Latest / Podcast - Big 98.7 / Is This Woman a Unicorn...or a Red Flag?

Transcript

Is This Woman a Unicorn...or a Red Flag? · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: This is am I the problem?
• 0:05
  Speaker 2: It's me.
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: On the problem, it's me.
• 0:09
  Speaker 3: We'll hear one side of the story, and with your help,
• 0:12
  Speaker 3: am I the problem with? You? Decide if it's right
• 0:15
  Speaker 3: or if maybe you're the problem.
• 0:17
  Speaker 4: I'm hardly the problem.
• 0:18
  Speaker 3: On Big ninety eight point seven.
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: Alex wrote into us Gabe, Angie, is this weird? I
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: started dating this girl who I met on Tinder. She's
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: cool and gorgeous.
• 0:29
  Speaker 5: Oh, she and I have that in common.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Okay, she's cool and gorgeous, but I realized
• 0:36
  Speaker 2: she's not on social media legit. Her Tinder is the
• 0:39
  Speaker 2: only place she has pictures up, but she's not on Snap, Instagram, Facebook, nothing.
• 0:44
  Speaker 5: I had asked her on our.
• 0:45
  Speaker 2: First date if I could get her Snap and then
• 0:47
  Speaker 2: she told me she's not on social media because it's
• 0:50
  Speaker 2: just not her thing. And I thought that was cool,
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: whatever whatever. I mentioned it to my buddies and they
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: said that's a friend. They said, that's a red flag.
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: So she's a twenty six year old girl. Why wouldn't
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: she be into that? And actually thinking about it, that
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: does seem weird.
• 1:07
  Speaker 5: Is she hiding something?
• 1:08
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be rude and accuse her so
• 1:10
  Speaker 2: I'm asking you, guys, ha ha, okay, alex Ah.
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: The voices of reason.
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: On my This is why we also have you to
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: help us out seven oh one to eight all one
• 1:21
  Speaker 2: nine eight seven, text us your thoughts, call us, and
• 1:25
  Speaker 2: we also have this on the big ninety eight points.
• 1:26
  Speaker 5: I'm on Facebook page. I think that she is hiding something.
• 1:32
  Speaker 2: I totally get if you're not chronically online like some
• 1:35
  Speaker 2: of us myself, but I think it is weird that
• 1:38
  Speaker 2: she's not on social media at all. That to me
• 1:41
  Speaker 2: does mean she's hiding something because even if well, you're
• 1:46
  Speaker 2: a rest record now, maybe she's on OnlyFans.
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: Maybe she oh she got a little only toes down.
• 1:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe or maybe she like did something that she doesn't
• 1:58
  Speaker 2: want to be.
• 2:01
  Speaker 5: Maybe I'm taking it too far.
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: I think she is hiding something, though, I think it's weird.
• 2:05
  Speaker 2: I think it's weird because even if you're not super
• 2:08
  Speaker 2: into social media.
• 2:10
  Speaker 5: I have friends who are.
• 2:11
  Speaker 2: Not, they still at minimum have a profile, even if
• 2:16
  Speaker 2: it's like one profile picture from ten years ago or something,
• 2:19
  Speaker 2: and they don't really post at all, but at the
• 2:22
  Speaker 2: very least you know they be lurking and may be
• 2:25
  Speaker 2: keeping up on the memes and stuff.
• 2:26
  Speaker 5: I think that's weird. I think it's weird.
• 2:29
  Speaker 2: I think it's especially weird to not even have a
• 2:31
  Speaker 2: snap because that's like the one where things disappear. So
• 2:36
  Speaker 2: if you are hiding something like snap is maybe the
• 2:39
  Speaker 2: safer one. And if she doesn't even have that, I
• 2:41
  Speaker 2: don't know. I think it's weird.
• 2:42
  Speaker 5: I think she's hiding something.
• 2:43
  Speaker 1: Gabe, what do you think? Here's what I'll say. His
• 2:47
  Speaker 1: name's Alex. Yeah, Alex. Don't let your your goofy, silly,
• 2:51
  Speaker 1: stupid buddies who you've known since third grade stop you
• 2:55
  Speaker 1: from finding your wife. Okay, this lady sounds like a unicorn.
