Latest / Untraditionally Lala / The One About Kristen Doute & You Do You, Boo!
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast.
- 0:09Speaker 1: I thought today was.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Sunday, so just to roll with it, I was like,
- 0:15Speaker 2: wait a minute, we have to record today. I have
- 0:19Speaker 2: to get my blood drawn today. I'm looking a little.
- 0:23Speaker 3: Sleepy because you thought it was Sunday.
- 0:26Speaker 1: I always look away sleepy. It's fine.
- 0:28Speaker 3: You're gonna think it's Friday on a Thursday, and that's
- 0:32Speaker 3: always kind of great too. You know what, look, did
- 0:34Speaker 3: you get Fridays.
- 0:36Speaker 2: I still think that the work week should only be
- 0:39Speaker 2: four days.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Agreed, right, but also, I, uh, my work week, my
- 0:45Speaker 3: nine to five baby Fridays we're always great. Yeah, well potlucks.
- 0:50Speaker 3: You could leave early some days, but even if you couldn't,
- 0:54Speaker 3: everybody was casually dressed. Yeah.
- 0:57Speaker 2: It was kind of like school every Friday. You got
- 0:59Speaker 2: out at one fifty.
- 1:00Speaker 3: Yeah, so fun. But like when I'd be there and
- 1:03Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh, it's Friday, I wouldn't even care
- 1:05Speaker 3: if I saw Thursday, I was like, no way, I
- 1:08Speaker 3: could like enjoy two Fridays. Yeah.
- 1:11Speaker 2: The thing that I like about a Friday when you
- 1:13Speaker 2: work a normal job or when you're still in school
- 1:16Speaker 2: is that because it almost just feels like more of
- 1:19Speaker 2: a party, Like there's not enough time in.
- 1:20Speaker 1: The day to like really get anything done. Like at school.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Remember at school, didn't we get out of like eleven
- 1:29Speaker 2: something on Fridays? In high school, I tell you, classes
- 1:33Speaker 2: were cut so short. I'm like, today's a party, it's
- 1:36Speaker 2: socializing hour.
- 1:38Speaker 3: I remember going into class and by the time you
- 1:40Speaker 3: sat down and got your books out, they were like,
- 1:42Speaker 3: all right, and have a good one. You were like, well,
- 1:45Speaker 3: I didn't even did we get homework. That's why I
- 1:47Speaker 3: failed school.
- 1:48Speaker 1: The Fridays Fridays were messing everybody.
- 1:51Speaker 3: Did I have homework to turn in? Did I have
- 1:53Speaker 3: homework to do over the weekend? I don't know. There
- 1:55Speaker 3: wasn't enough time.
- 1:58Speaker 1: We had a spectacular weekend. The Russins came into town.
- 2:03Speaker 2: It was a little vacate slash baby shower.
- 2:08Speaker 1: Kristin and Canvas. We could not have done it with them.
- 2:12Speaker 3: I'm telling you that's kind of our life story. We
- 2:14Speaker 3: couldn't do it without a lot of people.
- 2:16Speaker 2: The thing is I could have helped, but it would
- 2:19Speaker 2: have made everything go slower, to be honest, you know.
- 2:23Speaker 2: So I helped with the taking down, like the popping
- 2:26Speaker 2: of the balloons. After the shower, but I just let
- 2:30Speaker 2: them roll because they were on a roll and they
- 2:32Speaker 2: were getting shit done, and I'm telling.
- 2:34Speaker 1: You it was spectacular.
- 2:36Speaker 2: So my dear friend Meredith, who I actually met through
- 2:41Speaker 2: Ariana and then she and I connected on a deeper
- 2:44Speaker 2: level because she also got a donor and her donor
- 2:48Speaker 2: is a little bit different than mine. It's her gay
- 2:50Speaker 2: best friend, so really cute because yeah, he came. Anyway,
- 2:55Speaker 2: the theme was here comes the Sun s one because
- 2:58Speaker 2: she's having a boy, and it was like like.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Hippie Beatles themed.
- 3:04Speaker 2: Kristen killed it, like I'm gonna have kristin plan Sosa's
- 3:08Speaker 2: first birthday, which I'm still debating on the theme. Like
- 3:10Speaker 2: Ocean's first birthday was easy because it was just Ocean themed,
- 3:15Speaker 2: But with Sosa, I'm like, what do I.
- 3:16Speaker 3: Do for this baseball bats?
- 3:19Speaker 2: I know, right, I'm like Sammy Sosa, I know, but
- 3:24Speaker 2: she wasn't named after him, but I did style. Apparently
- 3:31Speaker 2: Sosa means like cocaine in that song, and whenever anyone says.
- 3:35Speaker 1: Like Sosa is named after cocaine.
- 3:38Speaker 2: I'm like, your drug addict is showing, Like on what
- 3:42Speaker 2: planet are you so deep in your addiction that where
- 3:44Speaker 2: you're like rolling up on a drug dealer, like you
- 3:46Speaker 2: do you have Sosa?
- 3:47Speaker 3: Do you want to know what's for you? I mean,
- 3:50Speaker 3: I've been in that world and I've been able to
- 3:51Speaker 3: connect dots. I thought he was calling himself Sosa. Me too.
- 3:55Speaker 1: I thought he was calling.
- 3:56Speaker 3: Himself love Chief Keith.
- 3:58Speaker 1: But I'm so I thought he met like he's a
- 4:00Speaker 1: heavy hitter.
- 4:01Speaker 3: Same like bitches love me.
- 4:03Speaker 2: Yeah, because then he talks about the slug the slugger
- 4:06Speaker 2: y Yeah, Like I.
- 4:07Speaker 3: Thought he was talking in third person, which I do.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Often, so I totally could not be further from what
- 4:13Speaker 1: he's talking about.
- 4:15Speaker 3: Well, Sosa, N I got some with I don't know.
- 4:19Speaker 1: All I know is Sosa was not named after Cookina
- 4:22Speaker 1: or Sammy Sosa. I just liked the name. Anyway.
- 4:25Speaker 2: If you guys live in Salt Lake City or just
- 4:30Speaker 2: anywhere in that area in Utah, I highly recommend Kristen
- 4:35Speaker 2: to plan whatever you need.
- 4:36Speaker 1: I agree did it all.
- 4:38Speaker 3: She did the Lamborghini. Sorry to interrupt, but she did
- 4:41Speaker 3: the Lamborghini event for the brand new car that they
- 4:43Speaker 3: released in Salt Lake City at their event, and Kristin
- 4:47Speaker 3: did the flowers for all of it.
- 4:48Speaker 1: But she doesn't outsource, No, like they can't. You want food.
- 4:52Speaker 2: She makes the food, she does the cake, she does
- 4:57Speaker 2: the flowers, she does the backdrop, she does the balloons.
- 5:00Speaker 1: So most party planners.
- 5:02Speaker 2: Like they outsource, right, they play the party and then
- 5:05Speaker 2: they say, I'm going to reach out to this cookie vendor.
- 5:07Speaker 2: I'm going to reach out to this person to do
- 5:08Speaker 2: the balloon arch, this person for the backdrop. Kristin literally
- 5:12Speaker 2: did it all. I'll drop pictures you guys, because it
- 5:15Speaker 2: was absolutely spectacular.
- 5:17Speaker 3: We've been spoiled with her flowers our whole life. Have
- 5:19Speaker 3: you noticed that? Yeah? I know, and now we compare
- 5:22Speaker 3: everything to hers. Yeah, it's gorgeous, nothing compares.
- 5:26Speaker 2: But I have news, tell me all of it. And
- 5:29Speaker 2: I asked if it was okay to share this before
- 5:32Speaker 2: I got on the mic. So you guys know the
- 5:36Speaker 2: ups and downs that I have been going through with
- 5:39Speaker 2: Kristin Doty and the reason she and I fell off originally,
- 5:44Speaker 2: which was like a year and a half ago, was.
- 5:46Speaker 3: A lot of Christien's being thrown around.
- 5:48Speaker 2: Yeah, now we're on Kristin dodyck lost.
- 5:52Speaker 1: But she's also dear friends with Meredith. Anyway, she and.
- 5:55Speaker 2: I fell off because I had seen a video of
- 5:59Speaker 2: her doing Zach Unfiltered with Zach. It was like a
- 6:04Speaker 2: live podcast, and there was a girl who used to
- 6:09Speaker 2: be on Shaws of Sunset who was commenting on me
- 6:12Speaker 2: as a parent and as a person, and Dody, in
- 6:16Speaker 2: my mind, didn't defend me. Whether that was true or not,
- 6:21Speaker 2: I still to this day do not know, because you
- 6:24Speaker 2: have to remember I had my hormonal goggles on.
- 6:29Speaker 1: Either way. I went to Brittany and said, Kristen's dead.
