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Mom Groups - Because Parenting Isn’t Stressful Enough. · Other Peoples Parenting

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  Hello,
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  everybody.
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  Welcome
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  back
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  to
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  another
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  episode
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  of
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  Other
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  People's
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  Parenting,
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  where
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  we
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  read
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  parenting
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  books
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  and
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  review
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  them
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  for
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  you.
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  I'm
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  Skylar
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  Hurwitz,
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  amateur
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  parent,
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  and
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  this
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  is
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  my
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  mom,
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  Karen
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  Quinn.
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  She's
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  a
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  New
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  York
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  Times
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  bestselling
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  author
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  and
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  the
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  founder
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  of
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  Habit
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  Coach
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  and
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  Testing
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  Mom.
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  Hello,
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  mom.
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  Hi,
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  Skylar.
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  Are
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  you
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  excited
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  about
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  today?
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  We're
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  doing
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  something
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  new
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  and
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  different.
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  I
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  know
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  we're
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  doing.
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  We're
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  looking
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  at
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  articles
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  today.
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  I'm
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  excited.
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  Me,
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  too,
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  because
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  they're
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  kind
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  of
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  juicy.
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  Articles
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  get
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  more
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  juicy
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  than
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  books,
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  I
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  think.
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  Yes.
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  Yeah.
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  Shorter,
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  but
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  juicier.
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  Yeah.
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  You
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  know?
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  So
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  we
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  decided
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  to
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  do.
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  We're
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  going
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  to
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  start
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  this
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  new
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  thing
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  where
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  every
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  once
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  in
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  a
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  while,
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  instead
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  of
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  reading
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  a
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  book,
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  cover
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  a
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  topic
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  and
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  a
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  couple
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  articles
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  that
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  support
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  this
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  topic,
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  mostly
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  because
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  books
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  are
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  long,
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  and
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  this
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  week,
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  we
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  simply
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  did
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  not
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  have
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  it
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  in
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  us
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  to
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  read
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  a
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  book.
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  So
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  the
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  topic
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  covering
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  today
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  is
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  mom
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  groups.
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  As
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  you
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  guys
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  might
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  remember,
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  a
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  couple
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  months
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  ago,
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  there
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  was
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  this
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  whole.
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  Whole
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  hoopla
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  about
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  Ashley
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  Tisdale
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  writing
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  a
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  million
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  articles
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  about
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  her
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  toxic
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  mom
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  group.
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  And
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  it
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  was
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  then
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  later
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  revealed
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  that
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  there
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  were
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  all
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  these
• 1:07
  other
• 1:07
  celebrities
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  in
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  the
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  mom
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  group.
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  And
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  we
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  were
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  like,
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  you
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  know,
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  mom
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  groups
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  are
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  such
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  a
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  controversial
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  thing.
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  They
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  can
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  either
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  be
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  the
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  absolute
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  worst,
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  most
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  toxic
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  cesspool
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  of
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  garbage,
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  or
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  they
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  can
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  be
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  amazing
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  and
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  supportive
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  and
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  create
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  lifelong,
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  supportive,
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  wonderful
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  friendships.
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  Mm.
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  And
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  we
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  picked
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  three
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  articles
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  that
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  sort
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  of
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  give
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  an
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  idea
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  of
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  the
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  spectrum
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  of
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  mom
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  groups.
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  Um,
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  we're
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  gonna
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  start
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  with
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  this
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  hilarious
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  article
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  that
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  we
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  found
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  called
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  the
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  Real
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  Reason
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  the
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  Upper
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  east
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  side
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  Mama's
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  Group
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  Disappeared
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  and
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  Came
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  Back,
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  A
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  conversation
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  with
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  Tiffany
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  Ma,
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  who
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  is
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  one
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  of
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  the
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  most
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  powerful
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  moderators
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  Facebook
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  has
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  ever
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  seen
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  by.
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  By
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  Emma
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  Rosenbloom
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  for
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  the
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  Cut,
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  which
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  is
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  the
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  New
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  York
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  magazine.
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  I
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  don't
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  understand
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  what
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  the
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  Cut
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  is.
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  Honestly,
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  I.
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  I
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  get
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  the
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  New
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  York
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  magazine.
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  I'm
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  a
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  subscriber,
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  and
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  then
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  you
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  turn
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  it
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  upside
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  down
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  and
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  backwards,
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  and
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  then
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  there's
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  another
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  magazine
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  on
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  the
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  back
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  called
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  the
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  Cut,
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  and
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  I
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  don't
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  know
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  why.
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  So
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  the
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  Cut,
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  I
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  think,
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  is
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  a
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  quarterly
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  thing.
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  I
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  don't
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  think
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  it's
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  every
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  issue.
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  Okay.
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  The
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  Cut.
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  It's.
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  I
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  think
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  it's,
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  like,
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  short
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  for
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  in
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  the
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  cut,
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  like,
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  insider
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  information
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  for,
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  like,
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  culture
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  and
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  fashion
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  and
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  stuff.
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  And
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  it
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  is
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  interesting.
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  I'm
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  like,
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  what
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  qualifies
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  as
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  a
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  Cut
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  article
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  and
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  what
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  qualifies
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  as
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  just
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  standard
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  issue
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  New
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  York
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  magazine?
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  Because
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  they
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  also
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  have
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  the
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  Intelligencer,
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  which
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  is
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  political,
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  I
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  think.
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  And
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  then
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  they
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  have,
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  like,
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  a
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  couple
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  Other
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  little
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  like
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  Vulture,
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  which
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  is
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  TV
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  and
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  movies
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  and
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  maybe
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  books.
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  Who's
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  to
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  say?
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  I
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  don't
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  know.
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  But
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  anyway,
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  the
• 2:46
  cut.
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  A
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  lot
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  of
• 2:47
  juicy
• 2:47
  stuff
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  comes
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  out
• 2:48
  of
• 2:48
  the
• 2:48
  cut.
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  Yes,
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  a
• 2:49
  lot
• 2:49
  of
• 2:49
  juicy
• 2:50
  stuff.
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  And
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  I
• 2:50
  found
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  this
• 2:51
  article
• 2:51
  to
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  be
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  absolutely
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  hilarious
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  because
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  if
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  you
• 2:56
  don't
• 2:56
  live
• 2:56
  in
• 2:56
  New
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  York
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  City,
• 2:57
  the
• 2:57
  Upper
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  east
• 2:57
  side
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  is
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  a
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  very.
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  She.
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  She.
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  High
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  net
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  worth
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  area.
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  The
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  private
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  schools
• 3:04
  are
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  incredibly
• 3:05
  exclusive.
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  Everything
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  is
• 3:07
  incredibly
• 3:07
  exclusive
• 3:08
  on
• 3:08
  the
• 3:08
  right
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  side
• 3:08
  and
• 3:08
  expensive
• 3:08
  side
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  and
• 3:09
  expensive.
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  Park
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  Avenue.
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  Upper
• 3:12
  Park
• 3:12
  Avenue
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  is
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  probably
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  one
• 3:13
  of
• 3:13
  the
• 3:13
  most
• 3:13
  expensive
• 3:14
  zip
• 3:14
  codes
• 3:14
  in
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  the
• 3:15
  world.
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  And
• 3:16
  the
• 3:16
  co
• 3:16
  ops
• 3:16
  are
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  exclusive.
• 3:17
  Everything
• 3:18
  is
• 3:18
  exclusive.
• 3:19
  And
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  this
• 3:20
  mom's
• 3:20
  group
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  is
• 3:21
  no
• 3:22
  different.
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  It
• 3:23
  is
• 3:23
  moderated
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  by
• 3:24
  a
• 3:24
  woman,
• 3:24
  Tiffany
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  Ma,
• 3:25
  who
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  is
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  a
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  lawyer.
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  She
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  is
• 3:27
  a
• 3:27
  lawyer.
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  Yes,
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  she
• 3:28
  is
• 3:28
  a
• 3:28
  lawyer.
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  A
• 3:29
  small
• 3:29
  practice,
• 3:30
  but
• 3:30
  she.
• 3:30
  She's
• 3:31
  a
• 3:31
  lawyer.
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  And
• 3:32
  the
• 3:33
  criteria
• 3:33
  for
• 3:33
  that
• 3:34
  doesn't
• 3:34
  say
• 3:34
  much.
• 3:34
  I'm
• 3:35
  a
• 3:35
  lawyer.
• 3:35
  So
• 3:35
  let's
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  just.
• 3:36
  Let's
• 3:36
  just.
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  Okay.
• 3:37
  Anyone
• 3:38
  can
• 3:38
  be
• 3:38
  a
• 3:38
  lawyer.
• 3:38
  Anyone
• 3:39
  can
• 3:39
  be
• 3:39
  a
• 3:40
  lawyer.
• 3:40
  If
• 3:40
  I
• 3:40
  can
• 3:41
  be
• 3:41
  a
• 3:41
  lawyer,
• 3:42
  Tiffany
• 3:42
  Ma
• 3:43
  can
• 3:43
  be
• 3:43
  a
• 3:43
  lawyer.
• 3:43
  Anyone
• 3:44
  can
• 3:44
  be
• 3:44
  a
• 3:44
  lawyer.
• 3:44
  I
• 3:45
  could
• 3:45
  be
• 3:45
  a
• 3:45
  lawyer.
• 3:45
  Could
• 3:46
  be
• 3:46
  a
• 3:46
  lawyer.
• 3:46
  I
• 3:47
  can't
• 3:47
  be
• 3:47
  a
• 3:47
  lawyer.
• 3:48
  It
• 3:48
  would
• 3:48
  take
• 3:49
  so
• 3:49
  long.
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  didn't
• 3:49
  even
• 3:49
  go
• 3:50
  to
• 3:50
  Colle.
• 3:52
  Neither
• 3:52
  here
• 3:52
  nor
• 3:52
  there.
• 3:53
  Okay.
• 3:54
  But
• 3:54
  anyway,
• 3:55
  so
• 3:55
  there's
• 3:55
  been
• 3:55
  a
• 3:55
  lot
• 3:56
  of
• 3:56
  controversy
• 3:57
  in
• 3:57
  this
• 3:57
  group,
• 3:58
  primarily
• 3:58
  because
• 3:59
  of
• 3:59
  its
• 3:59
  incredibly
• 4:00
  stringent
• 4:01
  qualifications
• 4:02
  to
• 4:02
  enter.
• 4:03
  So
• 4:03
  Tiffany
• 4:04
  Ma
• 4:04
  requires
• 4:05
  people
• 4:06
  to
• 4:07
  submit
• 4:08
  ultrasounds,
• 4:10
  lease
• 4:11
  documents,
• 4:13
  photos
• 4:14
  of
• 4:14
  their
• 4:14
  husband,
• 4:15
  their
• 4:15
  husband's
• 4:15
  jobs,
• 4:17
  all
• 4:17
  of
• 4:17
  this
• 4:17
  crazy
• 4:18
  intrusive
• 4:20
  information
• 4:21
  and
• 4:22
  to
• 4:22
  become
• 4:22
  a
• 4:22
  member.
• 4:22
  To
• 4:23
  become
• 4:23
  a
• 4:23
  member.
• 4:24
  Right,
• 4:24
  That's.
• 4:25
  It's
• 4:25
  a
• 4:25
  strict
• 4:25
  screening
• 4:26
  policy.
• 4:27
  Yes.
• 4:27
  That
• 4:28
  she
• 4:28
  has
• 4:29
  instituted
• 4:30
  for
• 4:31
  a
• 4:31
  Facebook
• 4:31
  group.
• 4:32
  Yes,
• 4:33
  yes.
• 4:35
  And
• 4:35
  this
• 4:35
  one
• 4:35
  woman
• 4:36
  was
• 4:36
  saying,
• 4:36
  you
• 4:36
  know,
• 4:36
  she
• 4:37
  was.
• 4:37
  All
• 4:37
  she
• 4:37
  wanted
• 4:37
  was
• 4:38
  a
• 4:38
  baby
• 4:38
  nurse
• 4:39
  and
• 4:39
  she
• 4:39
  had
• 4:39
  to
• 4:40
  like,
• 4:40
  submit,
• 4:41
  like
• 4:41
  her
• 4:41
  blood
• 4:41
  type.
• 4:42
  Her
• 4:42
  blood
• 4:42
  type,
• 4:42
  her
• 4:43
  DNA
• 4:44
  photo,
• 4:45
  pictures
• 4:45
  of
• 4:45
  her
• 4:45
  in
• 4:46
  the
• 4:46
  hospital
• 4:46
  with
• 4:46
  her
• 4:47
  newborn,
• 4:49
  just
• 4:49
  to.
• 4:49
  Just
• 4:49
  to
• 4:50
  verify
• 4:50
  that
• 4:50
  she's
• 4:51
  a
• 4:51
  real
• 4:51
  mom.
• 4:53
  It's
• 4:53
  like,
• 4:53
  girl,
• 4:54
  I
• 4:54
  know.
• 4:55
  Well,
• 4:55
  there
• 4:55
  are
• 4:55
  other
• 4:56
  ways.
• 4:57
  Well,
• 4:57
  she
• 4:58
  said
• 4:58
  that
• 4:59
  when
• 4:59
  she
• 4:59
  was
• 5:00
  reached
• 5:00
  for
• 5:00
  comment.
• 5:01
  Ma
• 5:01
  says
• 5:02
  that
• 5:05
  it's
• 5:05
  a
• 5:05
  strict
• 5:06
  screening
• 5:06
  policy.
• 5:07
  Yes.
• 5:07
  But
• 5:08
  she
• 5:08
  had
• 5:08
  relaxed
• 5:09
  it
• 5:09
  previously
• 5:10
  and
• 5:10
  people
• 5:11
  joined
• 5:11
  who
• 5:12
  really
• 5:12
  didn't
• 5:12
  belong.
• 5:13
  And
• 5:13
  you
• 5:13
  could
• 5:13
  really
• 5:14
  see
• 5:14
  that
• 5:14
  in
• 5:15
  their
• 5:15
  daily
• 5:15
  posts,
• 5:16
  all
• 5:16
  hell
• 5:16
  broke
• 5:17
  loose
• 5:17
  because
• 5:17
  they
• 5:18
  did
• 5:18
  not
• 5:18
  have
• 5:18
  stopped
• 5:19
  selling
• 5:19
  guns.
• 5:20
  Well,
• 5:20
  that's
• 5:21
  what
• 5:21
  got
• 5:21
  them
• 5:21
  taken.
• 5:23
  That,
• 5:23
  that
• 5:23
  got
• 5:23
  them
• 5:24
  allegedly
• 5:25
  taken
• 5:25
  off
• 5:25
  of
• 5:25
  Facebook
• 5:26
  or
• 5:26
  taken
• 5:26
  down.
• 5:27
  Yeah.
• 5:27
  Was
• 5:28
  that
• 5:28
  when
• 5:28
  they
• 5:29
  were
• 5:29
  taken
• 5:29
  down?
• 5:29
  They
• 5:30
  could.
• 5:30
  They
• 5:30
  didn't
• 5:30
  even
• 5:30
  know
• 5:31
  why
• 5:31
  they
• 5:31
  were
• 5:31
  taken
• 5:31
  down.
• 5:32
  Everybody
• 5:33
  assumed
• 5:33
  it
• 5:34
  was
• 5:34
  because
• 5:34
  of
• 5:34
  the
• 5:34
  strict
• 5:35
  screening
• 5:35
  policy
• 5:36
  that
• 5:36
  they
• 5:36
  were
• 5:37
  like
• 5:37
  Discrimination
• 5:38
  is
• 5:39
  taking
• 5:39
  place.
• 5:40
  Right.
• 5:40
  But
• 5:40
  Facebook
• 5:40
  was
• 5:41
  like,
• 5:41
  no,
• 5:41
  someone
• 5:41
  was
• 5:42
  on
• 5:42
  there
• 5:42
  trying
• 5:42
  to
• 5:42
  sell
• 5:43
  firearms.
• 5:43
  Firearms
• 5:44
  and
• 5:44
  that.
• 5:44
  And
• 5:45
  then.
• 5:45
  And
• 5:45
  then
• 5:45
  her
• 5:45
  response
• 5:46
  was,
• 5:46
  do
• 5:46
  you
• 5:46
  think
• 5:47
  it
• 5:47
  was
• 5:47
  a
• 5:48
  mom?
• 5:48
  It
• 5:49
  was
• 5:49
  like,
• 5:49
  I
• 5:49
  don't
• 5:49
  know,
• 5:50
  girl.
• 5:50
  That's
• 5:51
  right.
• 5:51
  That's
• 5:51
  why
• 5:51
  she
• 5:51
  has
• 5:52
  high
• 5:52
  screening,
• 5:53
  supposedly
• 5:54
  because
• 5:54
  she
• 5:55
  doesn't
• 5:55
  want
• 5:55
  people
• 5:56
  who
• 5:56
  would
• 5:56
  sell
• 5:56
  guns.
• 5:57
  But
• 5:57
  everyone
• 5:57
  else
• 5:57
  just
• 5:57
  thinks
• 5:58
  she's
• 5:58
  power
• 5:58
  hungry,
• 5:59
  which,
• 5:59
  honestly,
• 5:59
  if
• 5:59
  I
• 6:00
  had
• 6:00
  that
• 6:00
  kind
• 6:00
  of
• 6:00
  power.
• 6:01
  Listen,
• 6:01
  absolute
• 6:01
  power
• 6:02
  corrupts
• 6:02
  absolutely.
• 6:03
  It
• 6:03
  does.
• 6:04
  It
• 6:04
  does.
• 6:05
  Wow.
• 6:05
  I
• 6:06
  mean,
• 6:07
  I
• 6:07
  don't
• 6:07
  know.
• 6:08
  It's.
• 6:08
  But.
• 6:09
  But
• 6:09
  I
• 6:09
  mean,
• 6:09
  even.
• 6:10
  It's
• 6:10
  even
• 6:10
  more
• 6:11
  than
• 6:11
  what
• 6:11
  we
• 6:11
  were
• 6:11
  just
• 6:12
  saying.
• 6:12
  She
• 6:12
  said
• 6:13
  her
• 6:13
  standards
• 6:14
  are
• 6:14
  high,
• 6:14
  that
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  have
• 6:15
  to
• 6:15
  present
• 6:15
  pictures
• 6:16
  of
• 6:16
  you
• 6:16
  pregnant.
• 6:18
  Absolutely
• 6:19
  not.
• 6:19
  If
• 6:19
  you
• 6:19
  saw
• 6:20
  me
• 6:20
  pregnant,
• 6:20
  no
• 6:21
  one
• 6:21
  is
• 6:21
  going
• 6:21
  to
• 6:21
  see
• 6:21
  me.
• 6:22
  Well,
• 6:22
  you
• 6:22
  have
• 6:22
  to.
• 6:23
  You're
• 6:23
  supposed.
• 6:23
  If
• 6:24
  you
• 6:24
  want
• 6:24
  to
• 6:24
  be
• 6:24
  in
• 6:24
  this
• 6:24
  group,
• 6:25
  you
• 6:25
  have
• 6:25
  to.
• 6:26
  That's
• 6:27
  bullying.
• 6:27
  That
• 6:28
  I
• 6:28
  know.
• 6:28
  Okay.
• 6:29
  Social
• 6:29
  media
• 6:29
  announcements
• 6:30
  of
• 6:30
  your
• 6:30
  pregnancy.
• 6:31
  Did
• 6:31
  you
• 6:32
  announce
• 6:32
  on
• 6:32
  social
• 6:33
  media?
• 6:33
  And
• 6:33
  I
• 6:33
  know
• 6:33
  plenty
• 6:34
  of
• 6:34
  people
• 6:34
  who
• 6:35
  don't.
• 6:35
  Right.
• 6:36
  I'm
• 6:36
  really
• 6:36
  superstitious.
• 6:37
  Right.
• 6:37
  You
• 6:38
  didn't
• 6:38
  know
• 6:38
  I
• 6:38
  was
• 6:38
  pregnant.
• 6:39
  The
• 6:39
  first
• 6:39
  photo
• 6:40
  anybody
• 6:40
  knew
• 6:40
  about
• 6:41
  me
• 6:41
  being
• 6:41
  pregnant
• 6:41
  was
• 6:41
  a
• 6:42
  photo
• 6:42
  of
• 6:42
  my
• 6:42
  baby.
• 6:43
  Oh,
• 6:44
  yeah.
• 6:44
  Guess
• 6:45
  what?
• 6:45
  You
• 6:45
  have
• 6:46
  to
• 6:46
  give
• 6:46
  your
• 6:46
  hospital
• 6:47
  discharge
• 6:48
  paperwork,
• 6:49
  a
• 6:50
  sonogram,
• 6:51
  a
• 6:51
  Screenshot
• 6:51
  from
• 6:52
  your
• 6:52
  OB
• 6:52
  GYN's
• 6:53
  online
• 6:54
  portal,
• 6:54
  a
• 6:54
  screenshot
• 6:55
  of
• 6:55
  your
• 6:56
  maternity
• 6:56
  leave
• 6:57
  paperwork
• 6:57
  from
• 6:58
  work,
• 6:59
  if
• 6:59
  you
• 6:59
  work,
• 7:01
  or
• 7:01
  an
• 7:02
  email
• 7:02
  from
• 7:02
  your
• 7:02
  child's
• 7:03
  school
• 7:03
  or
• 7:03
  camp
• 7:04
  addressing
• 7:04
  you
• 7:04
  as
• 7:05
  the
• 7:05
  mother.
• 7:06
  And
• 7:06
  this
• 7:06
  is
• 7:07
  done
• 7:08
  to
• 7:08
  keep
• 7:08
  out
• 7:08
  the
• 7:08
  ne'
• 7:09
  er
• 7:09
  do
• 7:09
  wells,
• 7:10
  the
• 7:11
  bots,
• 7:11
  the
• 7:11
  people
• 7:12
  selling
• 7:12
  things
• 7:13
  like
• 7:13
  guns.
• 7:14
  Guns.
• 7:14
  Men
• 7:15
  monitoring
• 7:15
  their
• 7:15
  ex.
