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Connecting To Our Authority, Living In Alignment & Building A Multimillion Dollar Business With Amy · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm your host, Liv, an asthma doctor, a mentor, energy healer, a copy creator, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_01: I help you heal on a physical and emotional level so that you can feel delicious in your health, body, relationships, career, and bank account.
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  SPEAKER_01: We talk about health, trauma healing, energetics, feminine energy, wealth, and magnetism so that you can live a life that feels delicious.
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  SPEAKER_01: And with that, let's get into the show.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_01: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the Live Well podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am deeply honored today to be joined by Amy from Align by Design.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_01: She is what I call one of the top leaders in a mom, a kick-ass leader.
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  SPEAKER_01: Her the way she leads herself and her poetic language just land, and honestly, I'm just gonna let her introduce herself because I've been held to talk all day about everything and how amazing she is.
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  SPEAKER_01: So with that, Amy, if you'd like to introduce yourself.
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  SPEAKER_02: I absolutely adore you and watching your journey and our relationship.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's so beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_02: So I am first and foremost a mother.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_02: I am a mom.
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  SPEAKER_02: I am a business owner, I'm a former teacher.
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  SPEAKER_02: I've created multi-millions in a very short period of time, utilizing our incredibly beautiful industry of coaching.
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_02: And the forefront of my coaching has been human design.
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_02: So I've really created a human design brand and allowed an evolution inside of that brand, bringing in team members to do human design readings as I've elevated into more of the energetics around human design.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_02: And life is just very full and it's beautiful and it's incredible.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_02: And I feel like at this point I'm really just moving with so many, so much of what's coming in inside of the industry, inside of life, and literally just being in a point of creation from what's coming in.
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  SPEAKER_02: So it's been the most epic, incredible journey.
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  SPEAKER_02: I am beyond grateful.
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  SPEAKER_02: Um, I've gone through a marriage, through a divorce, through babies, through business, through new relationship, new love, and finally in this very grounded, massive place in my life, which feels so good.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_01: If you guys don't already follow her, obviously we'll have all the links down below.
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  SPEAKER_01: But like your story, I think about you and your story all the time.
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_01: It's like if Amy can do it, I can do it.
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  SPEAKER_01: She's a projector, a 5-1 like me, and like I feel like for so many people who are projectors, there's so much of maybe we look at people who are generators or a different way of doing it, and it doesn't have to be done that way.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_01: And I think you create a beautiful, like you literally lead the way and you go first in terms of showing how it can be done in a way that you can be a mom who works, you know, eight to ten hours a week, has this beautiful love and family, but also a thriving business, and you really do get to have it all, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and that's really what I stand for.
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  SPEAKER_02: I stand for really pure wealth for doing business your way, for your business working for you and for alignment in every single area of your life, and that really gets to look different at every season and every stage of your life, no matter what your design is.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I know you talk a lot about alignment, and I was listening to one of your recent podcasts, I think it may even be the most recent one about authority and how you know your alignment has everything to do with your authority.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_01: Can you talk about kind of why that is and how people can kind of start to use it?
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_01: I have talked about human design a bit on my podcast before, so people have an intro that just kind of explain why people should be using your authority more and how relevant that is to their alignment.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so if you are not connected with your authority, there's no way you can be living in alignment.
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  SPEAKER_02: Our authority is what tells us and gives us the answers.
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  SPEAKER_02: It is our yes, no, it is the this way, that way.
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  SPEAKER_02: It is every answer that we don't have in our brain, it is the how before we understand the how.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it is really the development of trust within our bodies, our souls, our spirits to be moving forward in our human form in a direction that we can't figure out yet.
• 4:21
  SPEAKER_02: So when we trust our authorities, I'm a splenic authority.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_02: So understanding being a splenic authority, um we need to know for myself that there it's intuition.
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  SPEAKER_02: It is a voice, it is something that is so quiet.
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  SPEAKER_02: And if I didn't develop trust with that, I wouldn't be where I am today.
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  SPEAKER_02: If people are not listening to their authorities, what's ultimately happening is they're listening to society, they're listening to conditioning, they're listening to an outside voice that is not meant for them, is not on their path.
• 4:51
  SPEAKER_02: And that's why so many people get confused, they get lost, they get off path, they they feel the frustration, the bitterness, whatever it is for them of life.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_02: And like, why can't I have that?
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_02: Why don't I have that?
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  SPEAKER_02: And when we begin to listen to it, even in the smallest way, we we get closer onto our path.
• 5:07
  SPEAKER_02: And when we're fully on our path, path, we can actually move on it, right?
