Latest / Fairview Presbyterian Church (PCA) Sermons / The Murderous Heart (Matthew 5:21-26)- Dalton D. Vetter
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- 0:00Good evening. As Pastor Kenny mentioned, we are
- 0:07beginning a new sermon series tonight. And due
- 0:10to a mystery white substance that myself and
- 0:14my fellow Midwesterners like to call snow, I
- 0:18have the honor and privilege of beginning it
- 0:20tonight. And as Kenny and I began talking through
- 0:24the sermon series and what he had in mind for
- 0:28it and dealing with issues of I thought back
- 0:30on my own life and I looked at society. And I
- 0:35realized that more than anything else, the sin
- 0:38of anger unfortunately defines the life of many
- 0:42Christians and the life of many non -believers.
- 0:45And it's one we can see so commonly, even in
- 0:50the interactions with our spouses. Maybe you
- 0:53men have been gone for a long day of work, you've
- 0:55been gone for... nine or 10 hours and you come
- 0:58home and the first thing your wife asks you to
- 1:00do is take out the garbage. Or wives, maybe you've
- 1:04had a long day with the children, they've been
- 1:07sick, they've been throwing up, they got into
- 1:09too much Valentine's Day candy and they have
- 1:12been running rampant all over the house. And
- 1:15you just need some help but your husband comes
- 1:17home and he collapses tired and he wakes up the
- 1:21next day ready for you to yell at him. And it's
- 1:24one that we can see amongst believers online
- 1:28as they argue theology, or even in person when
- 1:31they argue theology. They are quick to throw
- 1:34insults. This sin, the sin of anger, is ultimately
- 1:40defined as murder. And Christian, you need to
- 1:44face it, you are a murderer. At least that is
- 1:48how Jesus defines it. In our text tonight, Matthew
- 1:515 verses 21 through 26. Again the the text that
- 1:58Jesus uses to define anger is found in Matthew
- 2:015 verse 21 through 26 You have heard it said
- 2:06You heard that it was said to those of old you
- 2:10shall not murder and whoever murders will be
- 2:13liable to judgment But I say to you that everyone
- 2:16who is angry with his brother will be liable
- 2:19to judgment Whoever insults his brother will
- 2:21be liable to counsel and whoever says you fool
- 2:24will be liable to the hell of fire. So if you
- 2:28are offering your gift at the altar and there
- 2:30you remember that your brother has something
- 2:32against you, leave your gift there before the
- 2:35altar and go. First, be reconciled to your brother
- 2:39and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms
- 2:42quickly with your accuser while you are going
- 2:45with him to court. Least your accuser hand you
- 2:47over to the judge and the judge to the guard
- 2:50and you be put in prison. Truly I say to you,
- 2:53you will never get out until you have paid the
- 2:56last penny." Now if we are going to understand
- 3:00this text, I think it is first right and proper
- 3:02to go to God in prayer and ask for help and understanding.
- 3:07Our Lord and our God, we ask you as we examine
- 3:11the words of your son tonight that you would
- 3:14open our eyes to see and our ears to hear that
- 3:18we would understand. what you would like us to,
- 3:21that we would understand how great of God we
- 3:24have because we are great sinners, and we have
- 3:28failed on so many accounts. And we need your
- 3:31help, Lord. Help us tonight through your Holy
- 3:33Spirit to understand what is in this text. And
- 3:36I pray all of this in Jesus' name, amen. Now
- 3:41as we move into this text, I think it's important
- 3:43to understand where we are at to have some background.
- 3:46because this sermon is right at the start of
- 3:49Jesus' ministry. It comes after his baptism.