- 6:32Speaker 2: To me, and Brittany yes, Brittany tells her, and it
- 6:37Speaker 2: escalated things cut to where we are now.
- 6:40Speaker 1: We we haven't really spoken.
- 6:41Speaker 2: We've spoken about each other, but we haven't been good anyway.
- 6:46Speaker 2: During her pregnancy, I have been reaching out a lot
- 6:50Speaker 2: and not getting a response. Totally fine. Then she started
- 6:54Speaker 2: warming up and I was getting a response. The day
- 6:58Speaker 2: before the shower, I got a message from her saying,
- 7:02Speaker 2: you know, basically, I won't share exactly what it was.
- 7:04Speaker 2: She said she was debating coming to the shower because
- 7:08Speaker 2: she didn't know if it was appropriate for her to
- 7:11Speaker 2: welcome herself into my home with where we've been, but
- 7:15Speaker 2: she wants to be here to support Meredith. I wrote
- 7:18Speaker 2: her a lengthy text message I do feel like our
- 7:23Speaker 2: fallout really was only my fault.
- 7:27Speaker 3: That's big of you to say I don't know that.
- 7:29Speaker 2: It's big of me to say. What I do know
- 7:32Speaker 2: is I was pregnant.
- 7:34Speaker 3: It's good of you to take accountability.
- 7:37Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate that, just with a thirty thousand foot view.
- 7:42Speaker 2: My hormones were raging. Although I knew that I had
- 7:45Speaker 2: made the right decision when it came to getting a
- 7:48Speaker 2: donor with SOSA, I would be lying if I said
- 7:51Speaker 2: there weren't moments.
- 7:52Speaker 1: Where I was very scared, like how is.
- 7:55Speaker 3: This going to go?
- 7:57Speaker 2: Is she gonna grow up and look at me like
- 7:59Speaker 2: I'm an insane person and wish that she had a
- 8:02Speaker 2: like it was just an internal battle. And also at
- 8:05Speaker 2: that stage, I was dealing with the aftermath of a
- 8:10Speaker 2: really difficult season, and so I cut people out of
- 8:15Speaker 2: my life, thinking like this is my way of protecting myself. Anyway,
- 8:19Speaker 2: long story short, I sent her this message. Her response was,
- 8:22Speaker 2: You've got me very emotional.
- 8:25Speaker 3: I left it at that.
- 8:26Speaker 1: I said, but I want you comfortable, So if you're
- 8:29Speaker 1: not ready, I completely respect that wholeheartedly. But just know
- 8:34Speaker 1: you're always most welcome in my home.
- 8:36Speaker 2: And she came and we refollowed each other on Instagram.
- 8:42Speaker 1: That's what you know.
- 8:45Speaker 3: Instagram.
- 8:48Speaker 1: I forwarded her a link to the perfect PJS for
- 8:51Speaker 1: your hospital bag.
- 8:52Speaker 3: Oh, I was thinking private jets.
- 8:54Speaker 2: Okay, And I feel really really happy about us being
- 9:00Speaker 2: able to rekindle a friendship. I'm sure it's going to
- 9:03Speaker 2: be a slow roll. You know me, I'm either all
- 9:06Speaker 2: out or I'm all in. So yeah, you're finding the gray.
- 9:09Speaker 2: But I did ask her, I'm like, hey, I usually
- 9:11Speaker 2: on the podcast recap my weekend, are you okay with
- 9:14Speaker 2: me mentioning that you came to the shower, and she said,
- 9:17Speaker 2: you do you boo?
- 9:18Speaker 3: So I'm glad.
- 9:19Speaker 1: I feel really that's like a whey.
- 9:22Speaker 3: Yes, I will say I don't watch shows, I don't
- 9:27Speaker 3: do anything, but there's just something about me that remembers
- 9:29Speaker 3: you in vander Pump when you were friends with everyone,
- 9:33Speaker 3: and it's nice to just see that like that could
- 9:36Speaker 3: come back in with a couple people that you're wanting
- 9:39Speaker 3: in your life, because I see it in your like
- 9:42Speaker 3: the way you go about it. Your energy's higher. So
- 9:45Speaker 3: I'm glad that like you're rekindling that with her and
- 9:48Speaker 3: all of that.
- 9:49Speaker 2: I am too, and I'm glad that we could make
- 9:51Speaker 2: it right before she gives birth. Yes, because I missed
- 9:55Speaker 2: out on most all of Sheena's pregnancy because we were beef.
- 9:59Speaker 2: And I can't help but think I'm the common to
- 10:02Speaker 2: auditor these things.
- 10:04Speaker 3: It sucks that a mirror is following you around, right, Hey,
- 10:09Speaker 3: admitting you have a problem, that's the thing.
- 10:11Speaker 1: The first step.
- 10:12Speaker 3: Hey, if you can admit that you're ready for actions,
- 10:16Speaker 3: you know, it's.
- 10:17Speaker 1: All good, and that's all the better. It's all good.
- 10:20Speaker 2: I've taken a step back in life and really reevaluated
- 10:24Speaker 2: and thought, you know, and you're learning this, you said,
- 10:27Speaker 2: I don't know if you're to this step. But like
- 10:29Speaker 2: when you have to sit down in sobriety in our
- 10:32Speaker 2: program and take inventory, take accountability, how what part did
- 10:37Speaker 2: I play?
- 10:38Speaker 3: Did that? It's a I've told you, I'm not kidding you.
- 10:42Speaker 3: I was in a very dark spot because of that.
- 10:45Speaker 3: I had to wake up and think about who I resent?
- 10:49Speaker 3: How could you be in a good mind when you're
- 10:51Speaker 3: like waking up and you're like, for the fuck am
- 10:53Speaker 3: I pistol Off?
- 10:53Speaker 1: I know when they're like who do you resent?
- 10:55Speaker 2: Make a list and you're like, yeah, I'm so pissed,
- 10:57Speaker 2: and they're like, now, let's talk about your part.
- 11:00Speaker 3: That's I am right now on my ninth step of
- 11:05Speaker 3: making amends. Yeah, best step. Yeah, there's a there's some people,
- 11:11Speaker 3: hey me, do I get I? Yes, there are so
- 11:16Speaker 3: many things that I did to you, mom that I
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- 14:33Speaker 1: So during the Russins being here and us pulling together
- 14:37Speaker 1: Meredith's baby shower Easton ending up going to Palm Springs.
- 14:41Speaker 1: Did you enjoy yourself?
- 14:42Speaker 3: Yes, I will say when people come into town. Kristen
- 14:44Speaker 3: came into town to do the flowers and all that,
- 14:46Speaker 3: so we gave up bedrooms. When that happens, we go,
- 14:49Speaker 3: We're going to Palm Springs.
- 14:50Speaker 2: No, it's wild is how did I move into a
- 14:53Speaker 2: bigger home than the apartment? But I feel like I
- 14:55Speaker 2: have less less rules? How does it make any sense?
- 14:59Speaker 3: We're not you utilizing a lot of the rooms because
- 15:01Speaker 3: their offices. But we have plans. We have plans.
- 15:06Speaker 1: You guys, I'm getting a murphy, a fucking murphy. But
- 15:09Speaker 1: I never thought i'd see the day I know.
- 15:11Speaker 3: Do you want to know what I'm excited for? Tell
- 15:13Speaker 3: me to pull that thing out of the wall. Yeah,
- 15:15Speaker 3: that's gonna be fun. It will be. But we went
- 15:17Speaker 3: to Palm Springs. What the city is tired?
- 15:23Speaker 4: Tired?
- 15:24Speaker 3: Oh they are. They've given up after Coachella Week one,
- 15:28Speaker 3: Coachella Week two. That's no stagecoach just done this weekend. Yeah,
- 15:35Speaker 3: there were soulless bodies just working because of the hell
- 15:40Speaker 3: that they had just been through.
- 15:41Speaker 1: Wow, and it's been like two weeks, since it's been
- 15:43Speaker 1: over one week.
- 15:44Speaker 3: One week. We went to Taco Bell, okay, come to
- 15:49Speaker 3: find out two or twelve cinnabun order throw a six
- 15:54Speaker 3: in there, that's my topic.
- 15:55Speaker 1: Okay.
- 15:56Speaker 3: So that happens. We get like their uh freezes, you know,
- 16:02Speaker 3: the blast, the Baja blast. They filled them up halfway?
- 16:06Speaker 1: Are you joking?
- 16:08Speaker 3: Calvin grabs it and he looks at it and he
- 16:10Speaker 3: doesn't even bring it in the car. He goes, excuse me,
- 16:12Speaker 3: and the girl goes, what.
- 16:15Speaker 4: Here?
- 16:15Speaker 3: He goes, could you fill it up half? They are
- 16:21Speaker 3: two of them, two of them.