• 5:11
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like coming from the outside of our path, trusting, learning to listen to it, developing a relationship with it, being on the path is alignment, and then then listening to it to guide you on your path is the ultimate way where we create limitless success or our ultimate freedom, whatever alignment really is for us.
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_02: But we live our destiny.
• 5:32
  SPEAKER_01: So, really, it's about trusting that authority and learning to trust by doing those small things, by listening to those medas, and really start listening to whatever your authority is.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_01: If you're a scenic, I know I'm a medical projector, and that trying to listen to your head is kind of like a whole game in the comments.
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_01: But you're right, it's like when that's not clear for you, all the other noise from outside comes in, and then you don't even know what's yours, what's someone else's, you're not clear, and then you get off the wrong path, kind of looking for it externally when you have the answers navigated by your authority kind of the whole time.
• 6:07
  SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
• 6:08
  SPEAKER_02: And this is where you know it's so easy to see why people aren't, you know, thriving in their health, why they're not really happy in their relationships, why they're not passionate in life, why things don't feel good.
• 6:19
  SPEAKER_02: And it all comes back to not listening to that authority.
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_02: And when people enter into human design, they look for some, you know, big thing they have to do, but ultimately it's these little tiny aspects where we're like, oh, I will develop with my authority.
• 6:32
  SPEAKER_02: I will listen to this one little thing that then creates the bigger movements forward.
• 6:37
  SPEAKER_02: And if we don't ever start those little tiny things, which seem so irrelevant when you're looking at that big picture, but those are the pieces that you put into the puzzle that actually creates the puzzle.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_02: And without those movements, we don't develop the relationship, we don't develop the trust, and ultimately we don't get on our path of alignment.
• 6:56
  SPEAKER_01: So would you say then that your authority in human design is one of the most important things to master or like really know and learn and follow as opposed to other aspects of your human design?
• 7:07
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so this is where I always go into the steps of human design.
• 7:11
  SPEAKER_02: So first is going to be your energy type because without your energy type, you don't have the energy to really listen to your authority, right?
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_02: You don't have the state of being.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_02: So our energy type is always number one.
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  SPEAKER_02: We have to understand what it means to be a projector, a manifesting generator, generator, manifest, or reflector.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_02: And we have to begin to live in that bubble of what it looks like and what it feels like.
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  SPEAKER_02: From there, we're gonna go into strategy plus authority, and then from there, we're going into profile, and then we're playing with obviously then our um defined centers and then deconditioning our undefined centers kind of simultaneously with defined and undefined, but definitely going from uh energy type into strategy authority, profile, and then our centers.
• 7:55
  SPEAKER_01: You know, while you decide there's a light bulb momentum, I just realized when I get in too much of like a generator, or I just find myself being acting too much like that, then my authority gets messed up.
• 8:05
  SPEAKER_01: And there's no wonder why.
• 8:07
  SPEAKER_01: That's immediately like, because there's no space.
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_00: Wow, okay.
• 8:12
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for that, Kike.
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_02: Especially, especially as a mental projector, right?
• 8:17
  SPEAKER_02: When there's like so much going on, and then if you're like outputting so much energy, it's just like energy, energy, energy, energy.
• 8:22
  SPEAKER_02: And then your projectorness is like, help me.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_02: I just need a break.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_02: I need space to understand and comprehend and put it together.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_01: And I like how you mentioned that there's so many little micro shifts that people can make that really start to kind of like add up and really understanding that will allow you to bring yourself more into alignment because I think people get trapped in like it's gonna take so long, and I know we're coming to the end of the year now, and there's so many people who think, well, there's not that much time left, but you know you can start listening to your authority or honoring your energy type, etc., and things can start to happen very rapidly, whether it's in days, weeks, or you know, even a few months.
• 9:00
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh, I truly believe human design is the key factor in bending time and really creating this like spaciousness and time.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_02: I started my human design journey in 2018, it's 2022, and I'm a multimillionaire who has gone through divorce, you know, a new relationship, a baby, three kids into five kids, a blended family.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_02: Like it doesn't even make sense, right?
• 9:24
  SPEAKER_02: The story doesn't make sense.
• 9:26
  SPEAKER_02: But how I started and what shifts I really began to implement in my life was just the awareness of how misaligned things were for me.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_02: And it was like, ooh, too many social activities would then lead to feeling sick, being burnt out, having digestive or skin issues, or like, you know, outbreaks of things.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, oh, that makes sense.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: There's nothing wrong inside of my body, it's a response to what I'm doing outward that is wrong, misaligned with my state of being.
• 9:58
  SPEAKER_02: And I really started to put all of these pieces together and I was like, oh, bingo, bingo, bingo, bingo, bingo.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_02: And it wasn't even that I was doing anything different, it was like just the awareness of everything I was doing that was completely misaligned, which then gave me all of the evidence to be like, that doesn't work.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_02: Now, what will work?