- 3:52It comes after his 40 days in the wilderness
- 3:55where he was let out and tested by Satan. At
- 3:59this point, he has called his disciples and he
- 4:02has began to teach. He started in the region
- 4:06of Galilee as he gathered people around him from
- 4:09Jerusalem and Judea and the Decapolis, really
- 4:12the central and southern parts of Israel. and
- 4:15he has taken them north to Galilee. And he takes
- 4:18them up on this mountain to preach because Jesus
- 4:20did not have the convenience of having a microphone
- 4:23like we have this evening. He had to get above
- 4:26the crowd. So he takes them up to the mountain
- 4:29and he begins to preach. And he begins with the
- 4:32Beatitudes, explaining the types of characteristics
- 4:35that should mark believers in the kingdom of
- 4:37God. Then he moves into how he fulfills the law
- 4:41and the true meaning of it. And he begins, actually,
- 4:45with the sixth commandment of the law, which
- 4:48is, thou shall not murder. And he recounts this
- 4:53in verse 21. You have heard it said that those
- 4:56of old you shall not murder, and whoever murders
- 4:58will be liable to judgment. Jesus, in this statement,
- 5:01he's doing two things. He's quoting the sixth
- 5:05commandment from Exodus chapter 20, but he's
- 5:08also counting the scribes and the Pharisees.
- 5:11the people that were deemed more righteous than
- 5:15everyone else. These were the Billy Grahams of
- 5:18your day, your R .C. Sproul, your John MacArthur,
- 5:22your Pastor Kennes. But unfortunately, they did
- 5:25not have the same level of grace that any of
- 5:27those men have or had. They had their Pharisaical
- 5:33view. It was very literal, it was very wooden.
- 5:37And I don't even think... literal is the right
- 5:40definition. It was literalistic. They made it
- 5:43so literal, it forced any other meaning out of
- 5:46the text. And so as the scribes and Pharisees
- 5:50approached the issue of murder, they just said,
- 5:53well, as long as I keep my hands clean, and I
- 5:56do not lay my hand upon my wife or another man,
- 5:59and I do not take their life and cold blooded
- 6:03murder, then I'm okay. This verse is not referring
- 6:07to killing in self -defense or killing in a time
- 6:10of war, but this is cold, and this is a cold
- 6:13-blooded murder, murder in the first degree.
- 6:18And Jesus rightly explains that anyone who murders
- 6:23will be liable to judgment. This is the idea
- 6:26of eye for the eye, which actually comes from
- 6:29Leviticus 24, 17, which states, whoever takes
- 6:32a human life shall surely be put to death. It
- 6:36is just in the eyes of God that those who murder
- 6:38in cold blood, they should also have their life
- 6:41taken. But Jesus does not want to stay on this
- 6:46wooden understanding of the law. He wants to
- 6:49get at the heart of it, what is behind it, to
- 6:52the heart of the believer. The law was never
- 6:55meant to be a box to live in. It was meant to
- 6:58be a convicting sight that stood before believers
- 7:03that made them look inward. That made them understand
- 7:06their sin and the weight of it and that was meant
- 7:10to drive them to a holy God to a holy Savior
- 7:13and Jesus goes on to explain it says I say to
- 7:18you to you Now it's important to understand that
- 7:21Jesus is not adding something new to the law
- 7:23He is doing he is explaining what the law always
- 7:26meant That it was meant to get at the heart.
- 7:30I love how pastor Adriel Sanchez puts it in this
- 7:34passage, the law of God has jurisdiction over
- 7:38our hearts just as much as he has it over our
- 7:41hands. The law was always meant to guide the
- 7:45heart just as much as it did our hands. And this
- 7:49is where we will have our great accusation from
- 7:52Christ that we are murderers. Because he begins
- 7:57to say, whoever becomes angry with his brother
- 8:00is liable to judgment. He takes the words from
- 8:03the law, from the wooden understanding of it,
- 8:07and he puts it into practice at the heart level.
- 8:12He talks about anger. Now this anger is not a
- 8:16holy and righteous anger. We know from Ephesians
- 8:194 that you can be angry and you cannot sin. We
- 8:22see Jesus even execute this type of anger when
- 8:25he goes into the temple to cleanse it out. He
- 8:29goes into the temple and he sees the tax collectors
- 8:32and the money changers exchanging money and selling
- 8:36goods and selling things to sacrifice. But this
- 8:39was not the place to do sale. This was the place
- 8:41to sacrifice, to come and worship. And Jesus
- 8:45and his anger drove them out, flipping the tables,
- 8:48even forming a whip as he began to chase them.