• 7:16
  Exes
• 7:17
  and
• 7:17
  fraudsters.
• 7:18
  So
• 7:18
  she's
• 7:18
  got
• 7:18
  a
• 7:19
  very
• 7:19
  strict
• 7:19
  policy.
• 7:20
  Men
• 7:21
  monitoring.
• 7:21
  Monitoring
• 7:22
  their
• 7:22
  exes.
• 7:22
  That's
• 7:23
  scary.
• 7:23
  Well,
• 7:24
  I
• 7:24
  bet
• 7:24
  that
• 7:24
  happens.
• 7:25
  I'm
• 7:25
  sure
• 7:25
  it
• 7:25
  happens.
• 7:26
  Because
• 7:26
  one
• 7:26
  thing
• 7:26
  about
• 7:27
  the
• 7:27
  Upper
• 7:27
  east
• 7:27
  side
• 7:27
  is
• 7:28
  the
• 7:28
  divorces
• 7:29
  are
• 7:30
  monumental.
• 7:31
  They
• 7:31
  are
• 7:31
  in
• 7:32
  the
• 7:32
  newspapers.
• 7:33
  More
• 7:34
  money
• 7:34
  is
• 7:34
  exchanged
• 7:35
  during
• 7:36
  Upper
• 7:36
  east
• 7:36
  side
• 7:37
  divorces
• 7:37
  than
• 7:38
  some
• 7:38
  countries
• 7:39
  produce
• 7:40
  in
• 7:40
  a
• 7:40
  year
• 7:40
  with
• 7:40
  their
• 7:41
  gdp.
• 7:41
  Yeah,
• 7:42
  well,
• 7:43
  that's
• 7:43
  true.
• 7:43
  That
• 7:44
  is
• 7:44
  true.
• 7:44
  So
• 7:44
  it
• 7:44
  is
• 7:45
  very
• 7:45
  exclusive.
• 7:46
  And
• 7:46
  this
• 7:46
  mom's
• 7:47
  group,
• 7:47
  I
• 7:47
  guess
• 7:47
  the
• 7:48
  way
• 7:48
  you
• 7:48
  would
• 7:48
  describe
• 7:48
  it
• 7:49
  is
• 7:49
  the
• 7:49
  online,
• 7:50
  they
• 7:50
  describe
• 7:50
  it
• 7:51
  as
• 7:51
  a
• 7:51
  place
• 7:51
  where
• 7:51
  New
• 7:51
  York
• 7:52
  mamas
• 7:52
  come
• 7:53
  for
• 7:53
  support,
• 7:54
  positive
• 7:54
  and
• 7:54
  constructive
• 7:55
  guidance
• 7:56
  and
• 7:56
  community.
• 7:57
  So
• 7:57
  it's
• 7:57
  kind
• 7:58
  of
• 7:58
  like
• 7:58
  next
• 7:58
  door,
• 7:59
  but
• 7:59
  for
• 7:59
  Upper
• 7:59
  east
• 8:00
  side
• 8:00
  moms,
• 8:00
  which.
• 8:01
  It
• 8:01
  doesn't
• 8:01
  sound
• 8:02
  like
• 8:02
  that's
• 8:02
  what's
• 8:02
  going
• 8:03
  on
• 8:03
  in
• 8:03
  this.
• 8:04
  No,
• 8:04
  it
• 8:04
  doesn't
• 8:04
  sound
• 8:05
  like
• 8:05
  it,
• 8:05
  but
• 8:05
  that's.
• 8:06
  That
• 8:06
  is.
• 8:06
  And
• 8:06
  they've
• 8:07
  had
• 8:07
  some.
• 8:07
  They've
• 8:07
  had
• 8:08
  controversies
• 8:09
  in
• 8:09
  the
• 8:09
  past.
• 8:11
  You
• 8:11
  know
• 8:11
  that
• 8:12
  the
• 8:12
  idea
• 8:12
  was
• 8:13
  you
• 8:13
  just
• 8:13
  come
• 8:13
  on
• 8:14
  and
• 8:14
  you,
• 8:14
  you
• 8:14
  talk
• 8:14
  about,
• 8:15
  you
• 8:15
  know,
• 8:15
  you
• 8:16
  ask
• 8:16
  for,
• 8:17
  you
• 8:17
  know,
• 8:17
  ideas
• 8:18
  for
• 8:18
  baby
• 8:19
  nurses
• 8:19
  has
• 8:20
  43,000
• 8:21
  members
• 8:22
  right
• 8:22
  there
• 8:22
  can't.
• 8:23
  I
• 8:23
  mean,
• 8:23
  I
• 8:23
  guess
• 8:23
  it's
• 8:23
  been.
• 8:24
  That's
• 8:24
  over
• 8:24
  time.
• 8:25
  Over
• 8:25
  time.
• 8:25
  That's
• 8:26
  over
• 8:26
  time
• 8:26
  because
• 8:26
  you
• 8:27
  keep
• 8:27
  your
• 8:27
  members
• 8:28
  probably
• 8:28
  they're
• 8:29
  the
• 8:29
  original
• 8:29
  ones,
• 8:30
  their
• 8:30
  kids
• 8:30
  are
• 8:30
  in
• 8:30
  college
• 8:31
  now.
• 8:31
  So
• 8:31
  yeah,
• 8:32
  it's,
• 8:32
  you
• 8:32
  know,
• 8:32
  it's
• 8:33
  now
• 8:34
  more.
• 8:34
  A
• 8:35
  smaller
• 8:35
  group
• 8:35
  is
• 8:36
  in
• 8:36
  now
• 8:36
  asking
• 8:37
  questions
• 8:37
  and
• 8:38
  it's
• 8:38
  been
• 8:38
  closed
• 8:38
  a
• 8:39
  couple
• 8:39
  of
• 8:39
  times
• 8:39
  over
• 8:40
  different
• 8:40
  controversies.
• 8:41
  Yes.
• 8:41
  In
• 8:41
  fact,
• 8:42
  Tiffany
• 8:42
  Ma's
• 8:43
  predecessor
• 8:44
  was
• 8:44
  ousted
• 8:45
  due
• 8:45
  to
• 8:45
  accusations
• 8:46
  of
• 8:47
  racist
• 8:47
  moderation
• 8:48
  tactics,
• 8:49
  which.
• 8:49
  Who's
• 8:49
  to
• 8:49
  say.
• 8:50
  I
• 8:50
  don't
• 8:50
  even
• 8:50
  know
• 8:50
  who
• 8:50
  this
• 8:50
  woman
• 8:51
  was.
• 8:51
  Uh
• 8:51
  huh.
• 8:52
  Yeah.
• 8:52
  I'm
• 8:52
  assuming
• 8:52
  it's
• 8:53
  a
• 8:53
  woman.
• 8:53
  Imagine
• 8:54
  it
• 8:54
  wasn't.
• 8:55
  Imagine
• 8:55
  it
• 8:56
  was
• 8:56
  a
• 8:56
  dad.
• 8:56
  It's
• 8:57
  mama's.
• 8:57
  That's
• 8:58
  true.
• 8:58
  I
• 8:58
  don't
• 8:59
  know.
• 8:59
  It's
• 8:59
  2026.
• 9:00
  You
• 9:01
  can't
• 9:01
  discriminate.
• 9:01
  That's
• 9:02
  discrimination.
• 9:02
  Yeah.
• 9:03
  Anyway,
• 9:04
  but
• 9:04
  so
• 9:05
  this,
• 9:05
  this
• 9:05
  is
• 9:05
  a
• 9:06
  mom's
• 9:07
  group.
• 9:07
  That
• 9:07
  is
• 9:08
  an
• 9:08
  online
• 9:08
  mom's
• 9:09
  group.
• 9:10
  So
• 9:11
  it
• 9:11
  sounds
• 9:12
  unhealthy.
• 9:13
  Yeah,
• 9:13
  well,
• 9:13
  just,
• 9:14
  you
• 9:14
  know,
• 9:14
  to
• 9:14
  what
• 9:15
  you
• 9:15
  have
• 9:15
  to
• 9:15
  do
• 9:16
  to
• 9:16
  get
• 9:16
  into
• 9:16
  it.
• 9:17
  Like,
• 9:17
  I
• 9:17
  would
• 9:17
  never
• 9:18
  go
• 9:18
  through
• 9:19
  that.
• 9:19
  I
• 9:19
  mean,
• 9:19
  that's
• 9:20
  worse
• 9:20
  than
• 9:21
  getting
• 9:21
  into
• 9:22
  the
• 9:22
  hardest
• 9:22
  to
• 9:22
  get
• 9:23
  into
• 9:23
  school
• 9:24
  practically.
• 9:24
  I
• 9:25
  mean,
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  know,
• 9:25
  in
• 9:26
  terms
• 9:26
  of
• 9:26
  the
• 9:26
  kind
• 9:26
  of
• 9:27
  evidence
• 9:28
  you
• 9:28
  have
• 9:28
  to
• 9:28
  present
• 9:29
  that
• 9:29
  you
• 9:29
  are
• 9:30
  a
• 9:30
  mom.
• 9:30
  Yeah.
• 9:32
  You
• 9:32
  know,
• 9:32
  what
• 9:32
  do
• 9:32
  you
• 9:32
  want
• 9:32
  my,
• 9:33
  my
• 9:33
  Social
• 9:33
  Security,
• 9:34
  my
• 9:34
  birth
• 9:34
  certificate?
• 9:35
  You
• 9:35
  want
• 9:36
  my
• 9:36
  child's
• 9:36
  birth
• 9:37
  certificate?
• 9:37
  Kind
• 9:38
  of.
• 9:38
  Yeah,
• 9:38
  they
• 9:38
  do.
• 9:38
  This
• 9:39
  is
• 9:39
  also
• 9:39
  the
• 9:39
  kind
• 9:40
  of
• 9:40
  paperwork
• 9:41
  that
• 9:41
  if
• 9:41
  it
• 9:41
  ends
• 9:41
  up
• 9:42
  in
• 9:42
  the
• 9:42
  wrong
• 9:42
  hands,
• 9:43
  can
• 9:43
  actually
• 9:43
  like
• 9:43
  ruin
• 9:44
  your
• 9:44
  life.
• 9:45
  Yes.
• 9:45
  I
• 9:45
  wouldn't
• 9:46
  want
• 9:46
  to
• 9:46
  turn
• 9:46
  that
• 9:47
  over
• 9:47
  to
• 9:47
  Tiffany
• 9:48
  Ma,
• 9:48
  I'm
• 9:48
  sure.
• 9:49
  Yeah,
• 9:49
  she's
• 9:50
  like,
• 9:50
  I'm
• 9:50
  a
• 9:50
  lawyer.
• 9:50
  It's
• 9:51
  safe.
• 9:51
  It's
• 9:51
  like,
• 9:51
  girl,
• 9:51
  I
• 9:52
  don't
• 9:52
  know.
• 9:52
  You
• 9:52
  like
• 9:53
  that,
• 9:53
  huh?
• 9:54
  Yeah.
• 9:54
  No,
• 9:55
  I,
• 9:55
  I
• 9:55
  would
• 9:56
  say
• 9:56
  the
• 9:56
  same
• 9:56
  thing.
• 9:57
  As
• 9:57
  a
• 9:57
  lawyer,
• 9:58
  you
• 9:58
  don't
• 9:59
  want
• 9:59
  all
• 9:59
  this
• 9:59
  personal
• 10:00
  information
• 10:00
  from
• 10:01
  people.
• 10:01
  If
• 10:02
  it
• 10:02
  gets
• 10:02
  out,
• 10:03
  you
• 10:03
  are
• 10:03
  to
• 10:04
  blame.
• 10:04
  Well,
• 10:05
  you
• 10:05
  could
• 10:05
  get
• 10:05
  in.
• 10:05
  Yeah,
• 10:06
  I
• 10:06
  guess.
• 10:07
  I
• 10:07
  mean,
• 10:07
  I
• 10:07
  just
• 10:08
  find
• 10:08
  it,
• 10:08
  it's
• 10:08
  just
• 10:09
  so
• 10:10
  invasive,
• 10:10
  you
• 10:11
  know,
• 10:11
  so
• 10:11
  invasive.
• 10:12
  But.
• 10:12
  But
• 10:12
  no
• 10:13
  thanks,
• 10:13
  I
• 10:13
  guess
• 10:14
  in
• 10:14
  terms
• 10:14
  of
• 10:14
  being
• 10:14
  in
• 10:15
  a
• 10:15
  mom's
• 10:15
  group.
• 10:16
  I
• 10:16
  guess
• 10:16
  this
• 10:17
  is
• 10:17
  one
• 10:17
  kind
• 10:17
  of
• 10:18
  mom's
• 10:18
  group.
• 10:18
  Yes.
• 10:19
  Which
• 10:19
  is
• 10:20
  a
• 10:20
  group
• 10:20
  online
• 10:21
  where
• 10:21
  you
• 10:21
  can
• 10:22
  ask
• 10:22
  a
• 10:22
  question
• 10:24
  and
• 10:24
  people
• 10:24
  will
• 10:25
  give
• 10:25
  you,
• 10:26
  you
• 10:26
  know,
• 10:27
  advice
• 10:27
  close
• 10:28
  to
• 10:28
  your
• 10:28
  neighborhood.
• 10:29
  I
• 10:29
  guess.
• 10:30
  So
• 10:30
  it
• 10:30
  is
• 10:31
  kind
• 10:31
  of
• 10:31
  like.
• 10:31
  Like
• 10:32
  next
• 10:33
  door.
• 10:33
  Yeah.
• 10:33
  And
• 10:34
  I
• 10:34
  guess
• 10:34
  I'm
• 10:34
  sure
• 10:34
  everybody
• 10:35
  is
• 10:35
  vetted
• 10:36
  that
• 10:36
  they
• 10:36
  suggest
• 10:37
  because
• 10:38
  they
• 10:38
  take
• 10:38
  this
• 10:39
  very
• 10:39
  seriously.
• 10:40
  Like
• 10:40
  I
• 10:40
  need
• 10:40
  to
• 10:40
  Find
• 10:41
  a
• 10:41
  swim
• 10:41
  teacher
• 10:41
  for
• 10:42
  my.
• 10:42
  Do
• 10:42
  you.
• 10:42
  Yeah.
• 10:43
  So
• 10:43
  this
• 10:43
  would
• 10:43
  be
• 10:44
  the
• 10:44
  perfect
• 10:44
  place
• 10:44
  to
• 10:44
  go.
• 10:45
  I
• 10:45
  am
• 10:45
  not
• 10:45
  submitting
• 10:46
  well,
• 10:47
  this
• 10:47
  information
• 10:47
  to
• 10:48
  these
• 10:48
  random
• 10:49
  people.
• 10:49
  Well,
• 10:50
  I
• 10:50
  wouldn't
• 10:50
  either.
• 10:50
  But
• 10:51
  I'm
• 10:51
  just
• 10:51
  saying
• 10:51
  it.
• 10:51
  If,
• 10:52
  if
• 10:52
  this
• 10:52
  was
• 10:53
  a
• 10:53
  more
• 10:53
  normal
• 10:54
  group.
• 10:54
  Yeah.
• 10:55
  And
• 10:55
  it
• 10:55
  was
• 10:56
  like,
• 10:56
  I'm
• 10:56
  on
• 10:57
  Reddit.
• 10:57
  I
• 10:58
  was
• 10:58
  gonna
• 10:58
  say,
• 10:58
  why
• 10:58
  not?
• 10:59
  Why
• 10:59
  not
• 10:59
  go
• 10:59
  on
• 10:59
  Reddit?
• 11:00
  I
• 11:00
  love
• 11:00
  Reddit,
• 11:01
  but
• 11:01
  everything
• 11:01
  is.
• 11:02
  I
• 11:02
  love
• 11:02
  Reddit
• 11:03
  too.
• 11:03
  I
• 11:04
  do.
• 11:04
  They
• 11:04
  have
• 11:04
  an
• 11:04
  Upper
• 11:05
  east
• 11:05
  side.
• 11:05
  I
• 11:06
  bet
• 11:06
  they
• 11:06
  do.
• 11:07
  Oh,
• 11:07
  my
• 11:07
  gosh.
• 11:08
  So
• 11:08
  I
• 11:08
  am
• 11:08
  still
• 11:09
  a
• 11:09
  member
• 11:09
  of
• 11:09
  the
• 11:09
  Reddit
• 11:10
  from
• 11:10
  my
• 11:10
  old
• 11:10
  neighborhood.
• 11:11
  Remember
• 11:12
  my
• 11:12
  nemesis
• 11:13
  from
• 11:13
  the
• 11:13
  dog.
• 11:13
  Yes,
• 11:14
  I
• 11:14
  do.
• 11:14
  He
• 11:14
  now
• 11:15
  has
• 11:15
  criminal
• 11:15
  charges
• 11:16
  pending
• 11:16
  against
• 11:17
  him.
• 11:17
  This
• 11:18
  horrible
• 11:18
  guy,
• 11:19
  he
• 11:19
  pepper
• 11:19
  sprayed
• 11:20
  a
• 11:20
  stranger
• 11:22
  and
• 11:22
  assaulted
• 11:23
  him,
• 11:23
  I
• 11:23
  guess,
• 11:23
  outside
• 11:24
  the
• 11:24
  dog
• 11:24
  park.
• 11:25
  Cause
• 11:25
  now
• 11:25
  he
• 11:25
  moved
• 11:26
  uptown
• 11:26
  because
• 11:26
  we
• 11:26
  drove
• 11:27
  him
• 11:27
  out.
• 11:27
  Okay.
• 11:28
  We
• 11:28
  all
• 11:28
  banded
• 11:28
  together.
• 11:29
  Okay.
• 11:29
  So
• 11:29
  there's
• 11:30
  a
• 11:30
  Reddit
• 11:30
  thing
• 11:30
  about
• 11:31
  him.
• 11:31
  Yeah.
• 11:32
  And
• 11:32
  it's
• 11:32
  gnarly.
• 11:34
  It's
• 11:34
  so
• 11:34
  crazy.
• 11:35
  It
• 11:35
  follows
• 11:35
  us.
• 11:35
  But
• 11:36
  anyway,
• 11:36
  Reddit,
• 11:37
  Reddit.
• 11:37
  Oh,
• 11:37
  I
• 11:38
  love
• 11:38
  Reddit.
• 11:38
  I
• 11:38
  just
• 11:39
  love
• 11:39
  Reddit.
• 11:39
  It's
• 11:39
  the
• 11:40
  best.
• 11:40
  Yeah.
• 11:41
  Yeah.
• 11:41
  And
• 11:41
  they're
• 11:41
  nice.
• 11:42
  And
• 11:42
  they
• 11:42
  don't
• 11:42
  make
• 11:43
  you
• 11:43
  submit
• 11:43
  all
• 11:44
  that
• 11:44
  documentation.
• 11:45
  No,
• 11:46
  they're
• 11:46
  like,
• 11:46
  we
• 11:46
  don't
• 11:47
  care
• 11:47
  who
• 11:47
  you
• 11:47
  are.
• 11:48
  You're
• 11:48
  here
• 11:48
  for
• 11:48
  the
• 11:49
  intel.
• 11:49
  Yeah.
• 11:50
  You
• 11:50
  just,
• 11:51
  you
• 11:51
  know,
• 11:51
  you
• 11:51
  can
• 11:51
  prove
• 11:52
  that
• 11:52
  you're
• 11:52
  legitimate
• 11:53
  by
• 11:53
  what
• 11:53
  you
• 11:54
  ask
• 11:54
  and
• 11:54
  what
• 11:54
  you
• 11:54
  give
• 11:55
  back.
• 11:55
  Exactly.
• 11:56
  So
• 11:56
  I
• 11:56
  do
• 11:57
  think
• 11:57
  that
• 11:57
  an
• 11:57
  online
• 11:58
  mother's
• 11:59
  group
• 11:59
  could
• 11:59
  be
• 12:00
  a
• 12:00
  good
• 12:00
  thing
• 12:00
  for.
• 12:02
  If
• 12:02
  it's
• 12:02
  in
• 12:02
  the
• 12:02
  right
• 12:02
  hands.
• 12:03
  If
• 12:03
  it's
• 12:03
  in
• 12:03
  the
• 12:03
  right
• 12:04
  hands.
• 12:04
  But
• 12:04
  I
• 12:04
  think
• 12:05
  if
• 12:05
  you
• 12:05
  are
• 12:05
  on
• 12:05
  the
• 12:05
  Upper
• 12:05
  east
• 12:06
  side
• 12:06
  of
• 12:06
  Manhattan,
• 12:07
  this
• 12:08
  may
• 12:08
  not
• 12:08
  be
• 12:08
  the
• 12:08
  best
• 12:08
  group
• 12:09
  for
• 12:09
  you.
• 12:09
  Unless
• 12:10
  you
• 12:10
  want
• 12:10
  to
• 12:10
  be
• 12:11
  barely
• 12:11
  exclusive
• 12:12
  and
• 12:12
  submit
• 12:12
  all
• 12:13
  this
• 12:13
  stuff
• 12:14
  into
• 12:14
  the
• 12:14
  hands
• 12:15
  of
• 12:15
  someone,
• 12:15
  you
• 12:16
  don't
• 12:16
  know
• 12:16
  what
• 12:16
  they're
• 12:16
  going
• 12:16
  to
• 12:17
  do
• 12:17
  with
• 12:17
  it.
• 12:17
  Go,
• 12:18
  be
• 12:18
  my
• 12:18
  guest.
• 12:18
  Yeah.
• 12:19
  When
• 12:19
  your
• 12:19
  stuff
• 12:19
  ends
• 12:19
  up
• 12:20
  on
• 12:20
  the
• 12:20
  dark
• 12:20
  web,
• 12:21
  I
• 12:21
  told
• 12:21
  you
• 12:22
  so,
• 12:22
  I
• 12:22
  wouldn't
• 12:23
  want
• 12:23
  that.
• 12:23
  I
• 12:24
  personally
• 12:24
  know.
• 12:24
  I,
• 12:25
  I.
• 12:25
  But
• 12:25
  that
• 12:25
  said,
• 12:26
  women
• 12:26
  uptown
• 12:27
  love
• 12:27
  exclusivity.