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_02: What does need to change?
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_02: And from there I started to implement those changes.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_01: And I think that's so important because you know, sometimes we can talk about, you know, I could ask you, what are your top tips for the M2022?
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_01: But that's gonna be different from person to person, depending, like you said, on their energy type, their authority, their I forget what the lines are called, whatever your lines are, you know, all those things, it's gonna differ from person to person.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_01: So what you said is really understanding yourself and how valuable human design is in terms of bringing you to alignment and how that's gonna benefit you more than just like more generic tips for you know 2022 and yeah, exactly.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_02: And here's the thing is that everybody always wants the like the thing they can grab and go create success from.
• 11:02
  SPEAKER_02: And so many people, just like you, obviously understand in in holistic health, right?
• 11:07
  SPEAKER_02: Like, they're not wanting to take the time to be like, but this is what's going to work for you.
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, give me the magic potion that should work and let it work.
• 11:17
  SPEAKER_02: Where every single being, we're coming into the, you know, the most enlightened state of understanding differentiation.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_02: And it's up to us to take responsibility that how I operate, how you operate is completely different.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_02: And there are these roadmaps.
• 11:31
  SPEAKER_02: There are these these pathways to understand how you operate to create the most amount of success for you in whatever way you're desiring it.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_02: And that gets to be true, but you have to hold enough power, which is again where the outside noise and voices comes in, where we have to be able to be like, trust ourselves, trust what's right for you as an individual, trust the differentiation, be courageous enough to go on that path and experiment for a while because it's not going to be, you know, green light right away.
• 12:00
  SPEAKER_02: There's going to be renavigation and these little bumps in the road where we have to go into some deeper, unsexy work and some healing in order for the rise to happen.
• 12:10
  SPEAKER_01: So, would you say as you first got into human design, you were navigating, even maybe when you learned you were a projector?
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know about you, but for me, it changed my life because I was operating as a generator for way too long.
• 12:21
  SPEAKER_01: Was there any resistance or frustration of like wanting to be act like a generator or hoping you could do that, or you know, wishing you could be a different energy type?
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_01: Was there any kind of like resistance or how did you navigate?
• 12:34
  SPEAKER_01: Or maybe you were just like, amazing, I could just apply this and you know what?
• 12:40
  SPEAKER_02: I was so happy because my entire life, like I looked back and I was like, I always picked part-time jobs growing up that were so projector.
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_02: I was a lifeguard, you know, I worked at a call center, like all of these things I was like, oh, I always knew.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, how can I make the most amount of money without like without the all of this output, you know?
• 12:59
  SPEAKER_02: Even if I put in training and learning and education to then be in a prime spot, like it was so worth it to me.
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_02: So it it felt so good to understand that what I internally felt was really valid.
• 13:12
  SPEAKER_02: So, what my biggest thing was of resistance though was now how am I gonna create this in my life?
• 13:18
  SPEAKER_02: Because I was a teacher working full-time as a teacher, I had two little kids.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_02: At that point, my marriage was in a really tough spot because of the situation that he was in and the personal things he was going through.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_02: So I was doing a lot by myself, and I really took that on as like normal.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I really took all of this in as normal.
• 13:38
  SPEAKER_02: And then when I started started to realize, and I was beginning my coaching at the end of the day, when I would put my girls to bed, I would then go downstairs and I would start my coaching at eight o'clock at night.
• 13:49
  SPEAKER_02: So it was really full days.
• 13:51
  SPEAKER_02: And I remember I was like, the thing that I want the most is not to have a hectic and stressful morning getting my kids out the door.
• 13:58
  SPEAKER_02: Like I want to feel good in the morning, and I don't want to be on a timeline and I don't want to be rushed to work.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_02: And I got pulled over by a cop one time going through um a stop sign.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_02: Like I rolled through the stop sign, and I was so embarrassed that I was like, oh, this is what I'm talking about.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_02: I'm rushing to get somewhere, and this is not the life I want to be living.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_02: It's not how I want to feel.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_02: So it was not that I didn't want to be it.
• 14:21
  SPEAKER_02: It was like, how on earth am I going to create this reality?
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_02: And that was my biggest thing because the biggest fears came up of a secure job, of again, all of the conditioning of my benefits and you know, my savings, and all of the cushiness that this career had and security, and how could I go online and show my face and talk about this foreign thing that nobody else understands in my world?