- 8:52This is a holy and righteous anger. And you might
- 8:56not think, well, forming a whip and chasing people
- 8:59out is not very righteous. But you are dealing
- 9:03with the Son of God, someone who knew and knows
- 9:05the law perfectly. And the mercy that he showed
- 9:09in that forming of a whip and the flipping of
- 9:11the tables was one that was designed to keep
- 9:14those men, those people from eternal judgment.
- 9:18That maybe in this one action of Christ, they
- 9:21would repent and turn to God, that they would
- 9:23come to worship instead of coming to sell. This
- 9:26is a type of anger that many believers struggle
- 9:29with. There's maybe one time in my life where
- 9:32I could say I was genuinely angry in a righteous
- 9:35way. Because usually our anger comes from a sense
- 9:39of pride. It comes from a sense of self -righteousness.
- 9:42It's the same exact sin that the serpent committed
- 9:45in the garden. He put himself above God. And
- 9:48that is what we are quick to do. We do not need
- 9:52provocation. We do not need anyone calling us
- 9:55a name or doing anything. We just need One action,
- 9:59maybe they just look at us wrong. They don't
- 10:02have to get to calling us a name. Maybe our neighbor
- 10:07looks at us funny one morning as we were walking
- 10:09up to the car and we do not like the way that
- 10:15they look at us. So we decide to take vengeance
- 10:17upon them. We decide to go over to their garden
- 10:20and pull up all of their daisies and leave it
- 10:22as a dirt bed. There's no reasonableness to our
- 10:26anger. Our anger will make us punch holes in
- 10:30walls, throw our keys out the window of our cars,
- 10:35curse at people going down the street. And I
- 10:38think for me, the perfect example of this comes
- 10:40from freshman year in high school when I played
- 10:43football. And I know many of the women are really
- 10:47a football analogy. You're just going to have
- 10:49to bear with me. I'll do my best to explain the
- 10:52terms of the game. When I played football freshman
- 10:54year, I was third string. As third string that
- 10:57meant I was not the primary people. I was not
- 11:00the backup to the primary people. I was the backup
- 11:03to the backup. Which meant in rivalry games I
- 11:07never got a chance to play. And we were playing
- 11:10one of our main rivals one evening and I had
- 11:12sat through about three quarters of the game.
- 11:15Well enough people were tired from this bitter
- 11:17rivalry taking place that I had the opportunity
- 11:21to go in at kick return. Now kick return happens
- 11:23when the game is progressing. and the other team
- 11:26is not making it far enough up the field so you
- 11:28get to go in and someone gets to catch the ball
- 11:30as it gets kicked off and your job or my job
- 11:33at the time was to protect the guy running up
- 11:35the field. While I had sat there on the bench
- 11:39being filled with more anger because we were
- 11:41not doing well in the game I was not getting
- 11:44a chance to go out there and fight alongside
- 11:46of my brothers and I decided as we took off down
- 11:50the field before the guy I was meant to defend
- 11:54even got to the running back, I decided to hit
- 11:58him with all my force and with all my might.
- 12:00And if you know football, you know that would
- 12:02be a massive personal foul and would result in
- 12:06time on the bench if it was not for high school.
- 12:09But what happened in that instance is he got
- 12:11thrown on his back and I got thrown on my back
- 12:14and I think we both stood up with a concussion
- 12:16not knowing what just happened. And that is the
- 12:18type of anger that Jesus is challenging here.
- 12:21It came out of my own pride. Our anger comes
- 12:25out of our own pride, and it makes us do ridiculous
- 12:28things that often get us hurt, and most definitely
- 12:31hurts those around us. And this type of anger
- 12:34leaves us liable to judgment. It leaves us liable
- 12:37to go before a local council, and this time it
- 12:40would have been seven elders or seven religious
- 12:43leaders that had the ability to pronounce a prison
- 12:46sentence, or at worst even a quick death penalty,
- 12:49something like a beheading, something that happened
- 12:52instantaneously. they were able to handle unjustified
- 12:56murder. And so in this case, they would be able
- 12:58to handle our unjustified anger. Now this anger
- 13:03does not usually stand on its own, it usually
- 13:06progresses as Jesus progresses in the text. And
- 13:09he said, whoever insults his brother will be
- 13:11liable to counsel. Now if you have a different
- 13:14translation, you might see the word, call his
- 13:17brother Raka. It is a Greek term. And it's most
- 13:21similar to the German word Doomkopf, which just
- 13:24means dumb head if you translate it literally.