- 16:23Speaker 1: That's truly half assing, half assing.
- 16:26Speaker 3: We then order Panera bread Okay, oh my, did she
- 16:30Speaker 3: soup nailed it? Bread bull? Of course? Two bread bulls?
- 16:34Speaker 2: Or no?
- 16:35Speaker 3: Did you post meats Postmates?
- 16:37Speaker 1: And did you click the double?
- 16:38Speaker 3: No? We didn't even get a fucking bread bull. Part
- 16:40Speaker 3: of my language ruined my night, not only freezon.
- 16:44Speaker 1: I ordered broccoli cheeses.
- 16:45Speaker 4: For the bread bull they so instead of the bread bulls,
- 16:50Speaker 4: they gave us six bag adds, not separately wrapped, dumped
- 16:56Speaker 4: in the bottom of the bag with our bread like
- 16:59Speaker 4: a soups on top of them, alongside the salad plastic
- 17:05Speaker 4: salad thing, just laying on top of it, and I
- 17:08Speaker 4: was like, usually we get them in a separate, smaller
- 17:11Speaker 4: bag that I dig into.
- 17:13Speaker 3: Nope, just thrown at the bottom. And I was disgusted.
- 17:19Speaker 2: What what I'm confused about is like like Taco bell
- 17:23Speaker 2: I get because a lot of people go to taco
- 17:25Speaker 2: I don't get.
- 17:26Speaker 3: Fill my drink up, Fill my drink up? Don't? No?
- 17:34Speaker 1: I agree? Who on a buck Wild weekend is like
- 17:39Speaker 1: I would smash Panera?
- 17:41Speaker 3: Oh, we were getting over sicknesses. We needed soup and bread. Baby,
- 17:45Speaker 3: but like, why.
- 17:45Speaker 1: Are you guys tired? No, not you guys, but the
- 17:48Speaker 1: people working at Panera.
- 17:50Speaker 2: Come on, it couldn't have been that popping during Coachella
- 17:52Speaker 2: weekend and.
- 17:55Speaker 3: A distance so to fit. No, it has given up
- 18:00Speaker 3: and looked like it. People were honking for no reason.
- 18:02Speaker 3: People are pissed off.
- 18:06Speaker 1: Can I tell you why they're pissed off? Though?
- 18:08Speaker 2: Because everybody who lives in Palm Springs has moved from
- 18:12Speaker 2: LA to Palm Springs to get away from LA and
- 18:15Speaker 2: then moves in for three weeks and it's.
- 18:18Speaker 3: Like, got let me tell you that we are exhausting.
- 18:22Speaker 3: I am not mad at him for being exhausted, but
- 18:25Speaker 3: you should have felt my energy that I felt for you,
- 18:28Speaker 3: and you should have filled that fucking cup up.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Yeah, he was being empathetic, right.
- 18:33Speaker 3: And then also, don't put my French bread at the
- 18:36Speaker 3: bottom of the bag with shit on top of it.
- 18:39Speaker 1: It's just so good, it's so good.
- 18:42Speaker 3: I hate the bread though.
- 18:44Speaker 1: Of course you're a dirty old, dirty back.
- 18:48Speaker 3: But yes, Palm Trees Palm Springs was amazing. After we
- 18:53Speaker 3: found out that market market to market market again, they
- 18:57Speaker 3: remembered us Market Market.
- 18:59Speaker 1: If you are in Palm Springs, you must go. It's
- 19:01Speaker 1: like forty thousand feet.
- 19:04Speaker 2: Square feet forty thousand square feet of curated vintage goods.
- 19:09Speaker 3: So we have to We talked to the girl, we
- 19:13Speaker 3: have to go to Yucca Valley.
- 19:14Speaker 1: I think it's Yuka Yucca Valley.
- 19:17Speaker 3: I don't know however you pronounce it.
- 19:18Speaker 1: Yeah, there's another one.
- 19:20Speaker 3: That she said, that's the sister store, okay, where they'll
- 19:23Speaker 3: bring a lot of that to there. Okay, so you
- 19:26Speaker 3: can get the stuff earlier in a sense, because the
- 19:29Speaker 3: same dude owns that one, the market market and one
- 19:32Speaker 3: other one. Yeah, but the girl was like, I go
- 19:35Speaker 3: up there and get all of my stuff. She goes
- 19:37Speaker 3: I have a rack and it's all from that store,
- 19:39Speaker 3: and we went. I was like, hell, yeah, forty five
- 19:41Speaker 3: minute drive, we're going, We're going. I love it.
- 19:44Speaker 2: We'll hit the hit cabazone outlets, market market, then the
- 19:48Speaker 2: Yucca Valley One.
- 19:50Speaker 1: They were featured in Vogue, which was pretty legit.
- 19:53Speaker 4: Uh.
- 19:53Speaker 2: I just read this and I was shook it to
- 19:55Speaker 2: my core because I'm like, hold on, you're telling me
- 19:58Speaker 2: that this New Yorker who's like New York through and through,
- 20:02Speaker 2: Bethany Frankel, has moved to Miami, Florida.
- 20:07Speaker 3: But isn't that what they usually Miami's wild? I didn't
- 20:10Speaker 3: think that's where she went.
- 20:12Speaker 1: I just in New York.
- 20:14Speaker 3: Don't they retire and moved to Florida.
- 20:17Speaker 2: I feel like they retire in like Boca, like Miami.
- 20:20Speaker 1: Don't judge me. It's like the trash bag of America.
- 20:23Speaker 2: Like that's where anyone who like really is like has
- 20:26Speaker 2: burned a lot of bridges, who's kind of skeazy.
- 20:30Speaker 1: They moved to Miami.
- 20:32Speaker 3: I love so much. No no, no, no, because I'm
- 20:35Speaker 3: backing up. When I go to Miami, I love the vacation.
- 20:39Speaker 3: But if you go to Miami and don't feel the
- 20:42Speaker 3: same way you do about Vegas of I need to
- 20:45Speaker 3: get out a regular human being.
- 20:48Speaker 2: Here's the thing Vegas reminds Vegas to me, this is
- 20:52Speaker 2: what I equate it to. It's like, Okay, we're going
- 20:54Speaker 2: to Vegas for the weekend, and I am doing drugs
- 20:57Speaker 2: this weekend for recreational use.
- 21:00Speaker 1: Miami gives me the vibe of I wake up, do
- 21:03Speaker 1: blow and.
- 21:03Speaker 2: Do seasy shit, and then I do another line at
- 21:06Speaker 2: lunch and another line at dinner, and this is an
- 21:08Speaker 2: everyday thing. It's like, oh, it's just the whole And
- 21:11Speaker 2: maybe I have PTSD for Miami, but I just don't
- 21:14Speaker 2: see Bezany Frankel as a Miami woman.
- 21:16Speaker 1: The weather is great, whatever.
- 21:19Speaker 3: But and that's the thing that sucks is Miami is
- 21:21Speaker 3: so beautiful. Like that's where if you were to ask
- 21:24Speaker 3: where I want to live, like on the map, that
- 21:28Speaker 3: is the place with like the inlets and like being
- 21:31Speaker 3: able to just drop your boat right off the back
- 21:33Speaker 3: your pool. It really is top tier. If we could
- 21:37Speaker 3: get some top tier people in there.
- 21:39Speaker 2: Literally just talking about Miami and you explaining it, I
- 21:42Speaker 2: have a lump in my throat.
- 21:43Speaker 3: See, but like we got to go back and do
- 21:45Speaker 3: it right, because it really is like nightlife in Miami.
- 21:49Speaker 3: I don't want. I want to go day life I
- 21:52Speaker 3: want I don't even want the day parties. The food
- 21:54Speaker 3: in Miami is unreal because of all of the ethnicities
- 21:58Speaker 3: that are in that and like it's such good food,
- 22:01Speaker 3: cub and coffee, all of those little things, Like I
- 22:03Speaker 3: want to wake up. I would love to run on
- 22:05Speaker 3: like near the beach, then grab a cuban coffee, go
- 22:08Speaker 3: grab lunch somewhere nice, go back to the rest. You're right,
- 22:11Speaker 3: you're right, dinner and then just have my view of
- 22:14Speaker 3: the beat or of my inlet with a pool. And
- 22:17Speaker 3: I'm thinking way out of the box.
- 22:18Speaker 1: Maybe I just need to go back and like reclas,
- 22:20Speaker 1: I'm not.
- 22:21Speaker 3: Trying to go to eleven or space. I'm not trying
- 22:24Speaker 3: to do those things I want like a rooftop at
- 22:27Speaker 3: noon with a good lunch.
- 22:30Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean when I watch Real Housewives of Miami,
- 22:32Speaker 2: I'm like I could live there, And then.