• 12:28
  Yeah,
• 12:29
  they
• 12:29
  do.
• 12:29
  If
• 12:29
  there's
• 12:29
  a
• 12:29
  restaurant
• 12:30
  they
• 12:30
  can't
• 12:30
  get
• 12:30
  into.
• 12:31
  Oh,
• 12:31
  my
• 12:31
  God.
• 12:32
  The
• 12:32
  length
• 12:33
  to
• 12:33
  which,
• 12:34
  yes,
• 12:34
  they
• 12:34
  will
• 12:34
  go.
• 12:35
  That's
• 12:35
  true.
• 12:36
  So,
• 12:36
  though,
• 12:36
  maybe
• 12:37
  people
• 12:37
  really
• 12:37
  just
• 12:38
  to
• 12:38
  be
• 12:38
  able
• 12:38
  to
• 12:38
  say,
• 12:39
  you're
• 12:39
  in
• 12:39
  this
• 12:39
  group,
• 12:40
  I'm
• 12:40
  in
• 12:40
  this
• 12:40
  group,
• 12:40
  that
• 12:41
  means
• 12:41
  you
• 12:41
  passed.
• 12:42
  All
• 12:42
  they
• 12:42
  want
• 12:42
  is
• 12:42
  to
• 12:43
  be
• 12:43
  part
• 12:43
  of
• 12:43
  groups
• 12:43
  that
• 12:43
  won't
• 12:44
  have
• 12:44
  them.
• 12:46
  Yeah,
• 12:47
  well,
• 12:47
  this
• 12:47
  is
• 12:47
  a
• 12:47
  way
• 12:47
  to
• 12:48
  do
• 12:48
  it.
• 12:48
  Couldn't
• 12:48
  be
• 12:49
  me,
• 12:49
  but
• 12:49
  it's
• 12:49
  just
• 12:49
  a
• 12:50
  face
• 12:50
  group.
• 12:51
  It's
• 12:51
  a
• 12:51
  Facebook
• 12:51
  group.
• 12:52
  Facebook
• 12:52
  thing.
• 12:53
  It's
• 12:54
  not
• 12:54
  that.
• 12:56
  All
• 12:56
  right.
• 12:56
  My
• 12:57
  business
• 12:57
  all
• 12:57
  right,
• 12:57
  all
• 12:58
  right.
• 12:58
  Well
• 12:58
  that
• 12:58
  I
• 12:58
  would
• 12:59
  say,
• 12:59
  you
• 12:59
  know,
• 12:59
  if
• 13:00
  in
• 13:00
  your
• 13:00
  community
• 13:00
  though
• 13:01
  there's
• 13:02
  a
• 13:02
  Facebook
• 13:02
  group
• 13:02
  for
• 13:03
  your
• 13:03
  community
• 13:03
  or
• 13:04
  Reddit
• 13:04
  group.
• 13:04
  A
• 13:05
  Reddit
• 13:05
  group.
• 13:05
  I
• 13:06
  read
• 13:06
  it.
• 13:06
  Go
• 13:06
  for
• 13:07
  Reddit.
• 13:07
  They're
• 13:08
  going
• 13:08
  to
• 13:08
  be
• 13:08
  nice.
• 13:08
  They
• 13:08
  are
• 13:09
  going
• 13:09
  to
• 13:09
  be
• 13:09
  nice.
• 13:10
  So
• 13:10
  then
• 13:11
  the
• 13:12
  article
• 13:12
  that
• 13:13
  actually
• 13:13
  like
• 13:13
  really
• 13:13
  inspired
• 13:14
  this
• 13:14
  episode
• 13:15
  was
• 13:16
  the
• 13:16
  one
• 13:16
  in
• 13:16
  the
• 13:16
  confusing
• 13:17
  cut.
• 13:18
  In
• 13:18
  the
• 13:18
  cut
• 13:19
  in
• 13:19
  the
• 13:19
  cut
• 13:21
  with
• 13:21
  Ashley
• 13:22
  Tisdale,
• 13:22
  which
• 13:22
  got
• 13:22
  so
• 13:23
  much
• 13:23
  media
• 13:24
  attention.
• 13:24
  Yeah.
• 13:25
  It's
• 13:25
  even
• 13:26
  an
• 13:26
  option
• 13:26
  for
• 13:27
  a
• 13:27
  movie.
• 13:27
  That's
• 13:28
  crazy.
• 13:28
  It's
• 13:28
  crazy.
• 13:29
  But
• 13:29
  I
• 13:30
  guess,
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  know,
• 13:30
  it
• 13:30
  doesn't
• 13:31
  take
• 13:31
  much
• 13:32
  to
• 13:32
  make
• 13:32
  a
• 13:32
  movie.
• 13:32
  I
• 13:33
  mean,
• 13:33
  you
• 13:33
  know,
• 13:33
  it
• 13:33
  doesn't
• 13:34
  take
• 13:34
  much
• 13:34
  to
• 13:35
  make
• 13:35
  a
• 13:35
  movie.
• 13:35
  It's
• 13:36
  a
• 13:36
  title.
• 13:36
  I
• 13:36
  mean,
• 13:37
  it's
• 13:37
  like
• 13:37
  bad.
• 13:38
  It's
• 13:38
  like
• 13:38
  Mom's
• 13:38
  group
• 13:39
  now
• 13:39
  that's
• 13:39
  gonna
• 13:40
  be
• 13:40
  the
• 13:40
  name
• 13:40
  of
• 13:40
  the
• 13:40
  movie.
• 13:41
  Whatever.
• 13:42
  Or
• 13:42
  you
• 13:43
  know,
• 13:43
  like
• 13:43
  Bad
• 13:43
  Moms
• 13:44
  or
• 13:44
  there
• 13:45
  is
• 13:45
  a
• 13:45
  movie
• 13:45
  called
• 13:45
  Bad.
• 13:45
  I
• 13:46
  know
• 13:46
  that.
• 13:46
  And
• 13:46
  so
• 13:46
  I'm
• 13:46
  just
• 13:47
  saying,
• 13:47
  you
• 13:47
  know,
• 13:47
  that
• 13:47
  doesn't
• 13:48
  take.
• 13:48
  Mom
• 13:48
  interrupted.
• 13:49
  Ye.
• 13:50
  Yes,
• 13:50
  I
• 13:50
  know.
• 13:51
  So
• 13:51
  it's.
• 13:51
  If
• 13:51
  they
• 13:52
  use
• 13:52
  that,
• 13:52
  you
• 13:52
  better
• 13:53
  write
• 13:53
  me
• 13:53
  a
• 13:53
  check.
• 13:55
  Oh,
• 13:55
  cuz
• 13:55
  you
• 13:56
  just
• 13:56
  invented
• 13:56
  it.
• 13:56
  I
• 13:57
  did.
• 13:57
  Mom's
• 13:58
  interrupted.
• 13:59
  Well,
• 13:59
  yeah,
• 14:00
  there's
• 14:00
  something
• 14:00
  called
• 14:00
  girl
• 14:01
  interrupt.
• 14:01
  No,
• 14:01
  I
• 14:01
  know.
• 14:02
  That's
• 14:02
  the
• 14:02
  joke.
• 14:04
  I'm
• 14:04
  a
• 14:05
  little
• 14:05
  behind.
• 14:05
  That's
• 14:06
  okay.
• 14:06
  That's
• 14:07
  all
• 14:07
  right,
• 14:07
  Dean.
• 14:08
  Live
• 14:08
  your
• 14:08
  life,
• 14:09
  girl.
• 14:09
  I
• 14:09
  know.
• 14:09
  I'm
• 14:10
  sorry.
• 14:10
  Okay.
• 14:11
  All
• 14:11
  right,
• 14:11
  so
• 14:12
  tell
• 14:12
  us
• 14:12
  about
• 14:12
  the.
• 14:12
  Tell
• 14:13
  us
• 14:13
  about
• 14:13
  the
• 14:13
  article
• 14:14
  in
• 14:14
  about
• 14:15
  Ashley
• 14:15
  and
• 14:15
  what
• 14:15
  happened.
• 14:16
  So
• 14:16
  Ashley
• 14:16
  Tisdale
• 14:17
  came
• 14:17
  out
• 14:17
  with
• 14:17
  this
• 14:18
  article
• 14:18
  basically
• 14:19
  saying,
• 14:19
  you
• 14:19
  know,
• 14:19
  when
• 14:20
  I
• 14:20
  first
• 14:20
  had
• 14:20
  my
• 14:20
  daughter,
• 14:21
  I
• 14:21
  really
• 14:22
  was
• 14:22
  looking
• 14:22
  for
• 14:22
  a
• 14:22
  community
• 14:23
  of
• 14:23
  people
• 14:23
  who
• 14:23
  had
• 14:24
  had
• 14:24
  kids
• 14:24
  around
• 14:24
  the
• 14:24
  same
• 14:25
  age.
• 14:25
  Because
• 14:26
  being
• 14:26
  a
• 14:27
  new
• 14:27
  mom
• 14:27
  can
• 14:27
  be
• 14:27
  isolating.
• 14:28
  You
• 14:28
  know,
• 14:29
  it
• 14:29
  can.
• 14:29
  I'm
• 14:30
  personally
• 14:30
  looking
• 14:30
  for
• 14:30
  a
• 14:30
  group
• 14:31
  of.
• 14:31
  Of
• 14:31
  moms
• 14:32
  that
• 14:32
  is
• 14:32
  non
• 14:32
  toxic.
• 14:33
  If
• 14:34
  there's
• 14:34
  anybody
• 14:34
  out
• 14:35
  there
• 14:35
  and
• 14:36
  you
• 14:36
  guys
• 14:36
  need
• 14:36
  a
• 14:37
  new
• 14:37
  member,
• 14:38
  hit
• 14:38
  me
• 14:38
  up.
• 14:38
  I'm
• 14:39
  available.
• 14:40
  But
• 14:41
  she
• 14:41
  joins
• 14:42
  this
• 14:42
  group
• 14:42
  and
• 14:42
  at
• 14:42
  first
• 14:43
  it's
• 14:43
  amazing.
• 14:43
  She's
• 14:44
  like,
• 14:44
  I
• 14:44
  really
• 14:44
  relied
• 14:44
  on
• 14:45
  these
• 14:45
  women.
• 14:45
  Our
• 14:45
  kids
• 14:46
  were
• 14:46
  all
• 14:46
  close
• 14:47
  and
• 14:47
  she's
• 14:47
  like.
• 14:47
  But
• 14:48
  then,
• 14:48
  you
• 14:48
  know,
• 14:49
  it
• 14:49
  started
• 14:49
  to
• 14:49
  get
• 14:49
  cliquey
• 14:50
  and
• 14:50
  I
• 14:50
  started
• 14:51
  to
• 14:51
  realize
• 14:51
  that
• 14:51
  like
• 14:52
  they
• 14:52
  were
• 14:52
  hanging
• 14:52
  out
• 14:52
  without
• 14:53
  me,
• 14:53
  which
• 14:54
  I
• 14:54
  feel
• 14:54
  is
• 14:54
  just
• 14:55
  a
• 14:55
  symptom
• 14:55
  of
• 14:56
  any
• 14:56
  group
• 14:56
  of
• 14:56
  women
• 14:57
  being
• 14:57
  friends.
• 14:57
  Oh
• 14:58
  yeah.
• 14:58
  You
• 14:58
  know,
• 14:58
  it's.
• 14:59
  No
• 14:59
  matter
• 15:00
  the
• 15:00
  situation,
• 15:02
  it
• 15:02
  is
• 15:02
  really
• 15:03
  difficult
• 15:03
  for
• 15:04
  like
• 15:04
  subgroups
• 15:05
  not
• 15:05
  to
• 15:05
  form.
• 15:06
  Right.
• 15:06
  Or
• 15:07
  people
• 15:07
  to
• 15:07
  want
• 15:07
  to
• 15:08
  do
• 15:08
  things
• 15:08
  together.
• 15:09
  Not
• 15:09
  with
• 15:09
  the
• 15:10
  entire
• 15:10
  group.
• 15:11
  Yeah.
• 15:11
  Which.
• 15:12
  Fair.
• 15:12
  Yeah.
• 15:13
  Like
• 15:13
  I
• 15:13
  have
• 15:13
  a
• 15:13
  picture,
• 15:14
  by
• 15:14
  the
• 15:14
  way,
• 15:14
  of
• 15:14
  the
• 15:15
  group
• 15:15
  that
• 15:16
  ran.
• 15:16
  Let
• 15:16
  me
• 15:16
  see
• 15:16
  if
• 15:17
  I
• 15:17
  can
• 15:17
  find
• 15:17
  It.
• 15:19
  Oh,
• 15:19
  no,
• 15:19
  wait,
• 15:19
  where's.
• 15:20
  I
• 15:20
  have
• 15:20
  it.
• 15:21
  I've
• 15:21
  lost
• 15:22
  it.
• 15:22
  Oh,
• 15:22
  wait.
• 15:22
  You
• 15:23
  have
• 15:23
  so
• 15:23
  many
• 15:23
  more
• 15:23
  cards
• 15:24
  than
• 15:24
  me.
• 15:24
  How
• 15:24
  did
• 15:24
  this
• 15:24
  happen?
• 15:25
  I
• 15:25
  don't
• 15:25
  know,
• 15:26
  but
• 15:26
  here
• 15:26
  is
• 15:26
  a
• 15:26
  picture
• 15:27
  of
• 15:27
  the
• 15:27
  group.
• 15:27
  Matching
• 15:28
  outfits.
• 15:29
  Some
• 15:29
  of
• 15:29
  them.
• 15:30
  They.
• 15:30
  First
• 15:31
  of
• 15:31
  all,
• 15:31
  these
• 15:31
  women,
• 15:32
  a
• 15:32
  lot
• 15:32
  of
• 15:32
  them
• 15:32
  are
• 15:32
  wearing
• 15:33
  red.
• 15:34
  They
• 15:34
  are
• 15:35
  so
• 15:35
  beautiful.
• 15:36
  I
• 15:36
  mean,
• 15:36
  who
• 15:37
  are
• 15:37
  these
• 15:37
  women?
• 15:37
  Well,
• 15:38
  some
• 15:38
  are
• 15:38
  movie
• 15:38
  stars.
• 15:39
  Yes.
• 15:39
  And
• 15:39
  some
• 15:39
  are,
• 15:40
  you
• 15:40
  know,
• 15:40
  pop
• 15:41
  stars.
• 15:41
  Whatever.
• 15:41
  They're
• 15:42
  all
• 15:42
  in
• 15:42
  la,
• 15:42
  so.
• 15:43
  But
• 15:43
  they're
• 15:44
  gorgeous.
• 15:44
  Yeah.
• 15:44
  I
• 15:45
  mean,
• 15:45
  it's
• 15:45
  like.
• 15:45
  This
• 15:45
  is
• 15:46
  like
• 15:46
  a
• 15:46
  bunch
• 15:46
  of
• 15:46
  models
• 15:47
  pretending
• 15:47
  to
• 15:47
  be
• 15:47
  a
• 15:47
  mom.
• 15:48
  I
• 15:48
  guess
• 15:48
  they're
• 15:48
  all
• 15:48
  moms.
• 15:49
  You
• 15:49
  can
• 15:50
  be
• 15:50
  both
• 15:50
  a
• 15:50
  mom
• 15:50
  and
• 15:51
  a
• 15:51
  model.
• 15:51
  Well,
• 15:52
  they.
• 15:52
  They
• 15:53
  are
• 15:53
  beautiful.
• 15:54
  I
• 15:54
  would
• 15:54
  hate
• 15:55
  to
• 15:55
  be
• 15:55
  part
• 15:55
  of
• 15:55
  that
• 15:55
  group.
• 15:56
  I
• 15:56
  would
• 15:56
  feel
• 15:56
  like
• 15:56
  the
• 15:57
  short,
• 15:57
  ugly
• 15:57
  one.
• 15:58
  I
• 15:58
  mean,
• 15:58
  this
• 15:58
  is.
• 15:58
  It
• 15:59
  reminds
• 15:59
  me.
• 15:59
  It
• 16:00
  reminds
• 16:00
  me.
• 16:00
  I
• 16:01
  worked
• 16:01
  at
• 16:01
  this
• 16:01
  place.
• 16:02
  I
• 16:02
  worked
• 16:02
  at
• 16:02
  a
• 16:02
  lot
• 16:03
  of
• 16:03
  nightclubs,
• 16:03
  but
• 16:04
  I
• 16:04
  worked
• 16:04
  at
• 16:04
  this
• 16:04
  one
• 16:04
  nightclub
• 16:05
  where
• 16:06
  the
• 16:06
  women
• 16:06
  were
• 16:07
  so
• 16:07
  impossibly
• 16:08
  beautiful.
• 16:09
  They
• 16:10
  were
• 16:10
  like
• 16:10
  all
• 16:10
  6ft
• 16:11
  tall,
• 16:12
  weighed
• 16:12
  12
• 16:13
  pounds,
• 16:14
  had,
• 16:14
  like
• 16:15
  double
• 16:15
  D
• 16:16
  boobs.
• 16:17
  Wow.
• 16:17
  Perfect
• 16:17
  faces.
• 16:18
  It.
• 16:19
  It
• 16:19
  felt
• 16:19
  like
• 16:20
  I
• 16:20
  was
• 16:20
  in
• 16:21
  the
• 16:21
  Lion
• 16:21
  King.
• 16:22
  Wow.
• 16:22
  And
• 16:22
  they
• 16:22
  were
• 16:23
  just
• 16:23
  like
• 16:23
  this
• 16:23
  beautiful
• 16:24
  pride
• 16:24
  of
• 16:24
  lions.
• 16:25
  And
• 16:25
  I
• 16:25
  was
• 16:25
  Simba.
• 16:27
  I
• 16:27
  was
• 16:27
  like,
• 16:27
  hey,
• 16:27
  guys.
• 16:28
  I'm
• 16:28
  like,
• 16:28
  three
• 16:29
  beats
• 16:29
  all.
• 16:29
  Don't
• 16:29
  mind
• 16:30
  me.
• 16:30
  I'm
• 16:30
  the
• 16:30
  personality
• 16:31
  hire.
• 16:33
  And
• 16:33
  I
• 16:33
  was
• 16:33
  just
• 16:33
  like,
• 16:34
  oh,
• 16:34
  my
• 16:35
  God,
• 16:35
  how
• 16:35
  do
• 16:35
  they
• 16:36
  get
• 16:36
  in
• 16:36
  here?
• 16:36
  I
• 16:36
  don't
• 16:37
  know.
• 16:37
  I
• 16:37
  just.
• 16:37
  They
• 16:38
  were
• 16:38
  so
• 16:38
  nice.
• 16:39
  They
• 16:39
  were
• 16:39
  the
• 16:39
  nicest
• 16:40
  people
• 16:40
  I've
• 16:40
  ever
• 16:40
  worked.
• 16:41
  Well,
• 16:41
  maybe
• 16:41
  these
• 16:41
  ladies
• 16:42
  are
• 16:42
  really
• 16:42
  nice.
• 16:43
  Yeah,
• 16:43
  maybe
• 16:43
  they
• 16:43
  are.
• 16:43
  Well,
• 16:44
  apparently
• 16:44
  not.
• 16:45
  I
• 16:45
  guess
• 16:45
  not.
• 16:45
  Well,
• 16:45
  this
• 16:46
  is
• 16:46
  the
• 16:46
  thing.
• 16:46
  There's
• 16:46
  always
• 16:46
  two
• 16:47
  sides
• 16:47
  to
• 16:47
  every
• 16:47
  girl.
• 16:48
  Dr.
• 16:49
  Right?
• 16:49
  Yes.
• 16:50
  There
• 16:50
  is
• 16:50
  the
• 16:51
  side
• 16:51
  of
• 16:51
  the
• 16:51
  one
• 16:52
  who
• 16:52
  was
• 16:52
  wronged,
• 16:53
  the
• 16:53
  sides
• 16:53
  of
• 16:54
  the
• 16:54
  wrongers,
• 16:54
  and
• 16:55
  then
• 16:55
  there's
• 16:55
  the
• 16:55
  truth.
• 16:56
  So,
• 16:56
  yeah,
• 16:57
  this
• 16:57
  is
• 16:57
  a
• 16:57
  group.
• 16:57
  So
• 16:58
  three
• 16:58
  sides.
• 16:58
  It's
• 16:59
  a
• 16:59
  group
• 16:59
  where
• 16:59
  that
• 16:59
  met
• 17:00
  in
• 17:00
  person,
• 17:00
  obviously.
• 17:01
  Yeah,
• 17:01
  it
• 17:01
  was
• 17:01
  a
• 17:02
  mom's
• 17:02
  group.
• 17:02
  An
• 17:03
  IRL
• 17:04
  Mom's
• 17:04
  group.
• 17:05
  What's
• 17:05
  an
• 17:05
  IRL
• 17:06
  in
• 17:06
  real
• 17:06
  life?
• 17:07
  Oh,
• 17:08
  my
• 17:08
  God.
• 17:09
  You
• 17:09
  have
• 17:09
  to
• 17:09
  have
• 17:10
  abbreviations
• 17:11
  for
• 17:12
  real
• 17:12
  life
• 17:12
  now.
• 17:13
  Yeah.
• 17:13
  Okay.
• 17:14
  Oh,
• 17:14
  wow.
• 17:14
  I
• 17:15
  do.
• 17:15
  Okay.
• 17:15
  Okay.
• 17:16
  Irl.
• 17:17
  Okay,
• 17:18
  good.
• 17:19
  That's
• 17:20
  a
• 17:20
  new
• 17:20
  one
• 17:20
  for
• 17:20
  me.
• 17:21
  Okay.
• 17:22
  So.
• 17:22
  Yeah,
• 17:23
  well.
• 17:23
  And
• 17:23
  I
• 17:23
  loved
• 17:24
  when.
• 17:24
  When
• 17:24
  she
• 17:25
  wrote
• 17:25
  about
• 17:25
  it,
• 17:25
  she
• 17:25
  said,
• 17:26
  you
• 17:26
  know,
• 17:26
  I
• 17:26
  love
• 17:26
  these
• 17:26
  weight.
