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Prince Israel Zaar on: On Love and Marriage, Give the Woman an Upper Hand · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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  Speaker 1: Marriage like UH, like love, it's a very complex and
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  Speaker 1: complicated union when two distinctive individuals with their individualistic intentions,
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  Speaker 1: views and opinions, and maybe differences in culture, traditional religion, opinions,
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  Speaker 1: politics and class uh or differences in educational background or upbringing, nurturing,
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  Speaker 1: defenses in projection, perception and perspective, differences in worldview. So
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  Speaker 1: of marriage is UH. It's it's a buying that people
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  Speaker 1: come together because of love, and the love itself is
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  Speaker 1: the most complicated thing that's very difficult to define. The
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  Speaker 1: basic simplicity of the finding love, it's care cre but
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  Speaker 1: the most relationship when people come together, that union itself
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  Speaker 1: becomes very complicated to understand that thing that buying people
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  Speaker 1: together can be the same thing that separate people when
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  Speaker 1: marriage becomes a type of contract, a type of union,
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  Speaker 1: a type of negotiation, a type of bonding that sometimes
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  Speaker 1: is driven by excitement at the beginning, and that excitement
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  Speaker 1: is soon taken by a type of living, a type
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  Speaker 1: of mindset that people agree to disagree, or they love
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  Speaker 1: not to love, or they like not to like, but
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  Speaker 1: still find themselves together. They must test the relationship and
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  Speaker 1: planner and its marriage and those who succeed in marriage,
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  Speaker 1: can write a book on wisdom and understanding, on tolerance
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  Speaker 1: and forgiveness, and let it go on repentance, on truth telling,
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  Speaker 1: on reality, on the understanding of reality. Marriage makes a
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  Speaker 1: human being to be a better human being. The humbles
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  Speaker 1: their being. It makes their being wiser, It makes their
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  Speaker 1: being to be much understanding. It makes their being to
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  Speaker 1: be realistic, and they put individualism and community to test.
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  Speaker 1: It challenges the human being itself to be itself and
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  Speaker 1: not to be itself to be part of another person
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  Speaker 1: or not to be part of another person. But the
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  Speaker 1: roof upon which couples rest, if it hath a voice
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  Speaker 1: of itself, it would tell the differne story. Where the
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  Speaker 1: world can see what they see. The couples can can
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  Speaker 1: seemingly look like they love one another. They love one
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  Speaker 1: another in public, but sometimes in privacy the shelf one another.
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  Speaker 1: They yell at one another, described on one another, and
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  Speaker 1: to put on a public show everything is okay. They
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  Speaker 1: dress up their defenses and assume as if everything is number.
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  Speaker 1: They shake hands and move on, pretending as if everything
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  Speaker 1: is okay. But that's what the world is all about.
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  Speaker 1: Humans pretender says everything is okay. Humans pretend to work
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  Speaker 1: as if they like the work made them. Maybe they don't.
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  Speaker 1: They pretend as if they're like their boss, Maybe they don't.
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  Speaker 1: Student teacher relationship. It's pretense. It's love and hate and
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  Speaker 1: love and remorse. That's how the human relationship is. Marriage
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  Speaker 1: is just a union that tries to bring people together,
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  Speaker 1: to make them learn to love and tolerate one another.
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  Speaker 1: Because marriage is something that's bigger than self, bigger than
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  Speaker 1: one person. It's a union that unites the world that
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  Speaker 1: because a child and the union spend the time to
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  Speaker 1: raise that child and see how those child children, how
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  Speaker 1: they grow, so it becomes something more important than self.
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  Speaker 1: Marriage is the thing that takes away the selflessness, or
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  Speaker 1: the negative selflessness, from the human being. Marriage is the
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  Speaker 1: thing that makes a human being to consider. It consumes arrogance, nazism,
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  Speaker 1: and cruelty. It consumes brutality in humanity. It makes the
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  Speaker 1: human being to be human, to be open to one another,
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  Speaker 1: to say I'm sorry, to have love and sake love,
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  Speaker 1: to be happy, to be satisfied. It creates stability, It
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  Speaker 1: creates meaning and purpose. It gives you direction, It gives
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  Speaker 1: you fame and dignity and honor. It makes you to
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  Speaker 1: be responsible, to prove that if you can care for
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  Speaker 1: that woman, you can care for that man. You can
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  Speaker 1: care for those children that you can't care for in nation.