• 2:59
  Speaker 1: You're telling me she's not walking around taking selfies all
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: morning here in the big ninety eight point seven s
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: or sorry, sorry that was a little two personal my
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: dad is you're telling me this girl did some research
• 3:11
  Speaker 1: and found all of the negative side effects of being
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: on social media all day every day. This lady, she
• 3:17
  Speaker 1: might be Bill Ny the science sky level genius for
• 3:21
  Speaker 1: all you know.
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you don't think it's a red flag she
• 3:25
  Speaker 2: has no social media?
• 3:27
  Speaker 5: What's a wab?
• 3:28
  Speaker 1: I think in twenty twenty six, it's kind of weird,
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: But I also commend it. Maybe she is just sick
• 3:32
  Speaker 1: of all of the things she has seen on social media.
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: And when you know what, I am out. I log
• 3:37
  Speaker 1: into this every day and it makes me mad, It
• 3:39
  Speaker 1: gets me irritated, It makes me hate the world, and
• 3:42
  Speaker 1: I don't want to live like that. I think that's respectable.
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: Maybe she's prioritizing her mental health.
• 3:48
  Speaker 5: You who the fuck could never be me?
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: Why don't you think seven out one two eight on one,
• 3:52
  Speaker 2: nine eighty seven? Is it a red flag that Alex's
• 3:55
  Speaker 2: girl that he's dating doesn't have social media at all?
• 3:59
  Speaker 5: Or is this refreshing and he should be into it?
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: And I will say you did say maybe she got
• 4:03
  Speaker 1: that onlytoes dot com. Well, who cares to know what?
• 4:06
  Speaker 1: You can find her online to see it anyway, and
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: good morning. We have Duaba on the phone. Touaba, what
• 4:17
  Speaker 1: are you thinking? For am I the problem?
• 4:19
  Speaker 4: I was gonna say, maybe when she was a teenager,
• 4:22
  Speaker 4: like fifteen, sixteen years old, she was bullied online and
• 4:26
  Speaker 4: then she just took all of her stuff off. I'm
• 4:29
  Speaker 4: not gonna deal with this anymore.
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: She could have That is very true. I also will say, Alex,
• 4:33
  Speaker 1: like if you're on date three and accusing anyone of anything.
• 4:37
  Speaker 1: That seems very early to be accusatory.
• 4:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he should just be asking her more about herself.
• 4:44
  Speaker 4: Right, Maybe he's the red flag, for God's sake.
• 4:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very possible, very possible.
• 4:50
  Speaker 5: I love the spin on that maybe he's the red flag.
• 4:53
  Speaker 1: It turns one eighty. We do have Justin on the phone, Justin,
• 4:56
  Speaker 1: what do.
• 4:57
  Speaker 4: You think I'm with game on this to be the
• 4:59
  Speaker 4: unicor learn that they're looking for. I personally don't think
• 5:03
  Speaker 4: discord is a social media say it's a communication site. Okay,
• 5:07
  Speaker 4: what if they have a Discord? What if she's the
• 5:10
  Speaker 4: secret gamer that he's actually been looking for to game with?
• 5:15
  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Justin, you gotta be careful.
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: This is a family friendly show and a lot of
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: dudes just got real happy right now.
• 5:22
  Speaker 4: Oh I know, right.
• 5:24
  Speaker 1: Thanks for the call, Justin. We appreciate you.
• 5:26
  Speaker 2: Destiny texted us and said, I think red flags are
• 5:30
  Speaker 2: being twenty six and asking for a snap when we're
• 5:33
  Speaker 2: adults and our main communication should be texting and calling,
• 5:38
  Speaker 2: not social media. Okay, I don't hate that take. I
• 5:42
  Speaker 2: do think it's funny when a grown person asks me
• 5:45
  Speaker 2: for my snapchat?
• 5:46
  Speaker 1: Well, what if you're twenty four and your brain hasn't
• 5:48
  Speaker 1: fully developed yet.
• 5:50
  Speaker 5: That's the big distinction right there.
