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- 0:00Speaker 1: Oh God, that's all your weeping say full pardo virtue
- 0:17Speaker 1: set narrating.
- 0:30Speaker 2: That it didn't make it because they didn't have it
- 0:32Speaker 2: an hour. I was going to go get it at
- 0:35Speaker 2: talk still the talk of the Nile than what I was,
- 0:43Speaker 2: and to yell a nikon lam si nis one say
- 0:49Speaker 2: said to say set to say full and per bodspeaking
- 0:53Speaker 2: of virtue, and then ranted to look to the name.
- 1:07Speaker 3: La bar you that the one Benani made a pair
- 1:13Speaker 3: badana you my really named up.
- 1:16Speaker 2: You can me and brought you and my brother the
- 1:18Speaker 2: ban and it's back to bat made up of back,
- 1:21Speaker 2: made up of soldiers in my bland and sat back
- 1:26Speaker 2: on the first time.
- 1:33Speaker 4: To your name o sae sa family, we look through
- 1:39Speaker 4: the name.
- 1:41Speaker 5: The many that to my bla we.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Got I feel your weather and this farmer going to
- 1:46Speaker 1: a lady go ba several said, several said pull.
- 1:51Speaker 4: A pair for the bride a.
- 2:07Speaker 6: Fresh yeah in alla, come on and believe in term
- 2:20Speaker 6: of a community means being in june of that can.
- 2:23Speaker 7: See the thing that you said.
- 2:26Speaker 8: The single judge that to give me that they give
- 2:29Speaker 8: me any fun who conti quas with there's a jum
- 2:33Speaker 8: only just think you're not that love the apologe look
- 2:37Speaker 8: collage Schols that the poside.
- 2:41Speaker 7: You're gonna test that people your.
- 2:44Speaker 8: Sign work test no single depurning Lisa your DISI Sperio
- 2:50Speaker 8: to leave many.
- 2:53Speaker 7: Photo money.
- 2:53Speaker 8: Can you not come such single depending Lisa your dis
- 2:59Speaker 8: just experior the lead.
- 3:01Speaker 7: Up the past Monday, the attack of the press job
- 3:05Speaker 7: did you know your met Africa a maka.
- 3:06Speaker 9: Kumar in gena and you design they had the thank
- 3:10Speaker 9: you sobot back and Africa get John after short today
- 3:15Speaker 9: in chant of la vida some day one.
- 3:20Speaker 7: Quae did you begin you on? And then you.
- 3:24Speaker 2: Talk you yeah?
- 3:28Speaker 10: Good after Hope you guys are doing amazing. It's three
- 3:30Speaker 10: minutes past the top of the hour. Happy Tuesday, Hope
- 3:33Speaker 10: your morning, your evening is literally going amazing. Escould have
- 3:37Speaker 10: been for day if you just starting your day. And
- 3:39Speaker 10: of course, Cariboos not another episode of the Reaction time
- 3:42Speaker 10: every Tuesday and Thursday, right on the middle of the
- 3:44Speaker 10: twenty first century, the captain right here on Black of
- 3:48Speaker 10: Fire Network every Tuesday. My name is Jobby, and of
- 3:50Speaker 10: course you get cuminations money in the house as well, Carbone.
- 3:54Speaker 2: Amazing people, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome to the Reaction t let's
- 3:58Speaker 2: react to amazing videos.
- 4:00Speaker 7: Then the cablis you know, mister day week, when whoa happy.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Tomorrow?
- 4:12Speaker 4: You need to be talking about your ship.
- 4:14Speaker 7: I've been talking about it, by the way, I've been
- 4:18Speaker 7: talking about it the man, how can I will make it?
- 4:24Speaker 4: Make it happen?
- 4:25Speaker 3: And I've been talking about it, mister. But you know,
- 4:28Speaker 3: but yeah, thank you, thank you, old dying man. I'm
- 4:35Speaker 3: dead already.
- 4:36Speaker 7: This is this is.
- 4:38Speaker 4: I mean, I'm proud of your age, are you No?
- 4:44Speaker 7: No, no, I'm very proudly like what looks good?
- 4:49Speaker 4: Yeah, proud, very proud.
- 4:54Speaker 3: Come away the day after ye uh, come on and candy. Yeah,
- 5:06Speaker 3: but I'm doing great. I'm doing great. You guys are
- 5:10Speaker 3: looking great as well. Thank you.
- 5:13Speaker 7: Yeah you're looking great. Yeah you're feeling as great as
- 5:23Speaker 7: your look?
- 5:23Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, we are we are personally.
- 5:25Speaker 2: I am feeling amazing better yesterday.
- 5:29Speaker 10: Yeah I was just being in the house man, Yeah,
- 5:32Speaker 10: I was just missing when you wake up and you've
- 5:34Speaker 10: set your mind, like you know, towards something and then
- 5:37Speaker 10: something Yeah, because you know they time you're calling really
- 5:40Speaker 10: taking a shower because that was so like coz you
- 5:47Speaker 10: pera money if I can make up by on time
- 5:49Speaker 10: and literally by like like like started to them, I'll
- 5:58Speaker 10: be stepping career.
- 6:02Speaker 2: That's the reason as why those who work from home
- 6:05Speaker 2: like go to the restaurants or go somewhere. Yeah, because
- 6:09Speaker 2: like also full time home time, it's boring. Yeah, we've
- 6:13Speaker 2: we've wanted it very and I was just calculating it's
- 6:18Speaker 2: not a bad day. Yeah, but imagine a Friday, maybe Thursday, Thursday,
- 6:28Speaker 2: a Friday Friday job. Maybe Friday, Friday, Friday, That's what
- 6:39Speaker 2: I'm saying. Friday, yeah, and Friday and a Monday hanging
- 6:49Speaker 2: I younger Tuesday to Thursday. To be easy. I was
- 6:54Speaker 2: able to myself when I become my boss because yeah,
- 7:04Speaker 2: oh yeah, because it's not it's.
- 7:07Speaker 11: Not about it's not about it's not about being present.
- 7:11Speaker 2: That's why the.
- 7:15Speaker 11: Longer time you work, it's about the work you put in.
- 7:19Speaker 7: That's true.
- 7:19Speaker 2: Working mad.
- 7:21Speaker 10: Yeah, I was kind of bad, but today I feel
- 7:23Speaker 10: a little bit alive. Persons change, Yeah, man, I feel
- 7:37Speaker 10: like we actually changed.
- 7:41Speaker 4: The angle.
- 7:43Speaker 11: You also spent a lot of money.
- 7:46Speaker 7: I spent a lot of money either way.
- 7:49Speaker 10: Spent a lot of There's no difference for me, but
- 7:53Speaker 10: I feel like it's the same just spending up the same.
- 7:56Speaker 11: We'll spend Yeah, I spent a lot of money more
- 8:01Speaker 11: yeah yeah, because like.
- 8:04Speaker 4: Food, I buy food.
- 8:08Speaker 10: But for me, oh, your car carry food, so I
- 8:13Speaker 10: don't spend me. There is why I don't carry food.
- 8:15Speaker 10: It is because the food. Because for breakfast, I don't
- 8:20Speaker 10: know to your meant no break I'm not cooking. Breakfast
- 8:24Speaker 10: is food like I'll not I'll wake up cool gala markey,
- 8:27Speaker 10: I don't give a Yeah, and.
- 8:30Speaker 2: You don't take coffee, no, maybe with tea like I
- 8:32Speaker 2: don't tea. I don't take tea, so you take something
- 8:36Speaker 2: yeah yeah after eating Yeah during cooler.
