Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / SMNTY Classics: Sports Boobs
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stuff
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'll Never Told You, a production of iHeartRadio, and today
- 0:19Speaker 1: I wanted to bring back a classic about sports spras. Interestingly,
- 0:25Speaker 1: I wanted to bring this back to revisit what is
- 0:29Speaker 1: going on in the world of the Women's World Cup.
- 0:32Speaker 1: But you beat me to it, Samantha with the Monday Minnie.
- 0:36Speaker 1: But we have been talking a lot about sports and
- 0:38Speaker 1: about sports uniforms, which we did talk about in that
- 0:41Speaker 1: episode we did with Whitney about women's soccer and women's
- 0:45Speaker 1: shorts in particular, and this was an episode I remember
- 0:49Speaker 1: editing in being my mind being blown. I didn't realize
- 0:55Speaker 1: so much of this, and definitely during the pandemic. If
- 1:01Speaker 1: I wear a bra, it's a sports bra almost always.
- 1:07Speaker 2: Gotta be comfortable.
- 1:09Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But there's also a lot of talk. I
- 1:13Speaker 1: know I mentioned this before, but there's a lot of
- 1:16Speaker 1: talking here. And there has been a lot of talk
- 1:18Speaker 1: recently about so called gintimidation for women and feeling like
- 1:25Speaker 1: they can't go to the gym and feeling like they
- 1:28Speaker 1: need to look a certain way if they do go.
- 1:31Speaker 1: And me, when I was in middle school and all
- 1:35Speaker 1: of the boys giving his names based on mountainous states
- 1:41Speaker 1: and the size of our boobs. So I just remember
- 1:46Speaker 1: editing this episode and being like, yes, yes, So please
- 1:53Speaker 1: enjoy this classic episode.
- 1:58Speaker 3: Welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told from houstuff Works dot com.
- 2:08Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Caroline,
- 2:11Speaker 4: and today we're talking about.
- 2:13Speaker 2: Boobs in motion, boobs, sweating boobs, bouncing boobs, exercising, boobs.
- 2:21Speaker 4: On the move, boobs on the move and on the
- 2:25Speaker 4: move they are.
- 2:26Speaker 5: Because we're gonna get I don't want to, I'm not
- 2:28Speaker 5: gonna spoil it, but there is a factual tidbit in
- 2:32Speaker 5: this episode that involves the car and it's blowing my
- 2:38Speaker 5: mind and I can't wait to blow y'all's minds too.
- 2:40Speaker 5: Because boobs when you move, they move even faster.
- 2:44Speaker 4: Breasts are incredible.
- 2:45Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go ahead and say they're incredible. But
- 2:47Speaker 2: they can also make exercising incredibly challenging, oh for sure.
- 2:53Speaker 2: And this episode was inspired by research that I just
- 3:00Speaker 2: mumbled across of how there are now two and only
- 3:05Speaker 2: two studies looking at how breasts and our breast size influence.
- 3:12Speaker 4: Women and girls' likelihood to exercise. Yeah.
- 3:15Speaker 5: Well, I it's funny that we had like boob research kismet,
- 3:18Speaker 5: I think because just further proving that you and I
- 3:22Speaker 5: are somehow connected at the brainstem. Because around the same
- 3:25Speaker 5: time that you were stumbling across this research, I was
- 3:27Speaker 5: separately having a conversation with someone else about how lady
- 3:32Speaker 5: golfers frequently have to change their stance or have a
- 3:37Speaker 5: different stance than male golfers because of their breasts getting
- 3:41Speaker 5: in the way of their swing.
- 3:43Speaker 2: Yeah, there was this golf commentator who was quoted in
- 3:48Speaker 2: one of the pieces I was reading from like nineteen
- 3:50Speaker 2: ninety five, where during an LPGA.
- 3:55Speaker 4: Event he said on television, yeah, how women's boobs just
- 4:00Speaker 4: get in the way, just like straight up said it.
- 4:04Speaker 4: And the thing entirely rong.
- 4:06Speaker 2: I know, the thing is like cringe reading that, But
- 4:09Speaker 2: then at the same time it's like, well, you mean
- 4:12Speaker 2: you do have a point, And the thing is it
- 4:14Speaker 2: is time we pay a lot more attention to our breasts,
- 4:19Speaker 2: whether we are exercising casually just for health and fitness,
- 4:24Speaker 2: all the way up to professional sports like a professional golfer.
- 4:29Speaker 2: And by pay attention to I don't mean, of course
- 4:32Speaker 2: just aggling breasts, because that is one deterrent of people
- 4:36Speaker 2: not wanting to exercise.
- 4:37Speaker 4: Yeah, that's already, we've got that covered.
- 4:40Speaker 5: Yeah, the oggling of boobs, it's already.
- 4:43Speaker 4: We're good. Yeah, we're good on that end.
- 4:45Speaker 2: But it's time for us to pay closer attention to
- 4:50Speaker 2: figuring out how to vault over exercises boob barrier because
- 4:56Speaker 2: there's a there's a breast barrier there.
- 4:58Speaker 4: And as a small.
- 5:00Speaker 2: Woman, I think this is why the research was so
- 5:04Speaker 2: surprising to me. Not that I couldn't imagine how that
- 5:08Speaker 2: was a barrier, but it's just something that I don't
- 5:11Speaker 2: have to think about all that much.
- 5:14Speaker 4: I jog and I can.
- 5:15Speaker 2: Wear a compression sports bra and I'm good. But not
- 5:19Speaker 2: the case for women who have more than my acups.
- 5:23Speaker 5: Yeah, boob bounce is one of the more painful things
- 5:28Speaker 5: that I have felt. And I don't think you have
- 5:31Speaker 5: to be like a double h to feel that way.
- 5:33Speaker 5: I mean, I think boobs of any size bouncing hurts.
- 5:37Speaker 4: It's uncomfortable.
- 5:39Speaker 5: Literally, if I see a woman jogging down the side
- 5:41Speaker 5: of the road and there's a lot of boob bounceage,
- 5:45Speaker 5: my first thought is like, oh God, the pain, the pain.
- 5:49Speaker 5: I can like feel it it's like telegraphed onto my body.
- 5:52Speaker 4: I can feel it.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Yeah, and if I'm not wearing a bra and I'm
- 5:56Speaker 2: running around, which you know what it happens sometime times people.
- 6:02Speaker 4: Yeah, extureing you just running in a circle in your apartment.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Pretty much, that's how I get my feminist rage out.
- 6:08Speaker 2: I'd throw my bra off and just run in circles.
- 6:11Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, my even my very small breaths
- 6:15Speaker 2: will experience that kind of pain too. I mean, boob
- 6:18Speaker 2: bounce pain I think is pretty universal.
- 6:21Speaker 5: I mean, if there's one thing we do not need
- 6:23Speaker 5: as women and girls, it is another barrier to exercise
- 6:27Speaker 5: and to physical activity. Because there's some pretty disheartening stats
- 6:31Speaker 5: out there.
- 6:32Speaker 4: For instance, by the age of fourteen.
- 6:34Speaker 5: Girls are dropping out of sports at twice the rate
- 6:38Speaker 5: that boys are.
- 6:39Speaker 2: And a lot of times the explanation for that, the
- 6:42Speaker 2: go to explanations are, oh, well, girls become a lot
- 6:45Speaker 2: more self conscious with puberty. They are not as interested
- 6:50Speaker 2: in becoming like fit and potentially muscular, but they're more
- 6:54Speaker 2: concerned about like beauty appearance.
- 6:57Speaker 4: And that might be the case.
- 6:59Speaker 2: But looking at the study we're about to I think
- 7:03Speaker 2: there's more boob to it. Than that, and outside of
- 7:07Speaker 2: organized sports, according to statistics from the Centers for Disease
- 7:12Speaker 2: Control and Prevention, less than twenty percent of high school
- 7:15Speaker 2: girls are getting their recommended amount of daily physical activity.
- 7:18Speaker 4: And even that is half of what boys are getting.
- 7:23Speaker 2: So like across the board, boys are exercising more.
- 7:26Speaker 5: Yeah, and this is not only bad for just general
- 7:30Speaker 5: health and establishing healthy, happy habits when you're a young person,
- 7:34Speaker 5: but it also stinks because exercise is good for our
- 7:37Speaker 5: breast health as well. It's not just making sure that
- 7:40Speaker 5: you're a healthy weight and that you're fighting anxiety and
- 7:43Speaker 5: depression with some good old physical activity, but your boobs
- 7:46Speaker 5: could benefit from some moving around as well. And that's
- 7:48Speaker 5: according to the Cleveland Clinic, women who get plenty of
- 7:53Speaker 5: exercise are twenty five percent less likely to develop breast cancer.