• 5:52
  Speaker 1: Two years ocket, we have Nick on the line. Nick,
• 5:56
  Speaker 1: what do you think?
• 5:56
  Speaker 3: Hell, Alex gave you one hundred percent right hang onto
• 5:59
  Speaker 3: that unicorn and she ducks to you instead of looking
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: at her screen.
• 6:02
  Speaker 1: That's well put gosh, dang it.
• 6:04
  Speaker 5: Now I'm realizing I'm the problem.
• 6:07
  Speaker 1: And if you don't know what's going on? Am I
• 6:09
  Speaker 1: the problem? Today? Alex has been on a couple of
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: dates with this twenty six year old girl and she
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: has zero presence on social media. It didn't really bother
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: him at the start.
• 6:18
  Speaker 2: But buddy, his buddy said, what, she's twenty six, Why
• 6:22
  Speaker 2: isn't she on social media?
• 6:23
  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.
• 6:25
  Speaker 2: I think the buddies just want to see more pictures
• 6:27
  Speaker 2: of Alex's girl.
• 6:29
  Speaker 1: Rather being snoopy. That might be it, So still time
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: to chime in if you want seven oh one two
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: eight zero one nine eight seven, give us a call
• 6:36
  Speaker 1: or shoot us a text. Is it strange if you
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: go out on a couple dates with someone and there,
• 6:40
  Speaker 1: you know, in their mid upper twenties thirties, and they
• 6:44
  Speaker 1: have no presence on social media?
• 6:52
  Speaker 2: The problem on today's am I the problem Alex is
• 6:55
  Speaker 2: dating a girl who has no social media presence, and
• 6:59
  Speaker 2: he wants to know if that is a problem or
• 7:02
  Speaker 2: if he's overthinking.
• 7:03
  Speaker 1: It is he secretly just asking like, hey, does this
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: girl have an onlytoes dot com account? I need to
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: know about.
• 7:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, it could be we got this on Facebook
• 7:12
  Speaker 2: from Amanda.
• 7:12
  Speaker 5: She said, not a red flag.
• 7:14
  Speaker 2: Some employers are all over employees social media. She could
• 7:18
  Speaker 2: just be avoiding the drama. Ooh, that is a good point.
• 7:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not having social media is a good way to
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: not get in trouble online. Yeah.
• 7:26
  Speaker 5: I have gotten in trouble for things I've posted back
• 7:30
  Speaker 5: back my youth.
• 7:32
  Speaker 1: This is yesterday.
• 7:33
  Speaker 2: No, it was that like I was partying and then
• 7:36
  Speaker 2: my manager saw and whatever, And that's because I made
• 7:38
  Speaker 2: the mistake of having them on my social media. That's
• 7:41
  Speaker 2: a good take, Amanda. And then Yolanda she texted us
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: and she said, if she truly isn't online, then congrats.
• 7:49
  Speaker 2: She has priorities to keep the useless distractions away. I
• 7:53
  Speaker 2: have many friends without any social media. Okay, so Alex
• 7:57
  Speaker 2: not weird. Yolanda has several friends that aren't on social media.
• 8:01
  Speaker 5: Maybe your girl is one of your longest rys.
• 8:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that might be true, Yolanda, do you have a
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: friend who may be on a date with an hour?
• 8:09
  Speaker 1: They let us know, will you? And then finally, here
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: we have Stephanie. She says today, I agree with Angie.
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: Oh usually it's Gabe. But no, that is weird and
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: she is hiding something. Either that or she's going to
• 8:25
  Speaker 1: be a nun laughing but very soon.
• 8:27
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 8:31
  Speaker 3: Celebrating life's little victories victory every morning we practice gratitude
• 8:36
  Speaker 3: on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 8:38
  Speaker 4: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
• 8:40
  Speaker 4: basket job busted out whenever someone's acting hard.
• 8:44
  Speaker 3: I just really needed to win, you know, sure your
• 8:46
  Speaker 3: little victories with us at seven oh one two eight one,
• 8:50
  Speaker 3: eight seven.
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: Angie, do you have a little victory for us here today?
