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The BIG LIFE S5E3 | What Nobody Tells You About Being a College Athlete · The BIG LIFE

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Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of the Big Life Podcast.
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We officially have another week of college soccer down in the books,
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but this week is definitely going to be a little different since now school is starting.
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Yeah, soccer was definitely already a lot for the both of us and then we actually
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have to be students again. And I actually just moved into a dorm,
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which is a new background right now. So there's a lot going on.
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New room, new people, new routine, class of starting, soccer,
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you know, everything is just starting to feel a little bit more real.
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So today we're going to catch you guys up on our games and talk about kind of
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what this week has felt like, how we feel about school starting,
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some games we're watching on college soccer, and then give you guys an actual
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check-in on like where we're at.
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You want to start with soccer, how was your week and games and everything,
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how you felt, everything.
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Go on. The whole last week I was away in St. Louis and then Memphis,
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but We stayed out in St. Louis like I think it was four days and then Memphis
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for two and we beat St. Louis two to one.
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It was a really good game. And then we beat Memphis as well, two to one.
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And so that's really good, you know, obviously being two away games,
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like in the beginning, it's hard and you're gone and you're sleeping like in
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a different bed, like in a hotel room and different food, whatever, draining.
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But both games are pretty good. And I mean, I played a half of each of the games.
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And in the first game, I got an assist on a corner.
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It was pretty good. it was like the first two we were still I was so hyped I
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was like oh my god I've been working on this,
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and mind you it was like so the corner was on the left side my teammate passed
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me the ball and I dribbled and then hit a cross which is funny because like last week
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we did like a crossing practice and I genuinely like I couldn't cross if my
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teammates are getting mad at me they're like someone switch her out I did the same thing I tried
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they put me on corners like somebody I literally walked off the field and I
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was screaming because I wasn't hitting the field.
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It hit, like, the wall behind her goal. Anyways, go on. That just was, like, reminded me.
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I was like. No, but it was just the crosses. Like, I do corners on the right
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side most of the time because it's, like, left foot in swinger,
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and I'm really good at those.
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Like, I'm very solid, but I just can't hit a cross from the other side that
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is the same as my corners.
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Mine was on the left, so it would be an outswinger for a righty.
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And I just could not. It was either too low. It wasn't hitting the back.
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Like, it's just not my special seat. But, like, I'm going to pull the clip because
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it was so funny. I was pissed. I literally walked off the field.
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I was like, oh, hell no. Sub me out. Like, I could not do it.
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Oh, we played Duke number three. And then we played Pepperdine.
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Didn't go so hot the first half. But then we were losing three down in the first half.
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And honestly, we deserved it. Like, they came out on our ass and really just
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dug the knife in, I guess.
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It was bad. But, like, great way for us to get slapped in the face.
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Like, we came off an exhibition game against San Diego State.
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So, it was just a good, like, wake-up call for us. But the second half definitely
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improved. I played, like, 60-something minutes. Genuinely.
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Genuinely played, like, 65 minutes, maybe. So, I felt good about both games.
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But a good team. Like, defense was really hard.
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And I already lose a lot of energy when I'm thinking about the defense.
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So, yeah. But we did really well the second half.
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It looked a lot better than the first half. So proud of that.
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And then we traveled up to Malibu,
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to play Pepperdine Beautiful feel literally you could see there the ocean like
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off the field and surprisingly my teammate Charlotte her dad coaches there It
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was kind of like such a cute game because like her family was there and then
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she was like playing against her dad Which is pretty dang cool,
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but we did tie that game better We're moving in the right direction,
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but definitely things we still have to improve on.
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It's just like chemistry We need to get get better at but I'm gonna jump back
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on the soccer thing for one second the Memphis game was like,
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That one was pretty crazy. One of my friends sent a video and they were playing like our win.
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That goes to Auburn. So an Alabama thing was playing on the screen at Auburn, which is funny.
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But basically in the last seven seconds, we scored on a free kick to beat Memphis.
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And we basically, we broke their 41 game winning streak at home.
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And they have only lost three games at home since 2019. Dang,
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that's low-key insane. Wow.