- 7:58Speaker 5: Because good solid exercise, getting your daily recommended exercise can
- 8:03Speaker 5: boost your immune function, it can ward off obesity, and
- 8:07Speaker 5: it can lower levels of both estrogen and insulin, and
- 8:11Speaker 5: not to mention, it strengthens our bones and our hearts,
- 8:14Speaker 5: which is very important for our holistic health as well,
- 8:16Speaker 5: since women suffer far more from osteoporosis and heart disease
- 8:21Speaker 5: is the number one killer of women, right, And so
- 8:25Speaker 5: while exercise can help your mental health, your obviously your
- 8:30Speaker 5: physical health, it can help improve body image when you
- 8:32Speaker 5: feel stronger and more empowered. Your body image and your
- 8:37Speaker 5: confidence can suffer if you feel like you can't exercise
- 8:41Speaker 5: well or enough because your boobs are.
- 8:44Speaker 4: Bouncing too much.
- 8:45Speaker 5: And I mean that sounds silly, but like like we said,
- 8:48Speaker 5: boob bounce can be painful, and more than being painful,
- 8:51Speaker 5: it can also just draw unwanted attention, especially if you're
- 8:54Speaker 5: one of those younger girls who's already a little bit
- 8:57Speaker 5: self conscious.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean, and girl in general are developing
- 9:03Speaker 2: larger breasts earlier and at higher rates than they used
- 9:07Speaker 2: to be. So this is something I mean, as soon
- 9:09Speaker 2: as you become like aware of your developing body and
- 9:13Speaker 2: how our developing body particularly are breasts are so immediately
- 9:17Speaker 2: sexualized that can become a source of shame. And if
- 9:23Speaker 2: we look though, just at the biomechanics of breast, it's incredible.
- 9:30Speaker 2: This is what I mean when I say that breasts
- 9:31Speaker 2: are incredible. And Caroline, please share your car fact.
- 9:36Speaker 4: This is my favorite little tidbit.
- 9:39Speaker 5: So you know, Kristin did mention that boobs and their
- 9:45Speaker 5: movement and how they move has not been studied overly
- 9:48Speaker 5: much yet, but one more recent study found that nipples
- 9:55Speaker 5: on a c or decup breast, when you as a
- 9:58Speaker 5: person are moving, they can accelerate up to forty five
- 10:03Speaker 5: miles per hour in one second, which, my friends, is
- 10:06Speaker 5: faster than a Ferrari.
- 10:08Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my favorite boob related car fact or car
- 10:12Speaker 4: related boob fact.
- 10:14Speaker 2: It's like a mashup of stuff Mom never told you
- 10:16Speaker 2: and our family podcast car stuff never before seen together
- 10:24Speaker 2: in an hour of moderate jogging. As Amanda has noted
- 10:27Speaker 2: over in ESPN magazine a couple of years ago, our
- 10:31Speaker 2: breasts will bounce several thousand times. And if you have
- 10:35Speaker 2: large breasts, even if you have small breast and they
- 10:37Speaker 2: aren't supported. While obviously that can be painful because when
- 10:41Speaker 2: we think of breast bouncing, we think of them just going.
- 10:43Speaker 4: Up and down.
- 10:44Speaker 2: In fact, they move in a figure eight motion, and
- 10:50Speaker 2: large breasts can oscillate up to eight inches. And this
- 10:56Speaker 2: is why, like, this is an extreme example, but this
- 10:59Speaker 2: is also why if like, very large breasts in motion
- 11:02Speaker 2: can potentially even.
- 11:03Speaker 4: Break your clavical because they know that they move with
- 11:06Speaker 4: that much.
- 11:07Speaker 5: Force Oh, that sounds terrible, but it makes sense because
- 11:11Speaker 5: before this podcast, I was talking to Holly from History Stuff,
- 11:15Speaker 5: and she was talking about the very real divergence that
- 11:18Speaker 5: happens when you are growing up and developing breasts of
- 11:22Speaker 5: whatever size between the girls who go on to pursue
- 11:26Speaker 5: ballet and the girls who, for instance, go on to
- 11:29Speaker 5: pursue like hip hop dance or modern dance. And she
- 11:32Speaker 5: then she of course made a joke because she's also
- 11:34Speaker 5: a runner, made a joke about as she was developing
- 11:37Speaker 5: her boobs popping up and hitting her in the face.
- 11:40Speaker 2: Well, and I'm assuming that you know, ballets obviously associated
- 11:44Speaker 2: with smaller breasts. That's probably why I did ballet for
- 11:47Speaker 2: quite a while into high school.
- 11:50Speaker 5: But then she also Holly also brought up an interesting
- 11:53Speaker 5: point which I had not thought about before researching for
- 11:56Speaker 5: this episode, that she was so threa thrilled when she
- 12:01Speaker 5: was in college and sports bras finally came out in
- 12:05Speaker 5: full force on the market.
- 12:07Speaker 4: Because I just think of sports bras as.
- 12:08Speaker 5: Like, sure, they've always existed the way.
- 12:11Speaker 4: That bras have existed for a long time.
- 12:13Speaker 5: No, like having good support bra wise, and like knowing
- 12:19Speaker 5: enough about your boobs and about sports bras to support
- 12:22Speaker 5: them correctly, Like that's kind of a new thing.
- 12:25Speaker 4: Oh, it's still developing.
- 12:27Speaker 2: Sportsbra technology has not caught up to the biomechanics of
- 12:31Speaker 2: our boobs and their figure eight patterns. And I realized
- 12:37Speaker 2: as we were researching for this episode that we should
- 12:40Speaker 2: do a whole separate one on the history of the
- 12:42Speaker 2: sports bra because it begins with a couple of ladies
- 12:46Speaker 2: getting fed up and actually like tying two jockstraps together.
- 12:51Speaker 4: Interesting. I hope they were clean.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, you know, jockstraps are essentially like
- 12:57Speaker 2: men's sports bras, like testicular sports bras, right.
- 13:02Speaker 4: The sports bro Yeah. So if we.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Look though at this issue of developing breasts and girls
- 13:10Speaker 2: exercise and sports participation, the fact of the matter is
- 13:15Speaker 2: we need better broad ducation.
- 13:20Speaker 4: And I would.
- 13:20Speaker 2: Also argue, and I'll get into this a little bit more,
- 13:23Speaker 2: I would also argue that girls in public schools or
- 13:28Speaker 2: in low income areas need more affordable, well made sports
- 13:34Speaker 2: bras if we want to close that competitive sports gap,
- 13:38Speaker 2: you know, with a drop off after they turn fourteen
- 13:41Speaker 2: at twice the rated boys.
- 13:43Speaker 4: Sports bras are a big factor do this. They're so
- 13:46Speaker 4: expensive they're so.
- 13:47Speaker 2: Expensive, similar to you know, the whole tampon free tampon
- 13:51Speaker 2: Tech's initiative, And how now in New York public schools,
- 13:56Speaker 2: I believe they're going to be provided for free, which
- 13:58Speaker 2: is fantastic. And this is all sparked by a very
- 14:03Speaker 2: recent study and the only study of its kind, which
- 14:06Speaker 2: came out in February twenty sixteen in the Journal of
- 14:08Speaker 2: Adolescent Health. The studies titled the Influence of the Breast
- 14:12Speaker 2: on Sport and Exercise Participation in school Girls in the UK,
- 14:16Speaker 2: and in terms of pain, up to seventy two percent
- 14:21Speaker 2: of women and girls experience exercise related breast discomfort.
- 14:25Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no surprise, I am no stranger to that. Yeah.
- 14:30Speaker 2: But when they were talking to girls about their breasts
- 14:35Speaker 2: and how their breasts influenced their exercise or sports participation,
- 14:39Speaker 2: seventy three percent of them cited at least one breast
- 14:45Speaker 2: related concern, and the number one was embarrassment over bounced.
- 14:50Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Okay, are you ready for a
- 14:53Speaker 5: sad Cara story?
- 14:54Speaker 4: Yes?
- 14:55Speaker 2: Because yeah, also again because this is something I mean,
- 14:58Speaker 2: I had zero boobs when I was like thirteen, fourteen
- 15:02Speaker 2: years old.
- 15:02Speaker 5: Yeah, so I was a little bit chebby when I
- 15:05Speaker 5: was growing up, and as I was entering my pre
- 15:09Speaker 5: pubescent phase and I was sprouting the first hint of Brestus's,
- 15:17Speaker 5: I was getting a little bounce and it was uncomfortable.
- 15:20Speaker 5: Suddenly pe was painful. It was painful to go to
- 15:24Speaker 5: the gym and do my lap around the track.
