Latest / Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald / Drea de Matteo on Sopranos, The Mafia, and Hollywood
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- 0:00Speaker 1: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 0:03Speaker 1: for it? This exclusive place that Dad has connections with.
- 0:06Speaker 1: They have more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 0:09Speaker 1: You have to put me in touch.
- 0:10Speaker 2: What's it called?
- 0:11Speaker 1: It's Dunaidial.
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- 0:26Speaker 1: Dundale Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else. Heather MacDonald
- 0:33Speaker 1: has got the Juicy Scoop. When you're on the road,
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- 0:57Speaker 1: Heather MacDonald.
- 0:59Speaker 3: Juicy Scoop.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. As always, I have
- 1:04Speaker 1: a great show, lots of juicy topics, and a fabulous interview. First,
- 1:09Speaker 1: of course, I'm getting ready to pack because I'm going
- 1:12Speaker 1: to Minneapolis. I will be there this Friday night at
- 1:15Speaker 1: the Fillmore Theater with the hilarious blue-eyed beauty, Chris Frangiola.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Always so funny. There are some tickets still left. Bring
- 1:24Speaker 1: the husband, the friend. It doesn't matter if they don't
- 1:26Speaker 1: know who we are. They will laugh. Their ass is off.
- 1:29Speaker 1: It's a safe place to laugh and for some edgy,
- 1:33Speaker 1: fun comedy that's nonpolitical. Also, Chicago. I will be there then.
- 1:38Speaker 1: I'm so excited to be in Chicago. You guys know
- 1:41Speaker 1: I love this city. It's one of my favorite places
- 1:43Speaker 1: to perform. And I'll be at the Vic Theater with, again,
- 1:47Speaker 1: Chris on this Saturday, October 19th. And then a couple
- 1:52Speaker 1: weeks off. And then I am back in Irvine Improv,
- 1:56Speaker 1: which I love. two shows of stand-up on Friday and Saturday,
- 2:01Speaker 1: November 8th and 9th, and then a totally different live
- 2:04Speaker 1: Juicy Scoop on Sunday the 10th. Everything is at heathermcdolland.net,
- 2:08Speaker 1: and of course that's where you also sign up for
- 2:11Speaker 1: my Patreon and enjoy it and never leave, and it
- 2:13Speaker 1: changes your life. Okay, sometimes there's gifts that I don't
- 2:18Speaker 1: ask for that just come into my lap. Yesterday, it
- 2:23Speaker 1: was Tuesday morning, and I I didn't know what I
- 2:26Speaker 1: was going to do with the day. I actually had
- 2:27Speaker 1: a little time off. I was going to, you know,
- 2:29Speaker 1: cut some clips from the Spencer Pratt show, figure out
- 2:33Speaker 1: how to, you know, which great golden moments. There were
- 2:37Speaker 1: so many to choose from. Do a little Pilates, you know,
- 2:40Speaker 1: get some stuff done. And then I wake up to
- 2:42Speaker 1: the fact that on Real Housewives of OC, which if
- 2:46Speaker 1: you're not watching it, that is okay because you're going
- 2:49Speaker 1: to enjoy this story like you always do. Tamra Barney Judge, okay?
- 2:55Speaker 1: Barney was her first married name. She goes by Tamara Judge.
- 2:58Speaker 1: She's been on the show for like 17 years. She's
- 3:01Speaker 1: having a tough season because she has just come out
- 3:03Speaker 1: guns a-blazing, very cruel to Shannon Bedore. So right now,
- 3:08Speaker 1: people don't like Tamara that watch the shows. As you know,
- 3:12Speaker 1: we watch Housewives like someone would watch sports. So there's
- 3:16Speaker 1: times where they really are excited about their team and
- 3:19Speaker 1: they don't like what the quarterback is doing or they
- 3:21Speaker 1: don't like that they changed managers or owners or coaches
- 3:25Speaker 1: or whatever. That's the way people get. So they're watching
- 3:28Speaker 1: this show, which is very entertaining this season, and they
- 3:31Speaker 1: are not liking how cruel and awful Tamara is being.
- 3:35Speaker 1: And now the audience is quite sophisticated and they understand
- 3:39Speaker 1: that people have to come up with things and act
- 3:43Speaker 1: crazy or whatnot, to keep their job, to have something interesting,
- 3:48Speaker 1: so that the people keep bringing them back, meaning the people,
- 3:50Speaker 1: Annie Cohen, bravo. Tamara is now saying that she has autism,
- 3:55Speaker 1: and that is why she can't be empathetic to other people,
- 3:59Speaker 1: because we've seen her be so cruel and insensitive and awful,
- 4:02Speaker 1: especially this season, to what Shanna's going through, seeing her
- 4:06Speaker 1: ex-boyfriend be in love with another cast member. And dealing
- 4:11Speaker 1: with getting a DUI and all of that and being
- 4:13Speaker 1: sued on top of it. So people didn't think she
- 4:16Speaker 1: was a very good friend to her. So anyway, she
- 4:18Speaker 1: has a show with Teddy, who used to be on
- 4:22Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and isn't anymore. And it
- 4:26Speaker 1: was so poorly acted. It's a good thing that Teddy
- 4:30Speaker 1: didn't pursue acting. But she– clearly they know they're going
- 4:34Speaker 1: to talk about this thing. And Tamara says, so– I
- 4:40Speaker 1: had my first therapy appointment. And then Teddy goes, you did? Yeah.
- 4:46Speaker 1: And I found out some things about myself that are pretty,
- 4:51Speaker 1: pretty incredible. What, Tam? What did you find out? Well,
- 4:59Speaker 1: it's pretty clear I'm on the autism spectrum. Something to
- 5:03Speaker 1: that effect. And then Teddy goes, Tam. She goes, don't
- 5:10Speaker 1: make me cry. Okay. So people that watch the show
- 5:14Speaker 1: are like, okay, enough. But the people that really got
- 5:17Speaker 1: upset were the ones who have a loved one in
- 5:20Speaker 1: their life, either their own child or someone close to
- 5:22Speaker 1: them that does in fact have autism. And one of
- 5:24Speaker 1: the things that really came clear is you don't know
- 5:27Speaker 1: that you are on the spectrum at all Unless you
- 5:30Speaker 1: do many evaluations, it can take up to a year
- 5:34Speaker 1: of really figuring it out. And what she said is, yeah,
- 5:37Speaker 1: and it's based on my past trauma. It's also not
- 5:40Speaker 1: based on past trauma. So, hey, maybe she, just like
- 5:45Speaker 1: a lot of these housewives, go to a doctor and
- 5:47Speaker 1: they get free Botox. Maybe she went to a therapist
- 5:51Speaker 1: that in exchange for this diagnosis that could be true,
- 5:56Speaker 1: maybe not. Maybe she gets that for free, too. I
- 5:59Speaker 1: don't know. It was a big mistake. The Bravo fandom
- 6:04Speaker 1: did not like this. They called BS. I called for
- 6:08Speaker 1: prayers for Tamara and for Teddy's bad acting. I felt
- 6:11Speaker 1: they both needed our prayers because this was just so ridiculous.
- 6:16Speaker 1: So anyway, the audience knows the pattern of what she
- 6:20Speaker 1: and other women sometimes in her position have to do
- 6:23Speaker 1: to create a storyline. And so I thought, my gosh,
- 6:26Speaker 1: if this if she continues with this story that she,
- 6:30Speaker 1: in fact, is now realizing at 58 years old or
- 6:33Speaker 1: whatever she is, that she has this, which doesn't go
- 6:37Speaker 1: along with, you know, being able to be on a
- 6:39Speaker 1: reality show, have bright lights on you. A lot of
- 6:41Speaker 1: people brought that that up that like, you know, that
- 6:44Speaker 1: this isn't really the traits of it, whatever. The point
- 6:48Speaker 1: is it no one no one. believed it. No one
- 6:51Speaker 1: accepted it. No one really felt sorry for her. No
- 6:54Speaker 1: one was praying for her like I asked them to. Anyway,
- 6:57Speaker 1: she came forward and was like, I shouldn't have spoken
- 6:59Speaker 1: so soon. I'll take it privately now. But I still
- 7:03Speaker 1: believe there might, she might have thought this was going
- 7:06Speaker 1: to take me to the next season. I'm going to
- 7:08Speaker 1: have a journey. I'm going to do some charity stuff.
- 7:10Speaker 1: I'm going to make some sack lunches. I'm going to whatever.
- 7:14Speaker 1: it didn't pan out the way she thought. So there
- 7:17Speaker 1: you go. But it was a lot of chatter about
- 7:20Speaker 1: that yesterday. And I thought it was pretty interesting. So
- 7:25Speaker 1: I did, you know, I did a tweet and I
- 7:27Speaker 1: did a little video. Okay. Also, Vicky brought up, Vicky,
- 7:31Speaker 1: her co-star said, this is disgusting and shame on her.
- 7:34Speaker 1: She's looking for attention and sympathy. It's no different than Brooks.
- 7:38Speaker 1: That was one of the famous storylines of Vicki had
- 7:42Speaker 1: a boyfriend named Brooks who lied about having cancer. To
- 7:45Speaker 1: this day, she says, I didn't know I was tricked too,
- 7:49Speaker 1: but we don't know. But all she wanted was for
- 7:51Speaker 1: people to feel sorry for she and Brooks and bring
- 7:53Speaker 1: her a casserole. That was Vicki. Well, now Vicki doesn't
- 7:56Speaker 1: like Tamara anymore. So she's writing this. It's no different
- 7:59Speaker 1: than Brooks saying he had cancer for sympathy and lying
- 8:02Speaker 1: to me. She needs psychological help and needs to stop
- 8:05Speaker 1: making a mockery of being on the spectrum or having autism.
- 8:08Speaker 1: So Um, Gretchen, a former, uh, a former castmate has spoken.
- 8:13Speaker 1: Everyone spoke. Like I said, she made a, she made
- 8:17Speaker 1: a statement. She'll probably be quiet. There'll be a new
- 8:19Speaker 1: story next week, but here's the thing that, you know, I,
- 8:23Speaker 1: I think there might be a place where it's unfortunate
- 8:29Speaker 1: that I think, okay, here, hear me out. All For
- 8:34Speaker 1: the sake of everyone's mental health and life of being
- 8:37Speaker 1: a real housewife, if we're going to go forward with
- 8:40Speaker 1: these women, I think there should be like a maximum
- 8:44Speaker 1: amount of years like they do. Like you can only
- 8:46Speaker 1: be two terms as a president. I think there should
- 8:49Speaker 1: be a maximum amount for a housewife. Then they know
- 8:52Speaker 1: I'm in year six. I only have two years left
- 8:55Speaker 1: no matter what. I need to get my things in line.
- 8:59Speaker 1: If I'm going to get divorced, I want to do
- 9:00Speaker 1: it around year four or five. So I can find
- 9:03Speaker 1: somebody else, end on a second wedding. I don't know.
- 9:06Speaker 1: Plan it out knowing that there's an end to it.
- 9:09Speaker 1: The audience knows there's an end to it. They say goodbye.
- 9:12Speaker 1: They have like a little farewell party. And we know
- 9:14Speaker 1: no matter how juicy your life is, it's got to
- 9:17Speaker 1: end on year eight. And then they can go with
- 9:21Speaker 1: their other business, make up with their children who hated
- 9:25Speaker 1: them because they were doing embarrassing things on camera. And
- 9:30Speaker 1: there's time to save their situation for the future. But
- 9:34Speaker 1: they get addicted to the fame and they don't want
- 9:36Speaker 1: to leave. And because there isn't like this set thing
- 9:41Speaker 1: in the constitution of Bravo, it can go on forever.
- 9:44Speaker 1: And then we have desperate people saying that they have
- 9:48Speaker 1: a diagnosis that puts them on the spectrum of being,
- 9:52Speaker 1: you know, It's just not true. The only spectrum she's
- 9:55Speaker 1: on is the asshole spectrum, which can be a serious thing.
- 9:58Speaker 1: So like I said. pray for her. Okay. This about
- 10:03Speaker 1: the RFK Jr. situation with the cheating. I thought this
- 10:08Speaker 1: was so interesting. So I had mentioned before that I
- 10:11Speaker 1: was pretty confident that it was the journalist's ex-fiancee who
- 10:18Speaker 1: blew the whistle. That appears to be true. There's these
- 10:22Speaker 1: court papers that New York Post and other people are reporting.
- 10:25Speaker 1: I don't know what the court papers are. I don't
- 10:27Speaker 1: know who this guy is suing. That was confusing. But
- 10:30Speaker 1: what was interesting is her ex-fiance is 51. She's only 31,
- 10:34Speaker 1: kind of a big age gap. Then Keith Oberman- said
- 10:40Speaker 1: he dated her when he was 51 and she was 21.
- 10:44Speaker 1: And it was pretty serious. And they even had got
- 10:46Speaker 1: a dog together. I'm like, what is with this chick
- 10:49Speaker 1: and older guys? Because then she goes from like dating
- 10:53Speaker 1: a guy who's 30 years older. Then she gets engaged
- 10:55Speaker 1: to a guy who's 20 years older than her. Then
- 10:58Speaker 1: she starts this sexting thing with 70-year-old Robert F. Kennedy
- 11:02Speaker 1: when she's 31 and he's whatever, 70. But according to
- 11:05Speaker 1: her ex-fiance, who's pissed, he said she begged for him
- 11:09Speaker 1: to take her back. And she said he's the one
- 11:13Speaker 1: that like found out because he went through my stuff.