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I'm proud of you guys. but going to school I start tomorrow well Wednesday it'll
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be different on the on the podcast because our podcast comes out on Thursdays
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so I'm starting on Wednesday and I mean for me,
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school here is not as demanding if that makes sense because I have like two
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online classes and three in person so one of my classes is Monday Wednesday
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Friday and it's at 11 so I can wake up whenever I want.
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My classes on Tuesday and Thursday are like 9.30 and then I have another at like 10.
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When's your practice block? Are you guys in the night?
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3.30. Tomorrow our practice is going to be 98 degrees. Feels like 101 plus humidity. I'm sorry.
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That's why you choose SoCal. Remember that girls when you pick your school.
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Yo, no shade. No shade. I like the humidity. It's nice in the mornings.
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Okay. It feels like you have a nice hug.
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When you walk out your door. Who is complaining about 98 degrees?
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Not me. I'm complaining about 82. Anyways, what's your major? Like, what are you?
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I'm double majoring in sport management and psychology. Okay, period. Period.
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That's nice, bro. I'm in legal studies. You would never guess.
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Every time I literally tell someone like someone that I meet for new or like
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new and they barely heard me talk for 10 seconds, they're like.
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I'm like, what's my, what do you think my major is? And they're like communications,
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bro. I actually was going to say that.
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Right. Everyone guesses it. I'm like, bro, no, I probably, but like,
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I don't even know how I got into it.
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Like I just, every, but low key, everything in my classes is very interesting.
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I can't even lie. Like I took a criminal law class and it was pretty fire,
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but very stressful because there's so much reading.
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And I, I would have said, I hate reading like a month ago, but I honestly have finished two books.
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I'm on my reading grind. So like I'm kind of excited for school to start,
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but we start on Monday next week. So yeah. What do you think is going to be
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like the hardest part when you actually start school and like balancing out
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your soccer schedule and then school as well?
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I think it's just time management. Like you probably know.
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I think last year I was gone for a world cup, like pretty much the whole entire year.
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So, and I also was gone previously for the Olders World Cup the other year.
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So I have kind of gone through school, like in and out, in and out,
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and through online. So I think now that being here, I know I'm going to be here,
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the whole entire year. I think it'll be a little easier than it was for me last year, just because...
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I can actually go to class physically, like look at a professor instead of just
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looking at online and opening tabs and finishing assignments and stuff.
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So honestly, I think it's just like the time management. And I've been pretty
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good at that because I was homeschooled. So like doing your stuff on your own
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was always pretty easy for me. Yeah, I think just getting back into the routine
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is going to be pretty nice. But what about you?
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Well, for me, like I have ADHD, so I'm very like spastic and it's always jumbled
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but I use Notion and I every single semester I've had this assignment tracker
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and so for every single class I put all the assignments all the exams
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and it basically has like each of their due dates
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and so I kind of just like make sure every single week like I can see when everything's
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due and I'm completing everything like two days before it's due most of the
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time and if I'm not it's like I'm intentionally pushing that one back because I'm like, okay,
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I'm going to do all these other ones so I can save this one for last because
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I just don't want to do it.
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But it's not like I'm like, oh, I don't, I can't do it. Like,
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I need to push it, you know? It's like I'm intentionally putting it at the end.
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I had, when I first got here, they gave me a learning specialist and they,
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like, make a calendar for you.
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USC's, like, really good at academic health. Like, I never feel like I'm going
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to fail unless I genuinely am not, like, putting in the work, which...
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Was an issue in high school but now it's like I got to get it done if I want
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to play so do you think like school will help with soccer because I know like
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some people like to disconnect from it they like to think about something else
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hang out with different people like do you think it'll help you or do you think it'll be like a,
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kind of like a distraction I mean I think it's like I kind of keep them very
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separate does that make sense like if I'm doing soccer I'm doing soccer doing
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school I'm doing school I'm doing some of my friends I'm doing some of my friends
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And so it's not like I'm trying not to think about,
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like, put too much pressure on myself.
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And if I'm doing my homework, I'm not going to be like, oh, I need to do really
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good on my game, you know.