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  Speaker 1: You can care for a country you can't care for people,
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  Speaker 1: You can care for a project, and things can go
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  Speaker 1: well because you consider, you're considered, you're mindful. It's a
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  Speaker 1: signal of people who stay in marriage for ten twenty
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  Speaker 1: fifty years, I'll say their whole lives in marriage. It's
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  Speaker 1: the greatest type of human beings. There are those who
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  Speaker 1: care problems they cannot solve. That are those who solve
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  Speaker 1: the problems they create, and are those who saw problems
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  Speaker 1: they didn't create. In marriage, sometimes we create problems we
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  Speaker 1: can not solve. Sometimes we solve the problems we create,
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  Speaker 1: and sometimes we need orders to solve the problems we create,
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  Speaker 1: or sometimes we help other solve the problems that we
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  Speaker 1: didn't create. But the issue of marriage is all about
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  Speaker 1: the mouth, the brain and what comes out of the mouth,
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  Speaker 1: what people say, what people think. Have people take each
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  Speaker 1: other for granted. Differences can some time leads to destruction,
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  Speaker 1: but differences sometimes in deal. Bridges always tell humans that
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  Speaker 1: when you are by yourself. You have your hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: come true and dominion by yourself. Your selflessness can be
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  Speaker 1: used for positive causalities or negative causalities, but the true
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  Speaker 1: desire answer to nobody by yourself. Or when you date somebody,
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  Speaker 1: or you love somebody and you give your heart to somebody,
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  Speaker 1: then twenty five percent of your self is selface God,
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  Speaker 1: you still have seventy five percent of yourself, yourself, that
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  Speaker 1: self to build, to create, to do whatever I want
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  Speaker 1: to do your life. But twenty five person or you'll
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  Speaker 1: need to call and check on that person that you love.
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  Speaker 1: You need to feel for that person, think for that person,
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  Speaker 1: sympathize with that person, play with that person, go places
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  Speaker 1: with that person, tell the person's story, explain yourself, express yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and accept criticism from that person, and learn how to
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  Speaker 1: manage the differences that arise with that person. So that
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  Speaker 1: twenty five person of love, I love somebody, seek to
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  Speaker 1: make you to become a better person, a better human.
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  Speaker 1: A human is considered by scary that thinks of somebody,
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  Speaker 1: worry about somebody. I hope to be with somebody. I
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  Speaker 1: hope to be happy, to share with somebody, to feel
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  Speaker 1: free in the comfortable that person, to feel liked, to
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  Speaker 1: feel loved, to feel listened, to feed the warmth of
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  Speaker 1: that person and the beauty and satisfying your happiness that
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  Speaker 1: it brains. That becomes a trophy where you love each
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  Speaker 1: human being and its love. It must be loved where
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  Speaker 1: I loved humans and not themselves. When people pretend to
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  Speaker 1: be happy when they're not loved, they are lying to themselves.
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  Speaker 1: I gonna love be I not happy. Pay I'm not
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  Speaker 1: happy being. It's danger to itself and danger to society.
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  Speaker 1: That's why humans must love. He must must seek to
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  Speaker 1: be with one another. He must must see companion, partnership,
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  Speaker 1: relationship of marriage. Oh yeah, it must be by somebody.
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  Speaker 1: You must love somebody. It must be accountable to somebody.
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  Speaker 1: It must be responsible to somebody. It must be obligated
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  Speaker 1: to take care of somebody. You must commit yourself to somebody.
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  Speaker 1: You must invest in something, relationship with a person, in marriage.
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  Speaker 1: That's what humans do. So in the human being somebody
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  Speaker 1: twenty five percent of their selfly surface guard. When the
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  Speaker 1: human being choose, or if if the human being chooses
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  Speaker 1: to get married or they choose to be married, fifty
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  Speaker 1: percent of their selfly surface guard twenty five percent for love,
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  Speaker 1: for the daily, twenty five percent for the marriage, and
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  Speaker 1: fifty percent for self. The human being must still remember
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  Speaker 1: to keep the dead the honey period of the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Human being mustill remember the first day they met, the
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  Speaker 1: process it took for them to become together, the happiness
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  Speaker 1: it brought. The romans that care, that playtime, that movie watching,
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  Speaker 1: that sitting in the park, going on places on the event,
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  Speaker 1: flying vacations or travelers and rushing to see one another,
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  Speaker 1: buying flowers and holding hands, looking each other in the face.