• 17:27
  When
• 17:27
  I
• 17:27
  found
• 17:28
  them,
• 17:28
  these
• 17:28
  women,
• 17:29
  they
• 17:29
  were
• 17:29
  my
• 17:29
  people.
• 17:30
  They
• 17:30
  were
• 17:31
  building
• 17:31
  brands,
• 17:32
  running
• 17:32
  their
• 17:32
  own
• 17:33
  companies,
• 17:34
  launching
• 17:34
  creative
• 17:35
  projects.
• 17:36
  And
• 17:36
  I
• 17:37
  was
• 17:37
  running
• 17:37
  my
• 17:37
  own
• 17:38
  company,
• 17:38
  too.
• 17:39
  So
• 17:39
  I
• 17:39
  thought
• 17:39
  they
• 17:39
  would
• 17:40
  really
• 17:40
  understand
• 17:41
  me.
• 17:41
  When
• 17:41
  do
• 17:42
  you
• 17:42
  guys
• 17:42
  have
• 17:42
  time
• 17:42
  to
• 17:42
  mother
• 17:43
  your
• 17:43
  children?
• 17:43
  Right?
• 17:44
  You're
• 17:44
  too
• 17:44
  busy
• 17:44
  running
• 17:45
  companies.
• 17:48
  Oh,
• 17:48
  my
• 17:48
  God,
• 17:48
  that
• 17:48
  seems
• 17:49
  like
• 17:49
  a
• 17:49
  strange
• 17:49
  reason
• 17:50
  to
• 17:51
  like
• 17:51
  the
• 17:52
  mom.
• 17:53
  This
• 17:53
  is.
• 17:54
  Everyone's
• 17:54
  here
• 17:54
  under
• 17:54
  the
• 17:55
  auspices
• 17:56
  of
• 17:56
  moms
• 17:56
  being
• 17:57
  moms,
• 17:57
  but
• 17:57
  really,
• 17:58
  they're
• 17:58
  building
• 17:58
  brands.
• 17:59
  They're
• 17:59
  building
• 17:59
  brands
• 18:00
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• 18:00
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• 18:00
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• 18:01
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• 18:01
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• 18:01
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• 18:02
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• 18:02
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• 18:02
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• 18:02
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• 18:03
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• 18:03
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• 18:03
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• 18:04
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• 18:04
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• 18:04
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• 18:05
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• 18:05
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• 18:05
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• 18:05
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• 18:06
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• 18:06
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• 18:06
  That's
• 18:07
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• 18:07
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• 18:07
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• 18:07
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• 18:08
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• 18:08
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• 18:08
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• 18:09
  And.
• 18:09
  But.
• 18:10
  But
• 18:10
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• 18:10
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• 18:10
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• 18:10
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• 18:11
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• 18:11
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• 18:11
  badly
• 18:12
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• 18:14
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• 18:14
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• 18:15
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• 18:15
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• 18:15
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• 18:16
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• 18:16
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• 18:17
  things.
• 18:17
  And
• 18:17
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• 18:17
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• 18:18
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• 18:18
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• 18:18
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• 18:18
  birthday
• 18:18
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• 18:19
  she
• 18:19
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• 18:19
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• 18:19
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• 18:20
  She
• 18:20
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• 18:20
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• 18:21
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• 18:21
  she
• 18:22
  wasn't
• 18:22
  at
• 18:22
  the
• 18:22
  girl
• 18:23
  hang
• 18:23
  that
• 18:23
  they
• 18:24
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• 18:24
  planned.
• 18:24
  At
• 18:25
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• 18:25
  girl
• 18:25
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• 18:26
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• 18:26
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• 18:27
  know
• 18:27
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• 18:27
  a
• 18:27
  girl
• 18:27
  hang
• 18:27
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• 18:28
  either,
• 18:28
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• 18:29
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• 18:29
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• 18:29
  it's.
• 18:29
  We're
• 18:29
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• 18:30
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• 18:30
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• 18:30
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• 18:30
  we're
• 18:30
  all
• 18:30
  girls.
• 18:31
  Yeah.
• 18:31
  Yeah.
• 18:32
  Okay.
• 18:33
  Anyway,
• 18:33
  she
• 18:34
  wasn't
• 18:34
  invited.
• 18:35
  So,
• 18:36
  anyway,
• 18:37
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• 18:37
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• 18:37
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• 18:37
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• 18:38
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• 18:38
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• 18:38
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• 18:38
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• 18:39
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• 18:40
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• 18:40
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• 18:40
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• 18:40
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• 18:40
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• 18:41
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• 18:41
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• 18:41
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• 18:42
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• 18:42
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• 18:42
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• 18:42
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• 18:42
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• 18:42
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• 18:43
  Was
• 18:43
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• 18:43
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• 18:43
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• 18:44
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• 18:44
  What
• 18:45
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• 18:45
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• 18:45
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• 18:45
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• 18:45
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• 18:45
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• 18:46
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• 18:46
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• 18:46
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• 18:47
  me?
• 18:48
  And
• 18:49
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• 18:49
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• 18:49
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• 18:49
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• 18:49
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• 18:50
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• 18:50
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• 18:50
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• 18:50
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• 18:51
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• 18:51
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• 18:52
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• 18:52
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• 18:53
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• 18:53
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• 18:53
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• 18:54
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• 18:54
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• 18:54
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• 18:54
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• 18:55
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• 18:56
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• 18:56
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• 18:57
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• 18:57
  mom.
• 18:58
  Aren't
• 18:58
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• 18:58
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• 18:59
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• 18:59
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• 18:59
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• 18:59
  kids
• 19:00
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• 19:00
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• 19:00
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• 19:00
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• 19:00
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• 19:01
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• 19:01
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• 19:01
  hurt?
• 19:01
  Yes.
• 19:03
  And
• 19:03
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• 19:03
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• 19:03
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• 19:04
  knew
• 19:04
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• 19:04
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• 19:04
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• 19:04
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• 19:04
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• 19:05
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• 19:05
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• 19:05
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• 19:05
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• 19:05
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• 19:06
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• 19:06
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• 19:06
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• 19:07
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• 19:07
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• 19:07
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• 19:07
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• 19:08
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• 19:08
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• 19:09
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• 19:09
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• 19:09
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• 19:10
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• 19:10
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• 19:10
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• 19:11
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• 19:11
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• 19:11
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• 19:12
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• 19:12
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• 19:12
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• 19:12
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• 19:12
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• 19:13
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• 19:13
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• 19:13
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• 19:13
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• 19:13
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• 19:14
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• 19:14
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• 19:15
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• 19:15
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• 19:15
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• 19:15
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• 19:15
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• 19:17
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• 19:17
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• 19:17
  of
• 19:17
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• 19:18
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• 19:18
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• 19:18
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• 19:18
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• 19:19
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• 19:19
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• 19:19
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• 19:19
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• 19:20
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• 19:20
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• 19:20
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• 19:21
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• 19:21
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• 19:21
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• 19:21
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• 19:21
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• 19:22
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• 19:22
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• 19:22
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• 19:22
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• 19:23
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• 19:23
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• 19:23
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• 19:24
  Can
• 19:24
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• 19:25
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• 19:25
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• 19:25
  what
• 19:26
  this
• 19:26
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• 19:27
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• 19:27
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• 19:27
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• 19:27
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• 19:27
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• 19:28
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• 19:28
  situation?
• 19:30
  Does
• 19:30
  it?
• 19:30
  Right.
• 19:31
  Like,
• 19:31
  girl,
• 19:32
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• 19:32
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• 19:33
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• 19:33
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• 19:34
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• 19:34
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• 19:35
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• 19:35
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• 19:35
  And
• 19:36
  listen,
• 19:36
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• 19:36
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• 19:36
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• 19:37
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• 19:37
  Yes.
• 19:37
  You
• 19:38
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• 19:38
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• 19:38
  it
• 19:39
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• 19:39
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• 19:40
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• 19:40
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• 19:40
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• 19:40
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• 19:41
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• 19:41
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• 19:41
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• 19:42
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• 19:42
  me.
• 19:42
  But.
• 19:43
  But
• 19:43
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• 19:44
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• 19:44
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• 19:44
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• 19:45
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• 19:45
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• 19:45
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• 19:45
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• 19:45
  Right?
• 19:46
  Right.
• 19:46
  You
• 19:47
  know,
• 19:47
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• 19:48
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• 19:48
  And
• 19:48
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• 19:49
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• 19:49
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• 19:49
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• 19:49
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• 19:49
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• 19:49
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• 19:50
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• 19:51
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• 19:51
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• 19:51
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• 19:51
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• 19:51
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• 19:52
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• 19:53
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• 19:53
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• 19:53
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• 19:53
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• 19:54
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• 19:54
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• 19:55
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• 19:55
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• 19:56
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• 19:56
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• 19:57
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• 19:57
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• 19:57
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• 19:57
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• 19:58
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• 19:58
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• 19:59
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• 19:59
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• 20:00
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• 20:01
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• 20:01
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• 20:01
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• 20:01
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• 20:01
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• 20:02
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• 20:02
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• 20:02
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• 20:02
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• 20:03
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• 20:03
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• 20:03
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• 20:03
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• 20:03
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• 20:03
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• 20:04
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• 20:04
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• 20:04
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• 20:04
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• 20:05
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• 20:05
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• 20:05
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• 20:05
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• 20:06
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• 20:06
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• 20:07
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• 20:07
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• 20:07
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• 20:07
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• 20:08
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• 20:08
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• 20:08
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• 20:08
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• 20:09
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• 20:09
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• 20:09
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• 20:10
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• 20:10
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• 20:10
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• 20:10
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• 20:11
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• 20:11
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• 20:12
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• 20:12
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• 20:12
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• 20:12
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• 20:13
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• 20:13
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• 20:13
  true.
• 20:13
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• 20:14
  Can't
• 20:14
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• 20:14
  that
• 20:14
  I've
• 20:15
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• 20:15
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• 20:15
  a
• 20:15
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• 20:15
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• 20:15
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• 20:16
  group
• 20:16
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• 20:16
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• 20:16
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• 20:16
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• 20:17
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• 20:17
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• 20:18
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• 20:18
  They
• 20:19
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• 20:19
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• 20:20
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• 20:20
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• 20:20
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• 20:20
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• 20:21
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• 20:21
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• 20:21
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• 20:21
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• 20:22
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• 20:22
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• 20:22
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• 20:22
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• 20:23
  wrong
• 20:23
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• 20:23
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• 20:24
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• 20:24
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• 20:25
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• 20:25
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• 20:25
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• 20:26
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• 20:26
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• 20:27
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• 20:27
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• 20:27
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• 20:27
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• 20:28
  In
• 20:29
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• 20:29
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• 20:29
  experience,
• 20:30
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• 20:30
  in
• 20:30
  some
• 20:31
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• 20:31
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• 20:31
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• 20:31
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• 20:32
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• 20:32
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• 20:32
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• 20:33
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• 20:33
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• 20:34
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• 20:34
  healthiest
• 20:35
  when
• 20:35
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• 20:35
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• 20:35
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• 20:35
  on
• 20:35
  one,
• 20:36
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• 20:36
  think,
• 20:37
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• 20:37
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• 20:38
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• 20:38
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• 20:38
  sure
• 20:38
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• 20:39
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• 20:39
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• 20:39
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• 20:39
  wrong.
• 20:40
  The
• 20:40
  Spice
• 20:41
  Girls.
• 20:42
  But
• 20:42
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• 20:42
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• 20:43
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• 20:43
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• 20:43
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• 20:43
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• 20:44
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• 20:44
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• 20:44
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• 20:44
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• 20:44
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• 20:45
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• 20:45
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• 20:45
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• 20:45
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• 20:45
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• 20:45
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• 20:46
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• 20:46
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• 20:46
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• 20:47
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• 20:48
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• 20:48
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• 20:48
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• 20:49
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• 20:49
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• 20:49
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• 20:50
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• 20:50
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• 20:50
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• 20:51
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• 20:51
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• 20:51
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• 20:52
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• 20:52
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• 20:52
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• 20:53
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• 20:53
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• 20:53
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• 20:53
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• 20:54
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• 20:54
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• 20:54
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• 20:55
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• 20:55
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• 20:55
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• 20:56
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• 20:57
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• 20:57
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• 20:58
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• 20:58
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• 20:58
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• 20:58
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• 20:58
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• 20:59
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• 21:00
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• 21:00
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• 21:00
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• 21:01
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• 21:02
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• 21:03
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• 21:03
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• 21:05
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• 21:05
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• 21:05
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• 21:06
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• 21:06
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• 21:07
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• 21:07
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• 21:08
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• 21:08
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• 21:09
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• 21:09
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• 21:10
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• 21:10
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• 21:10
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• 21:10
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• 21:12
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• 21:12
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• 21:12
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• 21:12
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• 21:13
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• 21:13
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• 21:13
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  This
• 22:11
  is
• 22:12
  not
• 22:12
  the
• 22:12
  time
• 22:12
  to
• 22:13
  discuss
• 22:13
  the
• 22:14
  Middle
• 22:14
  East.
• 22:14
  Exactly.
• 22:15
  It's
• 22:15
  like,
• 22:15
  let's
• 22:16
  not
• 22:16
  do
• 22:16
  it
• 22:16
  here.
• 22:16
  And
• 22:17
  then
• 22:17
  we've
• 22:17
  gotten
• 22:17
  into
• 22:17
  big
• 22:18
  fights
• 22:18
  over
• 22:18
  that
• 22:19
  or
• 22:19
  people
• 22:19
  have
• 22:19
  gotten
• 22:19
  angry
• 22:20
  and
• 22:20
  they've
• 22:20
  left
• 22:20
  the
• 22:21
  group.
• 22:21
  I
• 22:21
  mean,
• 22:21
  it
• 22:21
  happens.
• 22:22
  It
• 22:22
  happens
• 22:23
  in
• 22:23
  every
• 22:24
  group.
• 22:24
  I
• 22:24
  mean,
• 22:25
  I
• 22:25
  think
• 22:25
  that's
• 22:25
  just
• 22:25
  group
• 22:25
  dialogue
• 22:26
  dynamics
• 22:26
  when
• 22:27
  you're,
• 22:27
  you
• 22:28
  know.
• 22:28
  Yeah.
• 22:29
  I
• 22:29
  also
• 22:29
  think
• 22:30
  it's
• 22:31
  the
• 22:31
  fault
• 22:31
  of
• 22:31
  the
• 22:31
  Internet
• 22:32
  where
• 22:33
  it's
• 22:33
  like
• 22:34
  everything
• 22:34
  we
• 22:35
  are
• 22:35
  just
• 22:35
  constantly
• 22:36
  bombarded
• 22:36
  with
• 22:37
  information
• 22:38
  and
• 22:39
  we
• 22:39
  are
• 22:40
  sort
• 22:40
  of
• 22:41
  forced.
• 22:41
  It's
• 22:41
  like
• 22:42
  everyone's
• 22:42
  like,
• 22:42
  if
• 22:42
  you
• 22:42
  don't
• 22:43
  take
• 22:43
  a
• 22:43
  side,
• 22:44
  then
• 22:44
  you
• 22:45
  don't
• 22:45
  stand
• 22:45
  for
• 22:45
  anything.
• 22:46
  And
• 22:46
  it's
• 22:46
  like,
• 22:46
  well,
• 22:47
  maybe
• 22:47
  I
• 22:47
  don't
• 22:48
  know
• 22:48
  enough.
• 22:48
  Yeah.
• 22:49
  Maybe
• 22:49
  I
• 22:49
  don't
• 22:49
  want
• 22:50
  to
• 22:50
  take
• 22:50
  a
• 22:50
  side.
• 22:50
  Yeah.
• 22:51
  Maybe
• 22:51
  I
• 22:52
  don't
• 22:52
  feel
• 22:52
  equipped.
• 22:53
  Yeah.
• 22:54
  Or
• 22:54
  I
• 22:54
  just
• 22:54
  don't
• 22:55
  want
• 22:55
  to
• 22:55
  get
• 22:55
  into
• 22:55
  it
• 22:55
  with
• 22:56
  people
• 22:56
  about
• 22:56
  this.
• 22:57
  Yeah.
• 22:57
  Maybe
• 22:57
  it's
• 22:57
  just
• 22:58
  not
• 22:58
  of
• 22:58
  your
• 22:58
  business.
• 22:59
  I
• 22:59
  don't
• 22:59
  know.
• 22:59
  I.
• 23:00
  Yeah.
• 23:00
  I
• 23:00
  mean,
• 23:01
  after
• 23:01
  the
• 23:02
  article
• 23:02
  came
• 23:03
  out,
• 23:04
  there
• 23:04
  were
• 23:06
  retorts.
• 23:07
  Retorts.
• 23:07
  Hillary.
• 23:08
  Hillary
• 23:09
  Duff's
• 23:09
  husband
• 23:10
  Matthew
• 23:12
  posted
• 23:12
  a
• 23:12
  picture
• 23:12
  of
• 23:13
  himself
• 23:13
  saying,
• 23:14
  when
• 23:14
  you're
• 23:14
  the
• 23:14
  most
• 23:14
  self
• 23:15
  obsessed,
• 23:15
  tone
• 23:16
  deaf
• 23:16
  person
• 23:16
  on
• 23:17
  earth,
• 23:17
  other
• 23:17
  moms
• 23:18
  tend
• 23:18
  to
• 23:18
  shift
• 23:18
  focus
• 23:19
  to
• 23:20
  their
• 23:20
  actual
• 23:20
  toddlers.
• 23:22
  Wait.
• 23:24
  Bless
• 23:24
  you.
• 23:25
  I
• 23:25
  was
• 23:25
  going
• 23:25
  to
• 23:25
  sneeze
• 23:26
  through
• 23:26
  that
• 23:26
  whole
• 23:26
  quote.
• 23:28
  Yeah.
• 23:28
  So
• 23:29
  he's
• 23:30
  essentially
• 23:30
  saying
• 23:31
  she's
• 23:31
  a
• 23:31
  self.
• 23:32
  She's
• 23:33
  very
• 23:33
  self
• 23:33
  obsessed.
• 23:34
  And
• 23:36
  which
• 23:36
  frankly,
• 23:37
  based
• 23:37
  on
• 23:38
  how
• 23:38
  many
• 23:38
  articles
• 23:39
  she
• 23:39
  published
• 23:39
  about
• 23:40
  this.
• 23:40
  Yeah,
• 23:41
  that
• 23:41
  tracks.
• 23:42
  It
• 23:42
  may
• 23:42
  be.
• 23:42
  Yeah.
• 23:43
  And
• 23:43
  someone
• 23:44
  else,
• 23:45
  a
• 23:45
  source
• 23:46
  familiar
• 23:46
  with
• 23:47
  the
• 23:47
  spat.
• 23:48
  So
• 23:48
  this
• 23:48
  is
• 23:49
  an
• 23:49
  insider
• 23:50
  familiar
• 23:50
  with
• 23:50
  the
• 23:50
  spat,
• 23:51
  told
• 23:51
  Page
• 23:52
  Six
• 23:52
  Matthew
• 23:53
  gave
• 23:53
  her
• 23:53
  what
• 23:54
  she
• 23:54
  had
• 23:54
  coming.
• 23:54
  She's
• 23:55
  insufferable.
• 23:56
  The
• 23:56
  breakup
• 23:56
  has
• 23:57
  been
• 23:57
  a
• 23:57
  long
• 23:57
  time
• 23:58
  coming.
• 23:59
  You
• 23:59
  can
• 23:59
  quit
• 24:00
  before
• 24:00
  you
• 24:00
  get
• 24:00
  fired.
• 24:01
  That's
• 24:01
  right.
• 24:02
  And
• 24:02
  then
• 24:02
  Crystal
• 24:03
  Minkoff,
• 24:03
  who
• 24:03
  was
• 24:04
  a
• 24:04
  former
• 24:04
  Real
• 24:04
  housewife
• 24:05
  of
• 24:05
  Beverly
• 24:05
  Hills,
• 24:06
  she
• 24:06
  weighed
• 24:07
  in.
• 24:07
  I
• 24:07
  don't
• 24:07
  know
• 24:07
  if
• 24:08
  you
• 24:08
  remember
• 24:08
  Crystal.
• 24:08
  Oh,
• 24:09
  I
• 24:09
  remember
• 24:09
  Crystal.
• 24:10
  Yeah.
• 24:10
  Crystal
• 24:11
  says
• 24:11
  that
• 24:12
  her
• 24:12
  own
• 24:12
  mom's
• 24:13
  group
• 24:13
  dropped
• 24:13
  her
• 24:13
  after
• 24:14
  she
• 24:14
  became
• 24:14
  a
• 24:14
  Real
• 24:15
  housewife
• 24:15
  of
• 24:15
  Beverly
• 24:16
  Hills.
• 24:16
  So
• 24:16
  she
• 24:17
  feels
• 24:17
  for
• 24:17
  Ashley.
• 24:18
  That
• 24:18
  was
• 24:18
  a
• 24:18
  plot
• 24:18
  line
• 24:18
  on
• 24:19
  the
• 24:19
  show.
• 24:19
  Was
• 24:20
  it?
• 24:20
  Yeah.
• 24:20
  Somebody
• 24:20
  discovered
• 24:21
  they're
• 24:21
  like
• 24:21
  Crystal's
• 24:22
  friends
• 24:22
  all
• 24:23
  dropped
• 24:23
  her.
• 24:23
  But
• 24:24
  they
• 24:24
  obviously,
• 24:24
  because
• 24:24
  of
• 24:25
  the
• 24:25
  fourth
• 24:25
  wall.
• 24:26
  They
• 24:26
  can't
• 24:26
  say
• 24:26
  why
• 24:27
  because
• 24:27
  of
• 24:28
  the.
• 24:28
  But
• 24:28
  it
• 24:29
  was
• 24:29
  because
• 24:29
  she
• 24:29
  was
• 24:29
  a
• 24:29
  housewife.
• 24:30
  Yeah.