- 8:41Speaker 4: Can literally okay, yeah, I think I.
- 8:47Speaker 2: I love not I love make loveleven. But but se
- 8:56Speaker 2: you cuckol, you just you know I can eat, I
- 9:02Speaker 2: can take like breakfast and thaddy eleven. And then now
- 9:05Speaker 2: I start feeling angry too. You know I need to
- 9:09Speaker 2: eat food like that. I think it tells me.
- 9:12Speaker 10: I think I realised the only time I'm not gonna
- 9:14Speaker 10: eat food in the morning, it's when my brother is around,
- 9:17Speaker 10: because not getting watching your food for lunch and I'm
- 9:19Speaker 10: coming to work now, so certainly beneficant sugnificant.
- 9:23Speaker 2: It's just cook enough that you'll carry for lunch.
- 9:26Speaker 10: Maybe you're not complain I've studied my I don't mind
- 9:30Speaker 10: going to die food.
- 9:31Speaker 3: And then it depends with me if as a boy,
- 9:34Speaker 3: I was on a liquid die at a large that's like.
- 9:39Speaker 7: You need and like straight food because like, who's trying.
- 9:45Speaker 10: To be careful of street food? Now you've seen the
- 9:48Speaker 10: video is the circulating online of street food?
- 9:50Speaker 3: Right? No? No?
- 9:53Speaker 10: Yeah, like I think needledge of frimos really exposed, but
- 9:56Speaker 10: there's now more of it that citizen has exposed to
- 10:00Speaker 10: and where they cook.
- 10:01Speaker 4: Oh my god, you.
- 10:12Speaker 11: Smoking by?
- 10:13Speaker 7: Now she's not tag with the cat may like you.
- 10:21Speaker 2: Corner and I was Barry squeeze.
- 10:23Speaker 4: I literally even I was, yeah.
- 10:28Speaker 7: She's me.
- 10:33Speaker 10: I remember the newstal Marry ten Bob, but can they
- 10:36Speaker 10: call smoky chip chap needs look many tumor? I remember
- 10:45Speaker 10: literally like and the ten no no, I remember that
- 10:53Speaker 10: you manigability.
- 10:58Speaker 7: My eye.
- 11:00Speaker 2: I hate that man a crisly By, I'm working.
- 11:08Speaker 12: Your ship and I wanted in the other time comer.
- 11:22Speaker 11: Because like you would like buy fries.
- 11:25Speaker 2: What what is it called? When Chris goes, they give
- 11:34Speaker 2: a really bad service, Like but maybe we're gonna get dog.
- 11:39Speaker 2: I'm not a key to sometimes like she's always complaining.
- 11:46Speaker 2: But when we go together, I and you're gonna.
- 11:55Speaker 13: Video my friends, Salad, I mean you get I think
- 12:02Speaker 13: if you find someone was an attitude, like, they'll really
- 12:06Speaker 13: give you bad service.
- 12:09Speaker 2: Important because even.
- 12:10Speaker 4: Poor and I'm going Panama like damn.
- 12:29Speaker 2: You you mean.
- 12:32Speaker 7: At the end, just.
- 12:36Speaker 2: As I think it's a personal problem that clients also have,
- 12:41Speaker 2: like like yeah, because different are different, different.
- 12:48Speaker 7: Different, but like but I feel like that's like it's
- 12:53Speaker 7: always that work like you.
- 12:58Speaker 10: And then you may notice on going, I'll get more
- 13:00Speaker 10: fries nowadays, and I get chip Chap for fries, the
- 13:03Speaker 10: apple Charles Quick March chip Chap.
- 13:06Speaker 4: Yeah, like soon let.
- 13:11Speaker 2: You the comrade. Yeah, so most times like his fries
- 13:16Speaker 2: and he's not stingy with stuff.
- 13:21Speaker 7: Away.
- 13:22Speaker 11: Yeah, it's not stingy with this stuff.
- 13:25Speaker 10: But as I started with today's reaction, and we're gonna start,
- 13:28Speaker 10: of course talking about Tuesday, how was your people? Mine
- 13:36Speaker 10: was amazing, Mine was ala. I know, our Friday was nice.
- 13:48Speaker 10: Nothing much on Saturday, just nothing, and mother like crazy.
- 13:51Speaker 10: I was having a bad headache.
- 13:54Speaker 4: Oh, I was dying. I was die, like doing this again,
- 13:59Speaker 4: I'm I did a day talks like no, don't give
- 14:03Speaker 4: me alcohol again.
- 14:04Speaker 7: You know.
- 14:05Speaker 2: So I've just been nothing that ship.
- 14:08Speaker 10: Yeah, chilling's on, chilling on Sunday and cooking and then
- 14:11Speaker 10: Monday to all that ship.
- 14:13Speaker 4: But it gave me the chance to clean my house
- 14:14Speaker 4: like thoroughly. Yeah, so I'm excited.
- 14:17Speaker 7: How was your weekend?
- 14:18Speaker 3: Late?
- 14:20Speaker 2: Late Friday? Was little? I think we're going to bed
- 14:23Speaker 2: at four?
- 14:24Speaker 3: Right?
- 14:24Speaker 4: You left you guys, and I'm saying, come Marco.
- 14:31Speaker 2: Sure.
- 14:32Speaker 3: I also left from guy on Saturdays, left from at
- 14:36Speaker 3: around five, shut out to spice.
- 14:42Speaker 4: You was together?
- 14:44Speaker 7: No, because.
- 14:48Speaker 3: I know.
- 14:49Speaker 7: Yeah, so we had a hed a good time around
- 14:57Speaker 7: me a pan and the town. Go home. I'm arrested today.
- 15:10Speaker 2: Me, I didn't have me in you. Let me tell you.
- 15:14Speaker 2: I have a friend of mine who writes a book.
- 15:21Speaker 2: His name is Carl. Here's a book to drink Responsibly,
- 15:28Speaker 2: and we're going to do. I don't need the book
- 15:30Speaker 2: March water. Me. What I do is I chested water
- 15:35Speaker 2: and then before I go to bed, I drinks and
- 15:39Speaker 2: force myself. Now you know magic not like now when
- 15:45Speaker 2: you're back to back, I'm gonna go won you are?
- 15:51Speaker 11: And I did all that girl, I did myself.
- 15:56Speaker 2: Now a lot of water, not a takeing dog, a
- 16:01Speaker 2: lot of water by the time wham car, you're fresh
- 16:04Speaker 2: nothing because we woke up.
- 16:09Speaker 10: Probably look at the targeting in my I don't know,
- 16:14Speaker 10: but I think because I took a lot of wine
- 16:16Speaker 10: to you guys, I didn't.
- 16:18Speaker 2: Drink suck me up.
- 16:28Speaker 7: I'm that's a movie. I did you do?
- 16:33Speaker 3: God damn got back to two week Let's go this
- 16:37Speaker 3: happy on Sunday, say took a club together to go?
- 16:47Speaker 2: I was calling you what you go like?
- 16:51Speaker 7: Actually have some points on meaning laky meaning you got good.
- 16:58Speaker 2: Work?
- 16:59Speaker 7: Really Nicole.
- 17:07Speaker 3: The home his man, they really they really made my birth.
- 17:11Speaker 3: They want amazing. Yeah enough, but like you didn't see
- 17:16Speaker 3: ways you and that you were all by hiding sports.
- 17:20Speaker 7: You could could you feature? Could you?
- 17:27Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 17:30Speaker 4: But it is here?
- 17:36Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.