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Because I need to focus on doing my homework. I mean, I think I am good at separating
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it so it won't be a distraction.
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That's good. That's good. Are you excited for these sacrifices you're going to have to make?
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You want to better explain that, like sleep and your social life.
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Ooh, like in the school-wise or just because I'm busy?
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In general like because now we just do training and then go to bed.
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Like go to train we literally train lift and then go eat whenever you want with
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your friends like at the dining hall but now it's gonna be like okay gotta shower
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gotta go to class go to class train gotta go to class again so like now it's like,
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you don't get to stay time on your phone you don't get to wake up you get to
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wake up whenever you want but I still have like 8 a.m 9 a.m before training
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because our practice block is from one to five.
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Nice. I mean, usually when I have lift, it's like two to five,
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you know, it's like kind of similar, but I mean, what am I going to sacrifice? Probably social life.
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I like my sleep. I like taking naps. Like today after practice,
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I was so slumped. Our practice was two and a half hours. So.
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And it was hot. How hot was it? Let me look. Go look, go look, go look.
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I don't really have to worry about that. I was at the beach today.
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It was pretty nice. Whatever. We practiced at 930.
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It was 85 when we stepped on the field. It was 92 when we stepped off. I'm sorry.
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Well, hey, you know what? I talked to my friend Evan when the Florida State
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day won last year. She plays right now. And she was like, honestly,
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I don't really know how we won. We just train in the peak heat all the time.
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And, like, that got them. so I was like honestly it's kind of a perk but it'd
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be a big adjustment for me for both of us you you went through it but I honestly
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don't know if I would get through that,
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honestly like heat like when we played Memphis it was 95 degrees when we stepped
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on the 94 when we stepped on the field
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but I didn't think about the heat at all when I was playing because I'm so used
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to playing in it and I'm pretty fit so I was just it cooled down though because
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the sunset but it's still like 85 so it's still warm and also you're sweating
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so it kind of just might bring you a little bit more,
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i talked about my new house earlier this is my new apartment but it honestly
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made college feel real because i actually had to pay rent for the first time there,
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we go god i'm actually an adult now turn 18 and all of a sudden i have to freaking
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day rent and stuff and like i was figuring out like all kinds of utilities and
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stuff and i'm like bro i don't want to do those numbers and now i live across the hall front or across,
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i don't live across the hall anymore from allie murphy which is our one of our
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really good friends both of us.
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Did moving into the dorm like make you excited or were you like oh like i actually
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like you know like live here now like this is different you know honestly did you do dorm life,
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Yeah. For a half a semester or semester? No, for a semester and a half,
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actually. Semester and a half. Okay, okay, okay.
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Well, you know that it's like kind of limiting. At least ours,
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we have key cards to get in everywhere. Like to the building,
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you have to get into the building with the key card. Then you have to scan in
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with the front person to the key.
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Before you even touch the elevator, then you touch the elevator,
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scan in with the key card.
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And you have to go upstairs, whatever, walk, touch the key card.
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So low-key was just like very limiting. And now here, I just, two keys and I'm in.
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And it's a lot better. But like, honestly, I feel a lot better.
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I feel like good being in a new space. I also don't have a roommate anymore.
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So that didn't go very well for me just because of,
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just different you know when you when you grow up you grow up a little differently
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so I grew up a different way she grew up a different way it just didn't mix
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as much still we're still friends but like it didn't work as well so I'm actually
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really excited to be in my own like space and have,
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just everything kind of wow what's something you're like excited about like
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now that you're living alone like I don't know I guess just enjoying more alone
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time like I think that when I was homeschooled or like when I wasn't with people
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I was always by myself and then coming to college it was like,
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you know you're always with your teammates all the time so it's like I want
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a space to be away and even if I would go to my dorm like I would still have
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three roommates I don't know I'm just excited to like.
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Be back to enjoying my own time and like being comfortable just being in silence
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and like being alone I am so glad I did not have to share a room with somebody
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because my dorm that I'm in like our dorms are actually
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really really nice they're super big And we had like suite style dorms.