• 24:30
  And
• 24:30
  obviously
• 24:31
  they
• 24:31
  can't
• 24:31
  address
• 24:32
  the
• 24:32
  show
• 24:32
  on
• 24:33
  the
• 24:33
  show.
• 24:33
  We
• 24:33
  all
• 24:33
  have
• 24:34
  to
• 24:34
  pretend
• 24:34
  we're
• 24:34
  not
• 24:34
  making
• 24:35
  a
• 24:35
  show.
• 24:35
  I
• 24:35
  see.
• 24:35
  Okay.
• 24:36
  And
• 24:36
  so
• 24:36
  it
• 24:37
  was
• 24:37
  this
• 24:37
  very
• 24:37
  vague
• 24:38
  thing
• 24:39
  and
• 24:39
  it's
• 24:39
  like.
• 24:39
  But
• 24:40
  to
• 24:40
  be
• 24:40
  honest,
• 24:40
  like,
• 24:41
  you
• 24:41
  know,
• 24:42
  if
• 24:42
  you're
• 24:42
  a
• 24:42
  person
• 24:43
  who
• 24:44
  doesn't
• 24:44
  want
• 24:44
  to
• 24:44
  lead
• 24:45
  a
• 24:45
  public
• 24:45
  life.
• 24:46
  Right.
• 24:46
  It
• 24:47
  like
• 24:47
  again,
• 24:48
  you
• 24:48
  are
• 24:48
  entitled
• 24:49
  to
• 24:49
  be
• 24:49
  friends
• 24:49
  with
• 24:49
  whoever
• 24:50
  you
• 24:50
  want
• 24:50
  to
• 24:50
  be
• 24:50
  and
• 24:51
  entitled
• 24:51
  to
• 24:51
  not
• 24:51
  be
• 24:52
  friends
• 24:52
  with
• 24:52
  anybody
• 24:52
  you
• 24:53
  don't
• 24:53
  want
• 24:53
  to
• 24:53
  be.
• 24:53
  Right.
• 24:54
  That's
• 24:54
  ok.
• 24:55
  Okay.
• 24:56
  You
• 24:56
  know.
• 24:57
  Yeah,
• 24:57
  yeah.
• 24:58
  No,
• 24:58
  I,
• 24:59
  Yeah.
• 25:00
  I
• 25:00
  just
• 25:00
  think
• 25:00
  that
• 25:03
  what
• 25:03
  I,
• 25:04
  what
• 25:04
  I
• 25:04
  didn't
• 25:04
  understand
• 25:05
  personally.
• 25:06
  And
• 25:06
  again,
• 25:06
  this
• 25:07
  might
• 25:07
  be
• 25:07
  a
• 25:07
  generational
• 25:08
  thing.
• 25:08
  It
• 25:08
  probably
• 25:08
  is.
• 25:09
  I
• 25:10
  would
• 25:10
  never
• 25:11
  go
• 25:11
  online
• 25:12
  and
• 25:12
  publicly
• 25:13
  air
• 25:14
  My
• 25:14
  dirty
• 25:14
  laundry.
• 25:15
  But
• 25:15
  I
• 25:15
  guess
• 25:16
  that's
• 25:16
  what
• 25:16
  everyone
• 25:16
  does
• 25:16
  now.
• 25:18
  But,
• 25:18
  I
• 25:18
  mean,
• 25:19
  like,
• 25:19
  to
• 25:19
  say
• 25:20
  I
• 25:20
  got
• 25:20
  dropped
• 25:21
  from
• 25:21
  this
• 25:21
  group,
• 25:21
  or,
• 25:22
  you
• 25:22
  know,
• 25:22
  they
• 25:22
  were
• 25:23
  being
• 25:23
  mean
• 25:23
  to
• 25:23
  me
• 25:24
  and,
• 25:24
  you
• 25:25
  know,
• 25:25
  like,
• 25:25
  putting
• 25:25
  it
• 25:26
  out
• 25:26
  there,
• 25:26
  like,
• 25:26
  it
• 25:27
  kind
• 25:27
  of
• 25:27
  makes
• 25:27
  you
• 25:27
  look
• 25:27
  really
• 25:28
  bad
• 25:28
  and
• 25:29
  so
• 25:29
  makes
• 25:29
  you
• 25:29
  look
• 25:30
  like
• 25:30
  you
• 25:31
  are
• 25:31
  the
• 25:31
  problem.
• 25:31
  Right.
• 25:32
  And
• 25:32
  I
• 25:32
  just
• 25:32
  personally
• 25:33
  wouldn't
• 25:33
  do
• 25:34
  that,
• 25:34
  you
• 25:34
  know,
• 25:34
  because
• 25:35
  if,
• 25:35
  you
• 25:35
  know,
• 25:36
  if
• 25:36
  you
• 25:36
  put
• 25:36
  something
• 25:37
  out
• 25:37
  on
• 25:37
  social
• 25:37
  media
• 25:38
  like
• 25:38
  that,
• 25:38
  people
• 25:39
  are
• 25:39
  going
• 25:39
  to
• 25:39
  come
• 25:39
  slamming
• 25:40
  back
• 25:40
  at
• 25:40
  you
• 25:41
  and
• 25:41
  it's
• 25:42
  just
• 25:42
  going
• 25:42
  to
• 25:42
  be
• 25:42
  ugly
• 25:43
  and
• 25:43
  slam
• 25:43
  back.
• 25:44
  They
• 25:44
  did,
• 25:45
  but
• 25:45
  she
• 25:45
  got
• 25:45
  a
• 25:45
  movie
• 25:46
  deal,
• 25:46
  so
• 25:46
  maybe
• 25:47
  it's
• 25:47
  okay.
• 25:50
  Because
• 25:50
  to
• 25:50
  be
• 25:50
  honest,
• 25:50
  I
• 25:51
  can't
• 25:51
  tell
• 25:51
  you
• 25:51
  the
• 25:51
  last
• 25:51
  movie
• 25:52
  Ashley
• 25:52
  Tisdale
• 25:53
  was
• 25:53
  in.
• 25:53
  Yeah.
• 25:53
  Maybe
• 25:54
  this
• 25:54
  was
• 25:54
  like
• 25:54
  a
• 25:55
  career
• 25:55
  revival
• 25:56
  move,
• 25:56
  which,
• 25:57
  again,
• 25:57
  listen,
• 25:58
  she's
• 25:58
  playing
• 25:58
  chess,
• 25:58
  not
• 25:59
  checkers.
• 26:00
  Yeah,
• 26:00
  maybe.
• 26:00
  So
• 26:01
  I
• 26:01
  can't
• 26:01
  really
• 26:01
  falter
• 26:01
  for
• 26:02
  that.
• 26:02
  I
• 26:02
  wanted
• 26:02
  to
• 26:02
  tell
• 26:02
  you
• 26:03
  I
• 26:03
  brought
• 26:03
  something.
• 26:03
  Just.
• 26:04
  These
• 26:04
  are.
• 26:04
  These
• 26:04
  are
• 26:05
  some
• 26:05
  social,
• 26:06
  emotional
• 26:06
  learning
• 26:07
  flashcards
• 26:08
  that
• 26:08
  I
• 26:09
  created
• 26:10
  for
• 26:11
  kindergarteners.
• 26:11
  For
• 26:12
  kindergarteners.
• 26:13
  These
• 26:14
  are.
• 26:14
  These
• 26:14
  are
• 26:14
  these
• 26:14
  great
• 26:15
  little
• 26:16
  flashcards.
• 26:17
  These
• 26:17
  are
• 26:17
  social,
• 26:17
  emotional,
• 26:18
  learning
• 26:18
  flashcards.
• 26:19
  And
• 26:19
  we
• 26:19
  have
• 26:20
  a
• 26:20
  little
• 26:20
  situation.
• 26:21
  There's
• 26:22
  little
• 26:23
  cards.
• 26:24
  If
• 26:24
  you're
• 26:24
  watching,
• 26:25
  you
• 26:25
  can
• 26:25
  see
• 26:25
  them.
• 26:26
  They're
• 26:26
  very
• 26:26
  colorful,
• 26:26
  and
• 26:27
  they
• 26:27
  have
• 26:27
  all
• 26:27
  these
• 26:27
  little
• 26:28
  scenarios
• 26:28
  for
• 26:29
  little
• 26:29
  children.
• 26:31
  And
• 26:32
  this
• 26:32
  was
• 26:32
  almost
• 26:33
  the
• 26:33
  same
• 26:33
  scenario.
• 26:34
  So
• 26:35
  that
• 26:35
  we
• 26:35
  advise
• 26:36
  little
• 26:36
  children
• 26:36
  how
• 26:37
  to
• 26:37
  handle.
• 26:38
  And
• 26:39
  I'll
• 26:39
  read
• 26:39
  it
• 26:39
  real
• 26:39
  quickly.
• 26:40
  It's.
• 26:40
  Zoya
• 26:41
  is
• 26:41
  new
• 26:41
  at
• 26:41
  school.
• 26:42
  She
• 26:42
  just
• 26:42
  moved
• 26:42
  from
• 26:42
  another
• 26:43
  school.
• 26:43
  She
• 26:44
  dresses
• 26:44
  a
• 26:44
  little
• 26:44
  differently
• 26:45
  from
• 26:45
  the
• 26:45
  other
• 26:45
  girls.
• 26:46
  She
• 26:46
  acts
• 26:46
  a
• 26:46
  little
• 26:47
  differently.
• 26:48
  She
• 26:48
  brings
• 26:48
  different
• 26:49
  foods
• 26:49
  in
• 26:49
  her
• 26:49
  lunchbox.
• 26:50
  Some
• 26:50
  kids
• 26:51
  at
• 26:51
  school
• 26:51
  tease
• 26:52
  her.
• 26:52
  They
• 26:52
  don't
• 26:52
  want
• 26:52
  to
• 26:53
  play
• 26:53
  with
• 26:53
  her
• 26:53
  at
• 26:53
  recess
• 26:54
  or
• 26:54
  eat
• 26:54
  with
• 26:54
  her.
• 26:55
  She
• 26:55
  didn't
• 26:55
  get
• 26:55
  invited
• 26:56
  to
• 26:56
  Kayla's
• 26:56
  birthday
• 26:57
  party.
• 26:58
  Some
• 26:58
  kids
• 26:58
  call
• 26:58
  her
• 26:59
  weird.
• 27:00
  So
• 27:01
  similar
• 27:01
  situation.
• 27:01
  Poor
• 27:02
  Zoya.
• 27:02
  Poor.
• 27:03
  I
• 27:03
  know
• 27:03
  Zoya.
• 27:05
  Anyway,
• 27:06
  so
• 27:06
  we
• 27:06
  ask
• 27:06
  questions
• 27:07
  of
• 27:07
  the
• 27:07
  kids,
• 27:07
  you
• 27:07
  know,
• 27:08
  we
• 27:08
  ask
• 27:08
  which
• 27:08
  picture
• 27:09
  shows
• 27:09
  how
• 27:09
  Zoya
• 27:10
  feels.
• 27:10
  And
• 27:11
  they
• 27:11
  look
• 27:11
  at
• 27:11
  this
• 27:11
  card
• 27:12
  here,
• 27:12
  and
• 27:13
  they
• 27:13
  would
• 27:13
  see
• 27:13
  they
• 27:14
  can
• 27:14
  choose
• 27:14
  between
• 27:14
  happy,
• 27:15
  strong,
• 27:15
  amazing,
• 27:16
  calm,
• 27:16
  sad,
• 27:17
  angry,
• 27:17
  nervous.
• 27:18
  And
• 27:18
  they
• 27:18
  can
• 27:18
  say,
• 27:19
  oh,
• 27:19
  Zoya
• 27:20
  feels
• 27:20
  sad.
• 27:21
  Zoya
• 27:21
  feels
• 27:22
  sad.
• 27:23
  And
• 27:23
  then,
• 27:24
  you
• 27:24
  know,
• 27:24
  there's
• 27:24
  questions
• 27:25
  like,
• 27:25
  you
• 27:25
  know,
• 27:25
  why
• 27:26
  do
• 27:26
  you
• 27:26
  think
• 27:26
  the
• 27:26
  kids
• 27:26
  aren't
• 27:27
  nice
• 27:27
  to
• 27:27
  Zoya?
• 27:28
  If
• 27:29
  you
• 27:29
  wanted
• 27:29
  to
• 27:29
  make
• 27:29
  Zoya
• 27:30
  feel
• 27:30
  better,
• 27:30
  what
• 27:30
  could
• 27:31
  you
• 27:31
  do?
• 27:32
  Has
• 27:32
  anyone
• 27:32
  ever
• 27:33
  made
• 27:33
  fun
• 27:33
  of
• 27:33
  you?
• 27:34
  Was
• 27:34
  it
• 27:34
  because
• 27:34
  you
• 27:34
  were
• 27:35
  different?
• 27:35
  Did
• 27:35
  Zoya
• 27:36
  publish
• 27:36
  an
• 27:36
  article
• 27:37
  in
• 27:37
  the
• 27:37
  Cut?
• 27:38
  Did
• 27:38
  Zoya
• 27:39
  write
• 27:40
  negative
• 27:40
  to
• 27:41
  you?
• 27:41
  Yeah.
• 27:42
  If
• 27:43
  you
• 27:43
  see
• 27:43
  this
• 27:43
  happening
• 27:43
  to
• 27:44
  another
• 27:44
  child,
• 27:44
  what
• 27:45
  should
• 27:45
  you
• 27:45
  do?
• 27:45
  Do?
• 27:45
  Why
• 27:46
  should
• 27:46
  you
• 27:46
  be
• 27:46
  nice
• 27:47
  to
• 27:47
  people?
• 27:48
  I
• 27:48
  mean,
• 27:49
  it's
• 27:50
  like,
• 27:50
  this
• 27:50
  is
• 27:50
  A
• 27:50
  kindergarten
• 27:51
  lesson.
• 27:52
  Yeah.
• 27:52
  But
• 27:52
  that
• 27:52
  we
• 27:53
  are
• 27:53
  still
• 27:53
  learning
• 27:53
  in
• 27:55
  when
• 27:55
  we
• 27:55
  become.
• 27:56
  In
• 27:56
  motherhood.
• 27:56
  In
• 27:57
  motherhood.
• 27:57
  Listen,
• 27:57
  I
• 27:58
  think
• 27:58
  it
• 27:58
  is.
• 27:58
  It
• 27:58
  is
• 27:58
  a
• 27:59
  tale
• 27:59
  as
• 27:59
  old
• 27:59
  as
• 27:59
  time.
• 28:00
  It
• 28:00
  is
• 28:00
  an
• 28:00
  issue
• 28:00
  that
• 28:01
  people
• 28:02
  of
• 28:02
  any
• 28:03
  age,
• 28:03
  of
• 28:04
  any
• 28:04
  race,
• 28:04
  color
• 28:04
  or
• 28:05
  creed
• 28:05
  are
• 28:05
  constantly
• 28:06
  going
• 28:06
  to
• 28:06
  be
• 28:06
  dealing
• 28:07
  with
• 28:07
  because
• 28:07
  it
• 28:07
  is
• 28:08
  human
• 28:08
  nature
• 28:09
  to
• 28:09
  exclude,
• 28:10
  unfortunately.
• 28:11
  It
• 28:11
  really,
• 28:12
  really
• 28:12
  is.
• 28:13
  Yeah,
• 28:13
  it's
• 28:14
  the
• 28:14
  worst.
• 28:14
  But
• 28:15
  this
• 28:15
  is.
• 28:15
  So
• 28:16
  if
• 28:16
  you
• 28:16
  join
• 28:16
  a.
• 28:17
  An
• 28:17
  in
• 28:17
  person
• 28:18
  moms
• 28:18
  group.
• 28:20
  Now,
• 28:20
  I
• 28:20
  think
• 28:20
  part
• 28:21
  of
• 28:21
  the
• 28:21
  issue
• 28:21
  here
• 28:21
  is
• 28:21
  it
• 28:22
  was
• 28:22
  a
• 28:22
  pretty
• 28:22
  big
• 28:22
  group.
• 28:23
  If
• 28:23
  you
• 28:24
  look
• 28:24
  at
• 28:24
  the
• 28:24
  size
• 28:24
  of
• 28:24
  this
• 28:25
  group,
• 28:25
  how
• 28:25
  many
• 28:26
  models
• 28:26
  were
• 28:26
  in
• 28:26
  this
• 28:26
  group?
• 28:27
  How
• 28:27
  many?
• 28:29
  Right.
• 28:29
  I'm.
• 28:29
  I'm
• 28:29
  looking.
• 28:30
  I
• 28:30
  lost.
• 28:30
  I
• 28:30
  keep
• 28:30
  losing
• 28:31
  the
• 28:31
  picture.
• 28:31
  Oh,
• 28:32
  here
• 28:32
  it
• 28:32
  is.
• 28:32
  Looks
• 28:33
  like
• 28:33
  there's
• 28:34
  1,
• 28:34
  2,
• 28:35
  3,
• 28:35
  4,
• 28:35
  5,
• 28:36
  6,
• 28:36
  7,
• 28:36
  8,
• 28:37
  9.
• 28:37
  And
• 28:38
  I'm
• 28:38
  guessing
• 28:38
  they're
• 28:38
  not
• 28:38
  all
• 28:39
  in
• 28:39
  this
• 28:39
  picture.
• 28:39
  I
• 28:39
  don't
• 28:40
  know.
• 28:40
  I
• 28:40
  don't
• 28:40
  know.
• 28:41
  That
• 28:41
  looks
• 28:41
  like.
• 28:41
  I
• 28:41
  thought,
• 28:41
  thought
• 28:42
  that
• 28:42
  that
• 28:42
  was
• 28:42
  all
• 28:42
  of
• 28:42
  them.
• 28:43
  Maybe
• 28:43
  it
• 28:43
  is.
• 28:43
  I
• 28:44
  don't
• 28:44
  know.
• 28:44
  I
• 28:44
  don't
• 28:44
  know
• 28:44
  who
• 28:44
  they
• 28:45
  all
• 28:45
  are
• 28:45
  myself.
• 28:46
  But
• 28:46
  yeah,
• 28:46
  in
• 28:46
  a
• 28:46
  group
• 28:47
  of
• 28:47
  nine
• 28:47
  women,
• 28:47
  there
• 28:48
  are
• 28:48
  going
• 28:48
  to
• 28:48
  be
• 28:48
  people
• 28:49
  who
• 28:49
  like
• 28:49
  each
• 28:49
  other
• 28:49
  more
• 28:50
  and
• 28:50
  people
• 28:50
  who
• 28:50
  like
• 28:51
  each
• 28:51
  other
• 28:51
  less.
• 28:52
  And
• 28:52
  that's
• 28:52
  math.
• 28:53
  And
• 28:53
  they.
• 28:53
  And
• 28:53
  you're
• 28:54
  gonna
• 28:54
  do
• 28:54
  things
• 28:54
  with
• 28:55
  some
• 28:55
  of
• 28:55
  them
• 28:55
  sometimes
• 28:56
  and
• 28:56
  not
• 28:56
  all
• 28:57
  of
• 28:57
  them.
• 28:57
  You're
• 28:57
  not
• 28:57
  going
• 28:57
  to
• 28:58
  be
• 28:58
  always
• 28:58
  going
• 28:58
  around
• 28:59
  together
• 28:59
  as
• 28:59
  a
• 28:59
  big
• 29:00
  mom
• 29:00
  group.
• 29:00
  Even
• 29:01
  showing
• 29:01
  up
• 29:01
  to
• 29:01
  a
• 29:01
  restaurant
• 29:02
  with
• 29:02
  nine
• 29:03
  people
• 29:03
  and
• 29:04
  your
• 29:04
  baby.
• 29:04
  You
• 29:04
  gotta
• 29:05
  call
• 29:05
  ahead.
• 29:05
  You
• 29:06
  better.
• 29:06
  Yeah.
• 29:06
  You
• 29:07
  gotta
• 29:07
  book
• 29:07
  a
• 29:07
  room.
• 29:08
  That's
• 29:08
  right.
• 29:08
  That's
• 29:09
  right.
• 29:09
  And
• 29:09
  I'm
• 29:09
  sure
• 29:10
  there
• 29:10
  are
• 29:11
  five
• 29:12
  with.
• 29:12
  Depending
• 29:13
  on
• 29:13
  how
• 29:13
  many
• 29:13
  kids
• 29:13
  everybody's
• 29:14
  got.
• 29:14
  Yeah.
• 29:15
  No,
• 29:16
  no.
• 29:16
  But
• 29:16
  not
• 29:16
  realistic.
• 29:17
  No.
• 29:17
  So
• 29:18
  it's
• 29:18
  like
• 29:18
  if
• 29:18
  you
• 29:18
  join
• 29:19
  a
• 29:19
  in
• 29:19
  person
• 29:20
  group,
• 29:20
  I
• 29:20
  think
• 29:21
  you
• 29:21
  should
• 29:21
  keep
• 29:21
  it
• 29:21
  small.
• 29:22
  I
• 29:22
  really
• 29:23
  do.
• 29:23
  I
• 29:23
  think
• 29:23
  if
• 29:23
  you
• 29:24
  make
• 29:24
  a
• 29:24
  mom's
• 29:25
  group,
• 29:25
  ideally,
• 29:26
  I
• 29:26
  don't
• 29:26
  think
• 29:26
  it
• 29:27
  should
• 29:27
  be
• 29:27
  this
• 29:27
  big
• 29:27
  or
• 29:28
  like,
• 29:28
  I
• 29:28
  don't
• 29:29
  know,
• 29:29
  be
• 29:29
  okay
• 29:30
  with
• 29:30
  some
• 29:30
  people
• 29:31
  being
• 29:31
  closer
• 29:32
  than
• 29:32
  others.
• 29:32
  Like
• 29:32
  in
• 29:33
  other
• 29:33
  friend
• 29:33
  groups.
• 29:34
  Yeah.
