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Season 8 - Hosts of NEW Podcast 'Uncomfortable Situations' Jade and Simone · Kickin’ It With KeKe: Life, Love, & MINDSET

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Kicking and Wikiki.
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Speaker 2: Kicking it be ki Ki, kicking it the ki ki
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Speaker 2: for a little personality, switching up the storyline on God
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Speaker 1: To the side. Enjoy yourself, free your mind, kickin it
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Speaker 1: wi ki Ki.
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Speaker 2: Hello again and welcome to another episode of Kicking and Wikiki, life,
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Speaker 2: love and all that other shit. I am your host,
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Speaker 2: Kiki Chanel, award winning author, thirty five mindset coach and
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Speaker 2: owner of nineteen lifestyle magazine. Today I am joined with
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Speaker 2: fellow podcast hosts co host Samone and Jade, and they
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Speaker 2: will be talking about their upcoming podcast. I'm super excited
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Speaker 2: to have podcasters on the podcast because that just gives you,
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Speaker 2: guys another avenue to listen, to connect, and to have
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Speaker 2: conversations that you normally wouldn't have before we dive into
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Speaker 2: all things podcasts. I would like to give these two
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Speaker 2: the opportunity to tell you who they are, and since
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Speaker 2: Simone is a veteran of the show, we'll let her
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Speaker 2: go first and then we'll get miss Jade to tell
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Speaker 2: us who she is and what she does.
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Speaker 3: So go ahead, well, I am one half of the
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Speaker 3: hosting extraordinaries for Uncomfortable Situations, Simone Higginbotham. I also am
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Speaker 3: the owner of rebirth magazine Weekend Girls, which is a
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Speaker 3: lifestyle website. I'm a founder of Legend Awards VR, and
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Speaker 3: I guess a community advocate. I've been told that I'm
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Speaker 3: a curator of stories. I don't know how true that is,
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Speaker 3: but you know that's what I've heard. So that's me.
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Speaker 3: I'm a grammy sister uh unh just and I try
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Speaker 3: to be a very good friend to all those people
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Speaker 3: that I call a friends. So that's who Simone is.
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Speaker 2: All right, And we have the newcomer to kicking it
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Speaker 2: with Kiki. Jay, go ahead and tell people who you
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Speaker 2: are the other half of Uncomfortable Situations.
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Speaker 3: Hi, I am Jay Miller.
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Speaker 1: I am the other half co host of Uncomfortable Situations,
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Speaker 1: and I'm a former service member and recruiter. Currently what
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Speaker 1: I do I consult, you know, people consult with me
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Speaker 1: on how to go to gardens. And I also handmade
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Speaker 1: you know, some fashionable statement jewel. I'm a daughter, I'm
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Speaker 1: a sister, I'm a cousin, I'm a niece.
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Speaker 3: A few people who.
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Speaker 1: Call me mom. You know, I love to embrace the
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Speaker 1: word motherhood. It's very important. But other than that, you know,
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Speaker 1: I'm a part of the community and I love being
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Speaker 1: a part of the metro.
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Speaker 2: That comity absolutely well. Thank you for being here, Thank
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Speaker 2: you both for being here. And I want to dive
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Speaker 2: right into uncomfortable situations? Why the name? First and foremost,
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Speaker 2: how did you guys come up with the name uncomfortable situations?
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Speaker 3: That's all Jade? Uh. I can't think the credit for that.
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Speaker 3: That's Jane. That was all j But when she said it,
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Speaker 3: I knew it was the right name.
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Speaker 2: All right, Jane. Sometime know what birth? Uncomfortable situation?
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Speaker 3: Okame?
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Speaker 1: Can I guess?
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Speaker 3: Said?
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Speaker 1: Before? You know, I'm a former service member as well,
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Speaker 1: and I spent the number of years in the military
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Speaker 1: serving our great country that we live in. But in
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Speaker 1: the midst of me serving my country and everything, being
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Speaker 1: a human, I've experienced some I was standing uncomfortable situations.
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Speaker 1: And I'll tell you those uncomfortable situations. My life should
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Speaker 1: have been a drama y a movie or something, you know,
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Speaker 1: or one thing about uncomfortable situations. They have to be addressed,
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Speaker 1: they have to be discussed. You know, people oftentime, like
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Speaker 1: to goal behind. Odie Kane said like this. Odie Kane
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Speaker 1: said like that.