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_02: You know, the industry was very new to me as it still was pretty new to the world.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_02: Um, so it was really navigating all of the fears and the how on earth am I going to do this.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_01: And as you were navigating that, did you feel like there was a lot of pressure towards because like you wanted to make that big leap, and that may have been like a potentially big jump of like there's a field where everything works, and then like the pressure towards your goals and kind of your experience navigating both and not putting too much pressure, but also everything works, and how you kind of did that.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so it was, you know, I think I really listened to um the push the universe gave me as like the ultimate ultimatum in my life.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_02: So I ended up getting pregnant with my third.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_02: I went back to teaching, I, you know, discovered some things that were going on in the personal life of my husband.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, I started having anxiety attacks at work, and I was like, oh my God, I'm not supposed to be here.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_02: And this is part of the reason why.
• 15:48
  SPEAKER_02: And then I was like, this is my this is my exit ticket, you know, this is the opportunity the universe just gave me.
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, I didn't listen five months ago, I didn't listen three months ago, I didn't listen two months ago.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_02: And so, of course, this had to happen to push me, you know.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_02: So it was really in that moment where it was like my do or die kind of moment.
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_02: So it was so scary.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_02: I remember having the talk with my parents and being like, I'm taking a sick leave from teaching because all of this, you know, I need to just be healthy.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_02: And they were like, What are you talking about?
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, and I'm also gonna work on my business full time, you know.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_02: So they were like, What?
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_02: So I remember the pressure of the confusion and the pressure of needing to like be so upfront with things and also the the inner trust where I'm like, just be on your path, just be on your path, just do what you need to do right now.
• 16:35
  SPEAKER_02: And ultimately, it was that moment where it was like that big push where I was like, I just have to listen to my intuition, my spleenic, my spleenic authority.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_02: And if I don't, something big is gonna happen, it's gonna push me anyway.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_02: So why not take the path of least resistance, kind of mute the fears, walk with those fears instead of stopping, and then be on that path of ease, even in the like uneasy moments of criticism or judgment or wondering or fear for myself, it's easier to be on the path.
• 17:05
  SPEAKER_01: So, would you say that's when you started really?
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_01: Because I know you speak about playing in the bigness of your energetic field, kind of when you started to do that.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely, yeah.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_02: So it was the moments where if anyone else is a five-one or a five-line, we take a lot of projections, as Liv notes.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like any other five line I talk to, like, oh, we have a five letter.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's a five letters.
• 17:29
  unknown: Oh my god.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like it is the most difficult line to navigate, and it comes with a lot of power, right?
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_02: And at the same time, we can also shrink in that because we're like, that's too much.
• 17:39
  SPEAKER_02: That is way too much for me to be taking on.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, it was really the moment where I was like, I am doing this, and I got a lot, a lot of projections back on me from teaching, from coworkers, from parents, from my family, from friends.
• 17:54
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• 19:07
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• 19:11
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• 19:12
  SPEAKER_02: Literally, everyone that could was like, ha, you know, and I was like, okay, okay.
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_02: I literally stayed so clear in my bubble of mentorship and what I could do, and stayed really passionate there.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_02: And I think that was the moment where I'm like, oh my gosh, this this is it.
• 19:30
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not going back to this, you know.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_02: And I remember having a conversation with a friend where I'm like, I just have to make, I have to not be on a sick leave from teaching anymore, and I have to make this jump like for my energetic growth, like not because of anything else, but energetically, like I have to close this window and I have to be done with it.
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_02: And that was the moment where I know that it was a moment I would never go back, and it was the moment where my energetic field played so much bigger, where there needed to be no other understanding except for my trust in that energetic move.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_02: And I think that's where I really understood too, energetic moves, where it doesn't need to make sense to anybody else, and it was going to create a ripple effect that was so much bigger than what I could understand.
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that was so powerful.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_01: I just thought absorbing all the words you say can work yourself.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_01: There's activations in everything you yeah, that you say.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_01: Now I know that, at least from my point of view, you really handle a lot of the projections with grace.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_01: Just a projective I see, let alone maybe potentially other projections from family or DMs that like aren't shared.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_01: And I know there's also a lot of projections, let's say, going on in the industry itself right now.
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_01: Lots of changes in Jets.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_01: And can you speak to like how you kind of handle that with grace and how you know other people who might be getting either projections from people online or their friends or their family who want to live in alignment but they know they need to be in their power, and how you kind of like handle everything with grace, and how even when you scale that maybe means you know, bringing more of those in or having to hold so many projections.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_01: I think it was too much when you were talking about you know being too much all this kind of thing.
• 21:04
  SPEAKER_01: So, yeah, could you speak to that?
• 21:05
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, thank you.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_02: Um, okay, so I think one of the biggest things that, first of all, in the industry, what I've understood very strongly from the very beginning is that this is also a business, right?
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_02: And as business owners, we need to operate a business.