• 29:34
  I
• 29:34
  remember
• 29:35
  I
• 29:35
  was
• 29:35
  like
• 29:35
  18
• 29:36
  and
• 29:36
  I
• 29:36
  was
• 29:36
  in
• 29:36
  a
• 29:37
  friend
• 29:37
  group
• 29:37
  and
• 29:37
  one
• 29:37
  friend
• 29:38
  got
• 29:38
  so
• 29:38
  mad
• 29:38
  at
• 29:39
  me
• 29:39
  because
• 29:39
  she's
• 29:39
  like,
• 29:39
  you.
• 29:40
  You
• 29:40
  are
• 29:40
  so
• 29:40
  much
• 29:41
  closer
• 29:41
  with
• 29:41
  this
• 29:41
  person.
• 29:41
  And
• 29:42
  you
• 29:42
  haven't
• 29:42
  known
• 29:42
  her
• 29:43
  nearly
• 29:43
  as
• 29:43
  long
• 29:43
  as
• 29:44
  you've
• 29:44
  known
• 29:44
  me.
• 29:44
  And
• 29:44
  I'm
• 29:45
  like,
• 29:45
  girl,
• 29:45
  friendship
• 29:46
  is
• 29:46
  not
• 29:46
  a
• 29:46
  democracy,
• 29:47
  okay?
• 29:48
  Right.
• 29:48
  I
• 29:48
  am
• 29:48
  closer
• 29:49
  with
• 29:49
  her
• 29:49
  because
• 29:49
  we
• 29:49
  have
• 29:50
  experienced
• 29:51
  more
• 29:51
  things
• 29:51
  together.
• 29:52
  It
• 29:53
  is
• 29:54
  quality
• 29:54
  time,
• 29:55
  not
• 29:55
  quantity
• 29:56
  of
• 29:56
  time.
• 29:57
  Right?
• 29:57
  Absolutely.
• 29:58
  Yes.
• 29:58
  Deal.
• 29:59
  Deal
• 30:00
  with
• 30:00
  it.
• 30:00
  And.
• 30:00
  And
• 30:01
  yeah,
• 30:01
  like,
• 30:02
  God,
• 30:02
  it's
• 30:03
  like
• 30:03
  I,
• 30:03
  I
• 30:04
  hate
• 30:04
  these
• 30:04
  hurt
• 30:04
  feelings
• 30:05
  situations.
• 30:07
  I
• 30:07
  deal
• 30:07
  with
• 30:07
  it
• 30:08
  all
• 30:08
  the
• 30:08
  time
• 30:08
  in
• 30:09
  my
• 30:09
  Book
• 30:09
  group
• 30:10
  still.
• 30:10
  Oh,
• 30:10
  my
• 30:10
  God,
• 30:11
  your
• 30:11
  book
• 30:11
  group.
• 30:12
  Well,
• 30:12
  I
• 30:12
  love
• 30:12
  my
• 30:12
  book
• 30:12
  group,
• 30:13
  but
• 30:13
  I'm
• 30:13
  saying
• 30:13
  it
• 30:14
  happens.
• 30:14
  It
• 30:15
  happens.
• 30:16
  I'm
• 30:16
  not
• 30:16
  nemata.
• 30:17
  People
• 30:17
  have
• 30:17
  been
• 30:17
  86
• 30:18
  from
• 30:18
  the
• 30:18
  book
• 30:18
  group
• 30:19
  or
• 30:19
  self
• 30:20
  86.
• 30:20
  They
• 30:20
  self
• 30:21
  86.
• 30:22
  That's
• 30:22
  what
• 30:22
  they
• 30:22
  do.
• 30:23
  They
• 30:23
  pull
• 30:23
  out
• 30:23
  themselves
• 30:24
  and
• 30:24
  it's
• 30:24
  like,
• 30:25
  okay,
• 30:26
  but
• 30:26
  I
• 30:26
  feel
• 30:27
  bad.
• 30:27
  I
• 30:27
  mean,
• 30:27
  it's
• 30:28
  like,
• 30:28
  why
• 30:28
  can't
• 30:29
  we
• 30:29
  all
• 30:29
  be
• 30:29
  friends?
• 30:30
  That's
• 30:30
  just.
• 30:30
  What
• 30:31
  I
• 30:31
  want,
• 30:31
  is
• 30:31
  just,
• 30:31
  let's
• 30:32
  be
• 30:32
  friends.
• 30:32
  Let's.
• 30:32
  Let's.
• 30:33
  Let's
• 30:33
  help
• 30:33
  each
• 30:34
  other
• 30:34
  talk
• 30:34
  about
• 30:35
  the
• 30:35
  book
• 30:35
  for
• 30:35
  once.
• 30:35
  Yes.
• 30:36
  At
• 30:36
  least
• 30:36
  once.
• 30:37
  Which
• 30:37
  a
• 30:37
  lesson
• 30:38
  we
• 30:38
  could
• 30:38
  take.
• 30:38
  Yes.
• 30:39
  Okay.
• 30:40
  All
• 30:40
  right,
• 30:40
  let's
• 30:40
  go
• 30:40
  back
• 30:40
  to
• 30:41
  this.
• 30:41
  Okay.
• 30:41
  Back
• 30:41
  to
• 30:42
  the
• 30:42
  topic.
• 30:42
  Back
• 30:43
  to
• 30:43
  the
• 30:43
  topic.
• 30:43
  Okay.
• 30:45
  The
• 30:46
  last
• 30:46
  article
• 30:47
  is
• 30:47
  from.
• 30:48
  Which
• 30:48
  gives
• 30:48
  me
• 30:48
  hope.
• 30:49
  This
• 30:49
  one
• 30:49
  does
• 30:49
  give
• 30:50
  you
• 30:50
  hope.
• 30:50
  Yeah.
• 30:51
  This
• 30:51
  is
• 30:51
  from
• 30:51
  the
• 30:51
  New
• 30:51
  York
• 30:52
  Times,
• 30:54
  and
• 30:54
  the
• 30:54
  headline
• 30:55
  is
• 30:55
  Marriages,
• 30:56
  kids,
• 30:56
  careers.
• 30:57
  For
• 30:57
  44
• 30:58
  years,
• 30:58
  they've
• 30:58
  been
• 30:59
  talking
• 30:59
  it
• 30:59
  out
• 30:59
  by
• 31:00
  Katherine
• 31:00
  Roseman
• 31:02
  from
• 31:02
  the
• 31:02
  New
• 31:02
  York
• 31:02
  Times.
• 31:03
  And
• 31:03
  this
• 31:04
  article
• 31:05
  is
• 31:05
  about
• 31:05
  women.
• 31:06
  Six
• 31:07
  women
• 31:07
  who.
• 31:08
  They're
• 31:08
  now
• 31:08
  in
• 31:08
  their
• 31:09
  70s,
• 31:09
  and
• 31:10
  they
• 31:10
  formed
• 31:11
  a
• 31:11
  Long
• 31:11
  Islands
• 31:12
  moms
• 31:12
  group
• 31:13
  44
• 31:13
  years
• 31:14
  ago.
• 31:15
  Now,
• 31:15
  they
• 31:16
  did
• 31:16
  it
• 31:16
  a
• 31:16
  little
• 31:16
  differently
• 31:17
  than
• 31:17
  these
• 31:17
  groups
• 31:18
  that
• 31:18
  we've
• 31:18
  been
• 31:18
  talking
• 31:18
  about.
• 31:19
  One
• 31:19
  key
• 31:19
  difference.
• 31:20
  Yeah,
• 31:21
  they.
• 31:21
  They.
• 31:22
  What
• 31:22
  they
• 31:22
  do
• 31:23
  is
• 31:23
  they.
• 31:23
  They
• 31:24
  meet
• 31:24
  with
• 31:24
  a
• 31:25
  paid
• 31:25
  facilitator
• 31:26
  who's
• 31:27
  like
• 31:27
  a
• 31:27
  psychologist.
• 31:28
  They
• 31:28
  meet
• 31:28
  twice
• 31:29
  a
• 31:30
  month
• 31:31
  for
• 31:31
  90
• 31:32
  minutes,
• 31:32
  and
• 31:32
  they
• 31:32
  have
• 31:33
  someone
• 31:33
  actually
• 31:34
  facilitate
• 31:35
  the
• 31:35
  discussion
• 31:36
  because.
• 31:36
  So
• 31:36
  it
• 31:36
  keeps
• 31:37
  them
• 31:37
  on
• 31:37
  track.
• 31:37
  They
• 31:38
  can't
• 31:38
  just
• 31:38
  keep
• 31:38
  civilized.
• 31:39
  Yes.
• 31:40
  Yeah,
• 31:40
  exactly.
• 31:42
  And
• 31:42
  it
• 31:42
  started
• 31:43
  as
• 31:43
  a
• 31:43
  way
• 31:43
  for
• 31:43
  the
• 31:44
  women
• 31:44
  to
• 31:44
  learn
• 31:44
  how
• 31:45
  to
• 31:45
  best
• 31:45
  nurture
• 31:45
  their
• 31:45
  families.
• 31:47
  And
• 31:47
  the
• 31:47
  way
• 31:47
  it
• 31:47
  came
• 31:48
  about
• 31:48
  was
• 31:48
  there
• 31:48
  was
• 31:48
  a
• 31:49
  counselor
• 31:49
  in
• 31:49
  a
• 31:49
  Mommy
• 31:50
  and
• 31:50
  Me
• 31:50
  class
• 31:50
  who
• 31:51
  asked
• 31:51
  if
• 31:51
  the
• 31:52
  parents
• 31:52
  would
• 31:53
  like
• 31:53
  to
• 31:53
  start
• 31:53
  a
• 31:53
  parenting
• 31:54
  group
• 31:55
  to
• 31:55
  talk
• 31:55
  about
• 31:56
  just
• 31:56
  strategies
• 31:57
  and
• 31:57
  concerns.
• 31:57
  And
• 31:58
  these
• 31:58
  women
• 31:58
  answered
• 31:59
  the
• 31:59
  call.
• 32:00
  And
• 32:00
  at
• 32:00
  the
• 32:00
  beginning,
• 32:01
  there
• 32:01
  were
• 32:01
  more
• 32:02
  women,
• 32:02
  and
• 32:02
  some
• 32:02
  dropped
• 32:03
  out
• 32:03
  and
• 32:03
  some
• 32:04
  came
• 32:04
  in.
• 32:04
  But
• 32:05
  for
• 32:05
  35
• 32:05
  years,
• 32:06
  there
• 32:06
  has
• 32:06
  been
• 32:06
  these
• 32:07
  six
• 32:07
  women.
• 32:07
  Maybe
• 32:08
  one
• 32:08
  more.
• 32:08
  One
• 32:08
  died.
• 32:09
  Yeah.
• 32:10
  That,
• 32:11
  you
• 32:11
  know,
• 32:11
  they
• 32:11
  haven't
• 32:12
  had
• 32:12
  any
• 32:12
  new
• 32:12
  members
• 32:13
  in
• 32:13
  35
• 32:14
  years,
• 32:14
  but
• 32:14
  they've
• 32:14
  had
• 32:15
  three
• 32:15
  different
• 32:15
  group
• 32:15
  facilitators.
• 32:17
  They
• 32:17
  make
• 32:18
  the
• 32:18
  group
• 32:18
  of
• 32:19
  priority.
• 32:20
  And
• 32:20
  the
• 32:21
  way
• 32:21
  it
• 32:21
  works
• 32:21
  is
• 32:21
  the
• 32:22
  facilitator
• 32:23
  says,
• 32:23
  does
• 32:23
  anybody
• 32:24
  have
• 32:24
  an
• 32:24
  issue
• 32:24
  to
• 32:25
  talk
• 32:25
  about?
• 32:25
  Yeah.
• 32:26
  And
• 32:26
  they'll
• 32:26
  bring
• 32:26
  it
• 32:26
  up.
• 32:27
  And
• 32:27
  they
• 32:27
  work
• 32:27
  through
• 32:27
  the
• 32:28
  issue
• 32:28
  together,
• 32:28
  and
• 32:29
  they
• 32:29
  walk
• 32:29
  out
• 32:30
  supported
• 32:31
  with
• 32:31
  solutions.
• 32:32
  And
• 32:32
  they
• 32:32
  feel
• 32:33
  like
• 32:33
  they've
• 32:33
  really
• 32:33
  talked.
• 32:34
  Yeah.
• 32:34
  And
• 32:35
  she.
• 32:35
  They
• 32:36
  said
• 32:36
  that
• 32:36
  topics
• 32:36
  have
• 32:37
  changed
• 32:37
  through
• 32:37
  the
• 32:37
  years.
• 32:38
  It
• 32:38
  started
• 32:38
  with
• 32:39
  parenting
• 32:39
  strategies
• 32:40
  and
• 32:40
  marriage
• 32:41
  demands.
• 32:42
  Then
• 32:42
  it
• 32:42
  got
• 32:42
  into
• 32:43
  drinking,
• 32:43
  teenage
• 32:44
  rebellion,
• 32:45
  depression,
• 32:46
  heartbreak,
• 32:46
  all
• 32:46
  that.
• 32:48
  Now
• 32:49
  the
• 32:49
  women
• 32:49
  Originally
• 32:50
  didn't
• 32:50
  really
• 32:50
  know
• 32:51
  each
• 32:51
  other,
• 32:51
  but
• 32:51
  now
• 32:52
  they
• 32:52
  are
• 32:52
  there
• 32:52
  to
• 32:52
  support
• 32:53
  each
• 32:53
  other
• 32:53
  all
• 32:54
  the
• 32:54
  time,
• 32:54
  which
• 32:54
  is
• 32:54
  amazing.
• 32:56
  And.
• 32:56
  But
• 32:56
  they
• 32:56
  did
• 32:56
  say
• 32:57
  that
• 32:57
  cliques
• 32:57
  have
• 32:58
  formed
• 32:58
  through
• 32:58
  the
• 32:58
  years
• 32:59
  and
• 32:59
  that
• 32:59
  feelings
• 33:00
  have
• 33:00
  gotten
• 33:00
  hurt,
• 33:01
  just
• 33:01
  like
• 33:01
  family.
• 33:01
  It
• 33:02
  can
• 33:02
  get
• 33:02
  messy,
• 33:02
  but
• 33:03
  we
• 33:03
  work
• 33:03
  it
• 33:03
  out.
• 33:04
  Yes,
• 33:05
  one
• 33:05
  member
• 33:06
  did
• 33:06
  say
• 33:06
  she
• 33:06
  wanted
• 33:06
  to
• 33:07
  quit
• 33:07
  once
• 33:07
  after
• 33:07
  a
• 33:08
  disagreement
• 33:08
  with
• 33:08
  another
• 33:09
  member
• 33:09
  left
• 33:09
  her
• 33:10
  hurt
• 33:10
  and
• 33:10
  furious.
• 33:11
  But
• 33:11
  the
• 33:11
  group
• 33:11
  wouldn't
• 33:12
  let
• 33:12
  her
• 33:12
  leave.
• 33:13
  And
• 33:13
  they
• 33:13
  worked
• 33:13
  it
• 33:14
  out
• 33:14
  in
• 33:14
  group,
• 33:15
  which
• 33:15
  is
• 33:15
  good.
• 33:16
  Yeah.
• 33:16
  They
• 33:17
  didn't
• 33:17
  write
• 33:17
  a
• 33:18
  piece.
• 33:19
  No
• 33:19
  one
• 33:19
  published
• 33:20
  anything
• 33:20
  in
• 33:20
  the
• 33:20
  cut.
• 33:21
  No.
• 33:22
  About
• 33:22
  it.
• 33:23
  No.
• 33:23
  They
• 33:23
  just
• 33:24
  worked
• 33:24
  it
• 33:24
  out
• 33:24
  together
• 33:25
  in
• 33:25
  the
• 33:25
  group.
• 33:27
  And
• 33:27
  the
• 33:27
  woman
• 33:28
  said
• 33:28
  that
• 33:28
  it
• 33:28
  taught
• 33:28
  me
• 33:29
  a
• 33:29
  lot
• 33:29
  about
• 33:29
  forgiveness
• 33:30
  and
• 33:30
  about
• 33:30
  not
• 33:30
  giving
• 33:31
  up
• 33:31
  on
• 33:31
  things
• 33:31
  that
• 33:31
  matter
• 33:32
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• 33:32
  me.
• 33:34
  They
• 33:34
  did
• 33:34
  say
• 33:35
  sometimes
• 33:35
  some
• 33:36
  of
• 33:36
  them
• 33:36
  socialize
• 33:37
  together
• 33:37
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• 33:38
  of
• 33:38
  group
• 33:39
  and
• 33:39
  they
• 33:39
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• 33:40
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• 33:40
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• 33:40
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• 33:41
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• 33:41
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• 33:42
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• 33:42
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• 33:43
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• 33:43
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• 33:43
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  Liberation.
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• 35:12
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• 35:13
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• 35:13
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• 35:13
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• 35:13
  they.
• 35:14
  The
• 35:14
  run
• 35:14
  is
• 35:14
  over.
• 35:15
  Oh
• 35:15
  yeah,
• 35:15
  I
• 35:15
  wish.
• 35:16
  No,
• 35:16
  it's
• 35:16
  not
• 35:16
  over.
• 35:16
  Is
• 35:17
  it
• 35:17
  over?
• 35:17
  It's
• 35:17
  over.
• 35:18
  Yeah.
• 35:18
  So
• 35:19
  good.
• 35:19
  So
• 35:19
  good.
• 35:20
  But
• 35:20
  it
• 35:20
  was
• 35:20
  about
• 35:21
  a
• 35:21
  women's
• 35:22
  consciousness
• 35:22
  raising
• 35:23
  group.
• 35:23
  Yes.
• 35:24
  Which
• 35:24
  can
• 35:24
  you
• 35:24
  like
• 35:24
  explain
• 35:25
  to
• 35:25
  me
• 35:25
  the
• 35:25
  idea
• 35:26
  of
• 35:26
  this
• 35:26
  women's
• 35:27
  consciousness
• 35:28
  in
• 35:28
  the
• 35:28
  70s,
• 35:29
  it
• 35:29
  was
• 35:29
  a
• 35:29
  really
• 35:29
  big
• 35:30
  thing
• 35:30
  where
• 35:31
  women
• 35:31
  would
• 35:31
  get
• 35:31
  together,
• 35:32
  because
• 35:32
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• 35:33
  in
• 35:33
  the
• 35:33
  workplace,
• 35:34
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• 35:34
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• 35:34
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• 35:34
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• 35:35
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• 35:35
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• 35:35
  of
• 35:36
  bias.
• 35:37
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• 35:38
  you
• 35:38
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• 35:39
  we
• 35:39
  weren't
• 35:39
  making
• 35:40
  as
• 35:40
  much
• 35:40
  money.
• 35:40
  We
• 35:41
  still
• 35:41
  don't
• 35:41
  as
• 35:41
  men,
• 35:42
  but,
• 35:43
  you
• 35:43
  know,
• 35:43
  women
• 35:43
  would
• 35:44
  talk
• 35:44
  about,
• 35:44
  you
• 35:44
  know,
• 35:45
  wanting
• 35:45
  to
• 35:45
  work
• 35:45
  and
• 35:46
  have
• 35:46
  families
• 35:46
  and
• 35:47
  how
• 35:47
  they
• 35:47
  were
• 35:47
  managing
• 35:48
  it.
• 35:48
  And,
• 35:50
  you
• 35:50
  know,
• 35:50
  so
• 35:50
  women
• 35:51
  would
• 35:51
  get
• 35:51
  together
• 35:51
  and
• 35:52
  talk
• 35:52
  about
• 35:52
  these
• 35:52
  things,
• 35:54
  and
• 35:54
  then
• 35:54
  there
• 35:55
  would
• 35:55
  be
• 35:55
  groups
• 35:56
  where
• 35:57
  then
• 35:57
  women
• 35:57
  would,
• 35:57
  like,
• 35:58
  deal
• 35:58
  with
• 35:59
  body
• 35:59
  shame
• 35:59
  and
• 36:00
  everyone
• 36:00
  would
• 36:01
  get
• 36:01
  naked.
• 36:01
  And
• 36:02
  it
• 36:02
  was
• 36:02
  crazy.
• 36:02
  I
• 36:03
  mean,
• 36:03
  it
• 36:03
  was
• 36:03
  a
• 36:03
  crazy
• 36:04
  time.
• 36:04
  And
• 36:05
  although
• 36:05
  groups
• 36:06
  still
• 36:06
  do
• 36:06
  that,
• 36:06
  I
• 36:07
  think
• 36:07
  women.
• 36:07
  There
• 36:07
  are
• 36:07
  groups
• 36:08
  that
• 36:08
  do
• 36:08
  that.
• 36:08
  I
• 36:09
  loved
• 36:09
  that
• 36:09
  play
• 36:10
  so
• 36:10
  much.
• 36:11
  The
• 36:11
  ensemble
• 36:12
  was
• 36:12
  amazing.
• 36:13
  It
• 36:13
  was
• 36:13
  the
• 36:13
  same
• 36:14
  cast
• 36:14
  from
• 36:15
  off
• 36:15
  Broadway
• 36:15
  to
• 36:16
  Broadway,
• 36:16
  which
• 36:16
  almost
• 36:18
  never
• 36:18
  happened.
• 36:19
  Right,
• 36:19
  right.
• 36:20
  It's
• 36:20
  fantastic.
• 36:21
  Fantastic.
• 36:21
  Such
• 36:22
  a
• 36:22
  great
• 36:22
  show.
• 36:23
  But
• 36:23
  one
• 36:23
  thing
• 36:24
  that
• 36:24
  was
• 36:24
  so
• 36:25
  impactful
• 36:25
  to
• 36:26
  me
• 36:26
  about
• 36:26
  that
• 36:26
  show
• 36:26
  was
• 36:27
  that
• 36:27
  so
• 36:28
  many
• 36:28
  of
• 36:28
  these
• 36:29
  issues
• 36:29
  that
• 36:29
  they
• 36:30
  were
• 36:30
  coping
• 36:30
  with
• 36:31
  then
• 36:31
  are
• 36:32
  still
• 36:33
  problems
• 36:34
  today.
• 36:35
  Right,
• 36:36
  right.