- 15:27Speaker 4: Like I was supposed to. And so I went home
- 15:30Speaker 4: and I asked my mom, and I can't.
- 15:31Speaker 5: Remember, this was in like fourth grade, fifth grade, and
- 15:36Speaker 5: I asked to get a sports bra. And I mean,
- 15:40Speaker 5: I was kind of excited by the idea, but also
- 15:42Speaker 5: kind of the opposite of excited because it's like, oh, yeah,
- 15:46Speaker 5: y bra, but also like.
- 15:47Speaker 4: Oh crap, I'm growing up in a bra.
- 15:51Speaker 5: And so you know, she was more than willing to
- 15:53Speaker 5: take me shopping, and I went and I got a bunch.
- 15:55Speaker 4: Of very basic white sports bras, and I wore it
- 16:01Speaker 4: to school.
- 16:02Speaker 5: Because we had pea every day. And I remember so
- 16:06Speaker 5: distinctly getting like stares because you know, if you're wearing
- 16:10Speaker 5: a white shirt, you can see that you're wearing a
- 16:12Speaker 5: white bra underneath a white shirt.
- 16:14Speaker 4: And I distinctly remember the popular girl.
- 16:18Speaker 5: Walking by me and being like, are you wearing a bra,
- 16:23Speaker 5: and I was just like, yeah, I mean, she couldn't
- 16:28Speaker 5: say anything after that. She bra shamed you, She bra
- 16:31Speaker 5: shamed me all because I was just developing differently. And
- 16:37Speaker 5: I even remember so fast forward to about seventh grade.
- 16:40Speaker 5: I'm in science class. My teacher is this amazing guy.
- 16:44Speaker 5: He's like so funny, he's everybody's favorite teacher. I think
- 16:47Speaker 5: this might have been eighth grade.
- 16:49Speaker 4: And he starts like making this.
- 16:54Speaker 5: He starts telling the story where he is talking about
- 16:57Speaker 5: his own high school career or whatever in middle school
- 16:59Speaker 5: career and talking about this girl who developed early and
- 17:02Speaker 5: had to wear a bra, and he was making fun
- 17:05Speaker 5: of her. And I remember turning bright red because I
- 17:08Speaker 5: was one of the if not the earliest, to wear
- 17:11Speaker 5: a bra in my class, simply because I just didn't
- 17:14Speaker 5: want to have the bounce pain when I ran laps
- 17:18Speaker 5: in the gym.
- 17:21Speaker 4: I am shaking my head at that teacher.
- 17:22Speaker 5: Well, I know, I'm shaking my head at both of them,
- 17:25Speaker 5: because clearly there had not been enough education on that
- 17:28Speaker 5: popular girl's part to understand that people developed differently, and
- 17:31Speaker 5: that if you have more tissue or fat on your
- 17:35Speaker 5: chest than someone else, the bounce is gonna hurt.
- 17:38Speaker 4: And on the teacher's part.
- 17:39Speaker 5: Like, what are you even thinking You're talking to a
- 17:41Speaker 5: co ed classroom full of girls who are now, presumably
- 17:45Speaker 5: at this age, all wearing bras or most of them,
- 17:48Speaker 5: So like what is the making fun of and the
- 17:51Speaker 5: shaming purpose?
- 17:52Speaker 2: Yeah, also just inappropriate on a bazillion level.
- 17:56Speaker 4: Should we be talking about that?
- 18:08Speaker 2: And I wonder with this study and the embarrassment that's cited,
- 18:13Speaker 2: whether it's more just sort of an internalized thing of
- 18:17Speaker 2: when your breasts are moving, you just.
- 18:19Speaker 4: It makes your body feel really obvious.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Yeah, and when you are twelve, thirteen, fourteen years old,
- 18:25Speaker 2: at least in my recollection, the last thing you want
- 18:29Speaker 2: to do is be super obvious. So, whether it's something
- 18:32Speaker 2: more personal like that, or if it's the experience of
- 18:35Speaker 2: having their breasts being aggled by boys and let's face
- 18:41Speaker 2: it also men. Because this reminds me. Your school stories
- 18:45Speaker 2: remind me of high school when in ninth and tenth grade,
- 18:51Speaker 2: our class would go on a retreat at the beginning
- 18:54Speaker 2: of the school year and we would go swimming.
- 18:58Speaker 4: And there was a girl in my.
- 18:59Speaker 2: Grade who was very petite, and she had very large breasts,
- 19:03Speaker 2: and I remember when she went swimming, she wore a
- 19:08Speaker 2: T shirt and everyone was like, why is she wearing
- 19:11Speaker 2: a T shirt? And they were like, oh, it's because
- 19:13Speaker 2: she's got those big boobs. And then when she finally
- 19:17Speaker 2: like braved taking off her shirt because she was so
- 19:19Speaker 2: tired of people giving her a hard time for wearing
- 19:21Speaker 2: a shirt, the guys lost it, you know, and and
- 19:27Speaker 2: even the girls were like, oh my god, do you
- 19:29Speaker 2: see her boobs as is so big.
- 19:31Speaker 4: Because she's like doing something to you on purpose. Yeah, Like, yeah,
- 19:36Speaker 4: I mean there's so much. I mean, and this is
- 19:37Speaker 4: what I mean by the.
- 19:38Speaker 2: Broducation, like we have really, I mean, we stigmatized.
- 19:43Speaker 4: Girls breasts a lot.
- 19:46Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's no surprise that that embarrassment factor is
- 19:50Speaker 2: the number one.
- 19:51Speaker 4: And it's not just yeah, not just inflicted by you know.
- 19:54Speaker 2: People in public, you know, attention, unwanted attention from boys.
- 19:57Speaker 2: But also the number two reason were embarrassment that the
- 20:00Speaker 2: girls sided in his study was having to change in
- 20:04Speaker 2: front of other girls.
- 20:05Speaker 4: And I remember this too when I.
- 20:07Speaker 2: Was taking ballet, speaking of ballet boobs a few minutes ago,
- 20:12Speaker 2: you know, we all changed together and you quickly had
- 20:16Speaker 2: to get like comfortable getting naked in front.
- 20:19Speaker 4: Of girls, and.
- 20:22Speaker 2: For me it wasn't too embarrassing because in ballet you
- 20:26Speaker 2: were like expected to be flat chested. But if it
- 20:31Speaker 2: hadn't been like these these girls who I was also
- 20:33Speaker 2: like very close friends with, there were maybe like six
- 20:37Speaker 2: of us.
- 20:37Speaker 4: You know, it's a safe space to have to get naked,
- 20:40Speaker 4: but in.
- 20:40Speaker 2: A locker room, oh no, I would have been embarrassed too.
- 20:45Speaker 2: You know, if you're already feeling awkward in your body
- 20:47Speaker 2: and maybe you are developing faster than other girls.
- 20:50Speaker 4: Oh good. So the final pieceo of braducation.
- 20:55Speaker 2: Is that the number three concerned they sided was at
- 20:59Speaker 2: fifteen percent of the girl said that their boobs were
- 21:01Speaker 2: simply too big to exercise, that it wouldn't be healthy.
- 21:04Speaker 2: And that's, you know, a common fallacy that we think
- 21:08Speaker 2: where it's like, yeah, I mean, if I run around,
- 21:10Speaker 2: that's gonna be it hurts, Therefore it must be bad
- 21:13Speaker 2: for my breast. But in fact the problem is that
- 21:16Speaker 2: we don't have supportive enough and accessible enough sports bras
- 21:21Speaker 2: because a lot of them also weren't wearing sports bras
- 21:23Speaker 2: at all.
- 21:24Speaker 5: Yeah, meanwhile, I was wearing like the same type of
- 21:27Speaker 5: sports bra.
- 21:28Speaker 4: I don't know when I first.
- 21:29Speaker 5: Got a real quote unquote bra, because I mean, dude,
- 21:34Speaker 5: like those sports bras, like for when you're like kind
- 21:37Speaker 5: of pre booby, you're not totally booby yet.
- 21:39Speaker 2: Yah, the breast buds, which I know that's the correct
- 21:42Speaker 2: anatomical term, but.
- 21:43Speaker 4: It squaks me out. It squicks me out too. I
- 21:45Speaker 4: don't like that either.
- 21:47Speaker 5: But in this study too, they found that forty six
- 21:51Speaker 5: percent of girls between eleven and eighteen said that their
- 21:54Speaker 5: boobs did influence their sports participation. And that was true
- 22:00Speaker 5: for sixty three percent of larger breasted girls compared to
- 22:03Speaker 5: forty five.