• 21:23
  SPEAKER_02: Now we have our heart and our soul and our energy poured into it, and that's what makes this industry so unique.
• 21:29
  SPEAKER_02: So we have to stand strong in that and really continue to grow.
• 21:33
  SPEAKER_02: Otherwise, we just don't have success.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_02: Otherwise, we're literally like, you know, working for refunds, which doesn't make any sense, right?
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_02: So um I think that's one of the big things that we all need to just like come into the territory with and be like, I'm also running a business, and I get to be successful and I get to be a businesswoman.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_02: Um, now, in the name of projections, I I have always had a lot of compassion for other people.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_02: And I think one of the biggest things.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_02: That I've really managed with my family is the understanding that I've been able to carry into the industry is the understanding that the bigger we become and the more we grow and evolve, the less people get us.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_02: And it's not we we become so unrelatable.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_02: And it's not that they are purposely trying to do this, but they're actually looking for a point of connection, a heartfelt connection.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_02: And that's what we're seeing a lot of people say in the industry, right?
• 22:25
  SPEAKER_02: Humanness, heartfelt connection.
• 22:27
  SPEAKER_02: So it's not that people really, I don't believe, are trying to be mean and vicious or rude or make you feel a certain way.
• 22:37
  SPEAKER_02: They're just like, hi, I need a heartfelt connection, and I don't relate to you, and I don't understand what's going on in your world and your life and you know what you've created or what you're doing or how on earth you're doing or how it could be legal or how it possibly could be moral, right?
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_02: So it's it's just an outreach of connectivity.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_02: So I've tried, it doesn't always happen, and there's always these moments where I'm like, you know, but I've tried to really lead with like the deeper understanding that if I can meet a comment or a conversation with compassion and an open mind and an open heart, it's going to take me a lot further.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_02: It's going to give me an opportunity to either connect or have deeper understanding or an opportunity for me to grow.
• 23:20
  SPEAKER_02: And I could also be a bridge for people.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_02: It it is not always.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_02: Um, but like I the other day I was not met with that.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_02: It was like an immediate, okay, well, I'm blocking you anyways, you know.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_02: So it's just this, these moments where it's why not try though?
• 23:35
  SPEAKER_02: You know, why not try to lead with compassion?
• 23:38
  SPEAKER_02: Why not try that they probably don't understand?
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_02: They probably are upset, they probably are hurt, they obviously are hurt by something, whether it's you or somebody else, and they're taking it out on you.
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_02: We can either claim responsibility, we can have a deeper conversation, we can understand, or we can just lead with compassion.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_02: And I think that's always been my stance in it.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_02: And again, there's difficult moments, but ultimately it has served me really well in not getting really big projections put at me and also creating really great relationships moving forward from some of those projections.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_01: Wow, what a fantastic answer.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like that, yeah, that just solidified anything.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_01: I remember when it was you who taught me, like, I was trying to make people get it, and especially as a home projector, like there will be people who don't get it, but I don't need to make them get it.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_01: And kind of like what you said about the open heart and compassion versus like needing them to understand whether it was even someone online or let's say it's family or friends for some people, they don't necessarily need to get it, and that's okay.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_02: And I think it's also the people that we choose too, right?
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_02: We choose to get it, we choose to need that support from them, but as we also stand in more of our power, it's like, what kind of support can I get from you?
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_02: You know, and can I be okay to be like, that's what you can give me?
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_02: And whether that's a friend, an old friend, and just be like, that's that's us, that's our relationship, and we don't need to evolve beyond that, and that gets to be okay.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I love that.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_01: So with the success you've created, do you feel like you know, some people when they start to either make more money or have more impact and wealth, it kind of changes the dynamic of the people around you that you feel maybe like not that you need I would know you would never make yourself smaller, but almost like whether there's a guilt or as you evolve, because I feel like even the time I've known you, I've watched you evolve and it's just like this magical thing, I'm like, oh my gosh, but like how you're evolving so rapidly and into yourself, and not that maybe other people aren't evolving, but maybe they're kind of maybe just doing the same thing in the same, I don't know, haircut, you know, the same grocery store, same school, same job, and it's how do you navigate yourself kind of really evolving with not only everyone else around you, but relating to people who maybe you don't you know relate to as much?
• 25:56
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like you know what I'm saying.
• 25:58
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, yeah, it has.
• 26:00
  SPEAKER_02: I've actually felt so much guilt.
• 26:02
  SPEAKER_02: I I the other day uh we were with friends, and I was like, oh my gosh, I just feel so this is such a hard year for people.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, I feel so bad for the people that have been in the same positions and they're making less money, and cost of living and groceries have skyrocketed.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I literally am like, oh my gosh, I do get a lot of guilt.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_02: I do feel a lot for people, I do feel for like all of that I have and opportunities I have and my family have now.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and I really do.