• 36:36
  And
• 36:36
  I
• 36:37
  mean,
• 36:37
  all
• 36:37
  these
• 36:37
  women
• 36:38
  were
• 36:38
  just
• 36:38
  so
• 36:38
  different.
• 36:39
  They
• 36:39
  came
• 36:39
  from
• 36:39
  such
• 36:39
  different
• 36:40
  backgrounds,
• 36:40
  but
• 36:41
  what
• 36:41
  they
• 36:42
  had
• 36:42
  in
• 36:42
  common
• 36:42
  was
• 36:43
  their
• 36:43
  womanhood.
• 36:44
  Right.
• 36:44
  And
• 36:45
  this
• 36:45
  experience
• 36:46
  of,
• 36:46
  like,
• 36:46
  feeling
• 36:47
  undervalued
• 36:48
  and
• 36:48
  again,
• 36:49
  like,
• 36:49
  like
• 36:49
  trying
• 36:49
  to
• 36:50
  balance
• 36:50
  all
• 36:51
  of
• 36:51
  these
• 36:51
  things.
• 36:52
  And
• 36:52
  it's
• 36:53
  just.
• 36:53
  It
• 36:54
  is
• 36:54
  still
• 36:54
  the
• 36:54
  experience
• 36:55
  of
• 36:56
  so
• 36:56
  many
• 36:56
  women.
• 36:56
  Right.
• 36:57
  And.
• 36:57
  And
• 36:58
  I
• 36:58
  loved
• 36:58
  in
• 36:58
  the.
• 36:58
  In
• 36:58
  the
• 36:59
  play
• 36:59
  how
• 36:59
  they
• 36:59
  supported
• 37:00
  each
• 37:00
  other
• 37:00
  so
• 37:01
  fully.
• 37:02
  Yes,
• 37:03
  they
• 37:03
  really
• 37:03
  did.
• 37:04
  I
• 37:04
  mean,
• 37:04
  there
• 37:05
  were
• 37:05
  fights.
• 37:05
  There
• 37:05
  was
• 37:05
  no
• 37:06
  question
• 37:06
  there
• 37:06
  were
• 37:06
  fights.
• 37:07
  A
• 37:07
  lot
• 37:07
  of
• 37:07
  conflict.
• 37:07
  Yeah.
• 37:08
  But.
• 37:09
  But
• 37:09
  they
• 37:10
  really
• 37:10
  supported
• 37:10
  each
• 37:11
  other.
• 37:11
  And
• 37:11
  I
• 37:12
  think
• 37:12
  that's
• 37:12
  the
• 37:12
  beauty
• 37:13
  if.
• 37:13
  If
• 37:14
  you
• 37:14
  can
• 37:14
  make
• 37:15
  your
• 37:15
  own,
• 37:17
  you
• 37:17
  know,
• 37:17
  parenting
• 37:18
  group
• 37:18
  of
• 37:19
  women
• 37:19
  that
• 37:19
  you
• 37:20
  really
• 37:20
  like,
• 37:20
  that
• 37:21
  you
• 37:21
  feel
• 37:21
  connected
• 37:22
  with
• 37:22
  and
• 37:22
  you
• 37:23
  kind
• 37:23
  of
• 37:23
  agree
• 37:23
  up
• 37:24
  front.
• 37:24
  Look,
• 37:24
  we're
• 37:24
  gonna.
• 37:25
  Whether
• 37:25
  you
• 37:26
  have
• 37:26
  a
• 37:26
  moderator
• 37:27
  like
• 37:27
  this,
• 37:27
  which
• 37:27
  does
• 37:28
  make
• 37:28
  sense
• 37:28
  to
• 37:28
  me.
• 37:29
  Yeah.
• 37:29
  Or.
• 37:30
  Great
• 37:30
  idea.
• 37:30
  Now,
• 37:31
  if
• 37:31
  you
• 37:31
  can't
• 37:31
  pay
• 37:31
  a
• 37:32
  moderator,
• 37:32
  what
• 37:32
  you
• 37:33
  could
• 37:33
  do
• 37:33
  is
• 37:33
  you
• 37:33
  could
• 37:34
  take
• 37:34
  turns.
• 37:35
  Each
• 37:35
  woman
• 37:35
  depend,
• 37:36
  you
• 37:36
  know,
• 37:36
  could
• 37:37
  take
• 37:37
  turns
• 37:37
  being
• 37:37
  a
• 37:38
  moderator.
• 37:38
  And
• 37:39
  your
• 37:39
  job
• 37:39
  is
• 37:40
  to
• 37:40
  ask
• 37:40
  the
• 37:40
  question,
• 37:41
  you
• 37:41
  know,
• 37:41
  what
• 37:41
  do
• 37:42
  we
• 37:42
  wanna
• 37:42
  talk
• 37:42
  about
• 37:42
  today?
• 37:43
  And
• 37:43
  to
• 37:43
  keep
• 37:43
  the
• 37:43
  group
• 37:43
  on
• 37:44
  track.
• 37:44
  Yeah.
• 37:45
  And
• 37:45
  keep
• 37:45
  the
• 37:45
  group
• 37:45
  from
• 37:46
  going
• 37:46
  off
• 37:46
  track.
• 37:46
  Y.
• 37:47
  I
• 37:48
  mean,
• 37:48
  you
• 37:48
  have
• 37:48
  to
• 37:48
  be
• 37:48
  getting
• 37:49
  hostile
• 37:49
  and
• 37:49
  getting
• 37:50
  hostile
• 37:50
  with
• 37:50
  each
• 37:51
  other
• 37:51
  or,
• 37:52
  you
• 37:52
  know,
• 37:52
  like
• 37:53
  my.
• 37:53
  My
• 37:53
  book
• 37:53
  group.
• 37:54
  We're
• 37:54
  now
• 37:54
  half
• 37:55
  a
• 37:55
  wine
• 37:55
  drinking
• 37:56
  group
• 37:56
  and
• 37:56
  half
• 37:57
  a
• 37:57
  book
• 37:57
  reading
• 37:57
  group.
• 37:58
  Okay.
• 37:58
  We're
• 37:58
  both.
• 37:59
  I
• 37:59
  mean,
• 37:59
  we
• 37:59
  bring
• 38:00
  a
• 38:00
  lot
• 38:00
  of
• 38:00
  wine.
• 38:00
  You
• 38:01
  contain
• 38:01
  multitudes.
• 38:01
  We
• 38:02
  do,
• 38:02
  but
• 38:02
  I'm.
• 38:03
  You
• 38:03
  know,
• 38:03
  when
• 38:03
  you
• 38:03
  drink
• 38:04
  too
• 38:04
  much
• 38:04
  wine,
• 38:04
  that's
• 38:05
  when
• 38:05
  it
• 38:05
  gets
• 38:05
  to.
• 38:05
  To
• 38:06
  a
• 38:06
  lot
• 38:06
  of
• 38:06
  conflict.
• 38:07
  But.
• 38:08
  But,
• 38:08
  you
• 38:08
  know,
• 38:08
  a
• 38:09
  moderator
• 38:09
  Might
• 38:10
  help
• 38:10
  you
• 38:10
  not
• 38:11
  go
• 38:11
  off
• 38:11
  track
• 38:12
  if
• 38:12
  you're
• 38:12
  drinking
• 38:13
  wine
• 38:13
  while
• 38:13
  you're
• 38:13
  doing
• 38:13
  it.
• 38:14
  It.
• 38:14
  Yeah.
• 38:14
  I
• 38:14
  mean,
• 38:15
  I
• 38:15
  think
• 38:15
  it
• 38:15
  helped
• 38:15
  loosen
• 38:16
  you
• 38:16
  up
• 38:16
  a
• 38:16
  little
• 38:17
  to
• 38:17
  talk,
• 38:17
  you
• 38:18
  know,
• 38:18
  let's
• 38:18
  be
• 38:18
  honest.
• 38:22
  No,
• 38:22
  but
• 38:22
  it,
• 38:22
  you
• 38:23
  know,
• 38:23
  I
• 38:23
  don't
• 38:23
  know
• 38:23
  if
• 38:23
  you
• 38:23
  want
• 38:23
  to
• 38:23
  drink
• 38:24
  or
• 38:24
  you
• 38:24
  don't.
• 38:24
  It
• 38:24
  sounds
• 38:25
  like
• 38:25
  this
• 38:25
  one
• 38:25
  thing.
• 38:26
  They
• 38:26
  don't
• 38:26
  drink
• 38:26
  and
• 38:26
  they
• 38:26
  don't
• 38:26
  even
• 38:27
  have
• 38:27
  snacks.
• 38:28
  They're
• 38:28
  not
• 38:28
  even
• 38:29
  there
• 38:29
  for
• 38:29
  the
• 38:29
  snacks.
• 38:30
  They're
• 38:30
  there
• 38:30
  because
• 38:31
  they
• 38:31
  want
• 38:31
  to
• 38:32
  just
• 38:32
  support
• 38:32
  each
• 38:32
  other
• 38:33
  and
• 38:33
  get
• 38:33
  advice.
• 38:34
  Okay.
• 38:34
  Yes.
• 38:34
  It
• 38:34
  was
• 38:35
  really
• 38:35
  beautiful,
• 38:35
  too.
• 38:35
  At
• 38:35
  the
• 38:35
  end
• 38:36
  of
• 38:36
  the
• 38:36
  article,
• 38:36
  one
• 38:36
  of
• 38:37
  the
• 38:37
  women
• 38:37
  who
• 38:37
  had
• 38:38
  passed
• 38:38
  away,
• 38:39
  her
• 38:39
  daughter,
• 38:39
  because
• 38:40
  she
• 38:40
  had
• 38:40
  passed
• 38:40
  away
• 38:40
  during
• 38:41
  Covetous.
• 38:42
  Her
• 38:42
  daughter
• 38:42
  was
• 38:43
  saying
• 38:43
  when
• 38:43
  her
• 38:43
  mother
• 38:43
  was
• 38:44
  really,
• 38:44
  really
• 38:44
  sick
• 38:45
  and
• 38:45
  at
• 38:45
  home
• 38:47
  during
• 38:47
  COVID
• 38:47
  she
• 38:48
  would.
• 38:48
  She
• 38:48
  sat
• 38:49
  on
• 38:49
  her
• 38:49
  porch
• 38:49
  and
• 38:49
  there
• 38:49
  were
• 38:50
  six
• 38:50
  women
• 38:50
  on
• 38:50
  their
• 38:50
  lawn
• 38:51
  with
• 38:51
  signs
• 38:52
  saying,
• 38:52
  we
• 38:52
  love
• 38:52
  you,
• 38:53
  we
• 38:53
  support
• 38:53
  you,
• 38:54
  we're
• 38:54
  here
• 38:54
  for
• 38:55
  you.
• 38:55
  That
• 38:55
  made
• 38:56
  me
• 38:56
  cry.
• 38:56
  I
• 38:56
  know.
• 38:56
  It
• 38:57
  was
• 38:57
  beautiful.
• 38:57
  Yeah.
• 38:58
  I
• 38:58
  mean,
• 38:58
  these
• 38:58
  women
• 38:58
  were
• 38:59
  there
• 38:59
  for
• 38:59
  each
• 38:59
  other,
• 38:59
  really?
• 39:00
  Deeply,
• 39:01
  deeply
• 39:01
  committed
• 39:01
  for
• 39:02
  44
• 39:02
  years.
• 39:03
  Yes.
• 39:03
  They
• 39:03
  had
• 39:04
  something
• 39:04
  like
• 39:04
  350
• 39:05
  years
• 39:06
  of
• 39:06
  marriage
• 39:06
  in
• 39:06
  between
• 39:07
  them,
• 39:08
  which
• 39:08
  I
• 39:08
  also
• 39:08
  think
• 39:08
  is
• 39:08
  interesting,
• 39:09
  too,
• 39:09
  because,
• 39:10
  I
• 39:10
  mean,
• 39:11
  I
• 39:11
  don't
• 39:11
  know
• 39:11
  anything
• 39:12
  about
• 39:12
  the
• 39:12
  statistics
• 39:13
  of
• 39:13
  divorce,
• 39:14
  but
• 39:14
  the
• 39:15
  fact
• 39:15
  that
• 39:15
  it
• 39:15
  didn't
• 39:15
  seem
• 39:15
  like
• 39:16
  anyone
• 39:16
  in
• 39:16
  this
• 39:16
  group
• 39:16
  was
• 39:17
  divorced
• 39:17
  was
• 39:17
  really
• 39:18
  interesting
• 39:18
  to
• 39:18
  me.
• 39:19
  I
• 39:19
  feel
• 39:19
  like
• 39:19
  maybe
• 39:20
  my
• 39:20
  generation
• 39:21
  is
• 39:21
  a
• 39:21
  bit
• 39:21
  quicker
• 39:22
  to
• 39:23
  dissolve
• 39:23
  a
• 39:23
  marriage,
• 39:24
  whereas
• 39:25
  maybe
• 39:25
  yours
• 39:26
  wasn't.
• 39:27
  Maybe
• 39:27
  there
• 39:27
  was,
• 39:28
  like,
• 39:28
  something,
• 39:29
  you
• 39:30
  know,
• 39:30
  it's
• 39:30
  like
• 39:30
  we
• 39:30
  made
• 39:30
  this
• 39:31
  choice,
• 39:31
  we
• 39:31
  made
• 39:31
  this
• 39:32
  commitment.
• 39:32
  I
• 39:32
  think
• 39:32
  that
• 39:33
  this
• 39:33
  group
• 39:33
  really
• 39:33
  helped
• 39:34
  each
• 39:34
  other
• 39:34
  probably
• 39:35
  through
• 39:35
  some
• 39:35
  difficulties
• 39:36
  in
• 39:36
  their
• 39:36
  marriage
• 39:37
  and
• 39:37
  not
• 39:37
  just
• 39:37
  in
• 39:38
  raising
• 39:38
  kids.
• 39:39
  Yes.
• 39:39
  I
• 39:39
  think
• 39:39
  you're
• 39:40
  right.
• 39:40
  I
• 39:40
  think
• 39:40
  that
• 39:41
  that's
• 39:41
  probably
• 39:41
  part
• 39:41
  of
• 39:41
  the
• 39:42
  reason.
• 39:42
  Maybe
• 39:42
  they
• 39:42
  didn't.
• 39:43
  There
• 39:43
  weren't
• 39:43
  divorce.
• 39:44
  There
• 39:44
  wasn't
• 39:44
  a
• 39:44
  divorce
• 39:44
  because
• 39:45
  they
• 39:46
  were
• 39:46
  getting
• 39:46
  advice
• 39:47
  every,
• 39:47
  you
• 39:48
  know,
• 39:48
  twice
• 39:48
  a
• 39:48
  month
• 39:49
  or.
• 39:49
  Let's
• 39:49
  see.
• 39:50
  Yeah,
• 39:50
  twice
• 39:51
  a
• 39:51
  month.
• 39:51
  So
• 39:52
  they.
• 39:52
  They
• 39:52
  could
• 39:52
  ask
• 39:53
  if
• 39:53
  they
• 39:53
  were
• 39:53
  having
• 39:53
  problems
• 39:54
  in
• 39:54
  their
• 39:54
  marriage.
• 39:54
  They
• 39:55
  could
• 39:55
  talk
• 39:55
  about
• 39:55
  it.
• 39:55
  They
• 39:56
  could
• 39:56
  try
• 39:56
  to
• 39:56
  fix
• 39:56
  it.
• 39:57
  Yeah.
• 39:58
  And,
• 39:58
  you
• 39:58
  know,
• 39:58
  so
• 39:59
  that's.
• 39:59
  That's
• 39:59
  helpful.
• 40:00
  Not
• 40:00
  everybody
• 40:01
  has
• 40:01
  that.
• 40:01
  Yeah.
• 40:02
  And
• 40:02
  you.
• 40:02
  And
• 40:02
  it's,
• 40:03
  you
• 40:03
  know,
• 40:03
  probably
• 40:03
  if
• 40:04
  you've
• 40:04
  got
• 40:04
  six
• 40:04
  people
• 40:05
  paying
• 40:05
  some
• 40:06
  one
• 40:06
  person,
• 40:06
  let's
• 40:07
  say,
• 40:07
  I
• 40:08
  don't
• 40:08
  know,
• 40:08
  150
• 40:09
  an
• 40:09
  hour.
• 40:10
  I
• 40:10
  don't
• 40:10
  know
• 40:10
  what
• 40:10
  it
• 40:10
  would
• 40:10
  cost,
• 40:11
  but,
• 40:11
  you
• 40:12
  know,
• 40:12
  so
• 40:12
  you're
• 40:12
  paying
• 40:12
  $25
• 40:13
  a
• 40:14
  session.
• 40:14
  It's
• 40:14
  worth
• 40:14
  it.
• 40:15
  It's
• 40:15
  like
• 40:15
  group
• 40:15
  therapy.
• 40:16
  It
• 40:16
  is,
• 40:16
  but
• 40:17
  it's
• 40:17
  not
• 40:17
  that
• 40:17
  expensive.
• 40:18
  Yeah.
• 40:20
  Or
• 40:20
  you.
• 40:20
  Like
• 40:20
  I
• 40:21
  said,
• 40:21
  I
• 40:21
  think
• 40:21
  you
• 40:21
  could
• 40:22
  take
• 40:22
  Turns
• 40:23
  being
• 40:23
  moderator
• 40:24
  and
• 40:24
  maybe.
• 40:25
  But
• 40:25
  I
• 40:25
  don't
• 40:25
  know.
• 40:25
  I
• 40:26
  like
• 40:26
  the
• 40:26
  element
• 40:26
  of
• 40:26
  the
• 40:27
  professional,
• 40:28
  unbiased
• 40:29
  person,
• 40:30
  third
• 40:30
  party.
• 40:31
  Right.
• 40:31
  Then
• 40:31
  it
• 40:31
  gets
• 40:32
  you
• 40:32
  down
• 40:32
  to
• 40:32
  business
• 40:33
  and.
• 40:33
  Yeah.
• 40:33
  Yeah.
• 40:34
  Because
• 40:34
  it
• 40:34
  is
• 40:34
  easy
• 40:35
  for
• 40:35
  girl
• 40:35
  groups
• 40:36
  to
• 40:36
  go
• 40:36
  off.
• 40:36
  It
• 40:37
  is
• 40:37
  the
• 40:37
  rail.
• 40:37
  Abso.
• 40:39
  Definitely
• 40:39
  is.
• 40:40
  It
• 40:40
  definitely
• 40:40
  is.
• 40:41
  But
• 40:42
  no,
• 40:42
  I
• 40:42
  thought
• 40:42
  this
• 40:42
  was
• 40:43
  wonderful
• 40:43
  and.
• 40:44
  Wonderful
• 40:45
  story.
• 40:45
  And
• 40:45
  it.
• 40:46
  What.
• 40:46
  It
• 40:46
  gives
• 40:46
  you
• 40:47
  hope
• 40:47
  that
• 40:47
  there
• 40:48
  are
• 40:48
  mom
• 40:48
  groups
• 40:49
  that
• 40:49
  can
• 40:49
  be
• 40:49
  very
• 40:50
  helpful,
• 40:51
  supportive,
• 40:53
  you
• 40:53
  know?
• 40:54
  You
• 40:55
  know,
• 40:55
  don't.
• 40:55
  That.
• 40:55
  Don't
• 40:56
  go
• 40:56
  on
• 40:56
  social
• 40:56
  media
• 40:57
  to
• 40:57
  air
• 40:57
  the
• 40:57
  dirty
• 40:58
  laundry
• 41:00
  and
• 41:01
  keep
• 41:01
  your
• 41:02
  business
• 41:02
  to
• 41:02
  yourself,
• 41:03
  ladies.
• 41:03
  And
• 41:04
  they
• 41:04
  don't
• 41:04
  make
• 41:04
  it
• 41:04
  too
• 41:04
  hard
• 41:05
  to
• 41:05
  get
• 41:05
  in.
• 41:05
  They
• 41:05
  don't
• 41:06
  get.
• 41:06
  Yeah.
• 41:07
  Like
• 41:07
  you're.
• 41:08
  I'm
• 41:08
  an
• 41:09
  exclusive
• 41:09
  group.
• 41:10
  Yeah.
• 41:10
  But
• 41:10
  again,
• 41:11
  it's
• 41:11
  like,
• 41:12
  it's
• 41:12
  not
• 41:12
  exclusive
• 41:12
  for
• 41:13
  the
• 41:13
  sake
• 41:13
  of
• 41:13
  being
• 41:13
  exclusive,
• 41:14
  you
• 41:14
  know?
• 41:15
  Yeah.
• 41:15
  I
• 41:15
  think
• 41:15
  there
• 41:16
  really
• 41:16
  is
• 41:16
  a
• 41:16
  balance
• 41:17
  in
• 41:17
  terms
• 41:17
  of
• 41:18
  how
• 41:18
  many
• 41:18
  people
• 41:18
  can
• 41:19
  succeed
• 41:19
  in
• 41:20
  a
• 41:20
  group
• 41:20
  dynamic.
• 41:21
  Right.
• 41:21
  You
• 41:22
  know,
• 41:22
  and
• 41:22
  they
• 41:22
  said
• 41:23
  they're
• 41:23
  on.
• 41:23
  It's
• 41:23
  like,
• 41:23
  listen,
• 41:23
  there
• 41:24
  were
• 41:24
  fights.
• 41:24
  There
• 41:24
  were
• 41:24
  disagreements,
• 41:25
  but
• 41:25
  I
• 41:26
  think
• 41:26
  it
• 41:26
  would
• 41:26
  have
• 41:27
  been
• 41:27
  easier
• 41:27
  to
• 41:27
  leave
• 41:28
  if
• 41:28
  the
• 41:28
  group
• 41:28
  was
• 41:28
  bigger
• 41:28
  because
• 41:29
  maybe
• 41:29
  you
• 41:29
  would
• 41:29
  have
• 41:29
  felt
• 41:29
  like,
• 41:30
  oh,
• 41:30
  they
• 41:30
  won't
• 41:30
  miss
• 41:30
  my
• 41:30
  accent.