- 22:04Speaker 2: Percent of girls with smaller breasts. So obviously more common
- 22:07Speaker 2: for larger breasted.
- 22:08Speaker 5: Girls too, but not uncommon for girls with smaller breas.
- 22:11Speaker 4: Exactly, That's what I was about to say.
- 22:12Speaker 2: I mean, this is like an issue across the board,
- 22:15Speaker 2: and like I said, not many were even wearing a
- 22:17Speaker 2: sports bra. Only ten percent wore a sports bra every
- 22:20Speaker 2: time they exercised.
- 22:22Speaker 4: And I wonder, this is something that didn't come up
- 22:24Speaker 4: in anything that we read.
- 22:26Speaker 2: And I was like kind of shaking my hands at
- 22:28Speaker 2: my computer because hello, like bras are expensive. I mean
- 22:34Speaker 2: I grew up in a family without much money and
- 22:35Speaker 2: I remember that, like I got my first like set
- 22:39Speaker 2: of bras, and those.
- 22:40Speaker 4: Were like the bras that I was gonna have to use.
- 22:42Speaker 2: And yeah, I had a sports bra, but it was
- 22:44Speaker 2: like a kmart sports bra. And thank god I didn't
- 22:47Speaker 2: have larger breast because of course it would not have
- 22:49Speaker 2: been able to support me well.
- 22:51Speaker 4: And there's also the embarrassment factor too.
- 22:52Speaker 5: Thank god I had a mother who was like super
- 22:55Speaker 5: ready at any point to take me shopping for whatever
- 22:57Speaker 5: I needed, because I'm sure, I'm I'm sure like her
- 23:00Speaker 5: as a grid woman was like, you don't need a
- 23:02Speaker 5: sports bra, but she was willing to be supportive as
- 23:06Speaker 5: supportive as that sports bra. But I'm sure that there
- 23:10Speaker 5: are people with other, you know, different family situations where
- 23:13Speaker 5: it would be horrifically embarrassing to have to ask your
- 23:15Speaker 5: parent or your guardian or whoever to take you sports
- 23:18Speaker 5: brash off.
- 23:19Speaker 4: Their single dad. Yeah.
- 23:20Speaker 2: Oh, and in this study, again, for girls who exercised
- 23:25Speaker 2: the most.
- 23:27Speaker 4: They worried the most about how sports bras.
- 23:29Speaker 2: Fit and also how their breasts looked while exercising. So
- 23:35Speaker 2: we are pretty much immediately like kind of scrutinizing and
- 23:40Speaker 2: feeling nervous about the appearance of our breasts almost as
- 23:43Speaker 2: as soon as we get them and hammering home again
- 23:48Speaker 2: my broaducation platform. Eighty seven percent of those girls wanted
- 23:53Speaker 2: to just know more about breasts in general.
- 23:55Speaker 4: They hadn't been taught that much.
- 23:56Speaker 2: And I have a feeling that kind of like the
- 23:59Speaker 2: sex ed talk at home, you probably don't get a
- 24:01Speaker 2: lot much breast education at home because it's one of
- 24:03Speaker 2: those things where it's like, oh, we.
- 24:05Speaker 4: Don't need to you know, fast forward your development too.
- 24:09Speaker 5: Much, or it's like you know, oh you're getting them good,
- 24:14Speaker 5: yeah good, yeah, all right.
- 24:15Speaker 2: Well, and there's a lot that adult, grown up women
- 24:19Speaker 2: don't know about their own breasts. Have I ever been
- 24:21Speaker 2: professionally fitted for a bra? No?
- 24:23Speaker 4: I haven't.
- 24:23Speaker 2: I'm sure I'm wearing the wrong size bra.
- 24:25Speaker 5: I have side note, okay, you know how like sometimes
- 24:30Speaker 5: on the podcast we'll talk about a health issue and
- 24:32Speaker 5: we're like, maybe get a second opinion. Don't be afraid
- 24:35Speaker 5: to get a second bra opinion as well. So I
- 24:38Speaker 5: took a friend's advice and went to a particular department store.
- 24:41Speaker 5: This is for regular bras, not sports bras. That will
- 24:44Speaker 5: remain nameless, and it will remain nameless because It was
- 24:46Speaker 5: a horrific experience. The women were nice enough, I mean,
- 24:49Speaker 5: they were fine, but they were essentially telling me, and
- 24:53Speaker 5: based on my experience as a person with breasts who
- 24:57Speaker 5: identifies as a woman and is alive, I've worn bras
- 25:02Speaker 5: for a long time, and I know what fits and
- 25:04Speaker 5: feels good, and I know enough to know that you
- 25:06Speaker 5: shouldn't wear a bra that is so tight that it
- 25:10Speaker 5: feels like it's cutting off your blood flow. And these
- 25:13Speaker 5: women at this department store were essentially telling me that
- 25:16Speaker 5: that's what I needed to do. I needed to wear
- 25:17Speaker 5: a bra that was so tight that it was going
- 25:19Speaker 5: to then stretch out and then it would fit. And
- 25:22Speaker 5: I was like, I that's not a thing, but I
- 25:26Speaker 5: am now naked in this dressing room with you, so
- 25:28Speaker 5: I can't tell you that you're full of it. So
- 25:31Speaker 5: they basically said that I needed to wear a bra
- 25:33Speaker 5: that was significantly smaller than the size that I.
- 25:36Speaker 4: Was wearing comfortably on a normal basis.
- 25:38Speaker 2: Smaller cup size are smaller, much smaller band size, and
- 25:44Speaker 2: much bigger cup size.
- 25:46Speaker 5: I was like, okay, well this is I'm just going
- 25:49Speaker 5: to This isn't right. I won't walk you through my
- 25:52Speaker 5: entire mental process, but I was like, this is this
- 25:56Speaker 5: is so wrong. And then I went to another store
- 26:00Speaker 5: and was fitted by a nice, elderly woman who essentially
- 26:03Speaker 5: told me that, yes, you're exactly right.
- 26:05Speaker 4: The size that you're marrying.
- 26:07Speaker 5: But it's still good to go through that process of
- 26:09Speaker 5: getting sized and fitted by someone who has been trained,
- 26:12Speaker 5: knows what she's doing, and don't be afraid to get
- 26:14Speaker 5: a second bra opinion.
- 26:16Speaker 2: Well, and even just basics about our breast health and
- 26:19Speaker 2: how our breasts work, and concerns about how our breasts look,
- 26:25Speaker 2: whether it's you know, being shy.
- 26:28Speaker 4: About aerola size or.
- 26:30Speaker 2: A random mole or hair, you know, all of these
- 26:33Speaker 2: things that we have just sanitized from girls' educations because
- 26:40Speaker 2: you know, forty four percent of the girls in that
- 26:42Speaker 2: study too wanted to know specifically about you know, breast
- 26:47Speaker 2: in sports bras as it applies to to exercise, and
- 26:53Speaker 2: women could also use some more support as well. And
- 26:57Speaker 2: again this is something that's been really under study. There's
- 27:00Speaker 2: there are only you know, a couple of studies looking
- 27:02Speaker 2: at this. One of the most recent ones was in
- 27:06Speaker 2: twenty twelve in the British Journal of Sports Medicine.
- 27:09Speaker 4: Which studied London Marathon competitors.
- 27:13Speaker 2: And you might think, huh, well, that's a pretty uniform,
- 27:15Speaker 2: you know, sample population there, but in fact, that encompassed
- 27:19Speaker 2: a range of shapes and sizes, including fifty six different
- 27:23Speaker 2: bra sizes from double as to double h's, and band
- 27:27Speaker 2: sizes from twenty to forty inches. So the methodology is sound,
- 27:33Speaker 2: and they found that more than a third of those
- 27:35Speaker 2: women reported breast soreness. But the correlation between breast soreness
- 27:41Speaker 2: and exercise is not.
- 27:43Speaker 4: So clear cut, because hello.
- 27:45Speaker 2: You know what makes our breaststore our menstrual cycles, and.
- 27:48Speaker 4: That is something I can attest to.
- 27:51Speaker 5: Yeah, So, like before I had an IUD, I never
- 27:54Speaker 5: got breast soreness. Ever, I really never had PMS before
- 27:57Speaker 5: I had an IUD.
- 27:58Speaker 4: And suddenly I'm, you know.
- 28:02Speaker 5: Like a thirty two year old woman breaking out and
- 28:05Speaker 5: crampy and also like wanting to murder other drivers on
- 28:08Speaker 5: the road, and my boobs hurt. And it's crazy because
- 28:12Speaker 5: my boobs get so big right before my period and
- 28:15Speaker 5: they hurt, and I'm like, oh, it's coming because period
- 28:19Speaker 5: related breath soreness.