- 13:28Empty headed, stupid, airhead, any of those types
- 13:32of words that you can think of. It is a full
- 13:35insult. It was really a cultural word that you
- 13:41were not meant to say. It would be equivalent
- 13:42to one of the curse words that we have today
- 13:45because it even tied into the idea of The word
- 13:48raka would be used with heretics as Jewish leaders
- 13:52spit upon a heretic that was espousing theology
- 13:56or things about God that were not true. The Jews
- 13:59today actually have maintained this practice
- 14:01in Israel. They will, as they walk down the street,
- 14:04they will spit upon Christians as they tried
- 14:06to proclaim the gospel and to proclaim the Messiah.
- 14:10This is what the word raka is getting at. It
- 14:12is a full insult. And I think most commonly that
- 14:16happens most often to us in road rage. We are
- 14:20driving down the street or trying to get onto
- 14:22the interstate and someone drives around us in
- 14:25their little car at a speed that is not necessary
- 14:30or appropriate. And then they get in front of
- 14:33us and they slam on their brakes for some reason.
- 14:36And usually the thing that comes out of our mouth
- 14:38is something to the extent of, you idiot, I cannot
- 14:41believe you would do that. I have a place to
- 14:44go and things to do and You could have hurt me
- 14:47or someone else. It is a quick anger. It is an
- 14:51insult. This also, as I mentioned, can come out
- 14:54with our spouses as we get frustrated or we get
- 14:58upset. We may have a way of doing things, and
- 15:02then our wife or our husband comes in and tries
- 15:04to do it some way else, in a different way than
- 15:07how we would do. And we think, how stupid can
- 15:10you be? Why would you clean the dishes that way?
- 15:13Why would you clean the blinds that way? Why
- 15:16would you vacuum the floors that way? And this
- 15:20type of anger, as it progresses, leaves us liable
- 15:23to counsel. This would be liable to the Sanhedrin,
- 15:27the counsel of 71. It was designed to handle
- 15:32the worst cases of heresy. This is the counsel
- 15:36that Jesus had to go through and was spat upon
- 15:39as he faced. the wrath of God on the cross, the
- 15:42righteous anger of God on the cross. They could
- 15:47pronounce stoning. They could put people up for
- 15:50crucifixion. And this is the type of death that
- 15:53Jesus says we deserve if we are willing to insult
- 15:57people, if we are quick with our tongue. And
- 16:00this continues to progress because often we do
- 16:03not just stop at calling people stupid. We need
- 16:06to attack them morally. We need to believe that
- 16:10they are godless. And so Jesus gives us a warning.
- 16:14And he says, whoever says you fool will be liable
- 16:18to the hell of fire. And the word fool here is
- 16:25often used in scripture. God uses fool in scripture.
- 16:29Psalm 14 .1, for instance, says, the fool says
- 16:33in his heart, there is no God. They are corrupt.
- 16:36They do abominable deeds. There is none who does
- 16:41good. So the word fool is a moral condemnation.
- 16:45If you call someone a fool, what you are saying
- 16:47is they are without God. They have no knowledge
- 16:50of God. They are far from him. You are excommunicating
- 16:53people with your words and your thoughts and
- 16:56your deeds when you call someone fool. The type
- 17:00of fool that God wants us, or the word. fool
- 17:04that God wants us to be able to use is the same
- 17:06way he uses it in Psalm 14. There is an element
- 17:10of grace to it. We can acknowledge that someone
- 17:13is without God while also acknowledging that
- 17:16they need great grace. Because we too were once
- 17:20fools. We were blind to our sin. We were dead
- 17:24in our trespasses. We were without God and the
- 17:26wisdom of him. But it is out of his great grace
- 17:30that he has called us to his mercy. He has called
- 17:33us to know him. We are no longer fools, but we
- 17:37have the wisdom of God because of his spirit
- 17:40working in our lives. And if we are willing to
- 17:44call someone a fool and morally condemn them,
- 17:47there is only one punishment that Jesus lays
- 17:49out, the hell of fire. And this is the word for
- 17:53hell. This is the word Gehenna. It is not the
- 17:56word that we see King David use in the Psalms
- 17:58where he says, which is the place that people
- 18:02would go as an intermediate state, the place
- 18:04of death. This is the place of weeping and gnashing
- 18:07of teeth. This is not a place of a little red
- 18:11devil where there's just some fire around us
- 18:14and we get to walk down a lane as we be punished.