- 11:15Speaker 1: He's saying, no, I didn't find out about the affair
- 11:17Speaker 1: by going through your stuff. She told me because I
- 11:20Speaker 1: broke up with her and then she begged for me
- 11:22Speaker 1: to take her back. And she said she was, you know,
- 11:25Speaker 1: so distraught by this weird sexting relationship with him because
- 11:29Speaker 1: he said that he wanted to impregnate her and wanted
- 11:32Speaker 1: to possess her and all this stuff. And so she
- 11:34Speaker 1: was begging for him to come back. It all got
- 11:36Speaker 1: revealed to the paper that she worked for. Here we are.
- 11:41Speaker 1: And so Keith Oberman from MSNBC said, oh, Ben there
- 11:47Speaker 1: done that, like answered to a tweet. And then they realized, oh,
- 11:51Speaker 1: he dated her too. Very interesting. So I wonder where
- 11:55Speaker 1: this girl is going to land. Is she going to
- 11:57Speaker 1: land like on Dancing with the Stars or the villain
- 12:01Speaker 1: or what? Or is she going to, you know, get
- 12:05Speaker 1: her own podcast? I'm sure that'll happen. Who knows? But
- 12:11Speaker 1: it doesn't really seem to matter. He's, you know, we're
- 12:15Speaker 1: not really hearing about him right now. So I guess
- 12:18Speaker 1: he may still stay married to his wife. Some people
- 12:20Speaker 1: feel differently about sexting, cheating, and it's just embarrassing all around. Okay,
- 12:26Speaker 1: some awful updates on Diddy, and I'm sorry. But, I mean,
- 12:30Speaker 1: I'm covering it, so I've got to cover the updates.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Bow Wow did an interview, and he made the unfortunate
- 12:37Speaker 1: mistake of saying, um, You know, there's been no good
- 12:40Speaker 1: parties since Diddy's arrest. Like nobody's going out, no one's partying.
- 12:45Speaker 1: But the way it sounded, TMZ, of course, caught it
- 12:49Speaker 1: and was like, come on. But he was saying, yeah,
- 12:52Speaker 1: we used to go to all these, like no one
- 12:53Speaker 1: wants to have fun anymore. Now there's all these new
- 12:55Speaker 1: lawsuits and six of them are from men. And the
- 13:01Speaker 1: stories are just crazy. The stories behind the lawsuits that
- 13:06Speaker 1: are being represented by lawyers. And I'm assuming they have
- 13:10Speaker 1: some serious evidence in order to, you know, take on
- 13:14Speaker 1: these cases. But the more you read about these lawsuits
- 13:19Speaker 1: and these allegations, it is like he really was this, like,
- 13:26Speaker 1: sexual assaulting mafioso who ordered people around him to participate.
- 13:35Speaker 1: And it's just awful. So this one... This person, this
- 13:39Speaker 1: guy said he was working at a Macy's in the
- 13:44Speaker 1: Echo clothing department. And P. Diddy was so angry that
- 13:51Speaker 1: Echo clothing was near the Sean John display at Macy's
- 13:55Speaker 1: that he took this guy into the stockroom and sexually
- 14:00Speaker 1: assaulted him and, like, threatened his life, and then went
- 14:06Speaker 1: out to the rest of the Macy's and was like
- 14:09Speaker 1: to the people, oh, let me give you some free
- 14:11Speaker 1: Sean John clothes after assaulting him. And then when that
- 14:16Speaker 1: worker tried to tell Macy's whatever, they had just closed
- 14:20Speaker 1: a big deal with Sean John allegedly and, you know,
- 14:25Speaker 1: fired him. He had an apartment that he was living
- 14:28Speaker 1: in that Macy's was paying for, which sounds kind of weird,
- 14:31Speaker 1: but I don't know how high up he was in
- 14:33Speaker 1: the company. He had to leave that place. And like
- 14:36Speaker 1: many of the people, was just too frightened and felt
- 14:39Speaker 1: like no one was hearing him when this happened and
- 14:42Speaker 1: therefore has waited till now to speak. So that is
- 14:45Speaker 1: very bizarre. The other case is so awful. This girl,
- 14:52Speaker 1: I listened to the whole complaint read on a different
- 14:56Speaker 1: news source. But I don't really want to get into it.
- 15:01Speaker 1: But this girl... met this friend of Diddy's. They FaceTimed Diddy's.
- 15:06Speaker 1: And she said, like, I think you had something to
- 15:09Speaker 1: do with Tupac's murder. He said, you're going to pay
- 15:12Speaker 1: for that. Well, a month later, that same guy that
- 15:15Speaker 1: she met, who I guess maybe she was interested in
- 15:17Speaker 1: or thought he was a friend, he's like, hey, come
- 15:19Speaker 1: to my house. Let's watch a movie. She comes over there.
- 15:23Speaker 1: And as they're about to watch a movie, Diddy shows
- 15:26Speaker 1: up with like three other people and One of them,
- 15:30Speaker 1: I think, being a woman that's named in some of
- 15:33Speaker 1: these cases. And they assault her. They assault her with
- 15:37Speaker 1: the baby oil, which obviously had something that made her
- 15:43Speaker 1: body lifeless, where she couldn't control herself. Assaulted her every
- 15:50Speaker 1: which way and with objects. Numerous people. It's absolutely horrible,
- 15:55Speaker 1: her account. And she says, I'm going to call the police.
- 15:58Speaker 1: He says to her, don't call the police. I'll just
- 16:02Speaker 1: pay you. First of all, just say you're a sex
- 16:06Speaker 1: worker and I'll pay you. Just let me pay you.
- 16:08Speaker 1: According to this, he even called his mother and gave
- 16:12Speaker 1: the phone to her. And the mother was like, you're
- 16:15Speaker 1: not going to ruin my son's life. Why don't you
- 16:16Speaker 1: just take the money? She did tell the police. They
- 16:19Speaker 1: didn't do anything. The case is insane. Anyway, it's just
- 16:23Speaker 1: absolutely incredible the amount of lawsuits that are coming forward
- 16:27Speaker 1: every day. There's something new. So just get ready. Everyone's like,
- 16:32Speaker 1: we want to know who the other A-listers are. We
- 16:34Speaker 1: still don't know. Even in these lawsuits, no other A-listers
- 16:38Speaker 1: or anybody of a recognizable name is being named. So
- 16:42Speaker 1: we don't know. Will we ever know? I don't know.
- 16:45Speaker 1: All right, you guys. Now for my interview.
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- 18:09Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I'm very excited to
- 18:12Speaker 1: talk to, first time meeting you, guest, actress, star, most,
- 18:18Speaker 1: for me, you're best known, this is Drea Mateo, but
- 18:21Speaker 1: she's to me best known for The Sopranos, the character
- 18:25Speaker 1: of Adriana, but also you were in Sons of Anarchy,
- 18:28Speaker 1: you've been in tons of other shows, Joey. Oh God. Joey,
- 18:34Speaker 1: so many different things. And welcome to Juicy Scoop. I'm
- 18:39Speaker 1: excited to get your juicy life story.
- 18:42Speaker 3: I'm happy to be here. Thanks for having me. The
- 18:44Speaker 3: Pinskys wanted me to meet you really bad.
- 18:48Speaker 1: Oh, that's so... Well, yeah, Dr. Drew Pinsky and Susan,
- 18:51Speaker 1: I love them.
- 18:52Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 18:53Speaker 1: And okay, because I didn't know how this came about.
- 18:55Speaker 1: I just didn't know if like you were just... No,
- 18:58Speaker 1: they were trying to get me.
- 18:59Speaker 3: To go on a boat with you.
- 19:00Speaker 1: Oh, they invited you on the boat that we just
- 19:04Speaker 1: went to recently.
- 19:05Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
- 19:05Speaker 1: We went on the boat with them recently. Yes.
- 19:07Speaker 3: They're like, you're going to love Heather. I want you
- 19:09Speaker 3: to meet her. I want you to come and hang
- 19:10Speaker 3: out with us. I was like, but I have to
- 19:12Speaker 3: go on a boat again this week somewhere else. I
- 19:15Speaker 3: don't like going on boats.
- 19:17Speaker 1: Was it fun? It was really fun. And you know,
- 19:20Speaker 1: my husband became a captain over COVID and we like
- 19:24Speaker 1: had a boat for like a year where we're kind
- 19:26Speaker 1: of like running it. We always were like, oh, we
- 19:28Speaker 1: had like, it was like a lease for a year.
- 19:30Speaker 1: So we'd have these days. And then we invited people. And, like,
- 19:33Speaker 1: soon I realized, okay, out of my group of, like,
- 19:36Speaker 1: there's just these few people that are always down. And
- 19:39Speaker 1: then there's other people that I realized I shouldn't be offended.
- 19:43Speaker 1: Some people just don't want to be on a boat.
- 19:45Speaker 3: They don't want to be trapped.
- 19:46Speaker 1: They don't care how nice it is. It's just not
- 19:49Speaker 1: their vibe. And then other people like me, I will
- 19:52Speaker 1: always say yes. So it's just like kind of an
- 19:54Speaker 1: interesting thing. Are you a boat person or not?
- 19:56Speaker 3: I'm a puker.
- 19:57Speaker 1: You're what? I'm a puker.
- 19:58Speaker 3: I'll puke.
- 19:59Speaker 1: I'll puke on the boat. I don't want to.
- 20:01Speaker 3: And then I feel like I'm ruining everybody's good time.
- 20:04Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
- 20:04Speaker 3: I love it, though. I love being in the water.
- 20:06Speaker 3: I mean, I'll be in a kayak all day.
- 20:08Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
- 20:08Speaker 3: Or a rowboat. Then I have to work.
- 20:11Speaker 2: Right.
- 20:12Speaker 1: Okay. So I wanted to get a little bit about
- 20:15Speaker 1: your background because I know from doing a little research
- 20:19Speaker 1: on you, you are in the process of writing like
- 20:21Speaker 1: a memoir about your life. And your background is very interesting.
- 20:27Speaker 1: Like your grandma– was it your grandmother? And you do
- 20:31Speaker 1: have a Mafia background?
- 20:33Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 20:33Speaker 1: Mafia?
- 20:33Speaker 3: I didn't know that much about it while I was
- 20:36Speaker 3: doing The Sopranos, but– But yeah, see that, how my
- 20:40Speaker 3: voice just starts to crack. The gods are saying, shut up,
- 20:43Speaker 3: don't talk about it. But yes, I always knew about
- 20:47Speaker 3: my grandfather, Joe Babes.
- 20:49Speaker 1: And what's his story?
- 20:51Speaker 3: Well, I thought his name was because he was a womanizer.
- 20:54Speaker 3: But if you Google it, it says he shot a
- 20:57Speaker 3: baby by accident. I'm like, what the?
- 21:01Speaker 1: Because he was in the mob and he had to
- 21:02Speaker 1: do that hit?
- 21:03Speaker 3: I guess he was doing a hit. I mean, maybe
- 21:05Speaker 3: he wasn't a good shot. I don't know if– I
- 21:08Speaker 3: don't know.
- 21:08Speaker 1: So what year was this that your grandfather was actively
- 21:13Speaker 1: doing mob work? In the 50s.
- 21:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 21:16Speaker 1: And so was he with your grandmother at the time?
- 21:19Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 21:20Speaker 1: And this is on your mom's side or your dad's side?
- 21:22Speaker 3: On my mom's side. My dad's dad was also.
- 21:24Speaker 2: A maid guy.
- 21:26Speaker 1: And this is all happening in New York?
- 21:28Speaker 3: Yep. Bronx and Harlem.
- 21:31Speaker 1: And– You're like– Yeah. Because, you know– I really didn't
- 21:37Speaker 1: know much about the mafia or what.
- 21:42Speaker 3: Me neither.
- 21:42Speaker 1: Until like The Sopranos. And I just was fascinated. I remember, oh,
- 21:49Speaker 1: here's a juicy story that happened to my mother. She
- 21:53Speaker 1: was a realtor and she, her client, I guess I
- 22:00Speaker 1: could say this now because she's dead. But it was– oh,
- 22:04Speaker 1: my God. My dad and her did real estate together.
- 22:06Speaker 1: My dad was so mad at her. But she was
- 22:09Speaker 1: selling the house to this guy who was dating Victoria Gotti.
- 22:15Speaker 1: And my mom was like, this is so juicy. That's juicy.