- 17:38Speaker 10: I've been talking about some interesting stuff today. We're gonna
- 17:41Speaker 10: be starting with some bizarre rules that sound fake but
- 17:44Speaker 10: actually real in some certain countries, and I kind of
- 17:47Speaker 10: found them interesting. I think most of them have seen them.
- 17:50Speaker 10: We have Switzerland where that it's illegal to flash a
- 17:54Speaker 10: toilet after ten pm in some apartment buildings because of noise,
- 18:05Speaker 10: Because of noise pollution. It got a nice pollution. Those
- 18:10Speaker 10: worlds toilet and that's that. Those are the rooms. And
- 18:14Speaker 10: some places even treats late night flashing as disturbing the piece.
- 18:18Speaker 4: Disturbling of the piece.
- 18:22Speaker 11: So what do you do if you want to go
- 18:23Speaker 11: to the wash room? You like, I'm thinking, is it?
- 18:32Speaker 7: What next flash?
- 18:35Speaker 2: Because there's no.
- 18:36Speaker 7: Bush to.
- 18:38Speaker 2: Do?
- 18:39Speaker 4: Being like you were.
- 18:43Speaker 7: Before?
- 18:44Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 18:47Speaker 7: You exactly what.
- 19:03Speaker 2: May that guy told? Like I piece a lot at night?
- 19:10Speaker 7: This is why we should not going to certain.
- 19:15Speaker 10: We have Singapore where it's legal to sell or import
- 19:19Speaker 10: chewing gums with a few medical expectations exception.
- 19:23Speaker 2: Sorry.
- 19:23Speaker 10: The rule was introduced to key public spaces clean especially
- 19:27Speaker 10: trains and sidewalks. So Counaco maturing gums of your your
- 19:33Speaker 10: which I think is actually quite good because there's one
- 19:35Speaker 10: thing personally I hate is working even in the stairs.
- 19:38Speaker 10: Then I find out chewing gum because on it by
- 19:43Speaker 10: mistake you want to mistake any talking.
- 19:47Speaker 2: I really hate that. But you come and see a
- 19:50Speaker 2: chewing gum on a table or something to you and
- 19:53Speaker 2: go Honestly, I don't really understand.
- 19:57Speaker 3: Why would you put a rule on what somebody can buy.
- 19:59Speaker 3: It is their money just to do this? If you
- 20:02Speaker 3: drop a chewing gum but still like but he come
- 20:09Speaker 3: up with ways to dispose of the gun well in Australia.
- 20:14Speaker 10: In Australia, we have in some regions where its technically
- 20:18Speaker 10: it's technically illegal to walk backwards after the sunset in
- 20:23Speaker 10: Australia in certain public areas without lantern landon London.
- 20:33Speaker 2: Bears.
- 20:34Speaker 4: Let's go bears.
- 20:39Speaker 7: So let me let me let me tell you all something. Yeah,
- 20:43Speaker 7: it is not advisable by there to walk backwards too much.
- 20:49Speaker 10: What would you walk backwards in the first placed?
- 20:56Speaker 3: Yeah, not like when they are doing that team and
- 21:01Speaker 3: it's always after hours after the sunsets and then you know,
- 21:04Speaker 3: most people don't believe these these non human entities exist,
- 21:09Speaker 3: but they do, okay, especially in Aboriginal Australia. Like that's
- 21:14Speaker 3: that's not really really a place you want, no, no,
- 21:21Speaker 3: but you never know what you write trigger It's like
- 21:24Speaker 3: going to there's this thing where you at crossroads and
- 21:27Speaker 3: then you're cracking your eggs and ship. I don't know
- 21:30Speaker 3: if you all know that. Yeah, like when you're summoning
- 21:33Speaker 3: the slender Man, I don't know. You see how like
- 21:38Speaker 3: how how tambo people will say artists will get into.
- 21:44Speaker 7: The deals with the man downnder. It's not New Zealand.
- 21:51Speaker 7: You're like like the devil, like how they get their
- 21:53Speaker 7: deals with the devil.
- 21:54Speaker 3: Like you go to like crossroads, you say certain words,
- 21:57Speaker 3: you do one, two, three, and he and he'll ask
- 22:01Speaker 3: you what you want and he'll tell you what you want.
- 22:04Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like you don't whistle in the Midwest in
- 22:09Speaker 7: the US.
- 22:10Speaker 11: It has something to do with.
- 22:14Speaker 14: Yeah.
- 22:14Speaker 3: And then like when you're like Australia, it's not really
- 22:18Speaker 3: populated Australia.
- 22:21Speaker 2: Coste have not written there as to why no.
- 22:25Speaker 7: Cost like Nanni is empty. Ask yourself.
- 22:31Speaker 10: They're saying, it's an old law that was meant to
- 22:34Speaker 10: prevent accidents. Prevent accidents. You walk backwards, But I do
- 22:40Speaker 10: get somehow what you're saying. Then we have in Italy,
- 22:43Speaker 10: in the city of Milan, it is required by law
- 22:45Speaker 10: to smile all times in public, except during the funerals
- 22:48Speaker 10: or hospitals visits.
- 22:50Speaker 2: Are very happy people Italy. Italians are very jovial people.
- 22:55Speaker 4: Are they they're being forced to smile.
- 22:58Speaker 2: But they're very jovial, like aless high spirit people, if
- 23:04Speaker 2: you know what like high spirit, like all the ones
- 23:07Speaker 2: have met in my life, Smarly high spirit, like they're.
- 23:13Speaker 11: Like, I think it's that they're used to that ship.
- 23:17Speaker 11: That's my naturally.
- 23:24Speaker 7: A single city in Milan. Yeah, so if you're enabled
- 23:29Speaker 7: as sad as.
- 23:31Speaker 11: The capital the evil.
- 23:35Speaker 10: In Japan, we have there's a low regulating waste size
- 23:38Speaker 10: for companies employees. Employers must measure employee wastelines to fight
- 23:43Speaker 10: O the city wor yes the weight.
- 23:48Speaker 7: Like wait to fight Peter, then that's cool the country.
- 23:54Speaker 3: And then like drinking that work is considered loyal loyalty
- 23:59Speaker 3: in Japan, like you're supposed to drink with your colleagues
- 24:03Speaker 3: like job and they go drinking.
- 24:07Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know one that I know,
- 24:10Speaker 2: I know one in China. Ah, it's happy till midnight
- 24:16Speaker 2: for foreigners. For Africans, imagine, I feel like yes, so
- 24:23Speaker 2: and then they're very racist, so like they don't they
- 24:29Speaker 2: don't say together in a club like they said to
- 24:36Speaker 2: come up with your corner are black people, but you
- 24:39Speaker 2: drink for free, like I'm not going your for free,
- 24:48Speaker 2: like you don't see coming.
- 24:51Speaker 10: In Thailand, it is illegal to step on money because
- 24:54Speaker 10: it has an image of a king.
- 24:56Speaker 4: It is considered disrespectful.
- 24:58Speaker 2: In Nigeria, you can't.
- 25:00Speaker 4: Yeah, that is also something else illegal.
- 25:04Speaker 11: Flashing money and the way they flash it sequel.
- 25:09Speaker 2: Yeah, but like illgal, it's illegal what they might come
- 25:17Speaker 2: for you. Yeah, it's illegal to flash money. It's a
- 25:21Speaker 2: sign of disrespect.
- 25:23Speaker 7: It's illegal.
- 25:24Speaker 4: Person Yeah, it's crazy, but are those are?
- 25:30Speaker 7: You don't own that note, it's just your term holding.