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So the first one I was in, it was like you walk in, kitchen,
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living room, and then there's four rooms and there's two on each side and two
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bathrooms. And like, it's your own room.
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And then same with the one I was in the all of last year.
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It was a three person. So you walk in, living room, there was a washer,
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dryer, stove, oven, fridge, microwave, you know, three rooms, two bathrooms.
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Pretty dang nice. So, like, I had the luxury of, like, my own space and own
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time. And, like, I'm sure it's just, like, super hard to not be able to have
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that alone time when you really need it.
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Yes, yes. Sometimes, especially because, like, you know, when you go through
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your freshman fall, it's not...
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As picture perfect as you want it to go. And I think mine honestly hit me a
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little harder than I'd expected it to go. You know, when you're with your roommates,
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like this player could be playing 90 minutes, this player could be playing zero.
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In my room, one was injured, one was playing zero, one was playing 90, I was playing 45.
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So it's like kind of hard because you can't talk about things because you guys
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didn't experience the same things. One's going through a mental battle with herself.
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One's going questioning if she's good enough to play because the coach doesn't
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want to put her on the field so it's kind of
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it's kind of hard to be especially like you're all just getting there a new
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environment new everything so it's kind of hard to be in that room and like
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you said when you need your own time like it's kind of hard to separate that's
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your space like your space is shared so
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yeah it's honestly kind of same like in my house like last year I mean obviously
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we have our own spaces but we all are obviously in a house together so we do
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see each other every day and like
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I was playing a lot in the beginning and then one of my roommates wasn't playing
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at all in the beginning and then it like flipped like she was playing more at
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the back end and I was playing this in the back end and then my other roommate
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like redshirted her first year because she came in like a full year early
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and like so she wasn't playing at all it was just kind of like hard and we all
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had our struggles but like thankfully like
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we could all talk about it together because we could obviously be in our own
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space and think about it first and then then come out and be like hey like whatever,
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but yeah I think that's like I mean it's good it's good for us to kind of be
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with your teammates and like.
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Be able to get it all out but same time like I do think being alone and thinking and,
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not hashing out on your teammates I know for me I'm one of those people that's
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like if you talk to me when I'm mad
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something wrong is gonna come out so don't talk to me so like that's I think
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that's even nicer now because like we're gonna go through different struggles
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being sophomores and stuff so speaking on that like how's everything feeling
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out of 10, like your body out of 10, your body,
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physically out of 10, mentally, like confidence, like how is all of that?
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My body, honestly, is feeling like, I mean,
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our past couple trainings, I don't know why, but we decided that we were going
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to do like two hour, two and a half hour trainings the past two days,
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which doesn't make sense because we didn't really do that at all last year.
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So I'm kind of confused what's going on.
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So I've just been so drained the past couple of days and everyone I was like, you can tell.
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And so my body right now is probably like, like a seven coming off of the games
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it was honestly like I feel I feel pretty fresh like I don't have any knocks or injuries so,
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which thankfully for that and then mentally like for soccer like I mean like
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even though I only played a half of each game I know I'm playing well and I
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can't control if my coach puts me in or not and he had a conversation with me of,
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like that I am doing well and he's just like seeing how other people are playing
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in that position I'm like okay that's fine I'm okay with that because I can't
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control what you're doing but I can control this when I go on the field I'm
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doing what I can and I have been
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and obviously there's things I can improve to but I think like mentally like
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I'm in a good I'm in a good place like probably like a nine,
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that's good that's so good I think for me at least like mentally this this past
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game I was in my head insane like we went over a game plan and then.
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On the field it kind of switched so like mid game I was, my head was spinning.
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So this past practice yesterday, like on our reserves was, I was just so frustrated.
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I didn't do anything. I was with the recovery group because I played like a
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certain amount of minutes, but I was like in my head the entire time.
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And it's supposed to be like just rolling out, just relaxing.
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So I think like mentally at first, like I was probably like eight.
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Going to reserves yesterday, probably, like, three dropped insanely.
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And then I had a conversation with my coach about what it was and,
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you know, like, how I felt yesterday.
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Because, honestly, at the game, I felt useless. Like, I felt I wasn't being used productively.