- 22:34Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the nightlife that's dirty and skeazy.
- 22:37Speaker 1: I don't know. We feel very uncomfortable, but she moved
- 22:43Speaker 1: herself obviously.
- 22:44Speaker 2: In her fourteen year old daughter brand I wonder where
- 22:46Speaker 2: the dad is Jason Hoppey, who's like an insane well also.
- 22:51Speaker 3: Like a fourteen year old. I don't. I mean, I
- 22:54Speaker 3: don't know Miami. There could be great schools and stuff,
- 22:57Speaker 3: but I just don't.
- 22:58Speaker 2: Here's the thing bout any Frankle is legit a so
- 23:01Speaker 2: she's doing it right no matter what. But she said
- 23:03Speaker 2: that she felt like she was drowning in New York,
- 23:06Speaker 2: like she felt like the property that she like, the
- 23:10Speaker 2: home she was in, it was.
- 23:12Speaker 1: Too big for the two of them.
- 23:13Speaker 2: She said a lot of times she felt very alone,
- 23:16Speaker 2: which is such a wild thing because people who live
- 23:19Speaker 2: in New York live there because it's almost like you
- 23:22Speaker 2: feel like you're never alone because there's so much happening
- 23:25Speaker 2: right now.
- 23:25Speaker 3: I would like, think of you, you would feel like
- 23:26Speaker 3: you're drowning.
- 23:28Speaker 1: Oh I could never live in New York.
- 23:29Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like that's I feel like, if
- 23:32Speaker 3: you're drowning in New York, you're gonna sink in Miami.
- 23:34Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.
- 23:36Speaker 2: I am a Los Angeles bitch in the valley, cruising
- 23:42Speaker 2: on Ventura in my six four.
- 23:45Speaker 3: It is legit. I love it over here.
- 23:47Speaker 1: I love it over here too.
- 23:49Speaker 3: It makes me really happy space.
- 23:52Speaker 1: So you know, in More Housewife News, Lisa Renna.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Who's one of my most favorite humans and I've talked
- 23:59Speaker 2: about her a lot, and she's like really killing it
- 24:03Speaker 2: in the fashion world. But she has the podcast with
- 24:06Speaker 2: her husband now Harry Hamlin, who she always refers to
- 24:10Speaker 2: as Harry Hamlin, like she never calls him Harry. But
- 24:13Speaker 2: she said on the Let's not talk about the husband podcast.
- 24:17Speaker 2: If a billionaire sugar daddy came along and said, you
- 24:20Speaker 2: have to do Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and I
- 24:22Speaker 2: will pay you twenty five million dollars, then she'd be like, okay, fine, sure.
- 24:26Speaker 3: Same same, I think I do it.
- 24:28Speaker 2: And final, wait, how much money are you making now
- 24:31Speaker 2: in the fashion world, where like they got to be
- 24:33Speaker 2: at twenty five.
- 24:34Speaker 1: Mil for you to do it? Like she grew up
- 24:39Speaker 1: in the world of like soaps. She was like top
- 24:42Speaker 1: tiers soap opera actress.
- 24:44Speaker 3: I thought you were talking dove and stuff, and I
- 24:46Speaker 3: was like, oh, go money, money.
- 24:48Speaker 2: No, but she did get seven figures for the dependz
- 24:50Speaker 2: ad that she did.
- 24:54Speaker 1: Let me tell you something I.
- 24:56Speaker 2: Need more than figures for It depends really if somebody
- 25:01Speaker 2: looks at me all they're thinking, is like they're shitting themselves.
- 25:03Speaker 3: Oh they can't control, Like, I need a lot more
- 25:06Speaker 3: money to be looked at outside of he can't hold
- 25:10Speaker 3: his bells.
- 25:12Speaker 1: I I don't know. I guess what was the ad?
- 25:16Speaker 1: Was it a picture? Were you strutting?
- 25:18Speaker 3: She probably had to be in a raw and it
- 25:20Speaker 3: depends and she's probably on the depends when you buy
- 25:24Speaker 3: the box.
- 25:25Speaker 2: I don't think she would be on the boxes for
- 25:28Speaker 2: just seven figures. That's like a big you don't know
- 25:33Speaker 2: when they're gonna run out, how many?
- 25:34Speaker 1: How many you have been just.
- 25:36Speaker 3: For a quarter? Way for a quarter you know, like
- 25:41Speaker 3: there's things in it, like a quarter of the year
- 25:44Speaker 3: she was on the box, like who oh, the thing
- 25:47Speaker 3: could have been all I know. There was a picture
- 25:49Speaker 3: of her with depends on and that's enough for me
- 25:52Speaker 3: to need not eight nine.
- 25:55Speaker 1: Now she's because she wouldn't do Real Housewives of Beverly
- 25:58Speaker 1: Hills for less than twenty five. And I have to
- 26:00Speaker 1: say I liked what she brought.
- 26:03Speaker 2: I would love to see her back on and I
- 26:05Speaker 2: don't know that the rest that's an unpopular opinion. Her
- 26:08Speaker 2: last season, people were up in arms WHOA which I
- 26:15Speaker 2: still don't get no, Like, at what point can we
- 26:18Speaker 2: watch a show and be like, why are people acting
- 26:20Speaker 2: like she murdered someone's dog?
- 26:23Speaker 1: People get so invested.
- 26:25Speaker 2: It's the blessing in the curse of Bravo. You know,
- 26:28Speaker 2: you've got the diehards, but when they're not rocking with you,
- 26:32Speaker 2: they want to see you like buried in their backyard.
- 26:35Speaker 2: Like what we're gonna do is we're gonna dig a pool,
- 26:37Speaker 2: bury her here, and then cancel her exactly, and then
- 26:41Speaker 2: we're gonna fill her up with concrete, never to be
- 26:43Speaker 2: seen again.
- 26:44Speaker 1: And you cannot shake it off. They forever remember well, yeah, and.
- 26:49Speaker 3: Then you start moving different and not even authentically you
- 26:52Speaker 3: because you're like, what are they gonna say?
- 26:55Speaker 1: She's pretty authentically her.
- 26:57Speaker 3: Because she's not on Bravo.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's still talking about it.
- 27:02Speaker 4: True.
- 27:02Speaker 3: I do not know that everybody Bravo is an authentic
- 27:05Speaker 3: but a lot of people are worried about what the
- 27:07Speaker 3: Bravo universes can do.
- 27:09Speaker 1: So yes, it is terrifying.
- 27:11Speaker 3: I'm not even in it, and I'm in it. I
- 27:14Speaker 3: know my hair. Let's just talk about that. They love
- 27:17Speaker 3: to talk about my hand. How dare you leave me alone?
- 27:21Speaker 3: I'm not even on the show.
- 27:22Speaker 2: I know, but I guarantee you when she When Lisa
- 27:26Speaker 2: Renna does her podcast, the majority of the people who
- 27:30Speaker 2: are listening, writing in commenting are Bravo fans because.
- 27:34Speaker 3: But she doesn't get repercussions from brav though I'm.
- 27:38Speaker 2: Sure the little dalist blogs at Lisa now and then.
- 27:43Speaker 3: Can come to her whatever she wants.
- 27:45Speaker 1: That's where I'm saying, she can do whatever she wants.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Okay, the last thing in housewife news because again, once
- 27:51Speaker 2: you're in even if you're not on a show anymore,
- 27:54Speaker 2: like you're still in it, right Danielle Stop, do you
- 28:00Speaker 2: know who that is?
- 28:01Speaker 3: No?
- 28:01Speaker 2: Okay, very early stages of Jersey like table flipping days
- 28:06Speaker 2: with Teresa Judaice. So she went on a rant against
- 28:10Speaker 2: Margaret Joseph's March March Senior. So Danielle Stop has a podcast.
- 28:15Speaker 2: It's called daniel stob absolutely and no Sosa things.
- 28:23Speaker 1: That Danielle Stop is a lunatic like the rest of us.
- 28:27Speaker 2: I personally am obsessed with her. She after this, she's
- 28:32Speaker 2: so crazy. She's my favorite human on the planet. But like,
- 28:36Speaker 2: you don't really want her as a.
- 28:38Speaker 3: Friend because everything will be just aired out.
- 28:41Speaker 1: No who cares about that. It's like, it's like the
- 28:44Speaker 1: weird shit. So right now she's accusing I'm so dead.
- 28:48Speaker 2: She accused Margaret and Joe, her husband, her sweet husband
- 28:53Speaker 2: with the mustache, Joe love Joe.
- 28:56Speaker 1: Yeah, does he wear glass sometimes?
- 29:00Speaker 3: I thought he had a pair of glasses on here
- 29:02Speaker 3: and the boys were getting drunk in one of the episodes.