• 26:31
  SPEAKER_02: I walk with that a lot.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_02: So it's one of the things I continue to work on in order to continue to evolve and not not pull back because of that.
• 26:42
  SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, it it does get challenging.
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_02: I actually um, you know, I relate there, there was a song that's out that I've played a lot on Insta stories, um, and it was like uh she has very few friends, you know, and it was like I'm like, ugh, like that that literally lands because I have a really hard time having a conversation with people to be like, oh, you know, like what do you do?
• 27:06
  SPEAKER_02: People don't ask me what I do if they know what I do.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_02: Um, we don't really talk about stuff like that, you know.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_02: So there is this, there are always these moments of like, how do I belong?
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_02: Where do I belong?
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_02: Um, in the space of like, I also have so I have so much drive in where I'm going.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm not done.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I feel like I'm just beginning.
• 27:25
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like I'm just in my prime.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_02: And it's like, whoa, you know, how does that fit into something?
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_02: And then I also lean into I'm not meant to fit in a box, and none of this is gonna fit in a box, and my world is just being created, and that gets to be okay because it's my choice, right?
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_02: So I think it it there's always these conflicting moments and polarity.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_02: And at the end of the day, I always come back to like, how can I be and still shine and not shrink in these moments?
• 27:52
  SPEAKER_02: Because especially as projectors, that's what we do.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_02: If we're not being seen, we're like, I won't be seen then.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_02: I will just become invisible.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_02: So it's how can I make a connection, even if it's like, oh, I'll take your picture, like girls, get over there, like, or let's take a selfie, or you know, something like that where I can bring in where I shine and and connect into what I do inside of that relationship without them needing to be like seeing me, if that makes sense.
• 28:18
  SPEAKER_02: And then also just continuing to honor, like, I'm not stopping.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I have lots of conversations with my boyfriend, being like, I'm ready to focus, you know, this is what I'm doing this month, and you know, this is what my focus on, this is what my intention is, and just kind of announcing it so I could be like feel free in that, you know, feel free to step into it and grow into it.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_01: I'm curious, do you and your boyfriend kind of use your each of your human designs to like really understand each other?
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_01: And does he feel like since he's known you, he's like, oh, I'm such and such, and like it makes sense in your relationship?
• 28:52
  SPEAKER_02: Um, you know what he said the other day?
• 28:54
  SPEAKER_02: He's like, I need to go back into your human design a bit more and really understand you because I feel like that's part of your design, what you just did.
• 29:02
  SPEAKER_02: So he doesn't know a ton about it.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_02: He understands it, he'll like listen to podcasts and he'll read, he actually reads the book, but he taps in and out, so he's not like hardcore focused into it.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_02: Um, obviously, I understand his design much more, but I think it's more about like our combination together when we're in the energetic frequency, and this is what we do work on without it needing to be like called anything, but how we're coming together as a unit to really create our reality.
• 29:28
  SPEAKER_02: And when we do that, we like manifest the craziest things, and it's so good.
• 29:32
  SPEAKER_02: But it is an intentional practice, especially having five kids and a busy life.
• 29:36
  SPEAKER_02: Like, we have to be like, zoom, let's get into that zone.
• 29:40
  SPEAKER_01: And I feel like even if you just understand your partner's energy type, that's huge because like my partner's a generator, meeting a projector, just knowing that, like it just I feel like creates so much clearing, like you said, you can come together better than if like a generator is trying to make a projector be like them, and like I cannot work as much as details, I can't stay up to like midnight, 1 a.m.
• 30:01
  SPEAKER_01: There's no way.
• 30:01
  SPEAKER_01: But like we understand those little aspects about me, and vice versa.
• 30:05
  SPEAKER_01: And I know you also know your kids' human design, and I feel like it would be so useful also for people to know their children's human design, but how to best support them and guide them.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_01: And I feel like so many times there are things that kids do or the way they are that maybe we stifle or we try to make them fit in a box because the world is in a very much a generator way, and so whether we try to even make them learn like a generator, etc.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_01: So I feel like every family should just know everyone's human design, at least they're energetic.
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_01: Would you agree?
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_02: Completely.
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_02: It would make everyone's lives a million times easier, even just how you communicate to them, right?
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_02: Like um, how you come at them, or my son is an emotional authority, so I, you know, I see him going through a wave, and I don't make it mean anything, where sometimes my boyfriend comes in and he's like, What's wrong?
• 30:50
  SPEAKER_02: What's wrong?
• 30:51
  SPEAKER_02: What's wrong?