- 25:34Speaker 3: Because the more you you tear up the notes, the
- 25:37Speaker 3: less currency we have in circulation. Notes that delute currency,
- 25:43Speaker 3: so like the ke and hilling is weaker because like
- 25:46Speaker 3: when Sensul Bank releases guarancy, it's they know the amount
- 25:50Speaker 3: of everything released like a handred book to metal this
- 25:54Speaker 3: march this much to keep our currency, you know, stable
- 25:59Speaker 3: and strong. So like if you're going to withdraw a
- 26:02Speaker 3: million Bob and then in soul and then you'll realize
- 26:07Speaker 3: after a while a hundred boards in circulations literally.
- 26:11Speaker 10: So we have the next conversation which is about child
- 26:14Speaker 10: batter and now men need to compensate women before childbirth
- 26:19Speaker 10: or after? Yeah, like lipa like competing you pay them
- 26:26Speaker 10: for going through the child bath. I was to ask
- 26:29Speaker 10: you money, what would it cost you you personally not
- 26:32Speaker 10: being paid to be a surrogate, but you're wanting to
- 26:35Speaker 10: be a man, what would it take you for a
- 26:38Speaker 10: man to fully convince you to get pregnant, for you
- 26:42Speaker 10: guys to have a baby together.
- 26:43Speaker 11: I don't think first and foremost, wrong question.
- 26:47Speaker 4: Okay, wrong question.
- 26:49Speaker 2: W never convinced me number one, regardless of his billions.
- 26:54Speaker 2: I feel like I would definitely convince myself. But if
- 26:58Speaker 2: I'm at that space where I'm need to actually and
- 27:01Speaker 2: I'm thinking of a baby or a father to my kids,
- 27:05Speaker 2: the things are definitely considered. Of course, bag of course
- 27:10Speaker 2: it's trades and stuff like that. What I want in
- 27:13Speaker 2: return push gifts, what gifts a piece of land.
- 27:24Speaker 4: That's what he's going to make him worth being.
- 27:26Speaker 11: The key now that if there is a push up gift,
- 27:29Speaker 11: because this.
- 27:31Speaker 2: Push I want to land on my name, we have
- 27:34Speaker 2: all known because before I give back number.
- 27:39Speaker 11: Can pair option you push gifts by another land on
- 27:44Speaker 11: my name.
- 27:45Speaker 10: But before we get there, now member, by a push gift,
- 27:53Speaker 10: what would really make you consider this man?
- 27:56Speaker 3: Like? Wo you?
- 27:57Speaker 5: And that's what I think, I think, I say it,
- 28:00Speaker 5: I said it like either bad security, financial security, of course, Tabier,
- 28:07Speaker 5: I want to see the father of Mike.
- 28:09Speaker 11: I want I want you know somebody can be a
- 28:11Speaker 11: good husband and a bad father.
- 28:13Speaker 2: You choose all this. You can make a mistake and
- 28:19Speaker 2: bad bad it's vice versas. You can make a bad
- 28:24Speaker 2: example of a bad husband, but it is a good father,
- 28:28Speaker 2: not you. So before I tif there things I'll have
- 28:31Speaker 2: to consider first financial of course, ability and financial security, right,
- 28:38Speaker 2: financial security for my kids, for my baby. Regardless of
- 28:42Speaker 2: what I want, I don't think it would somehow, somehow
- 28:45Speaker 2: amountful ammer. I'd consider this, but at that point i'd
- 28:50Speaker 2: look at what i'd want. I think I look at
- 28:52Speaker 2: it first. I look at the traits character I'm saying.
- 28:57Speaker 2: For me, I think those those those two very important
- 29:00Speaker 2: to me. And faith.
- 29:02Speaker 11: Okay, it is also really whatever you believe in. I
- 29:05Speaker 11: don't care, just believe in something.
- 29:07Speaker 4: Okay, for you comeless before being kids? What are you
- 29:10Speaker 4: looking for? Like for you to no good mom? I've
- 29:15Speaker 4: really noticed men look in that a lot. You can
- 29:19Speaker 4: be a good mom for their kids.
- 29:21Speaker 3: Like if you really get a woman that can be
- 29:27Speaker 3: that is a good mom? Who machine you worn?
- 29:29Speaker 4: Okay, yeah.
- 29:32Speaker 7: It's Jinger.
- 29:38Speaker 10: Do you consider getting your women maybe some push gifts
- 29:41Speaker 10: or maybe your wife or maybe do you think that
- 29:44Speaker 10: is something that should be normalized?
- 29:46Speaker 2: No?
- 29:47Speaker 4: No, no, no, no push gift.
- 29:50Speaker 3: It's up to you as a person. I don't think
- 29:53Speaker 3: it should be normal like you see your question. I'm
- 29:55Speaker 3: answering the question normalized in my opinion, Now should should.
- 30:03Speaker 7: As individuals?
- 30:04Speaker 3: Should you appreciate the mother of your children after.
- 30:08Speaker 7: She's gone through that, Yes, she should be normalized?
- 30:12Speaker 11: Like no, it's supposed not to be a mess.
- 30:15Speaker 14: Like yeah, like you know, just it's a talking of appreciation,
- 30:24Speaker 14: so like there is pressure to do this, you know,
- 30:28Speaker 14: like it should be.
- 30:29Speaker 3: And then as a woman, don't do if if he's
- 30:33Speaker 3: if he's because you knew him going before before daughter,
- 30:39Speaker 3: you knew him right and she knew what he's capable of,
- 30:43Speaker 3: what he doesn't and all that.
- 30:45Speaker 7: Yeah, so expect him to do as he has been
- 30:50Speaker 7: when you give birth.
- 30:53Speaker 2: I agree because like C need you and your guary.
- 30:57Speaker 2: That's not plan your daughter. Yes, but but I definitely
- 31:07Speaker 2: because I give you yes.
- 31:11Speaker 3: Your friendly by your guy who realized and should go
- 31:16Speaker 3: out our rents.
- 31:19Speaker 7: Number two.
- 31:21Speaker 3: Also recognize your man's pockets strengths. Don't ask for things
- 31:28Speaker 3: that you know he can't afford, okay, like let your iPhone.
- 31:34Speaker 7: Whom I appreciate you.
- 31:36Speaker 3: I feel like it's more about appreciation more than the
- 31:40Speaker 3: value of appreciation, just appreciator for like what she's.
- 31:45Speaker 4: In general, appreciation can be shown in different different way.
- 31:48Speaker 2: He doesn't have to when you know your for come,
- 31:57Speaker 2: women can ask your from get your money to get
- 32:01Speaker 2: one choose the right man, yeah, and your gargo before
- 32:10Speaker 2: because like this is after you've given back. You had
- 32:12Speaker 2: nine months to decide. You had time to decide. You're
- 32:16Speaker 2: getting pregnant, you're making a baby, So choose. Don't go
- 32:20Speaker 2: choose somebody who will say thank you and then and
- 32:25Speaker 2: then now you want him to buy you. Now you
- 32:27Speaker 2: have as and all that ship. Choose rightly. Choose whatever
- 32:32Speaker 2: you want because like also people, they're always different. Like
- 32:36Speaker 2: remember when I call a garuse, when you call a
- 32:40Speaker 2: I'm gonna when you're an depender kill, I'm gonna tak
- 32:42Speaker 2: up two different when I'm gonna come and company Coma
- 32:46Speaker 2: is not a billionaire.
- 32:47Speaker 11: Everybody has whatever they want, but you're.
- 32:50Speaker 7: Gonna be tap.