- 18:18No, this is a place of condemnation. And to understand
- 18:23the picture that Jesus is laying here, we must
- 18:26understand this word, Gehenna. The word comes
- 18:29from the Valley of Heman. This is a place of
- 18:32apostasy. Solomon would use the Valley of Heman
- 18:36to set up places of Moloch worship. Moloch was
- 18:40the god of child sacrifice. King Josiah, when
- 18:45he took the throne and second king, he would
- 18:48come in and he would destroy these places of
- 18:50worship. And then he would use it not for pagan
- 18:54worship or even just to throw away and things
- 18:58that belonged to the pagans, he would use it
- 19:00to dump bodies after a war, bodies that had died
- 19:04that were unbelieving, and they would be burned
- 19:07up. They would light the pile on fire, and there
- 19:11would be condemnation for it. The Jews even continued
- 19:14this practice in the Jesus' day, and they did
- 19:17not use it to dump bodies, but they would use
- 19:19it to burn their trash. So this is a place from
- 19:22the Old Testament all the way into the new. that
- 19:25was a place of condemnation, of apostasy, a place
- 19:29of unbelief that was meant to burn the worst
- 19:32trash. And this is the condemnation that we all
- 19:36deserved when we walked without the wisdom of
- 19:38God. This is the condemnation we deserve when
- 19:41we are quick to look at people on the highway
- 19:43as we drive down it and we see them holding up
- 19:45their political signs of different messages and
- 19:48we think, you fool, how can you think any of
- 19:51those things? Or maybe you're having a Bible
- 19:55conversation with one of your brothers or sisters,
- 19:58and you start to think, you fool, how can you
- 20:02not believe in infant baptism? Or maybe how could
- 20:06you believe in infant baptism? We are quick to
- 20:08do this condemnation. As we look through each
- 20:13one of these, the gradation gets worse and worse
- 20:16and worse in terms of punishment, but the sins
- 20:19themselves become more and more common. Nowadays
- 20:23it is so easy to see people, quick to say, you
- 20:26fool, to claim that they are without God and
- 20:28show them no grace. We are a little slower, but
- 20:32not by much to call them stupid. And we are slower
- 20:36yet to just pull off and use our fist, use our
- 20:40hands to cause harm. And this should make us
- 20:45ask ourselves as we reflect on this text, why
- 20:48are you holding onto your anger? What is beneath
- 20:52the surface? I understand that maybe you have
- 20:57some sort of physical ailment that makes it hard
- 20:59to get out of bed in the morning. I understand
- 21:03that people abort children and those children
- 21:07do not deserve it. But why are you holding on
- 21:11to your anger? Why are you angry at God? Why
- 21:13are you angry at your friend who tried to give
- 21:15you good advice? Or at your wife who just wanted
- 21:18your help? Or at your husband? who all he needed
- 21:23was a hug himself. And we as Christians should
- 21:27be quick to let go of this anger. We should be
- 21:31willing to trade in this heart of anger, and
- 21:34we should trade it in for the heart of Christ.