• 30:51
  SPEAKER_02: Just leave it alone.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_02: You know, so there's these big differences, and then the my girls, one's a defined heart, one's an undefined heart.
• 30:58
  SPEAKER_02: So having two girls that are, you know, two and a half years apart, defined, undefined, there's always this like awareness where how am I going to speak to them?
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_02: You know, how do I separate them enough so they can thrive in their own environments?
• 31:10
  SPEAKER_02: How do I manage the conversations that they're having with one another inside of their own relationships and foster their confidence in different ways, right?
• 31:19
  SPEAKER_02: It literally is a game changer.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_02: Really understanding, I mean, energy types and centers for kids are huge because that's again where we're putting the most amount of conditioning or we're helping them thrive the most amount inside of those centers.
• 31:33
  SPEAKER_01: And hopefully, if you then know those things, you can almost prevent some of the conditioning that we we've had to like decondition.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_01: I know I was my I don't even know what my mom is because she was in her birth time, but she definitely programmed me to be a generator.
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_01: And I feel like if she had known just being conscious and aware, there's not gonna be perfection, but just little tweaks like that, and how like you said, how you speak, how you support them, can probably set them up for just being more seen, more heard, living in their alignment more than perhaps we did growing up.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh, a million percent.
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_02: And even like the tension, right?
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_02: Like there just doesn't need to be those blowouts or the frustration as a parent.
• 32:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like you just back away and you're like, oh, this isn't on me.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_02: You know, this is their moment, this is what's going on.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_02: And you just adapt strategies as a parent to manage the energy of what's going on, and there's just such less tension, it's smoother, it's faster, it's more productive.
• 32:27
  SPEAKER_01: I love this.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_01: I always love our talks.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_01: So I know me too.
• 32:31
  SPEAKER_01: Kind of bring this to a close.
• 32:33
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like we've been able to talk about not just like life, but work and home and relationships and kind of how you navigate it all and do it all.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_01: Going into the new year, what would you say are I know we talk about authority, you know, and really understanding that, but how people can kind of get out of their own way, I would say.
• 32:53
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so I would say radical responsibility is gonna be number one.
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_02: So literally put your head down, learn your chart and what you need to be responsible for in what feels good, what doesn't feel good, and what you're excited about and go for it.
• 33:07
  SPEAKER_02: You know, like I think that's the the one way we're gonna get out of our own way is by blocking out noise around us and just learning what feels right and good and exciting for us, and then going for it, right?
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_02: There's no need to hold back, there's no need to stop ourselves, there's no need to create resistance that doesn't need to exist, that's not teaching us or valuable to us, that's literally just friction, and just lean in.
• 33:31
  SPEAKER_02: And as you begin to lean in, I think it's really about like the fearlessness of evolving into a lot of people like we said with fifth lines, it's scary to be like, I here's what I'm saying, like it or not.
• 33:43
  SPEAKER_02: You know, it's scary as a projector to be like, I'm gonna be fully seen, hear me or not, and I'm gonna keep going no matter if an invitation comes in or not.
• 33:53
  SPEAKER_02: You know, as a generator, it's scary to be like, whoa, they're saying work less and I want to work more.
• 33:59
  SPEAKER_02: You know, it's scary for that Manny Jen to be like, I'm gonna do uh 500 things and then change their mind in February, right?
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_02: Like just become fearless in your pursuit of trust and excitement and and and now fetch the world and just be like, here's what I'm doing, here's what it is right now, and here's what I'm focusing on, or here's what it's gonna look like, and let's go with it and just have fun with it.
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_02: Like, let this be lighter and let it be that process of evolution because you never know.
• 34:27
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I honestly just believe you just never know what's gonna happen.
• 34:30
  SPEAKER_02: So just like be in the here and the now, focus on the big goal, but also like in the here and the now, that's what's gonna get you to that big goal.
• 34:38
  SPEAKER_01: That was a beautiful little riff.
• 34:39
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like I'm gonna say that and really listen to that.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_01: But one little kind of mini-follow-up question that came to mind as you were saying it, kind of to close it off.
• 34:47
  SPEAKER_01: I know you talk about like the fear and kind of going with it and going all in.
• 34:52
  SPEAKER_01: Would you say that like it's a benefit to almost like burn your boats and to go all in and not have the safety?
• 34:59
  SPEAKER_01: Is that like would you say too much for your citizen?
• 35:02
  SPEAKER_01: Or are you on the boat of like, no, you go all in and you just go?
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_01: Or is it an element of like okay, yeah?
• 35:08
  SPEAKER_01: No, meaning, and I should wait until it's safe.
• 35:10
  SPEAKER_01: Then I'm just like, to me, if it's always safe, you're you're never gonna move as hard and as big as you would go if you burned your votes.