- 29:05Speaker 3: I thought he had glasses.
- 29:06Speaker 1: He may have everyone as they get older, the vision goes.
- 29:09Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I should be wearing them now.
- 29:12Speaker 2: So Danielle is claiming that they owe her friend over
- 29:16Speaker 2: two hundred thousand dollars.
- 29:17Speaker 1: Okay, but she also claims that Margaret stole her couch. Okay,
- 29:23Speaker 1: but listen, listen, you have my couch in your house.
- 29:27Speaker 1: I wish I could do her voice. Oh, and also
- 29:30Speaker 1: she says, I don't want to be friends with these women,
- 29:35Speaker 1: with these women. These women are insane, and everyone's like,
- 29:40Speaker 1: do you mean women? And she cannot, for the life
- 29:42Speaker 1: of her grasp it, grasp it. So she's probably like,
- 29:46Speaker 1: you have my couch in your house. You stole it
- 29:49Speaker 1: from me.
- 29:50Speaker 2: I don't care how you got it. You don't have
- 29:52Speaker 2: it with my permission.
- 29:53Speaker 1: It's a custom couch. It's my couch.
- 29:56Speaker 2: Any more furniture you're gonna steal from me, I'll come
- 29:58Speaker 2: up with a roundabout number that may maybe you guys
- 30:00Speaker 2: will be able to afford if you pay back the
- 30:03Speaker 2: two hundred and sixteen thousand.
- 30:04Speaker 3: Oh, my friends, isn't she the She's got a slim face.
- 30:08Speaker 1: Yeah, and she did like a poor She's got dark hair,
- 30:13Speaker 1: brown hair.
- 30:14Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I know exactly who you're talking about, and
- 30:17Speaker 3: you nailed it.
- 30:19Speaker 1: She's great a television.
- 30:23Speaker 2: Yeah, like if someone were to just place the finest
- 30:26Speaker 2: piece of marble meat on the screen, that is Danielle.
- 30:31Speaker 2: Stop the level of insanity to be like, you have
- 30:35Speaker 2: my couch.
- 30:36Speaker 1: She stole it.
- 30:38Speaker 2: I don't know how. Someone must have given it to
- 30:41Speaker 2: you without my permission.
- 30:43Speaker 1: Who knows, Maybe gave it to a friends, he took
- 30:47Speaker 1: it to a local, you know, second hand. I don't
- 30:50Speaker 1: freaking know.
- 30:51Speaker 3: It's like Danielle needs some money and she's grasping at straws.
- 30:54Speaker 1: I think Danielle wants people to listen to her podcast,
- 30:57Speaker 1: and it's working because here we are talking about it.
- 31:00Speaker 3: Great podcast sounds right because I like her voice keeps
- 31:05Speaker 3: me entertained.
- 31:06Speaker 2: Oh, I mean the throwback of Jersey where she like
- 31:10Speaker 2: brings these like little dudes fresh out of prison to
- 31:14Speaker 2: the brown Stone. Okay, the brown Stone is this like
- 31:19Speaker 2: where people can get married, people host charity events there.
- 31:24Speaker 2: So Caroline Manzo is who owns the Brownstone. It's like
- 31:27Speaker 2: her husband's families. It's been in the family for generations.
- 31:31Speaker 2: They roll up to this charity event, okay, a charity
- 31:35Speaker 2: event for a little girl who has cancer. Okay, And
- 31:40Speaker 2: Danielle rolls up with like her mob, and it's like
- 31:43Speaker 2: this guy who's got hair like.
- 31:44Speaker 1: This, Oh, but it's like short, kind of like Danny.
- 31:49Speaker 2: It's like very a little kind of like how men
- 31:52Speaker 2: you wear their hair like Dad, you know, like Dad's friends,
- 31:56Speaker 2: like the ones where it was like they've been divorced
- 31:58Speaker 2: like fourteen times, maybe have a drinking problem for.
- 32:01Speaker 3: Sure, Like they didn't shower their heads.
- 32:04Speaker 1: Just a little yeah, a little funky like maybe in
- 32:07Speaker 1: trouble with the irs a little bit, you know what
- 32:09Speaker 1: I'm talking about.
- 32:10Speaker 3: That kind of vibe.
- 32:11Speaker 1: So she rolls up and Sweet.
- 32:14Speaker 2: Carolyn's son who's doing valet, is like, Oh, you guys
- 32:18Speaker 2: are going to be in for a real surprise or
- 32:21Speaker 2: something like that, because they're so like overly dressed or something,
- 32:26Speaker 2: and she goes she's in her interview and she's like,
- 32:29Speaker 2: this is exactly why I brought Danny. They're saying, we're
- 32:33Speaker 2: in for a surprise set up, and they don't have
- 32:38Speaker 2: enough seats for her and her crew because you have
- 32:40Speaker 2: to RSVP.
- 32:41Speaker 1: It's like a table dinner with you know, norm They
- 32:45Speaker 1: are like, we've been ambushed. We're not welcome here, We're
- 32:48Speaker 1: not welcome here. This is bullshit, like.
- 32:51Speaker 2: Losing their minds in this charity event. She thinks she's
- 32:54Speaker 2: been set up and that they're not catering to her
- 32:58Speaker 2: guests because they're a little rougher around the edges, Like we're.
- 33:01Speaker 3: Catering to who are a funny the razor who as well?
- 33:04Speaker 1: Who RSVP? And you're in for a surprise because you're
- 33:07Speaker 1: dressed very well and this is a very just like
- 33:11Speaker 1: chill event. Maybe it was the opposite casual.
- 33:14Speaker 2: They they lost their minds. By the way, I'm forcing
- 33:16Speaker 2: you because today's like a chill day. I'm forcing you
- 33:18Speaker 2: to watch it.
- 33:19Speaker 1: I'll watch that one anyway.
- 33:20Speaker 2: She's a lunatic and I'm here for it.
- 33:25Speaker 1: Today.
- 33:25Speaker 2: While I was getting my blood drawn, I had seven
- 33:29Speaker 2: vials and I was stressed out of my mind. The
- 33:31Speaker 2: phlebotomist rolls up and she was super cool, and I'm like,
- 33:36Speaker 2: I pass out.
- 33:36Speaker 1: So she had me lay on the couch and she's like, is.
- 33:38Speaker 2: There anything that you need to like maybe make this
- 33:40Speaker 2: a little bit easier. I said, let's turn on Peacock
- 33:45Speaker 2: and we'll watch like Love Hotel.
- 33:47Speaker 1: So that's a new show.
- 33:49Speaker 2: It's giving me bachelor vibes, like uh where they.
- 33:54Speaker 1: Give people a key, Like that's how you know that
- 33:57Speaker 1: the girls are teing you.
- 33:59Speaker 2: Yes. So there's four cast members Ashley Darby, Giselle Bryant Uwan.
- 34:04Speaker 1: And Shannon Badore.
- 34:06Speaker 2: And I can't remember how many guys there are right now,
- 34:08Speaker 2: but there's like this one guy who's like a surfer
- 34:11Speaker 2: dude who I'm pretty sure is like pretty big on
- 34:14Speaker 2: Instagram because I think I've heard about this guy.
- 34:16Speaker 1: He's like salt and pepper hair, tan skin.
- 34:18Speaker 2: He's a good looking guy, but you can tell his
- 34:20Speaker 2: vibe is like he knows he's kind of the shit,
- 34:24Speaker 2: like he knows he's.
- 34:25Speaker 1: An older Like oh yeah.
- 34:27Speaker 2: Then there's a really sweet guy who his first wife
- 34:32Speaker 2: it only lasted a year and a half, and Shannon
- 34:34Speaker 2: Badoor is like, let me guess her, ight, she's probably
- 34:35Speaker 2: in her twenties, and he was like, no, she was
- 34:37Speaker 2: a year younger than me or a year older than me,
- 34:39Speaker 2: so yeah, I do have been in his fifties. And
- 34:42Speaker 2: she goes, okay, and what about this second? He was like,
- 34:44Speaker 2: she battled leukemia twice.
- 34:46Speaker 1: And passed away.
- 34:47Speaker 2: So now he's tugging at Shannon's heart strings. Keep in mind,
- 34:51Speaker 2: I did not watch the entire episode, but I did
- 34:55Speaker 2: like it to the point where when I paused it
- 34:57Speaker 2: and went back to watch it, Mom was like, no.
- 35:00Speaker 1: Oh, you're not watching it. I go, oh, you actually
- 35:01Speaker 1: want to.
- 35:02Speaker 2: Like sit down and watch this like an episode of housewives. Yeah,
- 35:05Speaker 2: Mom's very into it. It's giving a combination of like
- 35:09Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor, Love Island too hot to hand.
- 35:14Speaker 3: So it's just like they just threw everything in and
- 35:17Speaker 3: kind of stirred the pot totally.