- 32:54Speaker 3: In this conversation, it raises like a few a few,
- 32:57Speaker 3: a few questions, right, women putting monitoring value on their womb.
- 33:08Speaker 4: No, I feel like this discussion is no no, no, no, no,
- 33:13Speaker 4: Let me answer, Let me answer. Let me answer him.
- 33:16Speaker 10: So during this weekend I was on TikTok and there's
- 33:19Speaker 10: a lot I saw when it came it's not even
- 33:20Speaker 10: the first time I'm bumping into it, but I think
- 33:22Speaker 10: it's a conversation. After a certain video I saw a
- 33:25Speaker 10: woman were given after bath she completely paralyzed, decided morger
- 33:30Speaker 10: and some corner like I'm a parallize. And then I
- 33:33Speaker 10: went to many another video which was actually she actually
- 33:36Speaker 10: has a notebook, like it's a whole notebook here. Another
- 33:40Speaker 10: reason of be careful before making the choice of bad
- 33:44Speaker 10: because are consequences where I've had many women talking about
- 33:48Speaker 10: your body never goes back the same, there's gonna because
- 33:50Speaker 10: I'm about gaining weight crazy and like it doesn't stop,
- 33:55Speaker 10: like the more even breastfeeding, and the months go, you're
- 33:58Speaker 10: becoming bigger and bigger. Know, they complain about losing their
- 34:02Speaker 10: body completely like being super thing from being Tike to
- 34:05Speaker 10: being super Team literally and then.
- 34:08Speaker 4: That was like there's maybe issues. See there's many issues.
- 34:13Speaker 10: There's that mental they try to one of the ladies
- 34:16Speaker 10: will telling me like mamachy is like brain.
- 34:24Speaker 4: Is real, imagine a memory that is that is so
- 34:31Speaker 4: I feel like women really go through a lot.
- 34:33Speaker 10: And this is actually during or after bath. And I
- 34:36Speaker 10: imagine there's these nine months of now when you are
- 34:39Speaker 10: carrying the baby. There's the first months of crazy nausea, whatever.
- 34:44Speaker 12: The first semester, the second semester, whatever, literally all those
- 34:52Speaker 12: three stages to the point of giving bath.
- 34:55Speaker 4: Like there's a lot of.
- 34:56Speaker 7: Men go through once Kwanza.
- 35:04Speaker 3: But between that, yeah, yeah, but most women have a
- 35:10Speaker 3: really good time. But women, yeah, like you're just not drinking.
- 35:15Speaker 3: But from what I've seen all my friends and when
- 35:20Speaker 3: my kids were being born, between four months to eight,
- 35:29Speaker 3: there's a bonding, key King, there's a bonding this woman has, Yeah,
- 35:36Speaker 3: and you're not even involved in it, and they're just
- 35:39Speaker 3: having a good time by themselves. That is, if she's
- 35:43Speaker 3: taken care of men. I've just seen Joanna Ja Janna
- 35:46Speaker 3: jun I was.
- 35:47Speaker 7: I was in town, man, I saw something so sad.
- 35:50Speaker 2: Man.
- 35:50Speaker 3: It was a pregnant woman begging for food speak you know,
- 35:58Speaker 3: like she's a street person you never know like.
- 36:08Speaker 7: Cooler who you know, like like like dry. Yeah, I
- 36:15Speaker 7: had to buy her food, man.
- 36:17Speaker 3: I bought her food and some bananas because I was
- 36:19Speaker 3: like and then she's she's talking to people and then yeah,
- 36:22Speaker 3: but too many.
- 36:30Speaker 2: Person that I had.
- 36:37Speaker 3: I had to buy her food like because I was
- 36:39Speaker 3: I felt so guilty because like I remember when was
- 36:46Speaker 3: was was pregnant, pregnant women like everything and then like
- 36:57Speaker 3: every every every hour, every hour, but to a cooler
- 37:01Speaker 3: because see a cooler and a girl now and a
- 37:05Speaker 3: girl aggressively so like, and then after after child birth,
- 37:13Speaker 3: you're constantly.
- 37:14Speaker 7: Hungry because like and then if you don't eat enough.
- 37:18Speaker 3: Answer could lose weight, so like you're eating constantly, and
- 37:24Speaker 3: then kids when.
- 37:25Speaker 7: You're younger like every so like women cooler too heavy.
- 37:33Speaker 3: And so by then that's where women end up gaining
- 37:35Speaker 3: weight while breast feeding because they're constantly eating.
- 37:38Speaker 7: It's not like and this is where sometimes and never becoming.
- 37:41Speaker 3: A parent is sacrifice, and there's a woman by then
- 37:45Speaker 3: you'll sacrifice your figures. That's why Melissa could breast feed.
- 37:50Speaker 3: When a gym regain your body, why then you can't.
- 37:53Speaker 3: Don't let nobody tell you like your body will never
- 37:55Speaker 3: bounce back.
- 37:56Speaker 11: You can.
- 37:56Speaker 7: You can go to the gym and get your body right.
- 37:59Speaker 2: You can.
- 37:59Speaker 7: How many baddies do we see with like six kids? Okay,
- 38:04Speaker 7: she's like forty seven. God damn it.
- 38:07Speaker 4: You can, but I think you also need to understand.
- 38:09Speaker 10: And it's a discussed conversation or a conversation that is
- 38:16Speaker 10: barely ever had on the realistic fact of why money
- 38:20Speaker 10: women won't bounce back to their body immediately or won't
- 38:23Speaker 10: even take care of themselves.
- 38:24Speaker 2: My money.
- 38:25Speaker 4: Start to the partner you have, and that's what you
- 38:26Speaker 4: go back to.
- 38:27Speaker 10: Choose a correct partner because that support chart to Jack
- 38:31Speaker 10: in the house, it says the bonding should be actually
- 38:34Speaker 10: involved to the both parents, just one part.
- 38:39Speaker 7: You will you will. Yeah, I get what you say,
- 38:42Speaker 7: like you're there, you you, you talk to the baby,
- 38:44Speaker 7: you do.
- 38:44Speaker 3: All that, but there is there's a certain level of
- 38:47Speaker 3: like because in total, if the father is present, okay,
- 38:50Speaker 3: when the child is born and addressing that address to market, okay,
- 38:55Speaker 3: But then there's a reason why kids cry when they cry,
- 38:59Speaker 3: jewels whatever, and because like the mother is like everything
- 39:05Speaker 3: for that child to live. Because like you are before
- 39:09Speaker 3: and this is like way back in the day before
- 39:12Speaker 3: we heard formula and all those things.
- 39:14Speaker 7: Right, that's why mothers never used to leave kids you
- 39:18Speaker 7: were infants, you know.
- 39:20Speaker 3: In in African society, when you divorce, yes, divorced, divorces
- 39:26Speaker 3: used to have ended up total. But at a certain age,
- 39:31Speaker 3: there was never going back to your father at a
- 39:36Speaker 3: certain age off the cob back you get so but yeah,
- 39:41Speaker 3: like there's are there's are there's I've seen that and
- 39:44Speaker 3: it's not like you're not involved?
- 39:47Speaker 2: Is that for the mom is more personal?
- 39:53Speaker 4: I guess it's now going back to the point of body.
- 39:55Speaker 10: I'm saying this is you might have a very neglecting
- 39:59Speaker 10: type of from the moment you actually say you're pregnant.
- 40:02Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying.