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  Speaker 1: And that happiness that that excitement of sometimes lives to
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  Speaker 1: being shy telling something I love it with a case
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  Speaker 1: with a heart, with the warming press. You should know
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  Speaker 1: I let that. God, you must always keep that with
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  Speaker 1: you despite the differences. You must learn to live without differences.
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  Speaker 1: You must learn to be sincere with one another when
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  Speaker 1: we are not happy. But those you love, it must
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  Speaker 1: be open to them. They must know what you think
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  Speaker 1: every second. You must understand your emotional and sentiments. Nothing
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  Speaker 1: must be hidden. Marriage is like the sun. Everything is
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  Speaker 1: supposed to one another. We know what one other things
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  Speaker 1: and feels. That'll be genuine love general relationship. So when
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  Speaker 1: people get married fifty percent of their surface surface god.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty five person is to keep their relationship. Twenty five
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  Speaker 1: person is to keep the marriage and marriage thinking, to
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  Speaker 1: have a home together, prepare yourself to have children. Understanding
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  Speaker 1: the weaknesses and deficiencies of the other going people who
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  Speaker 1: come to marriage, there is no pretense that is still lying.
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  Speaker 1: People know who and what the other partners relationship person is.
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  Speaker 1: They know their strength and they know their weaknesses. They
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  Speaker 1: know what makes them happy, what makes them thick, They
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  Speaker 1: might know what they know what makes them sad, what
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  Speaker 1: makes them agitating, angry or explosive they make They know
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  Speaker 1: what makes them humble, and they seek to bring out
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  Speaker 1: the best in one another. The dignity of life, the
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  Speaker 1: humility of being, the humanity of the being, of self,
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  Speaker 1: of self respect, self restrain, marriage, humble sale. You come
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  Speaker 1: back to somebody that's always there waiting for you. And
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  Speaker 1: even when the world goes against you, no matter how
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  Speaker 1: who you are, no matter how unhappy or or cranky
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  Speaker 1: and all whatever that type of being you are, you
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  Speaker 1: have somebody that understands you, that can listen to you,
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  Speaker 1: can forgive you that Marriage makes the human being to
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  Speaker 1: what society is all about and when the marriage becot
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  Speaker 1: a child, it makes that couple to be something more
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  Speaker 1: than couples. They have a world that they have created
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  Speaker 1: a child or children to take care of. Their lives,
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  Speaker 1: become the lives of those children. One makes their children happy,
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  Speaker 1: their education, their care and naturally their health, their everything.
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  Speaker 1: That makes people to see themselves through themselves, but start
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  Speaker 1: to see themselves through their children. And not to see
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  Speaker 1: themselves through their children, but to see themselves the road
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  Speaker 1: through the road that those children play, the war, the
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  Speaker 1: place of those children in the world. They start to
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  Speaker 1: live alive that is deep, that's very mindful and considerate.
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  Speaker 1: They start to seek harmony. They seek harmony between themselves
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  Speaker 1: and their children and the volume when they live in
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  Speaker 1: They start to plant those seeds, that selflessness of pay,
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  Speaker 1: the large NICs of pain. Seeing the world be on
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  Speaker 1: here like a trade of the seeds and the seeds
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  Speaker 1: that they fruits and the tree. Watch the seeds, the
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  Speaker 1: flowers and the fruits, and how there's those foods are
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  Speaker 1: on plot from the tree and they go to the
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  Speaker 1: their own lives. That's what marriage is all about. But
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  Speaker 1: the humans they have joined the five person with themselves
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  Speaker 1: to sit and think for themselves and be with themselves
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  Speaker 1: or be with their friends, their old friends, to call
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  Speaker 1: as we're part of the community. To volunteer, to go
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  Speaker 1: to staff, not to make the marriage boy, to get
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  Speaker 1: new activities and new places to see, new things to do.
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  Speaker 1: They start to invest in the business and the company
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  Speaker 1: to be or buy home. They start to invest in stuff,
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  Speaker 1: invest in their community, run for the school board, become
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  Speaker 1: a representative, or run for office. They start to volunteer, volunteer.
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  Speaker 1: That time to start to accumulate the meaning in life
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  Speaker 1: and the proceeds and the gains of marriage and having children.