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: What's something good that happened in your life?
• 8:56
  Speaker 2: It is such a small victory, but I know you,
• 8:59
  Speaker 2: Gabe will appreciate this, maybe more than anyone.
• 9:03
  Speaker 5: On the drive to work today, did not hit a
• 9:06
  Speaker 5: single red light?
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: Oh I call that running the gauntlet.
• 9:09
  Speaker 5: Oh yes, okay, ran the gauntlet this morning.
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: And if you don't know, there's about it's I can't
• 9:16
  Speaker 1: remember exactly. It's either twelve or fifteen. I did count
• 9:18
  Speaker 1: one morning, but for where Angie and I live in
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: South Fargo to Radio FM Media. Here in Big ninety
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: eight point seven, there's about fifteen stop lights. Yes, we
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: would go through on twenty fifth.
• 9:29
  Speaker 5: It was magical.
• 9:30
  Speaker 2: Obviously, I don't drive myself, Mikey drives me, and so
• 9:34
  Speaker 2: I wasn't really paying attention.
• 9:35
  Speaker 5: But he's the one who gets really upset when there's
• 9:38
  Speaker 5: a red light, and he's like, for why, for who,
• 9:40
  Speaker 5: who's even on the streets right now?
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: Right and so right as we were passing, yes, right
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: as we were passing the final one, he said, we
• 9:48
  Speaker 2: didn't hit a single red light. And I told him, Oh,
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: that's my little victory today. So I'm very excited to share.
• 9:54
  Speaker 1: Yes, well, good for you. Angie ran the gauntlet this morning.
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: I'm very happy.
• 9:58
  Speaker 4: I love that.
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: What about you, Gabe. I have two little victories here today,
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: both very quick. My first little victory yesterday, I think
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: was the first time I'm not even kidding, maybe in
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: twenty years that I had a planned nap. I stayed
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: up pretty late on Monday to watch the Minnesota wild
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: game all right, and then at about twelve thirty one o'clock,
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: when I was done playing fetch with my dog, I
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: said self, we're gonna lay down. We're gonna shut our
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: eyes for forty five minutes. Whether we sleep or not,
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: I don't care, but you're gonna sit here and close
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: your eyes for forty five minutes. And I did, and
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: I slept for about forty five minutes, and I could
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: not feel better today. Now. Sometimes when I take a nap,
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: which is never on purpose, My NAP's are always accidental.
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: If they do happen, they'll be at like five or six,
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: which is an nightmare. Yeah. So I took a nap yesterday,
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: got the sleep schedule kind of back on track, went
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: to bed my same standard late than it probably should be. Yeah,
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: but I feel wonderful today, and I do credit that
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: little nap there. Also, this is another little victory. For
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: whatever reason. I don't know if we like need a
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: new piece of equipment or whatever, but our internet was
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: out for a chunk of time yesterday. We're gon we're
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: gonna have someone over looking at the Internet, and you know,
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: there was nothing for us to really put on TV.
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: We have a smart TV, we couldn't really use it.
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: Without Wi Fi and our phones obviously we could use
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: five G or whatever the yeah current whatever.
• 11:29
  Speaker 5: Is, whatever the G is right now, right Well, it
• 11:32
  Speaker 5: was kind of nice.
• 11:32
  Speaker 1: Cory and I just sat She was in her chair.
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: I was sitting on the couch and we just kind
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: of sat there and just shot the breeze for a
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: while to pass the time. It was kind of nice.
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: No one was on their phone, no one was watching
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: reality TV, no one was watching some stupid chess tournament.
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: So for you know, an hour hour and a half
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: before the internet came back out, we kind of just
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: sat there and chilled and hung out with our dog.
• 11:54
  Speaker 5: Spouses, talking to each other. What a novel idea?
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what a fun let me tell you. But no,
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: it was just kind of nice. On the way we
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: have somber. We'll also have your tea coming up this
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: morning on Big ninety eight point seven. And if you
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: ever have a little victory, message them to us at
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: any point throughout the day. We love to hear them.
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: They give us a little boost too, even if we
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: read them, you know, before we're leaving in the afternoon.