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And, like, I literally told them, I was like, when I'm not here,
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I feel like as an average player, I'd probably just be – I'd probably be worse
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than an average player if I'm not excelling to my best.
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But, like, I talked to my coach about it. We went through it.
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And they do a good job of, like, trying to mediate my emotions.
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Because I let those get the best of me sometimes. So mentally now I'm like at an eight.
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So we're back to where I was, but it literally was like,
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what did I say? It was like 8-3-8. So I'm back kind of where I was.
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And then we have training tomorrow. So it's good to have an off day.
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But body-wise, probably like 8. I'm not really feeling much.
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What about like confidence? Is that going well for you?
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Yeah, I would say my soccer confidence is pretty high. And like,
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I know exactly like what I need to work on in my own vision.
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And like, then I feel like obviously not like 100% playing like myself because
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in the way that my team plays, like,
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we are an sec team and sec teams tend to be more direct and honestly we have
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gotten a lot better at keeping the ball but i'm we're not at a point where.
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We're looking to find the six first we're looking to play through the midfield
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first it's like we're making still passes but it's on the outside and i'm like
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hey like i'm right here like i'm wide open find me please,
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but it's not like they can't play me they're just they don't see it yet and
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so it'll still take time for like and I can't control that part like it just
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comes with time and like I feel like when I've gotten on the ball like I've
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made good decisions and like my defense is,
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one of my strong things and I'm always like but I go and block shots like I'm
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going up and winning my headers and things like that for me I have this thing
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like I write down on my arm where
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I have been every game and I've been writing down like play big be you
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because like that's all I can be because I'm not the biggest like you're not the biggest and so like
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you have to play a certain way and especially since I'm on an SEC once we get into SEC play.
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Like, they're all super big girls, so I have to play a certain way.
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But as long as I play big and be myself, like, I do good.
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Yeah, dude, I respect that. That's, that's pretty far. I think,
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like, when you, when you're saying you write quotes and stuff,
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like, I have been telling my team, some of my teammates play free,
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because I feel like sometimes they, like you're saying, like,
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they don't look in the middle.
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And it's like, for me, it's like, guys, don't worry about anything that happens
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on the outside. It's like, play you. Like, I was just saying,
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like, whatever you see, play it, because I don't want you to,
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like, be overthinking. And I think that gets into a lot of girls' heads.
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It's gone into my head before. Like, last year, I think I was,
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not being myself because I was doing exactly what the coaches wanted.
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I was like, guys, you are on the field.
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The 11 that are on the field are those that matter. The ones on the bench are
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supporting those that matter at that time.
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We obviously need the girls that are on the bench, and they're there,
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and they're game changers and stuff.
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But I just always try and tell them, you guys got to play, feel the ball, want the ball.
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You should want the ball. So I do respect that from you. BU play big.
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That's pretty fire, bro.
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Enough about us. Do you want to talk about some good games coming up?
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Yes i would say like let's see what games my date on thursday versus tcu um.
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Actually wait should we talk about rankings first yeah hold up i have i just
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posted on my story because we're in the top 25 what are you guys at 18,
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yeah we went from so we were unranked but we were on the rp
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like ncda rpi i don't know how to explain it how do you explain what rpi is
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it's like all the points of like like your win loss whatever and like who you
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play it like moves your rpi certainly yeah yeah it uses like
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actual knowledge nice numbers yeah but this one's like the united soccer coaches
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top 25 and then also on top drawer soccer top 25 we are also 18 nice
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that's moving up the ranks yeah so,
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we played memphis who was 21 and we beat them so and i think because like because
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like we beat their 41 game winning
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streak or whatever at home like i think that's what it moved us up so far,
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but we're playing tcu that's ranked 15th now so that should be a really good
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game and then arkansas north carolina should be good north carolina has been
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doing actually like pretty good but they're playing arkansas who,
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like usually is pretty good but they dropped off the rank like they're off the
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top didn't they just lose to someone yeah they lost to baylor four to one and
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then they tied loyola maryland one-to-one,
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but yeah and then also like vanderbilt versus memphis which on the 21st yeah
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um let's see is vandy on the ranking yeah.