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  Speaker 1: So be it. That is what marriage. Yes, but the
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  Speaker 1: civil lining of manage is love. And that civil lining
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  Speaker 1: of love is care. That we care for one another
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  Speaker 1: and no matter what happens, we love one another. That
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  Speaker 1: love is care. Once that case came with the force
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  Speaker 1: of part love can be flattery the case genuine love
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  Speaker 1: is just a word the case and action that is rare,
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  Speaker 1: that is sustainable. You can then measure the love here
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  Speaker 1: for somebody, be so how much you care for that person.
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  Speaker 1: And when that case start to fade away, fights starting
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  Speaker 1: around quarry differences that to amplify and exportent shade compus
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  Speaker 1: that to cheat on one another and want to be
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  Speaker 1: without one another. Some very dangerous couples become physical and abusive,
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  Speaker 1: and things start to fall apart, and as it often said,
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  Speaker 1: the union start to falter. That love, that care, the responsibility,
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  Speaker 1: the expectation, the obligation, that duty, the commitment, the investment
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  Speaker 1: in that union starts to fracture, and so becomes the
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  Speaker 1: lives of those humans and the businesses that they do
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  Speaker 1: and the things the job. Once I love starts to fracture,
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  Speaker 1: Our home start to break apart, so becomes the human being.
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  Speaker 1: Human mays start to fall apart, start to disintegrate. The mind, body, soul,
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  Speaker 1: and the core system start to fall apart. Things becomes
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  Speaker 1: things become a sounder. But that's not the way it's
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be. I must learn to understand and tolerate
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  Speaker 1: one another. You don't break up our relationship and gets
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  Speaker 1: to the other relationship, and I expect a life will
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  Speaker 1: be smooth. The problem is always the human being, the
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  Speaker 1: issues the human being. We can choose to blame ourselves
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  Speaker 1: on others and point figures onto others that which we are.
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  Speaker 1: We are. We can't let get better worse that becomes
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  Speaker 1: a choice, and so we say door to walk through
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  Speaker 1: or nature, and now I pay and suspicion and midst
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  Speaker 1: try us. And when such thing sets in, defenses start
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  Speaker 1: to have legs of them an of themselves. The parties
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  Speaker 1: start to get involved, gossip, packs, doubling, and that which
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  Speaker 1: was meant to be, that which was start meant to be,
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  Speaker 1: and not not being what I was meant to be.
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  Speaker 1: That do people come together. They might not be that
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  Speaker 1: will live forever, but the wish is still live forever.
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  Speaker 1: There is wisdom and tolerated marriage, and there is wisdom
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  Speaker 1: not accepting abuse on mistreatment. My life is what life is.
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  Speaker 1: You can see through your defenses and teach one another
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  Speaker 1: and then from one another. And remember those promises that
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  Speaker 1: you guys give to one another, those vowels, Remember the
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  Speaker 1: tears of the little kids, of a baby that is
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  Speaker 1: born that cry, Remember life together. There's always something to
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  Speaker 1: live for. There's something that can be to forgive. It's
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  Speaker 1: very strange to some people to build a house and
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  Speaker 1: destroy that house, to go builder than a house again.
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  Speaker 1: And if you can find it easy to take couple,
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  Speaker 1: the divorce or to separate with one person, then you
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  Speaker 1: can find it easy to do the same with the second,
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  Speaker 1: the third, the fault the faith. The issue is not
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  Speaker 1: the person, the issues you. You take your character, you take
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  Speaker 1: your monalism and attitude to the next person. You refuse
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  Speaker 1: to fix yourself, You refuse to do in work and
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  Speaker 1: ask yourself, what am I disintegrating to what might becoming?
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  Speaker 1: What can what can I do together myself better? How
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  Speaker 1: can I change to be better human being? To be
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  Speaker 1: a better person? What is it I need to do?
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  Speaker 1: We must have that and think about that. Marriage is marriage.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell people sometimes that you cannot confuse love for
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  Speaker 1: last You cannot confuse dating for marriage. You can even
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  Speaker 1: confuse having children with marriage, or decide different entities that
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  Speaker 1: must that are brought together under one umbrella column marriage, marriage,
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  Speaker 1: people love one another, they get married and have children,
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  Speaker 1: or that it's a different setup when you did somebody.
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  Speaker 1: You can purge, You can perge from trade to trade.
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  Speaker 1: You can move all the pritains and all the lies
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  Speaker 1: in dating a last ful person or you did one person.