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: So seven oh one two eight zero one seven. Is
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: there something you have to do before you can relax
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: or begin to relax and go to bed. I noticed
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: this about myself yesterday. And maybe it's just been good
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: parenting practice for when baby g arrives this summer.
• 12:39
  Speaker 5: But well, you'll never relax ever again.
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, relaxing's over. Yeah, but I have got I've learned,
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: and I've really noticed it. I'd say the past a
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: handful of months here, I cannot, for the life of me,
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: sit down, lay down, go to bed unless I know
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: I have let Winona to go out to the bathroom.
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: It does not match. Let's say I go to bed
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: at nine point thirty. It doesn't matter if I let
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: Wanona out at nine to twelve. Oh, I still have
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: to do just one more time. Final And then for
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: some people it's do you have to go check that
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: front door lock? Do you have to make sure the
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: garage door is closed? Oh?
• 13:17
  Speaker 5: Mine is the sliding glass door.
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of nightmares that someone gets into
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: the house through the sliding glass door. This has been
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: a nightmare I've had since I was a child. Sure,
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: I don't know why, And so yeah, every night I'm
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: I don't even think to check before I get into
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: the bed. That's what bothers me is that I'll get
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: into bed and then I'll think, Oh, I gotta check
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: the sliding glass door. And there's part of me that's like, girl,
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: you didn't even open the sliding glass door today, why
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: would it be unlocked.
• 13:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I can't. I have to get up out
• 13:47
  Speaker 5: of bed and I have to check it.
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one eight seven. Are
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: there things you have to do before you can either
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: sit down and kind of begin to relax or before
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: you can go to bed.
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: Some people that would be like, I can't go to
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: sleep if I don't shower first.
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But the most popular answer, and I have a
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: feeling our Angie probably does a little bit of this.
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: You cannot relax until you do some type of cleaning
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: or the dishes for this dish that is my wife.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: We have someone stopping by today just to check on
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: the internet. It's possible we might just need like a
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: new modem quick easy in and out fix. Yeah, my wife,
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: this person won't even go into the house, I don't
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: think because all the stuff they needs outside.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: My wife yesterday finds out we might be having or
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: not might be we are having someone stop by the
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: house today and immediately gets up and begins to vacuum.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Does she need to vacuum? No, there's no stuff. I'd
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: we just ran the room.
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: But oh my god, that's so cute.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: That's just how she is. It's the same thing, like,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: aren't you the same with dishes?
• 15:00
  Speaker 5: With dishes? I cannot. In fact, there are dishes in
• 15:04
  Speaker 5: the sink right now.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: But I also only like the way I washed the dishes,
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: and I was stressed out about it yesterday, but I
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: just ran out of time in my day to fit.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: It was like a mountain of dishes because I had
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: family in town, so we racked them up so I
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: got half of them done, but I realized I had
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: to go to bed, and it was stressing me out
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: because there are dishes in the sink.
• 15:25
  Speaker 5: And I don't like it. I don't know how people
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: live that way. If there are dishes in the sink,
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: you should not be relaxing. That's a crime.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: Actually, the whole house is dirty. The whole house is dirty.
• 15:35
  Speaker 5: I can't be the only one that feels that way.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: What is something you gotta do before you even think
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: about beginning to relax or going to bed. I think
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: this question might be harder to answer than we would
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: care to admit, but it is a different time. In
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, when my wife and I were driving
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: to the frying Pan to have and I've told this
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: story before, but to have brunch with my cousin, my
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: aunt and uncle, we saw someone on the side of
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: the road and someone had pulled over to help. I mean,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: maybe they knew them, maybe it was a relative, maybe
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: it was a random person. I don't know. So we
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: just kept on driving, and I sat there and thought,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: am I a horrible person for just kind of continuing
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: on down the road. It looked like somebody had the
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: situation under control, So, you know, not my circus, not
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: my monkeys or whatever that's saying is okay.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: But if someone was stranded and you didn't see that
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: someone else had pulled over, would you pull over the house?