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Speaker 3: I had two.
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Speaker 1: Grandmothers who were very non traditional women, and whatever came
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Speaker 1: to their head came out of their moms. And much
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Speaker 1: respect to my grandmother's I learned from those strong women.
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Speaker 1: It's the reason why they addressed everything that was uncomfortable.
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Speaker 1: Anything that was uncomfortable. None of my grandmothers they were
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Speaker 1: not sham of.
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Speaker 3: Absolutely well.
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Speaker 2: I love the name of uncomfortable situations because we've all
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Speaker 2: been there. I think that the audience can relate to
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Speaker 2: how uncomfortable those uncomfortable situations can get. And the fact
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Speaker 2: that you guys are bringing this platform to give some
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Speaker 2: people a voice or allowed them to shed some light
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Speaker 2: on comforable situations. Aside from you guys, you know, being
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Speaker 2: advocates in the community and pillars of the community. Uh,
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Speaker 2: former service member, what can listeners expect from this dynamic
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Speaker 2: duo of Jade and Simon.
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Speaker 1: We'll get to the point and get to the point.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think, yeah, we are, we're a whole
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Speaker 3: lot of life. But then we're different and we're I
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Speaker 3: think what they will get most about is the real
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Speaker 3: honesty and no sugar coat anything. We will discussed things
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Speaker 3: that maybe some people want to talk about but maybe
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Speaker 3: afraid to talk about. We want to get that information
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Speaker 3: out there. You know, every situation is different, and most
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Speaker 3: of them in the time that we live in now,
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Speaker 3: things are uncomfortable. Uh, we're literally I come from a
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Speaker 3: ja We come from a generation that we were told
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Speaker 3: not to talk about. Yeah, especially being running things that
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Speaker 3: we shouldn't discuss, things that may be you know, viewed
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Speaker 3: into society maybe unladylike we shouldn't you know, we shouldn't
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Speaker 3: talk about. But I think, like you said, you put
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Speaker 3: things out on the table, and put things out there.
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Speaker 3: They have to be addressed, and we're just gonna address
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Speaker 3: some things that they wouldn't expect to be addressed. You know,
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Speaker 3: we may start off a little luke warm, but we're
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Speaker 3: gonna heat up toward the end.
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Speaker 2: Absolute bit. I love it. What are some key messages
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Speaker 2: you guys wish a hope that the listeners gain by
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Speaker 2: tuning in too uncomfortable situation.
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Speaker 1: Well, I want women to understand that, you know, for them,
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Speaker 1: women to embrace the atonomy. You're autonomy, you know, embrace
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Speaker 1: being independent. You know, don't worry about it. If you're single,
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Speaker 1: don't worry about it. If you man free, Embrace your
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Speaker 1: God given autonomy, your independent decision to be a woman,
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Speaker 1: and your independent decision to not having to ask anybody
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Speaker 1: to do anything.
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Speaker 3: You just do it.
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Speaker 1: Take the money out the bank, do what you want
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Speaker 1: to do with your money out the bank. You don't
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Speaker 1: have to ask anybody. Embrace your time, embrace your independence.
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Speaker 3: And you know, and I agree, absolutely agree with Jade
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Speaker 3: on that. And I want women also to be not
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Speaker 3: to be able to stand uh and just believe, you know,
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Speaker 3: have your own beliefs. It's okay to be different.
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Speaker 1: You know.
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Speaker 3: A lot of times women you feel like we have
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Speaker 3: to fit within this box or we have to fit
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Speaker 3: within this within these boundaries. Hey, color on the outside
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Speaker 3: of the lines, and you don't have to be on
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Speaker 3: the inside of the lines anymore. So I've learned in
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Speaker 3: the last couple of years, on probably the last four
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Speaker 3: and a half, that I have to live my length
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Speaker 3: the way I want to live it. I can't live
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Speaker 3: to make everybody. It's okay to make yourself happy, and
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Speaker 3: you might make some people uncomfortable, make them unhappy, you know,
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Speaker 3: So to do that that's one of the things that's
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Speaker 3: my major thing for me personally. What I want to
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Speaker 3: bring the calls to the women that listen in.