- 40:03Speaker 10: It's very important like to understand from a woman's but
- 40:07Speaker 10: from both perspective, actually what is your ideal type of
- 40:11Speaker 10: partner when you consider having a baby. And I feel
- 40:15Speaker 10: like this is a discussion show that should be held
- 40:17Speaker 10: between the two parties because you want to have a baby, Bey,
- 40:21Speaker 10: I don't want to have a baby, but eventually maybe
- 40:24Speaker 10: I want to have a baby with you, but I'm
- 40:25Speaker 10: just not ready.
- 40:26Speaker 2: You know.
- 40:26Speaker 4: That's why I feel like this is that also important
- 40:28Speaker 4: discussion of COREDI. I'm ready. We're both ready.
- 40:31Speaker 2: You know, we're both ready.
- 40:33Speaker 4: Now we can do this.
- 40:34Speaker 2: You know.
- 40:35Speaker 10: It shouldn't be a one sided conversation whereby a woman
- 40:38Speaker 10: finds her self pregnant and this man wanted to sexually
- 40:41Speaker 10: but after a baby.
- 40:42Speaker 4: Now you're supposed to stay there. You don't have a job,
- 40:45Speaker 4: you're pregnant.
- 40:46Speaker 10: The moment you're pregnant is saying, the moment you're pregnant
- 40:48Speaker 10: start it starts cheating on you. You know you're going
- 40:51Speaker 10: through all these emotions alone for nine months. You give
- 40:53Speaker 10: bath but smote depression is not present, still not present.
- 40:58Speaker 10: Doesn't even care about the late nights on the baby's crying,
- 41:01Speaker 10: you know, So I feel like this one now the
- 41:03Speaker 10: woman is like man squan mama. These are the type
- 41:07Speaker 10: of ladies now you find that from Connaco, like mama,
- 41:10Speaker 10: and you're not no, no, Like she's not thinking about
- 41:14Speaker 10: doing it for herself. She's now thinking more about how
- 41:16Speaker 10: the community, the society you are. You know, you're a mom,
- 41:20Speaker 10: so what are you trying to impress?
- 41:21Speaker 2: You're a mom?
- 41:22Speaker 7: What are you trying to dress that for for yourself?
- 41:24Speaker 7: But then also what you're saying the opposite is true.
- 41:28Speaker 3: Don't get pregnant hoping that this man will be there,
- 41:33Speaker 3: like you're trying to like chap this man with pregnancy.
- 41:36Speaker 11: It's important, it's really important to have planned.
- 41:43Speaker 2: It's important to have plant kids though, very like plan
- 41:46Speaker 2: everything because like it can be one side the tandaughter, Wow,
- 41:52Speaker 2: turkey you man at comdaughter way, because I'm thinking it
- 41:56Speaker 2: would people saying let's try and make a baby, like
- 41:59Speaker 2: they're very about if you go to TikTok, I always
- 42:03Speaker 2: see like very fairly conversations like there's one boy, I
- 42:08Speaker 2: f all it's kind of gay, I guess and I'm younger,
- 42:12Speaker 2: or you signed such videos of like rich kids. You
- 42:16Speaker 2: know most of them then don't know they're rich. That
- 42:18Speaker 2: is their life.
- 42:19Speaker 11: And then you're like, oh my god, you guys, you're
- 42:22Speaker 11: living this luxurious life.
- 42:24Speaker 2: And then on the comments you go the importance of
- 42:28Speaker 2: having plant kids because Likelisa Ivy, there is something for
- 42:33Speaker 2: them from the time they were kids to the time
- 42:36Speaker 2: they're adults. Like there there's nothing they're going to lack
- 42:41Speaker 2: in even Lisa should let Planisa can pull. This is
- 42:46Speaker 2: where they're going. This is what is happening. And most
- 42:49Speaker 2: of the time when napata, the money remains, the wealth
- 42:51Speaker 2: in the family remains constant because their life was planned
- 42:56Speaker 2: from day one to the day the last. The party
- 43:00Speaker 2: more than the poor. The ritualways become rich people but
- 43:05Speaker 2: just one question. One answer to camblish question before. I
- 43:10Speaker 2: feel like it depends on how you see your womb.
- 43:13Speaker 2: When you say, are we looking at the womb as monetization,
- 43:17Speaker 2: it depends because some people use their womb to make
- 43:20Speaker 2: many That's true, you know, some people use their womb
- 43:24Speaker 2: because you can can lose my eye tell the my
- 43:29Speaker 2: eyes because so it's how you how you actually you
- 43:34Speaker 2: see your womb. But it's not necessary we are equalizing
- 43:38Speaker 2: our wombs to money.
- 43:41Speaker 4: That's not it.
- 43:42Speaker 7: Okay, good answer. Now let's let me let me rEFInd
- 43:45Speaker 7: the question even more. Are you aunetizing your boom to
- 43:48Speaker 7: your partner?
- 43:50Speaker 2: Because it's not really like that, you know, that's not that.
- 43:54Speaker 3: Let me finish, you know, because like the way this
- 43:59Speaker 3: conversation is being framed by society, it is very ambiguous.
- 44:04Speaker 3: It is very misinformed to those that don't have and
- 44:09Speaker 3: a lots of people don't have an onance to come
- 44:14Speaker 3: out here and actually think things through. They just take
- 44:18Speaker 3: what society, what they are being fed by social media
- 44:20Speaker 3: and society. And you will now have some of these
- 44:24Speaker 3: people out chair telling their spouses, Sarah and.
- 44:32Speaker 7: Lam and you and you will. We are going to
- 44:37Speaker 7: create a society. You agree. I agree with that, But
- 44:50Speaker 7: you see you.
- 44:53Speaker 3: Already chose you already chose this spouse, right and let's
- 44:57Speaker 3: assume he's wealthy, right, like he has the money.
- 45:00Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 45:01Speaker 3: How do you think if you said such a standard,
- 45:03Speaker 3: because some of these people will some of these women
- 45:06Speaker 3: will just be blunt about it, sir. And how do
- 45:11Speaker 3: you think that man sees you after?
- 45:14Speaker 11: I feel like then you're not for me. How I
- 45:17Speaker 11: see it, how I see it, come less, how I
- 45:19Speaker 11: see it.
- 45:20Speaker 2: This is me Right before you decide to give back
- 45:26Speaker 2: to some to decide to choose the father, it's the
- 45:29Speaker 2: same way before you decide to choose a husband, even
- 45:31Speaker 2: before marriage.
- 45:32Speaker 11: You know this guy, you know that you've chosen him,
- 45:35Speaker 11: you know where it stands. That is your choice to.
- 45:39Speaker 2: Bali wholy your go. So there are specific standards you're
- 45:45Speaker 2: looking for and they should remain constant regardless of what
- 45:50Speaker 2: you want. If not, but Mimi without ten digits, ses
- 45:54Speaker 2: I girl, take your ten digits. I'm not telling nobody
- 45:57Speaker 2: to take it. The ab sad thing is after now
- 46:01Speaker 2: you're making demands that are and realistic. But before usa,
- 46:04Speaker 2: you know what you want. You're not the life whom
- 46:07Speaker 2: to to wago you know the person now, not a food.