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: See? I don't know, and I think there's a lot
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: of caveats to that question. And this is gonna sound terrible,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: but if I see a dude stranded on the side
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: of the road by himself, his cars, smoking and he's
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: just kind of chilling, uh huh, I'll be honest with you,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I'm probably just gonna keep it moving. I'm not too
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: worried about this guy being in danger by himself. Yeah.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: Is that terrible to think? Probably, but that is what
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: it is in twenty twenty six. Yeah, if there's a
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: young lady by herself, stranded on the side of the road,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: her car smoking, and no one's helped, I would be
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: much more inclined to at the very least make sure
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: someone was on the way. Did she need help, does
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: she need me to call someone, does she need a
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: phone charge, or does she whatever? Yeah, but like it's
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: the same thing, Angie. You're driving and you don't know me,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: you see me on the side of the road, Is
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: it really not? Do you care that much?
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: I think it's different for women. So if I'm driving
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: and I see a man stranded on the side of
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: the road, well, I guess you live there now, sir,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I'm not stopping. I think that it's more dangerous for women.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: You know that statistically, not to really derailize, but women
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: are more likely to get murdered at gas stations after
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: the sun goes down than in any other location.
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: I know that that is a wild statistic.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: But it's true, and it's just one of those things
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: where if we are women and we are driving and
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: we're by ourselves, it's stopping anywhere.
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: The risk for us to get hurt is higher.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: And so especially if the sun's going down and I
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: see a man stranded on the side of the road,
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: absolutely not. It changes a little.
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: Bit if I'm with Mikey.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: So if Mikey and I are in the car and
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: there's someone stranded and it's a dude, we're likely to stop.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: Because Mikey is a nice guy, he's a kind man.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: We're likely to stop. But I'm staying in the car
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: and he's going and checking. And then there was a
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: road trip that we had taken and we saw a
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: young woman who was stranded. She had a flat tire,
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: and Mikey and I pulled over, but Mikey stayed in
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: the car, and then I walked up and asked the
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: girl because it feels less threatening when it's another lady.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: And then the man was way far away.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: And obviously not all men whatever, but like it's dangerous,
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: it's dangerous. So as a woman, no, I will go
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: back to what you said about if you saw a
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: guy stranded and you wouldn't stop, Gabe, you're rip.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm I'm sorry, Carl. I'm a lot less worried
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: about you, you know. So seven oh one two eight
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: zero one nine eight seven. We did also ask this
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: question on Facebook, would you help a stranded motorist or
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: have movies ruined it for you? And it's very interesting.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I would like to think in our heart, we like
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: we are a kind person. We want to help out
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: when we can, But stopping for someone on the side
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: of the road, I think is a little bit tougher
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: to answer than we care to admit. We don't know
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: if this is a setup. We don't know if this
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: is a crap, And I think if you have.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: Good intentions, I think that we are well intentioned people
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: who would want to help. But at the end of
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: the day, our safety has to come first.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: You gotta put your own oxygen mask on first on
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: the plane. Yeah, Valerie says years ago she would have,
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: but now no, she wouldn't. We also had Ali who
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: said I watched too much crime crime on the ID channels,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: so nope, but I would call dispatch.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, see that there are ways to help without you
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: physically stopping this though, I liked that Sandra message. She said,
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: I won't help a stranded motorist, but i'd save someone
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: from a crash, And I think that's an important distinction.
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I think if it's a crash, yes, if
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: it's stranded, no.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: I think that's very different, but also very important to
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: make this thinc to hear. We also had Amanda say
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I'd help, but I'd be very cautious. No way, I'm
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: letting them in my call.
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: That makes sense.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: And then I actually think this is kind of nice,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: as Zach said, an elderly couple saved my life doing
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: that once. Yes, I'd be cautious about it, but still
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: would do it. And I don't know, that's so kind.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: And I don't know if Zach means literally saved his
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: life or just like, oh, they saved my life. I
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: didn't have to walk three miles to the gas station.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: So this is kind of an interesting conversation to have
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: with your hubby or maybe your kids. I know, you
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: definitely probably don't want your seventeen year old stopping to
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: help a random part person on the side of the road.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I know, if I'm with Corey and it's a young lady,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: definitely gonna stop. I feel like it's a lot less
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: threatening than if I'm by myself. Yeah, I'm by myself.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I'll probably stop one hundred yards away, get a megaphone out,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: and be like, are you all right? A pilot has
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: recommended you do not wear these on the plane? Can you?