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Speaker 2: Okay, so I see you guys are targeting women as
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Speaker 2: your your targeted audience, right, So, do you guys have
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Speaker 2: anything for the men? Are y'all gonna discriminate and just
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Speaker 2: pour into the ladies or candom? Is this something that
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Speaker 2: the men can tune in too as well? Well?
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Speaker 1: The men can tune in, you know, I agree, you know,
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Speaker 1: I agree they may learn something because it's a lot
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Speaker 1: that they don't know. And lately I've been hit with
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Speaker 1: quite a few questions from different men. Just in the
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Speaker 1: month of July.
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Speaker 3: About four different men are like, why is.
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Speaker 1: It that women are choosing to be alone?
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Speaker 3: Now?
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Speaker 1: I ain't never seen it like this before, when women
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Speaker 1: wan to be by themselves. I've heard that four times
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Speaker 1: in the month of July.
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Speaker 2: What What was your answer?
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Speaker 3: What did you tell them?
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Speaker 1: I told them, you know, pretty much, I say women
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Speaker 1: are embracing themselves and say, you know, we're tired of being.
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Speaker 3: Told what to do.
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Speaker 1: You know sometime, you know, we gave y'all the upper
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Speaker 1: hand to lead us. You didn't take us to even
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Speaker 1: get a drink of water. You did not lead us
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Speaker 1: to get a drink of water, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: And how can the I you know, tell a woman
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Speaker 1: who knows how to manage her finances and everything. And then,
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Speaker 1: by the way, while women get in with these men
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Speaker 1: who don't know how to manage finances, and she know
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Speaker 1: how to manage finances, and all he gonna.
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Speaker 3: Do is use her to get him straight.
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Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, he gonna be with the one
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Speaker 1: he can get who who had nothing to help him
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Speaker 1: field it up. And you know that this can go
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Speaker 1: on and on and on.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what you have to say about it
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Speaker 2: to my own I know you said that they can
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Speaker 2: learn something.
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Speaker 3: But the men that, as James, I think, men, a
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Speaker 3: lot of men don't really know what it's the essence
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Speaker 3: of a woman, you know, what it is, what our
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Speaker 3: true needs are, or they don't know how to find
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Speaker 3: out what our needs are, what our desires are. So
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Speaker 3: they think that, you know, they provide for you and
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Speaker 3: that's it. But it's so much more to that. A
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Speaker 3: lot of you know, men, you know that I've come across,
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Speaker 3: they don't they really, I just don't know. They just
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Speaker 3: know that a man is supposed to have a woman,
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Speaker 3: you know, but it's so much more of it, you know,
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Speaker 3: And a lot of us are beginning to find our
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Speaker 3: independence and they don't understand that we can be independent
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Speaker 3: and still if you choose, we so choose to be
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Speaker 3: in a relationship or be married, but we also meet
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Speaker 3: our independence to an extent, and that doesn't separate us
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Speaker 3: from them, but we need that to feel for me
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Speaker 3: to feel complete or feel whole. So that's why I'm
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Speaker 3: at this point in life where I don't feel like
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Speaker 3: I have to have a husband. I don't think I
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Speaker 3: ever will have another husband. It's not on my to
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Speaker 3: do list, it's not on my bucket list. I've been married,
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Speaker 3: you know. And I said over and over again, I
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Speaker 3: had a tragedy early in life. That's what I call it,
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Speaker 3: because that's what it was for me. It may not
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Speaker 3: have been that way for other women, but it was
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Speaker 3: that way for me. But I want people to understand, maybe,
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Speaker 3: you know, I know there are other women like me
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Speaker 3: that feel the way I feel, but a lot of
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Speaker 3: them are afraid. So I want men to know that
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Speaker 3: it doesn't make us any less of a woman because
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Speaker 3: we don't want those typical are traditional relationships with a man,
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Speaker 3: but sometimes we just want to beat us. We want
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Speaker 3: to have a chance to grow to see who we are,
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Speaker 3: who we are from inside out, not outside in.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, that was beautiful, there was it was beautifully said.
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Speaker 2: I love that, and I love that you stand in
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Speaker 2: your truth. And for a lot of women, that probably
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Speaker 2: is an uncomfortable situation for them to talk about the
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Speaker 2: fact that you're comfortable not being married anymore.
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Speaker 3: You And I'm gonna say this about other women. I
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Speaker 3: find that a lot of women have a tendency to
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Speaker 3: make women like myself feel like we are not that
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Speaker 3: something's wrong with me, you know, because I don't want
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Speaker 3: to be married. It's absolutely nothing wrong with me. You know,
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Speaker 3: I just don't want.