- 28:21Speaker 4: The struggle is real.
- 28:22Speaker 2: The struggle is real, and I've had days when they're
- 28:26Speaker 2: just like so sore that. Yeah, I'm like, okay, it's
- 28:29Speaker 2: gonna be a yoga day. We are not going to
- 28:32Speaker 2: go jogging. Why I'm referring to myself in the Royal wey,
- 28:35Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 28:37Speaker 5: Well, no, you're encompassing all three of you. Oh yes,
- 28:41Speaker 5: me and uh Lucinda and Lucille.
- 28:45Speaker 2: Well, I was trying to think of, you know, some
- 28:47Speaker 2: rad ladies maybe like me and Glorious Steinem and Flow Kennedy.
- 28:51Speaker 4: It's my my little triumvirate.
- 28:55Speaker 2: And that London Marathon study though, found that in fact, my.
- 29:00Speaker 4: Breastworness is real. Even acups gets sore.
- 29:03Speaker 2: Twenty five percent of ACUP women in the study reported soreness.
- 29:08Speaker 4: And having a baby.
- 29:10Speaker 2: Can influence this because, as we talked about in our
- 29:12Speaker 2: last episode on the science of saggy breast pregnancy, structurally
- 29:19Speaker 2: like changes our boobs.
- 29:21Speaker 5: Yeah, hormones don't discriminate. No, it doesn't matter what size
- 29:24Speaker 5: your boob is. Your hormone is probably gonna make it hurt.
- 29:28Speaker 5: Your singular hormone.
- 29:30Speaker 4: I don't know why so is one hormone.
- 29:32Speaker 5: But so the result of all of this pain, this discomfort,
- 29:35Speaker 5: the self consciousness, well, you've got a lot of women
- 29:40Speaker 5: in this study who ended up training less intensely or
- 29:43Speaker 5: skipping training altogether.
- 29:45Speaker 2: And we're gonna get to this in just a little bit,
- 29:47Speaker 2: but do not be disheartened because there is a surprisingly
- 29:54Speaker 2: effective remedy for a lot of that pain, and that's
- 29:58Speaker 2: called a well fitting sports huh.
- 30:01Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 30:01Speaker 2: But more on that and just a little bit, because
- 30:06Speaker 2: there was a more recent study from April twenty fifteen that,
- 30:11Speaker 2: like the British study, which was actually I think inspired
- 30:14Speaker 2: by this study, looked at the correlations between women's breast
- 30:18Speaker 2: size and exercise participation and it found that seventeen percent
- 30:23Speaker 2: of women avoid exercise for boob related reasons, specifically lack
- 30:29Speaker 2: of a comfortable support of sports bra.
- 30:31Speaker 4: And here we go again.
- 30:33Speaker 2: Bounce embarrassment, Yes, excessive bounce.
- 30:36Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I know because people are already staring at
- 30:39Speaker 5: boobs all the time, and if they are then boobs
- 30:41Speaker 5: in motion, people are going to be like, even if
- 30:44Speaker 5: it's not literally to augly you in a sexual way,
- 30:46Speaker 5: if it's just like, oh, look at those boobs bouncing,
- 30:50Speaker 5: you know, you get tired of drawing attention to your boobs.
- 30:54Speaker 4: And listen, not.
- 30:55Speaker 2: To get too TMI about it, but we've already talked
- 30:58Speaker 2: a lot about our own breasts.
- 30:59Speaker 4: I'll go ahead, not another fact of my boobs.
- 31:02Speaker 2: An exercise obviously, the excessive bounce thing not so much
- 31:06Speaker 2: an issue for me, but one reason why I am
- 31:10Speaker 2: hesitant to go jogging, especially on a busy thoroughfare and
- 31:16Speaker 2: just a sports bra without a shirt tank top over
- 31:18Speaker 2: it is.
- 31:20Speaker 4: Because of nipples.
- 31:22Speaker 2: The all if like if nibbles are visible, like at all,
- 31:27Speaker 2: you know, the if the old headlights turn on, because
- 31:29Speaker 2: that just happens, you will get looks. And yeah, I mean,
- 31:35Speaker 2: of course, it's just like a thing, you know. I'm
- 31:37Speaker 2: sure people's eyes are just kind of.
- 31:38Speaker 4: Naturally drawn to it.
- 31:39Speaker 2: But I have felt so self conscious before jogging and realizing,
- 31:44Speaker 2: you know, in just a sports bra and initially being like, yes,
- 31:48Speaker 2: I'm running in just a sports bra and embracing my body,
- 31:50Speaker 2: no big deal. Oh got my nibbles really on parade?
- 31:57Speaker 5: Well, I mean that's I The sportsra that I had,
- 32:00Speaker 5: like my main sports bra, squeezes the life out of me.
- 32:05Speaker 5: And part of that is that it flattens, not only
- 32:07Speaker 5: flattens my boots to my chest so much, but it
- 32:09Speaker 5: also flattens and camouflage is the nips as well.
- 32:13Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna have a couple follow up questions for you,
- 32:16Speaker 2: okay about that when we get to our sports brah section,
- 32:21Speaker 2: because the whole flattening thing is pertinent.
- 32:26Speaker 5: Like like pert yes, breast like breast pertinent to your breasts.
- 32:32Speaker 4: But in that.
- 32:33Speaker 2: April twenty fifteen study on exercise and women's breast size,
- 32:39Speaker 2: one major factor that correlated to higher exercise rates was
- 32:43Speaker 2: not smaller breasts, but rather higher rates of breast health knowledge. Yes,
- 32:49Speaker 2: be empowered educated, broad ducation of knowing about sports bra fits,
- 32:54Speaker 2: knowing what should feel okay, and knowing that if we
- 32:57Speaker 2: experience pain or soreness, it is not necessarily because exercise
- 33:01Speaker 2: is bad for our boobs. But one thing that didn't
- 33:06Speaker 2: come up in either of these studies we've talked about
- 33:08Speaker 2: that came to mind as I was reading this was
- 33:11Speaker 2: what about boob sweat? Yeah, because maybe there's an embarrassment
- 33:16Speaker 2: factor around that. Although honestly, when I sweat a lot
- 33:18Speaker 2: during when I'm exercising, I'm kind of proud of like
- 33:21Speaker 2: all my sweat a little bit, But if you have
- 33:24Speaker 2: larger breasts, boob sweat can be also a source of discomfort.
- 33:29Speaker 5: Well, yeah, because not only is there again the risk
- 33:32Speaker 5: of being oggled because like you got a sweaty chest,
- 33:35Speaker 5: or possible discomfort because it's slipping and sliding down there,
- 33:39Speaker 5: but also like for bigger chests, bigger breasts, you can
- 33:44Speaker 5: potentially develop like a skin condition if you don't dry off,
- 33:48Speaker 5: if you don't have a sports bra or a shirt
- 33:51Speaker 5: that has wicking properties to get all of that moisture
- 33:53Speaker 5: away from your skin.
- 33:55Speaker 2: Yeah, breathability is an important thing to look for in
- 33:59Speaker 2: sports bras because that underboob sweat, which apparently some people
- 34:03Speaker 2: call swoob, can lead to chafing, possible rashes, and even
- 34:09Speaker 2: yeast infections if that moisture hangs around long enough.
- 34:13Speaker 4: And I became.
- 34:14Speaker 2: Aware of this a couple of years ago when a
- 34:19Speaker 2: breast anti persperant came out on the market and immediately
- 34:24Speaker 2: sites like Jezebel.
- 34:26Speaker 4: Jumped on it.
- 34:27Speaker 2: And we're like, oh, here we go again, just pathologizing
- 34:30Speaker 2: something else. We really need anti perspirant for our boobs now,
- 34:34Speaker 2: this is ridiculous. Although I will say the brand name
- 34:38Speaker 2: bust dust is fantastic.
- 34:40Speaker 4: Baby powder can also work.
- 34:53Speaker 2: And finally, some larger breasted feminists on the internet.
- 34:57Speaker 4: Said, hey, skews. I see what you mean there, But
- 35:02Speaker 4: for large arbrested women this is thing.
- 35:05Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, better to wear boob deodorant or boob
- 35:08Speaker 5: powder than having to go to the dermatologist and getting
- 35:11Speaker 5: an anti fungal topical cream.
- 35:14Speaker 4: You know, I mean, thank god that exists.
- 35:16Speaker 5: But wouldn't you rather just wear boob powder than having
- 35:20Speaker 5: to go go to the dermatologists because you have a
- 35:22Speaker 5: boob east infection?
- 35:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean and all. And that short sightedness to me,
- 35:26Speaker 2: yet again, goes.