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  Speaker 1: Once a person start to understand your lies, and you
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  Speaker 1: and your flat trays, and you have fakeries, and once
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  Speaker 1: the emperor has no trust you, you escape you run
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  Speaker 1: away to another person. You just keep lying and lying
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  Speaker 1: and lying and getting what you want because of the
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  Speaker 1: selfage stance of being. You don't care about the other person.
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  Speaker 1: It's all about you. You're not considertly, just exploit and
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  Speaker 1: disappears or misuse humans and move from one place to another.
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  Speaker 1: That's not on what makes it could be positive, respectful,
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  Speaker 1: dignify one day when you're just being an opportunist and
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  Speaker 1: taking advantages and taking advantage of people, exploited people for
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  Speaker 1: your own gain, for your own self interest, choosing not
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  Speaker 1: to laugh but the last, but to flatter and cheat.
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  Speaker 1: When you get married, it's different. You learn to be
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  Speaker 1: honest with one another. If you're a dairy person, the
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  Speaker 1: partner knows you're dirty. Your corrupt person, the partner know
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  Speaker 1: your corrupt. If you're a kind person, your partner knows it.
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  Speaker 1: If you're a good person, your partner knows it. If
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  Speaker 1: you're a terrible human being, your partner knows it. But
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  Speaker 1: the goold that marriage brains you tend to redeem yourself,
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  Speaker 1: to purify yourself. You ask for confession and forgiveness. You
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  Speaker 1: learn to forgive, to move on, to move forward, to
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  Speaker 1: dorreet one another. You learn to cleanse yourself to become
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  Speaker 1: a great positive pain all of saying, all humans afford
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  Speaker 1: perfections not to pay. But we cannot keep lying to ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: You must seek to laugh and trust the way you laugh.
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  Speaker 1: Some differences can be managed, Some differences can be brushed.
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  Speaker 1: Some differences cannot. There are things that humans can tolerate.
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  Speaker 1: There are things that they cannot. No matter that would
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  Speaker 1: be their life is that which is No matter how
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  Speaker 1: we are personal with one another, humans are doing my
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  Speaker 1: traditional adigenous cultures, by laws, by moral code, by the
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  Speaker 1: compunction the things they can accept and the things that
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  Speaker 1: society accept them to accept. Certain things are immoral, Certain
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  Speaker 1: things are illegal, Certain things are beyond acceptance. Certain things
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  Speaker 1: are crue, Certain things are in human, certain things are
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  Speaker 1: Certain things are primitive, reporgtant, and just savage. When marriage
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  Speaker 1: helps to clean the human being from that, and if
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  Speaker 1: marriage cannot do that, then the human being has refused
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  Speaker 1: to heal to better itself. Human abandoned to itself is
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  Speaker 1: an animal. That's no feeling for nobody. When you see
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  Speaker 1: humans become antisocial, psychopath narcissistic, or statistic, or crue or
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  Speaker 1: protray humane, they suffer from self isolation. When we have
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  Speaker 1: the world, the warmth of another human, that thing that
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  Speaker 1: makes to become to consider, to be considered, to be empathetic,
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  Speaker 1: to become passionate, to sympathize with somebody, to wipe the
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  Speaker 1: tears of somebody, to care for the least among us.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only thing that makes you better. That's why
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  Speaker 1: every successful society must promote marriage. Every good home must
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  Speaker 1: promote marriage. You like humans to get married to one another,
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  Speaker 1: not that they're popular in the earth, but to learn,
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  Speaker 1: to learn from one another, to teach one another, to
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  Speaker 1: harmble humans, to make humans believe in something bigger than themselves.
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  Speaker 1: Every human be need to be polished. Sometimes humans need
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  Speaker 1: to teat somebody or somebody to tell them that place
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  Speaker 1: compact yourself, Please change, please, please be mindful, be respectful.
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  Speaker 1: We must learn from one another. Marriage is an entity
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  Speaker 1: that makes the human being to the best of being. Sometime,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: to ego and arrogance narcissism, humans turn to hate one another.
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  Speaker 1: It's worth when too hateful hapeful people live together. It's
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: better when to loving people live together. You must not't
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  Speaker 1: force yourself into what is not. You must cannot keep
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  Speaker 1: blind to themselves. When it's working, it's working. When it's
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: not working, it's not working. If you can fix it.