• 35:18
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, okay, so I'm kind of in the middle.
• 35:21
  SPEAKER_02: I am play on your edges and play in those edges big.
• 35:24
  SPEAKER_02: Um, obviously, as a parent, I have, you know, a perspective of like, I get it, where people are like, people need to be fed.
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_02: That is not just me, you know, and there needs to be there's just a responsibility that's there.
• 35:38
  SPEAKER_02: Um, so I get that, but I also feel like you need to play at the tip top of your edge, and you need to play at the very edge of that fear, whether you know, you still have an ounce of safety there, but you can't play in like until it's safe, until it's ready.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_02: Because as we know, that literally doesn't exist, and you're gonna be one of those people that looks back on regret, like that's all that's gonna happen.
• 36:01
  SPEAKER_02: So you have to play at your edges and you have to choose those edges with a lot of force and be like, that's the edge, that's where I'm playing, let's go.
• 36:09
  SPEAKER_02: And then there always becomes another edge, right?
• 36:11
  SPEAKER_01: And I think even along with that, maybe you agree with me or not, is a lot of the time I find that the edges, like they could be a monetary edge and a linear job or investing in mentor, but sometimes the edges of like being seen and saying the thing, which is like those are the edges you probably need to do that are gonna make like the wealth come as like a byproduct of you know who you are and what you embody.
• 36:32
  SPEAKER_01: And you can always play on time with those edges and go all in in those aspects, even if it's not from a monetary way.
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_01: I always feel like there's pretty much a guarantee that you're not going to your edge in some of those other aspects.
• 36:44
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh, entirely.
• 36:45
  SPEAKER_02: And I think like people look at this in such a black and white way where it's not like even at myself, it's not a monetary edge anymore, right?
• 36:53
  SPEAKER_02: Like my monetary edge has come in my personal expansion and like renovations.
• 36:58
  SPEAKER_02: Like that's become an edge that has nothing, quote unquote, to do with business.
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_02: But my edge in the industry has been like, how blunt can I be?
• 37:06
  SPEAKER_02: How much power can I hold?
• 37:07
  SPEAKER_02: How you know, how fast can I move forward in this change?
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_02: How much can I own that change?
• 37:14
  SPEAKER_02: Right.
• 37:14
  SPEAKER_02: So it it really is the embodiment and the growth of me in my edges and the visibility of that and the truth of that.
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_02: So I think there's always, again, seasons we go through, whether it is financial, whether it is speaking, communicating, whether it is jumping the ship of something, you know, into a brand new life and experience, whether it's moving across the country, my gosh, eating new foods, going into, you know, working out, like those are all edges where our growth is just waiting to be fed.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_01: And if not, you'll have those moments like you said in the beginning of somewhere.
• 37:49
  SPEAKER_01: It's gonna kind of force your hand and create the situation for you to get your ass into alignment if you went too long anyway.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_02: Exactly, exactly.
• 37:57
  SPEAKER_02: So don't wait for that.
• 37:58
  SPEAKER_02: I guess that's the like the end all and be all.
• 38:00
  SPEAKER_02: It's either the fear or you're gonna wait for like a shitty experience to move you.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_01: It's so true.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_01: Otherwise, like you'd probably done it earlier.
• 38:07
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe the universe wouldn't have like done that, but like it needed to do what it did to kind of like get your ass in gear, and that's fine, but exactly.
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_01: Well, thank you so much for your time.
• 38:18
  SPEAKER_01: I really appreciate you coming on and kind of really sharing your power, your wisdom, your strength with us.
• 38:24
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna link everything for you guys down below where to find Amy, where to be inspired with her.
• 38:28
  SPEAKER_01: She constantly is one of those people who every day, like your content just invigorates me, activates me, and you're truly such a leader in this space.
• 38:36
  SPEAKER_01: So thank you so much for sharing your time with us.
• 38:40
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you, Liv.
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_02: I love you.
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_02: You're so amazing.
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_02: And it's been honestly, I don't know if everybody knows, but you've been in my world a little bit.
• 38:46
  SPEAKER_02: Um, you I've had an Akashic record by you done, reading by you, and like literally, I just love your energy, your work in this world.
• 38:53
  SPEAKER_02: You are amazing.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_02: And to see, you know, from a year ago to where you are right now, your entire life has changed.
• 38:58
  SPEAKER_02: Everything, your power has changed, your trust has changed, like everything.
• 39:02
  SPEAKER_02: And it's just like again, the flip of the switch of certainty and self trust and alignment, and it's just so beautiful to witness.
• 39:08
  SPEAKER_02: So, congratulations, and I love you.
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_00: I love you too.
• 39:12
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you.