- 22:18Speaker 1: Because the Gotti. And I guess she like just said
- 22:23Speaker 1: it at an open house or something like to one
- 22:25Speaker 1: of her real estate friends. Like, oh, you know who
- 22:27Speaker 1: he's seeing is Victoria Gotti. And the guy called and
- 22:31Speaker 1: he's like– he got back to him. And he's like,
- 22:33Speaker 1: I can't believe that you would say that. And they
- 22:37Speaker 1: lost the listing. And I just remember being like, oh,
- 22:41Speaker 1: my God. Now, here I am. This is my career
- 22:43Speaker 1: just gossiping, doing juicy scoop. But yeah. So I was like,
- 22:47Speaker 1: what does that even mean? I'm like, I don't I
- 22:49Speaker 1: remember I was like, what is the mafia? Like, I
- 22:51Speaker 1: did not get what it was. And so it's like, OK,
- 22:55Speaker 1: so you when did you find that out?
- 22:57Speaker 3: I mean, I knew about my I knew about my
- 23:00Speaker 3: my grandfather's.
- 23:01Speaker 1: I did. I didn't know about.
- 23:04Speaker 3: Some of my dad's, the rest of my dad's family.
- 23:07Speaker 3: And I knew that my mom's family was very connected
- 23:11Speaker 3: in Queens when we were growing up. But we had
- 23:13Speaker 3: car service. Not car services. Jesus. Am I allowed to curse? Yes.
- 23:18Speaker 3: Thank God. I can relax now. Okay. I'm trying to
- 23:22Speaker 3: be all proper. We always had Cadillacs parked in the driveway.
- 23:26Speaker 3: Tons of them. My dad, he had no money. Even
- 23:29Speaker 3: though my dad's father was in the mafia, he was
- 23:33Speaker 3: not a big money-making guy. He was more like a consigliere.
- 23:36Speaker 3: People would come to him for advice. He had a
- 23:39Speaker 3: pizza parlor. But they were poor. They were really, really poor.
- 23:42Speaker 3: So when my dad started making money, he just kept
- 23:46Speaker 3: buying Cadillacs for everybody. Poor dad. Yeah. So he had
- 23:49Speaker 3: a fleet of Cadillacs.
- 23:50Speaker 2: Okay. So wait.
- 23:52Speaker 1: So your mom, whose dad was in the mafia.
- 23:55Speaker 3: Yes.
- 23:56Speaker 1: She then finds... her husband, who's your dad.
- 24:00Speaker 3: Yes.
- 24:00Speaker 1: And was he already in the mafia?
- 24:03Speaker 3: His father was like this. They called him the Dunny.
- 24:06Speaker 1: So were they part of the same mafia family?
- 24:09Speaker 3: No, my dad's from the Bronx.
- 24:11Speaker 1: So was that a problem that she came from this
- 24:14Speaker 1: mafia family and married into a different mafia deal?
- 24:17Speaker 3: No, but I think they thought my dad would become
- 24:21Speaker 3: a maid guy because he was– and I didn't know
- 24:23Speaker 3: this when my dad was alive.
- 24:24Speaker 1: What does a maid guy mean?
- 24:25Speaker 3: A maid guy is– you get your button. It means
- 24:29Speaker 3: you're part of one of the five families.
- 24:30Speaker 1: Okay. All of the— And why are there only five?
- 24:35Speaker 1: Was a sixth family ever trying to break in? I
- 24:38Speaker 1: feel like this is like frats.
- 24:39Speaker 3: I don't know anything about it.
- 24:41Speaker 1: I can only compare it to fraternity life.
- 24:43Speaker 3: I'm not an expert.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Different fraternities and like they don't—and do the families ever
- 24:49Speaker 1: get along?
- 24:50Speaker 3: No, they're at war with each other.
- 24:52Speaker 1: They're always at war, all five of them.
- 24:54Speaker 3: They all offered my dad a button except the Gambinos
- 24:59Speaker 3: because they said my dad was too wild. whatever the
- 25:02Speaker 3: fuck that means. Because I didn't know this while he
- 25:04Speaker 3: was alive. I only found this out years after he
- 25:07Speaker 3: was dead.
- 25:08Speaker 2: I didn't know.
- 25:09Speaker 1: And like, what is it really? Like, I know they
- 25:13Speaker 1: dress up and they go to church and they have
- 25:16Speaker 1: baptisms and they can be charming and they go to
- 25:20Speaker 1: funerals and they can be charming. But if you're going
- 25:22Speaker 1: to join, you know that A, you might be murdered
- 25:26Speaker 1: or you might be asked to murder someone. Is that
- 25:28Speaker 1: everybody in it? Or can you be like, I just
- 25:30Speaker 1: want to be the paperwork person or I just want
- 25:33Speaker 1: to be the person that like, you know, sets up
- 25:35Speaker 1: the dinner reservations at the Italian place and maybe finds
- 25:39Speaker 1: a couple new people to shake down. But I don't
- 25:42Speaker 1: want to be the killer. You have to agree that
- 25:43Speaker 1: you'll do whatever.
- 25:44Speaker 3: Right.
- 25:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 25:45Speaker 3: I mean, the blood oath. They take a blood oath.
- 25:49Speaker 3: The omerta means you're never going to speak. Again, I'm
- 25:53Speaker 3: not an expert.
- 25:54Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like you kind of are. I mean,
- 25:56Speaker 1: I played one on TV. I mean, you played one
- 25:58Speaker 1: and you came from one. I think you're pretty out there.
- 26:01Speaker 3: I didn't know anything about it when I was in
- 26:04Speaker 3: my family.
- 26:04Speaker 1: So when you're growing up at like eight, what did
- 26:07Speaker 1: you think your family did for a living?
- 26:10Speaker 3: Well, no, my dad was a furniture manufacturer and my
- 26:12Speaker 3: mom was a playwright. And that's the truth.
- 26:14Speaker 1: So your dad had another income and another job.
- 26:17Speaker 3: My dad was not in the mafia.
- 26:19Speaker 1: Oh, your dad wasn't?
- 26:21Speaker 3: They offered him to be in the mafia.
- 26:22Speaker 1: Oh, they offered and he said no.
- 26:23Speaker 3: My mother said, you do this and I'm fucking out
- 26:27Speaker 3: of here. I already grew up with a father like this.
- 26:30Speaker 3: I will not marry. Because her dad was a cheater.
- 26:33Speaker 3: He was a wife beater. He was all of these things.
- 26:35Speaker 3: So she was like, I'm not, she wouldn't even be
- 26:37Speaker 3: a mom, my mother. And when we were born, she
- 26:40Speaker 3: was like, I am going to be a playwright and
- 26:42Speaker 3: I am doing, I'm going to school and I am
- 26:44Speaker 3: not cooking and I am not cleaning and I'm not
- 26:46Speaker 3: raising my children. I'm going to hire somebody when there's
- 26:49Speaker 3: enough money. And that's how that went down. So what do.
- 26:52Speaker 1: You mean she's not going to raise her children?
- 26:54Speaker 3: She just couldn't deal with being my, my, my grandmother.
- 26:59Speaker 3: She didn't want to be my grandmother because my grandmother
- 27:02Speaker 3: was so– I mean, the story is long and involved,
- 27:04Speaker 3: which is.
- 27:04Speaker 1: Why we're writing the book. Yeah, you definitely should. But
- 27:07Speaker 1: it's– It could be like a movie too.
- 27:09Speaker 3: And it's great. It's a great story. And it's all
- 27:11Speaker 3: about all these really strong women that made mistakes. My
- 27:15Speaker 3: mom made mistakes.
- 27:16Speaker 1: She was great.
- 27:17Speaker 3: But she definitely made mistakes. I was raised by my nanny.
- 27:21Speaker 3: She made mistakes too. We all made mistakes.
- 27:23Speaker 1: And so your mom's mom, is that the one that–
- 27:28Speaker 1: Is it your mom's mom, your grandmother, that also was
- 27:33Speaker 1: part of the helping girls get abortions?
- 27:36Speaker 3: No, that was my great-grandmother.
- 27:37Speaker 1: Your great-grandmother. 1950s Harlem.
- 27:40Speaker 3: Well, when she was young, when she was about 15,
- 27:45Speaker 3: she cut her hair into a flapper's hairdo, and her
- 27:49Speaker 3: parents were like, you're fucking crazy. You're going to Bellevue.
- 27:51Speaker 1: You need a lobotomy.
- 27:52Speaker 3: You're a whore.
- 27:53Speaker 1: You're a putan.
- 27:53Speaker 3: You got to go. That's it. Because you weren't supposed
- 27:56Speaker 3: to do that.
- 27:57Speaker 1: Cut your hair short.
- 27:57Speaker 3: Yes.
- 27:58Speaker 1: Like that was so rebellious.
- 27:59Speaker 3: Yeah. Like the times we're living in now. Oh my God.
- 28:03Speaker 3: But they said either you go to Bellevue and get
- 28:07Speaker 3: mental help or you get married. And they married her
- 28:11Speaker 3: off at 15 years old. She had my grandmother by
- 28:14Speaker 3: the time she was 16 or she was 15, I think, actually,
- 28:17Speaker 3: when she had my grandmother. And She was at the
- 28:20Speaker 3: museum one day. She comes home from being out all
- 28:24Speaker 3: day with my grandmother, baby grandmother and the baby. She's
- 28:27Speaker 3: a mother and she's a baby with my baby grandmother.
- 28:30Speaker 3: And the husband like punches her out or slaps her
- 28:35Speaker 3: for being out and not having her dinner ready. This
- 28:38Speaker 3: other 15 year old husband, you know what I mean?
- 28:41Speaker 3: And she stabs him. And she's like, I mean, she didn't,
- 28:46Speaker 3: she didn't kill him. She stabbed him. And, um, She said,
- 28:51Speaker 3: you will give me a divorce. Otherwise, I'll go outside
- 28:54Speaker 3: and tell everybody in this neighborhood, all the Italian men,
- 28:58Speaker 3: that your wife stabbed you. So everyone's going to know
- 29:00Speaker 3: you're a pussy. So he divorced her and then she
- 29:04Speaker 3: took her baby and she went to her mother's house
- 29:07Speaker 3: and her mother was fucking the neighbor. And she was like,
- 29:11Speaker 3: So she just starts blackmailing everyone.
- 29:13Speaker 1: And the mother was still married to her dad. Yes.
- 29:16Speaker 1: She's fucking the neighbor.
- 29:17Speaker 3: She goes, okay, you are going to watch this child
- 29:20Speaker 3: that you guys made me have. And I am going
- 29:24Speaker 3: to Bellevue, but I'm not going to get a lobotomy.
- 29:28Speaker 3: I'm going to become a midwife. And that was that.
- 29:32Speaker 3: So my grandmother was raised by her mother. My great-grandmother
- 29:37Speaker 3: went off and became a midwife. And then she came
- 29:41Speaker 3: back and started delivering babies. And that was her life.
- 29:44Speaker 3: And then eventually she started giving abortions because there were
- 29:47Speaker 3: a lot of young girls that were taking care of
- 29:50Speaker 3: it themselves. They didn't know. Nobody really knew what... So
- 29:54Speaker 3: it was, you know, that's how that started. And then
- 29:57Speaker 3: my grandfather... the mafia guy, he was coming up and
- 30:03Speaker 3: they brought heroin here to America.
- 30:06Speaker 1: From where? Where did heroin come from originally?
- 30:09Speaker 3: I guess he was back in those days. It must
- 30:11Speaker 3: have been, was it Escobar or who were the big dealers?
- 30:15Speaker 3: I can't remember. I'm probably going to get this wrong.
- 30:19Speaker 3: So I'll just stop on that. But he started supplying
- 30:22Speaker 3: the morphine for my grandmother's abortions. for the clinic in
- 30:27Speaker 3: our brownstone on Pleasant Avenue in New York City. And
- 30:32Speaker 3: that's how he met my grandmother. The whole story is crazy.
- 30:36Speaker 3: So then my grandmother has my mother. And so my
- 30:41Speaker 3: grandmother's name is here. My nanny's name is here. I
- 30:46Speaker 3: was raised by my grandmother, my nanny, and my mother.
- 30:49Speaker 3: And I would always say to my mom, I never
- 30:53Speaker 3: understood why my mom was so distant doing her own thing.
- 30:56Speaker 3: But once I started to understand who all these people
- 30:58Speaker 3: were in my house, I was like, wow, this is
- 31:01Speaker 3: a really dynamic situation. Like everybody's fucked up.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Do you have any siblings?
- 31:08Speaker 3: I have two older brothers.
- 31:09Speaker 1: Are you guys close? And they're a lot older. We were.
- 31:13Speaker 3: We are not now. Now that everyone's gone. My mom
- 31:18Speaker 3: just passed this summer and my dad passed like 13
- 31:22Speaker 3: years ago. Yeah. I'm an orphan now. I'm an orphan.
- 31:26Speaker 3: And I have no family except for my children. I
- 31:29Speaker 3: love my children.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Well, I can kind of relate to some of that
- 31:32Speaker 1: for sure. Okay. So then when did you realize like,
- 31:38Speaker 1: I'm a performer, I want to act and what was
- 31:41Speaker 1: your path?
- 31:42Speaker 3: I mean, both of my parents wanted to act and
- 31:45Speaker 3: My dad's family said, you're too ugly to act. He
- 31:48Speaker 3: was gorgeous. I don't know why they said that. And
- 31:52Speaker 3: then my mom, they said, only putanas act. Only the
- 31:55Speaker 3: whores act. So again with the whores. And now look
- 32:00Speaker 3: who the whore is right here.