- 35:18Speaker 2: But I actually think it's a really really good idea
- 35:23Speaker 2: and if you conquer the art.
- 35:25Speaker 1: Of really getting good dudes in here who have a
- 35:28Speaker 1: lot to offer. Housewives are crazy, Reality TV stars are crazy.
- 35:33Speaker 3: You know.
- 35:35Speaker 2: We can be a little bit self absorbed, we can
- 35:37Speaker 2: be up in the night, we can be a little chaotic,
- 35:39Speaker 2: But I think Dereet would be.
- 35:41Speaker 1: A great one. Brinn.
- 35:45Speaker 2: Depending on if she's done some self work, she would
- 35:49Speaker 2: be awesome. I just don't know if she's ready to
- 35:53Speaker 2: find her forever person.
- 35:55Speaker 3: Until she finds her forever self.
- 35:58Speaker 2: I love that she finds her forever self. I was
- 36:02Speaker 2: toying with Portia Williams. That would be she would be
- 36:07Speaker 2: a great one. However, you would have to find someone
- 36:10Speaker 2: who could handle her because she is a very strong woman.
- 36:14Speaker 2: She does not need anything from anybody, and sometimes men
- 36:18Speaker 2: get very intimidated by that.
- 36:20Speaker 1: They want to be needed.
- 36:21Speaker 3: For some they would have to, uh have the lineup.
- 36:25Speaker 2: The lineup would have to be five star. You have
- 36:27Speaker 2: a little tier right here.
- 36:28Speaker 3: It's because I'm tired.
- 36:30Speaker 1: It's okay.
- 36:30Speaker 3: Same we drove today. That was the only thing to
- 36:35Speaker 3: what I have to take when I drive dramamine.
- 36:38Speaker 1: That's oh did you drive?
- 36:40Speaker 3: No Landing drove, but just oh, I just always take
- 36:43Speaker 3: them because I rather If I don't take it and
- 36:45Speaker 3: I do get carsick, my whole day is done well.
- 36:48Speaker 1: By the way.
- 36:49Speaker 2: One of the moms from Ocean School, Yeah had We
- 36:55Speaker 2: were talking about our addiction to unism and how we
- 36:59Speaker 2: all had to wean our ourselves off because Unison is great,
- 37:01Speaker 2: you guys, and I love it more than I should.
- 37:05Speaker 1: But it is not for long term use. Just know that.
- 37:09Speaker 2: So we all, like, we all started talking about what
- 37:12Speaker 2: we do to go to sleep, and we all talked
- 37:14Speaker 2: about how we like had to wean ourselves off to
- 37:16Speaker 2: where you like, break it in half, break it into
- 37:18Speaker 2: a quarter, start getting off of it. And so I
- 37:24Speaker 2: started taking the Lemmy sleep gummies, who people.
- 37:27Speaker 1: Were up in arms.
- 37:27Speaker 2: They're like, this is a marketing scam. You can get
- 37:30Speaker 2: the same thing for less money. I'm telling you, I've
- 37:33Speaker 2: tried everything. Let me sleep gummies really freaking work for me.
- 37:37Speaker 2: So one of my mom friends said, you have to
- 37:40Speaker 2: try this sleepy Time drink. It's just you just put
- 37:44Speaker 2: it in water. It's like a packet of powder. It's
- 37:48Speaker 2: got cherry tart in it or something, which I.
- 37:50Speaker 1: Guess really helps. Yeah, has no melatonin in it.
- 37:55Speaker 3: Yeah, what's the uh? I'm blinking, but I know it.
- 37:58Speaker 3: What's the smell that makes you lavender? Doesn't lavender?
- 38:02Speaker 2: Yes, you smell of it anyway. It's called absorption. She
- 38:07Speaker 2: had a box of these delivered to me from Arawon
- 38:10Speaker 2: and when I say it k owed my ass into
- 38:14Speaker 2: the oblivion, I'm like still trying to come to I
- 38:18Speaker 2: can't take it at like ten o'clock at.
- 38:19Speaker 3: Night, No, you gotta take it at like seven with
- 38:21Speaker 3: dinner totally.
- 38:22Speaker 2: I gotta like put so sid Abad and then rock
- 38:25Speaker 2: on right anyway back to Love Hotel. I would also
- 38:31Speaker 2: I think that I think Heather Gay would be an
- 38:34Speaker 2: awesome one because she's a powerhouse. But I don't think
- 38:37Speaker 2: she's been a part of reality TV for so long
- 38:40Speaker 2: that or maybe she's just like more normal, Like she's
- 38:43Speaker 2: still open, She's still like a normal person. Yeah, Like
- 38:47Speaker 2: I just don't see her being super.
- 38:51Speaker 3: But I still think people could get because she's got
- 38:54Speaker 3: a lot going she's very you know, she's a powerful woman.
- 38:58Speaker 3: People could like, guys could still be very intimidated by that.
- 39:00Speaker 3: Even if she does play it right. You're keeping up
- 39:03Speaker 3: in this aspect. I mean, any person they put on it,
- 39:06Speaker 3: any woman from reality TV show and is going to
- 39:09Speaker 3: be a powerhouse. Well, yeah, of course, I'm not going
- 39:12Speaker 3: to say every girl, like a lot of them are. Yeah,
- 39:15Speaker 3: who is going to have a hard time finding a
- 39:18Speaker 3: guy who isn't feeling the same level of power in
- 39:24Speaker 3: a sense, yeah, I intimidated.
- 39:27Speaker 2: No, no, And it also depends on what they want though,
- 39:32Speaker 2: what are you looking for? Because if you were to
- 39:34Speaker 2: have like an Erica Jane on Erica Jane does not
- 39:37Speaker 2: want to get married, I don't think she wants a
- 39:40Speaker 2: man to live with her.
- 39:41Speaker 1: I don't think she wants to live with a man.
- 39:43Speaker 2: So, like you would really have to figure out what
- 39:46Speaker 2: the intentions are before bringing them on. Yes, you know,
- 39:49Speaker 2: because sometimes you hear on The Bachelor this person came
- 39:53Speaker 2: on because they wanted to be famous and they've got
- 39:54Speaker 2: a girlfriend at home.
- 39:55Speaker 1: Like, intentions start.
- 39:57Speaker 2: Getting a little bit the line get blurred and skewed
- 40:01Speaker 2: when a show kind of pops off and becomes very successful,
- 40:06Speaker 2: because then you have a reference, right, and you see
- 40:08Speaker 2: what a show has done for somebody. That's what started
- 40:11Speaker 2: happening with vander Pump Rules, it happened with The Bachelor.
- 40:15Speaker 1: Love Hotel is all he'son one right, like all.
- 40:19Speaker 3: Of those yes you're going because my following can jump
- 40:24Speaker 3: from X to X, right, I'm not really even here
- 40:27Speaker 3: for whatever the fucking reason is.
- 40:30Speaker 2: Well, a lot of the dudes on Love Hotel said, like,
- 40:32Speaker 2: I don't have TV. I have heard of Housewives, but
- 40:36Speaker 2: I've never watched the show.
- 40:37Speaker 3: That's how I would say they've all seen it.
- 40:42Speaker 2: Get out of here, Really you think, I think there's
- 40:46Speaker 2: a difference between knowing the Housewives.
- 40:50Speaker 3: You know something of it, you're not walking into that
- 40:52Speaker 3: going I've never.
- 40:53Speaker 2: Heard no, no, no, But I don't think that they're trying
- 40:55Speaker 2: to pretend. What I think they're saying is I've never
- 40:58Speaker 2: seen it, so I don't know what these women have
- 40:59Speaker 2: to off her, Like, I don't know what they're like.
- 41:01Speaker 3: I've heard, I've seen I've never watched because that's me. Okay,
- 41:05Speaker 3: that I mean that makes sense. I've only had to
- 41:07Speaker 3: watch because of this, which I've enjoyed. But no, like
- 41:13Speaker 3: I really wouldn't like I would have been like, yeah,
- 41:15Speaker 3: I know Erica Jane, Like if she was in there,
- 41:17Speaker 3: I'd have been like, I have no idea about you
- 41:19Speaker 3: what you want. I would totally know about the divorce
- 41:22Speaker 3: and any of that because I'm not in there. Yeah,
- 41:25Speaker 3: I know.
- 41:26Speaker 2: It was like when producer John was like a lot
- 41:29Speaker 2: of people are voting for Erica Jane, I don't know
- 41:31Speaker 2: if she has been through something, and I'm like, she's
- 41:34Speaker 2: been through something, Yes, that's when I could look at living.
- 41:37Speaker 3: Under her Are you come on, you son of a bitch.