- 21:38Ephesians 4, 31 and 32 tells us, let all bitterness
- 21:42and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be
- 21:46put away from you, along with all malice. Be
- 21:50kind to one another, tender -hearted, forgiving
- 21:53one another as God and Christ forgave you. Just
- 21:58as God has shown us grace, we should be quick
- 22:01to show grace. We even sing this or we pray this
- 22:06when we pray the Lord's Prayer. Forgive us our
- 22:09debts as we forgive our debtors. We need to forgive
- 22:13in the same way that Christ forgave. We need
- 22:16to take radical steps. to fix our relationships
- 22:20and to have relationships. And so we move on
- 22:23from these three condemnations of murder, of
- 22:27anger, to two demonstrations of how we should
- 22:29be rectified with our neighbors, with our spouses,
- 22:34with our friends. The first one comes when you're
- 22:38going to worship. Worship, when you're approaching
- 22:41it, is always a time where you're meditating
- 22:43on the week before. You're thinking of of the
- 22:47sin that you committed. You're thinking of the
- 22:49fact you just got angry at your wife as you loaded
- 22:51the children into the car. You're maybe thinking
- 22:54of the time you cursed someone out at work and
- 22:58they did not deserve it. And we should reflect
- 23:02on these sins. And maybe you do it as you're
- 23:04coming in or maybe you do it while we're praying
- 23:07our prayer confession during that time of silent
- 23:09prayer. Hopefully you're doing it during this
- 23:13sermon. Right now you're reflecting. on these
- 23:15times. But Christ tells us if you're coming in
- 23:19to worship and you have a sacrifice to offer,
- 23:22you have prayers to pray and hymns to sing, but
- 23:26if you are still angry with your brother, do
- 23:28not come. You do not have a worship. You do not
- 23:32have a sacrifice that can truly approach the
- 23:36Lord. The Lord wants a perfect sacrifice. In
- 23:41the Psalms we were told, for you will not delight
- 23:43in sacrifice, or I will give it. You will not
- 23:46be pleased with a burnt offering. The sacrifices
- 23:49of God are a broken spirit, a broken and contrite
- 23:53heart. O God, you will not despise. God wants
- 23:57us to come and to worship with a broken heart,
- 24:01a heart of repentance, one that seeks to have
- 24:04right relationships with him and with others.
- 24:07And we cannot come and offer our sacrifices unless
- 24:10we have come repentant of all of our sins. And
- 24:15as Jesus is giving this command, everyone in
- 24:17the crowd would have been thinking, well, this
- 24:19is preposterous. The trip from Galilee to Jerusalem
- 24:23was an 80 mile trip. It was a four or five day
- 24:26trip. And so they're in one way. And so they
- 24:30have already come to Galilee. Now they need to
- 24:32go back to Jerusalem. If they get there and they
- 24:34have a sacrifice to give, but they have had a
- 24:38fight with their spouse, if they have had a fight
- 24:41with a friend who tried to give them good advice,
- 24:43they need to leave their sacrifice, go back,
- 24:47take another four or five days, make reconciliation,
- 24:51and then come back to worship. Because only then
- 24:55they can come with a pure sacrifice. As one commentator
- 25:01ultimately put it, if you are unfit, for worship,
- 25:06you are unfit to die. And so God wants us to
- 25:10come before him with a broken and contrite heart
- 25:13so that we can be worshiped, that he can be worshiped
- 25:16properly, that we can be ready for the Lord to
- 25:19come back as we sung this morning, as we talked
- 25:21about this morning. And Jesus gives us a second
- 25:26demonstration of how do we seek reconciliation.
- 25:30And he talks about... Come to terms quickly with
- 25:33your accuser while you are going with them to
- 25:35court. Least your accuser hands you over to a
- 25:38judge and the judge to the guard and you be put
- 25:41in prison. Now this accuser has two different
- 25:45meanings. There is the real life meaning where
- 25:49a legal crime was committed. Maybe someone insulted
- 25:53you and you thought the only just punishment
- 25:55for them was to pick up your fist and press it
- 25:59against their cheek. or maybe you had a coworker
- 26:04who you thought he was lazy and maybe a glutton
- 26:07and you decided to make it known before the whole
- 26:10office. You decided to call him a liar and maybe
- 26:14even pronounced sins on him that he did not even
- 26:16commit. And now he's looking for a restoration.
- 26:21He sues you for defamation or he gets sued for
- 26:26assault. And before you even get to court the
- 26:28commandment that God gives us, is to go and make
- 26:32reconciliation. Go apologize in repentance. Pay
- 26:37the hospital bill that the man needed to have
- 26:42after being assaulted by you. Go to your boss
- 26:46and say, hey, this coworker, there are times
- 26:49he is lazy, but I am lazy, too, and most of what
- 26:51I said was not true. You need to go before you
- 26:55ever get to the court date. You need to go before
- 26:58you even go to talk with a lawyer. The first
- 27:01step you should take is to go and seek reconciliation
- 27:04with this person because if it gets to court,
- 27:07you will justly owe him everything. They could
- 27:10take everything you have, all of your savings.