- 32:02Speaker 1: I'm the fucking.
- 32:02Speaker 3: Whore all around.
- 32:04Speaker 1: That's really interesting, too, because this is probably why Dr.
- 32:08Speaker 1: Drew was like, we should meet. There are a lot
- 32:09Speaker 1: of similarities. Oh, yeah?
- 32:11Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 32:12Speaker 1: Definitely not.
- 32:13Speaker 3: We should hold hands.
- 32:14Speaker 1: Yes, definitely not. I did a whole thing about, you know,
- 32:19Speaker 1: being being estranged from adult siblings, like as and how
- 32:24Speaker 1: people give that a lot of pressure. Oh, but this
- 32:26Speaker 1: is your sibling and you should be. Yeah. And I
- 32:29Speaker 1: kind of did this thing of like giving people permission.
- 32:32Speaker 1: You don't have to, you know, do what's right for
- 32:34Speaker 1: you and break the cycle. So like I understand that
- 32:36Speaker 1: even though people are like blood is thicker than water.
- 32:38Speaker 1: It's like I love them.
- 32:39Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 32:40Speaker 1: I do. It just doesn't work.
- 32:42Speaker 3: Sometimes it just doesn't work. But I also feel like
- 32:43Speaker 3: they don't have a real interest either.
- 32:45Speaker 1: I do have interest in being.
- 32:47Speaker 3: Close to everybody. But I feel like they really don't.
- 32:51Speaker 3: And I'm not going to work hard for something. And
- 32:53Speaker 3: they've also just been sort of.
- 32:57Speaker 1: You know. Yeah. And then the fact that both of
- 33:00Speaker 1: your parents kind of wanted to be performers too. Like
- 33:03Speaker 1: my dad, when he said when he was coming, he
- 33:06Speaker 1: was in World War II, but he was coming back
- 33:08Speaker 1: on the boat from Japan to San Diego. He said
- 33:13Speaker 1: they only had like one movie that they kept playing
- 33:16Speaker 1: over and over on the boat to get back. And
- 33:18Speaker 1: so he'd memorized all the lines and they would just
- 33:20Speaker 1: act it out. But then, you know, went and got–
- 33:24Speaker 1: used the GI Bill, got into football, became a businessman
- 33:27Speaker 1: after– you know, played football in college, got a business there, whatever.
- 33:30Speaker 1: But always had like a really great– could do impressions
- 33:32Speaker 1: and be funny. And then my mom got a scholarship
- 33:36Speaker 1: to Catholic University to act. And her dad was like,
- 33:39Speaker 1: you're not going to be an actress if you're going
- 33:41Speaker 1: to go to college, do journalism because you can write too.
- 33:44Speaker 1: And it's just kind of funny when– sometimes when people
- 33:47Speaker 1: are like, oh, I'm living the life that maybe my–
- 33:51Speaker 1: my mom or dad would have wanted. I think there's
- 33:54Speaker 1: a lot of us out there that kind of like
- 33:56Speaker 1: that when you look back at it, you know, because obviously,
- 33:59Speaker 1: you know, there's nepo babies, but then there's people that
- 34:02Speaker 1: just like if someone, you know, has an engineering brain,
- 34:05Speaker 1: their kid might have an engineering brain. If your parents
- 34:07Speaker 1: were creative and storytellers and actors, even if they didn't
- 34:11Speaker 1: pursue it, Sometimes, you know, then you come out that
- 34:14Speaker 1: way too, you know?
- 34:15Speaker 3: I think my parents were, forget about even the fact
- 34:17Speaker 3: that I became an actor. I don't think my dad
- 34:18Speaker 3: wanted me to act because he thought it was too heartbreaking.
- 34:21Speaker 3: And he would say to me every day, please, baby,
- 34:24Speaker 3: pick something else that you can do. Like this should
- 34:26Speaker 3: only be, this should be the last resort of if
- 34:29Speaker 3: you can't do anything else, then this can be the
- 34:32Speaker 3: thing that you do. Try to do something else. Because
- 34:35Speaker 3: he saw my mom being in the industry for years,
- 34:37Speaker 3: just being a playwright. But my mom never really pursued
- 34:40Speaker 3: it in the way that she should have. I mean,
- 34:42Speaker 3: she was with William Morris for years, but she never
- 34:44Speaker 3: even published a play, which I thought was weird because
- 34:46Speaker 3: her plays were– she was kind of a big deal
- 34:48Speaker 3: underground in the theater world. But she never really took
- 34:54Speaker 3: it all the way. So now I'm going to publish
- 34:56Speaker 3: all of her plays for her and tell her story
- 34:59Speaker 3: with this book. Absolutely. Because it's her story. It's more
- 35:02Speaker 3: her story. I mean, it's my story, but it's her–
- 35:04Speaker 3: she starts it off with that– crazy before, but I
- 35:07Speaker 3: think what they were more obsessed with was the Sopranos.
- 35:11Speaker 3: I think they couldn't believe that I would, I never
- 35:14Speaker 3: really pursued acting by the way. I was in film school.
- 35:17Speaker 3: I wanted to, I was the anti-theater. I hated growing
- 35:20Speaker 3: up in the theater because of my mom. I hated
- 35:23Speaker 3: watching people play house. I was like, motherfuckers, I'm supposed
- 35:26Speaker 3: to play house. I am the little kid. Why are
- 35:28Speaker 3: you people acting like I am the mom and I
- 35:30Speaker 3: am the dad? And I wanted to play house. So
- 35:34Speaker 3: I hated sitting there watching these adults rehearse all day,
- 35:37Speaker 3: even though it was Uta Hagen and Herbert Berghoff and
- 35:40Speaker 3: all these people. I was like, I don't care who
- 35:42Speaker 3: they are. I'm a baby. Um, so I went to
- 35:46Speaker 3: film school. I went to NYU film school to get
- 35:48Speaker 3: away from the whole theater thing. And it was like the,
- 35:51Speaker 3: the fuck you go right out of high school there.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:53Speaker 3: I went straight into NYU and, um, and I fucked
- 35:56Speaker 3: up cause I was a fuck up and.
- 35:57Speaker 1: I, how'd you fuck up?
- 35:59Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I, I worked through school, which
- 36:02Speaker 3: I probably shouldn't have done because I didn't need to.
- 36:04Speaker 3: We had money and my parents were taking care of me.
- 36:08Speaker 3: But I just, I think, loved the life of bartending
- 36:12Speaker 3: until 5 o'clock in the morning and coming home with $ 2, 000
- 36:15Speaker 3: in cash, you know, and like half-baked. And it just
- 36:20Speaker 3: was– that was my dorm room experience. It wasn't like
- 36:23Speaker 3: other kids. I was a working– I felt like a
- 36:26Speaker 3: working man.
- 36:27Speaker 1: Okay.
- 36:27Speaker 3: You know? Yeah. And I fucked up. I just took
- 36:31Speaker 3: that more seriously than my actual education. And I wasn't
- 36:34Speaker 3: making my movies on time. And then I fell into
- 36:38Speaker 3: the wrong stuff, being in the clubs every night.
- 36:42Speaker 1: Okay.
- 36:42Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 36:43Speaker 1: So you didn't finish?
- 36:45Speaker 3: I got kicked out.
- 36:46Speaker 1: Okay.
- 36:46Speaker 3: I got let go of the school. Then I came
- 36:49Speaker 3: and I begged back in. And they let me stay
- 36:51Speaker 3: in as long as I kept a 4.0. Uh-huh. So
- 36:55Speaker 3: I managed to do that for a minute. Really?
- 36:57Speaker 1: Wow.
- 36:57Speaker 3: For a minute. Wow. And that's when I started taking
- 37:00Speaker 3: the acting classes. I was like, how am I going
- 37:01Speaker 3: to maintain this form? Oh, I'm going to do something
- 37:03Speaker 3: really fucking easy. And I started taking acting for directors.
- 37:08Speaker 3: And I secretly was like, I think I might want
- 37:11Speaker 3: to do this. And all my friends are like, why
- 37:14Speaker 3: are you in the film department? You should just be acting.
- 37:17Speaker 3: And I was like, no, because I felt like it
- 37:19Speaker 3: was so indulgent to act and even to say I
- 37:24Speaker 3: want to act. People would ask me even what I
- 37:27Speaker 3: did for a living.
- 37:28Speaker 1: It's like conceited to say I want to act. Yeah.
- 37:30Speaker 3: I was always super shy.
- 37:31Speaker 1: Yes.
- 37:32Speaker 3: Like I'm only not shy in the last three years
- 37:34Speaker 3: of my life.
- 37:35Speaker 1: Okay.
- 37:35Speaker 3: Cool. I swear to God. I was so crazy shy.
- 37:38Speaker 3: So I was like, I felt very conceited. Like, oh,
- 37:41Speaker 3: you think you're an actress? No, I'm a bartender. I'm
- 37:44Speaker 3: a bartender.
- 37:45Speaker 1: So, okay. So you got through the school by taking
- 37:50Speaker 1: the acting classes. And then how– did you start booking stuff,
- 37:54Speaker 1: like real booking stuff and getting money?
- 37:57Speaker 2: No.
- 37:57Speaker 3: I had a friend who's a writer in the business,
- 38:01Speaker 3: and she just introduced me to managers here and there.
- 38:05Speaker 3: She would always put me in her little films that
- 38:07Speaker 3: she'd be making and stuff with her husband. But she
- 38:11Speaker 3: introduced me to a manager. The manager had me on
- 38:14Speaker 3: for a minute sending me out to things. But I
- 38:16Speaker 3: wasn't really an actor, but she was– She told me
- 38:22Speaker 3: that I had a terrible voice so that I would
- 38:24Speaker 3: never be able to act because my voice was so
- 38:27Speaker 3: fucked up. And I'm like, because I used to be
- 38:29Speaker 3: a heavy smoker. And she asked me to go take
- 38:33Speaker 3: voice classes. So I said, okay, that's normal because people
- 38:36Speaker 3: take voice classes in acting. It's like a normal thing
- 38:38Speaker 3: to do. And she's like, no, no, no, no, no.
- 38:42Speaker 3: Not voice, Dre. Like opera classes, like singing. I said,
- 38:46Speaker 3: opera classes? You got to be fucking kidding me. She goes, yes,
- 38:50Speaker 3: I think that you should. take opera singing classes so
- 38:53Speaker 3: that you can really break through your voice and all
- 38:56Speaker 3: of this raspiness. And I thought, you're fucking crazy. I
- 39:00Speaker 3: was like, so if I don't do this, are we
- 39:02Speaker 3: still good? And she was like, no, we're not. So
- 39:06Speaker 3: she let me go. And then, and it's so fucking crazy.
- 39:11Speaker 3: But then like two weeks later, I booked The Sopranos.
- 39:14Speaker 1: So how did you get the audition for The Sopranos?
- 39:16Speaker 1: Your manager just put you up for the role? No,
- 39:18Speaker 1: an agent.
- 39:19Speaker 3: I had like a small agent. Actually, it's the same
- 39:21Speaker 3: agency I ended up going back to now, even though
- 39:25Speaker 3: I'm not acting anymore. But I was like, fine, you
- 39:27Speaker 3: guys want to represent me? Take it.
- 39:28Speaker 1: Take it. Take all this.
- 39:29Speaker 4: All.
- 39:30Speaker 3: This nothing of acting that I, all of this, all
- 39:33Speaker 3: of the me saying, absolutely not. Um, but yeah, they
- 39:38Speaker 3: got me some small audition for one line. In a
- 39:41Speaker 3: TV show, had I been auditioning for that show as
- 39:44Speaker 3: a series regular, I never would have gotten it. It
- 39:47Speaker 3: would have gone to someone of the moment.
- 39:49Speaker 1: Was it already out? Because I can't remember. When did
- 39:51Speaker 1: you come on? Were you in the first season? Oh,
- 39:54Speaker 1: so it was not even out yet. So you had
- 39:56Speaker 1: no idea of what this would become.
- 39:59Speaker 3: No, but I will say this. The minute I got
- 40:02Speaker 3: my hands on that script and I read it, I
- 40:05Speaker 3: called my mother immediately and I go, holy shit. I
- 40:09Speaker 3: know that I have no interest in television shows, but
- 40:12Speaker 3: you have to read this, mom. It is the most
- 40:14Speaker 3: beautifully written show I've ever seen in my life. And
- 40:18Speaker 3: she read it and she was like, yeah, wow, this
- 40:20Speaker 3: is beyond. I was like, it's so great. It'll never
- 40:22Speaker 3: get made. And I had one line. It was the
- 40:26Speaker 3: hostess in the restaurant. And then they ended up making
- 40:30Speaker 3: Adriana a hostess when they brought me in for the series.
- 40:33Speaker 3: But that part would have gone to like Marissa Tomei
- 40:36Speaker 3: or Mira Sorvino, all the girls that were used to
- 40:39Speaker 3: playing that type of role.
- 40:40Speaker 1: If they knew that it was a series regular. Someone
- 40:43Speaker 1: at that level wouldn't have done the one line hostess.
- 40:46Speaker 3: They wouldn't have done a TV show.
- 40:48Speaker 1: That's where the line comes. There are no small parts,
- 40:52Speaker 1: only small actors. Yes, it's true.