- 35:27Speaker 4: Around to our lack of producation. I'm going to keep
- 35:33Speaker 4: saying it. Should I just trademark it? I think so
- 35:36Speaker 4: kind of like c literacy, you need some producation.
- 35:39Speaker 2: Yes, but what happens when boobs go pro We're going
- 35:45Speaker 2: to talk about that when we come right back from
- 35:47Speaker 2: a quick break.
- 35:53Speaker 4: And now back to the show.
- 35:59Speaker 2: So, like said at the top of the podcast, Caroline,
- 36:02Speaker 2: with your example of women's golfing, breasts can literally get
- 36:08Speaker 2: in the way of competitive sports.
- 36:11Speaker 5: Well yeah, and I mean if just look at mythology,
- 36:15Speaker 5: if you talk about the Amazons, According to Amazon myth
- 36:19Speaker 5: they just totally lopped off a whole boob so that
- 36:21Speaker 5: they could be more effective with their archery, and there are.
- 36:25Speaker 2: A lot of professional or elite athletes who have undergone
- 36:28Speaker 2: breast reductions in an attempt to improve their athletic performance,
- 36:33Speaker 2: although we should note that there is no study corroborating
- 36:38Speaker 2: that that will reliably improve your game or your time whatever.
- 36:45Speaker 4: Are we surprised? I mean there's been like all of
- 36:48Speaker 4: like three.
- 36:48Speaker 5: Boob sports studies, sports boobs sports sports boobs studies.
- 36:53Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well, and also I think there you know,
- 36:56Speaker 2: we just don't we just don't understand still, like how
- 36:59Speaker 2: women's bodies work had to toe all that well. But
- 37:02Speaker 2: in competitive sports such as golfing obviously, archery, hurdlers, gymnasts,
- 37:09Speaker 2: tennis players, anything where you have a swing, water polo
- 37:12Speaker 2: players apparently like keeping your boobs in the water.
- 37:16Speaker 4: How many times have you jumped into.
- 37:19Speaker 2: A body of water, whether it is a pool or
- 37:21Speaker 2: lake or something and that top just flies right off.
- 37:23Speaker 4: I know that they're in one pieces, but boobs, there's
- 37:26Speaker 4: the risk of them trying to escape from the top. Yes, yes,
- 37:29Speaker 4: which happens.
- 37:30Speaker 2: And even Ronda Rousey mma fighter in the sports bras
- 37:36Speaker 2: you know that the fighters will wear has had to
- 37:39Speaker 2: contend with potential nip slips.
- 37:42Speaker 5: Yeah, because wasn't it her first professional UFC fight that
- 37:48Speaker 5: her opponent was like on her back trying to essentially
- 37:50Speaker 5: break her neck, and so she was worried about like, well, okay,
- 37:53Speaker 5: I've got to survive, but also my sports bra is
- 37:56Speaker 5: slipping dangerously lower and lower and lower. So she fighting
- 38:01Speaker 5: this woman with one hand and fighting with her.
- 38:03Speaker 4: Sports bra with the other basically.
- 38:06Speaker 5: But if her if she had experienced a sports bra
- 38:09Speaker 5: malfunction during that fight, it certainly would not have been
- 38:13Speaker 5: the first boob to.
- 38:15Speaker 4: Be out at a sporting event.
- 38:17Speaker 2: Yes, So Amanda Hess noted this in a piece she
- 38:22Speaker 2: wrote over at ESPN Magazine, which I was so thrilled
- 38:25Speaker 2: to see when it came out a couple years ago,
- 38:27Speaker 2: because I was like, yes, sports boobs, Hello, No one's
- 38:31Speaker 2: talking about that. She's sited this incident in nineteen ninety seven,
- 38:34Speaker 2: when then eighteen year old Ritrean runner Nebuat hobbed to
- 38:38Speaker 2: marry him had to run the majority of a five
- 38:43Speaker 2: k meter qualifying heat with her boob out because she
- 38:48Speaker 2: I don't know if she like left her sports bra
- 38:50Speaker 2: at home or what, but she had to borrow one.
- 38:53Speaker 4: No, no, just a camul.
- 38:55Speaker 5: She borrowed a singlet, Oh my god, and didn't have
- 38:58Speaker 5: a sports bra under it.
- 39:00Speaker 2: Oh and so she started running and immediately and her
- 39:06Speaker 2: boobs started running away too.
- 39:08Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 39:08Speaker 5: Well, because, as we've discussed in the first part of
- 39:10Speaker 5: this episode, your boobs are on the move majorly.
- 39:14Speaker 2: Yeah, and hes noted in the article that understandably this
- 39:18Speaker 2: athlete like didn't leave her apartment for a week.
- 39:21Speaker 4: She was just mortified.
- 39:22Speaker 2: Yeah again, thank god Twitter didn't exist.
- 39:26Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh big time. But you know you mentioned
- 39:31Speaker 5: that there's no real study to corroborate claims that smaller
- 39:36Speaker 5: breasts or no breasts uh helps your game, but plenty
- 39:42Speaker 5: of women have pursued this route. In two thousand and nine,
- 39:44Speaker 5: Romanian tennastar Simona Hollop got a breast reduction to help
- 39:48Speaker 5: improve her play, and her play actually did improve. She
- 39:51Speaker 5: was a thirty four double D at the time before
- 39:54Speaker 5: her reduction, But there was a petition that a bunch
- 39:58Speaker 5: of guys circulated like asking her to not have the surgery.
- 40:03Speaker 4: And there you go, there's the aggling factor.
- 40:06Speaker 2: Thanks for nothing, because boob bounce embarrassment roots back to
- 40:11Speaker 2: that kind of nonsense.
- 40:12Speaker 5: Yeah, but the next year you have Australian hurdler Janna Rowlinson,
- 40:16Speaker 5: who announced that she was going to get her breast
- 40:18Speaker 5: implants removed to try to improve her chances of making
- 40:21Speaker 5: it to the twenty twelve Olympics. She actually didn't make
- 40:24Speaker 5: it because of a foot injury, not because of.
- 40:27Speaker 4: Boobs or no boobs.
- 40:29Speaker 2: And even though like we said, there isn't any firm
- 40:32Speaker 2: data on this, plastic surgeons such as doctor ed Domanankis,
- 40:37Speaker 2: who was speaking to the Orange County Register, assume that
- 40:43Speaker 2: breast implants and larger breasts are a negative in sports
- 40:48Speaker 2: like golf, tennis and track, although the doctor said except
- 40:54Speaker 2: in boxing, they might help because they would quote soften
- 40:57Speaker 2: the blow, to which I was like, okay, this man
- 40:59Speaker 2: has never been punch of the boobs. We talked about
- 41:03Speaker 2: this in our last episode we did, and some people,
- 41:06Speaker 2: speaking of MMA and Ronda Rowsey, some have suggested that
- 41:10Speaker 2: chest strikes aka boob punches should be banned in women's
- 41:16Speaker 2: UFC fighting, but Rowsey's like, what, no, no, you just
- 41:21Speaker 2: protect your chest.
- 41:22Speaker 5: Well, there was an entire Reddit thread where somebody was
- 41:24Speaker 5: trying to figure out how badly getting punched in the
- 41:28Speaker 5: boob does hurt, and it was so fascinating to me
- 41:32Speaker 5: to look at the responses because so many women were like, Oh,
- 41:35Speaker 5: it's the worst, I will have to lie down on
- 41:38Speaker 5: the ground to recover, and other women were like, no,
- 41:41Speaker 5: it doesn't hurt at all.
- 41:43Speaker 4: To me, A boob hit really hurts.
- 41:47Speaker 2: Oh yeah, a boob hit when you are like on
- 41:50Speaker 2: the verge of a period.
- 41:51Speaker 5: Oh, don't even I can't even like, I can't even
- 41:54Speaker 5: touch them.
- 41:54Speaker 2: There are so many Yahoo answers type Google results asking.
- 42:01Speaker 4: Whether getting punched in the breast or.
- 42:04Speaker 2: The testicles hurts more, to which I'm like, Internet finds
- 42:08Speaker 2: something better to do with your time.
- 42:10Speaker 4: It doesn't matter.
- 42:12Speaker 5: Yeah I don't, yeah exactly, But okay, So back to
- 42:15Speaker 5: boxing though, and punching everybody in their boobs in the ring.
- 42:20Speaker 4: In two thousand and.
- 42:21Speaker 5: Nine, British amateur boxer Sarah Bluden was not allowed to
- 42:25Speaker 5: compete in the UK's Amateur Boxing Association events because of
- 42:29Speaker 5: her breast implants.
