Latest / Billy The Kidd In The Morning / Dirty Little Secret:I've Been Bullying A 13yr Old Kid!
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- 0:24Speaker 2: If you've got a secret, 833-787-1029. Get it off your chest,
- 0:29Speaker 2: and you have one.
- 0:30Speaker 1: So I have a secret I never thought, you know,
- 0:32Speaker 1: in a million years, I would admit.
- 0:34Speaker 4: But, you know, it's starting to feel good, and I
- 0:37Speaker 4: just got to let it out. But anyways, I'm a
- 0:40Speaker 4: grown man. And I've been bullying a 13 year old
- 0:43Speaker 4: girl online.
- 0:44Speaker 3: Oh, wait, wait a minute.
- 0:47Speaker 2: You're a grown man who's bullying a 13 year old girl.
- 0:51Speaker 1: I can tell you guys are kind of losing your mind.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Let me explain. Yeah.
- 0:54Speaker 3: I'm like, have this guy arrested. I'm honestly concerned.
- 0:58Speaker 1: If you could see some of the things I've been
- 0:59Speaker 1: trolling her with. Anyways, let me explain. Yeah. This is
- 1:02Speaker 1: how it started. So my daughter is.
- 1:04Speaker 4: 13 and the last couple of years now, like, literally
- 1:09Speaker 4: years she's been bullied by this same girl and um
- 1:13Speaker 4: and it's kind of like middle school drama but she's
- 1:15Speaker 4: just like super mean and my daughter's life was just
- 1:18Speaker 4: miserable and you know we spent all year you know
- 1:21Speaker 4: talking with the principal's office and and you know they're
- 1:25Speaker 4: supposedly talked to the girl and you know they talked
- 1:27Speaker 4: to their parents but everything's the same excuse and you
- 1:29Speaker 4: know they didn't really do anything and you know meanwhile
- 1:32Speaker 4: you know my daughter comes home and cries every day
- 1:34Speaker 4: and we have to kind of force her to go
- 1:36Speaker 4: to school and just their confidence was completely destroyed. And,
- 1:39Speaker 4: you know, and as a parent, like that was the
- 1:43Speaker 4: worst thing ever. Cause I, you know, I just felt
- 1:45Speaker 4: terrible and like my kid was hurting and, you know,
- 1:47Speaker 4: I just felt helpless.
- 1:48Speaker 1: So, you know, yeah, a few months ago, you know, when.
- 1:52Speaker 4: No one else was doing anything, you know, I, I
- 1:54Speaker 4: actually work from home and I have my own business and,
- 1:57Speaker 4: you know, so I got plenty of free time to
- 1:59Speaker 4: play on my phone. And, you know, I started, I
- 2:01Speaker 4: found this girl online and like, I just started making
- 2:03Speaker 4: all these fake social media accounts and just started like
- 2:08Speaker 4: making fun of all her pictures and rude comments, nothing
- 2:11Speaker 4: too like heinous or inappropriate or anything, but just like
- 2:14Speaker 4: super bullied and like, I mean, I like the weird.
- 2:19Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:20Speaker 2: I would, I would call you crazy, but once you
- 2:22Speaker 2: explain it like that, I'm not saying, you know, stupid
- 2:25Speaker 2: down to someone's level is ever the best idea, but
- 2:27Speaker 2: I also know how crazy I get about my son
- 2:30Speaker 2: and I would probably do something wild, right?
- 2:33Speaker 3: This is wild.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:34Speaker 3: Very multiple fake accounts.
- 2:36Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I can't I can't let her get on
- 2:37Speaker 4: to me. But but anyways, I don't know if I'm
- 2:40Speaker 4: supposed to feel bad, but I don't. And like my daughter,
- 2:43Speaker 4: like for the first time, I don't know if it's
- 2:45Speaker 4: just a coincidence, but a little after this started, it
- 2:48Speaker 4: seems like it's working.
- 2:50Speaker 1: She hasn't been bothering my daughter.
- 2:51Speaker 4: And I don't know if maybe getting a taste of
- 2:53Speaker 4: her own medicine is like kind of what she knows
- 2:56Speaker 4: now that she knows how it feels.
- 2:57Speaker 1: Maybe like I don't know.
- 2:59Speaker 3: Okay.