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Speaker 2: To be married.
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Speaker 3: I've been married. It's you know, I'm a firm believer
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Speaker 3: that that piece of paper doesn't validate a relationship for
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Speaker 3: me now with somebody. I can't tell anybody else what
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Speaker 3: the feeling and think, but I'm quite I know there
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Speaker 3: are other women that feel like I.
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Speaker 1: Do and they're afraid to say it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, to see and by other most times by other women,
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Speaker 3: not so much men.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, some other women can be some cutthroat behind that.
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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, absolutely absolutely, But I love I love the
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Speaker 2: fact that you guys decided to do a podcast. Now,
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Speaker 2: you know, you could have done a radio show. You
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Speaker 2: could have just gone live on Facebook or Instagram. What
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Speaker 2: prompted the actual podcast? How did you say, day Simon, Hey,
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Speaker 2: let's just turn this into a podcast. How did that
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Speaker 2: all all happen? Well?
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Speaker 1: Look, some all, okay, some of been knowing me. We've
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Speaker 1: been knowing each other for quite a while, right, and
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Speaker 1: you know, through different people around the community, and so
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Speaker 1: we've been Facebook friends for quite some time. So someon
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Speaker 1: been looking at some of the stuff I'll be posting
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Speaker 1: on Facebook, and yes, I talked just like both of
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Speaker 1: my grandmothers on Facebook, and so same was like, we
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Speaker 1: need to get together and do a podcast, and that's
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Speaker 1: all of it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, looks it's been about a year ago. Almost
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Speaker 3: said yeah, yeah about it. Yes, here you know, and
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Speaker 3: started talking about together and here we are, and I'm
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Speaker 3: so excited. Look, I'm so excited about it.
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Speaker 2: So I know that it's about to make his debut.
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Speaker 2: And before we get into that, to tell the listeners
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Speaker 2: how they can tune in and everything like that. I
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Speaker 2: want to ask a question, what has been an uncomfortable
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Speaker 2: situation of yours that has shaped your life thus far?
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Speaker 1: Hmmm, I'll tell you my second of us is really
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Speaker 1: the stain, the catalysts and everything that gave me the motivation.
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Speaker 1: Not saying I didn't have a choice, but because always
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Speaker 1: I came into a marriage being an independent woman. But
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Speaker 1: this right here said don't do that again. So that's
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Speaker 1: why Simon and are a lot of light marriage for me.
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Speaker 1: Not doing that again, that's it.
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Speaker 3: It's over with.
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Speaker 1: Wow, that's shape that has that had a lot to do.
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Speaker 1: I look at ment in a different way because see
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Speaker 1: I learned to pay attention to certain things. Now I
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Speaker 1: know how to identify red flags. And now I don't mind,
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Speaker 1: you know, if I don't go out on no date
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Speaker 1: or anything, I'm happy. I'm I'm good with that. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: because I wasn't born with a twin and look, only
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Speaker 1: one person could fit in the casket anyway, You're right,
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Speaker 1: I'm for me.
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Speaker 3: The most uncomfortable situation for me is the fact that
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Speaker 3: being in a company. You know, I was married young
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Speaker 3: and been the divorce going into in December to be
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Speaker 3: twenty twenty two, years in December. So I've been without
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Speaker 3: a husband for a long time, but I've been I've
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Speaker 3: had relationships, but I think the most uncomfortable thing for
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Speaker 3: me is the last relationship that I was in. You know,
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Speaker 3: gone ho about being married and I didn't. I made
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Speaker 3: it clear at the beginning it was not on my agenda.
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Speaker 3: And I think the most uncomfortable thing was being you know,
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Speaker 3: having to walk away from that because you know, I
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Speaker 3: don't want to be pressured, you know, every day, every
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Speaker 3: you know, that's what the conversation ends up. You know, why,
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Speaker 3: what's wrong with you? What women wouldn't want to And
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Speaker 3: that was very uncomfortable for me. So I had to
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Speaker 3: cut times, I had to just walk completely away. It's
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Speaker 3: no being friends, none of that, because it just was
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Speaker 3: never going to end. It was that was, like recently,
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Speaker 3: the most uncomfortable situation for me.