- 40:54Speaker 3: But I loved it so much. So when they called
- 40:56Speaker 3: and they said, look, David thinks that you're not really Italian-like,
- 41:01Speaker 3: but you are Italian. So he likes you. would you
- 41:04Speaker 3: be willing to just play the snobby hostess at the kinetic,
- 41:06Speaker 3: like a Connecticut vibe, the restaurant kind of thing. And
- 41:10Speaker 3: I was like, I'll do anything just to be a
- 41:11Speaker 3: part of that script. I loved it. And I did it.
- 41:14Speaker 3: And I couldn't even get my line out because I
- 41:17Speaker 3: was with, I was with Lorraine Rocco. No one knew
- 41:19Speaker 3: who Jim was yet. I was with Lorraine and she's Cameron.
- 41:23Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm good fellas. Carol.
- 41:24Speaker 3: I could think about when I saw her face was
- 41:26Speaker 3: her putting the gun in her panties. I was like,
- 41:28Speaker 3: Oh my God. All I see is gun in your
- 41:31Speaker 3: panties right now. You're so sexy. Um, so yeah, I
- 41:35Speaker 3: couldn't say my line. I was like, I can't believe
- 41:36Speaker 3: they'll even audition me later for another role.
- 41:40Speaker 1: Because you felt like you fucked up that.
- 41:42Speaker 3: I don't think they remembered that I was the same person.
- 41:44Speaker 1: Okay. So you come back and, and do you realize
- 41:48Speaker 1: then the arc of your, your part yet? Or you
- 41:51Speaker 1: don't know where this is going?
- 41:52Speaker 3: Still a day player. So they call me back to
- 41:55Speaker 3: be in, to audition for the series. I was in
- 41:58Speaker 3: Queens at my grandmother's house and she's cooking us chicken,
- 42:01Speaker 3: chicken parmesan. And I remember getting the phone call that
- 42:05Speaker 3: they wanted me to come in. And I was like, yeah, no,
- 42:09Speaker 3: this is too last minute. I can't come in right now.
- 42:11Speaker 3: Are you people crazy? I was like, and aside from
- 42:13Speaker 3: which I'm in Queens. And they were like, well, that's funny.
- 42:16Speaker 1: So are we.
- 42:17Speaker 3: And I was like, fuck. My mother looks at me.
- 42:20Speaker 3: She goes, what's it for? And I go, it's that
- 42:23Speaker 3: show that I did the pilot for the Sopranos. She goes,
- 42:28Speaker 3: we're going. She goes, ma. Make her a chicken cutlet
- 42:31Speaker 3: parmesan hero. Wrap it up. Make one for Al. She
- 42:34Speaker 3: goes in the safe. She gets my nameplate and diamonds
- 42:37Speaker 3: from my confirmation, which is Andrea. So Adriana. And I
- 42:42Speaker 3: put it on and she goes, what are your lines?
- 42:45Speaker 3: And I said, it's just Al. She goes, you are
- 42:48Speaker 3: going to say Al in like 15 syllables, just like Silvana,
- 42:52Speaker 3: the neighbor, my best friend next door. And that was it.
- 42:57Speaker 3: I said, ow.
- 42:58Speaker 1: What were you saying, ow, too?
- 43:00Speaker 3: I don't even fucking know. Maybe Christopher was grabbing my arm.
- 43:03Speaker 3: I'm like, ow, or some shit.
- 43:05Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Okay, so then you become his girlfriend, Christopher's girlfriend.
- 43:11Speaker 3: Just a day player. Oh, still a day player. $ 500 checks,
- 43:14Speaker 3: sitting on a toilet in the honey wagon on set.
- 43:18Speaker 3: The honey wagon is all bathrooms. It's like 15 bathrooms
- 43:22Speaker 3: in a row, and every toilet has a cushion on
- 43:25Speaker 3: it so you have somewhere to sit.
- 43:27Speaker 1: Oh.
- 43:28Speaker 3: That's a dressing room.
- 43:29Speaker 1: Oh, got it.
- 43:30Speaker 3: Before they give you like a double banger or a
- 43:33Speaker 3: star trailer.
- 43:34Speaker 1: Got it.
- 43:35Speaker 3: Yeah. Double banger.
- 43:36Speaker 1: And okay. So then when you then realize, okay, now,
- 43:40Speaker 1: because how many seasons were you the girlfriend where we
- 43:43Speaker 1: knew you to be his girlfriend?
- 43:45Speaker 3: The whole time. The whole show.
- 43:48Speaker 1: So you, because we're sorry for those of you that
- 43:52Speaker 1: haven't watched it, cover your ears.
- 43:54Speaker 3: So many new fans, by the way.
- 43:56Speaker 1: The character, spoiler, so your character does die. And I
- 44:04Speaker 1: said spoiler.
- 44:05Speaker 2: I know, I know.
- 44:06Speaker 1: But your character dies and gets killed. And I just
- 44:11Speaker 1: remember that scene. And I loved Sunday nights, HBO Sunday nights,
- 44:16Speaker 1: and watching it. Me too. It was so good. So
- 44:19Speaker 1: it went on for seven seasons, right? I think it did.
- 44:23Speaker 3: It was, yeah, it was like the fake seven because
- 44:26Speaker 3: they didn't want to pay a full seven. So they
- 44:29Speaker 3: said six and a half.
- 44:30Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a weird thing back then where like
- 44:32Speaker 1: deals were made with cable where it was seven seasons guarantee.
- 44:37Speaker 1: And if you're going to go past that, they make
- 44:39Speaker 1: it whatever. It was a big thing. But so just
- 44:45Speaker 1: I want to talk about this for a minute. As
- 44:47Speaker 1: an actress, I want to ask you this. So- When
- 44:51Speaker 1: did you find out that this was your character's fate?
- 44:56Speaker 1: How do you find out? Did they sit you down
- 44:58Speaker 1: or they just gave you the script and you read
- 45:00Speaker 1: it like everybody else?
- 45:01Speaker 3: They actually, for all the men on the show, because
- 45:04Speaker 3: it's only been men that have had those big moments.
- 45:06Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 45:08Speaker 3: They bring him into David Chase's office and he tells
- 45:10Speaker 3: them and then they all go out for a big dinner.
- 45:14Speaker 1: Before their character gets knocked off. Yeah. Oh, my God.
- 45:18Speaker 1: That's so funny.
- 45:19Speaker 3: It was different.
- 45:20Speaker 1: How did they do it?
- 45:21Speaker 3: I approached him episode five. I think it was episode five.
- 45:28Speaker 3: I have the neck brace in that scene after the accident.
- 45:32Speaker 3: Maybe we were faking a hospital in a house somewhere
- 45:35Speaker 3: for a set. I can't quite remember. But anyhow, David
- 45:38Speaker 3: was on set. And I thought, oh, he's here. Let
- 45:39Speaker 3: me just ask him. I said, things don't seem so
- 45:42Speaker 3: great for my character right now. Like all I'm doing
- 45:45Speaker 3: is talking to the FBI. I'm shitting my pants nonstop
- 45:47Speaker 3: because I have IBS. I was like, and I want
- 45:50Speaker 3: to direct this film in the hiatus because I wanted
- 45:53Speaker 3: to get back directing. It was one of my mother's
- 45:56Speaker 3: students' movies that she wrote. And I could tell he
- 46:02Speaker 3: didn't like that. I Everyone always said, don't ever ask
- 46:05Speaker 3: David for, don't ever mention that you want to do
- 46:09Speaker 3: anything else.
- 46:10Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I can see that. Aside from what we're doing.
- 46:12Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, but it's not acting. I
- 46:15Speaker 3: don't want to act. I want to go direct and
- 46:17Speaker 3: do what he does. And it's just a short time.
- 46:19Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't like that either, though.
- 46:21Speaker 3: You know, I found out, but I think that he
- 46:24Speaker 3: had plans anyway. So he sat me down and on
- 46:28Speaker 3: a curb, we sat on the street on a curb
- 46:30Speaker 3: and I had my neck brace on and I know
- 46:32Speaker 3: that the scene I had to do.
- 46:33Speaker 1: So your neck brace was for the character.
- 46:35Speaker 3: Yes.
- 46:36Speaker 1: Okay.
- 46:36Speaker 3: Cause I had just been in the accident with Jim,
- 46:39Speaker 3: with Tony Soprano. And, um, I don't really remember a
- 46:41Speaker 3: lot of scenes, but, but he sat me down and
- 46:44Speaker 3: he said, so we're going to do it like this.
- 46:46Speaker 3: We're shooting it two ways. You're going to die and
- 46:50Speaker 3: you're going to live. And no one's going to know
- 46:54Speaker 3: what happens until it airs because of the confidentiality breach
- 46:59Speaker 3: on set and because of all the gossip and because
- 47:01Speaker 3: of how, I mean, it was the first show where
- 47:05Speaker 3: if something got leaked, it was monumental. Yes. It was
- 47:09Speaker 3: a really big deal. And the audience didn't want the leaks,
- 47:14Speaker 3: even though some people were like, I want to know
- 47:15Speaker 3: what's going to happen. People really didn't want to know,
- 47:18Speaker 3: especially that, you know, because People loved her so much
- 47:22Speaker 3: and she was innocent. So it was even more, it
- 47:25Speaker 3: was worse because she was innocent. It wasn't just like
- 47:27Speaker 3: one of these guys that you know murdered so many people,
- 47:31Speaker 3: you know. So that was all I knew. And then
- 47:35Speaker 3: I started getting offers to do other shows and lots of,
- 47:41Speaker 3: and a lot of things. And I'm like, how does
- 47:42Speaker 3: anyone know? Like no one is supposed to know anything here.
- 47:47Speaker 3: And I took a job once I knew. And then
- 47:50Speaker 3: that got out into the world. And then I had
- 47:52Speaker 3: to go to damage control because he was furious with me.
- 47:55Speaker 1: Because he thought by you taking a job got people talking, oh,
- 47:59Speaker 1: she must be dying soon because she's talking to the
- 48:01Speaker 1: feds on the show.
- 48:02Speaker 3: It didn't. I wish I could find– I had to
- 48:05Speaker 3: go on a talk show to mitigate it. And I
- 48:08Speaker 3: don't know whose show I picked to do to just say, no,
- 48:11Speaker 3: I'm not dying on this show. Uh-huh. Um, but that,
- 48:15Speaker 3: that happened, but that's how I found out. So I
- 48:18Speaker 3: never had a dinner, but that would have been awkward
- 48:20Speaker 3: because I'm not one of the guys on the show.
- 48:22Speaker 3: You know, I was a young girl, so I never
- 48:24Speaker 3: had the dinner. But, um, the last, I remember they
- 48:27Speaker 3: brought balloons and champagne and it felt like every day
- 48:32Speaker 3: was my last day though, because every time, because then
- 48:34Speaker 3: they were reshoots. So there was like, they were having
- 48:36Speaker 3: a goodbye this day and then a goodbye the next day.
- 48:40Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm fucking out of here already, guys.
- 48:43Speaker 3: People always ask me about the death scene. And I'm like,
- 48:45Speaker 3: I was already gone by then in my head. You know,
- 48:49Speaker 3: I know.
- 48:50Speaker 1: I think I think what's so compelling when you watch it,
- 48:54Speaker 1: like I can see it in my head. And what
- 48:56Speaker 1: I thought about was so again, spoiler. OK, so you
- 49:02Speaker 1: were with the one of the other guys. He says
- 49:04Speaker 1: he's taking you to. the hospital or something to see somebody?
- 49:09Speaker 3: Yeah, Christopher. He's saying that Christopher tried to commit suicide.
- 49:12Speaker 3: But this is a little piece of trivia for people
- 49:16Speaker 3: that are diehard Soprano fans. There was a scene written.
- 49:20Speaker 3: in the episode where Tony, where Christopher goes to Tony
- 49:24Speaker 3: Soprano and tells him that I was a rat. They
- 49:28Speaker 3: go in the basement of, of Tony Soprano's house in
- 49:31Speaker 3: the laundry room where there's no wires or microphones, whatever.
- 49:35Speaker 3: And he confesses to him. So then Tony Soprano calls
- 49:37Speaker 3: Adriana and says, yo, He just committed suicide because Tony's like,
- 49:41Speaker 3: I'll take care of it. So, you know, you know,
- 49:43Speaker 3: when Christopher tells Tony and Tony says, I'll take care
- 49:47Speaker 3: of it. And Tony calls Adriana. That means she's dead.
- 49:50Speaker 3: So the drive to the forest is meaningless at that point.
- 49:55Speaker 3: But I didn't like that that scene was in there
- 49:57Speaker 3: because I thought that it should be a buildup. So
- 50:00Speaker 3: I begged some of the writers and I think even
- 50:04Speaker 3: a few of the actors stood with me on it
- 50:06Speaker 3: to have that scene eliminated from the show. And they did.
- 50:09Speaker 3: They aired it without Christopher confessing.