- 41:41Speaker 1: Jack's Taylor on his podcast thinks maybe Britney Cartwright vamboozled
- 41:45Speaker 1: him to get on VPR. Now, when I say this,
- 41:49Speaker 1: I mean that he is trying to put a narrative
- 41:53Speaker 1: out there that she knew he was on a show
- 41:57Speaker 1: because she watched it, and maybe she tried to infiltrate
- 42:02Speaker 1: the group.
- 42:04Speaker 3: I would say yes, And if it was not a
- 42:07Speaker 3: ten year marriage with a child, and you don't bamboozle
- 42:12Speaker 3: that far into it, right, Yeah, I mean Raquel Rachel,
- 42:18Speaker 3: she her bamboozled Brittany, in my opinion, did not bamboozle.
- 42:24Speaker 3: You don't bamboozle for ten years and pop a kid
- 42:27Speaker 3: out and go this is real life and go you matyamboozled.
- 42:33Speaker 2: Well, And like, I don't mean to be rude, but
- 42:36Speaker 2: I'm sure she knew of the show because her friends
- 42:40Speaker 2: watched it, right.
- 42:42Speaker 3: But booze, there's not about the show.
- 42:45Speaker 2: Right, But there's no way that if Brittany watched the
- 42:49Speaker 2: show religiously, she'd be like, that's the one I want,
- 42:53Speaker 2: Like not trying to be a dick, not.
- 42:55Speaker 3: I just don't know she met you and you guys
- 42:58Speaker 3: you know, fell in love. Yeah, yeah, no, Like that's
- 43:03Speaker 3: something where I hope that Jax does look at it
- 43:06Speaker 3: and go, she didn't bamboos So you gotta look at
- 43:08Speaker 3: the brighter or the broader picture of like, you have
- 43:12Speaker 3: a child, you were married, you bought a house. Right.
- 43:17Speaker 2: A bamboozle is a bamboogle is she rolls in here
- 43:21Speaker 2: to a DJ gig, You guys have sex for the
- 43:24Speaker 2: girlfriend break up, and then she sucks your best.
- 43:26Speaker 3: Friend and now that's a bamboozle, and she's on the show.
- 43:30Speaker 3: That's a bamboozle. Not to marry, you have a kid,
- 43:32Speaker 3: buy a house, and now have to deal with it
- 43:34Speaker 3: and rock.
- 43:35Speaker 1: With you through so many ups and downy, Like.
- 43:38Speaker 3: That's not a bamboozle. And I do believe Jack's will
- 43:40Speaker 3: get to that point of like realizing it that now
- 43:43Speaker 3: you didn't bamboozle.
- 43:45Speaker 1: He will He's gonna do.
- 43:46Speaker 2: I'm sure I did hear a bit about the reunion
- 43:51Speaker 2: that they filmed last week. I hear that there's some
- 43:56Speaker 2: resolution between cast members others.
- 44:00Speaker 1: The door is not.
- 44:01Speaker 2: Completely closed, but they're not all shut exactly, which is good.
- 44:07Speaker 3: That's what you want on it.
- 44:08Speaker 1: From what I heard.
- 44:09Speaker 2: I think people are going to be shocked to hear
- 44:13Speaker 2: what Jack says.
- 44:15Speaker 1: And I'm gonna leave it at that. But I still
- 44:17Speaker 1: too much.
- 44:18Speaker 2: But I think it's I think it's gonna be really great.
- 44:20Speaker 2: The season has been really great. And I feel weird,
- 44:23Speaker 2: like breaking down the episodes and things like that as
- 44:26Speaker 2: we watch, because it's a little it's like I'm a
- 44:31Speaker 2: hard I'm I'm really close to it, but I'm not
- 44:36Speaker 2: on it.
- 44:36Speaker 3: It's a rock and a hard spot, Like I know
- 44:39Speaker 3: so much, but what can I say? And also I'm friends, and.
- 44:44Speaker 2: And also how it is for you, yes, And it's
- 44:46Speaker 2: like I'm I'm too close to it as a friend,
- 44:49Speaker 2: but also not close enough to where I.
- 44:52Speaker 3: Your opinion matters.
- 44:53Speaker 1: And yeah, and it's their show. Yeah, you know, like
- 44:56Speaker 1: I'm just over here.
- 44:58Speaker 2: I've popped in, but it's y'all show, do your thing.
- 45:03Speaker 2: I'm enjoying it. I'm not gonna break it down. I
- 45:06Speaker 2: just don't want the smoke. I also don't want to
- 45:08Speaker 2: look a certain type of way by doing that, you know,
- 45:11Speaker 2: because so many people are like, oh, she wants to
- 45:15Speaker 2: be on it. She bought a house in the valley
- 45:16Speaker 2: to be on it, guys. I'm all good. I'm just
- 45:20Speaker 2: over here chilling. I'm enjoying watching it for you. I
- 45:24Speaker 2: think everyone's holding their weight to which is all you
- 45:26Speaker 2: can ask for in reality TV. Like I was having
- 45:29Speaker 2: a conversation with someone the other day and it's it's
- 45:32Speaker 2: reminding the season's very dark. I hope that it lightens
- 45:36Speaker 2: up at some point, but it's reminding me of vander
- 45:41Speaker 2: Pump Rules in the sense that nobody has yet caught
- 45:46Speaker 2: on to the fact that there's cameras there. They're living
- 45:49Speaker 2: their lives to authentically, and that's what I never change it.
- 45:54Speaker 3: When you were watching it with Mom, I walked into
- 45:57Speaker 3: I can't even remember. I just walked in the house.
- 45:59Speaker 3: You guys watching it, and I was standing there and
- 46:02Speaker 3: it hit me. I was like, I'm Kent. Yeah, Kent.
- 46:05Speaker 3: I was sitting behind it and I was like, I'll
- 46:07Speaker 3: just watch it for a second. Ten minutes went by
- 46:09Speaker 3: and I was like, I gotta get the hell out
- 46:10Speaker 3: of here.
- 46:11Speaker 1: No, you guys. He was watching from behind and I.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Was like, you can sit down, and he goes, no,
- 46:14Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go watch the basketball.
- 46:15Speaker 1: Two minutes past, he's still there. I'm like, you can
- 46:18Speaker 1: sit down. He works his way to the sliding glass
- 46:21Speaker 1: door and he's like, yeah, I'm just gonna watch.
- 46:22Speaker 3: I don't want to like it, but I do. He's
- 46:25Speaker 3: still watching.
- 46:26Speaker 1: I was like, all right, close the door, I know.
- 46:28Speaker 3: And then that was the other thing. I went over
- 46:30Speaker 3: and watched basketball and I was like, what's going on
- 46:32Speaker 3: in the valley.
- 46:34Speaker 1: It's really good.
- 46:35Speaker 3: No, they did a very very good job, and I'm
- 46:38Speaker 3: I'm excited to keep watching, like I really am. Like
- 46:40Speaker 3: it's not for me, and I'm very different than everyone
- 46:45Speaker 3: in the Bravo world. I think when I'm watching like
- 46:48Speaker 3: the Housewives and things like that, like I can tell
- 46:51Speaker 3: it's a show, yeah, this one because and maybe it
- 46:55Speaker 3: is because I know so much about everything because of
- 46:58Speaker 3: you and how close we are with most of them
- 47:01Speaker 3: that it's so real, right, Like I know, like even
- 47:05Speaker 3: with Jack's and all of that, Like when they got
- 47:07Speaker 3: in that fight and he's like, I'm done. I'm done.
- 47:10Speaker 2: Like I like when the boys walk in and they're
- 47:13Speaker 2: like Brittany, this Brittany and he.
- 47:14Speaker 1: Goes, what about me? I'm like, wow, Wow, we really
- 47:20Speaker 1: are flies on the wall. No one is thinking like
- 47:22Speaker 1: how will this come across on television at all. No
- 47:25Speaker 1: one cares no.
- 47:26Speaker 3: And that's the best part of it. It's so good.
- 47:28Speaker 3: Do you I'm gonna have a little hot take. Do
- 47:31Speaker 3: you want to know who I want on it so bad?
- 47:33Speaker 1: Who Schwartz so bad? I saw him the other day
- 47:37Speaker 1: and I was like, Schwartzy, like I I want you
- 47:41Speaker 1: on my TV.
- 47:42Speaker 3: Yes, there's just something about Like I was just watching
- 47:45Speaker 3: like Schwartz funny moments just on TikTok. It came through
- 47:49Speaker 3: and Jack's on the couch. This is probably season two
- 47:51Speaker 3: or three maybe, and he just grabs the phone and
- 47:54Speaker 3: throws it at the wall. Jack's does it?
- 47:56Speaker 1: It's my phone?
- 47:56Speaker 3: And he goes, is that my phone? I need that?