- 42:31Speaker 2: Yeah, and their defense was saying that it was because
- 42:35Speaker 2: of risk to breast tissue, but plastic surgeons that the
- 42:40Speaker 2: Orange County Register and reporting on this talk to disagreed,
- 42:44Speaker 2: saying that our breasts take more of a beating so
- 42:48Speaker 2: to speak, and just day to day life than her
- 42:51Speaker 2: implants would And Bluden said, they're gel implants and so
- 42:56Speaker 2: it's not like they could possibly rupture that was I mean,
- 43:02Speaker 2: that's just something you would rarely see of an athlete
- 43:04Speaker 2: intentionally enlarging her breasts.
- 43:06Speaker 4: Yeah, And I would also imagine too that this is
- 43:09Speaker 4: a factor for beach volleyball.
- 43:12Speaker 2: Where you know, I mean, the Olympics is happening as
- 43:15Speaker 2: we are recording this podcast, and you know, a lot
- 43:18Speaker 2: of uniforms are essentially like sports bras and briefs, and
- 43:24Speaker 2: that is one of the reasons why it's a really
- 43:26Speaker 2: popular sport for a male audience.
- 43:30Speaker 5: Oh have you seen the meme circulating about beach volleyball.
- 43:33Speaker 5: It's showing a woman in she's got a hit job
- 43:37Speaker 5: and she's completely covered. She's on one side of the
- 43:40Speaker 5: volleyball net, and then there's I don't know if she's
- 43:41Speaker 5: American or Australian on the other side in her what
- 43:46Speaker 5: is basically bikini but sports bra and briefs.
- 43:49Speaker 4: And they were like.
- 43:51Speaker 5: Now, tell us that one country isn't more empowered than
- 43:54Speaker 5: the other, meaning that like, look at this white woman
- 43:57Speaker 5: in her bikini. She's clearly, so much more free to
- 44:00Speaker 5: live life the way she wants to.
- 44:02Speaker 4: Oh, I thought it was the reverse, where.
- 44:04Speaker 5: No, it was the white guy was like, see, America
- 44:08Speaker 5: is more free, and basically the entire Internet jumped on
- 44:12Speaker 5: this guy like are you serious?
- 44:13Speaker 2: Yeah, because what I saw was women are wearing he
- 44:17Speaker 2: jobs for personal choice, whereas that uniform is required.
- 44:22Speaker 4: So which is more free?
- 44:24Speaker 2: Also, again, Internet finds something better to do with your
- 44:26Speaker 2: time for serious such as learning about sports broad technology.
- 44:31Speaker 4: Yeah, that's more productive.
- 44:33Speaker 2: Here's the thing we need, and I mean this seriously.
- 44:38Speaker 2: We need better sports broad technology. It is sorely emphasis
- 44:42Speaker 2: on sorely needed. And this was something that Nicola Brown,
- 44:48Speaker 2: who was the lead author of that London Marathon study,
- 44:51Speaker 2: was saying to the New York Times. I mean she
- 44:54Speaker 2: was saying like, this is just like a matter of
- 44:56Speaker 2: basic wellness for women. There are not adequate sports bras
- 45:01Speaker 2: that are affordable. I mean, you can get a really
- 45:04Speaker 2: high tech, super duper sports bra, but it's going to
- 45:07Speaker 2: cost you upwards of sixty to eighty dollars.
- 45:10Speaker 4: Yeah, if not more. I mean there was a great
- 45:13Speaker 4: was it on BuzzFeed?
- 45:14Speaker 5: Yeah, they sent differently shaped women to try on the
- 45:18Speaker 5: same sports bras to see how they all worked with
- 45:21Speaker 5: different bodies, And I think two of the women chose
- 45:25Speaker 5: the same bra, but then the other two chose different
- 45:27Speaker 5: ones because just because this one bra is supposed to
- 45:30Speaker 5: be so great doesn't mean it's gonna work for your
- 45:32Speaker 5: body type. But often the ones that are more supportive
- 45:36Speaker 5: do tend to be more outrageously expensive.
- 45:39Speaker 2: Yeah, for all of them, the worst performing was the
- 45:43Speaker 2: cheapest Hayes sports bra, Yeah, which was a bomber, you know,
- 45:48Speaker 2: because a lot of times my sports bra shopping involves
- 45:50Speaker 2: just like walking into target, grabbing what I see and
- 45:54Speaker 2: then buying some housewares that I don't need.
- 45:57Speaker 5: Well, of course that is my struggle as well life.
- 46:01Speaker 5: But the thing though about sports bras is you're supposed
- 46:04Speaker 5: to replace them so often, like a toothbrush, and so
- 46:08Speaker 5: I don't.
- 46:09Speaker 4: I don't because they're so expensive.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't realize that I basically need to get
- 46:15Speaker 2: rid of all but two of my sports bras. But
- 46:18Speaker 2: the thing is, though sports bras make a massive difference
- 46:21Speaker 2: in terms of that breast soreness issue.
- 46:23Speaker 4: This is the fact that.
- 46:24Speaker 2: I was teasing to earlier, where Nicola Brown that researchers
- 46:30Speaker 2: said that their right fitting sports bra can reduce breast
- 46:33Speaker 2: discomfort regardless of your breast size in around eighty five
- 46:38Speaker 2: percent of women who experience it. I mean, that's a
- 46:41Speaker 2: pretty powerful sports bra right there, But it's just a
- 46:44Speaker 2: matter of.
- 46:45Speaker 4: Getting the right fit.
- 46:46Speaker 2: I would argue that a right fitting sports bra is
- 46:50Speaker 2: even more important than a right fitting bra or bra.
- 46:53Speaker 5: Oh, although I am more likely to cry trying on
- 46:57Speaker 5: sports bras than regular bras because if you want a
- 47:02Speaker 5: very supportive sports bra, it's probably going to be very restrictive,
- 47:05Speaker 5: so trying to get in and out of them. Do
- 47:08Speaker 5: you know how hard it is to try to squeeze
- 47:10Speaker 5: into a sports bra only to find out that it's
- 47:12Speaker 5: either too big or too small, and then trying to
- 47:13Speaker 5: pull it off and you like dislocate your shoulder and
- 47:15Speaker 5: then you're crying at Nike and you realize your blood
- 47:18Speaker 5: sugars crashed.
- 47:19Speaker 2: I mean, that's why you get the ones with the backclasps.
- 47:23Speaker 4: Yeah, that'd be helpful.
- 47:25Speaker 2: Yeah, those do exist, but again those are going to
- 47:28Speaker 2: be your pricier bras. And in the same way as
- 47:33Speaker 2: we talked about with the science of breast sag in
- 47:36Speaker 2: our last podcast, I mean the fact of the matter
- 47:39Speaker 2: is like, we're just late to the game on all
- 47:41Speaker 2: of this. We didn't start studying breast biomechanics until the
- 47:45Speaker 2: nineteen nineties, probably because you finally had more women in
- 47:50Speaker 2: the field being like, hey, here is something that directly
- 47:52Speaker 2: applies to my life and we should study. But also,
- 47:56Speaker 2: breasts are just really hard to study like this because
- 48:00Speaker 2: they're so varied. Yeah, and it's hard to replicate the
- 48:06Speaker 2: a representative breast population in motion, you know what I mean,
- 48:12Speaker 2: because it's like you would how.
- 48:15Speaker 4: Do you reward that?
- 48:16Speaker 5: Well, right, not obviously not all breasts are the same
- 48:19Speaker 5: size and shape, but obviously not everybody is literally only running.
- 48:22Speaker 4: On a treadmill, you know.
- 48:23Speaker 5: There's like, obviously so many different types of activity even
- 48:26Speaker 5: just walking around day to day that you would need
- 48:29Speaker 5: a different type of sports bra for.
- 48:31Speaker 2: But the big thing that I learned in terms of
- 48:33Speaker 2: sports broad technology is that originally they were just all
- 48:36Speaker 2: about compression, smush them down, keep them in, and those
- 48:39Speaker 2: are the basic like uniboob style sports bras were probably
- 48:44Speaker 2: the most familiar with. But now companies like a Brooks
- 48:49Speaker 2: or a Nike are looking at how to isolate specific
- 48:54Speaker 2: movement areas.
- 48:56Speaker 5: I thought you were going to say how to isolate specific.
- 48:58Speaker 2: Boobs, specific boob boob mint areas because of that figure
- 49:03Speaker 2: eight motion, you know, And man, I.
- 49:06Speaker 4: Want to be like, I want to go to that lab.
- 49:08Speaker 2: I want to go to that sports bra lab so
- 49:10Speaker 2: bad if anyone listening can hook me up with some
- 49:14Speaker 2: sports bra research.