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  Speaker 1: If you cannot fix it, be those people who create
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: problems they cannot solve and access somebody to fix it
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  Speaker 1: for you. If somebody cannot fix it for you, Eve,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: when you integrate this as you said, and the couple
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  Speaker 1: are separate or divorce, you cannot divorce from yourself. The
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: problem of the human being is itself. They can choose
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: to be a better human being or that that's a choice.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: But you can never keep blaming the other couple. They says,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: say that when you point a finger four fingers appointed
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: at you, nothing happened to the human being. Isolation, the
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: concept of victimhood and entitled bay doesn't work with marriage.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: And marriage people are accountable that there are reasonable expectations,
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  Speaker 1: there is a theory, and a service is work to do.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: You must play your role. You must play your part
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: if you want to marriage the container for things to
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: go well. The first thing that is to marriage is laziness,
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  Speaker 1: entitlement and victimhood. The second thing is mistrust, and the
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  Speaker 1: third it's cheering, and the fourth it's worse. But we
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  Speaker 1: can not disintegrate ourselves and descend into which we are
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: not at. We must live to respect one another. It's time.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: It's all about you, It's all about nothing. Marriage is
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: a good thing. The one greatest thing to observe in
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: life is that women are very tolerant. Women can't take
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: a lot. But when you see a woman say enough
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  Speaker 1: is enough? Not okay with that woman, always remember that
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  Speaker 1: women are more intelligent or reasonable, more patient or nice.
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  Speaker 1: They bring happiness, they bring off, they bring care. You
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: take it with the woman in society, the society falls apart.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: That's when you see a man that divorce is a woman.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: It's never a complete human pain. They can't pretend that
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  Speaker 1: they do that they don't. Isn't it funny a man
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  Speaker 1: divorces with another woman and find another woman, and divorce
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: that woman and find another woman because a man cannot
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: pay with a woman. And even if a man is
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: to marry to a woman, that man still need a woman,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: because that man came from a woman. You cannot not
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: live with a woman. That's what marriage is all about.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: We need women, or the women need us. A peaceful
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  Speaker 1: man has a happy woman, and a happy man has
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  Speaker 1: a woman that he refuses to listen to the peace
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  Speaker 1: of life starts with a woman. But so it be
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  Speaker 1: that life is what life is. That is, if God
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  Speaker 1: is human, then God is a woman. So it be
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: that a man can be a president, a man can
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  Speaker 1: be a general, a man can be the greatest of things.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: A man can be a king, a man can be
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the wealthiest of person. Isn't that funny that a man
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  Speaker 1: must bow and cry to your omen. They must seek
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: the love and comfort of a woman. And when a
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: woman loves a man, there's more, nothing more than that.
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  Speaker 1: And when a woman says no to a man, worse
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  Speaker 1: things might happen. Remember and when your love by a woman,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: When you're with a woman, no matter sometimes what craziness is,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: always be happy that you're blessed. It's better to build
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: a woman that you know, than those women out there
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: that loss is capital to them. They must learn to tolerate,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: and must learn to ask for forgive us, and must
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: learn not to take advantage of one another, or misuse
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  Speaker 1: open straight or to suspect one another. For a relationship
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: to work, it's more about the project, the thing that
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  Speaker 1: you're building, the tree that you're planting, the business that
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: you're creating something bigger than self. Marriage just thought about you.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: It's all about the other person. It's not something bigger
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: than you, guys, something bigger than ourselves. Sometimes suppression and
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: divorce takes away everything that the human may is. There
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: is no problem that cannot be solved. There is no
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: issue that cannot be resolved. Let it be the woman
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: that divorced and not the man. For the man can
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: always kneel and beg I say, I'm sorry. That's what
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: makes a man to be a man. I must give
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: the woman the upper hair. That's what life is. If
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: you say life it's not fair, it is not. A
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: man must like the woman to have the upper hair,
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  Speaker 1: for them to be peace, for them to be loved,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: for them to be by on it, and happiness, for
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: them to be harmony and in that peace, like the
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: woman have the upper All of us struggle with that.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: That's a wisdom. Sometimes with a fust accept it only
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: makes the life of a man paiful if the woman
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: doesn't have the open hand. It's for you, therefore, to
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: pray to have a woman. I can govern you, I
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  Speaker 1: can lead you. A woman does in charge. I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you what to do I can't build a home
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  Speaker 1: for you and for your guys to build a country
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: and a war. Philosopher, Prince, they are intelligences. Philosopher. Princess
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  Speaker 1: resolved from the Great State of Las Vegas, May twenty six,
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  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, and love and marriage. Thank you,