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Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, I believe that it would have been
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Speaker 2: very uncomfortable for me as well. I think the most
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Speaker 2: uncomfortable situation I have ever been in is realizing that
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Speaker 2: I need to stay out of my parents' business because
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Speaker 2: they had a lot of uncomfortable situations that happened that
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Speaker 2: we saw as kids, and they are still together married
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Speaker 2: almost fifty years, and what works for them doesn't work
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Speaker 2: for everybody, and they still genuinely love each other. They
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Speaker 2: decide to move past those uncomfortable situations. So I just
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Speaker 2: had to look and say, you know what, I just
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Speaker 2: need to mind my business because they love it. If
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Speaker 2: they like it, I love it.
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Speaker 3: So to speak.
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Speaker 2: Now, I said that they had so much going on
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Speaker 2: where if it was me, I probably wouldn't stay. But
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Speaker 2: it was just some of the dynamics in the relationship
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Speaker 2: I just wouldn't want for a relationship myself. Yeah, can
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Speaker 2: you guys share like a couple of topics that the
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Speaker 2: listeners can't expect to listen to are here? Uh? In
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Speaker 2: the first season of Uncomfortable Situations, anything that stands out
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Speaker 2: to you.
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Speaker 3: Guys, Uh, my favorite probably will be a huge woman
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Speaker 3: is dangerous? Yeah, I like that one.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know that that that that that was like
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Speaker 4: the one for me because I think and I guess
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Speaker 4: I'm giving a little bit of the episode, but one
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Speaker 4: of the things we discussed with in that episode was
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Speaker 4: why a lot of men go after that woman that's
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Speaker 4: not healed?
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Speaker 3: You know? And I see that a lot a lot.
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Speaker 2: And guys, we're not we're not gonna we're not telling
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Speaker 2: about the episode.
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Speaker 3: Uh you know, I'm just saying that's one of the things,
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Speaker 3: like you have to you have to tune in, and
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Speaker 3: we're about to tell.
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Speaker 2: Y'all how y'all can tune in and all of the
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Speaker 2: show and things like that. But but what about you, Jay,
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Speaker 2: Like what what are what can can you name like
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Speaker 2: a topic that stands out to you that listeners can
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Speaker 2: be ready to like explore with you guys to join
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Speaker 2: in on the conversation.
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Speaker 1: Oh, you know, things like marriage wants to go?
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Speaker 3: But was it the prize?
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Speaker 2: Oh? I can't wait for that one. I cannot wait
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Speaker 2: for that one. Mm hm wow like that? Okay, scratch
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Speaker 2: my scratch myself right there.
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I like that And I like that.
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Speaker 2: I tell all the tell the people of Kick It
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Speaker 2: Withakiki how they can become people of uncomfortable situations working
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Speaker 2: they tune in. I know that you guys are going
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Speaker 2: to be doing something amazing where where listeners can write
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Speaker 2: in like email to the show about topics and things
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Speaker 2: like that. I know you're gonna have some things that
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Speaker 2: you're doing live, you know, to promote the show and
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Speaker 2: stuff like that. So you guys tell the listeners of
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Speaker 2: Kicking It with Kiki how they can become the listeners
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Speaker 2: of Uncomfortable Situations.
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Speaker 3: Okay, So the first episode launches August fifth, six point
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Speaker 3: thirty pm, and it's be a Spreaker dot com or
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Speaker 3: they can go over to Rebirthmagazine dot com and it
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Speaker 3: will be a tab there to also to click and
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Speaker 3: listen in. But also Sunday evenings, Jada and I will
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Speaker 3: go live for about ten fifteen minutes and talk about
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Speaker 3: you know some you know some topics. You can voice
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Speaker 3: your opinion via the live or be Facebook live if
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Speaker 3: you follow Jade or myself on social media, but uh,
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Speaker 3: we'll put it out there on social media. So Uncomfortable
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Speaker 3: Situations at gmail dot com. If you're interested in being
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Speaker 3: a guest, or you have a topic that you would
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Speaker 3: like to talk about, us to talk about something you'd
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Speaker 3: like for us to make a lot of people uncomfortable about.