- 3:00Speaker 1: It's like humbling her.
- 3:01Speaker 3: That's what I was going to say.
- 3:01Speaker 2: So your goal is to make her, you know, give
- 3:03Speaker 2: her a taste of her own medicine, make her feel,
- 3:05Speaker 2: and maybe she'll realize how much it hurts and stop
- 3:07Speaker 2: doing it.
- 3:08Speaker 3: But it has slowed down since you've started doing this?
- 3:11Speaker 1: It seems so. Huh.
- 3:13Speaker 4: Like I said, for the first time in years, obviously
- 3:15Speaker 4: I haven't told my daughter what I'm doing.
- 3:17Speaker 1: Like, she would kill me.
- 3:18Speaker 3: Right.
- 3:19Speaker 1: No, for sure. But, yeah, like, it seems like it
- 3:22Speaker 1: hasn't been much of an issue lately.
- 3:24Speaker 3: Wow.
- 3:25Speaker 1: That's, wow.
- 3:26Speaker 3: Candace, how do you feel about this?
- 3:27Speaker 4: I just feel like hurt people hurt people, you know,
- 3:30Speaker 4: and it's just like there's a better way.
- 3:31Speaker 1: That's a lot of work.
- 3:34Speaker 3: He went to the principal's office. He did the right.
- 3:36Speaker 1: I know.
- 3:37Speaker 3: I hear parents say this all the time.
- 3:38Speaker 4: I'm doing everything.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Why don't they help? Why does this continue?
- 3:42Speaker 3: It is.
- 3:43Speaker 2: And I'm not blaming the schools, but you're right, sir.
- 3:45Speaker 2: It is frustrating when you, you know, there's a problem.
- 3:47Speaker 2: You go to the school, you do it through the
- 3:49Speaker 2: right channels and there's no results. You do kind of,
- 3:52Speaker 2: I mean, I could see why you would get frustrated
- 3:54Speaker 2: and do something unconventional like this. Have you tried to
- 3:57Speaker 2: maybe talk to the parents? I don't know if that's possible,
- 4:00Speaker 2: but sometimes that makes it worse too.
- 4:03Speaker 4: I mean, they've, we've kind of had like group meetings
- 4:05Speaker 4: at the school and like, they're just kind of in denial.
- 4:08Speaker 4: Like no, you know, no one thinks their kid is
- 4:10Speaker 4: a bad kid and I don't know, but if it
- 4:13Speaker 4: takes being the bad guy, you know, to help my daughter,
- 4:16Speaker 4: like that's fine with me.
- 4:17Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to do. Yeah.
- 4:19Speaker 3: Well, There you go.
- 4:21Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know what you would do until
- 4:22Speaker 1: you're in that situation.
- 4:23Speaker 3: That's it.
- 4:23Speaker 2: I mean, you really don't. Candace, you're the sweetest person
- 4:26Speaker 2: on earth. But if somebody messed with Enzo, I can
- 4:28Speaker 2: imagine you taking out your earrings.
- 4:29Speaker 1: I'm pretty creative.
- 4:30Speaker 3: And fighting. Yeah.
- 4:33Speaker 1: I just hate bullying in general.
- 4:34Speaker 3: I do, too.
- 4:35Speaker 1: Talk to your kids.
- 4:36Speaker 3: Talk to your kids. You're right. Well, I'm sorry that
- 4:38Speaker 3: this is.
- 4:39Speaker 2: First of all, I'm sorry your daughter's going through this
- 4:41Speaker 2: because that is not an easy position to be in.
- 4:43Speaker 3: That's a tough age.
- 4:45Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you what to do, but
- 4:46Speaker 2: maybe second guess what you're doing and think of another route. But, hey,
- 4:50Speaker 2: I appreciate your secret so much, and thank you for calling.
- 4:54Speaker 1: No problem.
- 4:55Speaker 3: I like what Dr. Chris texted me, and this makes
- 4:58Speaker 3: so much sense. He said, you just can't give in
- 5:00Speaker 3: to the hate.
- 5:01Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:01Speaker 3: Love wins in the end.
- 5:04Speaker 4: Amen, Dr.
- 5:04Speaker 1: Chris.
- 5:05Speaker 3: And he's a professional.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Right.
- 5:06Speaker 3: Don't listen to us. Listen to him. For real.