- 48:00Speaker 3: Just like those things And now you see the Valley
- 48:03Speaker 3: Wow pretty much that cast and Schwartz is just with
- 48:07Speaker 3: Kristin Doty, he was great, like he would just be
- 48:10Speaker 3: a mix. And the one thing that you said that
- 48:13Speaker 3: I think he could do is lighten it up even
- 48:16Speaker 3: in the darkest of moments, you could have some Schwartzy light.
- 48:20Speaker 3: And that's I really do want Schwartz back on the TV.
- 48:23Speaker 3: There's just something about him that is just.
- 48:25Speaker 2: Like you want to know what else it is though,
- 48:26Speaker 2: He's a seasoned reality TV personality, and the friendships are
- 48:32Speaker 2: so deep rooted and the stakes are so high, And
- 48:35Speaker 2: I think that's what I loved about filming vander Pump
- 48:38Speaker 2: with that group of people, because we would go at
- 48:42Speaker 2: each other's throats, but we always knew that, like we
- 48:46Speaker 2: could come back from it.
- 48:48Speaker 3: Yeah. But like what I feel like a lot of
- 48:49Speaker 3: people don't understand is like you guys are going at
- 48:53Speaker 3: each other's throats, and even the awkward silence Schwartzy's saying
- 48:59Speaker 3: something just releases and gets everybody back to maybe they're
- 49:04Speaker 3: not so I'm not defending anymore. My guard is down
- 49:09Speaker 3: because you you made a good high joke in the moment,
- 49:14Speaker 3: and everybody kind of puts their guard down, and nobody
- 49:16Speaker 3: really realizes that that's in those little things. It's even
- 49:20Speaker 3: me on this.
- 49:20Speaker 1: Little podcast lightheartedness.
- 49:22Speaker 3: When it was you know, like when you when we
- 49:24Speaker 3: have a guest on and you guys are talking and
- 49:26Speaker 3: I just put in my little like light mood, lighten
- 49:30Speaker 3: the mood. Maybe people don't see it, but like there's
- 49:32Speaker 3: something in that that I notice with him that lightens everything.
- 49:36Speaker 3: Just what I've seen, and that is something that I
- 49:38Speaker 3: would love to see on the Valley.
- 49:41Speaker 1: They need to lighten it.
- 49:42Speaker 3: Up a little bit, and they need to have that character,
- 49:45Speaker 3: in my opinion, that's the single guy who's like bringing
- 49:49Speaker 3: random women in and they're all judging that. I know
- 49:51Speaker 3: they all have to have jacks. Well yeah, but that's
- 49:53Speaker 3: a different story. Let's get one on Target.
- 49:56Speaker 2: No, I really hope that it lightens up next season.
- 49:59Speaker 2: And even Dotie he said, you know, the season's great,
- 50:03Speaker 2: but I'm hoping for some lightheartedness. Should a season three?
- 50:09Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, that is my one thing is like
- 50:12Speaker 3: I love an apologies.
- 50:15Speaker 2: I fucking love but I think a lot of people do.
- 50:18Speaker 2: He just made an appearance on Summer House. Yeah, you know,
- 50:21Speaker 2: he's just like such a vibe, you just chill here
- 50:25Speaker 2: for a good time.
- 50:26Speaker 3: Just bringing you a plant, bringing me a plant. Like
- 50:30Speaker 3: I just love him. He's like his energy and everything,
- 50:33Speaker 3: like you've been taking you guys, like his little thing
- 50:35Speaker 3: and like disarming everyone. Like he walks in the house
- 50:38Speaker 3: and like I feel, yeah, it's happy.
- 50:43Speaker 1: Anytime I've gone toes with Schwartz.
- 50:46Speaker 3: You can't do it, honestly, because you could just end
- 50:48Speaker 3: up loving No.
- 50:49Speaker 2: Season ten, I really was ready. I was doing I
- 50:52Speaker 2: took everything in me to not flip the pizza in
- 50:55Speaker 2: his face, and he's like this.
- 50:57Speaker 1: Well, look at those lips.
- 50:59Speaker 3: I Gary, if you would have flipped the pizza at him,
- 51:01Speaker 3: he would have gone, well, I was just gonna eat
- 51:03Speaker 3: it one piece at a time.
- 51:05Speaker 2: Literally, after we exploded like that, I walk into the
- 51:09Speaker 2: other room that the wall is literally just like ropes
- 51:12Speaker 2: that you used to tie a boat, and he goes
- 51:15Speaker 2: like this to me and goes, la, la, I'm really sorry.
- 51:18Speaker 3: Shut. He was like, but that little thing in the
- 51:23Speaker 3: ropem sorry.
- 51:24Speaker 2: It's it's so much different than just being and I
- 51:27Speaker 2: wasn't ready to let it go because it had only
- 51:29Speaker 2: happened like thirty seconds ago.
- 51:30Speaker 3: After I apologize, but after you're like, you're like you
- 51:34Speaker 3: apologize and you're like, fucking behind ropes, dude, And then no,
- 51:37Speaker 3: I know there's there. You're disarmed to get it.
- 51:40Speaker 2: I had so much fun filming things like that because
- 51:43Speaker 2: it was like, Okay, now that we all got it out,
- 51:45Speaker 2: you hate my lips. I've told you you're a broke loser,
- 51:48Speaker 2: but now I feel great, So are we good?
- 51:50Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, we're good.
- 51:51Speaker 3: Sorry.
- 51:52Speaker 1: I love that type of show that is real Housewives
- 51:56Speaker 1: of New York.
- 51:57Speaker 3: Yes, but that the light that I feel like just
- 52:00Speaker 3: watching what episode are we on of Valley?
- 52:04Speaker 1: I think four?
- 52:05Speaker 3: I think four now right? Yeah, but like that, it's
- 52:09Speaker 3: like seeing that, it's like Tom behind the Ropes is
- 52:13Speaker 3: the light that that show could use?
- 52:15Speaker 1: Yes, I fully agree with you. Yes, I fully agree.
- 52:17Speaker 3: With So there's my heart take of that.
- 52:19Speaker 1: The last thing that I'm going.
- 52:20Speaker 2: To say about Ronnie that I feel has to do
- 52:22Speaker 2: with like, Ronnie's the only the only city of the
- 52:26Speaker 2: franchise that had really stuck to like they're authentic selves.
- 52:32Speaker 1: Fly on the wall and they're at this.
- 52:33Speaker 2: Like Italian restaurant and uh Derinda's screaming at Sonia.
- 52:41Speaker 1: To get her her coat and when she goes click,
- 52:45Speaker 1: they work through it.
- 52:47Speaker 2: Sonya has just been shit on okay, and she's like,
- 52:52Speaker 2: I'm fine, No, I'm good.
- 52:54Speaker 1: We move on. It's the Italian way. After they just
- 52:57Speaker 1: went in on her and they move on and.
- 53:01Speaker 2: The next night they're like hugging, I'm really sorry, I've
- 53:05Speaker 2: forgotten about it.
- 53:06Speaker 1: I love shows, and.
- 53:07Speaker 3: We talked about it. Are we training people to talk
- 53:10Speaker 3: bad about each other behind their back? Because we want
- 53:13Speaker 3: to be nice? And it's like, is that what we need?
- 53:15Speaker 3: Just to vent about you to your face and then
- 53:18Speaker 3: you vent to me about me and we just after
- 53:21Speaker 3: it go.
- 53:22Speaker 2: We're good, right, That's how people think I'm we can
- 53:27Speaker 2: move on said the most horrendous things. I'm like, I know,
- 53:30Speaker 2: but now I feel great, and now I've gotten through
- 53:32Speaker 2: it to.
- 53:33Speaker 3: Where like I love you and you can also shit
- 53:35Speaker 3: on me. Go for it, because then you'll get how
- 53:38Speaker 3: I feel, and then we can move together feeling this way.
- 53:41Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.
- 53:43Speaker 2: The person that's in front of me on any of
- 53:45Speaker 2: these shows could never say anything meaner to me than
- 53:49Speaker 2: I have seen in the comment section.
- 53:50Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, same man. I'm not even on TV ever,
- 53:53Speaker 3: I'm prepared for I could be on TV now just
- 53:56Speaker 3: because the comment section has fucking got Oh god, the.
- 54:00Speaker 2: Comments section, Yeah, it is wild. I'm like, y'all are savages.
- 54:04Speaker 1: Anyway, Hi Lily, thank you guys for listening to another
- 54:07Speaker 1: tangent episode of the Give Them All a Podcast. We're
- 54:11Speaker 1: still gonna be at this house next week, but soon
- 54:15Speaker 1: we'll be in studio. I love you, guys, and you
- 54:17Speaker 1: can catch the YouTube of this episode.
- 54:20Speaker 2: Friday and the Bonus on Monday. By