- 46:10Speaker 2: These are decisions you make, and it is really important
- 46:13Speaker 2: to know what you want before you make critical decisions
- 46:16Speaker 2: like to let them toto. I'm total. It goes back
- 46:20Speaker 2: to is this person going to be available naked shaza,
- 46:23Speaker 2: I'm turning water. Is it only about the money? You
- 46:26Speaker 2: might have the money, he's not there. These are the
- 46:29Speaker 2: things you look into before them. Traveling is a corner
- 46:32Speaker 2: lacking at a time. Yeah, at any exily and it
- 46:35Speaker 2: call social will be alone. So I'm carrying this child
- 46:39Speaker 2: knowing very well you're not going to be present. You're
- 46:42Speaker 2: not there are things? Come on, Come on one baity,
- 46:46Speaker 2: I'm a coulaser now. Corregan a commere mimi attack, which
- 46:49Speaker 2: is a damn thing to do because one thing as
- 46:52Speaker 2: a woman and I still stand by it. To a
- 46:54Speaker 2: quarter billionaire man, you have to be ready. You as
- 46:58Speaker 2: a woman. You have to be rais personally because money
- 47:02Speaker 2: can go. This person can divorce, he can live, he
- 47:05Speaker 2: can die, and then what are you gonna do about it?
- 47:09Speaker 2: At the end of the day. You have to be ready.
- 47:11Speaker 2: But setic those standards. It's really important. I don't care
- 47:14Speaker 2: how you see me. I'm gonna say what I want
- 47:17Speaker 2: and the future I want for my kids and everything,
- 47:20Speaker 2: and it does to be said straight, period, period.
- 47:23Speaker 4: So as literally, what has brought me to this conversation?
- 47:26Speaker 10: I bumped into an article which was talking about how
- 47:28Speaker 10: childbirth hurts more.
- 47:29Speaker 4: Than breaking twenty bones at once.
- 47:33Speaker 10: Imagine imagine breaking You may have broken a bone and ebone,
- 47:37Speaker 10: I can imagine how painful it still is eventing today.
- 47:40Speaker 2: Now imagine twenty.
- 47:41Speaker 4: Bones at once at once. Mary, look, I fathom the pain.
- 47:49Speaker 4: Come on, crams more, EVI, come on, crabs, jungle.
- 47:53Speaker 10: Imagine any guza imagine maybe twenty ten an early Corneakis
- 47:59Speaker 10: are drinking in there.
- 48:01Speaker 2: It's okay, she's pregnant, because it wouldn't be pregnant.
- 48:16Speaker 7: Any goalkeeper, any goalkeeper, what.
- 48:21Speaker 3: What whatever country, that tiny country could have sun that's
- 48:28Speaker 3: what she is there that she can pall. I could.
- 48:33Speaker 4: The comments section and I believe this were women, some people,
- 48:37Speaker 4: And of course I meant to.
- 48:39Speaker 3: Let me ask this, if if it's that painful, why
- 48:43Speaker 3: did you find that women that have kids continuatting?
- 48:48Speaker 11: Because experience I feel like the first time the first time,
- 48:51Speaker 11: because we don't.
- 48:52Speaker 4: We haven't it's always giving me sometimes is the family.
- 48:56Speaker 2: Guys, it's always give it to the family.
- 49:01Speaker 7: The family.
- 49:01Speaker 4: Yeah, did you take me back?
- 49:06Speaker 7: How are you feeling really like when he was given?
- 49:15Speaker 4: Why then are you getting pregnant like that?
- 49:18Speaker 2: Because three times kids know he's here's the.
- 49:24Speaker 7: Weird thing with child?
- 49:24Speaker 3: But gone like go on like it's like gone like
- 49:35Speaker 3: talker and and and let's assume ruka or nothing. Okay,
- 49:41Speaker 3: it was like and then by the way, tricks. So
- 49:45Speaker 3: when you're pregnant as a woman, by the exercise, take walks.
- 49:48Speaker 3: You have seen the exercise, have a lot of sex.
- 49:52Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 49:52Speaker 3: So like, have a lot of sex, exercise, be active,
- 49:56Speaker 3: see couch potato, give you whatever that you dilate easier
- 50:02Speaker 3: when when you're active. But when you're like me, I'm
- 50:07Speaker 3: you no longer be good and everything, because like I've
- 50:11Speaker 3: seen a woman eight months pregnant.
- 50:13Speaker 7: In the gym just working out.
- 50:20Speaker 11: You find job, the next.
- 50:28Speaker 7: Employers and the hole.
- 50:33Speaker 11: Honestly, yesterday any secretary boss, but that was in.
- 50:43Speaker 2: This lady.
- 50:45Speaker 10: This lady also says, this lady says men should pay
- 50:50Speaker 10: a women for having babies.
- 50:51Speaker 2: So listen to this sounds quezy right now because you
- 50:58Speaker 2: know you see it's how do we normalize having a
- 51:02Speaker 2: baby and the baby takes the finder's name for free.
- 51:07Speaker 2: It's important to.
- 51:09Speaker 7: The stupidity that is going out of her mouth.
- 51:13Speaker 11: Before, like I don't listen.
- 51:16Speaker 7: To no, don't listen I said, I didn't say, I
- 51:19Speaker 7: just say don't listen to listen listen.
- 51:25Speaker 3: I feel like there's so much gas lighting that is
- 51:28Speaker 3: happening around the world from people who don't want to
- 51:32Speaker 3: have kids, that are trying to make everybody no because
- 51:36Speaker 3: because like what the hell finally say, I bet you's.
- 51:42Speaker 2: Single, because I think she's given back and then you
- 51:48Speaker 2: get it out of content. She can't afford it. He
- 51:51Speaker 2: should pay you. You can't afford this financially, should pay
- 51:55Speaker 2: someone That way you can be creative. Word is paid
- 51:58Speaker 2: most paid because check the comments. Sexual will be a
- 52:01Speaker 2: lot of rubbish people trying to make you feel by
- 52:03Speaker 2: for agreeing with me. What's coming around You deserve it
- 52:06Speaker 2: because listen to this.
- 52:08Speaker 3: All the complications that can arise from childbirth child breaking
- 52:14Speaker 3: lead to a winery of complications, which can be physical, emotional,
- 52:17Speaker 3: or psychological. Physically, they can be paraneal tears ranging from
- 52:21Speaker 3: mile to Severe's part of hemorrhage, infections such as atritis,
- 52:25Speaker 3: ruined infections and complications are pretty clamcy and justation.
- 52:29Speaker 2: I feel like at the end of this is why
- 52:32Speaker 2: this is, This goes back to Honestly, this goes back
- 52:35Speaker 2: to even not in the video. This goes back to readiness.
- 52:39Speaker 2: When you're ready, you're open through everything because like almost
- 52:48Speaker 2: because already yes, decide to like and whatever that she
- 53:00Speaker 2: I am ready to give back. It goes back to readiness.
- 53:02Speaker 2: And that's what I'm telling you. Don't also go get
- 53:05Speaker 2: pregnant when you're not ready, because since I went number
- 53:09Speaker 2: while pregnancy or two anger tw anger, I love. What
- 53:13Speaker 2: could you put in a head ming because when you
- 53:15Speaker 2: look down to it, you are not ready for it.
- 53:19Speaker 2: When you're ready regardless, and it's not being ready only financially, mindset, physically, psychologically,
- 53:27Speaker 2: not your anything can happen.
- 53:29Speaker 11: You're gonna look as someone I lose.
- 53:30Speaker 2: Will not you're ed, but we willing. I'm you are
- 53:34Speaker 2: ready mentally local you're ready to cut my level everything honestly,
- 53:40Speaker 2: you know, like by the times a woman who cut
- 53:46Speaker 2: is on my level, you have to be. It goes
- 53:49Speaker 2: back to being ready because also we can grab people
- 53:51Speaker 2: who come and tell people because you're gonna from this woman,
- 53:54Speaker 2: I'm gonna use other people's videos many an experience be
- 53:59Speaker 2: a word.
