meaning that the good and the
- 17:31bad are all good because they are all leading me to the path,
- 17:36my highest path. Knowing that the universe is
- 17:39never doing anything to you, the creator God, whoever you want to
- 17:43name it, I don't mind you choose whatever feels good for you.
- 17:47The universe is never doing anything to you.
- 17:51The universe is always doing things for you.
- 17:54So if something looks bad, I get kind of excited because I'm
- 17:59like, you know what? I know something really good is
- 18:01going to come out of this. And even as I'm saying that, I'm
- 18:03like, oh, you can see that in a new area of your life, Jen,
- 18:07right? Even I need to be reminded of
- 18:09these concepts. We all do.
- 18:10We need to steep ourselves like a little tea bag in this
- 18:13information because it needs to become the fabric of who we are.
- 18:19And if we get too far away from it, we can forget.
- 18:22So certainty, there's a spiritual teacher that I follow
- 18:26and he talks a lot about how the most successful people, one of
- 18:30their greatest attributes is that they have immense
- 18:32certainty. And I see this in my most
- 18:35successful friends. I have a friend who moved to the
- 18:38US from the UK, moved here. His business in the UK was doing
- 18:42millions of year. It went completely under.
- 18:44He went millions into debt. He moved to the US, He invested
- 18:48in $100,000 masterminds with no money.
- 18:50He invested fully in himself. Within a couple of years he had
- 18:54rebuilt a multi $1,000,000 business.
- 18:57One of the qualities that he cultivated that he just has
- 19:01within him is certainty. He has this certainty that
- 19:05everything is good. And he talks about that when his
- 19:07business went under really positively because of how much
- 19:11he learned. And he says if that hadn't
- 19:13happened, I don't think I'd be able to build the level of
- 19:16business that I'm now building because I didn't have the vessel
- 19:19to hold it. I didn't have the capacity for
- 19:22it. So certainty is knowing that
- 19:26even when things don't look exactly how you want them to
- 19:29look, even when things seem difficult, knowing that this is
- 19:33all good and everything is actually happening in your
- 19:36favor. Kind of a tricky 1 to remember
- 19:39sometimes, right? Number six is master manifesters
- 19:43live in integrity. What do I mean by that?
- 19:47What I mean is that master manifesters know who they are.
- 19:51They know their values, they know what kind of person they
- 19:54want to be in the world. They know their goals and they
- 19:57live in alignment with that. They're not the kind of person
- 20:01that says, you know, I want to be really fit and healthy, but
- 20:04I'm not really willing to go to the gym consistently, right?
- 20:07Sometimes I'm going to watch Netflix instead of go to the
- 20:09gym. There's an incongruity there,
- 20:12and we feel it, right? When you do things like that.
- 20:15When I do things like that, I don't feel good.
- 20:17And I'm sure you don't either because there's a dissonance
- 20:19that's created. We're not living in alignment
- 20:22with who we know we want to be. And so master manifesters live
- 20:26in that alignment. If they say they want to start a
- 20:29business, they show up for that. They figure it out.
- 20:32If they say that they want to have a really healthy
- 20:36relationship and there's a conflict in their relationship,
- 20:39they show up for that. They have the hard
- 20:41conversations, right? Integrity is huge because
- 20:45without integrity, we subconsciously experience this
- 20:49dissonance where we don't feel worthy of the things that we
- 20:51want to receive. And so when we create that
- 20:54integrity, we create a very coherent energy and a very
- 20:58coherent field #7 is they are grateful.
- 21:04They are so insanely grateful. Master manifesters cultivate
- 21:07gratitude. And you're probably like, well,
- 21:09that's an easy one. But I don't mean like how the
- 21:12average person sometimes thinks of things to be grateful for.
- 21:15I mean, master manifesters are grateful all of the time.
- 21:18They're grateful for what I talked about before, the good
- 21:20and the bad. When something bad happens.
- 21:23I went to see the spiritual teacher speak, and he gets on
- 21:26stage and his mic isn't working. And he just says, oh, this is
- 21:30good. And I was like, it really stuck
- 21:32with me because even in that moment when other people would
- 21:35have been frustrated or would've been, you know, OK, come on,
- 21:39come on, let's get this mic fixed.
- 21:40He was like, this is good. This means that our conversation
- 21:43today is going to be really, really good because we've had to
- 21:46overcome something in this day. So master manifesters are
- 21:51grateful for every single thing in their lives, the good and the
- 21:54bad. And they don't just passively be
- 21:57grateful, they actively be grateful.
- 21:59I don't know if that's proper English, but I know you get my
- 22:02point. They cultivate gratitude by
- 22:04practicing it. So a practice that I love to do,
- 22:07and if I don't do this, my whole day feels off is I wake up in
- 22:11the morning, I do a little bit of getting ready, I'll eat, I'll
- 22:14do those kinds of things. And then I'll take my dog on a
- 22:16walk. And as soon as I step out the
- 22:18door, I start talking to the universe, to the creator.
- 22:21And I talk about all the things I'm grateful for, the really
- 22:24small things, the really big things, the people I'm grateful
- 22:27for. And it puts me in such a great
- 22:30frequency for the day that there's a distinct difference
- 22:33when I do that and when I don't. So they practice gratitude.
- 22:38And the more that you practice gratitude, the more that you
- 22:41have things to be grateful for because that frequency will
- 22:44attract like experiences, right? More things to be grateful for.
- 22:48I hope you have loved this episode.
- 22:50If you want help with cultivating these things, with
- 22:54becoming a master manifester, with rewiring the thought
- 22:59patterns and the beliefs and the fears and the aspects of you
- 23:03that you feel are holding you back from your greatest
- 23:05potential, send me a message on Instagram at alignment with Jen
- 23:10with the Word podcast in it. And I'll send you a 5 minute
- 23:13video about my program, The Infinite Experience, where I
- 23:16guide you through this process. I hope you love this.
- 23:19I'll see you in the next episode.