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They are they're fourth and then memphis is is obviously 21st and vandy's like
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a really good i don't know how i didn't watch their game last week but i mean
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they just they were really good last year and then memphis honestly when we
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play them, they're a good team as well, but
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we'll see if Memphis can,
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pop back from losing to yours truly.
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There's also Florida, Florida State coming up, which Florida State is always good.
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Yeah, Florida had, didn't they have a coaching change?
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Oh, they took Mississippi State's coaching staff. They took,
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like, eight of Mississippi State's players as well.
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Oh, I didn't know that. Actually, I feel like I did know that. Crazy.
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I think they should be good this year, honestly. Let's get a score prediction
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for Arkansas and North Carolina.
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North Carolina, the talent they have, they should blow out teams.
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They have so much talent on that roster. I'm like, oh, my, wow.
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I'm going to go, like, 4-1.
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North Carolina. I was going to say 4-1, too, honestly. Okay,
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copy. Okay, so. Okay, that's what I was thinking, though.
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Okay, so it's fun. Alabama, TCU, I hope you guys win.
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Never watched you guys play, though, so I honestly don't. I've never watched
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TCU. Actually, yeah, I have. Oh, tune in.
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I think we're going to win again 2-1. Randy Memphis, I think.
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I don't know. I don't really know those teams. I think 1-1. I'm going to go
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1-1. Don't know who's winning. 1-0.
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Florida, Florida State. Florida State. Yeah.
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I know they're like number one. They always start kind of slow,
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though. At least that's what one of my teammates was saying.
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Like, they don't like go crazy right off the bat. They're saving it, bro. Chill.
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No, I think it'll be 2-0. Yeah. Okay, that's fair.
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I'll stick with that one, too. Okay, but we'll see. We'll come back to that the next episode.
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You want me to go into what nobody tells you about college sports?
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You know, get some little questionnaire going?
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Yes, I got you. One question I have here. What's been the biggest adjustment
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that has nothing to do with soccer?
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Just college. Probably just college in general. I go to Alabama, right?
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And the greek life here is.
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Insane but so bid day was the other day and that's like when there's like they
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have a rush you know that whole thing and everyone like tries to get in the
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sorority house if they want and then bid day you either get what you want or
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you get a different house or you don't get picked at all,
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and then obviously there's also like the frats too which that's different like
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their rushing is different i don't even want to know what goes i've.
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Heard Some things don't really want to know, but that's like been the biggest
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adjustment in coming to Alabama is like the difference between the athletes,
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the NARPs and the Greek life people.
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Okay. That's that. Hey, that's a great pool. That's a great pool.
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I honestly, I don't know.
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I never really go all ever, like ever. I've never done that even since I was
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like little. I'm just a little guy that sits at home all the time.
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So for me, with soccer, it's just people in general.
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I never went, I went to freshman year of high school and like,
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you're just a little baby. Like you don't talk to anyone. You don't,
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you're just a freshman. Like, you know, you're scared, whatever.
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When you're in like high school, you're going from middle school to high school.
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So that's honestly how it is for me. I don't really talk to anybody.
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Honestly, I've gotten better at it. but I that's that's probably the biggest thing it's just like,
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dealing with people dealing with professors I've never really had a teacher
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I've only had a couple teachers in my entire schooling life so it's kind of
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that's low-key probably the biggest difference but what's something you wish
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somebody told you before you got here or before you got to Bama,
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like people in college can switch up like that like in like one day like,
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it's like like your teammates can too like it's honestly and like I feel like
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at home you kind of find that out like it happens to at home but it's just like
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in college like everyone's trying to figure out who they are like what they
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want to do who they want to surround themselves with
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and like sometimes people are gonna be people,
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yeah I fully agree with like that people are trying to find themselves I think
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if you haven't kind of established some sort of.
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Identity or some sort of thing you a rule book for yourself then people can
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go off script really fast and i think like for me growing up my parents did
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so well with me like putting me on a path and so it wasn't that hard for me to kind of,
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stay on the path the path that i want like it's not even like they put me on
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that path and i have to stay with that path like the path that they created
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is the path that honestly will lead me to like where i want to go obviously
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which is like playing pro but i do agree with like people switching up just because of,
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environment new environment, new people, new everything.