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Of course you can, but it's not recommended. And who
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: said not to wear white? And do not wear complicated
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: jump suits?
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: And wait, what's a complicated jumpsuit? I don't know.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Probably anything more than sweatpants and a hoodie.
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: Okay, Oh, like, well, like a romper situation.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I guess if you're going to the bathroom and you
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: have to get naked in the bathroom when you wear
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: a jumpsuit just to use.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: It, yeah, that could be weird.
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, especially in airplane bathrooms.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, thank you for bringing that up, because
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: you know, as the weather gets warmer or whatever.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: I love a romper, But when you choose to wear
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: a romper and then you have.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: To go pee, you are making a choice.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: You're making a choice. I don't want to do that
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: on the plane.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I wear on a plane
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: that most people will probably disagree with or find disgusting.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: By the way, what do you wear if you have
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: to travel on the airbus seven oh one two eight
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: zero one nine eighty seven. I want you to picture this, Angie.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: You're at Hector International Airport in a strolling along comes me. Okay,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: I will be wearing these at the airport, and I
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: don't care what anyone says. I will wear sandals with socks. Okay,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I said what I said. Have no issue rocking the
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: sandals because A it's just convenient. It's super easy to
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: get through security when you got the sandals and socks on,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: you just kind of well, you don't got to take
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: your shoes off.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Well, their slides, right, yeah, not like you're not a
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: ninja turnides.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: And some people are like, oh great, now I get
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: to sit next to smelly feet Gabe on this plane
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to go to uh, Oklahoma or
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: wherever you're trying to go. Well, I don't care. And
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: first off, I will be wearing clean socks. Okay. I'm
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: not an I'm not an animal. I don't want I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: don't want to be the smelly feet guy on the plane.
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: I do also like slides with socks. I did do
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: that for a time, and as a fashion choice, absolutely not,
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: but as.
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: Getting on the plane thing. But good news, Gabe.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you've flown recently, but you don't
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: have to take your shoes off anymore.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're right, yeah, yeah, right, Well now you.
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: Can wear it. So now if you wear that, you
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: just have poor tastes.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I got poor taste, all right. These taste buds stink
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: What do you wear when you have to travel on
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: a plane, Chelsea?
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: Oh, I need an oversized hoodie, some biker shorts and
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: a pair of speakers.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: I need to feel like I could fall asleep at
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: any moment. There is something about you come for. I
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: think I'm gonna change this up. My goal in twenty
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: twenty what is it twenty twenty six is to I
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: will travel one of these days I'm going full suit.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: I will commit to the bit that used to be
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: the thing. It used to be a thing. It was
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: like going out when you travel back in the day.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: So I will be traveling on a plane in a
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: full suit twenty twenty six, mark my words.
• 24:24
  Speaker 5: I need some good.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Starting off the day with something good.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: This is Gabe's good news on BID ninety eight point seven.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Today is Earth Day and some good news that proves
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: small actions really can add up across the country and
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: right here in the FM area. People are going to
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: be coming together today to clean up parks, plant trees,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: take better care of the places that we call home.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: From kids picking up trash at playgrounds to neighbors organizing
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: community cleanups, it's a bigger it's a biggerminder that you
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: don't have to do something huge to make a different today.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Even simple things recycling, using less plastic, or just getting
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: outside and appreciating nature can have a real impact when
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: enough people do them. So if you've been looking for
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: a sign to do something good today, this is it,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: all right, because taking care of the earth doesn't have
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: to be complicated. It just has to start somewhere. So
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: if today you're on a walk with the dog, or
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you're with the kids at the park and you see
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: a couple things in garbage, I'm not telling you you
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: got to put your hands in something gross, but maybe
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: find a way to throw it in the garbage. Yeah,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: picking up off the ground. The world is full of
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: nice people. If you can't find one, you gotta be one.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: And broken crayons they still color