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Speaker 3: So that's Uncomfortable Situations at Gmail dot com. Uh, the
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Speaker 3: show will be the Streaker, which is s p R
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Speaker 3: E a k e R dot com or Rebirth Magazine
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Speaker 3: dot com. First show O SPIF six thirty p m.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I love it. I love it and and and
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Speaker 2: I know that Spreaker does have like mass platform district
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Speaker 2: district distribute.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we have an actual page on Streaker and
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Speaker 3: distributed to all of the all the you know platforms,
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Speaker 3: you know Google. iHeart I whole nine, right, absolutely anything
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Speaker 3: that you guys would like to share about.
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Speaker 2: Uncomfortable situations thus far, Like how has the journey of
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Speaker 2: recording coming up with topics, research and all of that.
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Speaker 2: How has that been?
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Speaker 1: We'll go ahead, Jay, It's been fun and humbling at
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Speaker 1: the same time. But they have to do is pay
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Speaker 1: attention to life. And uh we all snap think a
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Speaker 1: snap away from being in on situation, right, you know.
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Speaker 3: And some of us create our situations, and that you know,
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Speaker 3: we create our own madness. And you know, some people
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Speaker 3: want a misory. But a few of my uncomfortable situations,
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Speaker 3: most of them, I've created them for myself. So I'm
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Speaker 3: trying to have to learn from that. And I'm hoping
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Speaker 3: that this podcasts even can assist me in learning, you know,
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Speaker 3: how to like you said, red flags, how to embrace
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Speaker 3: situations and you know before they get to that uncomfortable
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Speaker 3: uh place.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, and accountability too. You know, when we can
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Speaker 1: look at and say, well, hey, you know, I did
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Speaker 1: make mess for myself. That's growth and accountability also, right.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, anything that you can take ownership of knowing that
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Speaker 2: you did it, yeah, that is accountability and personal growth.
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Speaker 2: What can the new listeners expect when they tune in
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Speaker 2: for the first episode, like what makes the podcast spand
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Speaker 2: out for others in your opinion, Like, what can they
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Speaker 2: expect when they tune into uncomfortable situations for the first time?
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Speaker 3: I think because we have regular people, the ladies that
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Speaker 3: are our guests, they're regular everyday people that are relatable.
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Speaker 3: They're not women that are prominent women, they're not same
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Speaker 3: as women. They are regular everyday women that our listeners
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Speaker 3: can relate to. I think that's the first thing that
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Speaker 3: they will realize in listening that we just we just
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Speaker 3: you know, just regular women, just everyday women that have
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Speaker 3: gone through life who experiences That's basically what I think
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Speaker 3: the first thing will be. You know, they'll saying, hey,
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Speaker 3: you know that lady's a lot like me, or I
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Speaker 3: know somebody like her. Somebody absolutely did that. You know
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Speaker 3: that's overcome that, you know that's in that right now,
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Speaker 3: in that situation, So relate that the relatability is one
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Speaker 3: of the first things they'll get from it. And inclusion.
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Speaker 1: You know, when we include, we get you know, knowing
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Speaker 1: who they are. The audiences, you know, with their feedback
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Speaker 1: and everything that will help us with that de generate
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Speaker 1: more inclusion.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think any audience that feels included will become
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Speaker 2: like like regular show. You know, they're listening, they'll tell
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Speaker 2: their friends they're promoting things like that, because everybody want
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Speaker 2: to just feel like they're a part of something, and
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Speaker 2: they may not want to become a part of the
23:37
Speaker 2: conversation on screen or you know, behind the mic, but
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Speaker 2: them being in the comments, are sending the emails letting
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Speaker 2: you know, hey, I think you should talk about this topic.
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Speaker 2: Or I have a friend that went through this situation
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Speaker 2: and I let her listen to I told her about
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Speaker 2: your podcast. She listened to it and it actually gave
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Speaker 2: her some insight in revelation and now she's better from it.
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Speaker 2: So that's the I love. I love that that is
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Speaker 2: the essence of uncomfortable situations. And just to put it
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Speaker 2: out there, Kikiki Media is the producer of the show.
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Speaker 2: So I'm so.
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Speaker 3: Excited about that. Thank you guys for trusting the vision
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Speaker 3: to me, uh that I'm just waiting.
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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm super excited about that. Anything else that you
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Speaker 2: guys would like to uh talk about as far as
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Speaker 2: like uncomfortable situations are concerned.
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Speaker 3: I just want everybody just to tune in and support us,
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Speaker 3: you know, sharing, give us some feedback, email us, you know,
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Speaker 3: let us know what you're like, but you didn't like
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Speaker 3: we want honestly, we want to know what we're not right.