• 41:31
  Like
• 41:31
  your
• 41:32
  presence
• 41:32
  or
• 41:32
  your
• 41:33
  absence
• 41:33
  is
• 41:33
  felt
• 41:34
  in
• 41:34
  a
• 41:34
  group
• 41:34
  of
• 41:34
  this
• 41:35
  size.
• 41:35
  Yes.
• 41:35
  If
• 41:36
  somebody
• 41:36
  leaves,
• 41:36
  there's
• 41:37
  a
• 41:37
  hole.
• 41:37
  Yeah.
• 41:38
  Yeah.
• 41:38
  I
• 41:38
  think
• 41:38
  you're
• 41:38
  right.
• 41:39
  Right.
• 41:39
  Yeah.
• 41:39
  No,
• 41:40
  I.
• 41:40
  And
• 41:40
  I.
• 41:40
  I
• 41:40
  hope
• 41:41
  I
• 41:41
  encourage
• 41:41
  you
• 41:42
  to
• 41:42
  try
• 41:42
  to
• 41:42
  make
• 41:42
  a
• 41:43
  group
• 41:43
  like
• 41:43
  this.
• 41:43
  I.
• 41:44
  I
• 41:44
  would
• 41:44
  love
• 41:45
  to.
• 41:45
  I
• 41:45
  would
• 41:45
  really
• 41:46
  love
• 41:46
  to.
• 41:46
  Because
• 41:46
  I'm.
• 41:47
  I'm
• 41:47
  at
• 41:48
  a
• 41:48
  sort
• 41:48
  of
• 41:48
  strange
• 41:48
  point.
• 41:48
  Like,
• 41:49
  I'm
• 41:49
  the
• 41:49
  first
• 41:49
  of
• 41:50
  a
• 41:50
  lot
• 41:50
  of
• 41:50
  my
• 41:50
  close
• 41:51
  friends
• 41:51
  to
• 41:51
  have
• 41:51
  a
• 41:52
  baby.
• 41:52
  One
• 41:52
  of
• 41:52
  my
• 41:53
  really
• 41:53
  good
• 41:53
  friends
• 41:54
  has
• 41:55
  a
• 41:55
  daughter
• 41:55
  who's
• 41:55
  about
• 41:56
  five.
• 41:56
  And
• 41:56
  then
• 41:56
  one
• 41:56
  of
• 41:57
  my
• 41:57
  other
• 41:57
  really
• 41:57
  good
• 41:57
  friends
• 41:57
  has
• 41:58
  two
• 41:58
  daughters,
• 41:59
  but
• 41:59
  she
• 41:59
  lives
• 41:59
  upstate.
• 42:00
  Oh.
• 42:01
  You
• 42:01
  know,
• 42:01
  so
• 42:01
  it's
• 42:01
  hard.
• 42:02
  It's
• 42:02
  like,
• 42:02
  I.
• 42:02
  I
• 42:03
  would
• 42:03
  love
• 42:03
  a
• 42:03
  group
• 42:03
  of,
• 42:03
  like,
• 42:04
  local
• 42:04
  moms
• 42:05
  to
• 42:05
  commiserate
• 42:06
  with
• 42:06
  with.
• 42:06
  It
• 42:07
  would
• 42:07
  be
• 42:07
  nice
• 42:07
  if
• 42:08
  you
• 42:08
  could
• 42:08
  find
• 42:08
  that
• 42:08
  or
• 42:09
  if
• 42:09
  you
• 42:09
  could
• 42:09
  make
• 42:09
  that
• 42:10
  somehow.
• 42:10
  And
• 42:10
  it
• 42:11
  might
• 42:11
  be
• 42:11
  moms
• 42:11
  that
• 42:12
  you
• 42:12
  right
• 42:12
  now
• 42:13
  don't
• 42:13
  know
• 42:13
  that.
• 42:13
  Well,
• 42:14
  if
• 42:14
  there's
• 42:14
  a,
• 42:15
  you
• 42:15
  know,
• 42:15
  you
• 42:15
  might.
• 42:15
  When
• 42:15
  you
• 42:16
  start
• 42:16
  going
• 42:16
  to
• 42:16
  like
• 42:16
  a
• 42:17
  Mommy
• 42:17
  and
• 42:17
  Me
• 42:17
  class
• 42:17
  or
• 42:18
  you
• 42:18
  might
• 42:18
  start
• 42:18
  to
• 42:19
  meet
• 42:19
  people
• 42:19
  in
• 42:19
  your
• 42:19
  neighborhood
• 42:20
  that
• 42:20
  would
• 42:21
  make.
• 42:21
  Would
• 42:21
  be
• 42:22
  good
• 42:22
  to
• 42:22
  be
• 42:22
  part
• 42:23
  of
• 42:23
  a
• 42:23
  group
• 42:23
  like
• 42:23
  that.
• 42:23
  Totally.
• 42:24
  And
• 42:24
  I
• 42:25
  think
• 42:25
  that
• 42:25
  it.
• 42:25
  It
• 42:26
  would
• 42:26
  be
• 42:26
  just
• 42:27
  helpful
• 42:28
  and
• 42:28
  nice.
• 42:28
  I
• 42:29
  mean,
• 42:29
  you
• 42:29
  can
• 42:29
  always
• 42:29
  come
• 42:30
  to
• 42:30
  me.
• 42:30
  Thanks.
• 42:31
  And
• 42:31
  I'll
• 42:31
  always
• 42:31
  give
• 42:31
  you.
• 42:32
  You'll
• 42:32
  be
• 42:32
  my
• 42:32
  mom
• 42:32
  group.
• 42:33
  I'll
• 42:33
  be
• 42:33
  your
• 42:33
  mom's
• 42:34
  group.
• 42:34
  I'll
• 42:34
  give
• 42:34
  you
• 42:35
  advice.
• 42:35
  I'm
• 42:36
  so
• 42:36
  Lucky
• 42:36
  I
• 42:36
  have
• 42:36
  you
• 42:36
  and
• 42:37
  I
• 42:37
  have
• 42:37
  my
• 42:37
  mother
• 42:37
  in
• 42:37
  law.
• 42:38
  Am
• 42:38
  just
• 42:38
  so
• 42:39
  blessed
• 42:39
  to
• 42:39
  have
• 42:39
  such
• 42:39
  a
• 42:40
  good
• 42:40
  relationship
• 42:40
  with,
• 42:41
  you
• 42:41
  know,
• 42:41
  and
• 42:42
  you
• 42:42
  guys,
• 42:42
  you
• 42:42
  guys
• 42:43
  are.
• 42:43
  It's,
• 42:44
  it's
• 42:44
  so
• 42:44
  funny.
• 42:44
  You
• 42:44
  guys
• 42:45
  are
• 42:45
  very
• 42:45
  similar
• 42:45
  in
• 42:46
  so
• 42:46
  many
• 42:46
  ways
• 42:47
  and
• 42:47
  very
• 42:47
  different
• 42:48
  in
• 42:48
  so
• 42:48
  many
• 42:48
  ways
• 42:49
  and
• 42:49
  it's
• 42:49
  just
• 42:49
  nice
• 42:49
  to
• 42:50
  have
• 42:50
  that
• 42:50
  balance.
• 42:51
  Yeah.
• 42:51
  You
• 42:52
  know,
• 42:52
  well,
• 42:52
  you've
• 42:52
  got
• 42:52
  a
• 42:52
  lot
• 42:53
  of
• 42:53
  people
• 42:53
  supporting
• 42:53
  you
• 42:54
  locally
• 42:55
  and,
• 42:55
  but
• 42:55
  not
• 42:56
  everybody
• 42:56
  does.
• 42:56
  And
• 42:57
  so
• 42:57
  that's
• 42:58
  why
• 42:58
  you
• 42:58
  have
• 42:58
  to
• 42:58
  come
• 42:58
  up
• 42:58
  with
• 42:59
  your
• 42:59
  own,
• 42:59
  Find
• 42:59
  your
• 43:00
  own
• 43:00
  support
• 43:01
  system
• 43:01
  locally
• 43:03
  and
• 43:03
  it's
• 43:03
  worth
• 43:04
  it.
• 43:04
  And,
• 43:04
  and
• 43:06
  you
• 43:06
  know,
• 43:06
  you
• 43:06
  can
• 43:06
  see,
• 43:06
  it
• 43:07
  can
• 43:07
  work.
• 43:07
  Yeah,
• 43:08
  it
• 43:08
  can
• 43:09
  work,
• 43:09
  ladies.
• 43:11
  It
• 43:11
  works
• 43:11
  if
• 43:11
  you
• 43:11
  work
• 43:12
  it,
• 43:12
  as
• 43:12
  they
• 43:12
  say.
• 43:13
  That's
• 43:13
  right.
• 43:14
  That's
• 43:14
  right.
• 43:15
  Yeah.
• 43:15
  I
• 43:16
  really,
• 43:16
  really
• 43:16
  like
• 43:16
  that.
• 43:17
  I
• 43:17
  really
• 43:17
  like
• 43:17
  that
• 43:17
  we
• 43:18
  ended
• 43:18
  on
• 43:18
  that
• 43:18
  one
• 43:18
  because
• 43:19
  I
• 43:19
  tell
• 43:19
  you,
• 43:20
  the
• 43:20
  first
• 43:20
  two
• 43:21
  make
• 43:21
  it
• 43:21
  seem
• 43:22
  pretty
• 43:22
  abysmal.
• 43:23
  It
• 43:23
  does.
• 43:25
  Right?
• 43:25
  For
• 43:26
  moms.
• 43:26
  For
• 43:27
  mom
• 43:27
  groups.
• 43:27
  Right.
• 43:28
  So
• 43:28
  what
• 43:28
  do
• 43:28
  you
• 43:28
  think
• 43:29
  about
• 43:29
  doing
• 43:29
  articles?
• 43:30
  Do
• 43:30
  you
• 43:30
  like
• 43:30
  doing
• 43:30
  articles?
• 43:31
  Yeah,
• 43:31
  I
• 43:31
  think
• 43:31
  I
• 43:31
  like
• 43:31
  it.
• 43:32
  You
• 43:32
  know,
• 43:32
  it
• 43:32
  is
• 43:32
  nice
• 43:33
  to
• 43:33
  have
• 43:33
  to
• 43:33
  read
• 43:33
  30
• 43:34
  pages
• 43:34
  as
• 43:34
  opposed
• 43:35
  to
• 43:35
  300
• 43:35
  every
• 43:36
  once
• 43:36
  in
• 43:36
  a
• 43:36
  while.
• 43:37
  Ye,
• 43:37
  yes.
• 43:38
  Everyone
• 43:38
  have
• 43:39
  a
• 43:39
  terribly
• 43:39
  busy
• 43:40
  week.
• 43:40
  Right.
• 43:41
  I
• 43:41
  like
• 43:42
  it.
• 43:42
  I
• 43:42
  also
• 43:42
  think
• 43:42
  too,
• 43:42
  like,
• 43:43
  it's
• 43:43
  nice
• 43:44
  to
• 43:44
  have
• 43:45
  these
• 43:45
  evergreen
• 43:46
  topics
• 43:47
  that
• 43:47
  we
• 43:47
  can
• 43:47
  explore.
• 43:48
  You
• 43:49
  know,
• 43:49
  I'm
• 43:49
  sure
• 43:49
  we
• 43:49
  could
• 43:49
  have
• 43:49
  found
• 43:49
  a
• 43:50
  book
• 43:50
  about
• 43:50
  mom
• 43:50
  group
• 43:50
  dynamics,
• 43:51
  but
• 43:51
  then
• 43:51
  we
• 43:52
  would
• 43:52
  have
• 43:52
  had
• 43:52
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• 43:52
  read
• 43:52
  another
• 43:53
  300
• 43:53
  pages.
• 43:54
  Right?
• 43:54
  There
• 43:54
  are
• 43:54
  books.
• 43:54
  Yeah.
• 43:55
  So
• 43:55
  work
• 43:56
  smart,
• 43:56
  not
• 43:56
  hard,
• 43:57
  ladies.
• 43:58
  That's
• 43:59
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• 43:59
  What
• 43:59
  did
• 44:00
  you
• 44:00
  think?
• 44:00
  Yeah,
• 44:01
  I
• 44:01
  liked
• 44:01
  it.
• 44:01
  It
• 44:01
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• 44:02
  fun
• 44:02
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• 44:02
  read
• 44:02
  the
• 44:02
  articles
• 44:03
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• 44:03
  think
• 44:04
  about,
• 44:04
  you
• 44:04
  know,
• 44:06
  there's
• 44:06
  not
• 44:06
  so
• 44:06
  much
• 44:06
  information
• 44:07
  there.
• 44:07
  So
• 44:07
  I
• 44:07
  get
• 44:08
  to
• 44:08
  just
• 44:08
  say
• 44:08
  what
• 44:08
  I
• 44:08
  think
• 44:09
  as
• 44:09
  opposed
• 44:09
  to
• 44:10
  trying
• 44:10
  to
• 44:10
  make
• 44:10
  sure
• 44:10
  I
• 44:11
  give
• 44:12
  everybody
• 44:12
  all
• 44:12
  the
• 44:12
  information
• 44:13
  that.
• 44:13
  And
• 44:14
  cite
• 44:14
  studies
• 44:15
  and
• 44:15
  site
• 44:15
  studies.
• 44:16
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• 44:16
  were
• 44:16
  no
• 44:16
  studies
• 44:17
  cited
• 44:17
  in
• 44:17
  these
• 44:17
  groups.
• 44:18
  No,
• 44:18
  none.
• 44:19
  None.
• 44:20
  No.
• 44:20
  But
• 44:21
  they
• 44:21
  were
• 44:21
  all
• 44:21
  really
• 44:21
  good
• 44:22
  articles.
• 44:23
  And
• 44:24
  I
• 44:24
  had
• 44:24
  read
• 44:24
  the
• 44:24
  New
• 44:25
  York
• 44:25
  Times
• 44:25
  article
• 44:26
  just
• 44:27
  in
• 44:27
  my
• 44:27
  newspaper.
• 44:28
  I
• 44:28
  know,
• 44:28
  I
• 44:29
  still
• 44:29
  read
• 44:29
  newspapers.
• 44:29
  Isn't
• 44:30
  that
• 44:30
  crazy?
• 44:30
  I
• 44:30
  mean,
• 44:31
  they
• 44:31
  make
• 44:31
  newspapers,
• 44:32
  so
• 44:32
  you're
• 44:33
  not
• 44:33
  alone.
• 44:33
  I
• 44:33
  know,
• 44:33
  but
• 44:34
  I
• 44:34
  do
• 44:34
  read.
• 44:34
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• 44:34
  read
• 44:35
  it
• 44:35
  in
• 44:35
  the
• 44:35
  paper
• 44:35
  and
• 44:35
  I
• 44:36
  was
• 44:36
  just
• 44:36
  like.
• 44:37
  And
• 44:37
  I
• 44:37
  went,
• 44:37
  oh,
• 44:37
  this
• 44:38
  is
• 44:38
  so
• 44:38
  great.
• 44:38
  You
• 44:39
  know,
• 44:39
  and
• 44:39
  I
• 44:39
  thought,
• 44:40
  I
• 44:40
  thought
• 44:40
  I
• 44:40
  should
• 44:41
  tell
• 44:41
  you
• 44:41
  about
• 44:41
  it
• 44:41
  when
• 44:42
  I
• 44:42
  read
• 44:42
  it.
• 44:43
  I'm
• 44:43
  so
• 44:43
  glad
• 44:43
  you
• 44:44
  did.
• 44:44
  I
• 44:44
  did.
• 44:45
  I
• 44:45
  did.
• 44:46
  Also,
• 44:46
  guys,
• 44:47
  we
• 44:47
  have
• 44:47
  a
• 44:47
  fun
• 44:47
  new
• 44:47
  thing.
• 44:48
  We
• 44:48
  have
• 44:49
  an
• 44:49
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• 44:49
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• 44:50
  now
• 44:50
  that
• 44:50
  we
• 44:51
  can
• 44:51
  receive
• 44:52
  suggestions
• 44:53
  on.
• 44:54
  So
• 44:54
  if
• 44:54
  there
• 44:54
  are
• 44:54
  any
• 44:55
  books
• 44:55
  that
• 44:56
  you
• 44:56
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• 44:56
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• 44:56
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• 44:56
  hear
• 44:57
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• 45:04
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  honestly
• 45:05
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• 45:06
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• 45:07
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• 45:08
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• 45:08
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• 45:08
  us
• 45:08
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• 45:09
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• 45:09
  Anything.
• 45:10
  We
• 45:10
  will.
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• 45:11
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• 45:11
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• 45:11
  back.
• 45:11
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• 45:11
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• 45:12
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• 45:12
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• 45:13
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• 45:13
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• 45:14
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• 45:14
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• 45:14
  We.
• 45:14
  What
• 45:15
  if
• 45:15
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• 45:15
  mean?
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• 45:16
  mean.
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• 45:17
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• 45:17
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• 45:17
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• 45:18
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• 45:18
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• 45:18
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• 45:19
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• 45:19
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• 45:19
  sensitive.
• 45:21
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• 45:21
  are.
• 45:22
  But
• 45:22
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• 45:22
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• 45:23
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• 45:23
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• 45:23
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• 45:23
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• 45:23
  us
• 45:23
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• 45:24
  anything.
• 45:24
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• 45:25
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• 45:25
  you're
• 45:26
  mean,
• 45:26
  in
• 45:26
  which
• 45:26
  case,
• 45:26
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• 45:27
  you
• 45:27
  have
• 45:27
  nothing
• 45:27
  nice
• 45:27
  to
• 45:27
  say,
• 45:28
  please
• 45:28
  say
• 45:28
  nothing.
• 45:29
  Right.
• 45:29
  Well,
• 45:29
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• 45:30
  some
• 45:30
  of
• 45:30
  the
• 45:30
  best
• 45:30
  advice
• 45:31
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• 45:31
  ever
• 45:31
  got
• 45:31
  from
• 45:31
  my
• 45:32
  mother,
• 45:32
  and
• 45:32
  she
• 45:32
  used
• 45:33
  to
• 45:33
  say
• 45:33
  that
• 45:33
  all
• 45:33
  the
• 45:33
  time.
• 45:34
  If
• 45:34
  you
• 45:34
  can't
• 45:34
  say
• 45:35
  anything
• 45:35
  nice,
• 45:35
  don't
• 45:36
  say
• 45:36
  anything
• 45:36
  at
• 45:37
  all
• 45:37
  when
• 45:37
  you.
• 45:37
  Which
• 45:38
  obviously
• 45:39
  does
• 45:39
  not
• 45:39
  work
• 45:39
  in
• 45:40
  today's
• 45:40
  world
• 45:40
  because
• 45:41
  people
• 45:41
  love
• 45:42
  to
• 45:42
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• 45:42
  mean.
• 45:42
  People
• 45:42
  like
• 45:42
  to
• 45:42
  be
• 45:43
  mean.
• 45:43
  Like
• 45:43
  when
• 45:43
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• 45:43
  go
• 45:43
  to
• 45:43
  art
• 45:43
  shows,
• 45:44
  like
• 45:44
  by
• 45:44
  my
• 45:44
  friends,
• 45:45
  and
• 45:45
  the
• 45:45
  work
• 45:45
  is
• 45:46
  so
• 45:46
  bad,
• 45:46
  I'm
• 45:46
  like,
• 45:47
  wow,
• 45:48
  it's
• 45:48
  so
• 45:49
  big.
• 45:50
  That's
• 45:50
  right.
• 45:50
  Just
• 45:50
  don't
• 45:51
  say
• 45:51
  something
• 45:51
  objective.
• 45:52
  Yes.
• 45:52
  It
• 45:53
  is,
• 45:53
  in
• 45:53
  fact,
• 45:53
  a
• 45:53
  big
• 45:54
  painting.
• 45:55
  It
• 45:55
  is
• 45:55
  a
• 45:55
  big
• 45:55
  painting.
• 45:56
  Wow.
• 45:57
  It's
• 45:57
  so
• 45:57
  green.
• 45:58
  Lots
• 45:59
  of
• 45:59
  green
• 45:59
  here.
• 46:00
  I
• 46:00
  know.
• 46:01
  No,
• 46:01
  you
• 46:01
  don't.
• 46:02
  Yeah.
• 46:02
  Anyway,
• 46:03
  you
• 46:03
  can
• 46:03
  criticize
• 46:04
  if
• 46:04
  you.
• 46:04
  But
• 46:04
  be
• 46:04
  nice
• 46:05
  about
• 46:05
  it.
• 46:05
  If
• 46:05
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• 46:05
  going
• 46:05
  to
• 46:05
  criticize,
• 46:06
  do
• 46:06
  it
• 46:06
  behind
• 46:06
  our
• 46:06
  back.
• 46:06
  Facts.
• 46:07
  Okay,
• 46:07
  that's
• 46:07
  okay.
• 46:08
  Or
• 46:08
  just
• 46:08
  be
• 46:08
  nice
• 46:09
  about
• 46:09
  it.
• 46:09
  Say
• 46:09
  it
• 46:09
  in
• 46:10
  a
• 46:10
  nice
• 46:10
  way.
• 46:10
  Yeah.
• 46:11
  We
• 46:11
  can
• 46:11
  offer
• 46:12
  advice.
• 46:12
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• 46:12
  don't
• 46:13
  know
• 46:13
  anything.
• 46:13
  But
• 46:13
  my
• 46:14
  mom
• 46:14
  has
• 46:15
  advice.
• 46:16
  I
• 46:16
  have
• 46:16
  advice.
• 46:17
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• 46:18
  do.
• 46:18
  So
• 46:18
  remember,
• 46:19
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• 46:19
  you
• 46:19
  need
• 46:19
  advice
• 46:20
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• 46:20
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• 46:20
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• 46:21
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• 46:21
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• 46:21
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• 46:21
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• 46:22
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• 46:23
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• 46:23
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• 46:24
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• 46:24
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• 46:25
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• 46:25
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• 46:25
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• 46:25
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• 46:25
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• 46:26
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• 46:26
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• 46:26
  topics,
• 46:27
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• 46:27
  open.
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• 46:28
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• 46:29
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• 46:37
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