- 50:14Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was like a surprise when you're watching
- 50:18Speaker 1: it as a viewer because he pulls over and there's
- 50:22Speaker 1: a moment then when your character like knows. And I
- 50:27Speaker 1: just think what's crazy about that is I don't think
- 50:31Speaker 1: in any movie that I've ever seen where you think
- 50:36Speaker 1: what that must be like is the dark For somebody
- 50:40Speaker 1: that knows whether they've been kidnapped and this is the
- 50:44Speaker 1: moment they're going to be killed or, you know, it's
- 50:47Speaker 1: somebody they know or they're in the mafia or they're
- 50:50Speaker 1: it's their husband and they just know like this is
- 50:52Speaker 1: the moment like this is. Oh, my God.
- 50:54Speaker 2: I don't.
- 50:55Speaker 1: This is probably going to happen to me. And so
- 50:59Speaker 1: as an actress.
- 51:02Speaker 3: Like.
- 51:03Speaker 1: How do you, do you, did you get to that
- 51:05Speaker 1: place or did you almost, I mean, where is it
- 51:08Speaker 1: that you, or did you not really get to that
- 51:09Speaker 1: place or you just did it?
- 51:10Speaker 3: I was, I have a tendency to take care of
- 51:13Speaker 3: everybody all the time, even on set, even if I
- 51:17Speaker 3: need focus on myself. Stevie was really upset that he-
- 51:22Speaker 3: The person who had to kill you. Yeah, Stevie Van Sant.
- 51:25Speaker 3: He had to pull me out of the car by
- 51:27Speaker 3: my hair, I think, or my jacket. He had called
- 51:29Speaker 3: me a cunt. He didn't want to do any of
- 51:32Speaker 3: these things. And I'm like, motherfucker, I got a dinner
- 51:35Speaker 3: to be at. Like, we got things to do. You're fine.
- 51:38Speaker 3: You can do it. Have fun with it. Call me
- 51:40Speaker 3: a cunt. Pull me out of that fucking car by
- 51:42Speaker 3: my hair. Let's do this thing. It was a very
- 51:46Speaker 3: quick scene to shoot because they don't show my face.
- 51:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 51:50Speaker 3: That was a request of David's did not want to
- 51:53Speaker 3: see me get killed. I don't know if he ever
- 51:57Speaker 3: people thought it was an intentional cliffhanger. I don't think
- 52:00Speaker 3: it was. I think he really just didn't want to
- 52:01Speaker 3: see her get killed. But that scene for me was not,
- 52:06Speaker 3: that was not the worst. It was hard to sort
- 52:08Speaker 3: of calibrate how to show that I am, because I
- 52:14Speaker 3: knew that they took, I didn't know that they were
- 52:16Speaker 3: taking that scene out. So because I didn't know that
- 52:19Speaker 3: scene was coming out, I was already upset in the car.
- 52:23Speaker 3: Had I known that scene wasn't going to be in there,
- 52:26Speaker 3: I might've looked a little less upset in the beginning.
- 52:30Speaker 3: because I don't know where I'm going. I, it was, yeah,
- 52:36Speaker 3: I don't, I don't know. I don't know how I
- 52:40Speaker 3: prepared for that, but the scene where he chokes me,
- 52:43Speaker 3: where I confessed to him, that was the scene for me.
- 52:46Speaker 3: That scene crushed me. Every scene crushed me. That whole
- 52:49Speaker 3: fucking season crushed me. Cause at that time.
- 52:51Speaker 1: Oh, that's when Christopher chokes you, your fiance.
- 52:53Speaker 3: I took it all so like, you know, I was
- 52:56Speaker 3: a young actor and it was my first big job.
- 52:58Speaker 3: So there were no shortcuts for me. Everything had to
- 53:01Speaker 3: be real. Like there was no faking of anything happening.
- 53:06Speaker 1: And then when did you know, like, when was your
- 53:08Speaker 1: first like life-changing kind of moment? Like where you're like, oh,
- 53:11Speaker 1: I'm famous. Like I'm walking and people are like calling
- 53:14Speaker 1: out your name and you realize what a big hit
- 53:16Speaker 1: this is.
- 53:17Speaker 3: The show was big. Yeah. It was big. I remember
- 53:21Speaker 3: when we'd go to the airport, they would have to
- 53:23Speaker 3: escort us with, um, You know, with the caddies through
- 53:27Speaker 3: the airport. Because if we were in a group together,
- 53:30Speaker 3: it was a little too chaotic and crazy. People were like,
- 53:33Speaker 3: holy shit. It's all of them.
- 53:36Speaker 1: They're all here.
- 53:40Speaker 3: But I think for me, the real moment was when
- 53:47Speaker 3: my name was in the crossword puzzle. And look, the
- 53:50Speaker 3: New York Times crossword puzzle for my parents. Because it
- 53:53Speaker 3: was a big deal.
- 53:53Speaker 1: Because I did the puzzle every day.
- 53:55Speaker 3: But at the same time, they'd be excited and I'd
- 53:57Speaker 3: be like, guys, can I tell you something though and
- 54:00Speaker 3: just remind you? The reason why I'm in it is
- 54:02Speaker 3: because it's not an easy answer. Okay. It's not because,
- 54:06Speaker 3: oh my God, she's famous. It's because the people might
- 54:09Speaker 3: not know who it is.
- 54:10Speaker 1: So did your parents, did they stay married throughout your life?
- 54:13Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 54:14Speaker 1: Oh, that's so nice.
- 54:15Speaker 3: Yeah, they were together. They fucking almost killed each other
- 54:18Speaker 3: when I was young, but that passed. My dad still
- 54:21Speaker 3: thought he was maybe going to be in the mafia
- 54:23Speaker 3: when we were young. So he was still acting like
- 54:25Speaker 3: one of those guys from time to time. Oh. So
- 54:28Speaker 3: she was like, what the fuck? You know. You can't
- 54:31Speaker 3: be like my father. And they adored each other. So absolutely.
- 54:36Speaker 3: And they were the funniest motherfuckers on the planet. So
- 54:40Speaker 3: that's why they love The Sopranos, because David Chase's writing
- 54:44Speaker 3: is just like my mom's writing. My mom's an incredible writer.
- 54:47Speaker 3: I'm not just saying because she's my mom. Obviously, I
- 54:49Speaker 3: know good writing because I knew The Sopranos was was
- 54:52Speaker 3: fantastic early on. But she watching her teach writing actually
- 54:57Speaker 3: is how I learned how to act. didn't really take
- 55:00Speaker 3: any heavy, heavy acting classes. But hearing her break a
- 55:03Speaker 3: script down for her students and hearing her talk about
- 55:07Speaker 3: how everything has to stay active, how you have to
- 55:09Speaker 3: have an objective, like all the way she did that
- 55:12Speaker 3: made it very easy to understand how to become an actor.
- 55:15Speaker 1: And one of the things when I was like researching stuff,
- 55:17Speaker 1: there was questions, like I was asked one question, then
- 55:19Speaker 1: another one came up and it was, did Adriana and
- 55:24Speaker 1: Tony Soprano ever have sex?
- 55:26Speaker 3: Oh, you mean like, did they?
- 55:28Speaker 1: Yeah. Because they never show it. But there's like, I
- 55:32Speaker 1: guess there's elements that kind of made the audience wonder
- 55:35Speaker 1: if there was ever a moment.
- 55:37Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't think so. Yeah. I think Adriana, I
- 55:42Speaker 3: think everything, she led with her heart. Yeah. Nonstop. And
- 55:47Speaker 3: I think that, I mean, she probably maybe could have.
- 55:50Speaker 1: I mean.
- 55:52Speaker 3: I mean, I was down. I was down with the
- 55:55Speaker 3: whole scenario if that's what Adriana wanted to do. Yeah.
- 55:59Speaker 1: He was so sexy. Oh, my God. He was so sexy. Oh,
- 56:03Speaker 1: my God. I remember that other scene where he had–
- 56:07Speaker 1: he was having the affair with the girl at the
- 56:09Speaker 1: Mercedes dealership or whatever. And then she, like, called the
- 56:13Speaker 1: house to tell Carmela.
- 56:14Speaker 3: Oh, Annabella.
- 56:15Speaker 1: Yeah. It's Annabella. And the way– When then he came
- 56:19Speaker 1: in there and threw her on the bed and was like,
- 56:21Speaker 1: don't you ever call my fucking wife. I remember where
- 56:23Speaker 1: I was when I saw that scene. It was just
- 56:25Speaker 1: so good.
- 56:26Speaker 3: So sexy.
- 56:27Speaker 1: Well, okay. So you do all that. And then you
- 56:29Speaker 1: go on Sons of Anarchy. And now you keep saying,
- 56:33Speaker 1: I'm done with acting. I'm hearing you in these other interviews.
- 56:36Speaker 1: I'm done with acting. And I get why you think
- 56:42Speaker 1: it's over for you and you're happy for it to
- 56:44Speaker 1: be over. And I kind of think people don't realize
- 56:47Speaker 1: when someone does move on from it and do other things,
- 56:51Speaker 1: they're like, how can that be? Because it seems like
- 56:54Speaker 1: everybody that has a desire is like, how could you
- 56:56Speaker 1: ever turn down something? So if the right thing came along,
- 57:01Speaker 1: are you really going to be done, done? Or is
- 57:04Speaker 1: it just you don't want to be in the trailer?
- 57:05Speaker 1: You don't want to have to answer to anybody. Why
- 57:07Speaker 1: do you say that you think you're really done with acting?
- 57:10Speaker 3: I mean, I think I was done after Sopranos, to
- 57:14Speaker 3: be honest with you. I really, I felt like I
- 57:17Speaker 3: got there. I did it. I did what resonated for
- 57:21Speaker 3: me without even knowing that it did. I thought, if anything,
- 57:25Speaker 3: I didn't want to play an Italian. I didn't want
- 57:26Speaker 3: to be stereotyped. I didn't want to be on television.
- 57:29Speaker 3: I wanted to be a film star. You know, when
- 57:31Speaker 3: you're a kid, if you're going to do this, you
- 57:33Speaker 3: want to not be, they wanted to change my name.
- 57:35Speaker 3: They didn't want me to be Italian. Because I'd be stereotyped.
- 57:39Speaker 3: It was a whole big thing back in those days.
- 57:41Speaker 3: Look at what happened now in this whole mess of Hollywood.
- 57:45Speaker 3: But back then, it was a real big thing for Italians.
- 57:49Speaker 3: And the accent. And that people just assumed you were
- 57:51Speaker 3: stupid if you were Italian, kind of, in a way.
- 57:54Speaker 3: Which is so crazy because there's so many Italian actors
- 57:56Speaker 3: out there. So I never really felt like it was...
- 58:02Speaker 3: what I wanted to do anymore. I wanted to be
- 58:05Speaker 3: with my ex at the time. I was happy to
- 58:07Speaker 3: just follow him around. I realized I was more like
- 58:09Speaker 3: Adriana than I knew. I would lead with love all
- 58:12Speaker 3: the time and my heart and where my heart wanted
- 58:14Speaker 3: to be. And it wasn't in a fucking makeup trailer.
- 58:17Speaker 3: And yeah, sure. It was great to get a top
- 58:20Speaker 3: spot reservation in a restaurant. Like these were cool things
- 58:23Speaker 3: that came with the celebrity part of it, but the
- 58:27Speaker 3: rest of it, I never really cared about it. And
- 58:31Speaker 3: I took care of my nanny for many years, the
- 58:33Speaker 3: lady that raised me. And there was just a lot,
- 58:35Speaker 3: like she would get sick a lot and I couldn't
- 58:37Speaker 3: show up to Sundance sometimes, or I couldn't promote a
- 58:40Speaker 3: film or I didn't want to go to a festival,
- 58:43Speaker 3: whatever it was. It was just, people were abhorrent. I
- 58:49Speaker 3: didn't like the way people functioned in the industry. and
- 58:53Speaker 3: how callous they were and how it just didn't matter.
- 58:57Speaker 3: Like humanity didn't matter even back then. And look at
- 59:00Speaker 3: it now. I mean, really look at the way, I mean,
- 59:04Speaker 3: for me, I had to stop over the mandates. And
- 59:07Speaker 3: it wasn't like people say, oh, you were canceled. I'm like, no,
- 59:10Speaker 3: I wasn't really canceled. I pulled myself out because I
- 59:13Speaker 3: knew I'm a crazy fucking hippie and I just wasn't
- 59:16Speaker 3: ready to do anything. And then when they were like,
- 59:19Speaker 3: you must do this or you'll never work again. And
- 59:21Speaker 3: I was like, wait a minute, now I really need
- 59:24Speaker 3: to understand what all of this means. And once I started, listen,
- 59:27Speaker 3: they should have just given me a script and said,
- 59:30Speaker 3: show up and act instead of giving me this other script,
- 59:33Speaker 3: which was go research this instead. Because once I started
- 59:37Speaker 3: researching what was happening during that time, where I realized, oh, fuck,
- 59:41Speaker 3: I can't go back to this industry right now.
- 59:44Speaker 1: And you didn't think, you know, did anybody say, okay,
- 59:49Speaker 1: we get your position, get a fake card?
- 59:53Speaker 3: They did.
- 59:53Speaker 1: Okay.
