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Selena likes her client. · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Hi, Selena.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Hey guys. So Hi, I'm just calling for some advice.
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  Speaker 2: I started a new job as a trainer and I'm
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  Speaker 2: starting to build up my clientele and luckily I actually
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  Speaker 2: got it my first client. He's a guy, and I
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  Speaker 2: feel like he's like we have a really good rapport,
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  Speaker 2: bordering on really flirty, and I feel like he might
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  Speaker 2: ask me out. And I'm kind of nervous about it
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  Speaker 2: because I don't know if that's okay, Like I with
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  Speaker 2: my job, I don't. I think it's kind of frowned upon,
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  Speaker 2: you know, for to fraten froognize with the people that
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  Speaker 2: you're training. So I just wanted to get your take on.
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  Speaker 1: It, like a personal trainer for exercise, that kind of training.
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  Speaker 3: Don't do it, don't do it good bag and force
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  Speaker 3: and like we have.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of fun. I actually really like him a client.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: I think this is very common because I think I
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  Speaker 1: saw something about the people that are the most promiscuous
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  Speaker 1: jobs are like bartenders and trainers, like I.
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  Speaker 2: Think, I mean, we do a lot of stretching things
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  Speaker 2: like that.
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  Speaker 1: So in therapy it's like your your trainer. You open
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  Speaker 1: up and share so many things. You become so close,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so I could.
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  Speaker 2: See you like at your best self too.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, So if he likes you and you like him,
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  Speaker 1: I would say do it.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like it's a bad idea if.
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  Speaker 1: I think if you really really like him, if you don't,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a bad idea too. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: this is very comfortable. Well, you've said many things. I
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  Speaker 1: think it's a bad idea, but I also think you
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  Speaker 1: never know if it works out or not, Like now
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  Speaker 1: you know you don't you don't want to date a coworker,
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  Speaker 1: but I married my coworker, so it's like nowadays.
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  Speaker 2: See that's the thing. I really do need a job,
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  Speaker 2: but I also would like to find the love of
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  Speaker 2: my life.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like love islands, taking applications, just go there.
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  Speaker 3: But I would also create, like, I don't know a
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  Speaker 3: level of insecurity for him in the relationship because that's
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  Speaker 3: how you met.
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  Speaker 1: And so anytime you now train.
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  Speaker 3: A dude, he's going to be like, oh it.
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  Speaker 1: Could's right, that's right. Are you attracted to him?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: I totally am, yeah, totally, but I've been very professional,
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  Speaker 2: like I haven't crossed the line or anything.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what you do. You tell him Okay, if you
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  Speaker 1: if you don't even know if he's going to ask
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  Speaker 1: you out, by the way, so you could be not
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  Speaker 1: reading the room right. But let's say he does ask
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  Speaker 1: you out. You say, look, I have a policy, right,
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  Speaker 1: don't want to try. I don't want to date the
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  Speaker 1: people that train. Right now, you are my only client.
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  Speaker 1: So if you find me a new client, then I
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  Speaker 1: will fire you and we can go to dinner.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of like that. Then I can see how
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  Speaker 2: much he actually likes me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, a little confusing for that would help with the
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  Speaker 1: insecurity layer, Like I have the policy, I'm not dating.
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  Speaker 1: That's right bound all right, Selena, good luck, keep us posted.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for listening.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you,