- 27:13If there's not enough there, they could come
- 27:14after your car or your house or anything you
- 27:18own. They could take it and they are right to
- 27:20do so because you have attacked them. You have
- 27:24murdered their name. You have done great wrong.
- 27:27against them, and it needs to be reconciled.
- 27:30But then there's a second meaning to this. There
- 27:32is a spiritual meaning that we must remember.
- 27:35Because throughout this whole passage, Jesus
- 27:37does not want to just deal with physical actions,
- 27:41not just with the hands. He wants to deal with
- 27:43the heart. The spiritual side of this is that
- 27:47if we get to heaven and we have been unfit to
- 27:51die, we have been unrepentant, we have Jesus
- 27:54not as a mediator, not as a friend, but as an
- 27:57accuser, and justly so. If we stand before God
- 28:01with unrepentant sin, it does not matter how
- 28:04loudly we proclaim Christ, we show ourselves
- 28:08to be unbelievers if we are unrepentant with
- 28:11our sin. Now, this does not mean that we can
- 28:14never get angry. Even unjustly, the Lord knows,
- 28:18Paul tells us in the scripture that we will still
- 28:21wrestle against the flesh. But as John Owen puts
- 28:25it we must be killing sin or it will be killing
- 28:28you and especially when it comes to anger because
- 28:33anger destroys relationships it destroys marriages
- 28:37it destroys friendships and Often it is blasphemous
- 28:41against God because as we dwell in our anger
- 28:44We almost cease being angry at our spouse or
- 28:47with our friend and we begin to be angry at God
- 28:50especially if we're facing the loss of a loved
- 28:53one or a medical issue. We start to wonder why
- 28:57God would put us in this place, why God would
- 29:00allow us to exist here. Why has he abandoned
- 29:03us? It's very similar to the Israelites in Numbers
- 29:0821. As they're pulled through the wilderness,
- 29:11they begin to doubt God for the food and the
- 29:14manna that he has provided, and they call it
- 29:17worthless. That is often what we do to God with
- 29:20our anger. We forget all of the blessings and
- 29:23the graces that he has given us and we get angry
- 29:27at him. Anger is a radical sin and you must take
- 29:33radical steps to repent of it and have right
- 29:37relationships. Let me say that one more time
- 29:40because if there's anything you get from the
- 29:42sermon, this is it. Anger is a radical sin and
- 29:47you must take radical steps to repent of it.
- 29:50and have right relationships. Maybe, Christian,
- 29:54you are sitting here and you're thinking that
- 29:57these things that I have described, described
- 29:59yourself. Maybe you realize that you have forgotten
- 30:03the grace of your good God who gave His Son in
- 30:06your place, who took upon the wrath of God, the
- 30:10righteous anger of God in your place. He was
- 30:13spat upon for you. Reflect on your Savior. Turn
- 30:18back. You do not have to be a slave to your anger
- 30:22any longer. You can be a slave to righteousness.
- 30:26You are an heir, a child of God. Take on the
- 30:30heart of Christ. Take on a tender heart. Take
- 30:33on a forgiving heart. Follow your savior. He
- 30:39has given you the example. Now follow him. Leave
- 30:43here seeking forgiveness. Leave here seeking
- 30:46reconciliation and restoration. with your friend
- 30:49or with your spouse. Now maybe you are here tonight
- 30:54and you do not know this Christ that I've talked
- 30:58about, but you do know that your life has been
- 31:01one filled with bitterness and with strife, with
- 31:05fighting, with yelling, with maybe broken marriages,
- 31:11divorces out of it. You can turn to Christ. Christ
- 31:16is the only Savior you can have. He died for
- 31:21sinners. He died in the place of sinners, and
- 31:25you can turn to him. Now, maybe you fit none
- 31:29of these categories, but next time you get angry,
- 31:35you should stop and say, does this represent
- 31:37Christ? And if it does not, seek repentance.
- 31:41Seek the radical steps to have right relationships.
- 31:47Let's pray.