- 54:01Speaker 3: But.
- 54:03Speaker 4: Women understand going TikTok.
- 54:06Speaker 2: What's what I'm saying. It's important, it's important, it's really important.
- 54:10Speaker 10: I feel like you might still be ready, and when
- 54:13Speaker 10: it comes to now, the real actual day, you're like.
- 54:16Speaker 2: Goddamn nine months.
- 54:22Speaker 4: Me be honest, I don't know. I don't know how
- 54:25Speaker 4: to fathom that.
- 54:26Speaker 14: I don't know.
- 54:29Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 54:36Speaker 4: Maybe okay, I can't.
- 54:37Speaker 10: I don't know how to fathom even they I'm gonna
- 54:39Speaker 10: be ready like still your BuzAr is okay, even when
- 54:45Speaker 10: the time comes, I don't know if I'm gonna be ready,
- 54:48Speaker 10: like to.
- 54:51Speaker 7: Be ready, trust me.
- 54:53Speaker 3: And she said, because every every girl is afraid of
- 54:57Speaker 3: losing until she loses. Now she realizes who makes you
- 55:02Speaker 3: do you quit?
- 55:03Speaker 7: That is real dumb.
- 55:05Speaker 2: And then after you lose it, after you lose it,
- 55:10Speaker 2: and now you.
- 55:11Speaker 3: Realize that orgasms are nice, okay, and now she's all
- 55:15Speaker 3: up in her mind's business and everything.
- 55:18Speaker 7: You know, like, yo, it's when.
- 55:21Speaker 2: You're already, you're ready, That's what I can say. And
- 55:24Speaker 2: it goes back to and because in the morning I
- 55:26Speaker 2: was having a conversation just about kids. So the question
- 55:30Speaker 2: was on a blog. But why do you think the
- 55:33Speaker 2: current society, which you've talked about, the current generation is
- 55:36Speaker 2: not super interested or invested in marriaging kids? Right?
- 55:41Speaker 11: Is the readiness and stuff like that a lot of
- 55:44Speaker 11: people are talking about.
- 55:45Speaker 2: Of course the government econ me and stuff, But it
- 55:49Speaker 2: goes back to what you can't have a kid, come
- 55:53Speaker 2: up with your plan. That's what a lot of put
- 55:56Speaker 2: the last circumstances in your uncle when so many here
- 55:59Speaker 2: has a letter talking, is it m.
- 56:04Speaker 11: Nim iks honey, I'm do But after.
- 56:07Speaker 10: Sitting it's crazy. But today's conversation, you can imagine one
- 56:19Speaker 10: thing is that.
- 56:28Speaker 2: Exactly thank you saying who what they were? The exactly
- 56:32Speaker 2: like now you take your pen siblings. Yeah, I'm not scared,
- 56:39Speaker 2: like when comes, because I have it in mind. I'm
- 56:44Speaker 2: going through that in my mind. I already have it
- 56:48Speaker 2: that you were because I'm follows you wanted a kid.
- 56:50Speaker 2: I just don't know.
- 56:56Speaker 7: Crazy.
- 56:57Speaker 2: I do not thank you.
- 56:58Speaker 11: I feel like you can.
- 57:02Speaker 2: The next room.
- 57:03Speaker 5: You know what.
- 57:05Speaker 4: Today today to the whatever when they have their natural hair.
- 57:15Speaker 5: On your.
- 57:24Speaker 7: Like like my first child like I was there, I
- 57:28Speaker 7: saw it. I was like, you don't know what to do?
- 57:32Speaker 7: Then you can't.
- 57:33Speaker 3: She can't sit the general sit down, lie down like I'm.
- 57:39Speaker 15: Not crabs paying for guns. Your that soon as that corns.
- 57:55Speaker 2: And then the good things technology you.
- 58:01Speaker 4: Cry and during my craft cry.
- 58:07Speaker 3: Talker, and you're not pushing trying to get the baby out,
- 58:11Speaker 3: the baby starts shooting.
- 58:13Speaker 7: Okay, here another cooler man.
- 58:16Speaker 3: And then if you know, like a baby's first poop
- 58:20Speaker 3: is like basically greedy water like me, it's not nice.
- 58:24Speaker 7: Now you actually infections me me, like, I see you
- 58:29Speaker 7: have thens.
- 58:30Speaker 2: A technology can even Saturday fifth, missus Dangle, I will
- 58:40Speaker 2: see best. Madama Garny twenty four. She worked in with
- 58:46Speaker 2: the suit case Ali. She packed everything, she was ready.
- 58:52Speaker 2: She walked in very strong. She came out with the baby.
- 58:56Speaker 7: Oh yeah, like yes, before a week beuse like.
- 58:59Speaker 2: The you know they really know around this time to
- 59:02Speaker 2: this time, so before your labor kicking, because yes, put
- 59:07Speaker 2: learn and I could better those days or whatever. Come
- 59:09Speaker 2: and talk, Leb, because it's.
- 59:17Speaker 7: So evil nowadays longer exactly.
- 59:24Speaker 2: That, Leb. That's yes, I'm good.
- 59:35Speaker 7: By her height probably high probability of.
- 59:44Speaker 2: Quan as long as I'm moving.
- 59:48Speaker 7: To number that's nine. Six.
- 59:51Speaker 2: That's nice, that's that's nine.
- 59:55Speaker 7: You have a chance to push because nine as a woman,
- 1:00:01Speaker 7: number four, number four, so like and then.
- 1:00:14Speaker 4: Enough Jay is nice to thank you for joining.
- 1:00:21Speaker 10: Says that the yes, the woman gets them most time,
- 1:00:25Speaker 10: yet the father should still be nearby, and also says
- 1:00:28Speaker 10: that there must be loyalty and knowledge in the process,
- 1:00:32Speaker 10: and says that the sex should.
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: Be meaningful and not just lastful.
- 1:00:36Speaker 10: And he goes, he goes still, he goes, he goes still,
- 1:00:42Speaker 10: He goes still, you know, he goes still, call still called,
- 1:00:46Speaker 10: and then also says, at this point, I don't want
- 1:00:48Speaker 10: to have a sex unless it is to produce a child.
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: That's you, bro, Why.
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: Instant hi, I love TikTok hi, I love doing it
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: so badly or whatever like Documbia, I'm looking for.
- 1:01:10Speaker 11: Put to my wife could dry for? Is that something
- 1:01:14Speaker 11: you could consider my request?
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: Your already sex for.
- 1:01:28Speaker 10: You, Yes, saying having sex for practice and pulling out
- 1:01:32Speaker 10: wearing plastic is full of adults? Is goofy okay, gonna googov.
- 1:01:51Speaker 11: It's when you're not my ivy phil phil Feelsten.
- 1:02:02Speaker 10: Journal says Black Women's bodies are not the same. This
- 1:02:16Speaker 10: is what this pale females.
- 1:02:18Speaker 4: Deal with that.
- 1:02:21Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I was going to say that, but it
- 1:02:24Speaker 3: will sounded bad. But she does needs also say that.
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: She's right.
- 1:02:33Speaker 4: Prepare your body and mind for pregnancy.
- 1:02:36Speaker 10: Were at the war and we need more black children,
- 1:02:39Speaker 10: not half breds or mixed says the children is the
- 1:02:44Speaker 10: right word unless you're talking about ann black child. And
- 1:02:47Speaker 10: I'm about to be forty. That is partially why I
- 1:02:50Speaker 10: say that. That's so yeah, that's literally.
- 1:02:54Speaker 4: But thank you so much for joining us.
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