- 49:16Speaker 5: But that just kind of thinking about boob art, like
- 49:18Speaker 5: what if you paint your nipples and then run in
- 49:20Speaker 5: front of a canvas, Like would you get some cool
- 49:22Speaker 5: figure eights going?
- 49:23Speaker 2: There's only one way to find out, I know, talk
- 49:27Speaker 2: about the best like pinterest craft.
- 49:31Speaker 5: I'm sure it's been done.
- 49:33Speaker 2: But in the meantime until our perfect, magical affordable sports
- 49:38Speaker 2: bra that I argue should be like government subsidized for
- 49:41Speaker 2: low income people with breasts, whatever your gender identity is.
- 49:47Speaker 2: There are some tips for things that you can do
- 49:50Speaker 2: to alleviate some of that pain. Specifically, if you have
- 49:54Speaker 2: larger breasts, look for encapsulation style sports bras rather than
- 49:59Speaker 2: the a boob style because those encapsulation style sports bras
- 50:03Speaker 2: are the ones that have separate cups. And right now
- 50:05Speaker 2: in the studio, I am making a cup gesture At Carolina.
- 50:11Speaker 4: We're of like the Lady Gaga monster hands.
- 50:13Speaker 2: Honestly, it feels a little aggressive because I'm doing it
- 50:17Speaker 2: at you.
- 50:18Speaker 4: Keep those away from me.
- 50:20Speaker 2: But those encapsulation styles are are way more effective at
- 50:24Speaker 2: controlling movement. And that was something that was corroborated in
- 50:28Speaker 2: that BuzzFeed experiment trying to find the perfect bra, where
- 50:32Speaker 2: the two women with the largest breasts were like, oh
- 50:35Speaker 2: my god, I had no idea. As soon as they
- 50:36Speaker 2: put on an encapsulation style bra, it was a whole
- 50:39Speaker 2: new world.
- 50:40Speaker 5: And also, the focus doesn't need to be so much
- 50:43Speaker 5: on whether you have underwire or whether you.
- 50:46Speaker 4: Have adjustable straps on your sports.
- 50:48Speaker 5: Bra, because eighty percent of your bra support actually comes
- 50:51Speaker 5: from the band around your ribs, which I can adjust
- 50:55Speaker 5: to with.
- 50:56Speaker 4: My sports bra.
- 50:57Speaker 5: That made me cry in the Nike dressing room.
- 51:01Speaker 2: But underwire and adjustable straps those like clippy things. If
- 51:06Speaker 2: you have a larger frame, those are going to dig
- 51:08Speaker 2: into your skin, So avoid that well.
- 51:10Speaker 5: Especially yeah, especially if you're doing some type of lengthy exercise,
- 51:14Speaker 5: like if you're gonna go running for hours, that can
- 51:17Speaker 5: eventually really make you hate life. Also just running for
- 51:21Speaker 5: hours plural hour, like I don't know, maybe you're doing
- 51:24Speaker 5: an iron man. Maybe so an iron woman, an iron ironman,
- 51:27Speaker 5: iron man.
- 51:29Speaker 2: Again, the back clasps can make life a lot.
- 51:32Speaker 4: Easier, so can front clasp. Oh yes, the front clasp.
- 51:36Speaker 5: Although, but then that would make it harder if you
- 51:38Speaker 5: do have the what did you call it, encapsulated style,
- 51:43Speaker 5: because you need if you've got that style, you need
- 51:45Speaker 5: the front and center of the broad to be resting
- 51:47Speaker 5: on your breastbone and the band to be sitting comfortably.
- 51:51Speaker 5: So the front clasps might interfere with that. Just all
- 51:55Speaker 5: the more important to maybe talk to somebody who knows
- 51:58Speaker 5: who has a better broad education.
- 52:00Speaker 4: Also, look for breathe ability.
- 52:02Speaker 2: Yes, that's a big factor for reducing potential chafe.
- 52:06Speaker 4: And those super strappy.
- 52:09Speaker 2: Lululemon bras that are really cute might not work the
- 52:15Speaker 2: best support wise.
- 52:18Speaker 5: Yeah, like maybe maybe if you're gonna like go do
- 52:20Speaker 5: yoga or some low impact thing where you just want
- 52:23Speaker 5: to wear sports bra but you don't care about bouncing
- 52:26Speaker 5: or support.
- 52:26Speaker 4: All that much. Maybe yeah.
- 52:28Speaker 2: I mean, the two of the girls in the BuzzFeed
- 52:32Speaker 2: piece chose the Lululemon bra. One of them was smaller chested,
- 52:36Speaker 2: but the other girl who chose them I think was
- 52:38Speaker 2: a C Cup. So I mean Lula Limon bras will
- 52:41Speaker 2: cost you a fortune, but I mean they are very
- 52:43Speaker 2: well made. But again those the multi strappy, multiple straps
- 52:49Speaker 2: don't equal multiple support because again it's all about that
- 52:52Speaker 2: waist band or the chest band.
- 52:55Speaker 4: Excuse me, Hey, maybe you've got a waist band on
- 52:57Speaker 4: your bra. I don't know. Yeah, how high on your
- 53:01Speaker 4: girdle bra?
- 53:02Speaker 5: And again, you know you're probably gonna have to to
- 53:06Speaker 5: replace the more often the way that you would your
- 53:08Speaker 5: tennis shoes. You know, if you're out there running every
- 53:11Speaker 5: single day, for instance, you're gonna have to replace your
- 53:14Speaker 5: tennis shoes or you're running shoes more often than someone
- 53:17Speaker 5: like me who doesn't run, but who used to.
- 53:21Speaker 4: All right, stop judging. It's the same with your sports bras.
- 53:24Speaker 5: They're with all of that supporting and the stretching and
- 53:27Speaker 5: everything that's happening, and washing them regularly. I hope they're
- 53:30Speaker 5: eventually gonna get worn down.
- 53:32Speaker 2: They are, and I think the biggest thing that I
- 53:35Speaker 2: would advocate and also listeners, I would love some tips.
- 53:41Speaker 4: On how to better do this.
- 53:43Speaker 2: But we need to do such a better and more
- 53:45Speaker 2: vigilant job of just normalizing breast development. For girls because obviously,
- 53:51Speaker 2: like we need better sports bras. Yes, but you know
- 53:55Speaker 2: the fact that for girls and women alike, that embarrassment
- 53:59Speaker 2: factor plays such a prominent role in determining whether we
- 54:03Speaker 2: do or don't exercise for health's sake. This is not
- 54:05Speaker 2: about staying then, this is about being healthy.
- 54:08Speaker 5: What did Sissy SpaceX mother call them and Carrie dirty pillows?
- 54:13Speaker 5: We need to get away from the mentality that what
- 54:15Speaker 5: is on your chest as you're developing through puberty are
- 54:19Speaker 5: dirty and somehow embarrassing and shameful because it's just part
- 54:22Speaker 5: of your body. So the more that we can understand
- 54:25Speaker 5: about our anatomy and our development, what's healthy, what's unhealthy,
- 54:29Speaker 5: the better for all of us, and hopefully the fewer
- 54:32Speaker 5: popular girls who will approach girls like me and for
- 54:36Speaker 5: some reason shame them about needing to wear bra very
- 54:39Speaker 5: bizarre to.
- 54:39Speaker 2: Me, bra shaming because that was something I thought that
- 54:41Speaker 2: would be like a.
- 54:42Speaker 4: Badge of pride, like who got their period first. I
- 54:45Speaker 4: don't know, I don't know.
- 54:46Speaker 5: We can't all live in a Judy Bloom book.
- 54:48Speaker 4: It's true, it's true.
- 54:50Speaker 2: And when it comes to roeducation, boys need it too,
- 54:52Speaker 2: in the sense of raising boys to treat and look
- 54:58Speaker 2: at girls as humans rather than sex objects, and for
- 55:03Speaker 2: them too to just understand like basic female development, you know,
- 55:09Speaker 2: destigmatize all of this stuff.
- 55:11Speaker 3: It's healthy for every body.
- 55:25Speaker 2: So with that, listeners, we want to hear all of
- 55:27Speaker 2: your thoughts. I know we have a lot of people
- 55:30Speaker 2: who exercise, whether with organized sports or casually work out
- 55:35Speaker 2: in our audience. I know a lot of people are
- 55:37Speaker 2: probably listening to this podcast while they are jogging or
- 55:40Speaker 2: at the gym, and I'm so curious to know whether
- 55:44Speaker 2: this rings true for you and any tips that you
- 55:47Speaker 2: can offer, any sports bras that you can recommend, send
- 55:52Speaker 2: it all our way. Mom Stuff at HowStuffWorks dot com
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