- 59:54Speaker 3: They did. And my daughter- I got everybody fake cards
- 59:59Speaker 3: and I felt really bad using it. I couldn't, I
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: felt bad sitting in a restaurant. I got it to
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: take them to see Hamilton when it came to LA.
- 1:00:10Speaker 3: And I remember being there in the audience and thinking,
- 1:00:15Speaker 3: and I was crying. I actually, I was tearing up.
- 1:00:18Speaker 3: This is me, this is Adriana, here I am. I
- 1:00:22Speaker 3: haven't changed. I remember feeling like, what if I'm hurting somebody? Like,
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: what if, like, what if I don't have the answers
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: and what if I am, I shouldn't be here with
- 1:00:33Speaker 3: all of these people. And I thought I was just
- 1:00:36Speaker 3: so like consumed with confusion at that time of, um, anyhow,
- 1:00:43Speaker 3: I was starting to lose money. Like we, I only
- 1:00:46Speaker 3: go job to job. I never was a career actor,
- 1:00:48Speaker 3: no interest in it. Like I said, I wanted to
- 1:00:50Speaker 3: be with my, my family. Then I became a single mom. So, God,
- 1:00:54Speaker 3: try to whip me from my kids.
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: And how are you with the father of your kids? Good.
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: It took a long time. It took a long time.
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: And how old are your kids now?
- 1:01:01Speaker 3: Lead with your heart. Lead with your heart. Not with
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: this thing, you know. 16 and 13. But my daughter
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: was like, please don't use the card for work. She goes,
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: you have a big mouth. you'll end up saying the
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: wrong thing. But I, more than anything, you taught us
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: to be a certain way and you taught us, and
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: I have no liar tattoos on my body and all
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: kinds of things. So she's like, I don't want you
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: to lie. And I was like, I won't then. And
- 1:01:28Speaker 3: I won't. And I was like, but you might have
- 1:01:29Speaker 3: to come out of school because of the mandates at
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: the schools that was happening at the same time. And
- 1:01:34Speaker 3: she's like, it's fine. We'll figure it all out. So
- 1:01:36Speaker 3: we were leaving LA. We were moving out of LA
- 1:01:38Speaker 3: over the public schools and and all that stuff with
- 1:01:41Speaker 3: the mandates.
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: So that was how that happened.
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: But then I got, listen, my house almost went into foreclosure.
- 1:01:47Speaker 3: And when I tried to sell it, it flooded. And
- 1:01:51Speaker 3: the old lady was dying. And I'm holding her hand.
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: You mean the nanny. The nanny. The nanny that raised you. Yeah.
- 1:02:00Speaker 3: I was literally holding her hand here and auditioning for
- 1:02:03Speaker 3: something here. I'm not used to auditioning either. Like, it
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: was new for me.
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: Auditioning on tape?
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: Auditioning at all.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
- 1:02:09Speaker 3: Like, I just take jobs that, you know, I took
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: the jobs that would pay me to stay in raising
- 1:02:14Speaker 3: my kids for years without having to work in between.
- 1:02:17Speaker 3: I would run out of money though. I wasn't trying
- 1:02:19Speaker 3: to save money. I was just trying to live, you know?
- 1:02:22Speaker 3: But I remember auditioning like this, holding her dying hand
- 1:02:25Speaker 3: and them being like, so do you guys, do you
- 1:02:27Speaker 3: have any idea? They wanted me to do the part.
- 1:02:29Speaker 3: Do you have any idea when she's going to die?
- 1:02:30Speaker 3: I was like, are you fucking people insane? Because I,
- 1:02:36Speaker 3: they needed me to leave and go on set to
- 1:02:38Speaker 3: do this, this job. And I was like, okay, I'm done.
- 1:02:43Speaker 3: And that was the last job before the vaccine mandates.
- 1:02:46Speaker 3: So had I taken that job, I would have been okay.
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: But then I would have had to leave her while
- 1:02:51Speaker 3: she was dying, which I wouldn't have done. And so
- 1:02:53Speaker 3: I had choices to make and my choices led me
- 1:02:56Speaker 3: to OnlyFans. Yes, granny porn. My choices led me to
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: a fan page on OnlyFans because I was getting censored
- 1:03:07Speaker 3: on Instagram nonstop anyway. And now I'm 100% censored. Like,
- 1:03:12Speaker 3: Even if you look me up, it'll say, are you
- 1:03:14Speaker 3: sure you want to follow this page? They are filled
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: with misinformation and blah, blah, blah.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: Oh, I see. Okay. Yeah.
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: So I OnlyFans. So I went to OnlyFans and that's
- 1:03:24Speaker 3: how I saved my family.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: And so you had to keep the house.
- 1:03:31Speaker 3: I kept my house. And now we're going to try
- 1:03:34Speaker 3: to sell it because we want to.
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: And now where do you want to go from there?
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: So you're still in LA.
- 1:03:40Speaker 3: We're still here.
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:03:41Speaker 3: I mean, I would love to go back to New York,
- 1:03:43Speaker 3: but it's the apocalypse.
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: And things are going to get worse right now.
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: So it was funny because, you know, you said in
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: a show that sometimes your son, is he the 16
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: or is he the 13? He's 13. He's a 13-year-old. Sometimes, like,
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: edits a photo for you on OnlyFans. And, you know,
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: people are like, what?
- 1:04:07Speaker 3: Those are professional photos.
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:04:10Speaker 3: That's not even edited, that picture.
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: Here's another one. This one's really great.
- 1:04:14Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not really edited either too much.
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:04:18Speaker 3: No, he didn't do that. That's new. That's a new one.
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: That's hot.
- 1:04:21Speaker 3: But yeah.
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: That's in New York.
- 1:04:23Speaker 3: That's in New York. That's at home. But no, he
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: edited a picture of me where I look like a superhero.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:04:29Speaker 3: He's the one who said it on the podcast because
- 1:04:31Speaker 3: it was my friend's podcast, Jamie Lynn and Robert Eiler.
- 1:04:35Speaker 3: And Robert's like, what do you think of your mom's podcast? OnlyFans. OnlyFans. OnlyFans.
- 1:04:39Speaker 3: And he's like, you know, he's such a little tough guy.
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: He's like, I edit some of those pictures. And she
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: makes like videos. I don't know how to do this shit.
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: I don't know how to do any of it. And
- 1:04:48Speaker 3: they didn't care that I did the OnlyFans page. They
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: were like, feet, do your feet. My OnlyFans page is like.
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: I mean, my son has said that too. Like, you know,
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: and I've had people ask about whatever. My younger son,
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: one time we were driving past Blac Chyna's house and
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: he goes, mom, will your career ever get to a
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: place where you have to do OnlyFans?
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: You and me.
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: I go, I don't think so because I have the
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: podcast and whatever. But also, it's just another thing I
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: don't have time to do. But I totally get it.
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: And I think it was so smart because you always
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: were sexy. And then you do have this fan base.
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: that you can, you know, play into the character of
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: the mob wife and all that kind of stuff. And
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: those guys will love it and ask you questions. So
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: it's more than just, you know, being sexy. And I
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: think it was really smart. I've been saying for years,
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: I don't know why Britney Spears doesn't do OnlyFans.
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: Well, now I wonder why none of them do, because
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: the photos they put on Instagram are so sexy. You
- 1:05:50Speaker 3: won't see pictures like that of me. from before my
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: OnlyFans page. There might be one where I didn't add
- 1:05:56Speaker 3: for period panties, which is hardly sexy. But it's the
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: only time you see me in my underwear and maybe
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: I put a bikini shot on the 4th of July.
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: But other than that, like, I don't know how to
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: be this girl who's like taking fucking selfies of myself
- 1:06:10Speaker 3: and like standing in a mirror and like, well, who
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: does that shit? Well, apparently I do it now, but
- 1:06:15Speaker 3: back in the day, I never did it, but I
- 1:06:18Speaker 3: took a shot.
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: I think it's so funny because my sons helped me
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: with this business too. And I'm like, and, we were
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: doing a show in Vegas and I wanted to show
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: a video, like, you know, I stand up a little
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: bit of this, but I do stand up and I
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: wanted to, and my son was helping me. He's a
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: senior at ASU. And the night before I went with
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: my friends, we went to Thunder Down Under. So of
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: course I was pulled up on stage and everything. And
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: I wanted to show the video on stage the next day.
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: So as I'm like filming, like the theater before we start,
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: There's my son and he's like talking to the guy,
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: like being like, yeah, this is the video. And I'm like,
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: oh my God, I made him edit the video of
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: this guy, like shoving my face in his crotch and
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: my legs going like this and everything.
- 1:07:02Speaker 3: And it was so corny.
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: Like, even though I didn't know what was happening, obviously
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: this guy is like not getting hard for me. Like,
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: who cares? But the fact that I'm like, okay, yeah.
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: And then he's like, okay, I think this part's boring.
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: But then this part where he spreads your legs, like
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: we'll do, we'll, you know, speed it up and everything.
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, like. You know, it's whatever your
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: business is, but if they get that it's funny, I'm
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: not having them edit a porno, like, you know, whatever.
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: So I thought that was, I totally saw your point
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: in having your kids.
- 1:07:31Speaker 3: Well, they were saying child protective services after me.
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: Who was? Some listeners?
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: Oh, God.
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: The kids read the comments. I go, guys, you know
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: mommy doesn't read comments on anything ever. Half of my
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: relationships ended because all the men in my life will
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: read comments. I'm like, don't.
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: Read the fucking comments. Why would it end? Because they
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: didn't like to be mentioned in the comments or they
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: didn't like to be famous?
- 1:07:53Speaker 3: Just the insults, just continuous fucking negative bullshit that people
- 1:07:59Speaker 3: spew all day. It's like, get out from behind your
- 1:08:02Speaker 3: computer and live a life. Go love somebody or something.
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: Go love yourself.
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: Do you think that the boyfriends, how would it turn
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: them off? That people were saying mean things to you.
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: I don't see how that.
- 1:08:14Speaker 3: I think that they might say mean things about them
- 1:08:16Speaker 3: from time to time.
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: That's what I think it is.
- 1:08:18Speaker 3: Yeah. They don't care about them saying mean shit about me.
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: When I talk about real housewives and stuff, I'm like,
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: the reason so many real housewives end... their marriages end
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: is because they think it's all great. Oh, I think
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: camera should have been following me around my whole life.
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: And the husband has a few bucks and his life's
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: come real easy to him. And then all of a
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: sudden they're on TV. And the next day, the guy's like,
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: I'm famous. And everyone's like, you don't have a chin.
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: And they're like, what? I'm worth millions of dollars. And now, oh,
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: you're right. I don't have a chin. And then they're like,
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: you were mean to her when you served her coffee.
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: And then They start fighting and that's what happens. Maybe
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: I should do that. And so on a lower level
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: to be on Real Housewives. Yes.
- 1:09:01Speaker 3: No, so I can get Robbie in trouble all day,
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: my grumpy boyfriend.
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: What if someone did ask you to do Real Housewives
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills?
- 1:09:09Speaker 3: I think the only way I could do it is
- 1:09:11Speaker 3: if it's like the housewives of Beverly Hills. of like
- 1:09:13Speaker 3: the Hollywood Hills or Laurel Canyon, like the hippie housewives.
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: It'd have to be like the fucking filthy hippie housewives.
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: No, but what's fun is they like different people. But look,
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: I have to tell you, there was a, A crazy
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: story that happened in the Real Housewife world.
- 1:09:26Speaker 3: Who's that? She's hot.
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: That's Dina Manzo. And she was an original Real Housewife
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: of New Jersey.
- 1:09:32Speaker 3: She's gorgeous.
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: She is gorgeous. Well, let me tell you her story.
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: Is she a bitch?
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: No, she's the nicest. You love her?
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: You love her? I love her.
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: I met her. Spit on the show. Oh, wait.
- 1:09:40Speaker 3: So he's going to prison.
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: No, this is what happened. So she, okay, this is
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: a crazy story. Before they, the cameras came, came. She
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: is one of 10. She also has a sister named
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: Caroline Manzo.
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: She has 10 sisters that look like that?
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: No, there's boys and girls in their family.
- 1:09:58Speaker 3: There's 10 of those?
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: She's fucking hot.
- 1:10:01Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: She's like, I think one of the younger ones. Her
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: older sister is Caroline. Okay.
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: Caroline marries this guy named Albie or Albert Manzo. No,
- 1:10:14Speaker 1: Albert Manzo. Her older sister marries Albert. She gets married
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: and gets divorced, has a kid. And then ends up
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: falling in love with his younger brother. So now the
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: sisters are both married to Manzos. Okay. And that marriage
- 1:10:31Speaker 1: didn't go well for Dina and the Manzo brother. And
- 1:10:35Speaker 1: they end up getting divorced. And she ends up dating
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: somebody else. And then that guy gets attacked in a
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: parking lot. Like a crowbar or whatever. Brutally attacked. And
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: then the guy... And then this guy suddenly gets a
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: free wedding at the place that the Manzos run. And
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: they found out that the Manzo ex-husband gave somebody in
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: one of those families a free wedding because that guy
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: went and attacked her new man.
- 1:11:10Speaker 3: So that was his pay. Yes. He was a contractor.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: And so they were able to prove– that he was
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: the one, even though he didn't do it, that he
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: ordered that attack. And now he got seven years.