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But what's something about college that is way better than you expected?
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Our dining hall food. Today, we had barbecue platter.
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Oh my goodness, I had this pulled pork sandwich, mac and cheese, and cornbread.
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Okay, last freaking question. Do you feel like a college student yet since now
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you're a sophomore in college? How do you feel? Do you feel like you're getting in the groove?
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Yeah, I've low-key felt like a college student before I even got to college
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like a college athlete if that makes sense because the stuff I would do at home
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before I even came to college is like the same stuff that I do now so I feel kind of like,
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like I already know how it works and honestly high school was harder because
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of the hours you had to be at high school and now you know like my Monday Wednesday
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Friday classes hopping off school you want to kind of talk about what we have coming up,
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and how excited you are for your next coming games,
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well who are we playing well obviously we're playing TCU and then we play we're
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going to play Nebraska, and I have zero clue how they play.
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We play them too, I think. Hey, we do. We do play them at Nebraska.
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We have a Western Nebraska-Iowa stretch in the span of like a week.
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That's going to be really long. And who else?
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Well, TCU on Thursday. Oh, and TCU. Okay. Don't worry. I'll give you some insights
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on how Nebraska plays. Okay. Hey.
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Hey, thanks. You're the freaking best. You're the freaking best.
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Hey, we have BYU at BYU. Okay.
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Going to be a tough game. Very tough environment. The environment,
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I think, is what makes the game 10 times harder. The altitude as well.
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But Mexico City is 10,000 feet.
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This is 5,000 feet. So if I was fine for the first five days,
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I feel like I'll be chilling. But I was still honestly gassed. Like you could tell.
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What's one thing you need to be better at this week? Generalist.
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Maybe being a little more focused at training.
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I'm a little troll, bro. Like I like to mess around. I like to have fun but
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I don't think messing around messes with my with me at all but it might mess
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around with the environment a little bit like,
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I know maybe some of my teammates need a little bit more focus on some certain
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things like when we're doing technical and I know that that's,
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a piece of cake for me like I can joke around and talk and tickle people and
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make noises like I it doesn't matter for me but like for other people I guess
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maybe just dialing in a little bit more so that their environment is uh smooth yeah what about you.
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Probably better communication with my parents i feel like i've been a little mean oh,
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that's a good one they love me and they're just trying to help me out they like
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give me feedback and you know sometimes you already know the feedback and you
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don't want to hear it but like i just need to like take in me like thanks for
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thanks for like you know watching my games thanks for whatever yada yada oh
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yeah and they literally just love you like that's we should we gotta come up with our goals,
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okay okay okay okay you go first i'm gonna get,
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one assist okay i'm gonna try and get one assist i'm going and then what i want
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to really work on though is,
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like checking my shoulders like doing it more so i know i'm in the right space
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and then i think trying to be more like demanding because if i want the ball
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like i have to find a way to get it and if that means yelling at someone or
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talking to them later and being like hey like i'm right here you need to find me please.
29:39
Hey, I like that. I would say for me, shots, getting shots, I'm going to shoot
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for three. I'm going to shoot for three.
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I'm in the situation where I'm currently playing 10 and six.
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If I'm playing the 10, we have to figure out a way to play the ball in between
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lines because that's where my strongest at is facing a back line and running at a back line.
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And Duke, I think, did props to them. Don't want to bring them up.
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But props to them, they found they were great at finding that line and running
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at our back line. That's a scary picture to look at, Especially like if you're
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the six, I know, you know, that feeling when someone's when you're tracking
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back and running after a 10.
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So I guess for me, if I'm playing the 10, it might be a little bit easier to
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get shots off. But if I'm playing the six, then I want to break lines as much as I can.
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If I'm it depends on what I'm playing, but I want to get three shots or I want to break.
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Five lines one whatever like five different times okay i like those i feel like
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that's all for this week and thank you guys all for listening to this week's big life episode,
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