24:47
Speaker 3: We could do things we shouldn't do. And you know,
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Speaker 3: even with the topics the topic, the topic has topics
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Speaker 3: have no limits. You know, we're not saying no to
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Speaker 3: yeah any because we want we want to be that
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Speaker 3: platform where people can voice their opinions or either it
25:02
Speaker 3: can be a far far out, far left, far right,
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Speaker 3: but we want it all. We want to we want
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Speaker 3: to bring it all.
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Speaker 1: And like Kekey saying, you know, people like to be
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Speaker 1: a part of something, you.
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Speaker 3: Know, m hm mm hmm.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm super excited. Tell the people again when
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Speaker 2: they can catch the first episode and the first live
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Speaker 2: because I know you be y'all, y'all gonna go live,
25:28
Speaker 2: you know that Sunday before each episode airs. How often
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Speaker 2: will each episode air just pull the podcast and let
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Speaker 2: them know when they can expect to have a new
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Speaker 2: episode of Uncomfortable Situation.
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Speaker 1: So what we got every Tuesday, Every Tuesday at six
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Speaker 1: thirty pm.
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Speaker 2: And then and the lives before them Live Days.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, we got Linda at six thirty Yeah, okay, and
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Speaker 3: we're gonna be just you know, just talking about what
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Speaker 3: that Tuesday.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.
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Speaker 2: So when you guys listen to this podcast, the first
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Speaker 2: episode of Uncomfortable Situations would have aired because Kicking the
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Speaker 2: Waikiki air on Thursday, their podcast air on Tuesday, so
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Speaker 2: you guys won't see this episode until the first episode
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Speaker 2: of Uncomfortable Situations is released. So I would love for
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Speaker 2: you to come back when you watch this show to
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Speaker 2: voice your opinions, your your feedback and things of how
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Speaker 2: you enjoyed the show, what you think can be done
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Speaker 2: but more, or send an email to Uncomfortable Situations at
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Speaker 2: gmail dot com so we can be in the know.
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Speaker 2: Constructive criticism is necessary in the podcast industry because it
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Speaker 2: teaches us what the audience like dislike, and it helps
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Speaker 2: us grow. So please do it respectfully because I think
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Speaker 2: all all three of us we will we will get
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Speaker 2: you together. If you come at us wrong for real,
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Speaker 2: believe that all in love? Though all in love, all
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Speaker 2: in love. But you guys have been listening to another
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Speaker 2: episode of Kicking Wikiki, Life, Love and all that other shit.
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Speaker 2: I am your host, Kiki. I have been joined with
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Speaker 2: the co host of Uncomfortable Situations, Simone and Jaye. Make
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Speaker 2: sure you support these sisters in the endeavor that they
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Speaker 2: are on. It is going to be an amazing journey,
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Speaker 2: a freeing journey, an uncomfortable journey, but a necessary journey.
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Speaker 2: So make sure you tune in every Tuesday at six
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Speaker 2: thirty pm on all major podcasts streaming platforms. We're gonna
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Speaker 2: be getting into some video for next season, so we
27:38
Speaker 2: already thinking forward, so there will be another season before
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Speaker 2: this season even airs. That's just what we do. But
27:48
Speaker 2: before we actually go any other comments, any words to
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Speaker 2: the Kicking Wikiki listeners or anything like that about embracing
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Speaker 2: and going through the process of those uncomfortable cities situations.
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Speaker 1: Get ready to get uncomfortable.
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Speaker 3: Look, can you say, like my good friend Anita Tape
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Speaker 3: to say, all gas and no breaks, get ready I love.
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Speaker 2: I love her? Yes, all gas, little breaks. Get ready
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Speaker 2: to be uncomfortable y'all hit it here here on, kick
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Speaker 2: it the WITHI, Kiki, life, love and all that other shit.
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Speaker 2: Until next time, you make sure that you prepare yourself
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Speaker 2: to be uncomfortable. There is no growth in being in comfort,
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Speaker 2: so in order to elevate, you have to go through
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Speaker 2: those uncomfortable situations. They are not always pretty, but they
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Speaker 2: are necessary in order to empower yourself as well as
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Speaker 2: elevate yourself mind, body, and spirit. So next time, perfect
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Speaker 2: HUDs later