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: Are these guys mafia?
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: According to the older sister, Caroline, no. They've just run
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: the brownstone in New Jersey for years. However, Caroline also
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: wrote a letter, a character letter for this man.
- 1:11:37Speaker 3: Who's this one? She's Caroline or Dina?
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: Dina. So Dina, her older sister, Caroline. wrote a character
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: letter for her, in fact, brother-in-law, but also like it's
- 1:11:48Speaker 1: double brother-in-law, right? Because they were both married to the brothers.
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: And so that was like, really? For a guy that like,
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: you know, attacked my husband? Then there was a whole
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: nother story that happened where they both were attacked by
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: someone in their home. She was attacked too, Dina. But
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: that is not, I don't know if they can't figure
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: out if he was responsible for that. That was a
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: whole nother thing. But this one, they were able to
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: prove that her Ex-husband Manzo was responsible, and now ex-husband
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: Manzo is going to prison for seven years.
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: The sister's ex.
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: Yes.
- 1:12:22Speaker 3: This is her man.
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: This is her man that she's smiling with. That guy
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: over there is her ex. That's the brother. The ex
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: ordered the hit or beat up, not murder.
- 1:12:34Speaker 3: He's wearing a pinstripe suit.
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: That's a mafioso thing? Forget about it. Okay. But the
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: thing that made it so juicy was the sister thing.
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: And that's why Real Housewives of New Jersey, when it began,
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: was such a big deal. And I think it was
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: either Sopranos was still on or it was right after
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: the Sopranos.
- 1:12:53Speaker 3: Oh, I love it.
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: And the fact that there was real family involved, sisters
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: and stuff, and then that this really happened. Like, and, yeah,
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: and then, yeah, there's the Manzo grandfather, okay, the dad
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: of these two guys. He was found dead. In someone's trunk.
- 1:13:11Speaker 3: Oh, come on. These guys are fucking mafia.
- 1:13:14Speaker 1: I'm not saying it. I'm just telling you the story.
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: Don't come after me, Manzos. Who's the show?
- 1:13:20Speaker 3: Whose show is it? Who's the guy? Who's the guy
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: who owns all the TV shows?
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: Murdoch?
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: No, the guy who owns the... The freaking– Andy Cohen?
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: That guy. He's got to know.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: I don't think– I think it's pretty obvious that there's,
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: you know, something happening here. But– And then.
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: I'm like– Just ask the expert.
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: But I'm like– but then also why would you– this
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: is what always craves me because there's a lot of
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: criminals on Real Housewives shows. Didn't the other one go?
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: The– Gwedeese? Gwedeese?
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: Teresa Giudice. She did prison for a year.
- 1:13:55Speaker 3: How does she pronounce her name?
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: I say Giudice, but then they say Gudici. There's two
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: ways to say it. We're all fucking this up, left
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: and right. And so, yeah, she did. Guido. Teresa Guido.
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: Her husband did four years and she went.
- 1:14:11Speaker 3: What did he do, that guy?
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: No, she did a year, then he did four years.
- 1:14:14Speaker 3: I only know who they are because she looks like
- 1:14:15Speaker 3: my neighbor.
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: He did like mortgage fraud and stuff like that. I
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: feel like that had they not been on TV.
- 1:14:22Speaker 3: Like the sanitation department.
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: No, it really wasn't that big of a crime. I
- 1:14:27Speaker 1: think there was more behind it.
- 1:14:30Speaker 3: When Italians are involved, it's just a big crime anyways.
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: Yeah. And so then she was part of it because
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: she signed the thing. So she had to do a year.
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: Then he did four years. She was in prison for
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: a year? Yeah. Then he got deported.
- 1:14:43Speaker 3: She was in jail for a year?
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: She had to do jail for one year.
- 1:14:47Speaker 3: How did that work out? Did she have a show
- 1:14:49Speaker 3: after that?
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: She made all these friends. She did yoga. Really? She
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: wrote a book. And then when she got out, she
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: got married to this other guy. No.
- 1:14:57Speaker 3: Yeah. So she actually was in jail for a year.
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: They didn't abuse her.
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: It's called camp. It is? That's what they would refer
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: to it.
- 1:15:05Speaker 4: Really?
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: When I went away. That's a mafia thing, I guess. Oh.
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: When she went away, they don't want to say jail, prison.
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: They let her cut her garlic real thin. And then
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: they like say camp. They call it camp.
- 1:15:16Speaker 3: She got to cook in her cell and she cut
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: her garlic real thin.
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: I think it was kind of real, kind of like
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: a camp thing. I think they had like the bunk
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: beds and stuff. I don't know. And then she just
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: like worked out and there's a photo of her with
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: all the other girls. They like loved her. Did she
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: have cornrows? Yeah, she let the hair go curly and
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: like she did the things like that. I think that
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: she came out and they held the show for her.
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: They knew that like And then the famous scene, they
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: film it. She comes home at 5 a.m.
- 1:15:43Speaker 3: So she was still on the show when this happened.
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: They just basically didn't film for a year. They waited
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: for her. Really? Yeah. And then when she comes back,
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: he's like, how you doing? That's why they're divorced. But
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: when the girls come and hug her, I still get
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: chills from it because she's She is a very dedicated
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: mother to her daughter.
- 1:16:09Speaker 3: I think I might have seen a clip of that.
- 1:16:11Speaker 3: That was a while ago. I don't watch the show,
- 1:16:14Speaker 3: but I remember that because I remember her.
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: Face because she was so Italian. Yeah. And now these
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: other shows, there's criminals in every single franchise now.
- 1:16:27Speaker 3: Well, there's criminals all over the motherfucking planet right now.
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: It's always shocking that someone is so arrogant and so...
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: so narcissistic that they think they can go on TV
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: while they're doing a completely shady thing and think that
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: they're going to go away with it. I mean, it's
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: a huge target on your back when you're on TV.
- 1:16:50Speaker 1: I always imagine with Teresa Giudice and her husband, I'm like,
- 1:16:54Speaker 1: was the DA just like getting in bed and his
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: wife was watching something? And he was like, let me
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: go check out these people. Like, where did it like,
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: She still doesn't know how they were targeted, but we'll
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: never know. She used to blame her cast members. She
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: used to blame one of the other girls. She used
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: to blame other people saying, you put the target on
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: our back. And it made it all so juicy. Juicy.
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: That's where we're at. Okay, getting back to you and
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: then I'll let you go. Okay, so now you have
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: your OnlyFans. You also have your clothing company. Which is
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: pretty edgy, fun stuff.
- 1:17:34Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:17:35Speaker 1: And you have the jewelry line. So tell us about those. Yeah.
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: Are you wearing some of it?
- 1:17:41Speaker 3: I am. I have a big gun hanging around my
- 1:17:45Speaker 3: neck right now. Don't get scared. Don't clutch your pearls.
- 1:17:49Speaker 3: Just clutch your guns. We're living in dangerous times.
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: I think that's very cool looking. And I think a
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: lot of people will love it.
- 1:17:57Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:17:58Speaker 1: What does that retail for?
- 1:18:00Speaker 3: These are gold plated. They're heavy. You know, it's a
- 1:18:03Speaker 3: big thing. I've been wearing it all summer before we
- 1:18:05Speaker 3: launched it to make sure it didn't do weird shit.
- 1:18:07Speaker 3: Because a lot of jewelry does weird shit.
- 1:18:09Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:18:10Speaker 3: And this is perfect. Like not one. It's still as.
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: Gold as gold can be.
- 1:18:16Speaker 3: It's really, really well done. This is like $ 150. 20 maybe.
- 1:18:22Speaker 3: And then we have nameplates because Adriana and her nameplates
- 1:18:24Speaker 3: were very important. That's the tombstone collection. Know who you
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: are kind of thing. And then, I mean, you have
- 1:18:32Speaker 3: a little one on. What makes ours a little different
- 1:18:34Speaker 3: is you can put a charm in here.
- 1:18:36Speaker 1: Okay. Around the necklace?
- 1:18:39Speaker 3: Yeah. You can put it. And it's sort of, you know,
- 1:18:41Speaker 3: it connects to it. It's not hanging. It's in there.
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: That's unique.
- 1:18:44Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: It's cute.
- 1:18:45Speaker 3: You can see them on the website. But in that
- 1:18:47Speaker 3: part of the protection collection, these are the protection collection.
- 1:18:51Speaker 3: We have them hanging. We have them that go across.
- 1:18:54Speaker 3: And you can put your name on it. Or it
- 1:18:56Speaker 3: can say Ultra Free, like the name of our company,
- 1:18:59Speaker 3: because you want to be ultra free. Because who doesn't
- 1:19:01Speaker 3: want to be ultra free? Yeah. For some reason, ultra
- 1:19:04Speaker 3: free is the word that gets me banned sometimes. every
- 1:19:07Speaker 3: day on Instagram these days because you can't talk about
- 1:19:10Speaker 3: wanting to be that. That's a four-letter word. But yeah,
- 1:19:17Speaker 3: some people get a little freaked out by the guns.
- 1:19:21Speaker 3: But when I was on The Sopranos, everyone wanted my jewelry.
- 1:19:25Speaker 3: And I wore a revolver because my ex's name is Shooter.
- 1:19:28Speaker 3: I wore bullets hanging from my ears, which we're going
- 1:19:31Speaker 3: to be doing also because I always hang my Italian
- 1:19:34Speaker 3: horn from my hoop. So we're doing that later. But
- 1:19:37Speaker 3: right now we have the guns and the name plates.
- 1:19:40Speaker 3: We'll do the pinky rings too. I see you looking
- 1:19:42Speaker 3: at my pinky ring. You know, because you got to
- 1:19:44Speaker 3: have the initial pinky.
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: And what did you think about when all of a
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: sudden the mob wife aesthetic became a trend like this
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: past year?
- 1:19:53Speaker 3: It was right as we were going out to launch
- 1:19:55Speaker 3: Ultra Free, which was really funny because I was like, geez,
- 1:19:59Speaker 3: I got to go and talk about this mob wife
- 1:20:00Speaker 3: aesthetic thing. What timing. This was my opinion on the
- 1:20:03Speaker 3: mob wife aesthetic. why would anybody be hyped up on
- 1:20:10Speaker 3: looking like a woman who gets cheat on, beat up
- 1:20:14Speaker 3: and walks around with two black eyes and you need
- 1:20:17Speaker 3: makeup now, like the mob wife aesthetic, everyone's doing makeup tutorials.
- 1:20:20Speaker 3: I'm like, make sure you have your black eye on
- 1:20:22Speaker 3: before you start doing your tutorial. I was like, let's
- 1:20:26Speaker 3: change the name of this to gangster goddess. Come on guys.
- 1:20:28Speaker 1: Yeah. But I think there's what I always loved about
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: it is that, you know, Even though they're murderers and
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: awful people, there was always like a passion and the gifts.
- 1:20:41Speaker 1: Like it's the same reason why people love Pretty Woman.
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: It's like– but he took her shopping. Like I don't know.
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: There's something about that that's like we know it's wrong.
- 1:20:53Speaker 1: We know these women aren't being treated right. But then
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: there's this other part. of women that love to be
- 1:20:58Speaker 1: catered to, taken care of, given a box at dinner
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: of jewelry, and that's a fantasy too. So it's a fantasy.
- 1:21:05Speaker 3: Of course. I go both ways when it comes to that.
- 1:21:07Speaker 3: Hold the door open. I like being a chick. But
- 1:21:10Speaker 3: I also am like half a dude in my own way.
- 1:21:13Speaker 3: But the mob wife aesthetic, I think that the only
- 1:21:17Speaker 3: show that ever showed strong women in that world was
- 1:21:20Speaker 3: The Sopranos. All the other chicks in that world were
- 1:21:23Speaker 3: never really strong in the other films. Sopranos, those women
- 1:21:26Speaker 3: were ruling. I mean, look at the mom. I mean,
- 1:21:30Speaker 3: she was in control of the whole fucking operation there
- 1:21:32Speaker 3: for a while because she ran his emotions.
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: Yeah. That was so juicy. It's so great. Well, tell
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: everybody where they can find your stuff.
- 1:21:40Speaker 3: At ultrafree.co. And if you dare to look me up
- 1:21:45Speaker 3: on Instagram and you have to put my whole entire
- 1:21:49Speaker 3: name into your And to your feed.
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: Drea D. Mateo, two Ts.
- 1:21:54Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: And then also there's the link there for the clothing
- 1:21:58Speaker 1: and the products and stuff, which I think you'll really like.
- 1:22:00Speaker 3: Yeah, Ultra Free with two As.
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: I can talk to you for hours, so we'll have
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: to have you come back. And I liked explaining Housewives
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: to you and getting your opinion.
- 1:22:08Speaker 3: I would love it. I want to watch it with
- 1:22:10Speaker 3: you right here. We could do like a watching party.
- 1:22:12Speaker 1: We should do a watch thing. I would love it.
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: Oh my God, the original episodes. I don't know it.
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: The old stuff is the best. That's the best.
- 1:22:18Speaker 3: I only want to watch Italian stuff.
- 1:22:20Speaker 1: Thank you.
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